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CringeButCorrect/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:50 AM
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Nope not at all, they want a substantial life improvement, along with partnership
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:39 AM
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They're not lol they just do curls now and then. But people here are kinda strange, I think you should only come here for entertainment like me, and disregard these dudes. They'll (hopefully) grow out of this like I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:13 PM
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The red pill represents an extreme minority of men. Most men prefer a woman who is at a similar fitness level to them, shares a few interests, and treats them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:32 PM
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Trump gave less to HBCUs than Obama and Biden.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:03 PM
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I can see why you think these things and it does sound plausible. I guess this would be the most optimistic view. Then there's the most pessimistic view, that she views the nice dude as "lower" than other guys, so she goes for them first, then him of those don't work out. I think that this depends on the specific girl, but I also think that as a general rule, being nice/caring alone isn't the way to win over a girl, and that you must also be interesting and fun to be around. Being tall helps, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:17 AM
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The point is that if you are the "nice" dude in the situation, those women pick other guys over you. Then they settled for you when they couldn't end up with those dudes. It's delusional to think someone should want to be in this position. And this is coming from a guy who doesn't even think nice guys finish last.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:42 PM
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I went to school, I knew some women as friends, but since then I haven't really met any. Plenty pf people just don't meet women on a regular basis. Most people go to work and go home every day, and do stuff on the weekends. If your weekend actuvities aren't social, or they're male dominated, you won't meet very many women. It says nothing about a person's social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:52 PM
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Very simple. If you work in a male dominated profession, you will barely see any women. What do you do for work?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:54 PM
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Not by talking to strangers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:43 PM
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Perhaps you put this the wrong comment? I'm not talking about one person in particular, it's just my reactions to stuff I've heard/seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 09:26 PM
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I have lots of opinions on this, but I'll just lay out my responses to stuff I've heard The fact that we even have to discuss this shows how hard it is for women No, it shows us that humanity has found a new method of stupidity I'd pick the bear No you wouldn't. If you go out, you probably walk across dozens of random men every day. Of a bear was on the sidewalk you wouldn't just walk past it. I'd pick the bear if it was just me in the forest. Dumbass. And again no you wouldn't. But if you are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:46 PM
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Look up "nuke reddit history chrome extension" When you delete a comment it can still be recovered. However if you edit it and then delete it, then it can't be recovered. The extension edits them to some strange sentence (you may have seen them before without knowing) and then deletes them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:13 PM
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This has to be a troll LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:57 PM
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Even with those cases the same applies. Becoming successful from the ground up requires a level of dedication that crazy individuals are lore likely to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:36 PM
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Most? Hell no. A lot of crazy women will try to take down a man who's achieved something just because they have nothing better to do, and/or want a payout. But at the same time a lot of crazy dudes will end up assaulting a lot of women and get away with it for a while. Given that crazy people are more likely to end up in positions of power, I'd assume that they're usually guilty in these cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:00 AM
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You say women don't do that stuff but idk man I've seen it with my own eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:55 PM
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I can understand things like grooming/hygeine. They reflect things about their personality. Someone who doesn't focus on their own skin, health, etc probably won't focus on things that may be important to a relationship. But I was talking about things like height, muscles, face structure, hair color, skin color, etc. When I say women are too focused on looks, these are the things I'm talking about. You'd probably agree that these don't have anything to do with one's personality. But many many wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:30 PM
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Looks don't matter that much when it comes to personality, this is the main mistake women make imo. You assume that filtering for looks helps you avoid those men. If it did, you wouldn't see so many women complaining today. There are bad dudes who look attractive too. Looks have no impact on the character of a dude. It's just that we as humans attribute good qualities to attractive people. This doesn't mean that they actually have good qualities. You have to get to know someone. I know so many d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:00 PM
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There's a difference between putting in effort, and approaching random women in public. I would have to approach random women in public because I wouldn't have any other way to meet women. I'm also not attractive enough for it to work, so I'd just get a bunch of rejections.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:44 PM
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She doesn't have to get with someone she finds ugly, nobody should do that. It's just that you shouldn't prioritize someone having top tier attractiveness over everything else. Many women do this without realizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:42 PM
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If you liked him then it could've been great tho. It was worth a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:41 PM
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They're the same to me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:39 PM
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If you don't filter by looks first you have to get to know every guy on a personal level That's the whole point though. It's gonna be slower but it'll lead to better results. Imo it's best to get to know someone before dating them. The majority of guys are cool to be around so you'll probably only need to meet 10 or so dudes. If you keep things platonic at first, you can multitask without everyone judging you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:20 PM
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They could have a conversation with a dude, find an interest or two. Then see if you can get a contact or something so you can hang out more, preferably not 1 on 1 tho. It's best if you're in some hobby group or with friends. Eventually you'll figure out whether he's toxic or not, based on how he treats others. This is how you make a good male friend, men do it all the time. If he's attractive you can ask him out and he'll likely say yes. I have never seen a woman do this and fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:16 PM
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I'm aware and I agree with what you say. I'm just pointing out the negative effects. I think women should accept the fact that them filtering heavily for looks can result in them getting with bad people. It's not even just with men, you probably know a group of attractive women that are awful to be around, and you probably know some less attractive women that are amazing to be around. If you filtered heavily enough for looks, you'd be more likely to meet the toxic group instead of the other, nic…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:12 PM
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If they primarily filter by something that has no impact on the morality of a dude, they don't deserve any sympathy when they complain about dudes who lack morality. It's childish. I knew a girl who used to complain about the actions of dudes, but when a dude was hot she'd say "yeah but he's cute" and she'd complain about his bs for months until they split. Meanwhile I know a few dudes that she rejected (purely based on) and they're in great relationships with other women who actually like them …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:55 PM
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Either, but I was mainly talking about finding a relationship. But even for friendship, lots of women don't even want to be seen around dudes who aren't attractive. They interact primarily with certain types of dudes, and assume every man is like these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:49 PM
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I'm a dude that hasn't tried yet. I think the problem is that I'd have do really go out of my way to meet someone new. If you're a dude that doesn't regularly meet new, single women, it's hard. Most women meet new dudes on the regular, the ones that don't and are single can just go to a party or download an app and get attention. Men don't have those options.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:44 PM
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It leaves a mark for me too sometimes. The trick is to not pop them when they're huge, firm, etc. If you'd have to do a lot of work to pop it, it'll leave a scar.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:41 PM
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I agree. Some people, regardless of gender, will abuse who they can. For women it's typically abusing children or simps. In history it was usually easy for a man to abuse his wife, but that doesn't mean every woman was oppressed by her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:34 PM
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As a dude I disagree. Women should meet men who are just cool to be around, they're less likely to be sexist. When deciding whether or not a dude is cool, they shouldn't factor looks into the equation. That's their main mistake.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:27 PM
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At some point you gotta stop doing things that make you unhappy or make you feel bas about yourself. I'd rather focus on things that make me happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:26 PM
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You are correct sorry I misread everything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:58 AM
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Not true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:49 AM
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This was cool of you, and I'm not accusing you of gold digging or anything, but it's different when it's something like med school because there's usually a high paying job at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:21 AM
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Nah, it's common. I know a guy that would make sure to fuck entire friend groups. Raw. Those women let him do whatever he wanted, all he had to do was ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:51 AM
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I'm sorry you had bad experiences. But you're wrong, finding a good dude as a woman is simple. First, hit the gym. Then, socialize with men in a non-romantic context. Lastly, pick your favorite dude. I have never seen a woman do this and fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:27 AM
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No it doesn't. Where do you people come up with this stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:16 AM
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It's not that women don't work, but generally men spend more time working. I don't think relationships are just handed to women but getting into one is way way easier for a woman than a man. All she really has to do is keep a decent appearance and be receptive. A man has to do much more in comparison. Most people work, gym. have hobbies, and still make time to see friends and go out Maybe from your perspective. You're a woman who lives that lifestyle, and most people you interact with also live …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:24 PM
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Most young men are too busy working, tbh. Most women here seem to only interact with white collar men. But the rest of the young dudes work 8+ hours a day and are kinda broke. The small amount of free time they have might be spent gaming or at the gym. To make themselves more attractive partners young men think they should go to the gym and/or make more money. The other stuff (treating her right, etc) can't really be done until you're actually in a relationship. Many dudes check out because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:58 PM
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I assume you're a woman? Because this shows a complete lack of perspective. What do you want young men to do to make themselves better partners? What do you want women to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:16 AM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 07:41 AM
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Both of you are correct actually. Yes, it's statisticslly probable that a woman makes less than her partner. However, many women won't date a dude if he doesn't make more than she does. So, in your opinion, would that qualify as entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:26 AM
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I think that if they were to meet that man normally, and not on a TV show, they'd be interested. Unless the dude is some celebrity, women often won't openly express interest in a random. Like, imagine showing interested in a guy, then he goes for someone else, and everyone you know saw it on YT. I don't blame them tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:17 AM
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That's extremely diverse by american standards. The area where I live is 95% white.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:06 PM
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That's extremely diverse by american standards. The are where I live is 95% white.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:06 PM
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You're asian? Which city do you live in? Some cities are better than others for dating as an asian man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:59 PM
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I'll use you as an example. You were sleeping with a misogynist. You stopped now, but at the end of the day, when it came to getting laid, he succeeded. You probably know quite a few dudes who were resepectful towards women, maybe even feminists, who you never had any desire to sleep with. So when it came to getting laid, the misogynist was more successful. Now if you keep in mind that many women are like you, you should be able to see why more respectful men say that being misogynist leads to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:55 PM
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This is true, asian/indian men are smaller than white/black/hispanic men. But there are plenty of 5'7" white dudes that have no problem dating, so there are probably other factors. For many women, status is the most important factor. Height helps with that, but if a girl sees dating an asian dude as detrimental to her status, she won't do it unless he compensates for that in some huge way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:43 PM
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Most women in the US are white, so unless you live in an area where there are many people of your race, you'll have problems. Anecdotally I agree with you though, dating in race makes things easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:23 PM
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For asians, it's not about physical size imo. I do think asian men are seen as less masculine unless they are richer and taller, and that hurts them in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:21 PM
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People underestimate the impact of race in dating. If you're an asian or indian man, women often don't take you seriously unless you're rich. If you're black, women will avoid being in a relationship with you, they might hook up but often times they don't want anyone to know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 06:41 PM
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Some women see relationship status as a reflection of human worth. Some women like to put down others. Put the two together and you get (some) ppd women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 08:14 AM
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I'm not sure how you came to that conclusion. I just stated my viewpoints based on my lived experiences. I can count on one hand how many sub 5'7" guys I've seen in a relationship. Most of my female friends, even the short ones, want a dude that's at least 5'8". I'm young (21), but most of the 30yo women I've met are partnered. The stats say that most 30yo+ women are partnered. Not sure where the mental gymnastics are. I never said anything about women being less welcoming, I just stated my view…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:30 PM
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Nah, my argument is that 100% of women at least get the chance, but according to you, 7% pf men don't. And honestly, men under like 5'8" are considered short. So really the percentage is like 40%. 40% of men have to overcome height. 100% of women get the chance to be young. Even if things go poorly, they still got a shot. And honestly women do fine until like 40, being over 30 isn't that much of a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 07:02 PM
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You ignored the other part of my comment. 100% of women get to be under 30. And generally, short women still prefer guys to be over 5'5".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:40 PM
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100% of women get to experience being under 30. They get the chance to find a dude to spend their life with. 7% of dudes are short, always were short, and will always be short. Seems like you're making the false equivalence here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:32 PM
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Everyone has a different feed. In mine, mostly women talk about the dude's junk. In yours, it's men. We can't make conclusions based on this information.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 05:05 PM
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One group chat isn't representative of society as a whole. On IG posts it's mostly women talking about it. That also doesn't mean anything. Most people aren't even aware of this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 04:04 PM
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The women are probably talking to their friends about it, instead of going on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 03:14 PM
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Yeah, but if you don't regularly meet single women in person, through work, hobbies, etc, what do you do? You could pick up a hobby that women like, but then you'd be there just to get women and they'd pick up on that. Maybe it's different for older people but for young dudes, it's hard to meet women because younger people don't solialize like older people used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:58 PM
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So she knew you from high school? That's cool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:48 PM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:48 PM
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Dating app. If that doesn't work, it's doom. Some people don't understand. It's hard to meet women in person for some men, so they need to go on apps. Apps don't work for most men. The solution is to get ripped and post good photos on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:34 PM
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Remember that after a few years you'll likely never see them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:24 PM
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Men of PPD: How have you gone about inspiring attraction in a girl you've met in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:23 PM
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That's not really what I'm getting at. Many people here are arguing against feminist ideas. For them to have data, that means that some professors would've had to publish research that goes against feminist ideas. This would be career suicide, so most professors avoid publishing such research. Some studies have been done, but there is a limited supply. This is why lots of dudes here link the same studies. We know that height, income, and social status positively correlate with dating success for…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:11 PM
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She found a way to blame men for womens' problems, on a molecular level lmao. Gotta respect it at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:32 PM
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Makeup is different imo, it has more of an impact
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:23 PM
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No. Facebook (Instagram) and Matchgroup (Tinder, Hinge, etc) are responsible for most of the issues. They raise expectations to a level that isn't achievable for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:01 PM
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A lot of researchers in the social sciences are feminists. You won't find very many studies that go against feminist ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:59 PM
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True but if a girl hot with an outfit, she's probably hot without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:57 PM
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Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:57 PM
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I agree. Most men just want you to be in decent shape. You don't have to look like a model or anything. Just have your stomach area be thinner than your hips. That's pretty much the only common standard among men. That's not at all a high standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:56 PM
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Precisely
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:52 PM
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Imo softer/baggy pants (pajamas, sweatpants) make women look more attractive because I just assume they have nice legs. But the hoodie... yeah it can make you look larger sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:51 PM
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I see that but honestly if your clothes are well fitting it doesn't make much of a difference. The only major benefit would be if your clothes hide a gut or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:49 PM
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Some women don't understand that clothing does not make them look hot. Attractive women are attractive no matter what they're wearing. If you wanna wear certain clothing to attract men, wear something comfortable. Never put on nonsense hust to attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:41 PM
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This is ridiculous. You made me agree with u/TermAggravting8043. Never thought I'd see the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:38 PM
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This is why I just heavily agree with them and go on with my day. "You're right, I don't want to date her because I'm insecure about myself, not because she slept with 30 dudes in the past year."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:32 PM
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This is, at best, a stretch. AI Girlfriends, artificial wombs, etc will not replace women. Ever. Maybe men will turn to sex dolls and fleshlights. But at the end of the day, when a woman wants a BF, she will be able to find one if she's in half decent shape and has an ounce of game. I think eventually women will realize that having a solid partner is way more important than being a girlboss or whatever. Younger women are already seeing it because they work with the older, single women in their 4…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:29 PM
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I mean techinically speaking it can take one person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:26 PM
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I meant negative attention in public and on social media. BW are just like other women, some are social and some aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 03:58 PM
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On social media
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:57 AM
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I was talking about personality. Also I think it's more like 40%, which isn't too far above the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:42 AM
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I don't think hustling and bustling is too hard for women. I just think that they have more of an option to not do it, so they stop when they get tired of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:03 AM
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Dudes be hating on black women. There are tons of pleasant, loyal BW who are a joy to be around, they just don't attract attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:58 AM
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Often times the mother pushes the father out of the family, and yet fathers still get blamed for the situation. And then on top of that, when the child has poor outcomes it's his fault. Women end 70% of relationships and marriages and yet everyone assumes it's the father who ended things.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:28 PM
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I mean they're basically the same to me, but FDS teaches women to hate men, while redpill teaches men to degrade and not have respect for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:08 AM
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Then those accounts were probably run by FDS members. Honestly I think you should stay away from that stuff. Just like the redpill stuff it seems plausible at first, then it slowly gets way more extreme and you end up having a toxic, sexist view of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:52 PM
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Are you ex-FDS? This reads like FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:17 PM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:26 AM
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The dudes at the gym don't go shirtless as much as the women IME. They seem to do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:26 AM
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Just a question, I don't particularly care either way. JDWhiz has the wrong idea, I don't get turned on by girls at the gym. I could just go on my phone if I wanted to see stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:25 AM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 12:23 AM
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Not at my gym. I can somewhat understand the treadmill, because the section with treadmills gets hot. But I'm mainly talking about the women who go on benches, do squats, etc. At my gym (the college gym) half the women go in a bra.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:35 PM
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Q4W: Why not just wear a shirt at the gym? Why do some women go in only a bra and short shorts?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:11 PM
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My mistake. The more recent studies say men are at 20 percent and women are at 13 percent https://techreport.com/statistics/cheating-statistics/
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:20 PM
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Most of the studies have men at ~30% and women at ~25% IIRC.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:49 PM
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Read the end
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:48 PM
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I was exaggerating ofc, I think ~30% of people cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 06:03 PM
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Usually cheaters befriend other cheaters because non-cheaters typically don't want to be around cheaters. So most non-cheaters only know cheaters because they or their friend got cheated on. Lots of dudes I know got cheated on. You probably have female friends that got cheated on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:53 PM
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Not with me, probably with someone else at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:49 PM
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She tried to cheat with me. I did not sleep with her, I am disgusted by cheaters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:47 PM
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I wasn't the dude that was cheated on, I was the dude she tried to cheat with. I knew the bf, cool guy, he put in an effort. She got mad at me after I told him. I think that in my age group (18-25) ~40% of women cheat and another ~20% would if they ran into the right guy. Why do I think this? Because of the things I've seen ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:36 PM
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Dudes here always make these extreme statements about what women want. They don't want some tall jacked millionare that has a bunch of other women chasing after him. From what I can tell, the vast majority of women just want a trustworthy and funny guy who can make her feel good going through life, who can actually have an emotional conversation, who she can go to when she has a problem, who can give her stability instead of a roller coaster, and another guy to cheat with.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:18 PM
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That's my point. It has been developed recently, and for the past few decades, women dominate the social sciences. Most of the information is based on them. Therapy continues to be useless for men, if you were a male who went to a therapist you'd understand. Therapy can help men with some things but depression is not one of them. Neither is self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:04 PM
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I had one but can't find the link. However, it's easily explained. In medicine, most of the information was gathered from a time where only men studied medicine. As a result, most of medicine is based on the male body, male hormone levels, etc. The same applies to mental health research. In colleges, most people studying psychology, mental illness, etc are women. Professors typically survey their students, so most of the data is gathered from women. Most of what we know about mental illness is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:57 PM
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I don't have a partner lol. Maybe we have different definitions of boring. To me it's just someone who goes through life and enjoys hobbies at home or at common places like parks and gyms. These people don't travel, go to clubs, do drugs, etc. If you can share an interest or two, these people are the best partners as they will be the most stable. Problem is, women tend to not want these guys unless they are super attractive. Men, however, prefer women to be like this. Sometimes these men are lef…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:43 PM
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Most people are boring. Yes you should try to make your partner happy, but life isn't a romcom. A lot of men find their women boring but still love them. Why? Because boring means stable and men love stability. Men and women don't share interests usually. From what I can tell, boring people tend to be the best partners. Men and women. Those who always want the roller coaster tend to be or be with the cheaters, manipulators, and abusers. Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:21 PM
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No. Breaking up with someone because they asked why you made a strange request isn't reasonable imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:08 PM
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Translation for the men who come across this: "You as a man must keep a woman entertained. You gotta be interesting, excitiing, and adventurous. If you don't, we women will divorce you and take as much as we can from you" And then they wonder why less men are trying to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:02 PM
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Honestly I'd be understanding. Any sane dude would threaten someone with a gun to get that scooter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:49 PM
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Depends. If she's cooking and would want you to help with peeling an orange, it's fine. Or if she has trouble peeling oranges. But if she's perfectly capable of doing it and doesn't seem to be doing anything else, it's a strange request so it makes sense that a dude would ask why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:45 PM
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Therapy is designed for women, not men. Men typically have a negative experience with therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:10 PM
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PNC happens because testosterone levels take a steep drop. A lot of the male sex drive is hormonal, and all of those hormones vanish. You are correct, the hormones can cloud thinking. Or more accurately, it can make you have interest when you otherwise wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:24 PM
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Women dominate these movements. They run the studies and lead the organizations. They don't care as much about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:15 PM
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It's a mindset, not entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:55 PM
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This is basically the long way of saying "that's just the way it is, deal with it"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:50 PM
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I've seen posts online, obviously it's not a majority but someone who holds that view will probably call themselves a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:49 PM
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So you have complained when brown people get a benefit, but not when white people get a benefit?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:48 PM
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There isn't one definition anymore. When someone tells you they're a feminist, it could mean they simply want women to have equal rights, or it could mean they want men to be forced onto labor camps. So many different people call themselves feminists, so the label doesn't have much meaning anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:19 PM
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It wouldn't however that's not the point. When men are forced into fatherhood after consensual sex, women say they shouldn't have had sex. They'd dismiss him just like that. They won't do the same to a woman because they actually will take time to consider her perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:16 PM
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How many posts have you made about systems that benefit white people?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:12 PM
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Both. The former often happens with female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:54 PM
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I always find it funny that people are so against DEI and AA when there are adjacent systems that benefit white individuals. Quite telling when people complain about one but not the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:52 PM
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The image of gang affiliation I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:48 PM
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Rules for thee, not for me. Also, many women don't view men as fully human. They don't give the same sympathy to men. They don't think men have the same feelings as women do. You see it on AskMen all the time, women literally go there and discover the fact that men lhave feelings just like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:45 PM
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This is the comment: Yeah, no. Horseshit. Just because women are charged with rape and other sex crimes far less often doesn't mean that they understand or even care about consent from men. Not only does our society not care, but it even rewards women with child support for raping men. How many women care about a man's consent when it comes to being a father? Nowhere does he mention abortion or consensual sex. He's referencing the fact that men owe child support even when the act was not consens…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:26 AM
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I agree with you but the dude said that women are giving child support when they rape men, everything he said was in the context of men being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:43 PM
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Nah fam
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:42 PM
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These studies were done by feminists, I assume they had sufficient definitions. I remember it saying something like "performed a sexual act without the other party's consent" but I found this like a year ago so idk. And honestly being a "good dude" has nothing to do with it. Also a rapist's friend will always defend them. Typically rapists are friends with other rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:30 PM
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Every wants the ideal. Some of this, some of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:23 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:22 PM
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Wanting to not appear slutty ig. The former would probably get them more creepy comments.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:20 PM
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The studies did not only cover convicted rapists, they used reports from men and women to try and estimate how many men have committed any from of sexual assault. The numbers ranged from ~6% to 12%, but the average was 8% IIRC. ~4% committed double digit offenses, and they are most of the reason many women have problems. Contrary to feminist belief, the vast majority of men would never commit a sexual offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:19 PM
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Oh makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:15 PM
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In his example a woman raped a man, and here trying to defend her and say they are both to blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:09 PM
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I don't thinm boys and men don't understand the concept - they don't care False. Rapists don't care. Most men care and are not rapists. There was a meta study done in the late 90s that found that ~8% of men are rapists. Large number. Half of that number is made of serial rapists. It's the ~8% that needs to be looked at, not the rest. When you look at these men, you often find that they are sexually successful without needing to force it. Most women they meet are attracted to them, and they assum…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:05 PM
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Tbf I never said that. I know a girl that has a rotation of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:04 AM
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Well some of the money he paid went to the state, he likely pays other taxes anyway, they could hust limit his repayment to the amount of taxes he paid in that tax period, so it'd be more like a tax refund.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:24 AM
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College. Some guys (usually frat dudes or athletes) have a literal rotation of women. Some of the women try to "lock him down" which makes no sense to me but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:22 AM
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And then? Did you become a professor?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:19 AM
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Ture but when the guy has a harem, girls will either admit it or call it a situationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:19 AM
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There are women who prefer to have a partner to build a relationship with. There are other women who would rather be in the harem if a rich or high status dude than be in a committed relationship with a regular dude (they usually call this a situationship). The latter tend to be louder and more visible than the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:54 PM
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No, but I think that if they were given child support payments, they should owe it back, or at least the man should get something from the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:52 PM
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Maybe he didn't enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:17 PM
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How did you end up making 100k?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:03 PM
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It's tragic tbh. Millions of women are tricked into bullshit degrees and thousands in debt. Then they work in HR or at a desk, which is not a bad thing in itself but like it doesn't help pay off loans. My advice to female classmates in high school was to go into STEM, law, accounting, or medicine (NOT nursing).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:39 AM
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Depends on the field. In CS, it's basically impossible to network. If you're a wealthy business major, you'll likely get a boost. LinkedIn is awful for networking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:35 AM
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The problem with therapy is that the research behind it was primarily done on women. You hear feminists complaining about medical research being male focused, it's the same with mental health being female focused. Things that work well on women do not always work well on men. Also most therapists are women, they can't truly empathize with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:28 AM
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Cap. Most people on the planet have a BMI under 22, most people do not make $100k USD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:25 AM
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Whenever a man talks about a negative experience he's had with a woman, other women love to come out of the woodworks to give that woman the benefit of the doubt. "You probably did something to deserve it" "There must have been some reason she did that" "She could've been going through something" Yet you never hear this stuff when a man does something awful to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:35 PM
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I seriously doubt most men do zero housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:55 PM
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Most men don't care as long as you're clean and you haven't been with any of their friends. Well if it's over like 50 they might get an ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:24 PM
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It will be, yes. Although I'm just getting out of so it will be my first actual city experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:57 AM
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Rooting for u
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:27 PM
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Lmao no, they are not all the same. They are less varied than men generally, and they do tend to follow trends more, but every woman her own circumstances, desires, opinions, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:34 AM
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White women will fuck black men but won't bring them home Yeah I feel that, I'm not looking for hookups really so I'm out of luck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:48 PM
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Some women do things that would get a dude on a sex offender list lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:51 PM
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Yeah it's great meeting people and stuff, people here are chill
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:29 PM
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Thanks man. On the bright side, I have female friends so at least I know how connect with women. It's just... everyone is taken. But still plenty of friends to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:04 PM
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They would like women to do it to them, so they assume it goes the opposite way. Women do the same thing but in other things.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 09:13 PM
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A lot of the times it's female friends doing the whole "why are you single" thing, then they offer up these "solutions" that would never work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:57 PM
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Not saying that. But saying "go on vacation" is very similar to the advice that men are given. In this scenario, the mom is giving a solution that would work for her, but obviously would not work for the child, but she didn't consider the kid's perspective for a second which is why she thinks it's such a simple solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:56 PM
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That was more of an analogy to the type of advice women give
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:16 PM
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Yeah this too. They either tell you to not be that creep who couldn't even do the basics, or they tell you to do what they wish their crush would do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:13 PM
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Complement their appearance? Absolutely. Show up at their house? Lmao no, but the girl who said that had a boyfriend who lived on the same street, and they both knew each other so I guess in her case it was a bit different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:11 PM
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Sometimes yeah, but a lot of the time it goes like this: -moooom I'm bored -why don't you go on vacation then? -because I'm 5???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:09 PM
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There are other colleges but they aren't close enough. The women there are easier to daye but you need a car to drive up there, plus you'd have to rely on apps to meet them anyway. Plus I'm black and it's a white area, so most girls are white girls who probably would rather date a white dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:06 PM
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Lmao no, these are actual pieces of advice given to me by female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:04 PM
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Beats me. But I think that's just the way they look at things, usually women will either: Think about what they do to attract men, and assume it works the opposite way. This is probably where the "be friends first" and "love will find you" stuff comes from, as it works for women. Think about how they want their crushes to go after them. They typically don't realize that the girl already has to be attracted for that stuff to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:03 PM
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I'm in college but I graduate soon, after in June I will have a very good job and I'll be in a city with more women. My current school has 3x as many men as women, so dating is rough here. Never really got the college dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:56 PM
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Some women here are very dismissive. Others aren't. Most women only interact with men who are successful in dating, so their perspective is already skewed. Less empathetic women will just assume the single dudes are just failures, and they will go to online spaces to belittle men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:55 PM
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You made a generalized statement before though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:50 PM
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That's the thing though. I'm not really driven to get a woman. I don't like very many people. Typically when I meet someone I like on a personal level, they're already taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:49 PM
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Not the other guy but, one girl told me that I should go up to girls and complement them on their figure. Another girl told me to ask where they live, and surprise them at their front door when they come home. This other girl told me to wear a crop top to show more skin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:48 PM
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Nah. Some people want to be helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:46 PM
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A lot of dudes don't understand that most women have absolutely no perspective on dating as a guy. They're not lying, virtue signaling, or any of that. Many just have no idea, so you can't expect them to give you good advice. They're probably trying their best to help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:37 PM
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Lol nothing, whatever happens happens. Women would rather date other dudes and that's that. If one wants to date me and I like them I'll see where it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:28 PM
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That in no way means that people only want to do anal when the other person doesn't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:26 PM
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Not really. OP never said it's appealing bc the other person doesn't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:48 PM
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Some people, yeah, but there are a variety of reasons someone could want anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:42 PM
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They probably married for superficial reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:38 PM
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I think this is the wrong angle to see it. If you want to do something with them, and they don't, then that's that. But, if they enjoyed doing it in the past and they don't want to with you, something is up. You can try talking about it but they may not give the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:37 PM
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That is... an unhealthy way to view things lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:33 PM
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Imo alcohol is a huge factor. I've seen people age throughout college, it's crazy. I think people who drink and smoke a lot will look much worse than people who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:35 PM
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Some people like to look down on others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:58 AM
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In general, you should be cautious when asking for advice from someone who has never been in your position. The advice could be helpful or detrimental depending on how they actually understand your perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:57 AM
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I see
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:40 AM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 10:40 AM
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Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:51 PM
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It's the same on men, mens' clothing isn't made to fit on the body like womens' clothing is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:50 PM
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For mobility and durability. Nobody has junk that big lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:55 PM
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Makes sense. Though I'd like to point out that they scrunch up for men too, we just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:15 PM
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Then why don't they buy pants that have pockets?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:11 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:08 PM
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Most mens' pants aren't made to be worn at the waist. Why not just wear them at the hips?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:08 PM
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How do they not fit right? Sure women have a slightly larger waist but you can hust get a larger size. Do you mean they're not as tight? They aren't that tight on men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:07 PM
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My guess is that they want the pants to be thinner to show more curves, pockets (at least good ones) are kinda thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:05 PM
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But like... then it's your choice? You choose appearance over convenience. No reason to complain about lack of pockets.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:04 PM
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If women want pockets, don't they just buy mens' pants?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:23 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:53 AM
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I'm not familiar with Asian culture so this is the first I've heard of this, but tbh those are children and grade school relationships are a joke imo. I was mainly talking about men who have a gf early on, from say college days, and then have an ltr and end up leaving her after 7+ years. That seems to be what many women complain about, being with a guy in the early days and getting left. Unfortunately for them, being with someone early on does not make you entitled to be with them for as long as…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:52 PM
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Most dudes have a job and are generally well behaved. However, most dudes are 5'9" or shorter, not comedians, and do not make over $60k.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:43 PM
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I disagree tbh. The majority of men wouldn't leave a good relationship just because they start to earn money. The reality is, most relationships end regardless of how much money the man makes. There may be some dudes that want a trophy wife but for the most part, the relationship runs its course. Generally men make more as they age so after long relationship ends, it'd seem like he left as he started making money, but that's not necessarily the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:35 PM
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Also, their friends who tell them they did nothing wrong are making the situation worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:03 PM
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Women should date and marry dudes who treat them well and have integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:57 PM
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This is the equivalent of saying "Nuh Uh!"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:55 PM
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Of course. It's cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:50 AM
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Yeah and then some dudes get muscle and see no difference. Imo outfit is much more important, and it's easier to dress well if you have muscle, just like it's easier for women with better figures to dress well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:44 AM
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Well lots of people aren't mentally sound. Jacked is an extreme but there are dudes that think being 5'9" and not muscular is a death sentence in terms of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:37 AM
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Most women who say stuff like that don't know the difference, they think they can boss a dude around, not compromise, etc and that men should deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:26 AM
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Forms of cope from men: "I'm 5'10" and women only like 6'2" guys, this is why I can't get any relationships" "I'm not jacked so women don't want me" "I'm not rich and all women want rich dudes" All 3 are cope, they completely ignore the fact that men in similar positions succeed all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:25 AM
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Forms of cope from women: "He left me once he started to succeed" "He isn't responding because he wanted to pump and dump" "He's afraid of being with a strong woman" All 3 assume that she did nothing wrong and the fault was with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:21 AM
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The latter. I think a lot of men here don't engage with women platonically, so they get their views from women they date, or from female infliencers. Both are putting up a facade to an extent, so it's not a good idea to assume that you can learn about women from these women. Also, level headed women don't tend to interact with lots of single men, and also be single for long periods of time, unless they don't want a relationship or something. So generally lots of single dudes don't actually inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:36 AM
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IME most women don't have high standards, they just pretend to. But at the end of the day they date who they feel like dating. They may have some idiotic preferences sometimes though. Like salary, for example. Some women want men who make over $150k. For what reason? The vast majority of men make under $70k, why does she need double? But at the end of the day it's their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:15 AM
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Less agreeable does not mean controlling wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:37 AM
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I wouldn't say I find men more interesting, it's hust that I come across more interesting men than interesting women. I'm sure most women have the opposite experience, but this has been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:36 AM
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It really does, especially as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:35 AM
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Well those are the reasons commonly cited, and the one about them having more options and therefore being more likely to cheat seems to be the most common. Women feel like they can't keep a man that has that many options, even though they can. The other person said there doesn't have to be a reason though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:41 PM
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It's not about the sex though. It's the lack of effort. It can apply in other areas too. If a man notices his partner puts less effort towards him than she did towards other men, it's ok for him to feel bad about it. Women also feel bad when it happens to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:29 PM
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Most men are cool with women having previous partners though. The real issues come when women are inconsistent, for example if a woman wants to be celibate with the new guy but was enthusiastic with the old guys. Would you be happy in that scenario? Nobody would.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:37 PM
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Men are less agreeable but women prefer less agreeable men, so they see it as a positive trait and by their standards men are better in that aspect. Same goes for competitiveness. There is no evidence that men are more prone to anger or more aggressive. They just show anger and aggression in different, more measurable ways. When you include all forms of aggression, men and women are more even. Generally, I'd say that it's inaccurate to say that certain traits make men worse partners when women e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:21 PM
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Generally I would agree with that kind of logic but in this case I don't. Straight women are attracted to men. Bisexual men are men. If women are attracted to men, but not bisexual men, then by logic there must be something about bisexuality that makes them no longer interested. It can be because they think they'd be incompatible, but that itself, though still very vague, is a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:14 PM
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Many men and many women are disloyal. But you said women are better partners than men, seems like cheating is the same between both so how are women better partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:02 PM
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Who is the "they" here? If it's men that you know, and you've explained the whole situation to them, I suggest you hang out with different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:57 PM
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I'll have to disagree. I think that most dudes, if you explained the concept to them, would find it morally wrong. Most people in general don't know that it's more than a porno, seems like only feminists talk about it. You should try to ask any dude that you know and see if they are ok with it. PPD dudes don't count lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:50 PM
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I feel like most men would find issue with the casting couch if they actually looked into it. But most men, upon hearing it, probably think of the porno series and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:43 PM
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One thing to point out is the fact that those cases of abuse were probably events that occured a small number of times, and the other stuff seems to have been a constant in her life. I don't mean to downplay abuse, but I can see why someone thinks that things that happen more often have more of an impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:38 PM
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You said they don't like bisexual men because they don't like bisexual men. Did you mean to type something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:32 PM
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You said men are naturally disloyal and only enter relationships for consistent sex. Naturally disloyal implies that they cheat more. Unless you're implying that they have natural urges but try so hard to make their women happy, that they (in the youngest bracket) end up doing better than women in this category? If that's your argument, then that would mean men are better partners, as they make their partners happy despite the natural urge to cheat, correct? When women attempt to find "good men"…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:32 PM
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As women we can't compete You can, generally, you just choose not to. just isn't that interested in having a conversation with YOU Of course. That's just the way it goes. Some women are, others aren't. I have no problem talking to people, men and women. I just find that my conversations with men are better, usually. I chat with women to, it's just that interacting with new men is generally a better experience than interacting with new women, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:24 PM
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Men on this sub are not a good representation of the general population. Men do enjoy sexual variety, but that does not mean they'll cheat on partners that they are in committed relationships with. Again, women and men cheat at the same rates, so why are men called the disloyal ones? Also, the most powerful men in history generally had more than one partner, yes, but this also applied to their queens. Even today, most of your famous people, men and women, are not monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:33 PM
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Bi women complain that lesbian women lose interest upon finding out about their bisexuality. Some lesbian women hate men and as a result they dislike women who like men. But I'd guess for the most part it's because they don't want to compete with men for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:22 PM
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I would not say that men are naturally disloyal, or that they only want relationships for sex. Sounds like misandry to me, tbh. Women cheat just as much as men, generally. In younger age ranges, where men are at their peak levels of testosterone, women cheat more. Men are people too, men generally want intimate relationships with people that care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:20 PM
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Why would you say it's easier to find a decent woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:11 PM
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I agree. I'm at a college with way more men than women, there are plenty of women that are great to talk to and be around, they're just all taken lol. It's the single ones that are harder to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:10 PM
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I'm not in a relationship but if I was, I wouldn't own a child beauty pageant and go backstage where underage girls don't have all their clothes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:06 PM
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The problem with the casting couch is that it's predatory in nature. Usually the actresses are very young, sometimes even underage. The movie dudes would be 50+. Then there are the issues of them being recorded, doing acts they otherwise wouldn't do, etc. It was a sexist, predatory barrier for women in that field, and it was unfair because the male actors didn't have to have sex with someone 30+ years older than them to move forward with their passion. The entire practice is disgusting, the fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:05 PM
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I love how men's preferences in the areas of sex and relationships are always seen in a negative light by women. Anyway, they're cool with dating bi women because bi women are still seen as women. Women see bi men as sexual freaks. Women are just more biphobic than men. Lesbians are known to dislike bi women, and straight women are known to dislike bi men. Gay men generally do not care if their partner is bi, same goes for straight men with bi women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:00 PM
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So if you were a bi dude (you could be rn, idk), would you rather date someone who puts in effort and is interesting by default, or someone that waits for you to prove yourself to be a "good man" before doing so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:56 PM
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Agree with everything you said. I feel like one of the main reasons women hate bi men is because they feel like they can't compete. Tbh they probably can't, men have higher sex drives and are generally better at conversation, and probably share more interest. Other women are hard to attract, but other men probably aren't, so the woman would have to actually put in effort. Many women are ok with this, as it's their default, but many women aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:51 PM
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Dating men is way easier than dating women, according to what bi people (men and women) say. I'm a straight dude so idk if it's true. As a man, men are just way easier to talk to and generally have more interesting things to say. Many women I talk to can't really hold a conversation, I try to ask about their interests or current events and it's just short answers. They generally don't make jokes that I find funny. That's random women though, it doesn't apply to women I know personally though. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:12 PM
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Did you measure? Only about 3% of dudes are larger than 7, and just over 1% have 8. If this is true then it's 100% coincidence, in fact it's a statistical anomaly. Also I'd like to point out that many women seem to overestimate penis lengths. There are even studies. Girl thought I had ten, she said she'd been with a guy that had 7 and it was way smaller, which given my measurements should not be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:15 AM
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I would 100% percent trust my male friends in a room with my 15 year old daughter, if I had a 15 year old daughter. I am not friends with predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:05 AM
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I don't but at least with swimming it makes sense. Imo the gym is way different from the pool or the beach.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:13 PM
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But why? It's basically being half naked
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 05:12 PM
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I'd prefer to not be in an environment with a bunch of half naked people
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 11:17 AM
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Why do some women feel the need to go to the gym wearing only a bra? I can't wrap my head around it. Why not just have a shirt over the bra?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 09:38 AM
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Not sure what your point is here
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:51 PM
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I think all bodybuilding contests are, you walk up on stage, show your appearance, and get a score. Same concept to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 07:24 PM
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Well yeah but it's an event instead of an activity, it's basically a beauty pageant but for body building men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:34 AM
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Based on beauty/looks, basically. Whoever can have the most impressive muscles. The contestants stand there and do poses to flex their muscles, and judges award points.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:20 AM
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Basically it's a competition of who can have the biggest muscles or best muscle ratios.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:01 AM
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If you trued to find it, and couldn't it's because I had a typo, it's Mr Olympia, it's the event that Arnold Schwarzenegger competed in to get all his fame. If you've ever heard lifter dudes talk about CBum, Ronnie Coleman, etc then they're talking about the event. It gets millions and millions of views yearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:35 AM
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I somewhat disagree with this. There are similar male competitions, one that comes to mind is Mt Olympia. The dudes get up there and flex. If beaut pageants that women choose to participate in are objectification, then Mt Olympia is too, and this is not a gendered issue. The real issue would be child beauty pageants imo, but usually the rich are involved so those aren't going away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:48 AM
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Women will likely gain nothing from being in relationships with men who say they are "used up" after 25. Well, maybe they can get some money. Most of the time, the dudes who say this are single, or they are very rich/attractive enough for women to not care when they say these things. So maybe they'd get good sex or money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:08 AM
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Imo it's best that you are friends with your partner. I see a partner as a friend that you can really trust and are sexually attracted to. Imo the people who don't need friendship from their partner are either superficial, have low self esteem, or are just plain stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:08 PM
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Almost half of married couples don't have male breadwinners Half of all marriages end in divorce though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:06 PM
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Absolutely. Though I should point out that I find lots of women physically attractive, basically it's all women that are in shape, and also some overweight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:47 AM
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Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:38 AM
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Depends on the what I get from the female attention. If I meet a great woman and have a great relationship, I don't really need the money. If I'd just be hooking up, I'd rather take the job and money, and try to maximize on whatever attention I can get. If I can get absolutely nothing then maybe I can try prostitution anyway, though that's not my thing really.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:37 AM
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I see. Lots of Blind posts going on and on about diversity hiring. People complaining about an increase of female devs. But I've never seen that myself, most of the female devs at my internship were no different from the male ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:33 AM
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I'm from the US, seems like most professors don't do stuff like that, but I had a very old european professor make a few questionable comments. From what I can tell, female students tend to be closer to the professors and TAs than male students.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:30 AM
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What would this look like from an outside perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:27 AM
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I'm not there yet but I had an internship. But I kind of agree, stem people are well off, at my internship most people had really nice cars, clothes, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:26 AM
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Q4W: What kinds of discrimination have you personally seen women face in Tech/STEM? I have always heard about it, but I've never seem it happen. I assume it has to be a thing, since you hear about it a lot. What should I as a male be on the lookout for?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:19 AM
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As with any advice, it only works if they are already attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:47 PM
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Just makes me question my self worth. Having zero dating success is a tough spot to be in. I have friends of both genders but whenever I try to get a relationship, the answer is no.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:18 PM
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I don't tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 09:00 PM
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Sure but, idk maybe it says something about me. In their mind I'm worse than known rapists. Must be something about me that makes me a worse dating option.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:16 PM
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Preferably Sunday, got plans for Saturday already
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 02:13 PM
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Unfortunate that all these users and abusers can get a gf, and I can't
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 01:07 PM
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Victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:54 AM
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Telling someone that you are on BC, and they they don't need to wear a condom, while not being on BC
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:48 AM
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Personally I'd rather not date someone on a medication that would make them asexual. I wouldn't discourage someone from taking the meds though. They can do what they want. However I do think people should be more cautious about these meds, they can really mess you up. Especially anti-anxiety and anti-depressants.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:05 AM
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One downside is the government has DNA data, which they may end up giving to private companies, it's kind of a huge security risk. But other than that you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:51 AM
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I know a woman that will talk shit about a guy for months, explaining in great detail about what she didn't like the guy and why she would never date them. Some girls would post the guy on social media to make fun of him. "This loser really tried to date me" posts. This is just one woman but from what I can tell, most single women usually tell a bunch of their single female friends when they reject a guy, and usually some consensus is reached, like "yeah I wouldn't date him either"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:24 AM
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You are right, in a long term relationship it's basically saying "I think there's a chance you cheated so I'd like to confirm that you didn't"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:08 AM
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Men do care as much about romance but it's an unrealistic demand. Almost zero women are as romantic as men in the initial stages, the best men can do is give most of the romance early and hope it is reciprocated later in the relationship. By romantic I mean doing things to make the other person's day, buying gifts, taking the other out to nice dinners, etc. Women will do other things but generally speaking most men won't get much romance in like the first month from most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:59 AM
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A bit late to the party here but I disagree. Aside from richer men, men have to work really hard for almost everything they get. Women do to, but they don't have to work as hard to have a fun, fulfilling romantic life. Women have it better in many aspects, especially dating. Men have it better in career. It's easier to get respect, because you don't have everyone assuming you're a token hire, you slept your way up, you're only here because you're a woman, etc. But safety is worse, statistically.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:53 AM
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You'll find lots of racism in these spaces. They don't see foreign women as full, real women. Instead they see foreign women as "cheaper" women, and they resent men for going for them instead. They want these men to put more effort into getting white american women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:13 PM
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This article was written by a woman, and based on the fact that there isn't any research referenced, I'd assume that this is all based on her perception, experiences, and world view. I'd ignore her. Coming from a man, most men don't care too much as long as you're a good partner. If you're more independent, cool! If not, cool!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:09 PM
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Money (as in, 100k to 200k money, not millions) will never be as attractive as looks, simply because you can't always tell when someone has money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:06 PM
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Seattle, Silicon Valley, and NYC are cities with lots of dudes in Tech. Go to a Meta, Amazon, or Google campus and you'll find lots of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 07:04 PM
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For men, most people won't care about their problems, so they just deal with it or try to fix it ASAP without really telling people. Nobody will give them validation on most things, in general. For women, people care more about their problems, so when they tell someone, they won't get the "well deal with it" response. People are more likely to empathize with them. If a man did the same thing, he'd be more likely to receive negativity, indifference, or cruelty. In general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:13 AM
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Seems like it worked for a significant period of time though. I'm more like guy A and I haven't even come close to an ltr like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:53 PM
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Spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:35 PM
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Why don't people ever say this stuff about female celebrities? Just like male celebs, they often leave their first partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:20 PM
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Ladies, when a man gets sexually harrassed/assaulted by a woman, or even a man, the WORST thing you can say is "now you know how women feel"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:16 PM
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She did tho, they talked about it as a couple
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:27 PM
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Not what I said. Imo, being careful is one thing, but treating the dude like he's an active murderer is another.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:19 PM
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I get it but to me it seems ridiculous when women take extreme measures when dating. Like having a friend follow her around when she's dating a guy, or bringing a gun to a date. Like if you're that concerned men are going to kill you simply because they are men (never heard of women doing this when dating women), why even date men in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:07 PM
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Answer: If women aren't approaching you, and you want a gf, you have to approach a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:25 PM
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It can more than money, though. Companionship, trust, etc. In western countries, it's unacceptable to sleep with someone other than your partner, in all cases. In other countries, people find it to be okay under certain circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:47 PM
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That's your view on things. But different people have different cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:25 PM
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I agree that some women do it, but most don't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:24 PM
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Usually it's women who aren't really into sex wouldn't mind their partner getting it from somewhere else as long as the relationship stays solid, there are no STDs, there aren't any children made, and she doesn't get embarassed. You see this more in Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:04 PM
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Disagree, though I do notice that some women have a constant desire for male attention, they like having orbiters and/or a bf who simps. These women use men, and should generally be avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:18 PM
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I agree with you, I'm just pointing out that this stuff never seems to come up when it's a man doing wrong. Let's take sexual assault against women for example. Do women usually bring up the fact that male sexual abusers were usually sexually abused during their childhood, often by women? Have you ever brought this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:40 PM
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Burnout? I just think that abusers are shitty people. Burnout wouldn't make a good person an abuser. When women show malice, society likes to bring up things like burnout, stress, etc. Your comment is an example of that. You see it on reddit all the time. When a woman makes a post about problems with her man, every tells her that he's an asshole and that she deserves better. When you flip the genders, people basically just ask "well have you tried making her life easier?"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:26 PM
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the person most prone to abusing a child is often the mother's new boyfriend Actually this is false, it is the mother. Women engage in more child and elder abuse than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:17 PM
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I agree that it is ideal to have a great partner but not everyone can have a great partner, being alone is better than living in a spiral of failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:23 AM
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I haven't had a good laugh in a while, thank you for this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:53 AM
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That's just cope tbh, as a woman you just have to not have rolls and rolls of fat, and even then you'll have men that are still attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:42 PM
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Because one is cheating, the other is cuckoldry which is like a higher level of cheating. In one case they're just having sex, in another they had sex and they're trying to make someone else raise another man's child as if it's their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:40 PM
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Women scaremonger women about being old and alone, too. Men do it to men and women, women do it to men and women. The truth is, being old and alone is generally seen as a poor outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:37 PM
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Imo porn doesn't affect men's standards that much. If it did, men would only be attracted to like 5% of women, which is obviously not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:35 PM
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Should be obvious, it implies that your partner thinks there's a possibility that you cheated on them. It's like your girl said "hey can I check your phone to make sure you're not cheating?" but more extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:32 PM
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Men aren't cleaning up in dating by running around spilling drinks on women Never said they were. I said that those men who women regarded as assholes, were successful in sleeping with women. If they aren't into you, then they aren't into you What happened to "Women do in fact like to be treated well, and are attracted to being treated well"? I never said that being nice should get panty drops, and I never said that being a jerk is men you get women. I just provided counter examples to the claim…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:28 PM
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In the context of abuse and sexual assault. Usually when someone a woman knows is accused of eiher of the two.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:15 PM
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Me (should make 6 figures after college), but it doesn't help that much though. They only see your dick if they are already sleeping with you. They see your abs if they see you shirtless, which may not happen. They see your height, but there are plenty of 6ft guys in their life already. They don't know your income if you tell them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:10 PM
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No I've heard my female friends go on and on about assholes that treat women like shit. I've seen it myself, guys spilling drinks on fat women and such. They either had a gf or some kind of harem. Also, I'm nice to the women in my life. I treat them well. Not in a doormat way. People (men and women) say I'm a funny and cool guy. Nothing I do works though. What you're saying literally goes against my lived experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:00 PM
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Feminists love saying "Trust, but verify" but when a man gets a paternity tests, that goes out the window.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:52 PM
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It's not luck. Luck does play a large role though. Genetics, upbringing, etc. My opinion is that if there are sexually successful men that are similar to you in height, face, and mental status, then you shouldn't be blaming luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:50 PM
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People usually fuck their partners, not sure how this helps.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:26 PM
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Also, when you come to America, make money, and then go back to India, you are now rich. Making 100k as a software engineer in America is equivalent to making 800k in India. Not exact numbers but you get the point. The guy was a rich guy when he went back to India.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:19 PM
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Seems to be a common theme in this sub, they never respond to the comments that genuinely refute their claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:16 PM
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In my experiece, jerks are almost never single. They always have a gf or multiple women chasing after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:08 PM
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Makes sense. I agree with some of your points here, most trafficking starts off as some person asking a girl to do modeling, then it escalates. However there are cases where women are basically kidnapped. Usually happens outside of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:48 PM
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I don't have much to say about the post itself, I'm just wondering why you made this post. Was there nothing else that you wanted to do with the time it took you to type this out?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:49 PM
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Reaching peak physical condition takes years of intense training. Shaving, skin care, and makeup take 1-2 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:03 PM
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Sigh
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:48 PM
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There's like 10 of them here and they all have bfs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:46 PM
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I'm from a black area, but I go to school in a white area. Night and day difference. Most people want to date within their race. If you're a black dude in a white area, unless you look like a male model, most girls don't want to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:21 PM
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I have to deal with stuff like this from most of my left leaning female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:13 PM
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Yeah, this happens with a lot of my female friends, I just have to deal with it I guess, it's not a big deal but it is annoying whenever it comes up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:12 PM
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She was talking about how men were raised to dominate and disrespect women. She also said that boys are allowed to do whatever they want during childhood, and that everyone makes excuses for them, saying "boys will be boys" and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:00 PM
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It's really annoying when a woman tells you how the male experience is from the lense of feminism. I had a woman tell me a bunch of stuff and when I disagreed, she told me I have to do more research. These are the same women complaining about how men deny women's experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:43 PM
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There are two factors. There's your mental, this is how much you are interested in sex itself. Then there's the physical aspect, your hormone levels. Men have a significantly higher physical sex drive than women. When that is taken away, they have the same sex drive as women. But in general men have a higher sex drive than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:39 PM
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Just another case of a woman saying she knows more about being a man than actual men. The average non-overweight man who has an active social circle still has a hard time attracting women. This is reality. This man has male hobbies that women generally aren't interested in. So when he meets with a woman, unless they share some common interest, he has nothing to talk about. The women in his life are usually not single. Nearly all women primarily go for above average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:37 PM
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I have plenty of friends, just no romantic relationships. Maybe that'll change when I get out of school though. Maybe I'm not good enough for a relationship, who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:25 AM
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15%, 3 in 20 are awful. 12 in 20 are just normal dudes, 5 in 20 are amazing dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:51 PM
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I disagree. I think that for women, there simply isn't much pressure to make money, so they don't. You have a lot of women that don't date but also don't try to make more money. They just do the bare minimum to survive. This is why they are fine with choosing a marketing major and working a reception desk job. Men know that they have to make money to be accepted in life, so they try harder to do so. This is why men make more money than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:24 PM
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Basically, among black women, there is a higher percentage of man haters, boss babes and overweight women than other races. Among black men, there are higher percentages of simps. The stereotype is that black men are players but that's only a tiny percentage, most are simps. Interestingly there are also lots of black women that simp for their man, they'd do anything for him no matter how they are treated. These women are usually very young, and they often stay in toxic relationships with asshole…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:15 PM
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I agree with this to a degree. We have a bunch of women that think working HR or at a reception desk is a "career" that they should focus on instead of building a family. All other races have this too, but with black women it's to a different extreme. Plenty of great black women though, they just get snatched up quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:06 PM
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what do you mean by this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:30 PM
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I'm 5'11" and in great shape, it's just that I'm black and most girls at my school wouldn't date a black guy. I can find hookups but most girls would dip as soon as things get serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 06:23 PM
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I have plenty of male and female friends, however the women aren't single and they wouldn't set me up with their single friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:52 PM
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Kinda. I'd like to have a relationship and I think there are plenty of great women out there. But I'm just chilling for now, once in a while I feel a bit lonely but it's better than having my self esteem destroyed from bejng rejected and humiliated.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:51 PM
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I've completely checked out of dating. Not worth it. I gotta do all this shit just to get with one woman? I'm good, I'm just gonna make money and chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:26 PM
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I know you're joking, but it wouldn't be acceptable for me as a man to joke about killing my wife, so I feel like this shouldn't be acceptable either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:11 PM
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I take her into the mens bathroom and wait outside the stall. It is my view that there a just as many female child predators as male ones, they just rarely get caught because people don't take it seriously. I would not trust my child with a stranger just because that stranger has a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:09 PM
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That's awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:40 PM
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I am not saying that it is not an awful situation, it is indeed a very bad thing. Also, I was comparing it to conviction, not accusation. Conviction will likely ruin your life. In some cases they get very light sentences, but in most, they spend decades of their life in prison. Were any of those 4 rapists convicted?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:39 PM
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In that case then many men get sexually assaulted and are required by law to pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:29 PM
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Dumb answer tbh. We are talking about a crime here. What happened before the crime is irrelevant. Would you say this to your own daughter or sister?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:05 PM
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Between 2-8% of rape accusations are false Actually, 2-8% of legal accusations are proven false in the court of law, and many of these are determined to be false after the accused has spent years or even decades of their life in jail. 8,000 men's lives are destroyed is more important than 200,000 women's lives who were destroyed It's not the same. If a women has been assaulted, and she comes to the court of law, she has already been assaulted. From the standpoint of the law, the goal is to lock …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:00 PM
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The ones who do maths with things like height etc typically aren't good partners anyways. They like the idea of having a bf with certain traits, but they'll see their bf as an achievement that they earned, rather than a person to build a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:33 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:54 PM
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In my opinion, men aren't legions of trash. This is just casual sexism that women are ok with. For this to be true, either women are of better dating/relationship quality than men, or there are also legions of trash women. Imo this is just an excuse to be shallow, the logic is that most men are trash so as a woman you gotta pick the hot ones and hope you get lucky. Of course, this will make dating hard, but this is self imposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:53 PM
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It is my opinion that dating will always be difficult for most people. The easier it is, the more higher you'd aim, which would make things hard instead of easy. This is why many very attractive women say dating is hard for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:45 PM
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I have seen this play out, but I wouldn't say it is all women. Plenty of women just pick the dude who they enjoy being around, and position themselves to be asked out. This guy is their top choice, but not necessarily the best dude around in all cases. If your argument is that they choose their #1 choice first, then, well that's obvious, everyone does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:29 PM
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yeah makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:36 PM
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A bit off topic but how many women make their men feel protected?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:58 PM
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If not being approached means being invisible then 90% of men are invisible to women. Have you tried asking anyone out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:36 PM
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Huh? Not sure what you're going on about. No revenge fantasies over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:03 PM
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My understanding is that the "nice guy" hate is for those who aren't actually nice. There are 3 types of (chronically single) nice guys. First, the dudes who claim to be nice because they have never abused a woman before, when in reality they would if given the chance. Often they have red flags, they just don't realize it. Second, the dudes who try to use niceness to generate attraction. Sometimes they get bitter when it doesn't work, and things take a turn for the worse. Third, dudes who are ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:29 PM
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Makes sense, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:22 PM
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To clarify, how would you give dating advice to one of your friends, when you dislike the methods that seem to be the most successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:16 PM
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Make sure I'm in shape. After that, join mixed friend groups, pick the guy who I like the most, and ask him out. Though I'd make sure not to ask out super popular dudes who get attention from lots of other women. Plenty of dudes who are cool but don't get much attention for whatever reason. I'd get to know him first so I can check for red flags, then I'd ask him out. I'd stay off of apps unless I knew literally nobody. Also no bars or clubs. At college, no party dudes. Also I'd ask my taken (fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:15 PM
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Q4W: I have plenty of female friends. The few who are single love complaining about how certain men, try to get dates, laid, etc. Usually from a moral standpoint. Thing is though, their methods are more successful than mine. They get laid, I get friends. If you were one of my friends, and you also don't like the methods of those dudes, what would you tell me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:06 PM
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Brown guys do not prefer white girls. Statistics overwhelmingly show that brown guys go for brown girls at over an 80% rate. Tbh this is just cope. The truth? Most men of any race prefer women who are fit. If you're 5'4", you should be 140lbs or less. For brown women at that height, the average is 180lbs and yet the men still go for them at over an 80% rate. If you are an in shape brown woman, you are actually in more demand from brown men than the equivalent white woman is from white men. Brown…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:02 PM
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Maybe, maybe not. I'd do what I could afford to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:05 PM
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True, I didn't think about it this way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:04 PM
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I'm talking about dudes who either hate women or see them as children or naive beings that coast through life on easy mode. Not talking about RP dudes in general. I'm a dude btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:03 PM
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I am
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 05:02 PM
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For women, maybe, not so much for men imo. From what I've seen, men tend to start loving their woman when they are together for a while and there are no significant problems in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:59 AM
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I don't understand. If I had all those negative views on women, I wouldn't date. I'd see escorts, because knowingly building a connection with someone with all those negive traits would be insane to me. I'd see escorts to deal with sex drive and call it a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:45 AM
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So basically you're in excellent shape and you look like you have high status, and this makes your dating life better? Wow who would've thought?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:38 AM
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Most men care about body more than face. Hit the gym, get some tone. If you already do, chances are they are already checking you out, you just don't notice. Men have seen the consequences of being caught checking out women at the gym, so they make sure not to get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 10:21 AM
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Fair points here. But can you explain what you mean by that last part?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 06:01 PM
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You're talking about stuff that happened decades ago. Yes you're right, things were much differemt back then. I'm talking about present day, however. Men do not get more respect than women unless they are successful in something. Some people treat men with more respect, others treat women with more respect. I personally have never experienced many of the privileges feminists claim I have. Also I would like to point out that many women will say that men have no idea what it's like to be a woman, …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:39 PM
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Some people get aroused by pain. It's not self harm, it's their sexuality. I guess someone can use BDSM as self harm, but that doesn't say anything about BDSM itself. Also choking can make sex feel better. There's a technique to it. Basically you choke on the sides so they can still breathe, but you put pressure on the arteries in their neck. This makes the recipient have oxygen to the brain, which can increase the intensity of orgasms. Lastly, (apparently, I'm not a member) consent is huge in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:15 PM
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Men are not a class. Also, many (not all) of the privileges feminists say men have only apply to fractions of men. Men are not more respected, for example, unless they are successful at something. People generally do not treat unknown men better than unknown women, in fact it's the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 05:01 PM
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Right wingers and grifters saw it as the perfect opportunity. Online at least. Real MRAs who actually do stuff are on both sides but their actions are usually more on the progressive side.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 04:50 PM
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try this: pip3 install height
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:33 PM
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from asia import girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:25 PM
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If we are gonna look at men with poor relationship outcomes and say they deserve it, we should also look at women with poor relationship outcomes and say they deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:50 PM
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No. Buy a T shirt instead
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:16 PM
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Well yeah she'd become bi I guess, I guess I want to be the one to turn her bi lol but yeah it's a fantasy anyway, likely wouldn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 08:06 PM
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I'm not a red piller, but the average young dude is actually single, not in a relationship. This average dude can get laid once or twice a year but can't get genuine desire. Once he gets older, he will have an easier time with 30s women because all of their options ran out and it's time to settle. This isn't my view on things but this seems to be the RP stance on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:58 PM
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Giving a les couple a child would be a nice fantasy, but just that bc I am NOT doing that irl ever lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:55 PM
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The validation of being the one she makes an exception for would be nice, but tbh it's just that lots of lesbians have an attractive personality and many of them have learned to initiate more than the average woman. Her being grossed out would be a turnoff tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:53 PM
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With some muscles? Definitely
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:50 PM
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I've always wanted to sleep with a lesbian, but they're lesbian so not gonna happen lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:06 PM
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Yeah I only have a year left here anyway, I'll try actively dating once I leave. Because here, 90% of women are already taken. The ones who aren't taken don't want to be taken anyway, nothing I can do. Well, I could go after freshmen, but they kinda just left high school so it'd be a bit weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:52 PM
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I'd say the #1 reason why I don't have a gf is, I don't ever go for one. All of the girls I'd be interested in are already taken when I meet them. Hard to work on romantic progression when everyone's taken. For context, there are 2.5 guys for every girl at my school. Most women are taken, the ones who aren't have a bunch of orbiters usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:35 PM
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Straight from the factory
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:16 PM
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Use discord instead
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:10 PM
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I'm nice to everyone. I have male and female friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:08 PM
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I don't see women speaking about the struggles of men, must mean they don't care about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 05:05 PM
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Childfree women? Whatever, their choice. Infertile women? Wtf???? The nerve of some people, smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:39 PM
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Most studies have ~30% of men cheating and ~25% of women cheating. Even in the study you linked, in the dating age ranges, men and women cheat at similar rates. The larger differences are among the older generations, and honestly they aren't very relevant to these discussions anyway, since they dated and married in a completely different society. Judging by the study you provided, newer generations of women are starting to cheat more than their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:46 PM
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Why is this always brought up as if men and women don't cheat at similar rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:26 PM
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I would only take if there were no significant side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:21 PM
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There have been multiple studies on this. They've done experiments on grading, for example. When they took the names off the essays, boys performed as well as the girls. When the names were on the essays, girls performed better. There's also the ADHD situation, lots of female teachers mistake young male traits for ADHD, leading to boys taking drugs that they don't need, and messing up their brain chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:36 PM
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This dude dated in a time where you could go to the mall and find a woman to date, without needing an app. Usually when short dudes say dating isn't/wasn't hard, they're over 50, hispanic, or they use drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:40 AM
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Back then, a girl wouldn't be laughed at for dating a dude that's 2 inches shorter than her. Nobody ask her why she chose a manlet. Your experiences don't align with many of the dudes on this sub. You got to date before social media and metoo changed everything. I saw this with one of my female friends. 2 dudes approached her the same way. One was 6 foot, the other was 5'6, otherwise they looked similar. Guess which one was creepy and which one was cute?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:35 AM
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Days later, I offer this. When a woman complains about the "deadbeat" dad, asking them why they chose to have a child with the dad is holding them accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:03 AM
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Was this in the 80s?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:57 AM
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If you are over 40 then your dating experiences are vastly different than most people here. I'm 20, most 5'5 dudes I that I know are single, the ones who aren't were football players in HS. Social media made womens' standards skyrocket, they see a bunch of other girls with 6'3 studs and they want one too. Not all girls are like this but most would only date a dude if he was at least 5 inches taller. Women absurd reactions to dudes asking them out is popular, and it's worse for short people. I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:13 AM
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Most men do not want to deal with arbitrary waiting periods. Those other guys are the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:07 PM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:06 PM
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He asked that to initiate a conversation. He probably doesn't care much what your career is. Generally men don't care about a woman's career because it is usually of no benefit to them. Men know that when a woman starts probiding for a man, she loses attraction and leaves most of the time. So often the more you make, the more pressure there is on him to be high earning. The guy was hosting a conference so I'm guessing he's pretty well off. Would you even date him if he was a school teacher makin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:05 AM
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Well if that's how it is, the I guess men and women see it a different way. Women think this is fine, men think otherwise, but will go along with it if they have no better options. Not much that can be done about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:56 AM
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And likeing one of them more emotionally makes them less likely to sleep with them? Is that what you are saying? I'm just trying to understand your stance here.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 09:38 PM
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I think that any sane person would sleep with person A if they are more interested in sleeping with person A than person B, given that they can sleep with either if they want. Though this only applies to sane people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 02:19 PM
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Do all women in your head, date one men and fuck another at the same time? No, but that's the topic of the post. That's not very likely to be happening I know plenty of women that do this but I wouldn't say it's the norm. if you are not exclusive you are not exclusive Sure but, you didn't answer the question. How would YOU feel if a guy says he wants to wait for sex because he "needs time" or something, while he was also sleeping with other women on the side?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:46 PM
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It also weeds out the guys who have enough self respect to not date a woman for a month while she's sleeping with other dudes. If he never finds out that's also a bad thing. Think about it, would you want to date a guy who's saying they want a serious relationship with you, but is also sleeping with other women, and more interested in sleeping with them than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:21 PM
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If he is only after sex, he will likely not wait This is just false. Men who are only after sex often will wait. And while they wait, they'll be getting with other women as well. Here on reddit you see it all the time. Guy dates a woman for 3 months and then once they have sex they bail and she's upset. Waiting only weeds out the more impatient guys tbh. OP, If you're reading this, this is why. This misconception is why women do this. They think it helps them weed out dudes who only want sex, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:44 AM
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This is absolute bullshit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:53 AM
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Disagree. Women generally put more effort into appearances. So if you are using appearances as a judge of competence, then it would seem like women are outperforming men in most areas. Not only is it all girls in my interview This means nothing except the fact that the company is trying to hire a woman. Honestly, this all reads like you're a privileged bay area college girl, and that is not an insult. You seem to lack perspective. Most young people are broke, they don't have money to go to maste…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:24 PM
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dress better costs money have some fun hobbies fun according to who? stop being a pussy depends on what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:30 PM
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I'm also at college. Most people are overweight. Nerd school though, people stay inside instead of touching grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:25 AM
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As a young dude, most younger women that I see are fat. One the reasons why I don't date much tbh. This also applies to men though. I think it's an America thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:51 PM
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This is absolutely not true lol, at least in most parts of America. The average woman is 5'4" 170lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:12 PM
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Spez didn't make reddit, he's not an engineer. He's a CEO, he makes decisions on ad deals, partnerships, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 06:16 PM
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Thank you for your service. We probably don't agree on many things but the stuff here is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:15 AM
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Disagree, the biggest problem is the perception that everyone will magically find the perfect person for them. It's easy for men to realize how false that statement is, but it's not as easy for women, because their friends often say it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:35 AM
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Exactly. It's just that in this case, it's the wife who's not getting sexed. Can't negotiate attraction lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:25 PM
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Brought up the topic of consent. Some may take it to an extreme but we really have made progress. The concept of coercion is something that people are aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:28 AM
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Idk, but I don't really subscribe to the red pill, I think it has some good points but it's mostly a bunch of generalizations that are worded in a way to get attentian and views. But I know plenty of women that fit some of their stereotypes. It's just that these women are a specific subset, usually women that have mental issues, narcisism, pretty privilege, and/or a lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:40 PM
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Not a red pill dude but I know plenty. I'd say that most women don't do it, but often times the very social women do. These women are easier to notice so it may seem like most do it, but most want one guy, and to be off the market. Also, you'd be less likely to see this happen in college. In college, finances are not a factor. After college, unless the girl makes over 60k or something, she will have to factor that in. If she got a very low paying degree, she'll likely need to pair up with someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:54 PM
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I should have been more specific, but I meant that roughly 50% of women would cheat on a man given certain circumastances. Not necessarily that 50% of women are cheaters. My female friends are mostly non-cheaters, but when it comes to women I know or heard of, 50% cheat. This has been true wherever I went. I think that the real percentage is 30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:51 AM
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I agree! Say it louder for the women in the back
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:12 PM
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I'd find it strange to primarily get info about women from men instead of using my own eyes. The views I have are from my own observations, also from what women have literally told me. When I say that 50% of women would cheat, it's because of how many women I've seen do it, not because some redditor told me. But that make women look bad so in comes the denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:49 PM
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CNN and Fox News, who take most of the views these days, are both owned by conservatives. You also have title 9 Which was bipartisan. 88 votes in the senate divorce laws that preference the mother These laws were made centuries ago, and they exist in every society that allows divorce. This isn't caused by the left. Affirmative consent laws In the US? Doubt it, I think that's a Europe thing. VAWA which made rape penetrative Rape was always penetrative. Also, every conservative country has rape as…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:40 PM
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The topic was legislation though. Also, most of the (TV) media in the US is owned by conservatives, so I'm assuming you mean social media? In that case, there's plenty of extreme stuff out there, the platforms are specifically designed to show you the more extreme stuff so that you get positively or negatively engaged. That's one reason why conservatives would see more pro lgbtq ads. That's also why lots of red pillers see extreme feminist content.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:59 AM
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Assuming you're talking about the scholarship part, it only makes sense. If everyone gets the same amount of money, but there are more women than men, then of course women as a whole would receive more scholarship money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:52 AM
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These laws were not introduced recently, they were introduced centuries ago. So how is the left pushing anti male legislation? When it comes to scholarships, although 10 of 11 (I think) gendered scholarships go to women, when you factor in all scholarship money, it's only slightlt in favor of women, which is expected since most college students are women. And honestly, I think you may be assuming all leftists are feminists. That may apply more to people on the far left but generally the dems don…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:48 AM
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Idk but Java is an object oriented programming language, so it can cater to all of your needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 04:26 AM
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Pretty much. And the method returns object that implements the Person interface.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:43 AM
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Technically speaking women would be the factory object that has a method that the men have to pass in the arguments to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:36 AM
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not according to the java documentation
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:33 AM
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"Me and you should do a natural join" "I hope you like python and bash" "I work at [insert big tech company that is known to pay a high salary here]"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:27 PM
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That's fucked up tbh. Based, but fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:03 PM
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In Java, women are objects
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:01 PM
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And? You are not entitled to their money Empathy gap right here. If you were to reverse the genders, this would (rightly) be called out as discrimination. The statement the guy made wasn't even accurate, but if it was, you'd be okay living with that inequality. Also, why doesn't this apply to hiring? Are women entitled to jobs with higher salaries? What are your thoughts on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 01:27 AM
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Those women would probably get abortions. Remember, the whole point paper abortion thing is for the man to have a decision during the time that the woman can abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 01:23 AM
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Then you should be good, just ask out the ones that you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:51 AM
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For me it's more being proud of my figure, I'm not sexually attracted to myself as I am a straight man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:39 AM
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Beware of STDs. Not in my 30s but STDs are common in large cities. Try not to date anyone who goes on dates as some sort of hobby. Many STDs (like HPV) have no symptoms for males but will destroy your health.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:37 AM
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Men, for the most part, will be single until they actively try to pursue someone. Women can be much more passive. Also, most women can download a dating app and get interest from decent people very quickly. Edit: For disproven, I'd say that not every woman has a "hoe" phase. It's just that the ones that do this typically hang out together, and have larger social circles. So if you find one who does this, you'll find like 20 more and it'll seem like most women do this, but in reality most don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:31 AM
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That's only a part of the case. The lawyers will take the divorce case, but when the matter of child custody comes up, the lawyers will advise their clients to not fight for custody if it's unlikely that they'll win. The men can still fight but of course that'd cost them more money for little benefit, because it'd extend the case, and lawyers often get paid by the hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:07 PM
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This may be skewed by the fact that it's a court case, lawyers typically only advise it when they are likely to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:42 PM
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I really agree with this, at least when it comes to talking to people I just met. Men usually have more interesting things to talk about on a regular basis. My female friends are interesting too but it's hard to meet women like them regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:12 AM
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I was referencing research that was performed in the 1950s. Back then, regulations were much more lax. These days we have stricter regulations so even the mostly ok male birth control products often get rehected for stuff. Vasalgel and a few others are passing trials with minimal effects, so hopefully one can get through the whole process. Also, the fact that female hormonal birth control can help with some other ailments is a big part of its legality. Male bc doesn't have that, which means that…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:49 AM
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Smile a little bit I guess. Appear happier, they will likely have a more positive perception of you. When they think of candidates later, they will think of the smile too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:55 PM
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I think that by career oriented, they mean that her career is the primary focus of their life, and that her career defines her. I'd say the same things about dudes who do the same. It's one thing if you're running a successful business because that's something that you have to put in a lot of focus into and of course someone would be proud, but it's another if you just work HR.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:46 PM
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In America, since many people have degrees, companies don't really care about it that much. Only lucrative undergrad degrees, Masters degrees, and PhD programs have any prestige. Degrees like business, psychology, education, nursing, etc are great but they don't mean as much these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:43 PM
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Unlike most colleges, mine is 67% male. I do have a good social circle no opportunities have come from it. Most women are either taken or in some dude's rotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:21 PM
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Yeah maybe but tbh I'm almost out of here so I don't really see the need to put much effort into the whole dating thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:58 PM
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No and yes. The school is like 67% male, also most women have bfs or are in some dude's rotation. The remaining ones are either not interested in dating, or to say the least there are reasons why they are single despite the ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:58 PM
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I'd say I'm a bit above average, I'm 5'11", muscular, and in college. Personally it sucks, not a fun experience at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:57 PM
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Yeah those dudes suck but idk I feel like most dudes would like a girl to express interest initially. Maybe the more high profile dudes think it's weird because they preder winning over someone. But a woman hust asking a dude to hang out wouldn't be seen as weird to most dudes I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:18 PM
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She can approach dudes and she will have better chances than a dude approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:48 PM
1

She shouldv't said "men here" like everyone else ig
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:11 PM
1

Well an amount of them yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 09:11 PM
0

Men do not generally lose their mins when you say 50 year olds should not date 18 year olds
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:47 PM
1

Black men do not choose asian women as their ideal preference lmao. Most black men are with black women. Dating apps are not representative of real life. Black women on dating apps tend to be more obese. Same with... actually everyone on dating apps tends to be more obese. However obesity is lower in asians, which is why they get high swipe rates. The more beautiful BW usually aren't on the apps, and the ones that are usually leave pretty quickly unless they're in a less diverse area.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:21 PM
2

You are asexual, possibly aromantic. That's fine, there are asexual men too. Find one of them, don't try to convert a sexual man into an asexual man. Leave anyone who tries to convert you. You are not immature. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:18 PM
1

If you look at any race, the women earn degrees at a higher rate than the men. Although I agree with the rest. I don't subscribe to the idea of hypergamy, at least when it comes to women as a whole. Plenty of women do it but most prefer to stay with their partners even if more attractive men are around. Interestingly though, seems like it's mostly the feminist women that leave their partners for hotter dudes or to play the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:16 PM
1

Testosterone does not make someone more aggressive imo. I would say it's the opposite, when a person gets angry they get a testosterone boost. That boost also comes from other things. For example, there's a testosterone boost when working out, in men and women. Yet you don't see people getting super angry after workouts. There have been studies done on why most violent crimes are committed by men. Interestingly, men and women have similar levels of aggression. However for men that turns into phy…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 09:50 PM
1

Socialization, obviously
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:41 PM
1

My main point is, we shouln't treat a large demographic based on the actions of a few. Not the good, or the bad. However, this does not mean that those actions are insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:40 PM
1

My mistake. I skimmed and missed the word "only" in your comment. Those jobs are done mostly by men. That is a fact. If men were to disappear, society would end within weeks, simply because critical infrastructure is operated mostly by men. Obviously, there are and have always been valuable, innovative, competent women in those fields. There just aren't enough of them to support a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:22 PM
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You are going beside the point, probably intentionally since you cannot defeat it. Again, if most of group X is not A, it is incorrect to say that group X is generally A and that group Y should avoid group X. That type of logic is fundamental to racism, sexism, classism, and many other types of prejudice and discrimination. Also, you weren't claiming that we need to look into it. You said that women do not need men and should avoid men. Don't try to paint that as encouraging thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:19 PM
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That's not a generalization, it's a fact. However, that's beside the point (which is probably why you are fixated on it). The point is that if women did not need men, then they would be able to survive without men. However they cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:12 PM
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There is evidence that black people are over policed when it comes to most crimes. That would explain the differences in statistics. But again, most black people do not end up in prison, so it would be inaccurate to say that black people are generally criminals. You are purposefully twisting my argument because you cannot beat it. I'm saying that you can't say that X group is generally A and that Y group should avoid group X when the extreme majority of group X is not A. This is the exact argume…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:18 PM
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Good point, however you misunderstand me. I did not say that most men are essential to civilization. I said that women could not live without men if all men were to disappear. Only a small portion of men actually hold up society. Though, I'd say that the number is a bit higher than 5%, maybe it's around 15%. However I should clarify that I do not mean that women should go around thanking men for their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:26 PM
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There are also more men catching criminals than women. 90% of violent crimes are committed by like 3% of men. That says nothing about men in aggregate. But anyway, it's probably socialization. Yes, some people are just naturally violent. But in reality, poverty breeds crime. Murder, assault, etc are usually committed by unhinged people that went through tough times. Rape is different though, it's committed usually by people that are opportunists, not just the random people in the street. A commo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:23 PM
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If I were to say women abuse children, that would be an inaccurate representation of women. Statisticslly most cases of child abuse and neglect have a female offender. That does not mean that women generally abuse children and children should stay away from women. By that same logic, most criminals being men does not mean that men are generally criminals and that women should avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:52 PM
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Correction: Any small percentage of men commit 90% of those crimes. Those crimes are not committed by men in aggregate. The majority of men do not commit those crimes. Do not generalize a demographic based on the actions of a small portion of that demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:24 PM
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Without men, civilization would end in about 4 weeks. Without women, men would last for another 40 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:16 PM
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Women who attempt to break into high end, fancy office jobs in high towers like Activision Blizzard experience that, yes. At much higher rates than the oil drillers, coal miners, etc. Yet that doesn't stop them from applying to those jobs and getting them. It's not a matter of women being held out. It's a lack of interest. Generally, women prefer jobs where they can form social networks. Office jobs, production teams, the medical field, etc. They don't like to dig holes, drive trucks, write code…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:15 PM
1

Imo, if someone wouldn't date you, they are not an option. Most dudes therefore have barely any options on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:20 AM
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Women have more options too though, so in reality everyone just has more competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:02 AM
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Imo it degrades them and makes them less of the husband type. It shows that they require no connection, so I guess it would indicate that they are more likely to cheat. And it's not just they guys that do it, it's also the guys that want to do it. If I were female I would avoid such men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:57 PM
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Most men donnot follow him though. He got a lot of attention but that doesn't mean that people agree with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:37 PM
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facts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:20 PM
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There is plenty of information that goes both ways. Statistically women have higher rates of depression. Men have higher rates of suicide. Who is happier? Hard to say. When it comes to resources, men generally have more resources. Men have a higher median income. However women spend most money and make more financial decisions. Who has more resources at their disposal? Hadd to say. And how does effort tie into this. How is effort statistically measured? I have never seen a study that compares me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:16 PM
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How do men get more happiness and resources for less effort? Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:13 PM
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The gaslighting here is insane. "You aren't really relating these experiences because they didn't actually happen, you're just being manipulated" is basically what you said. As for the rest, since you made the whole scenario and chose the outcomes, I won't resoond on why you think those outcomes occurred. But I will say that it's obvious that someone who stops trying to succeed will not succeed. What you're ignoring is cost benefit analysis. A dude can keep getting his emotions destroyed or he c…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 12:22 AM
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Sure but I would argue that most dudes don't visit these forums. The fact that these forums are growing in popularity means that the content that is on these forums is relatable to a large group of people. It's not a matter of people making things up, it's more about men having certain experiences, and content creators taking advantage of those experiences. It happens with women too, but it's much more culturally accepted. But when it comes to landing dates or whatever, I'd argue that online for…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:10 PM
2

I would say that it's their own fault
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:06 PM
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I'm not saying that height is an extreme requirement. I'm just saying that it is a large factor. My point was that it's not just about not going outside. There are other factors at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:18 PM
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I disagree with your first point. I see plenty of average looking, not so tall dudes with girlfriends. I'm not saying this does or can't happen. It's just that they got lucky. It's not all about height, personality, etc. It's about whether or not you run into someone who you're interested in, that's also interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:17 PM
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It's no illusion, it's my lived experience. When a girl sees a guy as easily replaced, she will develop no interest in him. Or she'll date him and then just dump him when a better dude comes along. My single friends directly say that only 2% of dudes have a chance, the rest are "just no" or something. The taken ones don't have the same mindset, but they're taken lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:02 PM
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Not sure how what I said reads like entitlement. It's just what I've observed. Personally I rarely get interested enough to ask out anyone. And when I do they're already taken. I don't really care much about looks as long as they're in shape tbh. Being 10/10 means nothing to me, because looks don't make a relationship. I don't feel like working hard just because a girl is pretty. I would feel like it if she was interesting to talk to and she showed mutual interest. But I notice others do it, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:57 AM
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Not sure what you mean by this. Personally, every single woman I have met (aside from the very obese ones) can get a boyfriend if they look for one. For some it's sinply saying yes to the dudes that constantly ask them out. For others it requires making a move. But generally I doesn't take much for them to get one at my male dominated school. 7 dudes for every 3 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:49 AM
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In my opinion, posts like these are meaningless. You're just saying a longer version of "just go outside" so this isn't meaningful, or actionable advice. Also, you think these people stay at home all day in this economy? As someone with an active social life and plenty of female friends, it's not about just leaving the house and talking to women. It's about whether or not women see you as better than most of their options. If they don't it doesn't matter if you lick the grass, nothing's gonna ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:19 AM
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You do know that women can also end relationships right? Kevin Samuels would bring on single mothers a lot and like 80% of the time, it was the mothers that kicked the fathers out. Small sample size ofc but it shows that it's not always men just abandoning women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:06 AM
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There is nobody that I'm interested in. I'm male btw. My female friends are either taken, or there's a specific reason I don't wanna date them. I don't regularly meet new people, but when I meet a woman and she's good with conversation, 99% of the time she's taken and/or fat. I'm at a college that's mostly male, so it makes sense tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:28 AM
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Meant dating life. But that's great! I'd say that life with a supporting partner is easier than life without one, though. If you've been out of the game now for nine years though, that that means you missed the current dating era. I'd call it a blender, everyone gets shredded one way or another, man or woman. Fortunately you don't have to deal with it though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 05:35 AM
0

How is your daying life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 02:20 AM
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Reading over your comment and the post again, you have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:50 PM
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106% of women cheat (6% margin of error)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:26 PM
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I heavily disagree. You're operating under 2 assumptions here. First, you assume that his fans acknowledge what he did. To a lot of people, especially the younger generation, news like that doesn't ever reach them. They just hear his music, enjoy it, go to the concerts, etc. Second, you assume that since many women still like him atter the reports, then all women do. This is most likely not the case. In America he could have 20 million female fans but that would mean that over 85% of women aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:12 AM
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There was another post here. I think that's far below 1%. I am a 5'11" in shape dude under 22 set to make at least 130k, the calculator says I'm top 0.012% although we both know that's not true. These calculators use statistical fallacies. If 50% of people are unmarried, and 50% of people are not fat, that doesn't mean that 25% of people are both unmarried and not fat. But this is how the site does things apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:01 AM
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I'm apparently top 0.012% (0.091% of black males). I should submit my chad application I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:31 PM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:28 PM
5

Her making more money means that he would would have to pay less alimony in the case of a divorce that would likely be started by her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:25 PM
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Standard PPD woman argument here. Dude makes a claim, woman demands evidence, dude provides evidence, then the goalposts do the Cha-Cha slide.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:02 PM
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When you said pursue I assumed you meant for a relationship, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:28 PM
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Men generally do not primarily pursue ig thots amd onlyfans girls who soend their lives partying, doing drugs, and posting porn of themselves on the internet. And men do not "like" to pursue these women either. They may look at their content but I mean come on how many of your friends would seriously date a girl with a booming onlyfans?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:19 PM
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They seem to primarily bring on less intelligent onlyfans girls with extreme egos. These women think they know everything, and are very entitled. If you want to paint women as dumb entitled egotistical children, these are exactly the women you bring on a show like that. Now of course not all of the girls are like that, but if you put them in a group, their in group bias will likely cause them to support the craziest takes that one of them may have. No man should look at these women as normal eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:34 PM
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Human rights issues that women have an exit from in most of the country, and most of the world, yet men do not. Therefore it's primarily men that deal with these things. That's why I consider them male issues. I could apply the same logic to abortion though. Men aren't legally allowed to get abortions either, but does that mean abortion is not a women's issue? Also, you have a very strange argument. First, I'm not sure what you mean by MRA. Second, you are bringing up unmentioned issues and clai…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:26 PM
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Female birth control can have permanent effects but none are as extreme as depletion of serotonin causing suicide, permanent instability of the reproductive system, and permanent infertility. If such a thing happens to a woman, it would be an extremely rare case. With the make birth control trials, these were mot rare cases at all. My point? They didn't stop those trials because the men felt uncomfortable. Women and feminists like to say that because they think men are pampered by the medical in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:18 PM
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We did not hand Ukraine billions lol. We handed lockheed and raytheon billions, and btw even that was just 4% of the military budget.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:00 PM
1

If these were "rules" then most women wouldn't be desired by most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:58 PM
1

Sigh. Anytime a man mentions a male struggle, women like you immediately come with the "well but women!" attitude. Complete lack of empathy. Yes, similar things can happen to women too. I am not sure how that is at all relevant to what I said. All I said is that those things can happen and that the man should have a way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:52 PM
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Well, if a man is raped, he has to pay child support. If he uses a condom, and the girl fishes it out of the trash to get pregnant, he has to pay child support. In fact, if a male child is raped, he will owe child support to his rapist when he turns 18. In these 4 cases, I think that no child support should be paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:32 PM
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Men usually don't receive unprompted acts of kindness from other individuals on a regular basis. If they get anything from a person, it's because they did slmething in the past. Also, in my opinion, when a woman says a guy is too nice, it's not because she sees him as somewhat of a pushover. It's not that his niceness is too high, it's that it's unprompted and unconditional. I can understand why someone would be out off by that. Well, either that or she desires toxic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:23 PM
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Then I suggest not taking that either. However since we're dealing with the FDA, there has to be a medical benefit. For women, the benefit is avoiding pregnancy, which could result in severe complications. In some cases it can also help with periods. For men, there is no medical benefit to male birth control. It would not treat any conditions. Getting someone pregnant would be of no direct physical harm to the male. Therefore it has much higher standards, or in other words, it cannot have severe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:17 PM
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Most previous attempts at male birth control resulted in permanent hormonal changes such as permanently reduced testosterone and infertility among the men who participated. Women and feminists love leaving this out. It's not just headaches or mood changes. It's permanent damage. Simply put, there is already a natural mechanism to make women temporarily infertile. Hormones are released to do this during pregnancy. We can mimic this mechanism to a certain degree. Men have no counterpart, which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:35 PM
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Ain't no way you think most guys rejected a top tier woman in their lifetime. You and your friends must be way above average I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:24 AM
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I agree with your second paragraph, except for one thing. Women are much much more selective than men. Personally, of the women that I know that have a bad history with men, each of them rejected dudes that went on to be great bfs to their later gfs. I know 0 such situations from the guys I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:07 PM
3

If you start a line with a #, it formats it like this. To not do this, you need to put a backslash before it. Like this: \#
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:35 PM
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OR you can just head over to the other end of the lake so you can catch the fish and go home. This is actually an AMAZING analogy. You can go all the way back to bass pro shops and invest in better bait, then come right back to the same area hoping that the fish will bite this time, OR you can simply move to the other end of the lake and catch fish with what you have. Literally, if you were the fisherman here, what would you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:13 PM
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IIRC they make you do the "finishing" shots first, then they pump you full of viagra (straight into the penis) then you do the deed (in very uncomfortable positions) for like 4 more hours. The amount of drugs involved is absurd. And remember, you shoot a scene only a couple times a month.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:25 PM
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She's was using her partner's desire for sex as a source of validation. She didn't like sex with him but she did like being asked. The fact that she always said no meant nothing to her. She did not care about how her partner felt, or her partner's sexuality. She doesn't have to care, of course, but he doesn't have to stay married. I recommend he divorce her. Some would say to give her a chance, but honestly if she was low libido for him, for so long, then that's that. She could try to change but…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:20 PM
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Yes. These dudes don't value being in a relationship unless they see the woman as extremely valuable. The women that they see are not valuable to them (based on what theg say). I only know a handful of these guys though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:15 PM
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Yes absolutely. In contrast, almost every abuser, cheater, etc has no problem with women. Just an observation though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:03 AM
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👍
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:02 AM
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I agree, honesty it stems from a lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:54 PM
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That dude was fighting the good fight lol. The one lady asked for articles to support his claims, then ignored them immediately lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:29 PM
1

Single
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:42 PM
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As a funny guy (yes people tell me this) who leaves my house, this is untrue. Well, if you're male at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:34 PM
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No but I mean they are generally regarded as very attractive. Even if you ignore them, literally every model has a workout plan. Even the skinny ones. Women aren't men, it's actually cery difficult for them to get really bulky, even after working out for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:58 PM
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75%? I'd bump that up to 103%.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:56 PM
1

Pick two roughly equivalent societies. Completely isolate them, nobody goes in or out. In one, kill all the men. In the other, kill all the women. Observe which society lasts longer. My hypothesis: the all female country is finished within 3 weeks. The all male country is finished after 30 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:55 PM
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Literally every female model or pornstar has an aggressive workout plan. They may not body build but they do lots of muscular toning, especially with the legs and back muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:50 PM
1

Not surprising. Over 100% of women cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:35 PM
1

Men are favoured in employment. Not saying you're lying but, source?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:19 PM
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Before, you would go to some store, park, arcade, theater, etc after school. Now kids just go home or maybe to a friend's house for an hour. Most socializing is done in instagram DMs. Why? Because most parents don't really let their kids go anywhere on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:35 AM
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I didn't say that only women had massive accusations. However, the topic was about women rejecting accusations, so I only discussed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:42 AM
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LMAO when you literally have a sex trafficker on your side named Gaetz
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:06 AM
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A tiny percentage of women lust after serial killers. You could apply the same concept to sexual assault. Around 6% of men have committed a sexual offense, and around 3% of men have more than 10 victims. So would it be fair to say that men rape women? As for the rest, my point was that they act the same as men, roughly. Men have less of an in group bias, but it's still there. But let's not act like women never criticize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:05 AM
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I think it's because of the general accusations made here. Women are accused of some crazy stuff. Like lusting after serial killers and such. On other subs, when people point out female behaviors that are actually common (spreading rumors about their own friends, sticking with and defending asshole bfs for way too long, cheating, etc), often there will be a couple women in agreement. There, women aren't accused of only sleeping with deranged himan beings and shaming virgin men to the point of su…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:05 AM
1

I accept that I will be single for the time being.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:36 PM
1

No but like most of the cool ones are takes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:35 PM
1

Personally my requirements filter out like every girl I know that's single. I also never really have crushes. I'd like a gf but it's like I'm never motivated to get with any particular person. Wish I less selective like most other dudes lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 06:01 AM
2

Exactly like why require so much? People are so picky these days
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:40 AM
1

Spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 05:29 AM
-2

I meant that as in, they require constant validation from others. This woman doesn't do anything but gossip and check instagram. Props to her for the independence though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:44 AM
-4

Women that live life like this are leeches. They have nothing going for themselves. Men with any substance would avoid such women for serious relationships. So this woman would have a bunch of failed relationships and be quite miserable. The majority of her romantic experiences would be negative. Attractive women, or most women for that matter, absolutely do not live life like this. They have hobbies, friends, priorities, etc to spend time on. Not every woman is an instragram addict posting thir…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:16 AM
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Why don't women just be honest with themselves and the men they choose and only accept offers from men that turn them on by sight alone? Because they'd be single
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:10 AM
1

I mean that in relation to the prior point. Lots of men feel valued only after they do something for others. But other than that they get no positive attention from anyone, even friends. Of course this can apply to women too, but honestly I notice it primarily in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:21 PM
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I meant that point to go along with the prior one. Lots of dudes feel valued for what they can provide or do for others, not valued as a human being. Obviously anyone of any gender can feel like they aren't valued as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:19 PM
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Any societal issues that primarily men deal with, and women generally don't deal with. Examples being lack of ability to express themselves, feeling pressured to provide, not feeling valued as a person, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:12 PM
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Plenty of therapists are feminist. If a man goes to such a therapist with male issues, their view ofnsuch issues may prevent them from giving good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 09:03 PM
1

Almost every tall white dude who is not fat has a gf. They can get one easily. Frat brothers who are not fat mostly have gfs. Social dudes have gfs is they have a 50/50 friend circle. People in mixed gender clubs have gfs at around a 50/50 rate. The percentage of men who fit into the above categories is (rough guess) around 30% of dudes. The other 70% are hopelessly single. I should point out that this is a school that's well over 60% male. Not much complaining about it from the dudes though. Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:58 PM
0

All of these are alcohol related lol but yeah good points
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:57 AM
2

Good one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:56 AM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:56 AM
1

Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:56 AM
1

He stayed with his cheating wife instead of exposing her and kicking her to the curb.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:42 AM
3

What advice would you give to a dude gradiating college and moving to a city with a high paying job? No friends going with him, he doesn't know anyone except his coworkers in his male dominated stem field. This is not me btw lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:41 AM
1

10% of men have an advantage over 90% of men. Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:37 AM
1

This comment doesn't support the victim complex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:36 AM
1

Yes and I was talking about those specific women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:41 PM
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Ironically that's what happens in some of these videos and those women still complain
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:22 PM
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Don't waste your time. The apps are designed to keep you desperate, not to help you find a partner.0
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:20 PM
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But it's not just a matter of not being interested. It's a matter of not being at all sexually compatible. Think about it terms of allergies. 2 dudes are hungry. One person has a bland pizza that they really don't want. The other has nothing, but is lactose intolerant.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 09:18 PM
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The fact that so many men see women get treated like that and still see it as an improvement speaks volumes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:52 PM
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This is a horrible example. People cannot just change their sexuality. Why not apply the same logic who complain about men all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:41 PM
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Absolute reproductive control by making them have to go to through the healthcare system to have children? You can't be serious. Want them absolute reproductive control? Implement paper abortions. Let unmarried men opt out while (very important) their partner can still abort. Baby trappings will plummet. Simgle motherhood will decrease.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:33 AM
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It's not a medical intervention. There is no disease being treated. It's a violation of bodily autonomy that you seem to be okay with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:24 AM
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Forced modifications to peoples' bodies by law is inhumane
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:18 AM
1

CRT is not taught is schools smh. Children don't have the foundation to even understand those topics. The right will find one wacko teaching kids that white=evil, then say CRT is being taught in the womb.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:56 AM
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That's inhumane. I bet you're also pro-abortion. I am, too. My body my choice. Seems like you don't think it should be that way for men, only women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:40 AM
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I'm male btw. I'm not saying it's his fault. But if he got rejected, there has to be a reason. It may not even involve him. But he should assume it does, and try to improve on an area. Could be his appearance, approach, strategy, etc. Because why not? I'd say the same for women that get rejected. If they can't find a guy, or they can't find the right guy, then they should try to analyze why that is, and improve where they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:36 AM
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I disagree. A long time ago, men basically sold their daughters in order to rise up the ranks. Or, they wanted their daughters to live the best possible lives, and since women generally couldn't generate their own success, their fathers tried to set them up with a man that will be or already is successful. I think this mindset carried on to the modern age. Even though women can generate their own success now, most women still can't live independently on their own (note: you need an average of 70…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:03 AM
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Yes, but it's not universal. There are plenty of women who will leave their partner when someome provides a better lifestyle, no matter how long they were with their partner. These women are to be avoided. However, when single, it is natural to try and find the best partner. If she rejects you and ends up with a hotter guy, that's not hypergamy. You just lost. That's ok. Keep trying. If she rejects you but there was no other guy, then in her mind, being single was better than being with you. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:58 AM
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I help my friends. Strangers if I feel like it. If it's something dire but not life threatening I may ignore it. No reason to have this be about gender. Although O will say that I would never give CPR to a female stranger if there were other people around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:02 AM
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They are aggressively filtering out women with social media addiction. Personally I don't care as long as they aren't posting to attract male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:57 PM
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It is not vague, you just didn't understand. I notice how immoral men will claim to be moral I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:52 PM
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You have a misunderstanding of my intended language. Saying there is a trend is not the same as saying all or most of them do it. For example, vaping is a trend among teenagers. This does not mean that all of most of them do it. It's not a generalization. However, it does mean that there is a significant amount of them that do. It's like saying "many" of them do it. However, I sort of did mean most. Most men habe a point where they go after any woman who is available. Most women do, at some poin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:13 PM
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Because plenty of women I meet are not. I immediately start to avoid them when I notice. Plenty of women see men as objects. Tools. Wallets. So they don't treat men like humans. Also some women are very self centered. Main character syndrome. I'm sure someone will bring the "but men!" argument but these are my observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:03 PM
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A group can have trends without being monolithic. You are right though, many men do go after amoral women too. In fact, many men go after almost any woman. I also see this as a problem. However this was not the topic at hand, so I didn't mention it in my prior comment. One important thing to note here is that men who are struggling will look for ways to succeed. If them being respectful, thrustworthy, and solid was successful, they'd do it. However for these men, it doesn't work. When they see a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:00 PM
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It's not that women are amoral. In fact, women are not a monolith. However, there's a trend of women goong after amoral men, rewarding their behavior. I remember my female friends talking about dudes from a certain fraternity, about how all of them were abusers, cheaters, assholes, etc. I asked them how many of these dudes had any problem finding a partner. The answer was no. Meanwhile there are plenty of normal dudes I know at this school that get rejected by every single woman they go for. Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:40 PM
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Sane. Pretty. Reasonably fit. Also I need to be able to spend long periods of time with them 1 on 1. A genuine friend. Trustworthy and consistent. You wouldn't believe how difficult it is to find these types while they are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:35 PM
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I was talking purely about money. When the couple is 50/50 in terms of finances, and they meed both incomes, then the man would probably try harder to make up for it, but that doesn't mean he can. This is why many choose not to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:14 PM
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It's a skill that can be improved upon Which is exactly my point. The dude has to learn. Not everyone is naturally gifted, he may need some pointers at first, especially since women are so varied.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:41 PM
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A man making 38k can't just "work harder" to make more money
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:39 PM
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A mature woman makes an attempt to let the dude know what works for her. A mature woman does not expect every dude to be magically gifted with women, especially when so many women insist on faking orgasms, causing his perception of his own skill to be flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:53 AM
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Millions upon millions of men who are who are 50/50 are already dealing with this. Relationships are not transactional, obviously the dude will try to do more. But then again, whether or not he can is somewhat out of his control.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:42 AM
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I would never. I deliberately choose not to, and I shall remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:19 PM
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His earlier videos, the ones that were directed towards men, were great. Unlike the other youtubers, he dealt with people in the corporate world, not the party world. So his advice was actually applicable to his audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:28 AM
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It's important that we manage our expectations. If we reject the idea of AI giving us good content, that puts more pressure on companies to produce the good content. Don't let pornhub offload the task of showing you some ZZ titties to some AI.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:07 PM
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It will attempt to generate a person based on prior info that is scanned from the internet. We have made significant strides with text generation (as we see with gpt3 and chat gpt) but image generation is still very wonky.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:53 PM
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The woman has her period for the first half of her life. The man has erectile dysfunction for the second half of his life, and people will constantly suspect him of being a sexual predator simply because of his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:50 PM
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There are advantages and disadvantages on both sides, but does one gender have it easier than the other? Imo no.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 07:15 AM
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AI is just a machine model that is trained on data. It can at best replicate what is already online. It's getting better but imo it won't ever be able to produce a watchable porn video. AI is better for data interpretation, and predictions, but not development of new content.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:19 AM
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Many women cringe at reality
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:15 AM
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I said nothing about the men. Literally nothing. All I mentioned was that most men would be happy with a non-fat woman who is average looking and is fun to talk to. I said that because you said most men have extremely high standards. You knew that was wrong, and that I pointed that out, so you generated something else to argue about. The men are not having troubles because of their standards. They're having trouble for other reasons that likely relate to their own incompetence. You literally dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:14 AM
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Which part?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:52 AM
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Hot take: Men don't have it easier than women
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:24 AM
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Most dudes would be happy with a 5/10 who is fun to talk to and isn't fat
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:18 AM
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BASED
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:35 AM
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Well no, my point is that many dudes have no role models within their personal lives. Some dude on TV or social media is just a dude who a man can see as successful. It's way different when you interact with someone in person. Someone who you can't really interact with can't really be a role model to you imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 05:51 PM
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Ok? The fact that Tate can even get the support he does is a reflection on society. To his male fans, he's the only dude in their life that will even make an attempt to help them. The men who have actual role models wouldn't even think about supporting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:38 PM
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Those are not role models that men interact with in their daily lives. Men: We have nobody in our lives that we can look up to. You: What are you talking about? You have Batman!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:57 PM
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Lol a lawsuit from 25 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:00 PM
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Oh cool. From what I can tell, STEM majors have little free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 10:44 AM
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Were you a marketing or business major?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:36 AM
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Bruh 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:36 AM
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Lol no they don't, you have such a negative view of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:31 AM
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A company which is probably staffed by only men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:49 AM
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I meant the women at my school
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:46 AM
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She is totally moving overseas. As in, above sea level. And she is not a vegetable, so she is moving. The excuse works out!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:49 PM
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I get your point, and I disagree with those men. More women in the workplace is a good thing, provided that they meet the requirements of their jobs, which most do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:45 PM
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My school is over 60% male. It's a tech school, so the perception is that most dudes are antisocial shut ins. Personally I disagree with that notion, but that's how people see it. The vast majority of dudes are single, and I'd guess that around 60% of women are single. I have multiple female friends, and one common theme is that they'd like to date, but since they never really ask anyone out, their only interactions with guys is with platonic friends, creeps, and the dudes that approach any woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:26 PM
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If all men collectively took a month off, society would collapse completely. Most people would be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:38 PM
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Statisticallt speaking, women make up 1% to 3% of manual labor jobs. Your experience doesn't negate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:35 PM
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Her silence here speaks volumes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:20 AM
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I can almost guarantee that this will be one of those comments where no woman responds (except for the troll that always bashes men). Women will judge men for ruling women out because of certain things, without even considering why men feel that way. For this example, most men will feel like the last choice, so they'll go for other women that will see them as the best choice without having to get with countless other men first. Instead of accepting that, OP is trying to deny their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:20 AM
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Depends. What is she doing for me? You women never ever mention that. Always about what men cam do for the women, and why they do or do not choose to be good to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:09 AM
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By that logic, every rape accusation is a rumor if they didn't tell you personally or announce it to the media. Strange, if I was talking about how a man admitfed that he raped a girl, would you also say it's just a rumor?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 07:11 PM
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They admitted it to other people, I heard about it indirectly. It wasn't just a rumor. Apparently the logic was that they thought the dudes were gonna do something, so they preemptively reported them. Twice. Then they bragged about getting the last laugh. And yes, they do kick people out without evidence. Plenty of examples of this happening. The parents should've sued though, idk why they didn't. Maybe they didn't believe their sons. And my mistake, it was more of a strong recommendation that t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:59 PM
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I may as well explain the whole story. A group of dudes had beef with a group of girls. Why? Idk. Basically a dude called them cat women or something. Then the group of girls decided to tell the school that one of them was stalking him. The school gave the dude a warning. More drama and long story short the girls accused the dude and his friend of stalking, and they got expelled. Word got out that they lied, and then one of the girls admitted it but tried to justify it. They never really got any…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 06:01 PM
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They admitted it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:47 PM
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I've seen it happen. Some dudes got kicked out of school. Meanwhile it was all fake, the girls felt so food about it too, they loved how they could ruin their lives at will. Psycho behavior tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 04:26 PM
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When word gets around, especially when it reaches the workplace pr school office, it may as well be public. The effects are the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:28 PM
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Ok. Well I will say that while there are cases of accusers being wrongly accused of lying, there are also cases of them getting support from everyone they tell. Accusers are not always met with skepticism, especially when they only tell their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 03:09 PM
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I'm talking about everyday life, not celebrities. Of course, I wouldn't be able to find those situations online at a whim.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:48 PM
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How many men murdered their pregnant partners? And how many men did not murder their partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:26 PM
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Lol no they don't, at least not in all cases. Well unless you're talking about men who accuse womem. But personally I've never seen a woman get flak for accusing someone. They get support from men and women in nearly all cases, unless it's a blatantly false accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:23 PM
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The real damage from those accusations is how people view the accused. The damage can be done without a trial or any legal action.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:16 PM
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Marry a regular dude that makes her life more comfortable, then cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:51 AM
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Have you considered getting a prescription for glasses? I know they're expensive but they really improve your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:50 PM
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US eastern time. 6pm est to 12am est generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:49 PM
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I'd say at most hours there are more women commenting, but during the evening all the redpill dudes show up. So it could be pro-male or pro-female depending on the hour. As for the mods, well, if they don't remove certain posts then the sub will be shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:43 PM
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A vasectomy is often irreversible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:11 PM
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You're forgetting the part where they had permanent reproductive damage. This happened in evert single male BC trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:05 PM
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I agree that the youtubers skew their comtent a certain way. However I don't agree that 1-2 LTRs is automatically a good thing. They could still be getting abused, cheated on, used as ATMs, etc. For a lot of dudes those 1-2 LTRs were with women who gave lukewarm attraction and effort. That's all they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:21 AM
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Because that's the ceiling for a lot of dudes. 1-2 LTRs with whoever meets the bare minimum (sane, somewhat fit, etc), even after significsnt effort. They don't have very many options, so they'll settle for women who may not be the right one for them. Edit: To clarify, this means that over the first 35 years of your life, only 5ish non insane women will ever seriously think about starting any sort of relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:57 AM
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A lot of men are jealous of the options that many women have. As long as a woman is in shape, she can explore her sexuality. Men in the other hand have to be above average in multiple areas, otherwise they get shamed for their sexuality. There's also the fact that many men have bodies that scream at them to have sex every day, which puts this situation at the forefront of their minds daily. Many men think their libido is high because of this, but in reality they are eager to have the chance to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:18 PM
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If you are female, there's a good chance you only talk to men who are somewhat attractive and have little issues dating. This will skew your perception. Only around 1/4 can easily get into a relationship when single. Additionally, 1/4 of men will really really struggle. The average non-obese male (in America) will only have 1-2 realtionships by age 35, maybe a couple hookups over the years if they are a drinker. Their female equivalents will have the option to enter as many relationships as they…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:41 AM
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More likes probably, more validation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:48 PM
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Those who would like to get in a relationship but cannot end up with a decent partner, so they say all men suck. Often they insist that they are happy single, and brag about rejecting men they don't like, talk shit about said men, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:31 PM
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Probably wanted to continue the conversation. Likely wasn't in a rush to get home.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:29 PM
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On cue, they start blaming him for the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:25 PM
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Thing is, there are plenty of women like this, they just never get called out. Lots of women don't see men as human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:23 PM
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No, the girl is just a cheater. Remember, 108% of women cheat. He needs to leave for a women who will cheat later in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:20 PM
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There are two types of women. Sane women, and crazy/toxic women. Doesn't need to be more complicated than that. It's up to men to only select the sane women and completely avoid the others, when looking for a romantic relationship. If you only have a chance at the toxic ones, then stay single or siffer the consequences. How do you filter out toxic women? Simple. Drop them at the first sign of toxicity towards you or anyone else. But remember, it's a filter. Things can still get through, but it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:18 PM
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Millions upon millions of women vote republican every election. Let's not pretend that many women are not anti-abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:48 AM
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But she made the choice to do that, and presumably got the benefits of those promotions as well. And I think you're overestimating her impact on his career. While it is a help, let's not pretend that his promotion wouldn't have happened if she weren't doing chores at home. Not that her contributions are insignificant to their living of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:37 PM
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If the industry did change, then child support payments would be much much larger to account for the lost revenue. I think prenups would be viewed the same. Lawyers would use language that makes it sound bad, so that less people get prenups and more lawyers get money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:54 AM
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How? Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:47 AM
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Oh I forgot. 8% margin of error.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:47 AM
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Not sure where the 50% thing comes from, but yes there are a lot of ifs. In reality, this wouldn't be an option. But imo whoever does have this option would havily consider taking it. But again they'd have to have a partner that they can really trust, and is rich enough ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:46 AM
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I think by default there should be no payments after divorce unless children are involved. I would like to include abuse violence etc but a number of women would lie. But what really matters is that divorce court is a billion dollar industry. That's why all of this exists, and that's why it's not going away. That's why NBA players sometimes have to hand over 6 figures a month hust for one child. It's a system that leaches off of divorced (mostly) men for a profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:42 AM
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But she also made the choice? Lots of women seem to ignore that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:36 AM
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Honestly they often have mutual interests so it's easier to form a friendship. If they're attractive too then they'd be ideal for a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:35 AM
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32% of men cheat, compared to 108% of women. Watch out boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:33 AM
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Well if the wife would be working a shitty job, and the husband has enough to provide for both, then yes many people would do that long term if the partnership was good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:29 AM
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Wdym no one would make? Do you really think that nobody would opt to just chill and pursue hobbies and let someone else handle finances?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:37 AM
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If there are no children then there should be no payment in my opinion. The wife chose to not have a career and to depend on her husband. Even if housework etc was given, that's an exchange. If she provides nothing more then why should the man? I'd have the same view if the genders were reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:23 AM
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People do this because they lack options. It's desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:41 PM
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Career to looks ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:56 AM
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I neve said anything was rare. But all three of the traits I listed are highly valuable. In my experience, many women struggle with accountability, and many men struggle with integrity. Both can struggle with honesty. Having someone with all 3 is attainable but not common enough for them to not be valued highly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:52 AM
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Peak in terms of what? Looks? Highly depends on lifestyle. In terms of desirability to the opposite sex? I'd say that women peak before 25 but that's mostly because they generally look best at that age, and men primarily care about looks. But they can still be highly desirable (to men their age) until their mid 50s if they just keep up their appearance as best they can, ad are pleasant to be around. For men, it depends on income. For women who are not really financially successful, having a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:44 AM
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Really not sure what your point is. The person asked qualities that make a woman good for a relationship, and I gave some.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:38 AM
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Imo having a vagina does not increase integrity, accountability, or honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:51 AM
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Why are you mentioning men? The question was about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:40 AM
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Integrity, accountability, and honesty even in difficult situations. And they must be able to be very consistent with these.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:06 AM
1

Porn does not lower testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:01 PM
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Why is this a question for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:55 PM
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Tinder is 95/5 IIRC
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:00 PM
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I wouldn't say average, but in places like NY and LA it's common.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:58 AM
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Depends. If she becomes a nurse, 1x to 2x initially. MD, well she'll likely start off with 5x to 6x but the career really starts at like 30, the dude will have worked for 8 years helping her with loans and other expenses.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:45 AM
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I think both genders are affected equally. But as I said before, at least with the man he likely has a bunch of highly attractive traits that enable this behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:22 AM
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I'm not talking about the people with 3-9 partners, that's the normal range. I mean the people with 10+ by 21, 50+ by 30, etc. I would advise anyone to stay away from those people if they want a solid relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:16 AM
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That's exactly my point. Her getting around tells almost nothing about her. He could be amazing or horrible. All you're sure about is the downsides of getting around. With men you still have those downsides, but you're guaranteed the upsides of him being an above average dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:04 AM
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In my opinion both cases are the same but in general only attractive dudes can really run up the numbers, so it makes sense why they don't care as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:34 AM
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Women see men who have a lot of sex as just men. They don't realize that for a man to do that easily (that's the key, easily), they have to be significantly above average. So when a dude is getting around, he's likely very attractive and it indicates that he has qualities that excite women. Women on the other hand can run up the numbers whenever they want. So them doing this does not imply that they have a number of attractive qualities. Thus, there are no upsides, only downsides. For women ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:54 AM
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It's just reality, not good or bad. But we do know that they have significantly less choices than their female counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:48 AM
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I would assume that this is due to testosterone. Dudes on SSRIs report significant disinterest in women. Also, women taking medication that boost testosterone ratio report lower standards in selecting a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:47 AM
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Average (in every category) and non-obese men struggle with getting attraction from average non-obese women. They have average social skills, meaning they have male and female platonic friends. They make average money, which is ~50k a year. They're average height (5'7" to 5'9") and have average, unremarkable faces. They can get into relationships, but it is significantly hard for them than it is for their female counterparts, and very difficult in general. The idea that average dudes (non-obese)…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:02 AM
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I don't agree with this "wall" shit, but the main point is that it's about women losing pretty privilege. Most men never have that privilege so it doesn't apply to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:39 AM
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I know, but when I look back they keep staring for a bit. It's kinda weird tbh, I'd rather this not be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:29 AM
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The monkey is committing genocide
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:27 AM
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My linked statistics only showed full time income. The $27k figure includes those who work part time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:51 PM
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Maybe, but women place value in other areas too, moreso than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:15 PM
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Regardless, the vast majority of black men will not end up in a jail in their lifetime. The last time an estimate was done, they guess that 1 in 4 black men born (2001) will end up in jail. An estimate. Meaning even though it was an estimate, 75% will never go to jail. And the median income for black men is 46k, while black women are at 41k. Actually you can read the statistics here, black men beat black women in every category, even the single black men beat the single black women. Lastly, blac…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:09 PM
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Actually this is false. ~30% of men cheat, compared to ~108% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:55 PM
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And shows how racist and sexist unregulated redpull forums can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:54 PM
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According to government data, 1.5% of black people (men and women) were in prison in 2018. So 99% was very close. Regardless, most black men are not thugs, rapists, abusers, etc and they do not go around knocking up women and leaving them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:50 PM
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False only 19% of (US) black people live in rural areas. 40% live in inner city areas, 39% live in suburban areas, meaning close to cities. And btw the whole "inner city black people are thugs" thing is a lie formed by racists in the 70s to justify continued segregation in cities after the civil rights act. And yet black women are so quick to spread these lies about black men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:35 PM
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Most black men are from heavily urban areas, which of course would include inner city areas. Detriot, Chicago, NYC, DC, Atlanta, New Orleans, Oakland, Baltimore, Austin, I could go on and on. So yes these numbers would also reflect the inner cities simply because most black people are in that category anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:15 PM
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Aaaaaaand there's the racial stereotyping. Over 99% of black men have never been to prison. 95% of black men are employed. And as I said, 50% of black men are 100% single and have no children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:09 PM
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Men cheat slightly more than women, just a couple percentage points. Most men (70% to 80%) don't cheat at all. The real question is, why do the cheaters and abusers get so many women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:53 PM
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It is human instinct to detect when someone is staring at them. No idea if they're shooting their shot but I do get a significant amount of stares, has to be some of them at least. Keep in mind that I'm a 6 foot, fit black dude in a majority white location.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:44 PM
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I do though. I know plenty of regular, unremarkable white dudes with white gfs. Most have women that like them for who they are. Not all of them though. But the regular black dudes? NONE have black gfs. Also remember that 50% of black men are single, completely single, and have no children. For black women it's 47%. Plenty of regular black dudes for black women to date and yet black women don't date them. Why do you think that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:41 PM
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In my experience, black women primarily go for high status black men. In school it's the athletes and their friends, or the dude who already of internships. In college it's the same, but also you have the black frat dudes. From my observation NONE of the regular black dudes under 5'10" have gfs. I'm in college rn, at a school where there are so few black people, I know most of them. Almost all of the black women have high status black men, or men of other races.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:23 PM
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Black women just casually say that 50% to 70% of black dudes are terrible and yet complain the black dudes only shoot for hot women LOL Edit: SOME black women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:12 PM
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108% of women cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:26 AM
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You said WHAT about baby mamas?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:59 AM
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It's purge week lol, but yeah some people are just sad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:47 AM
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Lol false, look at like most rich oligarchs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:43 AM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 08:10 AM
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Fat men are also very unattractive. It's just that generally when it comes to superficial traits, men care more about looks and sex appeal, and women care more about money and social status. So it'd be easier for fat men to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:52 AM
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I get that, OP is an idiot no worries lol. I was just pointing out the thing about the statistic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:40 AM
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Not at all. Thicc women, actual thicc women do great. Though that kinda depends on genetics, some people carry weight better than others. I will say though that even with a belly, the belly generally has to be smaller than the hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:37 AM
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Oh ok thanks for the clarification. And you're right. However saying things like "99% of rapists are men" makes it harder for male victims to get taken seriously. That's saying that a man getting raped by a woman is a statistical anomaly, which is definitely not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:26 AM
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Actual rape and sexual coercion numbers are higher "Actual rape" wtf? Are you implying that men being raped is not real rape? How would would you know that women get raped significantly more when there are no ways to get numbers for the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:42 AM
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I disagree, I think that if they recognize that it was bad, and what was bad about it, then they could have a good idea of what not to do. On the flip side, I think that people who come from stable homes may not realize what made things so stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:27 AM
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Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:23 AM
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Which is exactly my point. They made a decision to leave for better circumstances instead of staying with their male loved ones. You can frame it any way you want in an attempt to protet their image but this is what happened. And honestly I'm not even complaining. Eastern Europe is very patriarchal. The women accepting the benefits from such a system is fine as long as they didn't spend all day trying to destroy the hardships of said system. If they were trying to do that, I support them, but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:21 AM
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Yes but is not a rape and therefore is not included in the study that says 99% of rape perpetrators are men. That's my main argument here Anyway reality is that there is no reliable way to determine how much men are raped, due to lack of reporting, and the fact that men are more likely to get laughed out of the police station, than they are to have their case even written onto a piece of paper. We don't know how much men are assaulted, so we accurately claim that women are assaulted at X times t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:10 AM
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I'm just trolling, don't mind me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:05 AM
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Nothing inherently wrong with black women. But in the US, they generally have higher rates of obesity, more debt, and are generally more radicalized than other races. l Also, and this is just my observation, but the ones who are most equipped for relationships get snatched up quickly and generally never not in an LTR. This is the case even moreso than other races. On the flip side, the ones who are least equipped for relationships tend to be very loud, the types to make a scene to roast someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:05 AM
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I disagree. Certain professions are just natirally dominated by men. Most politicians who even try to position themselves to run for office are men. So of course most in office are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:56 AM
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Not in the law: The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim. So women who rape men are not rapists according to the law, unless they use an object like a dildo. So when looking at rape statistics, female rapists are not included, so of course 99% of perpetrators are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:53 AM
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They still were not forced? And many many wives stayed with their families. Also you imply that they had no agency at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:50 AM
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I notice women doing this and I ignore them. The ones who make an attempt at a convo are the ones that get attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:38 AM
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Right now it's 50% trolling, 40% degenerates posting their misogyny and/or racism because this is the only time and place on reddit to do so, and 10% people responding normally for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:37 AM
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No women were forced to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:27 AM
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Support their country
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:26 AM
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99% of rape perpetrators are male because by legal definition you need a penis or similar object to rape someone. If a woman forces a dude to have sex with her and does shove a dildo into him then it is not considered rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:17 AM
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Some women do contribute to rape by raping people, other than that wtf dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:08 AM
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Abandoning a wife and 6 kids??? Wtf how could your great grandmother end up with someone so based?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:03 AM
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Step 1: Deny the results
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:28 AM
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As someone in the younger generation, 99% of dudes do not think like this, it's okay. Even the ones who don't get action don't think like this. The remaining 1% is just very loud online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:21 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:44 PM
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"What do you like most about your deity?" "The part where he got murdered, it was great!"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:44 PM
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I also see that, online. But in real life it's way different. I'm black, and every single other black mathat I've met prefers black women, or initially preferred black women, but were turned away. I think it should be noted that black women often treat black men way worse than they treat men of other races.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:07 PM
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Still date out at like a 15% rate though. Most black men are with black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:55 PM
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Aren't like 80% of relationships ended by women though? Also those are the dudes those women chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:39 AM
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So much today smh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:00 AM
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Not true at all wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:41 AM
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I think a number of women do, but they either get off the market, or maybe they have so many bad experiences so they kinda give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:43 PM
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Well, that's more of a case of the good dude being taken up. That's acknowledging they exist. I'm talking about the women who say that men are inherently bad and that any woman would have the same experience. When presented with an example of a woman having a great experience, their either say the guy an outlier, or the girl is a pickme.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:41 AM
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You can reverse the genders and this will also be true: A woman saying that all men are victims is a way to cope with the reality that she has consistently picked horrible men. I know a girl that has a number of attitudes about what an attractive man is. Height, dick size, money, etc. When she gave me the kist of requirements, I immediately pointed out how none of those items had anything to do with how he treated her as a person. You guessed it, she primarily ends up with fuckbois that quickly …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:02 AM
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I'm not sure if there's any way to prove or disprove that. But I will say that tons of people cheated back then, men and women. When DNA testing came about, there were loads of people that found out that their mother, grandmother, great grandmother, etc cheated. I was just easier for women to get away with it, but men actually fathered children, so it was eaiser for them to get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:27 AM
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But this was true for both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:00 AM
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Why is that relevant? Most school shooters are under 30, does that mean that everyone at school should be wary of people under 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:41 AM
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you align treatment of women to men doing their jobs I did not. I said that the things keeping you out of the stone age are primarily built mostly by men. Regardless of prior barriers for women. I also never said women are incapable of such jobs. My point was, if "men in general" get credit for the rapists and murderers, why don't you go around thanking men in general for you living in modern civilization? The majority of men are normal, nonviolent guys This is what I said from the beginning lma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:04 AM
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Ok but they claim to be pro life and vote as such. Therefore I give them zero sympathy when it comes to their abortion access.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:42 PM
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What pundits? This data was from feminist sources. Also you didn't disprove anything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:41 PM
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When Roe came out, there was a study that concluded that trigger laws affected ~33% of the women in the US, most likely because ~33% of women live in red states that had trigger laws. So therefore ~67% of women were not affected, which is a large majority. That number gets larger when you account for Florida, where you can still abort within 15 weeks. Also, you linked something that was completely irrelevant to my claim. I said lots of women are pro life. As in they voted for these laws, this wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:27 PM
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I'm aware that there are women who can't. I'm just saying that even in these days, a large majority of women still have access. Tbh in red states, lots of women are pro life anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:50 PM
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Well actually only ~33% of women are effected, in America. Of those, many live in Florida which has a 15 week allowance. Also a lot of those can just go to the next state. Still bad for those who can't but, let's be real here, ~85% of women are still able to get abortions without serious inconvenience in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:45 PM
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You bring a number of strawman arguments. I never said we should disregard anything. My point was, you can't say that men as a gender do X, when 99% of men don't do it. So saying that men rape women is just incorrect. You should instead say that most rapists are men. To use something that you said, it'd be wrong for me to say that mothers kill their children. However you already knew to do this, when talking about women. All I'm saying is that you should do the same for men. As for the studies, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:38 PM
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I'd say it has to do with money. Women are the majority of consumers, so companies cater to them. As a result, lots of the messaging and themes will favor women. Growing up as a child, this will have a large effect. This practice took hold in the 70s or so. Before that, I doubt you would have seen this same bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:32 PM
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IIRC a meta-study (I think that's what it's called, they pulled data from like 14 different studies done by feminist organizations) ~6% of men have committed a sexual offense. And no that's not just convictions. That's a lot but at the same time that means ~94% of men are not rapists. Stop generalizing all men based on the actions of a small portion. What they did find, though (IIRC), was that about half of those men (~3%) had double digit victims. Men do not "only" bring up false accusations. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:27 PM
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99.9% of men do not murder women wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:22 AM
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This is just not true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:17 AM
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PPD posts tend to It's entertaining, at least
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:34 PM
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It's beginning the new relationship while still in the old one. The state of the old relationship doesn't matter. But I guess it's good enough for the cheater to not want to leave. I think the purpose is to still pursue the new relationshio while still having the old one in case things don't work out. But if the new one gets stable enough, they leave the okd one completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:08 PM
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My bad I forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:01 PM
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Sorry my mistake I meant set amount, not set rate. So an NBA player shouldn't be handing over hundreds of thiusands of dollars every month. You say you "find it hard to believe" that a woman would leave because a husband is struggling with work. Sounds like: "Yeah that's awful. But there must be something he's leaving out, because no woman would do that generally. Women wouldn't just do that, so he must have done something and mostly likely it's his fault so I wonder what did he do to make her d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:01 PM
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Well it's monkey branching if the new guy is found while she's still with the old guy. No need for the guy to be superior. Or at least I think, I don't really speak this language.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:00 PM
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They absolutely do though. Maybe your life experiences differ and that's unfortunate but this is generally the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:57 PM
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Some men, but yes I agree. I'm just pointing out how being objectified based on gender, and potentially being treated worse because of that, is not by any means exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:53 PM
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Well if it was marriage then perhaps but most people don't marry that quickly. You'd have to ask if they got into a relationship, which requires self reporting. That's extremely unreliable as there are lots of factors. First, did they consider it a relationship? Second, do they remember exactly when it started? Third, if it was a relationship, would they admit it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:49 PM
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I'd say it has more to do with bias. In my example, the girl had a bias towards women. "A woman would never ghost, that's immoral" becomes "well that wone did, but women are mostly above that type of behavior" very quickly. The more you go on, they give you "where are you meeting these women?" to imply that the ghosting is uncommon but those dudes got unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:42 PM
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Yeah republicans especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:38 PM
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In statistics, you can't make those types of assumptions. That would invalidate the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:37 PM
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What women often don't understand is, this is not the default. This is a learned behavior. Most men end up opening up to a woman only for her to either lose all respect for him, or use it against him later. It only needs to happen once for the guy to never do it again. I think this stems from those women, again, seeing the men as objects that should provide status/money, and defects otherwise. Sharing struggles takes them out of the prize category and puts them in the defect category. And from w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:25 PM
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It is impossible to gather statistics on this topic. Your suggested method has a number of flaws. First, them being in a new relationship doesn't necessarily mean that they will marry the next partner. Second, even if they do remarry quickly, there's no way to tell if they knew the person in their prior relationship. "Monkey branching" is a thing, it's not what most women do, but it's enough for there to be a lot of men who are vocal about it. Also I could make the same case about, say, women ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:05 PM
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I don't, I acknowledge that it's just one person. I know other women that probably wouldn't say that, and honestly I'm not even sure she meant it that way, I think she was just a little oblivious in that moment. I've had my moments too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:59 PM
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Yeah I feel like she probably didn't understand the magnitude the draft, but she did understand how pregnancy can be, so she thought it was a fair comparison. A lack of understanding. I don't think this specific case is reflective of women, but in society I notice a general pattern of women only knowing about women's struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:52 PM
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Yeah I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:32 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:22 PM
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If that's how you interpreted that then you need therapy. I think it's fair to expect people to treat others as people and not worthless pieces of trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:21 PM
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19 just like me. I just think she views everything from the perspective of feminism, and since feminism only shows women's issues, she probably has no idea of men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:17 PM
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She does generally lack an empathy for men but is a feminist, so plenty of empathy for women. Funny, the conversation started because she thought being a man was just being a woman but easier lol. It's because she didn't really empathize with things that men go through. It's just like how dudes here think women live life on "easy mode" because they don't understand the struggles of being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:04 PM
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I agree. On the askfeminists sub, I remember a time where someone asked about this. Their response was "well that was a women's group, not necessarily a feminist group" when talking about the situation in India. Another question asked about the UK one, and their response was "well the feminists wanted to focus on X issue first, that's understandable" IIRC. That sub is normally level headed but even they did the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:48 PM
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I forgot the word "should" in there, my bad. They think men's sole purpose is to provide them money and increased social status. The men that do this are real men. These women view the rest of the men as worthless and treat them as such which is the topic of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:42 PM
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I was talking about mainstream media and general society, not this sub. Whenever a tendency of even a minority of women is pointed out, it is dismiss because "well men do this though!" or something. There's generally an "ok but women have to deal with X" attidtude whenever men point out a problem. For example, I was talking with a friend about male issues. I pointed out how in russia the government is literally hunting down men to send them to the Ukraine war. I said "could you imagine the gover…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:38 PM
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Agreed. And I also notice that when they are acknowledged, women typically like to avoid the generalization. It's always "well that's just that one woman over there, most women don't do that" or "well that happened because X" or something. Had a girl tell me that women never ghost, then after each example of a male friend being ghosted, I got "well she probably thought X" or some excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:16 PM
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I mean sure but notice how any criticism of even a subset of women is immediately countered with a criticism of men. Never a simple acknowledgement. Edit: Talking mainstream media, education, etc. It has an impact on how people view gendered issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:02 PM
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IIRC he died from heart complications from his cancer treatment that he had when he was younger. A death at that time after that treatment is typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:36 PM
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Yeah. Basically they'll say that stuff to convince people that they're getting a benefit from watching the program. They say "hit the gym, drink protein" but expand no further. Then they try to "get your mindset right" and that's where they spread they inflammatory opinions and make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:11 PM
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Evo psych is a theory. It could be valid, but there aren't really ways to test it. But it is my belief that those content creators only care about their own profits. If they actually wanted to help people, they'd be making different content. For example, lots of them complain about how women are so superficial but they don't give any advice on how to look better, make more money, etc. The most they'd do is try to sell you something, either a "consult" or some gym plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:33 PM
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Their purpose is to say things that the viewers want to hear, and more controversial things. This makes them more money. Me saying "women are just whores who want to find men that remind them of their fathers" will catch your attention more than me saying "women are just people" would. There are women who say things of this manner about men. But that's more socially acceptable and generates way less clicks, so you won't see them as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:58 PM
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A portion of them, yes. Other oligarchs want women to stay at home and birth more children. Ourncurrent economy relies on population growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:23 PM
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You are correct. I stand corrected.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:13 PM
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Earlier I pointed out how oligarchs are hoarding the wealth, amd that it's not a men vs women thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:58 PM
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Depends on the field. Psychology? Probably. CS? Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:57 PM
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Enrollment is a zero sum game, but education success is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:48 PM
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Not sure what your point is. If a woman is qualified, what's wrong with them getting in?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:24 PM
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This is definitely not a zero sum game. It would be if spors for these majors were capped, but they are not. Both men and women are graduating college at increasing rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:49 PM
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Girls are favored in every level This was true before feminism. All feminism did was give is Title IX. I think that empowering girls will disempower boys when you're looking at relative statistics. But in general, scholarship money distribution is roughly even between the genders. It's just that gender specific scholarships go mostly to women. In STEM fields, men still dominate. Even with the girls only camps, conferences, etc, the best students are still making it in. The rest are, too. There's…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:47 PM
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Giving women a chance at success does not mean that men have less success. It's not a zero sum game. The perception that undeserving women take up spots that would've gone to men is false. And college graduates are 2/3 women? Where are you getting this information? Even if that's true, CS/Engineering are 3/4 male at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:26 PM
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Financially? No. Everyone's wealth is decreasing because oligarchs are hoarding money. Romantically? If you would've had more "success" because women knew less about consent, were forced into being stay at home wives, etc then that says a lot about you. Educationally? Most likely not. How would feminism impact academic sucess? Mentally? Most likely not. Men's mental health is bad everywhere, with or without feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:16 PM
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Sure but imo if you're 300lbs and you can't compete, that's your responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:27 AM
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I'm pretty sure the percentage for guys is about the same though. So of those 1000 guys, 200 of them are not overweight or obese. It's about even in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:19 AM
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Well tbf, this would require the object of your desire to actually be in front of you. For young guys especially this often isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:17 AM
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Attend a STEM school, and major in a STEM field that has good career prospects. CS and Electrical Engineering are good ones. There you will find plenty of partners who also have good career prospects. Literally find a guy you vibe with, make sure he has good grades, and you're good. Dedicate time for both school and interpersonal relationships, this is a great time to work on that balance. Men are generally the same across majors, may as well go to a school that is known for having lots of highe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:31 AM
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The whole idea of it is inflated anyway. Most RP content creators exclusively deal with party girls, OF models, strippers, etc. So in their life, most women ride this "cock carousel" and they tell that to their viewers. In reality most people (men and women) may have the odd hookup here and there. Some people (man or woman) will decide to have more sex befpre finding and committing to a long term partner. There's no real number associated with it, it's just a term that many men use to discourage…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:33 PM
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In poor communities there are plenty of loving husbands who do everything they can and still barely get by. Seems like you've never seen it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:05 PM
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This assumes that "working harder" will ensure an increase in income.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:21 PM
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I'd say that's more about want than need, but I get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:59 AM
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I'd say you have a point about sexual need since men have a more homonal sex drive. Other than that, I'm not sure we have reliable evidence that men want women on an interpersonal level more or less than the reverse. Generally I'd guess that single people over a certain age get more content with it, but women are more likely to be vocal (or respond to surveys, report their situations, etc) in general so more of them would report these things. I have no doubt that there are many women who'd be pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:14 AM
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Men also obviously need women more than women need men This is not true and has never been true, at least at scale. From a financial standpoint, most people need 2 incomes. So at scale, men and women need each other. Only ~15% of men earn enough to meet their needs and have a retirement (~70k), compared to ~9% of women. So technically women have more of a need to find a partner. From a societal standpoint, men do most of the jobs that give us a functioning society. Heat, shelter, electricity, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:09 PM
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Thx for sharing! This is interesting. Seems like he was too shy at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:28 PM
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Eh, no I'm quite young and have never been rejected. I've also never really asked anyone out either lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:26 PM
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Lol @ the personal attacks. It's just that it seems that people generally reject a person because they don't see a good relationship. Was just wondering if people later saw that it would've been a good one. Personally I haven't asked anyone out ever so it wouldn't apply to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:25 PM
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My bad, changed it to all and forgot to change that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:59 PM
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