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CringeButCorrect/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 06:50 AM
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Nope not at all, they want a substantial life improvement, along with partnership
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 10:39 AM
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They're not lol they just do curls now and then. But people here are kinda strange, I think you should only come here for entertainment like me, and disregard these dudes. They'll (hopefully) grow out of this like I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 02:13 PM
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The red pill represents an extreme minority of men. Most men prefer a woman who is at a similar fitness level to them, shares a few interests, and treats them well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:32 PM
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I can see why you think these things and it does sound plausible. I guess this would be the most optimistic view. Then there's the most pessimistic view, that she views the nice dude as "lower" than other guys, so she goes for them first, then him of those don't work out. I think that this depends on the specific girl, but I also think that as a general rule, being nice/caring alone isn't the way to win over a girl, and that you must also be interesting and fun to be around. Being tall helps, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 12:17 AM
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The point is that if you are the "nice" dude in the situation, those women pick other guys over you. Then they settled for you when they couldn't end up with those dudes. It's delusional to think someone should want to be in this position. And this is coming from a guy who doesn't even think nice guys finish last.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 11:42 PM
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I went to school, I knew some women as friends, but since then I haven't really met any. Plenty pf people just don't meet women on a regular basis. Most people go to work and go home every day, and do stuff on the weekends. If your weekend actuvities aren't social, or they're male dominated, you won't meet very many women. It says nothing about a person's social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 07:52 PM
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Very simple. If you work in a male dominated profession, you will barely see any women. What do you do for work?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 06:54 PM
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Not by talking to strangers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 01:43 PM
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I have lots of opinions on this, but I'll just lay out my responses to stuff I've heard The fact that we even have to discuss this shows how hard it is for women No, it shows us that humanity has found a new method of stupidity I'd pick the bear No you wouldn't. If you go out, you probably walk across dozens of random men every day. Of a bear was on the sidewalk you wouldn't just walk past it. I'd pick the bear if it was just me in the forest. Dumbass. And again no you wouldn't. But if you are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 07:46 PM
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Look up "nuke reddit history chrome extension" When you delete a comment it can still be recovered. However if you edit it and then delete it, then it can't be recovered. The extension edits them to some strange sentence (you may have seen them before without knowing) and then deletes them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 05:13 PM
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This has to be a troll LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:57 PM
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Even with those cases the same applies. Becoming successful from the ground up requires a level of dedication that crazy individuals are lore likely to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 09:36 PM
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Most? Hell no. A lot of crazy women will try to take down a man who's achieved something just because they have nothing better to do, and/or want a payout. But at the same time a lot of crazy dudes will end up assaulting a lot of women and get away with it for a while. Given that crazy people are more likely to end up in positions of power, I'd assume that they're usually guilty in these cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:00 AM
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They're the same to me lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 08:39 PM
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I agree. Some people, regardless of gender, will abuse who they can. For women it's typically abusing children or simps. In history it was usually easy for a man to abuse his wife, but that doesn't mean every woman was oppressed by her husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 07:34 PM
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You are correct sorry I misread everything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 06:58 AM
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Not true at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:49 AM
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This was cool of you, and I'm not accusing you of gold digging or anything, but it's different when it's something like med school because there's usually a high paying job at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 05:21 AM
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Nah, it's common. I know a guy that would make sure to fuck entire friend groups. Raw. Those women let him do whatever he wanted, all he had to do was ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:51 AM
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I'm sorry you had bad experiences. But you're wrong, finding a good dude as a woman is simple. First, hit the gym. Then, socialize with men in a non-romantic context. Lastly, pick your favorite dude. I have never seen a woman do this and fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:27 AM
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No it doesn't. Where do you people come up with this stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/24 08:16 AM
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It's not that women don't work, but generally men spend more time working. I don't think relationships are just handed to women but getting into one is way way easier for a woman than a man. All she really has to do is keep a decent appearance and be receptive. A man has to do much more in comparison. Most people work, gym. have hobbies, and still make time to see friends and go out Maybe from your perspective. You're a woman who lives that lifestyle, and most people you interact with also live …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 06:24 PM
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Most young men are too busy working, tbh. Most women here seem to only interact with white collar men. But the rest of the young dudes work 8+ hours a day and are kinda broke. The small amount of free time they have might be spent gaming or at the gym. To make themselves more attractive partners young men think they should go to the gym and/or make more money. The other stuff (treating her right, etc) can't really be done until you're actually in a relationship. Many dudes check out because they…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 04:58 PM
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I assume you're a woman? Because this shows a complete lack of perspective. What do you want young men to do to make themselves better partners? What do you want women to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 09:16 AM
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Both of you are correct actually. Yes, it's statisticslly probable that a woman makes less than her partner. However, many women won't date a dude if he doesn't make more than she does. So, in your opinion, would that qualify as entitlement?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:26 AM
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I think that if they were to meet that man normally, and not on a TV show, they'd be interested. Unless the dude is some celebrity, women often won't openly express interest in a random. Like, imagine showing interested in a guy, then he goes for someone else, and everyone you know saw it on YT. I don't blame them tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 05:17 AM
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I'll use you as an example. You were sleeping with a misogynist. You stopped now, but at the end of the day, when it came to getting laid, he succeeded. You probably know quite a few dudes who were resepectful towards women, maybe even feminists, who you never had any desire to sleep with. So when it came to getting laid, the misogynist was more successful. Now if you keep in mind that many women are like you, you should be able to see why more respectful men say that being misogynist leads to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 10:55 PM
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100% of women get to experience being under 30. They get the chance to find a dude to spend their life with. 7% of dudes are short, always were short, and will always be short. Seems like you're making the false equivalence here.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/24 06:32 PM
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Yeah, but if you don't regularly meet single women in person, through work, hobbies, etc, what do you do? You could pick up a hobby that women like, but then you'd be there just to get women and they'd pick up on that. Maybe it's different for older people but for young dudes, it's hard to meet women because younger people don't solialize like older people used to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 04:58 PM
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So she knew you from high school? That's cool
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:48 PM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:48 PM
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Dating app. If that doesn't work, it's doom. Some people don't understand. It's hard to meet women in person for some men, so they need to go on apps. Apps don't work for most men. The solution is to get ripped and post good photos on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:34 PM
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Remember that after a few years you'll likely never see them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:24 PM
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Men of PPD: How have you gone about inspiring attraction in a girl you've met in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/24 03:23 PM
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That's not really what I'm getting at. Many people here are arguing against feminist ideas. For them to have data, that means that some professors would've had to publish research that goes against feminist ideas. This would be career suicide, so most professors avoid publishing such research. Some studies have been done, but there is a limited supply. This is why lots of dudes here link the same studies. We know that height, income, and social status positively correlate with dating success for…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:11 PM
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She found a way to blame men for womens' problems, on a molecular level lmao. Gotta respect it at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:32 PM
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No. Facebook (Instagram) and Matchgroup (Tinder, Hinge, etc) are responsible for most of the issues. They raise expectations to a level that isn't achievable for most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 08:01 PM
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A lot of researchers in the social sciences are feminists. You won't find very many studies that go against feminist ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:59 PM
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True but if a girl hot with an outfit, she's probably hot without it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:57 PM
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Pretty much.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:57 PM
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I agree. Most men just want you to be in decent shape. You don't have to look like a model or anything. Just have your stomach area be thinner than your hips. That's pretty much the only common standard among men. That's not at all a high standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:56 PM
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Precisely
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:52 PM
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Imo softer/baggy pants (pajamas, sweatpants) make women look more attractive because I just assume they have nice legs. But the hoodie... yeah it can make you look larger sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:51 PM
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I see that but honestly if your clothes are well fitting it doesn't make much of a difference. The only major benefit would be if your clothes hide a gut or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:49 PM
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Some women don't understand that clothing does not make them look hot. Attractive women are attractive no matter what they're wearing. If you wanna wear certain clothing to attract men, wear something comfortable. Never put on nonsense hust to attract men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 07:41 PM
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This is ridiculous. You made me agree with u/TermAggravting8043. Never thought I'd see the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:38 PM
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This is why I just heavily agree with them and go on with my day. "You're right, I don't want to date her because I'm insecure about myself, not because she slept with 30 dudes in the past year."
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 06:32 PM
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I mean techinically speaking it can take one person
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/24 03:26 PM
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On social media
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:57 AM
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I was talking about personality. Also I think it's more like 40%, which isn't too far above the general population.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:42 AM
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I don't think hustling and bustling is too hard for women. I just think that they have more of an option to not do it, so they stop when they get tired of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 05:03 AM
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Dudes be hating on black women. There are tons of pleasant, loyal BW who are a joy to be around, they just don't attract attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 04:58 AM
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I mean they're basically the same to me, but FDS teaches women to hate men, while redpill teaches men to degrade and not have respect for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 06:08 AM
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Then those accounts were probably run by FDS members. Honestly I think you should stay away from that stuff. Just like the redpill stuff it seems plausible at first, then it slowly gets way more extreme and you end up having a toxic, sexist view of everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:52 PM
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Are you ex-FDS? This reads like FDS.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 04:17 PM
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Not at my gym. I can somewhat understand the treadmill, because the section with treadmills gets hot. But I'm mainly talking about the women who go on benches, do squats, etc. At my gym (the college gym) half the women go in a bra.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:35 PM
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Q4W: Why not just wear a shirt at the gym? Why do some women go in only a bra and short shorts?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/24 02:11 PM
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That's my point. It has been developed recently, and for the past few decades, women dominate the social sciences. Most of the information is based on them. Therapy continues to be useless for men, if you were a male who went to a therapist you'd understand. Therapy can help men with some things but depression is not one of them. Neither is self worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 04:04 PM
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I had one but can't find the link. However, it's easily explained. In medicine, most of the information was gathered from a time where only men studied medicine. As a result, most of medicine is based on the male body, male hormone levels, etc. The same applies to mental health research. In colleges, most people studying psychology, mental illness, etc are women. Professors typically survey their students, so most of the data is gathered from women. Most of what we know about mental illness is b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:57 PM
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I don't have a partner lol. Maybe we have different definitions of boring. To me it's just someone who goes through life and enjoys hobbies at home or at common places like parks and gyms. These people don't travel, go to clubs, do drugs, etc. If you can share an interest or two, these people are the best partners as they will be the most stable. Problem is, women tend to not want these guys unless they are super attractive. Men, however, prefer women to be like this. Sometimes these men are lef…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:43 PM
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Most people are boring. Yes you should try to make your partner happy, but life isn't a romcom. A lot of men find their women boring but still love them. Why? Because boring means stable and men love stability. Men and women don't share interests usually. From what I can tell, boring people tend to be the best partners. Men and women. Those who always want the roller coaster tend to be or be with the cheaters, manipulators, and abusers. Men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:21 PM
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Translation for the men who come across this: "You as a man must keep a woman entertained. You gotta be interesting, excitiing, and adventurous. If you don't, we women will divorce you and take as much as we can from you" And then they wonder why less men are trying to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:02 PM
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Therapy is designed for women, not men. Men typically have a negative experience with therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 02:10 PM
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PNC happens because testosterone levels take a steep drop. A lot of the male sex drive is hormonal, and all of those hormones vanish. You are correct, the hormones can cloud thinking. Or more accurately, it can make you have interest when you otherwise wouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 05:24 PM
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Women dominate these movements. They run the studies and lead the organizations. They don't care as much about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 02:15 PM
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It's a mindset, not entitlement
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:55 PM
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This is basically the long way of saying "that's just the way it is, deal with it"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:50 PM
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I've seen posts online, obviously it's not a majority but someone who holds that view will probably call themselves a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 01:49 PM
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There isn't one definition anymore. When someone tells you they're a feminist, it could mean they simply want women to have equal rights, or it could mean they want men to be forced onto labor camps. So many different people call themselves feminists, so the label doesn't have much meaning anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:19 PM
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It wouldn't however that's not the point. When men are forced into fatherhood after consensual sex, women say they shouldn't have had sex. They'd dismiss him just like that. They won't do the same to a woman because they actually will take time to consider her perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:16 PM
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Rules for thee, not for me. Also, many women don't view men as fully human. They don't give the same sympathy to men. They don't think men have the same feelings as women do. You see it on AskMen all the time, women literally go there and discover the fact that men lhave feelings just like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:45 PM
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This is the comment: Yeah, no. Horseshit. Just because women are charged with rape and other sex crimes far less often doesn't mean that they understand or even care about consent from men. Not only does our society not care, but it even rewards women with child support for raping men. How many women care about a man's consent when it comes to being a father? Nowhere does he mention abortion or consensual sex. He's referencing the fact that men owe child support even when the act was not consens…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 02:26 AM
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I agree with you but the dude said that women are giving child support when they rape men, everything he said was in the context of men being raped.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 09:43 PM
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Every wants the ideal. Some of this, some of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:23 PM
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The studies did not only cover convicted rapists, they used reports from men and women to try and estimate how many men have committed any from of sexual assault. The numbers ranged from ~6% to 12%, but the average was 8% IIRC. ~4% committed double digit offenses, and they are most of the reason many women have problems. Contrary to feminist belief, the vast majority of men would never commit a sexual offense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:19 PM
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Oh makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:15 PM
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In his example a woman raped a man, and here trying to defend her and say they are both to blame?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:09 PM
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I don't thinm boys and men don't understand the concept - they don't care False. Rapists don't care. Most men care and are not rapists. There was a meta study done in the late 90s that found that ~8% of men are rapists. Large number. Half of that number is made of serial rapists. It's the ~8% that needs to be looked at, not the rest. When you look at these men, you often find that they are sexually successful without needing to force it. Most women they meet are attracted to them, and they assum…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 02:05 PM
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Tbf I never said that. I know a girl that has a rotation of dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 09:04 AM
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Well some of the money he paid went to the state, he likely pays other taxes anyway, they could hust limit his repayment to the amount of taxes he paid in that tax period, so it'd be more like a tax refund.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:24 AM
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College. Some guys (usually frat dudes or athletes) have a literal rotation of women. Some of the women try to "lock him down" which makes no sense to me but whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:22 AM
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Ture but when the guy has a harem, girls will either admit it or call it a situationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 03:19 AM
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There are women who prefer to have a partner to build a relationship with. There are other women who would rather be in the harem if a rich or high status dude than be in a committed relationship with a regular dude (they usually call this a situationship). The latter tend to be louder and more visible than the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:54 PM
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No, but I think that if they were given child support payments, they should owe it back, or at least the man should get something from the state.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 03:52 PM
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Depends on the field. In CS, it's basically impossible to network. If you're a wealthy business major, you'll likely get a boost. LinkedIn is awful for networking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:35 AM
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The problem with therapy is that the research behind it was primarily done on women. You hear feminists complaining about medical research being male focused, it's the same with mental health being female focused. Things that work well on women do not always work well on men. Also most therapists are women, they can't truly empathize with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:28 AM
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Cap. Most people on the planet have a BMI under 22, most people do not make $100k USD.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 09:25 AM
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Whenever a man talks about a negative experience he's had with a woman, other women love to come out of the woodworks to give that woman the benefit of the doubt. "You probably did something to deserve it" "There must have been some reason she did that" "She could've been going through something" Yet you never hear this stuff when a man does something awful to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 02:35 PM
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I seriously doubt most men do zero housework.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 12:55 PM
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It will be, yes. Although I'm just getting out of so it will be my first actual city experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 11:57 AM
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Rooting for u
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 02:27 PM
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Lmao no, they are not all the same. They are less varied than men generally, and they do tend to follow trends more, but every woman her own circumstances, desires, opinions, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 11:34 AM
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White women will fuck black men but won't bring them home Yeah I feel that, I'm not looking for hookups really so I'm out of luck lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 11:48 PM
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Yeah it's great meeting people and stuff, people here are chill
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:29 PM
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Thanks man. On the bright side, I have female friends so at least I know how connect with women. It's just... everyone is taken. But still plenty of friends to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 10:04 PM
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There are other colleges but they aren't close enough. The women there are easier to daye but you need a car to drive up there, plus you'd have to rely on apps to meet them anyway. Plus I'm black and it's a white area, so most girls are white girls who probably would rather date a white dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 08:06 PM
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I'm in college but I graduate soon, after in June I will have a very good job and I'll be in a city with more women. My current school has 3x as many men as women, so dating is rough here. Never really got the college dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:56 PM
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You made a generalized statement before though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:50 PM
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That's the thing though. I'm not really driven to get a woman. I don't like very many people. Typically when I meet someone I like on a personal level, they're already taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:49 PM
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Lol nothing, whatever happens happens. Women would rather date other dudes and that's that. If one wants to date me and I like them I'll see where it goes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:28 PM
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That in no way means that people only want to do anal when the other person doesn't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 07:26 PM
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Not really. OP never said it's appealing bc the other person doesn't want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:48 PM
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Some people, yeah, but there are a variety of reasons someone could want anal.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:42 PM
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They probably married for superficial reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:38 PM
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I think this is the wrong angle to see it. If you want to do something with them, and they don't, then that's that. But, if they enjoyed doing it in the past and they don't want to with you, something is up. You can try talking about it but they may not give the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:37 PM
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That is... an unhealthy way to view things lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/24 10:33 PM
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Imo alcohol is a huge factor. I've seen people age throughout college, it's crazy. I think people who drink and smoke a lot will look much worse than people who don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 12:35 PM
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Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:51 PM
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It's the same on men, mens' clothing isn't made to fit on the body like womens' clothing is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 08:50 PM
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For mobility and durability. Nobody has junk that big lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:55 PM
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Makes sense. Though I'd like to point out that they scrunch up for men too, we just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:15 PM
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Then why don't they buy pants that have pockets?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:11 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:08 PM
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Most mens' pants aren't made to be worn at the waist. Why not just wear them at the hips?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:08 PM
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How do they not fit right? Sure women have a slightly larger waist but you can hust get a larger size. Do you mean they're not as tight? They aren't that tight on men either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:07 PM
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My guess is that they want the pants to be thinner to show more curves, pockets (at least good ones) are kinda thick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:05 PM
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But like... then it's your choice? You choose appearance over convenience. No reason to complain about lack of pockets.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 07:04 PM
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If women want pockets, don't they just buy mens' pants?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 06:23 PM
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lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 09:53 AM
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Most dudes have a job and are generally well behaved. However, most dudes are 5'9" or shorter, not comedians, and do not make over $60k.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 08:43 PM
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Also, their friends who tell them they did nothing wrong are making the situation worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 03:03 PM
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Women should date and marry dudes who treat them well and have integrity.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 02:57 PM
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Of course. It's cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:50 AM
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Yeah and then some dudes get muscle and see no difference. Imo outfit is much more important, and it's easier to dress well if you have muscle, just like it's easier for women with better figures to dress well.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:44 AM
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Well lots of people aren't mentally sound. Jacked is an extreme but there are dudes that think being 5'9" and not muscular is a death sentence in terms of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:37 AM
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Most women who say stuff like that don't know the difference, they think they can boss a dude around, not compromise, etc and that men should deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:26 AM
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Forms of cope from men: "I'm 5'10" and women only like 6'2" guys, this is why I can't get any relationships" "I'm not jacked so women don't want me" "I'm not rich and all women want rich dudes" All 3 are cope, they completely ignore the fact that men in similar positions succeed all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:25 AM
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Forms of cope from women: "He left me once he started to succeed" "He isn't responding because he wanted to pump and dump" "He's afraid of being with a strong woman" All 3 assume that she did nothing wrong and the fault was with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 10:21 AM
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The latter. I think a lot of men here don't engage with women platonically, so they get their views from women they date, or from female infliencers. Both are putting up a facade to an extent, so it's not a good idea to assume that you can learn about women from these women. Also, level headed women don't tend to interact with lots of single men, and also be single for long periods of time, unless they don't want a relationship or something. So generally lots of single dudes don't actually inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:36 AM
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IME most women don't have high standards, they just pretend to. But at the end of the day they date who they feel like dating. They may have some idiotic preferences sometimes though. Like salary, for example. Some women want men who make over $150k. For what reason? The vast majority of men make under $70k, why does she need double? But at the end of the day it's their choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 06:15 AM
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I wouldn't say I find men more interesting, it's hust that I come across more interesting men than interesting women. I'm sure most women have the opposite experience, but this has been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:36 AM
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It really does, especially as a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/23 09:35 AM
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Well those are the reasons commonly cited, and the one about them having more options and therefore being more likely to cheat seems to be the most common. Women feel like they can't keep a man that has that many options, even though they can. The other person said there doesn't have to be a reason though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 07:41 PM
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Generally I would agree with that kind of logic but in this case I don't. Straight women are attracted to men. Bisexual men are men. If women are attracted to men, but not bisexual men, then by logic there must be something about bisexuality that makes them no longer interested. It can be because they think they'd be incompatible, but that itself, though still very vague, is a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 06:14 PM
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I feel like most men would find issue with the casting couch if they actually looked into it. But most men, upon hearing it, probably think of the porno series and nothing else.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:43 PM
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One thing to point out is the fact that those cases of abuse were probably events that occured a small number of times, and the other stuff seems to have been a constant in her life. I don't mean to downplay abuse, but I can see why someone thinks that things that happen more often have more of an impact.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:38 PM
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You said they don't like bisexual men because they don't like bisexual men. Did you mean to type something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:32 PM
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As women we can't compete You can, generally, you just choose not to. just isn't that interested in having a conversation with YOU Of course. That's just the way it goes. Some women are, others aren't. I have no problem talking to people, men and women. I just find that my conversations with men are better, usually. I chat with women to, it's just that interacting with new men is generally a better experience than interacting with new women, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 05:24 PM
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Men on this sub are not a good representation of the general population. Men do enjoy sexual variety, but that does not mean they'll cheat on partners that they are in committed relationships with. Again, women and men cheat at the same rates, so why are men called the disloyal ones? Also, the most powerful men in history generally had more than one partner, yes, but this also applied to their queens. Even today, most of your famous people, men and women, are not monogamous.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:33 PM
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Bi women complain that lesbian women lose interest upon finding out about their bisexuality. Some lesbian women hate men and as a result they dislike women who like men. But I'd guess for the most part it's because they don't want to compete with men for a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:22 PM
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I would not say that men are naturally disloyal, or that they only want relationships for sex. Sounds like misandry to me, tbh. Women cheat just as much as men, generally. In younger age ranges, where men are at their peak levels of testosterone, women cheat more. Men are people too, men generally want intimate relationships with people that care about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:20 PM
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Why would you say it's easier to find a decent woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:11 PM
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I agree. I'm at a college with way more men than women, there are plenty of women that are great to talk to and be around, they're just all taken lol. It's the single ones that are harder to talk to.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:10 PM
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I'm not in a relationship but if I was, I wouldn't own a child beauty pageant and go backstage where underage girls don't have all their clothes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:06 PM
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The problem with the casting couch is that it's predatory in nature. Usually the actresses are very young, sometimes even underage. The movie dudes would be 50+. Then there are the issues of them being recorded, doing acts they otherwise wouldn't do, etc. It was a sexist, predatory barrier for women in that field, and it was unfair because the male actors didn't have to have sex with someone 30+ years older than them to move forward with their passion. The entire practice is disgusting, the fact…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:05 PM
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I love how men's preferences in the areas of sex and relationships are always seen in a negative light by women. Anyway, they're cool with dating bi women because bi women are still seen as women. Women see bi men as sexual freaks. Women are just more biphobic than men. Lesbians are known to dislike bi women, and straight women are known to dislike bi men. Gay men generally do not care if their partner is bi, same goes for straight men with bi women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:00 PM
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So if you were a bi dude (you could be rn, idk), would you rather date someone who puts in effort and is interesting by default, or someone that waits for you to prove yourself to be a "good man" before doing so?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:56 PM
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Agree with everything you said. I feel like one of the main reasons women hate bi men is because they feel like they can't compete. Tbh they probably can't, men have higher sex drives and are generally better at conversation, and probably share more interest. Other women are hard to attract, but other men probably aren't, so the woman would have to actually put in effort. Many women are ok with this, as it's their default, but many women aren't.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:51 PM
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Dating men is way easier than dating women, according to what bi people (men and women) say. I'm a straight dude so idk if it's true. As a man, men are just way easier to talk to and generally have more interesting things to say. Many women I talk to can't really hold a conversation, I try to ask about their interests or current events and it's just short answers. They generally don't make jokes that I find funny. That's random women though, it doesn't apply to women I know personally though. Bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:12 PM
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Did you measure? Only about 3% of dudes are larger than 7, and just over 1% have 8. If this is true then it's 100% coincidence, in fact it's a statistical anomaly. Also I'd like to point out that many women seem to overestimate penis lengths. There are even studies. Girl thought I had ten, she said she'd been with a guy that had 7 and it was way smaller, which given my measurements should not be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:15 AM
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I would 100% percent trust my male friends in a room with my 15 year old daughter, if I had a 15 year old daughter. I am not friends with predators.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 12:05 AM
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Well yeah but it's an event instead of an activity, it's basically a beauty pageant but for body building men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:34 AM
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Based on beauty/looks, basically. Whoever can have the most impressive muscles. The contestants stand there and do poses to flex their muscles, and judges award points.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 11:20 AM
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Basically it's a competition of who can have the biggest muscles or best muscle ratios.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 08:01 AM
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If you trued to find it, and couldn't it's because I had a typo, it's Mr Olympia, it's the event that Arnold Schwarzenegger competed in to get all his fame. If you've ever heard lifter dudes talk about CBum, Ronnie Coleman, etc then they're talking about the event. It gets millions and millions of views yearly.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 01:35 AM
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I somewhat disagree with this. There are similar male competitions, one that comes to mind is Mt Olympia. The dudes get up there and flex. If beaut pageants that women choose to participate in are objectification, then Mt Olympia is too, and this is not a gendered issue. The real issue would be child beauty pageants imo, but usually the rich are involved so those aren't going away.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:48 AM
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Women will likely gain nothing from being in relationships with men who say they are "used up" after 25. Well, maybe they can get some money. Most of the time, the dudes who say this are single, or they are very rich/attractive enough for women to not care when they say these things. So maybe they'd get good sex or money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 03:08 AM
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Imo it's best that you are friends with your partner. I see a partner as a friend that you can really trust and are sexually attracted to. Imo the people who don't need friendship from their partner are either superficial, have low self esteem, or are just plain stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:08 PM
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Almost half of married couples don't have male breadwinners Half of all marriages end in divorce though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 10:06 PM
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As with any advice, it only works if they are already attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 10:47 PM
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Victim blaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 10:54 AM
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Telling someone that you are on BC, and they they don't need to wear a condom, while not being on BC
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:48 AM
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One downside is the government has DNA data, which they may end up giving to private companies, it's kind of a huge security risk. But other than that you're right.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 09:51 AM
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I know a woman that will talk shit about a guy for months, explaining in great detail about what she didn't like the guy and why she would never date them. Some girls would post the guy on social media to make fun of him. "This loser really tried to date me" posts. This is just one woman but from what I can tell, most single women usually tell a bunch of their single female friends when they reject a guy, and usually some consensus is reached, like "yeah I wouldn't date him either"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:24 AM
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You are right, in a long term relationship it's basically saying "I think there's a chance you cheated so I'd like to confirm that you didn't"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 12:08 AM
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Men do care as much about romance but it's an unrealistic demand. Almost zero women are as romantic as men in the initial stages, the best men can do is give most of the romance early and hope it is reciprocated later in the relationship. By romantic I mean doing things to make the other person's day, buying gifts, taking the other out to nice dinners, etc. Women will do other things but generally speaking most men won't get much romance in like the first month from most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:59 AM
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A bit late to the party here but I disagree. Aside from richer men, men have to work really hard for almost everything they get. Women do to, but they don't have to work as hard to have a fun, fulfilling romantic life. Women have it better in many aspects, especially dating. Men have it better in career. It's easier to get respect, because you don't have everyone assuming you're a token hire, you slept your way up, you're only here because you're a woman, etc. But safety is worse, statistically.…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 05:53 AM
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For men, most people won't care about their problems, so they just deal with it or try to fix it ASAP without really telling people. Nobody will give them validation on most things, in general. For women, people care more about their problems, so when they tell someone, they won't get the "well deal with it" response. People are more likely to empathize with them. If a man did the same thing, he'd be more likely to receive negativity, indifference, or cruelty. In general.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 04:13 AM
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Seems like it worked for a significant period of time though. I'm more like guy A and I haven't even come close to an ltr like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:53 PM
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Spot on
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:35 PM
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Why don't people ever say this stuff about female celebrities? Just like male celebs, they often leave their first partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:20 PM
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Ladies, when a man gets sexually harrassed/assaulted by a woman, or even a man, the WORST thing you can say is "now you know how women feel"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:16 PM
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She did tho, they talked about it as a couple
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/23 02:27 PM
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Answer: If women aren't approaching you, and you want a gf, you have to approach a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 06:25 PM
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I agree that some women do it, but most don't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 05:24 PM
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Usually it's women who aren't really into sex wouldn't mind their partner getting it from somewhere else as long as the relationship stays solid, there are no STDs, there aren't any children made, and she doesn't get embarassed. You see this more in Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 11:04 PM
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Disagree, though I do notice that some women have a constant desire for male attention, they like having orbiters and/or a bf who simps. These women use men, and should generally be avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:18 PM
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I agree with you, I'm just pointing out that this stuff never seems to come up when it's a man doing wrong. Let's take sexual assault against women for example. Do women usually bring up the fact that male sexual abusers were usually sexually abused during their childhood, often by women? Have you ever brought this up?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:40 PM
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Burnout? I just think that abusers are shitty people. Burnout wouldn't make a good person an abuser. When women show malice, society likes to bring up things like burnout, stress, etc. Your comment is an example of that. You see it on reddit all the time. When a woman makes a post about problems with her man, every tells her that he's an asshole and that she deserves better. When you flip the genders, people basically just ask "well have you tried making her life easier?"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 09:26 PM
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the person most prone to abusing a child is often the mother's new boyfriend Actually this is false, it is the mother. Women engage in more child and elder abuse than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:17 PM
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I agree that it is ideal to have a great partner but not everyone can have a great partner, being alone is better than living in a spiral of failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:23 AM
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I haven't had a good laugh in a while, thank you for this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:53 AM
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That's just cope tbh, as a woman you just have to not have rolls and rolls of fat, and even then you'll have men that are still attracted.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:42 PM
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Because one is cheating, the other is cuckoldry which is like a higher level of cheating. In one case they're just having sex, in another they had sex and they're trying to make someone else raise another man's child as if it's their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:40 PM
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Women scaremonger women about being old and alone, too. Men do it to men and women, women do it to men and women. The truth is, being old and alone is generally seen as a poor outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:37 PM
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Imo porn doesn't affect men's standards that much. If it did, men would only be attracted to like 5% of women, which is obviously not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:35 PM
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Should be obvious, it implies that your partner thinks there's a possibility that you cheated on them. It's like your girl said "hey can I check your phone to make sure you're not cheating?" but more extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:32 PM
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Men aren't cleaning up in dating by running around spilling drinks on women Never said they were. I said that those men who women regarded as assholes, were successful in sleeping with women. If they aren't into you, then they aren't into you What happened to "Women do in fact like to be treated well, and are attracted to being treated well"? I never said that being nice should get panty drops, and I never said that being a jerk is men you get women. I just provided counter examples to the claim…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:28 PM
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No I've heard my female friends go on and on about assholes that treat women like shit. I've seen it myself, guys spilling drinks on fat women and such. They either had a gf or some kind of harem. Also, I'm nice to the women in my life. I treat them well. Not in a doormat way. People (men and women) say I'm a funny and cool guy. Nothing I do works though. What you're saying literally goes against my lived experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:00 PM
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Also, when you come to America, make money, and then go back to India, you are now rich. Making 100k as a software engineer in America is equivalent to making 800k in India. Not exact numbers but you get the point. The guy was a rich guy when he went back to India.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:19 PM
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Seems to be a common theme in this sub, they never respond to the comments that genuinely refute their claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:16 PM
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In my experiece, jerks are almost never single. They always have a gf or multiple women chasing after them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:08 PM
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Makes sense. I agree with some of your points here, most trafficking starts off as some person asking a girl to do modeling, then it escalates. However there are cases where women are basically kidnapped. Usually happens outside of the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:48 PM
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I don't have much to say about the post itself, I'm just wondering why you made this post. Was there nothing else that you wanted to do with the time it took you to type this out?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 06:49 PM
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Reaching peak physical condition takes years of intense training. Shaving, skin care, and makeup take 1-2 hours.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 04:03 PM
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There's like 10 of them here and they all have bfs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:46 PM
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I'm from a black area, but I go to school in a white area. Night and day difference. Most people want to date within their race. If you're a black dude in a white area, unless you look like a male model, most girls don't want to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:21 PM
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There are two factors. There's your mental, this is how much you are interested in sex itself. Then there's the physical aspect, your hormone levels. Men have a significantly higher physical sex drive than women. When that is taken away, they have the same sex drive as women. But in general men have a higher sex drive than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:39 PM
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Just another case of a woman saying she knows more about being a man than actual men. The average non-overweight man who has an active social circle still has a hard time attracting women. This is reality. This man has male hobbies that women generally aren't interested in. So when he meets with a woman, unless they share some common interest, he has nothing to talk about. The women in his life are usually not single. Nearly all women primarily go for above average men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 12:37 PM
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15%, 3 in 20 are awful. 12 in 20 are just normal dudes, 5 in 20 are amazing dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 10:51 PM
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I disagree. I think that for women, there simply isn't much pressure to make money, so they don't. You have a lot of women that don't date but also don't try to make more money. They just do the bare minimum to survive. This is why they are fine with choosing a marketing major and working a reception desk job. Men know that they have to make money to be accepted in life, so they try harder to do so. This is why men make more money than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 07:24 PM
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That's awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:40 PM
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I am not saying that it is not an awful situation, it is indeed a very bad thing. Also, I was comparing it to conviction, not accusation. Conviction will likely ruin your life. In some cases they get very light sentences, but in most, they spend decades of their life in prison. Were any of those 4 rapists convicted?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:39 PM
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In that case then many men get sexually assaulted and are required by law to pay for it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:29 PM
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Dumb answer tbh. We are talking about a crime here. What happened before the crime is irrelevant. Would you say this to your own daughter or sister?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:05 PM
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Between 2-8% of rape accusations are false Actually, 2-8% of legal accusations are proven false in the court of law, and many of these are determined to be false after the accused has spent years or even decades of their life in jail. 8,000 men's lives are destroyed is more important than 200,000 women's lives who were destroyed It's not the same. If a women has been assaulted, and she comes to the court of law, she has already been assaulted. From the standpoint of the law, the goal is to lock …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:00 PM
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The ones who do maths with things like height etc typically aren't good partners anyways. They like the idea of having a bf with certain traits, but they'll see their bf as an achievement that they earned, rather than a person to build a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 05:33 PM
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I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:54 PM
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In my opinion, men aren't legions of trash. This is just casual sexism that women are ok with. For this to be true, either women are of better dating/relationship quality than men, or there are also legions of trash women. Imo this is just an excuse to be shallow, the logic is that most men are trash so as a woman you gotta pick the hot ones and hope you get lucky. Of course, this will make dating hard, but this is self imposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:53 PM
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It is my opinion that dating will always be difficult for most people. The easier it is, the more higher you'd aim, which would make things hard instead of easy. This is why many very attractive women say dating is hard for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:45 PM
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I have seen this play out, but I wouldn't say it is all women. Plenty of women just pick the dude who they enjoy being around, and position themselves to be asked out. This guy is their top choice, but not necessarily the best dude around in all cases. If your argument is that they choose their #1 choice first, then, well that's obvious, everyone does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:29 PM
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yeah makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:36 PM
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A bit off topic but how many women make their men feel protected?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:58 PM
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If not being approached means being invisible then 90% of men are invisible to women. Have you tried asking anyone out?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:36 PM
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Huh? Not sure what you're going on about. No revenge fantasies over here.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 07:03 PM
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My understanding is that the "nice guy" hate is for those who aren't actually nice. There are 3 types of (chronically single) nice guys. First, the dudes who claim to be nice because they have never abused a woman before, when in reality they would if given the chance. Often they have red flags, they just don't realize it. Second, the dudes who try to use niceness to generate attraction. Sometimes they get bitter when it doesn't work, and things take a turn for the worse. Third, dudes who are ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:29 PM
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Makes sense, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:22 PM
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To clarify, how would you give dating advice to one of your friends, when you dislike the methods that seem to be the most successful?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:16 PM
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Make sure I'm in shape. After that, join mixed friend groups, pick the guy who I like the most, and ask him out. Though I'd make sure not to ask out super popular dudes who get attention from lots of other women. Plenty of dudes who are cool but don't get much attention for whatever reason. I'd get to know him first so I can check for red flags, then I'd ask him out. I'd stay off of apps unless I knew literally nobody. Also no bars or clubs. At college, no party dudes. Also I'd ask my taken (fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:15 PM
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Q4W: I have plenty of female friends. The few who are single love complaining about how certain men, try to get dates, laid, etc. Usually from a moral standpoint. Thing is though, their methods are more successful than mine. They get laid, I get friends. If you were one of my friends, and you also don't like the methods of those dudes, what would you tell me?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:06 PM
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Brown guys do not prefer white girls. Statistics overwhelmingly show that brown guys go for brown girls at over an 80% rate. Tbh this is just cope. The truth? Most men of any race prefer women who are fit. If you're 5'4", you should be 140lbs or less. For brown women at that height, the average is 180lbs and yet the men still go for them at over an 80% rate. If you are an in shape brown woman, you are actually in more demand from brown men than the equivalent white woman is from white men. Brown…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 05:02 PM
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If we are gonna look at men with poor relationship outcomes and say they deserve it, we should also look at women with poor relationship outcomes and say they deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:50 PM
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I'm not a red piller, but the average young dude is actually single, not in a relationship. This average dude can get laid once or twice a year but can't get genuine desire. Once he gets older, he will have an easier time with 30s women because all of their options ran out and it's time to settle. This isn't my view on things but this seems to be the RP stance on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 07:58 PM
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Childfree women? Whatever, their choice. Infertile women? Wtf???? The nerve of some people, smh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 10:39 PM
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Most studies have ~30% of men cheating and ~25% of women cheating. Even in the study you linked, in the dating age ranges, men and women cheat at similar rates. The larger differences are among the older generations, and honestly they aren't very relevant to these discussions anyway, since they dated and married in a completely different society. Judging by the study you provided, newer generations of women are starting to cheat more than their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:46 PM
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Why is this always brought up as if men and women don't cheat at similar rates?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 07:26 PM
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I would only take if there were no significant side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 12:21 PM
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There have been multiple studies on this. They've done experiments on grading, for example. When they took the names off the essays, boys performed as well as the girls. When the names were on the essays, girls performed better. There's also the ADHD situation, lots of female teachers mistake young male traits for ADHD, leading to boys taking drugs that they don't need, and messing up their brain chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 04:36 PM
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This dude dated in a time where you could go to the mall and find a woman to date, without needing an app. Usually when short dudes say dating isn't/wasn't hard, they're over 50, hispanic, or they use drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:40 AM
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Back then, a girl wouldn't be laughed at for dating a dude that's 2 inches shorter than her. Nobody ask her why she chose a manlet. Your experiences don't align with many of the dudes on this sub. You got to date before social media and metoo changed everything. I saw this with one of my female friends. 2 dudes approached her the same way. One was 6 foot, the other was 5'6, otherwise they looked similar. Guess which one was creepy and which one was cute?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:35 AM
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Days later, I offer this. When a woman complains about the "deadbeat" dad, asking them why they chose to have a child with the dad is holding them accountable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 02:03 AM
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Was this in the 80s?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:57 AM
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If you are over 40 then your dating experiences are vastly different than most people here. I'm 20, most 5'5 dudes I that I know are single, the ones who aren't were football players in HS. Social media made womens' standards skyrocket, they see a bunch of other girls with 6'3 studs and they want one too. Not all girls are like this but most would only date a dude if he was at least 5 inches taller. Women absurd reactions to dudes asking them out is popular, and it's worse for short people. I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/23 01:13 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 02:06 PM
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He asked that to initiate a conversation. He probably doesn't care much what your career is. Generally men don't care about a woman's career because it is usually of no benefit to them. Men know that when a woman starts probiding for a man, she loses attraction and leaves most of the time. So often the more you make, the more pressure there is on him to be high earning. The guy was hosting a conference so I'm guessing he's pretty well off. Would you even date him if he was a school teacher makin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 04:05 AM
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It also weeds out the guys who have enough self respect to not date a woman for a month while she's sleeping with other dudes. If he never finds out that's also a bad thing. Think about it, would you want to date a guy who's saying they want a serious relationship with you, but is also sleeping with other women, and more interested in sleeping with them than you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:21 PM
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If he is only after sex, he will likely not wait This is just false. Men who are only after sex often will wait. And while they wait, they'll be getting with other women as well. Here on reddit you see it all the time. Guy dates a woman for 3 months and then once they have sex they bail and she's upset. Waiting only weeds out the more impatient guys tbh. OP, If you're reading this, this is why. This misconception is why women do this. They think it helps them weed out dudes who only want sex, so…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 11:44 AM
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This is absolute bullshit lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 12:53 AM
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Disagree. Women generally put more effort into appearances. So if you are using appearances as a judge of competence, then it would seem like women are outperforming men in most areas. Not only is it all girls in my interview This means nothing except the fact that the company is trying to hire a woman. Honestly, this all reads like you're a privileged bay area college girl, and that is not an insult. You seem to lack perspective. Most young people are broke, they don't have money to go to maste…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 10:24 PM
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dress better costs money have some fun hobbies fun according to who? stop being a pussy depends on what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:30 PM
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I'm also at college. Most people are overweight. Nerd school though, people stay inside instead of touching grass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 02:25 AM
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As a young dude, most younger women that I see are fat. One the reasons why I don't date much tbh. This also applies to men though. I think it's an America thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 10:51 PM
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This is absolutely not true lol, at least in most parts of America. The average woman is 5'4" 170lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 09:12 PM
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Thank you for your service. We probably don't agree on many things but the stuff here is valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:15 AM
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Disagree, the biggest problem is the perception that everyone will magically find the perfect person for them. It's easy for men to realize how false that statement is, but it's not as easy for women, because their friends often say it's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:35 AM
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Brought up the topic of consent. Some may take it to an extreme but we really have made progress. The concept of coercion is something that people are aware of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 06:28 AM
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Idk, but I don't really subscribe to the red pill, I think it has some good points but it's mostly a bunch of generalizations that are worded in a way to get attentian and views. But I know plenty of women that fit some of their stereotypes. It's just that these women are a specific subset, usually women that have mental issues, narcisism, pretty privilege, and/or a lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:40 PM
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Not a red pill dude but I know plenty. I'd say that most women don't do it, but often times the very social women do. These women are easier to notice so it may seem like most do it, but most want one guy, and to be off the market. Also, you'd be less likely to see this happen in college. In college, finances are not a factor. After college, unless the girl makes over 60k or something, she will have to factor that in. If she got a very low paying degree, she'll likely need to pair up with someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 02:54 PM
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I should have been more specific, but I meant that roughly 50% of women would cheat on a man given certain circumastances. Not necessarily that 50% of women are cheaters. My female friends are mostly non-cheaters, but when it comes to women I know or heard of, 50% cheat. This has been true wherever I went. I think that the real percentage is 30%.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 05:51 AM
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I agree! Say it louder for the women in the back
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:12 PM
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I'd find it strange to primarily get info about women from men instead of using my own eyes. The views I have are from my own observations, also from what women have literally told me. When I say that 50% of women would cheat, it's because of how many women I've seen do it, not because some redditor told me. But that make women look bad so in comes the denial.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:49 PM
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The topic was legislation though. Also, most of the (TV) media in the US is owned by conservatives, so I'm assuming you mean social media? In that case, there's plenty of extreme stuff out there, the platforms are specifically designed to show you the more extreme stuff so that you get positively or negatively engaged. That's one reason why conservatives would see more pro lgbtq ads. That's also why lots of red pillers see extreme feminist content.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:59 AM
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Assuming you're talking about the scholarship part, it only makes sense. If everyone gets the same amount of money, but there are more women than men, then of course women as a whole would receive more scholarship money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:52 AM
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These laws were not introduced recently, they were introduced centuries ago. So how is the left pushing anti male legislation? When it comes to scholarships, although 10 of 11 (I think) gendered scholarships go to women, when you factor in all scholarship money, it's only slightlt in favor of women, which is expected since most college students are women. And honestly, I think you may be assuming all leftists are feminists. That may apply more to people on the far left but generally the dems don…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:48 AM
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"Me and you should do a natural join" "I hope you like python and bash" "I work at [insert big tech company that is known to pay a high salary here]"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:27 PM
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That's fucked up tbh. Based, but fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:03 PM
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In Java, women are objects
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:01 PM
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And? You are not entitled to their money Empathy gap right here. If you were to reverse the genders, this would (rightly) be called out as discrimination. The statement the guy made wasn't even accurate, but if it was, you'd be okay living with that inequality. Also, why doesn't this apply to hiring? Are women entitled to jobs with higher salaries? What are your thoughts on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 01:27 AM
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Those women would probably get abortions. Remember, the whole point paper abortion thing is for the man to have a decision during the time that the woman can abort.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 01:23 AM
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Then you should be good, just ask out the ones that you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:51 AM
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For me it's more being proud of my figure, I'm not sexually attracted to myself as I am a straight man.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:39 AM
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Beware of STDs. Not in my 30s but STDs are common in large cities. Try not to date anyone who goes on dates as some sort of hobby. Many STDs (like HPV) have no symptoms for males but will destroy your health.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:37 AM
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Men, for the most part, will be single until they actively try to pursue someone. Women can be much more passive. Also, most women can download a dating app and get interest from decent people very quickly. Edit: For disproven, I'd say that not every woman has a "hoe" phase. It's just that the ones that do this typically hang out together, and have larger social circles. So if you find one who does this, you'll find like 20 more and it'll seem like most women do this, but in reality most don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 01:31 AM
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That's only a part of the case. The lawyers will take the divorce case, but when the matter of child custody comes up, the lawyers will advise their clients to not fight for custody if it's unlikely that they'll win. The men can still fight but of course that'd cost them more money for little benefit, because it'd extend the case, and lawyers often get paid by the hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 07:07 PM
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This may be skewed by the fact that it's a court case, lawyers typically only advise it when they are likely to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 06:42 PM
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I really agree with this, at least when it comes to talking to people I just met. Men usually have more interesting things to talk about on a regular basis. My female friends are interesting too but it's hard to meet women like them regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 06:12 AM
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I was referencing research that was performed in the 1950s. Back then, regulations were much more lax. These days we have stricter regulations so even the mostly ok male birth control products often get rehected for stuff. Vasalgel and a few others are passing trials with minimal effects, so hopefully one can get through the whole process. Also, the fact that female hormonal birth control can help with some other ailments is a big part of its legality. Male bc doesn't have that, which means that…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 05:49 AM
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I think that by career oriented, they mean that her career is the primary focus of their life, and that her career defines her. I'd say the same things about dudes who do the same. It's one thing if you're running a successful business because that's something that you have to put in a lot of focus into and of course someone would be proud, but it's another if you just work HR.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:46 PM
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In America, since many people have degrees, companies don't really care about it that much. Only lucrative undergrad degrees, Masters degrees, and PhD programs have any prestige. Degrees like business, psychology, education, nursing, etc are great but they don't mean as much these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:43 PM
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Unlike most colleges, mine is 67% male. I do have a good social circle no opportunities have come from it. Most women are either taken or in some dude's rotation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 03:21 PM
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Yeah maybe but tbh I'm almost out of here so I don't really see the need to put much effort into the whole dating thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 08:58 PM
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No and yes. The school is like 67% male, also most women have bfs or are in some dude's rotation. The remaining ones are either not interested in dating, or to say the least there are reasons why they are single despite the ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 07:58 PM
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I'd say I'm a bit above average, I'm 5'11", muscular, and in college. Personally it sucks, not a fun experience at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 06:57 PM
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Yeah those dudes suck but idk I feel like most dudes would like a girl to express interest initially. Maybe the more high profile dudes think it's weird because they preder winning over someone. But a woman hust asking a dude to hang out wouldn't be seen as weird to most dudes I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:18 PM
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She can approach dudes and she will have better chances than a dude approaching women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:48 PM
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Black men do not choose asian women as their ideal preference lmao. Most black men are with black women. Dating apps are not representative of real life. Black women on dating apps tend to be more obese. Same with... actually everyone on dating apps tends to be more obese. However obesity is lower in asians, which is why they get high swipe rates. The more beautiful BW usually aren't on the apps, and the ones that are usually leave pretty quickly unless they're in a less diverse area.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:21 PM
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You are asexual, possibly aromantic. That's fine, there are asexual men too. Find one of them, don't try to convert a sexual man into an asexual man. Leave anyone who tries to convert you. You are not immature. Good luck!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:18 PM
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If you look at any race, the women earn degrees at a higher rate than the men. Although I agree with the rest. I don't subscribe to the idea of hypergamy, at least when it comes to women as a whole. Plenty of women do it but most prefer to stay with their partners even if more attractive men are around. Interestingly though, seems like it's mostly the feminist women that leave their partners for hotter dudes or to play the field.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 05:16 PM
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My main point is, we shouln't treat a large demographic based on the actions of a few. Not the good, or the bad. However, this does not mean that those actions are insignificant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:40 PM
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My mistake. I skimmed and missed the word "only" in your comment. Those jobs are done mostly by men. That is a fact. If men were to disappear, society would end within weeks, simply because critical infrastructure is operated mostly by men. Obviously, there are and have always been valuable, innovative, competent women in those fields. There just aren't enough of them to support a society.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:22 PM
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You are going beside the point, probably intentionally since you cannot defeat it. Again, if most of group X is not A, it is incorrect to say that group X is generally A and that group Y should avoid group X. That type of logic is fundamental to racism, sexism, classism, and many other types of prejudice and discrimination. Also, you weren't claiming that we need to look into it. You said that women do not need men and should avoid men. Don't try to paint that as encouraging thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:19 PM
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That's not a generalization, it's a fact. However, that's beside the point (which is probably why you are fixated on it). The point is that if women did not need men, then they would be able to survive without men. However they cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 07:12 PM
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There is evidence that black people are over policed when it comes to most crimes. That would explain the differences in statistics. But again, most black people do not end up in prison, so it would be inaccurate to say that black people are generally criminals. You are purposefully twisting my argument because you cannot beat it. I'm saying that you can't say that X group is generally A and that Y group should avoid group X when the extreme majority of group X is not A. This is the exact argume…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 05:18 PM
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Good point, however you misunderstand me. I did not say that most men are essential to civilization. I said that women could not live without men if all men were to disappear. Only a small portion of men actually hold up society. Though, I'd say that the number is a bit higher than 5%, maybe it's around 15%. However I should clarify that I do not mean that women should go around thanking men for their existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:26 PM
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There are also more men catching criminals than women. 90% of violent crimes are committed by like 3% of men. That says nothing about men in aggregate. But anyway, it's probably socialization. Yes, some people are just naturally violent. But in reality, poverty breeds crime. Murder, assault, etc are usually committed by unhinged people that went through tough times. Rape is different though, it's committed usually by people that are opportunists, not just the random people in the street. A commo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:23 PM
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If I were to say women abuse children, that would be an inaccurate representation of women. Statisticslly most cases of child abuse and neglect have a female offender. That does not mean that women generally abuse children and children should stay away from women. By that same logic, most criminals being men does not mean that men are generally criminals and that women should avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:52 PM
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Correction: Any small percentage of men commit 90% of those crimes. Those crimes are not committed by men in aggregate. The majority of men do not commit those crimes. Do not generalize a demographic based on the actions of a small portion of that demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:24 PM
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Without men, civilization would end in about 4 weeks. Without women, men would last for another 40 years or so.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:16 PM
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Women who attempt to break into high end, fancy office jobs in high towers like Activision Blizzard experience that, yes. At much higher rates than the oil drillers, coal miners, etc. Yet that doesn't stop them from applying to those jobs and getting them. It's not a matter of women being held out. It's a lack of interest. Generally, women prefer jobs where they can form social networks. Office jobs, production teams, the medical field, etc. They don't like to dig holes, drive trucks, write code…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:15 PM
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Imo, if someone wouldn't date you, they are not an option. Most dudes therefore have barely any options on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:20 AM
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Women have more options too though, so in reality everyone just has more competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 05:02 AM
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Imo it degrades them and makes them less of the husband type. It shows that they require no connection, so I guess it would indicate that they are more likely to cheat. And it's not just they guys that do it, it's also the guys that want to do it. If I were female I would avoid such men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:57 PM
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Most men donnot follow him though. He got a lot of attention but that doesn't mean that people agree with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:37 PM
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facts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 07:20 PM
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There is plenty of information that goes both ways. Statistically women have higher rates of depression. Men have higher rates of suicide. Who is happier? Hard to say. When it comes to resources, men generally have more resources. Men have a higher median income. However women spend most money and make more financial decisions. Who has more resources at their disposal? Hadd to say. And how does effort tie into this. How is effort statistically measured? I have never seen a study that compares me…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 06:16 PM
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How do men get more happiness and resources for less effort? Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 04:13 PM
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Sure but I would argue that most dudes don't visit these forums. The fact that these forums are growing in popularity means that the content that is on these forums is relatable to a large group of people. It's not a matter of people making things up, it's more about men having certain experiences, and content creators taking advantage of those experiences. It happens with women too, but it's much more culturally accepted. But when it comes to landing dates or whatever, I'd argue that online for…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:10 PM
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I would say that it's their own fault
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:06 PM
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I'm not saying that height is an extreme requirement. I'm just saying that it is a large factor. My point was that it's not just about not going outside. There are other factors at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:18 PM
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I disagree with your first point. I see plenty of average looking, not so tall dudes with girlfriends. I'm not saying this does or can't happen. It's just that they got lucky. It's not all about height, personality, etc. It's about whether or not you run into someone who you're interested in, that's also interested in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 09:17 PM
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It's no illusion, it's my lived experience. When a girl sees a guy as easily replaced, she will develop no interest in him. Or she'll date him and then just dump him when a better dude comes along. My single friends directly say that only 2% of dudes have a chance, the rest are "just no" or something. The taken ones don't have the same mindset, but they're taken lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 12:02 PM
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Not sure how what I said reads like entitlement. It's just what I've observed. Personally I rarely get interested enough to ask out anyone. And when I do they're already taken. I don't really care much about looks as long as they're in shape tbh. Being 10/10 means nothing to me, because looks don't make a relationship. I don't feel like working hard just because a girl is pretty. I would feel like it if she was interesting to talk to and she showed mutual interest. But I notice others do it, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 11:57 AM
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Not sure what you mean by this. Personally, every single woman I have met (aside from the very obese ones) can get a boyfriend if they look for one. For some it's sinply saying yes to the dudes that constantly ask them out. For others it requires making a move. But generally I doesn't take much for them to get one at my male dominated school. 7 dudes for every 3 women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:49 AM
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In my opinion, posts like these are meaningless. You're just saying a longer version of "just go outside" so this isn't meaningful, or actionable advice. Also, you think these people stay at home all day in this economy? As someone with an active social life and plenty of female friends, it's not about just leaving the house and talking to women. It's about whether or not women see you as better than most of their options. If they don't it doesn't matter if you lick the grass, nothing's gonna ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 05:19 AM
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You do know that women can also end relationships right? Kevin Samuels would bring on single mothers a lot and like 80% of the time, it was the mothers that kicked the fathers out. Small sample size ofc but it shows that it's not always men just abandoning women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 05:06 AM
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There is nobody that I'm interested in. I'm male btw. My female friends are either taken, or there's a specific reason I don't wanna date them. I don't regularly meet new people, but when I meet a woman and she's good with conversation, 99% of the time she's taken and/or fat. I'm at a college that's mostly male, so it makes sense tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 12:28 AM
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Reading over your comment and the post again, you have a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 06:50 PM
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106% of women cheat (6% margin of error)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:26 PM
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I heavily disagree. You're operating under 2 assumptions here. First, you assume that his fans acknowledge what he did. To a lot of people, especially the younger generation, news like that doesn't ever reach them. They just hear his music, enjoy it, go to the concerts, etc. Second, you assume that since many women still like him atter the reports, then all women do. This is most likely not the case. In America he could have 20 million female fans but that would mean that over 85% of women aren'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:12 AM
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There was another post here. I think that's far below 1%. I am a 5'11" in shape dude under 22 set to make at least 130k, the calculator says I'm top 0.012% although we both know that's not true. These calculators use statistical fallacies. If 50% of people are unmarried, and 50% of people are not fat, that doesn't mean that 25% of people are both unmarried and not fat. But this is how the site does things apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:01 AM
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I'm apparently top 0.012% (0.091% of black males). I should submit my chad application I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:31 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:28 PM
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Her making more money means that he would would have to pay less alimony in the case of a divorce that would likely be started by her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/23 06:25 PM
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Standard PPD woman argument here. Dude makes a claim, woman demands evidence, dude provides evidence, then the goalposts do the Cha-Cha slide.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 01:02 PM
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When you said pursue I assumed you meant for a relationship, my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:28 PM
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Men generally do not primarily pursue ig thots amd onlyfans girls who soend their lives partying, doing drugs, and posting porn of themselves on the internet. And men do not "like" to pursue these women either. They may look at their content but I mean come on how many of your friends would seriously date a girl with a booming onlyfans?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 10:19 PM
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They seem to primarily bring on less intelligent onlyfans girls with extreme egos. These women think they know everything, and are very entitled. If you want to paint women as dumb entitled egotistical children, these are exactly the women you bring on a show like that. Now of course not all of the girls are like that, but if you put them in a group, their in group bias will likely cause them to support the craziest takes that one of them may have. No man should look at these women as normal eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:34 PM
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Human rights issues that women have an exit from in most of the country, and most of the world, yet men do not. Therefore it's primarily men that deal with these things. That's why I consider them male issues. I could apply the same logic to abortion though. Men aren't legally allowed to get abortions either, but does that mean abortion is not a women's issue? Also, you have a very strange argument. First, I'm not sure what you mean by MRA. Second, you are bringing up unmentioned issues and clai…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:26 PM
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Female birth control can have permanent effects but none are as extreme as depletion of serotonin causing suicide, permanent instability of the reproductive system, and permanent infertility. If such a thing happens to a woman, it would be an extremely rare case. With the make birth control trials, these were mot rare cases at all. My point? They didn't stop those trials because the men felt uncomfortable. Women and feminists like to say that because they think men are pampered by the medical in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:18 PM
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Sigh. Anytime a man mentions a male struggle, women like you immediately come with the "well but women!" attitude. Complete lack of empathy. Yes, similar things can happen to women too. I am not sure how that is at all relevant to what I said. All I said is that those things can happen and that the man should have a way out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:52 PM
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Well, if a man is raped, he has to pay child support. If he uses a condom, and the girl fishes it out of the trash to get pregnant, he has to pay child support. In fact, if a male child is raped, he will owe child support to his rapist when he turns 18. In these 4 cases, I think that no child support should be paid.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:32 PM
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Men usually don't receive unprompted acts of kindness from other individuals on a regular basis. If they get anything from a person, it's because they did slmething in the past. Also, in my opinion, when a woman says a guy is too nice, it's not because she sees him as somewhat of a pushover. It's not that his niceness is too high, it's that it's unprompted and unconditional. I can understand why someone would be out off by that. Well, either that or she desires toxic relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:23 PM
5

Then I suggest not taking that either. However since we're dealing with the FDA, there has to be a medical benefit. For women, the benefit is avoiding pregnancy, which could result in severe complications. In some cases it can also help with periods. For men, there is no medical benefit to male birth control. It would not treat any conditions. Getting someone pregnant would be of no direct physical harm to the male. Therefore it has much higher standards, or in other words, it cannot have severe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 04:17 PM
13

Most previous attempts at male birth control resulted in permanent hormonal changes such as permanently reduced testosterone and infertility among the men who participated. Women and feminists love leaving this out. It's not just headaches or mood changes. It's permanent damage. Simply put, there is already a natural mechanism to make women temporarily infertile. Hormones are released to do this during pregnancy. We can mimic this mechanism to a certain degree. Men have no counterpart, which is …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 12:35 PM
3

Ain't no way you think most guys rejected a top tier woman in their lifetime. You and your friends must be way above average I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:24 AM
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I agree with your second paragraph, except for one thing. Women are much much more selective than men. Personally, of the women that I know that have a bad history with men, each of them rejected dudes that went on to be great bfs to their later gfs. I know 0 such situations from the guys I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 11:07 PM
3

If you start a line with a #, it formats it like this. To not do this, you need to put a backslash before it. Like this: \#
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:35 PM
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OR you can just head over to the other end of the lake so you can catch the fish and go home. This is actually an AMAZING analogy. You can go all the way back to bass pro shops and invest in better bait, then come right back to the same area hoping that the fish will bite this time, OR you can simply move to the other end of the lake and catch fish with what you have. Literally, if you were the fisherman here, what would you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 10:13 PM
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Yes. These dudes don't value being in a relationship unless they see the woman as extremely valuable. The women that they see are not valuable to them (based on what theg say). I only know a handful of these guys though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 05:15 PM
3

Yes absolutely. In contrast, almost every abuser, cheater, etc has no problem with women. Just an observation though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 05:03 AM
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I agree, honesty it stems from a lack of empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:54 PM
14

That dude was fighting the good fight lol. The one lady asked for articles to support his claims, then ignored them immediately lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:29 PM
1

Single
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:42 PM
4

As a funny guy (yes people tell me this) who leaves my house, this is untrue. Well, if you're male at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:34 PM
1

Men are favoured in employment. Not saying you're lying but, source?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 12:19 PM
1

Before, you would go to some store, park, arcade, theater, etc after school. Now kids just go home or maybe to a friend's house for an hour. Most socializing is done in instagram DMs. Why? Because most parents don't really let their kids go anywhere on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 02:35 AM
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I didn't say that only women had massive accusations. However, the topic was about women rejecting accusations, so I only discussed that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 01:42 AM
21

LMAO when you literally have a sex trafficker on your side named Gaetz
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:06 AM
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A tiny percentage of women lust after serial killers. You could apply the same concept to sexual assault. Around 6% of men have committed a sexual offense, and around 3% of men have more than 10 victims. So would it be fair to say that men rape women? As for the rest, my point was that they act the same as men, roughly. Men have less of an in group bias, but it's still there. But let's not act like women never criticize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:05 AM
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I think it's because of the general accusations made here. Women are accused of some crazy stuff. Like lusting after serial killers and such. On other subs, when people point out female behaviors that are actually common (spreading rumors about their own friends, sticking with and defending asshole bfs for way too long, cheating, etc), often there will be a couple women in agreement. There, women aren't accused of only sleeping with deranged himan beings and shaming virgin men to the point of su…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:05 AM
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I meant that as in, they require constant validation from others. This woman doesn't do anything but gossip and check instagram. Props to her for the independence though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:44 AM
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Women that live life like this are leeches. They have nothing going for themselves. Men with any substance would avoid such women for serious relationships. So this woman would have a bunch of failed relationships and be quite miserable. The majority of her romantic experiences would be negative. Attractive women, or most women for that matter, absolutely do not live life like this. They have hobbies, friends, priorities, etc to spend time on. Not every woman is an instragram addict posting thir…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:16 AM
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Why don't women just be honest with themselves and the men they choose and only accept offers from men that turn them on by sight alone? Because they'd be single
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:10 AM
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Almost every tall white dude who is not fat has a gf. They can get one easily. Frat brothers who are not fat mostly have gfs. Social dudes have gfs is they have a 50/50 friend circle. People in mixed gender clubs have gfs at around a 50/50 rate. The percentage of men who fit into the above categories is (rough guess) around 30% of dudes. The other 70% are hopelessly single. I should point out that this is a school that's well over 60% male. Not much complaining about it from the dudes though. Mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 08:58 PM
1

10% of men have an advantage over 90% of men. Shocking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:37 AM
1

This comment doesn't support the victim complex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 12:36 AM
1

The fact that so many men see women get treated like that and still see it as an improvement speaks volumes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:52 PM
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This is a horrible example. People cannot just change their sexuality. Why not apply the same logic who complain about men all day?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 08:41 PM
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Absolute reproductive control by making them have to go to through the healthcare system to have children? You can't be serious. Want them absolute reproductive control? Implement paper abortions. Let unmarried men opt out while (very important) their partner can still abort. Baby trappings will plummet. Simgle motherhood will decrease.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:33 AM
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It's not a medical intervention. There is no disease being treated. It's a violation of bodily autonomy that you seem to be okay with.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:24 AM
0

Forced modifications to peoples' bodies by law is inhumane
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:18 AM
0

That's inhumane. I bet you're also pro-abortion. I am, too. My body my choice. Seems like you don't think it should be that way for men, only women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:40 AM
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I'm male btw. I'm not saying it's his fault. But if he got rejected, there has to be a reason. It may not even involve him. But he should assume it does, and try to improve on an area. Could be his appearance, approach, strategy, etc. Because why not? I'd say the same for women that get rejected. If they can't find a guy, or they can't find the right guy, then they should try to analyze why that is, and improve where they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 01:36 AM
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I disagree. A long time ago, men basically sold their daughters in order to rise up the ranks. Or, they wanted their daughters to live the best possible lives, and since women generally couldn't generate their own success, their fathers tried to set them up with a man that will be or already is successful. I think this mindset carried on to the modern age. Even though women can generate their own success now, most women still can't live independently on their own (note: you need an average of 70…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 05:03 AM
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Yes, but it's not universal. There are plenty of women who will leave their partner when someome provides a better lifestyle, no matter how long they were with their partner. These women are to be avoided. However, when single, it is natural to try and find the best partner. If she rejects you and ends up with a hotter guy, that's not hypergamy. You just lost. That's ok. Keep trying. If she rejects you but there was no other guy, then in her mind, being single was better than being with you. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 04:58 AM
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I help my friends. Strangers if I feel like it. If it's something dire but not life threatening I may ignore it. No reason to have this be about gender. Although O will say that I would never give CPR to a female stranger if there were other people around.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 05:02 AM
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They are aggressively filtering out women with social media addiction. Personally I don't care as long as they aren't posting to attract male attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:57 PM
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Because plenty of women I meet are not. I immediately start to avoid them when I notice. Plenty of women see men as objects. Tools. Wallets. So they don't treat men like humans. Also some women are very self centered. Main character syndrome. I'm sure someone will bring the "but men!" argument but these are my observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 05:03 PM
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Sane. Pretty. Reasonably fit. Also I need to be able to spend long periods of time with them 1 on 1. A genuine friend. Trustworthy and consistent. You wouldn't believe how difficult it is to find these types while they are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:35 PM
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I was talking purely about money. When the couple is 50/50 in terms of finances, and they meed both incomes, then the man would probably try harder to make up for it, but that doesn't mean he can. This is why many choose not to have children.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:14 PM
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It's a skill that can be improved upon Which is exactly my point. The dude has to learn. Not everyone is naturally gifted, he may need some pointers at first, especially since women are so varied.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:41 PM
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A man making 38k can't just "work harder" to make more money
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:39 PM
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A mature woman makes an attempt to let the dude know what works for her. A mature woman does not expect every dude to be magically gifted with women, especially when so many women insist on faking orgasms, causing his perception of his own skill to be flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:53 AM
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Millions upon millions of men who are who are 50/50 are already dealing with this. Relationships are not transactional, obviously the dude will try to do more. But then again, whether or not he can is somewhat out of his control.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:42 AM
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I would never. I deliberately choose not to, and I shall remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 03:19 PM
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His earlier videos, the ones that were directed towards men, were great. Unlike the other youtubers, he dealt with people in the corporate world, not the party world. So his advice was actually applicable to his audience.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 04:28 AM
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I said nothing about the men. Literally nothing. All I mentioned was that most men would be happy with a non-fat woman who is average looking and is fun to talk to. I said that because you said most men have extremely high standards. You knew that was wrong, and that I pointed that out, so you generated something else to argue about. The men are not having troubles because of their standards. They're having trouble for other reasons that likely relate to their own incompetence. You literally dis…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:14 AM
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Most dudes would be happy with a 5/10 who is fun to talk to and isn't fat
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:18 AM
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BASED
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:35 AM
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A company which is probably staffed by only men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:49 AM
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I meant the women at my school
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 01:46 AM
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I get your point, and I disagree with those men. More women in the workplace is a good thing, provided that they meet the requirements of their jobs, which most do.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:45 PM
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My school is over 60% male. It's a tech school, so the perception is that most dudes are antisocial shut ins. Personally I disagree with that notion, but that's how people see it. The vast majority of dudes are single, and I'd guess that around 60% of women are single. I have multiple female friends, and one common theme is that they'd like to date, but since they never really ask anyone out, their only interactions with guys is with platonic friends, creeps, and the dudes that approach any woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:26 PM
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If all men collectively took a month off, society would collapse completely. Most people would be dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:38 PM
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Statisticallt speaking, women make up 1% to 3% of manual labor jobs. Your experience doesn't negate that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:35 PM
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Her silence here speaks volumes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 04:20 AM
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I can almost guarantee that this will be one of those comments where no woman responds (except for the troll that always bashes men). Women will judge men for ruling women out because of certain things, without even considering why men feel that way. For this example, most men will feel like the last choice, so they'll go for other women that will see them as the best choice without having to get with countless other men first. Instead of accepting that, OP is trying to deny their feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:20 AM
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Depends. What is she doing for me? You women never ever mention that. Always about what men cam do for the women, and why they do or do not choose to be good to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 03:09 AM
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Marry a regular dude that makes her life more comfortable, then cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:51 AM
6

Have you considered getting a prescription for glasses? I know they're expensive but they really improve your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 10:50 PM
1

US eastern time. 6pm est to 12am est generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:49 PM
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I'd say at most hours there are more women commenting, but during the evening all the redpill dudes show up. So it could be pro-male or pro-female depending on the hour. As for the mods, well, if they don't remove certain posts then the sub will be shut down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:43 PM
1

A vasectomy is often irreversible
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:11 PM
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You're forgetting the part where they had permanent reproductive damage. This happened in evert single male BC trial.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 06:05 PM
2

I agree that the youtubers skew their comtent a certain way. However I don't agree that 1-2 LTRs is automatically a good thing. They could still be getting abused, cheated on, used as ATMs, etc. For a lot of dudes those 1-2 LTRs were with women who gave lukewarm attraction and effort. That's all they get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 04:21 AM
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Because that's the ceiling for a lot of dudes. 1-2 LTRs with whoever meets the bare minimum (sane, somewhat fit, etc), even after significsnt effort. They don't have very many options, so they'll settle for women who may not be the right one for them. Edit: To clarify, this means that over the first 35 years of your life, only 5ish non insane women will ever seriously think about starting any sort of relationship with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 03:57 AM
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A lot of men are jealous of the options that many women have. As long as a woman is in shape, she can explore her sexuality. Men in the other hand have to be above average in multiple areas, otherwise they get shamed for their sexuality. There's also the fact that many men have bodies that scream at them to have sex every day, which puts this situation at the forefront of their minds daily. Many men think their libido is high because of this, but in reality they are eager to have the chance to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:18 PM
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If you are female, there's a good chance you only talk to men who are somewhat attractive and have little issues dating. This will skew your perception. Only around 1/4 can easily get into a relationship when single. Additionally, 1/4 of men will really really struggle. The average non-obese male (in America) will only have 1-2 realtionships by age 35, maybe a couple hookups over the years if they are a drinker. Their female equivalents will have the option to enter as many relationships as they…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 08:41 AM
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There are two types of women. Sane women, and crazy/toxic women. Doesn't need to be more complicated than that. It's up to men to only select the sane women and completely avoid the others, when looking for a romantic relationship. If you only have a chance at the toxic ones, then stay single or siffer the consequences. How do you filter out toxic women? Simple. Drop them at the first sign of toxicity towards you or anyone else. But remember, it's a filter. Things can still get through, but it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:18 PM
5

Millions upon millions of women vote republican every election. Let's not pretend that many women are not anti-abortion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 11:48 AM
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But she made the choice to do that, and presumably got the benefits of those promotions as well. And I think you're overestimating her impact on his career. While it is a help, let's not pretend that his promotion wouldn't have happened if she weren't doing chores at home. Not that her contributions are insignificant to their living of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:37 PM
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If the industry did change, then child support payments would be much much larger to account for the lost revenue. I think prenups would be viewed the same. Lawyers would use language that makes it sound bad, so that less people get prenups and more lawyers get money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:54 AM
1

How? Can you elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:47 AM
1

Not sure where the 50% thing comes from, but yes there are a lot of ifs. In reality, this wouldn't be an option. But imo whoever does have this option would havily consider taking it. But again they'd have to have a partner that they can really trust, and is rich enough ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:46 AM
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I think by default there should be no payments after divorce unless children are involved. I would like to include abuse violence etc but a number of women would lie. But what really matters is that divorce court is a billion dollar industry. That's why all of this exists, and that's why it's not going away. That's why NBA players sometimes have to hand over 6 figures a month hust for one child. It's a system that leaches off of divorced (mostly) men for a profit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:42 AM
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Well if the wife would be working a shitty job, and the husband has enough to provide for both, then yes many people would do that long term if the partnership was good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 11:29 AM
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Wdym no one would make? Do you really think that nobody would opt to just chill and pursue hobbies and let someone else handle finances?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:37 AM
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If there are no children then there should be no payment in my opinion. The wife chose to not have a career and to depend on her husband. Even if housework etc was given, that's an exchange. If she provides nothing more then why should the man? I'd have the same view if the genders were reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 10:23 AM
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People do this because they lack options. It's desperation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:41 PM
1

Career to looks ratio
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 05:56 AM
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Peak in terms of what? Looks? Highly depends on lifestyle. In terms of desirability to the opposite sex? I'd say that women peak before 25 but that's mostly because they generally look best at that age, and men primarily care about looks. But they can still be highly desirable (to men their age) until their mid 50s if they just keep up their appearance as best they can, ad are pleasant to be around. For men, it depends on income. For women who are not really financially successful, having a man …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:44 AM
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Really not sure what your point is. The person asked qualities that make a woman good for a relationship, and I gave some.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 07:38 AM
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Imo having a vagina does not increase integrity, accountability, or honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:51 AM
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Why are you mentioning men? The question was about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 06:40 AM
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Integrity, accountability, and honesty even in difficult situations. And they must be able to be very consistent with these.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 04:06 AM
1

Porn does not lower testosterone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:01 PM
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Why is this a question for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:55 PM
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Tinder is 95/5 IIRC
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 02:00 PM
1

I wouldn't say average, but in places like NY and LA it's common.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:58 AM
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In my opinion both cases are the same but in general only attractive dudes can really run up the numbers, so it makes sense why they don't care as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 11:34 AM
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Women see men who have a lot of sex as just men. They don't realize that for a man to do that easily (that's the key, easily), they have to be significantly above average. So when a dude is getting around, he's likely very attractive and it indicates that he has qualities that excite women. Women on the other hand can run up the numbers whenever they want. So them doing this does not imply that they have a number of attractive qualities. Thus, there are no upsides, only downsides. For women ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:54 AM
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It's just reality, not good or bad. But we do know that they have significantly less choices than their female counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:48 AM
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I would assume that this is due to testosterone. Dudes on SSRIs report significant disinterest in women. Also, women taking medication that boost testosterone ratio report lower standards in selecting a mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:47 AM
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Average (in every category) and non-obese men struggle with getting attraction from average non-obese women. They have average social skills, meaning they have male and female platonic friends. They make average money, which is ~50k a year. They're average height (5'7" to 5'9") and have average, unremarkable faces. They can get into relationships, but it is significantly hard for them than it is for their female counterparts, and very difficult in general. The idea that average dudes (non-obese)…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 02:02 AM
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I don't agree with this "wall" shit, but the main point is that it's about women losing pretty privilege. Most men never have that privilege so it doesn't apply to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:39 AM
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I know, but when I look back they keep staring for a bit. It's kinda weird tbh, I'd rather this not be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:29 AM
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The monkey is committing genocide
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 12:27 AM
1

Maybe, but women place value in other areas too, moreso than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:15 PM
1

Actually this is false. ~30% of men cheat, compared to ~108% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:55 PM
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And shows how racist and sexist unregulated redpull forums can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:54 PM
1

Men cheat slightly more than women, just a couple percentage points. Most men (70% to 80%) don't cheat at all. The real question is, why do the cheaters and abusers get so many women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:53 PM
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It is human instinct to detect when someone is staring at them. No idea if they're shooting their shot but I do get a significant amount of stares, has to be some of them at least. Keep in mind that I'm a 6 foot, fit black dude in a majority white location.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:44 PM
2

In my experience, black women primarily go for high status black men. In school it's the athletes and their friends, or the dude who already of internships. In college it's the same, but also you have the black frat dudes. From my observation NONE of the regular black dudes under 5'10" have gfs. I'm in college rn, at a school where there are so few black people, I know most of them. Almost all of the black women have high status black men, or men of other races.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:23 PM
1

Black women just casually say that 50% to 70% of black dudes are terrible and yet complain the black dudes only shoot for hot women LOL Edit: SOME black women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 04:12 PM
1

108% of women cheat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 10:26 AM
1

You said WHAT about baby mamas?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:59 AM
3

It's purge week lol, but yeah some people are just sad
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:47 AM
1

Lol false, look at like most rich oligarchs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:43 AM
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Fat men are also very unattractive. It's just that generally when it comes to superficial traits, men care more about looks and sex appeal, and women care more about money and social status. So it'd be easier for fat men to compensate.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:52 AM
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Not at all. Thicc women, actual thicc women do great. Though that kinda depends on genetics, some people carry weight better than others. I will say though that even with a belly, the belly generally has to be smaller than the hips.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:37 AM
1

Actual rape and sexual coercion numbers are higher "Actual rape" wtf? Are you implying that men being raped is not real rape? How would would you know that women get raped significantly more when there are no ways to get numbers for the men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:42 AM
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I disagree, I think that if they recognize that it was bad, and what was bad about it, then they could have a good idea of what not to do. On the flip side, I think that people who come from stable homes may not realize what made things so stable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:27 AM
1

Where did I say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:23 AM
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Yes but is not a rape and therefore is not included in the study that says 99% of rape perpetrators are men. That's my main argument here Anyway reality is that there is no reliable way to determine how much men are raped, due to lack of reporting, and the fact that men are more likely to get laughed out of the police station, than they are to have their case even written onto a piece of paper. We don't know how much men are assaulted, so we accurately claim that women are assaulted at X times t…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:10 AM
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I'm just trolling, don't mind me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:05 AM
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Nothing inherently wrong with black women. But in the US, they generally have higher rates of obesity, more debt, and are generally more radicalized than other races. l Also, and this is just my observation, but the ones who are most equipped for relationships get snatched up quickly and generally never not in an LTR. This is the case even moreso than other races. On the flip side, the ones who are least equipped for relationships tend to be very loud, the types to make a scene to roast someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 06:05 AM
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I disagree. Certain professions are just natirally dominated by men. Most politicians who even try to position themselves to run for office are men. So of course most in office are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:56 AM
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Not in the law: The penetration, no matter how slight, of the vagina or anus with any body part or object, or oral penetration by a sex organ of another person, without the consent of the victim. So women who rape men are not rapists according to the law, unless they use an object like a dildo. So when looking at rape statistics, female rapists are not included, so of course 99% of perpetrators are men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:53 AM
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I notice women doing this and I ignore them. The ones who make an attempt at a convo are the ones that get attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:38 AM
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Right now it's 50% trolling, 40% degenerates posting their misogyny and/or racism because this is the only time and place on reddit to do so, and 10% people responding normally for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:37 AM
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No women were forced to leave
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:27 AM
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Support their country
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:26 AM
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99% of rape perpetrators are male because by legal definition you need a penis or similar object to rape someone. If a woman forces a dude to have sex with her and does shove a dildo into him then it is not considered rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:17 AM
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Some women do contribute to rape by raping people, other than that wtf dude
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:08 AM
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Abandoning a wife and 6 kids??? Wtf how could your great grandmother end up with someone so based?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 05:03 AM
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Step 1: Deny the results
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 02:28 AM
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As someone in the younger generation, 99% of dudes do not think like this, it's okay. Even the ones who don't get action don't think like this. The remaining 1% is just very loud online.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 11:21 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:44 PM
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"What do you like most about your deity?" "The part where he got murdered, it was great!"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:44 PM
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I also see that, online. But in real life it's way different. I'm black, and every single other black mathat I've met prefers black women, or initially preferred black women, but were turned away. I think it should be noted that black women often treat black men way worse than they treat men of other races.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:07 PM
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Still date out at like a 15% rate though. Most black men are with black women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:55 PM
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Aren't like 80% of relationships ended by women though? Also those are the dudes those women chose.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:39 AM
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So much today smh
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 07:00 AM
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Not true at all wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:41 AM
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I think a number of women do, but they either get off the market, or maybe they have so many bad experiences so they kinda give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:43 PM
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Well, that's more of a case of the good dude being taken up. That's acknowledging they exist. I'm talking about the women who say that men are inherently bad and that any woman would have the same experience. When presented with an example of a woman having a great experience, their either say the guy an outlier, or the girl is a pickme.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 09:41 AM
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You can reverse the genders and this will also be true: A woman saying that all men are victims is a way to cope with the reality that she has consistently picked horrible men. I know a girl that has a number of attitudes about what an attractive man is. Height, dick size, money, etc. When she gave me the kist of requirements, I immediately pointed out how none of those items had anything to do with how he treated her as a person. You guessed it, she primarily ends up with fuckbois that quickly …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:02 AM
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I'm not sure if there's any way to prove or disprove that. But I will say that tons of people cheated back then, men and women. When DNA testing came about, there were loads of people that found out that their mother, grandmother, great grandmother, etc cheated. I was just easier for women to get away with it, but men actually fathered children, so it was eaiser for them to get caught.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:27 AM
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But this was true for both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 03:00 AM
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Why is that relevant? Most school shooters are under 30, does that mean that everyone at school should be wary of people under 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 02:41 AM
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you align treatment of women to men doing their jobs I did not. I said that the things keeping you out of the stone age are primarily built mostly by men. Regardless of prior barriers for women. I also never said women are incapable of such jobs. My point was, if "men in general" get credit for the rapists and murderers, why don't you go around thanking men in general for you living in modern civilization? The majority of men are normal, nonviolent guys This is what I said from the beginning lma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:04 AM
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Ok but they claim to be pro life and vote as such. Therefore I give them zero sympathy when it comes to their abortion access.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:42 PM
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What pundits? This data was from feminist sources. Also you didn't disprove anything I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:41 PM
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When Roe came out, there was a study that concluded that trigger laws affected ~33% of the women in the US, most likely because ~33% of women live in red states that had trigger laws. So therefore ~67% of women were not affected, which is a large majority. That number gets larger when you account for Florida, where you can still abort within 15 weeks. Also, you linked something that was completely irrelevant to my claim. I said lots of women are pro life. As in they voted for these laws, this wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:27 PM
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I'm aware that there are women who can't. I'm just saying that even in these days, a large majority of women still have access. Tbh in red states, lots of women are pro life anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:50 PM
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Well actually only ~33% of women are effected, in America. Of those, many live in Florida which has a 15 week allowance. Also a lot of those can just go to the next state. Still bad for those who can't but, let's be real here, ~85% of women are still able to get abortions without serious inconvenience in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:45 PM
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You bring a number of strawman arguments. I never said we should disregard anything. My point was, you can't say that men as a gender do X, when 99% of men don't do it. So saying that men rape women is just incorrect. You should instead say that most rapists are men. To use something that you said, it'd be wrong for me to say that mothers kill their children. However you already knew to do this, when talking about women. All I'm saying is that you should do the same for men. As for the studies, …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:38 PM
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I'd say it has to do with money. Women are the majority of consumers, so companies cater to them. As a result, lots of the messaging and themes will favor women. Growing up as a child, this will have a large effect. This practice took hold in the 70s or so. Before that, I doubt you would have seen this same bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:32 PM
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IIRC a meta-study (I think that's what it's called, they pulled data from like 14 different studies done by feminist organizations) ~6% of men have committed a sexual offense. And no that's not just convictions. That's a lot but at the same time that means ~94% of men are not rapists. Stop generalizing all men based on the actions of a small portion. What they did find, though (IIRC), was that about half of those men (~3%) had double digit victims. Men do not "only" bring up false accusations. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 06:27 PM
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99.9% of men do not murder women wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 02:22 AM
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This is just not true lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:17 AM
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PPD posts tend to It's entertaining, at least
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:34 PM
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It's beginning the new relationship while still in the old one. The state of the old relationship doesn't matter. But I guess it's good enough for the cheater to not want to leave. I think the purpose is to still pursue the new relationshio while still having the old one in case things don't work out. But if the new one gets stable enough, they leave the okd one completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:08 PM
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My bad I forgot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:01 PM
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Sorry my mistake I meant set amount, not set rate. So an NBA player shouldn't be handing over hundreds of thiusands of dollars every month. You say you "find it hard to believe" that a woman would leave because a husband is struggling with work. Sounds like: "Yeah that's awful. But there must be something he's leaving out, because no woman would do that generally. Women wouldn't just do that, so he must have done something and mostly likely it's his fault so I wonder what did he do to make her d…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 10:01 PM
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Well it's monkey branching if the new guy is found while she's still with the old guy. No need for the guy to be superior. Or at least I think, I don't really speak this language.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:00 PM
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They absolutely do though. Maybe your life experiences differ and that's unfortunate but this is generally the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:57 PM
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Some men, but yes I agree. I'm just pointing out how being objectified based on gender, and potentially being treated worse because of that, is not by any means exclusive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:53 PM
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Well if it was marriage then perhaps but most people don't marry that quickly. You'd have to ask if they got into a relationship, which requires self reporting. That's extremely unreliable as there are lots of factors. First, did they consider it a relationship? Second, do they remember exactly when it started? Third, if it was a relationship, would they admit it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:49 PM
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I'd say it has more to do with bias. In my example, the girl had a bias towards women. "A woman would never ghost, that's immoral" becomes "well that wone did, but women are mostly above that type of behavior" very quickly. The more you go on, they give you "where are you meeting these women?" to imply that the ghosting is uncommon but those dudes got unlucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:42 PM
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Yeah republicans especially.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:38 PM
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In statistics, you can't make those types of assumptions. That would invalidate the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:37 PM
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What women often don't understand is, this is not the default. This is a learned behavior. Most men end up opening up to a woman only for her to either lose all respect for him, or use it against him later. It only needs to happen once for the guy to never do it again. I think this stems from those women, again, seeing the men as objects that should provide status/money, and defects otherwise. Sharing struggles takes them out of the prize category and puts them in the defect category. And from w…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:25 PM
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It is impossible to gather statistics on this topic. Your suggested method has a number of flaws. First, them being in a new relationship doesn't necessarily mean that they will marry the next partner. Second, even if they do remarry quickly, there's no way to tell if they knew the person in their prior relationship. "Monkey branching" is a thing, it's not what most women do, but it's enough for there to be a lot of men who are vocal about it. Also I could make the same case about, say, women ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:05 PM
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I don't, I acknowledge that it's just one person. I know other women that probably wouldn't say that, and honestly I'm not even sure she meant it that way, I think she was just a little oblivious in that moment. I've had my moments too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:59 PM
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Yeah I feel like she probably didn't understand the magnitude the draft, but she did understand how pregnancy can be, so she thought it was a fair comparison. A lack of understanding. I don't think this specific case is reflective of women, but in society I notice a general pattern of women only knowing about women's struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:52 PM
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Yeah I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:32 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:22 PM
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If that's how you interpreted that then you need therapy. I think it's fair to expect people to treat others as people and not worthless pieces of trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:21 PM
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19 just like me. I just think she views everything from the perspective of feminism, and since feminism only shows women's issues, she probably has no idea of men's issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:17 PM
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She does generally lack an empathy for men but is a feminist, so plenty of empathy for women. Funny, the conversation started because she thought being a man was just being a woman but easier lol. It's because she didn't really empathize with things that men go through. It's just like how dudes here think women live life on "easy mode" because they don't understand the struggles of being a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:04 PM
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I agree. On the askfeminists sub, I remember a time where someone asked about this. Their response was "well that was a women's group, not necessarily a feminist group" when talking about the situation in India. Another question asked about the UK one, and their response was "well the feminists wanted to focus on X issue first, that's understandable" IIRC. That sub is normally level headed but even they did the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:48 PM
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I forgot the word "should" in there, my bad. They think men's sole purpose is to provide them money and increased social status. The men that do this are real men. These women view the rest of the men as worthless and treat them as such which is the topic of this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:42 PM
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I was talking about mainstream media and general society, not this sub. Whenever a tendency of even a minority of women is pointed out, it is dismiss because "well men do this though!" or something. There's generally an "ok but women have to deal with X" attidtude whenever men point out a problem. For example, I was talking with a friend about male issues. I pointed out how in russia the government is literally hunting down men to send them to the Ukraine war. I said "could you imagine the gover…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:38 PM
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Agreed. And I also notice that when they are acknowledged, women typically like to avoid the generalization. It's always "well that's just that one woman over there, most women don't do that" or "well that happened because X" or something. Had a girl tell me that women never ghost, then after each example of a male friend being ghosted, I got "well she probably thought X" or some excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:16 PM
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I mean sure but notice how any criticism of even a subset of women is immediately countered with a criticism of men. Never a simple acknowledgement. Edit: Talking mainstream media, education, etc. It has an impact on how people view gendered issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:02 PM
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IIRC he died from heart complications from his cancer treatment that he had when he was younger. A death at that time after that treatment is typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 05:36 PM
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Yeah. Basically they'll say that stuff to convince people that they're getting a benefit from watching the program. They say "hit the gym, drink protein" but expand no further. Then they try to "get your mindset right" and that's where they spread they inflammatory opinions and make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:11 PM
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Evo psych is a theory. It could be valid, but there aren't really ways to test it. But it is my belief that those content creators only care about their own profits. If they actually wanted to help people, they'd be making different content. For example, lots of them complain about how women are so superficial but they don't give any advice on how to look better, make more money, etc. The most they'd do is try to sell you something, either a "consult" or some gym plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 01:33 PM
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Their purpose is to say things that the viewers want to hear, and more controversial things. This makes them more money. Me saying "women are just whores who want to find men that remind them of their fathers" will catch your attention more than me saying "women are just people" would. There are women who say things of this manner about men. But that's more socially acceptable and generates way less clicks, so you won't see them as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 12:58 PM
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A portion of them, yes. Other oligarchs want women to stay at home and birth more children. Ourncurrent economy relies on population growth.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:23 PM
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You are correct. I stand corrected.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 10:13 PM
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Earlier I pointed out how oligarchs are hoarding the wealth, amd that it's not a men vs women thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:58 PM
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Depends on the field. Psychology? Probably. CS? Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 09:57 PM
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Enrollment is a zero sum game, but education success is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:48 PM
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Not sure what your point is. If a woman is qualified, what's wrong with them getting in?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 07:24 PM
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This is definitely not a zero sum game. It would be if spors for these majors were capped, but they are not. Both men and women are graduating college at increasing rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:49 PM
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Girls are favored in every level This was true before feminism. All feminism did was give is Title IX. I think that empowering girls will disempower boys when you're looking at relative statistics. But in general, scholarship money distribution is roughly even between the genders. It's just that gender specific scholarships go mostly to women. In STEM fields, men still dominate. Even with the girls only camps, conferences, etc, the best students are still making it in. The rest are, too. There's…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:47 PM
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Giving women a chance at success does not mean that men have less success. It's not a zero sum game. The perception that undeserving women take up spots that would've gone to men is false. And college graduates are 2/3 women? Where are you getting this information? Even if that's true, CS/Engineering are 3/4 male at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:26 PM
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Financially? No. Everyone's wealth is decreasing because oligarchs are hoarding money. Romantically? If you would've had more "success" because women knew less about consent, were forced into being stay at home wives, etc then that says a lot about you. Educationally? Most likely not. How would feminism impact academic sucess? Mentally? Most likely not. Men's mental health is bad everywhere, with or without feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 06:16 PM
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Sure but imo if you're 300lbs and you can't compete, that's your responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:27 AM
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I'm pretty sure the percentage for guys is about the same though. So of those 1000 guys, 200 of them are not overweight or obese. It's about even in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:19 AM
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Well tbf, this would require the object of your desire to actually be in front of you. For young guys especially this often isn't the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/22 01:17 AM
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Attend a STEM school, and major in a STEM field that has good career prospects. CS and Electrical Engineering are good ones. There you will find plenty of partners who also have good career prospects. Literally find a guy you vibe with, make sure he has good grades, and you're good. Dedicate time for both school and interpersonal relationships, this is a great time to work on that balance. Men are generally the same across majors, may as well go to a school that is known for having lots of highe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 04:31 AM
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The whole idea of it is inflated anyway. Most RP content creators exclusively deal with party girls, OF models, strippers, etc. So in their life, most women ride this "cock carousel" and they tell that to their viewers. In reality most people (men and women) may have the odd hookup here and there. Some people (man or woman) will decide to have more sex befpre finding and committing to a long term partner. There's no real number associated with it, it's just a term that many men use to discourage…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 03:33 PM
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In poor communities there are plenty of loving husbands who do everything they can and still barely get by. Seems like you've never seen it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:05 PM
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This assumes that "working harder" will ensure an increase in income.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:21 PM
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I'd say that's more about want than need, but I get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:59 AM
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I'd say you have a point about sexual need since men have a more homonal sex drive. Other than that, I'm not sure we have reliable evidence that men want women on an interpersonal level more or less than the reverse. Generally I'd guess that single people over a certain age get more content with it, but women are more likely to be vocal (or respond to surveys, report their situations, etc) in general so more of them would report these things. I have no doubt that there are many women who'd be pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 12:14 AM
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Men also obviously need women more than women need men This is not true and has never been true, at least at scale. From a financial standpoint, most people need 2 incomes. So at scale, men and women need each other. Only ~15% of men earn enough to meet their needs and have a retirement (~70k), compared to ~9% of women. So technically women have more of a need to find a partner. From a societal standpoint, men do most of the jobs that give us a functioning society. Heat, shelter, electricity, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 05:09 PM
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Thx for sharing! This is interesting. Seems like he was too shy at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:28 PM
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Eh, no I'm quite young and have never been rejected. I've also never really asked anyone out either lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:26 PM
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Lol @ the personal attacks. It's just that it seems that people generally reject a person because they don't see a good relationship. Was just wondering if people later saw that it would've been a good one. Personally I haven't asked anyone out ever so it wouldn't apply to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 01:25 PM
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My bad, changed it to all and forgot to change that
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:59 PM
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