Daily Community Chat Megathread

potoricco · 2023-06-10T00:30:31+00:00

I keep getting dress coded in my house why

There is not a single female in the United States that doesn’t own a pair of denim shorts. So why is it a problem if I do

I have a basket full of clothes o will NEVER be able to wear so long as I live here

And it also makes me feel icky too. Why are you even looking at me in this way. I mean it’s not like I wear prostitute’s clothes. But you don’t get it. I just HAVE to dress like a millennial youth pastor or else

scwizard · 2023-06-10T00:14:37+00:00

A woman could make you wait despite having a high body count and conversely a woman could fuck you on the first date despite having average to low body count.

The women having sex on a first date who have a low body count, are either still in school or lying.

Mark_Freed · 2023-06-10T00:06:06+00:00

cmon guys, isn't it cute to hear girls say that they want to now settle down. Date someone serious. They are looking for a husband. There is a certain type of desperation, a flavor to that desire which is fascinating.

It is far better than hearing a girl say she is not serious. does not want anything long term, only wants to have fun, play around and use your body for temporary pleasure. When its someone you really care about saying that... that is when you might value meeting people who want to invest in the relationship for longer.

potoricco · 2023-06-10T00:05:11+00:00

THOUGHTS ON SPIDER MEN:

WHAT THE FUCK WAS THAT ENDING
I WANT HOBI BROWN 😍 TO DATE MILES, NOT GWEN
THE ART STYLES WERE REALLY GREAT, THIS MOVIE WAS BISUALLY BEAUTIFUL
WHY CANT THEY JUST TELL THEIR PARENTS THAY THEY ARE SPIDERS
I LOVE EVIL MILES
I DONT REALLY UNDERSTAND MARVEL, BUT THIS WAS AWESOME, REALLY LONG BUT AWESOME
THE SCENE WHERE MIGUEL WAS BEATING MILES ASS WAS INTENSE
WHY DO ALL THE CHARACTERS LIVE IN SOME VARIATION OF NEW YORK. WHY CANT WE HAVE JUNGLE DWELLING SPIDERMAN

OVERALL: 9/10

MysterySolverDog · 2023-06-10T00:03:05+00:00

Feel like I'm being gaslit very hard in the thread re complaining about suitors. Women here (and on other dating subs) often admit they get attention, and then argue that the attention they're getting isn't from attractive enough suitors so they don't want it and it isn't useful. This is a pretty common line, but the top level replies all state or seem to imply that they don't see women complaining that the men who approach them aren't good enough.

Mrs_Drgree · 2023-06-09T23:55:54+00:00

Who wants the female woman flair?!

meteorness123 · 2023-06-09T23:22:42+00:00

Does it make sense to go the gym and exersize if you have terrible sleep and there's currently no way to fix it ? I feel so tired and I feel like without good sleep .. it's a lot of effort for nothing

potoricco · 2023-06-09T23:20:34+00:00

FUCK MIGUEL

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-06-09T22:55:44+00:00

the walls are ACTUALLY closing in on trump this time, amazing.

1Here4Bach · 2023-06-09T22:52:50+00:00

You are not attractive. Stop bitching about what attractive women are doing.

potoricco · 2023-06-09T22:26:20+00:00

How did I just realize that Pavitr Prabarkr is Indian name for Peter Parker

Maffioze · 2023-06-09T22:23:49+00:00

The biggest redpill isn't women's behaviour or anything dating related, I love women.

The biggest red pill is realising that most of feminist theories are a bunch of bigoted nonsense not supported by science that unlike similar theories about other demographics are somehow accepted in society by highly educated individuals that claim they are oh so progressive and rational in their beliefs. The majority of highly educated people believes in something that's observably false just because of the empathy gap. It means the majority of intelligent people are incapable of unbiased thinking to an extreme degree. This will ruin your faith in humanity way more than anything else.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-09T22:10:19+00:00

It's weird to live a reality that men here say doesn't exist.

DeliveryBoy1821 · 2023-06-09T22:05:58+00:00

Are there really any realistic consequences to cold approach? I find "social circle game" much more scary and consequential.

CringeButCorrect · 2023-06-09T22:01:30+00:00

In Java, women are objects

VampireChaser · 2023-06-09T21:55:22+00:00

If you want a masculine man, your best bet is a conservative guy.

If you want a feminine man, your best bet is a liberal guy.

If you want a masculine woman, your best bet is a liberal woman.

If you want a feminine woman, your best bet is a conservative woman.

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-06-09T21:53:02+00:00

So what are yall gonna do when PPD is down for 48 hours? I might just kill my self.

Maffioze · 2023-06-09T21:48:18+00:00

CMV: The be civil rule and don't troll rule should be removed, they are not properly enforced anyway because then the majority of this sub would get banned.

scwizard · 2023-06-09T21:46:42+00:00

Men judge a woman if she sleeps with a lot of guys but those same men also want sex on the first date.

I agree with twox on this. This is stupid.

Q4M you gonna marry a woman who fucks you on the first date?

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-06-09T21:46:08+00:00

rip New Yorkers

I sure hope those climate change deniers are right.

VampireChaser · 2023-06-09T21:39:52+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/14571do/a_coworker_asked_me_if_im_pregnant_cause_im/

Peak comedy

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-06-09T21:28:13+00:00

all men who are complaining and miserable on ppd should just be passport bros or Chad!!!

only 40% of american women are not fat. most are in debt, 70% of Americans can’t apparently save $500. and we don’t have real statistics on feminine and not slutty so looks like you’re all going to have to die alone, settle, or passport!!! you’re welcome for solving all your problems 😇 i’ll take any gifts.

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-06-09T21:24:42+00:00

meow meow meow

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-06-09T21:15:52+00:00

Always put liberal on your dating profile, especially in an urban metropolitan area.

VTHokie2020 · 2023-06-09T21:01:41+00:00

I am single once more. Just broke up with my now ex girlfriend, and it was really amicable. Though I don't think we'll realistically remain friends since we have no overlap and met online.

Lol, this is not going to be fun as a 24 year old male in the suburban Midwest (not Chicago btw) working in engineering. I am probably going to have to change both these things within the next year if I want a shot at a good social/dating life.

I learned quite a bit though, and at least I have long-term post-college relationship checked off on my resume so I don't look like a freak in the future.

She was beautiful and kind, but I'm not dating someone who is religious and waiting until marriage. Not overweight, college educated, and sex are three non-negotiables going forward. Seems like it's impossible to hit all three.

All you people wanting a traditional woman, you better be traditional yourself. It's not as fun unless you unironically enjoy going to Church.

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-06-09T21:00:30+00:00

Destiny: "50-80% flake rate is insane to believe."

Destiny: "Passport bros are weak men who want to take advantage of women."

Bro has no idea what is going on in dating in the West.

EulenWatcher · 2023-06-09T20:56:05+00:00

Some of the kids I tutor wanna turn me into a Buddhist monk I guess.

Nate_Reborn · 2023-06-09T20:55:06+00:00

Q4W: How can I study/understand the female gaze? Any good reference points?

Bandit174 · 2023-06-09T20:54:08+00:00

A reminder that Lillth posts too many reminders.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-06-09T20:49:56+00:00

A reminder that guys here are no better than bad boy chasers. Both groups will chase shitty people that are extremely attractive, then blame other people when it gets them hurt. Difference is guys here think being pathetically desperate for Stacy is excusable.

fuckup220 · 2023-06-09T20:46:54+00:00

Hear ye hear ye, the user known as InjectAdrenochrome has NO connection to the user formerly known as chrome

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-06-09T19:55:42+00:00

what’s the woman version of 666???? like what is a unicorn?

also if women want 666 and men want unicorns doesn’t this mean men have the higher standards?

questioningfeminist · 2023-06-09T19:50:45+00:00

Our new car that we've been waiting for 3 months finally came in today!!

Particular_Trade6308 · 2023-06-09T19:43:29+00:00

I’m pretty rich, I’m gonna make 7 figures this year. Went to dinner with a buddy, his plate, and some of her friends. One chick gave the usual spiel about how she wants the guy to be masculine by paying on the date. I asked her why he needs to pay for everything to be masculine or fulfill his role, and she said “if he has to ask that, he can’t afford it.”

Also found out she’s in a situationship with some Chad who apparently is “toxic.”

Unfortunately I don’t think I can leverage my $ for dating unless I rly throw it around, drive a Benz, get a watch, wear designer, take the girls to Nobu etc. right now I live a middle class life and get ghosted and filtered out like everyone else.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-09T19:35:45+00:00

What exactly is a "liberal woman"?

I keep seeing this used, and I'm not sure what y'all mean.

potoricco · 2023-06-09T19:34:30+00:00

I AM GOING TO SEE SPIDERMAN2 NOW AHHHH I AM SO EXCITED

accountinghelpadviso · 2023-06-09T19:18:40+00:00

I think a lot of men go in to dating with the idea of finding a relationship. However, if they don't feel like having a relationship with the girl for whatever reason, the vast majority of men would definitely want to continue a casual relationship if they thought she was attractive enough for that. Is that wrong? I don't think so, as long as it's not deceiving. Men like sex...

I'd say I fall into that camp as well. Goal is LTR, but a fun casual relationship would be something fun to do while looking.

That could be one reason why girls think they are being used for sex or men constantly don't commit. It's just guys rejecting the LTR, but saying they still want to bang.

SorryEm · 2023-06-09T19:09:58+00:00

Liberal women have no right to complain about men not being masculine or attractive.

questioningfeminist · 2023-06-09T18:49:08+00:00

Tate and co are a symptom, not the disease!

The left is the disease that is turning men in droves towards these idiots.

It's fascinating that the left absolutely refuses to look at their role in the demonization of men, destruction of masculinity and leaving an entire generation of men with no identity or purpose, but no, "it's just misogyny. We need to fight the misogyny".

No... you need to fight the blatant, uncheck misandry that your side is pushing day in and day out.

The right isn't going to do anything to help boys, but they aren't actively hating them and throwing insults towards them day after day the way the left is.

At the very least, the right gives boys an identity and a role to fulfill.

The left has utterly failed our young men.

potoricco · 2023-06-09T18:16:02+00:00

“Trad women: Pick better men. you won’t get abused as long as you just pick a good man

Also trad women: control your hypergamy. Stop being so picky.

Also trad women: women NEED to find husbands. You will live an unfulfilled life if you become a spinster. You will die surrounded by cats ”

Like do they realize there isn’t just an infinite supply of good hearted, marriage material, reasonably attractive and wealthy men. Statistically,mathematically if every woman has to get married, many will have to end up with shitty men, or be single (oh no!🤢🤢🤢). This isn’t something you can just “pick a better man” your way out of

the-lone-squid · 2023-06-09T18:10:54+00:00

Funny how they banned Tate but the female "manosphere" creators are now the top creators in the space

Ok-Map-7596 · 2023-06-09T17:59:06+00:00

If the redpill argument for older men dating some fresh outta highschool chick is "they're consenting adults. There's nothing wrong with it, mind your own business"

Why do these same redpillers use shaming tactics on a woman who's promiscuous? Couldn't the same arguments above be more or less used here?

rantsincognito · 2023-06-09T17:56:12+00:00

I have an acquaintance who is going through some marital problems. His wife is a former "dancer" and he was more financially successful when they met (still is). He's not rich, but in our upper middle class circle. Dudes warned him not to marry her because they knew her background. "She's not that person anymore" he'd say, "people change", "she had already stopped by the time we met". She told him she wouldn't "dance" anymore. They got married and 3-4 years in, now she wants to do it again. It's a part of who she is, she says. Not fair to have to give something up she likes just for him. She's going around getting "advice", but more like badmouthing and making it seem like he's controlling when she's just going back on her word. Now he's crying and complaining about it. The gender divide on the matter is typical (aside from some of the older ladies crossing over, and some simp dudes in return). People can hide who they are long enough to get what they want, and then screw you over once you're in too deep.

He's a pretty good looking yt dude from a relatively good family too (although his parents are both former divorcees with children from prior marriages). He could have done better but shot himself in the foot. There's a reason "can't turn a ho into a housewife" is age old advice.

PBtoast707 · 2023-06-09T17:55:28+00:00

I hope João Félix comes to the MLS to play since he’s done with Atlético Madrid. He’s hot and I want to watch him play in-person.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-06-09T17:43:15+00:00

I realize why men here hate women divorcing so much: Because they think wives are suppose to be mommy number 2 and practically baby their husbands.

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1453amt/m32_f29_my_wife_of_6_12_years_abandoned_me_when_i/

Funny enough, the guy reminds of a woke leftist with the “Woe is me, I am helpless and will do nothing for myself” attitude. Guys claim that “women want a traditional man while she’s not traditional herself” but I see this being the case gender flipped.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-09T17:36:01+00:00

Wow, some of y'all really want women to stay in unhappy or toxic marriages.

Why?

thestruggle-isreal · 2023-06-09T17:21:23+00:00

There’s this girl who pressures me to have sex but I’m hesitant to tell her no to not hurt her feelings. What should I do ?

chilikettlechips · 2023-06-09T17:07:40+00:00

https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1453amt/m32_f29_my_wife_of_6_12_years_abandoned_me_when_i/

literally shaking right now that this woman abandoned her husband of 12 years for such superficial, shallow reasons. They made vows. smh my head. Women always abandon husbands in times of weakness.

Maractop · 2023-06-09T07:35:00+00:00

This is gonna sound dumb but I was beginning to feel jaded about relationships and dating because of some of the stuff I read here and see on social media. But then I realized that I had never experienced like 99% of the things that I had seen which contributed to the feeling so I just kinda stopped feeling that way. Its kinda funny looking back at how I would internalize other peoples bad experiences and feel as if they were my own. Im still aware that bad things could happen but im not gonna stress about it or assume the worst right from the start. Ill just keep it in the back of my mind I guess. Idk if that makes sense

AspiringMogger · 2023-06-09T08:11:13+00:00

Just saw a news article about a 16 year old jumping in front of a train to commit suicide because he was ugly, autistic and bullied all of his life. He posted his face for discussion as well and he got torn apart.

Some of these pill spaces have to be 18+ tbh

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-09T06:19:02+00:00

Why do people hate on traveling?

I've never once traveled with the intention of getting laid. Has it happened while traveling? Sure, maybe twice. But it's certainly not common.

I'm beginning to think a lot of folks get their ideas from romantic comedies.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-06-09T15:47:44+00:00

No men are complaining that only women are socially accepted as stay at home spouses. Men don't complain that they are expected to out earn their spouse/partner. Men don't complain about having to be the initial pursuer for relationships. Men don't complain that they should be put in the position of defender if there's a burglar breaking into the home.

You can tell a person is new to PPD (and knowing about the manosphere) when they write shit like this.

96tillinfinity_ · 2023-06-09T12:53:13+00:00

Dating went to shit once the smartphone hit the market

Social media has destroyed mental health on a level we have never seen before

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-06-09T11:09:35+00:00

I think too highly of people in the sub Reddit, because I was not expecting to see a couple of guys honestly truly not understand the difference between personal preferences and a sexuality.

AnyIntroduction3288 · 2023-06-09T13:21:37+00:00

What men think the only definition of grape is:

Being pulled into the bushes while walking on the sidewalk and having the thing happen from a stranger.

What it also is:

Sally has been with her boyfriend Joe for a year. Sally wants to wait until marriage to have intercourse. Joe doesn’t but promises that he will wait for her. After being called a pussywhipped beta by his friends, Joe decides he can’t wait anymore. Joe begins to relentlessly beg sally for intercourse and guilt trips sally for not going “all the way” with him. He insists he wants to marry her so it’s ok and threatens to break up with her if she doesn’t. One day, she reluctantly agrees to a “just the tip” situation. Instead of putting “just the tip” in, he shoves the whole thing into her, and when she yells out in pain and tries to shove him off, he keeps going until she has to force him off.

It also is:

John has been dating Jane for 3 months. Jane keeps denying sex, saying she wants to wait until a serious relationship. John is a doctor and believes that Jane is not appreciating him enough because he is successful and has money. John takes Jane home one day and gets Jane PLASTERED by giving her a bunch of strong drinks filled with sugar to mask the taste and encouraging her to keep drinking. John does the deed with her while she’s super drunk.

LillthOfBabylon · 2023-06-09T14:11:11+00:00

How can you even begin to explain heterosexuality without presuming gender stereotypes? The idea that you as a man desire women is implying you desire some extent of gender stereotypes.

If men and women were the same, why the fuck would they find interest in each other? Precisely these differences are the ones that fill the gaps and desires of each other and help them complement.

For anyone wondering why I vented that a couple of guys here dont understand what sexuality (sexual orientation, to be precise) is.

Sexual orientation is about being attracted to gender, not gender stereotypes. A man who only likes feminine women is heterosexual. A man who only likes masculine women is also heterosexual. These men just have different preferences of what type of women they like, but they’re both still hetero.

Being attracted to a woman based on her sexual characteristics and being attracted to a woman based on her behavior are not the same things.

purplish_possum · 2023-06-10T02:02:04+00:00

My 12 year old daughter is decked out in designer sweatpants, a pink baseball cap, and a Coach purse. My ex has created a monster.

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-10T03:48:47+00:00

I can't wait to be married one day.

As a woman beyond the wall, that day will mean I'll glow and raise above everyone as I come into "wifely powers".

potoricco · 2023-06-09T17:01:00+00:00

I’m in this weird dilemma where I want to be a rich auntie and travel the world and live a luxurious life but then I also want kids

Realistically, I can’t have both, I have to choose one

Several_Pressure7765 · 2023-06-10T03:06:48+00:00

For the love of God start allowing polls.

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-09T06:15:25+00:00

Ladies, if your pets dislike your new man BE CAREFUL.

No-Regular1667 · 2023-06-09T11:05:43+00:00

What’s the best way to respond to my mom insinuating that I’m gay because I’ve never brought a girl home?

NothingOrAllLife · 2023-06-09T12:56:56+00:00

The idea that men are different so their cheating is different is a fallacy. One they had many flaws. The biggest one is this:

They say woman can easily have sex (and attach emotions to all sex) and that men have to earn sex. So because it’s easy, it’s not good for a woman to have a lot of sex.

If men have to earn sex and be seen as providers and worthy of sex, then what is my husband/bf doing to make this other woman who is sleeping with him think he’s worthy or valuable enough to have sex with him? If he buying her things? And thus lessening his value to me as his partner? Is he spending time with her? Thus giving her things that should belong to me as his partner?

If he’s buying her things and spending time with her, in order to have sex with her, it means he’s manipulating her feelings (that he knows she’s going to form) without any regard to whether or not it would hurt her. And he’s spending his resources on her, lessening what’s available to me; so there’s no positive in it for me.

If he’s not doing anything to get her and prove his value, then men don’t need ACTUAL value to be seen as “worthy” of sex, just apparent value. Which is much easier to have than actual value.

SeveralSadEvenings · 2023-06-09T15:25:33+00:00

38 years old, and I still don't know when or if its appropriate to platonically talk to men.

Kiddo's school had an end of year picnic yesterday, the family went and we had a good time.

While standing in line for popcorn, one of kiddo's classmates and came up started playing with him, while classmate's dad spots me in line and waves. I see classmate's dad everyday for pick up, so we chit chat about the weather, vacation plans, camps, parent stuff, etc., sometimes by ourselves or with other parents. I'd say after 9 months we have a rapport and seem to generally like the same pop culture things. I also have this easy rapport with a few other dads, but only 2 moms.

Anyway, dad comes up and says hello to me and then starts talking about the picnic activities. My husband is standing besides me the entire time but the dad doesn't introduce himself, they've only met once before.

It was a brief interaction; hello, how do you like the picnic, yeah we did face painting, its so nice the PTO put this together, well I hope you have a good summer, bye.

Anyway, this morning my husband said he doesn't like classmate's father, specifically cause of the snub. According to him, how are you gonna introduce yourself to the wife but not the husband? Now husband suspects ulterior motives from classmate's dad and I'm exhausted.

For 18 years this has been a consistent theme; every dude that talks to me is sketch, and is trying to angle for puss.

Maybe when we were younger, but I feel by now in our late 30's/early 40's most dudes have chilled the fuck out and aren't just walking erections. Especially now that were all married, have kids, mortgages, etc. Thats a whole lot of stuff on line just to blow it up for milf puss, right?

Husband isn't mad at me, I just wish he wasn't so suspicious of other dudes. I think he'd get a long with most of these dads; but the irony is that husband gets a long a lot better with the moms. 😂

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-09T16:07:21+00:00

It seems like some posters here expect to meet 1 girl, fall in love, get married, and have children.

They fully expect success after one single crush.

It's bizarre. Dating is a process, that takes times. If more understood the concept, maybe they wouldn't suffer so much from their self made problems.

meteorness123 · 2023-06-10T01:23:09+00:00

Most women don't look for a top man, most women don't monkey branch and most people seek out partners with similar desirability and most people date within their socioeconomic class.

Sure-Vermicelli4369 · 2023-06-10T03:28:37+00:00

Locked in the deal today on my new car.

Honestly feeling kinda bummed now that it's sinking in that I'll need to sell my old one... I had it for 11 years and had a lot of memories in that car. It was there for me basically throughout all of my 20s, through multiple relationships, moved me to three different states, and served me nearly 200,000 problem-free miles. Best car I've ever owned and probably will ever own.

Feels like I'm grieving over the end of relationship

Greedy_Parsnip1339 · 2023-06-09T07:22:08+00:00

What do yall think of liberal women?

Personally I think most are just entitled af, just like that women from recent TikTok post, they want to have their cake and eat it too. Just like most women, they seem to only like traditionally masculine men(both on looks and actions) but also want to not be judged for being non traditional. That is pretty hypocritical I am not gonna lie.

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-09T08:39:52+00:00

I've got a really funny joke okay so two guys are talking and one of them goes "wait what are we talking about" and the other one goes "dementia" (this made me laugh for 5 minutes straight)

potoricco · 2023-06-09T11:28:43+00:00

LAST DAY OF SCHOOL

potoricco · 2023-06-09T14:29:13+00:00

The Second Amendment is For Women🇺🇸

AspiringMogger · 2023-06-09T16:39:00+00:00

Every date I’ve ever had in my life unless I’ve shared DNA there hasn’t been a second one. This one with my oneitis, is no different.

Guess what her reasoning was? You was flirting too much. Meanwhile I’m shitting bricks trying to make a good first impression. May all women feel the scorching flames of the hell fires they crawled up from🙏🏾🙏🏾

Royal-Tip4585 · 2023-06-10T00:49:55+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/reddit/comments/145bram/addressing_the_community_about_changes_to_our_api/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=1&utm_term=1

What a mess.

Rule 1 of being a king. Know your key supporters. And for Reddit it’s the mods and the 3rd party app creators. Not the pure users. While I shitpost I don’t actually contribute to the site.

figuringLifeIsGood · 2023-06-10T02:22:48+00:00

i think my dates are intimidated by me and i don’t know what i should do 😩

they’re spoiling me and so nervous and respectful idk. i think i love boys too much for my own good 😓

potoricco · 2023-06-10T02:44:56+00:00

Not gonna lie, it’s painful for me to watch female characters with affectionate relationships with their fathers.

Like their fathers support them unconditionally, hug them openly, let them express themselves. While my father “loves” me it’s more about just respect, discipline and obedience from me. I don’t really have the words for it, but just extreme formality.

Why I don’t agree with how sometimes rp will say like the father just needs to be a provider and strong figure. I have a father, not a dad, and it does hurt

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-06-10T04:35:21+00:00

Hey what's with that woman trying to groom a minor on here?

DeliveryBoy1821 · 2023-06-10T05:16:45+00:00

Since coming out of my shell more socially I have found the people I perceived as "higher status" are actually more open and laid back and easy to befriend than the other nerds.

My roommate who's a salesmen is always wanting to talk, offering me beer or weed or inviting me to stuff. The guy who's a math major I try to start conversations with him and he gives me one two word answers. When we do talk it's about programming and it's this akward thing where he's trying to one up me and show off how smart he is.

Same for cold approach. If the girl has tattoos and looks and seems like the more outgoing type they are way more receptive and let me down easy or will go on a date. The nerdy looking girls usually say "I don't even know you why would I give you my number."

Just two examples but I have a lot more. Kinda makes sense in hindsight that more social people are easier to socialize with, but for some reason I always used to be way more nervous around them than I was around nerds, and thought they would be more harsh because they are the "cool kids" and I'm the wierd nerdy dude.

InjectAdrenochrome · 2023-06-09T06:10:47+00:00

First

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-09T10:40:31+00:00

A weird movie I discovered today is called Oedipus Orca and it's Italian and made in the 70s so that's how you know it's gonna be insane but I discovered it through its amazing soundtrack it's electronic but it's got very unsettling vibes, it's perfect.

thetruthishere_ · 2023-06-09T12:06:15+00:00

Doing a vendor show this weekend, hope the weather is nice and glad the smoke has mostly cleared out. It was very heavy till yesterday.

Have a good weekend all!

potoricco · 2023-06-09T12:20:56+00:00

Going absolutely feral over boys with skinny legs

Willow-girl · 2023-06-09T12:30:24+00:00

Yesterday I read an article about a new trend, "mommunes." Sure as shit, society is turning into the human equivalent of a barn cat colony!

potoricco · 2023-06-09T13:33:56+00:00

Miles morales is my new hyper fixation

Sometimes I get really obsessed with things

CapsuleCorpLogo · 2023-06-09T13:56:15+00:00

One of the main things females say that pisses me off is “If he doesn’t like cats it’s such a red flag” because it’s then usually followed up by “because you can’t control cats”. Just makes me realize how delusional some people are, which is pretty rich coming from me.

I hate cats, but they love me because every time I go to my friends house his girlfriends THREE cats never leave me alone. They are always brushing up against my leg and watching everything I do. One even sat in my lap which was wind af because I didn’t know cats had any compassion in them.

Ohmaygahh · 2023-06-09T14:12:45+00:00

What a strange week. Has anyone had long forgotten high school women DM/FB message, txt you out of the blue to "catch up" only to discover that a primary reason they reached out is because their husbands/bfs/lovers have died and they are sending out feelers to see if you would be interested in fucking them?

I have such mixed feelings about it. The momentary flattery feels fucking disgusting; that these women had me in mind as a "break glass in case of emergency" secondary role in their sexual/romantic psyche.

And that the only reason that they have the courage to reach out is because their primary significant other is dead. I've noticed it's happening more and more as you i get older. I'm only "succeeding" in attracting women through pure attrition, and that feels awful.

But of course, women are going to women, right?

So, guys has this happened to you? women, why the fuck do you do this.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-06-09T14:14:13+00:00

All women are Dee Dee. They are but a leaf in the wind, getting wafted around helplessly through their entire lives. A perpetual victim to their environment. Then come on Reddit and have some fucking opinions lmao

SorryEm · 2023-06-09T17:05:11+00:00

Do you remember that one black mirror episode of some guy sorta livestreaming his perspective and some other guy gives him advice through an earpiece on how to get a girl? I want that but with like some opinionated PPD bluepiller giving the advice.

potoricco · 2023-06-10T01:45:31+00:00

“How to serve cunt but in an evil way “

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-10T04:10:31+00:00

What does "the wall" mean?

Can someone describe what happens?

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HackerNeuro · 2023-06-09T09:09:07+00:00

I’m 24 and women my age are treacherous, crazy standards, smart ass mouth on them, they talk how they want because a man won’t hit them back, and all around delusional, I’m going overseas 🫡😎

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-09T09:17:01+00:00

I literally feel music in my soul like everyone listen to naran ratan right now it's literally speaking to me holy shit

DrinkItInMan11 · 2023-06-09T10:37:02+00:00

Failure is such a great tool for self growth, in fact you should be chasing failure, as it shows you where you might be going wrong in certain areas of life.

Instead of crying about it, actually sit down and think to yourself, what can I do to make it better? Where exactly did I go wrong?

AdOpen432 · 2023-06-09T11:16:18+00:00

Okay like everyone should listen to naran ratan right now because it's physically speaking to me I love it and also everyone should invest in flutes because they create healing energy BE SAFE

potoricco · 2023-06-09T13:11:13+00:00

Is it just me or like replies aren’t showing up at all

potoricco · 2023-06-09T14:25:11+00:00

Trads: Having a husband is way more dignified. Instead of being subservient to a man that doesn’t care about you, you can choose to submit to a man that does, and provides for you. He is the captain and you’re the first mate

Also trads:your husband is your boss, obey him at all times or else

anonymous-platypus1 · 2023-06-09T14:30:23+00:00

Hot tub is open! Can’t wait to soak in it today!

VTHokie2020 · 2023-06-09T15:22:11+00:00

I take 1.5mg of melatonin and I wake up like 1.5 hours later than I normally do.

Insane.

shmupsy · 2023-06-09T15:23:54+00:00

I thought this was a fantastic breakdown of the misinformation surrounding women choosing a more traditional family life. I think the benefits have been hidden from modern people.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zgFRyd17osM

potoricco · 2023-06-09T16:58:44+00:00

Why am I actually sad that school is endinnggg like I’m gonna miss everybody

I’ll see them in 3 months

BigVulvaEnergy · 2023-06-09T16:59:51+00:00

We're spending $2,000 to decorate our bedroom, bathroom, closet, and window seat area.

Probably, a total of $5000 for the whole apartment.

social_mule · 2023-06-10T01:21:17+00:00

R.I.P. the Iron Sheik 👳🏽‍♂️

potoricco · 2023-06-10T02:34:26+00:00

About like one week per month I literally can’t stand anyone. Like everyone is just absolutely insufferable even just by not doing anything. Im like that now. Everyone gets on my nerves

armpitpics · 2023-06-10T03:06:45+00:00

I hear all these excuses women make to keep their surname after marriage:
"but what about my degree and personal brand?"
"my surname is so ethnic and I'm proud of it!"
"my surname is my identity, it feels wrong to change it"

Meanwhile, men keep theirs as they are and expect their wives to take theirs, no questions asked and no excuses needed.

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