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| 6 | How do you think we can tackle kink inequality....or should it even be a concern?You know that’s not a right that the government has to enforce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 12:22 PM |
| 12 | What is an unpopular dating opinion you have about your gender?Women can have stupid and unrealistic standards for what they want in a partner. And this is coming from a woman who’s engaged to a very successful man. Social media has poisoned EVERYONES view of what a partner should be. But if I have to pick something specifically that I see women doing, it’s having stupid lines drawn in the sand for what you want in a partner. Namely, the money thing. It’s unrealistic to think every single man is going to make $250,000. Without making that yourself, unless y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 12:45 AM |
| 5 | Women with high standards should date unattractive menWait putting uggs outside because they smell is being “less fussy”? Do you know what bullshit some women put up with from men regarding cleanliness and hygiene? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 11:53 AM |
| 4 | Women will always have an advantage in hookup culture and it’s completely fair.I’m confused to see how this is a woman’s issue or even an issue with women? If men are the ones being desperate and providing “unworthy” women with attention and interest how is that a problem they need to fix? Let’s be real, an unattractive man can get attention from hot women if he has lots of money. He knows they are with him for the money. Do you really think women who are unattractive don’t know they aren’t the conventional looking type? It doesn’t matter if you can get attention from peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/23 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?Most 18 year olds in the United States are not acting as fully functional adults. You are hyper focusing on the rare few who HAD to step into the shoes of a more responsible party. I don’t care if it’s infuriating you because you had a different experience, it’s the truth. The 18 year olds that have to grow up fast have to because they have no choice. I personally feel that 18 is too young to join the military. Especially when those same people that are signing up to fight and die for their coun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/23 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?I am a 30+ year old woman, recently and extremely happily engaged. My partner and I have so much fun together. Early in our relationship we had fun together just getting to know one another. When I was 18 I was way more neurotic about dating. I just said yes to everything and pretended like I was having a good time out of fear the guy would leave or otherwise wouldn’t like me. I can guarantee my fiancé prefers me happy as opposed to just going along with everything based on fear. Again, what stu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 09:47 PM |
| 2 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?What the fuck is an aspiring intern? Do i think that 18 year olds should be able to seeking out seminars talks and lunches and learns in order to learn about company culture and a career path, sure. But do I think it would be creepy and wildly inappropriate if one of those older experts entered into an relationship with that same 18 year old, absolutely. And so would the office. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?…so you’re suggesting the the 30 year old chat up the office intern? And in every office I’ve worked in the interns have been mostly college sophomores. Not freshmen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?Have you talked to an 18 year old? My brothers and I have a huge age gap, and we had very different experiences in everything. Even just in communication, humor, etc. I cannot image dating someone that young. They are also fickle and flighty as hell. So much emotions running around, about things that, in my experience, aren’t that big of a deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?What 18 year olds are going to office mixers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?An 18 year old having the same life experience as a 30 year old is usually never on purpose. Even 18 year olds in the military, despite going into a career field that’s high risk, still need a LOT of oversight and instruction. An 18 year old that’s as mature as an 30 year old that actually acts their age, was probably failed by the adults around them. This may be me speaking from a western veiwpoint, but an 18 year old usually has not developed enough life skills to be on par with a 30 year old.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?An 18 year old and a 30 year old have very little actually in common. Experience, life goals, values, it’s all going to be different. Even trad people don’t tend to have much in common with their partners outside of expectations. A 30 year old man saying he connects better with an 18 year old is, on average, an outright lie. Or, that 30 year old is extremely immature and should not be dating. In general, 30 year old men with means aren’t going after the 18 year old who has nothing and who has do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?Someone from mainland China and someone from the US will most likely still have similar cultural references for some things. They will know a lot of the same music, have similar taste, the other things are simply family dynamic and social references that can be learned. But it’s also why most people still date within their socioeconomic background. My fiancé and I are in an IR relationship. I grew up well off and he grew up extremely well off. Culturally, our holiday practices and traditions are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 01:19 PM |
| 11 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?What stuff are you trying to do with a 20 year old, as a 30+ year old man, that 30 year old women don’t want to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Why should a man not date younger women given the opportunity?Well. No, but your interest at 30 are going to be very different than a 20 year olds interest. Music tastes, what’s considered fun. Very few 30 year old men, especially the ones that post here, are going to want to go clubbing and such with a 20 year old every weekend. They are going to have no interest in hanging out with her friends because all her friends are probably young 20s with young 20s problems. You’re going to feel like an outsider. Or you’re going to be one of those old boyfriends th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/23 12:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Red pill views of family law (divorce, custody, child support) have little to no basis in realityWhy would an attorney, who bills by the hour usually, tell someone to settle? Trials take wayyy more work. Especially in child support cases where the man can usually get the custody he’s asking for. Usually the men don’t want to put up the fight and/or the money to go to trial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/23 02:53 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe’s amazing! Definitely something I want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 12:58 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think he’s about to propose 😬 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/23 12:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.How does she have you if you’re out Fucking other women? She doesn’t have you. By virtue of being high value that means the nuances and draw backs that come with divorce don’t impact you nearly as much because of the sheer amount of money you have to handle a divorce and get attorneys. Letting him do something like that when she’s not 100% into the idea is just asking for the relationship to implode. And honestly if she is into the idea (of something one sided) I don’t think that woman actually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:50 PM |
| 6 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.So communicate with your partners? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:11 PM |
| 2 | CMV Its so hard to become High Value as a Man, that its absolutely logical that most men off this caliber want to have sex with other women besides they're Wife/Girlfriend, i am really curious if someone can change my view on this.Men that have status and money date differently. Look at how many NBA/celebrities go to sex workers and prostitutes. They aren’t using sex to get validation, they are having sex just because they enjoy it and it’s available with ease. A HVM that wants to be monogamous will be monogamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 12:10 PM |
| 3 | How would you feel if your sweet daughter was the one out there having sex with men old enough to be father?Why is your adult daughter having a life causing your psychological pain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 12:40 PM |
| 1 | What is wrong with "free sex"?Yeah and those men that are patrons of only fans women still aren’t “getting free sex”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:41 PM |
| 4 | Does the past matter? Talking about sexual historyWhat. That’s not what we are talking about at all. This is an act she tried with a previous partner and did not like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Has Ghosting Become An Acceptable Way to End Relationships?I don’t know any adults that have broken up with someone via ghosting? Maybe over text? But I haven’t really heard about ghosting from an actual, defined, committed relationship ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 11:42 AM |
| 5 | What is wrong with "free sex"?Assume the commas are or’s. But usually, being pleasant and charming in attractive men go hand-in-hand. Either way, the point is, they aren’t expecting sex just for existing, they are putting in effort for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 02:09 AM |
| 10 | What is wrong with "free sex"?No I’m not. Very few men get free sex without giving anything in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 02:00 AM |
| 6 | What is wrong with "free sex"?Those men still do things to attract the women. They are pleasant, funny, charming, and usually very generous in one way or another. Mostly they put in time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:27 AM |
| 7 | Does the past matter? Talking about sexual historyBut previously she didn’t let two partners have anal. So to be consistent she should no longer have anal, at least until the exact amount of time it took her to try anal before has passed. In my example, two partners don’t get it, the third does: that’s consistency. Or what if she had anal with that 3rd guy because his equipment was smaller? It would be inconsistent of her to do it with a guy with a larger dick. Or what if they waited five years to do anal, you’d have to wait five years also. Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:25 AM |
| 5 | Does the past matter? Talking about sexual historyIt’s not how it works. Consistency doesn’t mean best. Someone could consistently get infections due to poor hygiene habits but be able to clean up at random intervals. Is the poor hygiene the “best they can do”? No. Poor hygiene is what they’ve become complacent with. You want a partner that will be complacent with abuse. What is consistency? She dated someone once who turned out to be a serial sex offender and would force himself on her under the threat of death, do you expect her to let you do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:12 AM |
| 8 | What is wrong with "free sex"?Free to me means no effort at all. He just wants to have sex that he enjoy because he wants it and has a penis. He wants women to ignore the thousands of years of social conditioning that tells them sex is precious and sacred in order to have them have sex with him without him having to put forth any effort or work. In a relationship “free sex” is all fine and dandy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 01:03 AM |
| 9 | Does the past matter? Talking about sexual historyThat’s not how this works. Take off the sociopath hat for a second and think about it just logically. Why, if you don’t want to do it, would you ask her to do it just because she did it in the past? Isn’t that a little crazy. If you used to be fat and eat pizza every day to the point of having a heart attack would you keep doing it just to be consistent? Would you ask her to do it if you knew she literally didn’t enjoy it and thought it was painful, degrading and horrible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 12:59 AM |
| 8 | Does the past matter? Talking about sexual historyWould you ask your Ms. Moral to do an act she hates, one that feels humiliating and physically painful and terrible to her, just because you enjoy it? Would you want her to keep doing it for you? Would you enjoy it if she didn’t? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Has Ghosting Become An Acceptable Way to End Relationships?Are you talking about breaking up or just ghosting someone you went on two or three dates with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 10:33 PM |
| 2 | What was your "they're not gonna lost long" moment? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPICIt’s certainly not money, status or looks. She does seem to enjoy his company and even living the simple life his…I’m gonna say frugalness requires. To each their own, but the man has zero shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 01:01 AM |
| 2 | What was your "they're not gonna lost long" moment? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPICPoor guy! Poor friend. That dick must be immaculate or something because I don’t understand it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 12:58 AM |
| 3 | What was your "they're not gonna lost long" moment? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPICNope. He’s also not cute. Not sure what my friend sees in him. But my boyfriend hated him and he tries to see the best in everyone. That guy is one of the few people he will complain about having to interact with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 12:53 AM |
| 6 | What was your "they're not gonna lost long" moment? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPICI don’t think he was ashamed at all, I think he was banking on his gfs well off friends taking care of the meal. I don’t care about paying for my friend. I am not paying for a grown ass man I don’t know. My friends and I take turns paying. If we are with SOs, they tend to split or one of them pays. This was the first time we met this guy and our friend raved about him! Moved across the state to be with him. Turns out he’s a bum. The fucked up part is that his family has money too, he’s just weir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 12:43 AM |
| 2 | Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women?So then her having a social media isn’t an issue. But if you met your girl and she was posting slutty pictures, you knew what you were getting into. If she doesn’t have slutty pics up at all, I don’t see why the social media would be a problem. If you are friends with her on instagram seeing her posts, do you think she’s going to suddenly start posting slutty pictures once you start dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 12:14 AM |
| 6 | What exactly is a traumatized woman?Isn’t getting bored with dating and with women that same as “being unable to appreciate the new guy” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 10:20 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is a traumatized woman?Not really. He’s also been in failed relationships that got nowhere. He is has likely had at least one situation where he felt some betrayal or heartbreak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Nonverbal consentI don’t mind being asked. Early on my boyfriend would just sort of lean in and say something like “I’d really like to kiss you”. But we are also kinky so the consent thing is huge. Especially during sex, he has a thing for making me ask for what I want or he will tell me what he’s planning on doing. Honestly, I find it hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 10:17 PM |
| 7 | What was your "they're not gonna lost long" moment? WEEKLY DISCUSSION TOPICFriends and I went out to dinner with our friend and the man she just got serious with. They picked the place and he ordered most of the dishes. At the end when the bill came he said “I don’t think I can afford this right now”. So my friend who works part-time paid for one of the four things they ordered and didn’t leave any tip. And the rest of us just split it. She was so embarrassed because he was the one that kept ordering food and drinks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women?What’s the middle ground between being very defensive or very open about n count? If I tell you I’ve slept with three people is that too open? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 10:03 PM |
| 4 | Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women?Do you think that everyone that uses social media is positing “slutty” pictures? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women?Ask how the other men here if they expect the woman to manage the finances. That is not a traditional take on women and money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women?Honestly, you have to be rich rich to even buy a real Birkin. You have to spend like 20-50k at Hermes before they even invite you to buy one. It’s also the difference between having wealth and having money. Money screams and wealth whispers. It’s mostly new money rushing out to want to buy a Birkin. This is actually a point of discussion my bf and I have sometimes. His family is wealthy, not Uber wealthy but still far from new new money. They understand the rules and such. My bf is kinda helping… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women?Good replicas are generally cheap and high quality, that’s the gag. I have a fake very high end bag, limited edition, I get compliments on it in the store. It cost $70 bucks, the actual lower priced “dupe” for the bag , made by a popular designer costs three times as much and is half the quality. If you know how to shops your replicas then they can usually be the better choice. If I’m buying the alternative then I’m already not buying it for the name, I’m buying it for the look. I’d rather have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 09:20 PM |
| 9 | Any unusual flags/traits you look out for in women?I’m gonna tell you now, unless the women you know are actually rich, if they are buying expensive van cleef, bags, etc, it’s usually fake. Now, granted they are good fakes. But you can’t even walk into Hermes and buy a Birkin or a Kelly bag off the street. You have to be invited to buy them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 08:57 PM |
| 1 | How could men not take being unsuccessful to heart when women keep insisting that their desires make a ton of sense all the time?I don’t really believe in SMV. It doesn’t matter for long term relationships unless you only value looks, in which case, logically you can the upset if your hot gf treats you poorly because you don’t care about anything outside of what she looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:43 PM |
| 1 | How could men not take being unsuccessful to heart when women keep insisting that their desires make a ton of sense all the time?I don’t really believe in SMV. It doesn’t matter for long term relationships unless you only value looks, in which case, logically you can the upset if your hot gf treats you poorly because you don’t care about anything outside of what she looks like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:40 PM |
| 1 | How could men not take being unsuccessful to heart when women keep insisting that their desires make a ton of sense all the time?Then hypergamy is an exception and not the rule. It has to be if MOST people don’t do it. Also, men do not date down. If all a man cares about is looks, no matter what, he’s not going to go commit to a woman he’s not attracted to. Generally, well-balanced man is going to care about more than looks. Your last gf was hot but a bitch that made you miserable: you getting a woman that’s attractive and not a bitch is not dating down. Because obviously the looks weren’t all that mattered. You’re not da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:23 PM |
| 0 | How could men not take being unsuccessful to heart when women keep insisting that their desires make a ton of sense all the time?Dating the same as you can’t be dating up. And men don’t value height or anything like that in women. It’s not dating up because it’s an even and equal exchange. That rich man’s not dating a woman he doesn’t find attractive…he doesn’t care about her money so we can’t compare the two. Hypergamy is bullshit. Very few women actually ONLY date within those parameters of richer, taller ect. Most women are dating average guys that make about the same as them. Most men are dating average women that are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:18 PM |
| 1 | How could men not take being unsuccessful to heart when women keep insisting that their desires make a ton of sense all the time?Those are not comparative statements. One does not disprove the other. I could easily say “dating someone that makes a little more than you is not dating up” it doesn’t have to be gendered. It’s also true. If you meet and date a woman making 10k more than you it’s likely not going to be a big deal, you guys basically make that same. And it won’t matter unless you get to super low income levels. And it ceases to matter more when you get to high incomes 200 vs 210 a year. It’s the same amount. And… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:14 PM |
| 1 | How could men not take being unsuccessful to heart when women keep insisting that their desires make a ton of sense all the time?How? It’s all actually true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:06 PM |
| 2 | How could men not take being unsuccessful to heart when women keep insisting that their desires make a ton of sense all the time?But women don’t, for the most part actually date up. Dating a man that makes a little more money than you is not dating up. Do women in places where women can’t work date up? Do women in poverty stricken areas date up if the majority of the men there are also poor? The ones that truly date out of their socioeconomic spheres are rare. If men don’t value money, success and the like in women, then there’s no way for men to date “up” because he wouldn’t see those things as a positive. Hypergamy by d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 02:04 PM |
| 3 | How could men not take being unsuccessful to heart when women keep insisting that their desires make a ton of sense all the time?There’s three reasons why I think hypergamy is bullshit: 1) most people date within their social class. A woman making 20K and a man making 30k are in the same damn social sphere. She’s not dating up. She dating within her league. 2) men claim not to care about money or status in women. So, because what men value is fertility and beauty so long as he’s getting a woman with things he values, he’s also “dating up”. If men cared about women’s money it would be different, but as they don’t care, say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 01:49 PM |
| 3 | How could men not take being unsuccessful to heart when women keep insisting that their desires make a ton of sense all the time?There aren’t exceptions to the rule. hypergamy is just bullshit and not a rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 01:35 PM |
| -1 | Loneliness in Men is different to Loneliness in WomenThen you need better friends. You should be able to talk to your friends about whatever. My guy friends know absolutely nothing personal about one another on a surface level, but they talk about stuff that difficult, get advice. And they aren’t judged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/23 11:56 AM |
| – | Average women should not have access to relationshipsThis is a fallacy. Men keep saying they don’t value money or success too much in women. So a man marrying a woman with a job isn’t a negative or a positive to him on average. He doesn’t care about it. He’d be perfectly happy dating an uneducated woman with no job if she’s pretty. He would only be dating down if he cared about her money and dated someone with less. Men value beauty and youth. A man that gets a young and beautiful woman is dating up because that’s what he values. A man that dates … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 10:56 PM |
| 8 | Her friend wasn’t cockblocking, you just missed a signal or there was an agreement before they even leftA friend that was interrupting a valid and wanted flirtation would simply be told that it was okay for her to leave and she would go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 09:27 PM |
| – | Average women should not have access to relationshipsI’m being facetious. The first point is true though. Slut shaming men would create way more fairness in the SMV than slut shaming women. If men refuse sex, women have fewer options for causal sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 09:19 PM |
| – | Average women should not have access to relationshipsI actually enjoy cooking. My boyfriend loves that I cook for him. He would definitely say something like “who wants to cook all the time”? He doesn’t get it because he doesn’t enjoy it as much as I do. To him, he can cook two or three things well, but it’s not fun, exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 08:59 PM |
| – | Average women should not have access to relationshipsA logical move would be to say that average women don’t deserve casual sex. If average women didn’t get attention from (inexplicably) hotter men, wouldn’t they see average men as good options? Solutions? Force men to ONLY seek casual sex from women within their league. Done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 08:55 PM |
| – | Average men should NOT have access to casual sexI disagree , but only if men keep asserting that sex is different for them. If men persist that they can have meaningless sex then I think it is damaging for them to have it. Imagine this: a man has sex regularly, randomly and often. So long as it’s true that he can have sex and feel nothing absolutely nothing, then it makes sex meaningless to him. You can’t tell me that someone can have sex with person after person, feel nothing, while still claiming that sex will somehow be sacred between them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketYou can be poly if that’s your thing. But then I’m assuming you’re not worrying about your partner cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketI dunno. I think the emotional cheating thing is an excuse women say to themselves when they are stuck in a situation and trying to make the best of it. Because he’s either spending money and time on the other woman to make her feel special enough to sleep with him. Or she’s making him feel special by making it seem like she likes him for more than what he provides. Either way, it’s fucked up. I don’t think a guy with options, choosing to be monogamous isn’t going to fuck someone else. And hypot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketWhat are the thinking they can get away with? No one can convince me that you genuinely love you partner if you’re willing to sleep with someone else just because you feel like it doesn’t matter. But watch her cheat back and it becomes a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 11:46 PM |
| 0 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketIsn’t that what all cheating comes down to? Opportunity? If a man’s not happy he’s gonna take the opportunity, if he satisfied and feels like his partner is enough, he wont. It’s the same with women. She’s not happy and someone is treating her better, then she has the opportunity to possibly be in a more fulfilling relationship, even if it’s not as serious as the one she has now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketPeople that are happy with their situations and care and respect their partners don’t cheat. Even back in the 1950s when it was common to marry the first person to give you time, those people cheated because of fomo. They wanted the experiences they didn’t get. People that cheat usually feel like if they don’t, they’ll miss out on something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 11:12 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo who are they shaming? The old men or the young women? Wouldn’t young women still pursuing them negate the shaming? Nah, considering a arbitrary number a signifier of adulthood is one thing. But it’s different when those guys actively seek out fresh 18 year olds..if you couldn’t date her legally two years ago and you’re more than 5 years olds than her maybe it’s a little weird. Especially since it’s rarely good men that are going after these young women. It’s always men that thing “women his a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 08:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut does that sentiment work? And if so why does it work? Is the only reason you’re (general you) not going for young women is because they are all listening to 40 something women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 07:43 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathread“I think it’s gross so it’s not okay to me” is very different than “I it’s legal so have at it”. And as I said earlier, if young women really don’t care, you think some old people are gonna stop them? The complaining shouldn’t matter if young women really have that preference… Two adults right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 07:33 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe “it’s legal so it’s okay” is a very slippery slope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Women want your masculine traits first, and everything else later.Sure are some examples. But wouldn’t those fall under the exceptions category? What fraction of people actually have that much power/influence? What people will do for a taste of fame is really insane sometimes. Do you think Joe from accounting would get the same treatment as Chris Brown? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 06:40 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you can only be a good parent by being married to your partner then you shouldn’t be a parent. Above all, once there are kids in the mix you need to be ready to just parent under a variety of circumstances. Got divorced? Move in nearby where your kids live so you can see them every single day and they have access to visit you? Go to their house to get them ready for school, pick them up, have them stay with you half the time, spend time with them just like you would if you were still married … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 06:37 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDoes she want to dance at a club? What’s the context? Or does she want to teach pole dancing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Men and Women define casual sex differently, leading to total misunderstanding of each otherI mean what if one man got 100 blow jobs from one person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Men and Women define casual sex differently, leading to total misunderstanding of each otherWould it be different if they weren’t beautiful? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 05:21 PM |
| 28 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketI mean they will be more worthy than someone that cheats and lies to me. I don’t have time for that shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 05:18 PM |
| 20 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketYou’re speaking from a place of paranoid, fomo and general fear. The anxiety of dating can be stressful, but when you meet a partner that you like it’s well worth it. Nothing can guarantee fidelity from either side. However, if you respect your partner enough what you’re worried about won’t be as big of a hinderance. If you’re dating someone, and you find yourself thinking that there is someone better, you’re probably not happy and you talk to your partner about it. If there’s something identifi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 04:33 PM |
| 38 | Men who believe in monogamy, exclusivity and being faithful lose in this dating marketMen that have sex don’t care about “getting sex more often” at a certain point. The desire for companionship generally begins to outweigh the desire for random sex. If my boyfriend cheated I would leave. He’s hot, well-off, charming. And if he’s not faithful and truthful then he’s not worthy of my time or attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 04:21 PM |
| 2 | Women want your masculine traits first, and everything else later.Did she know he was a murderous sociopath? Or did he hide it from her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:52 PM |
| 8 | Selective dating for only higher-status men may result in perceived commodification from those same men…they are a sugar baby. There is no need to vet, each party knows what they signed up for. She signed up for gold. The man knows this. That’s why he’s paying her to date him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:48 PM |
| 6 | Women want your masculine traits first, and everything else later.So you’ve seen an adult hurt another adult and then had a sane woman want to be with him? Like…outside of teenagers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:47 PM |
| 7 | Women want your masculine traits first, and everything else later.Do you think she finds him hot when he’s hitting her? Violence is definitely aggressive. Do you think she finds him hot when she feels like he’s about to hurt her? Those guys arent getting women by being violent toward them. Those guys are acting assertive and then showing their aggression later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 01:35 PM |
| 9 | Women want your masculine traits first, and everything else later.There 100% a difference between being aggressive and assertive. Being assertive can be done with the persistence of aggression. Aggression necessitates some sort of discomfort also, assertiveness doesn’t. A hot aggressive man is still scary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Question for women: Would you submit to a rich man?If he’s in the us your uncle doesn’t have multiple wives. He has one. You can’t legally marry more than own person in the United States. There would be no legal benefit to them submitting to him. This story reads as fanfic. Your uncle is so well off he doesn’t have help? They are so rich but need wives to cook and clean? Not buying it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 07:11 PM |
| 8 | Older women who complain about age gap relationships are just jealousIs it stopping those young women from dating the old men they want to date? In the end, if people want to date it’s not going to stop them. If these two adults are interested in one another they will date. And women do complain about abusive relationships…and other toxic relationships. No one’s calling women jealous of the woman getting abused because obviously that’s crazy. Men don’t see the age gap relationships as problematic because they think it’s only positives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:23 PM |
| 14 | Older women who complain about age gap relationships are just jealousDoes it matter? If younger women really want to date older men then it wouldn’t change anything if some older women complained. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:20 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDon’t go into it with that mindset. It’s a date, don’t ask her why she matched with you or who else she’s going out with. Just be genuine, take the time to get to know her and just enjoy the time meeting someone new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 06:19 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat if she’s attracted to you? You gonna shoot yourself in the foot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs there something wrong with you that would make someone giving you a chance an issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:42 PM |
| 2 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating powerThat’s not usually what happens. Men are very rarely “single dads” in the way women are “single moms”. And wouldn’t allowing paper abortions create more literal single moms, versus moms who have to raise a kid alone because the dad isn’t helping when he is able to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:41 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPerson: “I don’t empathize with single mothers” Same person: “I don’t agree with abortion because paper abortions aren’t an option for men” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:38 PM |
| 2 | It is hard to be empathic to women's struggles in single motherhood when they have literally all sexual and dating power…but okay wouldn’t paper abortions create more single mothers? And this time single mothers with fewer financial options for taking care of their children. Which creates worse living situations? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Apple VR + AI porn will probably make porn even a more realistic alternative to sexHow is she fucked in the head when she was literally sold to someone under certain expectations and conditions and expects him to uphold those conditions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?But as someone that did not always have access to luxuries I understand how exhausting some things can be. And this is from someone who loves cooking. The cleanup sucks . And I only do it for two people usually, imagine doing it for another adult, some crying kids, while also keeping the kids clean and clothed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?I mean I have a maid so, sure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?Do you have kids? Cooking in bulk means repeat, old meals by the end of the week. Food that’s been sitting, even frozen looses quality. I’m sure you’re fine eating the same three things for breakfast lunch and dinner for five days straight, but that’s how you get a partner that thinks “things got boring and complacent”. Keeping things clean with kids around is hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 09:46 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re a narcissistic, spoiled testtube baby who drinks breast milk and breast feeds as an adult? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 03:13 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t understand why it would ever be slow. He has women cued up, he a ten. There’s literally no reason for him to go that low. Even just for something physical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 03:11 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf this was a common problem then most his wouldn’t be on this sub. And what functioning adult uses the term “crush”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 03:10 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s just as much a hobby as COD and Mountain Dew. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 03:08 PM |
| 10 | Apple VR + AI porn will probably make porn even a more realistic alternative to sexIf they are worried about real sex being “nasty and sticky” they shouldn’t be having or thinking about having sex at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 02:26 PM |
| 10 | Apple VR + AI porn will probably make porn even a more realistic alternative to sexImma need you to read the law on this before you get all…weirdly excited. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 02:25 PM |
| 0 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?I feel like the issue is people aren’t retiring when they should. They stay in the workforce entirely too long. And we shouldn’t want teens working because it lowers wages while creating fewer full time positions. Unless they absolute have to work (which minors should never HAVE to work in America) those jobs should be done by adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 01:19 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 11:46 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes. They would object. Because most of us actually do have empathy so we are horrified by the idea of other women being systematically raped and impregnated and tortured. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 11:43 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis sounds so weird, no one talks like this. Boxing would be cool enough on its own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 11:36 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTrained who, exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 11:35 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathread…he’s a kid. Maybe he should date other 18 year olds? There is literally no way all those girls are looking for an “alpha provider”. Buy her some followers and relax. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?If they were doing the duties before without contributing to the household, if they start paying do they still have to do them? Or would the other partner, who now has to contribute less financially, do them instead? And while I like cooking, it’s definitely not a “minimal effort” activity. Unless you’re not really picky about what you eat and taste of the meal. I made roasted lamb chops today. Just for the meat included a lot of prep to make a marinade. Then made sides which all required some p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 01:31 AM |
| 0 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?But will the full time parent then start working less and contributing more to the domestic duties! Otherwise it’s no longer even. They are still taking care of the kids full-time, cooking, cleaning, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?Are you saying parents don’t raise their children? Im not talking about the legal requirements to being a child’s legal guardian…that’s a different convo. And yeah, actually day cares do get tax credits specially for being child care and/or educational facilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?Being a parent and raising children is sort of synonymous, no? Or at least it should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:28 AM |
| 0 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?You saying that raising a kid is not a job is incorrect. It in fact, is a job, it’s a booming and popular industry. So much so that it literally requires you to get licensed if you want to care for other people’s kids. It’s definitely a job to raise kids. Besides, if the government wants people to have kids in order to create a steady supply of laborers, they should definitely compensate people more for having them. Maybe at least some free healthcare and guaranteed paid parental leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:22 AM |
| -2 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?But it’s definitely a job. The task is still one that, in the case of childcare, requires licensure, regulations and pay. It’s definitely a job and it can be hard. Especially if your partner feels like helping you more than sparingly isn’t their role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?How can they be shared/split when one person isn’t working? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?Any spouse is entitled to half of all assets if it’s marital property. Not working more speaks to whether or not you have to pay after divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:05 AM |
| 0 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?Honestly yes…it would teach them responsibility instead of making those same kids go work when they are teens… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:04 AM |
| -1 | Do you think stay at home parents should earn a salary?What about Nannys and day cares? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/23 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Should abortion require the permission of the father?How can it be compromised on though! There is no way to come to a mutual decision in a situation where one partner wants to abort. If we needed the fathers permission then it’s totally up to the man whether or not an abortion can happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Men usually don't care about how much a woman earns, but men should care about how high her debt isOh the first part! Don’t know why I thought you were being facetious. No. He didn’t have any money in grad school and he wasn’t working because he was focusing on grad school. In the summer he when he got a job making money he’d pay half. But this was exclusive to grad school friends who did the same schooling and understood the struggle. So the rich men who have money from their rich parents are magically different? And untrue. Most men don’t have money to spend like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 06:10 PM |
| – | Question for everyone : How can you sleep at night knowing you “plugged into” somebody else’s money via marriage or a partnershipExactly. Men with money don’t really care about spending their money; they spend it anyway, usually on friends or themselves. They know how to spot someone using them just for their money.c too. This OP seems to be talking about an extremely one sided relationship here. And also might have some other external issues with money that may be coloring their opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 01:19 PM |
| 5 | Question for everyone : How can you sleep at night knowing you “plugged into” somebody else’s money via marriage or a partnershipI said this earlier: but generous partners dont care. I spend my money on my friends and my boyfriend, my boyfriend spends his money on his friends and me. We want to do things with them and if they don’t have the money then we still Want to share that experience with them. That means if we can afford it we are paying for them to do it. My family had a rule that you don’t let people borrow money unless you’re okay never getting it back- it’s kind of like that. Everyone can’t be equally fortunate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Men usually don't care about how much a woman earns, but men should care about how high her debt isMost people aren’t fortunate. Her guys counterparts who paid for their partners things also have rich parents. One is gay, he doesn’t expect his partner to work either. The gender doesn’t really matter here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Men usually don't care about how much a woman earns, but men should care about how high her debt isI’ma avoiding about 3K a month in rent alone. Big city prices….Which again, his idea. I never expected him to help at all with my loans. I didn’t even want to consider living with him until we are engaged. However, he made some good points. Wants me to be financial even with him since he got the majority of his schooling paid for with scholarships and money from his parents. I don’t think this is a “women won’t accept anything less thing”. People that want to be generous with their money are gen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Men usually don't care about how much a woman earns, but men should care about how high her debt isI have to get deep tooth cleanings four times a year and it’s about 100 a session with my insurance. Once a year I have to get some intense cleaning done and it’s about 650+. In the us access to healthcare definitely is an indicator of some level of wealth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Men usually don't care about how much a woman earns, but men should care about how high her debt isI disagree. Dropping 50k at once is much different than a $200 increase in bills and having your gf move in. Like I said, I appreciate the gesture and it’s super generous of him- he insisted on this arrangement, I asked initially to just pay half and use the money I saved by living with him to make extra payments. He didn’t think that plan made financial sense. So, I get it. He wants me at a certain place so he’s willing to make some arrangements to get me there at a speed he deems acceptable. S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Men usually don't care about how much a woman earns, but men should care about how high her debt isCan you show me where I said he wasn’t helping? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Men usually don't care about how much a woman earns, but men should care about how high her debt isMost of my professional school friends who dated guys that started professional school after them either let the guy live with them during the summer or during the school year if they were in the same city. The very wealthy friends were like three people, but I know one of them through my partner. Two of them are male, one is a woman who literally paid for her artist boyfriend to live for years until he got his first galley commission. But she has wealth, not just a good job. So the money was no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Phrases like, "A real man..." or "Yes, but the right man..."This. The men hep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 05:35 PM |
| 5 | Men usually don't care about how much a woman earns, but men should care about how high her debt isBut they also pay it back. I don’t know anyone, outside of some very wealthy friends who actually paid off their partners debt. Most do a similar arrangement to what my boyfriend and I have: setting a ways to alleviate the one with the burdensome debt. Usually it requires compromise and living within a certain means. Also, if it’s professional school debt, that’s not factored in when you’re buying houses. Doctors, attorneys and other professional degree holders can get special loans because the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party.I’m not confused. You don’t need to wait for marriage to minimize damage. The high rates of divorce are regularly discussed as nauseam. Marriage is not the rock it once was. Actual feelings however, are. Marriage has never been a binding agreement for fidelity or happiness, people would still cheat and stay together, hating one another, because they had to. You’ll be much more successful learning about your partner, figuring out their wants, needs, desires- all of that. A man that sees marriage … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:42 PM |
| 7 | Men usually don't care about how much a woman earns, but men should care about how high her debt isSo she has to work to pay bills AND do all the childcare? What do you consider high income? Is she doing the housework too? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party.No. I’m saying if you think premarital sex is damaging don’t have premarital sex. My view on sex is much different than the average person. Marriage isn’t permanent, it doesn’t guarantee fidelity. Nothing does. What can mitigate that risk is by getting to know your partner for a long time. If I meet a young woman that’s dating an older man, my advice is to wait to have sex with him. Especially if she’s in her late teen she years 18/19. Wait. Wait for comfort. Wait for him to prove that he is wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Age gap relationships are fine if the older party isn’t misrepresenting the relationship to the younger party.So don’t have premarital sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 02:54 PM |
| 4 | Men usually don't care about how much a woman earns, but men should care about how high her debt isThe same goes for men honestly. If that man is wanting the provider role but has six figures of debt with a five figure job, then they needs to be known. Partners, in general, if they are planning for long term should know one another’s debts. I have tons of debt from grad school, but I also have a great job. My bf wants to make sure I pay it off aggressively to get ahead of the interest. He’s allowing me to move in with him and not pay rent or bills with the stipulation that most of my income g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 02:53 PM |
| 3 | “Children need fathers” is propaganda to push a Men Are Wonderful bias.If people truly thought women were blameless angels this thread and this subreddit wouldn’t exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 02:45 PM |
| 0 | CMV: I think women on these subreddit are more likely to get men to have negative perception of women than redpill communityI kind of disagree there. Women may be allowed to speak more but their concerns are almost equally as dismissed by the opposite sex. For instance: the complaint that men must have some financial value even to date a “broke” woman. Yet, when women try to show how they are doing more, putting in more effort to work and be financially equal, the same men harp on the fact that they didn’t care about a woman’s money in the first place. The issues are still, at a base level, wrapped up in men’s wants … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:23 PM |
| 6 | CMV: I think women on these subreddit are more likely to get men to have negative perception of women than redpill communityBut a lot of people do the same. This is not a woman-only issue. Most people are terrible at debating. Most people do not know how to keep emotion out of it. And on the internet, on Reddit especially, you get the worst of those people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:15 PM |
| 9 | CMV: I think women on these subreddit are more likely to get men to have negative perception of women than redpill communityPeople here constantly say shitty things about women that gets equally tiresome. Perhaps all this frustration is coming from existing in a space where the goal isn’t really to truly debate-despite what the title of the sub is. Everyday we get the same issues brought up: n-count, SMV, looks and height. And it’s usually brought up by people that don’t have any experience in the dating realm. There are kids in high school on this thread “learning” more about women here than they are in the real wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to menExactly why if you want a PhD you get into the room with the Phd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to menThat’s not how that happens. Men with PhDs don’t announce themselves in Wendy’s. They aren’t dating the cashier they can’t take to department parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/23 12:55 AM |
| 121 | Women over value how much their career and education is attractive to menTo the right man it matters. Unlike men here, the average woman is just not looking for ANY average man. She wants a man that shares her interest at least a little bit. The average woman doesn’t have a PhD. The average woman doesn’t even have a masters. The women that are pursuing advanced degrees aren’t doing it necessarily to attract attention. Tangentially, it will get them in the room with men that have similar credentials though. But they aren’t doing it just to get those men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 06:34 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you expect to be able to raise a family and have an adult dependent on the average salary in the US you are setting yourself and your family up for failure. Both parties have to work now. There’s no reason for men to date a woman that makes literally a third of what they do unless that man is well -off. And if he’s well off, then he’s going to hire a nanny, a maid and maybe even a cook. The average couple making 30 and 50k cannot afford to live off of one salary. But if they get divorced, tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:35 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI support men divorcing for any reason at all too. But back in the day that meant creating a homeless woman and homes less children if the dad don’t want anything to do with them. Don’t want have to pay in a divorce in modern times? Don’t marry a woman that makes half your salary. Don’t make her stay home to raise kids. Get a maid. Get a nanny. Have a wife not an employee. Just a she should have a husband not an atm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:26 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFake social pressure. What’s a woman gonna do if her husband cheats back in the day? She can’t work. Can’t afford an attorney on her own for a divorce? Can’t go anywhere but home after the divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Who is "settling" in this case?…that is not several…. She had two different marriages. Two different kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | The impact of AI and robots on relationshipsWhat do you mean surgically enhance? I’m assuming her vagina is still there, so and PIV action is the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 04:16 AM |
| 0 | Who's more aesthetic: men or women?That man’s eyes are mesmerizing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 02:24 AM |
| 3 | A man's environment and location is the biggest factor in dating successSo passport bros just go somewhere they can be chad. While also probably getting a little less from the women because the expectations are different. Seems like it’s just creating the same problem elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Men need to be held accountable for their shitty behavior, but that doesn't negate that they deserve compassion for the social conditioning they're subjected toThis comment took me out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 01:50 AM |
| 4 | The impact of AI and robots on relationshipsThis would mean that sex isn’t really a need on any level. You just need to think you had sex. Would these people be perpetual virgins if they went this route? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible for a woman to choose a man based on how he would treat her?What are you asking? If you can point blank tell a woman in this day and age what you have to offer and expect her to take your word for it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 01:33 AM |
| 3 | Is it possible for a woman to choose a man based on how he would treat her?This isn’t how dating actually works. You don’t sit across from a person talking about the ways in which you’ll treat one another. Instead you show it over time. Many men told me they were looking for serous relationships or something like that. The issue was they never could back up their words. If my boyfriend had sat down across from me on o it first date and explained how he wanted expected to treat me that would be a little weird. Those conversations happen organically. It’s less what thing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 01:20 AM |
| – | If women leaving jobless men is okay because no money, men leaving sick wives is ok because no sex. Either both are ok, or neither are okThis is true. If it’s an asset acquired before marriage then it’s not a marital asset thus not subject to property division in a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 12:11 AM |
| – | If women leaving jobless men is okay because no money, men leaving sick wives is ok because no sex. Either both are ok, or neither are okThis is true. If it’s an asset acquired before marriage then it’s not a marital asset thus not subject to property division in a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 12:11 AM |
| – | If women leaving jobless men is okay because no money, men leaving sick wives is ok because no sex. Either both are ok, or neither are okWhy are you arguing like a child? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: what would you do if your wife/girlfriend can no longer have sex with you?I’m just pointing it out. If your argument is that you’d leave because you want bio kids, you can still have them. Wanting a relationship that involves sex is completely valid though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: what would you do if your wife/girlfriend can no longer have sex with you?You can still have kids biologically with your wife even if you can’t have sex. You’d just have to do artificial insemination. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 09:44 PM |
| – | CMV: The problems expressed here are middle class, primarily white people’s made up issues. Upper class and lower class don’t have issues like what you’re describing.There are still plenty of secretaries and assistants. And men cheated with their secretaries, they didn’t marry them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 03:32 AM |
| 5 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyOkay, so, would you like me to go through the Ledbetter evidence standards? Do you know what it does. I’m gonna go one point at a time here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 11:49 PM |
| 5 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyThat’s simply not how the law works though. The government is not coming in and suggesting businesses hire more women. They don’t allow unlimited lawsuits and the damages are definitely not limitless. I’m open to you showing me some examples, cases and whatnot. But it’s easy to put the blame on “government” when really it’s just the result of people not being invested enough to do the job right. What role was he trying to hire for? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 09:50 PM |
| – | CMV: The problems expressed here are middle class, primarily white people’s made up issues. Upper class and lower class don’t have issues like what you’re describing.With maybe one or two exceptions those men also didn’t marry those women. Celebrities and cheating happens because the men are so well known they have people throwing themselves at them. My point is, men do care about status for the woman they are going to make their wife../even if they ultimately cheat on her. Very few of those men are going to seriously date a waitress. But it also might be a celebrity thing: they want to date someone that’s away from the cameras. Bill Clinton aside…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 08:38 PM |
| – | CMV: The problems expressed here are middle class, primarily white people’s made up issues. Upper class and lower class don’t have issues like what you’re describing.I’m specifically talking about UMC men. They have the means to go anywhere, are usually more social and have wider social circles and connections. If you’re saying men don’t care about the women’s status, why aren’t these men marrying the waitresses and cashiers they interact with everyday? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 08:23 PM |
| 15 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyYes. I know. cite the laws. Saying it’s business culture and saying it’s government mandates are two very different arguments. That company does not have any quotas it has to meet to fill certain roles. Affirmative action requirements specifically point toward the discrimination against QUALIFIED candidates. If a company doesn’t hire any women and they get dinged, all they have to do is pull up all the applicants and show that not a single woman who applied was qualified for the job. Im also ske… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 08:16 PM |
| – | CMV: The problems expressed here are middle class, primarily white people’s made up issues. Upper class and lower class don’t have issues like what you’re describing.This isn’t logically sound though. Assuming that men are aware that other women exist outside of their social spear, wouldn’t it be easier for those men to date women that aren’t their social equals? It would be easier to find a woman that’s going to be content with a little less. Why go for the woman he’s going to work harder for if in the end it doesn’t matter what the woman does? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 08:10 PM |
| 10 | Most of the issues faced by men in the dating realm are caused by government policyCan you cite the government policy that makes it a requirement to hire certain people? That’s not how affirmative action works . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 07:38 PM |
| 7 | Who is "settling" in this case?First of all, that man is obese obese. Like actually obese. Not a bit overweight. Also how many kids does she have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 06:35 PM |
| 1 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.Yes, and you have to consider what they want. If they want to be a SAHM, a guy making 50k isn’t going to cut it. That would be delusional to expect a man to have at least two dependents and be able to maintain a comfortable living off of the average salary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 05:24 PM |
| 1 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.Yes. I understand that. It’s not the norm for teachers to make that and if they do it usually takes years for them to get to that level. My aunts an art teacher who makes six figures. My statement still stands. The rich guy isn’t grabbing a random teacher off the street to date and if he does the odds of her making six figures is low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 05:19 PM |
| 3 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.Class matters if you’re of higher class. Always. A bunch of neurosurgeons and doctors are always going to be at least a little judgy if any of their kids bring home someone that’s, by their terms, completely uneducated. And yes. The least you can do if you’re upper middle class and higher is be pretty and/or look your best. You have the money and it is expected that you invest it in yourself. If you’re just pretty running in circles where there is money and wealth, you’re mostly likely doing the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:59 PM |
| 2 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.For real. It’s so easy to be pretty with money. Throw a dumpy looking man into a well-fitting suit and get his hair done, is that improvements | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:48 PM |
| 5 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.That’s the point: she’s a doctor. She is higher class than he is in this case. The man is the low class one. He’s dating up. Maybe the woman doesn’t care where he comes from because she sees he is successful and he loves her. She’s still getting judged way harsher than he is. And as for the beauty comment, you maybe have skipped over a crucial sentence: “being pretty isn’t special because you can pay for it”. Being pretty is literally the least you can be as a well off woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:47 PM |
| 3 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.I mean absolutely fair. If you know you want to be taken care of, you gotta aim high. As a man, you should do the same which is why picking the right woman matters. If my future husband ever wants to take some time away from work, he will be able to because I work an excellent job making excellent money. And because he has picked a partner that actually cares about him, I’m willing to use my money to take care of him should he choose it. A man that get a woman making 28k full time doesn’t have t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:11 PM |
| 5 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.This is not correct. Upper middle class people also behave so different thank lower middle class people. In college my first roommate got weird because I wouldn’t “stretch” 20 bucks to last a week. She wasn’t poor, but when I tell you the gap better UMC and LMC became so apparent to me when I lived with her and others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:08 PM |
| 3 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.Do they think all men need this. Or is that the number they need to BE a SAHM? Is it unrealistic to want a partner that’s actually going to be able to give you what you need? It’s delusional to think you can have a SAHS in this day with less than six figures if I’m being honest. Outside of some small towns that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:04 PM |
| 9 | The average woman is completely delusional about men's income and what they "qualify" for.To your last sentence: that’s definitely a personal preference. Most men, especially higher earning men, want to date in their socioeconomic class. A guy making $120 might date a teacher, I’ll bet that the teacher he dates isn’t from a low-earning family. In fact, the higher earning and higher class you get, the more job and background matters all around. New money is still looked down upon, imagine a man who owns a plumbing business that is moderately successful, dating a woman who is from thre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:02 PM |
| – | CMV: if a woman is financially dependent on a man she doesn’t love she’s completely justified in cheatingThat is their thinking. They are funding this woman’s life, she doesn’t have to do anything except feed him, have his babies, care for his babies and be loyal. He can do whatever he wants, because he’s paying for it. To guys that want that sort of lifestyle, he’s doing the woman a favor and the favor she gives is being loyal and available. Most guys don’t have the kind of money for this and they won’t ever have it. Plus women can work now, so there’s no reason for a sane woman to marry a man she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 03:27 PM |
| – | CMV: if a woman is financially dependent on a man she doesn’t love she’s completely justified in cheatingHe’s buying her loyalty in exchange for funding life. It’s more likely for the man in this situation to find cheating to be fair: he’s paying for it so he should be able to get what he can afford. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4W : Are you attracted to him because of his confidence, or is it that he happens to be confident because he’s good lookingI thought about this a lot in terms of religion. I often noticed that a lot of good looking people were religious: not necessarily super pious. But there’s a reason why people think liberals are just weirdos. The good looking, congenitally popular people had “better” lives and mostly always attributed it in some part to being blessed. Question is, are their lives good because they are in fact blessed, or are people just nicer to them because they happen to look good, and come from a line of peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success?You misread. I said i understand “why guys that date like that…” ie, guys that date anyone just to not be single, are miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 02:17 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many men here want casual sex?It’s hard to undo thousands of years of indoctrination with just 50 of progress. Think of it this way; imagine how different sex would be if the female orgasm was also needed for procreation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 02:16 AM |
| 4 | Why do you think (some) men are becoming attracted to this?I literally gave a less extreme, non-problematic example in the same response. Which was in reply to your- women=gold digger-comment. No one wants to Fucking work for a living. It’s not our fault men thought it was a fair trade to take on in exchange for sex and a hot meal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/23 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Why do so many men here want casual sex?So you’re saying men would just ignore the risk and still seek causal sex? I’m not talking about the want for sexual activity, I’m talking about the action of seeking it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 08:08 PM |
| 5 | Why do so many men here want casual sex?I’m saying, if the risk were equal do you think men would just take the risk? Or would the risk outweighs the sex drive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many men here want casual sex?If the risk for sex between men and women were the same, do you think it would change those numbers? For example, if women knew there was 100% chance of them not getting pregnant? Or if men thought that their having sex would cheapen their perceived value? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 07:56 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success?I think it was because I gave basically any man with a pulse and some form of job a chance. So long as he was age appropriate and could hold some form of conversation; I dated like men here say they do: they don’t care what the partner has outside of being minimally attractive and willing to date them. Actually I understand why guys that date like that are miserable. I was miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 07:43 PM |
| 0 | Why do you think (some) men are becoming attracted to this?Men that want a submissive woman don’t actually want the submissive woman intimately. They want a commodity that they know they can control and have access to whenever. A safety net they can treat however without fear that she will leave. If these men actually were sexually attracted and respected the meek, submissive women, they wouldn’t cheat on them constantly, or go out of their way to only spend them minimum amount of time with them. The man with a doormat at home will chase the sexy woman … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 02:37 PM |
| 4 | Why do you think (some) men are becoming attracted to this?Everyone wants an atm. if a man could get a woman that was willing to pay all the bills, do what he said and be a bang maid he wouldn’t complain . Less extreme, if I man found a woman willing to pay the majority of the bills and he was able to pursue his passions instead of doing a job he hated, he’d love it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 02:31 PM |
| 42 | Q4W: Have you personally, or do you know any women who were only able to find success with men after lowering their standards? How do you feel in general about men or women lowering their standards to find success?Personally, I didn’t find success until I stuck to my list. I was giving guys chances that I shouldn’t have been, it was making me miserable in the dating world because I just felt like I wasn’t compatible with anyone. A woman in my work used to only date men that made 200K+, had a car, and who took her to dinners on a first date. Granted, she made 200k so she was only asking for as much as she made. However she also didn’t want to date anyone that was in a similar professional she had to wiggle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a whole is much easier for women.That’s not how the system works though. As long as the guy reports it, he should be able to open a case against her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a whole is much easier for women.a woman who is sober who has sex with a visibly drunk man would likely be charged so long as the man reported it. If they are both drunk that case likely wouldn’t go to court because there is no victim in that case. Neither could consent so there is nothing to litigate. I supposed they could fight to prove one of them wasn’t actually drunk, but it would be difficult to prove since they are attesting that they were not in their right mind to consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a whole is much easier for women.The boy would be guilty. He was not forced here, he was sober and forced himself on someone else. He’d still be guilty. He still had sex with a woman while she was drunk, should have know she was not in her mind to consent. That woman would feel terrible for having violated and been violated by a minor. But she’s the victim here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a whole is much easier for women.This law is not gendered. If goes both ways. If a an is coerced into sex while drunk then he can bring the exact same claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a whole is much easier for women.It depends on if it’s reasonable to believe she’s drunk. Is she slurring her words? Falling down? Those things all go into the equation. If she is just sitting there talking to you normally, having a clear conversation, then you have an argument that it was reasonable for you to think she wasn’t drunk. To your first point, if both parties are drunk it’s unlikely that case would see the light of day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 06:13 PM |
| 5 | Do women value authenticity more than men?So you don’t have any topics? Or is it only sports and anime. How many guys are actually seriously into anime? It’s not like the things men or women like is foreign. Guys can (and often do) enjoy the drama of reality tv. And more women like sports than is portrayed. Men’s hobbies aren’t boring, I love hearing my guy talk about something he’s passionate about. I may have no Fucking clue what it is, but it makes him excitedly happy to share it with me. Honestly if anyone is really excited to tell … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Do women value authenticity more than men?Okay. So, back to my original question, what conversation topics would interest you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Do women value authenticity more than men?So you don’t have any female friends? I’m pretty reserved about what I am discussing at work with people I don’t know well: best to stick to safe topics so no one feels left out. It seems like, they are just talking about things you aren’t interested in? What would you prefer they talk about? Give me a topic that would interest you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 04:56 PM |
| 5 | Do women value authenticity more than men?What sort of women are you talking to? Women are not a monolith. Do you want to talk about politics? Sports? Cars? Video games? Comedians? Please give me a topic where women are not sole to at least engage with you a little bit, even if it’s discourse. Whenever a guy says women are boring I always picture it’s from a 18-20 year old who hasn’t really had any experience with women. Their entire view of women boils down to two minute conversations that are halfhearted. Or they exclusively go for va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Do women value authenticity more than men?Women are boring because some men don’t see them as whole people. Not every woman has the same likes and dislikes. And not wanting a gym bro while wanting a not overly muscular guy is valid. We understand that you can go to the gym, enjoy the gym, but not have bodybuilder obession with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Q4W : Why would you be attracted to a physically unattractive man?Young me would say she wanted to give those men a chance because they were “probably really nice”. Now I know that ugly or hot, people give your headaches. Just gotta find the kind of person who gives you the fewest headaches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 04:18 PM |
| 6 | Women are valued for what they doNo, he doesn’t need his partner to clean for him. He doesn’t view domestic work of that type ws important or as an expectation in a relationship. He’d rather just pay someone. To be honest, he’s much more A-type than I am, cleaning to his specifications would annoy the hell out of me. When I do it he is definitely appreciative. Plus he understands that I’ve curbed my messiness significantly so that we can coexist: he still doesn’t need me to clean. He does love when I cook though. But I do that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 03:38 PM |
| 2 | Women are valued for what they doI cook for my bf because I enjoy cooking. But he doesn’t expect his partner to do domestic work. He pays for someone to clean his house, why would he expect his girlfriend to do it for free? My boyfriend has regularly implied that if I wanted the kept woman life at some point, I could have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Redpill dudes, do you actually believe rich men date broke women?They don’t have consequences is what I’m saying. You’re trying to rationalize why all rich men that are single don’t marry co-eds. It’s not because they can’t, it’s because they don’t want to. What was someone really going to say to Jeff Bezos? Like what could they possibly do to make him not give himself something he really wanted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Redpill dudes, do you actually believe rich men date broke women?Really it’s that most rich men who are looking for young women DO NOT want to marry them. It’s entirely detrimental to the life they want, especially if they already have children, to have another young person coming in and throwing off the balance they cultivated. A rich older man that wants to marry a younger woman will probably go for a woman in her 30s who has accomplished something. He doesn’t need a woman to get status, he doesn’t need to work to even get in the room with beautiful women. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Redpill dudes, do you actually believe rich men date broke women?I disagree. I said he wasn’t going to wife up the poor woman, not that he’d ignore her. One of the partners at my work regularly brings his flavor of the week to events. Of course, he’s the boss, so we are limited to what we say, but the other partners certainly could make a fuss. He doesn’t bring her to charity galas, he doesn’t bring her to golf outings and he doesn’t bring her anywhere near clients. It’s not because he will get dinged because she’s almost 30 years younger than he is, but beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Redpill dudes, do you actually believe rich men date broke women?What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 12:10 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think the issue here is some people don’t know what responsive libido means. It’s not just the seducing for the sex part, especially when that person is your partner. It can be a mix of everything he’s doing throughout the day and what’s happened to you in the day. Men see tits or the wind blows just right and they are hornet and willing to have sex Women see an attractive man, notice what he’s wearing, how he speaks, and maybe consider if he’s on the surface the type of man they’d want. But i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 12:09 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s depends. Is he saying The friendship was just a pretext for getting in my pants and he never was actually my friend? If he says something along that lines yeah, that would upset me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 11:50 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadReading the book is the seduction sometimes. The book doesn’t just start with porn on the first page. You get to know the characters a bit. Some women can read literary erotica and -gasp- not have to touch themselves. Do you know how common it is for to read spicy literature in public? I’m interested in the story, the spice is just a little bonus. Not all women have responsive libidos. And the desire for penetrative sex with a partner, at least to me, feels different than a desire to just read a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 11:49 AM |
| 11 | Redpill dudes, do you actually believe rich men date broke women?That’s normal because the rich man is well..rich. But I doubt most rich men are going out finding the Walmart or Burger King cashier and wifing her up. If anything it’ll be the beverage cart girl at the golf course, the waitress at the exclusive social club, or friend of a model at a charity event. Something like that if he’s dating someone from a low socioeconomic status. More than likely though, he is meeting a middle class or higher woman somewhere that’s makes a little sense. Maybe her work … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 11:45 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have inorgasmia. It sucks. Sometimes I just can’t feel anything or it just hurts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Women will always have the upper hand & are generally not all that concerned with meeting men for the simple fact that they aren’t as horny. They refuse to acknowledge this because it trivializes their perceived value & power over men by diminishing it to a very basic evolutionary certainty.This is the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/23 11:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah! That’s true. But I also try not to judge like that. Some of my family is pretty terrible and if my bf judged me and our relationship based off them I’d be screwed. But, that is a good point! I do need to see how their family is and how they interact with one another. Thanks! I’m feeling a tiny bit more at ease. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 02:24 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 01:33 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m going full step from wife for the outfits. The issue is we are going for the long weekend. Since we will be swimming I panic bought a bunch of one piece swimsuits and tasteful coverups. This is so weird. Like, where do I sleep? What do I do at breakfast? I’ve never met anyone’s parents before! We’ve spoken a bit and I’ve said hi when he was FaceTiming them but I feel like this is jumping in with no prep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 01:19 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI feel like normal people are rare, especially once they get a little wealth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 11:24 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat would explain why their son seems to not want to wear clothes around me.🫠 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 11:21 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHis dad! I’m meeting my boyfriends parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 10:50 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLord I’m meeting the parents. I’m terrified. Petrified. What do I do? What do I wear? What if they hate me in person? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 10:40 PM |
| 1 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexThey definitely want to feel special I’m not even talking about guys that want virgins, who literally do say they have to be her best (you just can’t be her worst). Most women assume we are going to have to teach a guy what gets us off. If your ignore that, or just can’t seem to get the hang of it, then yeah, it’s a bad sign. But we don’t expect men we date to have magic dicks. If you’re willing to listen and bring in a toy or two, I gurantee you’ll at the very least be her favorite! Men want to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 10:36 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t remember for lexapro honestly. But it definitely kills your sex drive, but if it’s been only a few weeks it might come back. If it doesn’t i would ask to switch to something else. Also if ketamine therapy is available that has been working absolute wonders for me: and it ups my sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 09:57 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt killed mine! And it was already low, I was essentially fully asexual for like years. Didn’t have the urge to do anything even with myself. Try buproprion if you can switch. It’s Wellbutrin. But definitely increases sex drive in some people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 09:20 PM |
| 3 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexYes they do. If they didn’t care about feeling special why do so many men here harp on “how she acted before”? Or constantly talk about having to be her best or else she will leave. Men definitely want to feel special and cherished in their relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 07:09 PM |
| 2 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexWhat do you mean? No one is “special” in that they should get better treatment than anyone. Imagine if your girlfriend told you that: “I’m treating you this way because you don’t deserve better because you’re not special”. You’d be hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 05:40 PM |
| 0 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexYou deserve a partner that makes you feel like you’re special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 05:39 PM |
| 2 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexMen seem to wonder why women don’t appreciate all the sexual attention in a way similar to them. They act surprised that people don’t want to be referred to as meat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 05:38 PM |
| 12 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sexSomeone’s going to be special to you. There’s so many neurodiverse guys here I think that’s where a lot of the confusion comes from. They think someone special is going to be special to EVERYONE. Your partner just needs to be special to you; the right one will have a mix of qualities you find endearing and special. They probably won’t be special to anyone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 04:49 PM |
| 30 | I don’t think men on here have a single clue about how women interpret attention from the opposite sex…and you’re surprised no one is jumping at joy by being considered “fuck meat”? Are the men saying this special? What even is special these days? Pretty? Rich? What if someone prettier or richer comes along, are you no longer special? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/23 04:22 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis was so sad! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/23 11:10 PM |
| – | Does widespread monogamy require economic coercion to work?They have. They weren’t paid well for it. Poor women have always worked to some degree. Either by having to do manual labor higher earning women didn’t do, or by being servants. Mostly by being servants that were paid in housing and food. There was no middle class for most of history. Either women were working as servants, tended livestock, were seamstresses, cooks, if their husbands also worked the fields they too were working and cleaning. Women of means could not work, nor did they have any s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 09:17 PM |
| – | Does widespread monogamy require economic coercion to work?In a time where they couldn’t work, nothing was handed out and the only way to survive was by marrying the man with the most money that you personally could? And even then, if the man with the most money was still poor, you still had little choice but to get married because your family couldn’t afford to feed you forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 08:41 PM |
| – | Dating as a “mid” woman isn’t as easy as most men make it out to beThis! I never understood the thought process men here use to try to claim that average women were just banging hot dudes left and right. Hell, hot girls have to fight each other for hot guys. Hot men aren’t just randomly Fucking mid women. They don’t need to entertain them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 08:27 PM |
| – | CMV: Men have no issue committing to the vast majority of relationships if given the option.Men with more options definitely have no issues committing when they want to. I don’t think the “vast majority” is a correct measure. For men without options, they might commit to relationships that seem simple okay with the hopes that it’ll get better. But even that woman will have to meet some minimum standard. Men with options will wait. My boyfriend wasn’t hurting for options when we met. Yet he is now committed to me because we are good for one another. He wouldn’t have committed to any of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/23 08:25 PM |
| 1 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?This is because you don’t understand how marital property laws work. There are separate laws to determine whether or not something is marital property. If she paid for it, then yes, she would get it. But they judge is going to look at when the common law marriage elements had been fully met (which include holding yourself out as a married couple, not simply living together) and when the home was purchased. If you go around telling people you’re married, filing taxes together then buy a home, tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 07:25 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFaking it is building it. You’re not going to suddenly get up and love the gym. But you are going to draw motivation from that ideal version of yourself in order to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 06:43 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDid he regularly rent his place out of to other tenants? For instance, my bf currently lives alone. No roommates or anything. He is responsible for everything in his home. If I move in and start paying him even half market rent, I am paying into a home I have no rights to. If we break-up am I really going to petition a court to let me stay in this home for the term of our lease? He’s not going to serve me notices for being late on rent. He’s not treating me as a renter, just like I’m not testing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 06:42 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDid he use any of that rent to pay his mortgage or was his house completely paid off? Seems like he may have gained a bit, depending on what you paid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 06:24 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you break up would you give the money she paid toward your mortgage back? Because but for being your girlfriend she would have never been there, paying rent to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 06:08 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSee that’s fair though. You’re fine with her getting her money back. Most guys here aren’t going to give that money back if they breakup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 06:07 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut do you think you’d treat him like a landlord at that point? Like if something big, like a water heater breaks, are you going to chip in to fix it? Because if I was a renter I would not. Would you want the mortgage money you paid to him back if you break up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 06:05 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHere ya go! https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/13okvwr/if_a_guy_owns_a_home_do_you_think_its_acceptable/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=ioscss&utm_content=2&utm_term=1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 05:52 PM |
| 1 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?That literally not how it works. What state are you in? I’ll pull the statue. Common law marriage rules default to regular marriage rules once common law marriage has been established. Common law marriage speaks to the process of being recognized as married. There are not special Marital asset clauses for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 05:47 PM |
| 1 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Show me the case law. Common law marriage is very specific on its requirements. And even then the house isn’t marital property because it was bought prior to the marriage, it may be mortal property if she pays for part of the mortgage and any repairs. The judges ruling is based on the law, not personal opinion. The law is the law. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 05:46 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy? You can’t just become confident and secure overnight. You need to act like you would if you were the ideal version of you. My ideal self wouldn’t be sitting in bed everyday super late, so I started getting up early in order to emulate the life I wanted. Would she have clear skin? A nice body? How would she have gotten those things: to a certain degree you have to live like the ideal version of you would be living. Or else how will you ever get there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 05:38 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s also true. There are tons of issues with having a lease agreement for the payments that come only if you get married, but tons more for the non-owning party that come if you don’t get married. I also think that, protection wise, the lease agreement is smart if you’re moving into someone’s home. Even if it’s states that you only pay utilities household bills and items. At least then he can’t just summarily throw you out with no place to go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 05:34 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean if the relationship was good she wouldn’t be leaving. She’s either feeling stuck, in which case it’s not fair to the guy to keep him in the relationship. Or she’s feeling like the relationship can’t go anywhere else because of their differences. Either way, would you prefer her to just stick with him no matter what she’s feeling? Even if she’s not into him anymore? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 05:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI just figured out that I read it wrong! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:59 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEven then it’s not necessarily a good idea if you wanted to keep the investment non-marital property in the future. If the non-owning party pays anything toward the mortgage and you guys get married, then it can be partly theirs if there is every a divorce. Might as well just throw them on the paperwork at that point. The lease isn’t the issue here, no judge is going to agree that you were simply a tenant during that time. The relationship is what’s going to change things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:57 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOp pointed that out. Still makes less sense, they are only 22. How does she feel old lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:47 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI was talking about the house/mortgage debate from yesterday with my bf. We tend to be on the same page about it: if it’s an owned property and not a rental, whoever owns the house should be paying the mortgage. The other person can take on all of the other bills if needed. Do any of you guys disagree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:44 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOhhh okay my bad I misread. So wait…she’s only 22? She is young. What the heck are they doing where she feels old! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:42 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor real. They are both almost 30 now, prob only ever dated each other. It’s going to be pure hell jumping back in: but it’ll be better than staying in a situation that was going nowhere and stifling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:41 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey’ve been dating for ten years and she’s still his girlfriend? Did they not believe in marriage? Maybe it was just not working. If you’re with the right person you generally still feel young and free with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:32 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWouldn’t men rather do the same with women? Get the highest value woman they can and never have to share her with anyone else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:03 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo if someone acts on their primal urges and gropes another person should we just accept it because it’s “them being an animal first”? If someone robs you and takes your resources do we just shrug it off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:02 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe issue is, if you leave human with a different group, it’ll adapt and grow within that group to survive. Learning the ins and outs of whatever society you put it in. If you raise a wild animal to be domesticated, it still is and will always be a wild animal. You can trust a tiger, even one raised by humans not to one day eat you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:59 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFake it til you make it, King. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo you’d rather watch your family starve and not be able to provide and help them get ahead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:55 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s usually always a trip for two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:53 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhile we are animals I think our socialization and technological advances make us have to react like humans first. We are the only creatures that pay to live on the earth. We have separated ourselves from animals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Not unless you’re paying into that house and even then it’s a maybe. But it’s not marital property if you’re simply living together. That’s just not how that works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:49 PM |
| 1 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Oh yeah then I agree. Parents who treat their 18 year olds like tenants the moment they become “adults” annoy the hell out of me. Like the kid makes minimum wage and had no bills yesterday, you’re gonna kick them out or charge them half your rent just because you can? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:07 PM |
| 2 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Your children will be getting that house though, assuming you own it. I have other issues with making offspring pay rent and expenses as soon as they are 18. Sure charge them a couple hundred, but you as their parent know their financial situation and shouldn’t stress them out to get a job so they can pay you. If by “completed education” you mean college, then yeah, they should contribute as adults with jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:02 PM |
| 2 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?This! Just thinking from a legal standpoint the person that owns this house premarriage, will own the house post marriage, if it comes to that. They will have 100% decision making power over what happens to it. If a non-owning party pays into it, then the couple married, that non-owning party now has a claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:00 PM |
| 1 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?This is not how common law marriage works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Common law marriage is only in a few states and it’s requires a high standard to prove: one of them being holding yourself out as a married couple. It’s not just living together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:50 PM |
| 3 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?If you buy shit before you’re married it’s not marital property. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:45 PM |
| 2 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?If you buy the home premarriage then it’s not considered a marital asset, if you sell it however, during the marriage, those funds would be marital assets. Actually a better argument for NOT having a partner pay for it. If something goes wrong down the line, they may claim those payments as them owning some stake in the house should the assets need to be split for whatever reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:43 PM |
| 1 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Yet wanting someone to help you pay off your mortgage isn’t a gold digger move? Why can’t he take the money he’s saving on everyday expenses and put that toward his mortgage? It’s his house not mine. In a rental it will be my place for as long as I rent it. Even with a roommate situation, I would have my room that I could decorate as I pleased, Id have a lease that gave me rights. And I wouldn’t be having a romantic relationship with my landlord. The situation is not nearly the same: the person … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:37 PM |
| 2 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Because it’s definitely a power dynamic here. He’s getting his mortgage paid for and there is not guarantee we will stay together. If there was, wouldn’t he just add me onto the title and mortgage and deed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:06 AM |
| 2 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Half of what expenses? Like the mortgage? if I’m not on the deed and title to the house then I’m not paying the mortgage, I will cover all of the utilities and other bills though, I’ll buy food, subscriptions, household items that we use. Are you talking about repairs and stuff? And I’m not making up fights: in a realm where a partner asks another one to pay toward something they own, usually it’s always a gift or you offer to pay it back. In this case, it’s not gift nor is he paying her back th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 04:05 AM |
| 3 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Yes and I’ve said several times that I see no problem with the non-owner party paying all the utilities, subscriptions and food. The person who owns the house can put the extra money he’s saving not paying utilities and pay more on the mortgage. He’s still benefitting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:36 AM |
| 3 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?I’m assuming he wants her to move in. Or they want to live together. The owner of the home would be paying the same mortgage, relationship or not. But it’s not going to be the same dynamic as a landlord/tenant relationship. Mainly because most people aren’t fucking their tenants. If she’s late one month he’s not going to charge her late fees, not going to write her up for noise violations. She’s not going to report him to housing commission if he doesn’t get someone fixed for a little too long. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:35 AM |
| 8 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.Not true. Bullies once they’ve established a target tend to seek out that target. That’s why sitting in the library or sitting alone somewhere doesn’t stop the bullying. They follow you because they’ve established they can hurt you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:31 AM |
| 8 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.Nah, boys bully girls too. Usually in ways that are low key kinda meaner than the girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:30 AM |
| 3 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?These are examples of why he’s not a landlord. I’m fine paying all of the utilities and such, but I’m not paying his mortgage. If he wants to put the money I pay him for utilities towards his mortgage he’s welcome to do that so long as the utilities stay on. But I’m not about to put money into a house that’s not mine when it’s the house of someone I’m dating. If I’m going to pay someone else’s mortgage I’ll just get a rental on my own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Because again, if your girlfriend is late on the rent are you going to kick her out? The legal part of the relationship is already grayed because y’all are dating. He’s not going to behave like a landlord | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 12:26 AM |
| 5 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Yes but she wouldn’t be a tenant. She wouldn’t have a lease. She would be living in the home he owns, with no paperwork to show otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 10:16 PM |
| 9 | Women can be borderline autistic, even mentally and socially retarded and they will still be able to get guys, have dating options, overall, still be able to get into a relationship, but not so much the other way around.You’ve never been bullied it seems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 10:14 PM |
| 1 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Yes the repairs are a cost you have to take care of yourself, but the mortgage and insurance change month to month and the price would be the same regardless of if the owner was living alone or not. His price isn’t changing just because there’s another person there. It’s definitely not fair to pay into someone’s mortgage when you’re not getting any of the protections of a lease. As I said saveral times, the boyfriends not going to serve his gf with a five day notice to quit if she’s late. He’s n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 10:12 PM |
| 2 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Does it matter? If you’re asking someone to move in and willing to put them on your deed you’re probably on the track to get married. The credit is going to matter anyway. I’m saying, if that’s not the case, then the non-home owning partner should not be paying the mortgage. they can pay other bills, income allowing, but definitely not the mortgage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 07:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe would have had to be sued for child support in order to be compelled to pay it. If he’s giving the kids money and time why would the women sue him for support? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 05:21 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere are sooo many women with unfortunate looking partners who are also just shitty partners. Personality can get you and keep you in that doorway. Don’t underestimate the power of compatibility and comfort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 05:20 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe lesbians having high divorce rates is often attributed by lesbians moving at super speed. Whereas gay couples take things slow and marry at lower rates if they marry at all. Really, the issue might be the pressure women have to even get married in the first place, causing them to want to rush into situations with people that might not be right for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 04:44 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre they sleeping with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 04:42 PM |
| 8 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Is he my landlord or my boyfriend? Is he going to serve me a five day notice if I’m late? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:18 PM |
| 6 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?I don’t need to live with him then. I will pay for all of the utilities and food and cleaning services, things I would do anyway: but I am not putting money towards my boyfriends mortgage while having zero of the protections that come with being a tenant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:18 PM |
| 5 | When you’re married and have children, what will your financial situation be?I mean, think about it, you’re a person from a poorer country being given infusions of cash, all on the pretext that you care for a child the father never checks on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:54 PM |
| 6 | When you’re married and have children, what will your financial situation be?What’s the point of continuing your line if you don’t know how that child is being raised? What if the woman passes the child off to another family and pockets the money, then vanishes before your next visit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:41 PM |
| 12 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?That’s not the point they are making; if you breakup and live in A rental, both names are on the lease and both have claim to the property. One person can’t just throw the other out as a tresspasser on a whim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:40 PM |
| 1 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?But he even said to charge her market rent, not half the mortgage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:39 PM |
| 6 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Then don’t have your girlfriend pay anything toward the mortgage. It will be clear that she has no claim to ownership then. But if I move in with my partner, into a house he owns, I would expect it to feel like our home and not his home. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:38 PM |
| 6 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Most girlfriends pay rent: most women contribute to their shared living arrangements financially. No one is going to walk out for being asked to pay rent. I would, however, decline an invitation to pay my partners mortgage if I don’t also get equity. At that point he’s a landlord. If I don’t pay rent one month will he start eviction proceedings? Will I have to put on maintenance request? If he comes On to me one day do I have a right to sue him for abusing his position over me? No. He’s my boyfr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:36 PM |
| 5 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?He already owns the house; his cost of living would be the same whether or not she lives with him. Renting is different because there’s price variability and it’s inherently more flexible on a yearly basis, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:30 PM |
| 1 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Why? What would be the purpose of her buying her own home when one partner already owns property they live in. Unless he wants to rent his place out and they can rent a place together it makes no sense for her to go buy something on her own even if she has the money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:29 PM |
| 6 | If a guy owns a home, do you think it's acceptable for him to charge his girlfriend rent (or require some other kind of financial contribution) to live with him?Why am I helping my boyfriend build equity when I get nothing in return? I will pay for utilities, food, cleaning services, but I’m not paying his mortgage unless my name is also on the title and deed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:26 PM |
| 11 | When you’re married and have children, what will your financial situation be?You mean you’re not neurotypical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 02:22 PM |
| – | The struggles of ugly women are dismissed. Try to debate that.No they do, but I’ve also had guys call me ugly simply for my skintone. Preferences can make people view those without them as undesirable and ugly. Do you think all short guys are ugly? Ugly women do exist, but without visual proof then it’s just subjective evidence that a woman YOU thought was ugly was with a man you thought was more attractive than her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:24 PM |
| – | The struggles of ugly women are dismissed. Try to debate that.Stop equating fat to ugly, first of all. Fat can also be a bonus point for some women because there are men whose main requirement for a woman is that she be big. Fat does not mean ugly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:11 PM |
| – | The struggles of ugly women are dismissed. Try to debate that.Men will fuck anyone if they are desperate enough and it’s not a compliment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:10 PM |
| – | The struggles of ugly women are dismissed. Try to debate that.But isn’t their experience anecdotal and biased? It might be a woman YOU think is ugly, but really isn’t, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:09 PM |
| – | Q4W: Would you date a starving artistSold a bunch of pieces is not “beginning stages” most starving artists are still trying to sell stuff. If he’s selling art he’s probably well connected and not starving at all, he probably just has limited disposable income: which he probably doesn’t need because the art world has parties galore where you can eat and drink for free. It seems we need to define “starving artist” because what you’re describing is a new artist that’s growing in popularity. Which means he is currently at least, art-w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:35 AM |
| – | Q4W: Would you date a starving artistDear god please use paragraphs! But to your question, art can and usually is extremely competitive: that’s the main reason it’s so hard to make money doing it: the talent ceiling for being considered good is extremely high. Depending on what your medium is, there’s more chance for competition : fashion for instance. But, it depends. What’s his end goal? Is he starving so he can save money to put on an exhibit? Is he trying to build his portfolio so that he can apply to an artist-in-residence pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 03:28 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.I think the men here are having issues getting partners because they change how they treat their partners, even their LTRs, based on their looks. (Or they would). What does “deserve average” even mean? Is there a standard that average men must stay at? What do average men deserve? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 01:46 AM |
| – | Q4M: Would you rather date a woman that has had a long term relationship with lots of sex or a woman who has had a handful of short term relationships with not much sex?My brother in Christ get a non-denominational therapist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:46 AM |
| 4 | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.If you have enough money for IVF you have enough money to put your kids in recreational programs where they can get positive male role models. Plus, there are family members, friends. The single motherhood statistic is mainly from women that are single mothers not by choice. The issue comes from them struggling financially and having to parent alone with only nine months notice. A woman choosing to keep a baby after getting pregnant by her bf/hookup is very different than a woman making the deci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 12:38 AM |
| 11 | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.I mean…yeah you still need to be likable. But I was assuming the man you were talking about was likable as a person. Able to keep roof over head + not violent does not equal likable. Outside of being poor why would a woman want a partner who wanted to do the bare minimum for her? And you also gotta realize the demographics here. The easily impressed women aren’t swarming Reddit usually. Well, some are, but y’all don’t want them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 11:36 PM |
| 8 | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.There are plenty of women here that men with less can go impress. Men here want a woman with a certain kind of look though, without having to give that woman the lifestyle she would want. All men here need to do is date in their pay range. So many women would be thrilled for a guy to just ask them out on any kind of date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 11:32 PM |
| 6 | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.Yeah. I am in a very high earning field and I’ve noticed the dating trends here are very polar. Either my colleagues are dating super wealthy men Or they are dating men they see as having “potential”. The men with potential seem to all be very supportive, driven men. When she needs him, he’s there. Even though they aren’t matched financially, it seems like they all have plans to get close. Matching her, at our level, is not possible outside of the industry, but they focus more on making sure the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 11:30 PM |
| 9 | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.The men that are struggling are doing absolutely nothing to attract a partner. Let’s be real here, a man was already working his job when he meets a woman. Usually, he’s not changing his job or working more hours specifically for her, he was doing it before and he would work the same amount with or without her. As a woman, if I’m considering dating someone, I had to ask myself “do I trust this man to take care of me if I get sick, when I get pregnant.” My life will change when my boyfriend and I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 11:24 PM |
| 32 | CMV: The fire that's burning dating down started with women unrealistically raising their standards. And men are fanning those flames with pumping and dumping.Women needed men to survive up until recent history. We couldn’t work, couldn’t have property, hell women couldn’t get bank accounts without their husband permission in all 50 states until like the 80s. The further back you go, the less women were treated like adults. It was commonplace for a woman to get married not knowing what sex was or what was supposed to happen. Women and what they could do was highly regulated. Even when women could go into the workforce they were often fired once they g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Relationships are transactionalWhat about your parents? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 10:43 PM |
| – | What would happen if (X) gender disappeared?That’s definitely not true and we have like 1000s of years worth of war that show how willing men are to put aside egos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 10:36 PM |
| 6 | What would happen if (X) gender disappeared?What scenario do you want debated? I’ve seen people give many answers to your questions and you don’t seem to be happy with them. If all men were to vanish after the fallout of having planes crash, cars crash, boats, what have you. The women in the military and police forces globally would issue martial law in order to attempt to control the chaos. The first priority would be making sure as many necessary infrastructures as possible stay functional. Now, while men here love to say women simply w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 10:23 PM |
| 9 | Makeup is a deceptive and unfair advantage that women have in dating, I have seen girls who look completely unrecognizable without it. This gives them an extreme upper hand by wearing a disguise whereby they are able to play several points above their actual league.Not every woman is walking out with a made up face. If we took away thinks like eyeshadow and colored lipstick, makeup can be very barebones and not noticeable. Most women do not know how to expertly contour their faces so that it changes shape. Most people you see doing that are beauty gurus trying to sell Product. Most women cannot expertly put on a whole face of makeup. Nor do they have the time to do it every single day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 09:56 PM |
| 3 | "Working on yourself" is a two-way street where men can only learn and improve if they can, well... actually get to date women firstThey aren’t downplaying it. They are ignoring it hoping to benefit off that hot person somehow. If they can’t benefit then the halo fades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 09:53 PM |
| 5 | Makeup is a deceptive and unfair advantage that women have in dating, I have seen girls who look completely unrecognizable without it. This gives them an extreme upper hand by wearing a disguise whereby they are able to play several points above their actual league.I’m simply pointing out that it is socially acceptable for men to wear makeup. No one notices the makeup on newscasters, actors, models, etc. that level of makeup is easily done by a man at home. Even gay men that wear subtle makeup do it without going for a “made-up” look. There are enough men wearing some form of makeup that there are companies out there marketing it to straight men. It’s mostly marketed as tinted skin care but, you can totally use makeup in a way that’s not negatively noticea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 09:52 PM |
| 11 | Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 +I have a feeling either the girls not as ugly as you think or the guys not as hot as you think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 09:44 PM |
| 8 | Makeup is a deceptive and unfair advantage that women have in dating, I have seen girls who look completely unrecognizable without it. This gives them an extreme upper hand by wearing a disguise whereby they are able to play several points above their actual league.Straight men wear makeup every day. Any man you see on tv has on makeup. There are literally brands dedicated to making “makeup” for men. Just go out and get some tinted moisturizer and put it on your face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 09:41 PM |
| 8 | Most of the posters on this sub prove that women only exist to men if they are a 6/10 +Have you actually seen this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 09:40 PM |
| 4 | "Working on yourself" is a two-way street where men can only learn and improve if they can, well... actually get to date women firstNo it’s not. Being hot doesn’t make people have good personality, you might get chances at meeting people more often. However, usually those with poor personalities and good looks have very conditional friend groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 09:40 PM |
| -2 | "Working on yourself" is a two-way street where men can only learn and improve if they can, well... actually get to date women firstDating will not fix your personality. You need to address it yourself and seek to fix it on your own. Your partner is not there to fix you or be the answer to all your problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Women don't appreciate male breadwinnersI also take so much issue with the men here that talk about the SAHM life as being easy and glamorous, while also constantly complaining about how hard they have to work to just be able to afford a house and food. Then complaining that their wife needs to spend and buy things. Hmm, you know what would make that struggle a lot easier? Maybe not having an adult dependent that has zero need to not be working at all. why are you working so much if your partner then has to be frugal? If I gotta scale… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Women don't appreciate male breadwinnersCleaning services are about 50 an hour minimum unless you get a special. To do a quick clean for my main areas is about 45 an hour. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 09:28 PM |
| 4 | Women don't appreciate male breadwinnersIf you don’t have enough money to get by then maybe worrying about who is doing the chores should be lower on your list. If two adults with no kids are struggling, they need to readjust how they are living and get better jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 09:23 PM |
| 2 | What is a low value man?Low value men, to me, are ones that are angry, racist, violent; really any qualities that I feel are morally unacceptable for anyone to display. A man that’s not attractive to me isn’t low value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 01:49 AM |
| 1 | ICK Discussion ThreadIt has to be done well. Most colors look nice if they are done professionally and not done by the person at home. Has to be shaped right, maybe mattifed or something to give it the right look. I had ultra glossy almond shaped black nails and got lots of compliments on them, even from random guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/23 12:31 AM |
| 2 | On top of the other obvious issues men face, there is literally no acceptable time or place to approach a woman, even once mutual attraction has been established. Women simply do not want to be bothered, leaving almost everything to chance encounters and organic interactions.That’s still not organically. You’re not going to never indicate that you’re interested and then suddenly be in a relationship. Someone always has to approach first: ask the other out on a date or something. And if someone here is in high school they should not be here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 05:46 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut no one really engages with you. You just get a bit of placating because your posts are a bit unhinged. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/23 02:40 AM |
| 9 | Does the man provide and the woman returns the favor with sex? Is that how it works or not?Because sex needs vulnerability and trust. If something is going bad, why would you continue to put yourself in that position with them? How could you even enjoy it if you’re worried about what your partner is doing elsewhere? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 11:18 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Women complain about the "expectation" to wear makeup even though they enjoy it.Have you worn makeup? Do you actually know what the “no makeup” look even involves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 10:48 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Women complain about the "expectation" to wear makeup even though they enjoy it.Yes, I lived with a flight attendant and makeup was an actual part of her uniform. In the corporate world, the better you look a woman the more you get put in front of clients. The issues come in when it’s not an “official” requirement but you notice when you’re the only one not getting client time. It’s very valid for a client to say “she doesn’t look out together, I don’t want her representing me, or I don’t want her on this deal” or something like that, because female appearances are judged w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 10:48 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Women complain about the "expectation" to wear makeup even though they enjoy it.No they don’t. Some women wear probably some tinted moisturizer, which is not makeup as much as lotion is makeup. Maybe some mascara, but that is not changing what you look like at all. There are plenty of women that only wear makeup for “special occasions”. Hell, I used to only wear makeup for dates. And I’d always slowly increase the amount of makeup, so when they first saw me it was a more natural look. I have a few friends that do the full glam thing. But being able to do a full face of make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 10:41 PM |
| 7 | Does the man provide and the woman returns the favor with sex? Is that how it works or not?No, in relationships that are healthy that’s not how sex work. Sex isn’t a treat I give my boyfriend when he behaves. It’s something we mutually desire from one another. The affection and the closeness a big part of what makes it good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 10:39 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Women complain about the "expectation" to wear makeup even though they enjoy it.Everyone doesn’t wear the same level of makeup. My everyday look is another woman’s version of “full face”. I don’t get told I look tired when I don’t have on a full face of makeup, but I also take care of my skin without makeup. That’s the main reason people look different is because they neglect their skincare and their skin suffers from it. But, as I said, there are several careers where makeup is an expectation only for women. Even though men where makeup in other industries all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 10:37 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women complain about the "expectation" to wear makeup even though they enjoy it.It depends.. my everyday look is subtle you cant tell. Just evens my skintone. If I’m going for full glam, it’s obvious that my eyelids aren’t naturally sparky gold. Nor are my lips naturally deep red. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 10:33 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Women complain about the "expectation" to wear makeup even though they enjoy it.I don’t think people realize that it doesn’t even have to be everyday. Or something you do. It’s an expectation for women, especially women in certain jobs to look a certain way. Even in the corporate work, if you’re client facing an unofficial part of your “uniform” will be makeup. Several airlines require their female flight attendants to wear makeup and heels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 10:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women complain about the "expectation" to wear makeup even though they enjoy it.You can be okay with how you look naturally and want to enhance your looks. But she’s also telling people who want to get surgery to correct looks to use other, less permanent methods. You can wear makeup and not think you’re ugly. I usually wear it to make my skin more even and glowy. I don’t have acne or anything, just some dark spots. Makeup helps me cover them (when I want to) without resorting to like a chemical peel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 08:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women complain about the "expectation" to wear makeup even though they enjoy it.What???? You’re saying a video is proof of something it’s not. She is talking about plastic surgery, not makeup and telling people to be okay with how they look naturally. And that there are other ways to fix things (like using makeup) before getting surgery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 08:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women complain about the "expectation" to wear makeup even though they enjoy it.Did you watch that entire video? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you think feminism and general push for gender equality has changed the way relationships are now? Did it change for better or for worse?I’m asking you what other benefits do men get from having women be economic and socially dependent. Why is it good for them, outside of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 07:35 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Women complain about the "expectation" to wear makeup even though they enjoy it.Can you show me a video please? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 07:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you think feminism and general push for gender equality has changed the way relationships are now? Did it change for better or for worse?I said outside of sex. Are there any reasons outside of sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 07:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you think feminism and general push for gender equality has changed the way relationships are now? Did it change for better or for worse?How is it good for men. I’d like to hear what parts, outside of sex make it good setup for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 07:15 PM |
| 12 | CMV: Women complain about the "expectation" to wear makeup even though they enjoy it.I can’t speak to your experiences. However, those two things don’t necessarily have to be contradictory. You can be irked by the fact that there is an expectation to wear makeup, thus making you have to always wear makeup, while enjoying the way makeup makes you look. Just like men sometimes hate the expectation that they have to try to be successful and make charming and work to get to that place, while enjoying the benefits money and success and charm bring. You’re happy with what it gives you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:52 PM |
| 11 | On top of the other obvious issues men face, there is literally no acceptable time or place to approach a woman, even once mutual attraction has been established. Women simply do not want to be bothered, leaving almost everything to chance encounters and organic interactions.Someone still has to instigate a romantic relationship there. It just doesn’t form out of nowhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:49 PM |
| 64 | CMV: Women complain about the "expectation" to wear makeup even though they enjoy it.The women that enjoy wearing makeup aren’t complaining about being expected to wear makeup. They are complaining about not being able to go even one day without it, and without someone claiming they look tired or sick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:48 PM |
| 4 | How do you think feminism and general push for gender equality has changed the way relationships are now? Did it change for better or for worse?Why is having women socially or economically dependent on men a good thing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:22 PM |
| 8 | On top of the other obvious issues men face, there is literally no acceptable time or place to approach a woman, even once mutual attraction has been established. Women simply do not want to be bothered, leaving almost everything to chance encounters and organic interactions.He already differentiated between meeting through mutual. Even if you’re collaborating someone has to approach and bring up the prospect of a date. If there’s NEVER a good time a OP suggests, then even being partners in a group setting wouldn’t help with the issue of not being able to approach. He even went as far as saying there wasn’t a good time even when mutual attraction has been established. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 06:13 PM |
| 20 | On top of the other obvious issues men face, there is literally no acceptable time or place to approach a woman, even once mutual attraction has been established. Women simply do not want to be bothered, leaving almost everything to chance encounters and organic interactions.…thats impossible though. Someone has to instigate in order for conversation to start. You don’t just look at someone and instantly get into a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 05:14 PM |
| 14 | On top of the other obvious issues men face, there is literally no acceptable time or place to approach a woman, even once mutual attraction has been established. Women simply do not want to be bothered, leaving almost everything to chance encounters and organic interactions.How do they meet organically if there is no time Or place to approach? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 05:12 PM |
| – | How is status determined in a jobless AI-dominated future?There are plenty of women who would be thrilled just to get a nice, loving, consistent partner. Do those women have the look guys here want? No. The women that put in extra work into themselves want a man that’s doing the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 02:39 PM |
| – | How is status determined in a jobless AI-dominated future?Because men here put them together. I don’t see this in real life. Usually a man that’s expecting a certain caliber of woman knows that he has expectations too. But men here really think they can have a partner that has zero expectations for them, while having tons of expectations for that woman. I think it stems a bit from not seeing “women’a tasks” as important or as work. They don’t have any expectations, it’s just cooking, cleaning and taking care of the house and another full person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 02:37 PM |
| – | How is status determined in a jobless AI-dominated future?I disagree. But let’s say it’s true. Men do the exact same thing now. Some men here say that women’s entire system will be ruined by AI girlfriends because they say that men basically don’t need their partners to be human, just human shaped and agreeable. It’s always “I want a real woman to just like me for me and not what I provide.” Then the next breath is “this woman has to be skinny, pretty, endlessly horny for me, cook, clean and not really expect me to do anything extra for her.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 02:31 PM |
| – | How is status determined in a jobless AI-dominated future?If the excess spending is reduced to just the necessities then jobs will be reduced. Things will go up in price because there will be fewer people making them. There will be fewer jobs, which will in turn lead to less money going into circulation because people aren’t spending. We saw it happen during the pandemic. And, if you’re working to get only the minimum then that means you should still have more time to be home. If you need to work long hours to get the minimum then you’re doing it wrong… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 01:58 PM |
| – | How is status determined in a jobless AI-dominated future?Isn’t that stat for young adults only? Literally everything is bs. If men don’t spend money and women don’t spend money the economy dies, stuff get s’more expensive and the problems start again. Now though, even the basics of what you’re considering “not bs” are more expensive. In my mind, if we are living frugally there’s no reason for my man to be working so hard out of the house. Be at home more at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:55 PM |
| – | How is status determined in a jobless AI-dominated future?Yet the average man is still getting into relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:48 PM |
| – | How is status determined in a jobless AI-dominated future?Most men get partners. Regardless of the fact that most men cannot afford to be a sole provider. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:46 PM |
| – | How is status determined in a jobless AI-dominated future?Why do your girlfriends not like you guys as people? Men are more than sex toys and providers. Plus, based on just facts: most men can’t be the sole provider in the US and the orgasm gaps means they would not even be good sex toys half the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 12:12 PM |
| 10 | Question 4 Women with Pets, is a man not being an animal lover a dealbreaker?Absolutely not, my dog was here first. If they don’t like dogs then he isn’t high value to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 04:24 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is an entire ass lie. Nails feel great. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 03:18 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThirsty Thursday was a success . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 03:17 AM |
| 11 | Monogamous relationships outside of Marriage don't make senseSo why would she be exclusive to you if you’re not exclusive to her? First year!! Wait you want her to date only you for a year while openly telling her you’re seeing other people? That’s ludicrous. Like kinda insane you’d ever think that would work. Only desperate women would be anywhere near agreeable to this set up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Monogamous relationships outside of Marriage don't make senseSort of both. We started out both openly seeing other people. He was not aware I was not seeing anyone else until after asking to be exclusive. I see nothing wrong with both parties multidating so long as exclusivity hasn’t been established. I think if it’s meant to be you will naturally gravitate toward one another. We spent the majority of our time together before exclusivity. Enjoying one another’s company was priority for both of us, despite busy schedules and me not being able to be intimat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 04:01 AM |
| 9 | Monogamous relationships outside of Marriage don't make senseSo, what’s to stop her from also multidating? Why not just date casually until you find someone who mutually wants to spend time with you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 03:19 AM |
| 5 | Monogamous relationships outside of Marriage don't make senseYour solution to hypergamy is just hypergamy in a different font. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 03:01 AM |
| 11 | Monogamous relationships outside of Marriage don't make senseHow would this guard against hypergamy? The woman you want might feel like you’re not giving her the attention she needs and leave for someone she feels is better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Monogamous relationships outside of Marriage don't make senseI sort of had an experience like this with my recent relationship. We both started out multidating, however. Being demi meant I couldn’t give him a specific timeline for sex. Because I got burned in the past, I had a hard rule that I would not ask for exclusivity unless I felt ready to have sex with them. He was seeing another woman for a while, but it was definitely only for sex. I stopped seeing other men about two month in. Just never told him that I’d stopped. He asked for exclusivity one da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Marriage in AmericaThey can just tell the kids they are married and that’s they didn’t have a wedding if it matters that much. Get a ring, the whole shebang. I think it’s more important that the parents like one another. My parents weren’t married; but I had friends whose parents were. One couple in particular clearly hated one another. My dad would come in for important events (I spent summers and every holiday with him) they were in awe that my parents weren’t married because they got along so well. Main thing w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 01:31 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUpdate: he took my texts personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 10:22 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDating apps are designed to make it easy for women to want to use in order to entice men to pay for them. If the men (who are most likely to pay) have an easy time then they won’t feel the need to buy premium subscriptions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Marriage in AmericaI’m just pointing out that the birth certificate is not useless. The acknowledgment of paternity also does not have to be court ordered, you can sign it at the hospital following birth. That is what allows unmarried men to sign birth certificates early on, not the court order. Court order usually come when there is a fight for custody and/or child support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 10:17 PM |
| 0 | Marriage in AmericaIt does not have to be. So long as he is present at the birth, he can just sign the voluntary acknowledgment of paternity at the hospital. Usually they have them on hand and someone from social services will act as a witness. Now, if he’s not on the birth certificate then he has to establish rights. But really, whoever is on the birth certificate as father can get rights to the child. But to sign the birth certificate you have to sign the acknowledgment first. So the birth certificate is not mea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Marriage in AmericaI don’t think so. As long as there are pics of parents together. Like what about couples that get married at the justice of the peace and don’t have a huge wedding, are the children of those couples wondering why there aren’t any wedding photos? And if a couple was so inclined, they could always have a party that looked like A wedding, take photos, just don’t get officially married. Marriage means absolutely nothing to kids except for what we tell them it means , | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Marriage in AmericaMarriage has little to do with child custody. It’s all about whose names are on the birth certificate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Marriage in AmericaKids are bothered by their parents living separately and not being together. They don’t care about marriage as a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 06:10 PM |
| 7 | Women of Reddit, for those who settled for someone that was not “the one”, how is it going?Being over six feet isn’t a magical thing for men. I know you guys want to think it is. But there are a lot of men 6+ that are single because they are ugly and/or have terrible personalities and don’t have anything going for them. There are lots of tall men that struggle to get women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, for those who settled for someone that was not “the one”, how is it going?Yes but I’m talking about more why women file for divorce more. Men just don’t have the incentive too. If it was up to him to also file, divorces would be halved and cheating would triple. There would be no outs, no remedies. And the men would bank on that fact while complaining that his wife won’t ALSO sleep with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Women of Reddit, for those who settled for someone that was not “the one”, how is it going?That’s not settling at all. You didn’t settle for anything, you made a choice. Settling for a person is this: Let’s say you meet a woman. You both want kids that grow up in a stable home with married and loving parents. You and this woman meet, date but don’t have any spark. You get along fine, there’s nothing special, but neither of you can find anyone else and you decide to get married in order to have kids. There’s like but no love. So you settled for the best you could get.Attraction wise, y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Women want men who elicit in her the same behavior that they find so abhorrent and repulsive in men.This is some young people bullshit. You must be like 19. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, for those who settled for someone that was not “the one”, how is it going?Women divorce more because men will not divorce. Especially if they are in the wrong. Why would they? If they think she will stay then he can have his cake and eat it too. There no incentive for men to divorce unless he is absolutely miserable, but if he had kids, a woman at home that he’s okay with, and a piece or two on the side, why would he ever want to divorce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Women of Reddit, for those who settled for someone that was not “the one”, how is it going?Why do you think it’s settling? Wouldn’t marrying someone that you’re crazy for who might not be a good mother or the best partner also be settling? Why is it only settling in one way? You’re still not getting everything you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 04:46 PM |
| 7 | Women of Reddit, for those who settled for someone that was not “the one”, how is it going?There aren’t enough men over six feet for that to be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Sexy selfies on IG more empowering? Or more self-objectifying?But would you be okay with your boss seeing you simply as a thing that’s there to make a profit? Sex just has this negative connotation in that, it should be given freely, (as in without money being exchanged or ulterior motive) but just not to anybody, but it also special and valuable. It’s so weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 04:17 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo no. It’s the same reasoning I’m saying. If someone that engaged in causal sex turns around one day and says “No more causal sex” and I’m one of the first people they are dating I would be skeptical. If it’s two or three years down the line and they’ve shown they were serious about their dating habits it would be different. I’m saying that people that enjoy causal sex probably have better luck dating other people that also enjoy causal sex. I’m not sure where you got the idea that I preferred … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 01:30 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot they are saying they would just find someone who values sex the same as them. There are plenty of men who aren’t hurting for sex and haven’t ever been who just want a partner they are compatible with. These couples prob hook up on the first date and go from there. Playing games isn’t something they want to do. Fuck boys don’t just want to randomly settle down one day. They lose out on someone they liked and it makes them change their mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 01:15 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe women who get pumped and dumped are the good women these guys are trying to find. The ones that give a guy a chance. It’s those women who they exact this weird revenge on when the opportunity strikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 01:12 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMost legal shows are trash at portraying actual judicial process and how it works in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 10:22 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow? Preme2s argument was that women don’t want to sleep with someone no one else wants. You stated that often times the woman who a guys with is the first person that showed him interest. Both those things can’t be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 10:19 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHaha let me rephrase, it’s every day we are together. He travels a lot and some days I sleep at my place. I’m demi and sex is still kinda weird to me, so it started out as a way to get me more comfortable so I’d be able to get out of my head and have an orgasm. Before my bf id only had like three EVER. Then it just became kind of our thing. Sometimes its just touching, mind you. And the goal isn’t to finish or anything, ifs to just be together. Lol we are both pretty early risers. The kink helps… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 09:50 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTo me this sounds like it’s written by someone that can’t attract women, so they blame their lack of romantic interest on women being fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 09:43 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy bf and I start each morning with some sort of intimate act. Whether it be me going down on him, him going down on me, or penetrative sex. I don’t want to say my sex drive is low, because it’s not. But it’s definitely responsive a lot of the time. But, knowing that he gets turned on seeing me initiate motivates me to try more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 09:41 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDidn’t you say that some women wouldn’t care earlier? And there a reason why women care about their man’s infidelity too. If he’s off Fucking other women he has ample time to form an emotional bond or have kids that will take away his time and resources from his main chick. Plus, it’s disrespectful to her. By your argument so long as the woman doesn’t get pregnant by another man, he has nothing to be upset about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 09:28 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThen she didn’t need preselection to be interested in him in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 09:19 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s actually bizzare to think about. Men can attach no emotion to the sex they have so they can have as much sex as they want, but attach lots of importance on the sex another person has. Then, women attach a lot of emotion to sex, yet y’all claim she won’t care about the sex her partner is having without her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 09:09 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow’d it impact the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 09:04 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnd how did that work out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 08:59 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAlso, very few of the men actually getting women are worried about being “cucked”. The ones that complain about it are the ones fighting for their lives in the dating pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 08:45 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey aren’t married or in LTRs. I’m not talking about the sharing of an eligible bachelor, those women are fighting to be the only one. I’m talking about in a serious relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 08:37 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat’s the point? For me specifically, if I have no desire for sex that means I’ve become fully asexual. And i don’t think there would be a fair division of time if I stayed in a marriage and let him have sex with other women. I’d want my partner to have a full relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 08:36 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf they are married or in an LTR she shouldn’t need preselecting, he got selected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 08:29 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI dunno, sex drive is weird as fuck. If I had no desire for sex, I’d prob just get a divorce because I don’t see a reason in keeping him from having sex or trying the open thing, it would just get frustrating for both of us. Sex is important but I feel like couples are afraid to talk about it if one person isn’t satisfied. Like, really they just need to have that discussion regularly to make sure everyone is getting what they need. It seems tedious but it helps. My bf and I have like biweekly ch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 08:29 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah, some woman can just get built. Look at gymnasts arms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 08:20 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI find it funny how men here are obsessive with not being “cucked” because it’s so disrespectful yet some men don’t understand why a woman would be equally disrespected if her man slept with another woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 08:18 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot really, the people there aren’t generally looking for hot guys that are just hot. The are looking for partners that are willing to explore and fulfill a need. My bf and I are kinky and apparently we don’t “look the part”. My bf is extremely popular in the scene because he’s attractive and is so different from the other guys. He doesn’t play with other women though, so his popularity faltered a bit when we started dating because neither of us play with others. It’s a weird dynamic honestly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 08:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe higher tier men thing is not common knowledge. It’s actually less common to see conventionally attractive people in the scene. Especially conventionally attractive men. In my experience, the vast majority of scene participants have some level of social anxiety, depression or social ineptitude that the scene helps alleviate. some guys switch it up, but I know multiple sub men that have play partners other than their primary partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 06:48 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf sex drive reduced that much wouldn’t affairs involving women in relationships in general not happen? I think, if allowed to still go have sex with hot men without judgment or risk, women would. We still appreciate good sex. And wanting to have sex with someone doesn’t mean you should get to. You could want to have sex all day long, it’s not conducive to anything for you to do so. Having sex with one woman isn’t going to kill you, and if you need a variety that much then there’s literally zero… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 06:39 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadY’all and the word cucking, I swear obsessed with it here. Yes being submissive to women in this case gets men a lot of extra interest. They don’t have to include pegging or being watched/watching another man. Some guys just don’t want to lead the sexual action and like being told what to do. Its pretty safe to look up, they use it mainstream now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 06:36 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMaybe that’s why the sex drive “gets lower” maybe she’s actually bored of sleeping with the same dude, doing the same thing And if it’s disrepcful for her to sleep with other people then it’s disrespectful for him to sleep with other people. Why should she let someone else have access to her husband and have to share time that should rightfully be all hers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 06:25 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s just they have experience in a kink skill or are subs/bottoms. I know of one guy, ugly as fuck, did firecupping and some weird hypno shit. He had a long -term partner and at least two play partners at all time . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 06:23 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy should it only be open on the man’s end? He’s equally as likely to get an unwanted child, sti, or anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 06:17 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWrong. The scene is filled with mid and lower guys who are absolutely swimming in women because they offer some sort of kink skill and come with reviews from other partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Sexy selfies on IG more empowering? Or more self-objectifying?In a way, all work objectifies you though. You monetize your usefulness and make yourself valuable, marketable and hope to have a good string of reviews so your next will be more tempted to provide money for your services. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 12:15 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes but the majority of the issues with unwanted pregnancies stem from a lack of resources. Both before and after : contraception and family planning services and therapy should be cheap, safe and free. Hormonal BC options should include way more care while taking in, in order to help with the side effects that can and do often happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 04:13 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYup. And until there’s a way to transfer pregnancies to a woman that wants to carry a baby to term she should get to. How about we make maternity benefits match those in other countries. A friend of mine who doesn’t work a corporate job like most of my friends gave birth and had to be back at work in two weeks, or take FMLA leave for 12 week unpaid. She and her husband and children cannot afford to have her not work for 12 weeks, or even really 4 week. But she only took off three weeks then went… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 12:43 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadChild support is mandatory all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Q for Women: How many of you genuinely enjoy being "objectified" in D/s kinki play with a man whom you trust enough to be totally vulnerable, obedient, and subservient with? In small fun doses of course.Make a post about it. No one is using the term objectification, in this context, in the psychological sense. You are taking a oddly literal and concrete view of this. No one thinks that’s what the word means in this context, no one neurotypical at least. I’ve never, ever heard a guy be confused about why someone is mad at being objectified. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Q for Women: How many of you genuinely enjoy being "objectified" in D/s kinki play with a man whom you trust enough to be totally vulnerable, obedient, and subservient with? In small fun doses of course.I’ve come across more that men don’t see what’s wrong with being treated like a sex object. Not them being confused as to what women mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Q for Women: How many of you genuinely enjoy being "objectified" in D/s kinki play with a man whom you trust enough to be totally vulnerable, obedient, and subservient with? In small fun doses of course.Make this a thread and see what they say. The first definition for objectification is essentially lowering someone to the same status as an object. Most people do NOT think of objectifying in the sense you are speaking of. Hell, I bet the average person doesn’t even know that objectifying can mean something else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Onlyfans should be illegal. Onlyfans is leveraging your sexuality to take advantage/gain financial benefits from another party, NC is leveraging your physicality to...you can fill in the restIt’s not prostitution. It’s pornography. There’s a difference for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Onlyfans should be illegal. Onlyfans is leveraging your sexuality to take advantage/gain financial benefits from another party, NC is leveraging your physicality to...you can fill in the restAre you forced to subscribe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Do you care about morals when choosing a partner?If we have different morals it won’t work. The people that don’t care about their partners core beliefs tend to be the ones in the most damaging relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Q for Women: How many of you genuinely enjoy being "objectified" in D/s kinki play with a man whom you trust enough to be totally vulnerable, obedient, and subservient with? In small fun doses of course.This is not what most people mean when they hear the term “objectify”. Most people, when they say someone is onbjectifying them, it means they are putting aside the fact that the person is living, breathing being and inserting only their own will and wants onto that person. A man would objectify a woman by reducing her to only the parts he values, equating her worth to himself only in the use he gets from those parts. She’s not even valuable, she is useful. That’s a bit of an extreme example. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 02:39 AM |
| 0 | Question for red pillers: what if the woman is much smarter?this stat is misconstrued so much. While men vary more than women in terms of extreme or low intellect, it’s important to point out that having the high end is rare. If the stat is true then most of the men would fall on the average or below average areas, while only a rare few would get high. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/23 01:37 AM |
| 0 | Question for red pillers: what if the woman is much smarter?Meh, I’ve seen some blah ass men with beautiful smart women. Most of them did me through friends though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Question for red pillers: what if the woman is much smarter?But the woman is never considered an idiot in that scenario. She’s always the one getting her husband out of his little spats, fixing the issues he causes behind the scenes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Question for red pillers: what if the woman is much smarter?I don’t think that’s true at all. I do think the tests may have been designed to test things that most smart men show they have. So take pattern recognition in numbers and shapes, there are other ways to test patterns, like with morphology in linguistics, for instance, that’s not generally tested in IQ test. Also, Iook at he the Flynn effect. Women are now scoring slightly higher than men are, think it’s been slowly increasing since the 80s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Q for Women: How many of you genuinely enjoy being "objectified" in D/s kinki play with a man whom you trust enough to be totally vulnerable, obedient, and subservient with? In small fun doses of course.It’s not necessarily objectification. When my boyfriend and I are in the headspace, we are both seeking to gain something from it. He enjoys curating experiences, giving someone exactly what they need and not what the want all the time. He likes to make things memorable and a little heavy. He’s told me that it’s weird feeling of responsibility and freedom: because I have told him the things I like and don’t like. And the lines I want to cross, and it’s his job to guide me through it all. He can’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 12:58 PM |
| 3 | Question for red pillers: what if the woman is much smarter?That’s my issue with a lot of these standards: they were created by men with the intention of measuring only men. So, women can’t even get fair assessments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 12:31 PM |
| 9 | Question for red pillers: what if the woman is much smarter?So do you think women want men that are superior to them in every single facet? Or are just a few areas important? Because there’s is an entire tripe around the “my husband is a loveable idiot” relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 12:29 PM |
| 1 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenIt’s only parasitic when she wants to leave. Did he not know she made less money did him? Or that he’d have to support her if she didn’t work at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 01:56 AM |
| 0 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenBecause the men are marrying women that don’t work, giving them lifestyles that the women wouldn’t be able to afford otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 01:39 AM |
| 5 | Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective.You make women believe you care about them and date them because you can. They are grown, fully grown adults that have the ability to reason and look at your behaviors. For the sugar dating you pay for the ability to be able to have access to a young woman because you can afford it. Now, a man in his 40s comes across a fresh-faced 19 year old with little experience. She’s easily impressed, he can put in almost no effort in order to sleep with her because “wow you have your own apartment that’s s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 08:38 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadListen, as a woman that gained and lost weight, it’s not easy to lose it. It takes mounds of self control and discipline, especially if you’re older. And losing weight just shows you how intensely shallow people, especially men can be. I’m the exact same woman I was before, just in a smaller body. I can say some stupid shit now and men will laugh and agree with me. They try to get on my good side. It’s idiotic. ETA: why do some men let themselves not be fit. It’s not like all men are keeping the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 08:27 PM |
| 0 | Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective.Don’t you currently date fat women you don’t really like because it’s all you think you can get? Not to be rude, but I’m genuinely asking. And don’t you sugar date younger women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 08:24 PM |
| 5 | Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective.You’re telling me, your daughter who is 18, could bring home a man the same age as you, and you wouldn’t bat an eye. You wouldn’t think “why is this man interested in a teenager?” Especially as a man, you wouldn’t be worried he was using her at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 08:14 PM |
| 1 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenIf it was that straight forward with a will then there wouldn’t be a section of law dedicated to litigating disputed estates. It’s not always black and white. People get petty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 08:01 PM |
| 4 | Iv come to a realization when looking though the gay sites for gay male perspective.Nah, if your daughter whose 19 brings home a 40 year old man one day, I guarantee you’re probably going to be weirded out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 07:45 PM |
| 3 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenThen those lawyers are being unethical. If the best thing for the client is wrapping up quickly that’s what they should be advising. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 07:42 PM |
| 5 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenIf he was going to get someone better he would have found someone better. He doesn’t want anyone better: men don’t stay in relationships they are unhappy in if they can get better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:59 PM |
| 4 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenOn the will they did, but the kids are still trying to contest saying that he wouldn’t have left so much to her. It’s mostly because he’d been sick, naturally she took care of him. He changed the will like days before he died or else I don’t think they’d be able to contest it as easily. It’s actually pretty fucked up what they are doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:50 PM |
| 5 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenI’m replying specifically to the comment made above. Most divorces in US settle without court and the majority of jurisdictions have each party pay their own fees. The main time it gets iffy is when one party literally cannot afford to pay for legal representation. Childcare is a cost you’d pay even if you were still married. It’s why I say you should only have kids with people that will be good parents first. You need to be amicable for your kids: you don’t need to live with your partner to be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:47 PM |
| 5 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenI’m in the US so I was talking about US law. I don’t know anything about Canadian law, but I do know that it still isn’t gender specific. Anyone can get that spousal support and it’s based off of who has the most resources. So, the solution is to Mary someone of a similar economic status to you. If she wants to stop working when she becomes pregnant, figure out expectations, write them down, at minimum stick to those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:37 PM |
| 5 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenHe had kids and they accused her of influencing him into changing the will. It’s still ongoing so who knows how it’ll end up. But she’s super stressed out because she now has to share ownership of a home (they purchased it together) but he thought because they purchased it together it would go to her if he died first and vice versa. Well somehow it went to his kids, and now she has to either buy them out or deal with them basically forever. It’s just so messy. Marriage would have made it simpler… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:24 PM |
| 4 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenOh I do. But I’m not talking about that case. Im specifically talking about your comment that something better might come along. Why didn’t it before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:20 PM |
| 4 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenNot how divorce works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:19 PM |
| 5 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenIf there was a better prospect he would have found her by the point someone reaches “forever gf” status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:18 PM |
| 6 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenHe had one, it was contested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:17 PM |
| 4 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenYou can still ask the same questions then: why doesn’t the guy marry the woman that’s desperate for him and obviously not going anywhere? This situation seems ideal for marriage in the eyes of those men that see it as a risk: this woman stayed with you, by you and is there for you without any commitment from you. She probably dismissing friends and family worrying about her, all in favor of “I love him” sounds like a safe bet for marriage even if she did let herself go a bit. In fact I bet the w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:16 PM |
| 9 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenUnfortunately those labels have legal implications that, while some can be overcome by some paperwork, others are much more difficult to get. Especially if something happens to one partner. My aunt was a “long-time girlfriend”, her bf died, and she got almost none of the property he had promised would be theirs. Some stuff had both their names on it, but she then had to share ownership with other people because of how they set it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:14 PM |
| 8 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenI always wondered about this: either they are desperate for that specific man. In which case, maybe the man should consider wifing the woman that is lowering herself for him in order to keep him. Or they are desperate for a relationship. Then one has to wonder why those women just don’t go pair with a guy that will actually be happy to be with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:12 PM |
| 1 | The real reason for forever girlfriend / f*ckzoned womenAlimony is granted like 10% of the time if that. It only used to be given so much because women would literally get married, have babies and have no other skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 06:10 PM |
| 7 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?I still feel like we can’t get a true measure of who is more logical or rational because the standards of what is considered logical or rational was created by men. Even when women act more like men, their actions are turned into negative traits. She’s too aggressive, too masculine, too assertive, too opinionated. Even when women mirror the same behaviors as men, those behaviors are still seen as irrational, illogical or extreme. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 03:48 PM |
| 12 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?Men do not face an issue and then dredge up anger in order to solve a problem. Anger is a reaction: pure and simple. Anger is often irrational by nature. There is a reason seeing someone angry makes people anxious: it can often preceded violence. Women also tend to experience longer periods of anger than men, because they do not immediately lash out as men do. They hold on to it and think through their anger. Men are the ones calling women irrational and over emotional: it’s flawed to have the b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 03:42 PM |
| 34 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?Men are not more rational. If women are irrational because they are emotional then men can be considered equally irrational because they are equally emotional. Anger is an emotion. Men don’t get angry to fix things. They get angry, do something, and call that action a reasonable solution. When in reality, they did the same thing you’re claiming women do. They got angry and did something in order to gain some semblance of control of the outcome: the result may not be the ideal or even a good outc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 02:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: We should have a Super Marriage concept where divorce is illegalWhat’s the point of being separated and not divorced? Are you going to let that man have access to his kids if he’s abusive? Is infidelity punishable or something? What’s to stop them from being married in name only? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | CMV: We should have a Super Marriage concept where divorce is illegalWhat if someone starts abusing their partner after they are super married? What if their partner starts abusing their children, other people’s children? Or it is found that a partner had been hiding some super violent acts? Can they not get a divorce? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 01:26 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Do you enjoy rejecting men who approach you that you don't find attractive?No it’s so awkward and I always feel so bad. I’m usually flattered if the guy is polite about it. The only times I have a negative reaction is when the guy just won’t take “no” for an answer. Like when I say I have a boyfriend and he says something like “why does he have to find out” and just keeps pestering me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 01:14 PM |
| 4 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?I still think that the mean girl mentality, while definitely true, is the result of having to fight for men. And being told, almost constantly, that if you don’t make yourself the best option for your man he will leave you. As an adult, now with a successful and attractive partner, my mother has told me several times that I need to put my happiness and personal wands aside in order to make sure I keep my boyfriend happy enough to want to marry me. She wants me to focus solely on his wants, liter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 01:13 PM |
| 49 | What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor?Yeah beside anger is still an emotion. Rage is still an emotion, but men often dismiss anger as a different kind of emotion that somehow makes them more “rational”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 01:06 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanAgain. If you meet a woman, who had say. 25 sexual partners, she’s not currently sleeping around, hasn’t been ff at least a couple of years, has never had an accidental pregnancy and has never cheated. How is she a loss to the man to date because of her n count? They date, form a serious relationship, and get married and have babies. Where is the higher risk the the child is not his? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/23 12:00 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanWhy is it a loss? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 08:22 PM |
| 4 | What Men and Women Don't Want To HearSo are those things better than men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 07:28 PM |
| 2 | What Men and Women Don't Want To HearAre you purposefully dismissing that fact that women were barred from learning a lot of those things because men in power felt like it wasn’t needed? I think, this society forgets how much it values power. And it’s easy to call women weak, or followers, when prior to the invention of guns or weapons that allowed for distance, women would have had to fight men for power, physically. And yes, women are not going to have the same muscle mass as men. But in modern war, your testosterone doesn’t make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 07:16 PM |
| 1 | What Men and Women Don't Want To HearSo. You’re saying men are better at social settings than women? Or society values men more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:58 PM |
| 1 | What Men and Women Don't Want To HearAre you saying men are better people than women? Better at what? Exactly? Do they have more value than women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:56 PM |
| 2 | What Men and Women Don't Want To HearSo are men inferior to, say tigers? Elephants? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:50 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanHow? If all things are equal and a woman knows she can use her low n to go out and grab a richer, taller man, then how does her low n make her a better option? It’s not really her low n, it’s her beliefs on sex that matter more. You could have a low n woman that’s just saving her virginity so that she can lure in the richest man possible and then divorce him. You can also have a woman that dated around, had sex and now knows exactly the kind of partner she wants. Low n isn’t really the thing tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:50 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanSo..,it doesn’t make her more loyal. At all. What does n-count prove if it doesn’t equate to loyalty? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:45 PM |
| 10 | Is there even any society set expectations left on women anymore?Very few couples in America can afford to have an adult dependent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:44 PM |
| – | For any man with abundance/options, there is no benefit to choosing a promiscuous womanNeither can the man. What if the low n woman you selected finds a guy taller and richer and decides to take the risk since she hasn’t done much risk faking in the past. And the new taller, richer, funnier guy is a better option. Plus, her low n-count would make her an option for him. So why would she stay with you in that case? What’s to stop your low n women from going to men that are better options after they’ve gotten you? If n-count is that much of a deal? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenWell then I think people need to recognize that they accepted the risk by marrying a partner who, without help, would otherwise be poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenWhy? You have a contract for literally everything else you do, basically. Why not for marriage? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 06:54 PM |
| 9 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenIf an attorney writes your prenup and parts of ir get thrown out you could prob sue for malpractice. Most prenups they get thrown out are done so because the couple wrote them themselves without advice from an attorney. But if you have an attorney write the entire thing, they can advise you on what to include. Most judges are not just giving people houses and money. Especially with property, the person getting full control of it can only do so if they buy the other party out. Funds that are spli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Men cant be mad when women take half their stuff if they marry broke womenWhy not just get a prenup! Pay for her to get a lawyer separate from yours, get a nice, attorney written prenup that details what you get to keep. Child care is different because that’s not hers or yours, so you can’t do anything to avoid that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/23 02:48 PM |
| – | What makes you say no to a second date or a first date?When I’m saying good guy I mean his a good match for her. I’m not sure what part you’re not understanding. I’m saying that she is removing people that may be compatible with her. For no reason other than…the penis isn’t aesthetically pleasing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/23 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?Home duties such as what? I personally feel like if both people are working and high earners, home duties shouldn’t matter. Hire someone. If it’s more on the average income side for both, then split the chores evenly or equitably. Personally, I don’t necessarily like the idea of one partner not doing house work simply because they make more money and take on more of the bills. Especially if the lower earning partner is working anywhere over 25 hours a week. Now if one partner contributes nothing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 05:24 PM |
| 0 | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?Usually when guys say that though, they dated a woman with those traits from the get-go. It only becomes problematic when she gets raises and promotions, starts making even more money and he is left where he started. Or. When she steps away from her career a bit, turns down the promotion in favor of spending her time at home, with the promise that her partner will pick up the financial slack she put down. But he doesn’t. Then she gets angry and resentful because she put aside her career for a ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 05:00 PM |
| 3 | CMV: traditional marriage vows are too strictEven when marriage was “permanent” people were finding a way to get around it. “She hasn’t given me a son” “she is infertile” “she won’t sleep with me” “she’s a witch” (last ones kind of a joke). Marriage has never been permanent, it’s always lasted until one party wanted out. The vows don’t keep you loyal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?What if she had a lower income and worked more hours just because of her job? Like she was in the service industry? Or worked at a hospital? What if she had a higher income and worked less? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?Again, everyone is glossing over the question. What if she already has money. Got a trust fund, won the lottery, etc. and isn’t working crazy hours? No one finds another person being belligerent and egotistical attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?That didn’t answer my question at all. If she won the lottery she wouldn’t be worried about work. Is the issue her having more money than you? Or just her working more or as much as you? And if it’s the latter, what if she made less but still put in the same hours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 02:42 PM |
| 6 | Do you care about a women's income when it comes to dating?Is it that you don’t want to compete with her job or you don’t want to feel like you’re the lesser partner? For instance, what if she didn’t work but had a lot of money? Like she won the lottery or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/23 12:35 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Some women do have pity sexCan y’all please just use paragraphs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/23 03:17 AM |
| 5 | Treat her like an employee . . . not a slaveThis is it. The leadership in relationships is a given role. Not one that is forced. You’re the leader because the other party is letting you be. The second you breach the trust needed for that role in some way, it should be gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Treat her like an employee . . . not a slaveWomen want the same or better or barring that, they want someone whose drive matches there’s. Many high earning women (who don’t want to date men from their field) realize that it’s next to impossible to date a guy that’s going to make more than she does. Instead of looking for someone with more, they look for someone complimentary with the mindset that they want. But on the other end, if I’m a cashier making min wage, why would I, as an adult woman, want to date someone that made less? We’d jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 09:46 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut isn’t her sister, who is hot, also disproving redpill ideals? She’s dating a short man, who cares if her sister is making fun of him in secret. It obviously didn’t since her sister married the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Ladies - What percentage of the bills would you expect your man to pay if you lived together?Im not living with a man that im not engaged to. (Not officially at least) but at the engagement, if he wants to budget we aren’t going 50/50 unless we make exactly the same. Otherwise we split equitably, with the partner that wants extra (if ideals don’t align) paying for the extras. Once married I don’t care. I’ll have a joint account where 80% of my money goes and all of that is free use. The 30% I’ll put away, most likely for college or something for kids. We will split utilities 50/50 thoug… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 10:30 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s not how it works. Don’t bother looking. Edit: oh wait you’re the attorney, you also know it’s bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:46 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat’s not how affirmative action works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:46 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe wants to spend time with you. Especially if she’s the type that likes her solitude. If she works a lot and changes her schedule to see you, she likes you. My bf and I didn’t have sex for a long time! But I did other things after a few weeks that showed him I was interested: I cooked for him, if there was a show or something I wanted to see I got two tickets and invited him. Weirdly the biggest one was FaceTiming. When we first met I told him point blank that I hated FaceTiming and talking on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:44 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI know for a fact that you’re not new here. Why are you acting silly like this? You know that a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:41 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo they cannot. This is only for a certain kind of woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 05:15 PM |
| 6 | It makes perfect sense to wait for sex if you want a long term relationship.Has Billy ever bought a girl he really liked a nice gift before it got serious? Paid a bill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:35 PM |
| – | Q4W: is ignorance bliss for women?Purity means nothing. A guy won’t value you more because you’re pure, unless it’s something he saved for himself too. If a guy is out there Fucking left and right, no matter what mental gymnastics he does to convince himself otherwise, he’s not gonna be content settling down with a woman just because she’s a virgin. Dicks don’t make people dirty, but intent sure does. The samples don’t really matter. Honestly, if a nice guy decides he doesn’t want to date you because you’re not a virgin, and he’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 03:04 PM |
| – | CMV Casual sex as a attractive man gets old fastLots of my issues are solved with money too, but it’s doesn’t make them all magically go away. It just makes dealing with them, at one level, easy. And my family used to be poor poor. Like I thought a toaster was luxury poor. All that happened was we stopped having financial worries and started seeing where the problems were stemming from. It was the people around us that actually did a lot of make life more miserable. Money is a huge advantage, because then finances becomes one thing you can th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 02:41 PM |
| – | CMV Casual sex as a attractive man gets old fastHaving money won’t make you happier in an emotional sense. It does make life easier in other ways. Being tall may reduce the barriers of entry for interest, but at the end of the day, it doesn’t gurantee interest. You can be tall and still be blatantly undateable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 01:36 PM |
| – | CMV Casual sex as a attractive man gets old fastI just feel like it’s really dumb when almost everyone that has casual sex says that it’s not that great, the novelty wears off quick. The only people that actually enjoy it are ones that don’t want relationships anyway, and even then, those people still need human connection and validation in some form. We are telling you, casual sex isn’t going to change your life or fix all of your problems. You’re just going to reframe them and internalize them more when you realize that your life is still e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 01:16 PM |
| – | CMV Casual sex as a attractive man gets old fastThis is what women here have been trying to say. Casual sex isn’t special, no one thinks is special. It’s only special to people that can’t have causal sex but want to because they have FOMO. What you want is commitment and someone to make you feel special. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:14 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense.I don’t understand what he said and how it applies to my statement. What doesn’t anybody believe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 01:14 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense.What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 09:48 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense.Yeah. Why would it matter. She’s not with any of those guys so having sex with them, at whatever pace, obviously didn’t get her a lasting relationship with them. No woman is making a guy wait three months because she doesn’t want to he viewed a slut, the three week mark already proves that. Maybe she wants to get some idea of whether the guy is in it ONLY for sex. And even then, most women aren’t making guys wait months like that. It’s really the expectation that the put out early that they are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 09:17 PM |
| 1 | If women can bang 400 guys without shame or consequence, then 50-60 year old men should be able to bang 18 year olds without shame or consequence.There is no way a 50 yo man is meeting an 18 year old girl and thinking that they have a lot in common and she will be difficult. I’ve heard guys talk about this, I’ve had this happen. Though he wasn’t 50. They are manipulating these girls, they know it. Everyone knows it. Why would an 18 yo settle with a 50 accountant? Again, these are never rich men. They are always these looser guys, going after girls that come from average to below average backgrounds. Why aren’t 50 yo going after rich 18 yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 09:07 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense.Even the expectation that someone put out on the third date is wrong. But again, this is why I suggest multi dating for those that can do it. You can have an honest conversation and if you don’t align you can move on. If you can’t multidate, I would then just date women that also don’t. But realistically, you just have to believe her or leave. If you ask her if she’s sleeping with someone else, and she says yes, that a convo y’all need to have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 09:01 PM |
| 2 | If women can bang 400 guys without shame or consequence, then 50-60 year old men should be able to bang 18 year olds without shame or consequence.That’s never what happens. He’s with her because she’s easily impressed. Rich men get sugar babies or hot 22 year olds they can actually take places. Still gross, but the aren’t going for girls that just had their felony-possibility status dropped. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 08:56 PM |
| 2 | If women can bang 400 guys without shame or consequence, then 50-60 year old men should be able to bang 18 year olds without shame or consequence.No. There’s always going to be manipulation involved. There is zero chance a 50 year old looks at an 18 yo and thinks “she’s going to make me work so hard and be a better man in this relationship.” He’s thinking “she’s young, dumb and desperate for attention. I can get her easy.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 08:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense.I mean if it’s sex on the first date or early in the dating phase i agree. If she has sex with him on the first day he is likely to think “does she do this on all her dates” . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 08:39 PM |
| 5 | If women can bang 400 guys without shame or consequence, then 50-60 year old men should be able to bang 18 year olds without shame or consequence.No one said that someone having sex with a lot of people are doing it because it’s a good match. The 50 yos that are mediocre getting 18 year olds are making promises and expectations they don’t intend to keep. It’s the lower middle class loser who takes the 18 yo to applebees and tells her weird shit about relationships that’s more problematic. Notice, it’s rare for these creepy relationships to happen (outside of celebrities) with a 18 yo there’s wealthy. A rich guy doing the same thing will a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 08:38 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Claiming that "women make guys they like wait for sex because they don't want to be viewed as slutty" is dumb and makes no sense.Why is it an illusion of chastity? If I say “I’m not ready to have sex with you” that doesn’t mean I’m virginal. Now I do think it’s questionable when someone says they are waiting then has sex with someone else. But, that’s why I think multidating should be the norm. He can have his person he has sex with and we can just not be exclusive until we are ready for that. That’s what my bf and I did, except we became exclusive before we’d had sex. I wasn’t sleeping with anyone else though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 08:33 PM |
| 8 | If women can bang 400 guys without shame or consequence, then 50-60 year old men should be able to bang 18 year olds without shame or consequence.These two things don’t necessarily correlate. A grown man having sex with a fresh, shiny, 18 year old is a fucking creep. He’s not doing it because he’s the best match for her, he’s doing it because she’s young and he knows he can do very little and still impress her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 08:30 PM |
| 13 | CMV Since the Andrew Tate mindset GUARANTEES succes with women, its very hard for many off his fans to not support him and believe himNo it’s not…not at all. It does prove that he’s irresponsible though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Biologically: Fighting Prime Is The Same As Mating Prime for Males In Most Species. Humans Are SimilarThis has zero to do with what I said. However, I don’t think that number is correct. Especially when you look to the fact that for a long time, women couldn’t even introduce ideas as their own. Innovation from women is often left out entirely or the credit is taken by a man. It’s also doesn’t match with the idea that men are “simple creatures” that don’t need much and would be happy with just basic comforts. If men are indeed so simple then someone must be inspiring these innovations or doing so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 05:57 PM |
| 4 | Biologically: Fighting Prime Is The Same As Mating Prime for Males In Most Species. Humans Are SimilarMore men also have very low iqs…men tend to occupy the extremes in terms of measured IQ: which also isn’t a good or accurate tool for measuring human intelligence. It mostly measure how fast you’re able to learn, and how much you’re able to retain. Whereas if doesn’t measure creativity or social intelligence at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 11:48 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men aren't assholes for treating you different after a rejectionI’m confused, did you mean to message this to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 11:20 AM |
| 1 | What makes you say no to a second date or a first date?A good guy as in he’s a good match for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 02:02 AM |
| 10 | CMV: Men aren't assholes for treating you different after a rejectionAhhh okay, so small town person. You’ve known her for a while? Were y’all friends before or just knew of one another? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 12:54 AM |
| 53 | CMV: Men aren't assholes for treating you different after a rejectionDid she know you? Why would she ask a stranger for a ride? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/23 12:43 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI do find it weird that you have to be controlling someone in order to be happy. If your partner wanted complete control over your life, while only giving you the basic relationship needs, would that make you equally happy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 11:40 PM |
| 0 | Are 'outdated' preferences towards men also misandristic, while the same towards women are deemed misogynistic?"That used to be mostly due to exposure and bias against it. In the modern world, if your partner isn’t willing to examine your cultural norms it probably wouldn’t work. However, dismissing a group because you assume they won’t agree with your cultural differences is very limiting. Also specifically, most white people in the US aren’t not interracial dating because of cultural differences….. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 05:44 PM |
| 0 | Are 'outdated' preferences towards men also misandristic, while the same towards women are deemed misogynistic?"A person that’s against racism wouldn’t use the phrase “own kind” because they wouldn’t see others as a different kind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 05:40 PM |
| – | Got into women's sports for a selfish reason but can't understand how other straight men aren't too.So…are you watching for the sports or because there are women running around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 01:49 AM |
| 3 | Men Who Want A Family Are Biologically Forced To Date Women Under Roughly 35-43Nature didn’t decide shit. It’s happenstance and chance buddy. You’re not controlled by nature. And society makes laws, but that doesn’t mean they are right. You are not in a society that pushes for preteens to push out kids. In America, people live softer lives, which allows them to grow up a bit slower. There’s no reason, in todays age, that a teenager should be having a baby and be presumed responsible enough to care for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Men Who Want A Family Are Biologically Forced To Date Women Under Roughly 35-43Please show me the science that says that. A period is literally a signifier that pregnancy has not occurred. And again, a 12 year old is not mature enough to be another. Neither is a 13, 14, or hell most American 18 year olds aren’t mature enough to be responsible parents. People had children going because they HAD TO. with short life expectancy and low mortality rates, having kids early helped genes continue on. As we moved past that into a more sophisticated era, the age of first motherhood g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 01:31 AM |
| 8 | Financial Demands of Dating Modern Vs Traditional WomenFind someone that likes similar things as you. Not every woman likes fancy dates or nice restaurants. There are plenty of women that would be thrilled with a dive bar margarita and some air-hockey for a date. However, if the women you’re attracted to seem to all like the finer things in life, then you need to be realistic about expectation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/23 01:01 AM |
| 4 | Men Who Want A Family Are Biologically Forced To Date Women Under Roughly 35-43Also boys can technically father children super young too, you don’t see history forcing them to have kids the second they can…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Men Who Want A Family Are Biologically Forced To Date Women Under Roughly 35-43Okay, the average age for girls to get their period is 12. Are those girls mature enough to be mothers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 11:55 PM |
| 6 | Men Who Want A Family Are Biologically Forced To Date Women Under Roughly 35-43This is a real story, the youngest mother on record was five years old when she gave birth. The man who impregnated her was definitely a vile, disgusting predator . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Men Who Want A Family Are Biologically Forced To Date Women Under Roughly 35-43I got my period at 9…was I mature enough for motherhood? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 11:40 PM |
| 12 | People should dress modestly in publicMy boyfriend and I will both look, respectfully, of course. I’m not going to get offended because he find another woman to be attractive. If he acts on it then it’s a different story. Anyone that just needs to see an attractive person and can be incentivized to cheat by their body was going to cheat anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 11:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV : women genuinely want attention and affection from their man, and attention and affection genuinely causes attraction towards that man to dropDude, it’s literally on topic. Although yea, I did want to gush a little. But it really saddens to me to see guys thinking like this and assuming it’s all women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:55 PM |
| 9 | CMV : women genuinely want attention and affection from their man, and attention and affection genuinely causes attraction towards that man to dropI don’t need to speak for all women. I speak for me, a woman that hasn’t lost a single bit of attraction for her boyfriend because he’s kind and affectionate. My point is, if the person is right for you, it’ll take a lot to make you lose attraction. Not everyone is for you: dating is one of those things you only have to get right once. If the women you’re dating are losing interest in you for showing affection to them, maybe choose a different type of woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:54 PM |
| 13 | CMV : women genuinely want attention and affection from their man, and attention and affection genuinely causes attraction towards that man to dropNot really. My boyfriend showers me with attention and affection: I love it. I love him. I give him attention and affection back. Really, if the person you’re with isn’t right for you, no amount of affection will make it work. And I’ve noticed in the past where a guy was treating me right, but there was just no spark after a while. My boyfriend giving me attention definitely doesn’t make me less sexually interested in him. We waited a long time to have sex and are making up every single one of t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:27 PM |
| 9 | What makes you say no to a second date or a first date?That’s so weird to me. I remember when I first saw one that wasn’t circumcised I was a bit confused, I didn’t know they looked different. But after watching videos on female circumcision and hearing women talk about their experiences, I can’t stand by doing that to babies. Especially if you’re already in bed with him and it’s something you “may” notice. I dunno, seems like an easy way to miss out on a good guy. Unless of course there’s religious reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:24 PM |
| 7 | What makes you say no to a second date or a first date?Why would him being uncircumcised matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 09:14 PM |
| 3 | I cannot understand why any person looking for a serious relationship would not support the FDS 3-month for sex strategy.I’m saying that with some guys I do, or did, worry about being sued for sex. They put out certain vibes, ultimately, I just decided to never have sex with them and end things. With my bf, I knew he wasn’t the type to pump and dump, but had other reasons to wait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 05:03 PM |
| 4 | I cannot understand why any person looking for a serious relationship would not support the FDS 3-month for sex strategy.You’re being dense and assuming that everyone wants “healthy sexual relationships”. Some people just want to use others and it’s a genuine issue. To dismiss it as “a non-adult” issue isn’t right. Adults, sadly do it all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 04:48 PM |
| 2 | I cannot understand why any person looking for a serious relationship would not support the FDS 3-month for sex strategy.Well no, I just knew I wasn’t sleeping with him right away lol. And he wasn’t the type to d it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | I cannot understand why any person looking for a serious relationship would not support the FDS 3-month for sex strategy.Yes they do. It’s a big issue sometimes. While I wasn’t worried about being pumpd and dumped, I had to wait 6 months to have sex with my bf. I have an issue where I can’t enjoy it and I refused to ruin the relationship early by associating him with bad sex. But people, adults, do worry about being used for their bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 04:08 PM |
| 1 | The "male housework list" or "honey do list" (the second shift) | Sources from Dr. Warren FarrellOmg! I would simply pass away from embarrassment. My boyfriend is a dirty minded gentleman though. But the things he lets slip out of his mouth in front of our friends…my grandma would not be okay. I wonder if he can check himself in front of my parents. Dad might get a little upset. My mom, however, would be like “it’s about damn time, no returns”. When I tell you, she called me about once week before my guy and I got serious, just to tell me that she didn’t care where her grand babies came fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | The "male housework list" or "honey do list" (the second shift) | Sources from Dr. Warren FarrellSometimes I’ll iron my jeans and shirts, but perm press and a steam cycle work wonders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 12:48 PM |
| 3 | The "male housework list" or "honey do list" (the second shift) | Sources from Dr. Warren FarrellIf I’m really mad I’ll tighten it a lot, pretend or struggle with it, then loosen it a little after he tries. It’s important to let him know that you can do something’s on your own. But when he’s annoyed at me, he puts things just out of my reach so I can’t grab them. He’s only about 5 inches taller than me, but he has super long arms and knows that I don’t look up for things. We love each other but we are petty lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 12:38 PM |
| 6 | The "male housework list" or "honey do list" (the second shift) | Sources from Dr. Warren FarrellSometimes I’ll just give my boyfriend a jar to open….as a treat. It makes him feel big and strong. If I’m annoyed at him I’ll tighten the jar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 12:31 PM |
| 4 | The "male housework list" or "honey do list" (the second shift) | Sources from Dr. Warren FarrellNope. If something I have needs to be ironed, if can most likely be dry cleaned and they’ll press it for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 12:30 PM |
| 3 | The "male housework list" or "honey do list" (the second shift) | Sources from Dr. Warren FarrellHalf of the shit on this list, for me, are skills that while I acknowledge are useful, my man doesn’t need to have them because we can pay someone to do it. The risk to either of our body outweighs the cost of paying someone to do it. Hell, most of the time it’s just that we simply don’t want to do it ourselves. I’ll provide some examples, won’t go through your entire list: We both live in apartments, so we don’t do our own home maintenance. If we did, we’d just pay someone to do this. 2.Again, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 12:13 PM |
| 3 | Would someone's family make you dislike the person or reconsider them as a partner?I’ve 100% stopped talking to men because their families are racist. Granted, this would only be an issue if the man in question still had a good relationship with his family. There is zero chance he didn’t know his family was racist, and if he’s still talking to them, that means it’s not a big deal to him that they are. If it’s someone I’m considering being serious with, I do not want to make him choose between his family and me, because that I is what it will eventually come down too. Plus, I’v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/23 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Parents, how has it been for you observing your children experiencing dating?My brothers already know, if something happens and they need to be picked up, call me first. Don’t freak mom out if it’s something not super serious. I might be upset at them, but I’m gonna come get them first, without embarrassing them, then I’m gonna yell at them in private lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Parents, how has it been for you observing your children experiencing dating?That’s so uncannily similar to my brother and I. He wants to go to An art school in my city and is already playing the “it’ll save money if I live with big sis” game with our mom. Though I’m trying to convince him to dorm when the time comes, at least for a year so he can get the experience. But he is doing a summer program in my city in a couple of months and he’s so excited. Lol he offered to do all the chores for the summer because boarding for two weeks at the camp is the same price as my re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Parents, how has it been for you observing your children experiencing dating?Awww yeah! It’s funny talking to them. They insult me by reminding me that I was “born in the 1900s” then I threaten to tell mom to take their phone, it’s hilarious. They are good kids. They even gave my boyfriend a “shovel talk” lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Parents, how has it been for you observing your children experiencing dating?He’s 14! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Parents, how has it been for you observing your children experiencing dating?Not a parent but my little brothers who I’m 17 years older than call me all the time to tell me about their drama. It’s adorable and cringe at the same time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 01:28 PM |
| – | Yes. S3x and being socially accepted is a need.You cannot say that you’d be okay. And I’m talking about you as a man, would not be saying that if another man forced himself on you. Because a woman is unlikely to be able to force herself on a man. And it seems the only way to make some men here realize how bad sexual assault is, is by making them imagine a stronger and bigger man deciding that he want to have sexual with you, no matter what you say. Being assaulted is traumatizing. Being “okay” means you survive it. But so many people are dep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 01:06 PM |
| – | Yes. S3x and being socially accepted is a need.For the love of god use paragraphs. You’re wrong. Not everyone who is deprived of sec will go through and take it from someone. Sex is not a need. You can go your entire life without sex. Women have been told to ignore their sexual urges for ages. It didn’t kill them. forcing yourself on someone is wrong!! It’s one of the most traumatic things someone can go through. It’s humiliating, it hurts, it’s violent and it’s terrifying. Someone has decided that you and your body have no agency. It’s a di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 12:43 PM |
| 3 | How different would historical gender dynamics and modern dating be if the size/strength difference between males and females were reversed, but everything else had remained the same?That was to stop men from marrying women then divorcing her once he took her virginity. Women’s bodies have always been seen as burdens and useless if another man has gotten there first. Alimony is to protect women from being used and thrown away without regard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Why didn't #PassportSisters trend before #PassportBros?It’s literally shorter than the nonsense you wrote? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 11:55 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t think they are usually taken either though. I think there are lots of single women that do some of these things that maybe the guys aren’t physically attracted to. At least the groups I was in were full of single women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 10:28 PM |
| 0 | Is the idea of being rejected by men you are interested in for shallow reasons hard to accept?Was he??? Where? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 10:04 PM |
| 0 | Is the idea of being rejected by men you are interested in for shallow reasons hard to accept?What?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 10:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh nah. They weren’t your friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 09:59 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWomen do all of those things. So many women genuinely love sports and there gym. And video games are getting way more mainstream. Nothing you do as a hobby is going to be that freaking gendered. I go to board game groups, went to hackathons and the like that were full of women. Hell, my friends regularly drag me to sports bars for football and basket ball events. And do all your friends literally like doing to exact same things? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 09:13 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat hobbies do you have where there are no women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 09:05 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis confuses me. Did they ever try to initiate hanging out with you? Or were you the only one pushing to hangout? So when you stopped the communication died. In my experience, people tend to be two kinds of “friends”. One person has lots of friends. They can hangout with any of them, but only give real, genuine concern and friendship to a select few. But they like having variety in their social groups. These people don’t care if you reach out to them all the time, but will still come to hangout… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 08:55 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis may sound weird, but do guys here not have female friends? I know some don’t think having non-male friends is valuable. But I really think you guys would get way more compliments from women if you approached them as people. I compliment my guy friends all the time. Hell, I tell my boyfriends friends if their outfit is nice or their haircut is nice or if I like it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 08:05 PM |
| 2 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Nah, in the US the general rule is that everyone pays their own attorneys fees. That’s why so many men (I believe rightfully in some cases) complain about there being way more free/low-cost family law services that are aimed at women than there are for men. But even that gap is closing now as “mens law firms” start opening up to counter. Plus lots of states are looking into getting mandatory public defenders/public representation for all family court and landlord/tenant issues. But really, you c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 07:27 PM |
| 3 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Even if she dragged the process out, most divorces both sides cover their own attorneys fees. Because there is no fault divorce. Dragging it out with only hurt her, especially if she’s the one with no money. Even then, if she’s the one being difficult, then the courts see that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 06:58 PM |
| 13 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.I really need men in this sub to learn how divorce works. You will not get reamed because the average couple hardly has any assets. No judge is giving a woman full ownership of a house without her having to buy her husband out, at a reasonable, current market rate. Most divorces don’t end in alimony. And most “marital assets” that are split half and half are bank accounts and savings accounts, future earning only matter until the divorce is finalized, and even then, most settle for lump sum amou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Sorry, I meant you asked about it in marriage. Which is what I answered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 05:15 PM |
| 5 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.You asked about it in dating. I don’t think it exists at all because, especially for partners, if you’re sane there’s always something your partner can do to make you not love them. For children it’s a bit different. You may not support your child if they do something monstrous, but you’ll probably still love them as your child because you have memories of them before, and I think parents feel responsible for their children’s behavior, no matter how old they are, at least a little bit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 04:16 PM |
| 3 | Women are children, and need to be treated as suchHe’s in his thanos era. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:44 PM |
| 7 | Women are children, and need to be treated as suchDo you realize the irony in saying women just use the internet to complain when you’re using the internet to complain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:41 PM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Why is it in his nature to love? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:37 PM |
| 1 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.Oh no religious unconditional love is only one way. Humans are supposed to love god no matter what he does. God doesn’t have to love you back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:23 PM |
| 21 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.How many men would continue to stay with their wives if she gained a bunch of weight, stopped having sex with him and belittled him? Unconditional love doesn’t exist between anyone I feel except parents and their children. And even then, some parents don’t love their children unconditionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:21 PM |
| -2 | When a girl says she loves you, what she loves is what you do for her, how you make her feel and the lifestyle she's able to participate in by being with you.If you beat someone senseless every night while married should beg continue to love you and think that you love them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 02:19 PM |
| 5 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stayMost women in the US pay bills and support their families also with their income. It’s a fantasy that it’s not true. Most parents in the US do not have the money to live on one income. Hell, most single couples don’t have the money to live on own income. Women pay bills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 12:33 PM |
| 0 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stayThis is not how this works in the US. The government is not allowing a woman to keep a house if it’s marital property | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 04:45 AM |
| 4 | As a woman, getting married before having kids is a better indicator that the man will stayIs it “marrying down” if men claim that women’s finances and education don’t benefit them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 04:44 AM |
| 6 | CMV: We should stop shaming childfree women and women who don’t want kids, we’re alienating a group of women that will benefit men that don’t want kidsNo we should not, our planet is going to be barreling towards uninhabitable in 100 years. Focus on creating a better , safer world, then I will feel better about bringing an innocent child into that world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 04:47 AM |
| 2 | CMV: We should stop shaming childfree women and women who don’t want kids, we’re alienating a group of women that will benefit men that don’t want kidsUh no. Who is saying this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 04:46 AM |
| 0 | Women don't get that its not men complaining they can’t find a 10, but they can’t find 6 or 5 eitherOP, when people phrase things this way, if automatically makes me think m “why should a woman want someone that thinks of her as lesser?” I know it’s not what you intended, but this just sounds like you feel there are certain women you should be able to get, just for the fact that you think they are less beautiful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 03:33 AM |
| 2 | If men were less horny, what would happen?Why not? If mens horniness reduced, we’d already have the tools in place to start having babies, especially since marriage for commitment and children would prob not matter as much. Why would the human race end? If men aren’t interested in sex we have ways to make babies. The issue is now that they are expensive. If they were cheaper more women would use them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:30 PM |
| -2 | whats the problem with a woman getting with a beta bucks?That’s basically what women were dealing with for years, though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:11 PM |
| 0 | If men were less horny, what would happen?Not really. Reproduction services would be priced reasonably since natural reproduction would be lower. Better sperm available at banks, women could still have just as many babies. There would just almost no accidental pregnancies. Which is what religious people want right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:09 PM |
| 5 | If men were less horny, what would happen?Not really. Reproduction services would be priced reasonably since natural reproduction would be lower. Better sperm available at banks, women could still have just as many babies. There would just almost no accidental pregnancies. Which is what religious people want right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Why don't women understand that men have to work and have money?This. Most women that want the be seen as having a certain kind of lifestyle don’t care where the money comes from or how much the guy makes. It only matters what he’s willing to spend. That’s why some of the blue collar gfs are constantly only showing off their new stuff: their man has money and very little debt. They can afford to do a bunch of stuff because of that, despite him more likely not making six figures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 03:30 PM |
| 5 | How are men who are finally getting the chance to date and women who have been dating since their twenty's compatible?From the opposite view: my bf is way more experienced in all aspects of dating than me. At times I do feel like I am behind, some things he just knows to let go of, or there’s just an ease to which he navigates out relationship, without the worry and anxiety that I carry around, that allows him to be more authentic. It’s nice. And sometimes it’s frustrating that I feel behind. But I don’t think I’d necessarily be a better partner for him if I had more relationship experience. There’s no resentme… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Men, can you explain the urge to sacrifice your life for your woman?It’s also not like girlfriends don’t become wives. If those men loves those women they’d want to protect them. It was probably their first instinct to put themselves in harms way. If women did that first, babies would be left without mothers, and prior to recent times, that meant they died because there was no one who could feed them. I think it will change now that size and such don’t really matter when the weapon being used is a firearm. It doesn’t matter how big someone is, then being big doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:50 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don’t appreciate the surprise spankings lol. I always catches me off guard. I like the affection though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:16 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh I did! I grab a whole handful! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:15 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy boyfriend is in a phase where he will sneak up behind me and slap my ass super hard. What does it mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 03:57 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWait buddy, I’m confused about how this scale works. Out of a 3.5 wouldn’t they be well below average? What do these numbers mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 03:55 AM |
| 2 | Men, can you explain the urge to sacrifice your life for your woman?They might , but if your stronger, faster bf throws himself in front of you there isn’t much you can do about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 03:52 AM |
| 1 | "Traditional" is just another term to describe expecting commitment, faithfulness and monogamous relationshipsI don’t think “traditional” men were expected to be faithful though. There’s a reason there is a name for the girlfriend of a married man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 11:26 PM |
| 6 | There are two men, Shawn and Thad. Who do you pick?Shawn!? Emotions are normal. Men crying is fine. Excessive crying from ANYONE is annoying. Even babies, and they should cry, but if your baby cried all the time you’d be concerned. Just like you’d be concerned if it never cried. For adults it’s the same. There’s a Goldilocks amount of tears you can shed in public without being termed dramatic. Please, cry. Being stoic isn’t rationally dealing with your emotions, it’s bottling them up and ignoring them, eventually they will spill over. Im not goi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 11:21 PM |
| 3 | Which would you prefer: a partner who experienced ample love and companionship before they met you or who lived a life of mostly loneliness and frustration?If their dating life was perfect then they wouldn’t be getting a new partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 11:19 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIsn’t a mail order bride the exact same thing? It’s based on resources; only it’s getting rid of the pretext for both parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 11:18 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPorn doesn’t fulfill every fantasy. You’re still dreaming and ultimately just using your hand. At the very least you can fantasize with your partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 11:17 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s not a huge privilege. Some men would say they literally would have sex with any woman so long a she is a willing. They don’t care about the woman: any woman that wanted to have sex would be able to fill that need for them. How is it a privilege? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 11:14 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo. Not at all. People just need to be better dog owners. Having a pet is a responsibility, and people often dismiss it as something easy and simple when it’s not . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 10:07 PM |
| 4 | Why not look for a woman with a career?…explain this sentence to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 05:40 PM |
| – | Cheating TENDS to be worse for (average) MEN than (average) women...This is what people seem to forget. If a man has to prove himself in order to be seen as worthy by a woman. Then didn’t the man that cheated prove himself to his mistress or whatever woman he is cheating with? Didn’t he expend resources on her? Time, money, energy? If not, then his ability to cheat was just as simple as you proclaim the woman’s was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 01:37 PM |
| 3 | PPD Women Who Overly Criticize Men Who Travel Are Mostly Full of ShitDD is considered plus sized. I’ve been abnormal bra size since forever. DD with a small band is still considered full busted. Hell, prior to like six years ago, most popular lingerie stores stopped at a DD and those bras were always beige or black. With plastic surgery becoming more common, DD became a bit more mainstream. Really, a lot of stores tell women they are DD and sell them a smaller band size. When really the are probably a size smaller. DD+ bras used to cost more. Either way, it’s unl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 02:34 AM |
| 4 | PPD Women Who Overly Criticize Men Who Travel Are Mostly Full of ShitOkay, but are they using the European scale? Because a European C is a US B. I’m asking because I regularly have to buy bras from European designers as I find they are less expensive than US brands for the size I need. They are more size inclusive at first glance. But really the cups are smaller. Band size is surprisingly diverse though. Also having a DD+ cup bust is considered plus size or full figured globally. It’s definitely not the normal anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 02:17 AM |
| 2 | PPD Women Who Overly Criticize Men Who Travel Are Mostly Full of ShitIs it because they are natural or because the women there can get cheaper plastic surgery? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 02:12 AM |
| 11 | What is something that men find attractive about men that women are generally indifferent to? What is something that woman find attractive about woman that men are generally indifferent to?I don’t think most guys like war/historical facts. Is this something that supposed to be common? And even the sports statistics seems a bit generalized. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/23 11:19 PM |
| 3 | My take on a deeper reading of Manospherians Neuroticism about Single Mothers? (and AF/BB)My issue is that single mothers don’t have to be single parents. You can and should parent to your child if you and your ex don’t get along. I do think people that use their children as tools and bargaining chips to get whatever they want out of their ex are wrong. People need to realize that once you’re a parent you’ve got to parent. Which is why I fully support abortion rights and adoption rights, if you choose to keep a child knowing you can’t afford to feed yourself or keep yourself up, that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 03:25 PM |
| 4 | My take on a deeper reading of Manospherians Neuroticism about Single Mothers? (and AF/BB)Please provide evidence that says the best majority of women are single mother? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 03:20 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Why some women have a problem with age gap relationships and why men seek themMy guy stop being petty. You don’t have to reply to her at all…it’s stupid to keep replying with the same message. Just engage or don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 03:17 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow is wolverine a chad when he’s under 6 foot? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 10:43 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you’re a minor you shouldn’t be here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 10:38 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSure but with dating, once you get past that first hurdle you can keep getting a few more crumbs. Eventually you’ll have enough for someone to actually take a bite. If enough guys here had regular dates, that just didn’t pan out, they’d get frustrated sure, but it would be the normal frustration that comes with trying to find ONE single person out of billions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 10:35 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah. They would. I feel like guys here only claim that standard because they can’t get a woman anyway. But if they met a woman and they liked her it would cease to matter, like it happens to almost everyone else, no one really cares unless the number is alarmingly high. And even then in certain circles it doesn’t matter. My bf is high value by this subs standards and he never asked. When we talked about past partners he was more concerned if I was emotionally connected with any of them and then … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 10:33 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat also makes me livid! They don’t know the different between a requirement and a standard or a preference. If it’s an absolute must, then it’s a requirement and it’s not going to change. There’s rigidity there that they like to sweep under the rug. Lying and saying “men aren’t picky”. No, if they weren’t picky then most of these guys would be able to to see the women that don’t fit their beauty standards, and still be able to see that she could be a good partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 10:17 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean I have never really heard a man that’s happy with his dating life care: unless he was an obvious ass to begin with. But even then, those men aren’t trying to make ANYONE their wife. People here make huge, emotional statements, get some young men agreeing with them and perpetuate the cycle. Knowing full well that they’d give up all of their claims if a woman they were remotely attracted to showed them interests. They’d wife up that woman with 8+ previous partners, because really for most g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 10:15 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLukewarm take: if anyone here that’s angry got into a semi-stable relationship most of their complaints would be magically gone….. My interest in even engaging in this sub as a woman has waned because it’s just gotten so repetitive. A bunch of guys that are socially awkward at best wondering why a woman they consider average isn’t jumping at the chance to date them. And then something something Body count. Unrelated note: todays dinner is roasted lamb with mint chimichurri , crispy smashed potat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 10:00 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen also have full bodily autonomy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 09:53 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI disagree. I’ve seen first hand a woman make a baseless, stupid accusation against a man. He brought the text receipts showing that she was into him and he turned her down: his reputation wasn’t ruined from the claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 09:50 PM |
| 4 | "Protect us from WHO? Wild bears?" - Answering the common notion.Do you think women don’t drive ambulances? And aren’t EMTs? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 12:12 PM |
| 2 | "Protect us from WHO? Wild bears?" - Answering the common notion.Why did strangers ask you, another another stranger, for help walking the home? Was it your job? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/23 12:11 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: Do you actually like a confident guy if he is physically unattractive to you?One of the guys I was dating before my bf and I got serious was super confident in himself. Super smart, very nerdy and also shorter than me. He had a confidence and a passion that I really really liked. He was just too much like me in the decision making department and we couldn’t even decide on anything because we are both super indecisive unless we really care about the issue. He was great otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Marriage is an L for menNot even. Only ten percent of marriages even get alimony. Also, 90/95% of divorces settle out of court anyway….which is also something men here also forget to mention, courts aren’t ordering any payments for MOST divorces. Most settle without it. And of those that do get alimony, usually you need to be married for 20+ years to get it for life. Some states have it capped at 60/70% of the lengths of the entire marriage. No one is really getting “divorce raped” and if they are they usually have the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 07:47 PM |
| 5 | Marriage is an L for menMost people don’t get alimony . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Marriage is an L for menMost marriages don’t have alimony payments. Literally like maybe 90% don’t. Most people don’t have assets. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 05:45 PM |
| 7 | Marriage is an L for menWhy would you not want to keep dating the person you’re in a relationship with? Y’all fell for each other because of the romance, why let it go? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 05:44 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHappy Monday all! I have a licensing exam coming up in the next month. My work is letting me have the next couple of weeks to study full-time because I can’t do much without getting this next certification. I’m so nervous. Wish me luck! I feel bad because I’ve been a little preoccupied! My bfs bday is coming up and I want to get him something nice because he’s been really supportive these last few weeks. I think I set the bar kinda high with his vday gift. Hes so hard to shop for since he can ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/23 01:45 PM |
| 1 | CMV: okCupid study rebuttals hypergamy. Black women selected for black men the most out of all the other men despite being the lowest socio-economically.So that’s a no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Men Are Hornier than Women (Effortpost Version)There are male porn stars…so 100% of sex workers aren’t female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 01:45 PM |
| 3 | So where exactly are these ugly women?Wait dm me too please lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 12:15 PM |
| 3 | "The Hoe Phase"Where did it say that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 05:42 PM |
| 4 | "The Hoe Phase"Women and men have equal access to sex with men. That’s what men forget. If men want easy sex they can get it. If they want easy sex with women, however, a manhoe can get it easier. At the same time that manhoe can prevent other men from having access to the women he wants. The manhoe can, and will, insert himself (pun intended) into areas, relationships, wherever in order to use his sexuality to get what he wants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 12:24 PM |
| 2 | "The Hoe Phase"Read this post, this is saying they slept with “any and everyone” gives no indication that they were being picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 12:15 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMmmm that sounds amazing! I’m doing a pot roast today. Me and the bf had (still having in his case) long days. So I decided to be crazy and start a roast at 6 pm. He’s so excited. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI love a good bacon grilled cheese! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat does that mean ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadvery early 30s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNever had it without and never will until I want a baby lol. Or at the very least when I’m married. My husband can do it I suppose lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’ve never let a man cum in me. Will not have sex without a condom until marriage because I don’t want a baby right now. But I imagine for some women it could make her feel closer to him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 12:29 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt was a very cozy day today. I made home made tomato soup with roasted garlic, and then I did a three cheese grilled cheese with some bacon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/23 12:28 AM |
| 6 | N Count Weekly Discussion ThreadThat’s what men here don’t realize. They don’t just want sex, they want romance. This is what women feel like when men say “but women can get sex easier”. Most people don’t want easy sex, they want relationships. The ones that want easy sex will have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 08:47 PM |
| 4 | N Count Weekly Discussion Thread…they are virgins why is it not okay for them to be prude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 08:46 PM |
| 2 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themYes but I’m saying I didn’t mind. I think they were interested in me. But honestly after I started talking to my now bf, I think they may have felt like it didn’t matter trying again. Had one of them asked me out I prob would have said yes. Would it have mattered? I dunno 🤷♀️. But I definitely wasn’t offended because I wasn’t immediately attracted to him. Even my bf, he was cute. But I mostly went up to him because he was wearing a shirt from the town I went to college in and he was talking abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themAll of this is a secondary anecdote! Either I take your word or you take mine. However, I’m not telling to that being short isn’t a barrier, I am saying that you are definitely coming off and portraying yourself wrong if you are 0/300 AND getting some phone numbers. There’s something you’re doing that’s hindering you from landing a date. My friend is a cocky bastard though. He doesn’t let him being short get in his way. Honestly if you ask him how tall he is he’d probably tell you 5’9 but he’s d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themRead second paragraph. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themNah man. I know. a friend of mine Is short programmer. He’s my height so maybe 5’6. He goes to the gym, has lots of money. Keeps himself up. The man has never ever been single long since I’ve known him. And his gfs are gorgeous too. He tends to like Asian girls but they are definitely very attractive women. We have several friends that are his height or a bit taller and they all managed to find girlfriend. I was the one that was single the longest or of all of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 06:49 PM |
| 7 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themMy bf and I met from us having a conversation at a bar. Granted I did come up to him and chat and offer to grab him a drink. But at that same event I had two or three more guys try to talk to me. I don’t mind it: I was friendly and chatted about whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Women here advise guys to "touch grass" and "talk to actual women" yet stigmatize and threat profile men for approaching themHey again dude, I still think there has to be something you’re doing wrong. Especially if you’re getting numbers. Somewhere you’re dropping the ball. If you can get sugar babies as a young guy you can get a woman to date you for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 06:44 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOnly rich women get the luxury of not doing hard labor. Most women throughout history had to do more than stay home and cook and clean in order to make sure their families survived. Labor is not a feminine or a masculine trait. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 06:16 PM |
| 3 | N Count Weekly Discussion ThreadDo you know what > means? Better than? If something is “better” that means it has more value in some way. What are you trying to convey by posting your unused to used up track? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 06:11 PM |
| 3 | N Count Weekly Discussion ThreadSo if men don’t like used up women how are they going to like the women they get married to and impregnate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 06:08 PM |
| 3 | N Count Weekly Discussion ThreadI always wonder: having sex makes women used up and loose but having babies doesn’t? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 06:02 PM |
| 6 | Is “I want a smart man” the socially acceptable way of simply saying “I want a rich man”?Rich, truly rich people are also very rarely ugly. Especially the women: they will get work done to make sure they meet a looks minimum. Getting that work done is expected and the women that don’t get it done either done need it or they aren’t trying to date men from that world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 01:12 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDid you mean not being honest? If so then yes. Even the “influencer girlies” are making money and using it to help their families and lives. Unless they are with someone that’s actually wealthy, most of the women saying they are being kept are funding some of their own lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 09:55 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s because we are told that men will never turn down sex unless he isn’t attracted or losing attraction. I think this needs to change. It’s okay for you not to be in the mood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 09:49 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah. Not all men are worthy of that shit and if she just is submissive toward ANY man then it’s not submission it’s a personality trait and she’d do it for anyone regardless of worth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 09:42 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI have a couple of friends and acquaintances who say they want their man to pay for MOST things. But with the exception of one (who is a bit delusional) they all understand that they will have to contribute. Most of my work friends are contributing: their man pays the bills and they pay for their own upkeep. So if they want the nice purse, they can buy it. If he gets her a nice gift it’s a bonus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 09:41 PM |
| 8 | Interesting series of posts about infidelity and divorce from r/relationship_advice, your takes?Because babies don’t sleep most of the time. Toddlers don’t just sleep through the night and not need anything. They have nightmares, get scared of something, or just want their parents to comfort them. During the day, they are awake, hungry and in need of entertainment. You can’t just plop them in front of the tv or leave them in a crib, you gotta parent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 08:33 PM |
| 11 | Interesting series of posts about infidelity and divorce from r/relationship_advice, your takes?Okay, so you’ve watched a new born/toddler over night? You were responsible for them when others were asleep? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 07:56 PM |
| 10 | Interesting series of posts about infidelity and divorce from r/relationship_advice, your takes?Do you have children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen I was fat it was because I hated working out, get no endorphins and working out causes pain like nothing I’ve ever felt and does not come with the positive feelings people associate with working out. I started cutting back on food and going on walks/light jogs and walking everywhere. Now I do mma because it feels like a lesson versus a workout and I use a home gym so it helps me feel less insecure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 07:35 PM |
| 16 | Interesting series of posts about infidelity and divorce from r/relationship_advice, your takes?The replies here fill me with absolute rage. This woman gave this man her body and her youth and he literally threw it away. Fucking pos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 03:21 PM |
| 8 | Interesting series of posts about infidelity and divorce from r/relationship_advice, your takes?What the actual fuck dude…did you read the post? The doctor never said she was obese, the husband just said she gained weight during her second pregnancy, we have no idea how much weight that was. Cheating is wrong! Talk to your partner about it and let them choose if they want to still give you access to their body while you’re out letting someone else into yours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 02:32 PM |
| 3 | Myron from Fresh and Fit, is the least grittiest person in the Manosphere/red pill, Tate is more of a grifterDid you watch the videos? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Myron from Fresh and Fit, is the least grittiest person in the Manosphere/red pill, Tate is more of a grifterhttps://www.reddit.com/r/NotHowGirlsWork/comments/112gqz0/how_far_have_we_fallen_that_youtube_will_allow/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button https://www.reddit.com/r/notliketheothergirls/comments/11yaqod/go_cry_outside_loses_half_the_podcast_by_saying/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button These are from a post made literally yesterday. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 01:19 PM |
| 5 | Myron from Fresh and Fit, is the least grittiest person in the Manosphere/red pill, Tate is more of a grifterWould you like examples? He literally brought a man on the show that said “some women need to be [assaulted].” They laughed at that man saying he tricked and intimidated women into having gang bangs. Myron didn’t question him or try to make him reason as to why his actions were bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 01:08 PM |
| 28 | Interesting series of posts about infidelity and divorce from r/relationship_advice, your takes?Child care is 24/7 especially when you have more than one kid. New borns don’t sleep more than an hour or two at a time. And then you have to deal with the other toddler also, and they don’t schedule their needs to happen at the same time. Do you have kids? Have you cared for a child before? It’s 24/7 and not easy. Kitchens with dishes and kids in pajamas does not mean neglect. A dirty unchanged diaper, yes, unfed, yes, crying, yes absolutely. But just having your kids in PJs and a house not bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 01:02 PM |
| 47 | Interesting series of posts about infidelity and divorce from r/relationship_advice, your takes?Here’s my take. He said several times that the kids needs were met, but the wife wasn’t putting in her usual “super-mom” work. If the kids were unfed and dirty, I’d say you have a point. But it seems like OP was just saying that she didn’t put them in new outfits. I would like to know more about the level of neglect: but if this woman was truly neglecting her children and the man saw that and still chose to go out and cheat instead of making sure his kids were okay, you can kinda see where his p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 12:35 PM |
| 5 | Women who claim men left them after sex are just shifting blame to menBecause in some of these guys minds sex ruins women but they also need to have sex. It’s sick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 03:03 AM |
| -1 | Women who claim men left them after sex are just shifting blame to menMarriage does not ensure commitment at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/23 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe same women that submit to jobless dudes or just all women because some have lower standards. And it’s only submissive if she’s doing it out of the goodness of her heart. If she’s doing it to get something out of a man, that’s an arrangement not submission. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 06:02 PM |
| 6 | You can't expect women to care about "purity", as long as they keep getting inconsistent messages from men.....How is it “worse” if you value chastity? By engaging you’re saying you don’t actually value chastity at all. Whereas waiting, sticking to your guns, would show that you are actually valuing getting to know a person. And I know good and well most men cannot tell. My boyfriend and I have sex now, and he’s still constantly commenting that I still feel like a woman that hasn’t had a lot of sex at all. Granted, he has been the guy I’ve had the most sex with. But 15 times is 15 times no matter how man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.Please see my reply. Women are paying for at least half of things, and women are objects that can be used. Unless you’re trying to marry newborns you aren’t getting a “brand new” anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 03:53 PM |
| 7 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.Most women have to split bills in the US. This delusional talk here as if men are footing 100 percent of the bills still is not the norm. Most people in the US can’t afford a stay at home spouse and a child or two. So yes, the men are getting ran through, picking up baggage from a lot of women, damaging their ability to pair bond because they are associating sex not with intimacy but with…nothing? They are damaging themselves, then going to a housewife type woman they wouldn’t have looked at bef… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.You’re never going to be perfect for your partner and unless she’s bat shit insane she will never unconditionally love you. You will also never unconditionally love her unless you’re bat shit insane. You gotta trust that your partner is being genuine in their emotions for you and go with that. You might not be the best she had at every single thing , but neither was the last guy she dated. Hell even if you’re her first, you could still fail to satisfy her in some way initially. She can always st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.There’s no chance they aren’t buying those women things and taking them out on dates. According to their narrative you have to be able to offer women soemthing in order to get them to sleep with you, and with how loud they are on their podcast, there’s no way the women they come into contact with don’t know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:22 PM |
| 5 | Average men gain nothing from being sex positive and against purity culture.Is this not just beta buxxing in reverse? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/23 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4M, what romantic things (OUTSIDE OF SEX) would you like to get from your partner?In my mind most men, most people would be working to support themselves anyway. I don’t care how many men say otherwise, I don’t think a lot of them would be happy with low wage jobs. They do that work as much as for themselves as they do for their partners. I was asking because I wanted to see if you associated the act of cleaning with romance or just enjoyed that someone took the time to Anne sure you didn’t have to do anything extra. My boyfriend values the time we spend together. The quiet, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Q4M, what romantic things (OUTSIDE OF SEX) would you like to get from your partner?I mean I hate cleaning. But I also do it myself and it’s not romantic at all. Now that I have money I pay someone to do it regularly. It’s not really something he expects me to do because he comes from a background where doing domestic duties is usually passed off to someone else. Not to say I don’t clean at all: I do. But the deep cleaning is definitely outsourced. And my bf also cleans up after himself because he’s extremely neat and tidy. It’s personal I guess. Though I will say I made it a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 05:52 PM |
| 0 | Q4M, what romantic things (OUTSIDE OF SEX) would you like to get from your partner?No I mean what if she personally paid to make sure the cleaning was done and she made sure you didn’t have to think about cleaning or doing the chores, but didn’t do them herself. Like can you explain why she has to physically do it, like cleaning, rather than her still making your life easier by paying someone to do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you believe/know/think that your grandmothers have never loved your grandfathers?And definitely not for better or for worse. I wouldn’t have don’t what my grandma did but it really was a different time. And she made him work. Extraordinarily hard to win back her trust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 05:38 PM |
| 0 | Q4M, what romantic things (OUTSIDE OF SEX) would you like to get from your partner?Does she specifically need to cook and clean or will her taking steps to make sure those things are done have the same impact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4M, what romantic things (OUTSIDE OF SEX) would you like to get from your partner?Does she specifically need to cook and clean or will her taking steps to make sure those things are done have the same impact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:30 PM |
| 6 | Women, how do you know for sure that your good experiences with men have nothing to do with your easier time at dating?What are you asking here? Can you frame this as a yes or no question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you believe/know/think that your grandmothers have never loved your grandfathers?But he earned it back. She moved out ready to go on with her life and they legally separated for a time. She made him earn it back | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 04:14 AM |
| 9 | Q4W: Do you believe/know/think that your grandmothers have never loved your grandfathers?Nah, I’m happy she didn’t. He spent the rest of his life making up for it honestly. Treated my grandma like a princess literally until the day he died. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 12:59 AM |
| 15 | Q4W: Do you believe/know/think that your grandmothers have never loved your grandfathers?That one was. My other grandpa was amazing; but even he strayed. For not Fucking reason than he was he was working a lot to provide the family with a level of support HE thought they needed and got caught up with his assistant. My grandma moved her and the kids out a week after she found out and he begged her to come back and she did after making him sweat for a few months . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 12:26 AM |
| 40 | Q4W: Do you believe/know/think that your grandmothers have never loved your grandfathers?I know for a fact my grandma definitely wasn’t in love with him for most of her marriage and only stayed because she couldn’t get a job to support herself or her kids for a long long time. Once one of the kids was old enough to work and help she separated. He was very abusive to her and their kids. I think my grandma had 12 kids, 9 boys, 3 girls. She cooked every meal, kept an immaculate house and he still cheated and beat her because she dared complain and ask why he was cheating. Then he negle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAgain, you’re deflecting, if a woman is going to cheat she’s going to cheat. What she’s wearing isn’t going to change that. Date better women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf she’s asexual why wouldn’t she just opt for an assisted pregnancy? Also if she’s asexual or doesn’t like sex, she might just get lots of fertility info to find out when the best period of time for sex is, and you’ll only have sex in that time. And then no sex once you get her pregnant, nor for months if not years after. Just have her work, then her money is also marital property. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean honestly if your woman’s going to cheat just because someone gave her a compliment there’s nothing you can do. Keeping her offline isn’t going to help it, you just need to be single at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 04:06 AM |
| 2 | Weak men had it just as bad as women in ancient/industrial timesWomen didn’t have it that bad?? Which women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Will Cosmetic Surgery ever change social and sexual dynamics?Exactly! If the rich ceo or partner or exec brings a blonde bimbo to the company fund raiser, no one is taking that woman seriously. They know she’s decoration at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 12:36 AM |
| 1 | We should stop viewing the opposite gender as our enemy and try to understand their POV.This was an interesting read! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 12:32 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDisagree. If she’s bi she can get what she needs from a man from a woman. She could leave you for that woman, especially if you already showed you don’t care if she goes out and dates women while she’s dating you. Ohh! She gets a harem! I love it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 12:17 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou’re not answering the question. I’m asking you if you would cheat on your girlfriend if given the opportunity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 12:16 AM |
| 1 | We all know how men feel about women's body counts. How do women feel about a man's?So it’s not about ncount or preselecting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 12:15 AM |
| 1 | We all know how men feel about women's body counts. How do women feel about a man's?So maybe it’s the confidence and has zero to do with the amount of sex they’ve had. At least from the woman’s POV: she sees a confident guy and he’s not talking about his body count because it would be creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 12:11 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo you’d cheat if given the chance even if you have the ideal woman at home? Because of this you’re going to think that of course your gf would cheat? Seems like you need to be the one with the limited social media and limited time outside without your girlfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 12:07 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo you don’t care about loyalty or her ability to pair bond. She could just as easily leave you for one of those women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou know what, fair. And watch this guy complain about her starfishing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:53 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo you don’t care about loyalty or cheating if that’s the case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo you’d just say yes if any woman you were attracted to asked for sex? Even if you’re in a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo…dead bedroom to the extreme? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh you mean after the kid is born? And most guys prob don’t because for the majority that babies born and it’s their kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat’s the anxiety at? The woman right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread…how would you do this????? If they do it while she’s pregnant then it would require a medical test the woman has to attend. and as it’s still her body, they would have to tell her what the test is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:32 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen she’s wearing a bikini is she staying in the house? If all it takes for your woman to cheat is someone expressing interest then I think social media is the least of your worries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 11:28 PM |
| 10 | We all know how men feel about women's body counts. How do women feel about a man's?I’ve never seen the preselection work the way men here say it does. If a man is bragging about all the sex he had, the consensus usually is that he’s gross. Now I have seen some women change their tune when they see a guy being a good partner to another woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes. My bf and I have discussed living together. We agreed that if we do, we will live off one salary and make that one salary our budget. Mine will go toward savings, investments, and student loans. I am not an average person in terms of income, neither is my partner. So one of our incomes is already plenty to live on. If we were to get married, we would keep the same structure. Live off of one income even though we have two. We would put a set amount of money into savings every year, in case t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’m not sure why you even asked me if you were just going to be combative. I’m not speaking for all women, I’m speaking for me. If my husband wanted to take some time off work and I could afford it and my quality of life wouldn’t drop of course he could. But I also don’t expect not to work when I get married: I work now. If my husband got hurt and couldn’t work of course I’d take on the extra responsibility. But this is also why I think that having a stay at home spouse is a luxury that most peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s definitely the reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy is that hilarious? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSure, I saw that, and if she cheated she’s trash. I wouldn’t have an issue with the story if the man had had a reason: but asking out of the blue? I’d be very offended and wonder why he felt the need to ask me. Did I make him do something to make him think I cheated? Are we going to have to do a paternity test for every pregnancy I have during our relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOf course. As long as it’s beneficial or some practical reason. I wouldn’t expect to sit at home and literally do nothing for years. And I doubt my partner would want to. But if he did want to not work for a bit, I wouldn’t mind paying (for my husband) so long as the quality of my life doesn’t have to get worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s because you want to have sex with someone that cares about you and you care about her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut it is an accusation of cheating. Would you be okay with your gf asking you if you cheated once a month, for example? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo, this is how I kinda feel about the paternity test issue. It is an accusation of cheating, not simply a reassurance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 09:31 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, that’s like saying someone with black hair is a hypocrite for wanting to date someone with brown hair. It’s not the same at all because it’s not held in a value. He thinks women he views as promiscuous aren’t good partners for whatever reason, but those same things that make them not good partners somehow don’t apply to him when he’s promiscuous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe sti test is just for reassurance that you don’t have anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat about if she randomly asked you to get like an STI test? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow would you feel if, after years of being exclusive, your partner asked you to start wearing a condom or asked you to get an STI test? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathread…oh so you’re a hypocrite? “I don’t want to marry the type of woman that makes my life better”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you’re too embarrassed to tell your parents that you and your partner conceived then you shouldn’t be having sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo, there are post that say men shouldn’t call them sluts and whores. As, I hope, a fully functioning adult with an intact brains you should be able to easily relay the same message without having to stoop to insults. You don’t have to marry a whore, you’re welcome to marry someone whose views on sex and intimacy more align with yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 09:04 PM |
| 0 | Will Cosmetic Surgery ever change social and sexual dynamics?Yes. Just look at how the wealthy date. Getting a nose job, lifts, lipo, etc is kind of the norm because it’s accessible. Beauty, in that world, has to be accompanied with something else. An attractive woman that dated a rich man will only keep his interest for so long if all she can be is pretty. He doesn’t need her to cook, clean or keep his home, so she has to be able to actually be useful in other ways. I see this same mindset seeping into the average dating world. Being pretty or attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWait…it wasn’t even her face? So you had to picture another woman, not your then partner, in a sexual positions and the thought of your gf being there…well sort of, grossed you out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCan you explain the racism thought line that you keep dropping? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo having threesoms isn’t the issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:37 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI’ll ask my guy if that’s something he’s looking for in his chad harem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRealistically speaking, when I’m married I will provide. I’ll work, my money will go into a joint account, and will be used towards savings and stuff. If my husband wants to stay home, I’m fine with it as long as my quality of life stays the same. Just like I would not be a stay at home spouse just to be put on a strict budget because now we only have one income. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf your gf was down for a threesome would you want one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | What can restore the divide between men and women in America?Women are more likely to adopt and raise children, or rather want to adopt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 06:59 PM |
| 3 | What can restore the divide between men and women in America?How much has the fertility rate dropped? Men forget that low men on the totem poll have NEVER really had families or the best pick of women, they got what was allowed for them, if anything at all, and they still worked in order to live. Women will have children without necessarily needing to be attached to a man. They will raise children that aren’t related to them by blood. The issue isn’t women not wanting to be mothers: it’s them being willing to do it without being attached to a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 05:38 PM |
| 5 | What can restore the divide between men and women in America?Okay so, really, only about 25% of Americans get divorced. I know what the numbers imply, but I do think we need to start presenting actual, accurate numbers when presenting statistics. Yes, someone could be 90 percent more likely to be divorced by a woman with a degree. But that means the chances of it happening are still quite low. Like…maybe 3% total. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 05:12 PM |
| 0 | What can restore the divide between men and women in America?In one of the most “traditional” cultures there are, Islam, a wife isn’t required and traditionally not allowed to take her husbands last name. Some of the things we find to be a sign of traditionalism and nuclear family don’t really matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 04:59 PM |
| 1 | What can restore the divide between men and women in America?What percentage of Americans actually get married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Men, does a woman's educational background or career success boost her attractiveness?More of the financial tab when dating yes, I think in marriage it evens out though. Nah, have you ever been around really wealthy people? You can’t just be pretty as a woman, honestly that’s the default expectation when you can pay for surgery. Shes gotta be smart, have to be able to work a room, have conversations and real opinions on things. You want that rich man, you have to be able to give him something that he can’t buy. They are, ideally, partners, she can get him access to things that he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 01:40 PM |
| 1 | cmv: I think dating multiple people at once is not only morally awful, and but also effectively awful.While I don’t get sexual feelings fast. I get romantic interest pretty quick, well potential romantic interest. And I think for me, my demisexuality let’s me be able to see the best in almost any partner without regards for their looks. I’m not having sex with any of these men, of course, but I do enjoy getting to know them and I don’t like having my heart hurt. I started getting burnt-out dating and I was about to call it quits because all the stopping and starting, and feeling like I was lesse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Men, does a woman's educational background or career success boost her attractiveness?I’m not larping I’m literally saying my experiences. I never even said it was 50/50 all the time. I’m replying to the guy above who said his gf contributes absolutely nothing. Doesn’t even buy him gifts. I’m gonna be honest, I’ve never heard of that ever before this outside of some weird manosphere posts that said it’s feminine to get gifts. In long term relationships and for most American people, they split bills. And while the split may not be 50/50 ,I do think that it does change once you’re … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 12:03 PM |
| 0 | Men, does a woman's educational background or career success boost her attractiveness?I think you’re dating the wrong women. Honestly, the women I know that expect their man to pay 100% usually come from one of either extreme: poverty, where they don’t care how their man gets their money either, just that he has more than she’s used to, and wealthy, so the man doesn’t care that he’s spending money because money is a luxury he has. Though, sometimes, from what I’ve seen women that are splitting things 50/50 still do 100% of housework, cooking, cleaning, and still work. And, I know… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/23 02:10 AM |
| 2 | cmv: I think dating multiple people at once is not only morally awful, and but also effectively awful.I’m confused, are you and your partner still dating? I don’t think your analogy is quite right. It wasn’t exactly musical chairs as I feel like I always had plenty of options. To use your thoughts, I always had a chair to sit in. I chose to limit the chairs, when I wanted to. My bf didn’t even know if stopped talking to other guys when we had the exclusivity talk. And, my main requirement was that I didn’t feel like an option. My free time is important to me, so I would only go on two or three d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 09:19 PM |
| 9 | cmv: I think dating multiple people at once is not only morally awful, and but also effectively awful.I disagree, I multi-dated until my partner and I got serious. He did the same. I wasn’t having sex with anyone else and I would not have sex because I’m demisexual and it takes a while. Going on dates with multiple people, for me, was kind of necessity since so many men would flake after a couple of dates when they realized I was serious about the no sex thing. Also, it’s just a matter of communication: when my guy and I started getting serious we just noticed that we both weren’t looking for an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Men, does a woman's educational background or career success boost her attractiveness?I don’t know any relationships that aren’t new where the guy is expected to pay for literally everything. Even the ones in a more “trad” relationship the woman pays for house stuff like groceries and those kinds of necessities. And at the very least they split or she takes one utility. Most of what I hear are people splitting via equity. Like for my friend most of their bfs don’t want an even split(if their bfs make significantly more) my friends pay something like 30% then contribute to a joint… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 04:29 PM |
| 0 | Men, does a woman's educational background or career success boost her attractiveness?Not for the entire relationship. Most people split bills no matter what they are trying to make you believe otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 04:27 PM |
| 3 | CMV : If you want to live by the traditional values, then u also have to accept the disadvantages that comes with a traditional life. This applys to both genders.Did you edit your post where you said 40 something percent of married women didn’t work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 04:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV : If you want to live by the traditional values, then u also have to accept the disadvantages that comes with a traditional life. This applys to both genders.Can you check if these numbers are recent? Because I don’t think they are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Would you date a woman whose ex shared inappropriate pictures of her on the internet without her consent. The ex isn’t a Chad.That’s not really correct. Demisexuals still find people attractive or not, that attraction just does not automatically equate to sexual interest. Sexual interest grows after a bond. As a Demisexual I can recognize someone I like the appearance of. I knew my partner was very handsome, but my sexual interest in him took time to grow. For instance, Demisexuals don’t want to fuck all their friends: they have a bond with them yes, but there are still some base level things needed to want the romanti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Would you date a woman whose ex shared inappropriate pictures of her on the internet without her consent. The ex isn’t a Chad.That’s…that’s not how that works. You’re thinking of pansexual, also. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 12:44 PM |
| 2 | “Whoever invites pays” is just a way for women to get out of saying “men should pay” (first dates)My current partner and I met at a meetup event. Our first actual date was just meeting between clients/calls for a quick drink at the lunch hour. He looked good, I looked good, and it was an interesting time because we both had to limit our drinks: which honestly recommend now. But we chatted a lot, and we’re surprised when an hour and fifteen minutes passed in a flash: neither of us really even checked our phones. We set up another date as we were walking out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 12:43 PM |
| 9 | “Whoever invites pays” is just a way for women to get out of saying “men should pay” (first dates)I refused to go out to dinner with men I just met. Always a quick happy hour for the first dates. Sit at the bar, set a specific time to leave: it raised interest because usually, if dates are going well, people are quick to want to extend it. I believe that first dates should be casual, relaxed and inspire interest. Best way to do that is a relaxed, causal atmosphere, maybe a plate of apps and leaving after a reasonable time to encourage looking forward to another date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 12:23 PM |
| 7 | Men, does a woman's educational background or career success boost her attractiveness?Who are y’all dating? Do your girlfriends literally pay for nothing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 12:10 PM |
| 3 | Would you be okay with your partner having a good friend of the opposite sex?Would you cheat if she offered? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Would you be okay with your partner having a good friend of the opposite sex?…damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Would you be okay with your partner having a good friend of the opposite sex?I know for a fact most of my straight male friends aren’t orbiters. Three of them are insanely and happily married and of the ones that aren’t I’m not their type. The men I hang around with have no issue having sex and getting partners, so they aren’t going to waste it on some person who would ruin their friendship dynamic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 01:16 AM |
| 6 | Would you be okay with your partner having a good friend of the opposite sex?What if your wife’s bi? Can she not have any friends? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering.Yes, but if you can afford IVF/surrogates you can usually afford kids. Just having kids to have them while you’re young is irresponsible at best. You should always set yourself up for the best case scenario. And I am a little biased, I do think that financially, people need to be more realistic about their lives when they choose to have babies. My partner and I are not anywhere near average. My salary alone is in the top 20% his is higher. I don’t expect most people to have these salaries howeve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering.I will have children when I want to have children. I also have little desire to be pregnant so I have looked heavily into the cost of surrogacy and adoption: it’s much much cheaper than the lifetime cost of raising a child and even the cost for the first three years of its life. I was preemptively speaking against the argument that most people have with adoption: your child might be damaged. Those damages can come no matter what. You can think you’re a perfect parent and raise a terrible human b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering.If you want children there are ways to get them as a woman that does not necessarily include carrying them yourself. You can get a surrogate, IVF, or if all else fails there is adoption. If women truly want to be mothers, they can be mothers. Now, if they feel like the trials and joys of motherhood is wasted on a baby/child they didn’t carry, I would feel like they probably shouldn’t be mothers anyway. Babies you carry and children you raise from birth come with risk of all sorts of issues. Ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:32 PM |
| 4 | Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering.Uh, no. There’s so much stigma attached to starting out on the workplace at 30s, more so outside of jobs that require a professional degree. Assuming her kids are still in the house, it will be assumed that she’s doing most of the child rearing: that she will be the one leaving and taking time off if kids get sick and that she will be the one asking to leave early to go to games. After all, that’s been the life she lived for the past 8 or so years. While the employers can’t outright ask her why … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 08:03 PM |
| 7 | Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering.There is no guarantee that the man won’t leave. It might not be through his own fault or decision making process. But anything could happen and leave that woman, who has no career prospects, with children, a mountain of debt to repay from a probably mediocre estate that the husband had. Most people do not have lots of money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering.Who is going to hire a 30 year old with limited work experience? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering.This is a personal thing. You can’t love adopted kids as much and you are telegraphing that feeling onto everyone. What if your partner died and you remarried someone? Wouldn’t you want them to love your kid. Kids that are living with their bio parents are often abused and neglected: that just goes to show that not everyone should be parents. And personally, I feel that if you can only love your bio children, then you probably don’t have the right reasons for wanting to be a parent. Parenthood s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering.If these women really want to be mothers wouldn’t they just…adopt? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:19 PM |
| 7 | Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering.I feel like most people that have their first kids in their forties have money to pay one or two people to help with that kid. I’m definitely going to nanny route. And I might get a surrogate to carry the baby too: it just seems like a huge risk to possibly leave my partner grieving and with a newborn when we can have a child that’s biologically ours without putting my life at risk. And we can choose a surrogate who has a history of healthy pregnancies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Women should take seriously the question if they want to have children or not early in life and stick to it to avoid suffering.In the past poor was the norm. Struggling and suffering was expected and anticipated. That’s why they had so many kids: the assumption was not all of them would make it to adulthood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Can someone rationalise men wanting virgins but not being willing to wait for sexI don’t watch it. So many men here spout the fnf narrative like it’s gospel. Forgetting that he cannot relate to them. He hasn’t really struggled with women in recent times: he has money, status and for some that’s enough. He is the telling below average men to emulate his behavior will make it harder for them and continue to fuel their bitterness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Can someone rationalise men wanting virgins but not being willing to wait for sexOh I do blame the girls: they aren’t bringing them on the show to embarrass them, they are bringing in women they know will parrot their talking points in a way that makes it entertaining. I don’t think the host or the women are genuine, honestly. Like Andrew Tate, for instance, how the hell is a progressional boxer telling below average guys how to date? The tactics that work for him aren’t going to work for a the men that need help. And he supports his statements with women (some) who are bein… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:43 PM |
| 2 | Can someone rationalise men wanting virgins but not being willing to wait for sexI’m more looking at it from the viewers. Both the host and guests are there to make money and market. It weird that the viewers don’t see the hypocrisy’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:32 PM |
| 4 | Can someone rationalise men wanting virgins but not being willing to wait for sexBut how are you going to prove your point about women being a certain way when you only let a certain type of woman talk? Like if you’re bashing OF while at the same time providing ad space and air time for a woman to market her OF, isn’t that glaringly hypocritical | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Actual evidence that women are treated better than men overall ?I was agreeing with you. Personally it’s dumb, you can’t create more sons without women. And lots Of women do hard labor; run their homesteads and raise kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:03 PM |
| 5 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?Maybe she doesn’t want to commit to anyone at that time? She doesn’t feel like she has any benefit from being in a monogamous relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 12:07 PM |
| 3 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?So if someone has around 2 new partners a year in in ten years? Does it matter the frequency? Like say she has a partner count of 18, but she hasn’t had sex in like 4 years? Is she still a slut? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 06:11 AM |
| 16 | Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not?Then aren’t you also incapable of true attachment if you cheat assuming they are incapable? Also, usually something causes it. If a man I thought cared for me cheating, then why would I bother holding feelings for him? It will prob take time to get over them, and that relationship may change how I interact with others, but there’s no point in saving space for someone that hurts you in a way you find unforgivable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:58 AM |
| 5 | Do people who end a relationship “on good terms” actually stop being attracted to each other or not?Eh not really. I had guys that I met that I thought were good for a relationship with romance and all that, but we didn’t fit. I don’t love them or care about them much. You’re assuming all relationships you have result in real love. Most of them are just infatuation and interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:58 AM |
| 6 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?But in all seriousness why is it an issue that so many guys, in your opinion can comment on her sexual prowess? Does it lower your own worth in your eyes? Do you think that you’re now lesser because she also picked you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 04:45 AM |
| 8 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?Okay, but what if she’s not having sex to make a man attracted to her? What if she’s just doing it because she enjoys sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 02:02 AM |
| 8 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?But consider how many men here say they would sleep with any woman that propositioned them: and then consider the amount of moderately attractive men: A woman with truly low selectivity could have sex with multiple men in a day, even if you pick just one a day you’d rack up numbers very quickly. So even having as many as 20 partners I’d say still requires a high rate of selectivity. I know gay men, who don’t have to deal with the negative slut stigma whose numbers are well into the triple digits… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:31 AM |
| 1 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?But do you think lesser of them because you consider them not picky? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:25 AM |
| 2 | How can Facebook Groups like Are We Dating The Same Guy Balance Female Safety and Male Privacy?Okay wait: are sluts women that have been with 10-20 partners or have three digit numbers? Like what is low selectivity when you consider the sheer number of men she could be sleeping with if she wasn’t picky at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?Oh no, in mostly talking about the gender essentialist comment. And just in general. Even if women are enthusiastically sexual, they are still considered sluts and sluts are still bad at some level outside of sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 02:04 PM |
| 7 | Slut shaming is bad, but what's the actual appeal of being a promiscuous woman?It’s weird how some men only like female sexuality as long as it’s kinda non-consensual for the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 02:00 PM |
| 1 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyBut they used those same tactics on men they deemed beneath them. Keep the workers afraid for their lives and a tiny bit fed and they won’t revolt. He wasn’t trying to have sex with those men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:50 PM |
| 0 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyShe didn’t want to be sold to a man, or she had been taken from her family because he had hurt them. Do you think women should just want to be with anyone that gives them resources? Often times those women weren’t even getting good resources if they were taken: they were servants and sex slaves at best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:41 PM |
| 0 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyNo, domestic violence has always been a thing. Especially when women could be taken or traded. It wasn’t for sexual loyalty it was to inspire fear so that she didn’t off him in his sleep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:27 PM |
| 3 | How true is the claim made by the red pill community that people had an identity outside of their relationship back in the day? Is there some validity to it or is this just more nostalgia blindness and bias on the behalf of living in the internet age?This is a very western issue. In Islam for instance it’s popular to keep your name as a woman when you get married. You keep your fathers name for life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:16 PM |
| 6 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergySo why don’t you want your partners banging others if it’s harmless? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 02:28 AM |
| 5 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergySo there’s a solution | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 02:25 AM |
| 9 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergySo women cheat when they aren’t being fulfilled in a relationship and men cheat just because! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 02:25 AM |
| 8 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyThey can just let one another cheat in peace. By their logic the relationship would stay exactly the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:50 AM |
| 2 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyFalse paternity test. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:49 AM |
| 5 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyThat’s still 90% being not false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:44 AM |
| 7 | The reason the manosphere is mad about AF/BB is because, while, even though the majority of women may not fit the archetype, it is a really smart stratergyThe fact that there was an entire sub dedicated to why men’s cheating is different is baffling to me. They want to cheat but they don’t want her to cheat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/23 12:43 AM |
| -3 | Actual evidence that women are treated better than men overall ?I mean they have a valid point though…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 10:41 PM |
| – | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointThen who are you cheating with?!?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 07:37 PM |
| – | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointIs it harmless if she cheats on you with a man she doesn’t know, who’s name she didn’t catch and who she will never see again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 06:54 PM |
| 5 | Would you sign a contract with a dating agency, to date someone they choose for you, for a week?You can probably sue and they’d have to implement procedure in order to prevent it from happening. But the exact same thing can happen in ANY dating situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 06:50 PM |
| – | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointSo women aren’t more likely to accept a man cheating. If they are then lying wouldn’t be needed because they would just accept. You’re saying women won’t sleep with you if they know you’re cheating while also saying women will accept you as a cheater. Which is it? Also again, if you’re high enough value to get so many women to sleep with you that you have to cheat , then you don’t need to be in a relationship to have sex. You’re having it. So why date someone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:16 PM |
| – | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointSo then why lie? Why cheat? Why not just stay dating and non-exclusive? There’s literally no reason for you to be dating anyone if you’re losing interest. Also, is it okay for her to cheat on you if she loses interest but comes back and you don’t find out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:14 PM |
| – | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointSo are women more likely to be okay with cheating or no? I’m fine with men wanting sex. But then why would I date you and give your girlfriend things if all you really want is sex? I can go get someone that will cheat with you, I don’t see why you’d even want a girlfriend. Just be single and date. You don’t have to cheat or lie that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:12 PM |
| – | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointSo then why don’t men just tell them they want open relationships instead of cheating? It’s not cheating if you’ve communicated your desires to your partner and they agree. If women are more likely to agree then there’s little risk right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 05:06 PM |
| 5 | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointAgain, if women wanted relationships that badly wouldn’t they just not care and let you cheat? The logic isn’t there. You want a relationship with this particular woman, for some reason, and you want to cheat. But I would say, it is extremely possible t for a woman to go out, fuck a cut and never, ever even learn his name. If your gf did that, and then came back home to you, and you found out 10 years later because she tells you. Doesn’t that also mean her cheating didn’t matter? It can definite… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 02:08 PM |
| 6 | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointIf women just wanted relationships they’d be more open to actually having open relationships and sharing. But most women don’t want to be cheated on or lied to. What’s the point of dating a man and giving him wife things if he can’t give you husband things which include commitment? There’s no incentive for women to abide cheating anymore: she can go work, fund her own life AND find a man that won’t cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 02:05 PM |
| 7 | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointMen have to cheat? Is that the argument you’re going with? Why not just not get into relationships then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 02:00 PM |
| 15 | Change my View : Cheating as a Man and as a Woman isnt the same, its a big difference. I am really curious if someone can change my view from a logical standpointOmg I step away from this sub for a few days and come back to this? No matter what anyone says, if you cheat on someone, you don’t truly love them or care about their feelings. Unless sex is not an integral part of your romantic relationships, then you know that having sex with someone else, without your partners permission is going to cause some strife. Even if you say you don’t have feelings for the other person…I’m not sure how that matters: you had feelings for your partner and you cheated o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 01:34 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy guy was having a rough day yesterday and I hit him with the: “let me take care of you.” Why am I JUST getting out of bed. Sir, I had stuff to do! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/23 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah. If it’s about controlling access to parenthood then it’s needs to be consistent. If the women decides to get an abortion then the “financial abortion” isn’t even needed. I will say that this term also overplays the amounts some men have to pay in child support. I know of many instances where a woman asked a man for like 150 a month just to buy essentials for the baby. The men don’t pay, so the women serve them with official papers and those same men are then ordered to pay $150 a week. Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI feel if the reason for a paper abortion is not wanting to be liable for a child, once that man takes on the responsibilities of parenthood, the paper abortion shouldn’t be valid. Unless of course the original child is over 18. Having men be able to pick and choose which women this applies to still leaves room for abuse. Really it should he, he either chooses to be a father or he doesn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think if he chooses to be a father of other kids before the other one is 18 he should have to start paying chilling support without being subject to back pay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow many ex wives do you have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre only poor people going to get these paper abortions? Why would it mean a child growing up in poverty every time? What if the mother has money while the father just wants to put off the responsibilities of parenthood for a few years? How do you not see that this will be abused by some men in all walks of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 02:23 PM |
| 6 | "Don't fuck a man on the first date because he will ghost you" is terrible advice. And here is why.Someone once told me that a man, if he wanted sex with me enough, would wait as long as it took. While putting on the airs of being in a relationship. I know people can have some psycho tendencies, but that would be purely insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 01:57 AM |
| 8 | What does ‘feminine’ mean to you?are men also not agreeable? If one partner is just going to be combative and mean, won’t that doom the relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/23 01:13 AM |
| 16 | CMV: Pretty women don’t even understand the value of money or how much things costNothing is contradictory about that statement. Some guy I used to know would rent nice cars in order to look impressive to women he dated. He put on a front. But it’s true, most people don’t make anywhere near 6 figures, that’s the 15-10% of wages in the USA. People date within their socioeconomic class. If you’re a wealthy guy, you are going to encounter women that like wealth. Now, lots of people are under the impression that the well-off, especially well-off men, flaunt their wealth in some w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean, there’s tea in the pantry! 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?I had to change my views. I thought some things absolutely had to be there while others could be flexible. Here’s what I did. Write down 20 +things that your ideal partner would have: like on paper put down every quality that your perfect person would possess, if you could build them from scratch. This can include physical, social and emotional attributes. Go through and cross out half of the list. Then do it again. Until you’re left with five qualities you absolutely MUST have. If you want to c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNight 2 of consecutively staying at bfs house: I recently bought some cute jars for my pantry because my stuff was everywhere and it was a mess. Last time he was over he said he really liked it. So I found some cool canisters and containers and organized his pantry too. I got him these canisters. I think it looks really good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:48 AM |
| 7 | Is playing video games an ick be honest?I game. My guy and I will play together if we aren’t together for some reason. But it’s not all the time. He definitely knows how to divide his time, and I mine. I was talking to a guy once however who was obsessed, he was always gaming, and when he wasn’t he was talking to his gaming buddies on discord. That was too much even for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4a How sexually demanding are you in relationships?Right now we have sex almost every night we are together, but there’s usually some intimacy in some form. Not always PIV. We are both kinky and the dynamic allows for some fun play that is satisfying while not necessarily requiring traditional intercourse. I don’t enjoy causal sex so I don’t have. It took me six-ish months to get comfortable enough to have sex with my boyfriend. Prior I hadn’t had sex in almost three years. While I did crave the intimacy of sex, I didn’t really have an interest … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 10:15 PM |
| 12 | Why do they say men are logical and women are emotional? What does it really mean?I don’t know if it’s true men are less anxious. I think they just show anxiety in a different way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?Be real specific. I’m just into my 30s: it took forever to find him. Mind you, I got picker in my late 20s versus less choosy. I’d never dated any man that met my standards on the important things. I think it helped that I figured out what key things I wanted and why. But let me tell you, I was screaming crying, throwing up while sliding down a wall most of the time. And he’s not perfect, well not the perfect partner I’d imagined, but he is better in so many different ways. So be flexible with w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 09:34 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis idea that women have been sitting around throughout history not contributing, not suffering and just existing is enraging. It totally ignores several groups of women who were not treated like women at all: they did hard labor, had forced relations and had no status and shitty lives. The idea that all women were sitting at home being “bangmaids” is laughable and wrong. The idea that women were just sitting around spending their husbands money is wrong: there’s always been women that HAD to w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 06:39 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAnd that attitude is why so many pill guys are miserable. They have to get their life’s purpose from someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 06:18 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathread…pretty shitty that my ancestors had to be forcibly bred in order to make some other persons ancestors some money. Yeah, all women were just sitting around doing nothing living the life. I’m sure the men were thrilled at being forced to defile another human being, but at least they were men right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 06:10 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut what if willow! What if! I never thought I’d be the girl that’s bored because her bf isn’t around. Men are witches, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 05:02 AM |
| 11 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?Dating honestly sucks, even as a woman, despite what some here say. It sucked until it didn’t. But I do think I’m appreciative that it took so long to meet him: I don’t think i would be a good partner if we met in our 20s. The wait was worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 04:37 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI dunno. I don’t think he’d still like me if I was worm…so there’s that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 04:36 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s nicer than the one I have at home. He did good | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 04:08 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo, I’m staying at my boyfriends apartment for a few days while he’s out of town. He gave me section in his closet for my stuff and cleared out a whole part of his bathroom for me! Even got me some product so I didn’t have to keep taking mine back and forth. I always thought I’d never live with someone until I was engaged or married to them, but this man is making me want to take some risks. And he got a silk pillowcase for my hair!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 03:26 AM |
| 33 | Honest question. Women who are in relationships, what do you bring to your relationship?I asked my boyfriend and he called me to make sure I was okay. My guy says that I’m loving, affectionate and I balance him in ways he didnt realize he was unsteady. I’m his friend but I’m also his partner and he enjoys that I’m someone that he can talk to and not have to wear a mask for. If you were asking for what I think I bring: he’s pretty laser focused. To a point where he can miss the truly important details on things while he’s striving for his idea of perfect. I think I help him step bac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 03:20 AM |
| 3 | Financial Abortion RebuttalSo then men are just deciding whether or not women have to give birth. It’s still not fair or consistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 03:12 AM |
| 0 | Whats your opinion on pre-nups?Usually they can’t access anything left to you by gift or inheritance, even if you get access to it during the marriage and not before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/23 04:29 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women, can you meet your own standards?No. But most men here still would not have access to even the leftovers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Q4Women, can you meet your own standards?And you still wouldn’t have access to sex. That’s the drag. Men that are struggling today would be struggling in 1940. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women, can you meet your own standards?And even if society did regress, men at the bottom still would only have access to the women that the men at the top allowed them to have. They wouldn’t just be handing pussy out left and right to anyone. It would be the easiest and simplest way of controlling those men…make them work for what is, apparently, the only thing they want out of life. Most men here would still be miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women, can you meet your own standards?Where did I say the interest were wrong? Did you not see the entire paragraph I wrote stating where a woman could be equally hypocritical and delusional? Dude, I’m not a woman that would have had any choices even sixty years ago. The female sexually my ancestors had was owned by someone else. So yeah, I do understand that female sexuality was always heavily policed. I also grew up in a strict religious household, so trust me, I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 05:12 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.But what harm does it do? The average women won’t get tens right? Those people will be alone. They wouldn’t be happy being “realistic” anyway. Let them be. The delusion isn’t hurting anyone, unless you think those same women would then be happy to date an average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:50 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.It’s interesting how some here bring up the “even if women are painfully average” line a lot. As if things would be okay if these average women just dated who the men perceived to be in their league. Would the men be happy with an “average” woman he believes she’s a consolation prize since he’s not rich or successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:34 AM |
| 1 | What is considered a “High Body Count” ?I’m above five and have never really had a one night stand in the traditional sense. Like, there are a couple of guys that I had sex with once. But that was after going on some dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:31 AM |
| 1 | What is considered a “High Body Count” ?Geisha weren’t prostitutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:29 AM |
| 4 | Q4Women, can you meet your own standards?For my standards, as in traits I will not bend on, I only had a few. My guy met them all. Non-religious. Likes dogs. Has a degree. Has a job. Is kind. That’s it for standards. Preferences get a little more specific to body type and looks and such. But those are preferences and I will always consider those outside of them. While my current bf met all of my standards, he didn’t have some of the preferences: I will admit they were mostly superficial and ultimately, completely unimportant to our rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women, can you meet your own standards?Its not hypocritical because it’s different, it’s hypocritical because of the reasoning. A man that says he won’t commit to a woman that had a certain amount of casual sex, because he feels that casual sex creates issues that he doesn’t want in his relationship, is hypocritical if he still has casual sex. The casual sex created issues, but somehow he is immune to them and still expects and things he deserves a partner that did not have casual sex. The money issue can be hypocritical but I think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Q4Women, can you meet your own standards?N-count preference is fine, but I do believe it’s one of those things that has to be consistent if one partner is searching for a certain number. A man cannot in one breath claim he values sex as a special and intimate activity, and then in the next day he’s willing to have casual sex with whatever woman will have him. Sex is either someone you deem as special for yourself and your partner or it’s not special. Saying that a woman must be pure while a man wracks ho bodies isn’t problematic becaus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 04:05 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.How are so many men here attracting IG models? Like every other guy here is dating or thinking about dating a woman that posts half naked pics on social media. The women I know that do that, the ones that get flown-out, the men that date them know what’s up. I do think some men are misunderstanding what women mean when they say “I don’t need no man”. It’s really saying, she doesn’t need a man to pay for her lifestyle. I agree, it’s a bare minimum, yet so many men think offering to pay for a bill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 03:11 AM |
| 1 | The issue is not dying alone, but spending most of your life aloneKinda untrue. When people lived in villages that were more community dependent, women farmed, worked fields, managed farms and homesteads, cooked and cleaned for everyone, while still popping out kids. It kinda sucks how women’s contributions are just downplayed as being nonessential. As if them not being able to do them would not have drastically changed the fabric of human history. Conflating women’s work to being non-essential, especially when women had been barred from doing most labor (some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Discussion: do posters who unilaterally support women having children on their late thirties and 40s think only the woman's short term emotions matter?You can’t guarantee a legacy by having kids. As seen by the men posting here: their fathers procreated, passed on genes and now they are upset that those genes didn’t grant them the looks they wanted it. I think it’s repulsive to have kids for any other reason than wanting to provide love, care, support and nurturing to another human for the rest of your life. Parents should be prepared and willing to care for their child FOREVER. Because you chose to have them. Kids should not be had just for s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:48 AM |
| 14 | CMV: Being a strong independent woman is no big deal at all.The issue is, a lot of men will say “we don’t care about any of that. How will that help you get a man?” Then in the next breath complain about women being gold diggers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:38 AM |
| 5 | Discussion: do posters who unilaterally support women having children on their late thirties and 40s think only the woman's short term emotions matter?Do you want children because parenthood is a thing you think you should do, or do you want children because you want to give a child a caring and loving home? Just get a surrogate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:36 AM |
| 2 | The issue is not dying alone, but spending most of your life aloneIt’s also untrue that most women didn’t work. Poor women have always had to work outside the home in some fashion. Women have contributed to the workforce for just as long as men have. Where ever there are wealthy men there are wealthy women that need/want staff and service. Women were also regularly fired from Jobs after they got married, or otherwise expected to leave because it was assumed her husband would be able to take care of her. The entitled women this group is annoyed at is a small su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:33 AM |
| 2 | The issue is not dying alone, but spending most of your life aloneThey also couldn’t support themselves and if their husband died in the war, a lot of the time she had to resort to drastic measures to make sure she and her now providerless family didn’t starve to death. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:22 AM |
| 4 | Discussion: do posters who unilaterally support women having children on their late thirties and 40s think only the woman's short term emotions matter?Or you could adopt? Also does careful planning assure health or success of the baby? I doubt most guys here were birthed by a woman 40+ and they are still unsuccessful dating and mentally unhealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:15 AM |
| 5 | Every single plot for women main characters is them getting wet over a bad boy when they dont want toAny time the woman leaves her husband for the bad guy she is always punished for it. It never works out well for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/23 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?Nah, dexter wouldn’t treat Rita like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?So if her previous partners had wanted her to say…sleep with other men for their enjoyment, would you want to share her like that? Or if her previous partners had all wanted her to be a sugar baby and scam men out of money? Oh or if she did drugs with her previous partners? Or if she was fat and lazy with them because they didn’t encourage her to be her best self? Or what if you had a previous partner who you spoiled and she stole from you and left…would you do the same thing without vetting? Di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 02:00 AM |
| 7 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?What? You’re assuming. She might have been attracted to you, might not. Either way your statement about whether she’d be attracted to you when she as 20 is pointless. My boyfriend is hot and successful, he wouldn’t have dated me when I was 20, and I wouldn’t have dated him. We were different people then. My boyfriend at that age was entering his glow-up phase after loosing a ton of weight and getting attention: he was building his confidence and dating like a 20yo hot guy. He would have not be i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 01:58 AM |
| 3 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?Yes but then your statement makes no sense. Your best is what you’re willing and able to give your partner, not what you gave a partner in the past. So your statement about wanting her best as defined by her past isn’t necessarily true. You want her best as defined by how she treats you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?But you and your previous partner didn’t work out. So something you gave to them didn’t work. What if the “baseline” you’re creating isn’t good? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?Are you giving every new person you date a worse version of yourself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 01:32 AM |
| 6 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?That’s super weird. How do you know YOU would have wanted her when she was in her 20s? What if she was fat, or didn’t take care of herself the same? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?Oh shoot weird, it replied to the wrong person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 01:31 AM |
| 3 | Men in your 30s, do you actually not want to date women in their 30s?How do you know you would have dated her when she was in her 20s? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/23 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Scenario. Imagine you’re with your EX boyfriend, and your CURRENT boyfriend comes into your life at work or a social event etc. Now what do you do?It depends. Would this be before or after found out my ex cheated? He wasn’t even a chad…he just had an accent and was really smart. If it was after and I was making my exit, I’m flirting. If it was before and I still think my ex is a good partner for me, I’m ignoring my current partner. Again, it was about personality and not looks. I liked my partner, in my exes case, for who I thought he was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou guys would still say you didn’t know what women wanted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/23 02:40 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo conventionally attractive men have better voices?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 10:17 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when 'Chad' starts flirting with you and you are in a relationship? How do you feel?If some guy is flirting with me I’ll politely decline and let him know I’m in a relationship. I don’t feel any strong emotions about the flirting either way. People flirt all the time. Even if he’s “hotter” than my boyfriend, my guys looks are just part of the whole that makes him. My boyfriend is special not because he’s hot, but because he’s just…himself. No one else can be him. His qualities all are unique in the way that they present in him. So even if a hotter richer guy came along, I would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s always on a day someone says something like “if women were blind men would have an easier time dating.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 10:10 PM |
| 7 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAfter getting into a relationship I find myself here less and less. But some days this dumpster fire drags me back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Should sleeping with others in the talking phase of a relationship be seen as a dealbreaker? why or why not?My boyfriend was having sex with someone else when we first started talking. I didn’t mind. My rule is that so long as we are both making time for one another and actively trying to hangout, whoever else my partner is seeing can’t be getting that much time with him. We didn’t have sex until we’d been dating for six months, prior to which he’d stopped having sex, talking to, or seeing anyone else. I wasn’t having sex with anyone but I was talking to other men. All of whom kinda tapered off the mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 02:08 AM |
| 1 | CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policiesUnlimited pto would be best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 05:40 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCereal hits the spot sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 02:16 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut these women know who these men are. One quick google and you’d know their entire playbook. So you’re telling me they go onto the show, knowing how they interview and still say dumb shit and act surprised when they say an unoriginal gotcha? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 01:08 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMade my bf dinner today: pot roast with some veggies and mashed potatoes. Plus I’m attempting to make yeast rolls from scratch. The kitchen smells so good. I can’t wait to see how it turns out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 12:13 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHere’s my issue with this show. People know who he is, they usually know the show and how he “interviews”. He uses the same talking point all the time. He’s getting these women they are willing to say these things on purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/23 12:08 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo. A super social woman wouldn’t marry the programmer who has no interest in going out or doing anything with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:40 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey wouldn’t pick the software engineer either unless they too were socially awkward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 06:16 PM |
| 1 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themWay more men are having sex than you think. If the lonely men start attacking women and committing violent crimes, the men that actually like women, or at the very least, enjoy having sex with women would jump to their defense. They aren’t going to let someone come in and ruin their lives just for the hell of it: they don’t benefit from the collapse of society, nor do they benefit from the forced monogamy some sexless men want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 12:46 PM |
| 2 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themNo, a lot of men that complain here just want to feel special. And that’s the issue. That’s why they don’t like women they deem “slutty” they aren’t special if she does it for anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:13 AM |
| 2 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themIt’s not the issue of what’s on other planets. (Well actually it is because if we could easily get to a planet where it rained diamonds and gold, then diamonds and gold would lose value). The main issue with going to other planets is the distance. If we can get there in any kind of timely manner then we have unlimited fuel. If we get there slowly then we found a way to get unlimited food and water: either way, once one of those things is done our economy shifts drastically. Money would be worthl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:07 AM |
| 2 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themThese men don’t want sex specifically they want what they can’t have. If we demanded people be paired with their “looksmatch”at 22, then a bunch of the men complaining now would be griping about how they can’t get a hotter partner while Chadley gets the hot woman just because he was born tall. They would still be complaining because there would still be something they felt was an h fair advantage. A lot of the guys here wouldn’t be happy until women just opened their legs for whoever asks, whene… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:00 AM |
| 1 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themSo it is interesting that men don’t pay attention to the irony in all this. Women have been told that having a husband and kids is their only goal. That one path is the key to happiness. Women did it and weren’t always happy. Having a wife and kids probably won’t complete you if you’re already unhappy. If you need someone dependent on you to feel like you’re worth something then you’re always going to be unhappy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 03:56 AM |
| 1 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themDamn…this makes men seem kinda….weak? Like all we need to do to placate men is fuck them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 03:54 AM |
| 2 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themYou’re not a wild animal. You are throwing a tantrum. Not having sex with a partner won’t kill you. Women shouldn’t be forced to have partners they don’t want. It wouldn’t even solve anything if they were. The men complaining would still be snippy about not getting the hot girl that a man working his exact same job got. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 03:52 AM |
| 2 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themThis doesn’t track. If men are only behaving a certain way to get sex, why would the men who are having sex not defend their means of happiness? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 03:50 AM |
| 2 | New study finds men are leaving the workforce en masse, why work hard if you are not entitled to a wife nor children? This already happened in Japan by men turning into Hikkikomori and japanese economy is in the brink of collapse, men have left the plantation since theres nothing left for themColonizing other planets requires creating unlimited energy and/or synthesized food. Once we do either of those things the economy, as we know it, is gone. If humans ever get to actual space travel it would still lead to people. It needing other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Do you think people can have meaningful relationships with AI?If we get terminators because a bunch of people are doing fucked up things to their ai girlfriends I would laugh so hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:26 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe good part is realizing that there’s no perfect partner, but there is going to be someone that cares about you, despite your past and despite theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 01:03 AM |
| 9 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.Unless motherhood is rewarded somehow I don’t see it changing anytime soon. I think the best way to go about things is to make surrogates and IVF more common and affordable. People get babies, exactly when they want them. There’s just no benefit. Especially when you could be bringing a child into the world just for it to be offed in a war it didn’t cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut if you let the suckyness color all of your dates you’ll never get to the good part. Paranoia, insecurity, jealousy all of that will just hold you back from finding a good partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:45 PM |
| 11 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.Yeah and I don’t think we are in any real danger right now. The real issue is that we have a dying environment and a world in which kids can’t even go to school. Men only want bangmaid wombs and women only want a wallet. The cultures the problem. If it were easier and safer to have kids maybe women be having more. But child birth and pregnancy are also tough with the added bonus of being optional now. I wonder, if bc had been a available 200 years ago, how many of us would actually be here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLife’s pretty good right now. Got a guy, works going well, can’t complain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:40 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI was there for a while. Dating sucks until it doesn’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:38 PM |
| 14 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.I mean if women really want to be mothers they can adopt or get surrogates if they have the money. It’s way easier for single women to adopt. And there’s a lot of kids out there without parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:37 PM |
| 7 | Why women aren’t having kids and settling down young.Aren’t we at like 9 Billion people at this point? Even with declining birth rates we were at six billion some ten years ago. That’s a huge jump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread“Giving sex” just makes me gag. It’s gross. The idea of it is gross. The grammar is gross. If you’re in a relationship with someone giving sex out like they are a charity you need to leave! Also, sup buddy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOmg I read that too. He’s like “I escalated and she went with it”…what??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 09:31 PM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you’re with a woman you feel is “giving” you sex, you’re with the wrong partner. Sex is a two person activity and you both should be having it. If you’re that desperate for sex you see it as a handout you need to work on your mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 09:31 PM |
| 0 | How to tell if a girl had a hoe phase in college but cleaned up afterwards?Sure. Sabotage your relationship with the advice of men who admit to not dating or not having much dating experience. If you like her, you like her. Stop overthinking and just enjoy what you have. Or break up with her if it matters so much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 09:29 PM |
| 2 | CMV: attractive RP men SHOULD care more about a woman’s financial status and intellectStill even if you’re seven figures rich I doubt the woman you marry is going to be scrubbing your house, cooking your meals AND doing most of the child rearing even if she was a stay at home mom. You would get help because you’d want to be able to spend the same amount of time with your wife and not have her be tired. At the very least so that when you go socialize and she’s talking to the other wives, you aren’t being judged for not having certain things that indicate status. It happens in my f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 05:03 PM |
| 6 | CMV: attractive RP men SHOULD care more about a woman’s financial status and intellectIf you have that much money she’s not going to be a traditional stay at home mom anyway. You will have staff and Nannie’s to care for the children. Even if I was a rich career woman with an equally rich, if not richer husband, what would I be staying home to do at a certain point? And even if I wasn’t a career woman but married a really rich guy, do you really think the wives of the Uber wealthy are staying home cleaning their own mansions and picking up after their own kids? Wealthy housewives … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Dating is just a waste of time and money these days.You can still go to a bar and not drink. Mock tails are specifically made to look like alcohol. And if not drinking is a big deal to you, you should date, when you dated, women that don’t drink. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 01:32 PM |
| 4 | Dating is just a waste of time and money these days.So, I’m confused. Why’d you comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Dating is just a waste of time and money these days.….mocktails are for women? That’s not true, they are for people that don’t drink alcohol for whatever reason. Aren’t you telling these women before hand that you don’t drink? Why not date women that also don’t drink? You could still go enjoy a mocktail together, maybe an appetizer and go home spending less than $30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 01:23 PM |
| 0 | Dating is just a waste of time and money these days.Don’t get an alcoholic drink? You can still go to happy hour and share an app, get a mocktail and so forth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 01:18 PM |
| -1 | Dating is just a waste of time and money these days.I’m seeing it at a lot less. It’s more of “this is what I do with my friends” so they want to be able to do it with their partners too. Some women definitely do go one dates for the free food. When I was younger I’d tell myself that at least if the date went shitty I got a free dinner or something. But I’d still try to give the guy a genuine chance. I feel like people can really surprise you. Guys I thought I’d have so much chemistry with turned out to be duds, men I was on the fence about turne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 12:49 PM |
| -1 | Dating is just a waste of time and money these days.Yes, influencers or wanna be influencers are the only ones that care about followers. Those people are always trying to get popular so they can monetize their page eventually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 12:46 PM |
| 0 | Dating is just a waste of time and money these days.Offer to take women to a happy hour! After work something not super expensive. It’s becoming way more popular now to not sit down for a meal with a stranger. But over drinks it’s casual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 12:44 PM |
| 4 | Dating is just a waste of time and money these days.This happens to ladies too. When I was still dating I had many of guys just ghost me. I also seem to bring ex-gfs back from the beyond because almost every other guy I met and got excited about, had verifiable proof that their exes all came back and wanted to try again. Oddly enough it was always after they posted something about me or showed me in a snap the first time. Kinda weird. But it was a frustrating experience all around. I didn’t give up though. Now I’m posting this from my hot boyfrie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 12:43 PM |
| 1 | femcels are more pathetic than regular inkwells.They don’t want causal sex, they want companionship and a genuine relationship. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/02/23 11:48 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Respect is is the main thing men desire besides sex. Desire for respect explains every RP talking point that desire for sex doesn't.See, this is wrong. Unless your partner is only with you for money, she won’t respect you less than she would the millionaire that cheated on her or treated her poorly. If she’s with you because you’re you and she enjoys you as a person - her person - then she will respect you because she already views you as better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 10:48 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Respect is is the main thing men desire besides sex. Desire for respect explains every RP talking point that desire for sex doesn't.This is a a bit of a pot and kettle situation here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 10:40 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Respect is is the main thing men desire besides sex. Desire for respect explains every RP talking point that desire for sex doesn't.Because you got snarky at the other poster for saying the truth, most men have done nothing to admire or respect. The same is true if most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 10:36 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Respect is is the main thing men desire besides sex. Desire for respect explains every RP talking point that desire for sex doesn't.Everyone deserves a base level of respect. No one owes anything more than that without it being earned. How is a bad thing to say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 10:34 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Respect is is the main thing men desire besides sex. Desire for respect explains every RP talking point that desire for sex doesn't.I mean the majority of people have done nothing to grant them anymore respect than what should be given to every person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 10:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policiesAlmost all women don’t have terrible periods though. It would definitely depend on how the law is written. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou have a lot to learn about relationships. And it’s woman singular and women plural. Your partner should be encouraging you if that’s what you feel you need. You should each be helping one another be better people. What do you mean not competitive stuff? You guys could take a jiu jitsu or self defense class, go to the gym together. My friends, their partners and me and my guy just signed up for a beer league sports teams. We are going to be doing air hockey and then beach volley ball in the su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 07:35 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo you and your girlfriend not do things together? Also you don’t expect your partner to encourage you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo your girlfriend is letting you be you, still caring for you while being you, and you want her to make you change? Did you talk to her about encouraging you to do better? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI explained this to you before. Early on both of us were multi-dating. He definitely was seeing at least one other woman early on. He’s not the type to have to go to sex workers for intimacy. And from the conversation we had last night, he never had issues finding partners to have sex with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe is, by this subs definition, a chad. He’s hot successful and charming. I didn’t say he wasn’t having sex, I said he was single. Which he was! He wasn’t open to commitment with just anyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy demisexuality is weird and I actually helped my sex aversion with kink. Though I haven’t had any hands on experience in it, because I need that trust, I did find that it aligned with my romance style. Let’s just say he was very pleased after our convo. Not to be mushy but damn, I’m gonna be this man’s wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:30 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI was wondering why this man was single for so long…he’s kinky! Not sure why it was such an issue for other women but, their loss…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Change my View : Most Humans would cheat or replace theyre Partner if the "New Partner" is way more "high Value" then theyre old PartnerI disagree. If the only think you need your partner for is material things, then yeah you’re going to replace them. But if you want your partner for the person they are, then literally no one else can be that person for you. And no matter what, so long as they are still being themselves and that person isn’t harming your life, you will still want them for who they are. Not what they look like or what they do for you materially. You’ll want them because it’s that person that you created memories … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 01:29 PM |
| 5 | CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policiesI have debilitating periods. Just give everyone the same time off. How are they getting more vacation time? If everyone gets two or three days of discretionary time off per month it’s fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 01:26 PM |
| 3 | CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policiesHolidays? For some roles. And there’s FMLA which is 12 weeks per year but it’s usually unpaid. It just protect your job if you get sick and can’t work, or have a family issue where you’ll be away from work. You can take it whenever. But it’s usually always unpaid. Some companies have extra insurance you can buy, which can give you up to 80% of your income while on FMLA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 01:24 PM |
| 2 | CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policiesNo because they just have a lactating station. And usually companies that have a lactation area also have an area where employees can go rest in general. Like parental leave without giving any other kind of leave that’s similar to employees would be discriminatory. But most maternity leave is fmla leave, and most either compile it with pto, or take unpaid time off. The leave just protects your job; companies don’t have to pay you for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 01:20 PM |
| 16 | CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policiesIt is gender discrimination to give some people time off and not give others equal time off. That’s why most companies now have a family planning leave instead of just maternity leave. You can take it off if you’re a man whose partner is pregnant or if you’re a person that’s adopting. It would be different if all periods were created equal. Mine are horrendous, so bad I had to get blood transfusions and pain med for my back spasm like cramps…other women just need to take a midol. Are they going … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 01:18 PM |
| 86 | CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policiesI think they should just implement a monthly leave for everyone. This wouldn’t fly in the US because it’s gender discrimination | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Wikipedia is not a credible source. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 09:04 PM |
| 4 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.Can you please show me a case in the last 50 years or so where adultery was listed as a crime? And actually prosecuted? I’m interested in seeing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 06:24 PM |
| 6 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.In the us? Adultery is hardly treated as a felony. Its not prosecuted as a crime at all anymore. And if they were they’d likely be found to be unconstitutional. For desertion and abandonment, if you get a wife that’s your dependent then you need to make sure she’s taken care of like any dependent. But again, due to the laws of today those will hardly be enforced because there are options for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 05:31 PM |
| 18 | Men and women not owing stuff to each other.The papers you sign at marriage don’t say any of those things though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 02:51 PM |
| 10 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleYou’re still depending on women to get sex. You still are interacting with a woman every time you have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 01:07 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre you 12? Did your mommy turn off the child filters on the internet? Because your either a child or you’re deranged. You’re not even saying anything coherent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 12:24 AM |
| 12 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleI sometimes find it really hard to be sympathetic to people that think like this. I’m a POC woman and honestly dating was so hard for me. Lots of people would just not consider me because of the way I looked. And other people were “lucky” enough to be born a race that isn’t hated by so many people for no reason. If all you want is sex then sex workers are exactly what you need. But most guys here want sex and validation. But it’s not women’s job to validate you and make you feel like your life i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 12:22 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf it was that important do you think the men in charge would have let it go? Nah, they figured out that the people that weren’t absolutely batshit would pair up. It works. Grow up and a deal with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 12:19 AM |
| 12 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleMy guy, if you need to have access to sex then yes, you need women in your lives in some way shape or form. I suggest, stop making sex such a big deal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 12:17 AM |
| 17 | Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be singleIf men can’t live without sex then they can’t live without women, unless of course, they don’t have sex with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 12:14 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhere? The average factory worker salary is like 36k and that’s on the high end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 11:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo go get a virgin. Men are the only ones complaining about purity. If men stopped participating in casual sex, who would women have causal sex with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 11:56 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat does that even mean? I truly think you are having an episode right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 11:55 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh yeah there are tons of other issues with the 1950s that show it wasn’t a paradise. The OP here doesn’t seem like he cares about anything else but the traditional family so that’s what I focused on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 11:54 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre the hookers in the room with us right now? Can you think of any other insult for a woman other than calling her some form of a slut or a whore? This is just getting sad now. I’m starting to think you’re just in a manic stage going all in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 11:38 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAgain, if you think women are hookers and you’re upset that even hookers aren’t considering you, maybe it’s a personal issue. And not one that’s the blame of society. Some introspection might be healing here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 11:36 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJust so loud and for what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 11:26 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFor you maybe. There are plenty of people who are happy in relationships with people that care about them. And they didn’t have to resort to stripping away the rights of their partner in order to get them. A factory job could also support a family of 4 in the 1950s. Not so much anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 11:25 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI was a late bloomer and dating is something you just gotta try it. The more dates you go on the easier it gets. To get those dates you gotta just try to put yourself out there more. Go to Meetup’s, that’s where I met my guy. Even if it’s just an event for finding friends, you can work on meeting people and talking about yourself in a way that interesting. Making friends and dating are kinda the same process up to a point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 10:27 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou can definitely make mistakes at 25. No one’s going to be perfect. I think faking some confidence, even just to yourself, works wonders. You’re still young! And you can definitely meet someone that cares about you who will share that experience. One of my friends dated a guy that was a virgin. He was waiting until marriage. He was tall, handsome and well off. He was 36 at the time. He’s engaged now! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 09:41 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLink me to a post where a woman’s being bitchy in a thread I otherwise commented on. I’m literally only noticing you because you commented on my thread earlier, and I saw you here with the exact same attitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 09:35 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow old are you? You’ll probably get better with dating as you get older, depending on your age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 09:31 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadListen, I’ll be the first to tell someone when they are being a dick. Even when you commented on my post earlier, you were being a dick to everyone. For no reason. So care to tell why you’re so angry? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 09:28 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPretty sure this man is crazy. They’ve been talking for two weeks total. That’s not normal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 09:26 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDude. You’re arguing like child. It seems like you’re angry. And I didn’t tone police you, I was stating that you sound bitter, I’m adding angry to that list. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 09:24 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDude why do you sound so bitter in every response you make? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 09:22 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadExclusivity does. When we wanted to become exclusive we did, now we are in a monogamous relationship. I’m his girlfriend and he’s my boyfriend. I think that’s serious. It doesn’t have t work for you. You can date however you want. I got frustrated at having to constantly start I’ve r from scratch when a date went nowhere. Or I would get way to invested too fast in a person that wasn’t right for me. I changed the way I dated because it wasn’t working for me. Now I have a boyfriend that I care abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 08:29 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean why? He was obviously still looking for his person, which was why he went on a date with me. I multidated also. It works for me especially when I’m not going to be having sex right away. And in this case it was very successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 08:19 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think it’s a little ridiculous to expect exclusivity very early on. Now, I do go a bit longer than most people due to my Demi sexuality, and I think it’s unfair for me to ask someone to stop having sex especially when I can’t tell them when I’ll be ready. It worked for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 08:01 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean he did stop having sex with other people once it was clear he wanted to get to know me. I’m not sure exactly when, but I don’t think he’s had sex with anyone prior to with me for at least a few months. And he was definitely still taking me out, paying for dates, and treating me like a person he was dating, despite us not having sex or being official. I would never expect someone to be exclusive right when we start dating, anyhow. But a lot of guys here say they won’t even wait three dates… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 07:21 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe stopped having sex with other women well before we became exclusive. Not sure how long but he said he wanted to genuinely give us a try. He cares about more than getting his dick wet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 07:17 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s not a gotcha. It’s me saying that perhaps people shouldn’t be so obsessed with “how long someone else waited”. If it’s something you need have the conversation and see what’s going on. Just communicate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 06:55 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow is it a gotcha? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 06:44 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCommunication is key. I make my Demisexuality known pretty early usually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 06:38 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s not a gotcha. Just my experience. I’m Demisexual and before this I hadn’t had sex in years. I’ve never had a one night stand, but not have I really been in a long-term relationship. We weren’t exclusive until recently. I was multi dating and so was he. He was definitely sleeping with someone else early on, but I didn’t care because he made me a priority. He knew I was Demi early on and didn’t have a problem with it when we discussed it. He never asked how long it would take, and he said he … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 06:36 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUpdate guys! We finally had sex! It was pretty amazing, even if kind of awkward. But it was nice to be intimate with someone again, especially nice since it was with someone I knew for sure wanted me and was interested in me. Having a boyfriend is a weird feeling. But it was super nice to wake up to a bunch of surprises on Valentine’s Day. And for the first time in a long time I wasn’t the only one of my friends that didn’t have anyone to share the day with. I got him a cute houseplant and a pai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/23 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis so because the key component to this question is asking about vagina. Or at least phrased in a way to make people think it’s about vagina. Most couples already share interest and hobbies and such . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:52 PM |
| 2 | What is the absolute minimum/maximum amount of time you require to meet someone?No the ones that freak me out are the ones that are like “do you want to meet up for a drink in an hour”. And I’d just started talking to him. In the morning to planning a date for the evening would be fine: I’d actually have time to get ready and get into the date mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Is pre-selection actually real?I think it only works if you have some interest or have interactions with the guy regularly. For instance if this is a guy that hits on you a lot and you reject him for whatever reason: seeing him with someone else might make you go “hmmm so he is a good guy?” Or if you have a guy you were physically interested in yet, but you’re friends and you hangout a lot, seeing how he treats his new gf or something could spark an interest. I think it’s about seeing someone as a partner. If I saw a guy I di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:35 PM |
| 1 | What is the absolute minimum/maximum amount of time you require to meet someone?Nah, if someone is asking me out at 1030 on a Wednesday night, it’s likely they just want to hookup and I’m not even wasting the time. Why not go out tomorrow? Or plan to get drinks on a Friday? I’ve never had luck meeting up with someone same day unless it was planned for hours in advance. Like we were chatting in the am and he asks if I want to go to a happy hour after work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:24 PM |
| 8 | Could "baby trapping" be underreported and much more common than we think?Yeah, I don’t want to get pregnant at all if I’m not ready. I probably wouldn’t have an abortion because I do want kids…so no unsafe sex until I’m 100% sure. Also, I agree all those diseases are a real worry even in a monogamous relation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:22 PM |
| 12 | Could "baby trapping" be underreported and much more common than we think?I keep saying it, double and triple birth control. I’ll never no use a condom until I’m married and I know I’m gonna be with that person for life one way or another at that point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:18 PM |
| 1 | What is the absolute minimum/maximum amount of time you require to meet someone?I mean I’m not single. But even when I was that came off as presumptive, and usually meant a guy just wanted to hookup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 01:16 PM |
| 1 | What is the absolute minimum/maximum amount of time you require to meet someone?It just seems rushed and to me it’s a bit presumptive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 02:40 AM |
| 2 | What is the absolute minimum/maximum amount of time you require to meet someone?Hmmm. I’d say a couple days to a week, but it would depend on my schedule. I would get instantly turned off and annoyed if a guy asks me “what are you doing right now”. Especially if it was a weekday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Why do people think that individual men are responsible for women value in regards to body count?If you are using women who want relationships for sex and then not dating them because she has a high body count then you should communicate that you don’t want anything serious with her first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt’s not but it is an issue for men. They may not want to date a woman that’s six foot if they are 5’8. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Do men really think 30 year old women are past their prime?Marital property are things acquired during the marriage yes, however it’s only an issue if you divorce and don’t have a prenup. Just sign a prenup or don’t marry the woman. I think you don’t value women as people. You can get plenty of companionship, love and affection so long as you pick the right person. Perhaps you’ve been unlucky because you’ve only worried about vaginal quality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Do men really think 30 year old women are past their prime?How is marring a woman expensive? The kids are what make marriage expensive. Some people also see women as able to provide more than sex and babies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 09:32 PM |
| 1 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?Meh, it depends. This view also comes from a turn when women were getting wifed up at 12 and 13. Most women that were labeled at “promiscuous”were women that were already married and caught in compromising situations with other men.. It changed later when women and men started having more interactions with one another, men would want sex and in order to keep them from getting it without paying the right price, they put a stigma on women that participated or were seen as having participated. Most… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 09:31 PM |
| 10 | Why do people think that individual men are responsible for women value in regards to body count?But they usually don’t open with “I won’t date you if you have a high body count”. And regardless of the preference, it’s more an issue with how they present their wants. I don’t care if you only want to date kissless virgins, you don’t get to call women who don’t meet your standards slurs and whores. But I do think it’s extremely hypocritical for a man to say that he wants a woman who values sex as something special when he does not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShe’s also almost six feet tall. And most men that watch her say she’s a 5z | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 09:21 PM |
| -1 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?She is if she doesn’t have any children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 09:20 PM |
| 15 | Why do people think that individual men are responsible for women value in regards to body count?If you want a woman with a low body count due to some moral reason, then you need to practice that yourself. Otherwise, you can’t say you and your low body count partner have the same views on sex. You view it as something casual no matter how you spin it, and wanting and expecting your partner to disregard this fact is kind of silly. If you want a partner with a low body count because you feel like women with high body counts have been “used-up” then I would argue it’s different than you saying… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Do men really think 30 year old women are past their prime?Meh. With surrogates as an option I don’t even really care. Being pregnant never appealed to me as much as actually being a mother. So I’m all for freezing eggs, if need be, then letting a surrogate do the pregnancy. Or letting a surrogate donate an egg and I carry if that’s what it comes to. But really, my goal with parenthood is just being a parent and providing someone with love and support for the rest of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Do men really think 30 year old women are past their prime?Should women just die at 29 then damn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Do men really think 30 year old women are past their prime?Why? Some people don’t feel the need to have kids, or bring more humans into this already crowded world. The man that doesn’t want kids would be an idiot to date a woman that does want kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 09:06 PM |
| -1 | How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women?Yes you can. Does technology not exist? You can also take steps to make sure you’re only dating partners who don’t currently want children and wont get pregnant unexpectedly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo. That’s not an answer you normally here. When I ask someone that’s in an age gape relationship where one partner is a teenager or very early twenties, it’s usually a comment about their age or about them being young with no baggage. Even the answer you gave is not a good one, usually when you ask someone why they are in a relationship they will tell you what attracted them to the other person. They will give you stories about the time they spent together or how the other person was really pas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDude, it’s creepy. I feel the age of adulthood is much too young. See the arbitrary rules, at least in the US for how adults can behave. If 18 is an adult, why do you have to be 25 to rent a car? 21 to drink. The laws that are made are proof that they don’t feel like 18 is the age of actual adulthood. They really only do it so that they can get people into the military young. You’re not seen as a truly responsible adult at 18. And I bet in Canada they would find it weird if a 16 year old was dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBecause I’m saying that they would go younger if they could. No dating a 17 year old technically isn’t, but it still a slippery slope that a lot of the red pill men that exclusively date younger would probably not hesitate to cross. Whatever the proper name for it is, they definitely have that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI never said it was, I said that if the only argument they had for their actions was that “it’s legal” that means they’d probably go younger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf the only reason someone can give for dating at 18 yo is that “it’s legal so why do you care” that definitely means if it was legal to date younger they’d probably have the same attitude. I never hear: oh we have the same interest in things, similar background, our work life is similar. Or anything like that. It’s either “she’s really mature for her age” or some bs like “I might want to have Kids one day, so if I wait 7 more years she will still be fertile”. They also aren’t marrying these wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean if the only reason you can give to justify dating 18 yos as a 30+ year old person is that “it’s legal” you’re pretty much saying you’d go younger if it was also legal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think it’s gross when the men regularly date only 18-20 yo women. They’d definitely be dating younger if they could, and because it’s habitual, they are only doing it because the girl is young. To them her only value is her youth. Which is why they aren’t marrying these 18yo girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow is that hypocritical? If someone is charismatic, successful, ambitious and traditionally attractive is it odd people would be interested in them? Especially if your interests align with that person? I wouldn’t be compatible with someone who wasn’t ambitious because I often match the energy my partner gives. I’d get lazy and complacent because my partner doesn’t care about where we are in life so long as we have the basics, while I do care. We probably wouldn’t have similar long term. But the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread…what the actual fuck is “female-brained” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCan you explain how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut the dudes are agreeing with her? They are saying how refreshing it is to hear a “female” speak the truth. Wouldn’t her having a partner be beneficial to these arguments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 06:50 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut her audience isn’t the women she’s arguing with. If she had a man, she would be more credible. She could say, “look what I got by being this kind of woman”. Instead she says all this stuff…and I’m just thinking “but obviously this doesn’t help” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 06:48 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow? Wouldn’t her having a man strengthen her claim that her views work? She doesn’t advertise to single women. She sits and tells women how they should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo, here’s where I see hypocrisy. There are probably a ton of women, like pearl, who have the same values. And like pearl, they don’t fit the physical mold of what the men want. So they get overlooked and ignored. Instead men focus on women who they are attracted to, and get upset that those women, who chose other men over them, aren’t interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/23 06:43 PM |
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