Let’s say you are faced with two options of people to marry. You have to choose one.

Whether you choose a man or a woman, the options are the sam:

You can choose the person who has:

No sexual/little history, minimal dating experience prior. They don’t love you: however after marriage they will magically act like they love you, worship you as a partner and never have the ability to even think about anyone else romantically, so they will never cheat. It doesn’t matter what you do to this person, they will act like they love you and not be able to express anything contrary to that.

Or

The second person has had a vibrant dating life. Past partners, dealt with heartbreak and healed, and now is actively ready for marriage and knows that you seem to be a good match for them. When you talk to this person maybe physical attraction isn’t all the way to be exactly what you want, but you hit it off and have a great conversation. If you choose to marry this person, there is no guarantee that they won’t cheat.

I saw a question like this last week aimed at women but I wanted to open it up to everyone to see if the results were different.