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[–]CringeButCorrect 27 points28 points29 points 3 years ago (25 children) | Copy Link
Fat men are also very unattractive. It's just that generally when it comes to superficial traits, men care more about looks and sex appeal, and women care more about money and social status. So it'd be easier for fat men to compensate.
[–]Reasonable-Art7731 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Men and women care equally about looks, that's a myth. I also agree fat men are ugly af.
[–]CringeButCorrect 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe, but women place value in other areas too, moreso than men.
[–]Reasonable-Art7731 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That's because they tryna get a man to pay her bills but it has nothing with attraction itself.
[–]pearllovespink 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I want to root for fat men but they have such low self esteem. The only thing stopping me from dating an attractive fat guy is my reminder that their self esteem issues reflect how I’ll be treated.
[–]Specialist-Action-33PPD Jail Bait - 3 time felon[S] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
I guess. Find me a pic that says so.
[–]propyl21 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link
You rely on 'pics' to tell you supposed facts? That right there is your first and biggest mistake.
The pic you posted is just an excuse to insult and be demeaning to women that you have no interest in to begin with.
For example point 3 is that she makes unattractive noises in bed? Jeezus talk about trying to find any reason to be insulting 😂
If a fat woman is something you don't like, why do you concentrate on them so much? Move on and be happy maybe?
[–]RocinanteCoffee 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Someone who thinks noises in bed are caused by fat and not friction and sex has never had sex.
[–]propyl21 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was laughing at that one for a good while. These guys are just so bad at hiding their projections.
[–]menelik0 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think I know what they’re talking about. I’m muscular but I’ve had sex with a fat woman and there’s a loud clapping sound especially when you’re hitting it from the back. I find it sexy tho
[–]Specialist-Action-33PPD Jail Bait - 3 time felon[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
A little triggered, aren't we?
[–]propyl21 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
I'm a guy. So no. If you wish to troll then that's says more about you than anything, but if you wish to talk, then let's get to it :)
[–]Specialist-Action-33PPD Jail Bait - 3 time felon[S] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Bruh this is purge week. Don't take half of this shit serious.
[–]propyl21 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Isn't this a sad existence though?
[–]Specialist-Action-33PPD Jail Bait - 3 time felon[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
This is probably the most active Ive been on PPD since I joined this sub. I have to take what I can get here.
[–]propyl21 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Hmmm ok. But are you happy with how your life is going?
[–]Specialist-Action-33PPD Jail Bait - 3 time felon[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I guess...honestly idk 🤷🏾♂️
[–]Jacehasnolife 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
bruh
[–]CaptainObvious4000 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Lol. Fat men get nothing worth having.
[–]CringeButCorrect 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol false, look at like most rich oligarchs.
[–]Tomridddle 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Because men are more desperate, fat women still have it WAY easier than fat men. The majority of the women on "My 600lb Life" had a partner, but the majority of the men didn’t. The average dude is getting less matches on OLD than a morbidly obese women. Life is not fair..
I would assume that this is due to testosterone. Dudes on SSRIs report significant disinterest in women. Also, women taking medication that boost testosterone ratio report lower standards in selecting a mate.
[–]EulenWatcher 11 points12 points13 points 3 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
It’s rather interesting to see this kind of content after multiple posts against body shaming a few days ago. And yes, I think dick size jokes/insults aren’t okay either.
[–]Mr_Makak 17 points18 points19 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Being fat is a choice. Having a small dick is not.
[–]EulenWatcher 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Doesn’t matter in the context of body shaming.
[–]Mr_Makak 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Why not? Shaming people for their repeated lifestyle choices seems to me much more defensible and legitimate than shaming them for the way they were born
[–]EulenWatcher 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Well, it’s the same process - you shame people for the way their body is.
[–]Mr_Makak 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
No. You shame actions. Shaming actions is fine.
[–]EulenWatcher 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
People aren't shaming actions with they fat shame. It's one thing to hold people accountable and another to make demeaning charts about them.
[–]Mr_Makak 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The chart is not about shaming at all in fact, it explains why men consider fat women less desirable.
[–]EulenWatcher 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think it really requires any explanations.
[–]RocinanteCoffee 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Nobody knows that you have a small dick until they're ready to fool around with you.
[–]Mr_Makak 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Generally yes, unless someone gossips about it
[–]RocinanteCoffee 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I mean only an idiot believes gossip.
[–]Mr_Makak 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, sadly idiots are aplenty
[–]Specialist-Action-33PPD Jail Bait - 3 time felon[S] -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Dick sizes? Whatchu mean?
[–]EulenWatcher 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hace you misses the whole thing about Tate and Greta?
[–]Specialist-Action-33PPD Jail Bait - 3 time felon[S] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Kinda been out of the loop with Tate for a while until he got arrested
[–]drew8311 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This list actually mentions a few downsides that are not specific to body shaming. Personally I think weight is more correlated to hygiene than body type as its more how you maintain yourself rather than pure genetics you can't help. Like smell/body hair/teeth color, those are all related to your body but is it body shaming if you tell someone they smell bad, need a haircut/shave, or brush their teeth better?
[–]EulenWatcher 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I was talking about this kind of charts overall. You don't have to make things like that to hold people accountable and in the context of recent scandal with Greta and Tate it looks ironic.
[–]-Bazuso- 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I disagree with number 3. Love when you make the whole room sound like the 4th of July 😈
[–]pearllovespink 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I can’t believe I’m about to break this down but fuck it. It’s purge week.
A lot of women don’t have the entire package and just because you don’t like the look of a curvy woman doesn’t mean the next man doesn’t. I have a pretty face, nice shape, and a fat ass. My body is well proportioned.
This is a stupid cop out. You probably say the same about women leaving nightclubs in short dresses. All you have to do is ask if I have a child. That simple. Skinny women also have children but it doesn’t matter because they don’t look used? Lmao. Dumb logic overall.
You’re having extremely boring sex if no one is making noises. A silent bedroom is weird.
I’m educated, pretty, and presentable. I spend thousands of dollars on my looks. I promise this is not a problem.
Until I get my diabetes or hypertension diagnosis, I’m healthy. I’m losing weight and eating healthier. That’s the only thing I can do at the moment.
I eat healthier than most skinny women. Especially now that I’m on a strict diet. I consume less than 1300 cals a day. I also fast and try to do OMAD when I can.
One thing I’m big on is not passing on generational trauma. I plan on making a specialized diet plan for my children. They will not eat any processed crap or sugary juices.
No one ever guesses my real age. This is a generalization for sure. I have a youthful looking face.
Skinny women also complain about housework and taking care of the kids. What’s the difference here? I’m going off of their definition of lazy. Just to be clear, I have no struggles doing housework. You have to be 400+ lbs to take breaks vacuuming a carpet lol.
Skinny women are also selfish in relationships. I’m going based on their on bs definition again. I became overweight due to unhealthy food I was fed in my childhood. Not sure how that makes me a selfish person.
This entire list is based on stereotypes of how people think fat women act. It’s not accurate. I’m not trying to convince anyone to date fat women but just know this list is some bullshit lol.
[–]Specialist-Action-33PPD Jail Bait - 3 time felon[S] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You know I will have to gave you credit for all of this and having a legitimate comeback.
As you should 😅
[–]dnxudn 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So dumb on so many levels but to respond.
All men prefer fit, trim, and petite women. If you say otherwise your coping.
What men instinctually think and actually know are often different. Obviously I know you don’t have kids but instinctually it’s in the back of my head.
The original point 3 was kinda dumb I’ll give you that.
I don’t care how much you spend on your looks or how presentable you are, being fat lowers your man’s status. Having a fat girlfriend NEVER reflects well on a man.
There are many health issues that come along with obesity not just the major diagnosis. It IS unhealthy and you ARE unhealthy.
Saying that you eat better than most healthy women is pure cope. If you did then you would be as skinny as them. Also I don’t know how long you’ve been on that diet but if it’s been any significant time frame you wouldn’t be so defensive.
Sure you say that and I’m sure most obese women don’t plan on having obese kids but most of the time it happens. Men don’t want to take that chance.
8.doesn’t matter how youthful your face is. Fat women age quicker and look older.
9.being fat indicates a lack of discipline and shows a lot of laziness. If you have discipline and weren’t lazy you wouldn’t be fat. Quite simple
10.this point in the original was also stupid so you can have it.
Overall being fat and unhealthy is an indicator of a bad life partner for both men and women for multiple reasons.
If this was true I would never date. I date different men all the time when I’m single. You’re very naive. Your beauty standard is different from the men I date clearly. They love my body and my ass specifically.
You think all overweight women are mothers? Strange. Especially in a time where 70% of the population is overweight or obese. Skinny women are able to have children as well but you don’t think the same thing about them? Either way, a man thinking that I have kids is something minor.
Yes, it’s very dumb.
That’s your opinion. The people you hang around view fat women as low so they view you as low. Luckily my community is different. Yes, I’m bigger but my size is still very acceptable. Especially my shape. It’s not viewed as bringing a man down. That’s nonsense.
I’m unhealthy and in the gym. Okay? There’s nothing anyone can do about that one. I can only lose weight.
I don’t think my response is defensive at all. I think it’s funny that men think that fat women eat more than the average woman. When it’s my skinny friends that have their fork in my plate at the dinner table. They’re actually the ones that beg me to eat out with them when I turn them down because of my diet. I overall have the better diet.
I already touched on this but I’m a product of childhood obesity. So no, I wouldn’t be skinny.
Obese women have obese kids because they share the same trash diet. My diet is very different. I actually haven’t gained any weight since I left my parents house, only lost weight. It’s constantly improving. I’m the girl in the grocery store aisle reading the label and nutrition facts.
This is a generalization. Not everyone looks old because they’re fat. I stand by this. I don’t look old at all. No one guesses my age.
How can you say this when I’ve been fat since I was 6 years old? Are you saying a 6 year old was lazy and lacked discipline? A 6 year old doesn’t even know wtf discipline is. I was very active as a child but I was fed the wrong things. Disagree. If you genuinely care, ask how she gained the weight. I have no problem telling people I’ve been obese since I was a young child. I didn’t gain it as an adult.
Almost all of these are stupid and can easily be applied to a skinny woman. The only one that can’t is #4 and that’s a maybe. If you date a hoe or ugly girl that can also lower your social status.
[–]Gravel_RoadsJust a Pill 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Who doesn’t love the sound of skin slappin D:
[–]RocinanteCoffee 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Someone who has never actually had sex with a human and in their simulation doesn't realize that all bodies make noise during sex.
Lol I just said the same thing. I consider it a benefit
[–]Willow-girlReusable Hag 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
8 isn't really true -- fat makes your face plumper and more youthful-looking. I'm told the French have a saying (IIRC) that at 35, it's either your ass or your face, lol.
[–]animorph_fan34 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Why are men so vocal about how much they hate fat women. It sounds like projection because they can’t handle sexual rejection and need to lash out. Unattractive men don’t even exist to me so I find the behaviour very weird and juvenile
[–]warramite 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Same reason women are vocal for hating short men
[–]Vyrnoaintersectional feminist 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Its a common reaction for incel men to get mad when a woman doesnt cater to their liking. Their brain cant handle it when a woman suddently isnt sexually appealing to them so they get aggressive. They think everything a woman does about her appearence has to be done to appeal to men.
[–]Cavendishelous 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’ll be completely candid here, in good faith.
It’s simply because I believe there is no excuse for being fat. It’s a sign of a lack of self control, self-respect, it makes your society look weak and unintelligent. The world would only get better if all of the fat people became healthy, I don’t think there is any way to argue against that.
I think it’s a completely silly notion that being fat is attractive. Women going around trying to come up with a million reasons why it’s actually okay. It’s so repulsive and lazy. It’s like watching a tick explode itself from engorging on blood.
It’s never going to be attractive. China is going to beat us because they actually shame their society into being smarter, healthier. America is going to become the fat kid in gym class faking his mom’s signature to get out of running the mile. How unbecoming.
[–]Mr_Makak 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Unattractive men don’t even exist to me
That's pretty ghoulish
[–]localmicrodosechamp 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lmfao someone's protesting too much
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[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For me it's the social status lowering.
[–]SolidPuzzleheaded984 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It def does lower your social status as a man
This post is true and I don’t sit around wondering why guys aren’t attracted to fat girls but just so y’all guys know, girls don’t like fat guys either. If they do, he’s giving her a big perk of some kind. Maybe money or he’s worshipping the ground she walks on and making promises when they’re alone together that he’s going to get buff at the gym.
[–]KamuiObito 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
To me it depend on how her body stores the fat ..I love chubby girls if it’s in the right place..I wish more fat women would work our slightly theyd be popular then they expect by dropping like 30-40 pounds
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