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| 24 | Who are these women with all these unrealistic expectations that these red pill guys are mad at ?It's a defense mechanism, like a lot of their "red pill truths". If women are all bitchy, entitled and not worth chasing anyway then they don't have to place any blame or responsibility on themselves for failing to attract or maintain relationships with them. But on a deeper level I think it comes down to lack of emotional intelligence and communication skills. If you have one bad relationship thats one thing, but if the same arguments and problems pop up in many of your relationships, even non-… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/21 06:49 PM |
| 21 | Twenty year old chicks do not want forty year old guys...even if they are richA few of my friends in college briefly dated guys with 10+ year age difference...and hid them. They didn't bring them to parties, or show them off on social media, or even talk about them very much. On the rare occasion they did bring them out in public it was very awkward for everyone. Then they got with someone their own age and were suddenly showing them off all over the place. Not to be cruel but they were definitely embarrassed to be going out with someone so much older that they couldn't e… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/21 04:41 AM |
| 5 | The red pill is about hate and it creates just as much misandry than misogyny.It's even worse than that, basically a ground zero sub for indoctrinating and recruiting young people into RP or incel ideology. I've seen so many kids start out relatively normal if somewhat insecure or inexperienced then fall deep into hating women, society and themselves. It's sad as fuck. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/10/20 01:15 AM |
| 7 | What percentage of people in the manosphere do you think are mentally ill or have personality disorders?A lot seem to be somewhere on the depression/anxiety scale. Some are just well-adjusted sociopaths. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/20 12:38 AM |
| 3 | Some Information for Exredpillers - Let's Have a DiscussionRighteous anger is a motivating force. Black people are the ones leading the charge because they are overwhelmingly the victims of police brutality and over-policing in neighborhoods. This is absolutely worth acknowledging and turning a blind eye to the race factor just allows it to keep happening. There is a real problem with white supremacy in law enforcement, military, FBI, the flipping executive branch... It's not a coincidence that black people are targeted more often and suffer the worst e… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/07/20 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Advice for people that just escaped?I second the other comments, expose yourself to opposing viewpoints or even neutral viewpoints as much as you can and it will start to put their ideas into a bigger context. If you're looking for some good starting points these YT channels have some excellent counterpoints to and analysis of trp: Innuendo Studios Shaun Contrapoints 3 Arrows Hbomberguy | /r/ExRedPill | 04/11/19 09:18 PM |
| 2 | RedPill's popularity is showing the unresolved childhood emotional and developmental traumas on a societal levelFor men who identify as red pill it seems like they're clinging to status symbols of the past. On the surface it's: sleep with lots of women and you're a stud, admired by other men. Dig deeper and it's about maintaining dominance over women in relationships, propped up by many nonsensical beliefs about inherent male superiority/female inferiority. TL;DR they're insecure af edit: contrast them with men who rejected those old beliefs and grew up with/adopted gender equality as a new belief system | /r/ExRedPill | 21/09/19 03:05 PM |
| 13 | Any communities/websites that dive in female psychology without the misogyny?You want psychology in general, there are very few differences between men and women on that level and the few there are tend to be heavily exaggerated. If you want to understand why women behave differently than men in some situations (like romance) study history, specifically women's history and how women's status in society has changed over time. Religion and economics have a lot to do with how much/little power and status women have had historically. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/19 10:55 PM |
| 4 | Are there any modest and traditional women left? > women who are more reserved, religious to some extent and when married, prefer to stay at home (similar to the 50s-80s). Yeah those aren't the kind of women who usually hang around bars. Of the religious women I know, many of them got married shortly after high school around 18 - 19. As for this type: dressing conservatively more often than not, acting mature and taking life seriously more or less. They are the Type A's, career-oriented and not usually looking to become a SAHM. If you're… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/19 03:52 PM |
| 13 | There is no point to dating unless you have male model looksNo it's not looks, I have crushed hard on guys who were overweight or short or both, but they were also funny, smart and charming. Social competence is key way more than looks, ime. A handsome face wears off pretty quickly if the guy is tiresome. A guy who makes you laugh, who you can connect to on a more personal level can become the most beautiful person in your eyes even if he's not stunning right off the bat. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/19 10:34 PM |
| 26 | TRP advice is sociopathic, but something vaguely similar is needed> I remember growing up being told that women should be put on a pedestal. They're the "princess", and you need to do everything to get their affection. I have this theory that concepts like chivalry came about as tacit acknowledgement of women's inferior position in society. But it's never stated so clearly because a. that would acknowledge a fault in men's treatment of women and b. it would upset the status quo of male dominance/female subservience. So we inherit this ancient, clunky, unfort… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/18 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Few questions for this subredditWhere did I say women are universally better parents? Or that women are poly? Don't jump to conclusions dude. The information is out there, your idea of how female sexuality works is far off the mark just like the red pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/08/18 03:23 PM |
| 5 | Few questions for this subredditIf a woman cheats, she deserves to pay for child support and kids should go to father. Cheating isn't good for a relationship but its irrelevant to whether or not that person is a fit parent. Custody doesn't go to one parent to punish the other, its about the best interests of the child. Actually, human evolution started when women started to be extremely selective and changed to serial monogamy. That resulted that only 30-40% of men during early history of humankind had kids with about 60-70% o… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/08/18 09:12 PM |
| 6 | Ex-MarriedRedPill here, is there any other sub I should check out?WRT communication styles it might be more beneficial to research both you and your wife's individual styles (there are online quizzes you can take) rather than looking at it like a man/woman thing. It was really helpful in my relationship to figure out I am more prone to acts of physical affection or labor in expressing love but shitty at gift-giving and talking about it overtly. My partner does his own style that is different and we meet in the middle. This website has a lot of useful material:… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/07/18 11:21 PM |
| 2 | NSFW: Female Arousal and Reactive SexualityNo Active Time of month doesn't matter but I did have a negative experience with the pill, it murdered my sex drive. Sometimes but not usually Yes that would be enough lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/18 02:45 PM |
| – | Can anyone see the proof that this is sjw or showing the heroes saving the day fascism?(4) No links to outside content without post-text sufficient to explain the linked content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/18 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Do any anti-Red Pill arguments negate its need?You don't want to create an alternative to TRP because you just want those men who don't "get it" to shut up and keel over without inconveniencing you or making a fuss. Yep, not wanting women to be abused is just the same as wanting men to keel over and not make a fuss. How dare I point out the hateful shit on TRP without first solving men's dating problems. This is what people mean when they say RPers are entitled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/18 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Do any anti-Red Pill arguments negate its need?I'm an unbiased onlooker and you seem to have a real chip on your shoulder. Right, that's why you save your criticisms for people calling out TRP instead of for the awful shit TRP encourages. A few bizarre points sure, but anyone with half a brain will just disagree with the parts which dont fit. And take no responsibility for propagating bias and harm against women, of course. Just don't notice the strong correlation between "red pill" and the alt right and how men are being actively recruited,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/18 04:12 PM |
| 5 | Do any anti-Red Pill arguments negate its need?I am serious. Your precious sidebar as well as the kind of posts that get gilded and upvoted are full of woman hate. Your group is fucking repulsive. Take what you works and leave the rest. lmao, just eat around the turd! sorry its still a turd sandwich even with some "lift" lettuce and "upgrade your wardrobe" mayo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/18 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Do any anti-Red Pill arguments negate its need?Yeah but that something stupid could've been Frisbee golf instead of "how to ruin a girls self esteem" and "do women really need the vote" bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/18 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Do any anti-Red Pill arguments negate its need?No one cares about men being selfish, it's that TRP is teaching men to hate women and hurt them as much as they can get away with. It's because TRP recruits vulnerable men to alt right fascism. The idea that anyone is mad about men being selfish is laughable, and clearly just what RPers tell themselves to feel better about belonging to a hate group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/18 02:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: BPed men aren't typicalYou're missing the key point: BS perpetuates ideas and behavior that keep women subordinate to men. It's not favorable to most women most of the time. How do these subjectively hostile and benevolent attitudes co-exist? As combined positive and negative feeling, ambivalent sexism might seem to induce cognitive conflict. Actually, ambivalently sexist men avoid this inconsistency (Glick et al. 1997); they split women into “good” and “bad” subgroups that embody the positive and negative aspects of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/18 02:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: BPed men aren't typicalYou surely understand the concept of "benevolent sexism" right? That's pretty much exactly what I described, only it's painted in a way that still looks at women as victims. Don't be fooled, just because the concept contains the words benevolent and wonderful doesn't mean it's a good thing for women. Contrary to the idea that one pole of ambivalence is suppressed when the other is activated, we thought that, in men's attitudes toward women, the very same men who said “can't live with them” were … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/18 02:10 PM |
| 0 | Radical feminists are the 'nice guys' of women*relatively low effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/18 03:12 PM |
| – | Radical feminists are the 'nice guys' of womenThis post is seriously low effort, maybe look up the definition of radical feminist next time. It can stay since it already has some replies but will remain CMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/18 02:35 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] Personal opinions regarding the "average man" and "average woman" postsI'm a bi woman, I did think a couple of the average male photos were attractive. The second photo in this comment is kinda my type. Some of them even had attractive faces they were just a bit overweight like in this comment. For the women, like I said it was surprising because a lot of them seemed either above or below average to me. This is an average woman to me (or on the pretty side of average) and would probably be the gf/wife of one of the guys in the second comment I linked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/18 07:32 PM |
| 2 | [Discussion] Personal opinions regarding the "average man" and "average woman" postsThe men's pictures were about average, the "average women" was this weird mix of below and above average, imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/18 01:46 PM |
| 3 | [Discussion] Personal opinions regarding the "average man" and "average woman" postsI do. I am saying that. ♡guyliner♡ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/18 01:40 PM |
| 12 | Female sexuality is Predatory, Opportunistic, and Exploitative TOO.Kind of funny how some people took jammerly's post so hard and needed to gender reverse it to "show women how it feels". We know how it feels, TRP says worse about women everyday. Maybe the guys who were so offended should consider that instead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/18 01:29 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Male sexuality is Predatory, Opportunistic, and Exploitative. AMALT.Such a bizarre revenge fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/18 06:29 PM |
| 7 | Why A Woman's Sexual Past MattersThe Heritage Foundation: A research and educational institution whose mission is to build and promote conservative public policies, based in Washington, D.C.. lol next Results from the 1995 National Survey of Family Growth indicate that marriages contracted after 1980 are becoming more stable. This article examines several individual characteristics in search of an explanation for increasing stability. A person-year file is created and logistic regression is used to determine which covariates ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 04:25 PM |
| 3 | Why A Woman's Sexual Past Mattersthe break up is more statistically more likely to happen. Source? And thinking about such things in the first place doesn't suggest contentment, but a fearful mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 01:12 PM |
| 5 | Why A Woman's Sexual Past MattersMen know that if your a women's first, you have a much better likelihood, both practically and statistically in staying with her long-term. Worried, concerned with, care about, whatever. The anxiety produced by the thought you might not be able to satisfy her/could satisfy her better if she had less experience is insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 12:57 PM |
| 6 | Why A Woman's Sexual Past MattersRight, so you're worried about satisfying a woman who has been with other men. That's insecurity. You avoid experienced women so you can alleviate that concern, not because virgins are so much better in bed or whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/18 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Female teachers who sleep with male students - a question about evo-psychSome of these kids are in elementary school. If I'm "virtue signalling" you are projecting like a spotlight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/18 02:12 PM |
| 4 | Female teachers who sleep with male students - a question about evo-psychThese men boys typically have social status at school. I have a feeling these teachers aren't having sex with omega incels. Your comment is really sickening, tbh. Those underage boys have "status" among other boys and that's what makes adult women want them? Really?? Whatever it is that makes an adult want a half-grown child is a mental illness, not a sexual strategy and certainly not one that would pertain to the general population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/18 08:01 PM |
| 3 | Q4Feminists: Why do you have so much difficulty admitting that sexism against men is a thing?goodbye troll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/18 07:24 PM |
| 1 | "The Red Pill" is an Oppressive, Narrow-Minded IdeologyThis is a lot different than "can't stand a woman rejecting them". The guy I replied to said RPers would get mocked for complaining on TRP. On the contrary, I think RPers complain a great deal but other RPers will lap it up if it sounds derogatory to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/18 02:31 PM |
| 9 | "The Red Pill" is an Oppressive, Narrow-Minded IdeologyIt really depends how they're complaining about women. "Why won't women date me??" = mocked "Women are hypergamous sluts, sexual freedom ruined femininity" = hundreds of upvotes, gilded, mods make you endorsed contributor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/18 01:09 PM |
| 1 | No Means No Works When Women Back It Up and Refuse To Entertain Further NegotiationThanks for the reply, was hoping you would take a crack at my first question too tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/18 03:41 PM |
| 1 | No Means No Works When Women Back It Up and Refuse To Entertain Further NegotiationYour argument is simply to remove responsibility for the man to speak up for himself or remove himself from a situation he doesn't want to be in. Person A wants sex with Person B. Person B wants to fool around but not have sex, they make this known to Person A. It's now on Person A to either accept Person B's offer to just fool around or reject it, NOT on person B to immediately leave...that is incredibly bizarre unless Person A did something offensive. It also seems like you're insinuating a wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/18 03:37 PM |
| 2 | No Means No Works When Women Back It Up and Refuse To Entertain Further NegotiationTRP works great on a subset of emotionally damaged and oftentimes sexually abused women. They typically put out easier and more often and are more likely to accept their place as a FWB. Why do you think RPers always deny this when non-RPers say it? And don't you think those tactics are kinda scummy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/18 02:44 PM |
| 1 | No Means No Works When Women Back It Up and Refuse To Entertain Further NegotiationMost accurate and underrated comment ITT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/18 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Women select for guys who can pull off social risks. Men in the #metoo movement are being punished for failing to pull off certain social risks. Instead of blaming men for harassment, we're blaming men for lacking social acuity.Facebook, twitter, their blog And that they're lying about awkward guys? What other examples of this are there? The women who accused James Franco. it's just that she was trying to charge him for the wrong crime. AFAIK no charges were brought against him, but if what she said was true it could be classified as assault legally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/18 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Women select for guys who can pull off social risks. Men in the #metoo movement are being punished for failing to pull off certain social risks. Instead of blaming men for harassment, we're blaming men for lacking social acuity.And women who make false rape accusations also use their power and influence to threaten careers and reputations. It just seems like kind of a non-issue, where are all these women who are using metoo to falsely accuse awkward men? I've been following metoo and in many of these cases the accused has multiple accusers, multiple corroborating witnesses and often long histories of the alleged behavior. Those that don't, that seem ambiguous and controversial (like Aziz) see tremendous backlash agains… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/18 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Women select for guys who can pull off social risks. Men in the #metoo movement are being punished for failing to pull off certain social risks. Instead of blaming men for harassment, we're blaming men for lacking social acuity.when the reality in a lot of the cases is just that they were just awkward Do you have numbers on that or is that just your opinion? the aziz case being the obvious example There's a lot of disagreement surrounding Aziz in that case. Not punish legally but punish socially or profesionally Ironically this is exactly what many people have experienced while trying to use legal means to defend against harassment. Predators use their power and influence to silence victims by threatening their careers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 11:03 PM |
| 3 | Women select for guys who can pull off social risks. Men in the #metoo movement are being punished for failing to pull off certain social risks. Instead of blaming men for harassment, we're blaming men for lacking social acuity.Who is punishing men for sexual assault for being awkward? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Women select for guys who can pull off social risks. Men in the #metoo movement are being punished for failing to pull off certain social risks. Instead of blaming men for harassment, we're blaming men for lacking social acuity.They're gross when the sender ignores signals to stop and back off. If he didn't stop when asked he earned those rumors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/18 02:15 PM |
| 13 | 'Women destroy civilisations' - I was wondering what everybody's take on this video is.Society enforced chastity for women because it benefited men. There have been means for both birth control and abortion since antiquity. Many of the methods employed in early and primitive cultures were non-surgical. Physical activities like strenuous labor, climbing, paddling, weightlifting, or diving were a common technique. Others included the use of irritant leaves, fasting, bloodletting, pouring hot water onto the abdomen, and lying on a heated coconut shell.[5] In primitive cultures, techn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 03:52 PM |
| 21 | 'Women destroy civilisations' - I was wondering what everybody's take on this video is.Women sacrificed their lives in childbirth whether there was war or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 02:31 PM |
| 1 | In light of the current state of the dating world, do women still think there is something wrong with a guy if he is over 35 and has never been married/had kids?Or maybe because young people have lower standards, fewer resources, less experience with dirtbags and are easier to control than an older adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/18 02:11 PM |
| 3 | Why are TERPERS supporting rape as a sexual strategy?I agree with you that reading your partner and reacting appropriately is all part of being a fully functioning sexual adult. Good, yes. However being bored or uncomfortable, even in pain - is not the withdrawal of consent and I think its dangerous to try and conflate the two. The logical conclusion of your position is that men who are bad in bed are somehow rapists. If you'll look at my comments again you'll see I did not conflate the two as withdrawal of consent, actually my comment wasn't abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/18 10:42 PM |
| 5 | Why are TERPERS supporting rape as a sexual strategy?its not an imperative. It's everyones individual responsibility to ensure they are being fulfilled. Besides common decency there are some very legitimate reasons to check in as a rule: people who are frightened or shocked can freeze up, people who are bored, uncomfortable or in pain may be gritting their teeth out of politeness or pressure. You're not always going to get verbal responses, someone in fear or shock may not be able to give verbal responses. I have a very hard time seeing this as a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/18 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Why are TERPERS supporting rape as a sexual strategy?This is true. At the same time it's also true that you have a responsibility to your partner to check in and make sure they're having a good time, especially if you're the one pursuing/initiating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/18 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4Mods: Race and incel postsbe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/18 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4Mods: Race and incel postsbe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/18 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Something I've noticed about TRPs....Jordan Peterson is not anti-women Can you say more? I don't have a very good impression of him myself but I'm interested to hear why you disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/18 08:34 PM |
| 8 | Something I've noticed about TRPs....First off I agree with your point that many RPers and RP ideas, especially the more emotional and hostile views, seem to be coming from the lower SES end of the spectrum. Think Matt Forney, RooshV, the top mod of TRP, none are super wealthy, high SES kind of guys and they're big on outrageous, click-bait type material. Where I disagree is that high SES folks don't also have terpish views of their own, they're just better educated and better able to disguise the bias. They don't really subscribe … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/18 07:57 PM |
| – | CMV are we okay just being friendsHey, your post has been removed. PPD is not the place to seek personal advice, please check the sidebar for rules for posting, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | What is the biggest issue in your opinion that's leading to the fractured relationship between men and women in the modern dating world.We ask users not to request or share personal info on the public forum, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/18 02:50 PM |
| 0 | Blue Pill/feminism has failed in it's response to broken lost men who need a father figure - hence Cernovich, J Petersen ETCbe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Why American men are getting less marriageable - Articlebe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/18 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Doxxing and harassment Wars - Countercultural response to PC cultureAnnoyed would be more accurate. Even if women are more neurotic than men there's no causal relationship between that and working in tech, other than Damores delusions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/18 10:13 PM |
| 2 | Doxxing and harassment Wars - Countercultural response to PC cultureUnsurprisingly the comments ITT are a huge circlejerk. These people who have no problems harassing people for conservative or un-PC ideas such as, "I don't think women enjoy tech work on average relative to men" This seems like a glossover of what he said: it was due to biological differences and women being more neurotic, biotruths essentially. Can no one else see how incredibly insulting that is and why people were upset? It wasnt just "hmm women dont seem to like tech as much!" What do you th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/18 06:08 PM |
| – | What additional benefit do women provide in a marriage as opposed to a plate/ltr situation?Hey, this question has been asked a lot recently so I'm removing it. You can try our weekly gender wars thread for surplus content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/18 09:40 PM |
| 6 | Is someone "broken" if they don't associate "sex with love"?You were the one who asked to be let back here and you know it was under the condition you not troll like last time. Stop throwing a fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/18 09:31 PM |
| 5 | Is someone "broken" if they don't associate "sex with love"?Lastly only defective people get upset at being called defective so please include a picture of yourself in your response. Don't ask for personal information. This is also a warning: stop edge lording. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/18 09:14 PM |
| 7 | Just watched "The Red Pill" movie. Was curious to hear other's thoughts, as well as mention one of my own.Its almost as if even after keeping a low profile for years the internet just won't let go. The harassment reached a new level of creepiness last month when an employee at a liquor store took a screenshot from surveillance footage of Chanty at the store committing the dastardly act of buying a bottle of wine and put it online, effectively telling the world where she lives. my god | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 06:23 PM |
| 2 | Just watched "The Red Pill" movie. Was curious to hear other's thoughts, as well as mention one of my own.Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 06:14 PM |
| 13 | Just watched "The Red Pill" movie. Was curious to hear other's thoughts, as well as mention one of my own.I'm often struck by the irony that those who champion feminism are so often are the worst possible spokespeople for feminism Yeah, the movie couldn't possibly have examined actual academic or better-known feminists, literally their only choice was some woman who lost her cool in public years ago and hasn't been seen or heard from since other than for MRAs to continue harassing her. For the past 3 years she’s has received over 30,000 hateful and threatening comments on YouTube, and thousands deat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Should Trump step down from the presidency for the allegations of sexual assault against him?Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 04:08 PM |
| – | Text post by Blue pill lady proving red pill analogy on one of my threads I made. She just proved the red pill analogy while claiming to be a blue piller.Take it to /r/theredpill, no circlejerking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 03:54 PM |
| – | 25 % of millennial men think asking someone for a drink is harassment. 33% of millennial men and women say that if a man compliments a woman’s looks it is harassmentPost locked, circlejerking goes under the automod kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/18 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Why is "blue pill" so obsessed with trying to avoid "red pill" guys?Im not really agreeing with those people, but I wont disagree with them in favor of someone doing the same thing Calling someone out on their shitty behavior or beliefs isn't "doing the same thing". This is in line with those that argue calling out racists for being racist is racism. One is a belief system or behavior that actively oppresses one group, the other is defending against that oppressive belief or action. Stop with this "both sides" nonsense and ask yourself if you really want to live… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/18 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about Aziz.Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/18 01:36 AM |
| 1 | Let's talk about Aziz.Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/18 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Female Field ReportWho cares what its called if it means the same thing? Because TRP says they have the "truth" and "advice that works" unlike what "delusional BPers" either can't or won't acknowledge, but their "truths" have been watered down to the point its the same "BP" advice you can find literally anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/18 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Why is "blue pill" so obsessed with trying to avoid "red pill" guys?I think that's a bit naive, they quote actual passages stating plainly that women are inferior. No one disputes that at all, not even the ECs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/18 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Female Field ReportI don't think there's enough detail to support that interpretation here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/18 03:24 PM |
| 8 | Female Field ReportAt that point it's not negging, it's just teasing but I can see you're simply trying to conflate the two to score for RP. I think many RPers are becoming aware that their ideas are bad advice and that's why they have to get watered down: negging becomes teasing, dread game becomes 12 steps of hygiene, backing down from the original RP definitions and replacing them with "blue pill" advice everyone already understands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/18 02:39 PM |
| 7 | Female Field ReportOver time RPers have backed down from the original definition from PUAs and tried to say that "light teasing" = negging = red pill, and why wouldn't they negging was such a bad, cringey idea to begin with. But teasing still isn't negging. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/18 02:33 PM |
| 11 | Female Field ReportEh, you can be embarrassed at being called out for fucking up but did he attempt to lower her self-esteem with backhanded compliments? Anything less is just white-washing the concept to make it look like a less shitty tactic. You're reading too much into a brief story without much detail, IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/18 02:28 PM |
| 5 | Female Field ReportWhat did he actually say though, that's not much to go off and claim he was "negging". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/18 02:21 PM |
| 9 | Female Field ReportImpossible to say if it's real or not but I believe the same experience could happen to a man, yeah. I do think it's kind of laughable to say this guy "negged" her, unless you're using the loosest possible definition of "light teasing". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/18 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Why is "blue pill" so obsessed with trying to avoid "red pill" guys?I agree those ideas aren't hard-wired, that's the trouble with spreading them around like like that - they can be learned and adopted. I disagree that I'm doing the exact same thing because I'm not posting a bunch of garbage about men being inferior to women. That's the thing you don't seem to understand, it doesn't matter if they're doing it to "avoid oneitis" or to "center themselves", they are continuing to spread and applaud revolting and sexist beliefs about women. The ends do not justify t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/18 01:51 PM |
| 8 | Why is "blue pill" so obsessed with trying to avoid "red pill" guys?Maybe some but theres no concentrated effort by bitter women to build a philosophy based on men being inferior and saying their orgasms dont matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 11:05 PM |
| 12 | Why is "blue pill" so obsessed with trying to avoid "red pill" guys?It's not a strawman, this is what RPers actually believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 02:53 PM |
| 1 | QForMen: What are females suppose to call males “creepy” or “creep” for?What? No, I was walking to school and they would shout it out their car window. Stop trying to equivocate, there are just dumb assholes get over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 05:27 AM |
| 2 | QForMen: What are females suppose to call males “creepy” or “creep” for?Come on, obviously those people are just asshole bullies. I've been walking to school wearing jeans and a sweatshirt and had some douche yell "slut" out the window of his car. Not every insult is justified, use wisdom to learn the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (07 January 2018)HOT TUB TIME MACHINE creep creep creep creepy creep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 04:12 AM |
| 2 | QForMen: What are females suppose to call males “creepy” or “creep” for?Nnnnnnnnnnn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 02:46 AM |
| 2 | QForMen: What are females suppose to call males “creepy” or “creep” for?Ehhhhhh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 02:44 AM |
| 1 | QForMen: What are females suppose to call males “creepy” or “creep” for?Exactly, although gay-bashing tends to be a lot worse overall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 01:59 AM |
| 4 | QForMen: What are females suppose to call males “creepy” or “creep” for?I would disagree: people who ignore signals or nos and push and push make people uncomfortable and kill the mood. Sometimes they do worse, there's a whole spectrum of creepy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 01:57 AM |
| 4 | QForMen: What are females suppose to call males “creepy” or “creep” for?Sluts aren't harming anyone or making people uncomfortable like creeps do, they just make some people feel jealous or disgusted. Slut shaming is more analogous to gay-bashing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/18 12:40 AM |
| 4 | Q4W: Do girls/women understand the damage of calling a guy a 'creep' in public?Then you bring out the mace. Surprise! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/18 11:36 PM |
| 3 | There is not an abundance of high quality womenYou don't know you're beautiful, Oh, oh, That's what makes you beautiful! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Comments on this Story in Tennessee (or, has the #Metoo movement evolved into a witch hunt?)Not if it was later on and their relationship had changed. This isn't meant towards you personally but it's kind of incredible that so many guys here have such a hard time understanding that an adult initiating sex with a minor under their authority is an abuse of their position. Worrying, even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Comments on this Story in Tennessee (or, has the #Metoo movement evolved into a witch hunt?)Not the point dude, he's not even supposed to ask - that's an abuse of his position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Comments on this Story in Tennessee (or, has the #Metoo movement evolved into a witch hunt?)Not sure how that's relevant, he proved untrustworthy even with what little authority he had. Youth pastors aren't supposed to fuck their underage flock. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 06:56 PM |
| 7 | Comments on this Story in Tennessee (or, has the #Metoo movement evolved into a witch hunt?)It's less about their age and more about his position of authority over her that he abused. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Would you support consent and signs of abuse being taught alongside sex ed?So focus on everyone, white people rape too. Every guy who's every assaulted or harassed me has been white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Would you support consent and signs of abuse being taught alongside sex ed?No, that's fucking stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 02:58 AM |
| 5 | Would you support consent and signs of abuse being taught alongside sex ed?Is there a single person in the Western world who don't know what consent is? Yeah dude, there are people on this very subreddit who think if you're having sex with someone you shouldn't have to stop in the middle if they ask. IME, there are guys who will keep trying to finger you even after strong verbal nos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 02:43 AM |
| 3 | Would you support consent and signs of abuse being taught alongside sex ed?https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2017/12/11/cat-person Enjoy! Or not, whatevs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Would you support consent and signs of abuse being taught alongside sex ed?booooooo! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 01:38 AM |
| – | Would you support consent and signs of abuse being taught alongside sex ed?God, I have been drinking all day and barely remember posting this shite. Delete? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/18 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Would you support consent and signs of abuse being taught alongside sex ed?Yeah I'm not against learning strategies to deal with abuse, just pro-learning signs of abuse which was really lacking when I was a kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Would you support consent and signs of abuse being taught alongside sex ed?Come on, let's not be hyperbolic here. I think we all know not getting an iPhone isn't abuse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/18 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Franco fires back at misconduct allegationsSo the same amount of credibility as every RP field report. Fine by me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/18 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Why is Red Pill theory/advice "wrong" on the sub, but "right" when it comes from other sources such as Mark Manson, DoctorNerdLove, Blackdragonblog, etc?You realize you can just leave a conversation, right? Repeating yourself like this comes off like you're trying to "win" by getting the last word in instead of actually addressing your opponents' argument and explanations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/18 05:25 PM |
| 0 | Franco fires back at misconduct allegationsAccording to my friend who follows celebrity gossip Franco has been known for years to have a thing for underage girls. And Seth Rogen is apparently an enabler on that front. These were the last two I expected to hear about, really disappointing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/18 04:35 PM |
| – | Cmv: its just not even worth getting in a relationship if you are a male below an 8/10.No incels | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/18 06:05 PM |
| 1 | RP IN LOVEEssentially men are the dog that has gotten tired of feminists kicking it all the time and some of them are starting to snap back. Feminists are using this as an excuse to kick the dog some more instead of saying "hay maybe we should stop" Feminism was started because women weren't treated equally. Pointing that out and fighting for female freedom isn't "kicking men down". What you perceive as "kicking men down" is actually a group that was oppressed for thousands of years "snapping back" agains… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/18 05:58 PM |
| 1 | RP IN LOVEBe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | RP IN LOVEcough cough Single Mothers Are Delinquent Subhuman Scum Who Should Be Avoided At All Cost | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/18 02:47 PM |
| 7 | One of the biggest issues with The Red Pill is people accepting ideas and thoughts from unqualified people.How could anyone deny this ironclad evidence of RP superiority? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/18 05:31 AM |
| – | Hollywood laid it on thick tonight, to deeply flawed effectPost removed, this is too ranty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/18 04:33 AM |
| 5 | Can we downvote comments that don't add to the conversation from either viewpoint?I can assure you there are as many reports and complaints from RPers, if not more since RPers are the majority. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/18 02:32 AM |
| 2 | Can we downvote comments that don't add to the conversation from either viewpoint?Put this kind of comment under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/18 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Never married people are better off. New studiesthe pro-marriage people on PPD frequently cite studies showing that married people are happier than single people And those studies get cited in response to RPers claiming marriage is so horrible and has nothing to offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/18 06:50 AM |
| 1 | How do women develop sexual agency without “riding the carousel”?How is this a debate? What about my comment are you disputing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/18 05:05 AM |
| 1 | people need to realize bad sex exists, and a woman having bad sex isn't a man's fault.If we're talking about casual sex women don't reach orgasm as often as men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/18 05:04 AM |
| 1 | How do women develop sexual agency without “riding the carousel”?Can you calm down? I have no idea why you're trying to argue about this, my experiences are valid and yours are unsurprising given you're a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | How do women develop sexual agency without “riding the carousel”?Considering that you're a man its not surprising you havent experienced it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | How do women develop sexual agency without “riding the carousel”?Knock it off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/18 08:28 PM |
| – | [CMV] “Slut Shaming” is mostly a feminine construct that arises from competition.Note this post is Challenge My View, top-level comments should challenge the OP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/18 08:25 PM |
| 3 | How do women develop sexual agency without “riding the carousel”?So what? I have, often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/18 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How do women develop sexual agency without “riding the carousel”?You don't have to break anything to me, my point to you specifically was slut shaming is common from men too not that women don't slut shame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/18 02:17 PM |
| 3 | How do women develop sexual agency without “riding the carousel”?No thanks, bullying creeps should try not to harass people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/18 01:19 PM |
| 5 | How do women develop sexual agency without “riding the carousel”?Haha not at all, upper middle class and mostly white/Asian pop college town. The guys doing this were fratty white guys in expensive trucks. Yeah I realized it had nothing to do with what I did or was wearing, it was more like bullying than anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/18 12:44 PM |
| 9 | How do women develop sexual agency without “riding the carousel”?I wouldn't assume that's true, most of the slut shaming I've seen or experienced IRL was by guys. No chick has ever driven by me, rolled down her window and screamed "slut" but it was common from dudes in high school/college. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/18 12:37 PM |
| 1 | people need to realize bad sex exists, and a woman having bad sex isn't a man's fault.I'm trying to explain to you the disincentives women have regarding being sexual pursuers, you have a very limited view of the subject IMO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/18 11:23 PM |
| 1 | people need to realize bad sex exists, and a woman having bad sex isn't a man's fault.This has to do with women preferring men making more of the moves, like asking them out, being the dominant one more of the time in bed. Women aren't being forced to endure this, women just aren't up to asking men out...But the point is nothing is preventing women from playing the dominant role in approaching men for sex. You only see part of the picture: women are aware that we're "supposed" to be pursued, and that women who pursue can be seen as desperate or low value failures, and feedback fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/18 10:13 PM |
| 2 | people need to realize bad sex exists, and a woman having bad sex isn't a man's fault.Men having parties and serving alcohol isn't sexist. That's seems somwhat disingenuous given the author listed many more reasons that simply throwing parties or serving alcohol. Students I spoke to talked about “male sexual entitlement,” the expectation that male sexual needs take priority, with men presumed to take sex and women presumed to give it to them. They spoke of how men set the terms, host the parties, provide the alcohol, exert the influence. Male attention and approval remain the val… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/18 09:28 PM |
| 2 | people need to realize bad sex exists, and a woman having bad sex isn't a man's fault.I'm not sure you understood my point: the author isn't conflating bad sex with lack of consent. Edit: and yes, some of the negative aspects of sex come from sexism, that was already mentioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/18 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Direct vs. Indirect FlirtingBe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/18 04:44 PM |
| 4 | people need to realize bad sex exists, and a woman having bad sex isn't a man's fault.if she consented to it, it has to be good. That's not what that paragraph is saying: they're not conflating bad sex with lack of consent, they're upset that feminist sex positivity (aka "as long as it's consensual it's fine!") has supposedly prevented criticism towards bad, albeit consensual, sex. You can criticize sex for other negative aspects like being "joyless, exploitative, sexist" without making it about a lack of consent, and the author is criticizing what they perceive as the simplistic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/18 02:21 PM |
| 1 | This thread is EXACTLY why lots of men turn to Red-PillYou need to work on being less rude to people here or you will be banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/18 09:16 PM |
| 2 | This thread is EXACTLY why lots of men turn to Red-PillEveryone is capable of manipulation and being manipulated. Thinking that one sex or the other is better at it, or less moral, is just naive stereotyping. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/18 09:12 PM |
| 8 | This thread is EXACTLY why lots of men turn to Red-PillSo your comment is totally irrelevant to mine, you just feel like being antagonizing. Gotcha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/18 04:52 PM |
| 5 | This thread is EXACTLY why lots of men turn to Red-PillI gave numerous examples of what I consider to be misogynistic about TRP and none of your comment addresses that, go push your ridiculous strawmen at someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/18 04:21 PM |
| – | Q4Women -- How important are looks? Really.Please edit and re-save to summon the automod comment, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/18 03:56 PM |
| 5 | This thread is EXACTLY why lots of men turn to Red-PillYeah, "anger phase" I've heard that excuse before. What you don't seem to understand is that you're trying to excuse the same ideas and rationalizations that led to women being treated unequally in the past as simply new guys stumbling into the "anger phase", and yet the idea of women being irrational and less capable of love and loyalty is enshrined in your precious sidebar. Women being inferior is fundamental to how TRP operates otherwise none of that shit would be there, and ECs wouldn't keep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/18 07:22 AM |
| -1 | This thread is EXACTLY why lots of men turn to Red-PillNo, there's absolutely no excuse for the way RPers act or the things they say. I've been angry plenty of times and never joined a hate group calling men inferior and irrational and worthless. TRP is tainted goods. Edit: apparently this was a very triggering comment for some folks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/18 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Why is there no “Red Pill” equivalent for women?Because it was, and that's not the point I wanted to make anyway. You're making a false equivalence, but it doesn't matter. If you think a clump of cells is equal to fully formed person that's on you. If you think women should have to die from preventable complications or go through the trauma of forced birth, even after a rape, because those cells are more important than her bodily autonomy that's on you too. And by the way, they just give you pills. Surgical abortions are mainly for late term … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/18 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Why is there no “Red Pill” equivalent for women?So it wasn't, sorry you guys all sound the same. I think it's hilarious how quick RPers can start sounding like the religious right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/18 05:29 AM |
| 6 | This thread is EXACTLY why lots of men turn to Red-PillYour entire philosophy is built on the idea that women are inferior to men, and therefore men are justified to treat women like shit. I have seen posts on TRP calling women inferior, less rational and capable of love, naturally subservient to men, worthless except for our sexuality and get hundreds of votes and mod/EC approval. That is why RPers are repulsive, your whinging little theories about AFBB and "female nature" are just after thoughts, really. They're rationalizations and excuses to tre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/18 05:28 AM |
| 9 | This thread is EXACTLY why lots of men turn to Red-PillIt's not repulsive to want casual sex, it's the things you guys write about women that's repulsive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/18 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Why is there no “Red Pill” equivalent for women?I think my point stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/18 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Why is there no “Red Pill” equivalent for women?The right to get an abortion isn't "free shit I didn't earn", what the fuck kind of logic is that? How would one even go about "earning" the right? they seek to limit government involvement in people’s lives Kind of like how TRAP laws limit women's access to abortion? So why are conservatives pushing for more government involvement in the realm of abortion and not less? Sexism and control over women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Why is there no “Red Pill” equivalent for women?We already had the argument over abortion being a fundamental right, I'm not doing that again. Refer to the link I posted. conservatives seek to control sex and sexual conduct. And yet in conservative movements and societies women always end up being the subservient gender that has to "defer" to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/18 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Why is there no “Red Pill” equivalent for women?which isn't outside the scope of possibility And just a little while ago you were asking where all the supposed sexism was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/18 05:46 PM |
| 5 | Why is there no “Red Pill” equivalent for women?Conservatives seek to control women, sexism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/18 05:44 PM |
| 2 | Why is there no “Red Pill” equivalent for women?You mean they don't want you to murder? okay buddy Lmfao that is not a fundamental right in any way SCOTUS blog: Abortion is still a fundamental right edit: “Roe recognized the right of a woman to make certain fundamental decisions affecting her destiny and confirmed once more that the protection of liberty under the Due Process Clause has a substantive dimension of fundamental significance in defining the rights of the person.” In other words, abortion is a fundamental right." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/18 04:15 PM |
| 8 | Why is there no “Red Pill” equivalent for women?Only the upperclass had the option to not work (ever heard of "men of leisure"? rich dudes with no job). Women have always performed hard labor alongside men. Men have been protectors, sure. They died in wartime. Women died often during childbirth, whether there was war or not, so trotting out the old "men died to protect you" is ignoring half the story where women died to give life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/18 02:21 PM |
| 8 | Why is there no “Red Pill” equivalent for women?show me a law in western countries that is sexist TRAP laws target women's fundamental right to access abortion and are responsible for many abortion clinics being shut down across the country over conservative nonsense. http://www.huffingtonpost.ca/entry/abortion-clinics-admitting-privileges_us_56df3090e4b0ffe6f8eb2b0d | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/18 02:03 PM |
| 8 | Does anyone else find the term 'Spinning Plates' to be one of the more cringe-worthy terms used RP/BP forums/sub-reddits?Dread Game is worse, IMO. RPers have backed down hard from the original meaning and now average things like working out and brushing your teeth are supposed to be "dread". Like they realized how stupid and cringey negging and pouting for sex were and tried to retcon the whole idea into basic hygiene and pretend like nobody noticed. -.- | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/18 01:44 PM |
| 1 | What are some weird hobbies that you have?But can you resist the Vanilla server revival?? (only like 2 years away...sob) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/18 03:08 AM |
| 3 | What are some weird hobbies that you have?10 year WoW addiction :( Edit: being a PPD mod is prob pretty weird too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/18 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Contrapoints -- What's wrong with CapitalismLosing? Have you been under a rock the past year? The "left" is having another revival, like its 2008 but this time we mean business. :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/18 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Can we have an honest discussion about what age women start becoming attractive?Be civil, this is a warning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/17 02:40 PM |
| 1 | [Xpost from r/Science] Females are four times more sensitive than males to economic status cues when rating opposite sex attractiveness, indicating that higher economic status can offset lower physical attractiveness in men much more easily than in women.Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/17 02:42 PM |
| – | Why women dislike TRP and why the TRP dislikes women. (generally).Low effort, you can search this sub and find tons of examples of women explaining what they dislike about TRP. Your "feels" argument is also pretty weak and circlejerky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/17 01:14 PM |
| 11 | This could be photoshopped on to a thread in BP or RP and it would still fitSounds like you're just backtracking tbh He's a gay man. Accordingly, he's a member of an "oppressed protected minority class" according to your party line, and therefore, you have no right whatsoever to say anything bad about him at all. Your doing so is in itself bigotry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/17 06:35 PM |
| 16 | This could be photoshopped on to a thread in BP or RP and it would still fitIf you don't believe me or slim personally think that then your comment Milo was totally irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/17 06:25 PM |
| 21 | This could be photoshopped on to a thread in BP or RP and it would still fitIt is what you believe. You just got warned about invalidating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/17 06:07 PM |
| 31 | This could be photoshopped on to a thread in BP or RP and it would still fitIt's clearly what you hope we believe, that would make things much simpler for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/17 05:35 PM |
| 31 | This could be photoshopped on to a thread in BP or RP and it would still fitHe's a gay man. Accordingly, he's a member of an "oppressed protected minority class" according to your party line, and therefore, you have no right whatsoever to say anything bad about him at all. Your doing so is in itself bigotry. No wonder RPers have so much trouble debating on this forum when they believe nonsense like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/17 04:56 PM |
| – | Her past causes me the be sceptical even though we're perfect together?Your post has been removed, this is not the place to seek personal advice. PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill. You can try /r/ppdPersonalAdvice but topics here should be more broad and less personal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/17 06:42 PM |
| 1 | If not the Redpill or Pua blogs, where do i go for advice on how to get casual sex?Your post has been removed, this is not the place to seek personal advice. PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill. You can try /r/ppdPersonalAdvice but topics here should be more broad and less personal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/17 06:12 PM |
| 4 | Do you think there are "invisible women" the same way it can be argued "invisible men" exists? [AskTrp]Come on people it's Christmas/Hanukkah/etc., be civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Male collective self esteem and pill dogmaThis discussion started with you. sigh I warned you for being uncivil, which you were. You complained about another comment being "ignored", bringing someone else into the conversation. That is on you. You complain endlessly about said comment but refuse to report, so you can refer back to my previous statement: report the comment and I will review it. End of discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Male collective self esteem and pill dogmaI am not going to report every verbal attack on me like a mangina. Then don't ask why another comment is being "ignored" if you haven't bothered to report it. And you realize complaining over someone else's comment like this is essentially the same thing as reporting only much whinier, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Male collective self esteem and pill dogmaIt doesn't matter who started it, no one else's behavior negates your own and your comment was clearly uncivil and worthy of removal. If you want me to review another person's comment then report it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 03:00 PM |
| 2 | Male collective self esteem and pill dogmaI warned you for being uncivil, you brought some other person's comment into it. Have you read what that person wrote, or are you just going to ignore that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Male collective self esteem and pill dogmaYou are whining right now, may as well report instead of complaining that I didn't remove a comment I haven't even seen because it wasn't reported. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Male collective self esteem and pill dogmaReport, do not retaliate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Male collective self esteem and pill dogmaBe civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 08:02 AM |
| 1 | QFMEN: Do you think women's standards are too high?https://www.precisionnutrition.com/metabolic-damage Ctrl + F "outsmart" to get to the relevant section. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 04:30 AM |
| 1 | QFMEN: Do you think women's standards are too high?You're spreading misinformation, this is a debate sub, I'm debating you. Why are you getting upset over nothing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 03:26 AM |
| 1 | QFMEN: Do you think women's standards are too high?Haha, no sorry that is wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 02:53 AM |
| 1 | QFMEN: Do you think women's standards are too high?we were talking about maintaining low weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 02:42 AM |
| 1 | QFMEN: Do you think women's standards are too high?You are straying from the original topic so I'll say it again: Its not just eating less or exercising more - that can only do so much and the gains are usually temporary. What you eat and when is what matters and most people don't know that. But yes, I don't care about a woman's health at all. Not surprised. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 02:27 AM |
| 1 | QFMEN: Do you think women's standards are too high?No, we were talking about maintaining low weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 02:12 AM |
| 0 | QFMEN: Do you think women's standards are too high?You can be skinny and unhealthy, after all, but losing weight is very very simple. So as long as she's skinny who cares if she's healthy, right? CICO works for a little while, then your body needs even less calories and more exercise to maintain the same weight. Soon enough you're fat again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 02:01 AM |
| 2 | QFMEN: Do you think women's standards are too high?No circlejerking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 01:44 AM |
| -1 | QFMEN: Do you think women's standards are too high?Its not just eating less or exercising more - that can only do so much and the gains are usually temporary. What you eat and when is what matters and most people don't know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/17 01:28 AM |
| 7 | Forced Fatherhood, why child support should be made optional.I for one would be happy to trade our less than efficient child support system for higher taxes to help single parents, thus freeing men (and some women) of this burden, but then I'm a dirty socialist so what do I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/17 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Should people who don't even know what the concepts they attack mean be allowed to post here?“Circle Jerk” is a pejorative slang term referring to a positive feedback loop which occurs when an idea, belief or meme that is already customary within an online community becomes re-iterated and rewarded in a perpetual cycle, giving rise to redundancy, clichés and karma whoring. A circlejerk on reddit commonly takes the form of a sequence of low-effort replies using sarcasm to affirm a belief and "cash in" on karma for agreeing with the prevailing opinion. This includes posts which imply that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/17 11:36 PM |
| 1 | Why don't white women in Asian countries marry / date local men?Do not circlejerk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/17 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Should people who don't even know what the concepts they attack mean be allowed to post here?Circlejerking goes under automod | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/17 02:58 PM |
| 2 | Should people who don't even know what the concepts they attack mean be allowed to post here?patriarchy theory What about it? blank slate theory That's not a feminist theory, that's an MRA misinterpretation. Duluth Model...not just because he is a man and wants power Not what the DM says, they acknowledge not all DV is due to power or control, and not all DV is perpetrated by men towards women. The rest of your comment is more MRA misinterpretation and lack of compassion. Both women AND men are much more likely to be sexually assaulted than for men to be falsely accused. That you guys p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/17 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Would you consider it a deal breaker if your bf/gf/wife/husband etc. went to a prostitute prior to meeting you? [AskTPB]Q4BP, put it under automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/17 03:55 PM |
| – | Am I screwed in terms of finding success with womenThis isn't the place to ask for personal advice. PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to /r/TheBluePill and /r/TheRedPill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/17 10:57 PM |
| 2 | It is not always necessary for a society to abolish gender roles in order to be egalitarianWhat good does that do the people still affected by present laws? It's like you're arguing future change negates present and past conditions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/17 05:17 PM |
| 2 | It is not always necessary for a society to abolish gender roles in order to be egalitarianlaws are meant to be broken by the cunning and wise That's a pretty stupid platitude when plenty of people who break the law end up in prison. The law obviously has a great deal of power whether it catches every law-breaking individual or not. Can you explain how "purchasing power" (guess I'll get Ivory over Dove soap!) is more powerful than being the majority in charge of writing and enforcing laws that can strip individuals of their freedom and lives? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/17 04:03 PM |
| 2 | It is not always necessary for a society to abolish gender roles in order to be egalitarianSo power to you = cultural influence, and the power to write and enforce laws and to influence with money is less powerful than that? Are you sure that's your final answer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/17 02:37 PM |
| 2 | It is not always necessary for a society to abolish gender roles in order to be egalitarianIn particular, men out earn women and yet they are willing to hand over those earnings and give women 80% of the power in the marketplace. Is that really the case? None of those women are single and/or using their own earnings? There is a saying that behind every man there is a woman. It's a feminist thing to think that running a business, getting elected or being in command of an army unit is "power" rather than being the whisper in the ear of those men. Correct me if I'm wrong, but are you say… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/17 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Why are men more emotionally scarred by a woman physically cheating VS. emotional infidelity?Don't circlejerk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/17 05:43 PM |
| 3 | It is not always necessary for a society to abolish gender roles in order to be egalitarianand yet make 80% of all consumer purchases What's your point? Women doing more shopping doesn't make them more powerful than, for instance, dominating positions of power in business and politics would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/17 03:42 PM |
| 4 | Who are the women who lodge false rape charges?I think if they cared about being accurate they wouldn't spread misinformation in the first place. But thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/17 03:49 PM |
| 6 | Who are the women who lodge false rape charges?Nice post! I did one on this topic two years ago and found the same thing: false accusers tend to be mentally ill, young (teens needing alibis) and usually don't accuse a specific person or do so out of regret or revenge like RPers claim. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/3smt92/correcting_rpmra_rape_myths/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/17 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: How much of what TRP teaches do you believe is actually true?Your comment was automatically removed by reddit, probably your link was blocked. It is now approved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/17 03:25 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: How on earth did Roy Moore get 2/3rds of the white female vote on Tuesday?Possible reasons: not paying attention to the news and strictly voting for (R) candidates caring about the news but hating (D)s more don't care about the allegations or wacky shit Moore has said at all, would vote (R) no matter what racism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/17 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP: Why should we care this much about sexual assault?be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/17 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Why women fear a backlash over #MeTooAgain, saying 1 in 4 women are raped is a fallacious statement, as 1 in 4 women are not raped. The rape stat from the Koss study that we're discussing makes clear it includes attempted rape, as do others like the one referenced by President Obama in the clip. You're acting like you caught me in a lie when I've been trying to explain to you for over an hour that attempted rape was included in the stat. The amount of bias on your end is on overload here. Stop being rude, if you can't handle having… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/17 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Why women fear a backlash over #MeTooSo this is now the third time I've put this quote out for you, please address it. "Attempts at using these behaviors that were unsuccessful also count in the survey in a separate but included category which makes sense to me if the purpose is to express risk - a victim is a victim whether the crime was successful in its purpose or not." . You just tried to claim an attempted rape actually counts as a rape....... Acting like I'm making shit up isn't helping your case either, its been widely ackno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/17 07:05 AM |
| 2 | Why women fear a backlash over #MeTooThe green box is clearly attempted rape, the red box is rape. Yes, green = attempted rape and red = completed rape green box + red box = 1 in 4 rape statistic blue box (coercion) and orange box (unwanted sexual contact) are not included in 1 in 4 statistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/17 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Why women fear a backlash over #MeTooRape and attempted rape, that would be the box highlighted in green. "Attempts at using these behaviors that were unsuccessful also count in the survey in a separate but included category which makes sense to me if the purpose is to express risk - a victim is a victim whether the crime was successful in its purpose or not." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/17 06:40 AM |
| 2 | Why women fear a backlash over #MeTooThen the 1 in 4 statistic is disproven because the 25% bunch here is for coercion, not rape. No, that is wrong. Coercion is not included in the rape category at all. The sections that make up the rape category are the ones that meet the legal definition of rape: "insertion into an orifice by force, threats of harm, or through drug or alcohol incapacitation" edit " the rape category is at 6-8%" where are you getting that from? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/17 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Why women fear a backlash over #MeTooYour interpretation is incorrect. Coercion is a category that was measured but not included in the rape statistic. The narrator says exactly that at 4:10 "any answer of a or b gets counted as coercion, not rape" and 4:40 "So just to really come out and say it, insertion into an orifice by force, threats of harm, or through drug or alcohol incapacitation are what are counted as rape in the survey results. Attempts at using these behaviors that were unsuccessful also count in the survey in a separ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/17 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Why women fear a backlash over #MeTooNot a legal definition nor is there anything illegal about this. I'm honestly not trying to embarrass you but you're incorrect, those questions were asked but not included in the statistic about rape - the video goes over this in detail. The only answers included are those that meet the legal definition of rape. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/17 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Why women fear a backlash over #MeTooIn all the reports where specific terms are used, such as 'rape', or 'without my consent', the findings are much lower. That is a huge problem, people who rape or have been raped don't always realize what they did or what was done to them was rape but if you and I saw someone forcibly hold down another person and have sex with them against their will that would still be rape even if neither of the two believed it. You wouldn't say the person who was held down, or passed out, and forcibly violate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/17 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4Women, If you had to choose one: would you rather have your man be sexist or autistic?Stop trolling | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/17 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Why women fear a backlash over #MeTooI think its a pretty neutral and even-handed explanation of why 1 in 4 is legitimate, but what is your belief that its been disproved based off? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/17 03:46 AM |
| 0 | Why women fear a backlash over #MeTooInitially, you had the 1 in 5 sexual assault characteristic, and then that was disproved. 1 in 5 (or 1 in 4, depending) was not disproved. The "1 in 4" rape statistics: Fact-checking the numbers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/17 02:31 AM |
| 1 | What is the end goal of feminismFeminists did no such thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/17 02:21 AM |
| -1 | Why women fear a backlash over #MeTooDon't circlejerk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/17 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Why women fear a backlash over #MeTooBe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/17 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Creep shamingwill repost without the "offending" language Don't be snide, I'm not making up an offense just be civil. Telling someone their need to improve their reading comprehension, and that they hate men is insulting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Creep shamingBe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/17 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (03 December 2017)be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/17 01:02 AM |
| 1 | The problems in the dating market today show that women have been taking on more negative masculine traits while abandoning positive feminine onesOne of my parents friends took in a young foreign guy, he lived with her as her boyfriend for awhile but I don't think they actually got married. My parents described it as a "boy toy" situation. Why is the marriage part so important? The behavior is basically the same of an older, wealthier partner supporting a younger, good-looking partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/17 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Yeah I know how much you guys value things like empathy and compassion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/17 06:55 PM |
| 1 | [Question for RP] How many of you believe in evolutionary psychology? How many of you don't believe in it at all or prefer to take it with a grain of salt? why?Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/17 03:37 PM |
| 1 | If women are as described in TRP, why are they even worth pursuing?You seem to be desperately grasping at straws uh huh to avoid facing the fact that *modern feminism has nothing to do with equality or fairness". It has to do with benefiting women. It can be both. If you want to dispute that then tell me how a baby born today will have more privilege in the aggregate as they grow up because of being a boy. Specify what privileges that buy will have at what stages of his life and how they are so much more significant than the myriad privileges that a girl will g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/17 05:52 AM |
| 1 | If women are as described in TRP, why are they even worth pursuing?I see the problem now, you have a zero-sum mentality. If women gain then men must lose, but women must also take up the burdens and issues of both women and men or they're hypocrites. in the modern western society women are a privileged class hahahahaha Men have issues, I don't want to downplay that. But I wholeheartedly disagree with you there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/17 01:53 AM |
| 1 | If women are as described in TRP, why are they even worth pursuing?The goal of equality, of feminism, is ultimately fairness but perfect equality can be imperfect. People like you tend to take a very hardline approach to equality and often ignore that treating people exactly equally doesn't always produce fairness. For instance, it makes no sense to give men a say in abortion because they don't become pregnant, they face none of the physical pain or permanent bodily changes that women experience during pregnancy, none of it, so how would it be fair to give men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/17 01:12 AM |
| 1 | If women are as described in TRP, why are they even worth pursuing?It would be called Equalism if it were about equality. sigh https://www.reddit.com/r/AskFeminists/comments/66a5f6/why_isnt_feminism_called_humanism_if_it_is_for/ There are other ways to not make men parents without giving them a choice in abortion. You can simply give them a choice on whether they want to be a parent or not. So it isn't even about birth control being "unequal", this is just another financial abortion complaint. Very dishonestly presented, just say it's that don't pretend like it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/17 12:55 AM |
| 1 | If women are as described in TRP, why are they even worth pursuing?Assuming that would work is a little naive, even in the days before regularly available birth control and abortion people still had sex before/outside marriage. Your plan would just create a huge financial burden for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/17 12:10 AM |
| 1 | If women are as described in TRP, why are they even worth pursuing?It has nothing to do with equality. The birth control thing is an example of that. Abortion is another. How do you figure that? Feminists aren't holding back male birth control and men don't become pregnant so there's no way for abortion to ever be equal. They are for the benefit of women. Their impact on equality or men doesn't enter into the calculation to push for the measure. Yeah, feminism focuses on women's issues mainly and there's nothing wrong with that, women need advocates when all ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?It's very common rhetoric for feminists to say they are going to solve men's problems? That's not what the article says, it says literally what I have been telling you for the past day: feminism benefits both women and men. As a whole, feminists are supportive of and believe men's issues are important to discuss and take on - some feminists focus on men's issues as they're a part of gender issues too. But as a movement, I don't believe there is a focus on solving men's issues and I think your in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 08:00 PM |
| 1 | If women are as described in TRP, why are they even worth pursuing?The point is that it's not about equality, it's about benefiting women. And their male partners. Just because men aren't swallowing the pill themselves doesn't mean they don't benefit. Mainly it does benefit women, sure, but I'm not sure I understand your argument against it. Just because at this time men don't have an equally effective pill or hormonal contraception, it's unfair that women do? Do you want women's contraception to be taken away, even with the massive societal benefits, just beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Some examples please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Are you purposefully misreading here? Feminism does have benefits for men. That's not saying they're going to solve men's problems for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 07:05 PM |
| 1 | If women are as described in TRP, why are they even worth pursuing?Do you honestly expect people to stop having sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?It's not false advertisement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?So you have no solutions or actions to offer, you just want feminists to shut up. Sorry, not happening. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 06:47 PM |
| 1 | If women are as described in TRP, why are they even worth pursuing?Men benefit from women having birth control. Other forms of contraception like condoms were free from Planned Parenthood as well, I benefited from them giving away bagfuls to my boyfriend. Too bad people keep trying to defund it. But on another level there is some seriously shady business going on around male contraceptives because drug companies can't make as much money off them as a daily pill. Male contraceptive blocked by drug companies who make billions from the female pill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4W : For women who do believe intergender relations were better in more traditional times, what do you believe can be done to return to those value systems?Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?And I will ask you again, in a world where you can't force men to spend more time on childcare what do you expect from feminists? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Feminism does have benefits for men. That's not saying they're going to solve men's problems for them. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 03:44 PM |
| 3 | If women are as described in TRP, why are they even worth pursuing?It's a helluva lot less expensive than people being forced to have babies they don't want and can't afford. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 03:27 PM |
| 1 | If women are as described in TRP, why are they even worth pursuing?they do believe men are uncontrollable rapists That's RPers, not feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?When did anyone say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?So women should be solving men's problems, is what you're saying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Again, what do you expect feminists to do exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?I don't disagree with anything you said actually, guys/girls nights out are awesome and I fully support being fit, etc over being a fat slob. But it's pretty horrifying to see the kind of "active dread" posts like I linked in the OP being highly upvoted and celebrated on TRP, it clashes with what you're saying here. not you but RPers in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/17 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Okay, disagree. Advocating for change has led to things like feminism and the civil rights movement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?In a world where you can't force men to spend more time with kids, advocating for societal change is the solution. Sorry that's not enough for you I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Like I said, feminists can't force men to spend more time with their kids. What do you expect? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?I just told you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?They're advocating for a change in gendered parenting roles. You can't force men to spend more time with their kids, I'm not sure what you expect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Encourage fathers to nurture. One detrimental result of restrictive gender roles is that fathers are discouraged from nurturing their children. By telling fathers that nurturing is meant for mothers, we are encouraging their absence during pregnancy, birth, and beyond. Using an evolutionary defense to discourage fathers from bonding with and nurturing their children just creates unnecessarily absent fathers. A plethora of studies suggest that these assumptions are wrong as well. In fact, men may… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Do tons of parenting because less work, lose interest from wife because smv, or Both work, keep status, high babysitters and nannies, still lose to women by default. This is how RPers box themselves in, I'm truly sorry that's what you believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Pretty sure feminists already want and advocate for men becoming more equal in parenting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 10:25 PM |
| 2 | META: How is it "civil" to refer to gay people as "faggots" and women as "cunts"? Why are such slurs allowed on this forum that ostensibly has a big shiny rule about being being civil?[this is only my own opinion!] I don't think we're blank slates so to speak but I think equality is preferable and achievable and cultural values and practices influence us a great deal. If we're evolved to do anything, it's to adapt to and function within our own society and its values, whatever those may be. If equality is possible, why not strive for it? But it just keeps niggling at the back of my mind that even if we started with a blank slate society wise we'd end up uneven anyways It's to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Unfortunately, (and especailly with children) women have unilateral control. There are things a man can do to avoid that, women getting more custody than men has more to do with women spending more time on childcare than men in general. I would be happy to see parenting become more equal and men get custody as often as women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 09:43 PM |
| 1 | META: How is it "civil" to refer to gay people as "faggots" and women as "cunts"? Why are such slurs allowed on this forum that ostensibly has a big shiny rule about being being civil?I keep digging further into gender relations thinking that I can end up somewhere with some amounts of egalitarianism, but I keep coming back round to something something nature. Do you mean in the men's rights circles? Or gender relations in general? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?The “heighten value” part would be passive dread, as explained in the 12 levels of dread post. Oh yeah, it comes off like such a cop-out though after having seen so many examples of "active dread" on their forum, and how they will use it in very petty circumstances (example 4) and not as a "last resort". Like "passive dread" is an afterthought they invented to make the original dread game sound less awful. So yes I acknowledge its a thing, but I also think its kind of a cop-out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 09:15 PM |
| 1 | META: How is it "civil" to refer to gay people as "faggots" and women as "cunts"? Why are such slurs allowed on this forum that ostensibly has a big shiny rule about being being civil?It would be awesome if they could salvage something good out of it, and send the tradcon folks packing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?It's the idea that he could leave or cheat very easily because he has options, not that he actually has to directly imply that he will. I think we agree on that part, I just don't think you have to actively do any of the things TRP suggests in order to get that across other than be an attractive person. Everyone knows just from looking at an attractive person they have options, but RPers think they have to manipulate and hurt women, make them jealous and anxious in order to get the same results … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Dread game is just being and looking like a man who has options. That's clearly incorrect based on the posts by RPers I quoted in the EC. Or more accurately, that's what RPers try to pass dread game off as when they come to argue in PPD, but on their own sub and blogs dread game is very different. Edit: its like this RPers on TRP talking about dread: ignore that bitch, make her think she's about to get dumped, she's replaceable, you could be cheating on her, flirt/talk to other women in front of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?You said moments ago it was a vague term with no exact definition. I happen to agree which I why I used several different quotes straight from the horse's mouth instead of just saying "RPers use dread game to instill fear of loss in the relationship and elicit certain behavior", but they all effectively describe that exact dynamic. The definition you used was from from another source. The first quote comes from the married mans sex life blog, a red pill blog, which seems to be required reading f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Most of them recommend against marriage though That doesn't make "dread game" good advice though, saying the ECs aren't serious and not to marry doesn't excuse them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?"Dread game" is a vague term that has no exact definition. You seem to define it as "fearing for your relationship", I define it how the RPers define it, I quoted several examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 04:55 PM |
| 7 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Knowing your partner has options and isn't afraid to pursue those options if you get shitty is probably beneficial though. That doesn't require any of the behavior RPers proscribe though, people know you have options if you're attractive - no dread (as described in the examples above) necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 04:54 PM |
| 5 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?The idea of dread is to "heighten value" of the partner though. In their own words, RPers describe the point of dread is to make her fearful of getting dumped. The "high value" portion of it secondary to that, if anything. Seriously, just look: To purposely set out to create an appearance that you would or could cheat on and/or dump your partner, unless they comply with your demands. RPer1: You need to be sure she doesn't think you're cheating or going to divorce her. RPer2: That's exactly what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 04:52 PM |
| 7 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?This comes back to my suspicion that TRP dating tactics are simply targeted to work on people who are already somewhat dysfunctional or maladapted, or who might be covering up or openly displaying severe self-esteem issues. The thought has crossed my mind once or twice... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 04:47 PM |
| 4 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Dread game, or fear of relationship loss, apparently doesn't work to increase attraction though, feeling like your relationship is in trouble leads to a decrease in commitment and affection. So even if "beta game" helps, fearing for your relationship is still not doing what RPers claim it does, actually it does the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 03:28 PM |
| 3 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?You would have to assume all the women see in the experiment see their partner as low value for this to not be true. But really the low value/high value man thing doesn't make much sense to apply here, it's focusing on fear of losing the relationship. If women didn't care about the men and relationship then the idea of losing them would have no impact whatsoever. But the idea of losing the relationship, whether we know the woman's personal idea of high/low value, seems to kill feelings of commit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 03:21 PM |
| 4 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?Your conditions would be impossible and unethical to test, having men purposefully "dread" their gfs and wives for an experiment would never happen. The study lays out a situation where they manipulate the variable "risk of relationship ending" aka "dread" as described by RPers above in their own words, and it leads to a decrease in commitment and positive feelings in the relationship instead of increase in affection that TRP predicts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 03:15 PM |
| 8 | Article: A fear of getting dumped kills romance and commitment - implications for TRP's "Dread Game"?They're still distributing the advice to other men and telling them it will work, that TRP is "the truth". RP ECs are supporting the advice in the comments. The only excuse RPers have had for years is "TRP works, unlike delusional blue pill advice" but even that doesn't appear to be true. So it would seem TRP has no credibility and no value other than appealing to cheaters and woman-haters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 03:09 PM |
| – | How do you talk sense to a woman?Post removed, this isn't the place to seek personal advice or vent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/17 01:36 PM |
| 5 | Conflating unwanted advances with harassmentAre people seriously arguing the first unwanted advance (if we're excluding situations with awkward power dynamics, boss/employee) is harassment? Or are you proposing that cases of actual, sustained harassment being brought to light and the perpetrators publicly shamed makes non-harassing men fearful to approach at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/17 07:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Friendship is not the ideal basis for romantic relationshipsYeah hiding sexual intentions or being too pushy, neither is ideal. To clarify, what I mean is if you're on a date that already involves sexual intentions (meaning you both know you're interested in each other enough to go out) and some people will push that into sexual expectations, like they expect sex just because they're on a date. I think some women will sense or assume the guy is mainly interested in getting sex and want to take that pressure on them out of the equation. Of course, "no sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/17 04:39 PM |
| 4 | META: How is it "civil" to refer to gay people as "faggots" and women as "cunts"? Why are such slurs allowed on this forum that ostensibly has a big shiny rule about being being civil?Even when I point out the leader of TRP subreddit, or a number of ECs or prominent MRAs like Karen Straughan and Paul Elam hold a certain view, MRAs and RPers still cry No True Scottsman, that's not all of us wah wah wah. Even if I pull up a post with hundreds of upvotes and comments in agreement it's still somehow cherry picking. Tell me how that is an honest discussion. Either way, the feminists MRAs take issue with really are often outside the main feminist movement, like TERFS or Valerie Sol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/17 12:50 PM |
| 4 | CMV: proponents of "rape culture" not grok that the problem isn't emotional stuff like unfairness, but simple lack of logic.You're overthinking it, but basically it does involve not being aware of how consent works. Check out u/sublimemongrel 's excellent explanation below. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/17 12:24 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Friendship is not the ideal basis for romantic relationshipsBasically, I think a healthier approach is trying to teach men how to convey their interest in better, safer, non-pressured ways, rather than just tell them "try to grow your relationships out of friendships" instead. I've honestly never heard anyone give or receive the advice "grow your relationships out of friendships", but I agree teaching people to be sexual without pressuring or intimidating would be better. The reason I say sexual pressure is more to do with what I've heard RPers preaching… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/17 05:19 PM |
| 10 | CMV: proponents of "rape culture" not grok that the problem isn't emotional stuff like unfairness, but simple lack of logic.You can rape and be raped without realizing it if your only concept of rape is stranger by gun in a back alley. Or that only men rape and women are raped. Or that rape can never occur between "normal" people in "normal" relationships or marriage. And you believe rape myths like it's not rape if she wears a revealing outfit, or you pay for her dinner, or she flirted earlier. Rapists don't always know they're raping, victims don't always know they're victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/17 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do proponents of "rape culture" not grok that the problem isn't emotional stuff like unfairness, but simple lack of logic.lol Well first of all, your post title would need to be neutral for discussion. Second of all, your post content is mainly you arguing your opinion which is also more suitable for CMV than discussion. You can ask for another opinion in modmail if you want but I won't be "recusing myself", sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/17 04:01 PM |
| – | Why do proponents of "rape culture" not grok that the problem isn't emotional stuff like unfairness, but simple lack of logic.Do you intend for this post to be CMV? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/17 03:24 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Friendship is not the ideal basis for romantic relationshipsI'll attempt to CYV on this part below: Because of this, I believe that one thing the red pill is right about is that it is almost always to your advantage as a man to make your sexual interest known early. Not just because it can save you from wasting time, but because, generally speaking, if there's no spark there within your first few times of interacting with a woman, the odds that you can change it in your favor are slim to none. I think this is incorrect. There was an AskWomen post not too… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/17 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do women get mad when men want to be with virgin women?This is too much of a rant, PPD is not the place to vent your anger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/17 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Post in r/sex reveals some red pill truths. Or does it?No circlejerking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/17 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Q4 BP What are your thoughts on No More Mister Nice Guy, Married Man Sex Life Primer, and Mutual Attraction Plan?The MRP subreddit is, if possible, even worse than the main RP sub. Many of their posts seem to be geared towards how to spy on your wife, go through her personal messages and emails snooping for clues of adultery OR how to actually cheat on your wife and "build abundance mentality" by having affairs on the side. Their claim over the years has gone from "MRP is the only way to fix your marriage and get the sex you deserve" to "go RP, if your wife doesn't get in your frame divorce her and fuck yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/12/17 02:21 PM |
| – | Q4ALL: How can I improve my (1) charisma and (2) social skills?Post removed, this is not the place to ask personal advice...and it's pretty off-topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/17 01:17 PM |
| 2 | We need to structure society around an assumption that men cannot be expected to exhibit impeccable sexual repression at the workplace in all situations at all times.Automod is on break, non-CMV replies go here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/17 01:14 PM |
| 6 | Q4ALL What Double Standards Could You Do Without?There's not much point here, informal criticism is more interested in asserting his opinion over and over than understanding where I'm coming from (even though he's the OP who asked the question in the first place). I'm not interested in getting talked at, and I've been around long enough to know the difference between someone who wants to debate in good faith and someone making assumptions about my beliefs and acting like I'm an idiot for not immediately buying into his "men and women are diffe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/17 12:45 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL What Double Standards Could You Do Without?Don't make me start on you fiat. I will shake my fist at you so hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/17 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL What Double Standards Could You Do Without?I think it might just be biologically sound decision making. Its ok, you don't need to justify it to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/17 09:05 PM |
| 6 | Q4ALL What Double Standards Could You Do Without?lol yes that would certainly be a difficult one for men to give up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/17 09:00 PM |
| 10 | Q4ALL What Double Standards Could You Do Without?You know, since we're not equal? That's your belief, not mine. Anyway I can't think of a good reason to hold a woman to one standard but not a man or vice versa. What double standards do you think should remain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/17 08:51 PM |
| 5 | Q4ALL What Double Standards Could You Do Without?All of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/17 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Q4WOMEN: What do you want in a male partner?Yeah, basically don't put words in people's mouths like you know their life/thoughts/experiences better than they do. Arguing over ideas or what constitutes an equal relationship is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/17 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Q4RPM- Do you consider yourselves experts on women’s lives? If so, why?Don't circlejerk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/17 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Q4RPM- Do you consider yourselves experts on women’s lives? If so, why?I don't stalk, downvote and reply directly from their username pages That's why this isn't an official warning, just don't overuse it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/17 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4RPM- Do you consider yourselves experts on women’s lives? If so, why?A few of your comments pinging BPers have been reported, this isn't an official warning but please don't abuse the feature or use it to badger/harass other users. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/17 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4WOMEN: What do you want in a male partner?Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/17 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Q4WOMEN: What do you want in a male partner?Invalidating. Do not tell another user directly that the opinion expressed by them is incorrect. If a guy says, “I like a woman who can cook and clean” do not respond by saying, “No, you want a live-in servant.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/17 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Feminism and The Red Pill have far more in common with each other than either party cares to admitNah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/17 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Feminism and The Red Pill have far more in common with each other than either party cares to admitThose articles don't support your claims. At all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/17 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Feminism and The Red Pill have far more in common with each other than either party cares to admit...and you can say it's true all you want but that doesn't make it so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/17 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Feminism and The Red Pill have far more in common with each other than either party cares to admitOk, that has nothing to do with the discussion at hand so goodbye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/17 12:29 AM |
| 3 | Feminism and The Red Pill have far more in common with each other than either party cares to admitI would prefer there be no draft and no war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/17 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Feminism and The Red Pill have far more in common with each other than either party cares to admitThey can be right on one issue, and still wrong on others Dude that is all you needed to say, I'm not interested in carrying on a comment war about 50 other things you hate about feminism. either you want just men to die on the front lines of war, or you want men and women to die on the front lines of war That is incorrect, when it comes to feminism at least. First and foremost most feminists would prefer there to be no draft, but if there must be a draft then women should be included. https://w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/17 11:36 PM |
| 5 | Feminism and The Red Pill have far more in common with each other than either party cares to admitI mean, they had laws changed and every time that draft issue comes up they go to the government and ask "can we stop this draft thing? We ladies don't really want to risk having to fight". Who said that? Point out multiple examples of feminists saying this. You seem to know a lot of twitter buzzwords that MRAs like to push around but that's about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/17 11:22 PM |
| 8 | Feminism and The Red Pill have far more in common with each other than either party cares to admitsigh no they do not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/17 11:20 PM |
| 5 | Feminism and The Red Pill have far more in common with each other than either party cares to admitWhat backlash the fact that women are still exempt from the draft this many decades after the 'liberationz' of women is pretty damn telling It is but it's more telling that people blame feminists for it and not the people actually holding it back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/17 11:19 PM |
| 4 | Feminism and The Red Pill have far more in common with each other than either party cares to admitThat's a rather weak argument, you could have just googled what feminists think today. ISSUE ADVISORY – Women and the Draft; Moving Two Steps Closer to Equality COALITION LETTER TO PRESERVE NDAA SELECTIVE SERVICE REGISTRATION REQUIREMENT FOR WOMEN The Unseemly Death of an Amendment to Draft Women What does this subreddit think about the Pentagon's recent recommendation to require women to sign up for the draft? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/17 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Feminism and The Red Pill have far more in common with each other than either party cares to admitThat is answered in the very section I quoted above. Feminists have fought for registration the draft to be repealed or include women yet people still say feminists are "taking benefits without responsibility". What more exactly could feminists have done other than oppose the draft wholesale or at least attempt to include women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/17 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4BPW : When a woman infers another woman is either high or low quality, what does that mean?Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/17 06:47 PM |
| 7 | Feminism and The Red Pill have far more in common with each other than either party cares to admitThat's not what happened either dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/17 04:10 PM |
| 9 | Feminism and The Red Pill have far more in common with each other than either party cares to admitHe's incorrect, feminists have pushed to abolish the draft or require women to register for decades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/17 03:53 PM |
| 11 | Feminism and The Red Pill have far more in common with each other than either party cares to admitLet's just ignore the many attempts by feminists to either abolish the draft or require women to register for service. edit: WOMEN JOIN BATTLE ON ALL-MALE DRAFT Many of the groups, including the National Organization for Women, which calls itself the largest feminist organization in the world, were opposed to any draft. The notion that the proposed equal rights amendment might require that women fight alongside men has long been raised by opponents of the amendment, a fact that injected politica… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Telling a woman that she's beautiful is "objectifying" her.OP can you please flesh out your view for people some more? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/17 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Do these studies shine a light on where the anger of manosphere is coming from?I've been playing WoW off and on since 2007, it's never happened to me either. The no girls online thing is such annoying bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 10:32 PM |
| 1 | How many women feel the majority of their interactions with men are overall positive to neutral?Most men are fine, 95% of my interactions with men are fine. When I'm being sexually harassed 99% of the time it's by a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/17 01:18 PM |
| – | Settling vs End GameThis post would be better suited for TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/17 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Tentative prediction: mass male suicides over the next few decades becoming a normBe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/17 06:01 PM |
| – | CMV: Love isn't that importantNo ranting, post removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/17 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Is Calling Out Toxic Femininity Misogynistic?people talking about someone who wears hijab must be oppressed As a PoV that one is pretty ethnocentric and patronizing. I wouldn't call you misogynistic for pointing that out. Not sure what Becky is supposed to mean, basic white girl? What's really sick is that rather than talking about fashion models or celebrities, as a role model for self improvement like on Bodybuilding forums, this is condemned for "political reasons". Is this a shit test? Can you elaborate on this part? I don't understand… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/17 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (19 November 2017)Rainy season is starting up here and all the spiders are moving indoors. Not nice daddy long legs but these fat, white looking things with thick legs. They're in my laundry basket, on the stove, in my cats water dish, in my boots and as of last night in our beds. Pretty sure one of them bit me too, bastards. E: baby hobo spiders maybe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/17 03:17 PM |
| 10 | The charge of leadAn archetypal woman would stay safely in the cavern by the fire while the man gets out to fetch food and wood. In most HG societies men hunt and fish, women gather plant foods and small game. In some cases plant food counted for most of the diet, not meat. Women would often fetch water and fire wood as well. Even in societies that relied mainly on hunting by men for food women still made clothes, built shelters, preserved the meat, etc. Please stop spreading evo psych nonsense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/17 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W What is a "high quality" woman, and what is a "low quality" woman?Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/17 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: When TRP says "blue pill" do they mean liberal?No circlejerking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/17 05:53 PM |
| 1 | [Serious Question] Is the Blue Pill just denial and delusions?Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/17 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: When TRP says "blue pill" do they mean liberal?No circlejerking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/17 05:45 PM |
| – | [Q4Women] Why do y'all have to make it so obvious when you're looking to branch-swing?This is too much of a leading question and rant, post removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/17 07:38 PM |
| 6 | Weekly Saturday Gender Wars Megathread (18 November 2017)if all their hard work can get destroyed with one accusation Most of the people we're hearing about have multiple accusers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/17 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Why do all the men on PPD seem to have such a negative attitude toward women?Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/17 02:55 AM |
| – | Would I be considered an omega?Post removed, this is more appropriate for /r/theredpill and is borderline incel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/17 02:48 AM |
| 2 | How much of RP is based on observations and how much is based on speculation about how women think and feel?Thank you, some RPers act like men are so reluctant to enter relationships when in reality men ask for commitment all the time. I think this idea is more about psychological comfort for RPers, it makes them feel like they have something to hold over women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/17 01:42 PM |
| 1 | You're dating a guy and find out he's an avid Red Piller... what is your reaction?be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/17 07:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Patriarchy theories are simply projection by women.No one said it was you, don't insult people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 04:21 PM |
| 3 | (CMV) It is easier for men to be faithful than women, both in marriage and LTR.If a guy has low test and isn't wealthy or attractive - being faithful is 100x's easier then a rich man, who is very attractive with high test. That's not really a matter of faithfulness but of opportunity. If you would cheat given the opportunity, even if you have none, you're not faithful but simply waiting for the chance to cheat. If you wouldn't cheat given every opportunity, that's real faithfulness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 04:21 PM |
| 6 | (CMV) It is easier for men to be faithful than women, both in marriage and LTR.lol no, but if that's how you want to read it fine. Personally I think a cheater makes the decision to cheat, not their life circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 03:30 PM |
| 3 | (CMV) It is easier for men to be faithful than women, both in marriage and LTR.From what I've read about cheating it seems to have a lot more to do with power than sexual offers, and as women gain power in society (not being housewives with no income of their own) that makes them as likely to cheat as men. I'll look for the study, brb. Data from a large survey of 1,561 professionals were used to examine the relationship between power and infidelity and the process underlying this relationship. Results showed that elevated power is positively associated with infidelity beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 02:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Patriarchy theories are simply projection by women.Edit: "I can't dispute what you say but I don't like it so I'm downvoting you" Formal power is what matters though. So the relatively few young and attractive men and women have sexual power for a brief time, that's nothing compared to real power. Even the people being influenced by sexual power are doing so voluntarily, they can abandon the other person anytime they want and retain all their real, formal power. What's more women's sexual "power" was heavily restricted for most of our history, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/17 02:17 PM |
| – | All my relationships have ended in a shitty way. What am I doing wrong?Post removed, this isn't the place to seek personal advice. Try /r/ppdPersonalAdvice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/11/17 02:28 AM |
| 1 | The More Evolved a Socioeconomic the More Dominant Betas AreBe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/17 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Women being less happy despite women's rights doesn't mean muchWe should enable people to recognize abusive and controlling behavior before blaming them for not leaving. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/17 07:49 PM |
| 5 | Has the unfolding of the recent sexual assault allegations against Harvey Weinstein and others affected how you think of gender dynamics? If so, how?Trump and the republicans who fell in line behind him are a bunch of traitors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/17 12:43 PM |
| 3 | In theory, equal opportunities for women is a good idea, but in practice, it isn'tHaving a college degree doesn't necessarily translate into a well-paying, high-status career. One theory is that men pursue college degrees less because there are more male-dominated fields that pay well like tradework and don't require one, while female-dominated fields like teaching do require a degree but pay much less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/17 12:30 PM |
| 9 | Women being less happy despite women's rights doesn't mean muchI don't think it's as simple as you're making it out to be, most murderers don't walk around with a sign plastered to their face "hey I"m gonna murder you". Many domestic abusers are able to hide their bad qualities until late in the relationship, and when women wise up and try to leave that is the most dangerous time for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/17 12:16 PM |
| 7 | Q4BP: If you don't believe men who say they were lied to and learned wrong things about attraction growing up, why do you keep asking them?I don't disagree with your (or Lewis') point on information being harder to come by back then, I'm sure it was. What made me comment was the biased double standard of his complaint itself. It would make debating him a lot easier if he took assumptions against women/feminists as seriously as he takes assumptions against men and himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/17 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP: If you don't believe men who say they were lied to and learned wrong things about attraction growing up, why do you keep asking them?Asking why guys join TRP is a different topic than debating if their experiences are common or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/17 03:21 PM |
| 9 | Q4BP: If you don't believe men who say they were lied to and learned wrong things about attraction growing up, why do you keep asking them?You don't get to tell people where to debate and you don't get to choose who replies to your post. If you don't want to talk to me you're free to stop responding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/17 03:19 PM |
| 19 | Q4BP: If you don't believe men who say they were lied to and learned wrong things about attraction growing up, why do you keep asking them?I can comment wherever I like, you have no right to tell anyone on this sub where to post. Maybe you would like to cry "harassment" at me again since you don't seem to be interested in in engaging with the points I'm bringing up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/17 03:16 PM |
| 14 | Q4BP: If you don't believe men who say they were lied to and learned wrong things about attraction growing up, why do you keep asking them?That's beside the point. No, that's exactly the point. You don't like people making assumptions about your experiences, but you don't complain when RPers do it to women. It shows bias. To your edit: presume to explain OUR lives to US as if YOU know better than WE do about the lives WE lived and YOU didn't? You could ask RPers the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/17 03:07 PM |
| 28 | Q4BP: If you don't believe men who say they were lied to and learned wrong things about attraction growing up, why do you keep asking them?And to add insult to injury, we have blues like u/skookumtree presume to tell Guitars and me all about our lives and our internal experiences when he doesn't know, he is just making massive assumptions and presumptions without any personal knowledge This is exactly what RPers do to women and you're complaining? "Women don't know what they want, but we do" "I observe women therefore I know exactly what women think and feel about any given situation" So either RPers and others are wrong to make th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/17 03:00 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: What's the difference between society raising men to be betas and society raising women to be sluts with careers?If there are no social restrictions on women riding the CC, they will demand high value Alphas and only be fully satisfied with this. Even if this were true (I don't think it is) that's not good enough reason to restrict and punish women for wanting hot sex just like men want. If some men don't get laid in this scenario, well, it's better than the alternative of going back to making women dependent on men and all the horrors that accompanied it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/17 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: What exactly is feminist dating advice and why would men think that giving men dating advice is the purpose of feminism?I've read a handful of articles on feminist dating advice which summed up to be: pay for your own food or take turns paying, don't expect the man to always pay practice ongoing, enthusiastic consent/don't pressure people into sex don't hold sexist expectations about someone in a relationship based on their gender (not all women want to cook and clean, not all men want to have high powered careers) other stuff I forgot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/17 03:12 PM |
| 0 | Cmv: Women can tell when a guy is too smart to be taken advantage of and leave those guys alone.Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/17 10:47 PM |
| 1 | A Red Pill mindset doesnt care about studies or the objective truth, only self improvement and personal gainI approved this post as CMV as that's the only way it will work, but if you're unwilling to have your view changed this is just a rant and will have to be removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/17 08:49 PM |
| – | Toxic female game examplesPost removed (5) No rants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/17 06:45 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Consent awareness campaigns are important because most rapists don't think that they are rapists.help women to recognise rape better and report it when it happens...leading to arrests of these repeating offenders. And overall create a safer environment Even if we can't get all the rapists to stop raping, getting people to recognize that abusive and predatory behavior isn't normal and to not excuse it, deny it or blame themselves for it would still be a huge win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | "Rape by Deception"Do not circlejerk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/17 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Men have to create lust or die alone! Society will do nothing to fix men's problem in the SMP.The theory behind traditional marriage is that if you have everything, and your wife has nothing, then you're hypergaming the fuck out of her. She is more attracted to has no choice but to settle for you that way, and everyone unattractive men benefit. FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/17 03:17 AM |
| 6 | (Q4ALL) Give me your objective HB valueThat's not meant towards you, there are some comments being reported for bragging. Whoever's doing that, get a life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: What is the explanation for these two detectives? Does this illustrate the reality of the predatory nature of the male sex drive for all men and just how helpless they are in the face of it? Or are they?Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 06:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women aren't funny. This is because they don't need to be funny in order to be attractive.Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 06:32 PM |
| – | (Q4ALL) Give me your objective HB valueFYI we don't remove comments for "bragging" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/17 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Inability to pair-bondyeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/17 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Inability to pair-bondbe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/17 04:02 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "The Wall" hits women at 50.A sexually attractive 40 year old who doesn't look her age is still going to be sexually attractive. She won't be as much a long-term option for guys in the young 20s interested in eventually starting families. Relativity is another factor that could use more discussion, how many 40yo women are looking to settle down and start a family with a young 20s guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/17 09:54 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "The Wall" hits women at 50.Not disputing it being a revenge fantasy but the idea that women's sexual attractiveness peaks at 23 was popularized by Rollo Tomassi and RPers, not incels. Credit where credit is due. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/17 07:29 PM |
| 4 | Is women's growing sexual freedom positive or negative for humanity?And where, pray tell, are the statistics on premarital sex and how it affects men? Here you go! Data from Côte d'Ivoire, Tanzania, Lusaka and Thailand were used to explore the relationship between premarital and extramarital sexual activity in men. Characteristics of premarital conduct such as age at sexual debut, length of acquaintance with debut partner and number of premarital partners were significantly associated with EMI [extramarital intercourse] in men later in life. This continuity in s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/17 07:57 PM |
| 2 | How does "the Patriarchy" hurt men and how are feminists trying to help men by eliminating it?How does that provide evidence (in the context of this argument) that "Masculinity" or "Toxic masculinity" in men is socially conditioned ? The papers linked (especially the first one, I would start with that one) explain the foundation of concepts socialization that TM and RC are based on. The idea that we learn certain ideas and behaviors from our cultures and environments rather than being innate and unavoidable. The point of linking these is to explain why your statement here is inaccurate: … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/17 07:23 PM |
| 2 | How does "the Patriarchy" hurt men and how are feminists trying to help men by eliminating it?I’ve just never seen them make any kind of case that is so, other than to simply assume it and kinda say “but it’s obvious”. There is so much literature out there I find that hard to believe. This isn't a comprehensive list but some of my favorites. The Nature–Nurture Debates: 25 Years of Challenges in Understanding the Psychology of Gender The Origins of Sex Differences in Human Behavior Biosocial Construction of Sex Differences and Similarities in Behavior I’m not sure how making guys display … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/17 04:08 PM |
| 3 | How does "the Patriarchy" hurt men and how are feminists trying to help men by eliminating it?then trying to shame men into declaring some of their instinctive traits bad/toxic. Feminists would probably disagree that those toxic elements are instinctive to men, and learned from a culture that used to be very warlike. It reeks to me of women trying to culturally program men into being “women with a penis” ... and then expecting men to be grateful for this great boon they are forcing on us culturally .... then reacting in confused anger when men explain they don’t want to be culturally pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/17 03:18 PM |
| 2 | How does "the Patriarchy" hurt men and how are feminists trying to help men by eliminating it?I added the personal pronoun to emphasize that regardless of whatever your bitch is, individual humans are the actors. Then why only emphasize "she" and not "he"? Why make it about women specifically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/17 03:08 PM |
| 2 | How does "the Patriarchy" hurt men and how are feminists trying to help men by eliminating it?Men are defined by violence and their ability to deal it out and defend themselves from it. Its not a trait of toxic masculinity, its a trait of being a human male and a positive one at that. That's one opinion, and a perfect example of the kind of attitude toxic masculinity describes. To address the rest of your comment, don't take this as a blanket statement that all violence is bad. Self-defense and defense of others are good reasons so long as the response is measured, not cruel or unnecessa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/17 03:07 PM |
| 2 | How does "the Patriarchy" hurt men and how are feminists trying to help men by eliminating it?Not "that's perpetuating" - "she's perpetuating". I said "that's" for both examples, but interesting you think we only need to distinguish "she" and not "he". If an ugly chick made herself available to you but you weren't into her and turned her down, and your buddies called you a limp dicked fag for it, that's perpetuating toxic masculinity. If you feel sick, tired, sad or busy and don't want to have sex with your gf right this second and she calls you weak and gay that's perpetuating toxic mas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/17 02:36 PM |
| 1 | How does "the Patriarchy" hurt men and how are feminists trying to help men by eliminating it?You say that like its a bad thing. Its not. Based on the number of mass shootings in my country, and most being perpetrated by men, I would disagree. To answer your question, I do know having had mixed sex friend groups since middle school. I've heard my male friends try to brush off sexual assault (towards them) as "I'm a man and men always want sex lol!" I've heard them give each other shit for not taking literally any sexual opportunity presented to them, no matter how unappealing. Dont prete… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/17 02:19 PM |
| 1 | How does "the Patriarchy" hurt men and how are feminists trying to help men by eliminating it?If that's true whatever argument or disagreement you had was weak to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/17 02:04 PM |
| 0 | How does "the Patriarchy" hurt men and how are feminists trying to help men by eliminating it?Owning guns I absolutely agree, being violent and aggressive has been tied to masculinity for a long time. That's why gentle, pacifist guys are "faggot bitch pussies" and Real Men wanna punch Bin Laden in the face, etc. Having a gun is an extension of that and less about protection or hunting for some guys. That's when it's toxic, you need a gun to show the world you're tough and manly and no pussy bitch. Men wanting to have sex is toxic masculinity No, you misunderstood. it's right in the quote… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/17 01:59 PM |
| 3 | How does "the Patriarchy" hurt men and how are feminists trying to help men by eliminating it?Why did you even bother to respond if that was all you could come up with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/17 01:48 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Straight men should not be feminists if they respect themselves.Endorsed contributors are not banished by TRP just as endorsed feminists aren't banished by feminism. You misunderstood, I'm not saying TRP banishes the bad elements I'm saying they elevate and applaud the bad elements of their group and this is one of my main criticisms. Are we still discussing bad apple or just your opinion against TRP ideology? Not my opinion, those are actual statements that got upvoted and gilded on TRP, it's in the sidebar required reading. Most of what you mentioned are k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/17 01:44 PM |
| 2 | How does "the Patriarchy" hurt men and how are feminists trying to help men by eliminating it?It’d be as if we create a concept called “toxic Femininity”.... Then us men decided to define natural female behaviour as toxic.... Come on greasy, that is an extremely inaccurate and uncharitable interpretation of the concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/17 01:13 PM |
| 3 | How does "the Patriarchy" hurt men and how are feminists trying to help men by eliminating it?And the days of men getting a personal nanny/servant/incubator/fuck slave with few options other than marriage mattered more than women gaining independence? If modern men are lonelier so be it, it wasn't worth what was done to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/17 01:10 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Straight men should not be feminists if they respect themselves.The bad part of communities is always more noisy, I agree. same applies to trp. Here's the main difference I see between feminism and TRP: both groups have loud, bad apples but the bad apples in feminism lose legitimacy and are mocked and banished while on TRP the bad apples become Endorsed Contributors and mods. For instance, on TRP and MRP you will often see posts and comments talking about how women only have value for sex, women are inherently less loyal, less intelligent and rational, incap… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/17 12:50 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Straight men should not be feminists if they respect themselves.bullshit has more visibility than real work. I don't say this to excuse feminism or feminists for any wrong-doing, but where in the world is that not the case? Why is my facebook feed always filled with puppies cuddling baby ducks and stuff like the cinnamon challenge instead of people making serious posts about the reach of American imperialism, the modern-day repercussions of colonialism, slavery, or capitalism? You can criticize nearly any group on the planet for that kind of sensationalism, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/17 04:12 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Straight men should not be feminists if they respect themselves.And then, more popular and more mediatised articles about laws developed against manspreading??? Come on though, that's not exactly an issue at the forefront of feminism; it had it's 5 min of fame years ago on twitter and the only time I see feminists talking about that is when anti-feminists bring it up (hint: a lot). "all men are rapists" "all men should be punished" "there should be laws for men to be forbidden to talk to women" and other shit that is all about misandry and discrimination. I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/17 03:36 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Straight men should not be feminists if they respect themselves.Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/17 02:19 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Straight men should not be feminists if they respect themselves.You must be available to engage other posters within three hours after posting. Three hours is enough time for several users to begin challenging your view, and without the OP, there is no real discussion. If you do not actively engage users in three hours, your post will be removed. One comment to one person isn't enough active participation for a CMV post. Especially since the point of CMV is to have your view challenged, to engage with the people commenting. If OP was going to sleep shortly a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/17 02:17 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Straight men should not be feminists if they respect themselves.You only get to see the misandry disguised as normality. Such as? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/17 01:39 PM |
| – | [CMV] Straight men should not be feminists if they respect themselves.Post removed, CMV OP must participate. You must be open to having your view challenged. This means that you must act in a way that demonstrates that you are willing to have your view challenged. Moderators do not have access to your internal mental state, but we can infer your intent from your posts and comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/17 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Can Non-Reds clarify why they believe TRP is effective short term, and not so much long term?no circlejerking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/17 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Men are struggling to deal with the fact they don’t control what women find attractive any moreno circlejerking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/17 10:55 PM |
| – | Can bluepillers even admit that this shit goes on?Post removed (2) No excessively leading questions. (4) No links to outside content without post-text sufficient to explain the linked content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/17 04:13 AM |
| 15 | Q4all: What's the worst dating advice you gotten from someone who knows and cares about you?To act dumber than any guy I liked so he wouldn't feel threatened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/17 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Dawn of the Sexbots: How does the dating market change?Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/17 12:03 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Evo-psych needs to be based on facts and not on feelings.It's not relevant because there's no reason we have change people like myself that are civilized and look down on promiscuity. garble garble? A tribal society in bumfuck that probably eat each other Nice, real open mind there. I think we're done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/17 02:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Evo-psych needs to be based on facts and not on feelings.That difference is irrelevant in this context because we are not going back to hunter gatherer tribes. If you're questioning and fighting against outdated slut-shaming practices towards women that have for so long been justified as "natural biological instincts" then of course the difference is relevant. That explanation is dead wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/17 02:09 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Evo-psych needs to be based on facts and not on feelings.actually slut aversion is a bad example because i dont actually beleive slut aversion is biological ermagerd we are in agreement?? but openign up the convo in general culture and biology are a dynamic system and ar enot distinct, Yes, agreed although the I would throw environment in there too. All of them influence and shape one another. the culture a group creates comeout of its biology and then shapes its biology into the future That sounds like the biocultural model of anthropology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/17 01:56 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Evo-psych needs to be based on facts and not on feelings.To be clear, are you saying humans learned slut shaming from their culture or that humans evolved a mechanism to be disgusted by female sluts after societies became agricultural/pastoral? The difference being, if you took a baby from say an agricultural slut-shaming society and raised it in a society without slut shaming, would he still grow up to feel instinctive disgust for female sluts or would he need to learn it from his surroundings to feel that disgust? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/17 01:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Evo-psych needs to be based on facts and not on feelings.But many of those HG cultures lack the kind of slut shaming and restrictive roles for women we see in ancient and modern agricultural societies, which suggests they aren't instinctive but learned. It makes much more sense that humans adapted to a changing environment and formed new societies and rules rather than having evolved an entirely new biological mechanism for instinctively being disgusted only by female sluts. Especially when the societies that feature slut shaming and slut disgust have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/17 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: When a woman suddenly employs a vetting process, it indicates a terrible investment for menNo worries! The guidelines for CMV posts are here, or if you're going more for general discussion repost with a neutral title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/17 07:07 PM |
| – | Discussion: When a woman suddenly employs a vetting process, it indicates a terrible investment for menHey OP, please see our guidelines in the sidebar for posting --> (1) No affirmative claims in titles. We only allow affirmative claims/opinions in CMV posts, not Discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/17 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Post A Pic of Average Men & WomenBe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/17 06:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Being attractive makes up for any misogynistic, racist, or otherwise unattractive personality traits that BP claims to "turn women off".I guess you're unaware of how much "chicks with dicks"/futa porn there is out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/17 01:58 PM |
| 1 | How do you game. . .or do you?If not being interested in a conversation where you talk down to me like this But it seems you clearly missed the point here tho, not that I am surprised or anything. is condescending, then sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/17 12:57 PM |
| 1 | How do you game. . .or do you?You're being condescending. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/17 12:46 PM |
| 1 | How do you game. . .or do you?yet still force men to be the breadwinner. Uh huh But it seems you clearly missed the point here tho, not that I am surprised or anything. If this is the kind of rude, insulting behavior I can expect from you don't expect a response from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/17 12:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you game. . .or do you?And yet men are basically forced, by women, to be the breadwinner Just like women are "basically forced" by men to take care of children, sacrifice their career potential for his and spend their lives chasing fleeting youth to fit the female gender role and be attractive to men. Don't whine at me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/17 12:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Feminism is the betrayal of beta males and their imperativeFeminism belongs in the stickied post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/17 08:36 PM |
| 1 | How do you game. . .or do you?don't act like someone you're not or you'll attract people who don't really like you. It's situational, like the examples I gave above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/17 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How do you game. . .or do you?My point is RPers say be yourself means be a slob and don't try when that isn't the common understanding. It can be a useless platitude in some contexts, but it doesn't mean that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/17 02:35 PM |
| 2 | How do you game. . .or do you?You've never seen kids try to fit in with different cliques to win someone over? I did say my example was cheesy but that's the context I hear "be yourself" in aka don't act like someone you're not to get girls (or guys). Or alternatively, it's said to people who are worrying in a "just relax, you'll be fine" way. Literally no one means "be a slob and don't work on yourself at all", that's a strawman you guys fall back on to blame others for lack of success. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/17 01:58 PM |
| 5 | How do you game. . .or do you?That's the RP strawman, most people understand "be yourself" = be the best version of yourself/don't act like someone you're not or you'll attract people who don't really like you. Ex. Kind of a cheesy example but imagine a high school kid trying to dress/act like a jock to impress some jock girl when he's actually into music and artistic stuff. He gets the girl to like that jock version of him, but he's not happy because he's not being himself and once he goes back to artist mode he gets dumped… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/17 01:30 PM |
| 3 | When did we forget "women are sex objects, men are success objects"?According to the bloops and feminist discourse, simply being attracted to a woman based only on looks without taking into account her personality is objectification already. Uhh, who have you been speaking with? I can't say I've ever heard a feminist or a BPer argue just finding someone attractive is objectification. Other BPers ITT have even explained it correctly, ex. women being used as background decoration like you describe in Future's music vids. Another ex would be the way we use women's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/17 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Feminist dating? Is Dr. Nerdlove a good Red Pill alternative?That would cut a lot deeper if it wasn't coming from a guy who bases his arguments off amazon reviews. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/17 10:44 PM |
| 4 | Feminist dating? Is Dr. Nerdlove a good Red Pill alternative?tbh I care less about the quality of the neg than the motive behind it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/17 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Feminist dating? Is Dr. Nerdlove a good Red Pill alternative?It's a good thing people can learn from experience since we're not born omniscient. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/17 05:40 PM |
| 12 | Feminist dating? Is Dr. Nerdlove a good Red Pill alternative?"negging is just teasing" is the cleaned up version RPers sell on PPD and outside their home sub. No one is actually mad at RPers for simple teasing (strawman alert), its the original PUA form of negging people find repulsive. The best negs are those which are conceivably meant as compliments, but which linger in her psyche for hours afterward, undermining her self-conception and encouraging her to qualify herself to you....It’s supposed to be perceived as a throwaway line of sincere and innocen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/17 05:34 PM |
| – | Women are Good at EverythingLow effort shit post removed Low effort. Posts that provide no background information, demonstrate a lack of understanding of the issue, or make it clear the submitter has failed to do even the most rudimentary web search on the topic. This includes questions which appear to be circlejerking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/17 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (08 October 2017)I can see from your comment you're going through a difficult loss, I'm sorry for what happened to your friend. But fuck man, is it really necessary to go off on an anti-woman rant? You guys can't even comfort each other without dragging women down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/17 01:41 PM |
| 1 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.Distract, personal attacks, and now gas lighting. Cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/17 01:23 AM |
| 1 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.Baiting for what, more stalling? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 11:27 PM |
| 1 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.Are personal attacks and distraction the only tricks you know? I mean, we both know you don't actually have evidence but come on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 09:44 PM |
| 0 | QForWomen: Why did you break up with your ex-partnerDo not spam | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 04:55 PM |
| 2 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.Do you think its hypocritical to come to a debate sub, refuse to defend your arguments and then tell other people they shouldn't be on here? Does that seem a smidge disingenuous to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 03:43 PM |
| 2 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.Still more distraction attempts, still no evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 02:53 PM |
| 2 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.So you're trying to distract from your glaring lack of evidence again? Classic manosphere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 02:43 PM |
| 2 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.I don't take advice from people who claim most women are asexual, say they have evidence then refuse to present any evidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 02:37 PM |
| 2 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.This isn't me seriously engaging you which is what I would do if you actually presented evidence. This is me having some fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 02:32 PM |
| 2 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.I'm having fun, why don't you leave? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 02:25 PM |
| 2 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.if you can come back with actual evidence we'll talk. Since I don't see that happening have a nice life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 02:17 PM |
| 3 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.sweetcheeks Was obviously meant to be demeaning, but nice attempt at distraction. Trying to argue over minutia in the hopes I'll forget what a moronic claim you made and have yet to provide evidence you allegedly have (lol) is a classic manosphere tactic. "the fact of the matter is most women are asexual, they don't have sexual urges period" - /u/Doom_and-Gloom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 02:09 PM |
| 2 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.Predictably you resort to petty name-calling and personal attacks in lieu of providing evidence for your claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 02:02 PM |
| 3 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.Then why even continue this conversation? I like watching you guys squirm when you can't back up your ridiculous claims. e: this sub might be turning me into somewhat of a sadist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 01:55 PM |
| 1 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.What you did was back yourself into a corner you're now trying desperately to escape without admitting you don't know what you're talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 01:36 PM |
| 2 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive."You didn't dismiss me, I'm dismissing you!" lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 01:14 PM |
| 4 | Do most guys really prefer 18 year old women over mid 20s women?and part of the appeal of an 18 year old is that she's easier and more ready to be molded by the man than a mid 20s woman. And yet when women point this out its all "noooo, it's muh healthy male sexuality to find neoteny attractive!" Whatever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 01:10 PM |
| 2 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.Nah, if you can come back with actual evidence we'll talk. Since I don't see that happening have a nice life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 12:56 PM |
| 3 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.That's certainly your opinion, but the norm it is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 12:51 PM |
| 3 | What I think men are really missing today: control over their own sex drive.That's ridiculous most women aren't asexual, very few people are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/17 12:35 PM |
| 2 | THE Questionbe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/17 11:13 PM |
| 1 | What kind of people do you attract?Its girls, not guys. It's kind of hard to describe, like getting very possessive of who I hung out with and saying/doing odd things like taking my clothes so they could "keep my smell forever", laughing at my bad jokes and constantly complimenting/praising everything I did, making strong, constant eye contact and always scooting closer to me and looking for excuses to touch me. Like a very, very intense friendship with one-sided sexual undertones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/17 05:44 PM |
| 2 | What kind of people do you attract?what kind of people do you attract? Nerdy guys, most of my social circle in HS/college was other weird nerds (I say that affectionately). Also really intense girls for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/17 02:18 PM |
| 5 | La purge !The Purge.... This marvelous idea allows me to do the things I always wanted to do with you : speak French! I like the discussions we have on PPD, except, I'm regularly confronted by grammar nazis and other language purists. Something something I accept the individual freedom to not make an effort to understand me, it's frustrating to be discredited (??) I can't speak in my mother tongue or that my (??) English isn't perfect! In accordance with the rule of the purge, (??) a bit more fun and some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 12:39 PM |
| 4 | THE MODSUh oh, someone's getting huffy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 01:53 AM |
| 4 | THE MODSYou're an obnoxious and stifling presence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 01:28 AM |
| 2 | THE MODSSandman doesn't like me? Oh noooooooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/17 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Is this the winner of the Outstanding Achievement in Cunty Moderator Decisions ribbon?Who are you again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/17 06:10 PM |
| 5 | "The changing reasons why women cheat on their husbands"Stop projecting your weird shit on me, I have no idea why you keep trying to talk to me after you accused me of "harassing" you. A normal person who sincerely believed that would've blocked me a long time ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/17 03:15 PM |
| 1 | "The changing reasons why women cheat on their husbands"Yeah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/17 02:59 PM |
| 8 | "The changing reasons why women cheat on their husbands"I assume you saw my username, got triggered, and posted the first ham-fisted, bungling thought that came to your head without bothering to read my comment because that has absolutely nothing to do with what I said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/17 02:58 PM |
| 9 | "The changing reasons why women cheat on their husbands"Often, they loved their husbands, but felt in some fundamental way that their needs (sexual, emotional, psychological) were not being met inside the marriage. Some even wondered if their husbands knew about their infidelity, choosing to look away. "The fact is," one of these friends told me, "I'm nicer to my husband when I have something special going on that's just for me." She found that she was kinder, more patient, less resentful, "less of a bitch." It occurred to me as I listened that these… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/17 02:39 PM |
| 5 | TBPcuriosity, entertainment and research That's pretty much the appeal, you get to hear people talk freely about their feelings of contempt for women which they wouldn't normally do. Also the schadenfreude of seeing guys act like selfish turds alphas and their marriages somehow implode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/17 02:17 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Why do you only care about feels and completely disregard reals?So why didn't you just prove me wrong and point at what's so "patriarchal" about modern first world? You can't even follow the fucking conversation, are you reading at a third grade level or something? nah, only the successful ones, and after the invention of agriculture.... Primitive societies can often be matriarchal and polyandrist. Wrong, that's my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/17 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Q4RP: Why do you only care about feels and completely disregard reals?Are you not a man? If so I'm sorry, I get mis gendered on here all the time. But you really are an ignorant shit, do your own work and Google polyandry, matrilineal societies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/17 01:45 PM |
| 5 | Q4RP: Why do you only care about feels and completely disregard reals?nah, only the successful ones, and after the invention of agriculture.... Primitive societies can often be matriarchal and polyandrist. This is what I love about RP men, you are not only incredibly ignorant about the world but you're just as arrogant that your idiot opinions are right. Did you even bother to look that up before shitting it into your hand and smearing it all over your face? Edit: there are no matriarchal societies either, you stupid shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/17 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: Why do you only care about feels and completely disregard reals?I'm sure he's too busy basking in the pee-warm glow of his anti-feminist, "natural order" alpha fantasy to notice how contradictory it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/17 01:13 PM |
| 6 | Q4RP: Why do you only care about feels and completely disregard reals?"Natural order" what a crock of shit. If that were true every human civilization would be patriarchal at every stage, there would be no feminism, no matrilineal societies, no polyandrist societies, no egalitarian societies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/17 01:00 PM |
| 5 | Never Forget: TRP Supported Traitor "President" TrumpBut Pence might be going down too, so..... Then we get President Paul Ryan. shudders | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/17 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Q4Purgers: Who are your least favorite people on the subreddit? Like if it was a real purge who would you go after?I have you tagged "cool for a RPer" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/17 11:27 PM |
| 9 | Q4Purgers: Who are your least favorite people on the subreddit? Like if it was a real purge who would you go after?If you actually hate anyone on this sub you're taking it way too seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/17 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Blue Pill was right - The SMP is equal, women and relationships are so complex you can never figure it out, and just be nice works. Close the site and let's all go home.But dem BBWs!!! Find a fold and fuck it!! As long as you have the fold's consent I wish you both happiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/17 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: Blue Pill was right - The SMP is equal, women and relationships are so complex you can never figure it out, and just be nice works. Close the site and let's all go home.no you'd do anything for hawt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/17 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: Blue Pill was right - The SMP is equal, women and relationships are so complex you can never figure it out, and just be nice works. Close the site and let's all go home.But you'd do anything for those weirdo fatty uggo SJW trigglypuffs if they were hot!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/17 08:37 PM |
| 1 | What do Women think of the study of Evolutionary Psychology?lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/17 03:58 PM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceSee my flair for a deep and heartfelt message from me to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/17 03:41 PM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceDon't you worry your pretty little head over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/17 02:31 PM |
| 1 | The only way to save monogamy is total gender equalityToo much work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/17 02:20 PM |
| 1 | The only way to save monogamy is total gender equalityNah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/17 02:15 PM |
| 3 | The only way to save monogamy is total gender equalityMen need to actually request alimony when given the opportunity instead of trying to be big strong independent males who don't need no woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/17 01:37 PM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceThat's why I'm laughing at your attempt to carry on the original argument: your agenda is clear, Carkudo! Keep up if you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/17 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Why women hate nice guysIt was an actual post we removed last week, now for all to enjoy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/17 08:35 PM |
| 3 | The Purge - Announcement (2017)Now we're going to be overrun by the unstamped shitposting masses. It's already begun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/17 08:04 PM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceOk dude, this totally isn't about your anti-mod crusade. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/17 06:34 PM |
| 1 | There's literally nowhere to go as a guy with dating problems. You realize this, right?Based off the surveys in the sidebar --> RPers reported less satisfaction with their current romantic lives, and were more likely to be single (not in any kind of relationship, casual or otherwise). BPers for comparison. They also reported higher levels of general life satisfaction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/17 05:15 PM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceThat sounds like nothing to do with our conversation here. If you need to take out your personal feelings on me in an unrelated discussion maybe take your own advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/17 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Finding balanceSorry you're having trouble, you can try /r/ppdpersonaladvice or the IRC (link in sidebar -->). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/17 11:17 AM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceWhy don't you behave in a civil manner while on this sub instead of accusing people of trolling, shit posting and generally losing your cool all over the place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/17 11:09 AM |
| – | Finding balanceOP this is a debate sub, not for seeking personal advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/17 11:08 AM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceYou haven't quoted from the study even once, just insisted you're right over and over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/17 10:53 AM |
| 6 | There's literally nowhere to go as a guy with dating problems. You realize this, right?That was sarcasm, RPers are more likely to be single while BPers are casual dating or in relationships. But for some reason people think taking advice from the former is a good idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/17 10:35 AM |
| 11 | There's literally nowhere to go as a guy with dating problems. You realize this, right?I guess that's why RPers are less likely to be single and have longer, more satisfying relationships than BPers. Oh wait... Edit: btw single meaning no relationship or dating at all, no FWB nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/17 10:26 AM |
| – | CMV: complaining about slut-shaming is the ultimate form of female entitlementTopics on feminism go under the automod weekly topic post. Your post is also very low effort. Low effort. Posts that provide no background information, demonstrate a lack of understanding of the issue, or make it clear the submitter has failed to do even the most rudimentary web search on the topic. This includes questions which appear to be circlejerking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/17 11:49 AM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceRight in the study and in the comment that explains how the figures are being hidden. Cool, maybe you could reference that section like I've been asking. you should frankly leave this sub and go to one of the circlejerk ones Typically when someone makes a claim like you're doing here they back it up with more than just repeated insistence. Perhaps you should take a look at your own behavior before thing to tell others what to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/17 11:34 AM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceSo far it seems there's no evidence of these "hidden figures" being hidden other than you saying so, which I hope you realize isn't exactly a strong argument. "There's hidden figures! Figures being purposefully left out to further an agenda!!" "Can you show how these figures are being left out or purposefully hidden?" "No, cause they're hidden, duh. Just take my word for it" No thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/17 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Q4ALL: What do you guys think about this story?be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/17 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Are we missing the point?How attractive or not a 14yo is isn't relevant to PPD. Also, wtf man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/17 04:33 PM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceYou've had multiple chances to show what you say about feminists is true, or that the studies are "hiding" figures, but you haven't. That says more than enough about the veracity of your claims to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/17 02:37 PM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceWell purge week is coming up soon so we can all be as rude as we want. I plan on being very uncivil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/17 01:03 PM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceDid I get something wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/17 12:43 PM |
| 2 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceAnd TRP is dishonestly spreading propaganda that men are worse off financially and being divorce "raped" when the opposite is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/17 11:14 PM |
| 2 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceThose studies all count the child support as the man's income. Please reference the sections that show this. I know what I've seen in the real world. Women benefit financially from divorce, they almost always get custody, and almost always men end up the loser. I'm not discounting your experiences but you don't know all or even most couples outcome from divorce, never mind the full details of the ones you do know about. Studies are more useful than personal experiences in this case. If what you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/17 10:35 PM |
| – | CMV: The main failing of TBP is their belief in the just world hypothesis, where anyone can succeed and failure is solely one's own faultPost removed, you must participate in a CMV post within 3 hours. You must be available to engage other posters within three hours after posting. Three hours is enough time for several users to begin challenging your view, and without the OP, there is no real discussion. If you do not actively engage users in three hours, your post will be removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/17 08:55 PM |
| 2 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceIn all states a man's gross income is used as his income for child support. It can be gross income depending on the state. Unless you live in one of the few states that uses gross income as a basis for setting child support amounts, your net income (what's left after the allowed deductions) becomes the money from which you pay your child support obligation. Different states use different methods to allocate child support payments between parents. Most use percentages, and the percentage usually … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/17 08:34 PM |
| 2 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceThe snark in your comment is not justified as you didn't answer my question at all. What I asked for was a source for these statements: Often times child support is 50% of his take home. Also, 15-38% of alimony payments is considered his income. And from the looks of it, alimony payments are deducted from taxable income: When you pay alimony, the payments are deducted from your taxable income, lowering your tax liability. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/17 07:25 PM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceOften times child support is 50% of his take home. Also, 15-38% of alimony payments is considered his income. Not snarking, I'd really be interested to see any sources you have on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/17 06:31 PM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceNone of your comments make any sense. Go on any feminist board and its full of people who want to break down gender roles and get fathers more active in childcare and narrow the gender wage gap. /r/AskFeminists is a good place to start. And look at your comment here: No it's not. Before you get to that, you will also have to deduct the sum that you have to pay at threat of going to prison. What are you referring to here, child support paid by the man? Can you quote from the study which section y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/17 03:01 PM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceAre you high? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/17 12:48 PM |
| 2 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceTRP says that women benefit from divorce financially while men suffer. This is indisputable, here from the horses's mouth: This is why feminism pushes to increase alimony and child support. In the USA where feminism is completely unchecked, women can meet another man and profit from having two providers instead of one. Alimony and child support will ensure her lifestyle isn't the one that suffers. The only risk a woman has for leaving her husband is if she's too old and ugly to hook another guy.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/17 01:07 AM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceWhich counts money that men pay to their ex wives as the men's income. And doesn't count it when figuring the woman's income. It does count it, under maintenance income. Net income is the sum across household members of income from employment and selfemployment, investments and savings, private and occupational pensions, other market income and private transfers (including maintenance income), plus cash social security and social assistance receipts from the state, less income tax payments, empl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/17 12:41 AM |
| 2 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceThey say that they are better off than they would be had the government not forced her ex to hand over half of his assets and income. And you continue to perpetuate this lie, the government is not forcing men to hand over half their assets and income. I'm over this, believe what you want and good luck with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/17 12:20 AM |
| 2 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceAnd I get the feeling you would rather quibble over meaningless semantics than address the issue at hand: RPers say women are financially better off after divorce while men suffer, reality says the opposite is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceAgreed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 09:15 PM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceIt's not likely at this point in time but even today fathers are much more involved with their kids, much more likely to ask for custody than a few decades ago. That is a good sign to me that we're moving in the right direction at least. Big societal changes like this don't happen overnight but I'm hopeful for the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 09:07 PM |
| 2 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceplus cash social security and social assistance receipts from the state, less income tax payments, employee National Insurance contributions, and local taxes. I think the author is saying the net income is total income such as wages, pensions, etc. minus income tax payments, employee National Insurance contributions and local taxes, which is the same as the definition I quoted you earlier of gross income - taxes/expenses = net income, not that net income is somehow not taxed if that's what you'r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceEach couple's situation is going to be different, some won't be able to afford that kind of flexibility and some can. Ideally, both parents would put in roughly the same amount of childcare, housework and working hours which would help narrow the respective gender gaps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 08:56 PM |
| 3 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceIts news that TRP is dishonest and fear-mongering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 08:32 PM |
| 4 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceYes that's my point, mothers and fathers being more balanced in work and childcare would narrow this gap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 08:32 PM |
| 6 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceNo one says that they are great for women. See the quotes in the OP Please read the paper. I have and I'm not seeing your point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 08:10 PM |
| 5 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceIts not illogical, most couples decide on their own that the kids should go with the mom. When cases are contested in court custody is based on several factors in the best interests of the child: children's ages needs of the children each parent's ability to meet the children's needs relationship between the children and each parent relationship between the children and other family members keeping stability in children's lives children's physical and mental health physical and mental health of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 08:08 PM |
| 5 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceSingle men are better off than married men who are better off than divorced men holding all else the same. Who are better off than their divorced female counterparts, which is the exact opposite of what TRP claims. This really isn't hard. I know, how are people not understanding this. TRP made a claim, that claim is false. The end. Where did you get your definition, because that sounds like available income which is very different. Here For a wage earner, gross income is the amount of salary or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 07:57 PM |
| 4 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceSome men would actually want to take care of the children, yet custody is granted to the mother the majority of the time. Would it make things better if men were granted custody of their children more? Like I quoted from the article, the way to narrow the custody/financial gaps are to better balance work life and child care between mothers and fathers: fathers get more claim to custody, mothers are financially better off after divorce. That sounds like a win-win to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 07:28 PM |
| 2 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceExpenses that a lot of men have to get a second job to pay for. You are measuring income which is at best secondarily effected by a divorce. Are you basing that on something concrete or just speculating? The Guardian uses the phrase available income which is found nowhere in the paper. The paper uses a widely accepted definition for net income which is essentially income less taxes. net income is the final amount of profit or loss after all expenses are included I don't see the issue with the ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 07:25 PM |
| 6 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceSo also stop stigmatizing stay-at-home dads and more often favor dads more as custodial parents. This is something I and many feminists 100% support and is the take away message of the second article. We need more balance between mothers and fathers working and caring for children for the financial gap and custody gap to narrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 07:14 PM |
| 10 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceComparing incomes and poverty levels of men and women overcomplicates the matter and isn't even a direct measurement of what you are intending. TRP says that men are worse off financially after a divorce. Numerous studies say this is wrong. How is that over-complicating the matter? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 06:29 PM |
| 8 | How men and women compare financially post-divorceIt doesn't matter that TRP claims to have the truth but perpetuates a false narrative about divorce "rape"? Do you think that damages their credibility at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/17 06:27 PM |
| 3 | RP, meet IlbeSingle mothers are delinquent sub-human scum, that is the exact title of a very highly upvoted post on TRP. Edit: the entire thing is an unhinged rant about how every single father was tricked into it by a scheming bitch woman, whining about how everyone assumes single fathers are deadbeats while simultaneously blaming every single mother for the break up, and is basically a steaming pile of anti-woman bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/17 11:25 AM |
| 1 | RP, meet IlbeBe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/17 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Why are men still expected to step in to save a woman in trouble?Then do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/17 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: What "weapons" do men have in their "sexual arsenal?" And isn't it a bit unfair how women have more "weapons" in their "sexual arsenal?"How do you define gynocentric here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/17 12:31 PM |
| 2 | The reality of the situation is simpleRather than wasting energy snarking at me familiarize yourself with the rules of this sub and plan to be available to respond if you want to post here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/17 02:57 PM |
| 1 | The reality of the situation is simpleAlso a good point, and since OP hasn't bothered to respond its getting removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/17 02:24 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Toxic Masculinity doesn't existSo you thought "learn the law before opening your condescending mouth" was a good and equal response? Don't whine, just knock it off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/17 01:37 PM |
| – | The reality of the situation is simpleOP this is a reminder that you must participate in a CMV post within 3 hours or it will be removed. You must be available to engage other posters within three hours after posting. Three hours is enough time for several users to begin challenging your view, and without the OP, there is no real discussion. If you do not actively engage users in three hours, your post will be removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/17 01:32 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Toxic Masculinity doesn't existbe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/17 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Why are men still expected to step in to save a woman in trouble?I was referring to the situation the tweet and OP were talking about, acting like I meant no one expects anything of anyone is actually pretty absurd. Not sure how you managed that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/17 06:28 PM |
| 3 | [Q4ALL] Tell me about your lonliest moment.Probably the first few years after moving to a new country with my bf, leaving behind my friends, family and job to start over in a new place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/17 04:15 PM |
| 6 | Why are men still expected to step in to save a woman in trouble?Twitter post urging men to step in for drunk women but punching preying men in the face. Agree or Disagree? Depends, if someone is being sexually assaulted I think using physical force to try and stop them is ok. If it's not assault then no, obviously. The entitlement is strong. It's a man who said this. Expecting me to step in and get myself an assault charge and possibly beat up or killed for a random woman who drank too much. No one expects you to do anything, even the tweet said "it's ok to.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/17 01:05 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend wants to travel alone with another guy. What should I do?Hey OP, this is not a personal advice sub. I would suggest /r/ppdpersonaladvice or the IRC. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/17 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Which gender double standards are ok and which ones aren't & Why?be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/17 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: My brother's thoughts about TRP.Dude has amazing cheekbones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/17 06:31 PM |
| 2 | What's your view on prostitutes?I think it's naive to assume we can ever stop people from buying/selling sex, we may as well legalize it and make it safer for everyone. Also that sweet, sweet tax revenue. I do think if you want to buy or sell sex you should be at least 21 though, its way too easy to take advantage of teenagers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/17 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: My brother's thoughts about TRP.Can you make a post about this? I'm kinda talked out on this topic for now, if you want to go ahead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/17 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: My brother's thoughts about TRP.Sure, I hope no one understood this as me saying only hot men get lots of female attention. Wealth and fame are obvious factors too, and some plain looking guys can be very funny and charismatic. The difference I see is women will flock to handsome men, their attraction is genuine, but they just seem to hang around rich/famous guys as obviously hired arm candy, not out of actual attraction. Edit: to elaborate, Trump is rich and probably has a sky high N, but who actually finds him attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/17 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: My brother's thoughts about TRP.Even if inheritance was agreed to go down the female line, men would still not like being cucked. Why don't you read up on life in matrilineal societies to see if that's actually true? You are arguing that because some tribe of 100 people somewhere in the tropics focused on hunting and warring was sexually unrestrained, civilized people in the civilized world should have been as well, lest it's OPHRHESHUN You don't seem to be grasping my argument very well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/17 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Discussion: My brother's thoughts about TRP.It's a proper counter-argument for an argument that consists of a quote of some bullshit opinion piece that has nothing to do with science. There's a list of references and further readings at the end of the article, "some bullshit opinion piece" would better describe your amazon reviews. I mean, for fuck's sake, to me it looks like you just quoted the progressive intellectual equivalent of a concept like intelligent design. Oh look more opinions. What's next? You quote some treatise from Gloria… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/17 05:13 PM |
| 7 | Discussion: My brother's thoughts about TRP....your counter-argument is amazon reviews? is this real life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/17 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: My brother's thoughts about TRP.it wasn't out of malice or the desire to oppress that this was done. I have no idea why you keep saying this because that's not what I think. Men do not like being cucked. Women also don't like being cheated on, but the part about restricting women's sexuality specifically comes from patrilineal societies wanting inheritance to go down the male line and restricting women was a way to ensure (not always, and not very well mind) a pure male line from father to son, or some other male relative. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/17 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: My brother's thoughts about TRP.Again, ignoring that RPers have literally told me the admiration comes from hard work, not standing around being hot. Sorry, that's feminist nonsense. The aversion to sluts came first, society has just codified it. So, no. On balance, the study of hunting-gathering peoples in the world today suggests that there probably was no ancient matriarchy because there was no "archy" (power concentration) at all. We are not likely to find a mirror image of the modern patriarchy in the Paleolithic world be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/17 02:26 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: My brother's thoughts about TRP.Patrilineality, also known as the male line, the spear side, or agnatic kinship, is a common kinship system in which an individual's family membership derives from and is recorded through his or her father's lineage. It generally involves the inheritance of property, rights, names, or titles by persons related through male kin. It was necessary to restrict women's sexuality, for them to remain virgins until marriage because men wanted paternity certainty to pass their property, land, etc. to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/17 02:18 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: My brother's thoughts about TRP.You realize you're glossing over the entire explanation for why men supposedly admire studs right? Everytime this has come up in the past RPers tell me stud status comes from admiration of hard work on the man's part while the woman "just stands there". Now you're saying a stud who's also just standing there is somehow different. It's ok, I realize stud vs slut was always just a convenient modern rationalization to continue demeaning women based on historical values of female chastity, not actua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/17 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Jordan Peterson on Women's LiberationMmmmm, that doesn't sound accurate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/17 01:41 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: My brother's thoughts about TRP.I agree that men are thirstier (for certain reasons we would probably disagree on) but as has been explained to me the admiration for studs comes from working game, not relying on looks. This isn't the only reason sluts are shamed, there's a long history of denying and suppressing women's sexuality that pre-dates modern slut-shaming. I see the slut vs stud debate as modern day people rationalizing to themselves centuries old values about female chastity that don't even apply to our society anymo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/17 01:38 PM |
| 6 | Discussion: My brother's thoughts about TRP.I've been told countless times that's it's about casual sex being "easy" for women while men need to "work hard to game women into sex" and that's why studs are admired and sluts get shamed. But IME, good looking men just walk into a room and women start making themselves available to him. Flirting, giving extra attention, help or praise, etc. Women aren't that different from men, just more subtle I think. But those men aren't doing anymore "work" than standing around being gorgeous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/17 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson on Women's LiberationThat's pretty interesting, personally I would love for western societies to be at the point where no one gives a damn if you're gay, trans, whatever. I think it's more difficult for us in the west due to the lingering hangover of Christianity and its feelings about non-straight, non-heteronormative folks. You couldn't really be openly gay or trans until relatively recently here. That's probably why we have such extreme factions on either side, though I feel I have to point out the left's "extrem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/17 01:26 PM |
| 11 | Discussion: My brother's thoughts about TRP.Very attractive men don't need "game" in the TRP sense, because women are highly attracted to them and interested in them anyway, so they can just be nice, right? It's on easy mode for them, so they can just be nice, and women will be highly receptive, as long as they're reasonably masculine. But no "game" is required for them. They can be nice. This deserves its own post. If good-looking men are more desired by women and have the most sexual opportunities then their "stud" status isn't anymore … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/17 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Jordan Peterson on Women's LiberationDo those countries have a history of persecuting and denying opportunities to transsexuals? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/17 01:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: feminists are incapable of taking responsibility because feminism says women are always oppressed but also always capable of anything. Where does the freedom begin and the oppression end?Hey, your comment was removed automatically by reddit. I tried approving it but one of your links seems to be blocked, not sure which one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/17 04:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Most redpillers used to be BP" "Most redpillers used to be feminists" I'd say instead most redpillers used to be a benevolent sexistBe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/17 11:30 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Blue Pillers' Hate for the manosphere/TRP Has Less to Do with Claimed "Misogyny" and More to Do With The Types of Men they Attract, and Because they Don't Want to Admit They're Really Red PillI disagree that it's cherrypicking though, this is the kind of thing comes out of TRP regularly and gets tons of upvotes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/17 01:50 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Blue Pillers' Hate for the manosphere/TRP Has Less to Do with Claimed "Misogyny" and More to Do With The Types of Men they Attract, and Because they Don't Want to Admit They're Really Red Pillsweet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/17 09:28 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Blue Pillers' Hate for the manosphere/TRP Has Less to Do with Claimed "Misogyny" and More to Do With The Types of Men they Attract, and Because they Don't Want to Admit They're Really Red PillCome on, that is a completely false equivalent. Women admitting women can be irrational is not the same as men compiling quotes about female inferiority, rapey sex tips, manuals to cheat on your wife and telling men women's sexual pleasure and orgasms don't matter. be civil You can criticize groups. Anyway I've said my piece, there's nothing to debate here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/17 08:31 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Blue Pillers' Hate for the manosphere/TRP Has Less to Do with Claimed "Misogyny" and More to Do With The Types of Men they Attract, and Because they Don't Want to Admit They're Really Red PillIt's pretty difficult to read deeper into "women are inferior" than "women are inferior", but it says a lot about the people who are willing condone those kinds of things being said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/17 08:02 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Blue Pillers' Hate for the manosphere/TRP Has Less to Do with Claimed "Misogyny" and More to Do With The Types of Men they Attract, and Because they Don't Want to Admit They're Really Red PillAre you serious? "To be popular with women, be sure never mention the fact that women as a class are less rational and hence inferior to men." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/17 07:18 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Blue Pillers' Hate for the manosphere/TRP Has Less to Do with Claimed "Misogyny" and More to Do With The Types of Men they Attract, and Because they Don't Want to Admit They're Really Red PillI'm not surprised he doesn't see it as misogynistic but there's nothing to debate really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/17 06:00 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Blue Pillers' Hate for the manosphere/TRP Has Less to Do with Claimed "Misogyny" and More to Do With The Types of Men they Attract, and Because they Don't Want to Admit They're Really Red PillDid you really just downvote me? Come on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/17 05:32 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Blue Pillers' Hate for the manosphere/TRP Has Less to Do with Claimed "Misogyny" and More to Do With The Types of Men they Attract, and Because they Don't Want to Admit They're Really Red Pillbe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/17 05:25 PM |
| 11 | CMV: Blue Pillers' Hate for the manosphere/TRP Has Less to Do with Claimed "Misogyny" and More to Do With The Types of Men they Attract, and Because they Don't Want to Admit They're Really Red PillI'm late to the party but here's just a few examples of what bothers me about TRP: Tips for gaming other women when you're married Married Man Game aka How to Cheat on Your Wife Some More "Too much foreplay like you're trying to be some Casanova nigga. Gives her too much time to hamster. Pull her panties to the side with your cock out while laying on her kissing so she doesnt see it. Rub some spit on it then just slide ride in and immediately start thrusting." Upvoted comment by a RP EC "Nature … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/17 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?That's not really true, there are plenty of influential feminists who also work in social sciences: Kimmel and Flood come to mind. Saying the only "real feminists" are in gender studies is a cop out, come on. Anyway I was hoping to hear your thoughts on the actual ideas in the papers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/17 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?So did you ever check out those links? I'm honestly curious to hear your opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/17 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men committing more crime = men are more likely to be bad people?Do not invalidate other users, debate in good faith. Invalidating. Do not tell another user directly that the opinion expressed by them is incorrect. If a guy says, “I like a woman who can cook and clean” do not respond by saying, “No, you want a live-in servant.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/17 03:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: TRP is ABUSE. This Abusive Behavior Checklist reads like the TRP sidebar.be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/17 03:32 PM |
| – | Who is opposing legalization of prostitution?Post removed Low effort. Posts that provide no background information, demonstrate a lack of understanding of the issue, or make it clear the submitter has failed to do even the most rudimentary web search on the topic. This includes questions which appear to be circlejerking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/17 01:00 PM |
| – | CMV: If women really were in part sexually dominant then they would be sexually attracted to skinny, babyfaced-beardless, shy posture, short (shorter?), "fragile looking", pseudo-twink looking guys. IMO they are none of this, and that is telling and correlated.OP you don't appear to be debating in good faith here so your post has been locked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/17 01:41 PM |
| – | How Important is it to be a Liar?No link dropping, explain context and relevance to PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 10:57 PM |
| 3 | CMV: The sexual/dating climate of today is toxic and most women are better off avoiding it altogether.What makes you say they're a BPer? I don't see any flair. They don't come across like a troll so no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 10:22 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The sexual/dating climate of today is toxic and most women are better off avoiding it altogether.no worse than the average RP post about marriage/relationships not being worth it for men which we leave up all the time it generated lots of discussion during a slow time of day | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 10:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The sexual/dating climate of today is toxic and most women are better off avoiding it altogether.That's a much nicer way of saying it but I think we agree lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 01:47 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The sexual/dating climate of today is toxic and most women are better off avoiding it altogether.thanks, rub it in why don't you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 01:36 PM |
| 4 | CMV: The sexual/dating climate of today is toxic and most women are better off avoiding it altogether.Bi here so yeah a bit different probably. It hit me one day seeing an old HS pic about 20lbs heavier and looking like I'd gotten dressed in the dark to finally get it. If I didn't find me attractive why would anyone else? Then it was easy to let those feelings go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 01:34 PM |
| 10 | CMV: The sexual/dating climate of today is toxic and most women are better off avoiding it altogether.It's a pretty common resentment among ppl of either gender who lost weight. I went through it after losing weight in college and it takes some time to process. You feel all personally betrayed until you look back and realize you wouldn't have fucked you either lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 01:04 PM |
| – | CMV: The sexual/dating climate of today is toxic and most women are better off avoiding it altogether.Reminder to all: be civil, personal attacks will be removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/17 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (10 September 2017)I'm 4'11 Well that definitely changes things lol, 1200/day sounded low to me (5'6) but you should be fine. I do not eat a lot of carbs as it is, but will definitely make sure each meal I have is a well balanced meal which includes some fat and protein, as these will help. Excellent, carbs are the devil. Best of luck with reaching/maintaining your goal! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/17 03:11 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (10 September 2017)1200/day is tough, are you doing keto/fasting to help with hunger cravings? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/17 02:05 PM |
| 1 | 10 priceless lessons after 10 years in the manosphere [5-min read, x-post from r/MensRights]Hey OP, this post would be better suited for TRP. It's written more like a manosphere advice post than something appropriate for discussion here. Please see the guidelines for posting in our sidebar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/17 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: How do you feel about your man cheating?Would that still be a huge deal in your book, would you be able to excuse it or forgive it? As long as the very security or access to his resources isn't threatened. It's not about his "resources", it's about how he feels about me. If he doesn't love me anymore/isn't sexually satisfied by me then that's that, why waste my time on anything less? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/17 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL Does feminism care about men? Toxic masculinity, who really benefits from it?The CMV flair is appropriate for the following kinds of posts: Posts where the OP has a clear position they want to make known. Posts where the OP is interested in having their view challenged and hearing alternatives. Posts where the OP will respond to commenters in a timely fashion. Like, I'm trying dude but almost every line in your post is your personal opinion. Why not try CMV if that's what you want to focus on? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/17 09:22 PM |
| – | Q4ALL Does feminism care about men? Toxic masculinity, who really benefits from it?I think because toxic masculinity is used first and foremost to change men into acting in ways that women can control and influence better. Men that are mostly feminine are quickly made to be below women in society, and women's treatment of them(eww, so creepy) reflects that too. OP, again, this is not neutral enough for discussion. It's almost entirely your opinion rather than a neutral invitation for discussion. If you want to make this a CMV post that would be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/17 09:18 PM |
| – | Q4ALL Feminism doesn't care about men, yet it tries to tell men what to do for men's sake? Toxic Masculinity and all its absurdity.Post removed, Discussion posts need to be neutral - that includes the title. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/17 09:10 PM |
| 1 | How does a man deal with women lying that they love his sexuality while in a relationship with him?Take the circlejerking to TRP | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/17 08:28 PM |
| – | Question for unfixed dog owners: Do bitches hate male dog sexuality the same way human women hate human male sexuality?shitpost removed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/17 02:34 PM |
| 3 | "Women who want a man just to provide an expensive lifestyle" Does this actually happen as often as redpill thinks?I'm asking for an example of using financial advantage as a leverage, what's a situation where he would do that? Or are you saying it's as simple as, pre-marriage if she stops having sex he stops spending money on her? even pre marital assets are joined up. This is the law for my state: There is a strong presumption under California law that assets and debts a couple accumulates during marriage are community property. Property one spouse owned alone before the marriage, or acquired by gift or in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/17 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Post a picture of the first thing that comes to your mind when someone says "Chad" and "alpha".who let you into our top secret oompa matches?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/17 12:40 PM |
| 2 | "Women who want a man just to provide an expensive lifestyle" Does this actually happen as often as redpill thinks?Wait.. If guys are giving sex in exchange for shit, how is that any different from the behavior of the women that TRP craps on?... So TRP is about becoming the thing they despise? Sounds like a cheesy movie plot, to me. It absolutely is, their entire justification is two wrongs do make a right. Therefore if one woman lies to/manipulates them that's good enough reason for them to treat everyone else that way forever. It's a child's petty logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/17 12:32 PM |
| 2 | "Women who want a man just to provide an expensive lifestyle" Does this actually happen as often as redpill thinks?Once a guy is hitched, he no longer had the ability to use his financial advantages as leverage. How exactly would he do that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/17 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Post a picture of the first thing that comes to your mind when someone says "Chad" and "alpha".Hey OP can you add some more context? How are you defining chad/alpha here? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/17 10:43 PM |
| 7 | What is your opinion on "AWALT"?This is not a rule violation, we have to allow a certain amount of uncivil opinions when it comes to groups. Otherwise RPers wouldn't be able to talk about women being children, etc. Personal attacks are not allowed, those will be removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/17 10:12 PM |
| 5 | Implications of "she's not yours, it's just your turn"You lost the argument the moment you did the usual feminist tactic of claiming that all of the male-centric groups are the same. The Red Pill and the MHRM are not the same. I think most of us know groups like TRP and MRA have different goals and interests, it's the hate for women and feminism they all share that makes them similar. It could be argued they hate a fair number of men, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/17 09:29 PM |
| – | Involuntary celibacy study: life transitions and trajectoriesSince this is an example of a high effort, neutral post on incels that adds new content to the discussion we'll bend the incel rule this time, post approved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/17 03:29 PM |
| 5 | Q4All: If a man and a woman both get drunk and have sex, why is it that the man is declared a rapist and the woman bears no responsibility? What happens when two drunken men have sex?iirc the Jake/Josie thing wasn't around for long and it was like one campus. The rest of your examples aren't saying any drunk woman having sex is being raped, they're noting the common method of guys getting women super wasted to the point of being incoherent is rape. That taking advantage of someone too drunk to give meaningful consent is rape, especially if they're a stranger/hook-up without the trust or understanding a couple might have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/17 01:26 PM |
| 1 | The real question: if women "freeze up" in fear of unwanted sex, arent comfortable saying no, or are too afraid to then...You see, but the problem here is that while it might partially sounds reasonable on paper, in reality it offers an umbrella under which any woman can hide. Ok, no. Most rapists walk free. Most women don't make up false rape accusations and of those who do even fewer do it for revenge or regret. Because while feminists claim that they're just advocating female sexual autonomy, in reality they're for all intents and purposes advocating for a woman having untouchable interpretational authority over… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/17 06:38 PM |
| 1 | The real question: if women "freeze up" in fear of unwanted sex, arent comfortable saying no, or are too afraid to then...Kipnis often describes sexual assault allegations in these terms. She says that there was a consensual sexual encounter, and then, months or years later, someone “retroactively withdraws” consent, converting what had previously been a permissible sexual encounter into an assault. Her language suggests a kind of "backwards causation"—one can reach back into history and create rapes that weren't there by removing the consent. The implication: this absurd metaphysics is being embraced by campus act… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/17 03:46 PM |
| 6 | The real question: if women "freeze up" in fear of unwanted sex, arent comfortable saying no, or are too afraid to then...the woman must have her legal ability to consent to sex revoked. That is quite possibly the dumbest, most ineffective and least compassionate solution I've ever heard. You don't choose when and where to have a freeze response, and it (excluding those with PTSD) doesn't happen for no reason. It can happen to anyone, it could happen to you in traffic later today. Maybe some car will come at you out of nowhere from across the freeway, your brain sees what's happening like it's in slow motion but yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/17 03:17 PM |
| 1 | The real question: if women "freeze up" in fear of unwanted sex, arent comfortable saying no, or are too afraid to then...I was asking for sources on feminists saying it's acceptable to withdraw consent after consensual sex has already completed. This is not that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/17 01:46 PM |
| 3 | The real question: if women "freeze up" in fear of unwanted sex, arent comfortable saying no, or are too afraid to then...You can't understand the woman's actions (or inaction) without the knowledge of what led up to it, ignoring what the guy did in context is treating him like he has no responsibility for his actions or their affect effect* on others. edit: can't spell or grammar when i wake up sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/17 01:37 PM |
| 1 | The real question: if women "freeze up" in fear of unwanted sex, arent comfortable saying no, or are too afraid to then...Post examples of "retroactive consent". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/17 01:25 PM |
| – | By attacking Toxic Masculinity, do SJW's merely reinforce the existing social hierarchy?Low effort. Posts that provide no background information, demonstrate a lack of understanding of the issue, or make it clear the submitter has failed to do even the most rudimentary web search on the topic. This includes questions which appear to be circlejerking. If you want to do a post criticising toxic masculinity you need to address the actual concept, show examples of feminists doing the things you say. As is, this is more of a strawman and doesn't appear to made in good faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/17 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Serious question for discussion: Please explain to me why women cannot simply say "NO, STOP DOING THAT, I DON'T WANT TO DO THIS" and then remove themselves from the area, when faced with unwanted sexual behaviorlol, yes at the very least. I think he (her bf) did show up sometimes when he could but he had classes and a job too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/17 02:51 PM |
| 7 | Serious question for discussion: Please explain to me why women cannot simply say "NO, STOP DOING THAT, I DON'T WANT TO DO THIS" and then remove themselves from the area, when faced with unwanted sexual behaviorNo I'm not but I can see how you would confuse me with the many other BPers you harangue. She did tell him to fuck off, she did tell people - even had me drive her home from work for awhile because she didn't want to run into him alone, she did go to the police, she did everything you're supposed to do in that situation but the police didn't think it was serious enough to warrant any action. I would love to live in your fantasy world where all a woman has to do is snap her fingers and a bunch of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/17 02:25 PM |
| 9 | Serious question for discussion: Please explain to me why women cannot simply say "NO, STOP DOING THAT, I DON'T WANT TO DO THIS" and then remove themselves from the area, when faced with unwanted sexual behaviorSo my best friend was stalked for several months in college. She worked on campus and part of her job was helping people get set up on the public access computers in one of the few public buildings any non-student could enter and use the facilities. There was one regular, a guy a couple years older who she said seemed nice and chatty. After they'd known each other a few weeks they add each other on Facebook, where he proceeds to lose his fucking mind. He sent her multiple messages trying to sell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/17 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Consent guide from the National Sexual Violence Resource Center states consent can only be obtained by asking.Based on conversations I've had with RPers in the other consent threads, I'm not addressing you or your post but the comment I replied to originally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/17 12:56 AM |
| 3 | Consent guide from the National Sexual Violence Resource Center states consent can only be obtained by asking.As other have pointed out, it's a guide not the law although I agree that there are plenty of non-verbal cues that can be taken as consent and being tipsy doesn't negate consent. My issue is with those who act like paying attention to your partner and taking note of red flags like stopped reciprocating or responding gone silent and/or rigid seem like they're not enjoying themselves and checking in to see if they're ok is too much to expect, not their responsibility, etc. It's kind of sickening t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/17 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Consent guide from the National Sexual Violence Resource Center states consent can only be obtained by asking.The point here is not about paying attention to your partners well being yeah, clearly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/17 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Consent guide from the National Sexual Violence Resource Center states consent can only be obtained by asking.Everytime this topic comes up it becomes obvious some guys would rather risk raping someone than stop to check in and see if they're ok. Some are actually insulted by the notion they should pay any attention to their partner's well-being at all (not muh responsibility reeeee!!). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/17 01:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Affirmative Consent/Yes Means Yes" Won't WorkI agree with you that most men have a strength advantage over most women who might try to physically force them, but women can also use threats, or a weapon, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/17 02:50 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Affirmative consent doesn't work like the manosphere claims.It's hard to discuss it without seeing some examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 07:33 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Affirmative consent doesn't work like the manosphere claims.If a person is having sex and then wants to Stop, is no longer enjoying it but continues anyway because they don't want to displease or disappoint the other person, is that considered rape? If they make no effort to say or do anything to stop it then no, but I wouldn't consider it sex anymore either just one person giving another permission to masturbate with their body. I'd also ask how the other person doesn't notice their partner's not into it anymore, not reciprocating or moaning in pleasure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 07:03 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Affirmative consent doesn't work like the manosphere claims.justifies giving women the power to seriously fuck up any guys life with a lie. Ok, I disagree women actually have that power based on how difficult it is to report and prosecute even a genuine assault. And if you take a look at how women branded "false accusers", even if they're not, are treated you'd see it's not just men being treated unfairly. I agree with you that there are issues within the justice system, within the press, some that especially affect men, but to act as if women have been … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 05:11 PM |
| 3 | PSA: Affirmative consent doesn't work like the manosphere claims.I am pointing out that handing half the population a tool to fuck the other half over at whim, with little to no consequences to liars if caught, is dumb. My point is there are consequences to reporting rape even if you've actually been raped, and that most false accusations don't follow the "she just regretted it later" narrative that RPers tell themselves. Simply saying women can screw a man over on a whim when many who report assault, even genuine victims, are treated with suspicion and disbe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 04:48 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Affirmative consent doesn't work like the manosphere claims.The Steubenville High School rape occurred in Steubenville, Ohio, on the night of August 11, 2012, when a high-school girl, incapacitated by alcohol, was publicly and repeatedly sexually assaulted by her peers, several of whom documented the acts on social media. The victim was transported, undressed, photographed, and sexually assaulted. She was also penetrated vaginally by other students' fingers (digital penetration), an act defined as rape under Ohio law. The case garnered nationwide attenti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 04:40 PM |
| 2 | PSA: Affirmative consent doesn't work like the manosphere claims.All a woman has to do to get around suspicion is say she was afraid to report it/possible retribution. Anyone can spread a vicious rumor, people can call a girl a broken whore even with video evidence of her being assaulted while passed out (Steubenville anyone?). The whole "we can't file charges against false rape accusations cause that might deter other actual victims from reporting" thing comes to mind I don't think you're seeing the whole picture here, far too many who have been assaulted ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 04:16 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Affirmative consent doesn't work like the manosphere claims."Sorry Tiger, I don't do anal" should be enough to keep a dick out of your ass and understood by both parties anal ain't happening. Yes, it really should be. Regret rape accusations on the other hand are increasingly more common. I just posted some info on that in another comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Summer Survey ResultsDamn, thanks for letting me know I'll try to get it fixed for next time! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 03:43 PM |
| 1 | PSA: Affirmative consent doesn't work like the manosphere claims.Or I was drunk and cheated on my BF/hubby. better say I was raped to avoid those consequences. While that does happen, it's far from the most likely scenario in a genuine false rape accusation. Skeptics — including many police officers — tend to assume that false rape claims are made by women who had consensual sex but later regretted it, or who are trying to get back at a consensual sexual partner. According to the research, many police officers look for "red flags" that might reveal accusers' … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 03:40 PM |
| 3 | PSA: Affirmative consent doesn't work like the manosphere claims.You can withdraw consent and stop having sex at any time for any reason, if your partner wants anal and you don't he doesn't get to keep fucking your ass because you consented to PiV initially. If you want someone to stop because the sex is hurting, they don't get to keep fucking you until they're done because you consented earlier. That is what is meant by revoking consent after sex starts, not just deciding later it was rape because "omg I'm a sloot!" made up RP straw feminist . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Summer Survey ResultsAre you talking about the question "which country do you live in"? I had a lot of trouble setting that one up last night, not sure if it's SurveyMonkey or my browser or what but yeah it seems to want to scroll all the way right once you get to that part, ugh. Or is it a different part messing up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Summer Survey ResultsYeah I'm sorry for not posting the Trans folk data, there's only one person in each category so if you know who they are you also know all their other answers including # of partners and other info they might not want shared so publicly. Maybe one of these would be a better choice. Looks like they have free versions too. Awesome I'll take a look, thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/17 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Do women have poor mate selection?From the sidebar: Invalidating. Do not tell another user directly that the opinion expressed by them is incorrect. If a guy says, “I like a woman who can cook and clean” do not respond by saying, “No, you want a live-in servant.” It's the basis for good faith discussion, give others the benefit of the doubt that they actually want what they say they want, have experienced what they say they experienced, rather than telling them what you think they want or have experienced, or calling them a liar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/17 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Do women have poor mate selection?Your comment was removed because a user told you they had an experience and you said "no you haven't". From what I've read ITT people are disagreeing with your conclusions, not saying you didn't experience what you experienced. /u/decoy88 fyi comments like "who hurt you" would be removed as that's getting too personal and not furthering good faith discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/17 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Which pill helps with marriage issues?Hey, your post has been removed as this is a debate sub and not a place to solicit personal advice. You could try r/askTRP, r/thebluepill or r/ppdpersonaladvice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/17 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Summer 2017 PurplePillDebate SurveyIt closed at midnight, try again in 6mo? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/17 11:57 AM |
| 4 | What made you decide to join this sub?you: "don't message me again harassment!!" also you: "i'll just message cuittler a bunch today" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/17 11:51 PM |
| 4 | What made you decide to join this sub?This isn't automod, go circlejerk somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/17 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Why so little empathy for men who visit sex workers?be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/17 07:53 PM |
| 5 | What made you decide to join this sub?I'm generally interested in gender issues and like discussing them. The other reason is to study anger/bigotry in action, how it can make people believe in the most hateful, absurd ideas because it feels good. We see RPers indulging in these feelings constantly, justified by rhetoric like: women who have/like lots of sex are damaged, men who do are normal (but if you're a man who doesn't you're a little faggy beta mangina). Single mothers are scum, destroying families because they're "unhaaaaapy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/17 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4A: What do you make of this post's reasoning?be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/17 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How many TRP "truths" do you think are a result of self-fulfilling prophecy?If we didn't allow people opinions on groups RPers wouldn't be allowed to talk about women being children, or any of their other ideas about women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/17 01:16 PM |
| 2 | How many TRP "truths" do you think are a result of self-fulfilling prophecy?I don't see them referring to you specifically but RPers as a whole, which is allowed here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/17 08:24 PM |
| – | If Atlas was a dinosaur what kind of dinosaur would she be?Hey these kinds of posts calling out individual users are not appropriate, it's been removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/17 06:56 PM |
| 2 | How many TRP "truths" do you think are a result of self-fulfilling prophecy?Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Heightened male aggression toward sexualized women following romantic rejection: The mediating role of sex goal activationI hope you realize that's no excuse for your behavior, please report comments like that instead of retaliating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/17 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Heightened male aggression toward sexualized women following romantic rejection: The mediating role of sex goal activationKnock it off, be civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/17 02:57 PM |
| 14 | Anyone who uses the 'it's my imperative' excuse to justify reprehensible actions is full of shitYou see it sometimes on MRP: man is married and getting sex but wants some secret strange on the side, or a mistress, and it's usually explained as men have lots of sperm so the male imperative is to fuck lots of different women while women's imperative is to put her limited eggs in one alpha basket (based on old study on captive flies, of all things). You also see this explanation a lot on the main RP sub but it's more about spinning lots of plates than justifying cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 06:38 PM |
| 2 | Do you consider your SO when making decisions or nah?Woman: This new job in a new city could be a good move for the family, but what about my sons' school? Or my daughter's new friends? She'll likely miss them. Ha, my mom didn't gaf about me missing friends when we moved to a new city for her job. "You'll make new ones!" She was right though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/17 05:09 PM |
| 2 | The male need for sex and the reason behind the rise of the RPHow does it apply here according to you? I explained that in previous comments. Are you suggesting that due to the open nature of the thread ("Discussion") that all people were going to do is high-five over his crapping-spree on feminism? Yes it's happened many times before. I'm not sure what else I can tell you - if it bothers you this much you can talk to a different mod in modmail, up to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | The male need for sex and the reason behind the rise of the RPAs per the guidelines in the sidebar: “Circle Jerk” is a pejorative slang term referring to a positive feedback loop which occurs when an idea, belief or meme that is already customary within an online community becomes re-iterated and rewarded in a perpetual cycle, giving rise to redundancy, clichés and karma whoring. A circlejerk on reddit commonly takes the form of a sequence of low-effort replies using sarcasm to affirm a belief and "cash in" on karma for agreeing with the prevailing opinion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/17 03:42 PM |
| 2 | The male need for sex and the reason behind the rise of the RPFor this subreddit it is excessively circlejerky, it's the kind of comment that belongs on the red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/17 03:34 PM |
| 2 | The male need for sex and the reason behind the rise of the RPand the only true feminist lives in the Platonic Realm and expresses herself through patterns of dewdrops on the leaves in autumn and everything she says is unspeakably kind and beautiful and any time I try to make a point about feminism using examples from anyone other than her I am a dirty rotten motivated-arguer trying to weak-man the movement for my personal gain. I understand the frustration that can come from having the same arguments over and over but does this really sound like open-mind… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/17 03:29 PM |
| 2 | The male need for sex and the reason behind the rise of the RPWe will now perform an ancient and traditional Purple Pill Debate ritual, where I point out something I don’t like about feminism, then everyone tells me in the comments that no feminist would ever do that and it’s a dirty rotten straw man. And then I link to two thousand five hundred examples of feminists doing exactly that, and then everyone in the comments No-True-Scotsmans me by saying that that doesn’t count and those people aren’t representative of feminists. And then I find two thousand f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/17 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Why do women place so much emphasis on the presence of other women?There are still more studies currently that attest to otherwise Mind linking some of them? Here's another for you if you're interested: Women and men may differ in their propensity to choose a risky outcome because of innate preferences or because their innate preferences are modified by pressure to conform to gender-stereotypes. Single-sex environments are likely to modify students’ risk-taking preferences in economically important ways. To test this, our controlled experiment gave subjects an … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/17 03:07 PM |
| – | The male need for sex and the reason behind the rise of the RPOP your post is excessively circlejerky in some areas, can you please edit and I will re-approve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/17 02:58 PM |
| 9 | Why do women place so much emphasis on the presence of other women?Why are women, more than men, driven to quit due to workplace pressures and stress? The article went into more depth but basically women are expected to also be performing household chores and childcare on top of the stressful work hours and conditions. It can be difficult to manage. women are factually more risk averse That's debatable, some cross-cultural studies on risk preference have shown interesting results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/17 02:47 PM |
| 5 | Why do women place so much emphasis on the presence of other women?Not just women, sorry, you said mainly women. The part that irks me is you say it's how you perceive it but you carry on as if we should all assume it's true that women complain more which comes off as leading rather than open-minded. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/17 01:39 PM |
| 11 | Why do women place so much emphasis on the presence of other women?Essentially, I am wondering why the perceived amount of women in a environment typically appears to exacerbate female complaints of being demotivated or discouraged. role models and mentors, in male-dominated workplaces there are fewer women that other women can look up to and imagine being in their place. male-dominated fields tend to pay more but women face higher discrimination, glass-ceiling, etc. Edit: more info on point 2 Young women may be discouraged from certain career paths because of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/17 01:25 PM |
| 13 | Why do women place so much emphasis on the presence of other women?Her point was men also complain about female-dominated workplaces, not just women as you claim. Fwiw I have also worked in female-dominated areas and men do complain too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/17 01:19 PM |
| 3 | Why are people so mad at fat girls?what is that, a bento box? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/17 02:07 PM |
| 8 | Why are people so mad at fat girls?He was crazy though, listen to his ideas you can tell something was wrong with his brain. Not your average bitter dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/17 12:58 PM |
| 6 | Why are people so mad at fat girls?There is the unfair biological advantage that men can eat more calories than women before they gain weight. So true. sobs quietly into diet | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/17 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Atheism shows religious though transcends traditional domestic belief systems.It was a stream of consciousness rant from someone who sounds high and lost. Are you someone's alt or new account? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/17 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Atheism shows religious though transcends traditional domestic belief systems.I will never be stopped from spreading harmful shapes and vocal noises muhaha. You do that buddy, somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/17 03:35 AM |
| 1 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.Police Violence & Domestic Violence There's also the link I posted just above. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.If you're not going to read the material I'm no longer interested in this conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/17 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Is disliking women ever acceptable or justifiable?Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/17 09:20 AM |
| 1 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.Ok, that seems doubtful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/17 03:56 AM |
| 1 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.as he is part of a non profit that doesn't think men can be victims of DV Pretty sure that's not true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/17 02:37 AM |
| 1 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.The Myth of Sexual Symmetry in Marital Violence Claims about husband battering "Gender Symmetry" in Domestic Violence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/17 01:44 AM |
| 1 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.There are plenty, the Wikipedia page can point you to several examples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/17 01:13 AM |
| 1 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.I'm not going to reply to multiple comments but I will point out that one of your links is citing Archer (2000), which is made up of many studies using the original Conflict Tactics Scale. The CTS had a number of flaws, among which it didn't take into account the context of the violence (defensive, protective or antagonistic), it didn't include sexual assault and it only asked about incidents with current partners (much DV takes place after separation) within the past year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/17 01:01 AM |
| 1 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.You are still ignoring the part where women are also being arrested and discriminated against, although I concede simply being arrested when you're the victim of violence is probably trauma in itself, and would be an awful experience for man or woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/17 12:56 AM |
| 1 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.I don't think that's the whole story, not when many women have experienced not being believed or even arrested when they were being abused. Edit: fwiw, height, weight, potential for injury are also helpful for determining aggressor in same sex couples, or where the woman is much larger/heavier than the man. And if height and weight were the only things the cops had to go on for arresting the man, lacking signs of injury or struggle, priors, etc. that would be a pretty weak case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/17 12:08 AM |
| 1 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.Arrests for domestic violence in States with mandatory arrest laws and preferred arrest laws were significantly higher than those for departments in discretionary States. These higher arrest rates were observed in acquaintance and stranger cases as well. The overall dual arrest rate was 1.3 percent. Dual arrest rates were higher for intimate partner (1.9 percent) and other domestics (1.5 percent) than for acquaintance (1.0 percent) and stranger (0.8 percent) cases. The existence of mandatory law… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 11:20 PM |
| 2 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.Click on the link... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 05:19 PM |
| 2 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.Never seen any stats on this, can you show me? Yes, I posted a link containing several sources two comments ago. Edit to respond to this I think even in states without primary aggressor laws, women would still be favored due to men generally perceived to be more violent, white knightery, or other manifestations of "women are wonderful effect". It really depends, there are a lot of factors which can work against women as much as help them. There's a concept called the ideal victim/perpetrator, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 05:11 PM |
| 2 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.The topic being what the average person is like, we have obvious reasons to disagree here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 05:08 PM |
| 3 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.AbrahamTheIncel Ok buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 05:05 PM |
| 5 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.Some do, just like some men want arm candy to show off but that's not the general rule. Most people want a loving relationship more than a hot accessory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 04:16 PM |
| 3 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.Women are more likely to be emotional, and scared, and even if a man is emotional he's more likely to be angry and outraged that his partner hit him, meaning the police won't provide him the help he needs. Do you have a source for this? Because that is contrary to what I've heard about male abuse victims. You know if an abused man calls the police he's more likely to be arrested than his abuser, right? In states without primary aggressor laws, so are abused women - that's kind of the point of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 02:27 PM |
| 3 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.Most DV is reciprocal, but men usually get in trouble for it, whereas women do not, due to primary aggressor laws. Primary aggressor laws are supposed to encourage police to look at the context of the violence rather than equating self-defense, for example, to a pattern of abuse. Does any of this seem unreasonable? Police must identify which injuries are due to self-defense and which are offensive injuries. The police must also look beyond the visual evidence and consider the context of the act … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 02:14 PM |
| 4 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.Being attractive is necessary to get a gf, not for women to understand and value men's emotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 12:10 PM |
| 5 | A lot women have no clue guys have emotions as deep as they have.The amount of women that die from DV is retrospeaking small. I take it you think false rape accusations and "divorce rape" are also not a big deal because they rarely happen? Besides its women who are the primary aggressors of DV not men. And most DV is mutual anyway. But nickpicking things is the way to go here. Can you post some sources showing that to be the case? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/17 11:53 AM |
| 7 | Do women expect too much from men?Of course your level-headed comment noting plenty of women are finding relationships just fine is downvoted to -1! Some men here seem to only want to hear that women are all demanding, hypocritical harpies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/17 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Let's be honest about the historical oppression of women's sexuality. What was it for? And what is its relevance to today?You knew the child was yours a the woman was pure. And this in turn was only important due to property being passed down the male line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/17 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Summer 2017 PurplePillDebate SurveyDo it for science! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/17 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Why is WGTOW so small compared to MGTOW?Low-effort posts will be removed, try to add some more substance or elaborate on why your question is relevant to this community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Men's SMV actually peaks at 28, young women dating significantly older men is usually BBOh ok my bad! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Men's SMV actually peaks at 28, young women dating significantly older men is usually BBI'd state that men in their thirties in good shape, with good careers and all their hair have a much easier time dating other thirties women than they did dating the same women in their 20s, but that women still have way higher SMV and probably RMV too. Yes that's what I'm saying, what part are you disagreeing with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 07:23 PM |
| 3 | Men's SMV actually peaks at 28, young women dating significantly older men is usually BBThat it becomes easier, you're the only person I've heard say men have it easier than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 06:38 PM |
| 5 | Men's SMV actually peaks at 28, young women dating significantly older men is usually BBSo if I "know nothing about" the 35+ dating market since I'm under 35 (what I think you meant to say), does it also follow that you know nothing about how a 35+ woman might feel since you're a man? So how are you so certain you can dismiss the idea of older women gaining confidence? If my insight into the older dating market is invalid, so is your insight into how older women feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 06:10 PM |
| 5 | Men's SMV actually peaks at 28, young women dating significantly older men is usually BBThat's your right, I will just note that the RPer exited the conversation because the idea of older women gaining confidence was so egregiously offensive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 06:01 PM |
| 5 | Men's SMV actually peaks at 28, young women dating significantly older men is usually BBYou sure broke out the dismissive snark when I suggested older women might just be more confident and care less what people think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Men's SMV actually peaks at 28, young women dating significantly older men is usually BBOk, no need to take it personally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Men's SMV actually peaks at 28, young women dating significantly older men is usually BBI'm 27, and can say I'm giving less and less fucks about both those things with each passing year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Men's SMV actually peaks at 28, young women dating significantly older men is usually BBI've had women randomly give me their number, ask if they can come over. Say things like"sexy" "cutie", etc. It may also be women are gaining confidence and caring less about being seen as sexually aggressive or slutty as they get older, I think the way RPers paint it as older women are just haggard and desperate is way off. FWIW neither of my parents had trouble finding other people to date after getting divorced and they were both over 35 too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 03:05 PM |
| 4 | Men's SMV actually peaks at 28, young women dating significantly older men is usually BBInteresting, I've heard that women get less attention as they age but never that men actually start to get more attention than women, at any age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Men's SMV actually peaks at 28, young women dating significantly older men is usually BBThe smv just simply shifts in the thirties to the man's advantage Are you saying men in their thirties are getting more sexual attention/offers than thirties women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/17 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL What is creepy female behavior to you?be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/17 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL Have you ever been in an abusive relationship or observed one of a close friend of yours?People argue and cry, but when it's always one person cornering the other and screaming, berating, belittling, chastising, guilting them, over very minor things too, to the point of breaking down and crying that doesn't seem healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL Have you ever been in an abusive relationship or observed one of a close friend of yours?I never saw or heard anyone get physical but I've known several couples where one will berate, guilt and scream at the other until they had broken down crying. Over little shit too, like smoking a joint or not using enough coupons at the store. Or they were jealous and controlling to the point of demanding the other person call or text every half hour, hated all their friends and tried to isolate them from everyone. It's scary stuff because the person being abused will rarely see it that way, th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 04:58 PM |
| 0 | The Collapse of DatingAre you aware that invalidating is against the rules here? Invalidating. Do not tell another user directly that the opinion expressed by them is incorrect. If a guy says, “I like a woman who can cook and clean” do not respond by saying, “No, you want a live-in servant.” I'm telling you exactly what I meant, but you continue to insist I mean what you want me to mean, because it's a lot easier to kick over a strawman you pulled out of your ass than actually address someone's argument, right? And b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 01:01 PM |
| 0 | The Collapse of DatingI was referring to the culture, if you're confused refer to my previous comment. Or don't, since you're clearly not here in good faith. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 04:41 AM |
| 1 | The Collapse of DatingYou worded it earlier like you definitely thought they did. Well you were mistaken. I don't think anything I said suggested that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/17 02:32 AM |
| 1 | The Collapse of DatingYou don't need to be condescending, or make assumptions about my beliefs. I know many RP men here will take any reminder of basic historical fact as a personal attack but I don't think anyone "deliberately" made women second class citizens; a mix of culture, circumstances and environment produced those conditions. It's true that biology played a part in gendering certain labor but many women performed intense labor alongside their husbands, you can't point to that as the reason for women being p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/17 01:17 PM |
| 1 | The Collapse of DatingStifling women's independence and economic opportunities, making them second class citizens so they would have to marry is not fair, objectively. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 07:51 PM |
| 5 | Do women lie about what they are attracted to or do some people just not understand that women are individuals?So what, no one is born knowing everything they will ever like or dislike. Tastes change, or we discover something new we didn't realize was attractive before. That's life, it's not being dishonest. Cut people some slack they're not all out to pull one over on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 02:49 PM |
| 5 | Do women lie about what they are attracted to or do some people just not understand that women are individuals?Ok I'm not going to argue such an obvious thing. Different people have different tastes, having different taste than someone else doesn't invalidate what they like. Some people just care about looks more than anything else, RPers seem to especially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 02:38 PM |
| 4 | Do women lie about what they are attracted to or do some people just not understand that women are individuals?If one guy says he likes big titted blondes and another guy says he likes bookish brunettes is the second guy lying and "virtue signaling"? Or is it possible different people can have different tastes, and a woman who likes muscular guys doesn't invalidate a woman who likes smart guys? Could the world possibly be more complex than WOMEN ONLY LIKE CHADS LYING BITCH IS JUST VIRTUE SIGNALING BLARGLEBARGLE! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 01:47 PM |
| 6 | Why has there been this push by some feminists to make male pop culture role models like James Bond and the Doctor from 'Doctor Who' into women?Plus in the context of the show, whenever the doctor gets a new body it's supposed to be random. He just happened to get straight, white, male British guy like 12 times in a row, there have been other time lords who were male/female. It's not literally implausible or anything to be female once in awhile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/17 01:32 PM |
| – | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (30 July 2017)I need some fun multiple-choice questions for the upcoming subreddit survey, any suggestions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 06:38 PM |
| – | I do not know about anyone else, but I am personally burnt out on feminism and mensrights and related topics. Does anyone else feel the same way? Seriously; we spend all day in this subreddit blasting away at each other.Post removed, take it to the banned topics post for this week. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/17 01:02 PM |
| 1 | We should be making steps to move away from the patriarchy, there is no returnbe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 10:04 PM |
| 2 | SMV Scale Starts at 5 for Not Obese Womenbe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/17 01:28 PM |
| 2 | How should rape by coercion or consensual rape be defined?I had to remove several of your comments for personal attacks, please be civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/17 02:38 PM |
| 1 | How men's and women's brains are differentDo not race-bait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 01:36 PM |
| 3 | What would happen to sexual and dating dynamics if the welfare state was completely eliminated?ky-tl | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/17 05:06 AM |
| 2 | What would happen to sexual and dating dynamics if the welfare state was completely eliminated?not interested in your snark or playing out this weird post-welfare fantasy, that's why my comment is under auto-mod | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 12:46 PM |
| 1 | "Misogyny" is just hatred of female sexualityFeminists aren't worried about incels, I promise you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 11:47 AM |
| 9 | What would happen to sexual and dating dynamics if the welfare state was completely eliminated?This question gets asked fairly often and it always feels like a thinly veiled attempt at getting people to fantasize about post-apocalyptic/post-welfare women being forced to submit to an alpha male harem because they were really inferior the entire time. Blegh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Men's view of women's competencyEverything in the study was purely hypothetical and this was known to the people in the study. Are you talking about the 2nd study? Where does it say the participants knew? Procedure. Participants were asked to provide feedback on the materials of an undergraduate science student who stated their intention to go on to graduate school, and who had recently applied for a science laboratory manager position. Of importance, participants believed they were evalu- ating a real student who would subseq… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?Are you talking about this? Hardly occult. For example, if a task can only be solved by representing the geometry of the layout, we do not see a difference between men and women. But if the task can be accomplished either by representing geometry or by representing individual landmarks, girls tend to rely on the landmarks, and boys on the geometry. To take another example, when you compare the shapes of two objects of different orientations, there are two different strategies you can use. You ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/17 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?I already addressed this, RPers often confuse blank slate theory with theories about socialization and learning. When you say "blank slate theory" that is something entirely different and inaccurate so of course you will get people laughing at you for saying so. RPers tend to subscribe to gender essentialism, that most if not all gender differences come from biology rather than learning. Feminists and BPers say it's a mix of both. If you want sources you can refer back to the ones I linked earli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?All I see is you have already made up your mind about what BP and feminists believe despite people telling you otherwise. Anyone who reads the papers and the passage I quoted can see that this is not "blank slate theory". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?This passage is from The Origins of Sex Differences paper I linked to you earlier (the authors are referring to evolutionary psychology and social constructionist theories): Social structural analyses suggest an evolved organism, but one in which evolutionary pressures yielded a variety of dispositions, such as the capacity for group living and for culture. These analyses do not imply that people's minds are blank slates, because humans possess facilities, such as for language, that develop in c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?There were some, decades ago before neuroscience had made much progress, that believed pure social constructionism was the only answer but that hasn't been the case for a long, long time. If you're arguing based on that you're like 50 years behind. Modern feminism has moved on to a more nuanced understanding of nature and nurture as you can see in the links I provided, but if you would prefer to cling to what was believed decades ago before science advanced and isn't relevant to most feminists a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?By the way, if you're interested in learning what actual feminists think and not just second hand criticism by faux feminists, check these out Biosocial Construction of Sex Differences and Similarities in Behavior The Nature–Nurture Debates: 25 Years of Challenges in Understanding the Psychology of Gender The Origins of Sex Differences in Human Behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?Well that was disappointing. Steven Pinker is not a feminist, not the kind you're trying to criticize and not the kind I'm referring to. Him saying feminists believe in blank slate theory is not the same as actual feminists believing in blank slate theory. And I read the passage in your second link that mentions the words "blank slate"...you realize they were referring to social constructionism and that is not the same thing as the blank slate theory, which I defined above in a previous comment.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?Go on and find feminists who advocate blank slate theory then. I'm waiting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/17 11:42 AM |
| – | Why did /r/thebluepill make this about race?See guidelines in the sidebar, no race-baiting or racially charged content. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/17 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Men's view of women's competencyMy point about communication style was purely about the politician study. It obviously doesn't apply to the STEM resume study as the resumes were identical and there was no interview. My original point was that the same effect (men and sometimes women seeing women as less competent) repeats in several other studies beyond the political one, which makes your gender communication argument not very convincing, to me at least. That and you are doing the very phony thing many RPers will do when they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/17 05:23 PM |
| 5 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?Why do you keep replying to me after telling me to leave you alone and stop "harassing" you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/17 02:38 PM |
| 7 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?That's not what blank slate theory means. John Locke in his Essay Concerning Human Understanding restated the importance of the experience of the senses over speculation and sets out the case that the human mind at birth is a complete, but receptive, blank slate ( scraped tablet or tabula rasa ) upon which experience imprints knowledge. If you're trying to argue what I think you mean to argue, that feminists and BPers believe society can mold and shape men and women to behave in certain directio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/17 02:36 PM |
| 4 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?Can you reply to one comment at once? This is getting too convoluted answering multiple comments. The idea of gender being a social construct created by society is not the same as saying everyone has the same brain. You only need to look at other cultures' views of gender to see that it's a variable, social construct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/17 02:13 PM |
| 5 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?I'm saying you're absolutely wrong about feminists or BPers supporting blank slate theory. I'm challenging you to prove it, just saying so isn't a good enough starting point for debate. Seems to me you're unwilling to answer questions. I would be happy to if you can show BPers and feminists supporting and advocating blank slate theory. Otherwise what's the point? I could make up any crap I like about TRP and ask, "hey, does it seem like a lot of RPers support dog rape? I have no proof but I want… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/17 02:09 PM |
| 5 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?People are unique, special and different snowflakes due to how their blank slate was filled out and societally conditioned to be different Yeah that doesn't sound like a RP strawman at all, it should be easy to find lots of examples of feminists and BPers supporting blank slate theory right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/17 01:57 PM |
| 16 | Will BP ever have a coherent standpoint?I notice that you don't give the name of this blank slate theory book you don't show any support for feminists believing in blank slate theory, advocating blank slate theory, etc. you assert that gay people are in the same category as sociopaths and conspiracy theorists you say blank slate theory is "believed by a lot of people", again no support for this you say BPers support blank slate theory with no support Your entire post is railing against people believing in false, debunked theories when… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/17 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Men's view of women's competencyAll I wanted to point out to you is that your theory of men having a different communication style doesn't hold out when you look at the second study, because the faculty looked at the exact same identical application but with randomized gender. Seriously, why do you keep ignoring that the application was identical? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/17 12:53 PM |
| 3 | Men's view of women's competencyFor all you know, the effects of the differences in communication style show up even when they're not speaking in that particular case as a kind of echo effect. These studies don't occur in a vacuum after all. Did you not read the part where the applications were identical? There was no difference in communication style. Maybe the men are more skeptical of the gender-bias evidence because they're tired of being told that they're biased against women in science a priori? And the mountain of suppo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/17 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Men's view of women's competencyso calling it gender bias is both jumping to conclusions and confirmation bias. You don't think saying men have a communication style better suited to politics isn't jumping to conclusions or confirmation bias? Especially when you have no answer to why the effect repeats even in the absence of speaking? maybe it's because of all the affirmative action measures in the STEM fields have left senior faculty with a cynical and skeptical attitude towards women in science. What were you saying about ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/17 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Men's view of women's competencyIf it's not bias but communication style why do we see this effect repeat in studies like #2? No one was speaking, the raters were given the exact same application to read but with randomized gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/17 07:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: All college surveys on sexual assault and rape have an incredible bias and cannot be viewed as accurate information.I don't think you're looking at the big picture but I've done all I can here. OH and btw In 1998, a woman known only as Jane Doe won a landmark court decision against the service, more than a decade after she had been raped in the middle of the night by a serial predator. Justice Jean MacFarland concluded that police had failed to warn her about the “Balcony Rapist” – who had attacked four other women in her neighbourhood over the previous year – and that the service’s sexual-assault practices d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 01:51 PM |
| 3 | CMV: All college surveys on sexual assault and rape have an incredible bias and cannot be viewed as accurate information.Dude, you have no idea. Take your analogy but when the girl goes back to the village people call her a wolf slut, tell her she led that wolf on or it was "regret-bite", or just straight up don't believe her at all "there's no evidence this wasn't a consensual bite". Then the wolf shows up and wants to go over the girls entire bite history and claim she's just a vengeful lying slut out to ruin the good wolf's name. The villagers punish her for "lying" with social exclusion and bullying. The villa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 12:21 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Rising sexual inequality among males could have disastrous political and social consequences for Western societies.what does feminism have to do with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/17 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Can you quote where it says most pregnancies come from an alpha? And since it seems like you've changed your position at this point and are no longer insisting that female primates choose only one mate, or that human women would prefer to be on an alpha harem, we can put that to rest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?It contradicts you saying "a female primate will only choose one mate" It shows female primates seek males other than their "alpha" Gives a more sober description of female primate behavior than "she accepts beta sperm because the alpha is too busy to impregnate her", which I'm not sure how you could even determine anyway because you'd have to know what the monkey was thinking to figure that. So do you have a source? Not trying to be a jerk about it, but some of the things you've said here are j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 01:52 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Rising sexual inequality among males could have disastrous political and social consequences for Western societies.You realize this is the place where men come to talk about how they're too terrified of women to even speak or approach them? If you haven't seen it yet just wait, it'll pop up sooner or later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Is There Any Point in Trying to Raise SMV as a Short Man?Hey, your post has been removed as this is a debate sub and not the place to ask personal advice. I would suggest you either post on r/ppdpersonaladvice or check out the IRC chat (link in sidebar --->) as its run by the same people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/17 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?A harem member is motivated to cheat because the bigger the harem, the greater the chance of not being impregnated by the alpha...So you accept beta sperm as better than no sperm. No, not exactly. Did you happen to see where I posted this above? As Sarah Hrdy wrote in her 1977 book The Langurs of Abu, in her ten year study of Hanuman langurs (Semnopithecus entellus) she found at least three different sets of circumstances under which female langurs solicit males other than their so-called harem-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?I'd like to not get off track here, and I'm unclear on whether you're still asserting that Female primates only have sex with one male which is why you and almost all women prefer monogamy, because it's the closest thing to what women would be doing in a state of nature. and It's the default primate mating pattern. ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?I'm pretty sure that female primates are usually not choosy during estrus I point out that this includes estrus because earlier you said bonobos exclusively mate with the alpha male while fertile, and because it shows female primates choose more than one mate, regularly it seems and during all phases of their reproductive cycle, counter to your initial claim that a female primate chooses only one mate. Are you still asserting this or no? Well if you look at polygamous Mormons you see that prefer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Of the species you have in mind, how many of them don't have an alpha working hard to chase away rival males from a harem of females? I don't know, and I don't think it matters much since my point was that this Female primates only have sex with one male, which is why you and almost all women prefer monogamy, because it's the closest thing to what women would be doing in a state of nature....It's the default primate mating pattern. is incorrect. Female primates do choose more than one male, duri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?There are hundreds of primate species, and virtually all of them use harem mating. One species is highly promiscuous, a tiny handful do pair-bonding. And quite a few show polyandrous mating preferences so I have to disagree that harems are any sort of default. If that were the case how are the above examples of females, in estrus, seeking multiple mates even possible? A more likely explanation is rather than having a default, harem, pair bond and polyandrous mating styles developed due differing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Yeah they have a unique peace-keeping strategy, that doesn't negate the overall point however. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 01:24 PM |
| 4 | Why do the men on the red pill sub crave having uncommitted sex to such a massive degree?Female primates only have sex with one male, which is why you and almost all women prefer monogamy, because it's the closest thing to what women would be doing in a state of nature....It's the default primate mating pattern. What since when? Female saddle-back tamarins (Saguinus fuscicollis), who were once thought to be monogamous, solicit matings with multiple males, each of whom help to care for her offspring (Goldizen 1986). Mouse lemurs (Microcebus murinus) engage in “selected polyandry” by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 12:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: The female sexual experience is FAR superior to the male one, assuming that the woman is able to orgasm and her partner is competent and the chemistry is good. Therefore, women should feel extremely lucky.be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/17 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Why were the girls at my sister's school defending an alleged rapist?Your post is mostly made up of your opinion which would make it more suitable for CMV than Discussion, but you don't really sound open to having your view changed either. If you want to get different opinions I'd suggest making your post less about your own opinion, less stuff like this Its shit like this that makes it sooooooo hard to take anything non-redpill seriously. that comes off as very circlejerky and would be better suited for TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 02:55 PM |
| – | Why were the girls at my sister's school defending an alleged rapist?This post would be better suited for TRP, it's a bit of a rant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 02:39 PM |
| 1 | How "angry" or "hateful" is /r/TheBluePill? An analysis of over 100 TBP commentsI have given you an explanation for the removal, you don't have to like it now stop bothering me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (16 July 2017)I used this one, add cinnamon to taste. :) They have a vanilla cinnamon chia pudding recipe on there that's not bad either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/17 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Does male sexuality disgust you?be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Women being able to get casual sex easier is not a good thing.be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 09:17 PM |
| 2 | How "angry" or "hateful" is /r/TheBluePill? An analysis of over 100 TBP commentsFor the last time, I have already explained why it's inappropriate to discuss whether a user is a troll. If you don't like that explanation, and you don't like my moderating that's fine but repeatedly sticking your nose into matters that don't involve you and complaining and reporting my comments for trolling is not going get you anywhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/17 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (16 July 2017)The one I use has Stevia leaf extract, sugar and Erythritol. Of the ones I've tried (Xylitol, Swerve and Stevia Rebaudiana) this one tastes the best. Stevia extract vs Stevia Rebaudiana has a huge difference to watch out for tho, the Rebaudiana kind has an awful aftertaste. shudders | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 11:04 PM |
| – | Columbia University Forced to Pay Settlement to Victim in "Mattress Girl" Debacle: Women on Facebook Have a FreakoutPlease re-post wih a more neutral title, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (16 July 2017)My bf and I are trying to find healthy substitutes for sugar and flour, we ended up making vanilla cinnamon cookies with Truvia and almond flour. They turned out chewy, and decent for no sugar. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 05:24 PM |
| 2 | How "angry" or "hateful" is /r/TheBluePill? An analysis of over 100 TBP commentsIf you want to make a complaint about a user take it modmail | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How "angry" or "hateful" is /r/TheBluePill? An analysis of over 100 TBP commentsIf you want to make a complaint about a user take it modmail, that's not a discussion I'm going to have here. Also, I was using his own logic for what constitutes inferiority (shortness and weakness), not making a statement of my own. That's a relief, but I don't think you can use that exchange as an example of BPers holding women to a different standard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 03:08 PM |
| 2 | How "angry" or "hateful" is /r/TheBluePill? An analysis of over 100 TBP commentsIf you have a link that would be awesome but I don't remove anything unless it goes against the guidelines. Edit: I actually came across that exchange a second ago, you realize that guy was messing with you right? Meanwhile you seriously refer to women as an "inferior gender" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 02:47 PM |
| 1 | How "angry" or "hateful" is /r/TheBluePill? An analysis of over 100 TBP commentsI mean, they don't like racism and sexism for sure, which are things subs like TRP and coontown have in abundance. If that's cult-like that's fine with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 02:42 PM |
| 3 | How "angry" or "hateful" is /r/TheBluePill? An analysis of over 100 TBP commentsOk, I was hoping for some actual quotes this just looks like some circlejerk nonsense no one would actually say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 02:41 PM |
| 1 | How "angry" or "hateful" is /r/TheBluePill? An analysis of over 100 TBP commentsWhat lower standards would those be? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 01:36 PM |
| 1 | How "angry" or "hateful" is /r/TheBluePill? An analysis of over 100 TBP commentsIt's not about being direct, it's about the motivation behind it: one group likes to spread racism, sexism, etc. while the other group makes fun of their bigotry...and they are somehow just as toxic? How does that make sense? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 12:12 PM |
| 2 | How "angry" or "hateful" is /r/TheBluePill? An analysis of over 100 TBP commentsThey are against hate speech. "Women are only good/useful for sex" "Single moms are delinquent sub human scum" "Women want to be treated like shit" "Beta cuck faggot" Pointing out the hateful things RPers say and making fun of them isn't hate speech. Mockery is not bigotry. Downvotes don't change the things RPers have said, sorry.* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 11:58 AM |
| 3 | How "angry" or "hateful" is /r/TheBluePill? An analysis of over 100 TBP commentsWhether you're serious or not isn't the issue, it's that your comment would be better suited for TRP. Circlejerking. “Circle Jerk” is a pejorative slang term referring to a positive feedback loop which occurs when an idea, belief or meme that is already customary within an online community becomes re-iterated and rewarded in a perpetual cycle, giving rise to redundancy, clichés and karma whoring. A circlejerk on reddit commonly takes the form of a sequence of low-effort replies using sarcasm to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 01:16 AM |
| 0 | How "angry" or "hateful" is /r/TheBluePill? An analysis of over 100 TBP commentsDo not circlejerk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 01:01 AM |
| 0 | How "angry" or "hateful" is /r/TheBluePill? An analysis of over 100 TBP commentsThey decided to define an individual comment as toxic if it was either an ad hominem attack (as in non-constructive criticism) or if it was blatantly bigoted, or both I'm surprised comments like "GASP are they trying CENSOR your FREE SPEECH??? I weep for you /s" were counted as toxic as blatant bigotry. He also used the results to isolate the bigoted comments to compare across subreddits and, unsurprisingly, found subs like /r/TheRedPill and /r/BlackPeopleTwitter to be particularly distasteful. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/17 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Weekly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Weekly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 08:55 PM |
| – | The concept of sexual objectification actually is an attack on male sexuality (regardless of what it was originally intended to be)No feminism, use the weekly thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP do you think there's anything good about traditionally masculine traitsThere is no reasonable argument against unreasonableness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Weekly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Weekly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP do you think there's anything good about traditionally masculine traitsOr 3: I have read the rules and know what you're claiming is not a rule. In any case another mod has approved the comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP do you think there's anything good about traditionally masculine traitsFor the record, when I asked you to point to where it says snark is uncivil in this sub's guidelines you say it's "common sense" talk about different subreddit's rules admit your own comment was snarky and continue to throw a fit over how "uncivil" I am So none of the above are examples of what you claim to be an existing rule for this sub, leading me to believe you are trying to make an issue out of this when you know very well it's not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP do you think there's anything good about traditionally masculine traitsCan you point out the rule that says either snark or snip are uncivil? And in that case wouldn't you expect your comment to be removed as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP do you think there's anything good about traditionally masculine traitsAsking if you have something better to do than make sarcastic, snarky remarks towards me (two days later, no less) is uncivil, ok then. Maybe today I will see a pig fly, too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP do you think there's anything good about traditionally masculine traitsI'm afraid there's nothing about snark in the guidelines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP do you think there's anything good about traditionally masculine traitsAre we talking about snark? "I don't have an argument, so I'm going to complain about something totally unrelated then take my ball and go home." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Change gendersphere phrases to be less offensive and more accurateI'm not entirely sure you understand the meaning or context of any of those terms, from your explanations of them. For example, AWALT is meant to be an offensive callback, similar to "well teach men not to rape", you're ignoring why those phrases were created in the first place : feminist were tired of people victim blaming rape victims and RPers were tired of hearing "not all women". Another one is patriarchy, which has many varying definitions to be sure, but describes the pattern of men as a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 12:10 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP do you think there's anything good about traditionally masculine traitsReport: Be civil/no personal attacks Really dude? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Weekly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Q4BP do you think there's anything good about traditionally masculine traitsThat was like 2 days ago, don't you have something better to do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/17 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Promoting sexism is morally wrongYou know benevolent sexism is a bad thing, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/17 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Men of the future wearing makeup just as much as womenHell yes, love me some guyliner. <3 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/17 11:12 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most of the time a guy is called creepy he is making a bold move on a girl way out of his leagueThat's the whole point: you can see who is open/attracted to who. If you're not paying attention to that and you make a move on someone who's showing no interest in you then yeah of course. Part of expanding social awareness is picking up on cues others are giving both verbally and non-verbally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/17 04:29 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Most of the time a guy is called creepy he is making a bold move on a girl way out of his leagueGoldilocks taught the same lesson if you forget. Excellent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/17 01:19 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Most of the time a guy is called creepy he is making a bold move on a girl way out of his leagueInstead of all the stress of cold approaching strange women, have you tried getting to know a girl from your social circle? It's a lot easier to figure out who's interested in who and what someone is like when you can interact together in a pressure-free way. It's also a great way to expand your social skills and confidence! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/17 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP do you think there's anything good about traditionally masculine traitsNo I just remembered how these convos usually go - nowhere. I told myself after that last time that if you can't even acknowledge a simple and blatant doxx attempt by an MRA then engaging with you is wasted effort on my part. Won't make that mistake again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP do you think there's anything good about traditionally masculine traitsShe went back on her word to not accept partisan donations for her totally non-partisan film. From what I can tell the vast majority of those donations -- if not all of them -- were individual contributions, not contributions from "ideologically-driven organizations." It wasn't "Men's Rights Chapter 309" donating money; it was John in Louisville and Dave in Boston. Even if she wanted to jeopardize her filmmaking career by throwing out money from MRAs, how would she even go about doing that? It's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4BP do you think there's anything good about traditionally masculine traitsDuring filming, Jaye, 29, began to question her feminist beliefs and soon she became a character in her own movie. Ultimately, that wasn’t even the most shocking part. The film came close to being shelved due to financial issues, but will now be completed thanks largely to the conservative website Breitbart.com and the men’s rights movement coming to her aid last week. The same MRAs she once feared have championed her project, helping to raise more than $135,000 to finish post-production on the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4BP do you think there's anything good about traditionally masculine traitsTo say those journalists simply aren't looking deeply enough is a stretch, there's not much to decode from statements like "single mothers are delinquent sub human scum" or "women are only good for sex" being positively received and highly upvoted on TRP. What's more Cassie Jay isn't exactly a neutral opinion, a lot of her funding came from MRA backers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/17 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Do TBPers hate men?Can you put this under the automod comment, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/17 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Is RPW/RPWi a community of "I'm not like other girls" but with internalized misogyny instead of faux-geek culture?Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/17 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Q4RP: Do TBPers hate men?No personal attacks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/17 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Offtopic-Sunday Megathread (09 July 2017)I'm from the US, we learned about Marx and Communism. Not everyone pays attention tho lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/17 05:25 PM |
| 5 | What are some examples of toxic femininity?Do what you like, just remember you're not at TRP and some content is not appropriate for PPD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/17 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What are some examples of toxic femininity?I was referring to the "race relations" part, not Obama. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/17 04:12 PM |
| 1 | What are some examples of toxic femininity?Remove all mention of race from your comment, and no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/17 04:09 PM |
| 1 | What are some examples of toxic femininity?No race-baiting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/17 03:55 PM |
| – | Why using sources may be bullshitThis would be more appropriate for the off topic post, thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/17 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP do you think there's anything good about traditionally masculine traitsIf that were true TRP would be getting good press but every major news outlet to cover TRP I've seen has been overwhelmingly negative due to its unbridled misogyny. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/17 12:56 PM |
| 4 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?I disagree since women also feel love and see their partners as unique, and you could argue that those men are confusing their fear of loneliness for love and their resentment of their perception of women's greater options as "women don't love the same". It's essentially coming from a place of lacking and scarcity when love is...well everyone will describe it differently but love is more selfless, and wanting the other person's happiness and well-being as much as your own. They are two completel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 04:47 PM |
| 2 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?Stop doing this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Q4all: Do you think online dating is worth it for the average man?Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 01:30 PM |
| 5 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?Whatever you say, but this The fear comes from the fact that you'll potentially look at years of loneliness and lack of sex because you won't find someone like that again. is just pure fear and scarcity mentality, I would never want to be "loved" like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 01:29 PM |
| 6 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?That's a decent explanation, you're probably right. It's just petty to paint it as women "aren't capable of love" when it's really just scarcity mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 01:08 PM |
| 6 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?What about it? That's still fear and not love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 01:02 PM |
| 5 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?Just think about the men who shielded their girlfriends when the lunatic shot up a movie theater in Aurora. A couple of them pushed their gfs out of the way as they fled too, or so I heard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 05:00 AM |
| 11 | What's this weird way that men describe male love?The man feels a more desperate attachment because if he loses his woman he's potentially looking at years of loneliness and lack of sex. That's not really love though, that's fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/17 04:56 AM |
| 2 | *Totally Not a Post Berating Incels...Your comment was uncivil and unnecessarily hostile, as were others of yours ITT. Review the guidelines in the sidebar on our comment policy: Especially in regards to personal attacks and trolling, one can be nasty and hostile without technically breaking PPD’s rules. Mods have discretion to determine what is a personal attack, and where the boundaries lie for all posts and comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/17 08:46 PM |
| 2 | *Totally Not a Post Berating Incels...Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/17 08:26 PM |
| 1 | "Women aren't as shallow in real life like they are online" How is this true?No personal attacks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Weekly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Weekly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/17 03:31 PM |
| 1 | AskTrp and guys who don't recognize red flagsHey, be civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/17 05:37 PM |
| 1 | what the fuck happend to ppd when certain topics are taboo?What was your question again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/17 01:27 PM |
| 2 | What are the outcomes that Men's Rights Activists want?That guy Adam Frost did in fact form his men's society, with the support of the feminist society on campus. The request for the SFU men's center is currently under review. Not feminists shutting them down but the school choosing not to fund their group. When I said I was looking for examples of feminists shutting down mens groups I meant actually stopping them from happening, not just protesting them. Protesting is not suppression, feminists are allowed to exercise free speech as much as anyone … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 11:25 PM |
| 1 | What are the outcomes that Men's Rights Activists want?Your first two examples aren't what I was asking about, but can you link an example of shutting down mens groups on campus? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Hypothetically speaking, how could TRP be used immorally?No, stop insulting others or you'll be banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Hypothetically speaking, how could TRP be used immorally?Your comment was uncivil, if you want to appeal take it to modmail. Edit: continuing to call him a liar is not helping your case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Lindey Ellis explains Feminist TheoryBe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 03:44 PM |
| 1 | what the fuck happend to ppd when certain topics are taboo?I reported a bunch and they stayed up. Without seeing the context there's not much I can tell you. Next time you see it happen send us a modmail, and you can mention me by name if you like, and we'll try to get on the same page. I already said that I will try to follow the rules. What else do you want from me? That's fine, I was just trying to answer your questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 03:30 PM |
| 2 | what the fuck happend to ppd when certain topics are taboo?Personal attacks are not tolerated, if something you reported wasn't removed you can always send us a modmail to clarify why. The other thing is the mods cannot be everywhere and see everything at once, we rely on users to report rule-breaking they come across. Do not assume that a personal attack you see is fine to repeat because it wasn't reported or removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Weekly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Hypothetically speaking, how could TRP be used immorally?Stop insulting people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 02:18 PM |
| 1 | what the fuck happend to ppd when certain topics are taboo?It's simple, this is not a forum to tell someone they're "hamstering" or have bad reading comprehension or retarded. Stop doing that and we won't have an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/17 01:46 PM |
| 1 | What are the outcomes that Men's Rights Activists want?Stop circlejerking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/17 04:17 PM |
| 1 | What are the outcomes that Men's Rights Activists want?Stop circlejerking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/17 04:16 PM |
| 1 | What are the outcomes that Men's Rights Activists want?Examples? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/17 04:13 PM |
| 3 | what the fuck happend to ppd when certain topics are taboo?It is, and not the only comment of yours I had to remove ITT so knock it off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/17 03:48 PM |
| 3 | what the fuck happend to ppd when certain topics are taboo?No personal attacks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/17 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Lindey Ellis explains Feminist TheoryBe civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/17 09:48 AM |
| 7 | Do you believe that men have an overall higher sex drive than women do?Women are less likely to orgasm from casual encounters than men...might have something to do with it. Edit: link here The gap, which is closely linked to cis-women, comes with the publication of a new study by W.W. Norton whose findings proved that college women have “orgasms half as often as men on repeat hookups and only a third of the time in first-time hookups.” Men aren’t only lacking in casual hookups, though. The study surveyed first hookups, three or more hookups, and relationships, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/17 01:01 PM |
| 1 | What strategy should I use to find a woman that's interested gaming.Its not super active but the people who run it are. You could also try the ppd irc (link in sidebar). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/17 11:35 PM |
| – | What strategy should I use to find a woman that's interested gaming.Hey, this sub is more for debate and discussion of gender and RP/BP than for giving personal advice. I suggest reposting over at r/ppdpersonaladvice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/17 10:04 PM |
| 1 | What to do when you realize no woman will ever desire you?No incels, no woe is me posts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/17 08:33 PM |
| 2 | CMV: When you take away the PUA/seduction angle from /r/theredpill, it's just another reddit hangout for "angry reactionary male" types that has been co-opted by the alt-right. An analysis using subreddit algebra bears this out.Y'all are the ones who initiated that little tactic. Care to explain? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 11:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: When you take away the PUA/seduction angle from /r/theredpill, it's just another reddit hangout for "angry reactionary male" types that has been co-opted by the alt-right. An analysis using subreddit algebra bears this out.One, major feminist organizations weren't really involved in Gamergate/anti-gamergate. And they are also large, public-facing institutions with a lot of money and a lot to lose. So I'm not sure how reasonable it is to use lack of harassment by Ms. Magazine, for example, as a point in favor of anti-gamergate. I understand they have more to lose, but the point I was making was Elam is supposed to be a leader of the MRM and held to a higher standard than some forum poster on AVfM, but that's the be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 11:06 PM |
| 2 | CMV: When you take away the PUA/seduction angle from /r/theredpill, it's just another reddit hangout for "angry reactionary male" types that has been co-opted by the alt-right. An analysis using subreddit algebra bears this out.The actions of a few, that's a joke. Paul Elam advocated for the doxxing of women on his own blog and was supported by many of his followers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 10:19 PM |
| 0 | CMV: When you take away the PUA/seduction angle from /r/theredpill, it's just another reddit hangout for "angry reactionary male" types that has been co-opted by the alt-right. An analysis using subreddit algebra bears this out.I'll grant that on an individual level insults and mockery (I'm as guilty of this as anyone) and doxxing are done by liberals and conservatives alike. What I don't see coming from the feminist or liberal side is the kind of intense, orchestrated and sustained harassment and threats that are perpetrated by GG and MRAs, for years and years. I don't see major feminist organizations supporting and advocating for the doxxing of GG or MRAs the way Elam types gleefully do on AVfM. TL;DR the difference … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 09:41 PM |
| 1 | CMV: When you take away the PUA/seduction angle from /r/theredpill, it's just another reddit hangout for "angry reactionary male" types that has been co-opted by the alt-right. An analysis using subreddit algebra bears this out.So nothing, I'm disagreeing with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 09:26 PM |
| 2 | CMV: When you take away the PUA/seduction angle from /r/theredpill, it's just another reddit hangout for "angry reactionary male" types that has been co-opted by the alt-right. An analysis using subreddit algebra bears this out.people should but they only take it seriously when it happens to the left I've never heard that, or seen it implied by anyone other than those on the right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 09:06 PM |
| 3 | CMV: When you take away the PUA/seduction angle from /r/theredpill, it's just another reddit hangout for "angry reactionary male" types that has been co-opted by the alt-right. An analysis using subreddit algebra bears this out.I get it, it's never a big deal until it happens to you (or one of yours) and the people getting death threats sent to their home are just "overreacting", ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 08:44 PM |
| 2 | CMV: When you take away the PUA/seduction angle from /r/theredpill, it's just another reddit hangout for "angry reactionary male" types that has been co-opted by the alt-right. An analysis using subreddit algebra bears this out.I'm sure Sarkeesian and the others would've been happy to be left alone, getting daily threats with your personal info included is harder to ignore than you might think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 08:42 PM |
| 2 | CMV: When you take away the PUA/seduction angle from /r/theredpill, it's just another reddit hangout for "angry reactionary male" types that has been co-opted by the alt-right. An analysis using subreddit algebra bears this out.That sucks but it's not even close to what those people went through, no offense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 08:29 PM |
| 3 | CMV: When you take away the PUA/seduction angle from /r/theredpill, it's just another reddit hangout for "angry reactionary male" types that has been co-opted by the alt-right. An analysis using subreddit algebra bears this out.Like I said, when you, your friends and families home addresses are being posted online and you're getting daily harassment to your home and work let me know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 08:01 PM |
| 2 | CMV: When you take away the PUA/seduction angle from /r/theredpill, it's just another reddit hangout for "angry reactionary male" types that has been co-opted by the alt-right. An analysis using subreddit algebra bears this out.I have to disagree, I don't remember years-long harassment, doxx, threats or general mud-slinging campaigns towards Fisher or Cernovich by feminists or any other group. Criticism yes, but not the kind of hateful, personal attacks and sustained harassment (trying to get the gamergate girl to kill herself) like those against Sarkeesian or Binx or countless others. I haven't seen any major feminist orgs supporting the doxxing and further harassment of those men the way you see MRAs do towards femin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 07:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV: When you take away the PUA/seduction angle from /r/theredpill, it's just another reddit hangout for "angry reactionary male" types that has been co-opted by the alt-right. An analysis using subreddit algebra bears this out.You realize Twitter comments aren't what people were so upset about right? They were awful and unnecessary and showed the ugliest side of nerdy gamers but it was the doxxing, the real life threats to her home and her family and friends and bomb threats to her events that went on for years. Its the fact that this has happened to so many women and feminists now that it's getting so much attention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 07:45 PM |
| 4 | What's the best way for a guy to keep his options open in a relationship without cheating?Oh my god this post is like a kid who is trying to learn to swim from a book. You have to get in the water, thrash around like a dumbass for a bit while you get your bearings then learn to move in the water. You can be afraid to fail, but you have to a. actually try and b. accept and learn from your eventual failures. This is how most people learn, take some responsibility and stop dancing around the edge of the pool cause you're afraid to fail or you will never succeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 07:41 PM |
| 3 | CMV: When you take away the PUA/seduction angle from /r/theredpill, it's just another reddit hangout for "angry reactionary male" types that has been co-opted by the alt-right. An analysis using subreddit algebra bears this out.Let me know when people are posting your home address online accompanied with threats to rape and kill you and tell me if you still feel that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 07:28 PM |
| 3 | CMV: When you take away the PUA/seduction angle from /r/theredpill, it's just another reddit hangout for "angry reactionary male" types that has been co-opted by the alt-right. An analysis using subreddit algebra bears this out.Because she was relentlessly harassed, threatened and doxxed (including her friends and family) because she made some youtube videos. Robert Fisher created the RP subreddit and has said loads of horrendous things, he hasn't experienced even one percent of what she went through for fucking years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/17 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Help me prove that men are the more disposable genderI think they would acknowledge forced conscription for thousands of years was extremely shitty for men and women were protected from that aspect. I think they would also point out that the military provided men with a good option for gaining wealth, fame and power in society that women were barred from. They might also point out that not being soldiers didn't mean that women were protected from the harms of war: being kidnapped, bought and sold, tortured and raped happened to men and women, with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/17 10:02 PM |
| 2 | Help me prove that men are the more disposable genderGo to /r/AskFeminists and ask them what they think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Jordan petersons epic rant on womenI guess we'll have to agree to disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/17 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Jordan petersons epic rant on womenIf everyone understands then why do you insist that I consider equal rights caused women to be unhappy? Especially when no one has presented any compelling evidence to show a casual relationship between the two. If you wanted to hear what I think all you had to do was ask: the idea that women are less happy with equal rights has been touted by RPers and other anti-feminists on PPD and the pillsphere for years, this is not the first time I've heard it, and it is so clearly something these guys wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/17 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Jordan petersons epic rant on womenCan you read this summary and tell me if his assumption still makes sense? In statistics many statistical tests calculate correlations between variables and when two variables are found to be correlated, it is tempting to assume that this shows that one variable causes the other. That "correlation proves causation," is considered a questionable cause logical fallacy when two events occurring together are taken to have established a cause-and-effect relationship. This fallacy is also known as cum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/17 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Jordan petersons epic rant on womenDo you know what I would like? To have a disagreement about a concept, let's say correlation and causation in statistics, and not have it devolve into the other person abandoning the discussion to try and attack me personally. I can disagree on a point and not hold it against you but this is just petty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/17 01:01 AM |
| – | How deeply does gynocentrism/lookism/ageism permeate our consciousness?Hey you have been posting too frequently, please wait at least 24hrs between posts to allow discussion of the last post to die down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/17 10:18 PM |
| 3 | Why are women not inferior?The nice thing about that is it's all learned in the mind, not written into our genes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/17 08:54 PM |
| 8 | Why are women not inferior?You'll find that's not true when it comes to Hunter Gatherer societies. Of course some are more patriarchal, but many are more gender egalitarian. Women aren't just fuck holes / baby machines, that's more typical of post agrarian societies. On balance, the study of hunting-gathering peoples in the world today suggests that there probably was no ancient matriarchy because there was no "archy" (power concentration) at all. We are not likely to find a mirror image of the modern patriarchy in the Pa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/17 08:06 PM |
| – | Discussion: the alleged "double standard" of sluts and studsPost has been re-flaired Q4BP, non BP please reply to the automod. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/17 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Jordan petersons epic rant on womenBeing a mod has nothing to do with this, I'm not removing anyone's disagreement nor am I participating in bad faith. If that's how you feel you're free to go talk to someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Jordan petersons epic rant on womenBecause competent researchers understand correlation =/= causation. Also you are making this personal and about moderation when it's not, relax. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/17 07:01 PM |
| – | "Attraction changing" is bullshit, right?Low effort rant post removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/17 12:49 PM |
| 1 | Jordan petersons epic rant on womenOnce more, just because two variables correlate doesn't mean one causes the other, this is basic. He's presented his opinion, that's fine, but a solid argument that is not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/17 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Jordan petersons epic rant on womenAgain, can you directly relate unhappiness to equal rights? Because naming a list of items is pretty meaningless without showing causation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/17 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Jordan petersons epic rant on womenUnless you have some evidence that ties unhappiness to equal rights that's just, like, your opinion man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/17 12:22 AM |
| 8 | Jordan petersons epic rant on womenFor the second argument, this needs a "correlation =/= causation". If women are reporting lower rates of happiness, it doesn't necessarily follow that it's due to equal rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/17 09:45 PM |
| 1 | In your personal opinion, are RP PUAs horrible people?You realize you're equating TRP to Valerie Solanas? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/17 11:41 AM |
| 2 | In your personal opinion, are RP PUAs horrible people?Here it comes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 11:37 PM |
| 5 | In your personal opinion, are RP PUAs horrible people?That doesn't really work when the non-idiots are the exception. TRP is like the inverse to that rule and the level-headed, not hateful people are rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 11:13 PM |
| 5 | In your personal opinion, are RP PUAs horrible people?I can believe that's your take on it, but a lot of those guys seem to really think women are the scum of the earth and barely human compared to men. More likely those kinds of statements draw in men who already believe them or are in a state where they're willing to believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 10:43 PM |
| 4 | In your personal opinion, are RP PUAs horrible people?So when people complain about male tears I should tell them it's an idiot filter? Works for me. Edit: tone is really not the issue for me though, it's saying things like women are less intelligent, women can't feel love or loyalty, women are only good for sex, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 10:26 PM |
| 7 | In your personal opinion, are RP PUAs horrible people?Some of them are truly despicable, and seem to really hate their wives/gfs/"plates" to the point you wonder if they're only keeping them around to torture and look down on. I don't think many or even most RPers are as bad as that, but it says a lot about someone who can stomach all their paranoia, seething resentment, pseudo science and blatant contempt for women and still think RP has good to offer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 09:57 PM |
| 11 | Women who are entitled to a 'good man.'Red Pilling 101 When a woman complains about men: MISANDRY! AWALT! When a man complains about women: anger phase lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.Non sequitur | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.It's kind of weird you keep commenting on my biz when you told me I was "harassing" you and to not message you again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.Do you stalk all my comments or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.So we agree that telling a normal non-rapist not to rape is pointless No, you haven't been following my points very well. You have to educate women to claim rape more often. That is part of it, yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/17 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.Can you direct your questions to r/AskFeminists? I don't have the time or patience to untangle all your strawfeminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 11:40 PM |
| 6 | Q for Women/ FeministsThe ultimate showdown is between an older guy who wants to let women go first and a young woman who wants to let her elders go first. Whoever gives in lets down their whole generation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.Well, your example of why men need to be taught differently is because RooshV, radical edgy internet personality who posts extreme shit on the internet for attention and clicks, said that he raped someone. I only bring up RooshV as an example because you said: "I really, really think that focusing on the 0.000001% of guys who are super-retarded and think it's okay to fuck an unconscious girl while she's sleeping, or forcing themselves on a whimpering girl, is a largely ineffective use of resourc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Q for Women/ FeministsTHIS I really don't mind if a man walks through before me, it's much less awkward to just go by who's closest to the door... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 07:51 PM |
| – | BPs who tell men that feminism isn't responsible for their dating woes and that it's solely their attitude to blame is just about the same convenient get-out clause that neo-cons use against poor people when they tell them the the economy isn't stacked against them and that they're simply lazy.Post removed, it you edit the rant-y, circlejerk parts it can go back up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.Ok so you're clearly not reading my comments because I already answered this to you above: I already said that giving women advice is not the problem, it's that only women get advice on how to avoid rape, but no one gives advice on how to not be a rapist. I suggest you make a post on r/AskFeminists because I don't have patience for people who don't read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.They don't need to tell a perpetrator what they did wrong in order to not victim blame. If they can or can't find the perp just don't victim blame, easy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.Not all of them know, just like not every victim knows they've been assaulted even by strict legal definitions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.If you're just going to troll go waste someone else's time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.The point being if so few men bought into that kind of thinking there would be no need to teach consent. But so many do, this is the problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.That's not the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 07:03 PM |
| 2 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.It isn't always obvious to everyone, teens and young twenties folks especially. Again, how is it that RooshV can write about assaulting a hookup in his book and sell that advice to so many men if it's so obviously wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.Teaching them before they assault someone, or are assaulted themselves and don't realise it. That's why doing this in high school would be most beneficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.Some people aren't aware what they're doing is sexual assault. Teaching them is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.Some people aren't aware what they're doing is sexual assault. Teaching them is the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.I already said that giving women advice is not the problem, it's that only women get advice on how to avoid rape, but no one gives advice on how to not be a rapist. This is the chasm we are trying to cross, getting it through to folks that rape isn't just back alley stranger danger. I already gave the example of RooshV writing about sticking his dick in a sleeping hookup and giving that advice to other young men in his Bang! series. We need to teach young people that these sort of violations are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 06:11 PM |
| 7 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.Are you under the impression I'm against women protecting themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 06:07 PM |
| 5 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.On the contrary, I think men are capable of learning and growing as people. If I didn't I would just write them off as animals who couldn't be helped (like many RPers do...). These consent course would be taught to girls too, girls need to know as much as boys that you shouldn't treat others or accept being treated that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.Don't circlejerk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.Ok, I have no idea what you're talking about anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 06:02 PM |
| 6 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.I really, really think that focusing on the 0.000001% of guys who are super-retarded and think it's okay to fuck an unconscious girl while she's sleeping, or forcing themselves on a whimpering girl, is a largely ineffective use of resources. Never, in the history of Earth, has there been a man who was about to rape someone, then he thought back to his consent lecture and realized he'd better not fuck a sleeping girl until she wakes up and says yes. But before that consent lecture, it never would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.Are you saying victim blaming by police is justified? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.You don't know who the victim will be anymore than the perpetrator. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 04:32 PM |
| 6 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.My daughter takes martial arts. And she's learning how to use a gun as soon as she's old enough. Good for her, no one is saying to not do that. Teaching me not to rape is stupid. Because I'm not a rapist. And nobody I know is a rapist. You are probably thinking of stranger rape in a back alley scenario, most people do when the defensively react to this statement. You're not thinking of the guy who thinks it's ok to put his dick in the sleeping girl he hooked up with last night. You're not thinki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 04:02 PM |
| 6 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality."Teach men not to rape" is a response from frustrated women being told they're entirely responsible for not getting raped and being victim blamed when they do. "Don't go out late alone" "Always watch your drink" "Text a friend when you're out on a date" "Why did you wear that outfit?" "You shouldn't have flirted with him" "You shouldn't have had so much to drink." This is the advice and blame that many women and rape victims get. Many women wonder why society places the responsibility for being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 01:34 PM |
| 9 | Addressing men's issues could very well address women's issues, ie reverse trickle down equality.You're coming at this from the perspective that feminism is responsible for solving men's issues. It is not. Ask yourself, is the Chicana/Chicano Liberation also responsible for awareness of Asian American issues, and solving their problems in addition to their own? No, because it's too much for the focus of one group. There are many feminists who care about mens issues, I'm one of them. There are some feminists who make mens issues their primary focus, and that's awesome. But the point of femin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/17 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What do you think about "Schedules of Mating," which seems to me to be one of the most central documents in the TRP sidebar?If your opinion is also an offensive personal attack against another user it will be removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/17 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What do you think about "Schedules of Mating," which seems to me to be one of the most central documents in the TRP sidebar?You can have offensive opinions about a group, that is allowed. Making personal attacks on another user is not. Literally not the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/17 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Toxic Masculinity: Discrimination against male homosexualsNo personal attacks, your comments have been removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/17 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What do you think about "Schedules of Mating," which seems to me to be one of the most central documents in the TRP sidebar?Knock it off, be civil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/17 01:07 PM |
| 1 | My attempt at resolving the "women and men's looks" debate.Thanks, you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 02:42 PM |
| 1 | My attempt at resolving the "women and men's looks" debate.Sure, that's what happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 02:05 PM |
| 1 | My attempt at resolving the "women and men's looks" debate.Because what you report are not actual rule violations, you just don't handle criticism to your ideas very well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 01:46 PM |
| 2 | My attempt at resolving the "women and men's looks" debate.If you feel I've insulted you then report it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 01:36 PM |
| 2 | My attempt at resolving the "women and men's looks" debate.Really, there is no evidence so far that any true equivalent to a patriarchy has existed (as in women hold most of the power, status and privilege in the society). I could be wrong, but if you know of an example bring it up. The Red Queen by Matt Ridley Are you able to pull quotes? It's quite an old book, too are you sure it's still relevant? It's common sense and basic logic. If eligible bachelors are scarce (as they are in polygamous societies) Ok, can you show the society we're talking about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 12:54 PM |
| 1 | My attempt at resolving the "women and men's looks" debate.You mean matrilineal, no one has found evidence for a matriarchy so far. Matriarchal cultures are more hypergamous and polygamous. Therefore competition between women is much stronger. Citation needed. Higher competition for sexually desireable mates compels women to engage in more risk-taking behavior in order to achieve any success, and I suspect probably in spite of their natural inclination Citation needed. Futhermore, in tribal societies versus a larger more individualistic society, culture… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/17 12:00 AM |
| 4 | My attempt at resolving the "women and men's looks" debate.One thing to keep in mind is our brains physically adapt to our actions and thoughts. Men in our society are encouraged to take risks, while women are often discouraged from doing so and this may very well lead to physical differences in the brain. Something to chew on, if women were truly predisposed to be more risk averse how do you explain the equal rates of risk-taking behavior from the cross-cultural sample? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 11:19 PM |
| 7 | My attempt at resolving the "women and men's looks" debate.Nice theory but "harm avoidance" or risk-taking is culturally based, not a genetic predisposition for women. We use a controlled experiment to analyze gender differences in stereotypes about risk preferences of men and women across two distinct island societies in the Pacific: the patrilineal Palawan in the Philippines and the matrilineal Teop in Papua New Guinea. We find no gender differences in actual risk preferences, but we find evidence for culture-specific stereotypes. Like men in Western … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Is the look of lust/desire alien to most average-looking men? If so, does that lead to any harmful psychological consequences?I would expect that, don't count us appreciative ladies out tho. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Is the look of lust/desire alien to most average-looking men? If so, does that lead to any harmful psychological consequences?I have no idea what you're saying or what YHWH means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Is the look of lust/desire alien to most average-looking men? If so, does that lead to any harmful psychological consequences?Tell that to r/massivecock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 08:28 PM |
| 6 | Is the look of lust/desire alien to most average-looking men? If so, does that lead to any harmful psychological consequences?Fine by me, they all seem pretty reasonable - admirable, even. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Is the look of lust/desire alien to most average-looking men? If so, does that lead to any harmful psychological consequences?Guys who want validation post dick and abs pics, not tits and ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Is the look of lust/desire alien to most average-looking men? If so, does that lead to any harmful psychological consequences?Except for #7 (I don't believe in magic) that's a pretty legit set of rules to live by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Why is there 'benevolent' sexism? Who does it protect?This question really should have been directed towards feminists or at least BPers, so many of the RPers answering here have no idea what benevolent sexism means. Props to u/hyperrreal for staying on point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of campus sexual assault studies/surveys use sexual assault and rape as interchangeable terms?That's not my understanding of how the information was presented. More like: "Our report shows over 30% of the [city] earthquake victims suffered injuries or death." And then they cite the specific report that stat came from, which has the exact breakdown of deaths and injuries. The point is the stat describes a general harm of sexual assault that women experience. It's not like they group together something awful like rape with something that's totally fine and would be misleading - sexual touc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/17 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of campus sexual assault studies/surveys use sexual assault and rape as interchangeable terms?Your being entirely ignorant here. Be civil, don't insult others. If someone doesn't state it in the report they are writing they did that for a specific reason. They did state it. Do you really think saying rape and/or sexual assault has no bias behind it? No I don't and I'm very confused as to how you see it that way. They don't say 32% have been raped, they say 32% had been raped or sexually assaulted. The 'or' there is not a trick, it's not a lie, it's not bias - it's a part of speech signif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/17 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of campus sexual assault studies/surveys use sexual assault and rape as interchangeable terms?Maybe because you can just read the study to find out? The study they cite and aren't hiding at all? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/17 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of campus sexual assault studies/surveys use sexual assault and rape as interchangeable terms?I really don't see how. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/17 12:09 AM |
| 2 | What's Feminism doing that's actually that bad?Ok but I wouldn't take anything said in the red pill movie without a hefty grain of salt, research every claim they make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 11:36 PM |
| 2 | What's Feminism doing that's actually that bad?Do you have any names of feminists or feminist organizations which have actually blocked funding for men's shelters? Assume I'm not going to watch the red pill movie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 11:02 PM |
| 3 | What's Feminism doing that's actually that bad?Feminists actually block funding to create men's abuse shelters because they say women need it more Could you provide a source for this? Thanks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do a lot of campus sexual assault studies/surveys use sexual assault and rape as interchangeable terms?By the way, thank you for saying that even a 5.5% rate of rape is a bad thing...that sort of compassion has been sorely lacking around here lately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do a lot of campus sexual assault studies/surveys use sexual assault and rape as interchangeable terms?Sexual Touching: • kissing • touching someone’s breast, chest, crotch, groin, or buttocks • grabbing, groping or rubbing against the other in a sexual way, even if the touching is over the other’s clothing Among undergraduate students, 23.1% of females and 5.4% of males experience rape or sexual assault through physical force, violence, or incapacitation Which sounds serious as fuck. Until you realise that most of the girls answering yes were doing so as a guy touched their bum in the pub. To be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Why do a lot of campus sexual assault studies/surveys use sexual assault and rape as interchangeable terms?If you're referring to the one in four stat, they do distinguish between rape and other forms of sexual assault and the number does repeatedly come out to about one in four or one in five.* Edit: this often includes attempted and incomplete rape attempts, but I think that's fair enough to include since rape was the goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Why do a lot of campus sexual assault studies/surveys use sexual assault and rape as interchangeable terms?The studies I've read have always distinguished between different forms of sexual assault and don't equate bum swatting (ha) to rape or sexual battery. Sexual assault is sort of an umbrella term that can cover anything from bum swatting to rape, but the researchers make a point of distinguishing and breaking down the numbers by category. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Wh are women so paranoid these days about strangers? Why the anti-social attitude?The fake nice down in SoCal is real. That and no one means it when they say lets get together unless hard plans are presented (let's meet at X mall at 2pm). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 01:13 PM |
| 4 | Why do a lot of campus sexual assault studies/surveys use sexual assault and rape as interchangeable terms?TFW top comments are just agreeing and patting each other on the back and no one noticing "or" /=/ "interchangeable". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/17 12:26 PM |
| 1 | [Discussion] Feminist shows how some men react badly when women agree with their compliments.Anything to do with feminism or MRAs goes under the banned topic thread for this week. There are two, one for feminism/MRAs, one for off topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/17 09:17 PM |
| – | [Discussion] Feminist shows how some men react badly when women agree with their compliments.Take it to the weekly topic post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/17 09:10 PM |
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| – | Q4BP: What do you think about this fascinating and excellent Jordan Peterson video? He is very clear and to the point. He explains the differences between men and women and refutes "social constructionism."Your post has been removed, please add some context and summary for the video. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/17 12:58 PM |
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| 3 | Have young people stopped having sex? Why?Pulling the fire alarm at an MRA conference so you can present yor female manifesto is suppression. Getting doxxed, harassed and threatened for years must be ultra-suppression then? Canadian feminist activist receives death threats and other abuse after being targeted by Men’s Rights Activists Feminist blogger in hiding after men’s rights death threats Three years later she is still being targeted, still having her personal info disseminated over the internet, still living with harassment. Now o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/17 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Have young people stopped having sex? Why?When "talking like a man" = "women are less intelligent and hateful divorce raping harpies" of course you should expect criticism. That doesn't mean discussion of male issues are being suppressed by feminists, even the more woman hating places like r/mensrights and TRP are still carrying on as usual. Criticism is not suppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/17 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Have young people stopped having sex? Why?feminism is preventing any discussion about men's issues This is a new one, how is feminism preventing discussion of men's issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/17 01:27 PM |
| 5 | Interesting Evolutionary Angle: Male Serial Killers are "Hunters," Female Serial Killers are "Gatherers"Sure it does, if you're unevenly matched for a physical fight you use whatever weapon will get the job done. IMO that has a lot more to do with getting a man to do her dirty work than a squeamish conscience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/17 01:07 AM |
| 5 | Interesting Evolutionary Angle: Male Serial Killers are "Hunters," Female Serial Killers are "Gatherers"I think it depends on the reason for killing. If it's for a practical reason getting someone else to do it makes sense, men do this as well: gang leaders have lesser members do their dirty work. If it's for pleasure then you'd want to do it yourself and apparently less women kill for pleasure so yeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/17 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Interesting Evolutionary Angle: Male Serial Killers are "Hunters," Female Serial Killers are "Gatherers"Give women the option, women will also kill for hire. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/17 12:14 AM |
| 5 | Interesting Evolutionary Angle: Male Serial Killers are "Hunters," Female Serial Killers are "Gatherers"Women were snipers in WW2, and many were very good at it. http://www.defensemedianetwork.com/stories/women-guns-red-army-female-snipers-world-war-ii/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Why do you or don't you want kids?A nosy neighbor more likely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.I'm sorry to hear your finger is too broken to scroll up. Get better soon! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 10:43 PM |
| 9 | Q4Women: Women of PPD, what kind of male personality turns you on?Smart, funny and kind are my top three. After that I like sweet, nerdy, granola-types who have similar tastes and interests as me. Edit: as to why they're a turn on...I couldn't date someone I couldn't laugh or have interesting conversations with. Having similar interests gives us more to talk about and activities to do together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.The point is in my comment above, go read that if you don't understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 10:30 PM |
| 5 | Why do you or don't you want kids?Yeah it's ridiculous, my parents smoked in their garage in the 90s and no one cared. I just hope weed gets downgraded from schedule 1 before I have to worry about it too much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 09:11 PM |
| 4 | Why do you or don't you want kids?Mostly I don't want to get reported for smoking, there are some places where they'll take your kids away if you test positive. I would also not smoke for the duration of the pregnancy. And having less free time in general. Especially if they do sports or some other extra curricular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 08:47 PM |
| 7 | Why do you or don't you want kids?I think my SO would be an awesome dad, thankfully so because I'm not that great with kids myself. It would be cool to watch them transform from poop machine into their own unique person. I would definitely love to go camping and stuff as a family like mine did growing up. Edit: I would really, really miss playing video games and smoking weed in my free time though... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.Help, I'm being harassed! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.You threaten to report me for harassment after a. you started this conversation and b. I told you that you can leave at any time and now you keep sending me more messages? Your actions betray your words Lewis. If you want to continue this conversation you will answer to my other points. Otherwise stop messaging me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 02:28 PM |
| 2 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.Yes it does and if you're not going to answer to my other points we're done here. I also want to point out the lack of integrity in the way you debate here: you're consistently rude and insulting and you don't admit you're wrong even when the proof is spoonfed to you. You claimed no judges made a decision on TRAP laws and that was wrong. You construct straw arguments, argue against those instead of what's actually said and refuse to back them up when asked for proof. In short feel free not to co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.Yes it does and if you're not going to answer to my other points we're done here. I also want to point out the lack of integrity in the way you debate here: you're consistently rude and insulting and you don't admit you're wrong even when the proof is spoonfed to you. You claimed no judges made a decision on TRAP laws and that was wrong. You construct straw arguments, argue against those instead of what's actually said and refuse to back them up when asked for proof. In short feel free not to co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/17 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.Yes it does and if you're not going to answer to my other points we're done here. I also want to point out the lack of integrity in the way you debate here: you're consistently rude and insulting and you don't admit you're wrong even when the proof is spoonfed to you. You claimed no judges made a decision on TRAP laws and that was wrong. You construct straw arguments, argue against those instead of what's actually said and refuse to back them up when asked for proof. In short feel free not to co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/17 09:26 PM |
| – | Why are men even aware of all this mentally ill "feminism" and why do they listen to it and give it any credence?Your post has been removed, titles need to be neutral unless CMV. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/17 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.Thanks for proving my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/17 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.Yes it does and if you're not going to answer to my other points we're done here. I also want to point out the lack of integrity in the way you debate here: you're consistently rude and insulting and you don't admit you're wrong even when the proof is spoonfed to you. You claimed no judges made a decision on TRAP laws and that was wrong. You construct straw arguments, argue against those instead of what's actually said and refuse to back them up when asked for proof. In short feel free not to co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/17 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.Yes it does and if you're not going to answer to my other points we're done here. I also want to point out the lack of integrity in the way you debate here: you're consistently rude and insulting and you don't admit you're wrong even when the proof is spoonfed to you. You claimed no judges made a decision on TRAP laws and that was wrong. You construct straw arguments, argue against those instead of what's actually said and refuse to back them up when asked for proof. In short feel free not to co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/17 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.Your fingers aren't broken, I did my part by both quoting and linking the court opinion. If you don't want to look at it that's your problem. Also I like how you give up now so you don't have to address being caught in a lie about me "implying" something I never said and "egghead" professors. But it's all good, I made my points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/17 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.First you say: Also, the language about "waiting times" and "having to travel long distances" are quotes from egghead law professors Then you say: You implied it with your very first wheedle in this thread. So which is it? Either quote the "egghead" professors or quote where I supposedly "implied" that health providers must provide abortions or be within x miles. I'm not going to entertain your ridiculous straw argument no matter how many times you insist on bringing it up. No justice or judge h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/17 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.I have already quoted and linked you the section where they did. Read the court opinion, use CTRL + F if you have to. Also, the language about "waiting times" and "having to travel long distances" are quotes from egghead law professors, not judges deciding actual controversies and writing opinions with holdings and reasoning to support those holdings. ahem Judge Richard Posner, writing for the 7th Circuit majority, stated that the regulation qualifies as an "undue burden" and that the medical gr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/17 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.I quoted the court opinion in one of my comments above, whose opinion do you think they're talking about? There is also a link to the court opinion on Lawrence v Texas right above the section I quoted on the SCOTUS blog. that anyone has a constitutional duty to make abortion services easily available...health care providers must provide abortion services Lewis, quote me where I said health care providers must provide abortion services or that there is a constitutional duty to to have a provider … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/17 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.Where does any of that say that a woman has a constitutional right to have an abortion provider within a certain mile radius of her house? I already addressed this point in my last comment. When you have a supreme court decision that actually says the words "abortion is a fundamental right", let me know and post it here, with citation. I already quoted and posted the link in my last comment. Otherwise, go away. Did you forget that you messaged me? You can quit anytime you like, I'm here to debat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/17 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.Nonetheless, Laurence Tribe is almost certainly correct in reading Lawrence as protecting a fundamental right under a slightly different name. As he explained shortly after the decision, the Lawrence Court cited prior fundamental rights rulings and even “invoked the talismanic verbal formula of substantive due process but did so by putting the key words in one unusual sequence or another.” Tribe pointed to this language from the Lawrence opinion: “Roe recognized the right of a woman to make cert… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/17 09:25 AM |
| 3 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.More info for your edification The court looked closely at the facts of abortion availability and safety in Texas. A series of studies led by Daniel Grossman and the Texas Policy Evaluation Project documented a host of what could certainly be called burdens on women seeking abortions in Texas since the passage of the 2013 law. These included longer waiting times and travel distances, as well as projected increases in self-induced abortions and abortions postponed until the second trimester of pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/17 10:30 PM |
| 4 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.I've read the Casey case and it doesn't say what your little summary says it said; and it doesn't stand for the proposition that women have a right to have an abortion provider that isn't hundreds of miles away. Roe doesn't stand for "legalizing abortion". It says only that abortion in certain parameters can't be regulated or prohibited because the state doesn't have a legitimate interest in doing so, because it lies in a zone of personal privacy. Wrong again Planned Parenthood v. Casey, 505 U.S… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/17 09:32 PM |
| 3 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.I only hope you're somewhat more informed now than when we began this conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/17 07:12 PM |
| 5 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.You're complaining here about something that is NEVER going to happen - men taking away women's "rights". Who's whining? It is NOT objectively worse that men don't secure women's rights, than it is that some men don't get laid. Do you even remember what we're talking about here? No one is saying men have to secure women's rights, I'm drawing a comparison between our two complaints. Go look at your comment again: You: Blues don't care anyway Me: And RP men don't care about women or women's proble… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/17 07:09 PM |
| 7 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.You complain that 'Blues' don't care about guys who can't get laid but when I being up the RP men who don't care about women's basic human rights I'm "melodramatic", yeah right. You really can't see what a hypocritical statement that is, can you? Women can secure their own rights. They don't need me to do it for them. And no one is asking you to, don't pretend like they are. I'm simply comparing your whiney complaint that no blues care about men not getting laid with the reality that some RPM wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/17 03:20 PM |
| 7 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.And we know 'Reds' don't give a damn about women or our problems. I've spoken to 'Red' men here that would be fine with taking away women's rights and independence if it meant some woman would be willing to settle for him. I've talked to 'Red' men who don't care that women are forced to seek illegal, dangerous abortions in states that are trying to put a stranglehold on legal abortion clinics and practitioners. So before you think to write another whiney comment to me about how 'Blues' don't car… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/17 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.PPD subreddit survey coming out sometime next month, you can also check out past sub surveys in the sidebar. ----> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/17 12:34 PM |
| 3 | Been coming to this subreddit fro a while. I realized how fruitless our discussions have been, and how loveless so many of us are.So what do you expect us to do about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/17 12:33 PM |
| – | For the truly desperate and incels ( or anyone if you're interested), would you go to war if it meant you'd have more sexual/romantic opportunity afterwards?No incel topics, incels are banned to the weekly mega thread. You are also posting too frequently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/17 12:28 PM |
| – | CMV: Feminists Just Want To Sleep With Men Who Are Better Than Them Without Making Any Effort or Taking RisksLow-effort shitpost rant removed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/17 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Is going for far-righters a good strategy if you want to have kids?Be civil | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Wage Gap is a MYTHMake counterpoints about flexible working hours/free time and maternatiy/cut working hours and you will have rebuffed my argument. Ask nicely and maybe I will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Wage Gap is a MYTHwomens lower ability to negotiate That's incorrect. Researchers have examined the why, and the answer has more to do with how women are treated when they negotiate than it has to do with their general confidence or skills at negotiation. Numerous studies have been conducted in which participants rate their impressions of employees who negotiate for pay and of employees who let the same opportunity to negotiate pass them by. The researchers then compared people’s willingness to work with that emp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 04:30 PM |
| 1 | How do you encourage women to admit to leading men on in the past?You can re-post now, that rule is to prevent people posting compulsively or getting bored of their post and creating another before first one has had time to die down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 03:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you encourage women to admit to leading men on in the past?re-submit with the q4bp flair, make the title more neutral, 'how to screen out women who lead men on' or etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4RP: Why do think that being a male feminist and having a spine is contradictory?I've had this exact conversation with him several times, I honestly don't know what to do at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 03:37 PM |
| – | How do you encourage women to admit to leading men on in the past?Your post has been removed, it would be better suited for /r/theredpill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 03:26 PM |
| -1 | Wage Gap is a MYTHOh my god this post "The wage gap is a myth!" "Feminists say there is a 23c wage gap for the same work!" "Feminists say the gap is not for identical work but is due to sexist stereotypes!" You contradict yourself twice, first by saying there is no wage gap then admitting there is one, then by saying feminists somehow claim the wage gap is for both identical work and background and from sexist stereotypes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 02:28 PM |
| 7 | Would income disparity and economic inequality be better for men's chances?There is no species I know of where every member will get to breed or reproduce, there are always those who do not either from lack of opportunity or because they can't attract a mate given the opportunity. The latter are the men you speak of, and their inability to attract a mate may be temporary or permanent and their own responsibility for it may vary, but that's who they are at the moment. So what? All we can do is encourage them to do healthy things like have a better diet, get fit, make fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/17 12:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV:Feminism is a massive true scotsman fallacyBe civil, do not insult others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/17 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Q4BP- Sex, Entitlements and MoralityForce is more than just violence. I have a question for you now: if you were Mike in the above situation and one of the women who didn't want to sleep with you did get an illness only you could cure...would you want to sleep with her if she was only doing it for you to heal her? If you knew she had no attraction to you at all and was only doing it to save her life would you really be ok with that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/17 12:57 AM |
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