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Red Pill ExampleDaveyOneBite/r/TheRedPill30/06/18 11:10 AM
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Sounds like you’re awkward.
/r/askTRP01/12/18 11:33 AM
1

Conventional wisdom says this is the type of girl that will continue to do this anytime the relationship is at a tough point. Which will happen in any relationship. I don’t know the girl though so maybe it was a onetime/threetime* thing. Surely you couldn’t have done the same thing had the tables been reversed. And even if the 3x thing is true you’ll have to live with it and be looking over your shoulder and afraid to rock the boat, paranoid of any new guy in her life, any period where she becom…
/r/ExRedPill23/11/18 10:37 AM
1

These are a lot of red flags dude. Is she special or only your best option? Seems you are a whole lot more invested.
/r/ExRedPill23/11/18 10:15 AM
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A lot of ways to go with this one. I’ll just keep it at don’t marry anyone who would breakup with you over text.
/r/ExRedPill23/11/18 09:51 AM
0

It means your genes aren’t worthy of being passed down.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 09:31 AM
6

The types of guys who fall in love with random girls they make out with are not the types of guys girls take back to fuck.
/r/askTRP05/11/18 08:25 AM
1

Make sure you can play well and fit the style first. Then...not sure. Reddit for your city could be a place to start, Craigslist but the best opportunities would be by checking out live music bars maybe. Same concept from the MMA stuff applies here, you’ll want to work to get into those social circles and from there you should know people who know people who need a guitarist or something like that.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:22 AM
2

Then you have bigger problems. You’re not content with your life so you’re looking for something/someone to pin the blame on.
/r/askTRP04/11/18 12:06 AM
1

Yeah the band route ain’t bad either. Again, if you want to do this because you enjoy it then start one. If you’re doing it for women then it’s better to try to join one a bit more established. This angle is all about status, being a bass guitarist in a locally popular band is better than being the lead singer for a band without a following.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:59 PM
1

Shit happens. Stop busting nuts all over your stomach thinking about her and go get laid.
/r/askTRP03/11/18 11:56 PM
2

He must be the Indian Denzel then because a 7 is high for any normal guy let alone Indian. Regardless it’s easy to remember the outliers and forget the 1000 other dudes like him who didn’t get action. Retarded from concussions is more a boxing thing where they get hit in the head 50 times a fight. MMA is more vicious but more one and done. I read studies are mixed between long term affects but maybe I’m wrong. Regardless yeah it’s riskier than BJJ but risky behavior gets women if that’s his goal…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 06:43 AM
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Yeah don’t listen to the guys who say it’s your attitude that’s the problem not your race. Your attitude actually seems pretty good and honest with yourself. You’re playing on hard mode and it’s most definitely due to your race. The guys telling you to study and get a join a frat or get a good job to get girls? Also wrong. I’ve been through the frat scene, I’ve worked corporate for guys like this making great money...didn’t help. You need ‘fuck you’ money to make this work and you won’t get that…
/r/askTRP03/11/18 03:02 AM
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Yeah all of the above. The reason it looks like men don't cheat as much is not because they have morals, it is due to a lack of opportunity. Men have so many factors that go into a high SMV. Women have one. Most guys don't comprehend this. Any 6+ woman has an army of orbiters and next in line guys and guys hitting on her at all times. The only male equivalents to that kind of sexual value and opportunity are hollywood actors and professional athletes. Both these groups of guys happen to cheat a …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/18 10:07 AM
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My second choice would be the search bar. The “best books” edition.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 01:33 PM
2

The sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/10/18 01:32 PM
10

Don’t run away next time. Stay out of your comfort zone and your comfort zone will expand.
/r/seduction21/10/18 12:38 PM
2

Fuck better.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 08:50 AM
2

I can’t help but feel horrible when I place my hand on a hot stove and get burned. I’m happy that I have this stove to cook with but I can’t help but feeling pain every time place my hand on it. How do I stop this from happening?
/r/seduction24/09/18 06:32 AM
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Ah would you look at that. Your frame is all over the floor after she shattered it with a little poke. Someone should clean that up.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:21 AM
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Be wary of some of the responses you’ll get here. This has MeToo written all over it. Be glad nothing happened.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 06:08 AM
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It means “let me go have plentiful and wild sex with guys I really desire and then after a few kids I’m all yours! (except girls night out) and yours anytime you want! (as long as it’s not more than once a month)”.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:56 AM
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You’re stuck in a phase of careful measurement and calculated choices. I call it paralysis by analysis. What’s stopping you from taking 3 or 6 months of reduced yoga and added weight lifting to see if it’s for you? Stop looking for the perfect answer or all the information just take action.
/r/askTRP24/09/18 05:19 AM
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She’s not attracted to you. That’s the difference between ‘Ugh he was so creepy’ and ‘Omg he was so charming’
/r/askTRP23/09/18 09:42 AM
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She doesn’t think you were on Tinder to make friends. Keep the apartment date. You gotta make a move though stop waiting for the stars to align and take a leap of faith. You’ll feel better no matter what the outcome. Rejection is always better than regret.
/r/seduction23/09/18 09:37 AM
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She can resist it but it’s a natural instinct. Guys have similar instincts as well but the reason woman seem to act on it so much more is sexual opportunity and quality of these opportunities. Most guys can not even comprehend the level and quality of sexual opportunity that women are constantly exposed to. I’d say only male celebrities and athletes know what it is like. Many of these guys either don’t have committed relationships or cheat if they do. Any decently attractive female has access to…
/r/askTRP23/09/18 01:56 AM
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Here’s some advice. You’re not cut out for this go plug yourself back in. You don’t even have the mental strength to read more than a few articles and now you want your hand held the rest of the way through? Read both sidebars, read all time top posts, lurk around for a while, and then maybe think about making a post.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 06:38 AM
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Unless she reaches back out, I wouldn’t contact her again if I were you. Make her wonder why you are so okay with this. What you sent wasn’t too bad actually. It’s always tough to respond the right way when it’s you in that situation but you avoided freaking out and asking for answers which is great.
/r/askTRP16/09/18 02:05 PM
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The way you look now? Yes. The sexual marketplace is competitive. You’re not a competitive option. Evolution doesn’t care about your feelings. That said, I don’t think you’re ugly. Maybe even the opposite. You look like you could be quite good looking if you lose the fat. Will you step up and take ownership of your life/happiness or bow out and just accept you can’t cut it?
/r/askTRP15/09/18 04:06 AM
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You’re asking the wrong questions. Sure as long spin it positively it shouldn’t be s problem if there’s multiple situations. That said you are being too analytical...”If I take X bad situations and input a XX% positive spin my success rate will be approximately X in 10”. If you keep thinking that way you’ll always have problems. The Red Pill is a mindset, not an equation. Internalize TRP concepts and it will start to feel natural. Then, in cases like these you will act like scenario 2 because th…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 02:03 AM
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Let’s use a market crash/you losing your retirement example. Scenario 1: You get mad, you blame the world, this is just your luck, you can never catch a break. At nights you tell her how worried you are usually with tears in your eyes. You tell her you don’t know what to do but you love her so much for sticking by your side through these tough times. She says she loves you too. A month later she cheats on you with a coworker and leaves you for him. Scenario 2: you’re mad but there’s no point wal…
/r/askTRP10/09/18 01:37 AM
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You need to develop a healthy dose of psychosis that will help you act in these situations. Problem is this only works when said psychosis sourced through the death of your parents. This works best when you’re a child but I guess it can’t hurt to try now. Go ahead and hire a hit man to kill your parents during a fake mugging, then go live in a cave for a few years. It all should make sense after that. Have fun.
/r/askTRP09/09/18 11:07 AM
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Control your emotions. You can’t love a woman the same way a woman loves a man. This will turn her off. Work on your internal issues.
/r/seduction08/09/18 06:40 AM
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If (Insert hot star or athlete of the day) hit on this supposed good girl would she stay a virgin? If you are past date 2 with no sex then that is not a good sign. Your bigger problem is sitting there coming up with all these hypotheticals on a Friday night. I like to call that paralysis by analysis. Be the hero and not the historian.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:37 AM
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If (Insert hot star or athlete of the day) hit on this supposed good girl would she stay a virgin? If you are past date 2 with no sex then that is not a good sign. Your bigger problem is sitting there coming up with all these hypotheticals on a Friday night. I like to call that paralysis by analysis. Be the hero and not the historian.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:35 AM
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If (Insert hot star or athlete of the day) hit on this supposed good girl would she stay a virgin? If you are past date 2 with no sex then that is not a good sign. Your bigger problem is sitting there coming up with all these hypotheticals on a Friday night. I like to call that paralysis by analysis. Be the hero and not the historian.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 05:35 AM
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Not sure if we can link here. Google blackdragon and I think the blog in question is something like how I make my open relationships work.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 05:00 AM
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Curious to hear this as well. I’m sure 5+ years of faithful relationship is possible but I don’t think the freshness lasts. Not when the woman knows you are off the market. BlackDragon has some good articles on this and how with having multiple open LTRs he has had women in his life for 10+ years. Even with them dropping out somewhere in the middle for a real LTR with some other guy they come back to him when their other LTR ends.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 01:18 AM
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What’s so blue pill about his behavior. Sounds like he does quite well for himself and women are drawn to him. When a high value guy, one that other men want to be and other women want to fuck, texts a girl that he wants her only it works. He’s a prize women are competing for and she got him.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 01:21 AM
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You notice it, now fix it. Gym/MMA is a good start. I suspect you are either short or are a tall lanky string bean. Remedy for either is the same and that’s keep working your ass off in the gym, eat more, put on muscle. Also Don’t dress like a bum, fix your posture, speak clearly and look people in the eye when you do.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 09:02 AM
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Girls avoid ‘nice guys’. They don’t avoid guys who are nice. How to win friends focuses on the latter and building your network by making people feel good and taking a real interest in them. ‘Nice guys’ walk on eggshells around people because they don’t want to upset anyone. Upsetting people is a part of life and these guys try to avoid it by forcing everything to be please t and avoiding trouble. This exudes a lack of self confidence because they don’t think people will accept their full self. …
/r/seduction02/09/18 08:59 AM
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I don’t understand what the issue is. I guess maybe be less Autistic?
/r/askTRP01/09/18 05:35 AM
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Go to a relationship or a PUA sub if you want your hand held. Plenty of constructive criticism is offered here. Posts are rude here either because: The poster shows absolutely no understanding of red pill material and clearly didn’t read the side bar on both subs (ex. There is plenty there on spinning plates) Or they’re struggling to accept it and apply it to their lives (ex. “I know AWALT but I have this plate who is perfect. She fucked her ex and is now distant to me. What should I text her to…
/r/askTRP01/09/18 05:32 AM
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You’re your own man. Digest TRP material and decide where your line is. You are right about this sub specifically being too quick to next. Have you ever read about the study with monkeys where they punished all the monkeys when one tried to climb the ladder? It’s the same concept here with a lot of the posters.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 10:56 PM
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Did you learn that one in D.A.R.E. class? These are weekend warriors not meth heads. I lived that life for 8 years and we had friends who hung out with us but did not partake. It was a non issue.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 09:48 PM
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I’ve been in that life. They’re not going to care if you pass on the coke. How strict is your no alcohol thing? Why can’t you nurse like 4 drinks over the course of a night?
/r/askTRP26/08/18 02:59 AM
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Why can’t you hang out but not do the drugs?
/r/askTRP26/08/18 02:36 AM
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Your skinny noodle arms make them think little boy instead of sex partner. Lift weights.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 02:15 AM
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Yet she’s not on reddit writing 11 paragraphs about you.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/18 04:24 AM
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You’re a Cuck Harry!
/r/askTRP22/08/18 05:12 AM
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Agreed. Your weak body is not your problem. Your weak mind is.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 05:09 AM
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The worst part of this is after reading this guy’s post history it’s clear he’s going to continue to have sex with girls. It’s game over dude. Wouldn’t wish this on anyone but you gotta focus on your health. Maybe meet a girl with HIV? FYI, if you have sex with a chick and don’t tell her and she finds out I’m pretty sure that is a felony. HIV is bad but HIV in jail is worse.
/r/askTRP22/08/18 04:59 AM
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Briffaults law would say no.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 05:16 AM
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If I was looking for a LTR and this was an actual date and not a come straight to my place and fuck date then sure. You’ll obviously not want to jump straight into a LTR but if you continue to hang out and she’s relationship material then yes.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:41 AM
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I think that girls always remember their first and then their best (alpha widow). This is why guys want girls with low n counts because they don’t want to be fucking a chick who sees you as a downgrade from the guy who rocked her world. That’s why I say you need to fuck her well and become the best. This is what you can control and if you ever get to this with a girl you won’t care about all the others.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 08:32 AM
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Yeah I’d prefer under 10 and over 20 just may be my limit. I think even that is starting to get old fashioned. I dated a 19 year old late last year and she laughed in an aww that’s cute way when I said my count was 40 (never give your count btw). If her first 4 were during LTRs and she’d been in them since she was young until the last break then I’d trust that number more. Maybe a few ONS after a breakup and before the next LTRs but maybe not 10+ total in that period.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 07:30 AM
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No. Take any laycount a girl gives you and multiply it by 3. You’ll be a lot closer to the true count then. To answer your question, the sad fact if our society is that these virgins/low n count girls don’t exist. 12 is quite low compared to most attractive girls today. Fuck her right and suddenly you won’t care.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 07:05 AM
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I don’t think you grasp Rollo’s material. What if you were Leonardo DiCaprio...would she be making you wait 4+ dates? Raw desire and enthusiastic sex is the MOST valuable thing a woman can offer a man evolutionary speaking. By making you wait she is subconsciously saying that you have long term potential so let me go fuck Leo so I can get pregnant with his baby and then you can step in and help me raise his child. More than 2 is not a good sign.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 06:52 AM
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Rule of 3.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 06:45 AM
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Girls are masters at juggling multiple guys at once and not telling them. Hear them talking up their lineup and their rotation all the time. Kudos to this guy to realizing this is the dating world we are in today.
/r/seduction08/08/18 05:57 AM
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What the fuck dude you’re acting like a sociopath , you remind me of that kid who shot up a California campus. Tone it down this is the mentality that gives TRP a bad name.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:42 AM
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Don’t try to talk to her more that will only make it worse. Don’t ghost her just be clear you don’t want to be friends and you won’t wait years for her to fuck around and then come back to you.
/r/seduction08/08/18 05:30 AM
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She’s just having a little sex bro, she’ll text you back no worries.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 09:23 PM
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You should know enough by now to know the answer. Pull back, be vague, sounds like she’ll bite and chase. If not then why keep wasting your time?
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:58 AM
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As long as they’re not ugly or disfiguring then I can see them helping with certain types of girls. Also, stop getting stabbed.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 08:55 AM
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When this ltr material girl falls asleep take a little look through her phone. Hopefully that will shock you back into shape.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 06:11 AM
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When a girls want you and see you as a prize they make it very easy. Work on yourself and your SMV.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:27 AM
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There’s plenty of info on these two subs to help get your shit together. Read confessions of an incel on TRP sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/08/18 06:19 AM
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Take 4 months. Sleep 8+ hours each day and hit the gym heavy. Look back and realize how much better things are.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:47 AM
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Fucking a squirter is like going to Times Square on New Year’s Eve. Everyone hypes it up, you should experience it once, but after that you are over it you realize it’s messy, smells, it’s basically 100% piss, you need a clean set of clothes after and you better bring a towel. Ain’t worth it.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:43 AM
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Strike while the iron is hot. Nearly all cases that is instant date. If you have a high value Instagram then you can consider number and social closing and let her see your value there.
/r/seduction01/08/18 05:15 AM
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Most will say it’s all sex or all sex and personal survival. What about a mans mission? Why do guys climb giant rocks in Yosemite valley, tour the country on a motorcycle, build a car from scratch? Find a mission.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 05:02 AM
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Rejection is always better than regret.
/r/seduction01/08/18 04:49 AM
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You’re a loser if you say you are.
/r/seduction17/07/18 09:00 AM
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Red Pill is wider but I’ll bite and assume we’re focused on the short term dating aspect of red pill. Red Pillers are gamers/puas who understand the psychology behind their actions and results with women. Both use the same techniques and these are rooted in core red pill principles but PUAs don’t understand it at this level they simply know that if they do actions x y and z they get a desired reaction from women.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 11:13 PM
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You clearly grasp 0 Red Pill Theory. I suspect you found this by accident? Kinda like you took a wrong turn heading to seduction sub and ended up in the dangerous part of town. I’d head back the way you came if I were you. If you want to stay and take a beating then this post belongs in asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/18 08:52 AM
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You won’t learn that skill in a book. Take an improv class it’ll help you think on your feet.
/r/seduction12/07/18 06:04 AM
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None. Sitting home and reading is the opposite of how you improve your game as an introvert. Leave your comfort zone and join an improv group, or toast masters, or practice cold approaches. Don’t get stuck in a paralysis of analysis. It’s especially worse for introverts.
/r/seduction12/07/18 05:32 AM
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Right now you’re playing a zero sum game. You’re a jobless loser if you “don’t settle” and you’re a dead end loser if you’re washing dishes. Focus on the school route and break out of this current situation that you can’t win.
/r/seduction09/07/18 04:07 AM
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Well you’ve come to the right place son so pull up a chair and listen because TRP has an answer for this that most guys would never even think of. Never even accept. Never even comprehend. You’re going to read it and have trouble understanding why. Why you? Is there a god? Did I make the right choice? Are we just shapeless souls driving meat suits while riding a giant space rock racing through the universe? Once I understood this answer to what to do when she has a boyfriend I felt like I unlock…
/r/askTRP05/07/18 12:56 PM
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You’re thinking way to hard and over complicating things. Don’t be fat.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 11:08 PM
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Liberal Arts degree was a mistake but if you are close to graduating then you should finish. If you are not close then switch to Engineering/Analytics/Computer Science and get that degree. Letting your life get upheaved over 20k is laughable to me today but I was once in your shoes. If you continue down the path you are taking then you are destined for some shit job with a 40-60k salary that makes 20k debt actually a big deal.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 11:05 PM
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True love is for Hollywood and low value men. Only weak men love unconditionally.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 08:10 AM
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Impressed. Get ready for her Hamster to rewrite your entire relationship history and try to convince you how perfect everything was, how much she loved you, how she will do anything for you, etc. Don’t fall for it. If you let things drag on like most guys would her Hamster would still have rewritten the history only in this Hamster-verse she never loved you she never felt the spark she really wanted things to work out but she just can’t lie to herself and lead you on anymore. You did good.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 06:01 AM
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Yeah it wouldn’t have gotten so fucked up so fast but even played perfectly you are fighting the natural order of things backed by nearly our entire evolutional history. I read somewhere that the general order of things was that a female found a strong male to mate with, stayed together until the children were strong enough to not need direct support, and then went to find a new strong male to mate with. I also read somewhere that 6 years into a relationship is usually when all romantic love is …
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:47 AM
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You still seem over invested.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:30 AM
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It’s YouTube but check out Richard Cooper. He has a realistic understanding of red pill unlike some of the screeching teenagers on here. I think he’s even had one or two endorsed contributors on his Saturday morning podcasts. Channel is Entrepreneurs in Cars
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:23 AM
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I’ll start by saying I know it sucks and many of us have been through this and gotten past this. You will too. Nothing is worth taking your life over let alone a girl. Now for some tough love. This is TRP. Go to r/relationships or r/breakups if you want your hand held. You post here but you show zero grasp or attempt to grasp of key red pill principals. I looked at your post history and it’s the same shit. What’s worse is that this girl wasn’t even your girlfriend or your hookup. You’ve created …
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:58 AM
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Yes school should be grouped into the don’t shit where you eat category. You also want to stay away from your social circle to not mess anything up there. No friend of friends either. No casual acquaintances of these friends of friends either because this can come back to you as well. Best not swipe Tinder for anyone in your radius in case god forbid any of them serve these acquaintances coffee or anything like that. Don’t be desperate man. Get Tinder passport and set your location to the next c…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 05:52 AM
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Your awkwardness and uncomfortableness oozed from your pores and dried up her Vagina. That being said it’s a learning experience and pretty standard at your stage. Learn from it, don’t turn into her orbiter, and keep at it.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 11:38 PM
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PUAs will tell you to just lead her there without telling her. They’re a bunch of smoke and mirrors. Probably why half of them are fucking magicians while the other half wears fuzzy hats. TRP will tell you to paint a fun picture and casually leak it’s your place. Maybe say you’re the head chef or something. She’s coming over to your place because of course she is coming over to your place. If she wants to come over she will make it easy. If she doesn’t then you fucked something up and tricking h…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 11:33 PM
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I’ve been in your shoes. I ignored the signs, but I for sure felt something was off. You’ll regret not acting while you can to save your dignity/ego. Breakups are remarkably easier when you’re doing the breaking up. Rejection breeds obsession.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 11:25 PM
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Yeah she is supposed to realize you were talking about your place before she heads over. Her realizing when she gets there is a bit creepy. Is your car actually broken or no? If yes you can use Uber. If not stop trying to play games. Girls will come over direct to your place first time if you play it right/your SMV is high enough. If not, then it’s not too difficult to meet them at a bar for a drink or two and take her back then. You can even run the same ‘I know a great place’ line from the bar…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 11:17 PM
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Dude come on you already know the answer. There are other red flags too? Trust your gut. That’s not just some saying. Your brain picks up so much data. Much more than you can consciously retain. Your gut feeling is your subconscious noticing something is off. Don’t ignore it.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 11:09 PM
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First off don’t pull that broken car move. It’s creepy, it’s cringey, she’ll see right through it. Either meet her out or tell her to come over and stick to your guns. Act like it’s completely standard/normal that she should come over. But be willing to lose her if she refuses. If you want to be a little fun then tell her you know of a great place with the best food, best everything, byob, etc. get her hooked and then tell her when to be at your place and what wine to bring. You need to sell it …
/r/askTRP24/06/18 11:02 PM
3

Yep you got it. He should of started a fist fight over a fat guys insult and then posted about how Alpha he was from the local Starbucks he needs to go to because the 200 square foot studio apartment he moved to after being fired for starting a fist fight during a work outing doesn’t have WiFi.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:31 PM
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I’d say you were too nice/careful. Should have been more sexual. Her saying she was going to be a good girl tonight was an absolute golden opportunity to turn things sexual. At least you’re out there trying and not hiding behind a keyboard like most folks here. Dust off, learn from the experience, reload, and get back out there.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 11:23 AM
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It’s common, goes deeper than you think, and they won’t stop it for you they’ll just hide it better.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 10:49 AM
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You’re bragging about taking a man’s wife, leeching his resources the wife gained from divorce rape, and then driving him to suicide? Are parasites alpha? That’s not red pill, that’s deep psychological issues. Get help. Edit: Upon checking your post history and seeing what you went through with your ex-wife I suspect that the above is some fantasy you fabricated to cope with your anger. Still not a healthy way to deal with your issues. Get help.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 09:42 AM
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Introversion has levels. You seem to be thinking about the extreme levels/social anxiety. I’m talking about when you don’t default to center of attention attitude but you can still socialize. I think you’re focusing too much on moves and specific actions when it’s really all about mindset and internal stuff but getting out there and trying things is the only way to learn. Too many guys here have what I like to call paralysis of analysis and they read and read and read and never take action. So I…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 07:44 AM
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First off you are acting like these guys are a different species. They’re not. Usually they’re just introverted or reserved and happened to be born very good looking. I’d say if you watched then yes you’d see many or enough of these guys pull the girl. Yes you should always be well dressed and presentable. You should do everything you can do to maximize what attraction traits you can control. However you probably can’t make this exact game work unless you look like them. You won’t be able to get…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 06:49 AM
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Definitely less than the past but I think they’re still some out there and more than most here would have you believe. I’ll group the low lay count girls into that for what I say below. Begin rant. May be an unpopular opinion and I fully buy into TRP principles but most guys here fail to understand that most everyone here was brought here by similar reasons and are focusing on similar types of girls. I’d equate it a women’s rape support group thinking all men are rapists. Let’s not get go down t…
/r/askTRP23/06/18 06:32 AM
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I’d imagine if you portray NGAF when every other guy (and there are many) is asking them if they like pineapples on their pizza or what their favorite Netflix show is, you’d have the opposite effect of boring her.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 06:05 AM
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Really anything is open outside of center of attention dancing. A guy can do all that, can grind with a girl, and still maintain their frame. But I think I get what you’re asking/wondering and yeah I’ve seen cases like my buddy in college who would just stand on the staircase landing balcony every party looking bored and drinking beers. More times then not a girl would open him talk for a bit and they’d soon make their way upstairs. Granted he had at auto social value boost of our fraternity (a …
/r/askTRP23/06/18 06:00 AM
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Good. Remember how it made you feel. Understand that even if you hadn’t gotten her number out of it I can guarantee you still would have felt positive. Rejection is always better than regret.
/r/seduction23/06/18 05:20 AM
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This sub does downplay looks a bit too much. If you look a certain way you can just stand there and girls will open you or make it very clear they want you to open them.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 05:16 AM
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More than 1 or none
/r/askTRP23/06/18 05:13 AM
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Just going off your tone and phrasing and ‘enemy’ talk but it seems like you may have some problems you should work through. Not sure exactly what without knowing more but a bit of introspection and lightening up should help long term with what you’re looking for.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:36 AM
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I guarantee you are putting way more thought into this then she is. You ghosted her yet she still owns so much real estate rent free in your head.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:28 AM
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You can call her a plate all you want but if she’s the only girl you’re hooking up with then she ain’t a plate. It sounds more likely that you’re her plate and you’ve just been downgraded or dropped. Move on.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 04:17 AM
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Not all men are supposed to pass down their genes. Either get disciplined or accept your genes are meant to be weeded out. Evolution doesn’t care.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 07:25 AM
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Pretend to drunk mistext her by accident? Definitely bull shit. Definitely not straight up. Definitely clear to her what you’re doing.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 05:21 AM
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Girls will see right through this and you will look weak. Stop over complicating things. Ask her out one more time and if she doesn’t say yes or suggest another time then move on.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 05:19 AM
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I hope it’s not a work computer that you are reading about TRP on.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 08:18 AM
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You bitched out in person and then tried to make a move from the safety of your computer.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 07:58 AM
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Most kids who do well with girls at that age just got dealt a better starting hand. Whether it’s parents money, being an athlete, growing up in the right social circle, etc. they have a leg up. Girls at this age also are drawn to these things. I’ll be blunt and say that if you are hand hold-less at 18 you weren’t given this advantage so you’ll have to work at it. Back when I was your age Mystery PUA came out with a reality show and all of a sudden low value guys were trying to dress fancy and ac…
/r/askTRP10/06/18 02:10 PM
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Wait until Thursday to see if she reaches out. If she doesn’t then reach out and ask her out on Saturday. If she can’t make that and doesn’t offer another time that works then drop her.
/r/seduction10/06/18 01:53 PM
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You sound depressed. This is not uncommon for someone your age. Everything truly does get better with age so my advice would be to stop worrying and over analyzing so much, continue to work on yourself, hit the gym and you’ll find things start to work themselves out when you do all this.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 01:48 PM
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Eh I’m not at that point yet so take that with a grain of salt but couldn’t you use that peak to date younger women? Or if you want women your age then there are still high quality single women just a whole lot less but you also have almost 0 competition as the typical 30s male is either taken or has really let himself go. Or both.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 01:25 PM
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Yeah bad idea. If you go back to how you were then this is in person only. Don’t contact outside of this that is orbiter behavior. It may also have the added benefit of eating at her as to why you are not messaging her. You seem so fine with what happened but aren’t giving her that extra attention. “Who else is he talking to? Was he talking to her when we were still together is that why he’s so okay with things?” -work sloot I’m assuming this whole relationship was rather casual given the nature…
/r/askTRP10/06/18 01:08 PM
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Something playful that expresses clear interest in her. How exactly you frame it depends on your personality with her meaning don’t use some ‘alpha’ line if this wasn’t how you acted. It will be clear that it is an act. Maybe something like: “Hey X, it was great meeting you the other night but I have to admit I’m a bit conflicted...” Let her respond asking what about. “I want to see you again but I can tell the two of will cause quite a bit of trouble together”
/r/seduction10/06/18 12:59 PM
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Resist your instinct to treat her differently. Treat her like a club girl where it’s clear what you want and no guarantee of commitment. If you do this it’ll be an eye opening experience to TRP. If you don’t it’ll still be a learning experience but more painful and less fun.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 12:46 PM
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Whatever you do, don’t admit your awkwardness to her. By admitting it, you make it real, and if it’s real she likely won’t want anything to do with you sexually. Act like everything was perfectly fine when you text her and if you meet her. It was at a bar, there was drinking, seems like there was a language or culture gap...this could all be in your head, or maybe she was the one feeling awkward, or maybe you were awkward but it’s nbd and she’s already forgotten about it.
/r/seduction10/06/18 11:20 AM
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Haha kinda got carried away with that last post but that wasn’t a suggestion of action. That was just a step by step of where things went wrong with her. Moral there is to stay mysterious and don’t open up fully to a girl. For how to act, it’s either the option in the subthread above (a bit flirty like you were before while avoiding that turning into niceness, compliments and validation) or acting indifferent to her like she is just some fat chick in your friends group. You’ll want to be careful…
/r/askTRP10/06/18 11:08 AM
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I think that quick turnaround approach is more for online dating when she has less investment in you and you’re competing with countless other guys. For that it’s best to strike when the iron is hot. For in person approaches you build more comfort and initial investment on her end so I’d say your past more relaxed approach works better here.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 10:56 AM
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Girl is married to Husband. Girl knows everything about Husband. This makes Husband boring. Girl meets Guy at work. Guy is exciting. Guy is different from Husband. Guy is new. Most importantly, Guy is mysterious. Girl subconsciously fills in unknown parts of Guy’s life with high SMV traits. Girl starts cheating on Husband with Guy. Guy develops feelings. Guy texts, Guy calls, Guy pillow talks, Guy chats at work. Guy becomes less new. Girl knows everything about Guy. Guy’s reality can’t match up …
/r/askTRP10/06/18 10:44 AM
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In all seriousness this is a bit cringeworthy and I don’t see it boding well if you try it. At least not in the US not sure about other cultures.
/r/seduction10/06/18 10:23 AM
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Roses are red, Violets are blue, I want to stick it in, Where you go poo.
/r/seduction10/06/18 10:21 AM
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Yeah true this is something to consider OP. I assumed because there was sexual tension/attraction before that you could revert back to that behavior and be fine. If all her attraction is gone then that may not be the case. There still may be opportunity to act in a way that portrays this ‘breakup’ was on the same level as some minor inconvenience and gets her mind running but it’s a very fine line between that and launching yourself into orbit. Judging by your followup I don’t think you have TRP…
/r/askTRP10/06/18 10:17 AM
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If you’re walking up and only talking to her then you’re making the friend feel awkward which leads to this silo’d conversation behavior. If you find your self in this situation I’d try to say something witty/funny to draw the conversation to you and include everyone. Maybe something like “Jessica! After all the time we’ve known each other/all our history, you’re still not introducing me to your friends?/you still haven’t introduced me to your friend here?’. Get the group conversation flowing an…
/r/seduction10/06/18 10:09 AM
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Ah the plot thickens. Didn’t you say you’re leaving in a few months? How new are you? Are you familiar with abundance mentality? The mentality will help with this girl and making it a reality will help with yourself. Saying you would be okay trying again is the wrong mindset in every way. Plus trying to make this happen or keeping that thought in your mind is a surefire way to push her further away. Also think back to when you were in the midst of this relationship before she started to pull awa…
/r/askTRP10/06/18 09:58 AM
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Maybe BS maybe not but the message here is solid. You really can feel the energy/connection when you hold eye contact for a few seconds longer than your old self would have. Assuming you pull it off right.
/r/seduction10/06/18 09:44 AM
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From Jordan Peterson: Compare yourself with who you were yesterday, not with who someone else is today.
/r/seduction10/06/18 09:39 AM
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You’re overthinking it. I’d treat her like a casual co-worker friend that you occasionally flirt with. Likely your dynamic early on before fucking. If she says you’re being short then flip it on her and point to the fact you’ve been acting the same as before things started. If she asks you about the breakup/your thoughts just continue with the non chalant attitude and say things like ‘it was fun while it lasted but now it’s over’. Great job on acting like it’s nbd when she ended things btw.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 09:36 AM
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Hopefully you’ll make it out of the anger phase soon.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 07:06 AM
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When you refer to every other person in the story as his/her friend it makes it mighty hard to follow. That being said it seems pretty clear they’re already hooking up, no?
/r/seduction10/06/18 07:00 AM
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People respect assertiveness. As far as RP concepts...Most of us weren’t ready to be unplugged at 22 so anyone telling us AWALT or something like that would be seen as the crazy misogamous dude. Some things you need to experience and go through yourself.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 06:49 AM
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The other posters are probably right and this is just the stripper effect. Or they’re wrong. You can either accept they’re right, sit back and wonder if they’re wrong, or go back at that time and lead the conversation to gauge her interest and find out.
/r/seduction10/06/18 06:39 AM
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Plenty of great choices here. If you’re referring to the subtle mindful awareness of RP concepts then The Rational Male is king. If you’re referring to mindfulness in general then that is way too broad and you’ll have to narrow it to something like masculinity mindfulness or female nature mindfulness to zero in on specific books.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 06:26 AM
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Some of those points seem ill advised especially the shouting matches which gives off an autistic vibe imo. That being said...you’re missing the mountain for the mole hill. You’re worried about keeping a frame together that you won’t need if your plan works out. Going your own way even if (perhaps especially if) it’s against the grain is where true frame is built. If this is your mission then make it your mission and do whatever drastic action it takes to get there. People think you are making t…
/r/askTRP10/06/18 06:14 AM
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You are being too analytical. A lot of guys do this. Shit tests and TRP in general can’t be reduced to a series of equations and binary do x and get y outcome. You need to internalize it and let it guide your subconscious. You focused on something you read and didn’t factor in the externalities. Yes non reactive/non caring can work but in your situation your coworkers were talking about a light topic with maybe light sexual undertones. By answering her you did react and your reaction (even thoug…
/r/askTRP10/06/18 05:48 AM
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Poor. Your responses made you seem offended and boring. You should have agreed and amplified.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 05:29 AM
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Stop studying you’ll get trapped in a paralysis by analysis. Join toastmasters or an improv group.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 05:18 AM
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This. Live outside your comfort zone and you will grow. Just talk without analyzing everything first. Chances are you will say awkward weird shit at first but you will learn.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 12:33 AM
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Get hair transplants
/r/askTRP09/06/18 07:45 PM
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Unless you’re leaving out details then I’d say you’re too nice, too reserved, too passive, too internal, and too boring. People dislike, disrespect, and avoid those who act like this. “Should we invite OP out? Nah he just sits there quiet all the time he’s so boring/arrogant/awkward/[insert any negative trait here]. When you act like the paragraph above and then don’t speak up people will fill in the blanks. Get your hormones checked, lift heavy, read and internalize No more Mr. Nice Guy and get…
/r/askTRP09/06/18 04:02 AM
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Threw myself headfirst into a relationship with a girl believing it was true love shit. She cheated on me with her ex. She continued to string me along and I went down a dark path, got into legal trouble, dropped out of school and then wasn’t allowed back home when the parents found out everything. This is when the ex fully cut ties with me. I spent a good deal of time at rock bottom living on my brothers couch, feeling sorry for myself, and expecting things to just turn around. I realized I was…
/r/askTRP09/06/18 03:42 AM
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Okay that’s good (I usually assume the worst) it may be a boost then. Yeah low investment is key. If you do get the I have a boyfriend card some guys may recommend go through the shit test routine but my two cents would be to accept it but maintain confidence. I Don’t have a line off the top of my head but...keep the eye contact, respond, don’t apologize, and move on with your day. Plant that seed in her mind, keep the same dynamic going, and you may find a nice DM in the near future. Or not but…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 04:06 AM
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What is your Instagram like? Quality of pictures and follower count/value? IMO if it’s not good then you’re already out. You can play the don’t have or don’t care about IG card but that ship has sailed by asking her to follow you. If it is good then ask her out in person. Ask her out in person if it sucks too but realize the hole you are in.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 03:52 AM
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If she’s the only girl you’re hooking up with then she is not a plate. Sounds like you’re her plate.
/r/askTRP06/06/18 08:10 AM
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Doing the same thing over and over again, staying in your comfort zone, and expecting different results is crazy talk. You’re afraid of dying alone? Then drop ‘can’t’ from your vocabulary and go approach groups of 4-6. You can’t take the leap of faith and try it? Then accept your fate and go die alone.
/r/seduction02/06/18 09:04 AM
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TRP is meant to be internalized and almost become part of your subconscious and guide your behavior. IMO it’s a subtle change in mindset. Much of what is written here is to the extremes so I think it’s common for younger guys to get caught up in that and overcompensate by actively trying to act ‘alpha’. This might be what your parents are seeing. Or not but something that is worth evaluating.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 06:59 AM
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I'm not providing her any time or company, at all Says this after making a lengthy post detailing the play by play specifics of the time and company he recently provided her. Also didn't buy her any gifts, I took em from back home and drew her something Instead of not getting her a gift at all thoughtfully picks her out flowers and handcrafts a gift and thinks it shows less investment then just buying something. I did it for fun and because I wanted to, not because I wanted something in return G…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 08:13 PM
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Don't listen to these Jabronis. You need to watch this video and master the technique. Watch it non stop from now till prom. Take notes if you have to. Learn it. Live it. Breath it.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 07:03 AM
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You just got to own it and have fun even if you suck (you do). If you're feeling awkward it will look awkward and ruin your image. It's easy to give this advice but I struggle with this too unless I am drunk then I'm a dancing machine. Lowered inhibitions is the secret sauce. Bonus Tip: walk up a girl and hold your hand out to them. They'll look at you a bit confused but most will take it. Then give them a little hands over the head twirl/spin, break it with eye contact and smile, and then walk …
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:55 AM
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Yeah I kinda stumbled on this one with my first ex. Had your classic never saw it coming breakup, spiraled out of control, dropped out of college, and had to live on friends' couches as my parents wouldn't take me back. Every time I reached out to my ex during this time looking for some sort of comfort she'd be ice cold and I could feel her thinking less and less of me. It got to the point where she blocked me on everything. I stayed at rock bottom for awhile but eventually pulled myself out, go…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:39 AM
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Yeah same. You're telling us you were able to use a phone number to locate the senders computer and then hack into it? Seems clear to me that this guy is the 'hacker' himself. I use hacker lightly because phone numbers and contact info sounds like you just downloaded some contact details after stumbling on a still logged on faculty account. You thought downloading the hot girls' info and telling them about it would workout how? Hopefully you covered your tracks. Impressive stuff Mr. Robot.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 08:34 PM
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If that's what you wanted from her then yes that's exactly what you should have done. I'm you feel real good now for being civil and validating her that you're happy being friends while she's back home getting pounded out and screaming her new guys name.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 05:29 AM
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While there are always outliers, I truly believe all girls love this. It's just that some are open about it. I used to have very vanilla sex until I dated a girl much like the one you mentioned. She opened my eyes and every single girl I've been with since has loved it.
/r/seduction14/05/18 12:07 AM
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'You keep doing that and I'll have to spank you back....Though I have a feeling that's what you're in to.'
/r/askTRP13/05/18 11:51 PM
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Sometimes guys get too wrapped up in LTR ideals and become blinded. I know there are plenty of posts saying what to do when an LTR pulls back on sex but you need to be self aware about when to listen to these posts vs. when to use your intuition. Her actions seem perfectly reasonable and I wouldn't give her shit for it just yet. If this continues then by all means take action but I don't see the issue at this point. TRP is best internalized and then used to guide your behavior/give you a boost o…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 11:43 PM
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Why did you have to sneak out when someone rang the doorbell?
/r/askTRP13/05/18 10:11 PM
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What you are feeling is a phenomena known as the blood rushing down to your dick. You won't know if you have a chance until you take a chance and talk to her.
/r/seduction13/05/18 09:53 PM
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Just a bump in the road that will make you stronger as long as you follow along with your get back on track steps. I've had a similar situation, perhaps worse as it also included legal issues, and spent some time at rock bottom. I'm so grateful it happened. Pulling myself out of rock bottom in that situation did volumes for my confidence and mental strength. For the plate some will tell you to drop her and that 'none is better than one'. It makes sense as one can create a scarcity mindset and it…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 10:37 AM
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Rejection is by far better then regret. The fact that you have been thinking of cold approach for years is sad you are wasting your best years. Can you commit small and try cold approaching for one weekend? You've had 12 years, 600+ weekends, of avoiding it and hoping Ms. Perfect finds you. The gameplan is just not working you need to switch it up so start small and make small talk with women at the supermarket or something. Even if it doesn't go well you will feel better...almost like a relief …
/r/askTRP13/05/18 10:08 AM
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As far as the shit tests go you gotta treat it almost with amused mastery. It can't bother you. Bonus points if you can follow up with a quick shit Test/sarcastic comment back. Don't know why this one came to mind but this is a great example.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 09:08 AM
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Have you changed anything or your attitude to prompt this guy to start testing you? This may not be your case but IMO when people first swallow the pill they get too excited and try to externalize the behavior which most people pick up on as fake. TRP is best to be internalized and to allow it to be a better version of yourself with newfound clarity as opposed to acting alpha.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 09:05 AM
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Stop being autistic. There's nothing wrong with this unless there are other related red flags. Are you being boring? Are you sending messages just for the sake of making contact? If so then stop and if not give her a joking shit test on it next time you hang out. Again, stop being Autistic. At worst these are shit Tests and at best they're playful jabs that show attraction. Don't be so self conscious that your frame crumbles at a joke. I think you are overreacting but also too invested. You can …
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:58 AM
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I think he meant why do you think they decided to cut you off. Have you been changing your behavior to be more red pill? Also if this is high school then don't worry too much. It literally means nothing in the long run. I'm 5-10 years removed from HS and it's funny how little all that matters now.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:46 AM
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Well it seems clear you need some internal work and need some help with it because what you have been doing has not been working. I don't know what kind of therapists you're going to to get those types of experiences. In the US we have therapists that can't prescribe drugs even if they wanted to and are focused on thought therapy. Not trying to trigger you or anything but have you tried the drugs they wanted to put you on? If you have and they don't work/turn you into a zombie then def stay away…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:36 AM
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You either misread these IOIs and your status or your mindset needs work. You portray a certain image which attracts them but you show something different when you actually hang out. Unless you break down one of these encounters each step of the way there's not much other advice to give without knowing more
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:18 AM
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^ Internalize this. Or don't, and continue to remain frozen in your pessimism. Go ahead and shrug off therapy when you clearly need it, scoff at 'game' advice, give up on online dating, be too good for any hobbies, avoid the gym because you can't commit a year of work towards a greater goal. That mentality has been working great so far right? Your life is so great so you don't want to rock the boat and risk something changing right? You need to disrupt your comfort zone, your preconceived notion…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 03:36 AM
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Rejection is better then regret. Stop staring at her and embellishing this relationship where you haven't even talked to her yet. Approach her. She probably doesn't recognize you like you think but that is a good thing. A clean slate. It's either that or you're the guy who has been staring at her for 30 days. And please don't mention her boyfriend. Coming from a stranger who's never spoken to her makes that real weird.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 11:05 AM
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Bateman is about as far away from Red Pill that you can get. I suppose if you focus on his delusions then it applies but at the end you realize they are all delusions to deal with his crippling need to be accepted by others and be seen as worthwhile. Love the movie and agree with the rest of your list just a small pet peeve of mine.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 10:56 AM
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If what you say about your status is actually true then it's likely because you are too safe and boring? Just an all around nice guy who gets Along with everyone but has no edge. Either or you act that way with the girls you like. I'd guess you have some limited degree of the tendencies in the first example and then ramp them up with girls you are interested in.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 10:50 AM
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20lbs may be a bit heavy for wrists especially starting out. A hack you can do is get some pvc pipe or like a track baton either tie or knot some rope to it and tie the other end to a dumbbell. Better if you go buy a small 10 lb or 20 lb plate. Then you simply home it out arms straight and twist it up so the rope brings the weight up as it pulls. For farmers walk you want to go heavier. It should be a max of 30 seconds walking with the weight while feeling like you want to give up around 20 of t…
/r/seduction02/05/18 04:47 AM
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Yeah once I got my confidence to match my physique I saw much more success. I do quite well with Tinder as well. Go here to look up exercises: BB Link Your forearms will always lag a bit so most important thing is overall mass and heavy compound lifts. For Isolation work heavy farmers walk (look up in the link) they'll hit forearms, shoulders, trap, neck... I can't say enough for this exercise. If you do it right you'll almost feel like fainting and once or maybe twice a week is more than enough…
/r/seduction01/05/18 08:18 AM
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I have small wrists and naturally weak forearms too man. I remember none of my friends being able to touch their thumb with their pinky around their wrist. I could with space to spare. I remember a girl wrapping her hands around my forearm to measure it and then compare to hers. It's a shitty feeling I know. My wrists to upper arms were almost the same size. I even thought I had Marfan's syndrome growing up. Eventually I chose to change it and ate big and lifted heavy. My wrists are still small …
/r/seduction30/04/18 05:31 AM
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I'm the same way and the same things were happening to me. Girls would be really into me and then I would do the right thing by giving them more of myself and the attraction would die. It took my last ex saying things that made zero sense to me as to why she was leaving to start questioning these conditions I was raised with and then everything started making sense. As to your situation, it sounds like you might need some slight inner work too. Make sure you truly do love yourself and see relati…
/r/seduction30/04/18 05:20 AM
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Yeah I agree with this guy. Too much anger in everyone else's posts. The way you described what happened makes it seem like you overreacted, lost frame, and came off as weak. Ending the dinner is an almost autistic move. Channel your amused mastery and laugh it off and then take fishguy's advice of later letting her know you will not accept that if it's still bothering you.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 05:10 AM
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You can wallow in self pity or you can man up and do something about it. Your odd fixation on arms aside it is clear you are not working out hard enough and not eating enough. Unless you have some muscular distrophy your arms will grow if you work then out and eat to fuel the growth.
/r/seduction30/04/18 04:59 AM
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I suspect you're being too open/transparent with them. When a woman is attracted to you and she only knows a little bit about you she fills in the gaps with her imagination which increases her attraction. If you are too open too fast then the realities that replace these imagination gaps are usually less exciting and she sees you in a different light and thinks she mis judged you. Give her enough to stay interested but don't be an open book. At least not all at once or right away.
/r/seduction30/04/18 04:56 AM
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I mean no offense and It's honesty great that you are happy with who you are but the weight is likely the source to your problems. You might want to adjust your standards if you are going to stick with it. Most men look at overweight women in the same light that most women look at weak, insecure, needy men. It happens at a subconscious level and is tough to overcome no matter how awesome your personality is.
/r/seduction30/04/18 04:25 AM
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Your death grip is too tight when you jerk it
/r/askTRP30/04/18 04:04 AM
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How did you find this guy's profile? So you created a fake IG, creeped on her account, looked through who was liking her photos or who she's following until you find this guy, who you then go through his photos to see if she is liking them back? You are over invested and I doubt you can walk away as easily as you claim. None is better than one. Walk away while you have your pride but we all know you want so just do you.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 05:17 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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