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| 1 | If RP men claim that it is within their biological nature to “exercise their options”, why are so many women still against it?If that's the case, why do women reject sexual offers even on anonymous online platforms? Gay men use them a lot to evade homophobia, meanwhile women even hate to be have sexual offers on them. You can try it here on Reddit, message random straight men for online sex and you'll get positives answers, if you are a gay man you can do it on gay men and you'll get positive answers too, do this as a man on women and you will be reported as a sexual harasser and likely end up banned. If women need a s… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Redpill is ruining young men.I think you should take with a grain of salt what teenage boys say on Discord before talking about any general trend. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/23 03:56 PM |
| -1 | People say male privledge doesn't exist what are privledges males have that females don't in society? (List in bullet points)I agree with you but isn't this balanced by the fact women can actually get children whenever they want thanks to scientific workarounds or an easier time finding a partner? They don't have to suffer from this if they choose to not be mothers, men don't have this choice instead as women pick them, this was not relevant in the past but it is relevant today as 1 every 3 men is virgin, 1 every 3 men is not being picked by any woman. I agree that it was a problem in the past as abortion was not acce… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/23 08:54 PM |
| -1 | People say male privledge doesn't exist what are privledges males have that females don't in society? (List in bullet points)Then it's a mental health crisis not based on objectivity as men ìare the ones who more risks (men are at much higher risk of facing crimes from strangers, higher risk of facign crimes acquaintances and friends according to data, women are only more likely to face crime from romantic partners). You should balme people who fear-monger and depict all men as dangerous thus making women so anxious, not talk about privilege as, objectively speaking, men are the ones less privileged in this regard. It… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/23 08:45 PM |
| 1 | People say male privledge doesn't exist what are privledges males have that females don't in society? (List in bullet points)I'm posting actual goverm,emt data which is the highest form of objectivity when it comes to crime, we also have evidence shwoing that men report crime against them less than women so the gap is even wider. You are mentioning the CDC survey which is a level below but let's look at it.F first, of all the definition of sexual assault has been highly debated on the CDC survey as it also includes sex under the influence, regardless of whether it was consensual or not. According to that surveys, all … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/23 08:37 PM |
| 0 | If RP men claim that it is within their biological nature to “exercise their options”, why are so many women still against it?You started the conversation, not me. You always comment negatively on other people here, I don't understand why you think we are less. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/23 03:55 PM |
| -1 | If RP men claim that it is within their biological nature to “exercise their options”, why are so many women still against it?Why is it drivel? I think we agree with each other. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/23 01:25 PM |
| -2 | People say male privledge doesn't exist what are privledges males have that females don't in society? (List in bullet points)Data shows women are much more likely to face sexual harassemn than men but data also shows that men are more like to face crime and are much more likely to face crime from strangers than women. I think people prefer beomg catcalled over being robbed, assaulted or murdered if forced to choose so I wouldn't call this a privilege for men, it's a privilege for women. Besides, on askgaybros there are threads with thousands of upvoted where gay men almost unanimmosuly say they love to be catcalled an… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/23 11:50 AM |
| -4 | If RP men claim that it is within their biological nature to “exercise their options”, why are so many women still against it?Read the question. OP is literally asking about biological instincts, not socialization.Your frontal lobe doesn't determine instincts, it only allows us to have more self-control ie. you can decide to hide your sexual orientation by not participating in sex, but you can't convince yourself to find people of a gender you are not attarcted to sexually appealing. Comparing promiscuity with murder is not fair, there are good reasons for why we should fight our instinct to use violence against others… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/23 11:28 AM |
| -5 | If RP men claim that it is within their biological nature to “exercise their options”, why are so many women still against it?No, relationships don't have to be symbiotic. I'm disappointed by the answers on this thread. In many mammal species, including chimpanzees, new alpha males go around and kill previous children of the female partners they have obtained. To avoid this, females will often hide their children, if this still doesn't work they will mourn the loss of their children. It is in the male interest to kill genetic ompeticion, it is not in the female interest to lose her children. A similar thing applies to … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/23 02:11 AM |
| 3 | If RP men claim that it is within their biological nature to “exercise their options”, why are so many women still against it?What? I am really struggling with understanding your point, I hope i'm misreading it because otherwise you statements looks nonsensical. For a biological instict to exist, it's not necessary that the opposite sex likes it. In most animal species females are very selective in mating, males don't like it as many don't end up reproducing due to female pickiness yet females keep being selective. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/03/23 01:59 AM |
| 1 | There are worse things than dying alone.Then I don't understand the purpose of this thread, everyone knows that there are dangers in relationships, Red Pillers scream about these risks more than you do with all the "divorce rape" and emotional abuse they claim women do in LTR. Another sub might be more well fit for your problem, there's a sub for people who had narcissistic parents and anoher one dedicated to abuse victims for example. The only thing I got from this thread is that there are even more risks in dating, as a guy who alre… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/23 09:08 PM |
| 4 | There are worse things than dying alone.I agree with you, friendships fulfilled me when I was at school as i had a lot of free time to spend with my friends but with adulthood, work, you just wish there was someone who spent the entire night and morning with you at home. I agree that an abusive and violent relationship is way worse than being single but the former IS extremely rare. The dichotomy this thread is trying to push is just bizarre, it's like saying "it's bad to feel ugly but having 4th stage cancer is worse", I really don't… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/23 07:12 PM |
| 1 | There are worse things than dying alone.I find this thread problematic and with sexist undertones, it has anohing to do with the Red Pill and if it does it supports the Red Pill. I'm surprised it is getting awarded. 1) RedPillers are also against relationships and your arguments are similar to their ones. You say that we should be aware of the risks associated with relationships because people are dangerous, but do you realise that this is the exact same argument RP uses to attack relationships? They say men should never marry or be i… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/23 06:57 PM |
| 1 | There are worse things than dying alone.I find this thread extremely problematic and with sexist undertones, it has also nohing to do with the Red Pill and it instead it has many things in common with it. I'm surprised it is getting awarded. 1) RedPillers are also against relationships and your arguments are similar to their ones. You say that we should be aware of the risks associated with relationships because people are dangerous, but do you realise that this is the exact same argument RP user to attack relationships? They say men … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/03/23 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?You missed the point. It's RedPillers who say that women find a minority of people sexually attractiv, this is the interesting part and it aligns with what you describe perfectly. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/23 03:26 PM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I don’t desire many people sexually, but the few people I do desire, I desire on an intense, almost primal level. Then RedPillers were right all along, women crave sex as much as men but do it only with a small minority of men. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/23 03:00 PM |
| -1 | Why do you think young men seem way more worried about being undesirable and unattractive in dating than young women today?I'm just seeking the truth. If you think that a 10k subreddit dedicated to female FAs is equivalent to a 200k sub dedicated to male FAs thus proving that there is no gender difference in the seveerity of this issue, I don't know what to say. I'm still open to other points and explanation that prove there is not a significant gender difference though. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/23 04:41 PM |
| -1 | Why do you think young men seem way more worried about being undesirable and unattractive in dating than young women today?There are also female FA and femcel subs yet they have always had very few uders. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/03/23 09:53 AM |
| 0 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?Thank you for the answer. The reason I ask it's because I want to study women, nothing more or less. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/23 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think young men seem way more worried about being undesirable and unattractive in dating than young women today?What you say is also alien to me. I go on Reddit and I see that the ForeverAlone and the short sub iarevery male-domianated with men complaing about how women find their height and face disgusting, open access female subreddits like AskWomenNoCensor are filled with insecure men who constanty ask women if they like ugly guys and how to get a single date as an ugly guy, even on TwoXChromosomes women complain that there are too many threads from insecure lonely men seeking women and validation from… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/23 07:57 PM |
| -1 | Why do you think young men seem way more worried about being undesirable and unattractive in dating than young women today?I don't express my insecurities to young women in real life but I do express them online where everyone can read them and we see many more unconfident men who need romantic validation online than women who feel the same, this is where we can make the comparison. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/23 12:01 PM |
| -1 | Why do you think young men seem way more worried about being undesirable and unattractive in dating than young women today?That 40% figure is depressing. I wish I was gay to not deal with that | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/23 11:41 AM |
| 1 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?Interesting point, thanks. If I may ask, why did you reject them? Did you already perceive their mean and dangerous atitudes? Did you just not find them sexually arousing despite feeling safe around them before the incidents? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/03/23 11:39 AM |
| 2 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?Don't worry about me, just give your opinion like you would with anyone else. I don't want to turn this coversation to a side job for you because you have to give thep perfect answer, a normal answer is ok, I'm juast asking about the problem women face, I can see how it must be frustrating to be seen as a potential romantic giflriend by all men you befriend as a woman. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/23 11:30 AM |
| 1 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?I can easily attract gay men who look like models, but on the flip side their sexuality is similar to mine, not women's one so this doesn't tell me anything about women who instead keep giving me 0 likes and rejecting me in real lfie (although they like me as a safe friend). What do you think should I do? What practical solution do you think I might implement? | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?There are massive monolithic differences between men and women though, women might be different from each other but ther are common differences that separate them from men. I'm very successful at attracting gay men - like any man can do - but no woman has ever found me attractive except for when I was using fakep pictures of hot men. Women only see me as a safe friend so not even the "safety" argument applies to what I and many men experience when trying to date women as opposed to men. I wish m… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/23 03:22 PM |
| 1 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?Don't worry, I also expressed myself in the wrong words. I appreciate your trasparency and help. The only thing that I still don't understand well ìis this paragraph: Your point about acting disinterested in women to get them is also concerning. Women want to meet people, not meet people who want to use them for a specific purpose like a sex doll or a wife. If we happen to meet someone, that’s amazing. But by the logic of guys acting disinterested every single man we meet is just waiting to eith… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/23 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Are there any forums or groups that specifically make fun of redpillers or rant about them I need a good laugh?I'm surprised nobody has mentioned r/TheBluePill, it fits exactly your description. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/02/23 05:56 AM |
| 1 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?Being non-redpill just means not believing in hypergamy and alpha males, it does not mean understanding women or not wanting to get many dates, on the contrary leaving the redpill leaves a lot of questions unanswered. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 08:55 PM |
| 1 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?I got my bio reviewed by several women in my femaily and a female friend (my best friend) with 0 changes in the amount of likes I got, I even tried bios complelely written by women I know with the same result. Only using fake pictures of hot men worked in attracting women on these platforms. Gay men like me for whom I truly am instead. And it's not like I have harsh looks standards, I find 96% of women my age physically aattractive. The very fact that men like me can attract many attractive gay … | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 02:49 PM |
| 1 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?How do I understand if a woman is intersted romantically or just platonically before asking them out? I've connected with women platonically but it always leads to endless platonic conversations, they never display attraction - unlike gay men - so I can't make any move as I don't receive signas. It feels like women don't feel that pull, that desire that pushes non-women demographics to do romantic and physical things with each others. I don't know if it's biology or socialization. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 12:26 PM |
| 1 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?Since women adjust to the world differently, how long should I wait before making a move on a a woman? You seem to understand that men are different so my question is legitimate. With a man, you could ask him on a date (or even sex) within the first encounter if you find things in common. What is the time frame with women we men talk to platonically given that women adjust extremely differently from us? | /r/ExRedPill | 23/02/23 01:30 AM |
| 2 | Question: how did you get over the fear/thought of being betrayed or cheated on?I've never had this fear and I don't understand why one would have it. Surveys show women and mn are equally likely to cheat on their partner. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/23 12:30 PM |
| 2 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?I've never thought about that, it sounds like a great idea. I'm already self-teaching German, I might as well do it with a professional and with other people. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/23 11:54 AM |
| 1 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?My hobbies are male dominated and women - unlike men - don't want people to join their hobby just to socialize and maybe find a date who's interested in that hobby. You said women don't like it, it leads me to belieive that I have very little options then and that things would be easier with gay men as I could be honest about my desire to datet without offending anyone, it's like with women you should be ashamed about that. This is what I meant, I'm sorry if I gave a different impression, when I… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/23 10:29 AM |
| 1 | What does trigger attraction "chemistry" in women from a non-RP perspective?It makes sense. Why do you quall it there's not a proper match? You can still have a FWB or hookup, after all you said that sex is just about attraction - not chemistry or attraction - and also that women have a libido as strong as men's one. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/23 10:19 AM |
| -1 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?Most if not all of my friends in my field don't know women and are virgin - and not fot religious reasons. It's very common for Generation Z men from what I'm seeing. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/23 01:36 AM |
| 1 | What does trigger attraction "chemistry" in women from a non-RP perspective?I know your point, it makes sense but that's why I said that women don't express feeling of desire towards most men even on an abstract level. We know that women face risks, that's why they don't want to engage in casual sex, but it also seems that they don't feel attraction towards most men like gay men (and straight men with women) do. This is what women report when asked, even online. Women say sexual attraction is very rare, they don't just say that it's rare to find a safe man. No, I'm not … | /r/ExRedPill | 22/02/23 12:10 AM |
| 0 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?I've been doing that for years and I haven't talked to any woman through that, it only works for men who are open to cold approaching. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 11:53 PM |
| -4 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?I opened a thread on the differences between male and female sexuality and most people said there aren't any except for safety (which is not what the users above was talking about, she talked about "unattractive" and disheartening") then I come here and you say that I should know that women are different. Not to mention that it's mostly women - not men - who keep telling me and other men that their sexuality and cognition is not different from ours. What are the biological or social reasons for … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 11:50 PM |
| -5 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?When I say that I debate gender, I don't mean that I debate gender identity as the topic doesn't interest me at all. I debate on pill philoosphy, gender diffeences in attraction, dating. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 09:02 PM |
| -6 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?I say this not to discourage you in finding a partner, but so you can maybe see from a woman’s perspective how it would feel to find a space you feel comfortable in talking about a hobby being infiltrated by men who don’t really have an interest in said hobby and have other intentions with you (innocent intentions or not). It’s really upsetting to be honest, and it makes it harder for women to feel comfortable to be in male dominated spaces. I'm trying to see it from a woman's perspective but I … | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 08:41 PM |
| 1 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?I'm below average while also already lookmaxxed. So another space where unless you are a woman or a handsome man, you don't even qualify just like Tinder, we know Tinder is a BlackPillers and RedPilersl generating machine. It doesn't sound wise for a guy to join swing communities without affecting their body image. Why do you think the BDSM community cares less about looks than the wwing community? Also, do you participate to these communities? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?I know BDSM clubs but I've never seen a vanilla one, which is what I'd find appealing. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 05:15 PM |
| 1 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?Do you play the guitar on Instagram? | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 04:24 PM |
| -4 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?Where do I find non-BDSM orgies that accept average-looking single men? Do they even exist? This sounds like a porn fantasy, not reality. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 04:22 PM |
| 4 | What hobby to choose in order to meet women organically?I appreciate your tip but I said "Please, no dancing classes". I've tried Tango and most people I've danced with were more than triple my age, they were nice people but it's hard to connect with such a huge age gap. I've also found out that I don't like dancing. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I've read your comment now, it's the most interesting and detailed comment in the thread so I don't know how Imissed it. Your theory is interesting but how does it explain chads? Hot men (aka chads) can just jump on Tinder and match with 25% of women while having no bio, write "dtf?" and receive message from women wwith positive reasults. You talk about extremely rare connections, from what I know no woman has ever felt that connection with me that triggers attraction and like me most men I know… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/02/23 03:14 AM |
| 0 | I'm jealous of other races who date white womenOkCupid's reports. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/23 02:44 AM |
| 2 | What does trigger attraction "chemistry" in women from a non-RP perspective?What sounds stupid to you might not stupid to others, if young men knew how attraction and women work the Red Pill wouldn't exist. It's not fair to be unpolite to me, I'm just a guy trying to understand. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/23 08:06 PM |
| 2 | What does trigger attraction "chemistry" in women from a non-RP perspective?This is not polite from you. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/23 06:28 PM |
| 0 | What does trigger attraction "chemistry" in women from a non-RP perspective?I'm actually mostly interested in a serious relationship but I've seen that it is way easier for a guy to go from a hookup to a relationship than from a friendship to a relationship. Many women also hate to be asked out on dates by friends or acquaintances but almost no woman hates to be asked out on a date by a ONS. , This is why I'd like to learn how to get hookups as it makes finding relationships very easy but, from what you said, it's very hard regardless So what can I do to communicate tha… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/23 02:39 PM |
| 5 | I'm jealous of other races who date white womenSurveys clearly show white women have a strong preference for white men, You are the most desired group of men while asian women are the most desired group of women according to dating apps data. Data from dating apps also shows that women as a group - all races included - strongly prefer white men. To put things more clearly, even though all races have a preference for their own from the data, non-white women like white men way more than white women like non-white men. Being white gives you the… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/23 02:33 PM |
| 1 | What does trigger attraction "chemistry" in women from a non-RP perspective?I'm actually mostly interested in a serious relationship but I've seen that it is way easier for a guy to go from a hookup to a relationship than from a friendship to a relationship. Many women also hate to be asked out on date by friends but almost no woman hates to be asked out on a date by a ONS. , This is why I'd like to learn how to get hookup as it makes finding relationships very easy but, from what you said, it's very hard regardless So what can I do to communicate that I want a relation… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/23 02:27 PM |
| -1 | What does trigger attraction "chemistry" in women from a non-RP perspective?Yes, that's my point. It makes sense, vibing with someone can be rare. And a lot of this is just better social intelligence. What defines social intelligence for attraction from a woman's point of view? As opposed to just friendship social intelligence? What do these highly romantically and sexually successful men have that men who constantly get friendzoned don't have? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/23 09:40 AM |
| -3 | What does trigger attraction "chemistry" in women from a non-RP perspective?So you have found very few seuallu attractive people in your life, right? What is the difference between romatnic wawelenght and best friend wavelenght? I do see that, on average, men who hookup with many women display way different personality traits from men who are seen as friends by many women. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/23 09:32 AM |
| -3 | What does trigger attraction "chemistry" in women from a non-RP perspective?Let's put it in other words: do most women find most men physically attractive enough that after personality attraction has been established they end up feeling sexual attraction? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/23 09:12 AM |
| -2 | What does trigger attraction "chemistry" in women from a non-RP perspective?I see, so do most women find most people physically attractive like gay men and straight men do? From what you say, it's the romantic attraction that really weeds people off by leaving only a small minority of people good enough for sex from a woman's point of view. Am I putting things correctly? | /r/ExRedPill | 18/02/23 09:02 AM |
| 1 | What is the difference between this subreddit, MensRights and MensLib?Thank you, it's very well written. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 17/02/23 10:07 PM |
| -2 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?If women love the connection and synergy, why do they rarely catch feelings for their male friends and best male friends - unlike men? it's very confusing for me, I hope you understand. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do red pill YouTube channels exist? They’re all sexist and should be removed from YouTube. On a side note I really love this subreddit. I really hope it always exists it’s helped me a lot.How do you determine the line between sexism and different view? If one says "women like confidence" should they be banned? What if someones uses the term "alpha men" instead? If one says that "wome find less people attracitve" should they be banned"? What if someone says the same but also quantifies it by saying "women find 20% of men attractive", should they ban them? It's not as easy as you think, Red Pillers don't go around explicitly saying "women are inferior", sometimes they don't even la… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 02:34 AM |
| 0 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Do people still post that "study" in 2023? Do you lurk or post on TwoXChromosomes? Because I see it posted often on there, that subreddit is even worse than TheRedPill when it comes to pseudoscience. This Vox article sums up the whole story. According to the author of the Vox article, the idea that childless never married women are happier isthe result of an editing mistake committed by Paul Dolan in his book in the interpreation of the original research study about happiness and marriage, this … | /r/ExRedPill | 17/02/23 02:27 AM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Rollo Tomassi doesn't say it's over, that's the Black Pill (which did not exist when I was 12). I embraced the Black Pill later in life and have dropped it only recently. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 04:06 PM |
| 0 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Why is that surprising? Today's kids are being exposed to Red Pill beliefs even earlier through TikTok. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 04:01 PM |
| 0 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Why are there men who have sexual chemistry almost always with women while some men almost never or never do? How can it be only individual with such strong non-randm trends? Are you saying this is not true? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 03:59 PM |
| -3 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Then why there are men who have sexual chemistry almost always with women while some men almost never or never do? I don't see such imbalance with gay men, everyone has a chance. There are clearly some things that these attracitve straight men have that other straight men don't, it doesn't seem to be something exclusively individual. A man who is liked by many women will likely be liked by many other women while the oppoiste applies to sexually unsuccessful men. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 03:52 PM |
| -1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Define "good" because I don't see a correlation between "good" and men's success in getting dates, maybe you have a different definition. The only thing I know about women's sexuality through first-hand experience is that they respond positively ro advances only when I use pictures of hot men while gay men are open to all looks levels online, the rest I know through theory and anecdotes from other men and women. How much older? I got into the Red Pill at 12 reading Rollo Tomassi's blog posts and… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Never because women reject me when they see my face - unlike gay men - but I know the theory well and I'm very willing as I've been waiting 26 years for a chance with a woman, still nothing- , but at least I'm a pro at accepting rejection. I also build computers and practice jiu-jitsu (martial art focused only on holds and submissions) so I know how to use my hands and body for more complex works. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 01:41 PM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Friendzone can mean many things, in this case I just mean a guy you see only as a friend but feel 0 attraction towards him. I understand but even among people we know, women find few people sexually attractive than men do. Among people you know, or friends, what is the difference between sexually unattractive body language and personality and a sexually lyattractive body language and personality? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 01:13 PM |
| 0 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Maybe you are extremely good-looking if you are able to have female friends who actively want sex with you. How would you rate your face? How tall are you? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?What is the difference between "friend-zone"/sexually unattractive body language and personality and a sexually lyattractive body language and personality? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 12:54 PM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?with people I'm fwb/partners etc with sexting is great but randomers online is meh Why is that? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 12:31 PM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I never get that. Why bother left the house when orgasm is not even guaranteed vs staying home with guaranteed (self) orgasm. But each their own. Because one gets aroused by the other person, in the case of a heterosexual man that would mean a woman. A toy or hand is only a tool to relieve the sexual arousal triggered by the person of desire, Don't you get aroused way more by a person? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 11:55 AM |
| -1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?It's different. I'm seeking the factual truth here, I'm cosnidering every possibility and counter-argument because of that, blindly accepting someone's take withing delving into it is not a good expression of critical thinking. Meanwhile, in the context of a sexual encounter, a woman's boundaries and preferences don't need an expalanation, they ìmight appear irrational but the emotion behind that is what truly matters. I don't debate with people on their preferences and boundaries even in friend… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 11:51 AM |
| -2 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I do that and women see me only as a friend, I don't face this issue with gay men. If it was that easy, the Red Pill would not exist. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 11:45 AM |
| 0 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I don't think millions of dudes have read books about female sexuality wirttne by women like "Come as you are" and I don't think millions of dudes know that the term "orgasm gap" stands for. I don't have any data on this though so you may be right. How can I communicate that I care about female pleasure in bed a way that is convincing then? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 11:44 AM |
| 0 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Is it because you are less sexually visual as a woman? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 11:38 AM |
| -2 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?And what is the differece between sexual chemistry and friendship chemistry if not physical attraction? What is chemistry to women and how can a man learn to build that instead of friendship chemistry only? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 11:37 AM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I've never been ghosted in my life except for when I was asked to show my face by some women and some male friends when they find a girlfriend. You are projecting many things on me while knowing very little about me. Personally, I'm looking for both a relationship and FWB as I'm open to both, it depends on what the woman is looking for. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/23 11:34 AM |
| -2 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Then let's stick to sexting, the same gender difference keeps existing. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 07:04 PM |
| 0 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Maybe you are extremely good-looking if you are able to find girlfriends who actively want sex with you. How would you rate your face? How tall are you? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 07:03 PM |
| -1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?You seem to see it only in black and white. There are plenty of good guys that one day ask for FWBs and the woman immediately hates them, they are not thrilled about it like men are when the oppoiste happnes. It doesn't feel like women feel strong sexual attraction to men they have a connection with like their friends. Do you have data about the arotica industry? I would like to read it. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 07:01 PM |
| 0 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?No, I just swtich my preference from women to men from time to time on Bumble and Tinder. Yes, I usually wait the woman to show me signals before making any move but they never show a thing. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:54 PM |
| 0 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?How does an individual man express it though? Should I tell to women I know that I'm aware of the orgasm gap, that I read books about female sexuality and I'm open to obey their cues in bed? Will they be thrillled or creeped out? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:53 PM |
| 4 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I apologize, it was definitely a mistake from me. I misread it on phone, now I'm on my desktop. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:51 PM |
| 2 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?What's the difference between that sub and the classic r/seduction ? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:50 PM |
| 0 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?If all you're looking for is casual sex, then you shouldn't be wooing people for a year, but instead openly looking for women who also just want casual sex. Have you tried this honest approach? Yes, I have tried it get rejected and blocked unless I use pictures of hot men. Gay men don't do this to me instead, I don't need to use pictures of handsome men to have a chance. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:48 PM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Thank you for the answers. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:46 PM |
| 0 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I see, you make good points but isn't there already a narrative around a male friend? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:31 PM |
| 3 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I've read it now, they seem to be less popular but they exist and seem to be growing in popularity. Have you gone to one? What was the experience like? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:27 PM |
| 0 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?So women also find less people attractive as an explanation for the difference compared to men? We are getting close to RP conclusions here. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:20 PM |
| -13 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Then in your case the emotional connection made her unattractive, you would have gladly had sex with her when you still hadn't known her well. After all, research shows that about 95% of men would say yes to a random attractive woman asking them in public to have sex. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:10 PM |
| -3 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?If that's the case, and it's not about sex drive, women find way few friends sexually attractive. Women almost always recoil at sexual offer from friends while gay and straight men love it, this means women don't find their friends sexually attractive almost always. We are going towards RP conclusions here. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 06:01 PM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I haven't made even one reference to PIV. I know women are aroused primarily through foreplay and even before that they like to be touched and wooed mentally, throughout the process a man should also carefully listen to the verbal and non-verabl cues and adjust to them. I've read several books of female sexuality written by women. As for the rest, thanks for the answer. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 05:58 PM |
| -2 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?That page says that these clubs are catered to men, so they only offer the Girlfriend Experience which was my point. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 05:55 PM |
| -1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Because they want to? Then clearly slut-shaming and safety don't explain all the difference, progressive women still recoil at sexual offers even on safe and anonymous platforms while gay and straight men do not. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 05:54 PM |
| 2 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I can do all of that and still get 0 offers, I read several books on female pleasure written by women like "Come as you ae" and I could even woo a woman open to it for one entire year for a chance at sex but still nothing. Meanwhile, I have hundreds of men open to have sex with me. If I inquire women about sexual needs, they recoil unless I use pictures of hot men. I think it's way more complex than that | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 05:52 PM |
| -6 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I see, then why aren't women sexually attracted to their male friends? There's a connection there. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 05:14 PM |
| -4 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Is there a textbook or paper that lists and explains these buttons? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 05:02 PM |
| -18 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Then why do progressive women stille reject sexting and offers for faceless cybersex even on anonymous and safe platforms like Reddit? On the contrary, I see progressive womne complaining about sexual offers for cybersex on anonymous platforms. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 05:01 PM |
| -3 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I can do that for free yet I have 0 offers from women but hundreds and hundreds from gay men. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Can you make an example of a host club for women? I've never seen one in my city (Rome). | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 04:57 PM |
| -1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?You may be right, I just have the impression that if we ever built a female-oriented platfomr and I offered a Boyfriend Experiences I'd get 0 offers while any women could do that on any platfomr and receive dozens or hundreds of answers within a single day. This is just my impression, I may be wrong. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 03:36 PM |
| -7 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?I'm just trying to consider every factor. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 03:18 PM |
| -8 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Men don't use sex toys because a hand is enough, meanwhile sex toys greatly facilitate female masturbation. It's about anatomical differences rather than differences in libido. To make a more fair comparison, how many women are there who spend half of the salary on sexual content? There are many men who spend most of their salary on OnlyFans or Girlfriend Experiences, how many women do that? And even if we consider the emotional connection, we still don't see women paying men for Boyfriend Exper… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 03:17 PM |
| -5 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Does your medical history include pathologies that might have affected your sex drive? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 03:10 PM |
| -7 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?Are you a cis or a trans man? Hormonal variations between these two groups might act as confodunding factors. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 03:03 PM |
| -1 | How low is the female sex drive compared to the male one?As an average to below-average looking guy no woman has ever been attracted to me but plenty of gay men have, if I had to make an assement based on my life experience women don't have a sex drive, they already recoil at the idea of attraction, let alone sex while gay and straight men are the opposite. Still, we can't make inferences based only on our personal experiences as exceptions like genetic mutations exist, we should fcous on what most anecdotes from men say or data. Maybe you are extreme… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/02/23 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Spam filterIt has happened to me and it usually happens with more long and high-effort threads I write, the mod will accept your thread if you contact him about the automod removal anyway. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/23 02:05 PM |
| 1 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?The imaginary woman is 28, the sub requires to write it in the title, so they guys messagin are not age gap creeps. You are right. it's not a full of experiment and it might very well be that most of those men are just looking for sex thus making things just hard for women Still, you can't blame me for also giving credit to other explanations, so far women have told me - on this sub and elsewhere - that they mostly receive sexual innuendoes, "Hi" and dick pictures as messages, you can understand… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/23 04:14 PM |
| 0 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?What do ou mean with psychic damage from dating apps? What is exactly causing it? I'd like to understand. Also, are you a homosexual man? I don't know much about their dating culture around marriage. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/23 09:48 AM |
| 1 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?Sure, I can post screenshots and please, tell me what you think about them. I'm genuinely interested in understanding. I've just taken a quick glance at some of them again and I'm both surprised and saddened by their quality, I didn't remember them to be so good. So many good guys looking for a relationship but unwanted by all women, it seems so hard for guys like me. In few hours, the imaginary woman I created received 100 times the amount of good romatnic attention I received in my life online… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 06:21 PM |
| 1 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?We are talking about 100 messages received in less than 30 hours here, do you want to see all of them here? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 05:19 PM |
| 1 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?If you want, i can share them with you in private. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 09:18 AM |
| 1 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?Could you please list these soft red flags? I'd really like to understand. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 09:17 AM |
| 7 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?I don't disagree with you but the testosterone argument is irrelevant, women's sex drive is determined by different hormones, testosterone only one of them. On the contrary, testosterone is the primary sex drive hormone in men. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 04:20 PM |
| 1 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?Could you please list these soft red flags? I'd really like to undertand. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 04:03 PM |
| 0 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?Ok and, roughly speaking, what percentage of men has access to multiple "dumpster women" open to have sex with them? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 03:27 PM |
| -4 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?I don't necessarily disagree with you, I disagree only on the figures. Let's go straight to the point, what percentage of men do you think have the potential of having a rotation of women to have sex with at the same time if they want to? Be honest. Is it near to the infamous 20%? As I said, chads do exist but they are not the average man as top 20% is not average. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?That's your opinion and you are entitled to that, I'm literally looking for alternative expalantions to the results of my experiment in this thread. It's anti-circle jerk thread. I don't understand what my karma has to do with all of this thouhg as you brought it up, I've literally been dowvoted in completely different situations. It's just off-topic. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 03:03 PM |
| 1 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?I welcome opposing views on this thread, actually I prefer opposing views as they make us think and grow. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 03:01 PM |
| 3 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?I literally opened the thread, how are my comments off-topic? People downvoted me because they disagreed with me. I opened an AskMen thread asking why some men don't cross the street when they pass near a woman at night, a user asked me why would one do that and I said "to make women feel less anxious" and bang, 250 downvoted in few hours and comments saying how I (they thought I was a woman for some reason) am a crazy feminist. My comment was on-topic, people just disagreed with it. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 02:28 PM |
| -3 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?How many men do you think are able to hook-up with more than one woman at a time that they need to reassure the woman they date about exclusivity? It's like asking a guy to tell you he's not a rapist, it's such a rare thing that men aren't required to explicitly say it to the women they date, it's assumed. I only know one man who has been able to do that and he's the defintion of chad. I understand your insecurities, we all have ethem, but let's strive to talk about actual average men and women … | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 02:23 PM |
| 0 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?Would you please explain how most messages AND conversations went? Don't describe the exceptions, I'd like to understand the whole experience. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 11:11 AM |
| -3 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?How long ago did you use OkCupid? Maybe the community has improved from then. You are right, most messages were sent by men from other US states but they weren't sent by men from other countries at least. I listed several criteria: age, nerdy, into specific videogames (I even made some obscure references to old fighting games to test the readers), likes a specific genre of movies. I also inserted some jokes in my therad and many men answered with the same humor. I made this experiment some month… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 11:06 AM |
| -14 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?I didn't continue all the conversations for ethical reasons, I wouldn't want a poor guy to catch feelings. I did it a couple of times and the conversations went on normally, which is already more than all my dating life as a below average looking man. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 10:14 AM |
| 1 | What do you think women refer to when they say dating apps are full of low quality sexual offers and very few actual options?I've lost 200 comment karma for saying that feminism can benefit people on AskMen, I've lost 50 comment karma for saying that not everything Red Pillers say is wrong on a female sub in 3 days. I can't win. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 10:02 AM |
| 0 | What is the actual reason behind the huge gender disparity on dating apps? Why are close to 80% of major dating apps’ users men?This, I'd also add that gay men act just like straight men on dating apps (with the difference that they get results). Men are just more romantic and crave romance more than women, so men are more likely to put effort into seeking a romantic relationship (not just sex) than women. It's not that men are bad partners, otherwise gay men would not be looking so much for relationship as straight men do, it's just that women are happy not dating. Romantic love, in my opinion, plays a small role in wom… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 09:06 AM |
| 1 | What is the actual reason behind the huge gender disparity on dating apps? Why are close to 80% of major dating apps’ users men?I've lost 200 comment karma for saying that feminism can benefit people on AskMen, I've lost 50 comment karma for saying that not everything Red Pillers say is wrong on a female sub. I can't win. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 09:02 AM |
| 1 | What is the actual reason behind the huge gender disparity on dating apps? Why are close to 80% of major dating apps’ users men?Then why it's the same story on relationhip-oriented apps like OkCupid? | /r/ExRedPill | 09/02/23 09:00 AM |
| 0 | How can you be happy knowing that you have never dated and likely will never date beause of your low attractiveness?Thank you, I needed some "harsher" encouragement. Sometimes I become complacent in my low self-worth. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/23 04:24 PM |
| -1 | How can you be happy knowing that you have never dated and likely will never date beause of your low attractiveness?Do you think one can be happy while shifting blame? Honestly, it doesn't make me unhappy being resentful against women for being wired to see me as unoorthy of love due to the evolutionary pressures that have shape their mind to seek higher value when they want love, unlike gay men (and straight men) Feeling unlovable makes me unhappy, maybe there's a way to work only on this. Seeing women as "lesser" when it comes to love gives me more peace of mind. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | How can you be happy knowing that you have never dated and likely will never date beause of your low attractiveness?What is the "real scenario"? | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 02:43 AM |
| 0 | How can you be happy knowing that you have never dated and likely will never date beause of your low attractiveness?Yes, I have platonic female friends. The closest one I've dated online but she broke up with me after seeing my face, still we remain friends. I trust them but I feel resentment when they talk about dating and hearing what they say so I prefer avoiding the topic around them. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 02:19 AM |
| 1 | How can you be happy knowing that you have never dated and likely will never date beause of your low attractiveness?I'll look into CBT. I think the difference between fearing men and my experience is that only a minority of men commits crime unless you live in a warzone (in that case, it would make sense for a woman to fear ALL men). I've been violently assaulted by both men and women in my life and even had some bones broken, but these expereinces didn't affect my view of men and women as I know that most men and women are not bullies. What I know is that almost all or all women find me unattractive, I see i… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 02:13 AM |
| 0 | How can you be happy knowing that you have never dated and likely will never date beause of your low attractiveness?I've gone to therapy for two years until recently, it didn't help much. It only helped me in shifting the blame from myself to external circumstances (the women I've met, luck) as, according to the therapist, I tend to blame myself too much for things and this makes me feel worse. This indeed made me feel better and that's probably why I'm not depressed but it didn't make me happier about being single Therapy is not magic. It can help you in making sense of the world when there are discrepancy b… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 01:42 AM |
| 1 | How can you be happy knowing that you have never dated and likely will never date beause of your low attractiveness?Yes, I'm fit but not extremely fit, I'm working on becoming extremeely fit to at least take full advantage of what I have. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Fantasizing as an under-rated coping mechanismI've worked with many young men and women, and have seen both sides on the insecurities and hardships the current dating scene brings so this is something that often can be helped. Interesting. What differences have you noticed between men's and women's insecurities? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 09:51 PM |
| 0 | How can you be happy knowing that you have never dated and likely will never date beause of your low attractiveness?I know it through my OLD results and ratings on Photofeeler from women in my age group. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 09:29 PM |
| -1 | How can you be happy knowing that you have never dated and likely will never date beause of your low attractiveness?The idea makes me very resentful of women. I could date a gay man easily, plenty of matches on gay dating apps, but women have been the only demographics that has judged me unanimously as unworthy due to my low attractiveness level, it's hard to see them as individuals because it's almost like they have agreed with each other on deeming me unattractive. Women are the only people who have unanimously judged me negatively due to my looks. The only time I've talked toa woman romantically was when t… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 09:19 PM |
| 1 | How can you be happy knowing that you have never dated and likely will never date beause of your low attractiveness?Yes, I'm 26. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 03:45 PM |
| 2 | How can you be happy knowing that you have never dated and likely will never date beause of your low attractiveness?Thanks for the support. It may not be a huge "score" but it's still a very big accomplishment for a straight man, you should be proud of yourself for such big numbers. I find 95% of women my age physical attractive, I don't think my standards are the problem. I'm fit and well-groomed, I'd say I'm a 2.5/10. From my experience, most women my age who have not dated did it by choice, maybe I've been unlucky. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Approaching women?I don't undertand, do too old/too young strangers approach you asking for friendships or did those experiesnces with "friends" happen in more organic scenarios? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 02:56 PM |
| 5 | Approaching women?From what I've read on female subs, women don't like to be approached. This is also what Black Pillers believe. Only Red Pillers and PUAs say the opposite. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 02:36 PM |
| 0 | I just want to be happy. Why does everyone have it so easy? Why is life so painful? Why does everyone have it so easy?How do you know his age? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 02:06 PM |
| 0 | are men and women more similar than different?Overall men and women are more similar than different, that is they are similar in most things but there are things where they are very different. One of the things where women and men are more different than similar is attraction, for both bioological and social reasons. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/02/23 07:09 AM |
| 1 | The red pill isn't even anymore about helping men, it is about trying to groom young men into being these artificially masculine uber-chadsI like this question. People always suggest therapy, it is useful for people who have emotional problems, some examples: person knows most dogs are not dangerous but Ihey feel fear them, le't fix the fear ; woman knows not all men are cheaters but she still feels distrust when she dates a man, let's adrres the distrust. Therapy is not very useful with people who believe in an ideology, therapy won't turn a communist into a liberal, it won't turn a libertarian into a social democrat. Blackpillers… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/23 03:30 AM |
| 0 | The red pill isn't even anymore about helping men, it is about trying to groom young men into being these artificially masculine uber-chadsAs a former Black Piller, I agree. I almost wish I was a former Red Piller despite all their focus on alphaness and status. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/01/23 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Trying to understand what is so appealing about RP to men and if some men are more susceptible to itIf I may ask, are you asexual? I was lursking this thread and I found your comments very reasonable, I have a theory that not experiencing attraction - like asexuals - allows people to look at dating more objectively but I may be wrong. I agree with what you say anyway. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 08:35 PM |
| 2 | The red pill isn't even anymore about helping men, it is about trying to groom young men into being these artificially masculine uber-chadsWhat do you think about the Black Pill? It seems to be the polar opposite on this regard even though, I'd argue, it has significantly worse effects than the Red Pill on one's mental wellbeing. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/23 07:02 PM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling entitled to women's love and attention?What if someone is not socially maladaptive and has good social skills? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/23 03:18 AM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling entitled to women's love and attention?But I already know how to get to know women. My best friend is a woman, I get to know women platonically pretty easily (as I explained in the thread) but when I ask one of a a date (usually an acquaintance or friend as OLD doesn't work for me), they always say I'm not their type. What can I change? Howcan I improve my chances? Meanwhile, I see my handsome male friends just randomly messageing women on IG or sending lazy messages on OLD, getting many dates just like I would if I were gay or a han… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/23 02:30 AM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling entitled to women's love and attention?My insecurities recognize that women are different than gay men in that they have harsher attractiveness standards than gay men. I think my problem is in the second step you listed: learning to deal with it. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/23 02:17 AM |
| 0 | How to stop feeling entitled to women's love and attention?I mentioned gay men to explain why my insecurities focus on women and not people in general. If I could, of course I'd choose to be gay as I don't like my negative thoughts around women, I don't like that I'd like to have a girlfriend whom I love and loves me back. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/23 01:51 AM |
| 0 | How to stop feeling entitled to women's love and attention?Have all men treated you worse due to your lack of attractivness? Not even one valued you enough? I'm sorry if that's the case, I can understand your grudge. I didn't have this experience with gay men and it seemed that straight men also were not so picky. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/23 01:25 AM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling entitled to women's love and attention?I appreciate your explanation. If you are right, women are not treating me differently based on my looks as more physically attractive guys don't necessarily have an advantage outside of very looks-based platforms like Tinder. Sorry, I just assumed bc of Grindr. But just marked research? :) Yes, I made some experiments on gay platfomrs. I also have some gay friends so I'm exposed to their dating culture, each one of them has a very strong "abundance mindset" in dating that very few straight men … | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 03:31 PM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling entitled to women's love and attention?Why don't you date men though, if you are into men? I'm heterosexual. For men it's two things. They are sexually attracted to many girls and then romantically & sexually attracted to just a few. So men are picky with relationships, but not sex. Assuming that women are not pickier than men loooks-wise, they should find almost all men their age physically attractive but not romatnically attractive. Women aren't open to sex with most men because they need both physical and romantic attraction for… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 03:09 PM |
| 1 | If there was more transparency in dating, would it help? Ex. Telling the other side the real reason for rejectionIf you keep getting rejected, isn't it sensible to self-reflect on what you are lacking? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 02:33 PM |
| -2 | If there was more transparency in dating, would it help? Ex. Telling the other side the real reason for rejectionSo you were strongly attracted to them but did not want to date them? I don't understand your clarification necause it's pretty clear that when one asks for the reason behind rejection, one is asking about the reason why they are not perceived as attractive or compatible. Your clarifications sounds redundant unless you did indeed feel strongly attracted to those men and just did not want to date in general because, yes, dating is not a need and sometimes we want to be single. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 02:30 PM |
| 0 | How to stop feeling entitled to women's love and attention?If romantic attraction is what women value, as opposed to sexual attraction, why the discriminat seems to be looks? Looks matter only to sexual attraction. I understand your claims, I thought about them a lot but when I see me getting 0 matches and my chadifsh with a bio saying "I'm a former convicted felon" and women replying positively to messages like "DTF?" , it becomes harder for me to understand. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 01:44 PM |
| 0 | How to stop feeling entitled to women's love and attention?It would be easier for me to not have this mindset if gay men also did not find me unattractive which would make sense if I was inherently ugly but they do not, they also find other below average men attractive. It seems that they treat most men quite equally, almost in a "democratic" way, the same way straight men are less picky. It feels like all women are instead wired to be disgusted by me thus they feel like the reason why I've struggled with feeling ugly throughout my life. I guess it was … | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?I don't have an opinion about you as I don't know you, I have an opinion about what you wrote. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 09:19 AM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling entitled to women's love and attention?I post on https://looksmaxxing.com/, plenty of users have tried it with 0 good results, the only good thing to improve your jaw and chin is to reach a low bodyfat percentage which I have already reached. There are also video online like this posted from experts that call out mewing. Just because I invest time in improving my looks, it doesn't mean it's reasonable to pay scammers. Might as well buy some male pheromones that supposedly trigger female arousal according to scammers, great idea in th… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 02:24 AM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling entitled to women's love and attention?Mewing is based on very limited and low quality evidence, it probably works on teenagers but there's zero evidence that it works on adults. That guy is scamming insecure men. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 01:35 AM |
| 0 | How to stop feeling entitled to women's love and attention?I think my facial bone structure is the problem. I'm fit as I go to the gym regularly and count my macros, I take drugs to not bald (only minoxidil at the moment), I have a long daily skin care routine (it's a hobby of mine), regular haircuts, I shave everyday as my beard grows fast and looks bad on me, classy clothes as that is my style even though I give up on branding to prioritize fitting as I don't have money for both. I spend more time on my looks than most women I know. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/23 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling entitled to women's love and attention?I don't play group sports so that my be a factor. Men usually don't care about my looks as most of them are straight for they treat other men equally when it comes to looks, gay men have been attracted to me so I can't say anything bad about any different treatment. At high school I've been mocked by males (and females) but that was a specific period of my life, things are definitely different now as boys grow up and become mature adults. Women keep me at an arm distance even though they often l… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 10:07 PM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling entitled to women's love and attention?This is interestingly specific but no, I've never been mocked for my dick size (which is something that neither me nor people around me ever cared about) or other features in a locker room. I was mocked for my face by both men and women in class in the past. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 09:57 PM |
| -1 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?I'm Gen Z, this probably explains the difference between us. IG women receive less messages than Tinder women fand, as a hot guy, this makes it easier to stand out even more. It also allows women to see more of you, if you have followers from the same city in common and have some online presence, it makes women trust you way more when compared to Tinder. On the flip side, it requires more social skills as women are not explicitly llooking for dates on IG. My hot male friends usually starts with … | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 06:12 PM |
| -6 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?Do you have a hot guy friend? I have one and he has had sex with plenty of women through IG. It's not that women inherenly dislike this approach, it's that you have to stand out to make it work as a man. Most men aren't worthy enough for approaches like this, dating friends is better for them. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 05:50 PM |
| -7 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?Pretty demoralizing to see how women are so disgusted by average men. Especially when you compare this to the eagernes they have when you message them while using pictures of hot men (tested it plenty of times, it's shocking). We men see this difference in treatment and make inferences about women, you can't blame us. You call it "charitable"? Really? it would be one of the greatest days of my life if a woman messaged me romatnically, most straight men would be flattered if an average woman mess… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 05:45 PM |
| -1 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?Yes, definitely. Of course you won't find female Instragram models here but lonely women have an easy time dating here with guys who are serious. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 05:34 PM |
| 4 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?All your answers in the thread towards other users are inflammatory and invalidating. I want to remind you that this is exredpill, it's a safe space to express our worries and challenges as people who are leaving or have left that community. How would you feel if a I came to your sub, r/loveafterporn, and said to women "Men aren't like this, we are not porn obsessed animals! If you feel otherwise and don't trust my experience as a man you are stupid!". Please, read the room first. We are open to… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 05:04 PM |
| -1 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?Read my first comment carefully. 1] This is NOT about having sex with men immediately, of course women have to talk to talk to him first. This is about likes and accepting messages, Women don't even give the initial chance, the only time they did was when I used fake pictures of hot men on OLD (changing my bio never did anything). It's like women only aim higher, this is absolutely not a problme with gay men. I addressed the idea that womenr receive only random messages and threatening/creepy … | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?Why? Women can still give chances to many men if they find many men attractive, it's not like they lack agency. Gay men also have tons of options but give chances to a lot of men, everyone get matches on gay dating apps, hundreds of them. A dating market where both groups find plenty of people attractive works well as gay dating apps show, it almsot becomes a friendnship market as people don't see others on a hierarchy - like women seem to do online - and this allows all people to not have a sca… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?Interestesting, how often do you get messages and how do you know they have romantic intentions? I sometimes receive private messages from women but it's only to debate agsint the points I make in my comments, I'd gladly swap my situation with yours! | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?It's interesting that you mention Reddit as a dating option, it brings me back not so good memories. I once made a fake female profile and posted on several dating subs while using a complex bio to see whether men read it or not. I received 300 messages in one day and almost half of them were lenghty, thorough and showed multiple references to my bio and compliments towards the personlity and interests I showed. Less than 1% of them sent sexual messages. Meanwhile, I've always received 0 message… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 03:27 PM |
| -2 | Advice for dming girls you haven’t texted before?If you don't know her, I would advice against texting her. For some reason, even on IG despite its even gender tatio, women reply only to handsome and popular men if they don't know you, gay and straight men are open to all people of the gender they are attracted to instead. Focus on other types of approaches, I know they are harder but it's the only way to succed. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 03:10 PM |
| 2 | Read "Models" by Mark Manson as suggested here and he primarily suggests cold approaching women, should I do it despite women's apparently negative attitudes around it?That's extremely eye-opening, thanks. I don't know if the medium does not matter. Would you have noticed your current boyfriend on Tinder? Well, he's likely physically attractive if you noticed him in the gym so you are probably right that the medium is not that relevant. I get 0 matches unfortunately, had my bio review by women too, I only get matches when I use pcitures of hot guys. Only gay men like me but they like average and below guys already looks-wsie as they are not picky than women in… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/23 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Read "Models" by Mark Manson as suggested here and he primarily suggests cold approaching women, should I do it despite women's apparently negative attitudes around it?Thanks, I think I understand now. Just to get an idea about the female experience, what happens more often to you and women around you: catcalling or Manson's style dating approches? Also, if may ask, how often does a college woman get approached in a month? 10 times? 30-40 times? Or more like 50-200 times? I'd like to understand if this type of approach is worth more than dating apps. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/23 08:58 PM |
| 1 | How did you find or stumble across red pill / red pill content?I was 12 and felt ugly due to how girls treated me, I googled for support boards and stumbled upon an incel forum (at the time, "incel" wasn't even a term), I signed up and from there I got exposed to all pills ideas. I'm 25 now, still feel ugly, never been on a date but at least I have a more nuanced view of dating and women now. Still, I feel like Black and Red Pill ideas are built in my mind now, that's the framework with which my brain automatically interprets dating, I always have to use ac… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/01/23 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Read "Models" by Mark Manson as suggested here and he primarily suggests cold approaching women, should I do it despite women's apparently negative attitudes around it?There is a chapter on communication that specifically deals wth conversation skills, there's also another one focused on body language. Mansons gives advice on how to frame a conversation in a way that leads you and her to open up about your vulnerabilities, he goes into specifics about it. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/23 09:09 PM |
| 3 | Read "Models" by Mark Manson as suggested here and he primarily suggests cold approaching women, should I do it despite women's apparently negative attitudes around it?I think it's because books from psychologists offer only solutions for inner insecurities and anxiety but they don't provide blueprints for social skills (ie. howw to keep a conversation going, not run out of topics, how to make interesting questions etc.). | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/23 08:57 PM |
| 0 | Read "Models" by Mark Manson as suggested here and he primarily suggests cold approaching women, should I do it despite women's apparently negative attitudes around it?To be honest I don't see the bar any differently than the gym, women are usually talking with their friend group at a bar, they don't seem open to conversation thus why cold approaching doesn't feel right. My suspect is that you have to get eye contact first to make the approach right but that's something only handsome men get while all women my age - regardless of looks level - get it as gay and straight men are less picky looks-wise. I think 99% of men at the gym would like being constantly in… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/23 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Read "Models" by Mark Manson as suggested here and he primarily suggests cold approaching women, should I do it despite women's apparently negative attitudes around it?That's the first part, what PUAs call "inner game". The second and shorter part is focused on "outer game" and he suggests cold approaching as the main strategy, all his dating anecdotes also refer to cold approaches for a reason. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/23 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Psychotherapist, PUA and Blackpiller debate on the nature of womenThe interesting thing from your analogy is that the flat earther (Blackpiller) and anti vaxxer (PUA) are the ones who disagree the most with each other and debate, the astronomer (psychotherapist) is more of a centrist. People often tend to see the manosphere as a monolith but it's not the case, it's interesting to see how different groups of men theorize how women think and feel. I'd say PUA has more in common with what we can call Blue Pill than the Black Pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/23 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Anybody else find guys who call themselves "feminist's," cringe?There's no need to insult him, people who disagree with one's opinion should still be respected. Let's keep this a healthy environment for sharing ideas. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/23 09:39 PM |
| -5 | Anybody else find guys who call themselves "feminist's," cringe?I agree with you. It's fine to agree with feminism but outsourcing your male effort to actively support feminists and their movement is wrong. Women already have all the support from other women so, as a male, you should focus your effort on helping yourself, other men and primarily work towards fixing issues that affect men as a group - not women. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 11:30 PM |
| 10 | Can someone explain Black Pill to me?I'll give you an unbiased answer since I'm not seeing any here. The Black Pill is pretty simple to understand if you already know the Red PIll. Black Pill vs Red Pill Black Pill shares the Red Pill idea of hypergamy and 80/20 but defines SMV (sexual market value) differently. According to Red Pill ideology, looks-money-status-game are the factors that determine a man's SMV while, according to Black Pill ideology, only looks determine a man's SMV. Both Red Pill and Black Pill agree that you hav… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 06:58 PM |
| 4 | Alternatives to redpill to increase chances of finding dates?Have you ever read that article? I know it is posted a lot on female subs but i wonder how many people have actually read it, feminists make some good points but they often post bad science just like MRAs do. The artielce literally says at the end " This article was amended on 30 May 2019 to remove remarks by Paul Dolan that contained a misunderstanding of an aspect of the American Time Use Survey data." and for good reason. What pushed the Guardian to add that note? This Vox article. The idea t… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 04:23 PM |
| 0 | How do you stop associating value and self-worth to romantic validation from women?COVID has not been a problem in my country for more than a year now and even before we didn't have many cases. Wars are far from our home and almost nobody cares about it just like people didn't care about the ongoing war in Yemen before. Despite that, we have a quite high suicide rate here compared to the world's avearge, the reasons are usually emotional rather than based on external problems like wars or COVID-related job loss. Therapy is almsot free where I live, despite this I didn't see pe… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 02:44 PM |
| 3 | How do you stop associating value and self-worth to romantic validation from women?I have a couple of close friends with whom I go out to several venues, it's harder to make new friends after college. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 01:39 PM |
| 0 | How do you stop associating value and self-worth to romantic validation from women?I've been to therapy from 2021 to end of 2022 for a different issue (procastination), I've also talked extenstively about this problem, OCD or other forms of neurodiversity were never mentioned. I was told instead that I have a realistic view of dating but that sometimes I put stats and numbers above individual women's assessment of me. I feel good when I receive positive feedback and bad when I receive consistent negative feedback, that's probably why I've started feeling bad abou my situation … | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Alternatives to redpill to increase chances of finding dates?It makes sense even though it's counter-intuitive, I understand now. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 04:42 AM |
| 1 | Alternatives to redpill to increase chances of finding dates?I trust that most women can see the difference between a man who only sees them as a sex provider and one who has genuinely feelings for her and feels hurt, if she can't she probably has some sexist beliefs to deal with just like men who think women can only be gold diggers. Feminists always say that it's easy to understand the difference between sexual harassment and flirting with someone, they say this to reprimand men who say they don't know how to act appropriate around women. I agree with f… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Alternatives to redpill to increase chances of finding dates?I would definitely hook up a male friend if I knew many women, it's sad that women who call themselves your friends don't want to help you on something that clearly deeply affects you. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 03:12 AM |
| 4 | Alternatives to redpill to increase chances of finding dates?I really don't think a dating coach will help you nearly as well as having women friends will. why don't you want to be friends with the women you date? is it because you resent them? or do you not have enough in common for a relationship not based on sexual fulfilment to be viable? Women can tell when a man sees them as nothing but a hole, and most of us are usually pretty sensitive to it. Asking someone to be friends is a way for vetting for that, and from the sound of it you're not passing th… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 03:08 AM |
| 0 | Female Sexual ResponsivenessI've been very polite, offering arguments and addressing yours. You said it's not fair to compare gay men to womne but find it perfectly okay to compare women to men when it suits your narrative. You have accused me of not seeing women as humans because I think they find most men sexually unattractive, I've been accused by actual women of being a peverted crreep for even implying that someone could find most people sexuallity attractive. Who's right? Ad hominem attacks, as you can see, don't bri… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/23 09:50 PM |
| 0 | Female Sexual Responsiveness.. . Woman would get called slags? While men get cred for that stuff? Your point is Woman can sleep with strangers but don't ( you and everyone reading this are well aware Woman would be looked down on for that. Called slurs) I'm purposedly comparing women to a demographics, gay men, whose members would get beaten in the streets if they dared to partake in PDAs.. Research even show that gay men are more discriminated than lesbian women. Despite this, research shows that gay men are most promiscu… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/23 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Female Sexual ResponsivenessI don't see what being a person or not has to do it with the thread, asexual people are still people. Maybe there's a minority of men that triggers physical attraction in women but while a gay man is attracted to most men, including average and below men, women need the elite of men to feel a ounce of gay men's attraction. For us below average men, to find a woman into us sexually is almost like finding life in outer space. Think about it, if women were into physical attracton like us they would… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/23 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Female Sexual ResponsivenessGiven how often women don't find men attractive, the question is reasonable. A minotity of women may experience desire, just like a minority of men does not experience it (ie. male asexuality, low testosterone levels et similia). The same doens't apply to gay and straight men, either on anonymous platforms or dating apps. Any average or below averge man like me can get many hundreds of gay men of al looks levels eagerly into them, attraction is a common and "democratically" distributed thing. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/01/23 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or does arguing with incels on this subreddit feel like your takeing a step backwards in your recovery process.They are not, one of the most seminal incel forums was called puahate for a reason. The blackpill was created as a counter-movement to the redpill and PUA culture, they share some iseads but disagree on every important matters. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/01/23 10:38 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me or does arguing with incels on this subreddit feel like your takeing a step backwards in your recovery process.Thanks, I appreciate that. It's clear now. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or does arguing with incels on this subreddit feel like your takeing a step backwards in your recovery process.Could you make an example of such a situation? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 02:08 PM |
| 0 | Is it just me or does arguing with incels on this subreddit feel like your takeing a step backwards in your recovery process.Why did you call him "entitled"? If he said something entitled, it's a good idea to report him to the mods. To me, it appears that you two were just disagreeing on what makes a man attractive. You claim that going to therapy will make an incel more attractive as women value emotional intelligence and healthy confidence in a date, he claims that getting a good job will make an incel more attractive as women value status more. I think both of you have a point but I don't see where his entitlement … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 01:24 PM |
| 1 | If the reason women aren't into hook ups is because of safety and the orgasm gap, is it a good strategy to make female friends and then ask them for FWBs arrangements instead of PUA?As I pointed out in PREDICTION, this should be tested on "progressive enough women". As you point out, this approach doesn't make sense on women (or men) who will reject any hook up offer, it should be tested on women who are open to causal sex with the right person. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 10:48 AM |
| -1 | Is it just me or does arguing with incels on this subreddit feel like your takeing a step backwards in your recovery process.And what's wrong with that? If you are upfront about wanting a date, you'll have plenty of success with gay men and straight men. Why should one be ashamed of wanting to date according to the "female perspective"? It's comments like this that make me think that Red Pill tactics based on push and pull and "disinterested" frame have a point with women. Men are attracted to people who are eager to date them and are upfront soon, so naturally men project the same on women but women seem different.. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 10:20 AM |
| 3 | "He wouldn't do that! He owns a Bugatti!" 😱 (Reaction Video To Andrew Tate Being Arrested)Why did he get arrested? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 01:56 AM |
| 0 | Is it just me or does arguing with incels on this subreddit feel like your takeing a step backwards in your recovery process.I understand what you mean, I know that feeling very well. but that's RP evo-psych, not actual evo-psych. If you want I can send you the book, read it and then come back. If you believe in unfiltered science that doesn't prioritze "virtue signalling", as a BlackPiller, you should respect evolutionary psychology. It's about putting facts over feelings, whether those feelings are negative or positive doesn't matter. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or does arguing with incels on this subreddit feel like your takeing a step backwards in your recovery process.There are less women on straight dating apps for the same reason lesbian dating apps have way less users than gay dating apps, not only that but gay dating apps also show much higher user activity than lesbian dating apps. Female sexuality works differently, a dating profile doesn't give women enough information to allow them to experience attraction. Read works from evolutionary psychology, I'm not talking about RP evo-psych (which still gets more things right than the Black Pill) but actual ev… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 12:50 AM |
| 0 | Is it just me or does arguing with incels on this subreddit feel like your takeing a step backwards in your recovery process.I respect your point of view and I understand where you come from but I have to disagree. I'm a former incel, I was a poster on Braincels and IncelsWithoutHate (actually my experience goes way back: sluthate and puahate where Rodger posted) . I made several polls on those subs at the time asking people how many women they asked out in real life, 90% of the votes always went to to 0 and 1-2 with 0 getting the most votes. Most BlackPillers don't even try, they just use dating apps and then give up… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/12/22 12:31 AM |
| 1 | If the reason women aren't into hook ups is because of safety and the orgasm gap, is it a good strategy to make female friends and then ask them for FWBs arrangements instead of PUA?Why does it need to make friend groups implode and why does it have to be low success rate? It doesn't make gay men's friend groups implode when a guy offers the FWBs and it doesn't make mixed groups implode when a woman offers it, it's also a very high success rate event in both scenarios. Women also are almost never responsive to sexual reequests from strangers or quasi-strangers (unless you are a hot male on dating apps). if these feminist and anti-redpill theories are valid, we should expect… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 11:29 PM |
| 1 | If the reason women aren't into hook ups is because of safety and the orgasm gap, is it a good strategy to make female friends and then ask them for FWBs arrangements instead of PUA?It's not a question about ethics, it's about what works or not. You can read the QUESTION paragraph. I've addressed your concerns in the ETHICS paragraph. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 11:19 PM |
| 2 | If the reason women aren't into hook ups is because of safety and the orgasm gap, is it a good strategy to make female friends and then ask them for FWBs arrangements instead of PUA?If you have to use red pill strategies (read: manipulation) to get people to have sex with you then you need to re-evaluate and reset. Tricking people into having sex with you is not a flex and red pill technique is mental and emotional abuse and exploitation. If I were gay or a hot straight man I wouldn't need to do anything to hook up regularly, should i be prooud in such scenario? I don't know but that's the beyond point because the thread is not about value judgments like pride, it's about u… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it just me or does arguing with incels on this subreddit feel like your takeing a step backwards in your recovery process.The Black Pill is the new Red Pill. BlackPillers come from an even worse place than RedPillers but their ideas have conquered the internet. It may be harder to help BlackPillers but this is the actual demographics that needs help today, few young men get into PUA and Red Pill as opposed to to the Black Pill today. You can look at what trends on YouTube. In the early 2010s, PUAs video dominated the platform when it came to male dating advice, we had RSD at the top. Now the YouTube scene for male … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 10:50 PM |
| 5 | If the reason women aren't into hook ups is because of safety and the orgasm gap, is it a good strategy to make female friends and then ask them for FWBs arrangements instead of PUA?Getting laid doesn't come naturally to a lot of men, this is where Red Pill finds its niche and it's not even a niche today thus why RP and particularly Black Pill thinking are exploding in popularity. I'm glad it comes naturally to you, it's a trait many men envy, but don't assume everyone is like you. Personally, as I pointed out in the thread, I make friends very easily with women. I think women are friendlier than men on average, anything more than platonic comes extremely hard to me and mos… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 10:34 PM |
| 2 | If the reason women aren't into hook ups is because of safety and the orgasm gap, is it a good strategy to make female friends and then ask them for FWBs arrangements instead of PUA?Not even the "bad data" actually supports the 80/20 rule. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 10:27 PM |
| -1 | If the reason women aren't into hook ups is because of safety and the orgasm gap, is it a good strategy to make female friends and then ask them for FWBs arrangements instead of PUA?Feminist theory is not just a poltiical and moral theory, it's also a theory of used in psychology, in particular gender differences in sexual and non-sexual behavior. What unites feminist theory in all these fields is that it supports "blankslate-ism" on gender. You can watch this video to get a quick look at what feminist theory says in psychology: https://youtu.be/M1R_pRxj9Zg It should be noted that "feminist theory" is different from just being feminist, it has a specific meaning in academia… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/12/22 08:45 PM |
| 0 | Women do NOT experience attractionJust ask random men how many of them have been able to have sex with multiple girls after only 2 hours like you did, it's easy. How did you get the idea they wouldn't disagree instead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Women do NOT experience attractionBecause people have no reason to boast here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:39 AM |
| -1 | Women do NOT experience attractionWithout paying? 98% of men would disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:31 AM |
| 0 | Women do NOT experience attractionLet's say there are 5 men in the tribe, the tribe can definitely survive if the women are attracted only to the top man in the tribe, which means the top 20% in such small context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:24 AM |
| -2 | Women do NOT experience attractionI'm neurotypical, there's no need for personal attacks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 05:15 AM |
| 0 | Women do NOT experience attractionI disagree but i respect your personal opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/22 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menI'm not looking for your comfort, I'm refuting your points about emotionally availability mattering to women because if it did I would be the equivalnet of male chad when in reality I got success only when women thought I was trolling as a chad. My "woe me" is an objective description of my dating experience, maybe it is a "woe me" for you since you have options so please don't belittle my life and the life of most young men like me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Women are dishonest about what they are attracted to in menInterestingly, I'm usually the one soothing my female friends, I'm usually the one who consoles them when other people hurt them, I'm usually the one who gives them advice for understanding men. I'm alwaysa shoulder to cry on so clearly they find me emotionally soothing. I never get angry, I always express my needs and boundaries in clear words and I always check on others about how they feel. I have literally never fought with any of my male or female friends in my life. I don't emotionally dum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Putting in the effort is the shortest route to The Friend ZoneAll those things should come naturally. Women hate it when they reject a guy and he says "I did x, y and z for you so why are you rejecting me?", women hate Nice Guys as these men don't understand that female attraction can't be negotiated. And I'm not talking about feeling threatened here, that's a whole different issue, women feel disgust towards such dynamic even when the guys feels completely safe and meek to them. I think male attraction is a little different, men would be extremely flatter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Putting in the effort is the shortest route to The Friend ZoneWhat do you mean? That's a pessimistic way of seeing human relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Putting in the effort is the shortest route to The Friend ZoneWomen will generally make it pretty clear if they are interested in you, you don't need to explicitly ask someone on a date to show interest. I can tell you crazy stories about my attractive male friends. I'd even say that women fear rejection way less than men in the West in 2022 since women are aware of their sexual power thanks to social media and dating apps, they know men will unlikely reject a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men in this sub say they have been berated and humiliated by women for making a moveFrom a quick look at your post history, you seem to be an attractive and likely popular social media star. I'm not attacking you but you have to understand that your experience is so much far from the experience of us below average men face here that you can't even imagine what we go through. It's like a rich Wall Street businessman trying to empathixe with a starving man in Africa, I wouldn't blame him for not understanding what it's like to not have anything but I'd at leas want him to not inv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/22 08:15 PM |
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