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LifestyleDurden93/r/seduction11/01/25 03:28 PM
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LogisticsDurden93/r/seduction08/08/24 10:16 PM
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LifestyleDurden93/r/seduction02/12/24 09:48 PM
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Fundamentals Durden93/r/seduction27/04/24 02:32 PM
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Inner Game Durden93/r/seduction13/07/24 11:52 AM
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LogisticsDurden93/r/seduction05/08/24 03:57 PM
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Fundamentals Durden93/r/seduction10/08/24 07:43 PM
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Fundamentals Durden93/r/seduction06/10/24 07:04 PM
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LogisticsDurden93/r/seduction21/07/24 10:56 PM
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Fundamentals Durden93/r/seduction10/10/24 10:07 PM
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Inner Game Durden93/r/seduction31/03/24 04:08 PM
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Field ReportDurden93/r/seduction04/05/24 07:06 PM
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Fundamentals Durden93/r/seduction02/03/24 04:07 PM
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Fundamentals Durden93/r/seduction02/10/24 04:30 PM
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Inner Game Durden93/r/seduction23/03/24 11:49 PM
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Fundamentals Durden93/r/seduction08/05/24 08:09 PM
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Fundamentals Durden93/r/seduction08/07/24 12:09 AM
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LifestyleDurden93/r/seduction07/10/24 10:29 PM
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Nah, that’s cap, especially on apps. People make split second judgements and often won’t give you a chance.
/r/seduction30/01/26 12:23 PM
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Just roll with it. “you look like a boy” - “thanks, I age gracefully” “you need s size shirt” - “you checking out the shirt or the cute guy in it?”
/r/seduction23/02/25 12:50 PM
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Its just a woman, two legs and two arms like you (hopefully) have.
/r/seduction17/02/25 03:20 PM
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Pursuing someone who is pulling back is almost always a bad move
/r/seduction15/02/25 09:13 PM
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I think you’re idea of value is very skewed. You can have success with women by having great personality+ game
/r/seduction15/02/25 03:56 PM
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I’m not saying to be average, I’m saying its not hard to get an above average physique
/r/seduction15/02/25 02:43 PM
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This is a losing mindset. The average dude is out of shape with a gut, do what you enjoy that keeps you happy and healthy.
/r/seduction15/02/25 02:34 PM
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Yeah, that’s not even close to being the case lmao. You can say you like nice guys but the guy who waits hours to text you back is stuck in your head. You know it’s true.
/r/seduction09/02/25 02:57 PM
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Lol, nice guys get nowhere. You need more than that.
/r/seduction09/02/25 02:45 PM
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Man, you don’t need this much for one date, soft close and then confirm
/r/seduction08/02/25 05:51 PM
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Definitely don’t keep trying. Keep workplace interactions minimal/at prior frequency. Wait until she reaches out to you.
/r/seduction08/02/25 12:21 PM
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Meh, depends on the situation. In our modern economy, people jump ship constantly
/r/seduction08/02/25 12:20 PM
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How many matches are we talking here? I’d recommend creating a list of responses that work for you so you don’t have to think about it. A lot of the girl’s messages will be the same
/r/seduction07/02/25 08:29 PM
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Get yourself a tripod. You can also find amateur photographers for somewhat cheap
/r/seduction06/02/25 08:07 PM
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I’m not taking advice from a grown man who reads childrens books lmao
/r/seduction03/02/25 08:29 PM
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Aint nobody reading thst lmao
/r/seduction03/02/25 02:34 PM
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There are, but people just like to stay in. A big issue for me is my city’s transport is ass. i live 5km from downtown in a medium metro (1M) and it takes 30 minutes to get there. At night it is often -20 celcius.
/r/seduction03/02/25 12:55 PM
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This just sounds like a bunch of hustle culture bs. From the time I get home from the gym, I have about 4hrs until I need to get to sleep. That doesn’t include meals, chores, walking the dog, etc. How would you suggest you meet new people when you live somewhere that is freezing most of the year and people just want to stay inside?
/r/seduction03/02/25 10:09 AM
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Just say thank you. If you want you can be a bit playful with it and ask her why she thinks that.
/r/seduction26/01/25 09:09 PM
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Oh i know, just saying i don’t wear suits often.
/r/seduction11/01/25 06:02 PM
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What am i supposed to do? Where them to the mall and approach there lol
/r/seduction11/01/25 04:33 PM
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Meh, I’m nerdy so I’m fine with that.
/r/seduction11/01/25 04:33 PM
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I’m wondering how that helps? I don’t wear a suit very often. Are you just thinking OLD?
/r/seduction11/01/25 04:18 PM
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Where do you get tailored clothes?
/r/seduction11/01/25 04:12 PM
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I wear “fitted” t shirts which enhance my physique. Apple watch.
/r/seduction11/01/25 03:49 PM
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cope
/r/seduction17/12/24 01:45 PM
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Displaying yourself in a positive way is incel crap? Touch grass bud.
/r/seduction03/12/24 12:12 AM
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Yes. Ie if they ask about my weekend I can tell them what I did and try and convey the lifestyle i’m into
/r/seduction02/12/24 10:07 PM
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Just call her big boy, she’ll like that.
/r/seduction12/11/24 01:20 AM
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You should be setting dates off hinge, not going for ig. I can typically get a date after 4 or 5 messages.
/r/seduction29/10/24 10:28 PM
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Mind if i dm you?
/r/seduction07/10/24 11:29 PM
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That’s fair, you raise good points. This has happened like twice out of 15 dates so its not too common.
/r/seduction07/10/24 11:23 PM
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I have my political views listed as liberal on my profile but maybe.
/r/seduction07/10/24 11:07 PM
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Yes, I have a degree and professional designation. It’s just very difficult to get into my field without being bilingual.
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:59 PM
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One agreed to meet up but asked me two « dealbreaker » questions before meeting up, and the job was one of them. The other asked me where I work, I don’t volunteer this info
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:57 PM
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I work as a subcontractor for the gov, that could work.
/r/seduction07/10/24 10:49 PM
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Aren’t you qualifying yourself with these questions?
/r/seduction06/10/24 07:29 PM
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Yes, typically drinks, seated across a table
/r/seduction05/10/24 03:29 PM
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I worked at a grocery store, 22-25. Both girls showed obvious interest, one asked me out lol.
/r/seduction23/08/24 09:42 AM
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Nah, that’s just cope. How do you think people met before the internet?
/r/seduction23/08/24 09:39 AM
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In person is always preferable. Online they compare you to twenty dudes they just swiped on, in person you have a chance to convey yourself. Fwiw, I’m a guy with limited game. I get dates from online, but second dates are rare. For comparison sake, I got my two first girlfriends when I was working a casual job, within a short period of time.
/r/seduction23/08/24 12:37 AM
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Ah, I tried using push-pull, perhaps it was a bit more push. How would you recommend I follow up?
/r/seduction10/08/24 09:17 PM
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What if i want a relationship?
/r/seduction08/08/24 11:12 PM
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You think its better to ask a question with the pic or no?
/r/seduction05/08/24 05:02 PM
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Was thinking of sending a « value text » that doesn’t require a response. We both like the outdoors so I thought I’d send a pic from camping this weekend. That type of thing sound good?
/r/seduction05/08/24 04:45 PM
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It’s pretty hard to fuck this up. Just read up on kino escalation.
/r/seduction03/08/24 05:24 PM
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21 year old women are notorious for being emotionally stable lmao
/r/seduction03/08/24 05:18 PM
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Let it go, work is way too high risk.
/r/seduction23/05/24 06:14 PM
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Should you ask her to do this? I feel like some girls might feel uncomfortable with it.
/r/seduction05/05/24 03:24 PM
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That’s a lot of words to say not much of anything.
/r/seduction27/04/24 07:22 PM
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I can’t tell you why you should want to improve. You need to answer that for yourself.
/r/seduction31/03/24 03:26 PM
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You should be physically fit for yourself. Working out for a month won’t get you in shape, or looking significantly better.
/r/seduction31/03/24 03:10 PM
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So you want to introduce problems into your life and a married man’s family for no reason? What the fuck is wrong with you?!?
/r/seduction31/03/24 01:37 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction26/03/24 06:09 PM
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Guys it’s a bot/troll lol
/r/seduction23/03/24 08:49 PM
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Wouldn’t it be better to send a text which doesn’t require a response?
/r/seduction27/06/23 04:54 PM
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I would think a lot of this is single moms have fewer/options less time.
/r/seduction17/05/23 01:52 PM
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Treat her as if she’s any other girl. If that’s difficult for you, it’s probably because you’ve never dealt with that before. Solution? Talk to more girls who are “out of your league”
/r/seduction01/01/20 08:07 PM
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PM’d
/r/seduction22/09/19 05:26 PM
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