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7

Pretty much.
/r/seduction20/09/21 05:38 PM
5

A place that you like going to. Aka mall, publix, etc.
/r/seduction10/09/21 02:39 AM
1

It was probably a slight sense of disgust. It obviously blew over.
/r/seduction07/09/21 11:54 PM
7

Lol poking fun of a vegan/vegetarian to eat animal products is the oldest joke in the book. Don't try it.
/r/seduction07/09/21 11:34 PM
1

Leave the pick up artistry to the professionals. In all seriousness, since you're going through a conscious effort in approaching a guy, remember you might have to do some heavy lifting in the conversation department.
/r/seduction07/09/21 04:02 AM
151

Be a cool dude that talks to everyone, not just girls.
/r/seduction04/09/21 01:11 AM
3

He goes by the name Mystery. He's essentially the godfather of all of this.
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:24 AM
19

Lol 3 months? One of the most proficient pick up artist spent 10 YEARS working on his craft. Quit if you must, but 3 months is nothing. Edit: didnt realize you had chronic depression (didn't read everything ATM.) Hope everything is good.
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:14 AM
1

Yes
/r/seduction29/08/21 04:41 PM
1

Gonna pull some GILFs
/r/seduction27/08/21 02:14 AM
8

What do you like? What does she like? Done.
/r/seduction26/08/21 11:09 PM
2

I get where you're coming from, 5k people is a bit of a small pool to go through. About 2.5k will actually be girls and maybe about 1k will be attactive enough for you. But you should just try going to the most heavily populated area. Don't be afraid to engage groups either. If you're too chicken to close a girl in a group just social close and invite her and her friends to a hangout.
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:08 AM
15

Well, you kinda have no other choice. Also, cold approach isn't creepy if you do it right. If you just pull up like "hey guys 🥺👉👈" yeah it's gonna be weird asf. You need to make it feel natural and spontaneous.
/r/seduction25/08/21 04:06 PM
0

Spoken like a true gamer. Haven't read all of this yet but it looks interesting.
/r/seduction24/08/21 04:00 PM
1

Anything that can be sensed as "pick up" by a girl is not a good pick up line.
/r/seduction24/08/21 03:23 AM
2

If more men are scared, fantastic. More for me.
/r/seduction16/08/21 12:58 AM
1

To be honest, my text game is pretty bad. I'm much better at actually talking to people than texting girls.
/r/seduction11/08/21 07:35 AM
2

Ok, I'm going to give you a bunch of content right now. However, remember that your own original content is usually the best way to go, especially if it's on the fly. Ready? GO: Todd V: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H2CTy504FSA Far From Average (my personal favorite video on the topic): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FSeCitB1co8&list=LL&index=26 Next step, find random conversation topics and make them your own open-ended question/statement. What I personally do is watch/read content that fits…
/r/seduction11/08/21 07:33 AM
-1

Everywhere.
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:00 AM
8

This is usually the case because girls naturally have a screening test to see if you're the right fit for the job. If she might be interested, she'll test you.
/r/seduction10/08/21 07:01 PM
19

The key to a lot of this is "open ended questions/statements. Basically, say things that require more than yes/no/thanks/cool Example: "Are you from X?" BAD "I get this feeling you're not from around here." BETTER (the reason why this is better is because it at least prompts her to wonder WHY you would think this, also good if she really isn't from the area) Example 2 "I like your eyes" BAD "I see something interesting in your eyes" BETTER (lol what do you see in her eyes? Are they nice? You see…
/r/seduction10/08/21 05:46 PM
38

Well, assuming this is a dude, go to the mall and introduce yourself to people. It may take several hundred attempts before you get good, fair warning. If this is a girl, just sit by yourself at a coffee shop and smile at guys.
/r/seduction06/08/21 10:00 PM
2

Just approach.
/r/seduction06/08/21 04:02 PM
1

Honestly dinner is not bad. Idk why people hate on it so much.
/r/seduction05/08/21 07:01 PM
2

I didn't know you could have friends from the opposite sex
/r/seduction27/07/21 02:33 AM
12

Best advice to give.
/r/seduction24/07/21 05:44 PM
3

Modern rookie mistake #56: using solely the internet to get laid
/r/seduction23/07/21 05:34 PM
3

Haven't read it, but most of those types of books aren't really good for game.
/r/seduction23/07/21 04:18 PM
3

Women are attracted to men that can stimulate them emotionally. If this "emotionless" guy can somehow do that, then yeah. It's pretty hard to do that though.
/r/seduction23/07/21 12:45 AM
-2

Then find help with what you need. Ask an actual question. Stop complaining.
/r/seduction22/07/21 06:39 AM
29

Don't let it phase you. Let her truly earn your flirtatious attitude.
/r/seduction22/07/21 03:45 AM
-1

Honestly it's hard to spot a really sexual girl while daygaming. You would have to take them out first and learn a little more about them.
/r/seduction21/07/21 05:10 AM
4

Gonna make it easy on you: -learn some openers + conversation topics -be playful -dont be disgusting There's more to it than that but if you want more check out some good dating coaches online. There's plenty. Edit: also, understand since you're going to be pretty new at this that your first date will most likely not be the one lol
/r/seduction20/07/21 11:45 PM
10

Girls open to you by saying hi or asking an awkward question/giving a compliment. Let me put it to you like this. Even if a woman opens you, you still need to carry the conversation. Girls have 0 game. They're not hardwired for that. But you, as the man, should have enough game to talk about something cool. Girls practically never open, but if they do, be ready to do lots of talking because she's probably going to stutter and be nervous. Once a girl opened to me and said "Hi!" And I'm just like …
/r/seduction19/07/21 04:17 AM
6

Depends. You should verify she's not busy at the moment first, then call.
/r/seduction18/07/21 05:35 PM
2

Nah, still in college. But I definitely plan on doing it.
/r/seduction18/07/21 12:10 PM
3

Duh...you literally lose nothing
/r/seduction17/07/21 02:29 PM
0

Lol i see you're new to seduction
/r/seduction17/07/21 05:00 AM
1

Here's the best foolproof tactic: Attract her enough to actually be able to go on a date with her. Then eventually give her the gift. This is the only tactic.
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:03 PM
2

It seems like instead of asking for advice here you just want to brag about how you're doing a noble thing. Like everyone here is saying: don't fucking do shit.
/r/seduction16/07/21 04:00 PM
-1

Lol facts homie.
/r/seduction15/07/21 11:16 PM
3

Daygame somewhere where you think you'd find your dream girl.
/r/seduction15/07/21 09:51 PM
3

I think you're thinking of "situational openers". And yes, they also fall into the cold approach category. But you can't bet on a big faithful situation to happen. Most of the time you just gotta do it cuz you want to.
/r/seduction15/07/21 03:48 AM
0

Interesting concept I learned is that it's easier to switch strong emotions around. Like, it's easier to switch hate to love than dislike to like.
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:48 PM
-8

Persistence is key. I'm trying to implant that in my brain as well.
/r/seduction14/07/21 08:35 PM
5

It seems like there's one real option for you at the moment: actually bulk. And then move on from there. I'm 5'7/5'8. When I was just 155 I was already pretty skinny. 110 is pretty bad. Time to fix it. It might seem really hard for you to do, but it really isn't. Just add really caloricly dense foods to every one of your regular meals. This includes: -Pasta -Nuts -Guac/Avocados -Potatos And when you feel full, add that extra calorically dense meal just to top off the day. Not too much, you don't…
/r/seduction14/07/21 04:04 PM
4

Bro this is way too long but i get the gist of what you're saying and I agree.
/r/seduction13/07/21 03:48 AM
1

Pretty sure it's just Todd v Dating show
/r/seduction12/07/21 08:31 PM
2

Todd V Dating podcast is pretty good.
/r/seduction12/07/21 08:27 PM
1

Be really good and passionate at 1 skill. It helps.
/r/seduction11/07/21 11:30 PM
9

Ah, so just be a loser. Got it.
/r/seduction11/07/21 08:30 PM
0

Bro...lol.
/r/seduction11/07/21 06:59 PM
1

Lol I totally get it.
/r/seduction10/07/21 04:01 PM
4

Think: what makes you valuable as a man? Are you fun? Are you interesting? Do you take your time to text back? Why should they like you besides the way you look (which isn't enough despite what people on here will say)
/r/seduction10/07/21 01:24 PM
1

Lmao it's not really very hard unless you're somewhere that you're specifically allergic to or can't eat.
/r/seduction10/07/21 01:15 PM
11

Lol telling someone that you're nervous puts you in the wrong frame. She might even give out her number as pity instead of actual attraction.
/r/seduction10/07/21 06:49 AM
32

Small piece of advice: come up with a conversation starter beforehand so you at least know how you're entering. At a grocery I literally start with "would you like really good advice on picking X (product)?" they usually say yes and just bounce from there.
/r/seduction10/07/21 06:03 AM
3

Most girls are insecure by nature. It's a man's job to raise their confidence and make them love themselves.
/r/seduction10/07/21 05:37 AM
0

I don't think porn is all that bad but just cut back.
/r/seduction09/07/21 09:35 PM
-1

Go on walking dates and don't buy her anything. Cheers.
/r/seduction09/07/21 08:34 PM
12

Welcome to the subreddit bro. Glad to have you on the team. I agree with literally all of this.
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:46 AM
2

The way I see it is that the date is the movie and the small interactions we have before that are the trailers and sneak previews. It gives you a chance to show "being busy" such as -leaving her on read -taking your time to text her -what cool things are you doing in-between that time before the date? Etc.
/r/seduction08/07/21 10:29 PM
2

Yeah but the problem with that is that if you spend too much time not engaging with her, she'll slowly be less invested in the date.
/r/seduction08/07/21 09:57 PM
2

No I mean like call her and have a conversation after the initial meeting
/r/seduction08/07/21 09:39 PM
3

Pro tip: interact with them a healthy amount of time before the date. That way, they become more invested in the date and with you. Call, don't text.
/r/seduction08/07/21 08:45 PM
1

I agree with this line of of thinking. It's basically a part of what I mean. When I say you you should love women I don't mean shower them literally with love. It's that improving your game and seduction abilities will take a lot of work, therfore instead of viewing the people you're seducing in a negative light, think of them more fondly.
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:10 PM
1

You're free to start the conversation again.
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:47 PM
1

Wouldn't that mean that my reply comes up as "deleted" ?
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:35 PM
1

Someone else deleted their replies to this thread, I think you're talking about that person.
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:19 PM
1

I haven't deleted anything
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:15 PM
1

I would generally disagree with this because there are way too many women to generalize like this.
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:06 PM
0

I'm actually confused by what you're accusing me of
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:03 PM
1

Lol a nomad is a different story 😂
/r/seduction08/07/21 04:01 PM
1

Agree with most of this except with the 7/8 part. I feel like you should to strive to get what you truly want. I personally am working on my game to get the 9s and 10s.
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:49 PM
-5

I literally have no idea what the hell you're talking about.
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:31 PM
-1

Again, why are you here? If it's money and status then visit a separate subreddit. Find one that makes you real money and see how that goes for you. You clearly have no understanding of the message I'm trying to send.
/r/seduction08/07/21 12:27 PM
2

Lol thats funny but I could never do something like that. It would be like a second job for me.
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:57 AM
2

The problem is that, for a lot of girls, "being yourself" usually doesn't cut it. You may just seem too friendly or nice.. They have to tweak the way they talk to you in order to appeal to you in a seductive and challenging way. After all, talking to a dude is much different than talking to a girl.
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:39 AM
1

Not having standards for the partner you pick is absolutely unattractive. This is a seduction forum, not a desperation forum (though some people here are desperate for a nut)
/r/seduction08/07/21 06:34 AM
-6

Maybe if you elaborated a little more you could be useful.
/r/seduction08/07/21 05:48 AM
1

Man just be funny.
/r/seduction07/07/21 09:49 PM
2

I didn't say suck up to her. You provide value. Think: "I didn't like him that much at first, but like we kept talking and then I just started to fall for him" This is only if you're actually really interested in this person.
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:29 PM
7

Hi
/r/seduction07/07/21 08:21 PM
4

Provide value. Start with a joke and make engaging conversation that she might like. At first it might be dry, even boring, but thats OK. You're trying to slowly get her to buy in. Remember, she has tons of guys texting her. Be different. Have her going from texting "yeah" "ok" "nice" to "oh that's so cool!" "Yeah I'm a big fan" and finally to "paragraph" or just call her lol.
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:19 PM
5

Get a job and get a really cheap place to live. Fuck them there. Boom.
/r/seduction07/07/21 06:33 AM
15

Again, wrong subreddit.
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:44 AM
4

honestly just go to a bookstore and spend like 6 hours there.
/r/seduction06/07/21 07:26 PM
7

Let me introduce you to the Mystery Method and Todd V Dating. Check them out and your questions are answered.
/r/seduction06/07/21 03:50 AM
1

Of course. No need to be greedy lol
/r/seduction05/07/21 09:50 PM
4

Depends how you want the relationship to be. Best friend + Lover and strong almost interdependent relationship = minimum 5 or 6 days a week (unless you two work a lot or something) Girlfriend that's kinda serious = 3 - 4 Like you guys are serious but it's not like you want to get married or something yet lol. Not so too serious relationship, just chillin = 2 times If you hate women or something = 1-0 times
/r/seduction05/07/21 08:34 PM
1

depends on context, but on a date you want to ask questions that bring out more than just yes/no. You also want to make sure you are establishing that it's A DATE instead of "HANGING OUT' you don't need to be talking about sex the whole time, but bringing it up once in a while is not bad, despite what some would tell you.
/r/seduction05/07/21 05:50 PM
1

do you even know what a neg is?
/r/seduction05/07/21 03:33 AM
3

not every girl will like you initially. sometimes you need to put in effort for a woman to truly be attracted to you.
/r/seduction04/07/21 08:09 PM
0

she wants to get more comfortable with you. think of it like this, if you threw up on her, would she want to see you again right away?
/r/seduction04/07/21 06:56 PM
7

if you think that women are superior to you, then they will be superior to you. You need to wash away that thought. Also, for the most part, that situation doesn't actually happen. They only happen on front page news every now and then, if at all. Women are generally not out to accuse everyone of harassment.
/r/seduction03/07/21 10:12 PM
19

that's why insecure men should read this
/r/seduction03/07/21 05:27 PM
1

stop being shy /thread
/r/seduction03/07/21 01:12 AM
1

basically, ignore the target and make friends with everyone else. occasionally neg the target for attraction. then, when sufficiently attracted, talk to the target. this is essentially the mystery method.
/r/seduction02/07/21 01:53 PM
1

You can either hate the game or get better at it. its just how it is.
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:51 AM
3

its never too late unless you're like 90
/r/seduction02/07/21 12:39 AM
3

1000% agree.
/r/seduction01/07/21 08:14 PM
3

Bookmarked because this is an interesting topic. However, i hate going to clubs because they're always super expensive (distance, parking, entrance fee, they're all near dangerous neighborhoods etc)
/r/seduction01/07/21 08:11 PM
3

You're overthinking, but generally if you're looking for sex on the first night you shouldn't go to a party. You should be somewhere quiet, or at least somewhere where you two can talk without yelling.
/r/seduction01/07/21 04:49 PM
1

this honestly is a really bad strategy lol. Its a lot easier to just compliment her clothes and go from there.
/r/seduction01/07/21 01:39 PM
1

just have friendly convo with them and then keep moving.
/r/seduction30/06/21 02:48 PM
2

depends how open the group is to begin with, but if its at a club try to build up social proof and a talkative mood so you can engage with the group better.
/r/seduction07/06/21 03:48 PM
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