Gift giving

Sensitive_Quail_3636 · 2021-07-16T15:32:49+00:00

Fuck you OP

NO MEANS FUCKING NO!!

GO GET JACKED GO GET PUMPED STOP SUFFERING FROM ONEITIS

TheSunshineMan · 2021-07-16T15:10:09+00:00

No... no.. no.

Don't buy her a gift of leave your number on a card on the gift.

Be a man and ask for her number. Go on a date with her. Talk about whatever device that can help on the date.

After you've done that I'll tell you what to do next.

This is r/seduction not r/charity

El_Marlin · 2021-07-16T16:00:34+00:00

It seems like instead of asking for advice here you just want to brag about how you're doing a noble thing.

Like everyone here is saying: don't fucking do shit.

flabbergastmebb · 2021-07-17T00:03:09+00:00

hello my guy! you keep asking people in the comments about "what could go wrong" but that's not what this is about. it's about respecting her decision. there might not be repercussions for you but you're being pushy and it's important to respect somebodies no! she's unlikely to change her mind just because you got her a gift... but it honestly doesn't matter. by trying again you're just showing her you aren't listening and i doubt that's gonna make her swoon.

if you really really like this girl you can give her the gifts and say hey i remembered you had some issues with xyz and i thought these might help! that's it. if she doesn't strike up a conversation just wish her a nice day and leave. also if she doesn't accept the gift don't force it on her, and don't use it as a manipulation tactic so she feels guilted into trading numbers. if you want to be a decent person and give her the gift that's fine, but don't expect anything out of it.

Xabierku · 2021-07-16T15:09:34+00:00

You sir, are true gentleman. From a young guy aspiring to become a gentleman, I wish you good luck on this, you that you will make it and even more sure that she will like it.

King-Britton · 2021-07-16T15:47:51+00:00

It’s very sweet, but gift giving is best done if she knows you a bit like in the initial stages of friendship rather than an acquaintance. If you don’t know much about her and buy her a gift, you’ve essentially just rewarded her for doing nothing, which is pandering to her looks, now you’ve validated her so she doesn’t have to chase you. Women like a bit of mystery and push/pull.

I think asking her out directly if you have the confidence is a much better option as this communicates ‘you seem nice/attractive, lets see if you’re my type’ rather than ‘I’ve just met you and i think you’re so great, maybe if I buy you something you’ll like me’.

If you do decide to go down the gift route i would make it more casual - go up to her and say ‘hey i went to X shop the other day and saw this device maybe it could help you with Y’, then she’ll be like ‘thank you that’s so sweet!’ Then you say ‘it really was nothing, hope it sorts out your health problem’. You will have a decent convo after so keep chatting for a while and at the end of the conversation, ask for her number.

Title	Gift giving
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	4
Comments	30
Date	July 16, 2021 2:27 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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