This is my first Reddit thread so bear with me.

I notice a lot of guys on these forums tend to have a very negative outlook on women. That women just want money, cars, abs, etc. When the truth is much more than that.

Yes, of course, women want a successful man. But they don't want it in terms of an "expensive lifestyle." It's more like they want you to be like "yeah, this is *my* life, and I love it. You seem cool, let me show you something new."

(Now, of course, you shouldn't just be a homeless bum, that is attractive to literally no one.)

In fact, if anything, things are WAY more simple for guys. Think about it: girls are more interested in a good personality and swagger, yet guys will outright reject a woman just because they don't like their face? Or maybe they don't have that perfect body they want? Yet their personality could suit them perfectly. Seems hypocritical to me.

So if you get rejected constantly by women, it's most likely because you're not portraying the swagger and personality that is attractive to that particular woman. Your expensive car will not save you this time.

Keep working on yourself. Keeping coming up with interesting stories and lines and add them to your game. It's okay if some of it is canned, everyone has that thing they tell everyone.

And most importantly, don't do this *just* because you want to get laid. Yes, that is a factor, don't get me wrong. I would be a bold-faced liar if I claimed that this isn't what this is about. But here's the thing: there are so many girls out there that are interested in you that you don't want. Does a 400 body count really matter if you find all these women repulsive?

You should improve your game because you love women. You want a woman that *you* are interested in to love you and because you want to love them back.