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DebateEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 10:54 AM
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Question For WomenEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:25 PM
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DebateEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/26 10:46 PM
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DebateEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:01 PM
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Question for RedPillEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 12:31 PM
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DebateEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 09:47 PM
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DebateEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:39 AM
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Question For MenEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:01 AM
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DiscussionEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 09:00 PM
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Question For WomenEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 09:34 PM
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Question For MenEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:00 PM
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DiscussionEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 06:47 AM
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Question for RedPillEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/25 12:53 PM
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Question For MenEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:21 PM
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Question For WomenEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 09:49 PM
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Question For MenEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/26 10:30 AM
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Question For MenEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 01:25 PM
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DebateEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:52 AM
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Question For MenEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 10:11 AM
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Question For MenEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:09 PM
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Question for BluePillEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:30 AM
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Question For MenEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:29 PM
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Question For MenEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 11:38 PM
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Question For WomenEquivalent_Use_5024/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:07 PM
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Oh I agree. Historically it was very much the inverse. Women were shamed much more for deciding to be alone and it was not ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:28 AM
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Single men are all largely lumped in as basement dwellers. They are rarely talked about in positive, celebratory terms among gen z.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:24 AM
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I agree much of the manosphere is just pathetic whining and resentment towards women and it is terrible to see. Instead of decentering relationships and putting energy towards their own personal well being they are just raging against women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:22 AM
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I am referring to America and the UK.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 11:14 AM
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Incels are just men who are super lazy and do not want to put in a little bit of effort to succeed. I receive so many matches and women constantly check me out yet I am an average man. The bar is literally in a subterranean universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:50 PM
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I don't get why most men don't just let women choose them. I have tons of options. This shit is so easy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:46 PM
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uh....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:35 PM
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My own experience. I've had so many women validate and desire me and want to commit it's insane. I don't get how any man can struggle with dating, like how?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:24 PM
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Just be respectful to women and be social and you will have more options then you know what to do with. But most men don't want to put in the work I do
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:23 PM
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exactly! I have a positive mindset, I have positive results. Just be social. The bar is in the basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:19 PM
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I will definitely consider this!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:53 AM
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Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 01:46 AM
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Thank you so much for sharing your story and your suggestions. I will try them!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 11:00 PM
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No it's ok to your honest about my station in life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:57 PM
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You're right. I'm a total loser and always will be. I give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:52 PM
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The typical preconceived notion of a romantic loser an "inc*l" is a man living on the bottom rung of society broke and living paycheck to paycheck or living in his mom's basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:38 PM
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Yes 5 foot 6
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:31 PM
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I still go to the gym every other day but I am losing hope on gaining any serious muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:25 PM
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I definitely do not think average women are beneath me. I would be thrilled to date a woman who is average, but I have not been able to attract one woman of any socioeconomic or attractiveness level my entire life. That is why I've given up. I agree I am slender, and I have very much tried to develop muscle, but I am losing hope in it. My last job I made 72k but this new one I earn 64k actually. I'm at this job to gain experience and will be applying for more jobs once I have worked here long en…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:24 PM
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I said I'm financially stable can afford to buy nice clothes, rent a luxury apartment, and take international vacations, and put away money for retirement. I did not say I am a high earner
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:18 PM
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That some men no matter how much effort they put in cannot have the normal romantic life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:01 PM
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I just told you in the post. I have been to the gym 140+ times over the past year and a half and I cannot acquire muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 10:01 PM
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No character is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:27 AM
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What kind of educated modern woman would want a man with no strong political opinions or knowledge of civic or significant political affairs and no focused learning in his free time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:24 AM
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Per the dating profiles I read, women are far more interesting than men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:14 AM
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Notice who attracts the most women? Men who have many things going on in their lives - who have cultivated rich lives. They don't complain about their lives, they create lives that are exciting and draw people in.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 01:12 AM
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Because I'm not attractive enough for them
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:44 PM
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It isn't happening because women have made it clear that it is a taboo thing to do
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:34 PM
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My only female friends are online.. and I did have one female friend in person a few years ago but I moved away from the area. No, I can't imagine any woman could ever think I'd be uninterested. The majority of women likely think I'm a total loser. No I am aware and I'd be able to tell if a woman was interested. None ever have been highschool, college, grad school, and at meetups. I was able to get some first dates in 2021 but since then nothing. Yes my best friend knows and they think I am not …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:33 PM
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Yes but not women because I have the feeling it is creepy to talk to women you do not know
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:30 PM
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And women have made it very clear to not approach them period
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:28 PM
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I workout every other day and am more fit then average. I dress in fitted clothing and wear accessories and have a good haircut. I have put myself out there dozens of times. nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:26 PM
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Women and men often advise men to not approach unless you receive clear signals of interest. I am pretty alert to my surroundings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:25 PM
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What if we have put ourselves out there at social events and public venues many times and received not one signal of interest from one woman ever in our entire life? What do we do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:12 PM
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What if we have put ourselves out there at social events and public venues many times and received not one signal of interest from one woman ever in our entire life? What do we do then?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 08:11 PM
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I have never seen a man cold approach a woman ever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 06:23 PM
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This is so depressing
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 02:06 AM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:10 AM
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it is difficult for him to go up to women at a social event or just cold approach her at a coffee shop and ask her out. But coworkers that's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:07 AM
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What would you rate him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:32 AM
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He's short but otherwise good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:30 AM
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What would taking action look like to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:28 AM
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He has tried best he can to take action
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:23 AM
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strong jawline/ cheekbones are conventional model territory
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:19 AM
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He is an 7-8/10 facially
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:14 AM
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No he isn't at ease in his surroundings
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:11 AM
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What solutions would you prescribe to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:07 AM
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Attending social events
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:05 AM
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Yes he can hold conversations with male friends/ other men, at least better than he can talk to women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:04 AM
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he can talk to men just fine
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:03 AM
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Again he has such intense anxiety, he cannot approach a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:41 PM
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Yes he can't even approach a woman he has so much anxiety. Even drinking doesn't help him become more confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 11:38 PM
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A woman making 45k or less is likely in a non career track role such as retail
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:27 AM
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a possible romantic connection
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:18 PM
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Striking up a conversation with woman walking her dog, or at a coffee shop, or at festival.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 10:17 PM
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It isn't an unreasonable standard to ask for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:09 AM
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I'm referring to men who claim to get zero attention from any woman whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:09 AM
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I'm 25, have my own luxury apartment on a median salary in a HCOL area. Not unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:05 AM
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leave people alone when you are out in public. It's rude to talk to strangers in public. You can meet women on dating apps or at singles events.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 06:10 PM
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Do you mean like friends in a social circle?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:34 PM
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Explain how I lack it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:35 AM
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Such as hobby clubs?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:32 AM
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Where in person?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:31 AM
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Are hobby group really an ideal place to meet a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:29 AM
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Women make it clear if they want to converse with you. If you receive zero signs ever, better to avoid
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:18 AM
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Most average young men ages 21-31 have partners and have no complaints with dating? A minority of well below average struggling men post their complaints which circulate
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:17 AM
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Look I'd rather not take a risk and make a woman feel unsafe. Unless you absolutely have choosing signals I don't think I should take the chance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:14 AM
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How can you refute what I'm saying when most average men have girlfriends and wives who love them? Only a minority of men don't
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:13 AM
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Being a good person
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:04 AM
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most average men are able to have successful love lives. Sorry but that's just the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:00 AM
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Because I want to be respectful of her boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:59 AM
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You could easily get a date if you just dressed well and took good pictures
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:57 AM
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It's the truth. Approaching women you don't know is not something most men do
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:51 AM
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What do you believe is the first step a man should take to improve his results on the apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:48 AM
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You would be surprised how much nice clothes and quality pictures changes your results
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:47 AM
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Average men do fine on the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:44 AM
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being average is fine. Average men do fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:43 AM
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Take better pictures after dressing better. That simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:41 AM
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Take better pictures and dress better
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:41 AM
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Well I would prefer someone taller. I have a lot of other positive qualities, I don't believe an average or less attractive tall woman is out of my league.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 12:01 AM
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I'll have the funds to cover it by then assuming i keep investing what i earn
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 09:10 PM
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I might buy a home by 35 or 40 however it will likely be an older home. Under 200k. 20% down payment. It really is not a decision I want to rush into. I think in 10-15 years I may be ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:56 PM
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They said normal women get married by 25. I am saying most women my age are not married, things have changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:19 PM
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Not sure how it means low ambition? I just received a stable job and plan to invest the money I don't spend on a mortgage or home repairs? Also how is it financially irresponsible to not want to be in debt? I have worked hard to not be in debt going forward and I plan to never take on debt. I don't want to take out a mortgage and be stuck with a 100k+ loan until I have ample savings at my disposal and I have found a life partner. You don't say why you consider it complacent low ambition and fina…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:39 PM
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Maybe that's what the difference is is that I don't want to have children, and probably don't want to have a pet of my own. It makes sense you would want to buy to start a family. I think I will find it less stressful once I've been out on my own for 3+ years and am in my 30s. As I said I have rented an apartment by myself before. So I want to get comfortable with this before I make any major decisions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 02:33 PM
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25-41, but let's say 25-36
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 01:11 AM
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Disqualified
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:56 PM
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How is living in your own one bedroom apartment not independent?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:18 PM
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Nope. I've driven the same car since 19, and have emergency fund. I also wouldn't date a woman with intense debt
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:18 PM
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Why do you believe it is a red flag? So many people rent into their 30s and 40s. Some just don't want to deal with consistent upkeep and don't need the extra space.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 10:12 PM
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Most men should just give up and stop trying. It's a futile endeavor
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:34 AM
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Do I really have high standards if I am also educated, stable job, nice apartment? How is wanting a woman who also has bachelors and has career ambitions high standards??
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:34 AM
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That isn't realistic to ask of most men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 06:03 AM
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I would prefer a college educated woman yes. My last role I was set to make 12k more than the salary now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:30 AM
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Read my post - I am ok with overweight and plain women. "post-wall" women as Red pill says. Equal education and ambition are important to me. Not dramatically less. Not interested in religious women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:19 AM
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Most men aren't even earning 80k so
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 05:19 AM
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0.30% of all women meet these standards in the U.S.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 04:14 AM
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He is short and not muscular but has an above average face
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:34 AM
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Added that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:29 AM
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Would you say he is below average cumulatively? I agree he is below mid for a major US metro but if he has no debt and has savings shouldn't that be sufficient?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:25 AM
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Most gen z women are not married by 25
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:23 AM
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Reasonably good looking and in shape but short
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:18 AM
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So then he just shouldn't date?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:18 AM
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So height does matter? So that's not very blue pill. He is 5'6. How does it sound like he has a low libido? I updated the post with physical attributes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:17 AM
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In his 20s, realistically 80k+ by the time he's in his 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:16 AM
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I added more information. Him: Slim fit build, 5'6, probably 6.5-7.5/10 face.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:15 AM
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It isn't enough but he is in his 20s. A house probably won't be considered for a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 03:13 AM
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