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Your post outlines the biggest reason why the majority of fat guys don’t pull hot girls. B/c you don’t have confidence, you indirectly called yourself disgusting - and I’m sure lots of other fat guys out there have low confidence b/c they are fat aswell. The most important part of seduction is confidence and fat and confidence has a negative correlation which is why fat and rejection has a positive correlation. And yes being more attractive does help - and working out and exercising are the firs…
/r/seduction04/06/19 10:02 PM
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Completely agree, and adding onto that in the context where a guy is gaming a girl - if this happens then it means he has completely failed. I don’t think it’s a shit test as much as it is a rejection. At that point I think the proper move for someone gaming is to move on and talk to other people as well - take it as a rejection and get over it.
/r/seduction02/06/19 10:57 AM
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Thank you mod.
/r/seduction07/05/19 01:56 AM
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By assuming that girls should like you by your muscles - it implies you are better than other guys / and girls are expected to like you. That is condescending
/r/seduction26/04/19 07:19 PM
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Text her normally / maybe a little flirty ish? But make sure u keep the flirtyish vibe during the project, with that said don’t make a move and don’t be too obvious during the project in case things go south it’ll be terrible for u. The goal during the project is to do a good job, and then to make her wanna fuck ur brains out. So just game but don’t be too strong or obvious and only after the project is done make a move - hopefully by that time u know if she’s into u or not based on how the inte…
/r/seduction02/04/19 09:08 AM
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Text her normally / maybe a little flirty ish? But make sure u keep the flirtyish vibe during the project, with that said don’t make a move and don’t be too obvious during the project in case things go south it’ll be terrible for u. The goal during the project is to do a good job, and then to make her wanna fuck ur brains out. So just game but don’t be too strong or obvious and only after the project is done make a move - hopefully by that time u know if she’s into u or not based on how the inte…
/r/seduction02/04/19 09:08 AM
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Like most people said here already it doesn’t matter. The problem is in ur head, and ur attitude. A) sex shouldn’t be the initial goal - get to know her, etc. Lots of guides on here about proper mindset B) If you get to the point where you’re about to have sex and she wants u and sees ur small penis 999/1000 times they won’t care. They’re not going to stop wanting to fuck u cuz of ur small penis when they already want to fuck u cuz of ur personality. C) go read the sidebar, ur problem is a lot m…
/r/seduction02/04/19 09:00 AM
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I think doing it the first time is the hard part
/r/seduction02/04/19 06:17 AM
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Isn’t the same as out of my league - u can work hard on not being an “awkward loser”; has nothing to do with your physical attraction - which is what “leagues” are based off of. So yes, there is no such thing as league and yes it is much harder for “awkward losers” to get girls. This sub is useful for those people so they can work on themselves and eventually get girls.
/r/seduction01/04/19 10:59 AM
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Doesn’t matter. What mattered is she had fun. In the end if she came to u willingly and of her own accord without being dared means u did everything right in terms of looking like ur having fun and not seeming thirsty - which is fantastic. if she came to u cuz she was dared but ended up having fun anyways means she realized u were a cool dude, also fantastic. Also don’t sell urself short I’ve had an experience where a solid 9 started grinding on me out of nowhere at a concert, I was enjoying mys…
/r/seduction31/03/19 09:19 AM
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It’s a possibility but it doesn’t make sense. The likelihood of it being a dare and she went along with it + kissed you on the cheek while not wanting to do it is a lot lower than her wanting to do it; in the end it depends on her body language if she looked like she was having fun it’s a W if it looked like she was miserable, then it whatever we can get better. Don’t let this ruin your mood, keep up the good work and this will be natural trust in the process. Confidence is key, keep it up.
/r/seduction31/03/19 09:07 AM
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This is actually one of the cutest things I’ve read! Best of luck my man! Quick question, how old are you two ?
/r/seduction15/03/19 09:04 AM
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Spot on.
/r/seduction23/02/19 01:46 AM
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No I guarantee it’s your mentality. I’ve seen less than average guys have hot girl friends / hook up with babes. For the exact same reason why I want to be their friend. Cuz these guys are cool guys, who are enjoying life.
/r/seduction23/02/19 01:46 AM
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No
/r/seduction16/02/19 10:24 AM
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Yes. There was a psychology study done and it’s linked somewhere in the subreddit. Yes, basically when someone complies and does you a favour, the brain makes them wonder if they did it because it was easy or if they like you and therefore thinks about u - leading to more attraction. Something along those lines a simple google search would yield better results than this answer.
/r/seduction16/02/19 12:39 AM
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For real though, what I don’t understand is why they don’t try and fix the disease instead of treating the symptoms. If they wanna learn seduction read the subreddit don’t ask a question like “how do I get this girl” or “is she interested”
/r/seduction11/02/19 08:50 AM
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What I don’t understand is why we continually answer the same questions when there is a sidebar and so many resources answering these questions in depth. I feel fairly comfortable with nightgame (day game is a completely different beast) but I did it through 2 years of reading and applying what I read from this subreddit. The top posts, the top FR’s the sidebar. These resources are available to everyone.
/r/seduction09/02/19 11:15 PM
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If you’re really going to go down this rabbit hole the end game is her asking you out. So keep ignoring her and being just a friend while also going out with other girls. Don’t read too much into her actions but also be flirty - ish with her / playful tease. Don’t make a move, don’t confess cuz god knows you have too many times already. If this was ever going to work then at some point she’s going to realize she missed out and really wants you and will ask you out - if she doesn’t but makes it r…
/r/seduction09/02/19 11:08 PM
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This is why we must downvote the trolls
/r/seduction09/02/19 09:07 PM
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Work on getting your life back on track, I feel like that should be more of a priority than girls. And based on that I mean you said you don’t have a good job, and not sure about your education but if you have a good education try to find a better job - work towards one, or try to get a better education.
/r/seduction09/02/19 09:40 AM
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Say hi. Start a conversation? Keep a positive frame and good eye contact. Game her. Seduce her. Far too many guides on this sub reddit already for me to explain it all on a comment here for such a vague question. Use the sidebar
/r/seduction09/02/19 09:29 AM
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I think average girls get hit on the most. Hot girls are too intimidating and so only really confident / really hot guys hit on them
/r/seduction09/02/19 09:28 AM
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In a club, you slowly approach her (dance near her) then casually bump into her and dance
/r/seduction07/02/19 07:42 AM
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I’m honestly invested in this story now. Keep me posted OP. Real advice tho: you’re not in love. Don’t get too attached. DO NOT GET STUCK IN YOUR HEAD Read her body language and social cues to see how it’s going and calibrate yourself If you get positive reinforcement keep doing what you’re doing If you get negative reinforcement slow down and build more attraction Just be yourself - not do whatever the fuck u want, I mean talk to her like a person and don’t get nervous. Slowly make moves and bu…
/r/seduction05/02/19 06:07 PM
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Dating apps are purely looks - no one claims the opposite. Your personal real life experiences ? If you think you’re lack of success or actual success is due to your looks then you’re either a 10/10 or sadly mistaken.
/r/seduction05/02/19 03:30 PM
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Short guys with game get taller girls all the time. I’ve seen it happen. I was amazed when I saw it honestly. But this idea that girls only like tall handsome guys is false. Ofcourse it helps, but short ugly guys can get girls too. So stop blaming your looks and genes. Honestly this is a place to learn seduction and if anyone has actually read the top posts and the sidebar we wouldn’t be having this discussion.
/r/seduction05/02/19 07:35 AM
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Play around a bit more and tease her don’t be too easy to validate. She already rejected u once, and when she felt she needed validation she teased you and got instant gratification. Seduction is a pull push process. You’ve done more than enough pull and it’s real obvious so throw in a little bit of playful misdirection that essentially says hmm do I really like u or am I just playing and she’ll get confused. Cuz she though u did like her but now she doesn’t know, and then slowly put in some mor…
/r/seduction05/02/19 07:33 AM
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I’m just gonna say, guys that look worse than you get hot ass girls on a daily. You’re looks aren’t holding you back, your confidence is.
/r/seduction05/02/19 07:04 AM
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And this is probably why you can’t get girls, outcome dependence, needy behaviour, going for girls for the wrong reasons, etc.
/r/seduction05/02/19 07:02 AM
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There is a massive influx of “I’m below average” posts, and I really hope this gets more views. I feel like this sub turning into incels
/r/seduction05/02/19 06:44 AM
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Sorry man but this really isn’t the sub for a post like this, maybe r/relationshipadvice
/r/seduction05/02/19 06:41 AM
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Why does ur friend having a super hot blonde gf matter, at all?
/r/seduction05/02/19 06:39 AM
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I don’t think it is. It’s only negative if you approach simply to fuck. Outcome dependent / needy behaviour is frowned upon and girls can smell it a mile away
/r/seduction05/02/19 05:03 AM
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Yeah I agree, but by shallow I meant just looking at guys looks, they just shallow with regard to personality; but Im not sure if that’s actually “shallow” because I think looking for the best person for you (with regards to them as a person) is a good thing and shallow just has a negative connotation
/r/seduction05/02/19 04:39 AM
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Big facts. What people don’t realize is women aren’t as shallow as guys, no matter what anyone tells you if you’re a cool person with a good personality and confident you can be ugly and get a hot girl. I’ve seen it happen. Ofcourse being good looking helps a lot - but it’s not a be all end all at all.
/r/seduction05/02/19 03:16 AM
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There’s a difference between being ugly and not good looking. If you are normal / average then just work on bettering your game and you will have success, and ofcourse the same advice goes to people who are 0/10 Now if u are a 0/10 first thing to do is take care of ur skin, lift daily, develop a good style, nice haircut, smell nice. All of these things will make u better looking a bit and then it goes working on urself and being confident etc. Ofcourse bettering urself goes for guys who are aver…
/r/seduction04/02/19 09:53 PM
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There’s one at the top but since the post has a couple different major parts it’s real vague. Uhh basically I was just the kind of guy I’ve always wanted to be. Found a girl cute, started gaming her, she liked me too (as said from her friends) but she’s also 8 years older than me and I was taken aback and made the choice not to do anything. Honestly I think it’s a good read, if you have the time i’d recommend it
/r/seduction04/02/19 02:32 PM
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yes getting laid is intrinsically difficult. Thats why theres an entire industry on helping guys get girls. Okay this is how I see it. You're a virgin. Being a virgin at 21 leads to questions like, why am i a virgin? is it because theres something wrong with me or is there something wrong with everyone else for not liking me? USUALLY how it goes. Now the answer here is, theres nothing wrong with you, nothing wrong with other people. You just don't have game so you learn it and then you can turn …
/r/seduction04/02/19 01:33 PM
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Hmm so is it sleep deprivation? Maybe game isn't for you but its definitely not from gaming 5 days. You not feeling anything is a pretty big issue but I am fairly certain gaming has nothing to do with it. I definitely say see a therapist or psychologist or a family doctor i dont know, if you still dont feel anything after a good nights sleep. Maybe go slower as well, as the other comment said why are you gaming? Do some good long hard reflection.
/r/seduction04/02/19 01:12 PM
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I can't explain the entire situation because I haven't actually seen it and the words here don't give enough info. Talking to girls like talking to guys is not an issue. But clearly you don't even talk to them because "they're not interested in a conversation" as you said in a different comment. I recommend talking to your mates and find out what they think the issue is. All im saying is from reading your post and everything the issue, at the heart of it, is that you are almost definitely coming…
/r/seduction04/02/19 01:09 PM
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Just because some guys say date around and fuck everyone doesn't mean you should. You clearly don't want that and thats okay. And when you start dating someone and looking into a relationship yes then results matter. Personally, I don't want to get in a relationship with anyone I know before hand I won't marry due to personal reasons. Like why waste both our time and risk the potential heartbreak? You're problem here is that what you actually want and what you think you should want are two compl…
/r/seduction04/02/19 01:02 PM
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assuming your not a 0/10, the reason why there is no interest / attraction from anybody towards you is not because of physical reasons. Its usually because you come off needy / creepy / not confident. Thats just how it goes. Reading your post reminded me of some guys I saw at the club. There were two guys who were completely different. They were both above average looking guys but one you could tell gets girls and the other doesn't. The body language from one guy said "i want women" from the oth…
/r/seduction04/02/19 12:55 PM
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Hit up the side bar and focus on inner game.
/r/seduction04/02/19 12:52 PM
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learn game. I've seen guys like this - and i know what they're like because i was a guy like this. Use the sidebar and go over the basics of learning inner game first.
/r/seduction04/02/19 12:29 PM
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well if you flip roles here also note that the girl in the new scenario has made a few moves to be friendly, when you hold eye contact you (the guy) stops looking because you're nervous not them, same signs - I see them as positive signs, and if you wanna shoot your shot i say go for it. If the girls not into you oh well, but if she is then she will text you. giving them youre number instead of asking for theirs in this situation is great regardless of genders.
/r/seduction04/02/19 12:25 PM
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I completely agree but how do you go about it if you’re both walking in opposite directions, how exactly would you get her attention without being too weird? I’m good at indirect openers if we’re both near each other not walking but whenever I’m walking in opposite directions from a girl and even if we make eye contact we’ve basically already crossed paths. Now if the right answer is, turn around tap her on the shoulder and say hi; well then I’ll work more on my approach anxiety / visualization …
/r/seduction22/01/19 06:25 PM
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No it wouldn’t. And I completely agree. Your misunderstanding my point. Seduction and outcome independence is to get the girl who you find attractive without knowing what kind of a person she is, and after talking to and seducing her you get to know her afterwards. The differentiating point between what I’m trying to say and you’re understanding is the point at which you develop “genuine feelings”, from the onset or after the initial seduction. You can’t be outcome independent if you have genuin…
/r/seduction19/01/19 09:08 PM
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Is it at all possible that the reason you lose interest in her after winning her over is because you were never truly interested in her as a person in the first place? My theory is you found her attractive, wanted to fuck, did fuck (or whatever happened once winning her over) and after that you realized she’s not an interesting person / someone you’re attracted to; merely a pretty face. If, however, you actually liked her personality and not just her looks I have no idea what to say but I believ…
/r/seduction19/01/19 08:56 PM
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Johnny Bravo
/r/seduction10/01/19 11:16 PM
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Ur majoring in math, so I’m going to assume you’re intelligent / knowledgeable, that’s a plus. You have adhd, which is seen as a bad thing but can just as easily be a benefit aswell, you notice lots of things which catch you’re attention which means you should never be in a position where you have nothing to talk about. Once you start the conversation you need to let her talk and keep the conversation going. You should lead the conversation into interesting genres, which you both would enjoy tal…
/r/seduction30/12/18 07:50 AM
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But you, as a man, also have hundreds of women who you can approach. Don’t lower your standards just because there are other guys who would sleep with her.
/r/seduction26/12/18 01:51 PM
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I agree testing is bad, but I don’t think this is the same context. From my understanding she was testing if he was actually interested in her (and not just wanted to fuck while in person) which makes sense. The fact she always texted first and he rarely did will make lots of people insecure and it’s not a natural insecurity with no basis; the basis is the fact our mans isn’t showing any interest when long distance by not texting her first (majority of the time, whereas she usually initiates) - …
/r/seduction24/12/18 09:22 AM
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Or try those pickup lines while you look as good as you can but with no confidence (make your body language show you’re very nervous and not confident at all) and then try it again when you look bad but with confidence. I guarantee the results won’t be what you expect
/r/seduction24/12/18 09:18 AM
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Simply talking to you isn’t flirting, need to know more content, with that being said because she was looking at you constantly there’s a chance she was attracted, and on that note always assume attraction. If they were just asking questions it would be like interview style conversation which is not recommended here and if that’s what they were doing maybe they were curious maybe they were bored, but chances are they weren’t flirting. But flirting and attraction is a lot more non verbal than it …
/r/seduction02/12/18 04:57 PM
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If it’s a shit test, which I doubt it is and chances are shes genuinely not interested in which case nothing over text can help you, but will only deteriorate any chances, you can say “your loss”. With that being said what I recommend is not replying, simply accepting it and if you do ever run into her again be confident and game her like you said you could if you met her again. Simply put, don’t reply, get over her. If you meet her again by chance then do what you have to do in person.
/r/seduction30/11/18 11:53 AM
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Did she stick around a while after you finished explaining or did she leave right after? Did she know you before hand or not? Why did she approach you for help in the first place? Chances are it was a hint. If she didn’t know you then there would be a chance you couldn’t help her. If you were in her class she noticed you and remembered you which is a leads to the idea it was a hint. If she stuck around for a while after you finished explaining then that is a dead give away it was a hint. At this…
/r/seduction30/11/18 11:49 AM
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Exactly the above. And to add to that there is no ‘right’ choice either, we don’t know it from her perspective or why she hasn’t texted. How I deal with these situations of whether or not I should do something is: A) is it weird if I do it? (Objectively bad, like double or triple texting) B) if I were to flip a coin and choose, would I flip it again if I got a certain answer (if it said no would I flip again to see if I get yes? C) do it if you want to. If you’re just looking for an excuse to do…
/r/seduction20/11/18 11:38 AM
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I’ve been through that and what helped me is knowing I want to talk to people, and with that I would walk around and force myself to introduce myself to people, I’m an introvert in the sense that I don’t enjoy being social however I have very good social skills and I’m good at making friends with guys so at parties I would befriend other guys and once I get in the mood or find an easy way to open a set of girls I went and did that. It’s all about making a smooth transition
/r/seduction19/11/18 08:49 AM
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“She’ll respect you for trying” This. I feel like this idea and mindset is what lots of guys don’t know about when starting game, me included.
/r/seduction10/11/18 02:39 PM
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I have not, I’m still beginning and just want to slowly improve my game; I’ve been working on my inner game a lot and now want to slowly get results
/r/seduction04/11/18 02:33 AM
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Great points! Yeah definitely has to do with being nervous and looking to leave set at any possible reason, I want to be more objective and I always realize too late I think the biggest thing is to think things through objectively for me. Not looking for a girl to date why do you ask?
/r/seduction04/11/18 01:43 AM
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I’m in a small college of about 300 people in total and it was a college party so I knew majority of the people at this party
/r/seduction03/11/18 06:07 PM
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If their consent was gained through fraudulent means it is grounds for withdrawal of consent and an will be a decent case FYI to everyone here
/r/seduction17/10/18 03:15 PM
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Hey man, thanks for this. I’ve had a rough night out last night and lots of these mantra’s speak to me. Thank you.
/r/seduction29/09/18 12:34 PM
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If they do it because your near them doesn’t mean much, if they do it while talking to you, looking at you, it just reinforces the other ioi’s
/r/seduction20/09/18 01:33 AM
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Still expect to get a yes just don’t convince yourself too much, and eventually you’ll realize she’s not rejecting you and there are various other factors involved; I don’t know, just never expect a no
/r/seduction07/06/18 02:10 PM
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This is so wrong, and these articles irritate me, pickup is not harassment and it’s not women bothering, the essence of pickup involves reading body language, if someone is not interested you move on, if someone is interested you escalate. Both parties are happy. Uneducated journalism such as this gets under my skin.
/r/seduction06/06/18 07:46 PM
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Same thing happened to me a while ago, a random rejection hurt whereas countless others had not, I believe it was because I assumed I wouldn’t get rejected due to various reasons and asked as a courtesy assuming the answer was yes. It hurt because it came as a surprise and I was not mentally prepared for it Edit: reading the other comments, no I don’t think rejection should be normalized as painful. You ask someone out and they say no, you should be able to move on with your life without feeling…
/r/seduction06/06/18 03:32 AM
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On the same note you can’t try to create pure attraction with no comfort, there needs to be a balance and you’re clearly great with creating comfort but you need to add a sexual undertone, I believe the best way is kino + escalation in your circumstance
/r/seduction29/05/18 02:41 AM
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If you haven’t already, I recommend posting this in r/relationship_advice since it seems you don’t just want to fuck her, but a relationship with her... if you do want to just bang then this is the right place, but I’m the wrong guy! Pick up artists comment below ⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️⬇️
/r/seduction25/05/18 05:18 AM
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It’s important but no be all end all. You can get women without a good body but you have to be very comfortable with yourself. If you have confidence and your fat then you typically can strike up a conversation with a girl anyway and seduce her. Obviously not as many women will be open to your openers and shut you down quickly without getting to know you, but strictly in the regard of game and seduction you won’t lack. It’ll just be harder to open; I have fat friends who pull chicks simply cuz t…
/r/seduction24/05/18 09:00 PM
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I want to say no for two reasons... 1) I ‘watch’ all my friends ig stories when I actually just skip through them all so they aren’t at the top glowing anymore, that just irritates me so i skip through them. 2) not a lot of people go through the list and read every single person who watches their stories, whenever they do they look for a certain person and typically think ‘I hope he watched it... I looked so good in this story’ otherwise they’ll skip through the other countless 100+ names so it …
/r/seduction23/05/18 06:43 PM
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Can’t you though? This girl rejected him at so and so’s party, but now is craving his cock. Clearly she wasn’t into him before but is now, which is due to his change in himself. He is the reason why she’s into him now
/r/seduction22/05/18 09:06 PM
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I’m a 21 M, I like it when girls check me out, even if they aren’t attractive, gives me a confidence boost with regard to what I’m wearing and how I’m looking that day. Like, wow this fit is workin huh! Never been approached by a girl but I’d welcome it and if I’m not attracted I’d gently let them down the way I get rejected, but I’d feel happy that they went out of their way to ask me out for sure
/r/seduction14/05/18 04:01 PM
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I recommend posting in r/relationship_advice I think they’re better suited for these kinds of questions
/r/seduction14/05/18 12:11 AM
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Yes, I have lots of friends who are girls, and I’m good at game up until I have to close When I say ‘good’ I mean ‘good enough that some girls are interested in me’ I’m no where near actually good yet
/r/seduction06/05/18 02:02 PM
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U really don’t understand do you? They’re not asking for confidence to come to them. They just want a reason not to quit trying. Ur right confidence comes with action, nowhere is it stated that these virgins don’t take action. Nowhere do they state there waiting for it to miraculously happen. They (I’m speaking form myself and assuming they agree) are working on themselves and slowly building there confidence and it’s good to know that we can still become PUA regardless of how long it takes. It’…
/r/seduction06/05/18 08:12 AM
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Anonymous strangers aren’t entirely there source of hope, in this example it means that just because you are a virgin now doesn’t mean that you can’t be a great PUA later. The videos / products / etc. Clearly haven’t been working for some of these guys which is why they are still virgins. How are they blaming others for there problems? They know they have no game and they think its hopeless and they well never have game, that’s all internal and in no way are they blaming there issues on others. …
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:48 AM
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Typically introducing yourself leads to them introducing them self. Never have I ever said ‘hey I’m eskeeetiiit’ and gone for a handshake without the girl telling me her name, and if she doesn’t then I think that’s a good sign to bail. And with regards to your question, you knowing them doesn’t mean they know you. Finally if you do know each other what I do is ‘Hey I don’t think we’ve officially met, I’m [name]’ and same results.
/r/seduction06/05/18 02:23 AM
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No he’s saying that just because your a virgin at a later age doesn’t mean you have no hope. Hope is an important aspect of life and some people don’t even try to learn game because they think they are hopeless because they have their virginity at 20, 25, 30, etc.
/r/seduction06/05/18 02:21 AM
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As another introvert I feel step #1 is to accept your personality, once you do that you need to reframe your self image. I’m introverted and I don’t have the cheery outgoing personality I wish I did, however I instead try to go the more ‘mysterious’ route, I’m not silent because I have nothing to say but because I don’t want to talk. Use your body language more, look into their eyes, try and get them to talk. Ofcourse you need to get out of your comfort zone to approach, but once you do that you…
/r/seduction27/04/18 09:04 PM
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Honestly befriending attractive women is the best way to be comfortable with them! I learned this lesson back in high school where I got so nervous I couldn’t talk to anyone I found attractive, but then a cute girl started talking to me and befriended me and it became easier (turns out she was into me but I had 0 game and was way too oblivious... 5 Years later and I found this sub)
/r/seduction27/04/18 09:00 PM
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I thought the boop ending was genius. I agree with everything you stated (mainly her not going for a kiss means she likes you more), yeah everything can be interpreted differently, ie. most people would think her rejecting the kiss is her rejecting you, but this shows how strong your frame is, and it goes along well with the content of everything that happened. You already mentioned the logistic issues (being tired/sweaty and not going for a hug) and the only other comment I have is her asking w…
/r/seduction27/04/18 04:34 PM
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I agree there are never ‘right’ things to say but there are definitely wrong things. Girls CAN lose interest and become unattracted to you if you come off as creepy and such by just saying the wrong things.
/r/seduction13/04/18 03:07 AM
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Good on you, and I know a lot of people who would not have been so straight forward and rather just go with it and feel sorry for themselves all the while. I believe you are on the right track by a) not going along with it b) trying to learn from your own mistakes and not feeling sorry for yourself Good job!
/r/seduction11/04/18 09:30 AM
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I just want to add, that if you follow the other hints and they don't work, there is a chance that he isn't attracted to you; not because you're unattractive but because you are his babysitter, and quite younger than him. He could see you as a teen, or any number of things that he would feel weird being attracted to.
/r/seduction11/04/18 09:27 AM
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Agree with everything the other two guys have said, but I want to add that if you simply want to keep the streak just send a mass blank snap to everyone you have a streak with. Simply tho if you wanna smash I’d recommend not having a snap streak with them at all
/r/seduction02/04/18 04:51 AM
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a) I understand why people keep downvoting your comments, yes the dude is cheating on his girl but honestly why do you guys care? He’s doing his thing, you don’t agree with his actions whatever, it doesn’t affect you. b) one of my friends sort of went through something similar, he was on a ‘break’ with his gf for about a week, hooked up with a girl, girl found out he had a gf, threatened to tell the gf and ruin everything. The girl couldn’t find out who the gf was tho so it didn’t end up terribl…
/r/seduction31/03/18 06:41 AM
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How exactly did you “realize this”, honestly I still have the issue where I can’t tell if a girl is just being polite or actually finds me attractive, one reason (I know for myself) is because I have lots of male friends that I am very good friends with who I find a lot more attractive than I am and so whenever I think a girl may be interested I think to myself hey I’m not as attractive as blank hot friend and it sort of ruins my mindset. I still talk to them and try to flirt and look for very o…
/r/seduction31/03/18 06:34 AM
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I think he's not as 'alpha' as you think. The fact that he texts you a lot and hasn't made any solid moves even tho you are so obviously crushing on him just makes me think that hes a lot more comfortable on screen rather than in person. I know this because that is similar to me, I never thought of myself as a very attractive person even tho I find that i get a fair bit of IOI's (only realized that after following this reddit and started looking for them) but I wasn't during puberty and I 'prete…
/r/seduction16/03/18 04:46 PM
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Indicator of Interest Pick Up Art / Artists
/r/seduction16/03/18 03:43 PM
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On the beard note I think it’s really good for people who don’t have the most symmetrical/skinny face, beard hides lots of imperfections as well as a double chin, but Ofcourse well maintained! The negative stigma also revolves around where your from, ive never received negative stigma about my beard (I’m brown and have a fairly full beard) in Canada, anyone who ever comments on it says it’s “Glorious”, or other positive comments! Great post by the way!!
/r/seduction13/03/18 06:33 AM
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Great post! I get pretty annoyed when people ask the same questions, mainly the whole ‘this one girl’ and I’m really glad you made a (great) post answering all those questions. I also want to stats that the guide here applies to everyone new to the game not just people with “one-itis”, all guys who aren’t in a committed relationship or already talking to multiple female should try and reach that point!
/r/seduction11/03/18 07:53 PM
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Fuckboi isn’t a pua term, but where I’m from it’s basically a player who smashes girls, breaks hearts and moves on. Girls say they don’t want a fuckboi but they fuck the fuckboi if you know what I mean! Anyway, u/xVegito is completely wrong and clearly has no idea what seddit is
/r/seduction10/03/18 07:14 AM
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That’s great! Congrats man
/r/seduction09/03/18 06:22 PM
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Did you read any of the other comments? Don’t even think about girls right now. From my understanding of your post your first goal should be to be able to make guy friends, you said you can’t talk to people in general. Talking to guys is a lot easier than talking to girls. Slowly build your way up. Small steps man!
/r/seduction08/03/18 06:14 AM
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Live and learn man, you’re only 16 and you’re much further than majority of this community when they were 16 (like me!) Good job and keep it up!
/r/seduction07/03/18 05:15 PM
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Nope, I’m saying that game doesn’t matter for good looking guys in clubs that just want sex. The guy has to be well above average looking and in these cases the girls usually don’t care about personality, and also usually really drunk. Game still matters a lot in clubs otherwise, because majority of the population is not good looking enough to get away with this!
/r/seduction07/03/18 05:07 PM
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Dude, I'm Pakistani (was part of India at one point) and raised in Canada. I guarantee I have better game than you just by reading this post. You're just a blatant racist.
/r/seduction07/03/18 09:17 AM
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Those are the drunk ones who just want to fuck a pretty face. Has absolutely nothing to do with the rest of your post. Yes good looking guys will get laid easier in clubs, that’s a fact. At that point it has nothing to do with game.
/r/seduction07/03/18 08:28 AM
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Am I the only one who gets a little upset/angry reading about the negative dogma of the seddit community. I agree that being attractive is a major part of it but no one realizes that becoming attractive is also one of the hardest parts and key parts of seddit (joining the gym, improving yourself, dressing nicer).
/r/seduction04/03/18 12:48 AM
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There are a couple of “seddit lairs” on the sidebar, don’t think there are any threads for other cities. I believe you can also start a “lair” for whichever city you want however it would be difficult for a smaller city (obviously).
/r/seduction28/02/18 07:10 PM
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This was honestly a great post to read. Gives me faith in myself and in the community in general. Good for you man! Don’t overthink it and just keep doing you, you’ve done great thus far!
/r/seduction27/02/18 02:01 AM
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Everything he said, and just adding read ‘all about inner game’ on the side bar
/r/seduction25/02/18 04:05 AM
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The vibe I’m getting off this post is that you don’t actually follow seddit, you’re only here to hear other people’s opinions on this specific problem not to actually improve yourself. The fact you said you’re afraid of what others will think tells me that you have weak inner game. I recommend reading the side bar first, and for you’re situation, it’s always hard talking to a worker, but I believe there are other posts about talking to coffee shop workers and such so I recommend reading those
/r/seduction25/02/18 04:03 AM
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I think the most important takeaway is the bit about stop approaching if you’re foundations aren’t strong. Learn to walk before you run. Other people won’t desire you if deep down you don’t think you deserve to be desired. Work on inner game (part of that involves turning into your best self, ie. gym) and the rest will come, slowly but surely.
/r/seduction21/02/18 08:32 PM
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No one does. But momma didn’t raise a quitter!
/r/seduction21/02/18 03:08 PM
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Lol I feel everyone misunderstood my comment; I commented that just because everyone was commenting their own experiences and stuff so I wanted to as well, I’m not bummed out or anything. Ever since I started following this seddit I’ve been working on myself and am much happier in general. I haven’t done anything with girls but that’s more due to personal reasons, overall I’m a happier person and I just thought this post was something seddit would like to see!
/r/seduction21/02/18 09:04 AM
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I’ve been playing league for 5 years and highest I’ve been is platinum, I’m 21 and still haven’t had my first kiss let alone a date. This is a hard game but seddit is the guide I need.
/r/seduction20/02/18 10:33 PM
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Then all I can say is ball up and talk to her
/r/seduction20/02/18 05:16 AM
2

You have a mutual friend? Ask her to help set you up, try and get her to make plans with all 3 of u or something who knows
/r/seduction20/02/18 04:23 AM
1

Just snap her saying ‘sup’ that’s what I do
/r/seduction17/02/18 05:25 PM
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I had this issue too, the first step is self awareness which you obviously have because you posted this. Basically knowing WHY you don’t hold eye contact, etc. I got over this by forcing myself to hold eye contact with people, do things which I don’t think is creepy even if others think it is. I’m aware of the fact i think it’s creepy but I’m also aware of the fact that objectively it probably isn’t. I then keep telling myself that and just force myself to do whatever it is. IE. holding eye cont…
/r/seduction16/02/18 07:04 AM
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Nah that persons just wrong. In no way does god or religion, or lack thereof fill a void of external validation. Sure some rare snowflakes don’t need external validation but it definitely isn’t because religion fills their void.
/r/seduction08/02/18 10:25 PM
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That’s definitely not the way to get better, work on yourself and stop caring about women. Read up on inner game on the sidebar, girls should not affect your mentality.
/r/seduction01/02/18 04:58 PM
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read the side bar. look over the top posts. read the top fr's.
/r/seduction23/01/18 06:59 PM
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Within terms of presentations, I get super nervous and anxious right before I start my presentation. I actually want to puke right before. But as soon as I start talking, I zone in on my presentation and all the nerves fly off, same with when I played soccer competitively, I left all my nerves and anxieties off the pitch, and as soon as I stepped on the grass it was completely different. I also have the same feeling when I’m approaching. As soon as I say ‘hi’ and she replies everything changes. …
/r/seduction17/01/18 08:54 PM
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Lots of great points! Umm I didn’t (personally) think she was bored with the conversation because she was the one keeping it going, but I do agree that in general it was a boring conversation, but I thought it’d be okay because it’s something she’s passionate about. I stayed there for a while longer because my good friend was there now and I just stayed with him, and then soon after I started dancing with the second girl and once I finished dancing with her I left Yeah I don’t know why it hurt m…
/r/seduction15/01/18 05:20 PM
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I hope
/r/seduction07/01/18 10:14 PM
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What I was afraid of, oh well
/r/seduction07/01/18 10:14 PM
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Yeah the thing is when girl 1 looks behind she’s okay with it, keeps goin then girl 2 says it again or pulls her away
/r/seduction07/01/18 09:57 PM
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You shouldn’t ‘fix’ anything because you did nothing wrong. Just keep being you, make her more jealous. If she actually is jealous and into you she will make a move on you. If you try to ‘fix’ it you’ll show you’re beta and she’ll curve you again
/r/seduction07/01/18 11:46 AM
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Read the sidebar
/r/seduction07/01/18 11:44 AM
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I feel the need to save this so I can look at it to hype myself up whenever I go out and get in the right mentality.
/r/seduction02/01/18 07:30 PM
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on top of this, when you are at the point where you're debating no contact, if you do initiate contact then it makes you look needy and you have no chance anyway. In your situation I would say the same thing, you said you came off as needy, and she stopped talking, if you hit her up then you will still look needy and you will have no chance. No contact helps you get over her.
/r/seduction01/01/18 02:35 AM
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I thought the problem was your boner. Just go for it, and let the boner happen, tuck it under the waistband (typically it won't show, or just pull your pants up). It shouldn't be a problem unless you make it a problem. And I think you should make a move, based on what you say about your relationship with her, she's interested and you should see what happens.
/r/seduction31/12/17 09:46 AM
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I agree. HOWEVER maybe your a really cool guy, and some girls want you to pick them up. Assuming that the girls got wasted on purpose, it is generally for the reason to be picked up by a guy. From my experience girls want guys to take them home just as badly as guys want to take a girl home, so with that thought in mind one of the reasons they are there that late, that drunk, and willing to go home with a guy is b/c they wanted to have sex that night anyway. With all that said, can you still say…
/r/seduction31/12/17 08:15 AM
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depends on what you want. I don't know enough of the relation but I feel the only way she'll realize what shes missing out on is if you ghost her. This way if she doesn't want you then it'll help you move on, and if she is not okay with it she will text/call you and tell you that she wants you. Ofcourse the latter is unlikely, but in the formers case it will help you move on.
/r/seduction31/12/17 08:01 AM
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Never knew of the old style of PUA but none of what he says is true about the current "natural game" style. Yea some guys still just have sex with women, but they do it by treating them right, humanizing them, and trying to get to know them (or so I've read on here anyways). Also his final thought is to ask women how to get women. Women will lie to you about that. They all say they want a nice guy, this, that, but the "nice guys" get friendzoned because the women aren't attracted to them. Nothin…
/r/seduction31/12/17 07:58 AM
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If you haven't read inner game do that, work on yourself, walk up to women with confidence. You have the approach down, but do you linger and talk to them? Do you try to build attraction?
/r/seduction31/12/17 07:27 AM
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Okay I thought you were in highschool, if you're in university then there is nothing wrong about getting an erection, and I feel most people that watch movies together end up hooking up anyway. AND because she's in university too I'm assuming she's mature so if you get hard and she is doesn't get flattered or show a positive response I'm sure she'll understand if you explain it to her. Regardless I don't believe there is a fix for this, you'll just have to live with it.
/r/seduction31/12/17 06:53 AM
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do exactly that.
/r/seduction31/12/17 06:45 AM
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She's a girl like the rest of girls. Do everything normally, if she is a hardcore muslim then she will tell you to stop / that nothing can happen, I say don't change your game due to her religion, if it is an issue she will bring it up and then you calibrate/react in the moment. I'm a muslim guy, and I feel the biggest thing would be marriage / kids however that (im assuming) won't be brought up early, only once it gets serious. So just treat her like a normal girl.
/r/seduction31/12/17 06:33 AM
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I feel like you didnt do anything wrong, maybe just not take shit from her when shes around your friends (you said she was rude, also you didn't mention if you just took it or not so I don't really know). I feel you man, sometimes you just have to rant. Sucks. You'll find someone better. Stay in there. As the japanese would say, Kambare.
/r/seduction31/12/17 06:23 AM
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That’s if they are attracted, it’s good to give IOD’s after you make them attracted, not as a first impression
/r/seduction31/12/17 12:37 AM
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I gave off the same impression and have since then worked on it. The reason why I gave off this impression was because I had a “resting bitch face” when I wasn’t happy/laughing. If I was in a group and just chilling, or talking with just one person I looked a little pissed off even if I wasn’t. On top of that my tone genuinely gave off a pissed off vibe, that’s just natural for me and I can’t do much about it. Now I smile a lot more (not huge mouth open smile, but a small smile and try to make m…
/r/seduction30/12/17 11:33 PM
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here you go and read the top comment
/r/seduction30/12/17 06:30 AM
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Inner game (read side bar) and experience. Honestly no amount of reading can prepare you, experience can. With that said, reading can make the experience go by smoother and help you be prepared much faster. Experience and Inner Game.
/r/seduction29/12/17 10:03 AM
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I’m gonna say yes. You guys fingered each other, and she was kissing you the entire time. If this were a guy/girl relationship I would say 100% the other person is interested, regardless if you were the guy or girl. However I’m not sure if there is any difference in a girl/girl or guy/guy relationship, I’m assuming no and therefore I’m gonna lock in my answer saying she’s interested and you should wait for her to text you.
/r/seduction29/12/17 10:00 AM
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There was a post here earlier about a guy who was wondering how to deal with one other guy constantly hitting on his gf. The answer was to trust your girl, and if she talks to you about it then do something. Remember your girl chose YOU. She has a reason to worry about you cheating on her just like you worry about her cheating on you. Be secure in your relationship like she is, b/c I doubt she’s asking her friends whether or not she should trust you (or maybe she is, and there answer is the same…
/r/seduction29/12/17 09:57 AM
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Be yourself. Do NOT agree with something just to be part of the group if you don’t actually agree. They will respect you if you have your own opinions on subjects and can elaborate on it, obviously don’t have completely radical borderline insane opinions either (sexist, racist, hate speech, etc). Also there are typically conversational topics you want to stay away from, very controversial and emotional topics (off the top of my head, religion). If it ever gets super quiet think of a funny story …
/r/seduction29/12/17 09:54 AM
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Abundance mentality means you know that your the prize and that you have the option of dating other girls if you get rejected, it’s a mindset which allows you to be confident with the women that you talk to. You clearly have that since you are talking to multiple women. In your scenario you say that you decided to cuff a girl, and this girl is clearly asking that (being exclusive) so now it comes down to whether or not you want to be in a relationship with this girl, or if you believe that someo…
/r/seduction29/12/17 09:49 AM
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Change your mentality. a) become outcome independent (sleeping with her isn't your goal, having a good time is). b) abundance mentality (there are tons of girls out there, lots of whom would love to date you. You are the prize. She is lucky to have a date with YOU). Being nervous is normal, and you're probably awkward because you're nervous and have a lack of experience. Take it one step at a time, and calm the fuck down. Good luck!
/r/seduction29/12/17 01:59 AM
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Read the side bar. Read about day game.
/r/seduction28/12/17 11:54 PM
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There is a post on the sidebar that says ‘endless conversation’ read it. Rather than learning for this one specific interaction you can learn for every interaction. Also your 16, you got a date, clearly your doing something right so keep it up!
/r/seduction27/12/17 09:23 PM
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I wrote 1 FR and 1 post on my experience, thing is I feel like some of the people left don’t usually feel “good enough” at seduction to write the great posts. I know I don’t. I started 2 months ago and I’ve gotten a lot better but I’m still a virgin (I feel I just need to get better at closing now) and I’m still learning. But I do agree more content from the regulars would be great. Also I have an issue where I see some of the worst advice. Like advice the old me would give, “should I let a girl…
/r/seduction27/12/17 09:19 PM
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There is lots of that on this subreddit if you look for it. “Game”, I’ve learned game from here. Things like DHV, qualification, opening, kino, escalation, all of this and more is on seddit, you just have to look.
/r/seduction27/12/17 09:02 PM
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But thats part of who you are, you're that flirty guy (you said you act the same with guys too) I have some friends that are like that, they are flirty to everyone, and nobody gets pissed. Ofcourse those guys are also friendly to them and flirty sometimes. Also I've only seen them do it in university, no idea about highschool. Anyway my point is you being who you are (a flirt) is not a mistake.
/r/seduction27/12/17 10:32 AM
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read the side bar. Improve your inner game. Looking needy is one of the biggest turn offs. But since you're going to a music festival I'd say find a girl who just wants to fuck, its gonna be harder with a needy attitude but its not impossible.
/r/seduction27/12/17 10:17 AM
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yeah its true that there is such a thing as outer game, however inner game complements outer game. That is to say that you can fuck girls with outer game alone however your success rate will greatly improve if you improve your inner game. And yes its true that inner game alone won't help you bang girls either, if you can't approach then you wont sleep with anyone. I just believe that inner game is a great place for people to start. And lots of the posts and questions im reading on here revolve a…
/r/seduction27/12/17 10:12 AM
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Orrrr you didn't make a mistake and its a shit test? She's not your gf, she has no reason to be pissed. If you apologize you'll look like a bitch. You should just ignore it and keep doing your thing. You say that this is just who you are, if thats the case you shouldn't feel bad about it. She'll eventually see that this is who you are and get over it, or she won't, we wont know until we find out. What we do know is that if you apologize or find a way to apologize, or admit to her/her friends tha…
/r/seduction27/12/17 04:16 AM
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I'd like to join too, I'm from Saskatchewan.
/r/seduction27/12/17 04:11 AM
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GREAT! I agree with 100% of what you said, and I feel like you summed up the entirety of what this subreddit is trying to convey to people. You're Vegeta, so don't try to be like Goku because he's powerful, become your own fucking super saiyan!! Perfect analogy, don't try to be someone who you're not, and people can smell BS a mile away. Furthermore, real confidence is not showing that you're confident. "Any man who must say I am the king is no true king" you have to convey it naturally by being…
/r/seduction26/12/17 07:25 AM
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Exactly what he said, also neg's are hard to do properly so if your not sure if you know how I recommend reading on that, there was a good guide on negs in this subreddit somewhere. And you're right, they might get hit on all the time; however lots of guys are intimidated from these super hot girls so they don't actually get approached as much as the good looking ones (Like 9's and 10's get hit on less than 7's and 8's) and also remember that when they do get hit on some of the guys are AFC's ex…
/r/seduction24/12/17 02:21 AM
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I'm actually curious about IOI's and signals and what to look for in body language other than the typical eye contact, smiles, receptive to kino (I feel like these are the obvious IOI's). If there's a general guide on that could someone link me? And I feel that's the same question OP has
/r/seduction24/12/17 01:45 AM
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Completely normal to feel like a creep thinking about it. However, I have approached before on the transit, and have witnessed my friends do it. As long as you don't act creepy or awkward it'll be normal. If it doesn't work out brush it off, if you keep a cool and confident aura about you it'll look completely normal, and people around you will think they're weird for never seeing it before, or ever thinking about doing it themselves. If you see these IOI's then make eye contact, and if you hold…
/r/seduction23/12/17 06:36 AM
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Ahh something similar happened to me. I knew a girl in my class and I approached her once, and I said "hey I'm pretty sure we're in the same class", she replied "uhm.... are we?", "yeah we are...", "oh yeah maybe!". Pissed me right off. A few weeks later we were talking again and somehow that came up and she admitted to lying because she got "flustered" and she knew that we were in the same class the entire time. So your right, don't do that. What you should do is say "hi!" with a smile, or what…
/r/seduction23/12/17 06:28 AM
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I don't think your talking about "natural" guys. I feel like your talking about the assholes who use and abuse women. I knew guys like that in highschool too, some of them actually did hit their girlfriends, and I heard they were fairly abusive (psychologically if not physically) in their relationships. I'm studying Law right now and lots of my friends are "natural" and jocks (these friends played on their undergrad university sport teams, football and basketball) and they're also nerds, they lo…
/r/seduction23/12/17 06:23 AM
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Read up on inner game on the sidebar if you haven't already. Remember, you can do better than this girl, and if it doesn't work out you got lots of options. You have a life without this girl, don't forget that. Pursue your own dreams and have fun. This way you: a: become more attractive b/c your focusing on yourself b: you stop caring if shes attracted to you so it solves your issue altogether c: the fact that your not insecure about your relationship shows confidence which is a turn on for girl…
/r/seduction23/12/17 06:16 AM
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My 2 cents, talk to her. Get to know her, used The Game and get her attracted to you, smash, don't smash, become a friend, do whatever you gotta do that'll help you get over her. Oneitis is a thing, and you don't actually know her so your obsession is just creepy. My best advice would be to get over her and move on, but I do think it'd be easier if you get to know her and find out she's not the goddess you built her up to be. source: experience of building someone up in my head and having my exp…
/r/seduction23/12/17 06:07 AM
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Nothin sour bout some giggles erry once in a while oi mate? Not like anyone'll bash yer fkin head in. I swear on you mum.
/r/seduction22/12/17 11:40 PM
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I was sort of like you too. Albeit for me it was 3-4 years ago (I'm in 3'rd year uni right now and was most careless / good with girls when I was in grade 11/12) The difference for me was that I wasn't looking to do anything with girls, due to religious reasons I was only looking to be friends with females and nothing more, so I treated them as friends. I also cared very little how other people thought of me because I was enjoying being who I am. But now I put in lots of effort to look good, and…
/r/seduction22/12/17 08:34 PM
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Exactly this. I just want to add that approaches and being able to talk is one part that's important. And you've got it! Good job! Now instead of finding a girl while day gaming you should be trying to improve yourself, and if your walking around and happen to see someone who catches your eye, approach. I feel like the main goal of this community is to make people more comfortable about themselves, just like what trpmkb12 said
/r/seduction22/12/17 07:57 PM
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Never really thought of this, I blame my lack of a proper introduction and leaving without saying anything on being drunk so I just blamed it all on that, but after getting baked it could've just as easily been the weeds fault. Thanks man! Ya now thinking about it I'll stay away from the dope if I wanna pull
/r/seduction22/12/17 11:08 AM
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Good!!! Glad to hear that!
/r/seduction22/12/17 11:05 AM
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I'm 5'11', definitely in shape and muscular/toned. I've been told I'm handsome and I dress very well. it counts for getting their attention, not for keeping it. You say your game is similar to your friends but your lack of success with women proves its not. I've gone through the same thing you have, I believe I'm good looking, and put myself in the same range as my friends who slay every day, and I was always curious why I didnt get girls. but when I see examples of my friends using "game" it do…
/r/seduction22/12/17 02:57 AM
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yeah I actually thought of that too (now in the morning when I'm sober), is it the 'best' thing, maybe not, but definitely not bad a bad thing
/r/seduction21/12/17 11:17 PM
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hmmm almost everyone at a bar is drinking.... and having alcohol on ur breath, in a bar, i don't think ruins appeal at all. having it on ur breath in the morning at uni or something, probably
/r/seduction21/12/17 11:16 PM
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If you don't love yourself how will anyone else? Actually though, lots of hot girls get into relationships with average dudes, because of how they make them feel. I'm a strong supporter that hot guys have it easier, but that's only for initial attraction & attention, once it comes to 'being good enough' everyone is on the same playing field. From what I can tell your talking about a relationship, and imagine you being with a hot girl with a terrible personality, would you assume that she's too g…
/r/seduction21/12/17 06:44 PM
1

Exactly. I have forgiven myself now (this community helped, thanks for the comments everyone!) and I like to think I've learnt from it
/r/seduction21/12/17 06:27 PM
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Amen.
/r/seduction21/12/17 06:25 PM
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Thanks man! This comment made me smile, I don't enjoy the small wins enough, and I'm gonna change that.
/r/seduction21/12/17 06:25 PM
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Yeah I'm good at not being a blatant drunk, one night my brother was driving me home and he asked 'are you even drunk?' I puked 3 times later that night. Like I just live in the moment and don't think but I usually don't show how drunk I am
/r/seduction21/12/17 06:24 PM
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Thanks for the advice! You're right, maybe she saw it differently, and ya I agree my biggest take away is drinking to that loose/chatty feeling, not more.
/r/seduction21/12/17 06:22 PM
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I agree that drinking helps, but I'm talking about that line between being loose and being stupid, I definitely don't think I could open as naturally as I did (and do in other interactions) without liquor
/r/seduction21/12/17 06:20 PM
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Thanks man! Yeah I realized the success but thought of the entire interaction as a failure, reading these comments really helps change my views on it though!
/r/seduction21/12/17 06:19 PM
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I was already planning on it, thanks for the reassurance though!
/r/seduction21/12/17 06:17 PM
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sounds like she's interested (but lost interest), I would say ya try to get her number no harm in that. And I agree that talking too her in person is much better than through facebook. Also, if she's staring at you while shes with her friends then make eye contact and just walk up to her and her friends and try to become friends with everyone, you will exude mass quantities of confidence if you approach the entire group, which will help.
/r/seduction20/12/17 10:57 PM
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Do you properly do kino and escalate? From my understanding of the side bar you should open, build comfort (escalating + kino) and then try to close afterwards (get number, try to k-close, etc.) do u do the comfort step?
/r/seduction20/12/17 06:58 PM
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Just know this: the correct answer to the "no sex" objection is always an affirmative while continuing to escalate physically." Uh, no, the correct answer to any negation around sex is always to stop? Otherwise, you’re making a very convincing case for "rape classes". What he's saying here is say "yeah your right no sex" while escalating kino physically, if she's receptive then she will change her mind (you have changed her mind) about sex, if she's not then she won't sleep with you and there is…
/r/seduction18/12/17 05:23 AM
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You need to read this if you want to learn anything. Your right, respect does not ruin your game. HOWEVER this guy does everything right. Learn.
/r/seduction15/12/17 11:07 PM
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ooh solid point. This is the kind of advice I need to change my mindset, thanks!
/r/seduction15/12/17 10:09 PM
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Nah, I was okay with her touching my beard, got super mad when she licked her hand and rubbed it on my beard (one quick swift act) and she knew it would piss me off and did it for that reason
/r/seduction15/12/17 05:57 PM
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Thanks! Hmm about the goal, I do agree however my only criticism would be making general goals should be okay. I didn't explicitly tell myself that that was my goal, it was more of an inner reference as to what I wanted that night. And for future nights my mindset will be to open to people I don't know and try to get to know them (with this broad "goal" and where closing is an option I'm okay with). So here I'm saying my "goal" is actually just my mindset for the night and I only realized it aft…
/r/seduction15/12/17 08:07 AM
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I talked to FF1 a couple times, but we weren't that close a few months ago, not sure how but we became better friends recently and I started making solid eye contact with her recently as well, became friends with FF2 after I started following seddit so eye contact from the start. First time doing kino with both, but I feel like I was very natural in the kino and neither people had any bad reactions to it
/r/seduction15/12/17 08:00 AM
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Just make a move, if it goes well it goes well, from the sounds of it it sounds like it will. If it doesn't just man up and say you thought she liked you again, if you say it confidently I'm sure she'll understand that it makes sense to think that and it should work out nicely.
/r/seduction15/12/17 07:17 AM
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Mental practice. One thing that helped me is imagining those impossible interactions and putting the stuff i read into practice in these impossible situations. This also gives me time to think about how to act, then in the every day interactions I subconsciously apply the rules and improve a lot in my daily interactions.
/r/seduction06/12/17 03:29 AM
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From what I gather, try to build comfort and get to know her.
/r/seduction05/12/17 04:46 PM
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very new beginner, this was a good read, really liked how you did everything, absolutely no idea on how you could've done better, I think your biggest fuck up was chatting with the dude and ignoring her, I agree with you that you should've incorporated her in that conversation. Good FR though and better luck next time!
/r/seduction05/12/17 07:08 AM
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thanks man I'll check that book out, and '5 whys' will definitely help! Yeah man the beliefs that you know are BS but still believe anyway are the worst. Thanks for taking time to reply to this though!
/r/seduction04/12/17 11:20 PM
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tested and proven! See my fellow brothers in jail soon!
/r/seduction03/12/17 01:13 AM
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Thank you! This is exactly what I thought too!
/r/seduction02/12/17 04:25 AM
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Do you have the same problem with friends that you talk to? I had the same issue earlier, and overcame it by becoming friends with girls who I wasn't attracted to and the problem persisted with girls I was attracted to. Then slowly I changed my mindset to talk to all girls the same way as if they were just friends and I wasn't attracted to them. I recently also read a comment which answered this perfectly, the difference is having a result view vs present view, are you being awkward because you …
/r/seduction02/12/17 03:45 AM
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Wow. Well done. Love that cold approach.
/r/seduction01/12/17 11:04 PM
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I think thats more unlucky than anything else, I do agree that approaching on transit may not be the best idea, but as u/ImJustSo wrote, sometimes it can be a good experience.
/r/seduction01/12/17 06:29 PM
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congratulations man! Any big tips you can give for the rest of us who are trying to change themselves the way you did?
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