So I went out yesterday with some friends for a college party, where I knew lots of people and already have lots of social proof and met some new people. As I was talking to different people I left the set way too early because I assumed rejection (clearly approaching and rejection aren’t an issue anymore)

The best example is where I was talking to this girl for about 15 minutes and got lots of IOI’s (eye contact, smile, keeping the conversation going) and eventually I moved my hand to her thigh trying to work up kino, and as we talk she says “I have to go to the bathroom wait here” well for some reason I assumed her having to go to the bathroom was a rejection and totally ignored the fact she told me to wait there and I left.

My problem is I assume (hot) girls aren’t genuinely attracted to me and leave the set at the first possibility of rejection without taking into account any of the positive hints.

I have been working on my confidence a lot and clearly need to work on it more, side note this only happens when I think the girls are out of my league

Any help on how to get over this mind block ?