I am seeing lots of similar questions in this subreddit recently. People are complaining about being virgins, never having a girlfriend, not getting a single kiss, insecurities, girls who only want to be your friend, AA, etc. etc.

 

I feel like all of these people come to this subreddit and post their questions without first reading through the material this subreddit provides. I recommend for you all to read on "All About Inner Game" and read the many many guides in there. I also recommend reading the top FR's, and also the top posts of this subreddit of all time. There is so much good material out there. The key is to solving majority of the posts I've read here all involve improving your inner game. Once you improve your inner game talking to women will be easier, and from there you can learn outer game, approaching, building comfort, closing, etc.

 

This subreddit does not provide any single "trick" to make you better with females, it provides you with material to improve yourself, I see this more as a "self-improvement" subreddit than a seduction subreddit. Self-improvement is a journey, you start off at the bottom (insecure, needy, etc.) and you slowly improve yourself to change how you view yourself. You become more "alpha" (confident, abundance mentality, etc.). There is always room for improvement, and this subreddit is a great place to start. So I want everyone new to seddit to start reading "All About Inner Game" and work on improving yourselves.

 

I'll link a couple of my favorite posts:

[Read this, its a few lines] (https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/5cto0v/bought_models_attract_women_through_honesty_and/)

inner game

learning pickup

FR accidental seduction

FR he fought his AA and won

[Advice from a girl] (https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/220cuv/ive_been_a_good_girl_a_slut_and_everything_in/)

[Sad story, good message] (https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6vdfjv/today_a_very_sad_event_made_me_come_to_a/)

[50 takeaways from models] (https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3gco5l/50_takeaways_from_models/)

[The goal is self improvement] (https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6cy7ii/the_girl_is_not_the_goal_the_goal_is_to_become_a/)

[How I rebuilt myself - from /u/puaCurveBall] (https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/k7y2h/how_i_rebuilt_myself/)

[accept yourself] (https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6sel4m/acceptance_of_yourself_will_be_your_most_powerful/)

I feel like this is enough, I try to read as much from this seddit as I can. It's helped a lot, I became much more confident. However remember, nothing will be more helpful than actually talking with women. I do believe that it is a great idea to read these guides and improve your inner game, because that will make it easier to talk to women, and you will enjoy life much more. However, don't assume that reading everything and applying it will be you a killer stud who girls dream of, because it won't. Reading these guides and gaining experience in the real world will.