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I feel you. I guess dating is where the sacrifice has to come in and you have to accept losing some of the control for the betterment of the relationship. Fair point
/r/seduction18/08/17 02:00 PM
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What's wrong with looking out for yourself? Obviously it's a balance and you don' want to cause harm to others intentionally, but I don't see an issue with focusing on yourself
/r/seduction18/08/17 01:59 PM
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It's all about how you frame it man. Instead of saying that not drinking will make you known as boring, what if you look at it that not drinking will make you known as self-controlled and confident? Just all depends on the angle you see things from
/r/seduction11/04/17 05:58 PM
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Awesome, sounds simple enough. Thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction26/02/17 08:23 AM
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Definitely some great points there, thanks for sharing. I see what you are saying, while ideally we would all love to get respect from everyone we interact with, it isn't realistic to just expect a large majority of people to give high levels of respect willingly. Many people are slow to trust and aren't just going to give you respect because you want it. We have to take the steps necessary, such as as being honest, being understanding, achieving at high levels, following-through, etc. similar a…
/r/seduction06/02/17 09:36 PM
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Mental shift: don't stand around not because it makes you look low value, but because standing around is not fun and why would you ever want to not have fun at a party? The point of this is to shift your mind-set to one where you are doing things because you genuinely want to, not because of how others are perceiving you. Standing off to the side means you are sacrificing your well being and ignoring your genuine interest of wanting to have fun at a party. I think operating from that mindst is t…
/r/seduction03/02/17 05:44 PM
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Thanks for sharing, I appreciate it. As silly as this is gonna sound, the book "oh the places you'll go" has served as a motivator to me and makes a similar point that you are making. The book mentions to avoid the "waiting place" and to keep moving, as waiting is the only place that is trully a place of pain. By keeping on my grind, I figure I will develop thick skin in the process
/r/seduction03/02/17 05:36 PM
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Just curious, where do you feel that I crossed the border/made it obvious about demandig respect? Definitely appreciate your post but just curious as to further explanation on what you mean. To me, respect is definitely not something I "expect" necessarily from strangers however for people I consider acquaintances and whom I know decently well, I think it is healthy to want respect from people like that. As they say, you get what you tolerate. By tolerating people being disrespectful, I'm only s…
/r/seduction03/02/17 05:34 PM
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Love this quote, thanks for sharing. Definitely a perspective I wasn't seeing, a perspective I needed to see!
/r/seduction03/02/17 04:18 AM
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Thanks for the response, I appreciate it. To respond, I want to achieve greatness because I got one life to live. I don't get a do-over on this so I want to make the very most of every moment of it. I guess I see greatness as an unattainable pursuit. It means always growing, always pushing myself(in a healthy way) and always striving for more. It doesn't mean I'm satisfied with my life currently, however I don't see something wrong with wanting to push myself
/r/seduction03/02/17 04:16 AM
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Awesome advice, this helps so much! This is a really good, simple strategy that will help greatly with AA. Thanks so much :), keep up the good work!
/r/seduction08/01/17 04:33 AM
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Its a a long process man. I don't say that as discouragement, but more just a realistic assessment of things. Background info: I've battled social anxiety for 6 years now. It killed my game and my self confidence. This past summer between semesters, I finally said fuck it, cut back on work hours, and invested in myself. You HAVE to start investing in yourself to get anywhere in life. It started with reading and journaling. I Recently reached a point where I feel comfortable to venture outside my…
/r/seduction19/09/16 01:56 AM
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Thanks man, I appreciate it. Momentum is an awesome thing once you get it moving in the right direction. It makes this process so much easier
/r/seduction19/09/16 01:51 AM
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Yeah that's where I missed the mark I feel on the second situation. One of the girls definitely was showing signs of interest, however I failed to escalate that with kino. Next time
/r/seduction19/09/16 01:51 AM
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Honestly that's reassuring to hear. Sure being a great conversationalist isn't going to get me laid 24/7(there's more to the process of course) but I feel like it is one of if not the most important skill when dealing with women. If you can't hold a conversation, how are you going to make that person comfortable enough to sleep with you I figure
/r/seduction19/09/16 01:49 AM
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Kino is literally the most important thing imo. You can talk all the game you want, but if you don't break the physical barrier of touch, you aren't going anywhere. You'd be amazed how a touch on the arm makes a girl go from not showing interest to being all over you
/r/seduction18/09/16 02:30 PM
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I agree with this to an extent. If you're practicing the wrong way though, are you really helping yourself? I feel like there should be a balance of gaining confidence from internally and from experience
/r/seduction10/09/16 05:43 AM
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Just trying to spark discussion to help others, including myself. Isn't that what this sub is about?
/r/seduction02/09/16 04:23 PM
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Most definitely. This post is much too simple for the subject matter, you are 100% right. The point of this post was to discuss what you think helped you with women most. Obviously one thing alone cannot lead to success, however gaining an important skill can create momentum necessary for growth
/r/seduction02/09/16 04:21 PM
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You're letting the past affect your future. Let it go bro. We all go through ups and downs. Having a positive attitude is vital to any success, especially women
/r/seduction04/08/16 10:53 PM
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Just keep trusting the process and continue to better yourself. We can't control results in life, all we can control is our effort
/r/seduction04/08/16 03:50 AM
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My opinion? You gotta get your head on straight before having success with women. In general, it is easy to feel confidence vs. Insecurity. You can hear it one's body language, tone etc. Confidence comes from building goos habits for yourself. Have good hygiene, workout, pick up a useful hobby, etc. It'll do wonders for you mentally. This confidence makes the work so much easier with women. Women LOVE confidence, and it will reduce a lot of the fear you are feeling. Put the whole "practice" idea…
/r/seduction03/08/16 05:15 AM
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Thanks,hit the nail on the head
/r/seduction23/06/16 05:44 PM
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I hope you have a good day "Mr.Alpha"
/r/seduction23/06/16 05:43 PM
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True. I guess I just don't know how to respond at this point when he starts texting me about a girl because the chain of events is so predictable. I almost get annoyed when he asks me anymore for advice, as I know he will just wuss out. Any tips on how to respond when he asks for advice?
/r/seduction23/06/16 03:41 AM
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Yo I'm just trying to be a good friend dude, no need for the hate. We all have strengths and weaknesses, and this sub is about turning that weakness of approach anxiety into something positive. The negativity was unneeded.
/r/seduction23/06/16 03:40 AM
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I agree. Being "nice" is not a bad thing. It's being a "yes" man and not speaking of your true feelings that is a problem
/r/seduction21/06/16 04:34 PM
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Some advice the great Michael Jordan gave. He said you have to break your goals into smaller, attainable ones. For example he said if your goal is be a doctor, you gotta have smaller goals or else you won't have the necessary confidence. A smaller goal he gave an example was getting an A in biology in order to advance this process of being a doctor. Progress is made towards becoming a doctor, and confidence is grown. Apply this to your situation. First, you need an end goal. Do you want a girlfr…
/r/seduction24/05/16 05:54 AM
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Checked it out, great article! I appreciate it!
/r/seduction01/05/16 03:01 AM
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