So I think one of the big keys we talk about on here(directly or indirectly) is to stay focused on being the best version of yourself. Its not about the girl saying yes/no, its about you putting yourself in the best position possible to win that girl. At that point if its meant to be, its meant to be.

I think one of the keys to this is coming up with principles to guide your life by. For example, one of principles is to never focus on the outcome, but the steps to reach the outcome I desire. With this strategy, I'm able to stay focused on the process and avoid the nerves of focusing on achieving a desired result.

My point is this: find which rules you want to guide your life. One thing I've learned in my short time of life is people will fuck you over even if you try to please em and kiss their ass. Say fuck the bullshit and live your life for yourself and nobody else. Once you take this approach, the skies the limit