For so long, I've read on this sub to approach as much as you can. I always read this and told myself I "wasn't ready for that yet" or that I would do it once I got more confident. While I admit I did. Take time to cultivate a better mindset which undoubtedly helped, I finally snapped and realized that sitting around and reading articles/books was not going to. Get the job done.

I want to thank you all for your help. I am not where I want to be but I'm on my way to it. This past weekend, I've gone to a couple parties. At the first one, I ended up grinding with two chicks and I made out with one of them. At the other one, I approached a couple girls and had a long conversation with them. Its still not where I want to be but its progress, so I'm trying to remain patient. Thanks for your help guys, this sub really does make a big difference