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| 3 | Cold approaches in shopping malls are hard as fuckI know you’re pain. But I always have the courage to actually do the approach. For the first six months of my approach journey, I literally would open with indirect game and to me. It seems cool, but it showed no intention. So as of recently, I’ve been going out and approaching an opening direct and I can’t lie. It is super hard. It is so hard to open a girl with. I think you’re cute or ha I like your style and keep a dominant frame, and be confident through the whole thing and talk slow. It tak… | /r/seduction | 18/09/25 04:01 AM |
| 6 | HAVE YOU EVER BEEN DIRECT AND TOLD A WOMAN?: “LET’S FUCK.”Yes because I got so tired of watching Jewish midget porn. | /r/seduction | 12/08/25 05:00 AM |
| 1 | How much rejection is necessary? How to get over it?I have fumbled so much bro | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 07:01 AM |
| 1 | How much rejection is necessary? How to get over it?To. I drop so many bags over txt. I will literally get 3-4 numbers in a week, get a txtx back then either get rejected for a date or ghosted after a few messages. | /r/seduction | 25/06/25 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Attracting girls at the wrong timeYes I agree. And testosterone and adrenaline is flowing during hard times as well making us come off as more masculine and edgy | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 05:51 PM |
| 6 | Attracting girls at the wrong timeYes I agree. And testosterone and adrenaline is flowing during hard times as well making us come off as more masculine and edgy | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 05:50 PM |
| 10 | Attracting girls at the wrong timeI get this too bro. When I’m at my worst and shit is hitting the fan I have my best interactions | /r/seduction | 01/06/25 05:42 PM |
| -2 | After 4 years, did a quick fuckSuch a gay post. Guys should not be mad at the other guy that fucks his girl. He should be mad at his girl if the guy is not your friend or you don’t know him that fucking his bitch does not matter. I can’t believe you are scared that you will get shot for fucking some dudes bitch. I would be more scared of the karma that I get in my next relationship. | /r/seduction | 31/05/25 08:09 PM |
| 1 | What has been the worst rejection you have ever receive? And how it happenedlol hell yea bro. Real shit though | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | What has been the worst rejection you have ever receive? And how it happenedI would’ve said yes and invited her over. If she acted like that you can get away with anything on the second date | /r/seduction | 19/04/25 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Update: How to go from cuddling to sexlol thanks | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How far have you come?Oh rsd Tyler. I know him. Nice stuff bro. I’m gonna definitely read your content on here | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 06:46 PM |
| 1 | How far have you come?Tyler? | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 06:44 PM |
| 1 | How far have you come?Wow this took a lot of work. 1.5 years to get first sex experience. You have tons of tenacity to hang in there. I get depressed when I get ejected and go on 3 month dry spell | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Update: How to go from cuddling to sexGive a more detailed field report | /r/seduction | 12/04/25 02:34 PM |
| 1 | How should I kiss a guy who is shorter than me without making him uncomfortable?Grab his face with one hand and kiss him passionately | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 03:43 AM |
| 0 | Need new FwbYea I work full time. But definitely areas of my life to improve on | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 04:56 PM |
| 0 | Need new FwbOk he’ll yea | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 02:36 PM |
| -6 | Need new FwbSo we met around 9 went to yogurtland then sushi screwed around a bit in back of my car the. Went to a hotel at 2 am and I didn’t really end up going inside and cumming in her until about 4:30 am. It took a while lol. Then we hung out the very next night and did the same thing lol. Took a lot of courage on her part. But like most of the chicks I fuck. They’re hooked after the first time but the flame fizzles out after. A month or two | /r/seduction | 07/03/25 02:04 PM |
| 2 | How old were you guys when you became consistently good at this game?Consistent frame? | /r/seduction | 03/03/25 06:34 AM |
| 1 | Cold approaching in the South Bay?Bro. Stonestown mall Serramonte mall oakridge mall valley fair mall great mall | /r/seduction | 28/02/25 05:28 AM |
| 0 | Girl I’m dating wants a relationship - me too but I also want to continue cold approachingAlways keep 2 in the kitty and oneitis should be a sin. Give her boyfriend vibes bro. Worst case scenario you guys break up but still have sex | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 03:53 PM |
| 0 | Girl I’m dating wants a relationship - me too but I also want to continue cold approachingI do the same bro. With my main we have talked about relationships and she has only been in relationships and it is where she feels most comfortable. I told her though that putting titles on things makes it feel pressured and rushed so it’s better to let things unfold naturally and just enjoy our time together as it is right now without any titles. I come approach and go on dates all the times. It’s been 6 weeks and have been on 4 dates. Sadly couldn’t close any, but yea she would be heart broke… | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Give me some advice. Second time this happened.So usually what I do is ask to kiss her. Or I hug her and then kiss her on. Jerk and if she looks receptive then I go for a kiss on the lips. But as of late I usually go “what would you do if I missed you right now” or “kiss me on the cheek. I want to see if you’re a good kisser” or something along those lines. But going for it is something I can work on forsure | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Have girl, want anotherI understand your excitement | /r/seduction | 24/02/25 01:36 PM |
| 1 | Have girl, want anotherHow do I know you? | /r/seduction | 22/02/25 09:05 PM |
| 1 | The emotional rollercoaster 🎢 | The secret to attracting and keeping womenThis is great article. How about some real life examples of how to amplify attraction and tension in early parts of a relationship | /r/seduction | 27/01/25 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Good timing is a factor no one mentions, but plays an important role in seductionI feel the same, like I’ve had luck with 18-21 year olds as of late. I’m 25. But usually the approach goes good. Then on date they’re open and adventurous so they’re done to go to a hotel or backseat of the car. But I definetly need practice to open up my type and create more options. | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Good timing is a factor no one mentions, but plays an important role in seductionYea, when you meet girls at the right time shit goes smoothly and ends up in a good situation, like mine getting laid during the weekend. So approach a lot and you will come across these girls | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Good timing is a factor no one mentions, but plays an important role in seductionJust she’s horny, you approached right so she feels you. She’s down to be with you and is attracted to you. Maybe same situation a few hours before or after would’ve been a rejection. | /r/seduction | 26/01/25 08:42 PM |
| 2 | If you could summarize in a phrase the right mindset in dating success, what would it be?Please give examples of sexualizing conversation the right way | /r/seduction | 25/01/25 08:14 AM |
| 1 | Good timing is a factor no one mentions, but plays an important role in seductionI don’t know about all that. I just know, if you meet chicks at the right time it can lead to sex pretty easily | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Why Meeting Women in Real Life Makes You UnstoppableYea. You’re not closing or doing enough volume each day | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 03:43 PM |
| 35 | Good timing is a factor no one mentions, but plays an important role in seductionYou forgot to add meeting girls at the right time that leads to getting laid. I went on a first date and we ended up skipping the date going to a parking lot, making out, then grabbing some food and fucking for the rest of the night. Good timing is the cause of this I think | /r/seduction | 23/01/25 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Can’t tell if this guys infield is real or fakeDamn, that’s is harsh lol. Game is definetly like chess. This guys content on his YouTube is pretty cool. No lie this is what I use for motivation when I go out and game | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Can’t tell if this guys infield is real or fakeYea, his game is tight though. You never know though | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Can’t tell if this guys infield is real or fakeYea I’ve been watching for the last couple of weeks and he definetly seems legit. His day game is crazy. Street game like this is super hard bro | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Can’t tell if this guys infield is real or fakeYou’ve watched his videos before? He seemed legit to me | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Can’t tell if this guys infield is real or fakeHow do you know? | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 11:10 PM |
| 2 | How normal is it to fumble?Explain more bro with examples. I get very good interactions during day game and some night game, but I fumble over text. Girls that are super ready to go on instantdates but have bad logistics txt me back right away, then I fumble over text. But yea post some examples bro | /r/seduction | 06/01/25 04:10 AM |
| 3 | What Spot's Work the Best for Cold Approaching?Target/ mall/ anywhere with lots of people I guess. | /r/seduction | 05/01/25 06:07 AM |
| 1 | How do you girls think a man should know how to treat you well / be good on a date?I’m reading heartiste of game. Learning a bunch of new concepts | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 06:36 PM |
| 2 | How do you girls think a man should know how to treat you well / be good on a date?Yes. It is just a ploy to distract you from what she really wants. | /r/seduction | 28/12/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | I made a post a while back. I finally did it, I approached and got the numberlol. My coach also has been teaching me about love bombing. I have been practicing that the last few days during day game. It’s hard for me because I’m not used to using flirty and cute language. But with practice, shit gets better | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 09:49 PM |
| 1 | I made a post a while back. I finally did it, I approached and got the numberBro, that is my problem. I try to be hella funny and flirty but I think it comes off as being desperate and having no hoes. I have an online coach Aaron Alexander at evolution daily who taught me a mindset of texting goes like you already have 10 fine ass hoes you’re texting | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 08:28 PM |
| 2 | I made a post a while back. I finally did it, I approached and got the numberHow are you texting. My text game is a little fucked up right now. Got about 7 numbers so far during this little holiday season but have fumbled every one so fat | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Am I doing it right?Damn I’ve cold approaches about 30 in the last month and have got like 5 numbers and no dates. My friends say I’m trying too hard. | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 03:47 AM |
| 2 | I'm 2h away from going to a friend's house to hook up and i feel super anxiousHow’d you meet her and get to the hook up point? | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Girl pushback when being cocky-funny. Advice?How are you messing up? | /r/seduction | 30/11/24 10:09 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of opportunities do you take during day game?Just walk up and say something. You will get more comfortable and motivated | /r/seduction | 27/11/24 09:10 PM |
| 9 | What percentage of opportunities do you take during day game?Bro, you see a girl on the street just go indirect and say whatsup. Do like 5 approaches a day then go home watch some infield, get motivated and then go out again and try the style you like. I’m new too but I go out and approach wherever I am. I’m still getting comfortable in convo so I’ve had a few kiss closes and lays from day game but no where near where I’m meant to be. Just practice and never be hard on yourself. Look in the mirror and see a boss at all times | /r/seduction | 26/11/24 11:39 PM |
| 1 | First date in a long timeWhere are you guys going? | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Beginner PlateauI work at a grocery store near a college campus. Same situation, can barely get past numbers. | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Where can I meet wingmen in south bay (San Francisco bay area)?Ok | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Bad kisser or she didn't want it to go too far on the first date?You should be the one breaking the kiss off first | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Where can I meet wingmen in south bay (San Francisco bay area)?I live in Santa Clara, ca | /r/seduction | 16/11/24 03:47 PM |
| 1 | feel lostTell story of how you fucked those three girls. My results are similar, but my logistics are fucked up due to me being on probation. Still, I work near a college and have only fucked 2 girls from this place, but both have been over 50. So yea let’s hear your stories bro. It’s all motivation. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Too manyTell your story, or inbox me | /r/seduction | 09/11/24 05:24 AM |
| 2 | It's not that difficult guysSo in a way stellar confidence with zero self doubt, staying out of your head and making yourself seem favorable and likable? | /r/seduction | 26/10/24 05:32 PM |
| 1 | New to the gameLol | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 02:21 PM |
| 1 | New to the gameI count a bj/fingering with out actual sex a .5. I got like 3 of those | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 01:53 PM |
| 1 | New to the gameLike the basic questions, but I remember to keep it emotional so I steer from the basics to deeper kind of fun questions which definitely get an emotional reaction, but I have a hard time transitioning to building attraction. I know being new comes with not recognizing certain body languages within myself but I know I must improve my mannerisms to improve how these chicks view me. But I think the playful comment instead of question will definitely improve my game a lot. | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 01:52 PM |
| 1 | What is your game centered on?Explain how touchy/feely/flirty look like in your interactions is what I meant | /r/seduction | 18/10/24 07:05 PM |
| 5 | What is your game centered on?Touchy/feely heart on sleeve is very effective. Please explain some examples how I can get better at this mindset. Girls love flirty, touchy feely and it makes it easier to escalate | /r/seduction | 17/10/24 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Are same day lays possible in 2024?In high school I met this girl on the bus. I had known her brother, but never met her. We chatted and I used to sell pills, so I invited her over to snort some Vicodin with me. We ended up fucking around and she sucked my dick, ass naked, for like 3 hours high as fuck off vicodin. Funny part is after that I had to go to a NA meeting for my friends probation and I found out it was his second cousin, lol. Will never forget this story. Only time I’ve ever came close to a same day lay outside of a p… | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 05:36 AM |
| -1 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"So I guess you never know. I feel like it is better that you have off sexual intent because she can only see you as a sexual partner now and every move she agrees too she will know sex will most likely be involved. | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"I went on a date with this one chick, I touched her lower back and she liked it a lot, so when we got to the next venue I escalated more by touching her inner thighs and back. She loved it but clammed up when I tried to finger her. I even tried taking her hand and making her grab my dick. The next time I tried to hang out with her, she ghosted me so I said fuck her. A week later we made a date at a hotel and I hooked up with her for a month. | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:15 PM |
| 3 | Tried following the advice on this sub - now she’s furious and saying I was harassing her?"What happened exactly? | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Scared to open up, 25What do you talk about on dates to lead up to a kiss and sexual tension? | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 08:39 PM |
| 2 | You have two choices: master Cold approach Pick-Up or face the possibility of remaining single indefinitely.My situation right now is | /r/seduction | 30/09/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | The fewest skills for Advanced game.How do you pump emotions?? Or turn her on?? My biggest struggle is attraction phase during day game | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Did I go too far?I had an encounter like this. She was wearing spicy lipstick she told me, so I used it as an opportunity to try to kiss her twice. She rejected me, but was very open and liking of me touching the small of her back, rub her inner thighs, grab her ass and touch her “cum spot” on her back. I didn’t really understand, but it ended up fizzling out, but at least I can leave that interaction knowing I was not friend zoned and she probably did not tell any of her friends that I am here to host a faggot … | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 05:23 AM |
| 1 | What is/was your goal?My goal is to find cool chick/s to have a great sexual relationship with. I’m new to game l, but I approach regularly so I believe in the results to come. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Chemistry doesn’t exist without physical escalation.What was your technique of escalating at the beginning you were talking about? | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Getting rejected by 200+ women in a row... now what?Amen to this. | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 06:05 AM |
| -4 | First dateBut I did think of all these | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 04:07 PM |
| -5 | First dateAmen to this but lol he ain’t gonna hurt me | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 04:07 PM |
| -8 | First datelol | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Making a girl invest over textExamples of escalation and excitement over txt | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Making a girl invest over textExamples? | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Making a girl invest over textExamples I can start using now to get her to invest | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 02:48 AM |
| 0 | Making a girl invest over textOk cool so broke a little rapport with some jokes about her job and her milk allergies and just shot to the date on Monday which she agreed to. But some people will say you should bridge to the date and seed the date and shit but I guess asking and seething the meeting place works fine. | /r/seduction | 30/08/24 02:25 AM |
| 1 | What now?Interaction, like the emotions she feels? I’m in the Bay Area right now | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 01:08 AM |
| 1 | What now?Precisely the reason why I have been starting to study pick up and seduction, and just trying to figure out where to even start. Any tips? | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 12:52 AM |
| 1 | What now?Amen bro 🙏 | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 10:13 PM |
| 1 | What now?No I do about 12 cold approaches a week and about 1-2 matches in dating site. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | What now?Probably 1-2 | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 09:35 PM |
| 1 | What now?lol I just am trying to come up with a plan on where to start | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 01:20 PM |
| 1 | What is game?Just be brief | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 06:09 PM |
| 1 | What is game?Explain more pls | /r/seduction | 17/08/24 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Creating a game planYou are right. She actually complained to my PO and is trying to move me out of her group lol | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Creating a game planHmmm | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Creating a game planHahah they say the weak die young. Jkjk but anyways bro u need some serious help | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Creating a game planlol, there’s a lot of fucked yo things I could say but I think you’ll be ok. Just keep chugging. I’m just trying to study more game fundamentals and mindsets so I can be more productive in the field going forward | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Creating a game planI feel bad for you bro 🥱 | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Creating a game planlol how? | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Creating a game planThat’s not much of a game plan | /r/seduction | 16/08/24 06:39 PM |
| 4 | First date adviceYea lol, my last lay was 55. I like about older women for some reason. They are more experienced | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach resultslol thank you? | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach resultsYea lol I light weight feel bad, but I was on like a 2 year dry spell, so idk. If she is reading this lol I hope we both had fun | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 06:42 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach resultslol, god is good | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach resultsOk, that is hard. I think with the Tesla making a move and asking for a ride, then technically going for sex and the chick at bus stop just trying to say what comes to mind and stay out of my head I guess. But tbh I don’t consider either of them successful because they were so awkward | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach resultsYea bro but it was awkward as fuck, like I got lucky as hell bro. But you are right though | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach resultsBtw my logistics suck. No visitors allowed at my place I’m on bus. I’m 6-7 male. 5’6 Latino, so I’m not ugly | /r/seduction | 10/08/24 02:41 PM |
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