I’m 27m Hispanic, 5’6. I have been struggling with getting any type of girls in my life. In the last 4 years I have only gotten laid twice without hookers. I have struggled with women since high school. I just can’t seem to connect and build any type of relationship, unless I am at a party and she has been pre warmed. I have started studying game and have been cold approaching and even got a coach. So I know if I work hard results will come after rejection which involves putting my ego aside. But I guess for now my main goal is to create a game plan to end this drought. Notes on my logistics. I live in a drug/ alcohol program because I got into trouble for reckless driving while drunk. Crashed into someone’s house. So I can’t have any visitors and I have curfew of 9:30pm M-Th and midnight curfew F-S. So please any advice. Another funny story from the week. I go to a therapy session every week as part of my probation. My counselor is a year older than me haha, but she’s pretty attractive. Over our last few sessions, I have been trying to get to know her through questions and rapport building (making her laugh and eye contact). When I ask logistical questions or questions about mistakes in the past, she declines to answer and tells me more about boundaries. lol our inside joke has been boundaries. But when I ask questions about her life and dreams, she answer pretty descriptively with lots of forethought and effort. I try to use disqualifications ( I can’t trust you because…) or qualifications ( does that make you a good person/ counselor) but she doesn’t react, she says “that’s fine, no big deal” to the disqualifications. She’s very analytical because she’s a counselor so she never answers things as yes or no, it is always yes and no, which make it fun to talk to her. But anyways a day after our last session, which I thought went good because I moved my chair closer to hers and was going to start breaking the touch barrier, she calls me and tells me she had to inform my probation officer that I over stepped some of her boundaries. She said I can still stay in her group and I wasn’t in trouble, but it was a warning. lol. Any advice how to move forward with this. And a game plan for the beginning of this article.