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GeoffreyDaGiraffe/r/seduction26/07/15 11:14 PM
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Are you in high school or college?
/r/seduction02/10/15 12:19 AM
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I used to manage a Toys R Us and hated when people would wreck our store doing shit like that. If you're gonna take your date to a toy store, don't be a dick.
/r/seduction26/08/15 04:56 AM
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It might look bad in the eyes of the girl you just broke up with; you mentioned not wanting to hurt her. When I broke up about 2 months ago, I created a Tinder and OKC profile a few days after. I thought the same way you did "let me get out and just meet people." I didn't know what to do with myself because the initial hurt of breaking up really got to me. My ex found these profiles through some of her single friends and it blew up in my face. She was really hurt by that and felt betrayed that I…
/r/seduction24/07/15 12:59 AM
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I just got over a breakup and we left the door open to possibly getting back together as well. I would say 2-3 weeks is too soon. For myself I realized I need to work on a lot for myself before I can get back into a relationship with my ex or someone new. I'm leaving myself open to possibilities but not really hitting the ground and approaching girls regularly. What it all boils down to is what do you want to do for yourself. If you're happy with how your own life is going then maybe after 4 wee…
/r/seduction23/07/15 11:58 PM
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Awesome concept, I'll definitely try this. Do you find that limiting texting to only logistics helps build attraction? Most girls I meet love to text. On a side note, I can totally relate to being a car guy. People come to me constantly wth car problems. My last GF has a Volvo that I worked on more than my own car lol.
/r/seduction22/07/15 06:40 PM
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Make eye contact, hold for a few seconds, if she seems open then say hi. Wash and repeat
/r/seduction22/07/15 06:31 PM
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It completely took me out of my AFC self and into a more confident version of myself. I learned how to be much more direct with women which lead to more dates. It also lead to me actually progressing up the Kino ladder and getting laid for the first time. Discovering this sub-reddit changed my life.
/r/seduction20/07/15 02:34 AM
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Just because you see some of yourself in her doesn't mean she has the same issues you had.
/r/seduction13/07/15 05:08 AM
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Day gam/activities for me consists of shopping, getting coffee or food, going to the beach, and hanging out at work on my days off sometimes. I just moved into an apartment so I really like to furnish it and get little knick-nacks for it. This has me going to Ikea, bed bath and beyond, home depot, etc. There is also generic cloth shopping and stuff to do. The other things are self explanatory like getting lunch or a snack. I work retail so sometimes on my day off I'll visit co-workers and just s…
/r/seduction10/07/12 05:29 PM
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So we're sitting there on the couch in the dark and she turns and kisses me on the cheek. For the ladies who pop in the sub reddit from time to time wondering how to get their FZ friend to like them; DO THIS^
/r/seduction03/07/12 03:36 AM
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It sucks, one of the last girls I was with is Bi, she left me because she wanted to pursue her lesbian tendencies more and even though we remained friends, she wanted to "stop talking to her exes for a while." I wish I could be going out with her like you did
/r/seduction03/07/12 03:06 AM
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POW POW CATALINA WINE MIXER!
/r/seduction05/06/12 04:21 AM
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Sounds like good advice to me!
/r/seduction05/06/12 04:10 AM
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So you # close the HB9.5? and the HB7?
/r/seduction30/05/12 02:31 AM
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BOOYA KA-FUCKING-SHA! I was jumping out of my seat screaming and clapping for you! This wins so much and I'm glad for you! Keep going and please share more! One question, How did you escalate initially from frozen yogurt to the first make-out?
/r/seduction30/05/12 02:17 AM
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I'd love to further explorer inter-car pickup. I remember once leaving a parking lot in a friends truck, I notice a car with 2 HB7's pulling in. I make eye contact with the passenger and she waves at me almost like I knew her (I didn't). I so badly wanted to turn around and but my friend wouldn't :(
/r/seduction21/05/12 05:26 AM
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"HB7 sits next to me on the couch, and promptly informs me that she is not sleeping with me, while simultaneously placing my hand on her thigh." What is this called? Anti slut defense or something?
/r/seduction21/05/12 05:20 AM
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Upvote for username and falling with style!
/r/seduction21/05/12 05:11 AM
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Is this just a bunch of guys trolling hard? Seems funny as hell just trying to get the jist of that link.
/r/seduction11/05/12 04:55 AM
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I use both, I find OKC to have a little more classy and higher quality results; maybe its just because it's more in depth. POF does have what seems to be A lot more users on it which is encouraging because I'm starting to run out of options on OKC; I see the same faces all the time. My strategy is the pretty much the same for both sites. If I see someone I'm interested in I will message them with the same style writing on both sites. Read their profile and try to write as unique a message as pos…
/r/seduction11/05/12 02:36 AM
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First stop texting her and trying to see her. You are holding on to any shred of her that you can because you think it will make you feel better. Its natural, you want what made you happy back but you have to realize you're not getting it back. Seeing her and talking to her will make your recovery process that much more difficult. I just went through this a few months ago and did the same thing. I kept telling myself we were just going to be friends and everything would be ok. But every time I s…
/r/seduction06/05/12 12:55 PM
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I'd like to advocate this. When I started reading here about 95% of all material was focused on picking up as many women as possible. There has been a shift away from that and I would like to see it continue as we all have different motivations. In the end this sub-reddit should be about being the best we can be no matter the ends.
/r/seduction26/04/12 04:01 AM
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keep us posted
/r/seduction24/04/12 02:27 PM
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are we progressing too soon?
/r/seduction24/04/12 02:10 PM
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I'm interested in this as well. Obviously there will be no "one right answer" as everyone is different but I'll ask anyway. If I'm looking for something more long term than just casual dating or sex, should I hold off on things like fooling around and having sex for as long as possible? The last 2 girls I was with both made the comment that things went too fast. The first of the two I waited about a week or two to actually have sex with but in the meantime and and after we pretty much settled in…
/r/seduction24/04/12 06:28 AM
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Here is my .02. Up until recently I think that I was using indirect approach even before I knew what PUA was. I got so hung up on hiding my intent that I could never get far and thus was always unsuccessful. I recently made a FR in uniseddit about a F-close I had and it pretty much stemmed from being more direct. Though my approach was indirect (I made a comment about class) I was pretty strait forward with my intents afterword and it worked!
/r/seduction24/04/12 06:14 AM
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Without reading any other comments my initial response is go out to dinner or some sort of date, then bring her back to your place for a movie or something of the sorts. It seems like it would be a safe bet since she seems so interested in you. Once you guys are watching a movie I'm sure you can escalate things and it will all be gravy after that.
/r/seduction23/04/12 11:54 PM
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LOVE IT
/r/seduction21/04/12 04:08 AM
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I can see your point but I wish you were there. I may have started to turn the tables with the last comment I made but I had my hands in my pockets and was just A&A 99% of the time. Maybe its just my perspective because I'm speaking about myself but if you could see it all unfold you would see I was just standing my ground (my spot in line) and thats it. I wouldn't say I blew myself out of my group of friends, they all just laughed about it after she moved on and if anything we had something to …
/r/seduction21/11/11 03:14 AM
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So I hope we're going to be getting progress reports.
/r/seduction20/11/11 04:20 AM
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Sadly no, I felt as cool as a cucumber when talking to that girl. Even before I went out for the night, while I was shopping for some stuff I was chatting up girls in the store no problem. Im not really used to going to bars/clubs and I guess I feel too out of my element. I also don't have any wingmen (not that I absolutely need any) but almost all my close friends are tied down. I figure it's something I need more exposure to, I also need to nut up more.
/r/seduction19/11/11 05:49 PM
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Inspirational to say that least. Sadly I'm ignorant to the '3 second rule,' could someone elaborate?
/r/seduction18/11/11 11:04 PM
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Good work, nice control!
/r/seduction08/10/11 01:24 AM
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I was watching some of their videos, they seem to echo most of the stuff often discussed here. One thing I wasn't so sure about was their straight forwardness. One video they show to to approach women in day-game settings. After they get the girl to stop they tell them how cute they are, how stylish they look, etc. Is this really a good idea? I was always under the impression compliments should be held off when possible.
/r/seduction06/10/11 02:05 AM
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Good read, but what about the whole "I'm in college and live at home" scenario? I'm trying to work around that by moving into the basement (shudders) but it is a fully finished apartment with shower, kitchen, bar, and complete with its own outside entrance. Would this fly when trying to bring someone back?
/r/seduction15/08/11 08:38 PM
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Act as if
/r/seduction09/08/11 03:20 AM
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sounds like an awesome night!
/r/seduction07/08/11 02:45 AM
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Awesome
/r/seduction24/07/11 12:56 AM
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Mine is/was oneitis. Before I even knew seddit existed let alone reedit I was seeig a girl I met on OKC. We instantly clicked and I felt comfortable with her. I was so comfortable with her that I started to advance farther than I had with any other girl. I was using good kino, push pull, negs, etc. Mind you this is before I read any pua material so I was just winging it. To make a long story short after hooking up a few times I prematurely told her "I love you," and shortly after she lost intere…
/r/seduction28/06/11 05:23 PM
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Well done! We need more of these!
/r/seduction27/06/11 05:53 PM
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*Results may vary.
/r/seduction21/06/11 03:05 AM
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So you kissed the friend or the original target?
/r/seduction05/05/11 05:14 AM
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take advantage of sales and coupons; I got 2 shirts for less than the price of 1 when I shopped there.
/r/seduction30/04/11 05:59 AM
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Haha its ok. Normally I'm not the kind of guy who worries about what clothes I wear but I figure I'd give it a try, and I guess it worked. I got some compliments from other people that night as well. all I had was a simple button down shirt, darkish jeans, and black sketchers. I was actually over-dressed for the venue though, I guess I should have checked it out before hand. Surprisingly enough I remember once when I was a 'guido' for Halloween in HS I got a lot of attention, I wore the same att…
/r/seduction29/04/11 10:07 PM
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This is the truth. I dropped the 'L' word too soon with another girl and it ruined the whole thing after that as well. At least we learn from our mistakes.
/r/seduction29/04/11 10:03 PM
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I wouldn't say I'm considering her I'm just more aware of things now like IoI's and such. We do have such a long history of trying to date since HS that it wouldn't surprise me if she tries to start something up again. I've always liked her, she's nice and not bad looking but I was never more then an AFC and always messed up somehow or she was away at school so it didn't workout. But we kept going back to each other I think because we were friends and it was an easy rebound or solution to being …
/r/seduction29/04/11 09:28 PM
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I said hi when I got to the bar, we took a picture together (he friend had a camera the whole night) and I got her 1 shot since it was her birthday but other than that I was playing pool or BSing with people. She kept commenting on how good I looked though. Part of my recent changes includes some new "going out" wardrobe which I got from Express, so that might have something to do with it. I think overall it was just the way I presented myself which she probably viewed as a more confident me. Al…
/r/seduction29/04/11 09:24 PM
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So was there any specific trick you used to stay out of your head?
/r/seduction23/04/11 10:42 PM
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I did this and almost lost my job... but if you could care less it's a great place to meet people.
/r/seduction14/04/11 12:39 AM
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Obviously each case is unique but I think you can be somewhat forward with the guy and not ruin what you already have. I was once on the other side of your situation (I'm a guy). One of my good lady friends came home for spring break a few years ago and asked me on a date, but I didn't realize at the time. I thought she was just asking me to come along with her, her sister, and sisters BF for a night out; (goes to show the mindset I was in). After I got home that night I was chatting with her on…
/r/seduction03/04/11 05:44 AM
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Thumbs up for "It's all in the legs."
/r/seduction02/04/11 08:27 PM
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I can game girls who come in the store alone or with friends no problem. It's almost never busy enough that I cant at least have a 2-3 minute chat. Its just when I see a mom and daughter come in (daughter clearly in my age range no pedo) that I usually don't do anything. I'll try the top down approach next time though!
/r/seduction01/04/11 05:23 PM
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Originally came here to learn how to approach and meet girls. While I'm still here to learn more of that I found that this community also improves my overall quality of life. I feel a lot better about myself and and generally much happier than I was only 2 months ago. But to answer the topic question I'm trying to find a that special one, buy I have to weed through all the others first.
/r/seduction01/04/11 04:23 PM
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Amazing [Fr] have you ever dealt with a parent/daughter combo before? I work in retail as well and get some instances of daughters with their parents and always viewed the parent as a barrier.
/r/seduction01/04/11 04:13 PM
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You got it man do work.
/r/seduction30/03/11 04:01 AM
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I love the DHV logistics you used. Having recently turned 21 I can finally go to bars and clubs. Having worked at 2 for 5 summers since I was 15 gives me a huge rapport with both former employers and I'm pretty much a VIP. I can't wait to take advantage of it.
/r/seduction24/03/11 05:31 PM
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What are your thoughts on compliments?
/r/seduction22/03/11 02:11 AM
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^ this is what you need to do. Your going to have to make the first move, its pretty much standard that its on us guys to do. Read the Dicarlo's escalation ladder. Start out with the basic class 1 and 2 Kino and you will know if she wants you to go further.
/r/seduction18/03/11 12:36 AM
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When you catch her looking over at you, MAKE EYE CONTACT. If you use the 3 second rule and follow up with saying something then your in.
/r/seduction17/03/11 09:42 PM
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Need more like this
/r/seduction17/03/11 09:37 PM
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Listen to this man and watch this clip from "Boiler Room" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTFU9c9MrkE ACT AS IF
/r/seduction17/03/11 03:14 AM
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Sounds good to me. I gotta try this technique at my work. there are a ton of other stores in the shopping center with cute girls. I think I might call this the hit and run tactic. Build some rapport over multiple visits and go for a close at the third or fourth trip.
/r/seduction17/03/11 03:07 AM
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Good FR, hopefully you'll see her again and exploit any second chance you get. Your not doomed for anything. Just like you got passed your AA you'll get passed your escalation block. I'm not even at your point yet but I have hope, you should too.
/r/seduction16/03/11 03:23 AM
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I just pulled this off in the car. My friend was driving and we pull up to a light. Next to me is a HB8, dirty blonde hair, smoking a cigarette (blech) but I look over and wait for her to do the same. She looks at me and I don't budge for at least 5 seconds. I smirked then turn away knowing nothing was going to become of it. I felt BA for the rest of the night lol.
/r/seduction16/03/11 03:17 AM
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This is why I subscribe to Seddit. Its full of win.
/r/seduction15/03/11 09:17 PM
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What bar is this!? Star wars and WoW girls go there!? Sounds like an awesome place. Keep up the good work.
/r/seduction12/03/11 08:14 PM
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You got no kino. That's a funny way to phrase it. Kino is not something you get, it's something you bring to the interaction. You give it. Like you said I phrased it funny. I didn't mean it as in I didn't receive any, I meant it like "I didn't get enough practice in this week." I appreciate your clarification it makes perfect sense now.
/r/seduction11/03/11 05:22 AM
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You sharing being in state helps others get into state. Good man.
/r/seduction11/03/11 02:21 AM
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I think I see your point but I'm still a bit ignorant. When you say I'm too reactive... give me an example if possible. How should I have reacted or not reacted to her shit test. I don't take any offence to what your saying I just want to make sure I'm getting the point.
/r/seduction11/03/11 02:15 AM
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This works the best for me. I was just friend zoned this morning and I felt like shit right after. about an hour after it happened I was talking to my dad about it and I felt a lot better after that. Then I decided I would just go out and do something so I went clothes shopping. Without even thinking about it I was chatting up one of the girls who worked at the shop and found myself using some game; it was completely natural. Nothing became of it but I'm already over my rotten luck from this mor…
/r/seduction11/03/11 01:32 AM
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I've got an Asian friend who is probably your height if not shorter and he is a hell of a lot better at PUA than I am. Granted I'm as green as you are when it comes to this but he has some good game. I'm not going to tell you to "sack up and start slaying" because your right its not that simple. I still have my V-card just like you and probably was just as frustrated as you. What I found worked for me was to take baby steps. Every small victory built my confidence up enough to where I am almost …
/r/seduction11/03/11 12:49 AM
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I realized that we were texting too much and thats mostly why I didn't send her any yesterday; in addition to genuine lack of free time. As I responded to revolved I noticed that our conversation would lose steam fast and I figured if I stopped texting too often then when we did speak or see each other it would have that oomph. I definitely realized over texting is a killer a while ago I just didnt follow through wit that on this time through.
/r/seduction11/03/11 12:34 AM
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well my question is how would I respond to this shit test? I found this out this morning and things have been quiet all day. I told her I was surprised and asked if there was any particular reason she felt this way (probably not the best response). This might be some note worthy information. She is 17 almost 18 and I'm 21. This is the largest age gap I've dated and noticed some things. It almost seemed at first that she was a typical school girl in love when she was talking to me. She seemed VER…
/r/seduction11/03/11 12:26 AM
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So I got back to class again and instead of scheduling a time that we would meet I said "could we exchange notes after I get out of my other class." she wasn't sure what she would be up to at that time so she said "just text me when your out and we'll see what's up." TL;DR I got her number.
/r/seduction28/02/11 04:17 PM
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Well its official. Tuesday night at a Japanese restaurant near her!
/r/seduction27/02/11 04:04 AM
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believe me I'm always careful with what I say but this girl is just as witty and can roll with the punches, she delivers some as well; its the type of girl she is other wise I wouldn't have used that one. I appreciate the advice guys!
/r/seduction24/02/11 09:39 PM
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I don't have a specific date yet, I'm on vacation till Friday and don't know what my work schedule will be next week yet. As soon as I do I'm making it official.
/r/seduction23/02/11 06:45 PM
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It's a valuable 2 cents, I want experienced people to come and comment on it so others (and myself can learn.) I really got lucky with the whole thing. I didn't go into it expecting that until the moments just before it happened, so it was a seat of the pants kind of thing. I do recall reading that it might not be a bad idea to let the girl think that she came up with the idea; that's kinda where I was going with that.
/r/seduction23/02/11 05:11 AM
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This. win.
/r/seduction23/02/11 03:32 AM
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Too long : didn't read. It's like saying "here's what matters." Good FR, reading stuff like this always boosts my morale as im sure it does for others. How did you meet her in the first place?
/r/seduction21/02/11 04:40 AM
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this was all comments on her facebook status. I then followed it up with the personal message leaving her my #.
/r/seduction21/02/11 12:56 AM
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I'm going to abbreviate names but here is a transcript for ya. A bit of background, she was at dinner with said family friend and her aunt which is the mutual connection we have. Me: Oh boy it looks like G and your aunt are working hard to get us setup lol. Her:they spent about 20 minutes talking about it during dinner. and then it took greg 5 tries to take a picture haha. me: Yeah I'm surprised G could figure out how to send a text message, with a picture attached none less. He kept saying he w…
/r/seduction21/02/11 12:54 AM
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All of the above was just back and forth comments on her status. then I followed up with the personal message leaving her my #.
/r/seduction21/02/11 12:53 AM
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You read my mind.
/r/seduction20/02/11 02:00 AM
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I definitely agree with you guys. Here is a short follow up. Yesterday I was in the same class and sat in the same spot. She was practically waiting for me! Before I could sit down she asked how I was etc. Great convo and she beat me to it, she asked for my name. So we Kept talking throughout the class and it was light and funny. At the end I said "hey could you do me a favor, Im not going to be here next class could you take notes for me?" She said "yeah as long as you remember my name." all wi…
/r/seduction19/02/11 09:41 PM
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Upvote for more input, I may have a wingwoman helping me out as well. What would I be called if I were to help her out and is this possible lol?
/r/seduction16/02/11 03:19 AM
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Good fucking man. I do look forward to more FR's
/r/seduction15/02/11 04:08 AM
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Short and sweet, thank you sir.
/r/seduction14/02/11 01:45 AM
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I haven't seen anything on the side bar yet but I'll chime in. I don't think it's creepy or at least it shouldn't be as long as your not creepy. The hardest part is once you initiate you have to change the topic from work to something more casual or personal. Lets say you work at best buy and see a cute girl. You approach and ask if she needs help finding anything. 7/10 they will say "no I'm just looking." If you know what your doing (I'm not this good yet) you can still converse with her and tr…
/r/seduction13/02/11 10:38 PM
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I agree, this forum is great for anyone especially AFC's. I love reading on here because I always leave my house in a better mood having done so.
/r/seduction13/02/11 06:37 PM
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I agree with calling more but it's hard to do right off the bat. What if the girl is at work, in class, etc and can't answer. A text message can be read and hopefully replied to in these situations. Once a schedule is figured out or at least a phone call window is established then we can call without fear of being inopportune.
/r/seduction13/02/11 06:26 PM
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I've never really thought of it in PUA terms before but I've just "known" when the time is right. I remember my first kiss was on the drive home from a friends house with my date. We pulled up to the first red light and it happened. Thinking back on it we were holding hands and etc. the whole night while watching the movie so I would have to say Kino is the way to go.
/r/seduction11/02/11 03:09 AM
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Here are the cold hard facts: A: I am more attracted to down to earth "non party girls" B: Most of my anxiety or reason for avoiding "party girls" is the part atmosphere it self and my fear of not fitting in with the girl or the crowd What I've come up with is this; I've gotta stop thinking in preconceived notions and give all girls a try regardless of what they do. If I can find myself a girl who is more reserved like I am than great, if not then I have to keep trying with thats out there. Like…
/r/seduction08/02/11 11:21 PM
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This is true, there is definitely an intimidation factor there. When I think of the kinds of girls I was discussing, in the back of my mind im worried about not being able to "keep up" with them; fearing I'm not as social and thus will "fail" in a party setting with them.
/r/seduction08/02/11 11:13 PM
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Anything is possible; this is what I'm trying to figure out.
/r/seduction08/02/11 06:50 PM
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Ok, saying I'm turned off might be a bit extreme but definitely I become weary and start to back down. Maybe there is an underlying anxiety of being in those kinds of situations (parties, clubs, bars) so when I see a girl who enjoys those things I can't imagine myself being with her, there...
/r/seduction07/02/11 09:03 PM
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I've noticed the "types" of girls as well. Maybe its just the part of the country I'm in, but I can 8/10 of the time figure out if a girl is one of those typical party types that blends in with the rest but is good looking kind of girls. I'm not into big parties or clubs and always trying to find a girl who is similar in that respect and they are rare!
/r/seduction07/02/11 08:35 PM
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Having a hard time visualizing this...
/r/seduction07/02/11 08:28 PM
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I know you just met this girl yesterday but try talking AS IF you've known her for a bit. Ask her how her class was yesterday or how things are in life, at her work or find out if she even has a job. If she asks you something similar tell her how your day was, but be brief; don't tell her your life story. "Act as if..." is a great line from Boiler Room (movie). From the sound of things I think your already past the hardest part which is breaking the ice. You should feel much more confident about…
/r/seduction27/01/11 11:07 PM
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This may very well be the case but She can't fault you for trying and neither can you fault yourself. What about if and when you dated someone from high school and then you broke up, I'm sure you would run into that person all the time in school or around town; its just a part of the deal and it will happen. And if your worried about what other people will think if they see you or find out you got turned down so what? There are even more people in your shoes who wouldn't have even made the attem…
/r/seduction26/01/11 11:15 PM
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so maybe this approach needs some modification. What if we drop the asking for THEIR name and just say "hi hows it going?" break the ice and possibly give our own name first and got from there?
/r/seduction26/01/11 07:49 PM
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It's natural to worry about the downside of things like "what if she says no" but you cant let that stop you. I'm the worst when it comes to following my own advice but you have to go for it. Think of THE WORST that can happen; you approach a girl and she denies you, gives you the cold shoulder, etc. Your not going to get physically hurt from the experience and at the end of the day haven't lost anything. The reason I'm asking about this specific situation is because I haven't tried it. This mig…
/r/seduction26/01/11 07:47 PM
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