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| 2 | Since ageing is inevitable - why are women still being pushed to marry and have children young?Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 03:26 PM |
| 1 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeThanks for the solutions, but I’m actually not dealing with the problems you’re solving for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/25 01:05 AM |
| 3 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeI see where you’re coming from, but I think there’s a misunderstanding about what it means to feel ‘bored’ in a relationship. The idea that a relationship should be ‘good enough’ despite stagnation or disengagement is where I disagree. If someone feels emotionally disconnected (from) or unfulfilled, it’s not a sign that they lack self-assurance or that they’re somehow ‘failing’ in their own personal growth. It’s simply an indication that the relationship is not meeting their needs, which is a va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 10:17 PM |
| 4 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeI’m definitely not alluding to the intolerance of a boring day or a bad week where something is going on but if your relationship feels boring in of itself for any party there is something wrong. I don’t believe this “honeymoon phase” anyway, it’s made up and created and more in others control than we like to believe. It’s all about your mentality and philosophy of relationships. But, people settle and hide issues under the rug to keep someone there and that’s where we see fights to keep things … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 07:30 PM |
| 12 | If you have no kids, there´s honestly no reason not to leave your boring, unappealing husband/boyfriend and seek a better lifeCall me crazy but I don’t think relationships should even be “boring”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 02:03 PM |
| 3 | This subreddit seems to think women must choose between horny sociopaths and asexual men.I understand that this was originally related to the idea of being “suppressed” due to culture, particularly as a man, but I relate to this mentality and sense of “apathy” as a reasonably attractive and feminine woman. Back in middle school, when my peers were beginning to explore social-sexual excursions, I didn’t really understand it. I thought I just needed more time to develop, other times theorized girls were pretending or dressing up their interests for validation. I also thought guys were… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/25 04:15 PM |
| – | A Woman’s Age Is an Important Metric for Stable Men To Consider For A LTR“This is ridiculous! but I also completely agree” - you Bro what 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 09:02 PM |
| – | A Woman’s Age Is an Important Metric for Stable Men To Consider For A LTRThe funny part it’s not about teaching young women to marry younger to their peers. It’s about older men having their pick and believing they are owed the crème de le creme which is how these posts come along from the unmarried bitter 35+ men themselves who throw the onus on their peers and chase young women for validation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 07:48 PM |
| – | A Woman’s Age Is an Important Metric for Stable Men To Consider For A LTRWhy is the onus on women in terms of risk factors and not men? A great proportion of people in modern day don’t make good long term partners men and women included. I turned 27 and have a conservative body count of two, lost my virginity at 21, and never sought out someone loaded despite being objectively attractive. The truth a lot of men want sex from women easy prior to having a relationship because it’s the norm, or they see you as some challenge when you tell them your history which makes d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 07:18 PM |
| 1 | If you’re waiting 3 dates (or a month) to fuck someone, you would have been better off having a hookup and fucking immediately.Prude low count girl who didn’t want to present her pussy for experience farming = Evil Gregarious slut that liked you enough after a first date to present herself = Evil They both generate and create insecurity in certain men because it’s as if one girl requires to see how special he is during courting to be chosen (She is not a one dimensional fantasy anymore, but human) and the other doesn’t make him feel special enough (The fantasy for the night) What men here want out of sex often doesn’t e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 05:08 PM |
| 2 | If you’re waiting 3 dates (or a month) to fuck someone, you would have been better off having a hookup and fucking immediately.Clever comment hahaha (; | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/24 04:42 PM |
| – | The age gap stigma is a silly modern social construct which has been perpetuated by womens jealousy and is actually a product of hookup culture + feminismSilly, we don’t count. It’s just those 40+ year old hags pining over that they weren’t chosen by the same internet sloths typing over an alarm that was set to remind them to apply minoxidil and cancel their fauxbait subscription before they get overdrafted again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 01:35 AM |
| – | The age gap stigma is a silly modern social construct which has been perpetuated by womens jealousy and is actually a product of hookup culture + feminismInteresting. It seems like you’re regurgitating lazed information from ear without being able to tell us where you’ve received this information. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 01:24 AM |
| – | The age gap stigma is a silly modern social construct which has been perpetuated by womens jealousy and is actually a product of hookup culture + feminismYou’ve read wrong and with your feelings. Try again without strawmanning king. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 01:07 AM |
| – | The age gap stigma is a silly modern social construct which has been perpetuated by womens jealousy and is actually a product of hookup culture + feminismWhat’s with PPD and wanting to fuck people young enough to be their children until the day they drop dead all while wishing to be unscathed by judgment? 19 year old Cruz Beckham’s 28 year old girlfriend is being ripped to shreds by other women/girls where they wouldn’t bat an eye if the sexes were reversed because it’s old news and more “normal”…why are you crying still and acting like this only applies to men? This woman is casted as a demon and is talked about like they want to violently rip t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Women in American society are poor prospects.Sane comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 10:34 PM |
| -3 | Do men still prefer to be the main breadwinner? And what would the ideal wife be in this scenario?What’s your favorite lipstick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Women should not complain about being left for younger woman18+ older men attracting <30 women to be with them instead of someone around their age (like statistically supported amongst all age groups) is unusual though. Getting your money up there is your best chance at getting the women you want throughout time rather harping on Reddit. I’m mentioning this because you realistically wouldn’t feel compelled to be post this if you were indeed receiving the attention of younger women. Go outside and actually talk to people in age gap relationships like I do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 01:30 PM |
| 6 | Women should not complain about being left for younger womanRight, most women 40+ do find the average man younger than them more physically attractive than the average man 40+, the difference is they just tend to worry about perception. I’ve paid attention enough since I was a teenager to notice this with older women; even swift side comments by teachers to other teachers and such passed off as “playful”. It’s also not particularly rare as is thought for women to have flings with younger men after long relationships with men their age/older for the sex. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 01:13 PM |
| – | Do you actually only find a tiny fraction of men attractive?I relate to this hard honestly. It’s definitely been much more than 3 for me though, but, still not even nearly close to as often as what the average man experiences with noticing attraction with women on or offline, so much so that It’s almost perplexing when I’m effected by a man’s appearance because I forget men can be so beautiful even unconventionally. I wonder what the science behind this is. It clearly feels refreshing for us when it’s experienced indicating that aesthetic attraction is a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 01:25 AM |
| – | "Men would fuck anything" is just female fantasy for them to feel more attractive than they really areNah all women are coquettish minx’s desperate for relationships, which is why birth rates are low and dating apps desperately employ bots to entertain men because the ratios are insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 03:02 PM |
| – | "Men would fuck anything" is just female fantasy for them to feel more attractive than they really areNot my experience nor am I an “older women” 🤷🏻♀️ You’re definitely presumptive though. I’m taking what has proposed by YOU guys on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 02:50 PM |
| 118 | "Men would fuck anything" is just female fantasy for them to feel more attractive than they really areThis sub: Men don’t fuck everything, that’s a cope. We have standards! Also this sub: If you’re an older woman still getting a lot of attention remember men will fuck anything, it’s not genuine, don’t flatter yourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Women are equally as guilty when it comes to “the wall” stereotypes.Those are exceptions though just like Emrata or Alexa Demie and others are exceptions. The average everyday man ages just as poorly (if not worst) than the average women; men think they don’t because women are simply more forgiving of physical appearance and men don’t face the same repressions as the less sexualized beauty-centric sex. Most of those men you used as examples still looked better young regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, listen to men when they tell you about how they view women agingI have the ugly-younger-to-milf-pipeline gene 🧬 I hear nothing of the wall. /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 11:28 PM |
| – | Ladies, listen to men when they tell you about how they view women agingShit. Emily Ratajkowski is more attractive at 34 than the average 20 something year old. She could turn me out any day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 10:35 PM |
| 13 | Ladies, listen to men when they tell you about how they view women agingThat’s why they scream it at the top of every rooftop. If all women fully validated the wall that would benefit men. Men who believe this aren’t trying to help women, they’re trying to help themselves. If a women happens to not give a shit or simply exist if she is single at 30+ notice how she’s bullied. They claim they aren’t attracted, they’re invisible, etc…yet care about her affairs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 10:30 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, listen to men when they tell you about how they view women agingThis isn’t a women this is a man pretending to be a women in hopes women will absorb the take better. Notice how the wall isn’t 30+ (the median proposed age women turn into corpses) here it’s changed to 28+….definitely a dude lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 10:26 PM |
| – | Dating apps and social media give women an extreme power imbalance in relationshipsThat’s your worldview because you attract desperate women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 05:21 PM |
| – | The preference of some men for very older women or very fat women is because these men have romanticized what they perceive as sexually availableAnd it definitely doesn’t stop at 18. Hard for them to tell a 14, 16, & 18 year old apart if they’re attractive and their ween is biased. They have no moral qualms just legal ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 01:56 PM |
| – | Men who were undesirable in their youth but managed to become succesful and confident and desirable later on in their life are absolutely entitled to go through a "hoe phase"Would a 50yo man with children have a higher “SMV” than childless? Wouldn’t it be relative…. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 02:00 AM |
| – | Is Chad generally blue pilled?Projection. Ice your ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 01:25 AM |
| 3 | It does feel like the Blue Pillers here are committed to making men feel like they're never the prizeDon’t be afraid to go outside. Any women, especially the more attractive will whither into themselves once they know you’re unironically using terms such as “SMV”….once you use that terminology it’s time for you to spend some time off this cope sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?I think it’s admirable honestly from a non virginal <30 herself. I’ve known a couple of virgins 25+ that are conventionally attractive and can afford to be picky because not only are they beautiful but are holding something they feel is integral to them that they want to share with the right person. Even Adriana Lima lost her virginity at 27 even though she had access to “top men” she waited for someone legitimate…why can’t these women? Our relational attitudes in this country are irresponsible … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Do you think unattractive women exist?I get burn victims but why mention “30 year old virgins” why shouldn’t she have high standards? This sub is infatuated with the number 30… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Why do so many guys have a seething hatred for single moms?“That’ll show em” ahh comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 04:07 PM |
| 5 | If you're a woman and you can't find a husband and kids by 40, it probably wasn't meant to be anyways.According to them it’s all over tiktok so it must reflect reality and not their creepy algorithm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 07:19 PM |
| 2 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyI was just thinking this…full circle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 08:49 PM |
| 2 | CMV: women with delusional standards due to sexual attention from appealing men are the functional equivalent of men who fall for strippers who just want their moneyAnd no one wants a single dad with baby mom baggage/trust issues (or potentially the reason he broke [committed treason] against his own family) -either. It’s all fair. No ones ideal is a single parent….why do you guys act like this is revolutionary? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 08:45 PM |
| 8 | Women's SMV is the highest in history, when will it come down?They’re created to spread their seed so saying “just have standards” is futile. Think about why 🌽 addiction is a huge issue and why it’s revolutionized culture so much in the first place. It hacks into their biological weakness. Think about how many men have became and will become rich and earning cumulative billions based off of men’s weaknesses and taking advantage of the fact by pushing more obtuse genres onto them for profit. It runs deep. Not to say men can’t have romantic standards but men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 11:32 AM |
| – | What would you describe as a man repellent outfit, hair or makeup look?I’m surprised men don’t bother you “natural” considering you’re quite literally very pretty and men are known to do it anyway. For example my sister is butchy and 30+ (elderly according to this sub) and she still gets hit on by men…so? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 10:15 AM |
| 2 | The wall is a fact and you don't do women any favors by denying itIt’s not “rapid” at 30 rather a slight decline and then from 35-40 rapid. Many sources reflect this. I saw someone write fertility declines at 22 here…why is there so much misinformation with PPD men? “The fecundity of women decreases gradually but significantly beginning approximately at age 32 years and decreases more rapidly after age 37 years, reflecting primarily a decrease in egg quality in association with a gradual increase in the circulating level of follicle-stimulating hormone” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Ever feel insulted by the caliber of women who show interest in you?All humans are superficially attracted; with the “deeper” attributes serving as an affirmative to that attraction or bias (for many people) You too are guilty of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Why do men care if older single women are lonely?So….you do care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Why do men care if older single women are lonely?It doesn’t bother me if any demographic says “they’re happy single” including old men. You seem to be bothered by 30+ saying they’re happily single because of your own bias toward that demographic and so saying “we don’t care” is inaccurate because that would allude to total indifference and the attacking 30+ women online would cease to exist. OP wasn’t even referring to women who are bashing men online and complaining about dating (something….everyone does anyway but a particular demographic is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 02:06 PM |
| – | Women that hit thirty are nowhere near changing their behaviour in this day and age. They act just like early twentiesYou’re writing this to her but you’ve literally have been divorced and I’m sure comprehend the fact that it’s harder than men to get laid than woman and find it more difficult to form close social relationships. I’m essentially pointing at you as you sound bitter to write this to another woman and while I don’t blame you, you, also should see there’s low hanging fruit on your circumstances as well as her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 10:56 PM |
| – | What percent of average young women do you think would be open to being respectfully approached by an average young man and be open to going on a date from it?Most young woman aren’t in relationships though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/24 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Women that hit thirty are nowhere near changing their behaviour in this day and age. They act just like early twentiesSpecify Americans* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Women that hit thirty are nowhere near changing their behaviour in this day and age. They act just like early twentiesNo one is chasing men, you’re correct. This is why RP exists. Also flawed stats to make your point as most American relationships and marriages fail- 50% of US marriages end in divorce. Our culture is a wreck and we lack discipline in our society so being 30+ and currently single is not the harpoon you guys want to believe it is and that’s coming from an under 30 herself. The people who think they won’t be single will have probability staked against them even when things are seemingly working ou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 07:42 PM |
| 5 | Women that hit thirty are nowhere near changing their behaviour in this day and age. They act just like early twentiesIs it really a disadvantage tho? Most relationships (and 50% of marriages in america) fail and that leaves those many people single at points of life so dating options for 30+ aren’t as scarce as people make it out to be. The odds are staked against us all it doesn’t matter if you’re hot, rich, or not. Everyone is at a disadvantage to probability and that’s the scary truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/24 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Attraction to older women (30+) is more unusual than attraction to legal teensHaha cute reply but I’m in my 20s. Keep coping though it’s fun to see delulu IRL red flags creep within the recesses of the internet and clutch their pearls of logical fallacies while masterfully perpetuating their misery and further ruining their chances of getting pusi. Stay fuming winner (; | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps should be banned for women under 25But she’s 25+ and is hitting/hit the wall. Should’ve dated her younger. You lose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Attraction to older women (30+) is more unusual than attraction to legal teensBig feelings you have there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/24 01:20 PM |
| 4 | Q4Men: what will you do if your daughter is 32 and unmarried and single?Ha, I’d place my bets that you wouldn’t be saying this to your son if he’s single at 30 or even 40. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 02:58 PM |
| – | Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort.Same for me, leave when that honeymoon phase fizzles out and detach ASAP is my advice to women. Listening to the crying and begging from women is angersome because I feel sorry for them but also that they don’t listen and continue pulling at a setting and contort in different ways. This emotional externalization and love tantrum is almost designed to shoot themselves in the foot with subjecting their tender feels with the level of emotional intelligence from men of which I forgive since they can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 03:55 PM |
| – | Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort.Correct OP! unless he’s a unicorn, or at least off of Reddit, don’t let them change your mind with backtracking because if this truth was universally accepted by women it would squander their practice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 03:46 PM |
| – | Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort.He won’t linearly answer anything so take into account how he treats casual conversation on the internet and briefly imagine how he’s contributed to his relationshits that require a sense of intellectual honesty and social logic if this social practice is hardwired in the casual. Don’t respond and play the game OP, just salute and boot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 03:40 PM |
| – | Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort.Opt out of relationships for the love of fucking god. This has nothing to do with you being a man either it’s that combo of strawmanning while whining- completely overthrowing the original reference points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 03:37 PM |
| – | Most relationships end because men take advantage of their partner and stop putting in effort.Ding ding ding | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Love bombing vs feigning low interestThe orgasm self esteem fairy? What’s the point if you’re not using your “john”? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Love bombing vs feigning low interestMentally unstable women is TRP’s bread and butter, they’ll use these tactics to “avoid” the crazy despite their tactics designed to catching crazy broken women and ape scratch their heads while they go back to the drawing board for more strategies not realizing they’re perhaps they are their own problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 02:05 PM |
| – | Do you feel like you actually have an advantage over men in terms of relationships?Your ideal women is your age even though in your last responses you denigrate 30+ women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel like you actually have an advantage over men in terms of relationships?Unfortunately, a lot of beautiful women in their 20s are settling for average men and wasting precious years which is why they’re being encouraged by older women on the tok to look for money if dating older men instead of wasting youth being “humble” and forgiving but also because beauty sells with men and diverts them just as easily. We all know old men in their mid 30s, 40s+ are usually not as physically attractive as they used to be when looking purely into the physical, but since we are attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbagLife is short, you’ll leave when you realize this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 02:14 PM |
| – | Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbagWhat do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 02:09 PM |
| – | Being slightly neurodivergent is more of a dealbreaker for most women than being a complete scumbagI’m Neurodivergent myself (ADHD, unsure if I have ASD though) but even then would never date a man I clock as ASD for those reasons you wrote precisely, so many identical stories. Men already have less of a disadvantage at emotional gratuity/empathy than woman and men with ASD less so and who are much more likely to experience alexithymia and issue where someone has issues identifying their emotions thus unable to properly empathize with themselves. I had the same experience as you with one part… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/24 01:38 PM |
| 3 | Feminists try to shame men out of their advantages in the dating marketAn old head playing games while being out of his physical prime = the dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/24 06:53 AM |
| – | The wall is real and provable with statisticsMy point still stands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | The wall is real and provable with statisticsThe same thing could easily be said for older men pursuing younger woman. The truth is men and woman don’t want much to do with those significantly older than them without putting more weight on an exchange value in comparison to traditional relationships of any sort. Older men 55+ could dream of younger woman wanting them solely for sex, so I’m sure there’s precedence of jealousy in the circumstance. All in all no one really “wins” (at least for the large majority at that age) -in terms of legi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 02:08 PM |
| 2 | The wall is real and provable with statisticsThis matter done been living rent free in your guys minds more than Women. Just live life, you’re not trying to save anyone and this matter is rehashed by men to feel heard, comfortable, or even in some capacity and it’s tired. Besides, men do tend to be struggle more than Women in elderly age and continually do less well (socially) than their elderly peers. Women do have it “easier” in many aspects of life than men in the grand scheme of things and it’s a tough pill to swallow. Women would stil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 01:53 PM |
| 2 | What experiences or observations do you think leads to someone being “misandrist”? What experiences or observations do you think leads to someone being “misogynistic”?Rape/crime statistics don’t paint men in a favorable light, so, when you take into perspective a women who let’s say had been abused and who recognizes this to further her pre-existing bias in where she then goes on a dating app where she’s sexually harassed then hears/sees constant disparaging about 30+ women from men who then at some point happens upon a porn website where all you can find on the front page is teen, barely legal, faux bait, and incest porn implying this is what most men want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: How would you feel if your SO regularly watched pr0n?Lol such smart, nuanced take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/24 11:44 PM |
| 7 | Q4M: How would you feel if your SO regularly watched pr0n?Because women are the direct subject of porn and are generally sexualized more than men so the threat is next to nothing. However, if the objective were hot, young (18-29), fit, full headed, and huge cocked men (ala young James Franco or Jacob Elordi) paired with women being as likely invest in porn and exchange notes then much more men would have an issue especially as they age. Unfortunately for women, what we have male wise in porn are unattractive, older, or faceless men to keep the momentum… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/24 05:05 PM |
| 4 | Is porn addiction a factor in how negatively women see the average man?Eating dinner with your kids and wife to porn is pretty batshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 07:57 PM |
| – | Women face no significant penalty when dating in their 30sWhich is why often times you find certain NEETS/Incels orbiting confident 30+ content creators on TT to try to knock them down a peg. Things not fitting their narrative deeply scares them, akin to narcissistic rage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/24 06:18 PM |
| 13 | "They're only being nice because they want sex" - yeah, and there is nothing wrong with thatWhat in his comment signifies him living in a “fairy-tale” exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 11:48 PM |
| – | Your girl wants to go clubbing without you, how bad Is It?Right…..but you’re taking his “level” of insecurity to account when there are other factors to how that may be manifesting but you’re making his insecurity the pinnacle of the issue again hence my response to things that contribute to his apparent atrocity in how you’ve framed it. You’re saying she’s not doing anything wrong but now saying she’s a dick. Think. That’s all lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 01:38 PM |
| – | Your girl wants to go clubbing without you, how bad Is It?I agree but, the bragging is a pretty seedy thing to do regardless if you KNOW your partner is already “insecure”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 01:28 PM |
| – | Your girl wants to go clubbing without you, how bad Is It?What the- | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/23 01:25 PM |
| – | How do average looking guys get 10/10 Western women? Why is there less dating inflation abroad?^ This is why beautiful/pretty women should raise or maintain their standards. OP is your salary at least very high to incentivize a lovely lady with that audacity of yours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/23 06:38 PM |
| – | Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young womenLmaooo they’ll call you a grifter/simp. To hell with these creeps though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 12:46 AM |
| – | Women hate age gap relationships because they are scared of being tossed aside in favour of young womenYou seem itchy and bitter - A women in her 20’s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Trendline established, as of 2023 top 5% responsible for 50% of all sex; sexual loneliness seen as public health concernYou’re right. Functional men and women don’t feel sorry for your Johnson or tears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Trendline established, as of 2023 top 5% responsible for 50% of all sex; sexual loneliness seen as public health concernLoneliness is usually self inflicted and the person suffering does little to develop themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Trendline established, as of 2023 top 5% responsible for 50% of all sex; sexual loneliness seen as public health concern5 star comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 12:53 PM |
| 5 | Red pill gets a lot of things wrong but the biggest lie is that younger women are sexually attracted to older men”Waiting” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 09:57 PM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?If shes white and or eats like an average American for sure I 100% agree with the last bit. I think American woman take extremely poor care of themselves even when they presume they’re taking care of themselves (a la-painting nails and washing face with expensive skin care) and I’m American. Taking care and not relying on your youth in your 20s is crucial to how you will look in your 30s and woman here seem to forget that and let things be. When you travel or you visit your families mainland you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?Nothing good lasts forever is a crazy finding for some, but when all “rots” some people still have had it better than others which can never be changed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 12:36 AM |
| 1 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?Aw man! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 12:33 AM |
| 3 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?And we never will, control yourselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 08:31 PM |
| 3 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?This comment won | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 08:22 PM |
| 6 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?Because at the point it’s easy to scapegoat because there’s a better sense of a mental demarcation from what they’re fixated on which is when they’re psychologically revealing and utilizing the terminology in times when control is needed like here in this thread or when a confident 30+ is on TikTok every insecure male comes out of the woodworks. It’s just a weapon for babies even if unconsciously implemented. They want loose easy going girls who won’t put pressure on them in their 20s but they’r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 07:21 PM |
| 5 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?Which is exactly why It feels like it’s a phenomenon that inadvertently humiliates men, but just satiates a short term emotional reward. There’s a failure to realize it further discredits and perpetuates their own victimhood and male plight, and that’s coming from someone who can empathize through the perspectives of it being easy not realizing the advantages I’d have as a man, being more sexually wired yet seeing women that I’m attracted to get treated in comparison like flowers while watching … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 06:47 PM |
| 11 | This is very anecdotal, but as a man, i miss the attention, do others also?So she's attractive, got attention left and right enough to make *you* jealous yet you're using terms like "post wall" and suddenly she's attractive "to you" is telling on how most men on this subreddit mentally operate. Admittedly, it’s pathetic that you're seeing someone that you're calling post-wall on the very post that you're dedicating to the envy that the woman made you feel- who is denying other men possibly more attractive than you are while you write cringe posts like this on reddit af… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/23 06:06 PM |
| – | A lot of men are jealous of womenYour comment has me rolling 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 01:04 PM |
| – | Fathers work harder overall than mothers on average.Looking at the horrors my mother went through made me afraid to have kids. Children are amazing and I love them deeply, in fact, I’m naturally good with them and I treat them like people and bridge the line between child and adult and can genuinely play with them (: But having any of my own doesn’t feel appealing enough to actually have them. Your comment made me recollect a lot…..motherhood is beautiful and ugly and in admirable way it’s trading so much of your life in devotion and hopes you ad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 02:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV: As long as men refuse to call out other men, male issues will never be taken seriously.Haven’t seen this huge of a reaction when the sexes are reversed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 01:44 AM |
| 50 | 90% of what gives women ""the ick" is just men failing to live up to masculine gender stereotypesWayyy younger lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 01:48 PM |
| 4 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorSounds like you have an issue with your biological wiring as men to enjoy this supposed mediocrity. Ask yourself who or what is the reason for the dichotomy. You’re wired to have way more flexible sense of “fuckable” to spread your genes which naturally leaves you susceptible to sexual manipulations and women don’t work or function to that capacity as child bearers. If you don’t like it then I challenge you to detach from your animal brain (not insulting you, we all have it) -and you’ll quickly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 05:46 PM |
| 1 | "The Hoe Phase"Literally my aunt who blatantly told me I was lying when I said I never have had sex with more than one person whilst in the back of her car then learned that she got double teamed in the back when she was bartending back in the day. I don’t talk to her and I feel bad for her husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 04:25 PM |
| 6 | "The Hoe Phase"I don’t understand how some people don’t cringe at their ideologies and the inconsistencies behind them while ignoring the ugly core matter. This is also coming from someone who never had casual sex and never would so it’s not “bitterness”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 04:12 PM |
| 0 | “Whoever invites pays” is just a way for women to get out of saying “men should pay” (first dates)If being shunned by bar “society” is one benefit of inviting a girl out for drinks in the case she leaves mid date…then you probably scared many off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/23 07:53 AM |
| – | Female Sexual Bargaining Power Has Peaked And Is In DeclineThis sub alone exemplifies that - women are all you think of and talk about. I just couldn’t imagine - it all sounds so exhausting and frankly dull. I…..this is the first time I’ve ever laughed in regards to this sub. A lot of the posts and “peacocking” (disguised as genuine inquiries) reek of entitlement and psuedo intellect. Biologists from the beginning of time roll in their graves because this sun runs to “biological” arguments that are often times inaccurate to justify why they are so innat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Can someone rationalise men wanting virgins but not being willing to wait for sexYou applaud dishonesty. You’re for sure a dime a dozen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/23 05:08 PM |
| 6 | Female Sexual Bargaining Power Has Peaked And Is In DeclineOh brother. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/23 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Stop telling men they need a woman, and how much better a wife will make their life.Sounds like you’re the one projecting your frustrations with all the straw-manning you’re doing. You might have something to work on yourself. Communication skills | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Are women more content with being sexless?Men are probably also checking your profiles. It’s Reddit and your profile is public info on here. I’m not trying to turn you down but you clearly have a victim complex and you’re greatly hindering yourself with your defenses and absolute thinking that you ironically detest in of itself. No one likes hypocrites or psuedo intellectuals like yourself who through out the “anecdotal” defense argument while referencing a Reddit thread as proof that all women dislike sex. In your world they do definit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Are women more content with being sexless?“Trust me” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/23 03:13 PM |
| 0 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?You’re wrong with your absolutes again. Check any tiktok thread (where the young people go, probably not your scene) mentioning or discussing different takes and you’ll see even minors to late teens commenting thinking this is off or just plain creepy. Attached to the copes hard you are. Scary to live in the real world isn’t it? either become a coward, bitter, or straight irrational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 05:32 AM |
| 3 | Should we just raise the consenting age to 25?You don’t live much do you? lol even many underage women have a high N count in our modern day. Your association will make you naive my friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/23 05:27 AM |
| 6 | Does female loyalty exist anymore?Loyalty in the way we want to believe it in general is incredibly scarce and we waste most of our time in these delusions, and these arrangements under false pretenses. The honest answer is that people regardless of sex truly do like to overestimate their ability to keep up with what they want to exist for themselves in a partnership which perpetuates this blind power dynamic. Female loyalty exists as much as the male equivalent of these lackluster statistics which is why many of us straight fol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/23 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Porn sick men are spiritually damaged just like high n count women. Porn sick men may claim to be physically a virgin at sex, but their mental headspace is tainted with lust of an egocentric slut.“Porn addiction is very rare” Could you even provide sources/studies that support this claim? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/22 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Can someone *please* ground/scold me for being a therapist my toxic pickme sister?I’m tired of falling into the trap of trying to instill advice into my sister after thinking I broke out of the dynamic. I’ve distanced myself from her for weeks and today we reconnected and there is what felt like a connected “normal” synergy between sisters and I had a small point of weakness from that nice conversation today after my distance that I started to help her again and getting sucked down the head fuck rabbit hole. Can someone give me grounding words? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 05:14 AM |
| 6 | Certain pickmes become "feminists" for a while, just to go back to coddling men and dragging you down with them.This but with my sibling, she doesn’t go into FDS she goes into the extreme of hating men when she has an argument with her NVM (albeit sometimes rooted in her own narcissism as she’s very limbic) the man is a NVM because though my sister is tyrannical and difficult he has hit her, pulled her hair after she hit him in the past, doesn’t shower and thinks that washing his ass is gay. They are both abominable. I cannot stand her demonic energy and then guilt-tripping herself when she “misses him” a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 02:04 PM |
| 0 | A reminder for you ladies *remove* the pickme’s in your life today including family - A moody synopsis and someone who understands *you* for once.Ooh, not quite the point of my post darling. No one mentioned that advice had to be listened to, and it’s clear you stopped early on in reading and went with your emotions rather read the whole post and secure comprehension. You are clearly nitpicking the point of my post and magnifying something that did not need to. It seems like you are speaking from your past and hyper-fixated with your interjecting jargon, when you clearly did not read the entire post. You seem way too self referential. If … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 01:18 AM |
| 46 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.They however fall in love with their own potential in being able to fuck and none else like cold reptilians and throw all kinds of awkward, idealistic word salad in place of “acts of service.” We really are different creatures aren’t we? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 12:40 PM |
| 253 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.The fact he wasn’t embarrassed of showing his place like this is a direct insult. I feel really bad for her, I’m not even upset at her at all. This is so upsetting, I’m just so tired of hearing women constantly complain and feel too “empathetic” and too weary to tell their boyfriend they smell really bad, and that they are pigs. They rather suffer in silence and make love to these people even though they are sleeping in filth with them, having sex while they are dirty. The many times I’ve casual… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 07:40 AM |
| 11 | Scrote says he’s not into casual sex while his OK Cupid answers communicate otherwise, he says “I made the profile a long time ago when my father was sick and didn’t have time for a relationship” and proceeds to show his clown nose.Tsksksksk 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 07:39 AM |
| 67 | Scrote says he’s not into casual sex while his OK Cupid answers communicate otherwise, he says “I made the profile a long time ago when my father was sick and didn’t have time for a relationship” and proceeds to show his clown nose.You’re right, I shouldn’t have wasted my time. It’s pointless because at best they are genuinely retarded, and decent means of socializing and putting forth a decent impression are incomprehensible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 01:13 AM |
| 136 | Anyone had a scrote try this on them?You already know that your average emotionally immature or unavailable neckbeard saw scintillating crystals in the air right after this scene and thought “ThAtS FUCKING GENIUSSSSSS haha!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 05:21 PM |
| 1 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beI haven’t met an INTJ man that: 1:) Didn’t glorify villains 2: Took rejection well without direct action (manipulation) or passive aggressive “wit” for immediate solace. 3:) Didn’t give a fair warning “I’ll scare you off soon” “haha I’m a bad guy 😏” 4:) Didn’t relate to Joker, Walter white, Edward Scissorhands, or Hitler. My synopsis: A cult full of handlebar mustache twirlers and pseudo intellectuals with a shrek philosophy waiting for manic pixie (ENFP) to discover them and say- “Still waters … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 08:26 PM |
| 16 | Does anyone have a pickme family member that is always in a dilemma with men? How do you handle them?This, definitely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:22 PM |
| 25 | Does anyone have a pickme family member that is always in a dilemma with men? How do you handle them?“I don’t trust my thoughts, I don’t want to leave because I’m probably going to end up in this situation with other men” She’s gone, we’ve been through this and I’m going to distance. She’s cheated, they’ve hit each other, she’s generally abusive as well as confused and she covers her ears to advice while wanting to vent. Edit: Definitely distancing. She’s implying I’m negative and nitpicking trivial things in my voice message (The abuse happened a long time ago lol, He doesn’t have a porn addic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 06:20 PM |
| 40 | This is why FDS recommends snooping. Be very ruthless with your vetting process! You never know how deprived some men can beYou just know this dude is an “INTJ” lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Just a reminder that men really do tend to be far more emotional and antagonistic than womenYou’re right! It’s a contradiction, most people (especially angry narcissistic people) are answering based off who they want to see or their “good” not considering tendencies and the entire pictures. Most men who are “INTJ” have a superiority complex and are over-compensating for their attachment style and fragile ego, their sub is constantly ranting and raving about manipulation and how feelings = weak because they themselves feel weak and spite their true structures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 08:08 PM |
| 8 | Just a reminder that men really do tend to be far more emotional and antagonistic than womenSincerely, and INTJ women are a whole different story, you guys are fucking awesome. INTJ men on the other hand tend to be “cringe” as fuck. Aggressive mustache twirlers who hide their insecurity behind half assed “acquired” knowledge as to self regulate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 06:06 PM |
| 18 | Just a reminder that men really do tend to be far more emotional and antagonistic than womenHe mildly criticized (then) the fact that I have always inherently put weight on things like sex and taking it personally and I explained that my conclusion to action process ran differently and so I explained it a bit briefly over after I was ironically prompted to having referenced his question and he wrote something predictable “Sometimes things that are meaningless could be very fun for you 😉” and I realized there is no grounded, mature conversation or debate with this unintelligent fucking … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 05:50 PM |
| 11 | Lmfao I died at this. Do any Eastern European women agree?I wanted to be a fan of this man though I don’t even know this man at all, good for you taking it the way you did (though I have to remember that he disappeared and came back engaged, in his world he probably thought you were taking him serious enough to feel bad) The good thing is that you know what you deserve from this experience and you aren’t a jealous women who cannot root for other women seemingly getting supreme treatment while still having tact, go you. Eastern European men (tend) to po… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:47 PM |
| 55 | Apparently it’s hard for men to *not* be freely insufferable even while doing something as mud and as taking a lift/cab 🤮What a dickhole, this is why I carry defense tools. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:04 PM |
| 178 | Apparently it’s hard for men to *not* be freely insufferable even while doing something as mud and as taking a lift/cab 🤮*Mundane, so sorry all…I was too busy trying not to projectile vomit while writing the title to this video. Being trapped in a ride while a male driver is bothering you and indirectly begging for attention. You just know it didn’t stop after the video ended. No tip and report If this ever happens to you and your driver is being annoying and otherwise creepy, phone a friend and always carry earbuds in your purse be assertive but polite enough and say you have to listen to something “important” as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 02:26 PM |
| 11 | What the fuck is wrong with me? I either attract people who are self destructive or destructive to others. I don’t get attached I continuously keep finding out and I feel cursed.I’m completely with you. I’m definitely not the brand of post traumatic that entertains shit never was, I had to fix everything all on my very own from the start (which I recognize and always Inherently knew it was fucked up) but I prevailed I’m certainly not going to reignite myself because of some heart strings (heart strings that are important) for just anyone especially people who don’t want to help themselves and want to self medicate off of me/people in general. Fuck that. Your exhaustion … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:08 AM |
| 59 | Wether you find a guy or don’t, remember to keep your ladies closeI’m about to go gay as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:04 AM |
| 10 | What the fuck is wrong with me? I either attract people who are self destructive or destructive to others. I don’t get attached I continuously keep finding out and I feel cursed.I’m also demisexual and it adds an extra dimension of frustration, thank you for sharing and sorry for your experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 11:26 PM |
| 24 | What the fuck is wrong with me? I either attract people who are self destructive or destructive to others. I don’t get attached I continuously keep finding out and I feel cursed.You’ve explained it perfectly and great correlation with the book and that does make perfect sense it’s like similar tree rotten branch that lets that social stage continue and the reasons for doing something tend to be different. It’s already immensely difficult for the more average every day women on this sub, so I feel deeply screwed to say the most. Your comment however was refreshing, and its nice to know another women on this sub feels the same, thank you for your comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Coworker wanted to set me up with her son.Probably really because they don’t even know what a decent man looks like and cannot understand themselves don’t introspect enough and therefor don’t know what is inherently good for them nonetheless us as individuals they think that reasonable men are fairytales and that it’s their job to humble and gaslight themselves from even basic, fair standards. And it’s very good you didn’t tolerate what your coworker did either and that you know better because unfortunately, there’s some women that woul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 05:44 PM |
| 7 | Coworker wanted to set me up with her son.Mini boss? she’s a caretaker. It’s much more pitiful than evil honestly. I honestly feel sorry in an unflattering way because you truly have to have a very low regard for yourself as a women to want to fix another man and recruit someone else to follow your lead down to the gulag. Advice is often a mirroring of someone internal character and is telling of their own resilience. Think about all of the advice you’ve told others, often times it’s what you would do, if not what you would do in their … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 03:13 PM |
| 10 | Coworker wanted to set me up with her son.I learn that it’s in your best interest to keep certain struggles to yourself unless is not due to shame because I honestly think these struggles are common and despite the majority of humans in general somewhere in their lifetime get depressed or have some sort of issue in our living (anxiety, depression) more often than not even unconsciously you aren’t the same person to others anymore and you are treated accordingly to a flaw that we should all be open and shameless. Even the smallest action… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 02:59 PM |
| 29 | Coworker wanted to set me up with her son.Her idea was that I was “so beautiful, intelligent, independent but depressed” (Even though she didn’t know I was in any way depressed because we weren’t close to begin with, and this is the cue to judge who you share with because people still harbor stigmas and outdated generalizations and harbor assumptions to what certain things even mean) My depression was never to any point he was living in, and wasn’t something you can visually see or sense in me or my space, my standards etc just very und… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 12:49 PM |
| 6 | Coworker wanted to set me up with her son.First, two broken people don’t make a right. Freudian slip. I mean I wouldn’t describe someone who is a little depressed “broken”. I would be more careful in lieu, as others may be bearing something personal and be marginalized for something manageable. Other than that, I totally agree with the rest of your text. I think it’s unfair to try to make someone else solve another person who is way and beyond worst off Instead of treating someone like a human with their own standards instead of an addi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 12:24 PM |
| 259 | Coworker wanted to set me up with her son.Honestly it’s genuinely insulting especially coming from your own family My aunt had been dating this man who has a son who can’t even leave his house, doesn’t work, has severe abandonment issues and his dad can’t leave him alone because he has issues…this is a 21 year old man. I’m a cultured, attractive women with all due respect for that boy it’s more than insulting. My aunt suggested I date him because she noticed I was “depressed” and we can “help each other” even though his mental issues we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 12:53 AM |
| 3 | Vent: Pick me relatives are absolutely depressing why the hell are you valuing male validation over your sexual and physical health?Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:11 PM |
| 10 | Vent: Pick me relatives are absolutely depressing why the hell are you valuing male validation over your sexual and physical health?I completely agree with, you articulated it perfectly, and furthered amplified disgust. People like this disgust me to oblivion and I’m going to stop masking it instead of wearing a polite mask, and simply move along. Absolute masochists as well as sadists. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:11 PM |
| 8 | Vent: Pick me relatives are absolutely depressing why the hell are you valuing male validation over your sexual and physical health?Thank you love, needed that reminder myself and I agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 04:33 PM |
| 21 | Vent: Pick me relatives are absolutely depressing why the hell are you valuing male validation over your sexual and physical health?Thank you for your comment. I’ve suggested this plenty, many times straight from the beginning of her relationship when she came to my crying or when she was pissed and seems to only comprehend my advice when she’s at her most devastated only to revert and glamorize her mess and sexualize herself and “forget about it all yay” it’s genuinely fucking annoying. She’s honestly the only person I would ever be this patient with even out of care but I’m graduating from this caricature of a train wreck.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | LANA Rhoades Cries remembering how she was treated in the porn industry. Co-hosts agree porn is influencing men’s behavior.): | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | I found out what I want to do in life and you can too♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 10:42 PM |
| 3 | I love you FDS!!♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 08:14 PM |
| 16 | What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell?Assholes Feeling good now sweetheart? ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 07:36 PM |
| 2 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.I live for the clowns on FDS, that is a compliment you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 08:18 PM |
| 1 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.raises hand I, I. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 08:16 PM |
| 0 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.I’m sorry ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.No! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 05:31 AM |
| 58 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Here’s the thing often times humans like this male of female have too much shame so much, that they appear to not have it, which leads to out of line behavior. I don’t take it personally, he’s done this to many women and continue to and he didn’t even get to sleep with me that is why he threw that fit his narcissism clued him into what he already interpreted as me being too good for him and wanted to bring me down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 10:32 PM |
| 30 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Huh, great and insightful point, thank you. I didn’t give at least in a conventional sense “yearning” vibes or overshared anything that was indicative of feeling a disconnect from others (which isn’t the case in my personal life) I’m not on the spectrum, but I do have ADHD…do I really give off neurodivergency? If you don’t mind (asking as I cannot inbox you) may you inbox me? I’m curious about this connection you have and hoping it can key into a different perspective and awareness. (If anyone h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 08:08 PM |
| 14 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Glad my love ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 07:44 PM |
| 59 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Hahahahaha this made me jolly, you are a funny one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 06:26 PM |
| 114 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.“I had a DrEaM aBoUt YoU it usually doesn’t happen with others but I decithphered the meaning and that is to thrust me and believe 🤓” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 06:25 PM |
| 19 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Haha, I’ve been wanting to do silly things like this but have been doing a really good job avoiding and repelling degenerates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 06:22 PM |
| 17 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 06:21 PM |
| 11 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Tell the wanna be James dean rebellions to do the opposite and they will do it, it’s equal manipulation. Better yet burst out of that pipe field. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 06:19 PM |
| 39 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Username checks out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 06:15 PM |
| 50 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.This was in 2019 I didn’t know about FDS then and couldn’t cross reference “what we say” here. Previously I overlooked age although that gap was my limit, but after then became more picky about my ideals surrounding that demographic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 06:14 PM |
| 56 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.YoU’rE sO sPeCiAl I NoMInAtE YoU tO sEe HoW LoNG yOu CoUlD pUt Up WiTh My ShIt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 06:09 PM |
| 44 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.I’m 100% sure he has homicidal ideation but is otherwise “high functioning” about it lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 04:55 PM |
| 76 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.They have this weird obsession of consciously or secretly hating anything they are attracted to because they see it as a threat to their autonomy and risks misconstruing their sense of self and will either project their unconventional traits and feelings onto you or try to subtly compete with you especially if they interpret you as more “intellectual” and less submissive than other women they were interested in. You set a flame to their itches and they will hate the lack of control you cause the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:50 PM |
| 289 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.Haha, I think that was actually said in a very off-brand way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:30 PM |
| 537 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.He demasked himself while he was drunk weeks later (this was 2019) by saying “Look at you wasting your big soft lips on dialogue, as if any guy would ever give a shit about what you have to say we only care about what’s going into your mouth, not what comes out” As expected he’s genuinely miserable, stuck and lonely and I feel bad for any women who actually lets this man put his dick inside of them none-the-less any codependent who would marry him it turns out he had two wives he both cheated on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:24 PM |
| 260 | This is a weekly reminder to women especially “creatives” to watch out for lovebombing, genuine demons lurk and will seemingly try their best to tether your guard with words to exploit your emotions and try to conquer your body.This happened in 2019 when I was 22 and he was 35, he assumed that I was this avant-garde women that I assume he projected must be unloved (which is benign and untrue) who he “related” to on some form or another- his lack of empathy read this as a thankful reassuring door to exploit and for it to be easier if his “prey” had genuine things in common so he won’t have to feign too much similarity which I can see gives a different energy. People will genuinely relate to you, will try to use that to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.Love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 01:52 AM |
| 2 | Why do men take SUCH offense to my reserved demeanor?This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 11:33 PM |
| 1 | TruthYep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 11:27 PM |
| 1 | One of the worst things your potential partner can do is exploit vulnerable women because peen. It does not matter if he checks all the other boxes, if he's done this he's ZVMThis is where you pretend to be the “cool, with the times” girl to get information 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Guys will match you just to complain because #fragility.Because my profile wasn’t at all intimating, and I usually ignore male stupidity but it’s irritating at this point lol. Men just don’t like educated women as well as clear and cut confident women and some like to match to try to gaslight lol. I don’t know, makes no sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Guys will match you just to complain because #fragility.I have no idea! that person was me.🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 09:12 PM |
| 2 | FDS ladies this reminded me of you, her videos are absolutely hilarious.Me too! 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 03:55 AM |
| 2 | And they say women are sensitive, sometimes you have to be glad you asked ladies. “Account disabled” 🤣Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 01:11 AM |
| 3 | And they say women are sensitive, sometimes you have to be glad you asked ladies. “Account disabled” 🤣No problem love, stay safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:42 AM |
| 11 | And they say women are sensitive, sometimes you have to be glad you asked ladies. “Account disabled” 🤣Sincerely, it’s the fact that this is the beginning that this scared the hell out of me. This guy really shouldn’t be dating, this is a very fluid sense of self and clearly beats himself up to not handle anything would be the best case scenario. I’m just tired of the entitlement, this or simply the usual guy trying to paw at more than a thank you because you’re a cold bitch for not sucking his toes, or the guy didn’t chase or want to date or cared about personally because he was used to having w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:15 AM |
| 14 | And they say women are sensitive, sometimes you have to be glad you asked ladies. “Account disabled” 🤣It’s entitlement disguised as “values” and gaslighty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:00 AM |
| 13 | And they say women are sensitive, sometimes you have to be glad you asked ladies. “Account disabled” 🤣The entire point he threw a tantrum and deleted his account (for better) because a women was 10 minutes late to unconfirmed plans, he then texted self defeatism/manipulative texts designed as a soft boy looking mask that unfortunately I forgot to add. It came off as desperate, passively and inconspicuously punishy as fuck. My point was to women to at times be glad you asked so you can find out how people act in certain situations. In this case it’s shown he can’t handle a modicum of perceived/im… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 11:57 PM |
| 18 | And they say women are sensitive, sometimes you have to be glad you asked ladies. “Account disabled” 🤣The “sensitive narcissist” AKA nice guy, plans stay tentative due to lack of confirmation and being an adult and expects people to aid him right on the ring “I am not loved” “everyone bad” “the pain is too ruff, woe is me” “last straw I must delete my account” after 13 generous minutes, oh brother. I was stopped talking to an unexpected about something of genuine importance and the plans were unconfirmed so I didn’t keep a tight lock on time as I am reliable about the plans I make or agree to. R… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 11:49 PM |
| 3 | “Lonely angry sad wanna-be masters of control” Starter PackAre you an ENFJ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 06:00 PM |
| 11 | “Lonely angry sad wanna-be masters of control” Starter PackI really enjoy both, and have had some of the best conversations with INTX and especially with the sadly anything aside from online banter with the men is of low quality. My issues with some-many INTX men is not the T/F dichotomy but beyond that in of itself, they tend to have poor attachment styles and feign their lack of “subjectivity” where I constantly find it which reads self unaware and irresponsible, sabotage themselves and constantly contradict and complain of the issues they themselves … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 05:54 PM |
| 8 | “Lonely angry sad wanna-be masters of control” Starter PackI find as an introverted fi-te for it to be similar probably in a few different ways than yours as a te-fi user. For me, I mostly find the internal priorities of women to be astronomically different from my own personal values and insight and they sense the same, I care about women but I also find them to be impractical and unwise to how their decision reflect oppositely to what they truly want and that alone makes me not “conventionally” click with most but that reflects less on sex, although I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 05:12 PM |
| 2 | “Age Catfish” who wants to swipe right 200 times to avoid paying tinder for their grand thirst seeks young codependent pussy for abominable living conditions copeI feel you! I just feel like I get more unwanted attention with these things! and I have sensory annoyances so bras are a no and would like to look less “frumpy” in clothes I spend money on, also feel limited in ornate and backless clothing I want to wear so best bet I’m going to cut these hammies a bit ffs! My tits are fine I don’t despise them, but they are definitely an inconvenience and subject of attention otherwise. “Clap” 🤣, I hope men aren’t bothering you about your breasts! (The movemen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 10:05 PM |
| 2 | “Age Catfish” who wants to swipe right 200 times to avoid paying tinder for their grand thirst seeks young codependent pussy for abominable living conditions copeMe too since the beginning of time! - 24 Damn genetics and weight fluctuations, I’m planning on a BL surgery because it really is an inconvenience in a few ways. (not for men) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 03:41 PM |
| 187 | “Age Catfish” who wants to swipe right 200 times to avoid paying tinder for their grand thirst seeks young codependent pussy for abominable living conditions copeGenuinely mimicking the sentence structure of males in that paragraph as I was so over it and viscerally disgusted. Profile said 38 apparently he’s 48, total mistake right? not to surpass any limits younger women put on age in the settings. I googled and tinder allows 100 free swipes within a 24 hour period, he has yet another account so he’s desperately swiping at maximum 200 times daily with his cheap ass. Says he’s starting an “unimpressive job”, living situation is trash but wants this young… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 04:28 AM |
| 5 | Why do scrotes think this is remotely funny or appealing? go to therapy.And that 1000 cock stare, if any FDS ladies know the reference you know. I can smell insecurity, self sabotage and deep seated shame with side addictions in that cocktail, I pity people like this on a distant internal level but all that empathy goes away when you involve yourself with women in this unhealed state in general let alone blatantly and shamelessly. Fucking caricature of ouroboros… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Questions and information you should ask and seek to compare some values and compatibility and save time while dating - a short imperfect but important list.Will focus on that, thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 09:44 PM |
| 11 | Questions and information you should ask and seek to compare some values and compatibility and save time while dating - a short imperfect but important list.Sorry for the lack of clarity, this is to be asked on dates not as part as an introspection activity! (Although very important too (: ) I kept seeing posts in the near past about not knowing what to directly ask on dates, although the handbook divulges into this a bit and draws your own better judgment to what you should be asking. So this was more as a coin thrown of some assistance to newer members or as a reminder, or to even have engaging discussion. It’s understated in this sub that while w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 04:30 PM |
| 7 | Literally Was Just Talking Abt this To My BFFThey were bored bored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 03:48 PM |
| 10 | I really hope there aren’t women nodding in agreement to this.I should totally feel sentimental and honored about This desire isn’t sentimental and so personal, this tends to be about novelty this abyss is making it out more deep than it truly needs to be and giving too much credit, adding in a profound lack of self respect and tact. Women love to project their rich, abundant emotionality, empathy and even poetic conclusion onto men’s casual more primal intentions which puts the women emotionally at risk if applying it so casually or generally when in real… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 05:52 PM |
| 10 | If a man sits down next to you on the bus or train, and he's too close and he starts touching you, what do you do? - Aka how Dr Gail Dines finally put into words what I've been feeling.Love you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 05:31 PM |
| 17 | Profile of a Pickme- Behaviors on the First Several DatesAh, I see what you meant now doing something in the other parties favor early on rather than something that could simply be a boundary. Thank you for a respectful exchange, it’s rare online when you are attempting genuine expansion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 07:22 PM |
| 30 | Profile of a Pickme- Behaviors on the First Several DatesGood post honestly but the only ones I don’t necessarily agree on are Women choosing to drive themselves Stating they are not looking for hookups on OLD Some women have had bad experiences with men in cars (sexual harassment, rape) or driving them off somewhere where they hadn’t agreed (on a very first date) or aren’t comfortable giving out their address freely where unfortunately in this world people take advantage of perceived vulnerability, and while I very well understand our vetting process… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Pickmeisha Damsel In Distress Mother - Anyone else feels strange around them/Doesn’t love them?You’re not bringing balance to the table and you’re far comfortable remaining caked up in unfortunate ignorance despite your efforts trying not to seem so. I’m chronically uninterested in seeing your reply, and will not so I suggest you not waste time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Pickmeisha Damsel In Distress Mother - Anyone else feels strange around them/Doesn’t love them?Exactly! Thank you, I was shocked someone would believe that themselves in reply to such a post let alone give that advice to someone who has had parental wounds. I was annoyed (for the sake of others she might say this to) and had to reply to her because it’s just potentially damaging to offer that ideology, I know that if I was 15 reading this I would feel shame and have existential worry. (Thankfully I don’t as I’ve grown) but, I would upset reading that response on someone else’s post...that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Pickmeisha Damsel In Distress Mother - Anyone else feels strange around them/Doesn’t love them?I never wrote I hated her, you’re projecting my friend. It’s unfortunate and unhealthy to give this sort of advice to someone who has been neglected and abused and beautify empowerment to be the “bigger person” and do the work in establishing a connection, that’s should not be the child’s job. “Change yourself to change the (original) dynamic” doesn’t always work, and it’s partially self blaming and harmful ideology in a lot of places, and even codependent/idealistic. Some people were right and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Pickmeisha Damsel In Distress Mother - Anyone else feels strange around them/Doesn’t love them?Thank you for sharing. What I wrote was referencing teenage years. I care about her in a very basic family oriented way without the tightly knit attachment others possess to go past the basic (like if anything very bad were to happen to her/if she died) that’s not against FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Pickmeisha Damsel In Distress Mother - Anyone else feels strange around them/Doesn’t love them?Thank you Most of what I wrote occurred when I was younger, I don’t give her advice because I view it as a waste of time and resource that I’m protective about, but I was curious most recently and asked “why are you still with him” because I was annoyed today. I don’t shoulder her burdens, I stopped trying to help her many years ago this is an assumption, but not a baseless one by all means. I inherently know I don’t mean little, and have always had to take care of myself, I always put myself fi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 01:25 PM |
| 2 | Pickmeisha Damsel In Distress Mother - Anyone else feels strange around them/Doesn’t love them?Oh that was the hardest, still seeing people go shopping with their mothers and genuinely sharing a clear bond and a common ground. I used to try to fool my self by trying to understand her and be the “bigger person” where she made no efforts toward the inverse and “her way was the right way”. Oh the one sided pointless whining I mean emotional confiding with no true sign of change or self respect. Thank you for the references (I’ll be sure to check out) and sharing and I’m glad you’re doing wel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:18 PM |
| 85 | This OLD bio made me puke in my mouth 🤡, men are getting delusional.Through intuition and following his trend I’m pretty sure the show your mother bit is some sexist Redpill ideology/method to analyze how you fuckable you look as you age by using your parent as measure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:09 AM |
| 77 | This OLD bio made me puke in my mouth 🤡, men are getting delusional.This guy is certainly dreaming, and will have a rude awakening that I have no empathy for. And they say women are idealistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 01:00 AM |
| 101 | This OLD bio made me puke in my mouth 🤡, men are getting delusional.My unwonted fetish... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 12:57 AM |
| 6 | Great example of healthy empathy on both ends, self respect and a man that respects you and your life with or without him. *If he is into you, you will know from the getgo*I edited before the response showed up! But I see! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 10:34 PM |
| 14 | A scrote’s version of “romantic”“Miss yo face”....... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | If men want traditional wives, they need to be traditional themselves by being full providers but of course, women that desire that are gold diggers.They romanticize the old fashioned agenda when it suits them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:22 AM |
| 2 | She didn't lie“But it’s not the same!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Hold men accountable.Bimbo-tiktok viscerally and genuinely creeps me out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:07 AM |
| 0 | Protect her from what? 🙃😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:55 PM |
| 2 | So many videos like this on TikTok. Why is this being normalized? Absolutely disgusting.😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Dating in the 21st century. Funniest roast of men I've ever seen. Her twitter is yellowspoongirlCackling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Valentine's Day Postmortem Discussion Thread: Did your man disappoint you on Valentine's Day? Comment your story below!Ah I see, I was stating the less obvious which was second hand embarrassment because I do deserve better. And we are ending it, thank you I appreciate that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:21 AM |
| 13 | Pornhub exploiting minors 😔Grotesque | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 10:54 PM |
| 5 | 18 year old radfem standing up against sugar baby culture and the exploitation of minors. Proud of my generationThose carnivals goodies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 01:59 AM |
| 47 | The REAL reason men are on dating sites often isn't to find a date.There needs to be a heavily moderated OLD site where people actually have to make efforts, and make it easier for people who have reasonable intentions to front of the line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 04:35 PM |
| 2 | People are starting to seeThis is good to see | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Since vetting is a lifelong process, after 3 years of marriage, he never stops putting in effort. Random bouquet he got me yesterday. Still surprises me with random jewellery and gift cards to my favorite salonsEnjoy! (: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 12:37 AM |
| 37 | I’m tired of porn affecting my relationships, and I broke up with my boyfriend last night. How can I obtain a porn-free man if it’s so normalized, I’m 23 years old.Things only get outrageous when they are deformed and too gross to cum to, otherwise it’s not outrageous, like being lead by your genitals until your brain is forced to acknowledge something instead of being a person who has taste/cultured in comparison to the above. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:17 PM |
| 15 | Ladies, I know big age gaps are a big no. Reading this post on facebook almost made me vomit. But what are some valid points you can use to explain WHY big age gaps are creepy and weird?Well, would be “natural” in such immature mindset that they would be attracted to the “stressless” expectations (in their head) from younger women who are easier to please due to lack of experience, whom they feel intellectually or otherwise above. The overall young appearance and romanticization of such sells these men who may be emotionally unavailable who will feel more confident, less bothered, less likely to be truthfully analyzed in accordance to truth and they feel “self assured” and “fre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 06:49 PM |
| 2 | This is why when a sex deprived SCROTE comes back in your life you should just BLOCK. They see you explaining things as an attack or challenge. They will not apologize. Cut your losses.Fooling the naive and the docile with telling them what they think they would like to hear. The problem is their emotional understanding of the world is innately uncomprehended and interpreted through a mechanical channel. Blocking is suggested but if you can’t hold your tongue respond with something more passive aggressive, tongue in cheek, and equally as undetectable. They know what to expect from you, so slip out of your costume and into another, it just may give you some entertainment. This … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 06:42 PM |
| 2 | How to leave/turn down a guy or say STOP? HELP!You get used to it by raising your self esteem and challenging your values with logic, start asking yourself why when someone clearly thinks low of you do you feel bad when you deny it in your right? Are you a therapist? what are you getting out of this? What are you getting out of letting this occur because you feel so bad? Does he feel bad? Who’s feeling bad for you? Inconvenience that is what you are getting then walk on feeling regretful when you get back home and questioning the situation a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 01:19 AM |
| 113 | Guy I gave my number to dropped some of these: 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩“Your to hot to make sense” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 05:00 PM |
| 1 | He thinks he’s a real catchThey can be skeptical but they have good intentions and are afraid of hypocrisy which is endearing, unlike unhealthy INTJ’s that are afraid of dating someone like themselves. They are quite indecisive and anxious but find it’s nearly as exhausting to them as it is to anyone else and seems to be come from a theme of what is important to them and importance of the “truth” which my understanding makes the situation little to not annoying most times at all. It’s definitely perfectionist mindset and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 03:54 PM |
| 2 | He thinks he’s a real catchHaha, my best friend is an INTP for a good reason. We have a stimulating, amazing dynamic and the couple of interactions I had with INTP women were very pleasant and invigorating. I genuinely am neutral about a lot of conversations and don’t easily obtain strong feelings of satisfaction because I sort of drift. INTJ’s are interesting.. The advice for obtaining an INTJ is “catch them” I can’t imagine trying to chase and throw myself at someone I don’t know or care about. I’ve realized many of the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 04:50 AM |
| 2 | He thinks he’s a real catchMost see manipulation as something that promotes their efficiency. History has demonstrated how little people want to follow this person time and time again, to the point of brutality. If they can't take obvious cues from history, it's not you who isn't intelligent. “I always smirk because, well I knew you were going to say that, or pick that thing, or choose that path. It was one of several possibilities I also considered. It’s like a game.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 02:57 AM |
| 11 | Have I just had too many awful experiences with men where being too sweet is a red flag or is this really too sweet? Also only been on one date with this guy, we barely know each other!Please read more about flattery vs compliments, what he is doing is flattery, and of course not necessarily wrong but very much a common tool for those with NPD, ASPD or just those of deceitful nature that just need to console their hungers. Please be careful tinder is full of many deceptive, like others stated do not spill out your generosity and so it can be used as a weakness. These men know what women ache of and will use it for their pleasure they will be excessively cordial and flatter to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 02:42 AM |
| 5 | The reason Reddit men think FDS is anti-male is because they think refusing to have sex with them because they’re ugly, useless, creepy, bad at sex, and all around annoying is a hate crime.Everyone wants what they don’t deserve, this is where (detrimental) fantasy meets a consistent delusional state. It’s cerebral laziness. They don’t want to put social effort, they want a babe who is delusional enough to make them explode in exchange for validation or a few nice words. They meet so many pretty women who have a low self esteem that chase them and get nothing in return that it goes to their male heads and there we have the “expectation” They want women to be cheap, it gets them thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 05:49 PM |
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