REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth busy none they can find one hour out of the week to clean their scum.

flowerpower102938 · 2021-11-17T08:01:18+00:00

Brb, going to throw up🤮

aquietsword · 2021-11-17T07:54:42+00:00

If a man lives like this he doesn't respect himself. And there's no chance that he respects any woman who puts up with it.

myousername · 2021-11-17T10:39:18+00:00

Never clean a toilet for a man. And if you do, make sure to use his toothbrush

BookwormJane · 2021-11-17T11:40:06+00:00

Men will get offended by menstrual blood but a woman has to clean this kind of mess??

FUBARfromLSA · 2021-11-17T08:04:56+00:00

The floorboard radiator is rusty from piss. Just no.

ciciplum · 2021-11-17T09:17:49+00:00

disgusting. also, its 2021, we all work hard lol. women are homemakers and breadwinners in one. id be damned if i let my sink or toilet look like that.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-11-17T07:33:09+00:00

That toilet! OMG! She needs to have some self respect and gtfo!!!

Platipus6 · 2021-11-17T08:32:07+00:00

My new master is old and cheap, but he has potential. He just needs a little love 😊

Why girl, why. Charge $100 an hour plus hazard pay for that shit. Also leave the toilet gel longer to do it's work, you noob.

frostedgemstone · 2021-11-17T12:10:31+00:00

I literally never see men fall in love with potential and do all sorts of voluntary acts of service. If someone/something isn’t immediately up to their standards they don’t invest any effort at all. This must be why they end up suffering less

starpuppery · 2021-11-17T07:58:33+00:00

i just lost my appetite 🤢🤮

miss_peach94 · 2021-11-17T08:43:58+00:00

Lord have mercy she's really putting in elbow grease into that toilet😔

And then once she's finished making it a home he will be inviting other girls round and fucking them when she's not there

GlancingWillow · 2021-11-17T07:40:55+00:00

The fact he wasn’t embarrassed of showing his place like this is a direct insult. I feel really bad for her, I’m not even upset at her at all.

This is so upsetting, I’m just so tired of hearing women constantly complain and feel too “empathetic” and too weary to tell their boyfriend they smell really bad, and that they are pigs. They rather suffer in silence and make love to these people even though they are sleeping in filth with them, having sex while they are dirty.

The many times I’ve casually (at work, in public, meeting someone new) had to sit next to a man old enough, that makes well enough money to act decently, and is attractive yet smells rank is ridiculous.

Women should start feeling more comfortable shaming men for their poor hygiene even if it’s passively like declining to sleep at their house while mentioning something about how you feel more comfortable in cleaner spaces and appreciate your home for that. If they get mad then you now know you are dealing with a man child who refuses to have a little pride.

Her response to this comment:

Comment: “LMFAO old or not, works hard or not, them dudes are DIRTY !!”

Response: “there’s a range of how clean they are. But I think almost every guy is always going to be messier than a girl. He picks up after himself good though.”

acrosstheoceanin1984 · 2021-11-17T08:32:32+00:00

I had to stop watching when the toilet came up 😫

GlitterLoveAngel · 2021-11-17T08:52:24+00:00

He’s not going to appreciate it at all and will definitely leave her for sure.

jayda92 · 2021-11-17T09:38:54+00:00

Don't waste your time on scum creating scum.

My ex lives in a house like that. And although he's LV, he's a very good hearted guy. When I broke up with him I felt so guilty, i came back for months to help him clean. This remembers me of that time....

whitefox00 · 2021-11-17T12:06:24+00:00

Girl no! I’m a single mom to 2 kids, I work full time, and I have a house & 2 pets. Yet I still find time to clean my bathroom and toilet. This guy isn’t “working too hard”, he’s just lazy and gross. Now you’re going to be appointed the house maid and he’s going to treat you like dirt and expect you to clean up after him. SMH

East-Willingness513 · 2021-11-17T10:20:13+00:00

Yet single mothers everywhere who work full time and have several children find the time to clean. This guy probs wakes up, goes to work, comes home and orders takeaway and then games/watches porn until 3 in the morning. GUySsssssssdd hE wOrKs sO hArD hE cAn’T cLEaN tHe cAkEd oN sHit oFf hIs tOlLiEt oR wIpE hIs OwN aSssssssss!!!!

Ninja_Flower_Lady · 2021-11-17T11:17:47+00:00

Wait, fuck, she’s not even wearing gloves while cleaning the toilet??

queeninprogress · 2021-11-17T08:40:35+00:00

Right sorry, I live with all men currently. They're all PhD or master's students so they're busy busy people and guess what, they're all clean and tidy (AND do their own cooking). If full time PhD students can find the time to cook themselves nice meals and clean up properly afterwards I am not taking excuses from any other men ever again.

hdost34 · 2021-11-17T12:00:52+00:00

I would never date anyone who lived in such filth. Deal breaker.

NoodleEmpress · 2021-11-17T12:02:25+00:00

Ewwww, it reminds me of the woman who posted about about cleaning her man's nasty ass bathroom that looked like it hadn't been cleaned in like a decade. Shit had a dark mustard yellow ring around the tub, and iirc she was going on about not being afraid to take care of her man??

Ladies, ladies, ladies yes your man may work hard, but there's no way you can 't tell me that he and whatever roommates he had can't take like 20 minutes after unwinding after work to clean up their messes. Trust me, if they did that their nasty shit wouldn't accumulate like this.

Or they should be cleaning up as they go.

Overall, stop turning yourself in mommies and maids. Try your hardest not to move in with nasties. It has nothing to do with not "loving your man" enough. It's about acknowledging that he's grown enough to take care of himself.

Or think about it this way. If y'all get married, do you want to be cleaning up after him forever?

Novemberinthechair · 2021-11-17T12:04:11+00:00

Someone tell me why she recorded this. Is she proud? Is she virtue signaling? Is she looking for someone to convince her he's a piece of shit and she should leave? Does she want to leave but still feels guilty because women are socialized to take care of man babies? Just go! I'm sure a part of her is amazed he's that dirty and she's getting it on the record for prosperity. But fuck, get the hell out.

Salt_Satisfaction · 2021-11-17T09:57:20+00:00

And she doesn't work hard that she has enough time and energy to do that? At 18 she's probably in university or working in a minimum wage job for long hours.

Onextto0 · 2021-11-17T10:03:01+00:00

My eyes feel violated.🤢

dragon_wolf4 · 2021-11-17T10:44:55+00:00

Oh wow. A free toilet cleaner is what this woman thinks of herself as.

HereForTheFreeFoodOk · 2021-11-17T11:43:20+00:00

WHAT SHE IS LITERALLY CLEANING HIS SHIT STAINS!!!! I CAN'T DEAL WITH THIS LEVEL OF STUPIDITY!

bananna_nut · 2021-11-17T11:49:55+00:00

How do you continue to fuck a guy that has a toilet like that wtf

DifferentBar6 · 2021-11-17T11:42:15+00:00

Behave like a house slave, get treated like a house slave

Defiant_Error_ · 2021-11-17T12:58:11+00:00

🥺🥺 Maybe help wipe his ass, must be neglected too if he's working sooooooooo hard 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺

daisies4dayz · 2021-11-17T13:52:06+00:00

"He works hard".

I work 60 hours a week and still make time to clean my place every week. And take care of my physical and mental health. And take care of my pets. And make time for friends and family. And handle all other life maintenance activities.

What is with this idea that for men "working" exempts them from any other life responsibility?

I saw a tiktok recently from a woman that worked in a school who was calling out all the 'dads' she sees in her job who have no idea their kids full names, birthdates, teachers, allergies, etc. And soooo many commenters "well they probably work a lot, give them a break!" So? So? You would never see that kind of behavior excused if it was the mom.

Davina33 · 2021-11-17T08:45:39+00:00

Welp! No breakfast for me this morning 🤢🤮

mynameisrominka · 2021-11-17T11:07:24+00:00

Girl, no. As a human being who works and studies, I'm also taking care of living in a CLEAN place. So do all my girlfriends, some even take care of pets or are single mothers ON TOP OF ALL THAT. So no. No amount of hard work is an excuse to living in absolute filth. And my ladies also have their share of mental struggle. I would only do that for them, because we tend to take on SO MUCH, that sometimes it is inevitable to break and end up with anxiety or depression. If it came to that, I would jump on the cleaning wagon for my friends, my sisters. Not for a dude who can't be bothered with basic hygiene. And f*ck potential.

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2021-11-17T13:11:01+00:00

Wait im confused did they move into a crack den? and why the fuck would you clean with one hand and film with the other? that just seams so much harder and like we dont need proof that you cleaned the toilet.

The smell of desperation of from this video stinks more than that sink - gunk scum

eatapeach18 · 2021-11-17T13:18:40+00:00

Jfc I remember the first time I went over to my husband’s house back when we first started dating, it was spotless. And I mean, magazine/showroom quality spotless.

I commented on how nice his home was and he shyly admitted that he spent the entire day deep cleaning everything for my arrival (vacuuming the chairs and sofas, washing the cabinets, baseboards, and doors, power washing the siding and windows, shining the wood floors and furniture, even cleaned the inside of his oven because we were going to be making homemade pizzas and he knew I would see it). I appreciated the effort so much. Now that we are married and living together, I do the all the domestic care, but he pays a service to come and deep clean once a month.

NitzMitzTrix · 2021-11-17T11:16:26+00:00

My former coworker told me to never clean when he's present because then he'll get used to the idea of me cleaning. FUCK that noise, I'm not cleaning any more than he does. I'll have a fucking career, he can either tend his own room or walk.

FantasticBlood0 · 2021-11-17T10:59:17+00:00

Girl, if he is as hard working as he is good at cleaning his apartment…

klops_fighter · 2021-11-17T13:46:12+00:00

If he works so hard, why can't he pay for a cleaning service?

ArtisticBrilliant491 · 2021-11-17T18:51:31+00:00

Flash forward 10 years and she'll be in the Breakingmom sub complaining about her dirty and lazy husband who can't even "baby-sit" his own kids. Never. Ever. Clean.Up.After.Any.Male. They are not children and will very likely come to expect it and then get pissed when it's withdrawn. I've spent wayyyyyy toooo many hours of my life cleaning up after lazy dirty men. Don't do it. Don't even think about touching that sponge.

thanarealnobody · 2021-11-17T12:38:01+00:00

My mom works 15 hours in the day, 6 days of the week and she would NEVER let her bathroom get to this state. That is completely disgusting. The only excuse for that bathroom is if he lives alone with a severe mental illness, in which case he needs medical care, not a desperate girlfriend to scrub his shit-encrusted toilet.

Morepaperplease · 2021-11-17T12:28:29+00:00

You need a steam cleaner!!!

throwawayaway388 · 2021-11-17T14:17:44+00:00

Imagine filming this and putting it on your social media 🥴

MiaNaim · 2021-11-17T20:39:43+00:00

He's gonna bring another girl over to see how nice his place is after she cleans and remodels.

zombiessalad · 2021-11-17T18:40:26+00:00

Growing up with a brother you learn not to put up with that shit (pun intended) real quick. You make the shit stain u fking clean it or im throwing hands

pqrsthrowawayyyyy · 2021-11-17T21:25:21+00:00

Here’s a prime example of someone who’s dating a project.

Jinxhourglass · 2021-11-17T16:05:41+00:00

I looked at her other videos and she said she met him on discord. Explains so much. I wonder how bad her home life is that she moved out at 18 for an internet relationship.

heroic_nincompoop · 2021-11-17T21:28:40+00:00

🥺🥺Please be nice, he works hard 🥺🥺

Girl, niceness is what got us into this mess. No one shames him into cleaning up so he wallows in his own filth and develops the AUDACITY to bring a woman into his filthy, disgusting, nasty bacteria biodome of a home. Someone should have bullied him into cleanings long time ago.

🗣 BRING BACK SHAME 2022

GabbaG0ul · 2021-11-17T15:00:03+00:00

Cringe. I used to do this in my pickme years. Now, I would break things off if a dude had me over in a house looking like that.

anne-goldy · 2021-11-17T15:35:11+00:00

I have a genuine question-how does she sleep with him knowing how dirty he is?

iaintgonnacallyou · 2021-11-17T16:57:34+00:00

Her disclaimer at the beginning “Please be nice.” She knows she shouldn’t be doing this for a grown ass man.

xfelugirlx · 2021-11-17T17:18:06+00:00

Girl he’ll get used to it and will complain to wash the dishes later. Wtf is he paying you?? I bet no , you are not even married🤢🤢 i would never

waddamelone · 2021-11-17T15:27:25+00:00

For the love of Jesus Christ…….

Sea_Hag · 2021-11-17T15:37:32+00:00

There's that word....potential....

onions_r_evil · 2021-11-17T15:39:01+00:00

That is so foul. I would never stay with someone who was ok with living in filth like that, let alone brag about cleaning up like it's cut.

WorkaholicParty · 2021-11-17T17:06:27+00:00

What happened to self-respect?

mitzislippers · 2021-11-17T17:10:51+00:00

and he’ll still find one hour thru his busy day to bring another woman to the place u just deep cleaned, sorry “remodeled”. chile…..

mitzislippers · 2021-11-17T17:13:38+00:00

she didn’t even wear GLOVES…….,.😢🤮

throwupthursday · 2021-11-17T15:23:39+00:00

If that shitstained toilet wasn't enough to run in the first place let alone prevent her from moving in... oof

anne-goldy · 2021-11-17T15:44:50+00:00

As someone with OCD, even if I wanted to I cannot hide the disgust written on my face. I can’t even stay in a place like that.

BasketLow8411 · 2021-11-17T16:04:48+00:00

That is the nastiest! What in the actual fuck? I shouted out loud “NAH” when she got to the toilet.

The_Cat_Empress · 2021-11-17T16:54:22+00:00

"Please me nice, he works hard" ECH!

stares at filthy terlet

I shouldn't have eaten today...

mitzislippers · 2021-11-17T17:12:04+00:00

threw up in my mouth

intergalacticanon44 · 2021-11-17T17:41:04+00:00

If you want to do this, go ahead but KEEP THAT SHIT TO YOURSELF PLEASE😩😩😩

RabidWench · 2021-11-17T19:12:00+00:00

She says she just moved in and is cleaning for her "roommmate".

WHY didn't she do a walk through and decide that living with someone this disgusting was a BAD IDEA?

ballzntingz · 2021-11-17T19:36:18+00:00

I literally don’t even get how people don’t clean their toilets regularly. Sure it isn’t a fun chore but I love knowing my toilet is clean lol. My mom instilled in me from a young age to regularly clean the toilet.

fairywakes · 2021-11-18T03:47:10+00:00

Please be nice? Girl, if I could smack you in the face I would. $100 she is also paying for rent and most utilities.

Outrageous-Knowledge · 2021-11-17T18:43:49+00:00

Wtf how can someone let a toilet get like that?

Mayonegg420 · 2021-11-17T22:39:54+00:00

EIGHTEEN????????

Not me crying over a 35 year old who lived like this. Whew, needed this wake up call, lemme readjust my crown.

warinmymind94 · 2021-11-18T01:09:20+00:00

Omg that toliet is a biohazard. She's really scrubbing that shit had be on there for ages for it to be that caked on. Yuck.

Live in nannies make around 20 an hour with free food, room/board, and usually get to use the parents car with a gas card to run errands. Granted they only do light housework/tidying up and get to take care of the child. So I don't understand why she is taking care of a (man) child for free when she could have all those benefits plus a paycheck on top of it. I know being a nanny isn't for everyone and you have to be careful but it illustrates my point.

lolmemberberries · 2021-11-18T01:22:22+00:00

Looking at that toilet made me feel physically ill. Unless you're getting paid or it's your own child who doesn't know better, never clean a male's shit.

detikripur · 2021-11-18T10:53:33+00:00

luvmyvulvaxoxo · 2021-11-18T13:02:35+00:00

Omg this makes me so sad. I can only assume she’s had a rough go of it since she wants to make that disgusting place her home. She’s better off investing in therapy.

TululahJayne · 2021-11-19T04:49:57+00:00

Wow. So many of the young women are going to look back through their life on the internet and be so embarrassed. I mean, i hope they get embarrassed. When she finally snaps out of this stupor she's in, she'll realize how gross and disgusting this was, let alone posting it on TikTok.

esthermaniii · 2021-11-20T17:38:50+00:00

That toilet made me throw up a little… WTF

oneheadlight312 · 2021-11-25T15:23:12+00:00

Guilty of this in the past. Gets you nothing in return but makes him look good for the next girl who replaces you after you've cleaned him all up and made his life presentable.

Title	REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth busy none they can find one hour out of the week to clean their scum.
Author	GlancingWillow
Upvotes	865
Comments	128
Date	November 17, 2021 7:26 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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