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| 402 | Men will try to make their porn-sick ideas seem like a good idea for both of youA lot of women who go through with this end up traumatized and compare the experience to rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 11:03 PM |
| 151 | Just broke up with a sweet, funny, kind and attentive guy, because he works a minimum wage jobA minimum wage job?!?! At 40?! How?!?! If he were 21, I would understand. But all of the life experience you would have by 40, and he can’t show anything that would make an employer offer more than minimum wage?!?? Most jobs offer a few bucks over minimum for just being over 21 and existing. Huge red flag! Either he is lazy or he has something on his record that you don’t know about! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 06:03 PM |
| 41 | Have you ever been depressed about being single? How did you get out of that state of mind?I look back on my single days and beating myself up for it. I realized it was all the media and the culture. Realistically, we have a lot to lose when in relationships. I lost a lot entering relationships that I shouldn’t have, all for the sake of being paired off. The culture says that we can only find true happiness in a man. It’s all bullshit meant to sell you on being a mommy mcbangmaid. When in reality, you need to find happiness on your own. You can’t expect someone to be responsible for y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 05:37 PM |
| 80 | Men are now sticking women with needles instead of putting roofies inside their drinks! They’re now recommending we all wear denim jackets to avoid getting needle drugged at clubs and bars.Women actually OD from being drugged. It’s rampant in my area. But of course, as you are seeing in the media currently, red state lawmakers get off on violence against women. So you can be sure nothing will ever be done about it. Most of us just throw house parties now. Honestly, clubs are expensive and over rated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 04:16 PM |
| 28 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipMen like that don’t empathize with women, either. They do not care if they emotionally scar you for life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 02:57 AM |
| 81 | Watch him say he isn’t interested in a relationshipEven preFDS, I wouldn’t have had sex with someone who didn’t DTR yet. She is basically dating him exclusively on her end?!???? Girl! Y’all really out here wagering your hearts on men who aren’t even playing the same game. SMDH 🤦🏽♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/21 02:45 AM |
| 9 | I don’t have a car and I live with my mom but if you pick me up and cook for me I’ll send you to rehab (respectfully). Found on a Facebook group I’m in and… wow I’m so glad I’m married.Im having a stroke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 09:23 PM |
| 227 | It takes men a lifetime to view women as complete human beings.I do know men who fully respect women as people and empathize with women’s issues. But, they were all raised by 2nd wave feminists. It really is a privilege to be raised by a radical feminist. It really gives you a leg up in life to come out the gate respecting women as people, instead of going through this whole life journey of unlearning misogyny. Also, they’re not obsessing over hook-ups for validation. Which is a whole unnecessary set back in life that they get to avoid. Their attitudes towa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 05:26 PM |
| 322 | Would *YOU* be angry? If not, stop making excuses for men!!!We’ve been taught our entire lives that we are responsible for managing men’s emotions. We’re shamed from pushing back because it may upset them. So we remain overly agreeable and silent. But when you think back, this conditioning started very young. Remember being told to let bullying go because iT mEaNs hE LIkEs yOu. That was some shit, people! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 11:14 PM |
| 19 | Don’t Panic, Have a PlanOP, can your residing state prosecute you for an abortion performed in another state? Like what Texas is trying to pull? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 07:35 PM |
| 9 | Roe will likely be overturned.In all honesty, I don’t think the end goal was ever to return to 1950’s America. I think end goal is to produce more American babies. Remember all those headlines about declining birth rates months ago? It’s not a coincidence. The American population is projected to be under replacement. (Ie. Population decline) Which isn’t something that is ideal for a major superpower that is in a dick measuring contest with China. Typically, the answer would be immigration but racist old white people don’t li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 04:29 PM |
| 4 | Roe will likely be overturned.Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 04:08 AM |
| 10 | Roe will likely be overturned.If you read the entire post, I very specifically outlined that the decision would go back to states. Also please please please do not upload a real life selfie to a reddit account you intend to usr for FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 02:53 AM |
| 56 | Roe will likely be overturned.I have refused to date pro-life men my entire life. We are fundamentally incompatible. Why put yourself in that situation? What if you get pregnant and want to/need to terminate? That’s how I have always seen it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 01:58 AM |
| 17 | Roe will likely be overturned.Can you link a source? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 01:51 AM |
| 53 | Roe will likely be overturned.Women make up the majority of the work force. We have real power as a group. If even a fraction of us went on strike, it would be absolute pandemonium. Especially considering the industries that are majority female. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 01:37 AM |
| 62 | Roe will likely be overturned.Typically doctors won’t perform the procedure unless you’re over 25, married, have at least 2 children, and have at least one boy and one girl. There are women out there with debilitating endometriosis, who are likely sterile and still can’t get a hysterectomy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 01:17 AM |
| 23 | Roe will likely be overturned.That makes perfect sense, actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 01:04 AM |
| 93 | Roe will likely be overturned.Same. Once you’re aware of the patriarchy, you see it everywhere. You can’t outrun it, you can’t escape. Everyday, several times a day, I am made to be aware that I am a second class citizen. A dead body has more autonomy than a living woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:55 PM |
| 312 | Roe will likely be overturned.Im all in favor of women refusing to give men sex unless and until they marry us That’s what woman should do in protest. Hell, that’s what the conservatives want, right? Think how different things would be if overnight waiting till marriage was the norm. Political pundits would be raging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 11:18 PM |
| 17 | This made me feel dirty, I'm glad I broke up with himUgh, this is so sleezy and reeks of manipulation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 09:27 PM |
| 21 | You Really Are the Prize Followup - As a poster mentioned earlier- guys will do/spend anything for your attentionI mean, think about it. Men, on average, don’t take pride in their surroundings. That is a consistent complaint that women living with men have. So if a single man is paying for a highrise, I would assume they’re trying to impress somebody. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 07:37 PM |
| 3 | Yes please, more of that eagerness and love.That was my first thought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 05:03 PM |
| 7 | How come ladies say you don’t want to be the “ride or die” woman to a man who grew to be successful with you?Well one, you can only rely on yourself. You can’t guarantee that this man will succeed. You can’t choose for him every step along the way. You can’t make him buckle down and study for a test, show up to work on time or give his best at work. You can, however, consistently make good choices for yourself. Secondly, we want women to be financially independent. We want women to have the ability to leave should the relationship turn south. Lastly, typically if you’re building a man, you’re being use… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 03:06 PM |
| 19 | You really are the prize. Don’t let the media and the patriarchy convince you otherwise.Why is the beauty standard (at least what is depicted in porn, anyway) to be as petite as possible, no hair below the neck, and super young/cutesy? You know what else has those features? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 02:53 PM |
| 121 | You really are the prize. Don’t let the media and the patriarchy convince you otherwise.This! For a lot men, sex is the sole motivation for everything they do in life. They social climb to attract women. They buy cars to attract women. They will pick careers that are attractive to women. (Honestly, I think that’s the only reason men go into medicine) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 09:01 PM |
| 6 | He found me.The people who look the happiest on social media are the most miserable. It’s a cope. If he’s so happy, then why does he need to add you on social media? Don’t bother looking through his profile anymore. Nothing good can come from it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 09:10 PM |
| 23 | Can’t wait to see the male commenters of DM collectively lose their tiny minds.Claims that men who are mentally ill or not financially secure should be avoided Women wanting stability in a partner = female redpill?!?!? The redpill and manosphere have literally called for and executed acts of terrorism and hate crimes against women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 07:15 PM |
| 16 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 11:45 PM |
| 30 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.50% of men are infertile now Do you have any resources on this? Genuinely interested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 11:02 PM |
| 134 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.Damn……men really out here being too unfit for missionary. That never even occurred to me as a possibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 10:41 PM |
| 51 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.and not that much fun 85% of the time This. It’s like a job to maintain. Many our on very strict diets and work out 2 hours a day. So they can’t really enjoy the swanky restaurants they take their dates too. They have to maintain current trendy wardrobe and hairstyle. They need to appear flashy and throw money around. Then all of their free time is spent chatting up new prospective sexual partners. Doesn’t seem worth it to me. I really don’t understand why sex is that thrilling to them. I’d rath… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 10:34 PM |
| 85 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.Not only is he old enough to be your dad. He probably has children older than you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 09:59 PM |
| 156 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.And it’s not like they even TRY to attract a younger woman. They feel that society owes them a young hot woman, just for being a man and existing. Then proceed to put 0 effort into their appearance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 09:57 PM |
| 26 | Do you have any female role models?RBG, AOC, Gloria Steinem, Gail Dines and Gloria Allred. I kind of put the women on the FDS podcast in that role model category. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 09:18 PM |
| 182 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.I read a statistic somewhere that only about 60% of men get to have children. Probably less going into the future as women are having less children. They really are shooting themselves in the foot by choosing to be fuckboys. I think that’s why even these playboy types have set age that they want settle down by. They know they have an expiration date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 06:45 PM |
| 236 | The 30+ playboy life style isn’t what you think it is.Who has the audacity to ask someone to ask their friend if they can use then as fleshlight? What a fucking loser?!?!?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 06:05 PM |
| 15 | Misogyny is normalised because it only effects womenPeople are way more likely to support lgbt issues than women’s issues. Don’t get me wrong, I support and have participated in activism for both. My point is misogyny is rampant even in progressive circles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Male friend asked me on date and told me on date he’s “only looking to chill”You should have never texted him afterwards. It just feeds his ego that you are upset. He is probably bragging to his male friends about it. Something happened between him asking you on a date, and yes it was initially a date, and the day of the date. Maybe he is interested in another woman. Maybe Kendall said some unsavory things about you. Maybe he wanted to make Kendall jealous. Not that it matters because he is LV anyway. I would have gotten my check after the “I just want to chill” comment.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 04:48 PM |
| 5 | Why do men “not want a relationship” because of a breakup ages ago, but women are still willing to seek real connections and love despite the amount of horror we’ve gone through?They are both exceptionally attractive and successful. Most of the women they pull are their age or older. They also always have a target age that they want to magically be emotionally available by. Maybe I should make a post because the 30-40 playboy looks very different than what you would expect. And yes, most men in their 30-40s who are not exceptionally attractive, don’t really have options. At least in my city. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/21 03:37 PM |
| 53 | Help me out of this spiralYou didn’t even give us personal details and I already know this was a cycle-of-abuse relationship! Only a narcissist or sociopath would write a letter about “tHe gOod tImEs” 10 years later. Sis, be mindful. Meditate. Realize and accept how he was/is trying to manipulate you. Keep said letter as evidence incase you need legal help. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 06:47 AM |
| 26 | My husband told me to choose between him and my businessOnly worked the bare minimum to make his half of the bills? Employed by his parents for $30/hr?!?!? What happens when his parents die and no one on earth will pay him that for very part-time work?!? There was never a future with this man! And no, he was not working the bare minimum to spend time with you. He is outright lazy! Congratulations on getting rid of this future hobosexual. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 01:24 AM |
| 406 | Why do men “not want a relationship” because of a breakup ages ago, but women are still willing to seek real connections and love despite the amount of horror we’ve gone through?Honestly, it’s low EQ and fear of intimacy. I know men in their 30’s and 40’s who only do hook-ups because they had a breakup in their early 20’s. Definitely don’t be jealous, these men are LV. They aren’t going to magically flip the script, either. You don’t come back from using women as sex dolls for years and then having a successful longterm monogamous relationship. You’ve already trained you brain and body to separate sex and intimacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 01:12 AM |
| 24 | I present you the most useless man on planet earth!moderation is one of the useful jobs for society 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 10:59 PM |
| 79 | I present you the most useless man on planet earth!He removed her post, lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 05:54 PM |
| 40 | Thanksgiving blues..Our parents came from a different time. Aside from the few 2nd wave feminist mothers, most of our parents were raised to believe that the marker for success for women was marriage and children. It’s not true and it’s sad that even trumped being a lawyer (another marker of success most parents want). When I went through this with my family, I took some time away. Being hounded to get married to anyone, really wears on your psyche. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 01:11 AM |
| 33 | Do you think most of us were very naive when we were younger?There is nothing militant about FDS. Does FDS share a lot of principles with radical feminism? Sure, but FDS isn’t a political group. Are many of us on the left? Probably, but that is not a requirement, either. FDS is more or less self-help. When I have been accused of being “jaded” in the past, I was more so being shamed by pickmes for establishing a boundary or not giving a man easy sex. You will find that as you practice FDS, you will grow out of a lot of these friends. There is no balance be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 04:08 PM |
| 14 | Is it crazy to have a goal to make enough money to hire a PI to vet?This. Because you’re likely not going to get hard proof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 03:16 AM |
| 87 | What made you finally decenter men from your life?For me, it was when I left my job to open my own a business in the same field. I realized how much the men I worked with/for used validation (both giving and retracting) like strings on a marionette doll to manipulate me and other female colleagues. When my career/business immediately prospered far beyond that well established company, I knew it was all a ruse. I was always better than them. They knew this. They also knew that the patriarchy grooms women to seek male approval and validation. Ins… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 02:15 AM |
| 99 | Successful novelist wife writes a book on her lunch hour. Husband is mad.He is not upset that she could have been home an hour earlier. Actually, I don’t know of any jobs that let you skip break and leave early on a regular basis. He resents her success and her passion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 01:51 AM |
| 61 | Why do guys tell you they don’t want a relationship with you but get mad if you date someone else? (long read and rant)He wants the freedom to have sex with other women but wants you to be exclusive with him. When he told you to start dating other people, it was probably because he thought he had a shot to sleep with another woman. So he wanted to remind you of the status of your relationship, with hopes that you wouldn’t actually follow through. I “dated” a man like this. He would then show up to dates I was on and throw a scene. He went on to stalk me after I cut things off. So be safe! Him freaking out like t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:21 PM |
| 75 | A refusal to engage: How I came to terms with the reality of pornTo be honest, there isn’t a lot of benefit to being in a relationship with a man, to begin with. Women really do get the short end of the stick in heterosexual relationships. If we’re going to add porn use, insecurity, and acting out porn scenes on top of the pile of shit that comes with heterosexual relationships, nah I’m out. I’m good. Also the yOu nEeD tO wOrK oN yOuR iNsEcUrItIeS excuse is tiring. Even the women who look better than women in porn are going to feel a way about porn use. That’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 09:02 PM |
| 35 | A warning against having children with NVM. Can’t even join a pregnancy sub without seeing this shit. Oh but it’s okay because she can work on her “insecurities” and of course ComMunICaTe! 🙄Do men not understand that we do not need to carry THEIR INDIVIDUAL set of genes to have children? Do they not understand how big of a deal it is that someone chooses to have your children?!?! We can just go to sperm banks and pick out the ideal genes we want. We don’t need a second party to have children. I know this is going to get some people heated. If a spouse disrespected me like that, I would leave and depending on how far along I was, I’m not sure I would continue with the pregnancy. 🤷🏻… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 08:09 PM |
| 7 | My Boyfriend’s Father’s Obsession With Virginity & ThanksgivingHe’s not defending you enough. I’m sorry ,but if he doesn’t use this as one last opportunity to stand up for you, then I wouldn’t continue. My, now mother in law, had some similar sentiments when we first started dating and my husband shut it down. If he doesn’t want to risk offending his father to defend you, then he doesn’t see a future with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 03:58 PM |
| 136 | Red pill favourite Jordan Peterson doesn’t agree with their views on women and dating…JP just straight roasted his entire following! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:08 AM |
| 43 | Exposure to pornography in childhood can lead to the worst of porn addiction. I don’t think this is happening on accident, either.Yes! Then when you take into account the dopamine pathways involved, the near endless supply to/of these platforms, the anonymity. This is a level of programming/brainwashing potential that we have never seen before! This is horrifying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:51 AM |
| 14 | Exposure to pornography in childhood can lead to the worst of porn addiction. I don’t think this is happening on accident, either.Oh thankyou! I haven’t seen this one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:33 AM |
| 93 | Exposure to pornography in childhood can lead to the worst of porn addiction. I don’t think this is happening on accident, either.When you sell alcohol or cigarettes to minors, you get shut down. Yet, porn platforms are allowed to grant access to minors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 12:32 AM |
| 78 | Listen to male pickup artistsI encourage all women to read up on the red pill and Roosh V. A lot of men are influenced by this media and it is imperative that you can identify them because they are dangerous. I am reading “Men who hate women” by Laura Bates Strongly recommend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:36 PM |
| 75 | Advice for grey rocking/not responding/not entertaining LV people that you can’t avoid and/or just anytime an LV person comes your way?Grey rocking is a term used for dealing with narcissists. The idea is to blend into the background. So, full silent treatment isn’t blending into the background. It’s actually antagonizing. You don’t want them to know you have a problem with them. You want them to think you are a neutral person in the background that needs no further consideration. Any engagement should be short and business as usual. You don’t want to express strong opinions on anything with them. Remain stoic and brief in all … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:00 PM |
| 36 | How come if two people get into a physical fight, one or both parties catches assault charges? Yet, if a woman gets beaten up by a dom, it’s cOnSeNT?This. That seems to be a trend. Men can get of assault and murder charges by claiming it was consensual rough sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 10:45 PM |
| 95 | Exposure to pornography in childhood can lead to the worst of porn addiction. I don’t think this is happening on accident, either.I remember boys having access to porn. BUT they had to download it on the family computer and then get shamed for it. Still not ideal but much better than current. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 10:20 PM |
| 254 | Exposure to pornography in childhood can lead to the worst of porn addiction. I don’t think this is happening on accident, either.Am I in an episode of the Twilight Zone?!? I remember you couldn’t even cuddle with 19y/o without him getting an erection?!?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 10:10 PM |
| 49 | disillusionment is so painfulThat was wonderful. It is a painful process. And it is a process indeed. You go through periods of disillusionment. Then someone checks all the boxes. Then he cheats. Rinse. Wash. Repeat. But when the process is done and you accept reality and choose yourself, you are finally free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 10:04 PM |
| 14 | ⚠️ Angry woman incoming.It’s hard to avoid them. They’re like vultures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 09:41 PM |
| 3 | How do you handle exes who, whilst not harassing you directly and having no contact with you, are still acting in strange ways around friends you have in common? Crying to/in front of them, tirades about missing you, asking them to deliver messages, etc?Oh HELL NO! Do not engage with this behavior! If they get pushy, demand answers, etc. Cut them out! If they are just casually relaying info, brush it off and don’t engage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 08:48 PM |
| 57 | How come if two people get into a physical fight, one or both parties catches assault charges? Yet, if a woman gets beaten up by a dom, it’s cOnSeNT?Yes, the bdsm depicted in movies is not the bdsm in practice. It’s not cutesy hand cuffs and blindfolds. It’s violent torture and rape that is absolutely intended to inflict injuries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 08:01 PM |
| 24 | How come if two people get into a physical fight, one or both parties catches assault charges? Yet, if a woman gets beaten up by a dom, it’s cOnSeNT?I used a bar fight as an example as it is more of an agreement between two people. Whereas boxing and martial arts is a lot more complex. It’s agreements between the fighters, the trainers, the clubs, the venue, etc. There also isn’t any grey area. Fighters, trainers and clubs are fully aware of all of the possibilities, what is allowed, and what isn’t. But honestly, that’s what consensual violence should look like. If two people can’t give consent to violence on their own, then that should be f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 06:39 PM |
| 17 | Guys love it when they have an excuse to hit a woman.It’s kind of like the 2A people who fantasize about getting the clean legal kill. Or people who think they’re the Punisher. The truth is, they want to commit acts of violence. But, it is not socially/legally acceptable. So they have to look for loopholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 05:32 PM |
| 12 | Society teaches women and girls to idealize men and romantic situations.I look back on my past relationships and I see this. I was attracted to men who I thought could “fix” me. Or give me access to social circles that I didn’t have access too. Not realizing that I wasn’t attracted to them ,but the idealized version of them that I had created thanks to tools instilled in me by the patriarchy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 05:27 PM |
| 6 | Society teaches women and girls to idealize men and romantic situations.YESSSSSSS! THIS! Ngl, I faked crushes for this reason. Many girls do. Do you really think every girl in school is actually crushing on the same dude? Women aren’t all attracted to the same dude. We’re way more nuanced than that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 05:21 PM |
| 4 | Society teaches women and girls to idealize men and romantic situations.Do you have any sources I could read on this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 05:17 PM |
| 14 | Society teaches women and girls to idealize men and romantic situations.Sis. Thank you. Buying that book as we speak! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 02:43 AM |
| 22 | Society teaches women and girls to idealize men and romantic situations.Yes! Ooooooohhhhhhh this is the one they like to bring up when someone cheats or hits you for the first time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 02:40 AM |
| 60 | I’ve reached a point in my life where I advise my child free friends not to procreate with men. Exhibit a:Maybe we just need to hire someone to do chores Sooooo that was an option. Then do that you cheap selfish fuck. You’re lucky she didn’t drop out! Imagine being a whole ass MD, who out earns your MD husband despite working less hours because you’re badass, pregnant while in residency, probably seeing people die several times a week, then coming home to your scrote partner bitching that you didn’t wash his dusty ass boxers! He will probably cheat on her when she can’t have sex for 6 weeks post del… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 12:52 AM |
| 31 | Society teaches women and girls to idealize men and romantic situations.I hope one day, a really big news outlet will cover this subject. It won’t change much but some people will wake up and lead happier lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 11:08 PM |
| 14 | Anyone else become disillusioned with their male friends?I kept a few male friends that I have had for years who are great people. But they are only like 1/10th of the male friends I have made in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 11:05 PM |
| 128 | Society teaches women and girls to idealize men and romantic situations.I agree! It’s weird and borderline sexualizing/adultification of girls. I remember at 9y/o thinking I needed to have a boyfriend. Why? Because it was beaten in my head over and over and over again that girls need boyfriends. Also, why do girls get baby dolls but boys get toy cars?!?!? They were grooming us to be McBangMaids from day 1. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 10:39 PM |
| 63 | Society teaches women and girls to idealize men and romantic situations.I would always gaslight myself when I identified a red flag. Everyone has always told me that I was jUsGmEnTaL and cRaZy for thinking x,y, and z behavior was sus. Even though, my suspicions were right EVERY 👏 SINGLE 👏 TIME 👏. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 10:32 PM |
| 89 | Society teaches women and girls to idealize men and romantic situations.I didn’t put the hierarchical aspect of men together until FDS. Men are willing to cooperate if it’s to keep women down as a class. But otherwise they’re at odds with each other to be on top. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 10:29 PM |
| 12 | Importance of political beliefs?Some differences in political views is fine ,but what you described is too far. You need to have the same core values and your values are miles apart. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 09:40 PM |
| 289 | Amazing response by a woman who was prepositioned by an LVM to be his side piecePlot twist, his wife never gave him a hall pass. That’s why they present as together in public. Because they are together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 05:34 PM |
| 19 | 365 Days on Netflix really helped when I was feeling horny AF.That movie was horrible. I raged so much when it came out. It’s unethical to fetishize kidnapping and being held hostage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 01:05 AM |
| 21 | Annoyed with How Pressured Women Are Not to Be Angry or Bitter After a BreakupSide note: If the people in your inner circles make you feel as if you must act unaffected or even congratulatory for your ex’s new relationship with the woman he left you for, cut those people off. Cut them off now! Those are not your friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 01:02 AM |
| 12 | Men will scream misandry when you warn women to weary of all men until proven otherwise. Then, proceed to say the exact same thing the moment their daughters or sisters start dating/working/entering high school! So GTFO!”give these guys a chance” That is so gross. He would rather look out for strange scrotes to get laid than attend to his daughters healthcare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 09:00 PM |
| 10 | All men are predators and misogynists until proven otherwise. Period.This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 03:46 PM |
| 115 | All men are predators and misogynists until proven otherwise. Period.Best advice, don’t give out personal details, but politely engage. It’s really easy. Since men like talking about themselves, anyway. You can be strictly business professional while maintaining boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 05:13 AM |
| 35 | All men are predators and misogynists until proven otherwise. Period.Please go there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Y’all do not be hating LVM enough for me.When you engage in pickme behavior, you’re actively hurting women as a social class. I struggle to have sympathy for these women anymore, honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 05:57 PM |
| 6 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.Cringe. I used to do this in my pickme years. Now, I would break things off if a dude had me over in a house looking like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 03:00 PM |
| 8 | What's acceptable in terms of expressing interest in semi-social non-OLD settings?Please don’t. It never goes well. Best case, he will see you as an easy place holder gf. Once you express interest, he has the upper hand in the relationship. Men, have admitted to me that they have only dated women who liked them, not vice versa because they were insecure and thought women they wanted to be with wouldn’t be interested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/21 05:30 PM |
| 75 | The comment section is a dumpster fire. How dare she to have standards! Some of them are “I see her future buying dog and cat food”, “the higher they fly, lower they fall”, “phd doesn’t buy you class obviously”, etc.I’m cringing, why would he even bother to try to talk to her? I’m not trying to be mean, but dude come on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 06:05 PM |
| 55 | This is terrifying. Scrote at a thrift store tries to lure a 17 year old at to his farm talking about getting injured and needing help.He’s clearly done this before. Everything rolled off too smoothly. No pause in transitioning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 03:27 PM |
| 47 | This is terrifying. Scrote at a thrift store tries to lure a 17 year old at to his farm talking about getting injured and needing help.Her aimlessly shifting clothes back and forth, I felt that. When you know fully engaging would put you in danger so you try to divert your eyes and attention to something else. Then her replying “no im ok haha” when he asked to buy her something. Felt that too. You know youre in the presence of someone trying to rape you ,but society forces you to be agreeable. Make no mistake, that man went to the thrift store LOOKING for a gen Z aged girl to lure home. He is fully aware that Gen Z likes thrift… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 03:26 PM |
| 19 | Husband suggests she stop buying formula rather than get a job and cancel his $80+ a month subscriptions.I noped at hygiene products. This stuff gets me seriously depressed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/21 05:38 AM |
| 37 | The Bar is in Hell Expressions☠️ sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 06:13 AM |
| 27 | The Bar is in Hell ExpressionsThe bar is in Mariana’s trench. In theory. We do not have the technology to confirm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 06:13 AM |
| 60 | Hook-up culture is a lie! (This time with math!)Men typically won’t date women with OF either. But expect their partners to accept them using it. It’s a double standard with everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 09:19 PM |
| 58 | Hook-up culture is a lie! (This time with math!)Agreed. I feel like a lot of young women have hook-ups they don’t want because society has created this narrative that everyone has multiple casual partners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 06:03 PM |
| 15 | Doesn’t it seem like men only value women who they think are out of their league?But then they will treat said queen like shit once she is with him. Because stooping to his level makes her less valuable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 12:40 AM |
| 4 | I need support leaving my bf once and for allChange the locks and pack up all of his stuff. Have a third party, a friend of his maybe a family member, meet to get his stuff. He is already out of the house, dont let him back in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 05:03 PM |
| 26 | I need support leaving my bf once and for allYou don’t even need to break up with him. Just block and delete. He knows what he’s doing. There will be no confusion over what happened. If you live with him, move out when he’s at work. No need for discussion. He will only try to insult you or gaslight you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 10:07 PM |
| 64 | I need support leaving my bf once and for allHe consciously chooses to do something that he knows makes you unhappy. Then shows absolutely no remorse. It does not bother him that it hurts you. Do you want to be with someone who is not bothered by thought of hurting you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 09:48 PM |
| 7 | Do you guys know how or why our posts here would show up on this site? Y'all be careful, I legit just stumbled across this while searching my own reddit username out of curiosity. *Sorry in advance if this violates any rule and has to be removed.I just search my username and a lot of stuff I put up is archived on a lot of sites. What is going on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 09:07 PM |
| 120 | Reminder why it’s crucial that you do not reveal any personal information or pictures on the Reddit account you use for FDS. If writing a post looking for advice, I’d suggest lying about your age, the time the situation happened, names (obviously) etc for your own protection. Please stay safe.And to think, if it weren’t for those evil FDSers, someone might have given this nice guy a chance. *insert image of the joker | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 05:18 PM |
| 17 | Is bad sex a deal-breaker?You were already intimate with him, so don’t shy away from the hard questions (no pun intended). Do not sleep with him again unless you have this conversation. You need to know if he has ED. If he does, there is no point in continuing. If he isn’t willing to do foreplay or service your needs, there is no point in continuing. If he is a chronic porn user, there is no point in continuing. If this situation doesn’t do an immediate 180, there is no point in continuing. I know it sounds mean. Tough s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 02:58 PM |
| 9 | Is bad sex a deal-breaker?It might not be a deal breaker. There is always a learning curve with a new partner. Now him not being able to stay erect is a red flag. Yes it could be nerves ,but more likely, it’s porn addiction. You were already intimate with him, so don’t be shy about asking him the hard questions. Ask him about sexual history. Does he use porn? How often? Is he willing to stop? Is he willing to do more foreplay at your direction? How many partners has he had? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 02:50 PM |
| 19 | How I met my HVM husbandOh so this is an important distinction that I should have put in the story. When you meet someone on a dating app and set a time to meet, it is implied that it is a date. I met my husband through a friend and had already established s rapport with him before the date. So, it wasn’t out of the realm of possibility for us to be hanging out as friends. The moment I realized it was a date? When he paid for everything. That’s what makes something a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 02:02 PM |
| 16 | How I met my HVM husbandI’m definitely not conservative. But, yes, I have heard it from those circles. I only used the term because I wanted to separate it from current “dating” (ie. Coffee dates, Netflix). Which doesn’t deserve the term “dating” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 01:56 PM |
| 50 | How I met my HVM husbandIMHO dating apps are low value because they, by their existence, eliminate high value pursuit. The build up to ask me out on a date was two years. (Not that it should have to be that way. It’s a little much) If a dating app said you can unlock this profile in two years, every man would swipe left. It’s easy. It’s somewhat anonymous. There is no risk or investment. It is the fast food of romance. I don’t go to McDonald’s looking for caviar. They don’t sell that there. So I’m not going to Tinder l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 01:52 PM |
| 17 | How I met my HVM husbandDo it! We need success stories! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 01:34 PM |
| 30 | How I met my HVM husbandSo I met him and we started dating before FDS. After FDS, is when put my foot down and said “we aren’t just talking about marriage anymore, we are setting a date”. Not that he was bluffing or anything. We were always just vaguely planning a wedding. For me, it was radical feminism. I was lucky enough to have a few second wave radical feminists in my life to steer me in the right direction. Because, honestly, 22 year old me wasn’t strong enough to say no to walking dates and “just trying to have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 01:34 PM |
| 27 | Spotted in another thread. She needs FDS!The biggest shift that happen in dating for me is when I wouldn’t give men the time of day unless they went over the top to get my attention. I don’t tell men, or anyone for that matter, how to treat me. I don’t demand respect in big long text messages. Either you step up to plate with the behavior I want, or I go else where. That goes for friends, family and employers too. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 05:16 PM |
| 26 | My family and friends push me to be a pickme & tell me I’m being too picky if I don’t want to date men I don’t find attractive.Two reasons. A. They want you to pair up for the sake of pairing up. Typically, relatives. This is common in traditional cultures. It’s more so that they don’t want to be connected to some one with the status of “single”. It’s quite archaic. My family was this way. I try to bring them to the light, but its a slow process. Sometimes you have to dust it off, roll your eyes, and say “ok nana” B. The more likely reason is low self esteem and jealousy. Either they’re upset that they settled for a los… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 02:02 PM |
| 93 | Prime example that having money does not automatically make you a HVM! Beware of ‘godly men’ queens.sometimes I give her a jar of pickles UwU I can’t stand Christian humor. So you marry a woman for obvious nepotism potential and free labor. But sometimes you remember to give her a jar of pickles after negging her to the public for chewing louder than your liking. Get fucked! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 03:09 PM |
| 459 | When we say some men are delusional, this what they mean. Your wife is not yet born is creepy! Calling women pretty young things is gross and dehumanizing.What’s delusional is creating a sock puppet account to comment on it. No woman in her early 30’s refers to herself as “gal”. And what in the fuck does a 40+ man have in common with a 20 year old? A 20 year old is still in a somewhat teenage mind set. Which, surely, would be beneath a middle age super alpha business fitness bro. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 12:41 AM |
| 28 | Stop having sex with men who can’t master vanilla.That’s just minimum requirement. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 09:45 PM |
| 60 | “Women catch feelings easier than men”Absolutely. They will talk non-stop. Take on your interests. Some even go as far as talking about a future. Then when they get what they want, they ghost. You’re made out to be the cRaZy eX for not bring happy about it. It is all very strange to me. To put that much effort into sleeping with a particular woman. Just go on tinder or get a prostitute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 09:32 PM |
| 159 | Stop having sex with men who can’t master vanilla.I don’t get how men are into anal, but refuse to give head. You have to be into men then. It just doesn’t make sense otherwise. Not that I care. Go be with a man, just don’t waste my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 06:56 PM |
| 11 | I was a pickme for 11 years - I changed because of this sub.I used to feel that way in school as well. Always overlooked for my friends. Boys would make fun of me if they thought I had a crush on them. Then, when men started to notice me, I couldn’t handle it. I mistook basic fuck boy behavior as love. I trusted men who used that trust to more easily assault me. You didn’t miss anything. I promise. I did eventually meet a HVM and got married ,but it took sorting through a lot verbally/sexually/physically abusive men to get there. Although I am happy now,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 06:12 PM |
| 140 | Stop having sex with men who can’t master vanilla.Same sis, same. Good vanilla sex out does everything else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 05:09 PM |
| 25 | Friend is being bullied by PickMe roommate over a guy, what would you do?Your friend needs to leave the living situation and cut everyone off. She is not safe right now. This is beyond Pickme, this woman is insane and dangerous. Nothing can repair this situation, especially not a threesome. Actually, that would be like throwing kerosene on a fire. This is Psycho level boil your bunny on the stove shit. This woman is obsessed with this man and will stop at nothing to get him. She also resents your friend for being more attractive to him. Run! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 05:32 PM |
| 179 | What do you wish someone had told you about men when you were 14?Most boys don’t care about you or girls as a social class. They make fun of you behind your back and only care about their bros opinions. -It’s easy to mimic love and romance. Boys will do anything to get nudes or sex to brag about to their bros. (See my first point) -If you send nudes, everyone in his friend group has seen them and they are criticizing your body. (It does not matter how attractive you are) -Crushes are stupid. You are just projecting your wants and pain on a boy who is probably… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 09:49 PM |
| 73 | Is it okay to not want to date in your 20's?If I had to do it all over again, I wouldn’t. Dating is a giant distraction and it effects everything! Mental energy is not infinite. If you are worrying about why he’s not texting back, is he cheating yadda yadda, then that is going to hinder your ability to do anything else. Also, you arent going to find happiness in a man. Period. So stop wasting the time in your life when you should be searching for happiness, on men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 09:30 PM |
| 10 | Men will date/marry women they aren’t even attracted to/like, if their appearance brings them status.It is! Dressing for you mans’ homies because if they don’t think you’re hot, you’re out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 04:23 PM |
| 27 | Men will date/marry women they aren’t even attracted to/like, if their appearance brings them status.For me, I was always left for a thin blonde woman. Or, I was a side piece, and the woman he was with in his social/professional life was a thin blonde woman. Something about thin and blonde is a huge status signifier to men. For anonymity, I will not disclose my ethnic background, but I will say I am not if western European decent. That has been the biggest thing affecting my dating life. So be weary of this on all ends of the spectrum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 02:25 PM |
| 19 | Men will date/marry women they aren’t even attracted to/like, if their appearance brings them status.The accuracy is amazing. Well said! Any time I settled for a less attractive man, he monkey branched to a more beauty standard adhering woman who, only saw him as an option because he was seen with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/21 02:20 PM |
| 114 | Today in 'having a kid together won't fix your relationship'A reliable YouTuber mentioned that he is a really bad drug addict. Which is par for the course, honestly. Most celebrities are narcissistic drug addicted abusers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 02:56 PM |
| 14 | Upholding boundaries around porn/sex work/strip clubs is not insecure. Actually, it’s the opposite of insecure.Most men can’t handle women doing anything in the non-monogamous realm. Most men are not ok with women even following a fitness dude on Instagram. But we’re supposed to accept blatant consumption of sex work????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 05:04 PM |
| 71 | Men Who are Still Friends With their ExesThat’s a no from me. Men who keep exes around are actually just securing a pool of sexually available women should they not have access to one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 01:09 AM |
| 102 | Upholding boundaries around porn/sex work/strip clubs is not insecure. Actually, it’s the opposite of insecure.Beautiful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 12:01 AM |
| 123 | Spotted in another sub. Subtle red flag that I (as a short-legged woman) have experienced too!This is a red flag. Abusers/narcissists/sociopaths aren’t always calculated. A lot of the times they just throw shitty behaviors out and see what sticks. This shitty behavior makes him feel that 1. He is above her physically 2. She is at his mercy with speed. He wants her to physically struggle to be near him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:36 PM |
| 42 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupGreat take. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:17 PM |
| 87 | This is what you get if you act „low maintance”. You are worth less than a good PC setupHe lived rent free and she was basically his care giver during rehabilitation. Damn dude, you cant splurge a little extra to make up for the lost rent? He got his cushy job through her family but thinks it’s no big deal because he was qualified?Yeah I’m sure there were 100+ applicants who were also qualified. Guarantee he would not have gotten that job without her nepotism. Those two details alone, throw the whole man out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Men who value their bros over their romantic partners are probably low-key gay.I don’t know, these men are in LOVE with other men. They rank them above their wives. They value them. They look up to them. They look forward to spending time with them. They are intimate in the form of vulnerability/secret sharing that they don’t share with their wife. They are committed to them. That’s romantic love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 11:03 PM |
| 56 | A short video on why casual sex doesn’t benefit women.Hook ups are just fantasy. It is not the exciting throws of passion we see on tv. In reality they are awkward at best and life threatening at worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 10:36 PM |
| 7 | Invalidation in FriendshipsI don’t value advice from many people regarding relationships. The end goal for the average advice giver is 1. Pair her off with anyone no matter what 2. Make her stay no matter what. As a culture, we haven’t moved as far from traditional values as we thought. That’s why friends will jump at the opportunity to explain away clear cheating or clear disinterest. They themselves have internalized that their worth is attached to their husband. Therefore they think it’s better to have any man, than no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/21 10:11 PM |
| 128 | How do you handle men in your professional life who think they’re in love with you?Honestly, this is why a lot of business women used to “sleep their way to the top”. They had to and it’s not a short cut either. It’s a penance to get in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 09:35 PM |
| 9 | My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted.He literally just said he watches porn because he’s not attracted to you, and that’s supposed to make you ok with it? Also, giving up drinking is a WAY bigger commitment than giving up porn. Granted, cutting back is always good. But giving up drinking can hinder your social circle and networking capabilities depending on your career. Giving up porn doesn’t do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 03:20 PM |
| 275 | Are men not attracted to women they respect?I have experienced this too. It’s how they categorize women. Either you’re a respectable woman or you’re a woman who exists for sex. I would say madonna/whore complex ,but they don’t respect their partners either. I think they also have really low self worth. Like, if you could stoop so low as to sleep with them, then you can’t be respectable. On the other hand, HVMs are only interested in women they respect. So just see this as another thing working in your favor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 09:25 PM |
| 29 | Men who are virgins late in life are red flags.It’s a whole thing. Age of first sexual encounter keeps raising for men. Let it! It doesn’t do women any favors if these men start having sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 04:43 PM |
| 8 | If he can’t pick up a box of tampons for you, he aint it!Fucking 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 04:05 AM |
| 74 | Rewatching Friends and realizing sweet, funny Joey is actually T.E.R.R.I.B.L.E.Yeah “Friends” did not age well. It actually wasn’t funny. It was funny to children who were watching it ,in the background, when their parents put it on. I remember laughing hysterically at Joey putting the turkey on his head. It’s a sexually charged show for children, basically. Typical of the 90’s/2000’s family shows. Remember “Two and a Half Men”? “King of Queens”? All garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 04:05 AM |
| 23 | Man cheats on wife online with a model who turns out to be a romance scammer. Says he married his wife “out of convenience” & doesn’t want to make the marriage workThe fact that she was researching this and protecting him, omg! All the love she had wasn’t enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 03:52 AM |
| 89 | quick and easy ways to vet: how to tell there is a mask in the first placeI’m going to sound crazy here ,but I feel it. It’s intuitive. When you trust and acknowledge your intuition, instead of rationalizing it away, it does wonders for both you personal and professional life. I have been pursued by every type of horrible man, and after a while, it just dripped off of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 03:08 AM |
| 51 | Men use going to the strip club as an excuse to openly cheat without actually labeling it as cheating. You are gaslit by society and men to accept this particular scenario of cheatingHave you ever seen the Sopranos? A lot of them are like that. At least where I live. And a lot of men who go to strip clubs pay for sexual services then use bro code to hide it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 12:33 AM |
| 69 | If he can’t pick up a box of tampons for you, he aint it!Look if a man is getting tampons at the store, it means there is a woman. Which also means he is having sex. He is the true alpha. If I were a man, I would buy tampons even if I didn’t have a woman, just as a flex. Then bicep curl them on the way out to make sure all the dweebs know, I am the true alpha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 09:03 PM |
| 69 | Be careful out there ladies - they're finding new ways to target usWhat the actual fuck….. So now we’re getting drugged with bonus hepatitis? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 02:52 PM |
| 138 | These NVM ain’t even trying to cover up what they really think anymore… it’s truly sad that their are women that will actually choose to match with these sick men.So basically his interests are too logical and deep for a woman to possibly like. You wont have anything in common and he already cant stand being around you despite not knowing you as all women are interchangeable. But make an arrangement for free sex, maybe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:51 PM |
| 192 | Men always knowIt would be weird because his colleagues know he’s married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 11:20 PM |
| 14 | Degrees don’t always equate to success. Be on the look-out for Dr. Hobo.That’s a good point. I didn’t know they that much to keep them in. He must have done something then | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 10:02 PM |
| 16 | Degrees don’t always equate to success. Be on the look-out for Dr. Hobo.Yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 07:48 PM |
| 8 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsThat’s the part that gets me. I get there are women who will over look cheating, but what about STDs? Even with condoms, HPV is super easy to get. I don’t trust these men to wear condoms. If they do, it’s only to protect against pregnancy. They aren’t wearing it for oral or anal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:25 PM |
| 75 | Degrees don’t always equate to success. Be on the look-out for Dr. Hobo.I personally don’t think he finished his MD. Although, I don’t really have a way to prove that. I know for a fact he got in and attended the first year. I think he dropped/failed out at some point, then jumped into an unrelated PhD program to prolong paying loans. Also, if he had successfully completed all of these degrees, it wouldn’t line up time wise, unless there was over lap. He is still in his 30’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 04:20 PM |
| 60 | Degrees don’t always equate to success. Be on the look-out for Dr. Hobo.I’m surprised they let him since multiple doctorates are actively discouraged in academia I have a sneaking suspicion that he didn’t finish, swept those credits under the rug and applied for different programs. Who finishes medical school and then peaces out? You also don’t have to pay on student loans while in school. So that could be the motive. Medical school is a solid 200k. I don’t know what you do if you don’t finish and have to start paying in those loans in 6 months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 02:52 PM |
| 77 | Bachelor Party And Strip Clubshow his ex cheated on him with three men and he wished he never knew about it You are WATCHING him rationalize cheating in his head and not telling the partner in real time. That was a Freudian slip. The mask fell. He has already cheated or he is planning on cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 10:12 PM |
| 197 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsI guarantee they do more than get strippers if they have this bro code arrangement……. My uncle was like this. Just going out with his bros to strip club, what more can happen? Bro code kept everything an airtight secret. Until now, 25 years later, it all comes to light. 2 dozen CONFIRMED affairs! (That’s JUST the confirmed ones) My aunt went 25 years and 4 kids with this man, not knowing that he was having at least 1 affair per year. Yes, maybe the affairs weren’t with strippers. But, the type o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 10:01 PM |
| 426 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsHe is fully intending to be sUrPriSeD. Believe me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 09:50 PM |
| 116 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsDon’t. Marry. Him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 09:49 PM |
| 9 | Porn is going to have major implications on the future and no one is talking about itOr having reproductive rights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 03:15 PM |
| 108 | Men don’t always marry the woman they love the most: a n insight from an OLD convoMarriage is beneficial to men. They’ll not only marry women they don’t love as much, they’ll marry women they don’t even like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 11:33 PM |
| 38 | Porn is going to have major implications on the future and no one is talking about itThey’ll say it was due to the greedy porn stars looking to make an easy buck by exploiting their sexuality 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 11:20 PM |
| 24 | Porn is going to have major implications on the future and no one is talking about itHoly……shit……… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 10:57 PM |
| 57 | Porn is going to have major implications on the future and no one is talking about itI really really wished this were true, but that would require some form of censorship or restricted access. Unfortunately, the legality around this is very muddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 08:02 PM |
| 162 | Response to 40+ yo men who want kids "someday"Wanting kids some day, is code for “I want to use as many women as possible and then baby trap one once I hit the wall” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 07:56 PM |
| 157 | Porn is going to have major implications on the future and no one is talking about itI started to fall down that rabbit hole of being a cool girl kinkmeisha. Because the narrative was that being into kink and open relationships was the eMpOwErInG feminist thing to do. It wasn’t until FDS that I realized that libfems are actually just there to do the grooming for depraved men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 07:47 PM |
| 163 | Porn is going to have major implications on the future and no one is talking about itI deal with a lot of college women, and a lot have denounced dating. Very few have boyfriends. Some are into hookups ,but that’s it. College aged men were literally raised by porn. When I was a teenager, yes there was internet porn, but we had to download it on the family computer. It’s the streaming porn that really changed the game. A lot of these younger women say that men can’t even get aroused by them, they have to use porn. Then jack hammer them for either a short amount of time or a reall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 07:10 PM |
| 148 | Porn is going to have major implications on the future and no one is talking about itIf you would have asked me 10 years ago what would cause the collapse of society, I would have said Al Qadea. Never would I have thought that ooooo nAkEd lAdIes on the internet would cause the fall of man. But here we are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 05:15 PM |
| 213 | HVM tried to give sound advice to a young single mother in distress and got so much hate from RedditOP knows his step son is a scrote. Seems like the woman who was crying on the couch didn’t. But libfems think its anti-feminist to throw a woman a hint that what ever promises OP’s stepson made to get you there, arent it. That single mothers, or any woman for that matter, shouldn’t waste time on men LIKE OP’s son (ie fuckboys) OP’s son isn’t being upfront about what his intentions are. He is love bombing these women. That’s why he was able to have 20+ women over since he graduated, by 19, during… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 02:46 PM |
| 12 | Be weary of men who are raised in cultures that push machismo.Yep, lol. Then they get mad when the wife sleeps with someone else. Don’t be mistaken, men want the faithful wife and mistress set up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 04:25 PM |
| 24 | Be weary of men who are raised in cultures that push machismo.The huger the scene = the more bro points | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 02:25 AM |
| 29 | Be weary of men who are raised in cultures that push machismo.The saddest part is a lot of these women think they are going to an exotic place for an internship or entry level experience. The world is a horrible place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 02:23 AM |
| 47 | Be weary of men who are raised in cultures that push machismo.I used to think this too. I assumed these virgin women had to be fooling around as much, just not flaunting it. Turns out they rely on tourists and sex workers trafficked in from the Ukraine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 11:29 PM |
| 43 | Be weary of men who are raised in cultures that push machismo.That is exactly what they do! So I’ve had real talks with a few who recognized how toxic machismo is in their teens, and worked to unlearn it. They’re taught from an early age from their male relatives. All the psuedo-romance tricks, how to manipulate women, how to gas light, the time frame to start switching from star crossed lover to cheating pig. All of it is calculated. He was also taught to not empathize with women because this is what it meant to be a man. That women are there to be used f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 11:19 PM |
| 21 | Be weary of men who are raised in cultures that push machismo.I’m not saying the US is any better. It’s just this is a different type of misogyny that needs additional rules for vetting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 11:03 PM |
| 20 | Finally left my fiance thanks to this subThrew a fit when you said you wanted to work less? He didn’t want a wife, he wanted a paycheck. Good for you sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 09:23 PM |
| 89 | Be weary of men who are raised in cultures that push machismo.Absolutely! Every culture pushes machismo and the subjugation of women. I guess what im trying to get at, which I didn’t address in my post, is that I see women who haven’t grown up around these type of men, getting absolutely duped by them. They put more effort into wooing a woman than most dudes in the US. So these women assume they are high value, not realizing that this all part of it. These men are next level at subjugation and I feel like there are additional red flags and vetting strategi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 08:26 PM |
| 100 | Be weary of men who are raised in cultures that push machismo.It is harder identifying it in someone who is foreign. It also depends on how much they are trying to hide it. In my family’s country, it is outright in your face. They don’t try to hide it. Do they sometimes mask their intentions with romance? Sure. But otherwise they are openly dogs. In the US, they figured out that it isn’t as well received. That they kind of have to lure women in on false pretenses. Some going as far as posing as a feminist. Then slowly groom them into being a tradcon woman … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 07:50 PM |
| 57 | Be weary of men who are raised in cultures that push machismo.I have a few friends who unlearned it. They’re literally taught it in childhood by their fathers. He said that once middle school came around, his father didn’t care about anything about him besides how many girlfriends he had. Like your worth is dictated by how many women you can bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 07:35 PM |
| 201 | blocked and deleted a scrote for switching up on me after 2nd dateThey’ll create additional profiles. Some will even go as far as using a fake name with the women they date. The late texts and saying you wouldn’t hear from him in two weeks, sounds like he is hiding you from his wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 07:15 PM |
| 204 | Be weary of men who are raised in cultures that push machismo.This is a good one! Yes! They want a woman who can pick up where their mother left off. They are also total mama’s boys who will go home to have their mom do their laundry. 🙃Often times, mom is expected to provide cooking/cleaning until he finds a woman to take over. Also, the mother will be a central part of your relationship as she needs to make sure you can cook his chicken tendies to her standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 07:08 PM |
| 5 | The danger of using FDS inconsistentlyTo me it sounds like he couldn’t afford his apartment. Pressured a woman into letting him move in, against her boundaries. Then is confused that she won’t wait hand and foot on him. Who wants to bet that he doesn’t have a job and isn’t contributing to rent? His whole speech about “a pilot doesn’t become a pilot”. Just do the laundry dude. It’s the least you can do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 05:33 PM |
| 122 | The dates where nice, and he was a gentleman. However….Sleep overs are for children. I understand going out to the bar and crashing on a friends couch but planned sleep over are a no go. He is either in love with these women, they have a fwb/side piece relationship or both. Any logical adult would give up sLeEp oVeRs for a significant other. Sorry you wasted any time on this clown. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 03:29 PM |
| 165 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 31 - Female Political Strategy: We're Coming For You (feat. Elle)Was not a fan. I get listening to other view points ,but you are platforming one of our oppressors. Gold star republican? There is no two ways about it. American conservatives are anti-women’s rights. Also, I don’t see conservative podcasts bending over backwards to respectfully hear our views. If she believes men should lead, then redpilledwomen is where she belongs, not FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 08:56 PM |
| 15 | Get a female therapist, not a male oneMale therapists are horrible. I’m sorry. I quit counseling because one psychologist’s negligence led to two suicides. In general men do not make good counselors. They’re too self interested to get anything done. I met one good male counselor, and he was a crisis counselor. So it was more that he was good at remaining collected. Men are interested in looking out for what is best for men as a class. All of his dating advice was to help the men you were dating get what they want from you. He couldn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 04:39 PM |
| 130 | Straight from the horse's mouth and a reminder why you shouldn't date men you are not attracted to in some way shape or form. Because chances are he's just settling for you, if he could do better he would replace you in a heartbeatThis is why you never ask men out or admit you have a crush. You are just advertising that they can use you for little effort. They’re not even attracted to you. You’re just low hanging fruit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 03:16 PM |
| 31 | Poor PickMe did a dang photoshoot 🤦♀️She is wayyyyyyyyy too hot for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 01:03 AM |
| 36 | Father playing devils advocate when it comes to sexual child abuse, but wife’s not sure what to do?! Raising daughters is terrifying.Yeah this is not a situation where you cOnFrOnT. Safety is first. Being alone with a man and telling him the 100% valid reason why you’re leaving him, is not a safe place to be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 02:47 PM |
| 6 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.To me it’s like advertising the likelihood that you carry hpv. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:55 PM |
| 9 | Men just have to ruin their chances, don't they?Trash took itself out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 01:52 PM |
| 19 | Sex without intimacy is boring and low value.Where they measure value by taking down women they see as more high achieving/better That’s exactly what it is! They think that if they sleep with a high achieving woman’s husband, that they now have more status. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:42 AM |
| 73 | When dating, do you have certain professions that you avoid?Definitely avoid police officers and military. High rate of cheaters. Bar tenders are also a no go. Hesitant on anyone in the restaurant industry,tbh as there is a huge party/hookup culture tied to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 01:26 PM |
| 8 | And y’all are still using OLD?They even have apps that swipe for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 02:55 PM |
| 129 | Don’t get roped into talking about the break-up. There are no good intentions. Either he wants to “win” the break-up or he wants to coax you into a situationship with less boundaries. He is not your counselor. He is not here to process with you.Exactly. He needs to win the breakup. The “therapy” comment was hilarious. Like dude, she is not hung up on you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 11:03 PM |
| 2 | I think we can all guess how this went down-- Elon must've used his work travel as an excuse to have an "oPeN rElAtiOnShiP", a total slap in the face to Grimes after having his baby!!! Friendly reminder that most wealthy men are LVM who treat women as sex objects and incubators.He already did this to his succession of wives before her. His first wife (who he had several kids with) wrote an article about it. Said all the big tech dudes do it. They get pretty young wives who they pressure to act a certain way. Then they kick them to the curb sometime in their mid-thirties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 08:09 PM |
| 256 | I did this in high school 🤡 and guess what? It did not turn out well. Never doing it again. If he wanted to, he would.NEVER ASK A MAN OUT! If you have to ask him out, he is likely not interested and will make fun of you to his friends for even attempting. On the off chance he does say yes, the relationship will be permanently titled in his favor and he will make zero effort. He will devalue you and see you as someone he settled for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 08:04 PM |
| 30 | Masturbation requires porn apparentlyPeople masterbated for all of human history without porn. Streaming porn is very recent. But hey, if you don’t value yourself enough to want more respect from your partner, not my problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 07:56 PM |
| 5 | Two things are going on here. 1. He can’t grow up 2. He probably has, or will at some point, have an affair with someone from back home. Making this a normal routine sets up a guaranteed 3 days a week that he can do whatever while not being checked in on. C’mon sis!Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 01:53 PM |
| 79 | Two things are going on here. 1. He can’t grow up 2. He probably has, or will at some point, have an affair with someone from back home. Making this a normal routine sets up a guaranteed 3 days a week that he can do whatever while not being checked in on. C’mon sis!Totally, and she gets to be the fun weekend gf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 04:53 PM |
| 11 | How do you deal with gaining less interest in dating and men overall?You’re disillusioned by men. We are groomed from childhood to find “prince charming” and to project all of our wants onto men and “crush” on them. Then after being proved time and time again that every dude you crushed-on or idolized was trash, you kind of stop. Which is good. Now you can go into dating with a clear mind that is willing to admit the flaws in your potential partners. It also sounds like you’re burnt out. Maybe take a break. Definitely get rid of the dating apps. I could go on abo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 02:42 PM |
| 14 | I don’t really have words for this one.I think she meant to say a week, which would be normal for the gym. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 01:46 PM |
| 44 | I don’t really have words for this one.What is AGP? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 01:17 AM |
| 56 | I don’t really have words for this one.I know right?!? Like I feel bad laughing at it ,but it’s so goddamn weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 01:16 AM |
| 10 | Recent discontent with (potentially LVM) bf - need insightYou have a high libido and are into fitness. He does not. You are not compatible. LVM or not, these are two areas where you need to be roughly on the same page. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 12:09 AM |
| 77 | Update: I posted here a few days ago about a longtime male (now ex) friend in his 30’s randomly sexualizing my 13 yo daughter (check my post history for more details). Many of you prophecized that he would say “it was just a joke”. And well, received this from a mutual friend tonight.When “iT’s jUsT a JoKe gUyS”, doesn’t work out for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 03:38 AM |
| 15 | I feel like women might be waking up to what this sub preachesI saw this in that sub! There have been a lot of actually feminist posts from them recently. They’re growing, becoming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 02:33 AM |
| 107 | Just realized my brother and I were raised differentlyI’ve literally had male roommates who couldn’t cook for themselves so they ordered carry out every day. Like, how do you not know how to feed yourself? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 01:24 AM |
| 6 | It’s not funnyHim- “It was just a joke” Me- “ Jokes are supposed to funny.” If they push it, I call them out on their boundary testing. That’s what they’re doing. They know its not funny and you will fine it offensive. It’s not “edgy humor”. They are using this as an opportunity to see how far they can talk down to you without consequence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 11:24 PM |
| 6 | Jewish Women- Please Be Careful Out ThereScrote straight used genocide as a neg. 🤦🏻♀️ I can’t right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:34 PM |
| 84 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?Can we just put an end to this boudoir shit. No, I do not need naked photos of me to feel mOrE sElF cOnFiDeNT and get over body image issues. Also, presumptuous of them assume we have body image issues. No, this shit isn’t eMpOwErInG. It definitely doesn’t cure BDD. IT’S FUCKING PORNOGRAPHY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:13 PM |
| 48 | Strategies for running background checks on men-Reverse phone number searches for phone numbers. -You can look up court/criminal records when you learn their state. Lexis Nexis is the software that lawyers use to look up legal history. -Reverse image search their profile pictures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 08:10 PM |
| 21 | so.. I let my feelings get ahead of my logic and did something idioticI read your other posts. I was raised by narcissists and have dated several. They can smell the vulnerability. So once you’re exposed to narcissistic abuse, more narcissists will pursue you as they can tell that some of the brick work was already laid. You will have to learn to identify these behaviors early. Following the FDS handbook will definitely help to weed these dudes out. Let me take a wild guess here and assume he was desperately in love with you for the first few months? Then slowly c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 07:28 PM |
| 58 | If you want a revolution, don't appeal to men in the hopes of getting them to see our POV. Instead, open other women's eyes to the stark reality of dating and gender relations.Also, be weary if forced teaming. This is when we are pressured to mold feminist view points to make them more palatable to men. This is how we ended up with liberal feminism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 04:50 PM |
| 162 | Porn actress on TikTok admitted that stopping a scene had consequencesI recommend “Hot Girls Wanted” it is very insightful. Also, there is an endless pool of young women willing to do this work. So if they say they don’t want to do something, their career is over and someone else takes their place. They are also responsible for supplying their own costumes, toys, etc. A lot of the money they male just goes back into the job. Rich porn stars are a thing of the past. The really big stars like Jenna Jameson, became rich because people had to physically purchase video… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 03:53 PM |
| 23 | My gripes with dating menI agree with you 100%. I believe it is less to do with biology and more do with culture. But yes, what is the point in emotionally investing in someone who will eventually see you as the ball and chain that is keeping him from pursuing other conquests? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 06:22 PM |
| 5 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.I saw that comment and that particular redditor has put a concerning amount of energy into bashing this post. There is a lot of femcel-ish comments in her comment history as well like “Beautiful women are handed things”. It may appear that beautiful women are just handed things ,but that is because you do not see what is happening behind the scenes. Women who take those short cuts in life, pay for it gravelly. Sugar daddies are basically paying to abuse you. Instagram models are often escorts. Y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 05:22 PM |
| 4 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.It’s internalized misogyny. It is widespread and deeply ingrained in us. I’ve had to check myself before when working with attractive women. Shit! Just look at this comment section. I know some of the comments were deleted but there are women attacking this post because, god forbid, some one is willing to stand up for attractive women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 04:49 PM |
| 26 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.I think a lot of employers see female employees as a pool of sexually available women for the male staff. No one talks about this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 04:33 PM |
| 19 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.Not trying to sounds conceited as well. I honestly don’t think being attractive makes anyone better than anyone else. I think it’s all bullshit, honestly. There is a female celebrity/model who apparently people think I look like and frequently ask for autographs and pictures. I’m too short to be a model but I have been offered to do porn and glam modeling 🤢 🤮 (side note: btw they try to get you under the guise of it being an acting or modeling gig. I caught on quick, but some women don’t. Stay w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 04:26 PM |
| 9 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.Because HVM see more value in women than attractiveness alone. Women are people to them, not conquests. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 04:09 PM |
| 15 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.Men just feel entitled to the women in their work places. They rate women. Bully women who they don’t deam attractive enough to, god forbid, work at their workplace. While being completely mediocre themselves. And, im sorry, men are terrible workers. They sit around focusing on this bullshit and are way less productive or passionate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 04:00 PM |
| 18 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.I’ve on both sides as well. I was also very over weight due to a medical condition. When you’re over weight men can be disrespectful ,but most times they ignore you. Women are nicer. Then after I lost weight, it flipped. Due to this experience, I see men completely different. I do not value male approval or attraction because I know they only see women for their waist lines. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 03:54 PM |
| 21 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.Not going to say my profession for anonymity, but there is a woman who has made major contributions in my profession and I was super stoked to work underneath and was basically fan girling over her. I REALLY idolized her. She was the sole reason I took the job. Then some of the men there thought I was hot or whatever, and that was it. Everything was competition. She was always trying to drag me for any minor thing. Mean girl shit, silent treatment, just everything you can imagine. Very disappoin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 03:48 PM |
| 7 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.The jealous women really need to be called out. They are actively oppressing women as a class with their shit. When you choose to isolate/attack/dismiss an attractive women, you are actively participating in the patriarchy. You are not a feminist if you only support women who are less attractive than you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 03:36 PM |
| 22 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.Be ignored, or be abused. Those are our options as women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 03:26 PM |
| 20 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.I can second this. I’m not going to say my ethnic background for anonymity, but when a white woman can’t find a reasonable flaw to criticize, they go for ethnicity. They want you to know that their whiteness trumps all of your superior qualities. I know this isn’t all white women. In fact, some of the most progressive people I know are white women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Female psychologist wants to normalize Stay-At-Home DadsMy husband wants to stay at home when we have kids. BUT he works in IT from home, and has a super liberal leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 05:30 AM |
| 145 | We are taught that dating and life in general is easier for conventionally attractive women. I think they have it worse.These men are so deeply misogynistic. They care more about impressing other men than they do about their romantic partners. They are in love with men. They might not even be attracted to conventionally attractive women ,but they will date and marry them for the clout! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 11:54 PM |
| 252 | Guys barging into the bathroom on purpose seems to be a big issueI had an ex like this. I think they are afraid you’re looking at porn or masterbating because that’s what they’re doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 10:05 PM |
| 18 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.He definitely thinks about sleeping with your daughter. Sooooo gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?There are 50+ missing comments, lol. Sorry mods. I’m sure they’re wilin’ in mod mail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 04:30 PM |
| 5 | Advice on how to deal with a LVM Misogynistic who is highly involved in my love life?Still, suggesting you run back to a man who was likely intending to use you for sex is horrible advice. My parents were on my back about marriage. They are from a culture that married young. I eventually just wouldn’t even entertain them anymore. If they brought it up, I walked out of the room. If they brought it up in the phone, I hung up. I told them I wouldn’t attend family functions because I was sick if having the same conversation. I then followed through and didn’t attend. Is it disrespec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Advice on how to deal with a LVM Misogynistic who is highly involved in my love life?We need a little more information OP, because this is weird. Are you from a culture or religion that expects women to marry young, even arranged marriages? Is your father a narcissist? Is there a family friend or sibling that has a married daughter that he might be competing with? Has he pressured you to move out ever? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 03:13 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?That is some valuable insight. Although we assume a teenage girl is naive, I didn’t know it was a requirement. These men are depraved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 01:29 PM |
| 7 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?Games are always fun on easy-mode. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 04:03 AM |
| 55 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?The thought of having sex with a teenage boy is ABSOLUTELY REPULSIVE. Even when I was a teen. They are lanky, skinny, unhygienic. They have to grow into a sexually mature body, just like ANYONE, EVER! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 03:53 AM |
| 32 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?Look at how girls were dressed in the 80s vs how 90s/00s kids were dressed. Pop culture encourages/pressures pre-teen girls to sexualize themselves by at least middle school. It’s almost seen as a milestone. That is a response to the culture and kids shows. Nickelodeon and Disney did a lot of weird shit sexualized stuff with very young girl actresses. Rewatch some of it, it is definitely catering to the male parents gaze. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 02:02 AM |
| 13 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?Yeah I was going to question that too. I’m sure there are creeps everywhere ,but it is super apparent in the US. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 01:12 AM |
| 20 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?Do you thibk men are naturally pedofiles or do you think it’s due to culture influence. (Ie teen porn, sexualize children etc.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 01:11 AM |
| 140 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?You had me rolling with the “cheapest thing on saint Laurent’s website”. I looked it up, the cheapest bracelet is $400. He managed to get some sort of sale on the absolute cheapest thing on their website. But a teenager would be impressed and think he is loaded. He is absolutely grooming her. He went out of his way to search a way to get the brand name in his price range. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 12:06 AM |
| 100 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?I think about this a lot. We’re taught our whole lives to coddle men and disregard our own intuition because eVeRy gUy dEsErVeS a ChAnCe. No the fuck they do not! This way of being brought up just primes a girl for abuse. I don’t understand why we do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 11:11 PM |
| 6 | Coworker wanted to set me up with her son.Omg this! It needs to be in the hand book. Moms will pawn the NVM sons off on women. Really, any “set up” situation is like that. General rule of thumb, the man should be setting up the date. Not the mom/sister/friend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 10:25 PM |
| 78 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?That is one that didn’t even occur to me! Holy shit! So creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 09:28 PM |
| 65 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?If you didn’t like the post. Sorry, what was the point in engaging in it or commenting? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 09:17 PM |
| 11 | I can’t stand patriarchal men-They designate all domestic labor as female but also want the wife to work and split everything 50/50 -They want their sons to be playboys and their daughters to be virgins. -They helicopter over the daughters and punish every slight. Boys can do whatever though. This leads to poor self discipline for adult males. -They make comments to daughters/sisters/wives over gaining negligible weight while they themselves are obese. -They don’t recognize or utilize women’s expertise in the work place. -T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 04:24 PM |
| 13 | Apparently having an emergency savings fund as a woman and not explicitly saying so to your male partner is “financial infidelity.” 🤨🙄It’s not even his wife, it’s his “partner”. Dude, gtfo. Be glad she splits half the bills. You are not entitled to her savings. What a fucking loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 02:34 PM |
| 32 | This woman I reached out to on a sub wants your thoughts and opinions on her situation.Soooooo your boyfriend is likely a covert narcissist. Look it up. The whole snooping on devices as being a “dealbreaker” is manipulation. It is also privileged as fuck. I grew up having to share devices. My husband and I share a computer. The only reason you would guard a device is because you KNOW you are doing something outside of the relationship. Also, he snooped on your phone and that is an invitation to do whatever. The dude is stringing you along to kill time before he finds a “younger” w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Are beauty pageants empowering or are they a pick-me tournament?I’ve known a few local ones and one who made it to one of the BIG ones. She didn’t win though. Always exaggerated that she was runner up, but she wasn’t. She was a Miss State though. That was her full identity and she projected it onto her children who I was friends with. Her husband left her for, not younger and prettier, but someone with a personality. She always bitched about how his new wife was “fat”. You know, appropriate conversation to have with young girls and all. Always did all of the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 01:52 PM |
| 7 | Are beauty pageants empowering or are they a pick-me tournament?Actually, as another commenter mentioned, they don’t even give 1/10th of the scholarships they claim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 09:02 PM |
| 16 | Are beauty pageants empowering or are they a pick-me tournament?I kind of also feel like it’s bordering on sex work. If the end goal is to attract a wealthy man and be a trophy wife, that is still sex in exchange for money. If being a sugar baby is sex work then being a trophy wife isn’t far off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 05:57 PM |
| 13 | Are beauty pageants empowering or are they a pick-me tournament?Ehhh, they normally say that to avoid criticism for participating. If I needed scholarship money, I wouldn’t gamble thousands and thousands of dollars on the possibility of winning it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 05:37 PM |
| 26 | Are beauty pageants empowering or are they a pick-me tournament?You worded it much better than I could. Yes, it is literally competing to prove who can be the best trophy wife. These women go their WHOLE LIVES competing to get to the big pageants. All in hopes that some rich man will marry you?!?!? It’s quite sad, actually. If you hear stories of how they treat each other, Hallie Berry came out about this recently. The meanest, cattiest, pickme behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 05:24 PM |
| 48 | Are beauty pageants empowering or are they a pick-me tournament?Omg, I need to make this into a flow chart! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 05:11 PM |
| 16 | Are beauty pageants empowering or are they a pick-me tournament?Exactly. If your self worth in contingent on being the most fuckable, then winning a title would be empowering, I guess. Or more so validating. But it does nothing positive for women as a group. It is pay-to-win and the award is by no means worth the financial risk, imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 05:10 PM |
| 55 | Are beauty pageants empowering or are they a pick-me tournament?Exactly! And if we did, men would be reeeing about how chads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 04:10 PM |
| 143 | Are beauty pageants empowering or are they a pick-me tournament?I have never met a woman who has watched pageants that wasn’t either a former pageant contender or closely related to one. It is a contest of rating women on a scale from 1-10. It’s where the rating system came from. It’s why men feel entitled to rate every aspect of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 03:43 PM |
| 56 | Are beauty pageants empowering or are they a pick-me tournament?It urks me how contestants do a big song and dance about how they are feminist and empowering women. And they keep trying to make it palatable to women by focusing on charity, adding scholarships, and one of them took out swimwear. But historically, this has never been entertainment for women. It is a meat show for men. Just like Playboy online tried to gear towards feminism. How dare they try to grab a feminist audience while simultaneously contributing to female oppression! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 03:41 PM |
| 70 | Are beauty pageants empowering or are they a pick-me tournament?Agree! I don’t see where being validated that you are the best at the tools of your oppression (ie. Beauty standards) is empowering. And I don’t see any long term benefit besides marrying a rich husband. Who is inherently lv if he is seeking out pageant winners to wear as jewelry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 03:31 PM |
| 255 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.This is baseline for all men. If takes a lot of introspection and work to unlearn this. And there really isn’t much reason to unlearn this. The dream for the majority of men is to con a woman into marriage and kids for the status and labor. Then use what ever status they have in life to sleep with as many women as possible on the side. Their real companionship with their bros. Hell, they will marry a woman they don’t even like, if she is a trophy who will impress their bros and give them status. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 07:16 PM |
| 28 | Vetting for low value behaviour in men doesn't just apply to romantic relationships. It also applies to your friendships and associations.These men have no respect for women meaning they have no respect for you. This. They are also talking shit behind your back about why they wouldn’t fuck you. Which is a lie because they are really only friends with you for “back-up pussy”. Their terms, not mine! They don’t see women as full people. Women are either sex toys for bro points (whore) or hosts to leech resources and emotional support off of (madonna). These men are in love with men but sexually attracted to women (allegedly). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 05:55 PM |
| 25 | "Exclusive" is not a relationship status. You are either in a committed relationship or singleBut not necessarily out of choice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 02:22 PM |
| 45 | Never save a man! They will cheat on you and leave as soon as they are in recovery!And they don’t even care about the relationship. It’s all a game of “what is the maximum hot woman I can get?” 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 12:18 AM |
| 50 | Never save a man! They will cheat on you and leave as soon as they are in recovery!This absolutely true. If you date a man beneath you in any way, he will not love you more because you took a chance on him. He will see you as a stepping stone to higher status women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/21 12:06 AM |
| 62 | Never save a man! They will cheat on you and leave as soon as they are in recovery!Excerpts from her book were oozing with nlogg/pick me! I’m such a nErD 🤓. Anyone who needs male validation that bad, needs it from multiple sources. She sounds like the type of woman who will suck off any man who pays attention to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 11:59 PM |
| 119 | Never save a man! They will cheat on you and leave as soon as they are in recovery!There is no virtue in staying with an abuser/user/cheater. Women are taught “stand by your man”. But that is just society grooming us into taking care of trash men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 11:54 PM |
| 170 | Never save a man! They will cheat on you and leave as soon as they are in recovery!Because baseline, men see women as a renewable resource to use discard. His wife was the crutch to support him during his addiction. Then when he was horny, he used strippers. Now that he is in recovery Olvia is his source of affection without the consequences of addiction. No regard for the women in his life. He will relapse, cheat and possibly leave Olivia for a fresh woman who hasn’t seen his addiction. He is trash! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 11:50 PM |
| 109 | Never save a man! They will cheat on you and leave as soon as they are in recovery!I used to be a big fan and now I’m legit boycotting his material. Fuck this dude! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 08:08 PM |
| 59 | Sorry ladies but I gotta use this space to mock poly people 🤣I have known a lot of poly people. They are, for the most part, emotionally immature, insecure, extremely codependent and horribly selfish. They don’t have the emotional maturity to have a fulfilling healthy relationship. So they step out on their main partner, with several separate partners to fulfill each individual “need”. Then each of these partners are also emotionally immature, insecure, codependent and selfish. So now you have multiple partners who each also have multiple partners. Pepper… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 10:39 PM |
| 20 | Can we talk about Leonardo DiCaprio?youtoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 12:58 PM |
| 173 | Following hot girls on instagram - red flag?Publicly following “instagram models” with no shame? That’s cringy and a deal breaker for me sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 02:55 AM |
| 26 | "All ages considered!"Who is the woman in the photo? What was the point in posting the photo? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/21 07:03 PM |
| 24 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.When you are privileged class, equality looks like oppression. He feels he is being denied his right to access to women. Similar sentiments occurred in the American South during the Jim Crow laws. Make no mistake, what he is describing is a lynching to control the female class with fear. This should not be taken lightly. Please figure out who he is and alert authorities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:40 PM |
| 13 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?Hey, MILF porn is consistently in the top categories every year. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:13 PM |
| 8 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?Weekend dads ruin valuable experiences for children. I know a man who let his kid mis going to FUCKING DISNEY, because he “last minute” decided he didn’t want to give up his weekend. Can you imagine seeing your step siblings go and you can’t? And believe me, that is the only opportunity. They planned and saved up for that trip. But last minute the father can’t switch a weekend? What a monster! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:11 PM |
| 8 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?That’s what my friend is doing, and what prompted this post. Direct quote “If I’m going to be a single mom anyway, I might as well make kids that are beautiful and smart!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:03 PM |
| 15 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?Even shorter. Realistically, best case scenario, you meet a man and settle down at 21. Because you’ll have to sort through a ton of dudes who aRe JuSt hAvInG fUn before you find one depraved enough to marry a woman who is barely old enough to drink. Then, under their “preferences”, you have 4 years. Crack is literally a better life choice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:57 PM |
| 8 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?Oh you’re 100% correct! Ive even seen some claim they should have access to women at 15, wHiLe ThEyRe sTiLl aTtrAcTiVe. Keep in mind, 25 is the age of full development. It is not coincidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:45 PM |
| 4 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?Oh believe me, the comments don’t line up! They commented, a lot. I was tempted to turn on my messages and let the REEE in my inbox. But then I remembered that any attention you give them, is still attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:41 PM |
| 18 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?Amen 🙏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 02:00 AM |
| 29 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?I know child protective services are really stretched thin, but he should have lost custody. Even foster care is better than that. No clean water? Jesus Christ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 12:26 AM |
| 673 | Why do males think it's okay to rank women?They’ll rank/rate exceptional women while being mediocre in every way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 12:23 AM |
| 103 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?I think you’re on to something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 10:28 PM |
| 159 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?Exactly, if my “expiration date” doesn’t outlast the commitment, then why bother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 10:14 PM |
| 162 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?Exactly! Like they don’t want to get married. They want a revolving door of 18-24 year olds. But they want those 18-24 year olds to want marriage. Or do they think scaring women into pursuing marriage will make them easier to sleep with? Because, new flash, it will do the opposite if that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 10:13 PM |
| 116 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?Uhhhh, I know a lot of MRAs in the 40+ range. The manosphere has gained a lot of popularity in recent years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 09:55 PM |
| 41 | John Mulaney knocks up Olivia Munn just months after his divorce is finalized.Yes! Omg let’s do it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 12:15 AM |
| 174 | Ladies of Reddit, what’s the sexiest thing an overweight gamer in his 30s can do to make you have sex with himLose weight , quit porn ,and get a job. Probably still a no though…… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:31 PM |
| 6 | Finally got the guts to break off my 6 month situationshipHe was using you. He also sounds like a loser. Good on you OP. Now block and delete so that he can’t love bomb you later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 09:52 PM |
| 28 | Women who are only your friends when they are in between boyfriends, are pickme and LV.I’ve heard it a few times. Like why are they excited that their man gets extra horny after paying other women to dance naked? Like he isnt horny for you! He is getting as close to cheating as possible. Then using your body to masterbate into while he thinks about the strippers he wants to fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 09:41 PM |
| 33 | Women who are only your friends when they are in between boyfriends, are pickme and LV.Yuuuup! Forgot to mention that. My one pickme friend changes her entire personality and values with each man. One minute, she’s a nerd who plays magic. Once they broke up she started dating a redneck. Now she doesn’t like any nerd fandom or gaming AT ALL. And became conservative after being a progressive lefty her whole life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 09:26 PM |
| 91 | Women who are only your friends when they are in between boyfriends, are pickme and LV.Yes! They see it as a status. That they cant bare to be seen with a single person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/21 06:14 PM |
| 19 | Don't take initiative in adding or interacting with your crush on social mediaI don’t get crushes. Anytime I hold any man to any esteem ever, they always end up being a dumpster fire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 12:57 PM |
| 41 | Stumbled across this… 😷Men don’t wash their assholes because they think it will turn them gay. This is not a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes.Sweet! Dm me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes.Omg yes we are talking about the dame person! Where is this thread? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes.How did you find out he made a game of it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 05:38 PM |
| 6 | Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes.It’s who you think it is. I promise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 02:23 PM |
| 16 | Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes.👏 yes! All of these dudes are trash. A single from 5 years ago? He is on borrowed time! He will spend all of his money (if he hasn’t already). Move into his mom’s basement. Then maybe, if he is lucky, get a job at a warehouse. ONLY IF, he can pass a drug test! SPOILER ALERT, he can’t pass a drug test. Been there. Done that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:46 AM |
| 30 | Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes.I don’t work in show business, necessarily. I have met these people under different circumstances . I wish I could disclose more ,but since I am active in FDS, I want to be safe and disclose the bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:20 AM |
| 9 | Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes.I can’t dm you because you have that disabled (smart btw). But I can guarantee it’s who you think it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 12:28 AM |
| 49 | Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes.”darkness inside” They always pull the deep edgelord shit when there are consequences for their actions. They are children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 12:27 AM |
| 22 | Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes.One question, and this is very important. Do you know any of them personally? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 12:22 AM |
| 58 | Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes.This one is a political one who has some pretty good takes and does activism. But still nothing I would hold above a normal person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 07:20 PM |
| 105 | Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes.Ive met celebrities who were, not to be mean, unrecognizable in person. All of those photos are the best case scenarios plus highly skilled editors. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 07:18 PM |
| 22 | So close...Because women are the reason that men make of fun them for being virgins. 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 11:10 PM |
| 111 | No, Women Who Support Porn, I'm Not "Insecure".Porn, especially unlimited free and streaming, is very new. It is not a need. It is not natural. It will not keep him from cheating. In fact, porn is the basis of almost half of all divorces (according to a counselor friend if mine). You are not insecure. You are a woman with boundaries. The women who don’t uphold boundaries ARE insecure. They feel they are not enough to keep a man happy, so they allow access to other women. That’s what fucking insecurity looks like. Insecurity is meek and permi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 09:07 PM |
| 220 | It's amazing to me how anyone can justify manipulation!Imagine wanting to dissatisfy TWO women in bed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 08:41 PM |
| 11 | Why do some men still pretend they don't know the difference between mutual interest and creepy stalking?Because they know it’s stalking and they get off on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Question about a new beauty standard I noticedThat explains the whole “tiny head” thing on instagram. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 12:58 AM |
| 450 | Do you believe that men are only as faithful as their options?If man is only faithful because he doesn’t have options, as opposed to quality of character, then I don’t want one anyway. Human sexuality is variable. Not every man is sitting around pining after each piece of ass that walks by him. In fact I know men who are demi sexual. I think “only as faithful as his options” is meant to do two things 1.Absolve men of guilt and responsibility to their partners 2.Encourage women to take worthless men that no one wants. Not today patriarchy! I see you! 👁👄👁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 12:20 AM |
| 6 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.Exactly. They don’t change, they just hide it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 06:37 PM |
| 4 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.And still watch porn, go strip clubs, creep on girls, pay cam girls, etc. Because they need to scratch that itch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 05:58 PM |
| 4 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.I know dudes like that too. Like pulling girls in their 20s but they want to go on your boat or the expensive club. They’re college girls who cant afford that stuff. You dont get to fuck boy and settle with a family in your 40s. Its way harder than you think. And the women who will go for that are normally low value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 05:56 PM |
| 45 | Surprising new perspectives on male sexuality...It’s tragic because a lot of these kids don’t have other conditions or histories. Like, we used to think sexual addictions in childhood was the result of sexual abuse and human trafficking. These were normal kids. From privileged families. They didn’t even know how to treat them. I remember one boy, he was like 16. From a major city. Parents were lawyers. Performed great academically, played lacrosse, popular with girls, went to a private Jewish school so he was definitely taught better boundari… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 04:55 PM |
| 72 | Surprising new perspectives on male sexuality...Children watching porn is a public healtg crisis. Sexual exposure in childhood is traumatizing. Tgis is widely accepted in psychology. It’s the reason why people are appalled when you wear too revealing of clothing in front of children. It’s why parents wouldn’t let us watch R rated movies until our teens. So why do they think porn is any different, if not worse? I was working at youth treatment facility a few years ago. We were getting the first group of kids who had their own devices and acces… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 02:45 PM |
| 40 | Pick me mother said to me that she wished she had forced me into marriage in my teens so she could have grandchildrenAlso, even though she can’t legally enforce an arranged marriage, she can attempt to coerce/bribe/threaten. This happened to some one very close to me. She went through with it, too. Do not underestimate people’s ability to wear you down into complying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 03:52 AM |
| 87 | Pick me mother said to me that she wished she had forced me into marriage in my teens so she could have grandchildrenGo nc girl! That is unforgivable. She does not have your best interest in mind and she WILL try to pressure you into marrying someone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 02:27 AM |
| 61 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.I used to really party in college. So I start off with crazy party stories. Pepper in hookup stories of girlfriends that went awry and kind of lightly ease into it. Sometimes ill kind of dare them. “Like come on, who cares, no judgment. What’s your number?”. And when it was too high, I just didn’t go on another date. 🤷🏻♀️ Depending on how much he shares about him, is when I determine when to do it. But definitely by date 3. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:42 AM |
| 52 | Would you elope with a man who is involved in an active investigation regarding sex trafficking minors?🤒Pickmeisha hall of shame! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 11:36 PM |
| 333 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.Yeah like I know women married to fuck boy men who are so caught up on that they are sOoOoO special and better than the 100+ women he fucked. She ChAnGeD hIm. Meanwhile he’s getting it one the side and you’re the one dumb one who is willing to stay home and do his laundry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 11:35 PM |
| 105 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.Omg it is definitely projection. Damn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 11:31 PM |
| 129 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.That’s something ive noticed. They aren’t faithful, they just dont have options. And I dont want a man who is as faithful as his options. Ive rejected men on numbers alone. And I make sure to have that talk EARLY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:53 PM |
| 56 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.I think at some point in adolescence, your choices decide your sexuality for life. Either you have sex for novelty or pair bonding. Then once you’re on the novelty course, you’re on it for life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:50 PM |
| 58 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.They’re also the ones that hint on teenage girls, ive noticed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:48 PM |
| 122 | Can men who engage in hook up culture/casual sex, turn around and happily commit to long term monogamous relationships without cheating/hall passes/porn addiction etc.100% and their self esteem is contingent on hook ups. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:47 PM |
| 37 | I broke up with my boyfriend because he uses p0rnSame. Then there is pressure on women ti accept it or else they are “insecure”. Why are people so afraid to be called insecure? No fuck that! It’s cheating and it’s bad for your health. You don’t have to “just accept it”. You don’t have to “just accept” anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 04:46 PM |
| 147 | Just saw this post on FB… biggest load of male sympathy horseshit I’ve seen in a minute 😂 men have no inherent value, yet they receive the most societal benefit for doing the bare minimum. OkayyyyyThis response was 🤌🏼💋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 11:51 PM |
| 223 | I broke up with my boyfriend because he uses p0rnYou can’t help but roast these guys. My dudes, this is woman in front of you who is willing to touch your pipi VOLUNTARILY. But you are going to give this up, to tug your wee wee in the bathroom to some woman on the internet, who A. Does not want you and B. You will never meet. Fucking wot m8 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 10:58 PM |
| 647 | I broke up with my boyfriend because he uses p0rnMen will lose whole ass girlfriends so they watch, oOOo nAkEd lAdIeS on the internet. Couldn’t even contemplate pretending to humor giving up porn long enough to get through a flight. What a fucking loser 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Here’s a small compilation of TikTok comments from women waiting for a ring- never settle your standards for a LVM.The thing with men not wanting to marry is they don’t want to give up the free labor/sex, but they want to keep their options open should something newer come along. When something newer does come along, suddenly they’ll claim they were “so miserable” the whole time. Monkey branch to the next women and have very few consequences. Then their entire social networks will support the decision and paint you as the “nagging hag” that tried to trap him with a baby and is robbing him with child support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 06:04 PM |
| 31 | Psychologist ScroteThose teeth are 🌽 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 04:54 AM |
| 11 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.Better yet: “If you can’t suck your own dick, we aren’t sexually compatible! I have needs! We need to open up this relationship because you cant fulfill my contortionist kink. Don’t kink shame me bro!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 12:33 AM |
| 14 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.On their anniversary, nonetheless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 09:46 PM |
| 126 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.“Friends don’t pimp out friends” should be a new FDS motto. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:27 PM |
| 69 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.Bet if she turned around and wanted an mmf threesome in return, he would be appalled. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 06:17 PM |
| 696 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.I know, right! Moving 6 hours away, get a job at the same company, and moving into the same neighborhood? No mention of this before the threesome? Meaning, she made all of these major life decisions after the event. Coincidentally? Like come on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 04:46 PM |
| 153 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.She destroyed her marriage by trying to be the “ cool girl” for one night. One night of trying to fit society’s image of a cOoL wife. That’s all it took. It’s like a greek tragedy. The action that was meant to maintain her marriage led to it’s demise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 03:52 PM |
| 385 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.And now she is moving 6 hours away to live in the same neighborhood and work for his company?!?!? It’s over! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 03:05 PM |
| 397 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.Yeah she is moving hours away to work at the same company her husband works at? Yeah, full affair is coming and probably has already started. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:59 PM |
| 132 | Please stop “gifting” threesomes. Also, your friends aren’t “gifts”.Im glad you don’t know anyone like this. Unfortunately, I definitely know women like this. They are pickmes to the extreme. They like the idea of getting other women’s husbands. It makes them feel like they are more desirable than the wife. When really, they’re just a novelty experience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:57 PM |
| 15 | What are ways that we actively advocate against misogynistic terrorists groups and make meaningful change?Yes! Now how can we as users hold them accountable? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 11:52 PM |
| 17 | What are ways that we actively advocate against misogynistic terrorists groups and make meaningful change?You are absolutely right! There are a lot of things in the manosphere that really reminds me of isis recruitment, honestly. And ,as you said, these men fall through the cracks because they are critical of mental health. I think the first step in all of this is getting these groups properly categorized as extremist groups. I know that Southern Poverty Law has already recognized PUAs like Roosh V as extremists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 11:32 PM |
| 35 | What are ways that we actively advocate against misogynistic terrorists groups and make meaningful change?Although I agree with you, my focus right now, is more on suppressing terrorism directed at women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 05:06 PM |
| 30 | What are ways that we actively advocate against misogynistic terrorists groups and make meaningful change?https://www.npr.org/2017/05/11/527806966/new-hampshire-state-lawmaker-accused-of-online-misogyny-faces-expulsion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 05:03 PM |
| 81 | All the Plymouth shooter apologists right nowWe need to alert their employers and communities that they post these things. Normally, i’m against this ,but they are a danger to the people around them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 03:58 PM |
| 22 | Best Sports for Self-DefenseKrav maga can be a rip off sometimes. I recommend mauy Thai. Bonus:I’ve made a lot of kick ass female friends doing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 09:10 PM |
| 14 | I'm SICK of hearing about how the rise of incels, and that"Inceldom" is a new strange modern phenomenon. IT'S NOT.I was about to make a post about this. You are right. It is very similar to ISIS recruitment. Also, the manosphere is very fascist. They feel that their entitlement to women was taken away from them by feminism. A key component to fascist regimes is to create a narrative that something was taken from you buy X group. Another key component of fascism is to control who women and dictate who they have children with. This shit is BAD but it’s not being taken seriously as it affects women. R/TheRedPi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:54 PM |
| 117 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑This is why FDS vetting is so important. By not settling for a no effort pump and dump, she avoided sti exposure. Dudes who don’t care about your time also don’t care about your safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:36 PM |
| 73 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑Then if that day doesnt work for you, you and wait schedule a day for after you get paid. Maybe borrow money from a friend. So many solutions. Even then, what is his excuse for everything else. Too many fuck ups to get pity from me. Sounds like he wanted a pump and dump with as little investment as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:33 PM |
| 22 | *trigger warning-rape & intimidation. what’s more dangerous than a rapist and his pick me? a rapist & pick me with money, fame & connectionsI hope she gets canceled and taken off Spotify | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 06:34 PM |
| 79 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑Omg, are you the woman?!?!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 05:47 PM |
| 252 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑Yup! He can show off his likely $1000+ camera, can’t pay for dinner tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 04:35 PM |
| 139 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑Y’all, this is like a self roast-a-scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 04:28 PM |
| 752 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑He didn’t even care to be presentable. Meanwhile, she probably spent an hour doing her hair and makeup just to stand there sweating in a public park with some loser who is talking about his photography. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 04:23 PM |
| 161 | OP upset that a Tinder match cut it off after a “public place” date following chatting and a virtual date. FDS working in the wild. 👑I like the idea of the virtual date just so you know the person is the person they say they are before meeting. But still, his best match ever and all he could do was a park date where he just talked about his photography? They’re even low/no effort on the women they like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 04:19 PM |
| 168 | The "Rising Threat" of Incels - Daily MailI have been following the manosphere/redpill/incel/mgtow for years. These communities are radicalizing teenage boys and young men into terrorists. IT IS ONLY GOING TO GET WORSE. These communities continue to grow. When I first started watching them, incel terms were NOT mainstream vernacular. We need to organize and advocate for policy change. We also need to hold the platforms that support these groups accountable via boycotts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 01:39 AM |
| 93 | Violent deranged men be like...I just don’t getttt it- why do women stay away from me 😢Our primal instincts & creep radar goes off for solid reasons“I’m sUcH a GoOd gUy. iF wOmEn dOnt tOuCh mY pEen tHeM tHreE aDuLts aNd a ChIlD sHoUlD dIe!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 09:40 PM |
| 17 | "The Worst Thing About Male Violence is That it Makes Men Look Bad"They only care that male violence might decrease their chances of getting laid. They don’t care to police the men in their communities that do these things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 04:57 PM |
| 63 | “FdS IS JuST As BaD As InCeLs” when was the last time an FDS’er, or any woman, went and killed innocent people because they couldn’t get a man?A friend a mine in reference to far right/mra/redpill/fascism said we “just don’t understand how powerful hate is because we’re too good of people. Hate blinds them.” These people are terrorists and our governments needs to step up and protect us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/21 02:30 PM |
| 18 | Don't send nudes to friend-turned hookups!!Men only get nudes so they can show off to their friends. If you have sent a man nudes, know that his whole friend group has seen them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 05:22 PM |
| 24 | Hells Kitchen, The Lies Men Tell and Women Supporting WomenIf we’re competing for male approval/attention, then yes women can get catty. But women are beginning to wake up and see that male validation is worthless and the sisterhood prevails! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 01:32 PM |
| 36 | I hate how Reddit made me believe porn and being the ‘cool girl’ is perfectly normal.I used to be a cool girl pickmeisha who approved of porn and strip clubs because mY mAn CoMeS hOmE tOo me. Never again. Even if you don’t consider it cheating, which it is, why are you ok with a partner that toes the line and tries to get AS close to cheating AS possible? No, I’m done with all these little loop holes society makes for men that allow them to go outside of the relationship for sex. And it doesn’t go both ways either. No man would be ok with their wife subing to OF or paying nude m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 06:52 PM |
| 75 | Why do so many guys and girls say size doesn't matter? Do they genuinely believe this? Because it does matter for me....There was only a few months between the last time I had sex with my ex and the first time I sex with my husband. So everything was fresh on my mind. My ex never made me come. He was slightly below average size. I thought I just didn’t like sex and couldn’t come from PIV. Then I got with my husband. My SO is very above average. (8 inches and thick) And that made a huge difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 04:17 PM |
| 332 | I am SO tired of the misogyny, negging, persistent pushy rape culture and cringey male princess demands peddled by so called ‘pick up artist guru’s’ online. Notice the tone of his language wreaks of perceived entitlement to womens attention.I learned everything I could about the redpill(i call it the rape pill) so I could just kick those dudes to the curb at the first instance. I once had a dude neg me the moment I sat down for a date. Im really into fitness and he claimed (emphasis on claimed) to be a runner. When I sat down, he cut me off mid sentence and said he had something for me. It was a pack of sugar free gum. He said it was a trick he used to lose weight and it would help me. Like in what world did he think that would go … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 01:51 PM |
| 6 | Never trust dudes who have the female “best friend” in adulthood. Normally this woman is someone they strung along for years as a back up hook-up. 90% chance he is already sleeping with her.John doesn’t do that But he literally just did that. Like people will lie through their teeth for scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 03:20 PM |
| 105 | Never trust dudes who have the female “best friend” in adulthood. Normally this woman is someone they strung along for years as a back up hook-up. 90% chance he is already sleeping with her.They were a couple the whole time. This is another one men will pull. Act like your SO is just roommate, that way photos on social media and being seen together doesn’t raise as many flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:24 PM |
| 196 | Never trust dudes who have the female “best friend” in adulthood. Normally this woman is someone they strung along for years as a back up hook-up. 90% chance he is already sleeping with her.Basically get all the benefits of having a wife ( emotional support, housing, domestic labor) without the commitment. Now he can have his emotional needs met at home while still sleeping with who ever he wants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:42 PM |
| 270 | Never trust dudes who have the female “best friend” in adulthood. Normally this woman is someone they strung along for years as a back up hook-up. 90% chance he is already sleeping with her.I also want to ad, she didnt shoot her shot into the dark. She knows this man well. For some reason, she thought it would be reciprocated. And it probably was considering increased time together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 02:20 PM |
| 18 | Men flip shiet when you say 'No'.And that society says women over 24 are worthless and men should exclusively pursue women under 25. Like dude, not that I would sleep with you, but you couldn’t visually tell that I was older than that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 12:09 AM |
| 626 | “You don’t need to wear makeup around my boyfriend lol”Don’t go out with them. She’s already trying to compete with you for HER boyfriend. And she will probably talk shit about your looks all night after they go home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 10:56 PM |
| 60 | Men flip shiet when you say 'No'.I had a coworker pressure me for my age and keep on despite me saying I wasn’t comfortable telling him this. Turns out, he has a rule that he doesn’t sleep with women over 24. When learned that I had so much experience, he realized that me being under 24 was unlikely. So he had to make sure first. He was 38 at the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Men will develop entire complexes over women who rejected them in high school. Then use that as motive to abuse women for the rest of their lives.Yeah, between sexual harassment, assault, the discrimination we have to deal with in our lifetimes, we don’t even have the capacity to worry about who rejected us in high school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Men will develop entire complexes over women who rejected them in high school. Then use that as motive to abuse women for the rest of their lives.🎶 We’re all stars now. In the shit show 🎼 Sorry, couldn’t resist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 01:19 PM |
| 39 | Women are crazy because they’re people?That’s a lot of words for “No one wants to sleep with me” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 12:11 AM |
| 31 | Men will develop entire complexes over women who rejected them in high school. Then use that as motive to abuse women for the rest of their lives.Wait, so a past of dating cheerleaders means you can abuse your girlfriend? Like I dont get their logic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 05:25 PM |
| 169 | Men will develop entire complexes over women who rejected them in high school. Then use that as motive to abuse women for the rest of their lives.Meanwhile, they’ll label rape as not traumatic and say it’s just bad sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 05:16 PM |
| 99 | Men will develop entire complexes over women who rejected them in high school. Then use that as motive to abuse women for the rest of their lives.Agreed! Men are taught their whole lives that they are special. Pop culture and movies tell them that they are guaranteed to get “the girl”. Then when they don’t, they blame women instead of themselves or the culture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 04:52 PM |
| 62 | Men will develop entire complexes over women who rejected them in high school. Then use that as motive to abuse women for the rest of their lives.But if that was true the why do they get off on disrespecting women? Exactly! Sex is a window into your psyche. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 04:50 PM |
| 106 | Men will develop entire complexes over women who rejected them in high school. Then use that as motive to abuse women for the rest of their lives.I also feel like a lot of men date to impress their male friends. For some reason, super super thin and blonde has always been the go to. And I have definitely been left or turned down for that. I never developed a complex. But I dont know if it’s parenting or it’s the cultural narrative that your are owed a beautiful woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 04:42 PM |
| 212 | Men will develop entire complexes over women who rejected them in high school. Then use that as motive to abuse women for the rest of their lives.But thing is, they’re still not getting revenge!These are not the same women who rejected them. Why are they punishing the women who actually want to have sex with them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 03:40 PM |
| 71 | Dealing with LVM is a threat to women's healthImagine flying to the other side of the FUCKING country to go on a hiking date! What piece of shit takes a woman on a hike date after flying to your dusty ass? Then leaves her alone in the fucking desert! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 09:01 PM |
| 139 | Everyday I am reminded that not starting a family with a scrote was a good choiceI would just divorce at that point. Id rather have a 50/50 custody, and get a break, than have to raise the kids and him 24/7. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 06:30 PM |
| 44 | Older women aren’t cock-blocking you. It’s the younger women that just don’t want you.I prefer men a little youger than me, but not for the reasons you would expect. I learned that younger men are less likely to talk down to you and see you as more of an equal partner. Whereas the older men I have been with subjugated me a lot more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 06:21 PM |
| 52 | “I liKe HaNgiNg OuT WiTh GuYs, ThEy’Re LeSs DrAmA!!” And other lies people tell themselves.All men do is shit talk each other! And they’ll throw their best friend in front of a bus if it means getting sleep with his woman. Shit, I’ve known men who have slept with their brothers’ wife, broke up his family, kicked him to the curb and then married her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 03:55 PM |
| 31 | Public Displays of DisrespectThey’re trying to break you down and feel as if you have to earn they’re affection and approval. Block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 02:36 PM |
| 17 | Share your badass breakup stories!Oh he actually was a sociopath | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 12:49 AM |
| 70 | Share your badass breakup stories!I was engaged to a man who got caught cheating by one of my friends. I called him several times, getting angrier and angrier with each missed call. He eventually picked up, I could hear her in the background so he fessed up. That he messed up and he’s really depressed about it but she is here right now so he needs to go. He kept begging to meet up tomorrow to “talk about it”. I didn’t respond. Hung up. Blocked. Delete. For years he would try to reach out to me. Social media, other numbers. I nev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 12:09 AM |
| 7 | The Hook-up That Ended All Hook-upsLegit, that’s why he immediately got in a relationship with someone who was 14. That way she has no frame of reference. I had at least seen a penis before. Darren was a lot of things, but stupid wasn’t one of them. He knew he couldn’t ride the “hot-dude-in-a-band” for life. Eventually he would need to get sex from a consistent source and that source needed to be ok with his situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 11:16 PM |
| 6 | The Hook-up That Ended All Hook-upsBecause they need validation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 11:11 PM |
| 16 | Normalize breaking up because you’re unsatisfied; you don’t have to wait until everything’s burningAlso normalize not shaming a woman for leaving a relationship. Because THIS is the real reason they stay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 12:41 AM |
| 11 | Men are so used to us accommodating them that when we don’t, they think we are being dramatic.I meet so many women who moved to my city for a boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 03:53 PM |
| 44 | Why it always seemed like that one mean friend always gets the best boyfriend…Deaaaad omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 07:58 PM |
| 66 | Why it always seemed like that one mean friend always gets the best boyfriend…It’s true. Also, high value men like high maintenance women. High maintenance can be indicative of high value. Someone who is worth a lot and knows it, will naturally have high expectations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 07:58 PM |
| 7 | Being a Cool Girl is a trapAbsolutely. I posted about that like a month or two ago. I was part of a Christian commune that got infested with straight pedos. Literally nothing is safe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Why is it becoming increasingly acceptable for men to be unemployed, not in school, and video game/porn addicted?Why do parents coddle boys more? Do you think it’s patriarchy or boys just are to difficult to deal with? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:19 PM |
| 38 | I’m simply not attracted to noncommittal menPlease post the dissertation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 09:01 PM |
| 41 | Being a Cool Girl is a trapA lot of them are predators, tbh. They use alternative culture as a way to get access to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 08:06 PM |
| 28 | Being a Cool Girl is a trapIve been involved in the art/music scene pretty much my whole adult life. I am now a part of that scene in a major city. Don’t get me wrong, I credit these people for my career. But dear God are some of them insufferable. Most of the men are tools who have a complex over being turned down in high school. So they use art/music to put them in a higher status spot in alternative culture. This gives them access to women when they would have other wise struggled with dating. Cool girl art women can b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 08:02 PM |
| 7 | Why is it becoming increasingly acceptable for men to be unemployed, not in school, and video game/porn addicted?Maybe it’s not helicopter parents (which is the worst style of parenting) as much as it is just privilege. Just having someone in your life that can afford to have you lazying around their house without contributing. A freeloader son of boyfriend is a huge financial burden even if you’re only covering the bare minimum. Just having someone eating your food is a huge expense. Also, someone has to buy them a 3k computer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Why is it becoming increasingly acceptable for men to be unemployed, not in school, and video game/porn addicted?Im not saying that porn and video games are the same. But male gamers normally consume a lot of porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 05:31 PM |
| 16 | Why is it becoming increasingly acceptable for men to be unemployed, not in school, and video game/porn addicted?Omg, super interested, please elaborate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 05:50 AM |
| 9 | Why is it becoming increasingly acceptable for men to be unemployed, not in school, and video game/porn addicted?This⬆️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 05:49 AM |
| 13 | Men actually hate us. I found these comments on a video where they complain that women can’t find ‘economically desirable men’ and they tell men not to get married.The age thing is just bs to pressure women into setting down young. You cant tell if a woman is over 25. Shit, with how much skin care has changed, there are women in their 40’s who get carded for alcohol. Also, research shows that most heterosexual sexual people prefer a partner within 5years their age. That goes for men and women. Any larger of gap and your life experiences are too different. I’ve known several “playboy” types that refuse to see women over 24, regardless of their age. Everyone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 06:47 PM |
| 92 | Avoid throuples, open relationships, ENM, etc. These people are not your friends. They are definitely not your partners. And they will throw you to the curb the moment things get sticky. They’re just using your body.They are stupid. I think hooking up is stupid to. It’s being used for sex with no benefit and then not coming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 06:51 PM |
| 94 | Avoid throuples, open relationships, ENM, etc. These people are not your friends. They are definitely not your partners. And they will throw you to the curb the moment things get sticky. They’re just using your body.It’s really just a way for them to justify using people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 04:11 PM |
| 333 | Avoid throuples, open relationships, ENM, etc. These people are not your friends. They are definitely not your partners. And they will throw you to the curb the moment things get sticky. They’re just using your body.I hate seeing women letting people use their bodies like this. Like girl is homeless. They kicked her out when it was no longer serving them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:53 PM |
| 255 | Avoid throuples, open relationships, ENM, etc. These people are not your friends. They are definitely not your partners. And they will throw you to the curb the moment things get sticky. They’re just using your body.Probably. I mean, who wants to share their home with their husbands side chick? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:51 PM |
| 85 | Avoid throuples, open relationships, ENM, etc. These people are not your friends. They are definitely not your partners. And they will throw you to the curb the moment things get sticky. They’re just using your body.Exactly. She’s just a vessel for him to masterbate into. The throuple arrangement is just a scam to make her think she’s not just a live in sex slave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:49 PM |
| 149 | Porn isn't hot.It’s like no one is even aroused in porn. There’s no indications of desire. It’s just a dude aggressively ramming his dick into a woman. It doesn’t seem like anyone wants to be there. And every time I’ve seen it, the first thought that comes to mind is “I’m sure that room smells”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 01:29 PM |
| 39 | This is what we mean by all men. When they’re left alone, they allow misogyny to thrive.I work in tattoo industry and I have a stem degree. The shit I have heard from men is deplorable. But I’ll have you lurkers know, it’s all fun and games until we throw out your job application. We can’t trust you won’t rape a client or coworker. I have worked with men who have raped clients and/or coworkers. They all talk like this and are indistinguishable from the others who claim it is just locker room talk. I’m not a betting woman. If you look like a rapist and talk like a rapist, I’m going … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 01:58 PM |
| 129 | Literally Was Just Talking Abt this To My BFFI dated a model once. Still friends. Known him for years. I have never, not even once, heard him say something negative about a woman’s appearance. Ever! So it’s not the good looking ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 03:07 PM |
| 37 | Literally Was Just Talking Abt this To My BFFIf you men would spend time working out while you’re at the gym instead of rating women, you might get one day. Might. Fr, this shit used to bother me until I realized men will literally fuck a hot pocket if you nuke it in the microwave for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 03:02 PM |
| 3 | I am so glad I didn’t end up with any of the losers I pined over in my pickme yearsOh they definitely do. That’s why they slide into our DMs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 11:50 AM |
| 9 | I am so glad I didn’t end up with any of the losers I pined over in my pickme yearsHe’s a cashier with an accounting degree? How does that happen? Aren’t firms always looking for accountants? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 12:36 AM |
| 80 | I am so glad I didn’t end up with any of the losers I pined over in my pickme yearsOmg a hola hooper? Where men always such losers? I think about that a lot. When my dad’s generation was their age, they at-least had careers and shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 06:16 PM |
| 71 | I am so glad I didn’t end up with any of the losers I pined over in my pickme yearsSecond this. Men, for the most part, detract from your life. That’s why we push Disney princesses and other romance stories to young girls. Getting a woman to sign up for this bullshit takes a lifetime of convincing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 04:43 PM |
| 188 | I am so glad I didn’t end up with any of the losers I pined over in my pickme yearsI was engaged to a man who was unemployed,lived with his parents, an alcoholic, addicted to porn and generally a shitty person. Once he ,finally, got a job, he cheated on and left me for a 16 year old girl who he worked with. (He was 23). I was so devastated and thought I was too old to get a man (I was 20). I didn’t know at the time that he did me the biggest favor. He reached out years later. Apparently the whole time he was dating us he had another girlfriend in a near by town. She stayed wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 04:21 PM |
| 246 | I am so glad I didn’t end up with any of the losers I pined over in my pickme yearsYes, girls are brought up to lock down a man asap and have babies super young. Men are brought to bed as many women as possible. The town I used to live in is infested with chlamydia due to this. Then women stay with men who cheat and beat them. Because, dear God, you are so lucky to be picked. At least he comes home to you and not those other women! Like I’ve literally heard that logic. Domestic violence and child abuse (both physical and sexual) is way higher per capita. These women aren’t sah… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 03:47 PM |
| 306 | How scrotes treat “The One that Got Away”Yes! OP, please nicely reach out to his gf before she wastes more time with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Late stage capitalism and unfettered misogyny in younger generations of menI’m sorry but there is no way that someone who is addicted to porn and video games, can out perform people ,of equal skill, who aren’t addicted to those things. They just can’t. That is why so many men are out of shape, underachieving losers. Porn and video game addictions are very time consuming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 06:01 PM |
| 6 | FDS to the rescue!I put as much effort in people as they put in me. It’s a great life philosophy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 11:39 PM |
| 5 | FDS to the rescue!Age gap. Dating men that much younger than you guarantees you’ll be their replacement mommy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 11:37 PM |
| 12 | More young men are living at home, not participating in the workforce, and playing more video games. What a surprise! /sThen we’re expected to jump in and support them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 10:23 PM |
| 1 | “50 Shades of Grey” was horrible and it’s tragic that it led so many young women to BDSMSame. It has to be grooming because the books themselves are trash. They are such trash that there had to be other motives, | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 04:36 PM |
| 54 | The type of gold digging never talked about: men will date you to boost their careers, status and ultimately to make money.My grandfather was a powerful man and my mother was a much sought after potential trophy wife. The sad part is; these women feel worthless after they get tossed aside for a trade in. But the truth is, these men never valued you (or any woman) to begin with. They are in love with men but attracted to women. You are just like a car. You exist to impress men and gain acceptance in their social circles. And if your daddy is a powerful person, there will be a line of lvm down the street to cash in on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 02:40 PM |
| 28 | “50 Shades of Grey” was horrible and it’s tragic that it led so many young women to BDSMOh by no means am I defending Christian Grey as a character. He was a trash human being who was using BDSM to stay emotionally distant while taking out his hang ups on “subs”. But even his few positive qualities attractive/rich/romantic scenarios 1.Doesn’t justify abuse and 2. Is not present in bdsm doms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 06:43 PM |
| 30 | “50 Shades of Grey” was horrible and it’s tragic that it led so many young women to BDSMThat’s what I’m thinking. Because as far as romances go, it’s horrible. Horrible for romance standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 05:25 PM |
| 50 | “Build with him”Replace “wife” with “car”. See how it’s still comprehendible? That’s because we are objects to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 04:33 PM |
| 92 | “50 Shades of Grey” was horrible and it’s tragic that it led so many young women to BDSMI see now why it popped off so hard. It’s a tool of the patriarchy to groom women into sexual activities that they would have otherwise been opposed too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 04:30 PM |
| 29 | “But ugly guys will treat you better and they won’t cheat on you!” No. Countering scrote propaganda:Secondly, the main problem is that many unattractive males have a chip on their shoulder Then you give him worth by dating him and now women, who would otherwise overlook him, are pursuing him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 10:27 PM |
| 82 | The sad reality behind Only Fans that no one speaks aboutI work in the Tattoo industry but also have an advanced STEM degree. During the shut down, I was looking for work in stem. HR really didn’t like Tattoo shops being in my resume despite a 3.9 GPA and two publications. I ended up working freelance (which I liked better anyway). Regardless, tattoos are nowhere near as stigmatized as sex work. And I seriously doubt that these very young girls have advanced degrees to fall back on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 04:20 PM |
| 74 | Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂Matthew 5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart. Straight out the apostle’s mouth. No room for interpretation on that one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 01:42 PM |
| 37 | Nearly spit out my coffee reading this 😂He’s probably “saving himself for marriage” because he can’t perform. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 01:32 PM |
| 23 | On porn and sex workA “male feminist” who admits to watching porn, is in the same breath admitting that he is just a snake in the grass. Posing as a feminist to get access to women. You can’t have it both ways. You can’t be an ally while simultaneously contributing to our oppression. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Be very cautious around men involved in youth ministry and other forms of faith based youth outreach. My story.You are right. As I got older and more empowered, I realized it was patriarchal religion and left. I’m going to offend some of you ,but there are no two ways about it, oppressing women is imperative in modern Christianity. Both the Christian household and the congregation relies on women’s reproductive and domestic labor. So there aren’t very many empowered women to teach these girls about men. They’re taught that there are two types of men; Christian and Non-Christian. Christian=Good Non-Christ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 08:31 PM |
| 97 | This article makes a case against poly relationships. 'It’s good to have friends. It’s good to have multiple confidantes. But people aren’t just fungible widgets in a factory. You don’t just lump them in a shopping bag until your heart is full.'How come I have never met a couple that started out poly? They always start monogamous and then one if them rolls out an ultimatum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 08:10 PM |
| 9 | Be very cautious around men involved in youth ministry and other forms of faith based youth outreach. My story.For a lot of them it seems like it just an easy way to be freeloaders. Also a consistent source of women and girls who trust you and are willing to be vulnerable. (Ie easier to sleep with). Seems like a LVM paradise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 07:25 PM |
| 4 | Honest discussion; let’s talk about the solitude that comes with being a HVWIt can be lonely as sometimes it feels like the whole world is against you. Make no mistake, LVM/LVW are offended by your existence. They will direct a lot of unprovoked attention towards you. But remember, you don’t actually value their opinions. I let go of all of the pickme friends. My social circle is now very small ,but very fulfilling. I’m very invested in my career so I don’t always notice that there are less people to hang out with on the weekends. But, I also don’t have to monitor which… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 06:14 PM |
| 14 | Older queens if you woke up as a 20 year old again, what would you have done differently?When I was 20, I was dating an abusive porn sick loser. I felt I needed permission to leave the relationship or else my social circle would reject me. I wish I would have just left the moment I suspected things. The people I was worried about weren’t my friends anyway. And I put my sexual health at risk as he was a cheater and used prostitutes. (Don’t worry. I’m clean.) I also wish I didn’t stress out about jobs the way I did. They were all shit jobs that exploited their employees for cheap labo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 06:00 PM |
| 54 | Queens, guess what? We are the society.This is what we need to do: -Stop having sex with men who don’t support our values. Not even hook ups. When you have sex with a fuck boy porn user, you are validating his lifestyle. -Do not have children with LVM. -Boycott magazines that disseminate the patriarchy’s messages. (Ie. Cosmo, Vogue, Teen Vogue, VICE, Star Magazine) -Boycott products with anti feminist messaging. We can do this. Get them where it hurts, their wallets and peens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 02:30 PM |
| 11 | Be very cautious around men involved in youth ministry and other forms of faith based youth outreach. My story.They are specifically seeking out these positions of power so they can get away with this for longer. He would probably still be at it if it weren’t for the murder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 01:47 PM |
| 27 | Be very cautious around men involved in youth ministry and other forms of faith based youth outreach. My story.You are so right. Omg, thank you for pointing that out. I never thought of that. Why was a grown man, a minister even, having me handle this? There’s no other reason but to make sure nothing really happens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 01:33 PM |
| 14 | Be very cautious around men involved in youth ministry and other forms of faith based youth outreach. My story.It is. And the girls are shamed from coming forward. The clergy are like a protected class, especially in Catholicism. A friend of mine’s sister was raped at a similar retreat by a janitor. Even the janitor isnt safe. Now her parents backed her up and filed a police report. But what was the reaction from everyone else? “She slept with him and regretted it. She’s a slut, he’s the victim”. Honestly, these places are like fish in a barrel for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 01:18 PM |
| 77 | Guys take exception when the girls fawn over pop/Kpop Idols and consider the same as detrimental to a relationship. Imagine how bad porn and only fans are - they know the stars by name and spend money on them.They’re jealous because they know what porn does to them and assume it’s the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 05:16 PM |
| 51 | I just love everything about this absolute Queen!!That’s because he is a child. At least, I hope! Boy can’t drive a car, and has to throw shade at women from the passenger seat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 05:37 AM |
| 24 | On flaky “friends” and why I understand when women overinvest in their romantic relationships. I think we can have pickme tendencies without being a full blown pickme.I had a friend who was super involved(almost smothering) when she was single, but dropped everyone anytime she got a man. She would then assume all of his friends’ girlfriends. She would also change her whole identity for any man. And none of these men had anything in common. Like she didn’t have a type. She would date a nerdy guy, and suddenly she is the MTG and comic book girl. She dates a redneck, suddenly she’s a cowgirl who line dances. Dates a frat bro, becomes the fashionista party girl. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 12:48 AM |
| 276 | I just love everything about this absolute Queen!!He’s in the passenger seat because his mom is driving the car. Guarantee it 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 12:12 AM |
| 97 | I just love everything about this absolute Queen!!That dude looks like such a dweeb, and he is still cocky as fuck. Gross. I remember boys like him in high school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 12:07 AM |
| 7 | He called me a princessHe probably has a whole ass wife and kids in his city anyway. When men look for women outside of their area, it’s normally to have a side piece. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 06:03 PM |
| 6 | There are no safe spacesIt’s sad how many men scout vulnerable women out at group therapy and AA. It’s too easy for them to access. I used to volunteer for youth outreach/youth group. So many men attended our camp fire meetings posing as youth advocates, just to groom 14 year old girl into sexual relationships. It was horrible. I might make a post about it later. I tried to speak up, but was silenced and labeled as jealous. Men aren’t typically charitable. So be on the lookout for men attending any type of outreach, gr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 05:54 PM |
| 14 | When the mask comes offAll of this over some burnt chicken tendies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 02:25 PM |
| 7 | When the mask comes offYep, men will squeeze all the resources possible out of you. Then publicly humiliate you the moment you push back. Not even pushing back really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 02:25 PM |
| 46 | I think its hilarious old men think 30 plus women are bitter and jealous when they are with young womenI don’t know who needs to hear this, but as long as you aren’t a desperate pickme, you can always get a good man +/- 5 tears your age, at any age. If you are worth while, then someone worthwhile will want to be with you. Age gaps are for insecure losers. Work on yourself, and life will work out 🌈🙌 Keep leveling up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 12:04 AM |
| 12 | FDS rules totally apply to all relationships and not just dating & What I learned from ending a friendship with an LVM friend.In my whole life, I’ve only had one legitimate straight male friend. All of the rest were just staking out for a vulnerable moment to shoot their shot. And I used to be a “aLl mY fRiEnDs aRe GuYs, cOoL gIrL”. Either, these men don’t value women enough for meaningful friendship or they can’t separate fondness for a woman from physical intimacy. Some of the signs include; prying about your relationship, pushing physical boundaries (ie excessive hugs, “platonic cuddling”), tmi sexual topics ,and th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 10:13 PM |
| 11 | I'm going to end it with my abusive bf, please pipe me upCall law enforcement, you need the documentation. Also, go to the hospital if offered. You will regret it if you don’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 09:52 PM |
| 79 | TW: Hot take, liberal feminism and the glorification of "Sex work" will signficiantly increase the number of woman mental health issues/suicides in the next 5-10 years.I recently met a woman who had an OF. Within two weeks, she lost most people in her social circle and had a stalker. OF is not anonymous. They can find you. Your peers will find out. I have met many women who have stripped. Every single one was sold on that they would make bank just dancing and stripping. It was a lie. Each one was groomed into performing sexual acts. And who really made out from their sexual acts? The bouncers and bartenders that they had to “pay out”. Women are also groomed in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 08:31 PM |
| 17 | More leftist pussy policing & anti-reproductive choice rhetoric. Nice try Scrotes, but you can’t use Pride month to shame or bully women into sex with you. OUR VAGINAS, OUR CHOICE.It’s even commonly accepted in the porn industry that many female porn actresses won’t have sex with men who have done gay or bi scenes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:27 PM |
| 12 | If he visits strip clubs, assume he is soliciting sexIf you allow your man to go to strip clubs, you’re not the cool spouse, you’re a door mat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:14 PM |
| 18 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneDon’t say a word about this to him. Gather all information possible. Get a divorce attorney. Open a separate bank account AT A SEPARATE BANK. Lock him out of all of your social media, apps, email etc. Make copies of all documents you can; deed, insurance, retirement, car loans, anything/everything. Get off of reddit and get moving. Good luck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 10:46 PM |
| 9 | 👇I actually laughed out loud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 03:57 AM |
| 123 | The more you become aware the more things like these are not funny. It’s just misogynistic really.This is when I pretend not to get it and ask them to explain the joke to me. They look worse and worse as they stumble to rationalize the misogyny while trying to impress a woman. It’s chef’s 💋. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 10:36 PM |
| 17 | Yes Queen! You deserve more than a $5 date. Swipe to see the scrotes’ responsesI don’t even rage at their comments anymore. They’re not even in our orbit. I’ve made several FDS friends and they’re all attractive, successful career women that go to the gym every day. All of the dudes that rage in my DMs are clearly unemployed (reddit comments all hours of the day) gamer losers. Like bro, go find some pickme with low self esteem that is ok with your mom Venmoing you $10 for a coffee date. You’re not getting the hot lawyer that cycles on the weekend. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 04:30 PM |
| 40 | My gf needs space after i convinced her to let me pretend to rape her bc we're sooo kinky but she didnt say "banana" so I didnt stop, why is she upset???🤢🤡That and why are men jumping into super risky involved sex when they cant even master vanilla sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:13 PM |
| 7 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.I hear ya, unfortunate wording on my part. “Forcing” absolves them of responsibility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 12:01 AM |
| 48 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.This is going to catch hate, but attractive men, in general, tend to be nicer and all around better people. They don’t have a complex that forces them to abuse and cheat on women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 03:40 PM |
| 19 | It's ALL men.One of the most freeing things I’ve learned in life is male approval is just a worthless tool of suppression. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 06:49 PM |
| 17 | Listen to Men when They Tell You Who You Are: A Story about a Pickme in the WildThe worst part is; most gyms offer childcare. He just doesn’t want to put the kids in the car. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 03:18 AM |
| 3 | GhostingI don’t know why it’s drilled into us that everyone is entitled to “closure”. If you’re seeing someone, but you no longer want to, you can just stop seeing them. They don’t need to “ok” it or agree to you no longer seeing them. And men LOVE when women get worked up and emotional over something they did. It’s validating. Don’t give them that. Just. Stop. Seeing. Them. 🙌🌈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 05:09 PM |
| 15 | Ladies, what are your physical preferences?Don’t feel bad. It’s just biology. We can’t help it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 08:15 PM |
| 26 | Ladies, what are your physical preferences?-5’7 and up -Fit dudes. I LOVE FIT DUDES! Not like over the top ripped but definitely muscular. -Good teeth is a must -Good hygiene -Broad shoulders -Dark hair and olive skin is a plus, but not a requirement. -Good tattoos and a lot of them is a definite bonus -7-8 inches is the ideal function wise. If you get what I’m saying -Muscular round ass. (I hate flat asses!) I know these standards seem high. Still, ALL of my partners have met these standards, and were super sweet and attentive to boot! … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:01 PM |
| 4 | Ex is back. Ladies, help!Not only does he not care or value you, but he doesn’t value women. You can’t fix that, he won’t change. Women are just objects to him to use and discard to satisfy his wants and needs. The other woman is not lying to you and there are likely side chicks in addition to you two. Have self respect. No long text messages. No meeting up to discuss. These dudes love it when women get emotional. It validates them. Just ghost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 03:13 PM |
| 12 | Ex is back. Ladies, help!Block. Mute. Delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 03:09 PM |
| 49 | The price of being the “cool girl” who totally looves threesomes. (But is actually just desperately trying to keep her LVM happy)Yeah, I don’t get why women think being someone’s cum sock for 20 minutes is so validating. Like sis, men aren’t choosy. The only reason you are in the threesome is because you were the only who would agree to a threesome. That’s it sis, that was the qualifier. You aren’t some crazy hot jezebel who seduced a committed man to stray. You are the only woman in the area with low enough self esteem to let someone else’s husband bust in you. THAT’S IT! Congratulations 🎉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:50 PM |
| 20 | The price of being the “cool girl” who totally looves threesomes. (But is actually just desperately trying to keep her LVM happy)I dont understand being a pickme and getting off on someone basically cheating on their wife with you. Like she is still the wife. He still chooses to marry her and not you. Meaning, you are still less than her. You’re not even worth keeping around after he nuts. But I guess you’re more desirable because you got her man 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:45 PM |
| 41 | I don’t know who needs to hear this ,but if you don’t like his past, you are not obligated to stay with him.Men are wayyyy more jealous than women in relationships. Like if a woman were to watch porn and had a certain body type she likes that isn’t the same as her bf, most dudes would lose it. Same for any of the other sex work/grey areas. As women, we are expected to accept way to much in our personal and professional lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 06:27 PM |
| 65 | And this is why you demand more for yourself and set clear boundaries and expectationsHe wants to get married, just not to her. Men don’t even need to like you to keep you around to do wifey shit while he waits for his dream girl to arrive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 06:14 PM |
| 227 | Yet Another case of a Man and His Fetish Destroying a Woman. Porn Isn't Just Fantasy- It Has Real World Consequences for Women! If He Watches Porn Throw Him Out 👏🏻Keep in mind, this is HIS side of the story. He was probably more involved in her disorder than he is admitting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 05:14 PM |
| 69 | I don’t know who needs to hear this ,but if you don’t like his past, you are not obligated to stay with him.My thing with strip clubs is it’s getting as close to cheating without cheating. If you feel the need to get as ass up to those limits as possible, then why are you in a committed relationship? You know it hurts your spouse and she is only agreeing out of social pressure. Why do you not care about hurting your spouse? Because you dont care. I went to strip clubs during a business thing with coworkers. (Being the “cool girl” in a business setting to get ahead is a whole other pickme category. Not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 04:49 PM |
| 159 | I don’t know who needs to hear this ,but if you don’t like his past, you are not obligated to stay with him.Honestly, it’s one of those moral lines that you don’t come back from after crossing. Once you justify it in your head, it’s permanent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 04:27 PM |
| 44 | The very famous "sexual compatibility" NVM absolutely MUST check before committing and why it's a bunch of bullIf he can’t date someone without sleeping with them, it’s because he doesn’t see women as valuable life partners. He also can not bare spending time with a woman unless sex is guaranteed down the line. This comes from a deep seated form of misogyny that ,unfortunately, is present in the majority of men. He’s in love with men, but sexually attracted to women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 08:43 PM |
| 33 | my friend, the wife, is upset with me for being rude to her husband. I’m sad for her.Is this a surprise party? If not, then why is he texting you? Why is the friend not inviting you? Makes me think he was trying to invite you to trivia without her......... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 09:14 PM |
| 47 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisThere is a little disconnect for me here. I’m sorry, but a lot of women don’t know how to stand up for themselves. I would never just do the dishes because some one left them for me. If I come home to a kitchen that exploded while I was gone I’m not making dinner. So my husband has two choices; he can either clean the kitchen while I’m gone or clean it and make dinner when I get home. IDGAF, I will literally order delivery for just me and eat in front of him. Im sorry but if those kids are old e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:26 PM |
| 10 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers"Also, why is being a sex worker always their ENTIRE identity? Anyone notice that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 11:55 PM |
| 27 | Ladies, please don’t post overtly provocative pictures on social media. Not only does it attract trash men ,but you could lose your job over it.Yeah, they did. We worked at a facility with underaged residents. One of the older boys (17-21 unit) found her IG and was telling all the residents in his unit that he thought she hot. The post wasn’t that bad. Definitely posed and intended to be sexy ,but she was clothed. The facility wasn’t listed in her bio or anything. HR called her in. They literally pulled up her IG on their phone, said a resident found this and she needs to pack up her desk. The resident wasn’t even under her care. We wor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:41 PM |
| 30 | Ladies, please don’t post overtly provocative pictures on social media. Not only does it attract trash men ,but you could lose your job over it.Oh 100% agree. It’s bullshit. But, women still lose their jobs regardless. This isn’t just in Mental Health either. There was that one woman who made headlines when she lost her job as a mechanic for an OF. You don’t hear of successful law suits against these employers for this, either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:07 PM |
| 56 | Male coworker triggered by being in a room full of high value womenUm, so anyone else uncomfortable that medical professionals are getting objects thrown at them during surgery? I don’t know about you all ,but I personally would prefer that my surgeon and assisting staff were not being distracted by thrown objects while executing said surgery. Wtf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 09:31 PM |
| 12 | This is getting traction in a FOOD GROUP I’m in, and I cannot describe how unenthusiastic I am with cool-gamer-girl pickmeculture“iM nOT lIkE oThEr gIrLs. i pLaY cOd aNd hAvE nO eXpEcTaTiOnS” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 04:44 PM |
| 11 | Textbook example of LVM we talk about here, I think we need to rescueIf he says she doesnt look like the women in porn, he is referring to the average women in porn. Which is petite, under weight, small breasts, no hair, etc. You know who else has those features? Prepubescent girls. And it is not a coincidence. Run sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 02:33 PM |
| 340 | True crime and age gapsI read a while ago that men treat younger women worse because it’s easier to dehumanize them. Like Ted Bundy could control himself around his gf in her 30’s, but sought out women under 22 to murder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:54 PM |
| 130 | Women are the only ones receiving the blame about having fewer children, despite the unevenness of the weight of parenthood across the gendersThem: “The world is over populated. We can’t sustain all of these people. How are we going to reduce our carbon footprint?” Women: “Hold my beer, I got this.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 12:36 AM |
| 15 | Will Male Entitlement End Humanity?There are a lot of terrifying possibilities. They were expecting a baby boom from covid. They didn’t get it, and now they’re PISSED......Trump appointing Amy Coney Barrett to replace RBG was no coincidence either. Give it a month and there will be an abortion case presented to the supreme court. I guarantee it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:23 PM |
| 15 | Will Male Entitlement End Humanity?And historically the solution to growing the population in the US is immigration. But you know THAT’S not going to happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 11:13 PM |
| 34 | Will Male Entitlement End Humanity?Conservatives rely on a constant state of fear to pass their policies. That’s why this is all over the news right now. They are going to force is to have children by stripping our rights. It’s coming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:59 PM |
| 46 | Will Male Entitlement End Humanity?They’re not going to let us keep voting with our bodies like this. We’re going to see more draconian laws around abortion/birth control. Slowly, choice is going to be striped away. That’s why you’re seeing this all over the news. It’s to help scare people into restricting women’s rights in the future. Stay woke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:55 PM |
| 71 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.Imagine almost killing a woman in public because you ASSUME she doesn’t want to fuck you. Like you’re that much if a beta, that you know, without question, any woman in your vicinity, doesn’t want to fuck you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:20 PM |
| 66 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.Ladies, it is imperative that you learn self defense. And not those bullshit women’s self defense classes. I’m talking mauy thai/jujitsu/judo. As you see, there are men out there that don’t care if you get run over by a train. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:16 PM |
| 12 | The Irritating Gentleman, by German artist Berthold Woltze (1874) https://i.imgur.com/HMa0cro.jpg (saw this on another subreddit)I feel the pain in her eyes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 01:13 AM |
| 11 | A little wisdom that was passed down to me from my aunt, “Never have children with some one you are not married to.”A friend in my state tried to avoid giving her lvm parental rights by keeping him off the certificate, he still got rights. They will give paternity tests to anyone. He didn’t even have proof that they were together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:53 PM |
| 19 | A little wisdom that was passed down to me from my aunt, “Never have children with some one you are not married to.”This is a really good point. Child=18 years Mortgage=30 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:30 AM |
| 204 | A little wisdom that was passed down to me from my aunt, “Never have children with some one you are not married to.”They plan it out too. They’re calculated.It’s not just coincidence. I currently work in a male dominated field. I hear the lockerroom talk. They exchange tips on how to have side chicks, not be financially obligated, having a exit plan, and when to leave jobs so your pay doesn’t get docked for back child support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:54 PM |
| 64 | A little wisdom that was passed down to me from my aunt, “Never have children with some one you are not married to.”Also, what do these men think they’re doing? You’re not getting married because you want an easy out should a pickme come along. But, you have children and property together? Those are the big parts of divorce. If it werent for kids, assets and property, divorce would be a breeze. You will still have to go to court and divy those up. You will still be connected to this woman. You will get out of alimony by not being married (which only applies if you’re the breadwinner). You will still pay child… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:45 PM |
| 67 | A little wisdom that was passed down to me from my aunt, “Never have children with some one you are not married to.”100% agree. These women are committed and then they are blindsided when he moves on with very little consequences. I hate to see that. Men don’t mind having children at your expense and then leaving you with the bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:26 PM |
| 16 | What exactly do MRAs think would happen if men started getting custody all the time?Ive seen it a lot too. Then pickmeisha stepmom wages war against bio mom. Then when shes done flexing, they just kind of disappear from the kids life. Happened to my aunt. The father was absent until he got a pickme. She swoops in. Tries to get him to get full custody. Even did power moves like cutting the daughters hair short during his visitations. As soon as bio dad marries her, they lost interest. He gave up custody and they were never to be seen again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 07:19 PM |
| 22 | Women aren't funnyIve had men not laugh at my jokes, but then turn around and retell them as their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:50 PM |
| 72 | My small guide for the "BIG" event of meeting the family.Another consideration, if their son is a complete shit bag, but they like you, they will drop some hints. My ex’s father pulled me aside and told me that his son lies a lot. A month later I caught him with his whole ass other girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 04:53 PM |
| 4 | How is this even a question??!!Omg, I just can’t. They’ve been seeing each other for months?!?!? How?!?!? How was it not over at $4 for pizza? I guarantee she is sleeping with him, too. Girl, why?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 02:25 PM |
| 17 | Women with children are shamed for moving on after a failed relationship/divorce. (ie. Kourtney Kardashian and Megan Fox)Exactly. Staying together for the kids is a horrible idea in any situation. We still have this old school narrative that the woman’s job is to keep the family together, at any cost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 02:16 PM |
| 16 | Women with children are shamed for moving on after a failed relationship/divorce. (ie. Kourtney Kardashian and Megan Fox)Although I respect the co-parenting. He is using her for all of his emotional needs and going to super young women (teenagers sometimes) to fulfill his sexual needs. It’s a terrible dynamic for everyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 01:48 PM |
| 25 | Women with children are shamed for moving on after a failed relationship/divorce. (ie. Kourtney Kardashian and Megan Fox)But god forbid his ex from 6 years ago moves on to real relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 01:45 PM |
| 17 | Women with children are shamed for moving on after a failed relationship/divorce. (ie. Kourtney Kardashian and Megan Fox)It almost took too. People were going on about how she is a mom and shouldn’t be partying. But MGK is a parent too. Also, her and Brian Austin Greens relationship was sus. It seemed like every time she tried to leave, he got her pregnant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 01:42 PM |
| 120 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!I think a lot of men are realizing that most of them will not have children in their lifetime. Women are fully aware of the risks and losses involved with motherhood, and are only willing to do this with a good partner. Most men are incapable of being good partners. Instead of changing our boundaries and compromising our wants/needs to accommodate a man, like previous generations, we stood our ground. Instead of ,”All men are x,y,z and you’ll just have to accept it”. We said, “If men are x,y,z, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 04:58 PM |
| 101 | End of my Pickme EraNgl, sounds like someone who has a whole wife and family at home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 10:05 PM |
| 57 | Men want traditional women until its time for them to be traditional men and be providers.A woman who works is not a traditional woman, by definition. So they don’t want a traditional woman. I don’t know what they want honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:29 PM |
| 114 | Men want traditional women until its time for them to be traditional men and be providers.3x their own rent still isn’t enough to support a traditional household. You’re not supposed to be getting by, by the skin of your teeth. You’re supposed to be able to provide a whole family with at least a middle class life style, off of your salary alone. That is what traditional women expect and they should demand more, honestly . They are paying for this lifestyle with their independence , their autonomy ,and unlimited domestic labor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:25 PM |
| 6 | Today on Manslators of FDS: Words Weaponized Against WomenTease/leads men on/flirt- You have basic respectful conversations with men at work or in social settings but you do not sleep with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 01:04 PM |
| 7 | DISCUSSION: What corrupted liberal feminism?I’m a 90’s kid, too. I wholeheartedly agree. So much of the 90’s and early 00’s pop music was aimed at being an empowered sexually promiscuous women. Now that I think about it, I think this is also where the “not like other girls crowd” really took traction. The “not like other girls” rejected the overwhelming sexual imagery of artists like X-tina and Lil Kim. Then many of them reacted by assuming more masculine clothing styles and shitting on girls who dared wear makeup. Then female empowerment… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 11:09 PM |
| 2 | DISCUSSION: What corrupted liberal feminism?This. Yes, I agree. Sexual abuse/assault/domestic abuse is seen as an unfortunate event as opposed to a symptom of a systemic problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:49 PM |
| 60 | Billie speaking facts!And then pickmes will run to him because now he must have value. Otherwise you wouldn’t be with him, right? Then he cheats on you. It’s a whole mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:26 PM |
| 66 | Men frame women's sexuality as desiring to be looked at, as passive object brought to life by lustful male gazes. Women's sexual desire is suppressed by men using shame and gaslighting.Patriarchy makes us feel like we need to be validated by men. That a man wanting to fuck is validating that we are attractive and worthy. Men like to rate us with numbers because they believe they have to power to validate or invalidate us. That we should be aroused that he is aroused. That his arousal is validating that we are sexual creatures. Nah sis, male sexual attraction is abundant and low value. Find out what you like and go for that. And please FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, stop dating dudes you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:31 PM |
| 88 | I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡I hope she gets near full custody. Porn addicts will literally lock themselves in a room all day masturbating, while their kids are left to fend for themselves. Also, he has daughters. He will likely sexualize them as they get older. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:03 PM |
| 9 | I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡Firstly, the lack of self awareness is astonishing. It is sad though. This dude had several chances to change. You’re going to let the love of your life and mother of your kids go because you want to beat your dick to badly produced internet videos?!?! Really?!?? What a waste! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:59 PM |
| 18 | Men scientifically conclude porn doesn’t affect their perception of women 🤡I don’t really know how they could successfully do an ethical study on porn usage and perception of women. Maybe, you could use PornHub data to suggest that the existence of violent porn increases the demand for violent porn. But, unfortunately, people seem to think sexuality is separate from their perception of women. It’s a whole mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:28 PM |
| 39 | PSA: Ladies, don't post self identifying content using the reddit account you participate in FDS with. And PLEASE don't cross post in beauty subs with your face!Jokes on them. I’m already married to a HVM. I’m just here for the feminism and reforming pickmes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 04:13 AM |
| 15 | When a single person blames you for their suicide its abuse and manipulation, when men site male suicide statistics and blame it on women it's "based"Also men choose more violent methods and are more impulsive. Access to guns greatly affects suicide statistics. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 02:26 PM |
| 18 | Thank you! I learned to say "no" to free emotional laborCongrats! He was definitely going to try to sleep with you! “Just one last time for old times sake” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 09:20 PM |
| 22 | I should really stop lurking around. From a post about age gap relashionships and how they aren't weird. Yes they are.Unfortunately, it’s of the norm for millennials and gen z, that women are more successful at each age. Modern women are pressured from a young age to be high achievers. We had to pRoVe we were smart. Boys don’t get that same pressure. They act out in class and bully girls , “boys will be boys”. They get bad scores and don’t do their homework, “hE’s jUsT tOo sMaRt hE’s bored”. If a girl coughs in the wrong elbow, she’s scolded and her parents get a note sent home. We are not the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 02:58 PM |
| 12 | Of course Reddit somehow convinced her this obvious case of porn sickness is ok...There is an update and it is horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:21 PM |
| 27 | Second self aware man I've seen in that thread. And all the angry scrotes downvoted himI don’t know what it is, but I have gay friends who are fucking smoke shows. They’re fit, well groomed take care of themselves. They aren’t attractive because they won some crazy genetic lottery that makes them fit and well groomed. They spend hours at the gym. Pluck, wax and most if the other stuff we do. I don’t know why straight men think this is beneath them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 01:32 PM |
| 50 | Allure Magazine Posts The Most Toxic, poorly thought out, male pandering, Sex Advice. Women’s magazines are pick me garbage.My kink is financial domination. I am very attached to this kink. I need complete control over all of your wages and assets. I must have my needs fulfilled. Don’t kink shame me, bro | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 03:13 PM |
| 51 | I wrote the "80% of women are equal in value to 20% of men" post that was mentioned in the podcast.Im bi and agree at least half of women are attractive whereas only 1-5% of men are. It’s all self care and hygiene, too. There is just no effort put into appearance at all! A lot of men could be attractive with a nice outfit and fresh haircut. They. Just. Won’t . Do. It. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 12:12 AM |
| 6 | Brother’s school has a bizarre prom ruleEncourage them to boycott prom. They need those ticket sales. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 03:42 PM |
| 11 | Your life does not end at 18 nor your worth as a womanThe secret is, as long as you strive to be the best you, you never actually lose value. My mom is in her 60’s. She is constantly bombarded by younger and high quality men. It never ends, just the super creepy one’s (the 14-24 seekers) start to fall off. This narrative is the patriarchy trying to manipulate you into settling down having kids to keep a man. Open your eyes. Everything you have been taught since childhood was to prepare you to be a mother and caregiver. Capitalism relies on womans’ … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 02:54 PM |
| 19 | 👏🏽more repercussions for creeps👏🏽Honestly, knowing most pickmes, she’s probably bitching to all of her friends that her pOoR hIsBaNd lost his job over some bitch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 01:55 PM |
| 45 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.Because they want to believe that all women are sexually available to them, and only them, at all times. Even strangers on the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 09:51 PM |
| 155 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.If you’re a woman that doesn’t agree with FDS, then why do you feel the need to preach that in this community? Really really ask yourself why you’re offended. Do you identify as an empowered woman and feel threatened by this content? Are you experiencing cognitive dissonance? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 09:44 PM |
| 15 | Vanilla is a word created by men to shame women for not wanting to re-enact porn and be degradedI shouldn’t assume wanting affection after sex is normal I hate it here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 01:29 AM |
| 2 | The Every Single Gen-Z & Millenial Man Starter PackI don’t t know why I am so stuck on this one detail. Like wouldn’t that be more work? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 03:23 PM |
| 12 | The Every Single Gen-Z & Millenial Man Starter PackWhy are there dishes in the shower? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 12:25 AM |
| 62 | A man with self awareness realizing men are the problem? This is rare.It gets worse. Take it from a woman who was once a teenager. Don’t trust boys, any boys. Not until they have jumped through hoops to prove themselves. Even then, be skeptical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 10:27 PM |
| 9 | Men that don’t perform oral sex. Giant Glaring Red FlagHe’s gay. Or atleast curious. Another sign that a man is secretly gay, he will only have sex doggy style. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:43 PM |
| 10 | Men that don’t perform oral sex. Giant Glaring Red FlagSecond this. Every man I’ve been with loves doing that. That’s why I think it’s such a red flag if they don’t. You have to really resent women or be gay to not like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:40 PM |
| 12 | Not All MenAt 13, a man attempted to abduct me. At 16 a youth outreach leader groomed me into a relationship. At 17, another person from youth outreach raped me. At 19, I was engaged to a man who cheated on me with an underaged girl (he was 23). At 19, my tattoo mentor made it clear that I needed to sleep with him if I wanted to move up in the company. I left and had to find a new mentor. At 21, a college professor told me to visit him in his office because he gets “lonely”. At 24, I couldnt get a promotio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 01:43 AM |
| 39 | NEVER hire a male personal trainerI went to New Orleans and did a cemetery tour. I saw the dude reach into his pockets and slip his wedding ring off. He was up my ass the whole tour. Then when the tour ended, he was asking me if I needed a ride to my hotel. Really pushy about it too. Insisting to take me to my hotel to make sure I was “safe”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 11:26 PM |
| 3 | Even with 3 kids and a considerable age gap, men will still jump ship for a younger woman and leave you with all the bills. Being a SAHM is risky af!Always. Always. I bet he was her superior, too. Why do these girls go for this? He is almost 15 years older with three kids. How do they not see the douchery? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Even with 3 kids and a considerable age gap, men will still jump ship for a younger woman and leave you with all the bills. Being a SAHM is risky af!Omg, I dont know who your are. But I think I’m in love with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 11:00 PM |
| 7 | I would give my child my maiden name as their last name after this.Make no mistake, that was a targeted attack. If he was just trying to make some stupid man comment, he would have just said, “nOw yOu wOnT bE fAt hUrR dUrR.” He wanted to break her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Chris Meloni Demonstrating Why We StanExactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 12:29 AM |
| 40 | Crazy ex trope-do not fall for it queens.“bUT sHe’S cRaZy” Why have only heard that about myself when I stood up to a man who was trying to/or was exploiting me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 05:27 PM |
| 10 | I've noticed that a lot of women here have toxic mothers. While it's true that mothers are often unfairly scapegoated for all of society's woes, it's important to remember that mothers also socialize their children to perpetuate patriarchy.100%. My pick-me mom caused me to have an eating disorder INTENTIONALLY. All so she could say her daughter was thinner than her sisters’ daughter, that was close to my age. Pickme’s should not be mothers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:41 AM |
| 8 | Nothing says love and monogamy like a room full of naked ladiesOmg, make a post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 04:04 PM |
| 24 | Nothing says love and monogamy like a room full of naked ladiesI’m so glad someone finally made a post about this! I don’t accept strip clubs in a relationship. Even if it’s not cheating, it’s getting as close to cheating as possible. Why do you feel the need to toe that line? You know you’re hurting your partner and she’s only accepting it so she doesn’t seem cRaZy. Why is that fun to you? If you enjoy hurting and disrespecting your partner, I sure as fuck am not going to stick around. But I want to share my experience. My uncles on my dad’s side go to str… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 03:18 PM |
| 19 | Nothing says love and monogamy like a room full of naked ladiesBut if you go to a male strip club, they lose their goddamn minds! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 03:04 PM |
| 125 | Already done with this hellsiteI think everyone should read through these subs and some on the old incel screencaps. It’s important to know that a substantial amount of men think this way. Elliot Roger came from these people. They are a terrorist organization that we are just allowing to exist for some reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:53 PM |
| 16 | Already done with this hellsiteChecking it out right now. Thankyou! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:46 PM |
| 95 | Chris Meloni Demonstrating Why We StanHonestly, the vast majority of men are completely unattractive. As in, they don’t even register as sexual options in our minds. It’s not due to to genetics or bone structure, as incel forums believe. It is 100% that they put zero effort into looking presentable and being hygienic. But yet they feel so entitled. That women should have to bend to their high beauty standards. When no woman, and I mean no woman, is attracted to a man who looks and acts like that. I guarantee, his wife is only with h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 10:53 PM |
| 8 | I guarantee the girlfriend is leagues more attractive than him. Remember, a lot of men see us as objects. A lot of men only see value in your appearance and they compare you to retouched images of models.Perfectly said! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 05:01 PM |
| 52 | I guarantee the girlfriend is leagues more attractive than him. Remember, a lot of men see us as objects. A lot of men only see value in your appearance and they compare you to retouched images of models.I guarantee he is a “nice guy” as well. She is also significantly younger than him. Even when your with a man who isn’t super attractive, this is still their mind set. They’re only with you because they can’t be with the instagram model. If an instagram model shows him attention one day, he’ll be gone. You are your youth and the number men assign you to these dudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 04:59 PM |
| 67 | I guarantee the girlfriend is leagues more attractive than him. Remember, a lot of men see us as objects. A lot of men only see value in your appearance and they compare you to retouched images of models.Or unlearn their misogyny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 04:52 PM |
| 184 | What do you ladies think?100% It was never about religion or right to life. It’s all the bottom line. Women make children, become single mothers, and stay poor. The children are raised with little opportunity. Then are willing to work in a factory with low pay or join the military. The capitalist machine keeps going. Nothing to see here folks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 03:41 PM |
| 45 | A reminder to drop the LVM and focus on love and leveling up for yourself.That’s why I have a problem with a lot of our movies and kids shows. Almost every child show catered towards girls is centered around getting a boyfriend. It’s the entire story arch. For example; Little Mermaid, Cinderella, etc. We’re conditioned so young to believe our sole purpose in life is to get a man. I don’t believe it’s by accident either. I think this is intentional to make sure that girls grow up to be women who enter marriages and have children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:08 PM |
| 30 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.Women never wanted to be baby machines. They were forced too. That’s why house wives were addicted to valium and quaaludes. They were miserable. As evident by this article, they do not care about our quality of life. Only that we make enough babies to take care of them. Millennial and Gen Z have wise up. We know that tradcon is a life of domestic servitude. We know that society does not see us as full people. We know employers don’t value us as much as men. We know husbands will leave us pennile… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:26 PM |
| 5 | Women aren’t difficult nor are they a burden.Exactly ⬆️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:01 AM |
| 5 | Dr. Phil is a narcissistic bully with a TV show.I would say take his license away, but he hasn’t renewed it since 2006 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 06:32 PM |
| 87 | Women aren’t difficult nor are they a burden.They can fuck all the way off with this “wOmEn aRe sO eMmOtIonal. sHe’S lUcKY I dEaL wIth hEr” bullshit. Most men add zero value to your life. Especially, if you’re a career woman. They double your home chores. They constantly neg you. You’re always on edge wondering about what he did on “guys night” or why he is following that girl on instagram. Most of them are addicted to porn. They project their unrealistic body/beauty standards on you. Then, because you’re dating them, pickmes think they ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Finally escaped 3yr relationship as a Cluster-B abuse survivorI went through several relationships with men who were absolutely Cluster B, before I found my husband. I know the fear of letting them into your life unknowingly. I learned that part of what caused me to be victimized by these men was that I was raised by a narcissistic parent. I was the scape goat of my family, and these men picked up on that. This has been an issue for me both in romantic and work place relationships. I learned to go into any relationship ready to leave/block/delete at a mome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:12 PM |
| 83 | Women not being silent and submissive is somehow a threatIs it because these Metoo stories sound similar to the way you’ve treated women........... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 04:41 PM |
| 64 | MeN aRe ViSuAl CrEaTuReS is a liemEn aRe vIsUaL cReAtUrEs. But they can’t tell the difference between mint and seafoam green 🎤 💥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 03:38 PM |
| 7 | One for the ages (2 parts).Exactly! Then when the other woman gets the man, she is constantly looking over her shoulder. Always worried that her husband will cheat. Which, he will. Especially, if he is into younger women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 11:00 PM |
| 3 | One for the ages (2 parts).I think you’re right. Even if he didn’t wear his ring, did the whole workplace get together to keep this secret under wraps? She probably gave him an ultimatum, didn’t like the answer, and told the wife in hopes that she would leave. Which is what happened. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 10:58 PM |
| 12 | I’m tired of guys who say they just want to be friends, yet end up trying to pursue me intimately/(romantically?)Yes, I’ve seen it happen. I’ve really seen it happen with youth ministers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:01 PM |
| 30 | I’m tired of guys who say they just want to be friends, yet end up trying to pursue me intimately/(romantically?)Also, don’t ever ever EVER talk to them about relationship issues you are having. This is known in family/marriage counseling. This is how they get in your head and manipulate you into a sexual relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:51 PM |
| 9 | NVM afraid to be judged like he judges single moms, cry me a river. The *last* interaction I will ever have OLD, 7 months clean and a much, much happier life without it!Ugh girl, he wears his hat backwards and his name is Paul? Why did you swipe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 05:41 AM |
| 31 | One for the ages (2 parts).Even after all of that, he STILL kicked out the other woman! NEVER 👏 BE 👏 THE 👏 OTHER 👏 WOMAN 👏 I know she didn’t know at first, but it rarely works out for the other woman. First off, if someone has a mistress they’re already LVM. That and they are never guaranteed to leave their wife even if they say “we’re getting divorced”. Even after getting her pregnant, moving her in, he STILL kicked her to the curb in hopes that his wife would come back. Once you’re the other woman, you will always be th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:22 AM |
| 38 | One for the ages (2 parts).And divorce with undeniable infidelity.......yeah he is done for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 10:46 PM |
| 17 | Advice for a man who married a gorgeous woman with whom he has nothing in common. I loved her response.Oh he definitely was. I believe he was either a narcissist or a sociopath | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 06:38 PM |
| 136 | Advice for a man who married a gorgeous woman with whom he has nothing in common. I loved her response.Guarantee it! I had and ex like this. Loved to talk about “quantum mechanics” had literally no idea what he was talking about. I, on the other hand, had course work in physics. He would just mansplain and talk over me. Dismiss me as being a “young minded” girl (what ever that means). I was just trying to explain some basic terms so he would stop embarrassing me in front of my college friends. He didn’t graduate high school but would lie and say he was attending Princeton for “astrophysics” which… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 06:11 PM |
| 5 | Men are surprised that I have hobbiesIt’s a form of gate keeping. Women aren’t supposed to have interests. Otherwise, it interferes with their idea that we are all brainless sex things put here to serve them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:28 PM |
| 5 | Patriarchy squashes female liberation by forcing women to choose between two equally oppressive binary gender roles. FDS teaches women that we don't need to take ANY "pills" that do not 100% serve our interests.Half of the dudes out there are mentally abusive, unfaithful, and porn addicts. The only women who are willing to put up with that are completely financially dependent on their partners. Basically, they aren’t really choosing to be with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:38 AM |
| 29 | Patriarchy squashes female liberation by forcing women to choose between two equally oppressive binary gender roles. FDS teaches women that we don't need to take ANY "pills" that do not 100% serve our interests.A male acquaintance was complaining to me. He said that the women who are willing to date expect a man to provide completely and are looking for sugar daddies. Whereas, the more independent/career minded women that he wants, are no longer interested in dating. Well no shit dude. What’s the point in dealing with this oppressive bullshit if you already have your life figured out? What are you adding to a successful woman’s life? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:05 PM |
| 19 | “But all men watch porn -“ “Not all men!”Also, and I hate to say this because it’s pretty sad, maybe someone can swing back from habitual porn use but not full porn addiction. All addictions affect relationships, period. Sexual additions,normally, affect relationships for a lifetime. Typically, the goal of rehabilitation is avoidance. It’s pretty hard to have a successful intimate relationship when it’s a toss up between complete sexual avoidance or risk falling back into addiction. Also, a lot of these men have been using hardcore por… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:57 PM |
| 51 | “But all men watch porn -“ “Not all men!”Exactly! Also, readily accessible porn has only been a thing for the past 20 years. It was a whole struggle to get porn back in the day. You had to go to an adult store, it cost hella money, and you couldn’t afford a vast variety. That’s why magazines like Playboy were so popular for so long. It was the most accessible and cost effective. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:45 PM |
| 28 | “But all men watch porn -“ “Not all men!”The porn thing really gets me. Like none of us ever advocated for policies to outlaw porn (outside of illegal/blackmail/pedo porn). If we don’t like porn, cheap dates and casual sex, but you do, THEN WE ARE NOT COMPATIBLE! Why do they give a fuck? They don’t want to date FDSers anyway! What, are they mad that there are other people in the world with differing values that date other people with said values? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:38 PM |
| 121 | These guys are around us, ladies.Patriarchy is a thing. Men are taught their whole lives that women aren’t fully people. Just like racism, you have to choose to unlearn this type of thinking. You have to make a real world conscious effort to see through everything you have been taught. You have to be self aware and work consistently on identifying and correcting these thoughts and opinions. Not only are most people not willing to do this, most aren’t capable. All eight posts said the same thing. “Im incapable of loving a woman … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:10 PM |
| 73 | “It’s fine if she’s legal.” This is so problematic.And theyll groom these girls when they are underage and make their move once they turn 18. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:39 PM |
| 86 | “It’s fine if she’s legal.” This is so problematic.So many of my male peers want a woman who is super thin (not in shape/tone, actually under weight), small or no boobs, no butt, and no hair ever. You know what else looks like that? A prepubescent girl. 🤷🏻♀️ Sorry dude, it’s super sus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:33 PM |
| 61 | LVM wanting other men to participate in their LVM behavior. Disgusting.Turn it around and say “if Channing Tatum where in front of me” and watch them Break. The fuck. Down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 08:53 PM |
| 4 | Relationship Ambiguity Is The New Backlash, and It's Dangerous and Effective Because of Its SubtletyNormalize women saying “no” and all of this goes away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 03:36 PM |
| 108 | Keep it real out thereI had similar experiences in 17/21 and 19/22 relationships. Super predatory/abusive. Anything over 2 years age difference until you’re closer to your mid-twenties, is a red flag. 3-4 years is a huge difference in life experience when you’re younger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:22 PM |
| 42 | She's beautiful even at 56, where's the wall men constantly keep talking about?I just don’t understand how an adult can find that attractive. I don’t find teenage boys attractive. Not even when I was a teenager. And if I did, they were the teenagers who looked like they were in their 20’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:12 PM |
| 18 | She's beautiful even at 56, where's the wall men constantly keep talking about?*but they totally still will fuck you given the opportunity. Don’t worry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 01:10 PM |
| 34 | Hypersexualization of women in anime and why I won't deal with men who watch itThat’s the problem with all sexualized content, it continuously reinforces misogynistic ideals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:37 PM |
| 25 | Dont Date Men Who Are Sports, Rap, Rock StarsI used to play in bands. It’s common knowledge in the music scene that most men join bands to get pussy. A lot men don’t genuinely have passions out side of video games and sex. I hate to say that, but it’s true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 07:25 PM |
| 38 | Dont Date Men Who Are Sports, Rap, Rock StarsTo add to this: It is not a coincidence that these men are low value and cheat. Men who are womanizers INTENTIONALLY choose careers that will give them more access to women. The “he is only as faithful as his options” trope is true, but only because he was seeking options and was already intending to be unfaithful from the get go! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 07:19 PM |
| 22 | And this is why men and woman CANNOT be friends. Ever. They're just in the cut waitingWhat do you mean you don’t want to suck on my pipi?!? We had lunch and drove around! “Drove around” better mean smoking a blunt in a car. If they were really just driving around, that makes it even weirder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 10:51 PM |
| 2 | This is so disturbing. Who even thinks like this?This is typically the logic that men go to before they start drugging and date raping women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:41 PM |
| 40 | I feel sorry for this women. She's being stalked and harassed by an older guy who used to be her boss!I’ve had a stalker before. Really, really tough legal waters to navigate. It’s not illegal to make fake accounts, drive by your house, call you from fake numbers, follow you to a public place, etc. Basically, in most areas, they can’t step in until he threatens you from a password locked account or actually gets into your house. Stalkers know these things. Also, police typically don’t take female victims seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 03:31 PM |
| 11 | This Level of Possessiveness? RED FLAGWhy are these pick up artist dudes always so cringy. How do their viewers not see it? And they’re compulsive liars. Roosh V has all these books on the long exotic vacations where he slept with all of these women, supposedly. That he’s this a super wealthy ladies man. Then we find out he lives in his moms’ basement in Silverspring, MD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 07:54 PM |
| 23 | FB scrotes are mad because they can't handle scientific fact 😂😂😂Men really go through a menopause as well. It’s sad that most people won’t accept this. They are only hurting themselves. There are treatments available. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 03:22 PM |
| 14 | My heart sank when I read this, poor woman 🙅🏼♀️My ex did the same thing and even had a girlfriend in another city. He also had a cluster B personality disorder and addiction problems. It’s the “superficial charm” with these ones that pull you in. It’s hard to spot in the beginning, but once you live through it, you’re hyper aware. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 12:58 AM |
| 6 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.I love you all! This the only truly 4th wave feminist community I’ve found online! This is so much more than dating advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:16 PM |
| 4 | Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting"This is an excellent point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 06:25 PM |
| 3 | The entitlement when men want to decide what to do to a pregnant woman’s body and unborn child when it doesn’t benefit themIt doesn’t matter if a man wants to be a dad or not. His time to choose was when he decided to use protection or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 08:31 PM |
| 77 | Husband tries to convince wife to let him buy a sex doll. Wife’s self esteem is low due to people in his social circle criticizing her appearance. A lot to unpack here. I think we have a rescue mission.There is a lot of slow manipulation going on here. Potentially, narcissistic abuse. Why does she know his friends said that about her? Did they really or was it a targeted blow to her self esteem that he made up? Also, clearly he wants to cheat, but since women are just objects to him anyway, he thought he could navigate this risky situation by purchasing a sex doll. Then when that doesn’t work, he is just oh so hurt. Nah. Run sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 07:29 PM |
| 184 | Husband tries to convince wife to let him buy a sex doll. Wife’s self esteem is low due to people in his social circle criticizing her appearance. A lot to unpack here. I think we have a rescue mission.Yeah, manipulative as fuck! A lot of toxicity going on here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 07:23 PM |
| 22 | I'm done 🙅🏻♀️💢💔And like, do these women think the man is going to leave the wife for you and be a faithful partner to them because they’re jUsT sO dIFfeReNt tHaT tHeY cHaNgEd hIM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 12:11 AM |
| 38 | Another Failed Flex from the LibFem Logic FilesThis is why I date some one for 3 months minimum before I sleep with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 10:47 PM |
| 50 | I'm done 🙅🏻♀️💢💔Not that im putting the blame on the 20 year old, but I would love an AMA from one of these women. Like why do you sleep with these dudes? You know he’s married with a kid on the way. He’s a decade older. You know he’s a piece of shit. Where is the appeal? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 10:38 PM |
| 5 | Age gap and forcing his religion on her 🤢 of course nobody in the comments asks why she’s dating a man ELEVEN years older 🤮This is a dude who wants a wife that is a possession. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 10:26 PM |
| 12 | Men need to stop complaining that they do not receive compliments from women.I get accused of flirting/leading on for exhibiting BASIC HUMAN DECENCY. I don’t even want to know how a man will contort a compliment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:14 PM |
| 54 | FDS is nothing like those incels or the subculture they have of pillers, and it is odd you would think that.Never engage any discussion with these incel/red pill/manosphere guys. I used to spend hours debating them until I realized I was giving them exactly what they wanted, attention. They’ll do anything to get a rise out of you because any female attention is good attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 07:54 PM |
| 4 | This comment thread reminded me why reddit is a terrible place for advice. This woman got cheated on and some of the comments are advising her to go to counseling before considering divorce. FDS would never.🙄So gross. A woman almost 30 years his junior when he already has a wife with a considerable age gap. And she’s successful to boot! Kick his ass to the curb, sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 07:29 PM |
| 4 | "I meet all of my own needs. I fulfill myself."👏 Queen 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:00 AM |
| 18 | See ladies... we are called Gold Diggers but when it’s about a man and his kids, we are unfair.Yeah I commented on that. That dude has wayy too much to gain from this relationship. A replacement mommy and jump start in life for all of his kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 06:27 PM |
| 11 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖How did you break up with him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:30 PM |
| 4 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Why do women put up with this shit?!?!?! It is unfathomable to me! Clearly, he sees her as his personal flesh light. It is crystal fucking clear! Goddamn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:27 PM |
| 25 | LVM love to say that women hit the wall by the age of thirty, but this is Katy Perry at 36.The whole age thing is just a tactic to manipulate women into entering and staying a relationship with a lesser man. Then to do anything to maintain that relationship because no one else will want you and he can get a younger woman. It’s bullshit. I know tons of hot women in their 40s dating men in their early 20s. A lot of men like women who are older than them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:10 PM |
| 9 | Ladies y’all need to be grateful to go to the SOUP KITCHEN! 🥴😩I used to volunteer at a “community cafe” (ie, soup kitchen) Dude, that is meant for people who can’t eat. You are taking vital resources from people who really really need it. That is disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 04:56 AM |
| 7 | You don't even have to try to weed them out on OLD, you just breathe at them and they melt into incels mid-conversationWorking that “from the streets” angle I see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 03:19 PM |
| 21 | Ladies, this is why we stay away from older men.What ended the marriage? Have you noticed grooming behaviors before? How old is he? Do you have any previous shared electronics or apple IDs that you could use to view text messages and emails? You’re going to want that evidence during the divorce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 09:57 PM |
| 52 | Most men my age are permanently undateable because of porn. Yes, permanently.Well put. I had similar experiences untill I started dating my fiancée. Although I am not a fan of the religion, he grew up mormon. The only computer was the family computer and it was in the living room. No personal cellphones, tablets or laptops for kids. He bypassed the formative years that unregulated internet access can corrupt. He has a higher quality of life because of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 11:31 PM |
| 11 | After seeing a guy I was dating on a date with another woman, this Tiffany ring symbolizes me dating myself, choosing myself, coming back to myself, and loving myself.I don’t get how anyone who thinks about anything for more than 3 seconds, could get into Peterson. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 08:11 PM |
| 19 | Men want a 1950s housewife but can’t do any of the 1950s husbandWants a house wife but can’t text you unless he has wifi 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 05:29 PM |
| 95 | I love how she remains unbotheredHe’s a known klout chaser. He is like a soap opera actor or something, but he chases much higher status celebrities like gomez, miley cyrus, Ariana grande. It’s a career move that she fell for , but later wised up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:37 PM |
| 5 | OCI can’t even FDS right now because I am so fixated on the terrible marketing. “Gaslight”? Really? And then the “L” is a street light?!??!? WHAT IN THE GOOD GOD DAMN FUCK? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:09 AM |
| 3 | r/feminism is coming around!Lol I just got permanently banned for this post. Legit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:08 AM |
| 5 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsWhat im trying to get at here is, in the past several years the trend leans more towards; barely legal, very thin, small breasts/hips/straight down figure, and no pubic hair. This is very apparent in porn. You know what else is very thin has small breast/hips/ straight down figure and no pubic hair? Prepubescent girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:40 PM |
| 3 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsOh it is definitely prevalent with the college aged women I know. And yes, many of them do have a bad relationship with food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:30 PM |
| 18 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsWhen did this body type become so ideal? Ive noticed this. For decades most of the pin up models and porn stars were curvier. Not that I condone porn. But in the past 15ish years it’s more about women who have the body type of prepubescent girls. I know a lot of college aged women. A lot of them are concerned with being as thin as possible so that they have this body type. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Confessions of a former pick meMine was sociopaths. ACTUAL.SOCIOPATHS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:47 AM |
| 10 | Why are you so obsessed with us? Aren’t you supposed to be “going your own way”?What is mens obsession with women being over 30? I know a lot of queens in their mid 40’s dating smoke show dudes in their 20’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 12:38 AM |
| 8 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesOh honey, you already lost her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:27 PM |
| 7 | FDS is anti polyamorySecond, definitely. I hate to say it, but sex isn’t good with a dude on the first go. They’re so excited that they cum almost immediately. You have to be with them for a little while and train them. Find a dude who wants to please you and mold him into the sexual partner you want. And if they want to be with you, they’ll listen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:49 PM |
| 12 | FDS is anti polyamoryWomen who fall for it typically have low self esteem. They believe that no man would be satisfied by having just them, so they make a way for cheating to be acceptable. It’s quite sad actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:43 PM |
| 9 | FDS is anti polyamoryPolyamorous people are always seeking out women and slowly trying to pressure them to turn to the lifestyle. I love when people attack my progressive values, saying it’s fake because i’m not cool with letting my boyfriend fuck other people?!? They’ll literally say anything to get you on board. Also, on a side note, I have yet to meet an attractive financially independent dude in one of these relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:38 PM |
| 22 | My parents had a traditional marriage. Everything was in her name. My uncles give their salary to their wives who do the family finances. I feel like most ‘traditional men’ nowadays don’t intent to stay with their SAH wives ‘till death do us part’ considering how they react to such a proposal.Modern men don’t understand the traditional household. I’m from a big traditional family. Legit, the men do not touch their bank account and the wife gives them an allowance. I’m not saying I agree with that ,but that’s how it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 03:33 PM |
| 2 | "Where can you lead me? Not up."Do we have term for negative value men yet? Not only is he not bringing anything to the table, he would be taking from it. If you two were married and he has a lower credit score, makes less money, and no career then he would hinder your ability to buy a house or any loan. But these men are able to delude themselves into thinking they deserve high value attractive women. Oh and that those women should submit. 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:13 PM |
| 6 | Love this!Good. He was probably devastated to be honest. That other girl was the ex for a reason. And OP was the girlfriend for a reason. Men never really care about their side pieces. That’s why they’re on the side. Now he lost the woman he cared about because he is a dog. And he has no closure. Beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:54 PM |
| 7 | Had a conversation with a male friend today that confirmed FDS strategies👆🏼Same. I have never had sex with someone until I’ve dated them for at least 2-3 months and they committed to being exclusive/official. No man will go through that for a lay. But you have to be prepared to lose a lot dudes. You have several that you see 2-3times and then they ghost. Just know you’re losing the bad ones that only wanted you for sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 08:14 PM |
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