Never save a man! They will cheat on you and leave as soon as they are in recovery!

thepsychopathhunter · 2021-09-11T17:13:54+00:00

One of the creepiest parts is him gloating in his Seth Meyers interview about how Olivia held his hand after rehab and didn’t get to see all the addict parts of him. Meanwhile there’s no praise of his ex wife who went through years with him and witnessed it at all and supported him.

He just wants someone new who hasn’t seen the worst sides of him (he did cheat with strippers even before Olivia) and thinks it’ll be easier that way. But his true character is still awful so…Olivia will witness that eventually too. Someone who lacks empathy for his ex and can discard those who supported him for years will not be a good partner.

Olivia isn’t great either. Her book is filled with hatred of other women and she was obsessed with John while he was married. There was an interview of her confessing she was obsessed with him at a wedding back in 2015. Anna was right there when they met too but she didn’t care. She emailed him after. Who knows when this all really started.

TieDieEye · 2021-09-11T19:37:01+00:00

I hate how when they were talking about this on TV they literally painted him as the good guy and totally ignored the fact that he cheated on his wife.

Sanguine_Hearts · 2021-09-11T18:14:51+00:00

I bet you anything Olivia Munn thinks she’s “won” because she got the baby and the dude, and poor Anna Marie is the spinster who is left with nothing but the dog. My younger self would have felt sorry for Anna Marie too, but for the wrong reasons (that she’s now alone and is the loser who lost the guy). Older me now feels bad for the pain she’s going through, but ultimately realizes that she is truly the winner in the end. Her career is getting a huge, well-deserved boost, and that toxic cheating narc is out of her life.

frenchroast67 · 2021-09-11T17:08:11+00:00

Anna Marie really dodged a bullet with this one. While she was off getting an education and building her career, he was binging on cocaine and blatantly cheating and now he has an unplanned baby on the way😂 Mulaney is a huge POS but his career will remain unscathed because he acts funny and charming. Also look how chubby he is in this pic—I know recovering addicts are supposed to gain weight as they get healthy again, but now he’s lost that boyish/cute thing that was part of his public persona. Anna Marie will flourish without him.

maraslove · 2021-09-11T19:28:50+00:00

That’s why I don’t stay. I stopped that shit 3 years ago. I won’t stay if you have no money or career, I won’t stay if you’re an abusive alcoholic, I won’t stay if you’re depressed. I won’t stay for shit. Women never have anyone to stay for them, so why should I stay for you? It’s disgusting what Anna went through and I can’t imagine how she feels. Olivia Munn is just stunning, that’s it. Other than that, she’s always been a calculating and disgusting person. The next woman always gets the best side while the previous woman got shit she didn’t deserve.

Mimosa_usagi · 2021-09-11T19:01:20+00:00

God reading all the comments about her, seeing excerpts from her book the pickme bible, and reading all these articles about how she threw herself at him even when he was married. Shit even stuff I've seen of her from past interviews and relationships she has had. Olivia Munn just seems like such a gross and pathetic person. It just goes to show that being a low value woman and a pickme is all a mental thing. She's pretty, rich, could be independent and find someone who is single and decent. But nope here she is parading herself around like the queen of pickmes.

LanaDelDesperate09 · 2021-09-11T18:29:31+00:00

This is a RULE for me. NEVER EVER SAVE A MAN.

I dont believe people change. They just become more of who they are and mature, sometimes. In this case, I see rehab in his future.
I also dont believe in saving men from their own mistakes, not even small mistakes. If a guy acts a certain way, pathetic, is stupid, an asshole, I'm not teaching him ANYTHING. I'm moving on. I also dont believe in telling men where they did me wrong (they'll put a mask in front of you and pretend they changed so you stay with them). I will leave and let them figure out and commit the same mistakes with the next woman. I just hope they get dumped over and over. I'm not a teacher and I wasnt put on this earth to teach men how to be better. I'm not anybody's mother.
This whole drama with John and Olivia proves my point. They wont even appreciate if you stand by them, they'll just leave you anyway.

sruslywhytho · 2021-09-11T17:33:25+00:00

It's a respect thing. They don't respect women who stick with them as they fight their demons. The minute a man realizes you'll tolerate crap behavior he assumes you don't respect yourself and loses a little respect for you as well. If he views himself as a "loser" he will view you as a loser by association for sticking with him. And once he gets better he'd prefer to be with a woman whose mere presence doesn't make him think about his sour past.

He'll think "I bagged a woman of X status while I was drug-addicted/alcoholic/cheating/abusive/a criminal/etc. That means I can pull someone 10x better now that I've improved myself".

Don't expect loyalty. They may love you, but what they love is the fact that you'll endure the abuse/chaos they bring into your life. And if they stay it's because they haven't had a chance to cheat/leave, it would be too hard financially, or they already tried to cheat and realized no one else wants them.

sagicorn2791 · 2021-09-11T18:04:41+00:00

This should be a cautionary tale for women. If you love yourself more than your spouse, you leave cheaters and addicts.

This guy is still an addict. This will not end well. His ex is going to be fine.

Tinabernina · 2021-09-11T21:05:23+00:00

Was it only yesterday there was a post on limerance?

In 18 months when all the feel good hormones are gone, he'll feel like his life is over because he never wanted children (but failed to get a vasectomy).

bubblegumsparkles · 2021-09-11T23:33:31+00:00

I wonder what the red pillers think of this mess 🤔 they can keep his ass.

thicctoria · 2021-09-12T12:49:02+00:00

“You guys saved me from drugs and Olivia and this baby have helped save me from myself.”

You guys noticed how these guys NEVER take responsibility over their own lives? Someone always has to be there to “build them up” or “save them”. They’re the real princesses stuck in towers. They’ll put the responsibility of their lives in the hands of a foetus before they say “right, my life is fucked up and no one is going to fix this one for me, I need to have control and responsibility over my own life”

Stay away from men like this because they will cheat on you with a mommy type that will tell them what to do and wash their rank socks. Fig. 1 above.

bizzybumblebee · 2021-09-12T23:53:56+00:00

im disappointed in olivia munn. she has done so many great things regarding stopping asian hate. i think this will mar the image of the movement unfortunately.

Title	Never save a man! They will cheat on you and leave as soon as they are in recovery!
Author	GabbaG0ul
Upvotes	595
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Date	September 11, 2021 4:27 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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