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| 2 | Tinder hookup is coming over tomorrow for swimming and "Vitamin D". Do I escalate before or after swimming?Okay, thanks. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Tinder hookup is coming over tomorrow for swimming and "Vitamin D". Do I escalate before or after swimming?Yes | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 08:47 PM |
| 56 | First thing to realise.Good point. Sometimes I shoot myself in the foot because I don't want to appear creepy or I don't want to disturb them. Hell, sometimes, I don't even have anything to talk about. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Advice for starting out with zero experience 26 MAgreed. I've been journaling pretty much every morning. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 03:17 AM |
| 2 | How much has your dating life improved since finding this subreddit?I hate clubs. I hate that I have to compete with a bunch of chads to talk to girls who are just standing here with loud music and I can't even hear them. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 03:57 AM |
| 7 | If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be?needed that thanks | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 06:23 PM |
| 3 | How did you meet your current or last fuck buddy?Same! I am still friends with her to this day. I consider her a good friend of mine, but we don't fuck anymore. She has a gf now, but we snap a lot and catch up on life. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Missed opportunity in the elevatorApologizing? | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Missed opportunity in the elevatorHow bad? I moved into a very social building with young professionals and I always hear people hook up with each other constantly and I feel left out :) | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Kissed my date last night mid sentence.Very nice. What'd you do afterwards? Did you invite her over to your place to show her your record collection? | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How do I pass this particular shit test?Update: We had the "talk" and I legit told her I don't want a relationship at the moment and I don't want to hang out with her friends. She was cool with it and still wants to fuck me lol | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?True. Here is a concrete example: When I'm hooking up with girls, I just start playing whatever art house film that interests me. I used to be so concerned and obsess over them liking what we are watching or not. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 10:13 PM |
| -2 | How do I pass this particular shit test?Yeah, sounds like a good plan, but we've never been explicit about this whole setup. We have eluded to having a "talk" about our dynamic soon to draw some boundaries. That's why me suddenly saying that might cause a backlash... Idk | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 04:12 AM |
| 3 | How do I pass this particular shit test?Pretty sure she wants to present me as her new "boyfriend"... | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Invited my self over to a girls house not sure about replyGood perspective. Kiram dahanet koskesh | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 07:05 PM |
| 3 | Lay report: My first accidental night game success storyShe is super into me. She even expressed that she's eventually looking for a serious dynamic. I made my position pretty clear too: I have just exited a long term relationship and I'm practicing detachment and working on my self development, but eventually I would consider the serious dynamic if the chemistry is right. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 10:08 PM |
| 4 | Lay report: My first accidental night game success storyThanks! She seems super into me. I'm trying to maintain a good balance at this point. She asked me to go to a rock show with her tonight, but I'm going to my friend's birthday instead. | /r/seduction | 05/05/22 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Every girl I meet has at least 5 guys they're talking to and have even more behind them. How exactly do I stand out from the crowd and how can I expect them to stay loyal?Yup. And every time I tried to communicate this to her, she would get defensive and be like "if it happens, it happens". From my perspective though, this is a bit childish. She could have been like "Hey, I met this person and decided to fuck him for now". In retrospect, I lost my cool a couple times and fucked it up. I legit wanted to be friends with her and shoot pool/get high, but the fact that we were having the kinkiest time just a few weeks back and that stopped was bugging me. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Every girl I meet has at least 5 guys they're talking to and have even more behind them. How exactly do I stand out from the crowd and how can I expect them to stay loyal?Also happened to me. This girl went absolutely nuts as I pulled away because she was toxic and VERY unstable. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 05:51 PM |
| 9 | Every girl I meet has at least 5 guys they're talking to and have even more behind them. How exactly do I stand out from the crowd and how can I expect them to stay loyal?Why do they monkey branch as opposed to casually hanging out with the guys in their circle? Kind of like ENM. I have noticed this behavior too. I had a FWB a while ago, and she suddenly stopped all forms of sexual intimacy with me, but she was still hanging with me. It was OBVIOUS that she had switched to another consistent partner lol | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | I feel like a loser!Why didn't you escalate? | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Fuck seduction get in your bag. I don’t want woman until I reach 100k cashCash or net worth? | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Has anybody here successfully transitioned themselves into chick magnet?This is the way! | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Has anybody here successfully transitioned themselves into chick magnet?When I was 19 I was exactly like you. A doomer and I was frequently visiting r/foreveralone. I lost my virginity for the first time at 21. Then had a couple long term relationships. Until I was 27. I didn't get to experience hooking up and casual sex and exploring my sexuality until now. I'm hornier than ever right now and I have kinky sex! | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 01:11 PM |
| 2 | How are serious are you when interacting with women?100%!!! I always assume that! | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Has anybody here successfully transitioned themselves into chick magnet?What I meant by "trying" was this formula like routine of setting up dates: Go get a drink at the bar, bullshit a little bit, and let's go back to my apartment. This week, a girl that I'm good friends with suddenly texted me that she's in my area and 10 minutes way. She showed up and we fucked like animals. I want more of this type of dynamic vs the whole formula based approach. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Has anybody here successfully transitioned themselves into chick magnet?Thing is, I know some average looking girls who are getting INSANE amount of attention. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 09:09 PM |
| 8 | Has anybody here successfully transitioned themselves into chick magnet?Thanks for the write up! I've always had a problem conversing with random women from the bars. I'm usually too drunk/crossfaded or too sober. Tonight, I'm hitting this happy hour and planning to talk to as many people as I can. I'll perform the eye-contact trick you mentioned too! | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Has anybody here successfully transitioned themselves into chick magnet?Why would they get laid less often? I don't get it. A model with a shit ton of followers? | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Has anybody here successfully transitioned themselves into chick magnet?You have a point. I'm just envious of this chicks getting all the attention. I keep telling myself,"I expect NOTHING", but then sometimes I find myself feeling this way. I'm just looking for pragmatic changes that over the course of the next few months, would lead to higher success rate in both online and day/night game. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Has anybody here successfully transitioned themselves into chick magnet?But if I want to bang I can have that set up in a few days Teach us your ways? I don't want to try anymore. I want girls to come to me. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 07:50 PM |
| 5 | Has anybody here successfully transitioned themselves into chick magnet?What about getting into modeling and starting an instagram campaign? 😂 | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 07:37 PM |
| 1 | book for texting gameI agree with you 100%. My point is, even the process of setting up dates should be playful. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | book for texting gameBut you can be more playful and less robotic right? Tease them a little bit, etc to not bore them out | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Why is nonchalance so attractive to women?That's what I'm trying to figure out myself. I was treating my FWB like I was dating her. I guess it was more like a situationship for the first few weeks. We were holding hands, travelling, spending a crap load of time together. Then it was downgraded into a regular FWB lmao | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 12:29 PM |
| 8 | How are serious are you when interacting with women?Tips on how to get close to 0%? I've noticed that when I don't take myself or anyone seriously, that's when I get laid the most. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 12:14 PM |
| 3 | Why is nonchalance so attractive to women?Did that. Hated it and hit a burnout. I recently got a new laid back position with a higher pay and less work. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 09:32 PM |
| 4 | Why is nonchalance so attractive to women?Very cool. What's the environment that you have? Do you interact with people on a daily basis? I have a fully remote tech job, but live in a very social building where we have yoga, exercise classes, etc. That helps me a little bit, but I desire more abundance. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Why is nonchalance so attractive to women?What happened with the other chick? Did she make a come back as you pulled away? | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 07:33 PM |
| 16 | Why is nonchalance so attractive to women?Any tips on how to be more nonchalant and detached? I keep telling myself that I'm detached and I have zero expectations, but then I find myself in certain situations where I experience uncontrolled attachment and jealousy. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 07:00 PM |
| 28 | Why is nonchalance so attractive to women?Yup. I fucked it up with my previous FWB when I started seeing her more and more and reacted negatively when she didn't want anymore physical touch and the same kinky behavior as before (we were fucking consistently for over a month). In retrospect, I should have been very cool and nonchalant. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 06:58 PM |
| 1 | My first ever succesful night close going out aloneRight? I always eat them out... | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 12:04 AM |
| 6 | How do some guys make girls obsessed with them?Depends on the girl. Few months ago, I had this FWB dynamic with this girl. She turned out to be an alcoholic, extremely unstable and jealous and got obsessed with me. I had to cut the chord because she was getting crazier and crazier. She still texts me to this day. It's nuts. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Help, my sex drive / libido is disappearing?I'm also 28 and go through periods of not being horny at all. Just this past couple months, I was talking to 3 girls and having crazy sex, but this month, I'm totally the opposite. I have no desire of watching porn and I'm not even trying to setup dates anymore lol | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 01:55 PM |
| 4 | I simply don't know what to say to womenHow do you come up with this shit though? My brain can't create this flow. I have to like think about the response. Like Fallout 3 conversations 😂. How do we practice playful banter? | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | When all else fails, what’s your Hail Mary ?It's weird. I go through periods of talking to 3-4 girls actively and it feels really good, but then at some point the rotation collapses as they hop on to other FWBs. My problem is keeping the momentum going and talking to more and more girls, but even talking and planning things with 3 girls is overwhelming af for me lol | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 01:20 AM |
| 1 | You HAVE to strike while the iron is hot. A woman's attraction will plummet if you don't.I'm still super into her, but it's this feeling that I get that the sexual tension is definitely not the same as the first few weeks. Energetic, fun, playful? Nahh. This usually happens to me after a month of hanging out with someone. My biggest challenge is how to keep adding fuel to the fire to keep things exciting. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 04:47 AM |
| 3 | You HAVE to strike while the iron is hot. A woman's attraction will plummet if you don't.What if I escalate 0-60 and then have crazy kinky sex for about a month, and then the tension dies down a little bit? Maybe a bit of a cool off period, go out with some other girls and escalate again? From my experience, there is always a "peak" in every encounter. Once that first excitement and magic of the first few weeks dies down, I usually experience a plague, if I'm consistently seeing the girl. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 04:09 AM |
| 21 | Got too invested in a FWB relationship, pretty sure it’s over now.This is the key. I have a FWB that pulled away for some reason, and I stopped initiating convos. She still hits me up to play video games and smoke sometimes but things have gotten WAY less sexual this past week. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Negative experience with a FWBWe met up on Tinder in the beginning of March. Initially, it was just a Tinder date. We went to a rock show and hooked up. It eventually turned into a FWB situationship. We were hanging out and having crazy squirting sex a couple times a week, playing video games online, hand holding sometimes, spontaneous travels, etc. Neither of us really wanted to date anybody since we recently exited long term monogamous relationships. We both hinted at not wanting exclusivity, which was cool. But then this … | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Negative experience with a FWBNah. I'm not reaching out to her until she reaches out to me. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Negative experience with a FWBYeah, good perspective. She did say she had a down week, but who knows, maybe she's super obsessed with another FWB. I also usually tell my self that I don't expect anything, but I didn't see this coming based on my previous interactions with her, which were pretty energetic, fun hangout sessions. Fuck it. I have another girl coming over tonight :) | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | Negative experience with a FWBNah, we have done it before and she loved it. In fact, she was a bit bummed that we skipped yoga because we got too high | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Negative experience with a FWBYes, possible. Not sure why she wanted to hangout if that's the case. Or she could have told me. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Negative experience with a FWBPossible. She even mentioned she was low on energy and she had to force herself out of the house to come . It was just a big surprising thing because it was the first time this type of exit had happened in our hangouts. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Negative experience with a FWBYou might be right. We went on a trip last week and we both caught a little bit of feelings, but I was containing them, and feel pretty good. Maybe she legit caught feelings and wanted to maintain a balance, who knows... Btw, if you guys are having such good times, how come you don't have a relationship? We both just exited long-term monogamous relationships and have declared that we don't want a closed system for now. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 01:09 PM |
| 6 | Negative experience with a FWBI think we both are aware that we are seeing and meeting other people. We joke about people we meet on Tinder etc. It's nothing new, but as the other person said here, it's possible she's catching some feelings and she's trying to suppress. Hard to tell. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Field report: Connected with a girl at a coffeeshop in NYCHonestly, I have been battling some major self image and body dysmorphia type of issues my entire life. I'm a 5'8 bald tanned Middle Eastern guy, and I never considered myself attractive. After experiencing a devestating breakup last year, I have come a long way feeling better about myself. I've been working out, eating clean, getting tattoos and piercings and my confidence is up the roof these days. I notice men and woman hit on me all the time these days. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 11:56 AM |
| 4 | Field report: Connected with a girl at a coffeeshop in NYCI feel like it depends where you go in the US. It's a huge freaking place. From my experience, the more dense and diverse the area is, the higher chances of these kinds of interactions. That's why I love NYC. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 11:48 AM |
| 7 | Field report: Connected with a girl at a coffeeshop in NYCWhat makes you say that? | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Field report: Connected with a girl at a coffeeshop in NYCI was thinking maybe a low-key escalation kino like more touching etc on the first date would have made things even better during the second date. The reason is that when we went on the first date together, that was after I had sent her sexual innuendos and escalation via dms. She already knew what was up lol | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 01:00 AM |
| 5 | Field report: Connected with a girl at a coffeeshop in NYCShe knew our time together was very finite and I was going back home. I'm sure she was considering being in the moment and hooking up, but it was one of those last minute hesitations. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Where is the best place to approach women?Here you go! https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/twaiat/field_report_connected_with_a_girl_at_a/ | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 07:21 PM |
| 14 | She told me I can do whatever I want to herDO NOT PENETRATE until she BEGS for This begging technique is amazing! I use it all the time haha | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 06:33 PM |
| 8 | Where is the best place to approach women?Yup writing a detailed one! Will post tomorrow | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 04:01 AM |
| 17 | Where is the best place to approach women?I met a girl at a coffeeshop in NYC this past week. We bonded over a few things and exchanged numbers and one thing led to another and we ended up at this punk show and we were making out a lot! | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 02:39 AM |
| 5 | If she ever ignored your message or always replies late, get the out of there and move on!There are exceptions, of course. I have a FWB situation going on with this girl and we never text, unless it's logistics and planning to hangout. We both know that we are going to hang, but we never text each other. | /r/seduction | 03/04/22 01:30 AM |
| 2 | How do I treat a "submissive brat"?You're right. Wise words. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 12:03 AM |
| 8 | Dating after Nuclear war?And then you can go to a trading station and buy a radiated cow... or some weapons something with those bottle caps. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 05:33 AM |
| 1 | You should be dealing with 2-3 girls minimum at all times.This Todd guy has long videos. I remember watching his comprehensive 3 hour video and falling asleep to it lol | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 10:53 PM |
| 2 | You should be dealing with 2-3 girls minimum at all times.Don't follow any gurus religiously, but Playing with Fire YouTube channel helped a little bit! | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 11:58 AM |
| 1 | I am extremely resentful of how I was raisedEmotional abuse 100%. Being raised by narcissists, I've always felt like I'm someone else's pet project. I've come a long way to live my life the way I want and stopped seeking approval of the abusers. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 11:55 AM |
| 2 | I am extremely resentful of how I was raisedBro my parents were abusive my whole life. I'm just starting to realize this now at 28. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 12:16 AM |
| 2 | Self Confidence Development Reference Sheet to Become UnstoppableWhat's so bad about being a stoic? | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 12:13 AM |
| 2 | You should be dealing with 2-3 girls minimum at all times.Every week, I try my best to set up a date or two every week by Friday. I swipe like crazy and boost on Sunday and Monday nights. Some weeks I don't get much results, but it's all a statistics game, isn't it. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 10:50 PM |
| 1 | How do I let girls know on apps that I’m mainly looking for casual sex?Sometimes I go out. Get buzzed, then have sex, but I want to have sober sex in the morning. Most of the time, I've noticed that the girl is not down. Ay advice on how to mitigate this? | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 09:56 PM |
| 5 | You should be dealing with 2-3 girls minimum at all times.I'll be honest, sometimes I have to pick quality over quantity. I've been talking to 3 girls at the same time. One of them is a chef and she's always busy. The second one is more of a FWB/cool person. The third one was the annoying one who was clingy, and I just wasn't vibing with her. She lived kind of far too and always expected me to go drive her around. Fuck that. | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Emotionally unstable girlI personally didn't like sharing my space with someone else. She was messy af too! | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Emotionally unstable girlhahah that's actually one of my past partner's names but she was awesome. My best relationship I've ever experienced so far. We travelled the entire Europe together and then moved in and everything 6 months into the relationship. It lasted around 3 years. But I didn't like living with a partner. It was fun at first, but then things got obsessive and that initial magic went away. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 03:58 AM |
| 5 | Emotionally unstable girlDude I was in a similar position. This girl was an alcoholic. I didn't know the severity of it. It started with a very casual FWB situation, then one thing led to another and we ended up spending 2 weeks at my apartment because we both had Covid. Long story short, this girl started getting obsessed with me. When I saw she was getting too obsessed with me and had jealousy issues and caught feelings, I had to stop hanging with her. She went berserk. She was getting blacked out every night calling … | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 03:57 AM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: not gauging your level of attractiveness off of how many women you’re currently talking to but instead your success in your own lifeAgreed. I also find myself not having any plans and beat myself down sometimes. I'm definitely getting a lot better. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 08:16 PM |
| 4 | Learn to play an instrument or join a band and it is guaranteed you’ll get laidDepends what kind of music scene right? I'm thinking about starting a Shoegaze/punk band. | /r/seduction | 07/03/22 01:59 PM |
| 13 | The power of texting lessThe music was really good tbh. My bloody valentine covers. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 07:35 PM |
| 7 | The power of texting lessYeah, totally possible. | /r/seduction | 06/03/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | How does one respond to a "that was smooth" text?What did you respond with? lol | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 08:34 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Good point. Inversion of control. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 03:46 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]What's crazy is that some girls actually want to talk to you and get to know you via texting before meeting up. Like, last night, I matched with this girl on Bumble and did a pretty good job keeping her entertained and escalating. Got her number and started making plans, but she said she wants to chat a little bit before meeting up. I told her I can do it over espressos or a phone call. Easier than texting. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Should talking about sub vs dom be a part of the first date convo?Awesome write up, thanks! I'm going on a quick coffee date on Sunday (no more than 1-2 hours) then I'll plan a hook up session for next week if things go right. I'll follow your plan. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 12:42 AM |
| 1 | I’ve been having a lot of sex lately.Checkout r/leangains | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 04:18 AM |
| -5 | I’ve been having a lot of sex lately.You already have the six pack abs don't you | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 04:18 AM |
| 8 | Let’s talk about flirting in a sexual wayI also want to thank you for your write up and perspective. I also got out of a 3 year old relationship last year and have been working on my confidence levels. I've been always scared of being sexually suggestive because of bad confidence issues and negative self talk, but I'm getting real better at it these days. I've been flirting a lot more and teasing/pushing too. Feeling pretty good these days! | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | What to do if the girl talks too much and it's annoyingI've had long term relationships and one night stands in the past 5 years. This was the first time I was annoyed that the girl wouldn't go to sleep and talks too much. | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 08:57 PM |
| 1 | What to do if the girl talks too much and it's annoyingShe literally told me that I gave her too much pleasure and she needs to recover. But then she kept talking for hours lol | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | What to do if the girl talks too much and it's annoyingShe got tired real quick. I wasn't even starting go to full beast mode, you know? I made her orgasm multiple times and she literally told me that I gave her too much pleasure and she needs rest. I wasn't fully satisfied. The first hookup was way more energetic. | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 02:11 PM |
| 3 | What to do if the girl talks too much and it's annoyingI'm starting to think that it's not worth the headache tbh. I'm just prioritizing my fitness and overall self care and hooking up with girls comes on the side as a secondary thing. I'm working on creating some abundance through new friend groups. | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 12:07 AM |
| 5 | What to do if the girl talks too much and it's annoyingIs it worth getting laid and getting annoyed and get less sleep? My lesson is: it's not. | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 09:31 PM |
| 3 | I feel like this abundance of sex is not what I wantedREAL friends with a sprinkle of benefits This is also what I'm looking for. | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 05:51 PM |
| 3 | What to do if the girl talks too much and it's annoyingYeah, for sure. And I blame myself because she was kind of like this during the first date, but the sex was really good the first time. I have noticed that most of the time, the second hookup is usually lower quality. | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 05:38 PM |
| 1 | The problem with faking abundanceI hate this feeling of self doubt that has been haunting me on and off for years. I know for sure that I'm a pretty attractive guy and I'm 99% sure a few of my friends in my circle are into me, but I just don't make any moves. Most of the time, I'm not sexually suggestive. I've been like this for years. I'm trying to get better at expressing my interest in people that I'm into without thinking about any end result or consequence. Thanks for the write up. | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Throwing a little party and inviting your FWB?Plot thickens lol one of them is a trans woman. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | I get hit on by gay dudes a lot but rarely by womenThanks! Yeah I've noticed that. I guess I usually stop myself from hitting on people excessively because I don´t want to bother them and such, but seeing this attention from gay dudes is definitely a confidence booster. Honestly, this new piercing piece is a confidence booster too! | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 04:03 PM |
| 3 | Throwing a little party and inviting your FWB?That's the thing. I'm not sure. I know one of them is a jealous type and she's into me. What's the best approach, just talk to them about it? | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 09:52 PM |
| 19 | [deleted by user]A big portion of the global population is racist? No doubt about it. | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 03:41 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I agree tbh. I just realized I'm sexy and I didn't even know it. It was a confidence boost. | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 11:53 PM |
| 149 | [deleted by user]Yeah I definitely sensed that she wanted a reaction out of me. I've definitely been in that situation before so I kept cool lol | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 11:32 PM |
| 3 | The girl was black out drunk I didn't even realizeThing is, she wasn't even in a functional state to have sex to begin with... she was puking and sitting on the bathroom floor... | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 06:12 AM |
| 4 | The girl was black out drunk I didn't even realizeShe was saying it in the context of how she was embarrassed about the whole situation (puking, passing out, not being functional) | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 06:08 AM |
| 3 | The girl was black out drunk I didn't even realizeShe was beyond blackout drunk tbh. She was dysfunctional pass out drunk towards the end of the night. I think she definitely must have had four or five free/cheap drinks at the Ladies' night, and had one drink with me at the bar. | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 06:04 AM |
| 9 | The girl was black out drunk I didn't even realizeRespectful how? She literally said she was super horny and was hoping to get laid Keep in mind, she texted me this after she had sobered up in the morning after. | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 06:01 AM |
| 3 | The girl was black out drunk I didn't even realizeTotally agreed. I was a little annoyed tbh. Next time when a random girl invites me to have drinks around 11:30 pm, I'd just pass. | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 01:54 AM |
| 2 | The girl was black out drunk I didn't even realizeCheers!!! | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 11:49 PM |
| 11 | The girl was black out drunk I didn't even realizeTotally. I'm usually super paranoid about consent. Especially when you can't really tell if she's fucked up or not. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 10:41 PM |
| 6 | I made out with a strangerYup. It's tough. I just came out of a very strict monagomous relationship that lasted 3 years. During that time, my friendships with people slowly faded, especially during the pandemic. Recently, I couldn't take it anymore, so I decided to change up my environment. I moved to a city from the suburbs. Moved into a huge apartment complex that's essentially like an adult frat house. I've made a few acquaintances but no friends yet. It's been two months so far... | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 01:25 PM |
| 2 | I made out with a strangerI get a lot of attention from gay dudes but never get any attention from women. It's one of those things that annoys me because I'm not really into guys. | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 01:21 PM |
| 6 | I made out with a strangerDude I totally hate myself as well. How did you get out of that self hate loop and let go? | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?What are some steps to get better at the texting game? My texting game sucks!!! | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 10:00 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Yes. I already don't like looking at myself in the mirror. I absolutely hate looking at myself in the pictures to the point of disgust. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 01:14 AM |
| 8 | How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo?Or my stupid hair. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Where to find a milf?Tell me about this game. | /r/seduction | 10/09/21 02:52 AM |
| 1 | I get hit on by gay dudes a lot but rarely by womenSure! Would love some pointers. I can share mine as well. I'm getting maybe 1-2 matches per week nothing crazy. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 06:15 PM |
| 1 | I get hit on by gay dudes a lot but rarely by womenOut of curiosity, do you have good pics? My pics aren't that great tbh, Considering hiring a photographer to take some candid shots and such. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 06:01 PM |
| 1 | I get hit on by gay dudes a lot but rarely by womenYeah, I was walking around and it was hot and I wanted a cold beer. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 05:24 PM |
| 4 | I get hit on by gay dudes a lot but rarely by womenI'm into trans girls. 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 05:24 PM |
| 3 | I get hit on by gay dudes a lot but rarely by womenI guess most women don't want to admit that you are attractive? I made friends with this girl at this bar a while back. When we were chilling a few days later, she admitted that when I walked into that bar, she was thinking "I want this sexy guy to sit right here", which was a bit shocking because I never viewed myself as sexy or attractive. That was a bit of a confidence booster tbh. Makes me want to just make moves and not be scared of failure. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 03:00 PM |
| 2 | I get hit on by gay dudes a lot but rarely by womenNope! I actually always wanted to get some piercings lol. I don't mind getting hit on by them, I'm just not sure what it is that makes me attractive to them but not women. | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 03:51 AM |
| 14 | Just a small piece of advice for the dayAgreed. | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Just a small piece of advice for the dayPush pull legs right? I do daily planks too! | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 03:35 AM |
| 5 | For guys what piece of advice has always worked with you?This!!! I started doing this and I can already feel the engagement increasing. | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"Honestly it's a double edged sword for me. When I'm high the right amount, it acts like a social lubricant for me and I talk better/more confident and can articulate my thoughts better. But then when I get too high, like that night, paranoia and excessive laughing kicks in lol | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 02:29 PM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"Yeah tbh it was a non PIV oral action mostly due to various reasons, but I'm totally aware of what happened tbh. My behavior shifted that night from a cool, "don't give a fuck" guy to suddenly snuggly and cuddly. I think it was because we both got super high, and her dog kept licking my face so my inner emotions were suddenly erupting, you know? | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 02:34 PM |
| 2 | I was told I have "no game"Word!! I'll talk to every single person!!! | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 01:27 PM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"Hahahah wow man I'm going to use that line!!! | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 01:23 PM |
| 2 | I was told I have "no game"Nah, I've been average looking my entire life and pretty self conscious of how I look and stuff. On the bright side, I've been working out consistently for a couple years and I have pretty good abs, so I feel great about myself these days. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"What would you do differently if you went back in time and you're 27 now? | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 04:37 AM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"I need to get better at this push and pull!!! Any pointers on that? | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 04:36 AM |
| -1 | I was told I have "no game"you just leave the message on read and show her who is the nice guy!! That's literally what I did hahahah! jk jk, she's a good friend now, but I'm totally not super enthusiastic texting her or whatever. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 04:24 AM |
| 3 | I was told I have "no game"This is the type of content I'm here for! Thanks man appreciate the pointers. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 03:47 AM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"Oh yeah totally. Feels pretty good tbh. Especially after feeling a big detachment from society/social interactions due to the WFH/pandemic/relationship decay situation. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 03:26 AM |
| 2 | I was told I have "no game"I actually have that in my library! It's a really good read for people pleasers like myself! | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"I mean I always knew that I have always been inexperienced when it comes to hookups/FWBs, so her honest convo kind of made sense at the moment, then I started thinking about how to make this better, you know? | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 02:45 AM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"Seems interesting! Thanks will check it out. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 02:13 AM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"See, I don't want to be a one woman man anymore. I want to evolve. I know a lot of people here say I shouldn't change myself, but I really do want to explore nonmonogamous encounters and being more confident in general. I can already see this encounter as a good starting point in my journey! | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 02:12 AM |
| 3 | I was told I have "no game"Very fresh perspective! Thank you! Everybody is different and have different desires. I can't please everybody! | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 02:06 AM |
| 2 | I was told I have "no game"Hey thanks for the suggestion man. I'm definitely journaling my thoughts!! | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 02:05 AM |
| 22 | I was told I have "no game"This was a couple weeks back. I had just dropped off my car at the dealership and I was just walking around aimlessly on a hot summer day, so I decided to stop by at this bar for a couple brews. I scanned the room. There was an empty seat at the bar between two girls who were on their phone. I just sat there, got a beer, and was watching the olympics just taking it easy. The girl on the right started talking to me :) | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 01:22 AM |
| 8 | I was told I have "no game"Thanks for the fresh perspective. Very true indeed. I guess just becoming more confident and stuff, I see them as just evolving and becoming a better version of myself, but true. I don't want to suppress these emotions! | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 01:18 AM |
| 2 | I was told I have "no game"Yeah that's kind of the vibe that I got too. | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 01:12 AM |
| 29 | I was told I have "no game"Yes exactly. I was pretty high too, so I got into this paranoid state of "whatever you say can be used against you", so I was trying to mostly keep my mouth shut lol | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 12:08 AM |
| 10 | I was told I have "no game"Yes!! | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | I was told I have "no game"True wisdom right here. Thanks man. Exactly what was going on in my head after that hookup. No more sudden 0-60 mph escalations lol | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 10:59 PM |
| 9 | I was told I have "no game"With the same girl? Or new girls? I personally have identified a few weak points/room for improvement. I'm definitely going to work on the social calibration thing that was discussed here. I'm an emotional guy, so I definitely get overly affectionate and cuddly, which is the exact opposite of the stereotipical cocky bad boy type of a vibe. I'm planning and practicing and keeping a balance, and just keep it cool on my next encounters! | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 10:56 PM |
| 9 | I was told I have "no game"Yeah for sure. Tbh I was also aware of the fact that my escalation could have been smoother. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 10:49 PM |
| 0 | I was told I have "no game"Word. Thanks for the write up!! Already thinking about improving a few things and getting in more practice. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 10:48 PM |
| 2 | I was told I have "no game"That's basically what she indicated yes. And she also mentioned I was a bit too affectionate. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 10:46 PM |
| 3 | I was told I have "no game"Yeah... I'm fully aware of that, but sadly I'm only 5'8. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 10:45 PM |
| 2 | I was told I have "no game"things were going so well that you stopped paying attention and reverted back to your default This is exactly what happened. I kind of sensed my shift of behavior as well that night. The past couple times I hung out with her, I kept my cool and was in the "don't give a fuck" mode. But then that night she told me I was too affectionate lol | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 08:45 PM |
| 173 | I was told I have "no game"True that. It's a good milestone for a hermit like myself. | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 08:25 PM |
| 2 | I was told I have "no game"That's an interesting perspective right there! It's all about abundance/recurrence isn't it? | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 08:23 PM |
| 16 | I was told I have "no game"Yup. Need instructions or something on how to do all those things. Tbh, I feel like I'm coming out my cave and I just don't know the basics. I guess practice makes perfect? I'm moving to the downtown area next week, so I'm hoping to get more practice talking to people etc! | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 08:22 PM |
| 62 | I was told I have "no game"I was actually surprised myself. I didn't even initiate the convo, she did, so that was a confidence booster. I'm definitely not looking for a major change, but slight improvements, so I can be cockier, more teasing, etc as the other Redditor mentioned here! | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 08:20 PM |
| 31 | Signs when she is not interestedI feel so dumb sometimes. I just can't sense what the girl wants, or if she's into me or not. There is this girl I went to hot tub with a couple days back. I'm so nervous, I only kissed her neck lmao. We are chilling later today smoking at her place. She's clearly into me, right? Or am I stupid? My shit fucking luck, I think I got a fungal infection from that stupid hot tub fml. | /r/seduction | 21/08/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | You're really going to let what OTHER PEOPLE think of you matter more than what YOU think of you?I think I've always had a type of dysmorphia. It's not even a gender dysmorphia thing, it's feeling trapped in this body that I never even chose or customize. I guess I should be happy that I'm alive and well, but that dysmorphia feeling comes and goes. | /r/seduction | 14/06/21 12:27 PM |
| 1 | I've taken out a sabbatical to get a handle on my dating life and social skills. How should I start out?I get hit on by gay dudes all the time, but no women for some reason. | /r/seduction | 13/06/21 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to be monogamous ? One girl for life?maybe get a new hobby I guess I'm finally buying my motorcycle :P | /r/seduction | 14/10/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Is it possible to be monogamous ? One girl for life?How did you guys open your relationship? Just talking about it? | /r/seduction | 14/10/20 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Is it possible to be monogamous ? One girl for life?What are some good ways to keep the flame going? | /r/seduction | 14/10/20 03:34 PM |
| 85 | THANK YOU SEDDIT!I'd rather pay the $40 ticket... | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 03:41 AM |
| 3 | If you are ever looking to get motivated and to improve yourself. A reading from Models by Mark MansonFor me, It's more like 1 min, 10 min, 20 min. My ex didn't really care, but it might be mood killing for some girls. | /r/seduction | 04/05/17 10:57 PM |
| 4 | If you are ever looking to get motivated and to improve yourself. A reading from Models by Mark MansonBut what if I have to masturbate once or twice right before having actual sex in order to last long enough? | /r/seduction | 04/05/17 11:51 AM |
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