"What are your toxic traits?"

Silver-Variation8903 · 2022-04-29T19:36:08+00:00

Say “I feel no emotion”

This will drive a girl crazy on a long pursuit and journey to get you to feel emotion for her.

Smitty-TBR2430 · 2022-04-29T19:56:06+00:00

Wow, that’s like the job interview asking “what are your weaknesses?”

I’d be too tempted to reply with some sarcastic shit-test answer & go NC. I hate being interviewed.

gameofloans24 · 2022-04-29T23:28:14+00:00

I work too much and think too much about money/business.

It's the truth.

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-04-29T20:23:04+00:00

'Sadism and dominance,' and segway into talking about shibari, bondage and moving the conversation to something sexual

You have absolutely nothing to gain from answering that question at face value.

atomant88 · 2022-04-30T04:42:16+00:00

'being too good to people who dont deserve it. '

Ok-Restaurant-9356 · 2022-04-29T21:49:11+00:00

'I talk to 3 russian girl at the same time, they dont know each other' with a smile. If you have funny, sarcastic character, it works very welll.

norwegiandoggo · 2022-04-29T20:10:17+00:00

"I don't know if I would call it toxic, but I can be a bit stubborn and dominant, so I have to make an effort to strive for equality in any relationship".

Is this the best answer? Probably not, but that's how I would answer it because it's true for me. If that's a huge red flag for her then we're probably not going to work out anyways. I think it's generally good to be honest, up front, and vulnerable about our weaknesses. It's also a form of confidence. An insecure guy would probably rather avoid the topic all-together. Which would just signal to her a lack of confidence, and that you're insecure talking about your weaknesses (or, alternatively, you're so narcissistic you can't even acknowledge that you have any).

And then of course after answering the question, I would ask her the same question in return. It's probably a quite useful topic to discuss because no-one wants to be blindsided by someone's bad traits several months into a relationship.

I would note that it's important to not get defensive, or talk about things that are universally unattractive. A bad reply could be something like "I have a really hard time being honest. I lie all the time".. or "I'm addicted to porn".. or "I'm a habitual cheater".. stuff like that - yeah don't mention that. Find another weakness to talk about. A weakness that can be dealt with and isn't a total turnoff for most women. What are some of those weaknesses women universally find to be huge turn-offs? Poor health, poor mental health, inability to keep a job, mood swings, cheating, lying, stealing, crime, heavy drug use, violent tendencies etc.

willgo-waggins · 2022-04-30T02:04:11+00:00

I’m too tall.

External_Lifeguard49 · 2022-04-30T05:44:41+00:00

I Ghost People.

incognito3107 · 2022-04-30T06:45:00+00:00

I make other people envy of me.

Title	"What are your toxic traits?"
Author	Gordon101
Upvotes	6
Comments	34
Date	April 29, 2022 7:31 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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