There is this girl I have been hooking up with recently. She is super into me and she wants me to introduce me to her friends and go dancing tomorrow night, but I don't want to. I don't want a BF/GF dynamic and I have low-key communicated that, and she has acknowledged it, but she's still pushing it.

I know that if I show up tomorrow night, she wants me to "show me off" to her friends. I've been in that situation before and it is an uncomfortable situation.

If I don't show up tomorrow, she would probably be upset, as this wouldn't be the first time I have bailed on this type of activity with her friends.

Any idea what to do here? My frame control is that I don't want to hang with her friends. She can come hang here before barhopping if she wants, as I'm busy. I also don't want her to show up here at my place later in the night when she's tipsy.