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Howlgram/r/askTRP29/01/16 11:06 AM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP16/02/16 07:08 PM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP16/01/16 10:49 PM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP15/02/16 05:46 AM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:08 AM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP15/01/16 07:58 PM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP29/02/16 06:13 AM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP25/02/16 09:37 AM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP14/01/16 01:07 AM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP10/02/16 04:29 AM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP12/01/16 12:08 AM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP07/01/16 12:56 AM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP09/02/16 06:29 AM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP06/01/16 09:07 AM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP14/02/16 11:17 PM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP04/01/16 06:26 AM
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MetaHowlgram/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 02:17 PM
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Howlgram/r/askTRP11/01/16 09:06 PM
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well you do talk write a lot, but you tend to deliver content more than babbler, so it is appreciated by those actually interested. If you come off as a yapper it's because you fail to assess people's interest beforehand (would not apply to your online typing cuz that's different of course)
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 09:43 PM
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A true partnership is one where the girl appreciates what she gets from you, and the guy gives what she wants too, and vice-versa. tfw this is the only thing that i've always wanted from a relationship, tfw expecting this thing only leads to heartbreak
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 12:11 AM
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well the parable does not mean "you gotta be open minded and think critically", it means "you gotta blindly listen to everything i say"
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 12:09 AM
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less than 30 seconds in your post history well if you look at my recent post history it's obviously gonna be more similar replies to this because i was reading this thread, smartypants. the totality of your reply is worthless gtfo.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/16 12:07 AM
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what is bad is being content at "making it" and to not take on other challenges in life nah, this would be tight, the only "bad" thing about it is that you don't like it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 09:11 AM
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The real reason people develope misoginy today is because our whole worldview is fucked hard by bluepill engineering This is what i meant, i don't agree with it, it's a very personal idea of yours and many blue pill people are not like that the same way many redpill ones may be.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 09:07 AM
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they do, so physically probably strong enough to defend themselves that young, on equal footing, but mentally not as aggressive.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 09:04 AM
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well huh buddy, it seems like you are falling into the fallacy of projecting yourself over everyone fucking else.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 07:43 AM
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Not only is it that way, but it's fucking concern-trolling, trying to make "redpillers" look ""good"", it's fucking bullshit. Fucking. Not to mention saying that guys who get no woman are the misogynistic ones is also OP trying to play the retarded righteous hero vs evil villain trope.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 07:40 AM
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dont they still have more testosterone than girls, making them more of a threat, though? in some sort of way
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 07:38 AM
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It's been said a few times here and elsewhere that the most truly Red Pill men don't hate women. Quite the opposite, they love them. Is this not concern trolling??? Can you guys like, stop this, stop trying to make redpillers look good with some crazy baseless claims.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 07:37 AM
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Manly men like and appreciate women. They treat women like people. It’s the white knights and the womanized losers that make up the large majority of misogynists. That's one helluva long shot brah, in fact this is extremely close to concern trolling. And your way of justifying this is because of this one fat guy, who is clearly hypothetical because after mentioning that he doesn't go to events you talk about him and "poker night" lmfao, at least make your story feasible.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 07:34 AM
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Huh that's a weird thing to link, it comes off as nothing but dogmatic. Directly from the wiki page Jesus says he is teaching in parables because he does not want everyone to understand him, only those who are his followers. Those outside the group are not meant to understand them. Thus one must already be committed to following Jesus to fully understand his message and that without that commitment one will never fully understand him or be helped by his message. but i guess i see how you meant t…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 06:37 AM
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cmon it's kind of abstract but that's because that's the only way of making it so YOU can relate it to life yourself, jesus. Girl wants a ball that's in your reach? You pretend to hand it over, to toss her at her, make a playful and sassy remark about it, ask her if she likes to play with balls, whatever, just do it your own way and not how she expects, that's how u tease. "OMG ANON BUT WHAT IF IM NEVER IN THAT SITUATION??" just translate to whatever the situation may be, verbal situation? You c…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 06:21 AM
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takeaway 2: Have what she wants, but never give it all to her, even if shes done enough to "deserve it". This is so funny to me, it's kind of a "LOL just a joke" to say "never give women what they want" but it's so accurate it's stupid.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 06:17 AM
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not if you are getting in shape lol
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 11:17 AM
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tfw barely anyone at my gym knows how 2 lift barbells so the squat rack is mine
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 11:16 AM
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if her life was really all that awesome you might ask what she's doing with you instead of being happily married to some Joe Awesome guy LMAO this, you kind of wonder "Woah this girl has experienced so much more than me, i am so behind", but who is really behind when she has to settle for less than the "unlimited fun" she talks about so much.
/r/askTRP08/03/16 11:50 PM
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keep it up, get another hobby not restricted by time if you still got much free time (u kno one that doesnt make u take rest days)
/r/askTRP08/03/16 11:45 PM
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but I will ALWAYS be kinda skinny compared to the average dude. just keep lifting brah, we are gonna make it
/r/askTRP08/03/16 11:42 PM
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Fucking a drunk random in Ibiza isn't going to make you awesome or be some Magical happiness pill. i dunno man that sounds pretty dope
/r/askTRP08/03/16 11:39 PM
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there's so much more you can get out of this sub with active feedback and way more in depth explanations than from someone putting up a show
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 07:46 PM
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it does come off a bit preachy but that's whatever really, what I take issue with is the structure of your post. Usually I try to keep things simple as in [premise] followed by [justification], and trying to keep it to one idea. But you were talking about the bad of religion, the good of religion, morals, nihilism, some sort of value construct, something about religion keeping societies from collapsing, bad Christians, all at the same time so I dunno. (I think most if not all of this was even on…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 11:10 AM
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Any idea on how women's ASD is biological? The other day I had this girl send me a nude and a half, I was kind of playing into teasing her and not validating her for her to show more, and then after she sent the pics she went full ASD "this was a mistake, I regret this, I had sex with my ex today too and now I sent u this, I feel like a total slut... but I am not like this!!!111" (absolutely baffling) I was absolutely clueless on how to react. The weirdest part is that BEFORE she event sent any …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 11:01 AM
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I carry 5 in my backpack.... cuz I've never gotten to use more than 1 ;-;
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 10:51 AM
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the other day I went to this bar/party thing (I rarely ever go out), had some shots (a bit more than I thought) and with a buzzed mind like that I felt absolutely unable to talk to strangers because I had no idea what to say and couldn't think of anything cuz drunk, in that moment I found it harder to approach ppl than when I'm sober in plain daylight
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 10:40 AM
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the trick is to use your hand while they keep the tip inside their mouth
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 10:35 AM
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so is this like some sort of TRP social network? I guess it'd be better if I could just check it but I'm on phone and it's inconvinient.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 10:14 AM
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thanks for being the other side of the coin, it really bothers me when this place turns into a confirmation bias circle jerk. Like I can't even sympathize with these men who somehow blame their wife for spending their money recklessly when they are doing exactly the same, they are spending their money recklessly on their wife. How they lose track of their own money is beyond me.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 09:50 AM
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Your post is all over the place, here is one of the things that bothered me the most: "religion can be used to instill morals and control the masses but that is not its only purpose" as if it had some sort of purpose other than that and then u go on about morals and you don't even make a point about religion, like I have literally no idea why you even brought it up. You were talking about it being the answer to nihilism or something? why or how? no idea you didn't even address it. You talk about…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 09:35 AM
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there's nothing cryptic about this wtf
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 09:31 AM
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I liked the first paragraph but the rest reads like a bunch of sophistry
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 09:15 AM
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dismissing trp as subpar compared to him just because he is funny and keeps your attention is idiotic, it sounds like u haven't even read the sidebar
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 08:54 AM
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what the fuck, the fact I haven't seen a fake penis-to-vagina cooch IRL doesn't mean shit, lmfaoo, nigga u what it's not my fault u mistook a fake vago for a real one ctfuuu
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 08:48 AM
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Sometimes it's a stepping stone, and i don't see how that would be a bad thing.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/16 01:55 AM
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I want to fix this shit right now. For that you need to next her so you can go and have crazy experiences with other women
/r/askTRP04/03/16 11:17 PM
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Also "Reaching your potential at 35" sounds to me more like "at 35 starts the decline". I can't imagine some 40 year old dude getting pussy anywhere near what a 30 year old can get, unless you are Leonardo DiCrapio
/r/askTRP04/03/16 11:15 PM
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oh, im basing my opinion on that one time i saw some youtube penis-to-vagina surgery video, and i remember seeing some pics
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 06:43 PM
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no harm done if you never find out ( ͡° ͜ʖ͡°)
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 12:26 AM
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I mean like, once u get that far you'd kno, hehe
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 08:19 PM
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Interesting, I never really thought of it in those terms, but did it anyway when I would look at a sentence and think "this is kinda exhausting to look at, i'll shorten it somehow"
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 07:47 PM
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I now always try to take a month each year with no sex at all damn, you have to try to not have sex, what im trying to do now is take at least a month of the year to have sex lmao
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 07:33 PM
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yeah this, like, op says he has no degree? what is e commerce? SEO always seemed like some sort of scam 2 me
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 07:29 PM
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how do u get that much money m8
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 07:28 PM
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: ( sadly i think you are right
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 07:25 PM
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isn't it really easy to tell apart a real vag from a fake one tho?
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 07:22 PM
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To be fair it's not even their fault to be so blinded, they were simply raised to believe that both genders are completely equal and the same, and that all differences between them are nothing but social constructs, and this is extremely powerful on a man's mind.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 04:11 AM
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This is all too true. I think as men, so much is expected of us that we like to think having just one person who adores us will make the burden that much easier. This hits home so hard. You'd expect having someone that loves you for your character would be the one thing that you shouldn't work for and should just happen, and that at least that much joy will make the burden of everything else worth carrying.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/16 12:44 AM
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Yeah until their tolerance levels shoot up even higher lol
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 10:38 PM
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you kidding me, the sluttier ones are closer to triple digits than single digits. I've heard more than enough first hand experiences.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 07:32 AM
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What you need to learn is that you'll never be fully satisfied in an ltr. Yeah this is the other thing that I'm afraid of. I feel like it's a trick question "do you want an ltr or no?" because i do want one but chances are it'll never work out and if i choose not to want one i'll actually still want one so i never win. Only time will tell how true either of these options are, so by common reasoning i'm gonna go first with testing the safer option of deciding not to want an LTR. It's like the onl…
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 07:27 AM
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This is exactly how I feel, my comment. You know what's wicked? Girls are afraid of committing at a young age, afraid of missing out on the fun that is getting drunk and ass fucked by a different Chad every other week. But us men, we are afraid of living unloved, not of missing out on degeneracy fun.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 06:08 AM
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How were you raised/how was your family like? Especially concerning the relationship between your parents
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 06:05 AM
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when i speak to a group i just imagine it as if it's a spectacle and they are my audience, and my goal is to entertain them. So for some reason i have less anxiety than when approaching a stranger, the individual opinions of people don't matter only the reaction of the group, and even that i see it as something impersonal like "hey ur acting was bad" rather than "u embarrassed yourself".
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 05:55 AM
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these challenges are well out of scope for my ability, kinda wish i was here when they were started
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 05:51 AM
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tfw no PTR 'P' as in permanent
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 05:27 AM
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You can live your life without LTRs and still be perfectly happy and fulfilled Honestly this is the one thing that i feel most uncertain and afraid of, that i wont be able to be fully satisfied without an LTR. Perhaps i'll forget all about it once i start learning the game and experiencing abundance, but right now the TRP way feels pretty much like "what if I'm getting into something that in the end will just leave me dissatisfied with life"
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 05:25 AM
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The thing is even if the girl is loyal; the same day she gets unhaaaaappy and decides to break up with you, she'll have another man's dick down her throat.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 05:17 AM
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the safe way to do it is by throwing some questions that makes his brain-gears start to turn, you easily keep deniable plausibility. From their response you can easily tell if he cant be helped, if he needs time to think about it, or if he wants to know more. I do it for my own amusement.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/16 04:30 AM
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like i said there's variance, for some country girl the guy with the biggest truck might seem like the hottest dude, but to some other girl the guy with the wittiest comebacks may seem like the hottest dude, both are about status or dominance or whatever, but in different ways relating to the girl and the context and yada yada. Both like the same concepts just in different ways. If a girl is very picky she'll have less opportunities to interact with men that make them feel attraction, and theref…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 03:11 AM
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don't have the same taste in men Nah they both like the same basic characteristics, sure there's variance in taste between women but the core things that make them feel attracted, like displays of dominance, stays true across all of them. The difference lies in the opportunities to interact with the men that make them feel attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/16 02:13 AM
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I agree, kick boxing seems to be the best to just knock someone to the ground, karate seems strong too but i have no idea how they compare, they both use punches/kicks.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 08:51 PM
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it would be read at least. How used would depend on how good it looks and if it gives ppl the results they are looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 08:42 PM
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AKA "haha stupid neckbeard why cant u just get it lol". This comment chain is a microcosm of what lame and awkward men who reach out for help receive in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 06:09 AM
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They are not after "those girls", it just so happens that "those girls" are most girls they come in contact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 06:06 AM
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look for yourself jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:45 AM
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I assume your problem is with the concept behind AWALT. For me AWALT is two things: a) a preventive measure, it is a warning sign, a reminder to be cautious, seeing that once a guy has oneitis it's extremely easy to misjudge character. b) a reminder that biologically women are different than men and will always act as women, regardless of whether these characteristics are considered negative or positive. And this works great to get better results for the guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:39 AM
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he just explained what he meant by "successful" vs "happy"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:27 AM
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it's still amoral, the morality of it is in the eyes of the beholder.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:15 AM
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If he is a respectable man then imo yes, but like i said in another comment, the subject at hand is why RPers don't like single mothers. Not what they think of the guys that get them pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 04:06 AM
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hypothetical, say women are 50/50 on liking bad/good boys. But the ones that like bad boys are the ones visible 99% of the time. What's the conclusion that you would draw on how to treat 99% of the women that you come in contact with? Well, that they all like bad boys so you treat them as girls who like bad boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:55 AM
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My sides are kill.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:47 AM
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Turns out girls aren't into the depressed, emotional faggot guy who looks like a homeless dude sadly :'(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:46 AM
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It's based on empirical evidence and observation, that's as close as you will ever get to "facts"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:42 AM
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Says what men need to do These men need to build their confidence and learn how to handle rejection like grown ups But will never address how to do this. Guess what? TRP DOES address how to do this, and most importantly it WORKS.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:40 AM
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Well considering bluepill only purpose to exist is to criticize TRP, they'll never actually come up with something of their own, they are not there to help, they are there to defend their beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:38 AM
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for me AWALT is two things: a) a preventive measure, it is a warning sign, a reminder to be cautious, seeing that once a guy has oneitis it's extremely easy to misjudge character. b) a reminder that biologically women are different than men and will always act as women, regardless of whether these characteristics are considered negative or positive. And this works great to get better results for the guys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:33 AM
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In my previous reply I'm making a point on why being a single mother proves a huge lack of agency on behalf of the woman. I'm not defending men that leave woman pregnant nor am i attacking them, the subject at hand is why RPers don't like single mothers. Not what they think of the guys that get them pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 03:12 AM
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Men do not have to protect themselves from other than child support, girls on the other hand have to protect themselves from getting pregnant. A single mother has basically proved that she can't even watch out for herself in one of the most essential ways, this means that her ability to make decisions and have self control is most likely awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 02:17 AM
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men have agency, the thing is that some simply do not care about leaving a girl pregnant, because they suffer no consequences, so the burden is left mostly to the girl to watch out for HERSELF.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/16 02:14 AM
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yup it's my second language
/r/askTRP29/02/16 08:27 PM
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what country? that sounds pretty awesome
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 11:22 AM
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the PUA phase lmao you literally just made that up. You seem to be very condescending and wrong. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 09:46 AM
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no, i'm not gonna give you clicks to your blog. my question wasn't even open ended for you to answer with more than a short paragraph FOH
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 09:38 AM
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I am talking about qualifying for anything, including SNL. okay what are you qualifying for in a date if it is not: a) a LTR b) friendship c) sex ??? is exactly how you end up being seen as a thirsty PUA with no standards. Ok you lost me here. I've never seen someone get called out as a "thirsty PUA with no standards". I'm sure that girls don't think "ew it's that thirsty pua" when they see the guy that has lots of sex, because they are probably having sex with him, lmao.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 09:12 AM
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Dating is first and foremost a way to see if you two can be a thing No, i don't think so. This is what movies and disney bs tries to sell you, that you go on dates to see if you want to LTR a person, but that's not how it should work, the qualification to a LTR should happen over a way longer period of time than some dates, after you have already sexed the girl. Going on dates is 100% for the sole purpose of sex. If you are a girl you are vetting the person on the date, if you are a guy you are …
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 08:43 AM
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i keep seeing ppl make this mistake too and it drives me nuts
/r/askTRP29/02/16 06:44 AM
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amazing reply
/r/askTRP29/02/16 06:28 AM
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My issue with this kind of thinking is that sometimes, some people, are simply not passionate about anything that makes money, but a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do, and if they want money they'll have to do something that they don't like, and that's just how it is. Sure the ideal situation is where you can balance passion and money, but sometimes it doesn't play out like that and you just gotta do something that sucks for you because the world aint made of flowers and sunshine.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 04:56 AM
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she stresses me the fuck out when she's in a bad mood why, this sounds like recipe for disaster
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 04:41 AM
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I love your post, it may sound dumb, but reading TRP really pulled me out of my depression and now i feel like i can actually make progress, any kind of progress. I'm not satisfied with myself or my current efforts, but i am definitely not depressed, and that's amazing. Thanks for sharing this, it's very reassuring and gives me that warm fuzzy feel of empathy.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 04:31 AM
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if you had stopped fapping without all the idea of it being "magical" you wouldn't have noticed a difference, i stopped masturbating for a whole month for kicks and giggles and the only effect it had on me was that when i finally jerked it off i came in like 3 seconds
/r/askTRP29/02/16 04:22 AM
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I did, i believe that's just what people point at, "my opportunities!" because that's the "strong-arguing-point", but honestly the less-skillful worker getting promoted over the more-skillful one is pretty common cuz of office politics and stuff, regardless of gender/race.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 04:17 AM
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btw, what's the best martial art to learn for self defense and just generally being able to beat someone down? Krav Maga?
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 04:08 AM
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I feel there's no point in knowing how to fight if you are weak enough to easily get one punched.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 03:52 AM
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you are missing the bigger picture
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 03:24 AM
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i think it's the thought-process behind affirmative-action that makes ppl over here at TRP so mad because it reinforces the poor womyn logic. I doubt anyone really sees this as an obstacle towards being successful.
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 03:18 AM
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Are you saying that it is wrong to pick a major based in job prospects?
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 03:15 AM
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But i could use some cute girls in my software development classes ;(
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 03:05 AM
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But i could use some cute girls in my software development classes ;(
/r/TheRedPill29/02/16 03:05 AM
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Only true for guys with oneitis, but still, being aware of them vs not being aware of them makes a world's difference.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/16 11:48 PM
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I may be late, but just imagine that ur bad haircut makes u look ballsy bc you don't care if ur hair looks silly
/r/askTRP28/02/16 09:15 AM
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She should be asking for your commitment This always puzzled me, do girls ever do this? Because following with the logic that men initiate all kind of interaction and lead, they should be the ones that decide when to propose commitment. no?
/r/askTRP27/02/16 11:48 PM
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It's funny when you see other ppl confirm RP truths, and that's how i felt while reading this thread on ask reddit, most girls talk about how the guy was a douchebag and how he is in prison now, and most guys about how the girl was wonderful and hope that the girl is doing great. lmfao edit: ok actually now there's rarely any girls talking about the guys if you order them by top comment but i swear there are a bunch if you scroll deep enough
/r/askTRP27/02/16 11:43 PM
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Guys don't ask for closure wait you got me there, i think guys do ask for closure (how i wished i had closure with some girls), the thing is that girls just give zero fucks and never deliver 'closure'. You know how girls are irresponsible little shits that will do anything to avoid "le feeling awkward". So if the girl is going to meet with the ex it's definitely not because she wants to give him closure.
/r/askTRP27/02/16 11:38 PM
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tfw no bff gf
/r/askTRP27/02/16 11:33 PM
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I have questions What country did you leave, and which did you go to? Also how did you do this, i mean like, economically wise. How has this decision panned out for you 3 years later? I'm extremely eager on leaving my shit country and getting away from my comfortable family, but I'm not sure if i should do so before or after finishing college (will probably take me two more years or three, and i really dont enjoy college).
/r/askTRP27/02/16 11:19 PM
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If you're here asking should I next her for x reason, you've likely misunderstood agency. Not necessarily, some people come here and ask because they don't really know how much of a red flag x thing may be, or what it may imply/mean
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 10:23 PM
0

Yas, def mirin omarisuf harder tho
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 10:18 PM
1

if i can look like omarisuf or dom mazetti while being natty i'll b dam happy
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 09:59 PM
0

look up what healthy diets look like, especially those of ppl that hit the gym. Then you can choose what dishes you like and want to prepare.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 09:21 PM
3

I think greyskull has a smilar idea with the AMRAP sets. OmarIsuf talks about the same approach here
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 09:19 PM
3

Okie, what is the book like? I'm reading the 48 laws and How to win and influence ppl which seems to be in a similar spirit of playing the social game in your favor, in case you can compare it to either.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 08:49 AM
2

Find non-combative way to solve minor problems Yes even this is office politics imo, either unnecessary drama, or just being the charming dude that everyone loves, both are a way of politics
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 07:50 AM
3

That's actually hilarious. I thought most of tech start ups would AT LEAST be by programmers who figured they could put hefty amount of their free time into their own project, making it at least somewhat profitable while being in control of it.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 07:22 AM
2

your mental gymnastics are strong. Women don't want to be approached anywhere? Then why do they go on tinder dates? Why do one night stands exist? Why do you think that you can EVEN seduce a girl through chat to the point she sends nudes? because they're always being approached So fucking what, that's how it works, that's how they like it.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 05:15 AM
2

women actually go with the intention of meeting men they don't know bars, night clubs, lol. Really anywhere, women want to be approached you just have to learn how to be charming about it
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 04:47 AM
11

playing office politics I keep hearing that this is the most important factor in progressing up at companies
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 04:20 AM
5

no real programming talent I would assume that ppl who quit their jobs to start some software startup would at least be programmers though?
/r/TheRedPill27/02/16 04:19 AM
1

u telling me that "gotta go save the world" is not ridiculous huh
/r/askTRP26/02/16 11:33 PM
2

fuck off if you don't want to help then don't
/r/askTRP26/02/16 11:33 PM
1

Yeah good idea. I'm thinking saying something like "i have to go do very important things", very vague.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:16 PM
2

I know, that's why im asking for good excuses/reasons to do that
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:13 PM
1

I knooow, Im just saying, tfw no girl with same patrician music taste as u
/r/askTRP26/02/16 07:00 AM
1

Ah yes that sounds blunt enough I like that thanks
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:35 AM
1

ppl in Latin America don't even know kanye
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:33 AM
1

yes I am, and yes I send music to ppl every so often. But as a topic starter it's really hard for it to work
/r/askTRP26/02/16 06:27 AM
1

I thought author meant SL5x5, which is a program that starts extremely slowly (it suggests and empty bar) and then makes u plateu a lot once u reach high weight. I haven't looked into regparks5x5 which should be at least way more prestigious than SL5x5
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 06:25 AM
1

shit son and you didn't flip that onto a sexual conversation about her?
/r/askTRP26/02/16 05:13 AM
2

who happens to be a big music geek tfw im a music geek tfw it's one of the hardest way to bond over with girls because they have never heard of my obscure top tier artists
/r/askTRP26/02/16 05:04 AM
1

I think she led the conversation though take my take on this with a grain of salt bc not enough experience but i think that letting the girl lead the conversation is bad, it's super comfortable to let the girl go on leading the convo, but i feel like it puts you in the submissive role. As silly as that sounds.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 05:02 AM
1

This implies you are swept with her hm what does this mean? puts decision-making in her hands I didn't mean it like that, more like, "i'll assess if she is interested by inviting her to another date later" I've had enough of this conversation and want to go home check on my paralyzed grandma Can you end a date without having to give a reason as to why you have to leave tho? (i mean like, not even fake reasons which are obviously fake)
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:59 AM
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manipulate other men close to him with information about a woman's infidelity he isn't manipulating him, it's simply not his business. Also just because they are blood-related does not mean that they are emotionally close. Here's an example on a different situation: Say you fuck a girl, then you realize the girl has a boyfriend, you can choose to tell the boyfriend or not, it's literally up to your morality whether you want to do that or not. I have no idea what the blooper subreddit is.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 04:55 AM
1

Keep playing the game, it's all about practice, hindsight, and then applying your hindsight to the next interaction.
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:51 AM
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"But that means I'm less important to you than I thought! No fair! I'm going to fuck you like crazy to try to change that!" ah this is so tricky, you start to think that the girl really wants to be special and exclusive to you and therefore cares, but she doesn't give a shit about you
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:46 AM
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I think you phrased your question poorly. I'll guess that you meant to ask how to stop her from bringing up that kind of shit which you don't care to listen to, and imo one way to do that is to just look her in the eye with a straightface and be like "i really do not care about that"
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:45 AM
1

Speaking louder than everyone in the room will grab the attention of 70% of the girls instantly. God, this is good advice, i keep forgetting how i should make myself comfortable with garnering attention like that, my embedded betaself instinct is to shy and hide away. Another important thing that you mentioned and i tend to forget is that teasing = flirting. I keep struggling to think on how to flirt and say sensual things or w,e but that's not even necessary when you can just tease the girl, wh…
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:39 AM
1

I'm 5'11" and only weigh 140lb. NIGGA GO LIFT I'm 6" and I've always been around 140 lbs so i know how skinny that looks. Been lifting for like 3 weeks and eating well, from 138 to 144 lbs so far, so am starting my journey but am getting there. Lift! Also "not my type" sounds exactly like getting friendzoned which means u didnt do any of the escalation given that you had a good time
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:29 AM
2

Instadates what food fight about what instadates? Are you referring to /u/abdada comment?
/r/askTRP26/02/16 04:04 AM
1

Your opinion is biased by your moral compass it means deluding a close father figure Indeed it does mean this, and that's probably immoral to you, personally i couldn't give two shits about my dad being bluepill and deceived because of it. You are talking about the "Right" thing to do not about the RP thing to do. Self interest could mean preserving OP's relations with his parents as amicable as possible which may just mean not disclosing any info that may create conflict.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 02:40 AM
2

/u/redpillschool /u/bsutansalt why was this removed
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:37 PM
1

I literally said that it's bluepill for the dad, how are you even disagreeing with me
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:35 PM
1

Also his upper body looks like shit while his legs are massive
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 11:16 PM
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His dad is not his responsibility
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:43 PM
1

Honestly OP, the relationship between your parents is none of your business. Not to sound harsh here, but parents tend to hide the shit that happens from their children, they may know even more than you do. So my advice is just don't try to help them or whatever, they are way older than you and solely responsible for where they ended up. Besides, there's probably nothing good to come out of talking about this. Besides2 you want to take the course of action that benefits you the most, not the one…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:42 PM
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It's bluepill for the dad not for OP, it may be too late for dad to become redpill, it may be too late for dad to turn his life around, oblivious happiness can be way better than self aware suffering. The redpill thing to do for OP is to do whatever works best for HIM not for his dad.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:37 PM
2

no way, it starts going downwards after 25
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:34 PM
1

Pretty sure this person followed the SS diet according to the book.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:31 PM
0

SS gets you fat tho
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 10:49 AM
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i wonder how many ppl on here are actually just chronic liars
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 10:42 AM
5

downvoting because 5x5 is suboptimal. It's unbalanced, the progression is fucked, and the author is some incompetent dude trying to sell his app. (He took off dips and chin ups from the routine but offers to add it to it if you buy his app lmao). I'd suggest Greyskull LP, it's what I'm doing.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 10:38 AM
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+1 for Greyskull LP, actually balanced, even gives a bit of priority to the upper body (good for looks!), the AMRAP progression makes it way more balanced for newbies too. Progression on 5x5 is fucked and it's almost all lower body.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 10:36 AM
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you have two choices. Tell a man a lie and watch him live happily the rest of his life, or tell him the truth and watch him go into depression. This is the only way in which he will be affected by this information. Why would you pick the truth?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 10:21 AM
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building comfort does get better results i feel this, on here the RP advice does seem to ignore all kind of comfort building and just make her horny in 15 seconds so you get to fuck asap
/r/askTRP25/02/16 09:51 AM
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the most despised corner of the internet yeah that's pretty harsh, i thought TRP was already hidden enough, but for a girl RPW is far more obscure, they basically have to get through this "Anti-girl" sub
/r/askTRP25/02/16 09:42 AM
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What takes the training the body or getting the number ? Muscles, getting the body that lets you do the zany shit that buff dudes do on youtube and that would make gaming a girl way easier.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 02:51 AM
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I have no gym bros make gym bros, i dont have any myself but i'll try to once i get more familiarized with my routine. Something else i read around here which sounds solid is to try talking with the dudes at a bar, they are on the exact same agenda. pale douche bag IT workers LOL i feel you, i dont work but i go to college for software development and 90% of the ppl there are afraid to even hold eye contact.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 12:52 AM
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They talk for maybe 15 seconds and get the number. Getting to that point takes no less than a year or two of training, though. From the way people talk it sounds like this can happen in 6 months.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 12:50 AM
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i just dont get it, i feel like you could have been in exactly the same place but without any sort of feeling of betrayal if you just hadnt committed. Because that's literally what LTR, asking for exclusivity, everything else you can have outside of an LTR.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 12:26 AM
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5-HTP doesn't work and it's highly ineffective if it does work at all http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3415362/
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 11:06 PM
2

But she STILL cheated on him with me. why the hell did you LTR the hoe
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 11:02 PM
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She was turned off because the guy tripped. This can't be just because the guy tripped, it's probably because he acted ashamed about it.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 11:29 PM
1

Imagine you're banging her I'm going to do this it sounds amusingly good
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 11:01 PM
1

is that just any 3 days a week? Yes 3 days a week 3 sets of X that day, then 3 sets of Y when I come back Yes this. So some weeks you will do BP twice, and other weeks you will do OP twice. In contrast, you will always squat twice a week and deadlift only once.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 07:56 PM
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Great post, just one thing, you wrote "taken back", isn't the right phrase "taken aback"?
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 11:08 PM
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without the extra sexual pressure speak for your yourself s i k e
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 10:10 PM
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abstain for a month for shits and giggles if you are actually curious if it'd matter at all
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 07:47 PM
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videogames alcohol and weed are all escapist time traps and basically work the same as any kind of addiction
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 07:46 PM
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I need to call girls out on it like this more often, especially my sister. Usually she says something that at the moment makes me think "why the hell are u asking/saying this" and it's not until later that I realize she is mercilessly shit testing me. The other day she told me that her friend asked her friend's brother if he would drive her around to like 3 different places, and then she asks me "you wouldn't do that for me anon, would you?" and I just didn't reply bc I thought that was a silly …
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 05:50 PM
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penisenvy freud pls go, ur stuff has been disproved long ago
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 11:57 PM
3

But what allows for such horrific conditioning? society. the excess of beta males sucking up to women everywhere while women pat each other's back.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 11:53 PM
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So from this place of unrealistic expectations they always fall short. this actually happens to me a lot, but im not a girl so nobody gives a fuck, this means im fairly (as in, justly) forced to do what i can do by myself meet my ambitions rather than cry about it like a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 11:49 PM
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go away placebo propaganda
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 11:42 PM
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i find out how cool books are and how i can get any of them for free online and then i proceed to download like 25 books without finishing a single one
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 11:35 PM
1

what really helped me was finding a specific place (in my case, a local park) and time where I would go every day and just meditate Good idea, i actually kind of meditate (without setting out to meditate) whenever i find a nice peaceful place in nature or something like that, but where i currently live there's no access to any of this. And trying to meditate somewhere like in my room really feels like im doing a whole lot of nothing, in contrast with going for a walk of meditation in a nice park…
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 11:34 PM
1

I agree, no idea why they'd downvote you here
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 10:34 PM
1

I even got straight up fondled by a post wall MILF at the sales job I worked Do you think she justified it with "I was trying to get us a good deal!"
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 10:09 PM
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What a masturbatory reply, lmfao, calm down feminist
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 09:21 PM
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I'm actually going to have to disagree with your view. uh, did you read the same post i read? Because OP is talking about the beta guy, not about the manipulative hoe
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 08:09 PM
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classic
/r/TheRedPill21/02/16 07:58 PM
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I really, and I mean REALLY want to go monk mode for a while, but I am so invested in this new girl that I cannot make any promises. dude just try to escalate things with her, give yourself 1 or 2 weeks to makeout/fuck her and if it doesn't happen just let it go and monkmode
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 09:32 PM
1

interesting, would u agree marriage is the best dynamic to keep most of the population happy (and therefore, productive)? At least pre-divorce era
/r/askTRP19/02/16 05:34 PM
1

No insulting in spanish it looks awfully childish. What country?
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 05:31 PM
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I was avoiding conflict I think this is the bane of all "nice guys". We have to learn that conflict is good. I assume that once you are totally fine with conflict, you aint afraid of nothin The rest is just calibration and that comes with experience. You will learn when to push and when to pull only by doing. Yes, this. I think we all want a guide to how to not make any mistakes and make all girls attracted to you after you read this fast easy guide but that's just not how it works and people do…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 02:26 AM
1

Over 1k upvotes in 13 hours.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 01:28 AM
1

Sounds like you've never lived in Latina America mate.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 01:12 AM
1

Controlling behaviour: range of acts designed to make a person subordinate and/or dependent by isolating them from sources of support, exploiting their resources and capacities for personal gain, depriving them of the means needed for independence, resistance and escape and regulating their everyday behaviour This has everything to do with divorce rape, how ironic
/r/TheRedPill19/02/16 01:04 AM
1

Here is some serious gold Yes this one was great, makes me want to go and read more from the author.
/r/askTRP19/02/16 12:59 AM
1

The idea that an average working man could or should take care of a non-working wife is very new. Like, less than 100 years old. Are you sure? Working man and child-bearing housewife seems to be a pretty old idea. It's the "family dynamic" of christian families for example,and christianity has been around for quite a while. Also isn't "man hunts food and protects" a concept from way long ago? the difference would be nature forcing the man to be the one that works because women were weak, instead…
/r/askTRP19/02/16 12:27 AM
1

i agree, although, even though you say "looks only open the door" it seems they do way more than that, i see a bunch of guys around here talking about how lifting and getting fit gets them like half of the job done and how it's super easy to game. started doing crossfit and achieved an awesome body oh that's crazy, i see crossfit gets a bunch of flak, and for good reason
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 07:50 PM
1

Artificial selection No such thing as artificial, everything that happens is part of nature's course.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 07:46 AM
1

Science has also found men are quite vulnerable to women likely so we did not destroy them or abandon them in ancient barbaric times This sounds hilarious and makes perfect sense. unable to fulfill their biological imperative which is a serious source of stress via a hormone Cortisol Do you happen to have any links to this? Sounds very interesting. Thanks for taking the time to type out all of this, appreciated.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 07:12 AM
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True
/r/askTRP18/02/16 06:54 AM
1

Gotcha! I've just been looking at what the actual rate of building muscle is, and it's rather slow, but simply working out even if i've done it for so little, is already starting to boost my ego the same way a hot body would.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:51 AM
1

I also judge if I even like doing it which is probably half the battle at my fitness level. I look at some of these routines and say fuck that. I tend to neglect how important this can be, since i like to get technical, but that's actually probably one of the most important aspects. Often times i put myself into too steep of a learning curve on whatever im doing and end up discouraging myself wah :^(
/r/askTRP18/02/16 06:23 AM
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We totally agree then. Personally I just feel uncomfortable making those kind of statements, I would rather confidently ask, that's why I complain.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 06:19 AM
1

rather something that i won't stand You set your boundaries and take action when they don't respect them. Easier said than done though.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:12 AM
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we've gotta reproduce somehow. All the idiots are doing so at waaaay faster rates than the productive, responsible among us are. how zany is it that natural selection ends up disfavoring the responsible and smart.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:10 AM
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As soon as I started hitting the gym 6 days a week and eating right (within a few months), pussy was literally opening up in front of me. Quick question! Did you see this change after getting aesthetically fit, or before it? I feel like we start doing it for the aesthetic to attract girls but ultimately the confidence that comes from working out is what drives in the pussy.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:01 AM
1

This is absolutely motivating. Sadly it's a bit too late for me to get into a top undergrad, or graduate top of my current university (I've slacked half way through it so far), but I'm doing what I finally took the courage and found the information to change. Currently working on making fitness the number one priority in my life, and hearing you say how important it was to you is extremely reassuring, I've got that exact same 3x lift and 2x cardio schedule.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:00 AM
1

Good advice, making me do some sort of reality check with all the attention I've been giving to tinder.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 04:47 AM
0

most allow denial to sway their confidence This comes from the very logical belief that results are 100% the way to tell if what you are doing is right or wrong (Is there a name for this fallacy?). I.e you may carry out whatever process poorly and luckily get a good results, therefore you assume that your process was good. And vice versa, thinking that because the girl rejects you, you are doing it wrong, and therefore should stop approaching. To this you can sum up the fact that conflict is wid…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 04:36 AM
1

Insightful seriously just read it up in a book I'm absolutely clueless about this being in books and also I'm new to books so I don't know how to find the good, no bs, ones. I'm only mentioning this in case you have any recommendations on how to find good, straight-to-the-point books. So far i've only gone by recommendations from places/people that have a good reputation/taste in my opinion (like TRP). their Parents/Society/Movies have told them that monogamy is the way to go and a relationship …
/r/askTRP18/02/16 04:30 AM
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But, is the underlying question here OP is whether you could have one yourself in this day? You caught me. Not so much if I can, I'm thinking if i want to and if I would prefer it over a LTR.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 03:56 AM
1

you need to go read a fucking book about how people lived 100, 200, 500 years ago. or i can just ask my online friends over here at trp and save a lot of time uwu Even with no wife, you have to bring the bread home in order to survive Yes i understand, but there's a huge difference in productivity between a happy guy and a sad guy. And it seems marriage was the way to make sure that most guys were happy to an extent, because they would get sex and whatnot, or at least the promise of it and not f…
/r/askTRP18/02/16 03:54 AM
0

That's the plan
/r/askTRP18/02/16 03:50 AM
1

I did SL5x5 for two work outs, it was a great way to get into it, but i wasn't satisfied with it and the info. Now im doing greyskull but still searching for what may work best for me. The philosophy of PPL just makes a lot of sense to me. There's a lot of things that make sense to me but it's a huge amount of bro-science. I'm struggling finding the right sources of information to be able to actually judge a routine and tell if it is good for me, or at least be able to tweak it.
/r/askTRP18/02/16 03:49 AM
1

this system allows for pools of resources to accumulate in amounts never achievable before and if your country doesn't use the same or better system they will eventually be crushed by the strongest system What are you talking about here? The top 1% of people? Huge business? Other, bigger, countries?
/r/askTRP18/02/16 03:46 AM
1

Yes that's what I meant, I was being redundant I guess bc PPL is usually done for hypertrophy afaik
/r/askTRP18/02/16 01:54 AM
1

how many grams does a chicken breast weight? isn't that around just 40g protein
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 01:52 AM
1

I think that the only kind of routine that you can spread over that many days is some sort of (probably highly ineffective in terms of time) PPL Hypertrophy training with a bunch of isolation exercises. I'm sure that in order to train strength you need rest days.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:21 PM
1

They want a girlfriend so they can stop trying to pick up girls and have reliable source of sex. This is so true, it may not be 100% of the reason why most guys want to have a gf but it sure is a big part of it. Being committed "means" you are free from a lonely future, which means you are operating on scarcity. Yet no one acknowledges this, not even in their own mind to the point that it becomes some sort of subconscious reasoning. This kind of mechanic is what makes it so hard to swallow the R…
/r/askTRP17/02/16 09:16 PM
3

Anything you give a woman is ammunition that can at some point be shot back at you. I've been thinking about this whenever there is something i want to complain to about to someone, relating to their own behavior. Trying to make it a point that when i state whatever it is that i don't like, it doesn't sound like something that could be used against me, rather something that i won't stand. This means that you are never going to tell someone that something bothers you while relying on their good w…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 09:07 PM
2

That's very interesting. Makes me reconsider how "right" or "wrong" would it be to have a harem that includes some sort of serious LTR. Even makes me wonder if LTRs are 100% for the convenience of women rather than men and if as a man you even gain anything from one at all.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 08:56 PM
2

What about societies were harems are permitted? How come they came to be like that?
/r/askTRP17/02/16 08:45 PM
1

Mhm!
/r/askTRP17/02/16 03:50 PM
1

good idea, just as long as I do it with people I won't see again.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 03:30 PM
1

I see i see, i honestly am completely clueless about how to build a routine, so right now im just sticking to a solid program from someone else (Greyskull LP). 4 days a week is pretty hardcore though, specially if your workouts in the gym take over 45 mins.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 05:43 AM
1

I feel like people just want to make 300% sure they have enough protein so they do those crazy 100g+ of protein.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 03:15 AM
1

Cold approaching is king when it comes to increasing your amount of opportunities to socialize though, specially with girls you wanna boing. It's ok if you don't want to do it but it's bad advice for others who do want to do it.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 01:37 AM
2

You'll want 1g protien for each 1lb of LEAN body mass how accurate is this? Seems excessive to me
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 01:32 AM
1

Why are you squatting and deadlifting on the same day? Is that what a PPL split looks like?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 01:29 AM
3

I'm gonna go ahead and suggest that anyone who wants to start lifting right now but don't know where to start, this program is a good place. The original Greyskull program comes from a book you can get with tons of info. The routine wont take long, compound lifts are fun as hell, and it's a middle point between gaining size and strength. Do your own research about beginner programs according to your goals, but that one is pretty solid for anyone that wants to start right away without doing a ton…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 01:27 AM
1

Be friendly to everyone and not just the people you want to sleep with. yes yes, been working on this. Warm approach is far more preferred If that works for you then that's great, but to me, nearly any approach is a cold approach. My social circle has always been small and the people I've been friends with in the past were never social enough to show me new friends. + It's extremely rare for me to have enough in common with someone that i effortlessly/naturally become friends with them.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 01:07 AM
1

I can do that but i'll still overthink it when it's a girl im interested in, i feel like she'll think "uhg this guy is obviously approaching me cuz he wanna smash i hope he goes away". So I need a way to stop overthinking and whatnot.
/r/askTRP17/02/16 01:04 AM
2

Am trying
/r/askTRP16/02/16 11:09 PM
1

It seems you freeze up from over thinking 100%, i'll check it out
/r/askTRP16/02/16 10:31 PM
2

Also i believe hot girls get tired of the eye contact kind of thing, because literally everyone stares at them, but no one approaches them, so you gotta approach, they want to be approached, they find it flattering. At the very least we have to think they do.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 09:41 PM
1

Check out the other comment where the guy talks about counting to three and then approaching the girl. I'm gonna start trying that. Sounds good to just do instead of think, i think that's the main issue, you either have to find a way to counter-rationalize your think so it becomes positive, OR just do without think because think is the reason we end up doing jackshit, and honestly our think is actually some bullshit emotional response, we'll never actually think right in the heat of the moment. …
/r/askTRP16/02/16 09:39 PM
1

the 3 second rule Ah this sounds perfect, I'm gonna start doing this. This is the kind of advice that I'm looking for, something to shut down rationalizations.
/r/askTRP16/02/16 08:56 PM
5

In short, she is being weak. Half-measures and half-conclusions are the same as no conclusion at all, it's worthless, it detracts from the whole article. She is pandering to women because they have successfully guilt tripped her and gotten away with what they wanted.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 07:49 AM
11

I see this done a lot in female spaces. The addendum thing. It's basically her response to all the negative attention from other females, she feels like she has to make it clear how she wasnt attacking them and how understandable she is of females. I see this EXACT SAME THING happen all the time with whiteknights/BP-men, just go to askwomen or whatever and look for the male comments, they are FILLED with "[inquiry]" followed by "IM SORRY I DIDNT MEAN TO OFFEND YOU! Thanks for teaching me a lesso…
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 07:43 AM
2

I find their lack of logic and reason offending and infuriating.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 07:38 AM
2

Steady, high quality sex should be an (as in one of many) outcome, not the goal. What's wrong with making the results (outcomes) the goal? Aren't our goals to get the best results we can in every aspect?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 07:33 AM
1

Isn't it ironic that for guys is the opposite? For guys getting girls is good and has no negative consequence.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 07:30 AM
1

Yep, this seems to be the right way of making the decision.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:18 PM
1

Aw
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:17 PM
1

This is the exact same as asking if doing crossfit would help you to get good at powerlifting, LMAO well it could help with some abundance and idgfa mentality, but that wouldn't be the reason why i'd do it. The real reason would be because i just want quick lays for the time being. The only reason you are even evaluating ugly girls is because you think it would carry less of a risk Actually no, that's not the case. It's availability. By all means, i do not mean to stray away from the girls that …
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:16 PM
1

No, my online feed is usually just filled with extremely attractive girls, so in contrast, the okayish girls feel/look disappointing to me. I think it's a matter of exposure, the more recently that i have looked at extremely attractive gals the less of a drive that i have to go for okayish girls. On the other hand, if i am horny and havent looked at any of the really pretty girls i feel the most drive to make moves with the okayish ones.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:11 PM
2

the erection test We need this term coined
/r/askTRP15/02/16 10:08 AM
1

True. I relate a lot to the way you put it.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 08:51 AM
2

I've heard it more than once that fatties give the best blowjobs, maybe they are the only ones so eager to please your dick. Unless you desperately need experience Yes this applies, I think the challenge is being able to tell the difference between "wouldn't care to touch this girl" and "i could fuck her"
/r/askTRP15/02/16 08:49 AM
1

LOL, yep, either your smv was way higher, or she was somewhat paranoid, perhaps just wary, of internet people.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 08:38 AM
1

But then i look at actually hot girls and my dick deflates and goes back into my body at the thought of the okayish girls
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:35 AM
2

My thoughts exactly. They aren't actually ugly, they are just "Okayish". Average for me is the same as subpar. But you know with the time i have to myself in these barren times, why not experiment. At the very least we'll talk with some stranger for like an hour, give or take, and they say talking with anyone is what builds better social skills. Yolo
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:27 AM
1

I installed an extension in my browser that removes the newsfeed from It This may be what i need, i've noticed that adding the right barriers between a distraction and myself can give me the results that i want. ty for the idea. I'll give it a try for a week or two and then decide.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:12 AM
1

Yeah, i guess i'll give it a test with one or two girls, perhaps it is a good way to make face to barren times.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 07:10 AM
2

Do you have the option of traveling to different cities for short periods of time? I do because my country is small, all cities are small and suck, nightlife is shit. In my experience having sex without being attracted to the girl just leaves me feeling empty You know how being attractive to a girl is sort of a spectrum? I'm wondering how far into the spectrum i can go before i cant get anything out of it. Say, would you fuck a girl with a hot body but average/subpar face?
/r/askTRP15/02/16 06:36 AM
6

The thing is i rarely find a girl attractive enough to feel like talking to her, but some girls i would maybe fuck for the sake of it? so i dont know, i could get some "cheap" sex meanwhile.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 06:28 AM
1

there's a difference
/r/askTRP15/02/16 06:26 AM
1

You are right, I'm awfully conflicted emotionally. Specially because it's so easy to make rationalizations like "I need fb for tinder" "I need fb because classmates like to keep in contact through it" "I need fb because uni classes use fb groups sometimes" "I need fb because I like to have the chance of making more internet friends" "I need fb because i can look at cute pictures", "I need fb because i could forget to keep in contact with someone". Eventually turning the word "need" into really u…
/r/askTRP15/02/16 05:13 AM
1

Good idea!
/r/askTRP15/02/16 01:03 AM
2

You are right
/r/askTRP15/02/16 12:00 AM
1

I think all of this you are talking about is way too relative to a person's moral compass
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 09:37 PM
1

I have no idea how it was in the old testament, I'm almost sure Judaism always advocated for the same family values that Christianity does. Anyway today's conservativism from religion is what affected me.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 09:29 PM
5

We are all gonna make it, keep strong
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 03:00 AM
1

So, are we put into this position because of feminism? To me it was the extremely Religious-Conservative family. +Religious-Conservative country (society i live in). I would say feminism has never really affected me, but conservative religion teaches you the exact same things that everyone around here complains that feminism tell men to do: being meek, obedient, and too fucking "nice". Bottom line this religion is worse because it absolutely forbids sex before marriage and anything of the sort, …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 02:03 AM
1

to feel better about yourself, avoid unpleasant feelings These are very vague "wrong reasons". Doing what you want makes you feel better about yourself. Feeling better about yourself makes you avoid unpleasant feelings of failure. I don't see how any of this is "bad" or "wrong". Even revenge could give someone peace of mind.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 01:26 AM
2

I too was looking for commitment before having sex. Emotionally speaking it was exactly what I was looking for all these years This. I relate so much my dude. It's like we were made, biologically, to fuck girls and not commit, and so this is how we achieve happiness. But society taught us the opposite, that commitment should come first, driving us into INCEL status and depression and shit. Society is so fucking twisted, jesus christ. I WANNA FUCKING SHOUT
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 01:23 AM
7

This effect is ironic as hell, and it feels like you were cheated by your brain. It's also super unfair to those that have to go without either for very long.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 01:18 AM
1

So I'm happy I did it, it took a lot of nervous weight from my shoulders. Holy shit so much this. I'm 21, i had sex with not the cutest girl, but man did it feel fucking LIBERATING. It's this EXACT feeling. It's knowing that you have the potential to do it again, that you are not doomed to dying virgin. I do not think that sex is overrated though, this very feeling of liberation is enough to say that sex is not overrated. From 1 to 10 what number was your girl?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 01:16 AM
1

So he contacted all his vendors, ordered as much shit as he could from all of them. Liquidated it all, didn’t pay any of his vendors a dime What's the point of ordering all that shit? Does it mean he gets more money for liquidation?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 02:44 AM
1

you can't expect your 3 year LTR not to pull any shit. I guess it depends on your turd-tolerance
/r/TheRedPill12/02/16 01:57 AM
-1

You never keep in touch with an ex? Not constant communication but like, if you had a good friendship sometimes, well i, message them every now and then.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 07:03 PM
2

But if she is recklessly doing something that she'd hate that much done to herself (as in the way the original comment im replying to makes it seem) then that's already pretty damn malicious, it's not a matter of setting boundaries but the fact that her nature is fucked up. I just see it as a big red flag.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 05:23 PM
2

I just think that if she is trying your boundaries that hard, then she isn't LTR material. She recklessly did something she'd really hate to have it done to herself, and that's pretty damn malicious if you ask me. All girls will test you in some way or another but there's certain amount of turd i wont go through.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 05:18 PM
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Good to hear it from someone else.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 06:49 AM
1

Seriously, what other kind of reaction would you get from people other than making them curious about TRP after they see such an outrageous title on that email with no context, lmao
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 06:29 AM
1

You can't be happy if you are constantly angry though.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 06:20 AM
1

Honestly if i had been banned when I was new around here i doubt i would have stuck around long enough to swallow the pill.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 06:18 AM
1

directly from the comment section: No. They're basically emotional terrorists. Dated a narcissistic misogynist and that was enough mental abuse for me! "I would NEVER date someone like that" "I dated someone like that tho"
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 06:12 AM
1

I'm sure Thotwrecker agrees with you: they will be 100% focused on teaching you how to become a more successful beta. If at core you are beta, you will need insane amounts of game to make up for it.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 06:03 AM
1

It's not just the anger phase, people really talk about them as lesser beings.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 05:40 AM
2

Give TRP advice without explaining TRP and it'll be considered wise by many. Specially if you use emotionally-tactful wording.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 05:25 AM
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If the bitch is doing something like that and you have to "teach her a lesson" like that, isnt the LTR doomed to failure anyway?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 05:22 AM
5

I totally agree with you. Being critical has never been my weak spot though, what i found to be hardest, and what can fuck you over the most (the greatest danger for literally anyone), is not finding the different ideas, not being exposed to them means you basically have to come up with ALL OF THEM on your own, and then have EVERYONE tell you that you are wrong, and if that happens, you truly don't know what to believe. Say if i never found TRP, i would have never in a thousand years came up wit…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 03:52 AM
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Yes, that's the whole point of the thread, the lengths that women will go for the sake of their own desire.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 12:15 AM
4

I feel this so much, i realized that i am too selfless, i try too hard to appease others because i was raised with these "goodie good morals". But i read something on TRP once that struck me, it said You are a man. From now, you decide what is right, and what is an acceptable level of pain you can inflict to others. And this was an absolutely eye-opener to me, as a self-made man you are the absolute critic of your own moral compass, you MAKE your own moral compass whether that includes altruism …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 11:44 PM
1

I see. The discuss page on wikipedia is such a mess i couldn't be bothered to make sense out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 11:20 PM
1

That's what i was going through lmao, it's simply a fancier term for benevolent sexism though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/16 08:21 PM
1

i was just born with drive and a natural intuition for getting a fucking job, when most people are not. Well good for you. Some other people are not, some find it too difficult to work a job and do well in their studies, etc.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 07:45 PM
4

While millennials got it the worst in terms of overt brainwashing, you also have it better because of access to enormous amounts of information that you can use to break free from the programming. yes and yes. I feel so blessed because of the internet, but honestly it's not easy to find the right info.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 07:41 PM
1

Why are you trolling the trp forum? What's the point? You mad?
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 07:16 PM
1

Someone downvoted you. How important is the belt? I assume it's not so important since I'm starting. you don't need to do like 12 different arm exercises to have big biceps/triceps This is what happens at the gym and it's very annoying. I found out my college has a weightlifting room, way smaller than the gym but I can use for free so I'm doing that as long as they aren't missing on equipment. The Wendler 5/3/1 looks kind of complex, i might just start with a beginner program for the simplicity …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 06:42 PM
1

you could use the bar's atmosphere as a reason to go back to your place for drinks instead Woah that's clever, thinking two steps ahead. Are there any nice outdoors places nearby? Bitches love nature. Me too, there's a park but it's sketchy. I'll try to look for outdoor places further away on googlemaps and ask people or something.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 06:32 PM
1

Where I live, Starbucks could be considered a nice cafe lol. But yeah, i just dont want to wind up in a place that sucks because it makes me sulk inside.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 06:27 PM
1

Badass
/r/askTRP10/02/16 06:25 PM
1

Okay it's just silly to get into that cult mentality. I did abstinence for a whole month for kicks and giggles without even knowing nofap was a thing, and i didn't feel the slightest difference in my mood etc.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 06:24 PM
2

Good idea. I live in an apartment near college with no TV.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 06:22 PM
1

I agree, although not all hobbies, a lot of them are simply not cut to join with other people. That aside, the city i live in is pretty poor when it comes to activities, i have to try harder (ask more ppl/explore), but i was looking for some creative ideas given my limited resources. Cooking is a good idea, painting could be fun with the right set up.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 06:21 PM
4

Nope because, as with the voting example, there's no fundamental difference between gender to vote for one or another candidate. However there IS a fundamental difference in the gender dynamic, the way a man seduces a woman and the way a woman evaluates a man are completely different. You could argue that TRP teaches you that women are irrational and whatnot (although this is focused on the realm of desire not outside of it), but the same applies to men we just don't talk about men here because …
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 06:11 PM
-1

I like coffee and drinks but can't find a nice place around, so sad. Might just do Netflix with a laptop, I don't even know.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 05:33 AM
1

because we objectify women a bunch, which isn't actually wrong but that's how they see it
/r/askTRP10/02/16 05:15 AM
0

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=156380183 here you get to do all the math for the calories/macronutrients yourself so you are sure it's the most accurate ballpark figure. As for training, there's not one way to do it, so whatever you do will probably give you results, unless you are some experienced dude hitting a plateau or something
/r/askTRP10/02/16 05:10 AM
0

in what world is 210 lbs slightly skinnyfat?
/r/askTRP10/02/16 05:06 AM
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You come off as a try-hard and the other dudes already explained why, so i'll just give you props for approaching her so boldly because that's hard to do.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 05:06 AM
2

I'm lazy enough that I might just straight up go with this
/r/askTRP10/02/16 05:03 AM
1

Hey my man, I thought i had sleep apnea as well, so i got a polysomnography done (sleep study), they are expensive but insurance may cover it (mine did). I do not have sleep apnea, but they found a disturbance in my REM sleep which may be linked with depression and stuff. So I'd suggest you go get a sleep study done, and in case you have some sleep disturbance like sleep apnea, it's super easy to fix and your life will improve a bunch.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 05:01 AM
2

This is probably one of the best explanations i've seen, whenever looking up meditation people always keep it vague and talk about meditating with some sort of audio or whatever and that's confusing as hell, they always talk about how great it is but never about what's the point to it or how you accomplish results.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 04:57 AM
1

I've got the same goal in mind. What looks a bit daunting is getting a good lifting routine (exercises) fit for me, I've read a bunch of different stuff about it online and different "beginner routines" that read like a recipe. For now i guess i'll just go with the routine by the gym instructor, which may be mediocre but anything will give me some sort of result.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 04:54 AM
1

The guys that preach against it are in denial because they don't want to quit way to jump to assumptions and disqualification ("they are in denial") for no reason. You are acting like a girl hamstering away her beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/16 04:36 AM
1

Oh don't underestimate the knowledge, you never know when your gym instructor may be incompetent and mediocre.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 12:56 AM
1

My goal is to look like a greek god. I joined the track team as to exercise the days that i do not lift and it's because it's nice, but it's not my focus.
/r/askTRP10/02/16 12:54 AM
5

Hey man, I'm a total newbie, what's a good place to get all the info for lifting necessary? Specially to get started, from reading your post there seems to be a lot to it.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 07:04 AM
1

It's bemusing how simply changing 1 word makes a world's difference.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 08:06 PM
6

She's sincere about wanting to change, but that wanting never really materializes This applies to all BP-men as well.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 08:01 PM
1

BP men are the same as these women
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 08:00 PM
7

Nah, you are going too far, TRP is about sexual strategy. Something like voting has nothing to do with it, I'm sure there are as many men as there are women out there voting for the wrong reasons.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 06:23 PM
15

its hard to find someone who isnt a beta loser Jesus this so much, as a student of software-development i find it fucking impossible to find classmates who are not videogame/anime beta suck-ups.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 06:02 PM
2

I never want to see pics like that again. just replace "want" with "care": I do not care to see pics like that ever again
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 05:34 PM
9

No one teaches us about this and that's just sad, I'd say you need to be extremely lucky to stumble upon TRP
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 05:29 PM
1

thought her chemistry with her ex was worth exploring, and that he made her feel respected and valued what makes a girl think like this? Specially when none of that is true.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 05:28 PM
1

why would you link to a google search of "Harvard classes online" as a citation (6) ???
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 03:54 PM
3

Can confirm, worked like a charm
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 02:29 PM
2

Sometimes i think you guys exaggerate with the whole "western women are terrible" thing, but holy hell looking at the comments on the CDC post is insane, that's reactive as hell for no reason at all, they are insane. "You shouldn't drink if you could get pregnant" "WOW, YOU WANT US TO GET A LICENSE THAT PROVES WE TAKE BIRTH CONTROL WHENEVER WE BUY A BEER?!!?!"
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 06:26 AM
1

I wanted to go to war. Alpha? Sure. Foolish? That too.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 04:54 AM
1

I completely agree with everything except one thing. One can't figure out if the system is deliberate or incidental. Applying Occam's razor the system has come to this by accident.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/16 12:44 AM
1

If she left a hint that she didn't want to go home yet I'd have played along Lol, so waiting for hints is now red pill? Good one Nice Guy
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 06:41 PM
1

I then said it seems the sex has dwindled since we got married, and it wasn't like that before either Would you expect her to have sex with you even if she doesn't want to? just to appease you? It is your burden to create desire in her. Got a good job , car , house. I can cook ,clean See, none of that makes you attractive, you are clearly clueless about how to become attractive. I assume you don't even lift, I doubt you do any exercise at all since you didn't even mention it.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/16 06:18 PM
33

here's one way it could play out, out of a thousand ways her: hi extends hand him: sorry hun i only hug her: really him: yeah i'll also grab your ass her: giggles
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 01:20 AM
4

The key to this stuff is, you have to WANT to do it because you recognize it is in your best interest. If someone forces you to do it, you rebel against it. This has been me nearly my whole life, holy hell. It makes me feel so bad to think i've missed out on the 3 years of college and 5 years of highschool that i've gone through, they were a total waste of time where i had no goals whatsoever. I guess that's why i got depressed once i tried to change for the first time.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 12:50 AM
1

Any anecdotal experience with that?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 12:45 AM
1

None of these women were above HB4 at best This confirms my theory that women reject reason because they were reinforced to do so by society, because they get the pussy-pass whenever they act like a child. HB4? Too ugly for a pussy-pass.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 12:07 AM
1

Do you think that women resort to emotionally driven impulses more oft than men because society enables them to do so (basically their whole lives)? Most men are betas, most men will react to their every whim as irrational as it may be, while other girls reinforce their goody good feelings, this is what they are taught their whole lives. So it may be nurture rather than nature. On the other hand we have men, there are many men as emotional and infantile as women, but the difference is that men d…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 12:02 AM
2

My sister would tell me im wrong because the words i pick feel immoral
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 02:40 AM
2

I have a passion for listening to music, just like you mentioned of yourself, but getting into a hobby like making it always was too daunting, specially when i was lacking discipline in all other aspects of my life. What I'm wondering is: How important was it to you to develop a passion for that? Because imo i would place "hobbies" as the least important of that list, having a hobby belongs to "self actualization", which is nice and good but i feel like all of the basics must come before it. Tho…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 12:07 AM
1

Okay that's so far off from what i said that there's nothing to reply with.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 07:06 AM
1

What's the passion that you developed? How did you find it and how did you go about it?
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 03:21 AM
1

Thanks for the sound reply, I despise looking at people sparing advice without much justification and seeing someone refute it feels great.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 01:41 AM
1

#4 doesn't apply. #4 is when you do in fact communicate something but little of it, leaving it open to interpretation
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 12:30 AM
1

I could say to a girl I'm talking to, "I'm a funny guy". Or I could have her on the floor laughing at my jokes. The one exception i'd say is when you want to come off as narcissistic/arrogant on purpose.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 12:26 AM
18

I'm starting to believe that women love conflict. Men who are not afraid of creating conflict are alphas, for avoidance is the essence of the beta and nice guy.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 12:04 AM
9

She asked you a question looking to start a fight and then proceeded to start a fight It's a trick question because you can avoid the fight by telling her that you do need her, and there would be no conflict. But no conflict is the bad answer, which is kind of ironic.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 12:02 AM
4

She feels "unloved" "unappreciated" translates to unneeded, they think they want to feel needed because that's their narrative of disneyesque love. But they don't, they'd stop liking you if they felt needed, women truly don't know what they want. They want to have a special meaning to the man they share their life with. This. Women need their magical everything-happens-for-a-reason love (or mentality in general), because living a life of blissful beliefs gives them the most tingles and makes the…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 11:52 PM
2

There must be a secret school that all women attend to learn these questions it blows my fucking mind how some of their shit tests are not even phrased differently. Girls from different countries who have never met, asking the SAME THING with the SAME INTENT and SAME REACTION
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 11:47 PM
1

Just a suggestion. That sounds great, i'll have to do that at some point, i got that yellow fever for the hot ones. Remember that TRP is just like anything else you'll ever learn in life. Absorb what you find useful and what betters your life, but don't follow it like a religion and certainly don't presume things about it (like your vibe that you get). Sound advice. Sometimes, to me, it's hard to be critical about what is worth taking away and what is better to be left alone. Specially because w…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 11:14 PM
3

Ah, i feel like i missed out on january, wish i had found the sub earlier. I will be joining, and I'd like to suggest The Book of Pook, it's extremely red pill and brilliantly written, I've found it way more useful than NMMNG
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 09:50 PM
1

But if you feel unatractive and don't think you can score, your problems might not be directly connected to sexual frustration, but more to your awarness of your SMV. It's my ineptitude when it comes to social situations, but TRP is the toolbox i needed to approach these with confidence.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 09:43 PM
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+1 Sometimes, leading to such a situation where it's all but hopeless that one will change his ways and embrace TRP. This is how I came across TRP
/r/askTRP01/02/16 09:39 PM
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This hits the nail on the head.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 09:36 PM
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Rub one out and watch a TV series This is what people that don't get sex do, all the time.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 09:35 PM
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I've gone months without girls before. Well yeah i wouldn't have a problem with that either, my problem was my previous seemingly eternal and unchangeable state of virginity. But all is well now. It's difficult to understand what's so stressful about staying virgin for so long unless you experienced it yourself. As far as I know I haven't seen TRP tell you to be emotionless with your plates/gfs. That's the vibe i always get from here but you are right.
/r/askTRP01/02/16 09:28 PM
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Nah, I'm just asking because I'm inexperienced. I got one girl to blow me in a playground at night and she seemed so willing that it made me wonder if other girls would be averse to something like that. But that's about it.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 09:19 PM
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We'd get high before a movie in a mall parking lot and she'd suck my dick. Finding girls like this is that rare?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 09:21 AM
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most of the post is left unexplained but that's fine until you get to this part Stop talking about the stupid shit you talk about. Nobody cares about any of it. Stop talking about your feelings, stop talking about your inner thoughts, stop talking. Nobody cares about how you feel or what you think. That opinion on religion or politics you have? Keep it to yourself. That thing you know about some obscure item, event or place? Shut the fuck up about it. Nobody cares. NOBODY CARES. That shit you sa…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 09:07 AM
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I don't feel sorry for them, but it is sad and disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 07:25 AM
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Yes like I said, sometimes they align, sometimes helping society will benefit you more than not helping it, but sometimes you have to be selfish and put yourself and your goals before being kind and generous.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 06:36 AM
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This is not negotiable unless you are already very well in control of your life and how you want to live it. Most people, are not there, and this is non-negotiable if they want to improve.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 06:26 AM
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But I don't think it has to be this way. Had I found TRP and evo psych in my youth I probably would have been able to avoid much pain, stress and drama. what would you have done differently?
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 01:32 AM
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Dude, you're 21! You're not "incel for long enough"... just figure your shit out and do it. You've got decades ahead of you, and (unlike women) there's no rush. Thing is if by 21 you are still a virgin and you have already tried everything you know, the conclusion is that nothing will change in the next 10 years, that's what kills you psychologically, specially being aware that for other people sex is something normal since they are 17. But worry not, finding TRP was the equivalent of being give…
/r/askTRP01/02/16 01:19 AM
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Not returning the favor makes you selfish not a failure. A dark triad leader puts himself before everyone, that gives him power, it may also create opportunities for others as well as suffering, but it doesn't make him a failure. If society recognizes you as selfish and unhelpful they'll turn against you, that's why helping and complying to it may be helpful [to you in a completely self-interested way], but it'll never give you as much power ( it won't benefit you as much) as putting yourself be…
/r/TheRedPill01/02/16 12:55 AM
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believing the n number is not wrong, if you know someone well enough you can be very certain of their sincerity, specially in the bp world where women are made to believe in their open sexuality and that there's nothing wrong with it.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 11:43 AM
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1 is what other people want you to believe is important, while 2 is what really matters. Sometimes you can align both together, sometimes you cannot. If you are not me I should tell you that society is important, but if I want the best for myself I must put myself above all others.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 11:35 AM
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this is awful, it's like you can't enjoy what you want without paying one hell of a price for it /after/ you enjoy it. It's like a deal with the devil, what the hell, it isn't fair
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 11:30 AM
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Repetition is the key to success
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 11:20 AM
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I'd be one of them, with time you learn that sometimes it's better to simply save your energy because you already know the outcome, pick your battles; arguing with someone who doesn't understand basic discussion format or can't recognize reliable information, is a fool's game.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 11:08 AM
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Yes, sex itself involves a lot of intimacy and that's why it feels like the answer to said loneliness. Also why I am so against the idea of getting a hooker, because the intimacy is lost, it becomes the same as masturbation; I may be wrong but that's how I feel about it.
/r/askTRP31/01/16 10:08 AM
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oh I had no idea they had more material. That line though, that's clever. It gives me this feeling that I can go play tinder IRL, it's the equivalent of swiping someone right but without the internet-safe-shield which makes it better. This is actually great for me since I rarely have a chance to naturally meet girls in any of the places I frequent, i.e. this opens so many opportunities, basically anyone I see, wtf sounds too good.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 09:59 AM
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I started reading the book of pook the other day and one of the very first things it says is exactly what you are saying, "inaction is always more painful than action, regret is always worse than rejection". It sounds so simple and straightforward but to me it was the least obvious, outlandish even, and I'm sure to a lot of other people too. I've lived my life thinking that all conflict is bad and happiness comes from living conflict-free, which translates to avoidance and wasting my time doing …
/r/askTRP31/01/16 09:23 AM
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You're 21, you'll find plenty of lovers. Also - you don't need women. Thanks man, right now I do think this and it is great, but with my previous mentality hearing this was the equivalent of being told I was a nice guy and I just had to wait for the right girl to come along. Sex is nice. But it's not everything. Don't make it the focus of your world. Your happiness must never depend on anything from anyone else, ever. Or you'll find you lose it at their convenience. I definitely agree, I think t…
/r/askTRP31/01/16 08:55 AM
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Thanks and you are right, usually it starts with motivation but after making no progress and losing hope it turns into depression, if the situation is sticky enough you don't get to choose otherwise. This happened to me because my blue pill method is all I knew and faced with failure I thought I just had to blue pill harder until I tried hard enough that it worked, it did not. Driving me mad and depressed. TRP gave me a new mindset, new tools that actually work, it feels like I was trying to bui…
/r/askTRP31/01/16 08:41 AM
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Right, I forget that's part of the essence of this sub.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 08:14 AM
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Lover = person one can be intimate with, at least sexually, possibly also emotionally, doesn't have to be "the one", just someone one can be intimate with. By 'no-sex' I mean being an incel, once an incel long enough I lost all hope of ever finding a gf (what i considered emotional intimacy at the time) nor simple sex (physical intimacy) and I'm afraid it made me extremely depressed. I think I must point out that there is a big difference between not having something v.s. not having hope of ever…
/r/askTRP31/01/16 08:10 AM
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obsession always breeds unhealthy habits no matter what symptom you pick
/r/askTRP29/01/16 01:58 PM
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I learned absolutely nothing from simple pickup (the youtube channel i guess?) other than you can get a girl's number by doing anything silly
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 10:50 AM
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to be fair the title was very reaction-inducing
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 10:38 AM
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knowledge and truth cannot be ascribed morality
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 10:35 AM
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One of the best influences for children is the regular play of competitive games. That assumption is a massive stretch, 99% of the time the main focus of these games is to outsmart your opponent by playing the game (not the player), rarely will anyone ever (specially children) think about manipulating the other player unless they are naturally Machiavellian.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/16 10:27 AM
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you don't need proof to feel this way
/r/askTRP28/01/16 09:29 PM
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"no?" while laughing about it, u kno with that "lolwhat" tone as if their reaction was awkward. And you can make someone uncomfortable by making them over-explain their reaction as well. "what do you mean no?" it's not AA but pressure flip works too
/r/askTRP28/01/16 08:57 PM
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But indulging in making them mad feels great
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 11:05 AM
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It's not a lie if you are just keeping the info to yourself. As I see it the optimal situation is where they don't have the least idea on whether you could be a provider or not, that way you make sure nothing of what they do is motivated by their bux craving instincts. But that's just the ideal situation you might as well just not care about it.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 07:08 PM
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I assumed, but why would it be any different? I'm almost sure there were as many betas as there are today
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 07:06 PM
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This reminds me of my dad, highly successful, admired by many in the business world, great leader. But when he is in mundane social situations he is the kind to mutter a joke and then pretend he didn't say anything when no one heard him, he'll do what my mother tells him to do, hell get mad at the things my mother tells him to get mad, and to me he has never been more than a stranger with whom I cohabit.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 07:04 PM
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bad, why would you be honest? random bar slut doesn't deserve that much
/r/askTRP22/01/16 08:07 AM
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you must be new if you don't know what beta bux encompasses
/r/askTRP22/01/16 07:58 AM
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you guys are missing the point, it's not about showing her that you are alpha, it's about not showing her that you could provide the bux
/r/askTRP22/01/16 07:35 AM
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OP read this http://therationalmale.com/2011/09/01/sexual-fluidity/ it doesn't explain why women are so much more bisexual than men but it does provide some insight, specially to your question "why do women suddenly decide they are dykes"
/r/askTRP22/01/16 07:29 AM
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thanks pal
/r/askTRP22/01/16 05:13 AM
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the distribution seems to shift to either of the two extremes. This shows that principles go a long way. Yours are strong and aligned with reality? You become the best version of yourself because you will be set on a path of constant improvement even if it is small. You got a weak mentality? You are only going to spin downwards into mediocrity. There's no middle point or if there is it would be a very odd one because you would need qualities from two opposing/conflicting mentalities. I'd rather …
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 05:07 AM
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I hypothesized that the reason why the system is as it is, is because of the 20-80 dynamic. When only the 20% top of men are fucking a lot of women, they are probably the only ones RP aware, what happens with the other 80%? They probably buy into the BP narrative. That means that even though most of the high end positions in the system (legal or any other) are filled by men, the majority of these men will be BP, buying into the female imperative and making institutions like marriage the female-c…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 04:58 AM
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Let me show you where you are wrong. I've been in groups of guys where we would all identify as "beta" yet everyone in there will harshly reject any sort of RP knowledge. I found it amusing myself because I, myself, acted like this, fully knowing that i was beta and that chads get all the girls, yet rationalizing at every whim anything that would make a girl's basis for attraction seem shallow because "That's not fair, i will find a girlfriend who likes me for my strong character and caring pers…
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 04:54 AM
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Seems like the basis for the dominant/submissive dynamic relies on availability
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 04:48 AM
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You are the one who have to take responsibility, women are incapable and don't want to do it, you have the one with the balls, not her. I wonder if the basis for this is that women have the luxury to take the passive role, considering everyone would prefer the easy way, i.e. (almost) everyone would take the easy (passive) path at something were they given the luxury to do it.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 04:46 AM
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Yes! Good narrative goes far Edit: From reading the comments people undervalue and overlook the power of good rhetoric
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 04:34 AM
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the benefits this does to your alertness is awesome. hey can you tell me about this?
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 04:32 AM
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all this craving and unsatisfaction arises telling me I need to bang her that's not beta nor alpha, those are your instincts telling you "GOOD GENES NEED FUCK"
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 04:25 AM
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GDP talks the girl into doing this (to get the "proof pics"), GDP gets lots of advertisement and the girl gets a gofundme, probably the deal they made. Or they just asked for the "proof pics" beforehand and are also keeping the gofundme themselves
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 03:34 AM
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GDP talks the girl into doing this, GDP gets lots of advertisement and the girl gets a gofundme, probably the deal they made.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 03:03 AM
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Trying to picture the motion in my head is hard, i would have to separate my hands while giving the hug
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 01:45 AM
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ok
/r/askTRP22/01/16 01:43 AM
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where can i read more about push-pull btw?
/r/askTRP21/01/16 10:49 PM
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where can i read more about it
/r/askTRP21/01/16 10:49 PM
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I take it you are not very tall?
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 10:27 PM
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My man you are misunderstanding, that's a very different context. OP is not in a relationship with this girl. Now about those values and morals, i do appreciate people with strong values and morals, but as i see it something such as sincerity makes you vulnerable, and people have to earn and show they deserve my sincerity, it's a gradual process. The world is cruel and selfless and as such you have to play the world or the world will play you.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 07:22 AM
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If she actually wanted a direct answer she would dig for it. Besides information is for the with-holder to decide if it is worth giving, and that's 100% fair. Besides why would you selflessly give away the possibility of having what you want? They would not do this for you.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 06:55 AM
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step all over me like that except she did not, you allowed it and it's your fault
/r/askTRP20/01/16 06:45 AM
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and let them broach the topic of commitment. isn't it the rule for guys to make the moves though? i.e. be the ones that ask if she wants to date
/r/askTRP20/01/16 06:39 AM
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It's 100% your fault and you cannot expect her to be in charge of not hurting your feelings, what are you a child?
/r/askTRP20/01/16 06:34 AM
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Having an ass has nothing to do with your hip to waist ratio
/r/askTRP20/01/16 06:23 AM
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Perhaps? Something like that where you do more pull than push at the start, and as her attraction for you grows you do less pull (and perhaps more push but not excessively), making emphasis on selectively choosing when to apply the pull.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 06:07 AM
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Woah there buddy you are the sole responsible person on how you spend your time. There's some overlap between emotional reactions and immaturity so it confuses me a bit.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 05:57 AM
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can you expand on what you mean by building comfort and how the relation between comfort and breaking rapport works?
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:55 AM
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Do you want to beg for nudes or do you want to fuck a girl? Only use texting for logistics.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:38 AM
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If she were honorable and she didn't want to let you know the truth the very least she could have done would have been to turn down your question. She did not. She lies because she wants you to like her, likewise she will lie when she wants something (or someone) else.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:33 AM
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She could have simply turned down the question if she was one not to lie
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:31 AM
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Oh I would have thought they wouldn't be keeping a deal like that once you turn them down.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 02:26 AM
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Oh! I misread it, i understand now. I thought you said that they agreed on being exclusive to you while you were not exclusive to them.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 06:30 PM
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Ah yes exactly, I'm the same, now just got to... find a girl that thinks like that... hah...
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 06:27 PM
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I think friendship (brotherly love) can happen the same regardless of gender, it just becomes so much more complicated with women because of all the ulterior interests at stake, similar to combining work and friends and how it can cause conflict; but like a double edged sword it involves more risk but the reward is also more satisfying. Whether with a guy you won't be seeking sex or commitment or resources (well maybe) so it's easier to be genuine with each other, but still, you are usually boun…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 11:15 AM
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Also more likely to commit school shootings boop
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 11:02 AM
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You are right that those with stable happy relationships are never going to end up finding their way to this place through google. But you are wrong to believe that the RP mindset is anything but the best way to approach the gender dynamic. Also divorce being at around 40% is still very high, and it goes without saying that just because people are married doesn't mean they have a good marriage, considering how mediocre the average person is i'd say that over 50% of the married non-divorced peopl…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 10:54 AM
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It was kind of like Mormonism is today; if you could afford 1 wife +kids, thats how many you got. If you could afford 6 wives + children, thats how many you got. How great would it be that the social norm were that women have to be monogamous but men don't, and having women get shamed if they did otherwise.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 10:37 AM
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Stability for society required women to be unable to provision for themselves without a man. This is waaay too much of an assumption
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 10:35 AM
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all you are really risking is getting your feelings hurt down the line. Boo friggin hoo. Honestly it can be a huge risk depending on how invested you are, the issue is that after certain point it becomes extremely hard to control how much you invest because the more you invest the more emotionally rewarding the relationship feels.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 10:25 AM
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Do you think there's a point where if you find someone of high enough SMV you wouldn't care if you were to find someone else of higher SMV because the difference becomes negligible? Where you would risk more by leaving behind the depth of your relationship to try your luck on someone new? At least I feel this way but I seem to be alone. The weakspot to this is that if their SMV lowers then you (or them) won't feel this way anymore.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 10:21 AM
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And yes most of my plates did agree to being exclusive and ok with me seeing other girls including this one. How do you negotiate this with your plates? How do you put it into words to them?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 10:04 AM
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Goes to show how BP media is
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 09:53 AM
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companionship should be sought-after among our male friends you can not be as affectionate with men as you can with women though and that makes a big difference, at least to me, on how fulfilling the companionship can be.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 09:20 AM
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perhaps the difference could be that one girl fucks you out of attraction and the other one fucks you without it, and the quality of girls that you could get
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 09:40 PM
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I agree, I'm mostly thinking of when the internet was not a common tool, like the environment in which my parents were raised and so they may have the best of intentions but make lots of mistakes. And i guess it would be much harder for someone that has already built their lives around certain morals and beliefs to change their mind, because to them their hamstering "worked" to build the lives that they are 'happy' with. It's still immature and egocentric to turn a blind eye to things you disagr…
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 09:39 PM
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Children get a free pass because they haven't lived to form any sort of criteria, and even then you still discipline them when they are immature. Why would women get a free pass just because? They've had a lifetime to reflect upon. Sure expressing feelings is okay, say if she gets emotional, but being impulsive is different, it's what separates immature from mature. Is she being emotional? That's fine. Is she being impulsive beyond reason? Red flag.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 09:30 PM
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I'm always confused when people compare prostitution to getting laid by a "normal" girl. Do you guys see it as the same?
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 06:23 PM
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Isn't immaturity the same as disrespect in the eyes of the receiver? Feeling disrespected (i.e. knowing you deserve more respect than you are getting) is not the same as feeling offended.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 06:13 PM
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That's good abundance mentality (or lifestyle), I am however still interested in getting nudes, at least for now, so i try to positively reinforce them whenever they comply. Although I'm not sure what to do when they send them without asking, on one hand i appreciate it on the other i want to be the one that sets the pace because that's what makes them attracted and obedient.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 08:08 PM
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What about men who can get to fuck a lot of women but given the option they'd rather have a solid LTR? Isn't that against their instincts? Even though it's kind of an instinct itself.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 08:04 PM
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Perhaps the concept of unconditional loyalty per se is flawed, only a fool would be loyal to someone who was once admirable but has lost all of its admirable qualities, like a king gone mad. So you must be as willing to acknowledge when the relationship no longer benefits you, and to know when it would be better for you to walk away, as she is willing to do the same, it shows self respect (self interest). I guess the issue is when you like her so much that you build puppy/blind/unconditional lov…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 08:03 PM
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They can't stop feeling/acting this way, any more than a child can control their emotions. Couldn't a girl can grow and mature to be in control of her emotions the same way that a child can grow into a wise person? The thing is that society panders down to women so much that they've been taught they do not need to grow up and mature, they can get away with being an emotionally childish creature throughout their whole lives, so they are excused when they get "emotional" (read: impulsive). It's no…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 06:50 PM
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This could be considered a shit test where you have to command respect. Basically by pandering down to her emotional nonsense you are stating that you put up with shit, she knows that she is being irrational, women often are conscious when they do something morally wrong the same way a child crying for candy knows the right thing would be not to eat the candy. But by reinforcing her behavior you are showing that you do not respect yourself enough to put your feet on the ground and say "I deserve…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 06:37 PM
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My own mother does this shit to me a lot, and since it's been like that since i was a little kid i had no idea how to react. The worst is seeing my own father falling for it every damn time. He whiteknights her whenever she is acting irrationally mad at someone, it's absurd.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 06:29 PM
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This makes me think that the institutions like the church weren't so irrational when trying to make something such as contraception "sin". It is as if they knew that the gender dynamics worked better in the old traditional environment.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 05:23 PM
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How do you make it so the daughter learns that what she did was wrong? Rather than make her learn that she was not manipulative/sneaky enough about her deeds.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 05:15 PM
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his sounds like something people say to some smart. Pseudo-intellectual bullshit. Not really, it actually sounds like an excuse to make it seem like it's not something that happens often, as if it was an accident rather than her showing her true colors.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 05:10 PM
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What about people that just never really had the chance to learn any better? Perhaps they are in fact well intentioned? Say, they lived in a closed bluepill community and they never found a good enough reason to question themselves nor had access to opposing views.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 05:00 PM
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Yes same over here, i wish i found TRP when i was 16
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 04:55 PM
1

Is it weird that sometimes I use women for some sort of "emotional cushioning", mostly venting my thoughts/complain, it's kind of a mutualistic relationship.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 04:49 PM
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By sexual talks do you mean like phone-sex or like talking about the subject of sex?
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 04:47 PM
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Imo relationships should be based on the basis that having close social relationships makes you happy and that a LTR should be the epitome of an emotionally close relationship. So unless you have one flat personality and you aren't continuously growing, you would always have something new to offer.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 04:43 PM
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Unless you want her to send more nudes
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 04:37 PM
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I'm curious on what's the other side of the coin, what male's mating strategy looks like. Because from what i've read men are supposed to want to fuck as many women as they can, but at the same time there are the ones settling for relationships.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/16 04:23 PM
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I'm not endorsing it as a strategy I'm just curious.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 09:04 PM
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Yes, i really want to know what happens in this kind of situation, so get your buddy as far as you can, you know, for science.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 09:04 PM
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There's a margin you can play around though, where they'll say "oh well it's not exactly what i thought but it's still a good deal"
/r/askTRP15/01/16 08:16 PM
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I've just been very inept and negligent my whole life when it comes to this so i figured some main basic markers would make it easier for me before i try to figure it all out from zero, definitely plan on practicing because otherwise it's worthless to just know, thanks
/r/askTRP15/01/16 08:14 PM
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Hypothetical situation: He no longer has the abs but he does have the talking, do you think she would exit once he takes his shirt off?
/r/askTRP15/01/16 08:04 PM
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Books/theory reading on body language? (eye movement, the placement of your hands, your posture, your vocal tonality, etc) I want some knowledge as a starting point before i go out and analyse/experience it myself
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 08:01 PM
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If you have to ask us then you are not ready to have a gf
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 05:13 AM
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Exactly, it's important to know when the right point for polarization is, not too early not too late.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 03:44 AM
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This is why i think a little bit of tact doesn't hurt, specially at the start, going all "Come to my place now" will come off overly aggressive and might scare some since you don't know the person beforehand ("this guy is from the internet they might be dangerous")
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 03:43 AM
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It proves self control though, besides the rare case in which circumstances have been coincidental to enable a low partner count. Because being tempted and fantasizing isn't something exclusive to the female gender.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 05:51 AM
1

I heard someone mention something about cold showers before going out and doing things and i was gonna give it a try, now you've convinced me to start doing it and stick to it.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 02:03 AM
2

This is how it is with any addiction.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 01:46 AM
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I've tried the don't think do but being extremely critical i have to rationalize why before i end up rationalizing why not.
/r/askTRP14/01/16 01:38 AM
1

causes inflammation What does it mean by inflammation? Getting fat?
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 01:15 AM
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TRP is amazing, i personally barely found about it about a week ago but my general mindset has done an absolute 360 and i feel more SELF-motivated than i've ever been in the past 3 years (and probably my whole life). It would take me a while to articulate why this is, but i just wanted to mention this much.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 03:54 AM
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At what point did you realize that you didn't want to be married anymore and what changed from when you used to (really) want it back when you got married thinking it was a good idea?
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 03:05 AM
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If you want to have children what does RP suggest? Is having children without marrying a good deal?
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 02:58 AM
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agreed
/r/askTRP12/01/16 09:28 PM
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Yes. I think some girls get tingles from being "cared for" emotionally, and that's what Barry tries to exploit, but that's weak sauce so it rarely ever works and doesn't get them very far, not to mention if it gets them anywhere it's only temporal and the girl will quickly get bored of Barry since that's all he can do.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 06:39 PM
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Fair enough, I think smiling back at him is kind of sympathizing tho and not completely dismissive.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 02:40 AM
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I just smile. I got nothing. Can't fuck with that kind of aggressive self-confidence. This doesn't sound like it at all, sounds like you were afraid of his self-confidence and choked on how to reply.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 01:25 AM
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This video is wonderful, bless you
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 12:43 AM
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Would you mind to explain why?
/r/askTRP12/01/16 12:32 AM
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shit. "She let's me entertain her and doesn't reciprocrate with anything of value in return." right, i feel like im in a weird spot because she lives far and i'll meet her soon so it might turn into actual fucking, so for now i still keep in contact with her a bunch
/r/askTRP11/01/16 10:46 PM
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Yep just "hey" is not gonna help you measure your SMV as "fuck" will
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 10:32 PM
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I've been explicit (very)
/r/askTRP11/01/16 10:18 PM
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It's a bit of a weird situation because she lives far and i'll meet her somewhat soon so she might still give me that V access considering how flirty we've been with each other. But i guess you are right for the most part.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 10:03 PM
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I mean you are being nitpicky at the words, a girl not interested in yourself wouldn't /let/ you flirt with her, as in she wouldn't reciprocate and could even react negatively, no matter how u look at the power thing. Her telling you about other guys is disrespectful This is what i thought thanks tho
/r/askTRP11/01/16 10:01 PM
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Personally i'd enjoy myself in either position so i don't feel doomed but i was wondering nonetheless
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 09:59 PM
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are guys with a fetish for being dominated in bed doomed?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 09:32 PM
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No LTR just a girl that sends me nudes sometimes and stuff, she lives far but i'll visit her soon and might get lucky. She's nice to talk to but i've seen girls do this before and idgi. This one specifically talked about how some dude had a very nice ass after he sent her a pic and how she felt "blessed". So idk, do i just completely ignore it and change the subject or is there something else to do? Edit: im 20 soon 21
/r/askTRP11/01/16 09:24 PM
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You may think he is an idiot, but someone like Barry whose SMV is so low, meaningful conversation may be his best shot at scoring
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 06:59 PM
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don't be such a pansy fuck
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 06:49 PM
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dude the examples noted on these posts are so real they make me laugh hysterically
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 06:48 PM
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would it be wrong to start reading into these before finishing the sidebar reading?
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 06:00 PM
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What's the 100% fucking response? All in unison, gentlemen, say it with me: "I dunno". this cracked me up, it's funny because i always ask them that question before giving them some options because why not, and it's always the EXACT SAME
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 05:40 PM
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I'm confused by this rule of rank 2: Women who are not exclusive to you. Exclusive in what sense? It sounds like the way you'd be exclusive to someone once you are in a relationship, but rank 2 is not relationship rank.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 07:52 AM
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Oh no i didn't mean petty like that, i was calling the girl's behavior as petty. And A&A makes sense, a stupid question does not deserve a honest answer, and you kind of let them know that the question is out of line by not giving them an answer.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:41 PM
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Actually makes me think of the delusions us men go through, upon hearing something like this at first you think "hey, but maybe... this is something good right?" even though once paying close attention it's very clear what she implies.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 07:34 PM
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Gotcha, I've given a sincere response to this and it seems to not matter in the spur of the moment though, but i guess that's bc i gave it zero importance.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 06:16 AM
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Not even close to being in this situation but this is eye opening
/r/askTRP07/01/16 04:56 AM
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When in doubt, Agree & Amplify. True, this is the kind of thing that i haven't really thought about because to me it's petty behaviour, but it's good to know what gives the best impression. Literally anything will work as long as you say it with a soothing, masculine tone and steer the vibes toward sex. An important note for moving past shit tests: don't linger on the subject! yep i definitely do this so i guess that's why my reply doesn't really matter, I usually just act somewhat puzzled in a …
/r/askTRP07/01/16 03:17 AM
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Good tip ty. And hmmm I'll be sure to leave the worry behind, but for now im just being cautious because I feel like the reasons i've messed up before with girls is because of things i've done rather than things that i haven't done, makes sense?
/r/askTRP07/01/16 12:48 AM
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you should know what she wants pretty fast after meeting her Right, even though that sucks if i dont get the reaction i want Try kissing her as fast as possible. The more time you spend togeather the more time you can fuck up. interesting way to look at it, up to a point i feel it's important to build up the attraction/tension before that point though, but i hadnt thought about how going past that time would mess it up thanks
/r/askTRP06/01/16 10:15 AM
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Does she intend for you to support her in her old age? This is a very important question. what would each answer (yes/no) imply?
/r/askTRP06/01/16 10:09 AM
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The acronym list is kind of hidden at the bottom of the wiki, y'all could put it in the sidebar. Cheers.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/16 07:24 AM
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ah that's really funny. I guess you are kind of right, at the very least TRP knowledge will make me cautious. I think the catch is that if you think your judging skills are up to par to tell the quality women apart, but they are actually not, then you'll never know which are the quality women, it would be impossible to you, and you'll be led to believe they don't exist since you swore on your life she was (the) one.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 06:44 AM
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Well the reason for that is that those in a happy LTR/marriage wont be driven to look up TRP, let alone post in it. Who are the ones that end up finding about this place? Mostly the ones that have experienced the bitter side of the coin. So even though TRP is not wrong when it comes to knowledge, their fatalistic attitude probably stems from this. I don't think that the fear is unwarranted but I share the feeling that it's a bit exaggerated.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/16 06:29 AM
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Valuable information for the future thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/16 06:22 AM
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Good point, male hamster is wicked Could end up wasting four years I don't understand this way of thinking though, if you are in a relationship it would be because you enjoy it, and if you are enjoying yourself it means you are not wasting your time?
/r/askTRP06/01/16 05:41 AM
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Thank you for being sincere. I've also never had a group of people who I feel like I can really rely on and talk to I feel you on this one, in a world where people are so bland and shitty it makes sense to want a gf to fill that space in your life.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 05:39 AM
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ty
/r/askTRP06/01/16 05:36 AM
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I agree feels nice to know someone thinks the same. it'll be your last if you don't slip out of redial thinking i dont understand what you mean with this sentence.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 05:35 AM
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What's a SAHW? i cant seem to find a glossary on this sub
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/16 05:25 AM
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I remember when i first came across TRP long ago and this was the post i found and it was so harshly worded i shied away from it
/r/askTRP04/01/16 09:31 AM
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Btw what makes someone an endorsed contributor?
/r/askTRP04/01/16 07:30 AM
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Yeah it seems like the kind of thing that you'd have to try yourself if you want one, telling someone not to because anecdotal experience seems futile. And it seems there are red pillers who enjoy being in one, which says something about it. I'm afraid this doesn't align very well with the mission of TRP (maybe that's why my post got downvoted?) but TRP wisdom seems like it could help if you are looking for one so i'm curious.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 07:29 AM
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well 9s alone hard to find, 7s that havent been conditioned into the blue pill bullshit are hard to find, now imagine how much more difficult it would be to find a 9 that hasnt been blue pilled and socially conditioned, specially considering the excessive amount of attention they may get and therefore entitlement that they may develop.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 06:36 AM
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This makes me wonder, at what point do you let yourself fall in love with the girl? Is it after she demonstrates that she is actually valuable and not another drone? Or before that? Or perhaps you just never do. And honestly i think i just answered my own question while writing it down. But I'm still posting this because thought process. Going for the second option would be like playing Russian roulette where every slot of the gun has a bullet except for one of them, you are just setting yoursel…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 05:46 AM
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Just to give some context, a lot of MGTOW seem to be men that have had relationships, or were even married, and got harshly fucked over by the girls (say something like divorce after years of marriage and losing the court cases or whatever), so you can see why they would want to completely walk away from the whole dating scene. At the very least they seem to agree on having zero desire for any sort of commitment and having no internest in the social game, but besides that they each behave differ…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 03:58 AM
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It's carrying out actions not as a means to an end, but instead for the action itself. i think this is the right mentality to achieve things, not doing them because of the goal but because of the activity itself, but it's really hard to actually put it into practice, at least for me. If you provide the reasons as to why you feel the need to seek others approval, I can try to break it down logically for you. Now that you mention it I'm not sure why i need it, all feelings are irrational i guess s…
/r/MGTOW04/01/16 12:28 AM
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Thanks for the long reply. even if you date or marry, I think it's smart to read about relationship experiences on here that guys have had. Learn from them, so you can BE CAREFUL with dating and relationships 100% agree, this is where i think that looking at the red pill posts might be very useful, to spot women's manipulative behavior which can be so extremely subtle, and i think there's a lot of wisdom around those forums. But at the same time it makes me very conflicted because TRP seems to b…
/r/MGTOW03/01/16 09:37 PM
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most women don't want to give it or don't even know how shit that's true
/r/MGTOW03/01/16 09:24 PM
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True, i kinda had an idea of what you said but i never really put it together. I think this kind of confirms my bias that people are often bland and lacking, since they are always trying to show off for the other gender and forget about developing their own personalities, but i may be speculating too much into it. At least as far as social gatherings go, there's often that uneasy feeling that people are competing rather than trying to enjoy themselves and the other people around them, and this i…
/r/MGTOW03/01/16 09:23 PM
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just that women and men both have got the potential to be shit True, makes total sense
/r/MGTOW03/01/16 09:11 PM
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Ah when you put it like that it's really crazy how women with such a vile mindset can do. Good video. I guess it's extremely hard to find genuinely caring and moral people, which obviously includes women.
/r/MGTOW03/01/16 09:09 PM
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Any validation that doesn't derive from yourself is pointless How do you self validate? That sounds impossible to me you have no idea, it sounds like some buddhist-monk kind of thing. but I don't feel lonely at all what a blessing
/r/MGTOW03/01/16 10:15 AM
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You do have to find a way to keep yourself distracted from the reality of the world: life is lonely and disappointing. that sounds exactly like what i've been trying to do all these years, i think that's called escapism, and it yields nothing good
/r/MGTOW03/01/16 10:11 AM
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A woman's validation is almost always pointless for anything other than being validated by women And it makes me feel fuzzy and warm inside u.u If you feel "lonely" by all means, socialize, but socialize with people who add value to your life. I've held this mantra for a long while now, but it has led me into isolation you see, i haven't met many people, but from the handful that i have (not so few not so many, i do what i can to meet new people), only extremely few give me that feeling of fulfi…
/r/MGTOW03/01/16 10:09 AM
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that's 100% understandable
/r/MGTOW03/01/16 10:02 AM
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A lot of religious people aren't actually completely obedient, they will be used to committing sin and then repenting about it anyway. Doesn't mean that they don't believe in their religion.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 09:39 AM
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Thanks for the reply, the lawful misandry does seem really bad but, why do you avoid LTRs altogether?
/r/MGTOW31/12/15 04:12 PM
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ah this makes sense. How come no one wants to be in any sort of relationship? I could see someone who does not align with society's expected behavior and ideals, but that would want a relationship with someone on his own terms.
/r/MGTOW31/12/15 02:43 PM
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That's kind of insightful despite being far from the question. So I think i misunderstood MGTOW, as you put it, it seems that it is more about leaving the expected path of central family that society focuses on so badly, rather than just getting rid of the desire for relationships with women?
/r/MGTOW31/12/15 02:39 PM
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Your attachment to your beliefs does not change the nature of reality. That's true but to imply that you can know everything that encompasses reality is arrogant, so beliefs are set on what you assume to be possible or not, considering it's the kind of thing that you cannot truly prove.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/15 02:26 PM
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It's not just about getting attention, it's about getting affection as well. How does MGTOW feel about that? Or is it the same?
/r/MGTOW31/12/15 12:59 PM
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