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| 1 | This girl who lives next door to my apartment and has a boyfriend keeps dropping hints that she's alone while he's at workWhy free meal? I don't understand... are you starving? Why would he do such a thing? I feel like I'm missing some context here... | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 06:24 AM |
| – | How do I start having a sex life?Get involved on campus. Join clubs. Run for a leadership position. Open as many doors as you can. | /r/seduction | 13/10/19 11:23 AM |
| 2 | where the FUCK does my FUCKING voice go?Downloaf and listen to vocal training: "the perfect voice". | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 04:06 PM |
| 2 | This stuff is really workingWhat a great post. Keep moving forward friend. | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 04:57 AM |
| 2 | I (22M) have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a girl. Can someone help me please?If you need signs of interest before approaching, that's not courage. But you're in a catch 22 - Courage comes from confidence based on success. The way to build that success is to try, and fail, And know you're not going to win them all, but the more you try, the more you'll win. Try. | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 04:38 AM |
| 3 | Easy Confidence Hack, Yet Most Don't Do ItBeing well dressed and physically fit are non-negotiable prerequisites. | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 04:33 AM |
| 1 | I am 16 and I always feel lost. I think I’m good looking but it’s just that I have no Idea how to escalate an conversationJust read a lot about conversation. And try. Find a safe place where you won't feel self conscious about yourself. And try, fail, fail, fail, try. Be interesting. Be interested. Also, being a good conversationalist comes from a lot of investing in yourself as well: People are interested in talking to someone who is passionate about something. Learn about body language. Practice reading others. I had my head up my ass until.... well at least twice your age. If you're even trying to better yoursel… | /r/seduction | 24/09/19 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Why do people tell me about working out? My genetics are too bad for it.Proper nutrition. | /r/seduction | 12/07/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Can’t f*cking approach (rant)Just do it bra. After 6 times you won't died and it Wil just get easy. | /r/seduction | 08/07/19 09:00 PM |
| 0 | How should you answer a woman when she asks you how many girls youve been with, when the answer is zero, without her losing interest in you?You have to own that shit. Make yourself her adventure...... And if you ain't done it before, she will be able to tell. So own it if it comes up. | /r/seduction | 28/06/19 04:22 AM |
| 2 | Daygame approach women unfamiliar with your language?TY! | /r/seduction | 26/06/19 03:04 AM |
| 2 | Daygame approach women unfamiliar with your language?Ok. Good. Where to go from there? Invite directly to coffee? | /r/seduction | 26/06/19 01:58 AM |
| 1 | I'm super social but I have a lack of success in gameThis describes me. Social, fit, confident.... And no success getting to the finish line. | /r/seduction | 24/06/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | "I don't t think you're ready to share your hear with a man yet"Update: I eventually forced the issue. Told her that it was going nowheres and we shouldn't talk. She texted me 20 times, pictures of her self and her family.... seemed to be understanding-seeking. But also confirmed that she was "focused on work" right now and it wasn't the right time for her. This has been instructive. And I REALLY appreciate the feedback in this thread about not getting strung along. You guys are great. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 23/06/19 03:03 PM |
| 1 | "I don't t think you're ready to share your hear with a man yet"I have not replied since her admission of lying about her age. Letting her stew. She has important meeting today. Will ignore her admission and reply later and ask how meeting was. After casual exchange will text the following: """" About the age lie It is fine Stella Please know I have always been honest with you. I do not judge you and appreciate you for who you are, even if you are not perfect. And I am not perfect either. But I don't think I am the right person for you and don't want to wast… | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | "I don't t think you're ready to share your hear with a man yet"Duly noted. Let's see where it goes? Will update. | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | "I don't t think you're ready to share your hear with a man yet"Great advice. Upon further reflection I've not spent a lot of time or money on her and it costs little to play along. Forcing the issue is unnecesssry. I ghosted her for a few days and got a big apology today about her lying about her age ( I Do not care). Trying to figure out how best to leverage that guilt. | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Seeking advice on next move with married woman after lukewarm parting.Sage advice. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 04:59 AM |
| 1 | "I don't t think you're ready to share your hear with a man yet"Oh. Fair advice. Yes, I've been reading tons, and trying tons. Still building the experience, and as you observer it's not natural yet. | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Never approached a girl in my life, how on earth do I start off? In particular finding introverted types?Seduction is about moving past the looks, and building your appeal in other ways. Reluctance to approach is unappealing. My suggestions will build your confidence. Why are you making this about looks? You sound stuck. Unstuck yourself. | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 04:58 AM |
| 1 | "I don't t think you're ready to share your hear with a man yet"AWESOME. I appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 04:57 AM |
| 1 | "I don't t think you're ready to share your hear with a man yet"Awesome. I appreciate the strong position you take. How much has this proven true for you? | /r/seduction | 11/06/19 04:56 AM |
| – | Calming nerves for date? I don't even understand why I'm nervousBreathe, in through the nose, out through the mouth. Do equal count both ways. Do for 5 minutes. And do more dates....and just enjoy them for what they are. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 05:17 PM |
| – | I friendzoned her. Is she now showing interest?What is the seddit advice to say when a woman says she's not sleeping with You? | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 12:29 PM |
| 1 | "I don't t think you're ready to share your hear with a man yet"Naw ur missing the point. Have no need, but not interested in investing much more. The PUA theory I've read says it's either gonna happen or it isn't and adding time does does increase chances. True? | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 02:14 AM |
| 0 | "I don't t think you're ready to share your hear with a man yet"4 dates now. 2 coffee and two walking in the park. Feeling her resistance to getting physical, reluctant to invest more, and wondering if I should just force the issue. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 02:02 AM |
| – | Never approached a girl in my life, how on earth do I start off? In particular finding introverted types?Start with"Hi". Pick a day. Walk around. Say "Hi" to every person you pass. Do not bob your head. Smile and give then love with every greeting. Every single person. And you will not die. Let us know how it goes. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Can dieting affect your game?Diet shouldn't leave you hungry. Try keto. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 01:50 PM |
| 2 | PerplexedDear friend. Our situations are similar. Know you are not alone. | /r/seduction | 09/06/19 01:46 PM |
| 1 | I lost 15 lbs ,and now I get a lot of attention.Lost 30 in last few months. The difference in attention is huge. | /r/seduction | 08/06/19 04:52 AM |
| 1 | How would you handle this situation, I'm torn in half.She could have attachment issues. Ditching you before you ditch her. Send her ONE communication stating that you like her, and want to spend time with her. Demonstrate commitment to spending time with her without being needy. It's a fine line. Also mention if no contact us what she really wishes, you will honor that. That's my suggestion. Do others like this? | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Being a fat guy fucking sucks for datingFat automatically disqualifies you. Solve it. Keto is the path to quick loss. Also work to determine the emotional causes of your fat. But for now, Keto. I lost a lot of fat and was pleased to find muscle underneath. | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Leveraging infatuation.Thank you. Happy to give a little back. | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with hopelessness?Invest in yourself. Exercise, education... find a mentor. I come from the same place as you. No longer am there. It's been a long hard road. KAIZEN. | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Hooked up with another girl but still f**ing EDGet counselling. Clearly your plumbing is working, so it's not a physical issue... but a mental/emotional one. It is solvable. Please solve my friend! | /r/seduction | 04/06/19 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on trying to seduce an older womenYep. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 03:24 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on trying to seduce an older womenOH WOW!!!! I hope you update us later friend. Bet she'd let you cornhole her if you're so inclined. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Should I wait till I am more fit to approach girls?Depends how persistent you are. If you can persist through rejection, start your education now. If there's a risk you'll get demoralized, perhaps better to wait until the odds are in your favor. I spent years getting rejected because I was chubby. Never really fazed me. Now I'm not, and having much better luck. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 02:21 AM |
| 0 | What causes another man to have power over you?We're pack animals, and will defer to the alpha. That being said, having daddy issues makes you more vulnerable. Start at the source, and resolve your daddy issues. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on trying to seduce an older womenDETAILS OR IT DIDN'T HAPPEN. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on trying to seduce an older womenA 45 year old woman is a very specific creature: She's teetering on the edge of menopause (infertility), and her body needs to give it one last go. But she doesn't want to fuck guys her age. That would make her old. On a mental level she fears the loss of her youth. It's not like when she was 20 and all dicks pointed at her. She wants that back. Having a 24 yr old dick pointed her way is delicious to her. She's in fucking overdrive to fuck. It's not like the girls you're used to, with their game… | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 02:16 AM |
| 5 | Thoughts on trying to seduce an older womenAnd upon meeting her to "catch up", the OP must emphasize how she "hasn't changed at all". DONE. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on trying to seduce an older womenI wouldn't sweat it. Go for it. Women in their late 40's are a special breed. They're losing their looks, and want to get some last minute fucking in. She definitely wants to fuck her - Your age will confirm for her that she's still "Young enough". Also good to know if she's menopausal or not.... NO CONDOMS . Actual results may vary :-). | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 08:08 PM |
| – | You know you’re making enough approaches when your brain can’t fathom why you wouldn’t be doing it.Ok, but far from great. I still have a lot to learn about women. Fact I am married and honest about it is an obstacle. But cold-approach is not my problem any more. Like the OP, it's second nature. I see woman I like, I open conversation without a second thought. Half the time I'm well received, and have a lovely conversation. Now I am working on the next steps. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 08:06 PM |
| 17 | You know you’re making enough approaches when your brain can’t fathom why you wouldn’t be doing it.Decades. Because I wasted too much time being shy, being unconfident, worrying about getting a bad reputation. But I'm older now, and know time is running out. So I don't give a f***. I talk to who I want when I want, with all joy and confidence. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 08:03 PM |
| – | You know you’re making enough approaches when your brain can’t fathom why you wouldn’t be doing it.ABSOLUTELY agreed. It's second nature to me. At this point I find I am limited by seeing women that are attractive to me. But when I see, I open, no hesitation and no questions asked. The comfort comes from the previous 500 times that I did it and didn't die. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 02:01 PM |
| 3 | How should older men get younger girlfriends?45 needs to be very high status to get 25. And relationship will be unsustainable. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 01:54 PM |
| 1 | 27 years old, left my girlfriend a few days ago. I need some advice.Get on top of your weight friend. I lost a lot of weight recently and my interactions with women have improved. Yes, we can tell ourselves we'll do ok being chubby... .but we can do better. Try keto. Easy way to lose. Get Fit. Your confidence will improve. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 01:52 PM |
| 1 | I need help finding an Asian woman!I feel your hunger but feel you are further ahead than me. Korean women are so beautiful. Only tip I have is that I can regularly find a couple at the swimming pool with a steam room. I have a Korea lover, but absolutely no luck finding another. Please pm me and let's share notes. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 03:02 AM |
| 2 | I’m an alcoholic, girls always turn me down because of this, what can I do to attract girls?You're an addictive personality, and always will be. It comes from an unmet need as a child, or trauma. Or both. Find another addiction. Mine is fitness. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 02:28 AM |
| 2 | How can I use my speech impediment to my advantage?My friend, I don't think you can use a deficiency to your advantage. But build out other strengths that take attention away from challenges. Body builder Lou Ferrigno had a speech impediment. He became a famous actor. Build yourself. May not be a quick road. But the road ahead is long and you can do this. | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Lesbian here. I took her bra with me when I left her place.Yeah. Something quick and accessible that requires minimum investment of time and effort. The opposite of "let's meet at the Ritz for a 5 course meal to swap out stuff" | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 01:03 PM |
| – | Lesbian here. I took her bra with me when I left her place.Mail her. Declare the mistake. Propose a lightweight method to rectify. Keep it short and keep it light. Let her decide. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 01:00 PM |
| 1 | What were your ways that finally got you loving yourself and feeling true confidence in yourself, helped you grow as a man and as a person?Also inner engineering aka satguru. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 05:10 AM |
| 1 | How can I stop myself from thinking with my dick all the time?It's normal. Channel the energy into something productive, like exercise. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 04:24 AM |
| 1 | So anyone have experience with sexting?Go forward, but keep eyes open for requests for gifts or other evidence of catfish. | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 04:22 AM |
| 2 | What were your ways that finally got you loving yourself and feeling true confidence in yourself, helped you grow as a man and as a person?I believe this is relaxation which is often conflated with meditation. Proper meditation can't be done with an app, and should be taught to You, preferably in a group. See: transcendental, kriya yoga, Sahaja, qi gong, Falun dafa, Pranayam, to name a few. | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 09:52 PM |
| 3 | What were your ways that finally got you loving yourself and feeling true confidence in yourself, helped you grow as a man and as a person?Meditation. Hands down, it healed a broken mind, gave me confidence and flow. | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 08:32 PM |
| – | SOUL CRUSHING REJECTION FROM A PERFECT WOMYNYour negative attitude has inspired me to watch your video. You are downright creepy. And no, I don't have any "Infield's" to post. | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Thought I was winnning, then ghosted!An extra chapter... she emails me today: I've just got in the library in [CITY] after seeing a doctor for the medical exam. I've thought about which way is better for us; contacting you or not. It's Wednesday so I've decided not to bother you :) Your kisses haven't stolen my ability to speak or type and also I'm not allergic to poetry. actually I love them. Your special tea.. Wow that's so good. On Monday I brought the tea to work. I felt like I was with you all day long. Can anyone decipher thi… | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 02:25 AM |
| – | SOUL CRUSHING REJECTION FROM A PERFECT WOMYNBased on your responses here, I know I am certainly doing better than you. Chill dude. | /r/seduction | 30/05/19 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Thought I was winnning, then ghosted!You are right. Poem too much. But I'm pretty high energy.... so it is as it should be I guess. Walking away..... Thank you friend. | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Thought I was winnning, then ghosted!Thank you my freind. | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 12:24 PM |
| – | SOUL CRUSHING REJECTION FROM A PERFECT WOMYN1girldaily, you ask for feedback and then get agressive with those who try to help. Forget game - You need to do some work on yourself. | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 12:22 PM |
| – | When she calls you out on a negI feel you used too many words bro. Not a diss - I tend to do the same. | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 12:08 PM |
| 2 | STOP ! with all the "SEDUCTION" TEXTING. Be a man.I needed to hear this. Getting roped into this with one chick right now. THANK YOU. | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Need to quit getting friend zoned!I know this problem brother. But I am getting better. Two resources from this group I found helpful: 1) " Mastering the art of verbal seduction" - Alan Currie 2) The "CHED" Formula (Search for it ). My biggest learnings: Be Edgier, and be more straightforward about intent. That being said, I bet Banff has tons of opportunity.... and competition. Also, I'm not far from your location, or your age. I'm in Cowtown. Happy to get together and chat about our misadventures. | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 11:52 AM |
| – | Recently heard this acronym for what women are looking for in a man CHED that CAN BE WORKED ONThis is hugely helpful for me. Ty. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Need some shit test helpI am thinking "If I was your boss, I would give you a raise and give you the morning off so you can come to XXX with me". But I am not, which is why I added "[Smiley]" | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | I've beaten Approach Anxiety. What's Next?This group has been hugely beneficial in helping me identify and remove bad habits. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 01:47 PM |
| – | The more game you think you need, the more insecure you areDisagree. I'm an attractive and confident person and can talk to any women, but it stalls eventually. The tips I've learned here taught me when I've made mistakes so I can remove them. Game has improved immensely... without trying any manipulative mind games... Just not being a dummy instead. | /r/seduction | 27/05/19 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Book RecommendationsStarted reading "oooh" today. Incredible recommendation. TY. | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 05:18 AM |
| – | Has anyone had any success with/know a good pheromone cologne for men?Exercise. Confidence. You have to work for that shit - It just can't be bought in a bottle. Frankly, I'm offended you asked. | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 04:25 AM |
| 1 | I think I’m afraid of women and women think I’m weirdIt's a confidence issue. Do something for yourself to build confidence. Get EXCELLENT at a sport or hobby. It won't be an immediate road back. You have a long time to do it. Start now. | /r/seduction | 25/05/19 05:32 PM |
| – | I've beaten Approach Anxiety. What's Next?You resemble me. I have 0 approach anxiety. Decent looking. Decent conversationalist. Yet I struggle to turn those approaches into dates/lovers. | /r/seduction | 25/05/19 02:57 PM |
| 1 | WTF, can someone Interpret this for me?Toronto Canada. Don't know how I friendzoned myself. What is it you're seeing that makes you think this? The fact that I'm married is already a huge barrier. She's single, older, aging parents live with her. I basically friendzoned her when I found out parents living with her, but do enjoy talking with her. Also followed up in a text stating that I'm still seeking the right lover for me. Havn't hear back. :-) | /r/seduction | 25/05/19 03:51 AM |
| 1 | WTF, can someone Interpret this for me?She was eager to show me many pictures... I had to leave... She was slow to transition to departure, wanting to show me more pictures. Clearly I have her attention. We are actually quite similar in many ways, and conversation is easy. Not sure how to read her signals. | /r/seduction | 25/05/19 02:27 AM |
| – | Possibly misread her cue. Should I feel embarrassed?You ASKED instead of reading the situation and taking a leap of faith. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 03:53 PM |
| 1 | How do I tell my Japanese/Korean lover to get a more stylish haircut?I appreciate this dose of reality. I can be an ass. You've given food for thought. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 05:41 AM |
| 1 | What would you do if you were twenty years old again?I'd be a dumb fuck, thinking about the wrong things, doing unproductive things, and chasing my own tail. Wash rinse repeat until late 20s, when you start to get a clue. Somewhere in mid 30s the clue sets in. Sometime around 40, you'll have a decent idea, but wonder where the time went. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 04:05 AM |
| 5 | anyone else completely leave their social circle?At age 23, I ghosted all my friends. I transitioned from criminal life to military/university life. I became a new person, and couldn't stand all of the people looking at me and seeing the old person. It was holding me back and creating conflict. I spent a year without friends. In gyms, and with books. And then I made new friends and the flow began again. If it's been 7 years for you... .that's a different matter... Time to reconsider what and how you're doing, and what and how you're doing wron… | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 04:02 AM |
| 0 | Fuck itWORD. Get sufficient sleep. Minimize social networking good nutrition exercise. These may not be enough, but without them, nothing else matters. | /r/seduction | 23/05/19 04:01 AM |
| 3 | high nervousness is generally a good sign right?Many girls, or one girl? Is she with that with everyone, or just you? Some people just nervous. | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 01:11 PM |
| -1 | Is "Massage" code word for sex worker?Perhaps. I'm thinking sex worker. Gonna play dumb and chat her up and see where it goes. | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Is "Massage" code word for sex worker?Ok, point taken. Having spent thousands on sports-massage in my life, "Happy ending" massage isn't the first thing that comes to mind. She certainly didn't look like what I thought a sex worker looked like. Strange stuff. | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 01:09 PM |
| 1 | English teaching for sex gambit?Still learning! (And unlearning) | /r/seduction | 22/05/19 04:15 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on RSD and the route they are going now?I've been watching Julien's "Pimp" and am very impressed. Wish I'd watched it long ago. | /r/seduction | 20/05/19 04:34 AM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl working at a store?"Business on campus" I graduated a while ago, but still have things to do on campus, and don't need to elaborate. Don't even need to volunteer. | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Went to a club by myself, disheartenedYou are doing just fine, brother. The path to excellence is failure and adaptation. Keep pushing. | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Does anybody else not find online game their thing?Same here. It depends on your gifts/comfort. I present well and am well spoken. Cannot leverage fully online. | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Going out solo ten times in a row report.This is my target demographic. Would you mind sharing more details on your approach, your opener, etc? Also, her situation... divorced? profession? age? | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Going out solo ten times in a row report.Too bad dude... she was all over you. How was the sex? | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 03:14 AM |
| 2 | Going out solo ten times in a row report.Love it. | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 03:13 AM |
| – | Asian Guy Picks Up Hot White Girls In Sydney (Infield Vlog Compilations)Observation...Both of these guys are very fit looking. It's a prereq. | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Findind the balance between helping, becoming a "provider", and becoming transactional.You are stating the obvious, but that's what I needed to hear. She says she needs to focus on her drivers test. Reasonable. Once complete... | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Can't seem to stop being "one of the guys"...Truth. | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Findind the balance between helping, becoming a "provider", and becoming transactional.All responses good and sensible. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 18/05/19 04:00 PM |
| 11 | Girl wouldn’t talk to me after she heard what my major is in college.Her eyes are broken. Don't sweat it. | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 03:20 AM |
| 20 | Girl wouldn’t talk to me after she heard what my major is in college.Don't sweat it. Your high earning potential is a feature, not A bug. | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Did I get blown off or should I try again?A little update on this. I'm going to track our continued interactions here. I initially met her at a pool. I struck up convo in the Steam room, and she said she recognized my bag and we worked at the same place. Then failed attempt to meet. Met her at the pool on the weekend. She seemed quite happy to see me. Went out of way to introduce son, then dismissed son. All good signs. She apologized for standing me up, and I playfully said that the next time her manager needs to meet, she should tell … | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 03:53 PM |
| 3 | I need support from men who’ve successfully gotten past their approach anxiety.True story. I was 18, reading a book in a park. Pretty girl starts sunbathing nearby. I angst over approaching for 10 mins. Finally, I said "fuck it", and walked up to her and said "Hey, it's a hot day, can I buy you an ice cream"? She politely declined, and I went back to reading, and she left shortly after. ... And goes home, gets dressed, and returns. Says she'd love to take me up on my offer. I buy her an ice cream across the street, and we chat up a storm. She's new in town. Moved to town w… | /r/seduction | 13/05/19 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Do women in 50's cheat?HAhaha... share more... | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 05:21 AM |
| 1 | Do women in 50's cheat?HAhaha... share more... | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 05:21 AM |
| 2 | I dont know how to feel anymore... i just feel suicidal thoughts..Do good things for yourself. LEARN. WORK OUT. INVEST IN YOURSELF, and others will invest in you. I was a nobody at age 18. The forgotten guy in the pack. After years of working out I have a good body, am well educated, have a couple of cool hobbies and a good job. It ain't gonna come to you. INVEST in yourself and others will invest in you. And you have so much time. Don't put so much pressure on yourself. | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Any man under 40 fucked a woman 60+?You nailed it there. I picked that fruit twice, and am now highly subscribed. Even if they don't have that much experience, they're on the clock and don't have time for bullshit. | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 12:52 AM |
| 4 | Any man under 40 fucked a woman 60+?Very similar situation here. I'm in 40's, have a 59 yr old lover, half Asian, other half different Asian. She is easily the best lover of my life. I'm only her 2nd sexual partner. It's clear to me that some women were just born to screw.... She has basically no reservations, and tons of enthusiasm. Also, something about unmarried women in their 50's.... Even if in great shape, they're feeling the loss of youth, and that they may not be able to get some soon... So they just Giv'er. I know that's … | /r/seduction | 11/05/19 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Did I get blown off or should I try again?Thanks for the responses. Appreciate having more eyes on this. Moving on..... | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Does opening with a ‘hello’ work at the club?One too many syllables. | /r/seduction | 06/05/19 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Should I talk about my accomplishments or be humble?Yes. | /r/seduction | 05/05/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with disrespect from AMOG, coworker, rando, etc.You got it. Address without being reactive. Don't laugh it off - This asshole has invaded your space. Don't escalate or you become the asshole. But call it out as inappropriate. Also, if you're not used to doing this, role play with a trusted friend, or visualize in advance to prime yourself to react better. | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 04:02 PM |
| – | How do you deal with disrespect from AMOG, coworker, rando, etc.It does not matter. You cannot control other people's reactions you can only control your own. Deliver assertively, calmly, confidently. | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 02:54 PM |
| – | How do you deal with disrespect from AMOG, coworker, rando, etc.Speak factually, in a technique known as "speaking truth to power. "THAT was unnecessary" "What kind of drama are you creating now?". They see you as lowee status and are using you to boost theirs. Ca them out, don't overreact, don't understand. Use this opp to show you are solid in the face of stupidity. | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 11:29 AM |
| 2 | I need serious help turning my negativity around.Sorry friend did not see. The curse of a tiny screen. I was ruined by an abusive father. It's been a long road back: counselling, fitness, yoga, getting VERY good at a trade, and VERY good at a hobby, and meditation, and lots of reading. I was off balance for years. Now I'm mostly ok. It's been a 20 year journey to put myself back together. I spent years on personal development when others were just hanging out at clubs or playing games. Given what you say it will be a long road back for you. Se… | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with women with victim complexesSecond that. They do not feel empowered and will go nowhere in life, will blame others for their failures and be a drag in many ways. ...I know I married one. ...forgive me....we were young and she had a great body... | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 04:41 AM |
| 1 | What are the best books you have read in terms of Self-improvement ?7 habits by Covey | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 04:39 AM |
| – | I need serious help turning my negativity around.I recommend meditation. It can heal a wounded mind in ways that mere positive behavior or thinking cannot. I recommend Sahaja if there is one nearby. Heartful or Isha also look promising. | /r/seduction | 04/05/19 04:10 AM |
| -1 | "Help you with your English" angle for fobs?Perhaps. Not a bad/mean word in my area. I may still be an asshole. | /r/seduction | 03/05/19 03:29 AM |
| 6 | What do you guys do when you've hit a major setback? You've hit rock bottom?Do good things for myself. Starts with cleaning my bedroom/house. Next, a healthy meal. Exercise. Stephen Covey said that doing good things for yourself is like pulling back a rubber band.... building up potential energy for launching later. HTH bro | /r/seduction | 03/05/19 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Married Co WorkerKorean men are horrible husbands, and drink a lot. Korean women are quite faithful. Often they leave Korea without husband to get freedom, but remain faithful as far as I know. Also many Koreans raised on martial arts so beware the husband. That's all I know about Koreans. | /r/seduction | 29/04/19 04:27 AM |
| – | What to do if you enthusiastically explain what you love doing and she says 'Do not take it as personal/offense but I don't care'What she really means is that you've shared more than she's interested in. Did you go on about it for a while? Possible to express same passion with brevity? | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Opinion: Low Bodyfat is more important than big musclesI'd have to totally agree. Have been losing weight steadily over last few months, and seen a BIG difference in how girls react to me. | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Escalating from email to meetup, while maintaining uncertainty?Old school email. Gmail. Your advice is good... thank you... and I appreciate framework more than specifics. | /r/seduction | 27/04/19 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Escalating from email to meetup, while maintaining uncertainty?This is EXACTLY what I needed. TY! | /r/seduction | 27/04/19 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Beckoning girls over?Great analysis. Ty. | /r/seduction | 27/04/19 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Beckoning girls over?Fair. | /r/seduction | 27/04/19 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Beckoning girls over?Public hot tub. 15-20 people sitting at edged in a circle. | /r/seduction | 27/04/19 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Best time of day to approach in a cafe?Not sure, but your observation on afternoons being more relaxed is brilliant.. Just what I was looking for. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 23/04/19 10:05 PM |
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