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What and how much games is the question. He gets home and relaxes by gaming for 2 hours? Ick. 20-30 min every two-three nights. Not a problem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 02:52 AM
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Single is not an issue. But if he WANTED a partner and was unable to get one, then yes, that is a red flag. If he was 30 and said “i didn’t want to invest time in a relationshio until my career was settled and i didn’t want to neglect my gf/wife/kids… and now I have the time”… That would be super hot
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:54 PM
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The fact you thibk someone was favored is just wrong. I know you aren’t a doctor. But for us, our board exams are multiple choices. Impossible to be “favored”. Our scores are numbered. What evidence do you think they favored others and against you? Perhaps you were just not smart as you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:12 PM
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“Trying to play the part of an alpha” So… You know you aren’t an alpha. “Brooke alpha” What…? Lol you mean bum? I don’t think think you know what an aloha is. You sounds like omega
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 02:06 PM
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He doesn’t have to bring less. He is welcome to do his fair share of unpaid labor. Women who are straight shouldn’t have a female partner…. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:11 PM
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Men not doing their fair share is not an intrinsic measurement of their value. If you lack in one area, you can make it up in other areas.. so men have a choice. If they want 5050, they have to put in 5050 efforts in other fields
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:10 PM
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That’s my point as well. How much i expect my partner to help depends on their ability to help. That other person is the one saying it’s men’s exclusive responsibility and that all men would agree with him. Hence this post
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 02:04 PM
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I didn’t realize this is an English debate subreddit. No one else seemed to be unable to understand except you. Perhaps you went to the wrong sub
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:28 AM
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Is that what you believe or is that what you are claiming words i have said but i haven’t ever said? Lolol please choose
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:27 AM
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I’m asking you. Bc I’m fine with a man who doesn’t bring anything that’s uniquely masculine since my point is that men and women are equal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:25 AM
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🤷🏻‍♀️ maybe it’s a convertible. In and on, same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 06:12 AM
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You get off the car to figure out the issue…? Like when you get in a car accident, the drivers exchange info?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 05:31 AM
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No. U/normal_regret428 said protecting their spouse is an exclusively man’s responsibility. He listed the example : if a 5’4” man starts beating me up, do i expect my husband to step in. I said yeah, bc he’s able to. There is a reason he made the example a 5’4” and not 6’5” group of gang members. Then he also said: no man would expect their girl to help him in a fight (even if she’s ABLE to - which is why i listed it as a situation where her action is minimal risk to her but greatly helps her pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/23 03:20 AM
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Ok, your concern is her ability to help. Let’s she has a gun and has reasonable good handle on the gun. The dude has punched you out and is sitting on your chest punching your face in and you will die. She can shoot him. Do you expect her to help?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:47 PM
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Haha i agree. I would do the same. A few extra hits to make sure he doesn’t get up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:41 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:54 PM
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So you are a violent person?? Wtf who even does outside movies and the hood
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 05:45 PM
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Bet she didn’t have a baseball bat and snuck up behind you and smack you in the occiput or the temporal bone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 04:44 PM
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So you don’t expect a woman who is able to help in a situation at minimal risk to herself to save your life if he was pounding your face in? Just want to clarify your stance. Like after the even, if you survive, spend some time in the icu, and watch the some survillence camera that she had a bat and could easily swing at his head from behind bc he was so focused on you? You wouldn’t feel anything negative from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:41 PM
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So you do expect her to
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 02:49 PM
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K. Say she has a gun then, and his focus is on you, so easy shot and she has decent aim with firearm training. Do you expect her to save your life since he’s just punching away at your face? (Yes, this can absolutely kill you)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 07:54 AM
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Well if this dude kills you, he probably will go after her anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:48 AM
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🤦🏻‍♀️ - assuming your woman has a better head on her shoulder and knows she can help with a swing of a bat then…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:47 AM
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Ah, so it’s the man ego? Bc i described a situation where you need help to live and she is able to help, at relatively minimal risk to her, amd you weren’t able to handle it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:39 AM
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There are plenty of women who view men as humans…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:38 AM
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You should try dating women who view you as a human being.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:28 AM
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Why no for fight but yes for other situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:26 AM
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We’re assuming she can knock him out with a weak swing. It’s now a crow bar and he won’t see it coming. Ps. That’s really sad you think your only value is being a body guard.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:15 AM
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Why? We’re both happy. Doesn’t sex doesn’t happen. It just means we prefer to be well rested and have fun with life. Life doesn’t revolve around sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 03:26 AM
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No. If you are top value guy, we definitely make it obvious. I asked out most of my partners bc I knew they were great men and they were worth the shot. Some guys who i was attracted to, but I didn’t know if they would be a great husband or father, then i’ll pass hints but wasn’t committed that much. With my husband, i asked him out… three times (he didn’t reject me, long story)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:53 AM
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I’m still waiting to hear these so called exclusive responsibility of the man. None?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 01:19 AM
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No. Hard no. Sex is definitely not even on the top 3 priority for him
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:47 AM
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So you think it’s a man’s exclusive responsibility to die for his wife? How many times does a man have to do that? How frequent is this? When i wrote that, i didn’t say it was exclusive responsibilities. You ARE writing those things as “exclusive responsibilities”. Men SHOULD be taking time out of their job to take care of their sick kids. It should NOT be an exclusive responsibility. You literally said the exclusive responsibility of a man to take care of his wife when sick… yet men fail at thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:54 PM
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lay down his life? Is this a law? I’m confused. What are you referring to? take care of the woman when sick? The reverse is true. Actually, more so. Wasn’t there a study about how women stayed when the man was terminally ill more than when the genders were reversed? violent teenagers? Wtf? Lol. That’s probably due to shit parenting. What do single moms do? Get killed by their teens? you can fight for custody. Being present in your kids life. Leaving behind the house… AND the mortgage. less sex? …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 09:41 PM
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What do you think is exclusive responsibility of the man? Being a sperm donor? 🤷🏻‍♀️ please enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:16 PM
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The answer is yes… i guess you couldn’t tell Ps. I haven’t had a job before my residency and I’m about to sign a 600k contract. So yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:44 AM
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Yes. Because if i have two candidates, one is an empty resume and one is acrook, I’m going with the empty candidate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:35 AM
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A married man who is loyal is hot. But it doesn’t mean i want him (except my husband). If i got him, it would mean he’s not loyal and therefore a red flag. The dilemma😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:21 AM
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I’ll take an empty resume over someone with a hx of being a crook
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 04:19 AM
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The avg woman in america is overweight, so she’s kinda correct. Social media exposure is a selection bias for the convinentially attractive women. Pretty people tend to gravitate to social media due to the positive feedback and ego strokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 03:14 AM
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If you slept with 30 women, that would be a red flag in my book. I judge men with high counts too. And yes, i lean towards bluepilled
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:54 AM
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Polyamory and polygamy are different things. I believe sex is shared between you and the person you love. I can’t fathom being in love with two people at the same time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 04:40 AM
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Must not be in america
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:41 AM
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Maternity leave in america sucks. I took 8 weeks off - unpaid. But that’s a separate issue. It reflectlys poorly on me for my career aspects.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:40 AM
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Nope. Bc taking time off for my job reflects negatively on me. It may result in me losing my job as well. It definitely affects my ability to be promoted at my job. Among other things - like i said earlier, i’ll probably be the one taking the kid when he’s sick
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 01:36 AM
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If you plan to be childfree, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:16 PM
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Paying for half means she’s contributing more than half. That’s a lose lose battle. The most I would do is 70:30… as a modern woman who makes more than 95% of men in the US. Why? I’m the one givinn birth. i’m the one breastfeeding. I’m the one risking my health/body/beauty for our kid. Most likely, i’ll be the one taking him to the doctor, calling out sick when he’s sick, etc. so no absolutely not, no sir, any man suggesting 50:50 is just planning to take advantage. Only way i see 50:50 as fair …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 11:15 PM
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Theg are not mutually exclusive. You can WANT to be her friends and LATER develop feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 09:19 PM
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Don. Obviously. But if he’s considered creepy, be probably is a creep - so in that case, i’ll just stay single. Most people would consider my husband below average looking, but whatever, he has a great personality. No one ever thinks he’s creepy. Pat has massive anger issues and a violent side so obviously everyone should avoid him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 04:03 AM
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There always will be children, just less. If the entire stock market crashes and remains down, your future kids won’t be able to support you anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:58 AM
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I don’t think we’ll have that chance. We won’t get the benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:53 AM
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If you spend the money from what would be used for kids into investment, you will have better chance to be supported when you are old. You hear all the time… “your children owe you nothing”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:21 PM
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As usual, boomers will fuck us all over.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 06:19 PM
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On in that case, yes. I would view masters in social work less intense than being an engineer. They also make less. Part of status is the job status and money
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:52 PM
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“Have more unequal division of labor”… So… unless you are intrepret that as now men do way more work… how is it NOT men’s fault??? Your own comment condemns men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 02:45 PM
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MSW?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:15 PM
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A.k.a., when women step up, Moseman fail to step up to match.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 01:03 PM
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Fertility? Beauty? Arm candy? Like why else do men think women hit a wall at 30? Do women suddenly hit the wall at 30 and are unable to have sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 12:41 PM
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I’m not talking about just sex. But this shows whay you care about in a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 12:23 PM
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Why would she give you her best if you don’t her yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:41 AM
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Probably bc we were suppressed for so long… that’s not shaming men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 03:40 AM
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Then the man isn’t entitled to any part of her. Wow! Strangers!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:53 AM
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The focus is still on myself. If a relationship happens, great, but it’s not my main focus till i have my feet planted on solid ground and i’m ready to consider marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/23 01:53 AM
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How are women shaming you? For claiming to be strong and independent?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:56 PM
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You can date without doing the college style dating … riddled with drama
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:56 PM
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Focus on herself doesn’t mean to wait until 30. It means to get her degree, and a job, date around 22, with goals of marriage in mind. Find a nice guy who will respect her and settle down. Always keep a career, bc if all else fails, she’ll always have herself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:55 PM
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I would say the same to men who keep comparing women to objects “Test drive car” “Lock and key” Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:52 PM
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22k? That’s odd. Usually it’s 24k/18k/14k and 10k
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:32 PM
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What’s the percentage of child support that’s unpaid..? Lo
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 04:30 PM
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Just know a lot of the good men are no longer single. The longer you want, the shittier the dating pool is
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:31 AM
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His worse is yet to come. Men die younger. If he married a younger woman, most likely, that wife will be the caretaker. Oh kids are for her? Only said by a man who doesn’t want kids. Surrogacy costs 100k. He got a deal from that. And she is giving her best if you get a younger/low count girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:30 AM
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Not mutualy exclusive. You can find someone who has made it, also who you want you want to go through life with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 06:26 AM
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If you fight for custody, you will likely get it. She only gets half of marital asset. So pay it off - she won’t get any
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:27 AM
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Good men are the prize. Men who toy around are hardly prizes. They are trash
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:26 AM
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Lol thT’s precisely why i recommend they don’t wait until 30+. You literally agreeing with me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:25 AM
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Even a man who has made it still requires investing. Just having a kid ties you down
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:24 AM
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Risk is too high to give crappy men a chance to change
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:23 AM
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You think a 35 year old woman will have the same chances?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:22 AM
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Doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:21 AM
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Not mutually exclusive. I’m not saying eliminate all men under 25… but thread with heavy caution. Though such caution should be done at all agesp
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:20 AM
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I would advise against women getting on cock carousal and men from being cock carousal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:18 AM
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As i said, if i had a future daughter, i’d want her to focus on herself and her career too
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:17 AM
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Worked for my husband
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:16 AM
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I assume since she has given her best to you, a good man would want to give his best to her. Also, later on, i assume there are kids involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:14 AM
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I witnessed it in my parents marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:11 AM
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80 hrs isn’t so bad
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:10 AM
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Are men not strong independent men? Why do they keep chasing women?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:09 AM
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Sure. There are few exceptions. But most people don’t marry their hs sweethearts
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:01 AM
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Men who haven’t made it are the ones doing the passport bros. Bc they can’t afford a traditional american woman, they go fulfill the traditional tole in another country where they can afford it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:01 AM
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What comes about most of these younger relationship? Drama? Unless a marriage comes out of it, probably was useless
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:00 AM
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Broke is unattractive. Mental illness is a red flag for many men Lacking friends is probably due to something else (ie. Personality) but regarding friends, i don’t see men being judged either. First time hearing it. short? Ofc not for a woman. Bc men want short men. The equivalent is a tall woman. Women over 5’10” have a way harder time dating. Same with fat women
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:57 AM
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Marriage survived the most when you marry after 25. I absolutely do no suggest boys in HS to be dating around. I think men should only date with the purpose if finding a wife. Likewise for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 06:34 PM
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No. It’s not just from this sub. It’s from my own mother’s exp. But i learned from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:36 PM
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No. I’m not talking millionaires. I am talking ppl who are starting on their careers. You know, outside of the college haze of “i’m getting a degree, but idk what I really want to do and what the real world is like”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:14 PM
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It’s a super big trend in asia. Been that way for a while. We’re asian
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:10 PM
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The culture that promotes women to be successful… that’s what you were referring to? If you meant affirmative action, i also agree. All application should be faceless, nameless, genderless, and raceless
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:07 PM
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I hope not. I found myself a super catch and he feels the same. Hopefully they will have similar future. (Yes, hoping for a daughter in a few years.)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:04 PM
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Paternity tests exists
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:01 PM
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Why is this ironic? Why is women becoming successful dragging y’all down? Maybe y’all should step up
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 04:00 PM
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I’m talking about this from my mother’s experience and from the amount of dirtbags commenting on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:59 PM
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I would tell women to not fuck around with y’all. Plenty of good men out there. Avoid fucking around. Don’t fuck on the first date. Hell, date exclusively for months before that. A good guy will wait. (All 3 of my partners waited, and i would vouch for each one of them)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:58 PM
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Support him and possibly the family they have started to create. Doing all the unpaid labor while she’s also most likely has a job. Essentially working 2-3x more … all for him to dump her. My father did that. My mother worked illegally to support his tuition while he cheated on her. Forgave him (for a variety of reasons - one of which, she was dependent on his visa to not be deported). Continued to work endlessly and take care of me while my father just had to go to school. After he got a job, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:56 PM
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You are feeding into my point. you want to fuck around? Why would a woman want to be toyed with? More reason to not date younger men who are just fucking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:47 PM
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You also benefit. You have a YOUNGER wife, also someone who is more likely to take care of you and out live you. She’ll be the one dying alone bc not only do women live longer, she’s also youbger than you. Yhe chances of her being your caretaker >> you being her caretaker. You win more
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:46 PM
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My point is to not fuck around.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:43 PM
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That’s the point of my op
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:36 PM
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Depends. If it’s bc he’s an incel? Probably. But if he’s like “i just wanted to focus on myself and career”, that’s a plus. My husband only had one relationship before me. He’s a guy who takes responsibility super seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:34 PM
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I am recommending women to do this. You can give each other your best then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:30 PM
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Woukd be great if we were all mind readers
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:21 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:21 PM
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My father did. A lot of my friends also have fathers who have cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:20 PM
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Alimony is extremely rare. Especially if you married a woman with a career. Losing half of your stuff? She’s also losing half of her stuff and things accumulated together in a marriage is shared bc you shared your life with her and vice versa. I’m sure there are uneven distribution of unpaid labor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:19 PM
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Y’all keep saying vetting. Who is vetting? Family? Friends? Or self? If it is yourself, is this a nee fancier way of saying dating process?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:17 PM
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Why? Look at all the men on PPD who want “inexperienced” young women. I do agree with that phrase but for a woman, it means you give him your best years and then you wait and find out if such investment was worth it. If not, unlike money, you can’t really do it again bc now you have aged out. Vs for men, it’s not as big of a risk, you are with someone at your “worst”, and if they stuck around, now you get to decide to keep her or not at your best.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:12 PM
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92% of men who fight for custody gets some custody? Where is the contradiction?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:14 PM
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Here is one major reason why https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/10s8q5g/cmv_men_have_an_accountability_problem_with_all/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:41 PM
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That’s not oversharing…. If i started to describe our favorite sex position, then maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 04:36 PM
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The risk of others not improving is too high of a risk for me to take. Like i’m not going to be one of those people who date a guy who hasn’t figured out his career path, has never lived on their own, and doesn’t know how to be responsible and just hope he will improve when people get married or have kids. That said, my husband did improve but he’s very eager to make me happy. One of the reasons i married him. I know he will respect and prioritize me. B
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 03:23 PM
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Well at least you are honest about this
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:50 PM
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You chose to use the analogy wirh money and career. If a bunch of things are non applicable, it’s not a good analogy then. Regarding your reply, i indeed made around 55k at 21. I went back to school, now making 300k. Did i lose some years of investment? Yes. But did i come out on top? Also yes. Regarding your relationship talk. Yes, i actually DO agree a woman’s ability to catch her dream/ideal guy decreases with age. However, you know what eliminates her ability to get that guy? Not being singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:49 PM
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If you were leo? For fame/clout
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:44 PM
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I would keep making money and saving up until i can afford a 700k home then. I ain’t settling for some 350k home ….😂😂 especially if it’s the one and only home i get for life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:56 AM
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Those girls are using you. You want to settle down with someone who use you and eventually cheat on you? Have you seen girls like amber heard?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 05:11 AM
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Divorce rates are falling
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:02 AM
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The type of girl you want to settle down with, probably doesn’t want to settle down with you… unless you are into “ex-playgirls”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 02:02 AM
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You think you can identify good men by visual inspection?!? Lolol. If you were a woman, you will end up with a deadbeat
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:32 PM
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So how will you find the good men if most men are scums?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 11:26 PM
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Is that supposed to mean something…? Lol bc i’m far from being unfit. Most men are overweight (and not due to muscle mass) so i guess most men aren’t good guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:38 PM
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Bahaha - Good women are everywhere too, yet y’all probably ignore them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:11 PM
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If you are talking custody, men who fight for custody usually get custody (either 50:50 or full) So he didn’t lose custody, he gave it up
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 10:11 PM
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So daycare is 200+ per week but the child support is under 100 per week. Cheaper to not have custody
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 07:22 PM
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They (men) become used cars as well then. Done the work? What work?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:47 PM
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Yes. Some women do. Just like some men avoid high body count women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 06:47 PM
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Men say being a woman is living life on easy mode
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:56 PM
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I’m against cheating for both genders….? Clearly you have sexist beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:54 PM
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Childhood traumas… as in my family tried to kill med because i was born a girl during the one child policy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 05:04 PM
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The average child support is 4k per year. That’s about 2 month of daycare. So whatever. Cheaper than actually raising kids. Second, men who fight for custody usually gets it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:59 PM
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But after you are older, they will dump you. Landing a guy it landing a good guy? Big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:35 PM
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Approaching is annoying but you have a20% chance of someone trying to rape you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 04:34 PM
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Sexual abuse?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:59 PM
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I didn’t say all women. I simply present a very traditional marriage and why that sucks for women (can also suck for men but more so for women). https://www.dadsdivorcelaw.com/blog/fathers-and-mothers-child-custody-myths “92 percent either received full or joint custody, with mothers receiving full custody only 7 percent of the time.” I didn’t talk about child support bc the cost of raising a child is usually more than child support granted.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:38 PM
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I would 100% be at an advantage. Probably way less childhood trauma, probably would not have SA experience
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 03:08 PM
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People shame women for not working all the time… What are you talking about? Oh he feels lonely so he left? SAHMs are super lonely too yet cheating isn’t acceptable for them. Ditching kids isn’t acceptable for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:29 PM
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Even after the kids go to school, she’ll be expected to put kids before her job… what kind of corporate ladder can she climb when she’s always can’t come in before 8/9 am to drop off kids can’g stay past 3 pm to pick up kids can’t work summers will have random off days (kids sick, random school closure, school delays) You think 2 hrs a day and all those random exceptiosn above will allow her to match up to his earnings after a divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:26 PM
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I’m not skating around anything. You just cannot respond to my reply.. don’t cop out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:27 AM
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Personality represents power? So people who I looked up to and admire do not put others down.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:19 AM
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How much do you make? Are you a doctor, engineer, or lawyer?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 02:04 AM
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8333 is gross After paying tax, he gets 5927 Therefore he would pay: 2276 I gave john custody 2 weekends a month but i assume most dads would want some time with their kids. Even if homes rises in price, it’s only 7 years. I doubt they can buy a home the first few years, and most of the mortgage is still not paid off if they even bought a home. Remember, they married young. She married someone whi started at the bottom of the corporate ladder I ran number with 0% custody for john, and it was 235…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:33 AM
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8333 is gross After paying tax, he gets 5927 Therefore he would pay: 2276 I gave john custody 2 weekends a month but i assume most dads would want some time with their kids. I ran number with 0% custody for john, and it was 2358. This assumes no alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 12:29 AM
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I got around 2200/mo for 2 kids. Either he is paying her to be the kids nanny or he has to pay for their daycare/afterschool fees/etc so that she is able to work. How she manages to save money (live with parents) is irrelevant. John is welcome to go live with his parents too. Y’all say single moms are a huge red flag, so who’s gonna marry her? Surely not a “HVM”. Which means it probably won’t benefit her and the kids. Spousal support lasting a lifetime is incredibly rare. See my op (i referred t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:52 PM
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If i went on a date and i had no interest in them, i always offered to pay my share. But a man’s ability to not be stingy is a requirement in my future husband. So no, i don’t owe them. Plus the type of men i date don’g cry about 20$
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:34 PM
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Ok. And? Is he gonna pick a “safer” job if he was unmarried? Is the marriage making him pick a more dangerous job? Men who do dangerous jobs are unlikely able to afford a traditional wife. So idk how that is related. Men choose a more dangerous job. They are also free to “choose” a white collar job
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:19 PM
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I assume you mean 2500 is alimony + child support? You think 2500/month is enough to live on including full cost of 2 children? And 135k is gonna last you how long? Is the child support going to last forever? Is the alimony going to last forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:17 PM
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No. Unless he is planning to adopt or use a surrogate for a future family.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:15 PM
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Where did you get that mary didn’t bond. I explicitly said for at least 3 years, things were great. Seriously, where are you getting this from? Ps. As a millennial poster, i firmly believe women SHOULD work… just to protect herself and her kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:47 PM
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4 is preK vs daycare. Summers need daycare? After school cares? Why do you need daycare? Bc in the event of a divorce, she’s going to need to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:44 PM
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That’s my preference. Not expectation. There will never be equal unless the couple is childfree, or agree to pay for a surrogate to have such child and will split everything 50:50… including career sacrifices.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 08:44 PM
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I’m not talking about the post in the second half. It’s simply a question for you. If you work, will you guys have 500-800k then?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 06:46 PM
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“A household of four would have to makes $60,000 to $180,000” Over seas is bc they cannot support a traditional wife here but making 50k here is plenty for the philippines. You can be both - career and family but you may excel in both. It would certainly be hard. I’m a career woman but i also have a family. Also fyi, being a strong independent woman doesn’t mean anti family. My husband likes that I’m not a dependent leech. There is a difference depending on each other from unable to be independe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:30 PM
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The avg household is supposed to be livable at around 70k. (Exceptions are HCOL areas). So 100k should be adequate. 500-800k is nice but do you make a significant amount to contribute to that 500-800k? If so, then sure. If you are a hs teacher, maybe it’s not worth it.0
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:25 PM
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Sounds like you are able to do just fine but she isn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:24 PM
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My question then is… are these men doing less risky job if they are single? Most blue collars cannot afford a traditional wife.. which is why i explicitly said white collar coporate ladder job - in which, nah, it’s not that risky. If earning money is that big of a deal, i’m a woman and clearly, i’d be a better traditional man than most of these men on here. True it’s probably not THE reason but it’s a large reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:22 PM
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What kind of fantasy world do you live in? Go talk to some social workers. They will tell you this does happen
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:43 PM
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You guys don’t have child support? In the US, alimony is spousal support. Children do not get alimony
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:59 PM
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Most men instigate the violence. That factory is absolutely up to you. Don’t initiate fight, don’t escalate violence. Most men aren’t attacked and killed walking down the streets minding their own business
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:14 AM
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I’m simply giving you numbers. It’s money she has saved. I can also give you my personal life. I’m not a traditional woman so we pay for day care and to have a nanny basically available at all times because we can be called into work unexpectantly. This means we pay 24 k in daycare and about 50-70k in nanny fees. The cost of having a child but me working is way more than John makes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:12 AM
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Assets are half hers during a marriage. Having some prenup regarding intra marriage asset would turn me off from being aSAHM even more. I didn’t fail to consider child support s most child support is not even enough to cover the cost of children. Alimony happen less than 10% of the time and most of the time is settled outside of court. They are being more rare. Just access to social media is more common. What would change my mind? If all men were required to pay a significant alimony that is the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:09 AM
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Not in NYC. Avg income is 107k https://smartasset.com/retirement/average-salary-in-nyc He claims to be high earning… Which could at least be top 10% in his own region. I make more than him in a LCOL and I’m not arrogant enough to say I’m a high earners. Plus, did you not see how he thought s SAHM was a trophy wife who did nothing and is last..?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 10:00 AM
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Men don’t need to attract violence. My husband never had an issue ahout this. Hell, i got more fights in elementary school than he did
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 09:53 AM
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We, fortunately, don’t usually live in a time where the man has to protect the family. Most families go their entire life without needing the man to rush or sacrifice his life. LO = little ones/kids. Grandparents have lives too… This isn’t watching the kids for one or Two days a month. This is like fully nanny duty. So since you cannot get free labor from your wife, you will make the grandparents contribute 40+ hours a week in free labor? Prenup covers premartial assets. Why would a traditional …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:43 AM
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But if he starts doing a bunch of chores and childcare, this is no longer traditional marriage. I agree, but i also think almost all men should contribute roughly equally in the home. What is traditional to you then? But when someone says trad marriage, it means man is the provider and woman cares for kids, home, and husband. I left out child support intentionally bc that isn’t really going to marry. It’s going to the kids and usually child support isn’t even enough to coverthe kid’s needs. Some…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:16 AM
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Being a team means everyone is part of a team. If you stop being a good teammate, you are kicked out of the team.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:12 AM
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A good team is reliable and not all the work or burden is shoved to one person. So i don’t mind this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:12 AM
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No. I am asking why are they against marriage. If you are going to be coupled for the rest of your life, may as well reap some financial benefits (on both ends usually)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 05:10 AM
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Then if they are sole custody parent, pay them a manny rate…? To not pay alimony is to avoid accountability. She made life decisions to hinder her own career to support you and the kids. And now you refuse to get her claim on her investments after it has matured.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:59 AM
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Assuming I won’t have gender dysphoria (ie in parallel universe, I’m cisM), I would prefer to be male. It’s so much easier. Hell. I’m a better man than most men. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:57 AM
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But most of the time,… the men instigates a violent event. How many are unprompted attacks? I’m afraid of unprompted attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:56 AM
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Yes. I would do it. It may be hard due to gender identity issues but assuming I don’t struggle with gender identity (since I’m a cis F), i would rather be a male. I don’t think much would change tbh. I am a better “man” and most men (both irl and on PPD), minus the lack of physical strength - which would hopefully be fixed with the gender swap.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:54 AM
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If they are sharing the financial burden… how is this traditional? Traditional men are providers. If you are working, who’s taking care of the babies?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:29 AM
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I would want data how often this is granted and how long the alimony would be for? 6 months? 1 year?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:28 AM
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I would even urge women to never be a full time SAHM. Just work some. Even if it is 1 day a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:43 AM
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Who files for divorce is irrelevant. Both parties agreed to divorce. This only tells me women had to do more unpaid labor. Is she go na be able to work when the kids are off from summer or random school closure dates and the multiple sick days that kids will be sent home from school. Most men do not fight for custody. Most men gave up custody. And often times, men fight for custody just to decrease child support, not bc they actually want to take care of his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:42 AM
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It’s not but what separates a marriage from a bf/gf. One is temporary without marriage (eventually it’s common law marriage in some states). Why hesitate for marriage if not for fear of divorce?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:24 AM
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More like the means caused the end. You think she really should stay and not plan an existing state strategy on a man who is already displaying abusive tendency?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:23 AM
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Still think it’s not enough money to live off of. Mary odd going to work some minimum wage job while taking care of two little ones? Sounds hard af
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:21 AM
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A good marriage/spouse would have solved a lot of the issues you posted about. Js My favorite part of my marriage is that i have someone to be comfortable around and we are comfortable with silence. (Of course we are comfortable talking,… But you have to be close to someone to be able to just sit in silence with someone and not feel that awkward silence). Of course this means i also have someone to talk about my day or concerns with
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:20 AM
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How will she afford a new house and children On only 30k? Debt is split.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:17 AM
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How does her family know of such a man? This is more common back in the days of arranged marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:16 AM
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If you had sole custody, daycare for 2 kids in cali would be more than the child support… so idk man. Being paid 30k to spend 48k on daycare is not cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:12 AM
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If john was a delivery man, he could not afford to be a traditional man and have a traditional wife
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 03:11 AM
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Who is this council? I have never even heard of this. Did she hire a bunch of private investigators or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:31 AM
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I’m clearly addressing traditional roles. Why are you dragging in all the other roles?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:30 AM
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My post is addressing traditional wife. If you want a wife who takes care of the kids and makes money,… you don’t want a traditional wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:30 AM
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Probably. But im not a lawyer. Perhaps someone who is in family law has better info
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:29 AM
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At least thag is consistent. Alimony for life? Really? Would that mindset be the same when the relationship turns super bitter?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:29 AM
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Scroll back, i said I was a “SAHM” for 2-3 mo ths… due to maternity leave. Someone later said “that’s not a SAHM” look at my reply… “I literally keep people alive (referring to my job) and this is harder”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:27 AM
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Different people want different things. This post is for the multitude of men (and women) who want traditional relationships. Yes. I also think being a SAHM is boring. But to call them trophy wife is ridiculous. What do you mean they don’t do anything? Go hire a nanny, house keeper, cook, tutor, etc and tell them “all of y’all do nothing” lol Also, you claim to be high earning but from your post, you seem to make about 100k in NYC? Idk if I would call that high earning. That’s middle class for s…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:07 AM
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Idk what circle i am part of. Grew up varying between lower and middle class but my mother had to work o support the family. My husband and I both will make in the 300-600k range. I listed doctors as an example since i know hundreds of them. Yes. We are both doctors. So you tell me. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:04 AM
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I’m confused how you think she can get to know someone well enough to vet without dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:03 AM
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Setting up an exist strategy with an abusive spouse is literally not bad faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:02 AM
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Bc that’s what traditional women did. Stay at home MOM. It also is a barrier from her to get a job, and education and a good job even after divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:01 AM
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I’m sure both of them are. Survey says one of the biggest stressor is a crying baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 02:00 AM
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What unfairness in family court are you referring to? The reddit post you linked is glaring red flags… like you seriously using that to support yout point? This dude punched a hole in the wall bc their kid spilled some salt amd the wife said “give me a moment to clean it up”?!?!?!? Are you kidding me??!? And she just calmly watched and said “are you done”? She was planning to leave… hmmm i wonder why?!? You don’t think there are other red flags in that relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:38 AM
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Middle class is where the woman works. Upper middle and upper class is when the woman has a choice to work or not work.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:23 AM
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He climbs the corporate ladder… so no, it’s not a manual job. If he was doing manual labor, he probably would make less. Construction pays like 40k. Mary wiuld have been working as well to support a family of 4… ergo, not traditional. Only men who make a decent amount can afford a traditional wife - which means they are likely white collar. Not “how convenient”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:22 AM
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Her lack of experience and mind games = less veting abilities. People on here say women should marry younger bc they become too old at age 30, have less experience and lower counts. So you support women refusing younger men. Despite ppd seems to say “oh if you are with an older women, she is settling for you/you are a BB”? Why would this older man be single if he is that great? How old is older? So how many men should she date? How many should she sleep with? When should she sleep with them? Whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:20 AM
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I agree. I prefer a man who took an active part in child rearing and household chores.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:16 AM
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I don’t have a traditional marriage…? And no one in my family has ever had a traditional marriage. What post history are you referring to? I currently make 3-4x my husband’s salary. Also who files the divorce doesn’t mean who’s fault it is for the divorce or even who wants the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:13 AM
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Child support is for the children. Alimony is quite rare. I don’t actually think the court favors women. Favors children? Yes. As it should.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:12 AM
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“I told her she would be a SAHM”… wtf lol. So what’s gonna happen when/if y’all get divorced? You gonna pay alimony?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:10 AM
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Alimony is alimony. We are discussing alimony, not child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:08 AM
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So doctors? I would say a good amount of high paying career men would prefer a woman who worked much less or was even a SAHM
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 01:08 AM
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Yes and no. It would be a great time to get educated on two assumptions: They don’t ever get sick or deal with school cancellation so you can actually go to class You want the traditional wife to not be traditional anymore. But this would be after 7 years for 2 kids 2 years apart bc school doesnMt statt for them until they are 5 (oldest being 7, youngest being 5). Men should help around the house, but i provided you the traditional role where the guy just has to bring in a paycheck. Someone else…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:59 AM
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John doesn’t have a manual labor job.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:53 AM
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No where did i say she is ending the marriage. I said, theh decided to call it quits. Doesn’t matter who files the divorce. So bc she’s financially disadvantaged, she should stay with a cheater? What about abusers? Should he stay with mary if she cheats? Or is this just one direction
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:11 AM
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Look at how many men on ppd complaining about the disappearance of a traditional wife? Also, high quality men know they have to pull their weight in the home… some want a SAHM for a wife, some don’t. But let’s be honest, most men cannot afford to support a family of 4
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:07 AM
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Corporate job is not manual labor. And yes. Considering I can do it, it’s not very hard right? But i work my time and come home, take care of the kid, and do all the house chores. Working/earning money is the least difficult part of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:06 AM
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Retirement benefit is only awarded to spouse if they are married for 10 years or more. I know this bc my mil is unable to get retirement funds from her deceased husband AND her divorced husband
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 12:04 AM
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He didn’t have to pay for daycare. That is about 2k per month… per kid. So his wife (just watching the kids 40 hrs a week), saved the family 48k per year. Since john is climbing corporate ladder and working overtime, she is also doing so. So imagine another 20 hr of childcare… this makes it 72k (not even counting the 20 hr as overtime). So i think from childcare alone, she pulled her equal weight - esp since 100k after tax is more like 70k
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:52 PM
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Alimony is fairly rare. But in this scenario, it’s closer to a decade. She’ll have to start over at age 30, with more “baggage”. That’s a decade of lost experience with almost nothing to show for it (except her children’s love).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:43 PM
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When you are 50, now you will be homeless and work until you die because you have no retirement funds And you think being a SAHM isn’t labor? I should add that to another reason why traditional women are going away. Sahm does the job of a nanny, housecleaner, cook, uber driver for kids, often fills in the shows for two parents, laundry service… etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:40 PM
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Google said avg woman at 30 makes 45k. Does not isolate child free women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:31 PM
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This too!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:23 PM
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Underappreciated support too. For the men who play video games, y’all know how important a good support is for an ADC. Imagine y’all playing league of legends or dota or something similar… half way after absorbing all the gold and exp, you disband and say support, you are on your own! Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:02 PM
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Alimony is rarely awarded - and even if it is, usually just a few years. Esp since their marriage is under a decade, she doesn’t even get his retirement benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:00 PM
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Alimony is pretty rare nowadays. Even if granted, it’s usually just a few years. Alimony also isn’t that much money either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:59 PM
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If so, i did not see it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 10:58 PM
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From the prior post that probably inspired this one?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:21 PM
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Kids go to school when the youngest OSS like 5. Of you had 4 kids, that would take approximately 9-11 years out of the work force. Most businesses fail
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:32 PM
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The sacrifice is too risky… If the working partner leaves or dies… then what? What will that mean for the family? What will that mean for the non working spouse?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 07:31 PM
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This is before a divorce. So what child support are you talking about? How doed a SAHM study while caring for 4 kids? How does a working dad take care of 4 kids? He’s gonna put them in daycare and get a nanny? That’s more costly than child support
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:28 PM
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Bc people view hypothetical questions as shit testing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:30 PM
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What? Lol. Did you mean to reply to me? I’m a woman. I never slept with anyone casually. I always date them exclusively for at least 7 months before I have sex with them. I’m married I have slept with 3 men total. Obviously, 3rd is my husband, but each of the ones before I dated them for over 2 years each.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:30 PM
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I support men shit testing women as well. Good shit test: what would you do if i was pregnant, right now? How would we handle it? Bad shit test: fake a pregnancy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:12 PM
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Can he support a family? Does he pay for dates? Is he patient waiting for sex? Does he help out at home with chores? Asking a bunch of “what if” scenarios. Does he show off? Does he let me win in games? Put him in something he’s good at, how much does he show off? How supportive is he with my bad outcomes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:39 PM
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So you think lower class should have kids if they need to work 2-3 jobs to survive? Statistically, UMC have way less kids than the lower class and people in poverty. why are you against how we waste our money? If i quit my job? It would be a bigger financially loss. Is it so wrong for women and women to want a career and kids? I’m not sure where you are going. No one is saying we act like childless professionals. If i did, i would be going to happy Hour three times a week and hanging out with fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:35 PM
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No. Because regardless if we marry or not, we will probably die alone. Marriage doesn’t prevent us from dying alone and we have accepted it so we aren’t afraid of it since regardless what we do, it’s probably going to happen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:23 PM
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I agree. Women should but people saying it’s bad for women but good for men to sleep around is double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:22 PM
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If you invested time and money into something out someone, you should get returns for your investments. This is why i am saying it’s too risky for women. Women should not be a traditional woman
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:21 PM
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What business? They are too busy watching over and having multiple kids
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:18 PM
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How will you study with like 4 kids? I can’t study with even one kid. My time at home is completely taken up by my 1 year old. This entire weekend, i managed to do dishes, cook, grocery shopping, and my laundry. I had other plans relating to studying or work but they didn’t get done because i was essentially acting like a traditional wife this weekend. (Husband was working, nanny was off) Selling art? Most people barely cover supply cost with selling art since most art don’t sell. And is selling…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:17 PM
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Men sure do have a filter. Male doctors have nurses try to sleep with them quite often.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:14 PM
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Men: women need to vet. If they marry an AH or abuser or deadbeat, it’s their own fault for not vetting Also men: women who use shit tests are manipulative, cruel, etc My view: everyone should do a few shit tests. Some of them are beneficial, some of them are mind games. The latter is immature
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:12 PM
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I think there are various shit tests. Some are whatever or even fun, others make you immature and labeled as a crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:09 PM
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It’s pretty clear. Try reading it again? Most good women would not consider a guy who has slept around
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:40 PM
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I already said, it’s like hiring a cheaper worker… but i thinks it’s more transactional than even in the us. You think they will stand by you when you have cancer and broke? Good luck. Not all women follow the FDS guidelines. Hell, i know so many so don’t. I’d say more than half of my friends are saying or married to a man who makes less than them and are under 6’
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:39 PM
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I disagree because i would never have considered a high number man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:33 PM
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Boring if not to do with personality than looks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:32 PM
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This also means a man with a high body count is more likely to be able to cheat… by your logic. High number of body count means the same thing - both are a no no for me personally. Why? It means they have casual sex. While I perceive sex as something to be shared between two people in love. Clearly our values don’t align. No difference in gender
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 12:30 PM
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But no matter how pretty you look, it’s going to get boring lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:19 AM
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Why are people against immigration or hiring immigrants to do cheaper labor when americans refuse to work for below living wage? Bc immigrants come from a place that is way worse than most americans living in poverty. If you are dying of thirst in the desert and someone offers you dilute urine… You will accept it with gratitude. So it’s like hiring an immigrant in another country at below minimum wage here but above minimum wage in their own country. Is it exploitation? But at least they are wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:12 AM
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It can be both… but if you are willing to be exploited bc the offering is better than their existing conditions, then 🤷🏻‍♀️ But i do find it funny they don’t want to be used so they find someone else to use them. They are just greencards/ATM for a poorer woman. Which, you know, is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 06:02 AM
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I didn’t ask him bc the answer is obvious and it’s not internalized sexism,… it’s called knowing your partner that they won’t give up two decades of schooling to be a SAHD. No, bc he adjusted and now he’s pulling his own weight… and guess what??? He’s still a doctor. Doctors who are fathers still have to be fathers. Ps. I didn’t ask him to be a SAHD, but i did ask him if he had ever wanted to do that. The answer is no. Hell, read my other reply. I asked him to finish residency and go into privat…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 05:01 AM
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You sure about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:48 AM
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There is something you can do about it. When you see guys being upset about being treated as a possible rapist, and someone gets mad, you can tell them to cool off and not take it personally and that our reaction is reasonable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:48 AM
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He asked if i was going to go to part time, i said no. I didn’t ask him to stay home, bc I knew his answer. Did i start a reddit about this? No. I’m just disputing op’s point. The burden was on me bc for the first 6 mo he had a hard time adjusting to being a parent. But now he’s pulling his weight
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:47 AM
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Oh i did. I am referring to the tons of men being offended for being treated like a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:28 AM
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Why do guys want to fuck around though. Is it some double standards hypocracy he can fuck around but want someone who hasn’t fucked around?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:27 AM
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I repeat. There is a reason we looked for a nanny soon after conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:25 AM
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No. You are more than welcome to take precautions. I do not fault you for that. But when women take precautions and treat every man as a threat, suddenly we’re being unreasonable - despite our risks is many many folds higher
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:24 AM
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“a simple rape without false imprisonment happens over a few minutes and leaves emotional scars that last a lifetime but decrease with time. Most eventually move on and lead better lives. Imprisonment on a false rape change can be up to two decades and will result in a lifetime on the sexual predator list. The horror only ends with death.” wow. Just wow. the chances of you being successfully charged with false rape allegation is what? How many men out of 150 million men in america are charged in…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:18 AM
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No. Not yet. Maybe in the next 3 years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:13 AM
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It’s their Strong ass projections. Dying alone is men’s biggest fear
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:11 AM
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Um. Did you ever stop from you “women bad” mental state to critically think it out? Sure, i knew he couldn’t do it… which is why the moment I got pregnant, we started to looking for childcare options. However, HE did assume I would be fine with doing most of the childcare, and he married me knowing I would be an anesthesiologist. Therefore, why didn’t you question “oh why didn’t he thibk about who he was marrying…?” Sexist much? This is precisely what I am talking about. Suddenly, it’s on the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:10 AM
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You can’t experience everything with a person before marrying them. The shit tests op listed are not unreasonable either to judge the other person’s response in hypothetical situations or just seeing hiw they view certain events
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 04:08 AM
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Two reasons 1. You either do ooze the yuck and you don’t realize it. 2. PPD has how many users? How many DM you shit? So what’s the percentage? <0.5%
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:21 PM
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Glanced at some of your replies, don’t see it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:16 PM
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Oh. You talking about the <1% of online internet trolls? Why bother even ranting about them? I’m sure there are men on here who want to chain up women to be used as birthing machinese and sex dolls.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 10:03 PM
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Most people cannot afford a nanny. Most men and women make less than 100k. You need to make approximately 100-120k to hire a full time nanny. 160-180k to have both daycare and nanny
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:57 PM
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They got no where else to be - so here they are lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:45 PM
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Yeah. We are. But my point is, in modern day, a lot of women’s career choices are based on men’s choices because right now, society still views women as the default caretaker of the home and children.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:44 PM
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The bigger problem… it’s extraordinarily hard to prove rape. It almost always becomes a “she said he said”. Which does not lead to a conviction. And the rapist usually walks. False accusation may happen, but for it to be rules in the favor of the false victim is extremely rare… considering most rulings are in favor of the real rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:39 PM
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You bet wrong. He could have had a private practice surgery job making 400-450k. He choose to subspecialize further that results in him almost cornering himself into academia (not private practice) bc this is his interest. (Yes, he took a 100-150k paycut to do more training and more advanced surgery subspecialty, while working more hours) He’s still working bc that’s what he wants to do it. He did not spend 4 years in undergrad, 4 years med school, 3 years of phd and 5 years + 1 year fellowship …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:34 PM
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Being a good husband and father of your children is valuable. But I cannot stress the “good” part enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:29 PM
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Fine… bc i’m an anesthesiologist and in private practice, i make more than he does in academia. He will make between 300-350k, tops 400k. I can make between 400-600k. And i already DO work 60 hrs a week. But it means baby would go to daycare but when we need backup childcare, he would need to take days off to care for him or leave middle of his surgery to pick him up on his days. However, neither of us can leave in the middle of our job to pick up the kids consistently if we were to both work fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:16 PM
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Net profit? Yes… but only bc me working = 400k
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 09:12 PM
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Lol y’all crazy. If i told my husband some guy gave me his number, he would enjoy the story bc he knows it’s probably some weird ass dude and he knows i probably either threw it away or if he’s gross enough, i used it to register for spam. 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:27 PM
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Isn’t the red pill telling women to vet?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:25 PM
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But the lions just get tested and hope she will accept him.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:24 PM
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Why did you assume she’s just for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:23 PM
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How are these shit tests? twerk at work. My husband would be like: don’t tell, show. random dude gives me number - husband: do what happened? (He loves workplace stories, just like I listen to his workplace drama… usually it’s not revolving romance) ask what he would buy me: “idk, what do you want?” (I learned he has a bad gifter so I have to just tell him what to buy me) what tattoo he would do for me? He’s not a tattoo guy but he’s willing to do them for me. I’m not a tattoo girl… let me ask h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:18 PM
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Driving is so dangerous, why do people drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:13 PM
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Your chances if being accused of false rape is like 1000x less than a chance of a woman being raped. If we’ee told to not be afraid of men, why do you need to be afraid of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:11 PM
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Ppd will definitely call you used/damaged goods. So i recommend a different subreddit It will be harder if you want kids,… especially multiple kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:08 PM
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That’s modern traditionalism… which actually makes more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:06 PM
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It means she wants to do unpaid labor… But she’s not aware that most people, much like yourself, looks down and discounts their contribution for unpaid labor
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 05:05 PM
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I read half of it. Then it got too long, so let me reply to the first half… A woman’s burden is also man’s choice. If my man wants to work full time and punt off the childcare to me, then I can’t work full time like him unless I don’t care about their well being. I present you myself and my mother: My husband and father are both career people. My mother and I are also career people. However, if the kids are out sick, the men expect the women to call out to take care of the kids. My mother gave u…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:44 PM
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A career woman needs a man for what…? How is she using him? For his sperm? It’s easier to go to the sperm bank. So he can be her husband and father of her child? Wow you defined traditional marriage. In which case, the man would be using her to be his wife and mother of his child. A career woman is MUCH less likely be awarded alimony and more likely to end up with shared custody over a traditional woman who has no career and is with her kids all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:15 PM
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It’s better to be relationship material. Hands down. Temporary satisfaction, or long term satisfaction. Which do you want? Regarding your second half. It’s definitely easier for you to go from 1 to 2. You clearly already have the attraction, so now just don’t be a douchebag. A hvm is one that doesn’t sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:00 PM
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I just can’t lolol. Regarding the burger and steak… if I don’t want a burger and I’d rather eat a steak,… then I’m not going to buy a fucking burger. Lolol. This isn’t childlike at all. Buying something, you don’t want to eat, that’s not even healthy is extremely dumb. Waste of money, appetite, and calories. Now, i don’t have the money to buy the steak (time/value for a man i want), appetite (bc i’m now in a relationship and can’t have another guy bc i’m monogamous), and empty calories/junk (now…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:57 PM
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I just can’t lolol. Regarding the burger and steak… if I don’t want a burger and I’d rather eat a steak,… then I’m not going to buy a fucking burger. Lolol. This isn’t childlike at all. Buying something, you don’t want to eat, that’s not even healthy is extremely dumb. Waste of money, appetite, and calories. Now, i don’t have the money to buy the steak (time/value for a man i want), appetite (bc i’m now in a relationship and can’t have another guy bc i’m monogamous), and empty calories/junk (now…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 11:57 PM
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That’s from a year ago. He took longer to adjust to having a kid than I did. He now does every single night waking unless he’s on call, he does almost all the cooking for dinner. He vacuums half the time now. We have a live-in au pair who does the kids laundry now. I think the difference between a high value man and a low value man is that, a high value man knows when to pick up his slack. You honestly can’t find any posts about me complaining about him doing chores in the last six months. In fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 09:05 PM
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Then there was a study that show that men will make more money than women, even after a divorce, and that alimony and child support is barely existent. And it is easier on a man or they divorced? Plus men with children are not stigmatize as much as woman with children in the dating world. Unless you have paid your stay at home, wife/mom, over six figures a year, everything you’ve earned, is have hers. Because to replace her contribution into the home, you would have to fork out over six figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:58 PM
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Women initiating divorce means than women doing more paperwork Women initiating divorce at record rate but women also get denied alimony at record rate and women are working at record rate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:19 PM
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Where are you going to go? With what financial stability? I saw you mention alimony. That’s very rare. Even if granted, it’s usually for a few years (so she can get a degree). Half his stuff. No. It’s half of their stuff. He wouldn’t have been able to commit to his career to that degree if dedication without her support. Further more, the average man makes below 70k. So even if she gets alimony and childsupport, that’s going to be less than 35k. Which is not enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:18 PM
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Yes, but Much less so. Alimony is rarely granted. And even if it is, it’s usually just a few years. Then you can continue your nice life while she struggles.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:15 PM
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He cheated. Lolol. You cheat bc you lack respect for others and you won’t he a good husband. You must as well said: henry used to abuse her until he can’t move well, now he needs her help so he only love bombs without being violent. Wow they are so in love. Like wtf This is coming from a girl who does not do casual sex and thinks casual sex is horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:56 AM
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If you can rent it daily, you are probably pretty wealthy. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:37 AM
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So… Marry a traditional guy but not be a traditional woman
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:23 AM
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Sure but if you keep renting/buying cars, how is it a lie..?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:23 AM
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Yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 04:22 AM
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Go for it. But it’s not like you can keep renting them everyday,… lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 03:35 AM
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There is a reason a decade back, if a man was approached by another gay man, he would make it clear he’s not gay or the phrase “no homo” was frequently accepted. Why the homophobia? Bc they don’t want to be treated the way they treat women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:39 AM
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There aren’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:36 AM
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They show women with make up have more matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:34 AM
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At what point is it fake beauty? Shaving? Pucking eyebrows? Why just a lot of makeup? A smal amount of make up should count too. What about hair cuts? Or showering? Or brushing our hair? Why don’t we just all wear paper bags? See how ridiculous that is? Edit: i feel like i need to put in a disclaimer, i rarely wear make up…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:33 AM
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Not all… but i’d say there is a good chance you get screwed over. If my husband cheats or becomes abusive, i’m gone within an hour. If i was a traditional wife.. i may not be able to leave. And if i do leave, i would have nothing to fall back on.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:31 AM
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Did that sample include traditional women who got screwed over? I bet not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:30 AM
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Until they get completely fucked over
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 12:57 AM
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Or accept the various nurses who wants to hit on me. Doctors get laid so easily if they want
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:43 PM
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I’ll hope on Tinder or some other online dating site and say I’m a doctor, boom But honestly, i don’t understand the point of this question. Why would i want casual sex? I’d rather find a gf and wife
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 07:39 PM
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Overall, a HVM adds to my life, not take away. An overall good person. Happily married here. Here is how my husband enrich my life: • ⁠he helps takes care of the kid. So I don’t need to wake up multiple times every single night. This means every other day, i get 6 hours of sleep. Which is nice. • ⁠he cooks dinner most nights. This means i get to come home and not think about cooking and cleaning a few nights a week. Cooking for two is like extra 20% work, but i also don’t need to cook every day.…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:51 PM
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It does! I know a few… They are crazy thought
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:39 AM
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Without kids. Kids are alot off work. Even my own feels overwhelming. Would not have been willing to sacrifice as much as i do now for a kid that’s not my own… Some men are different. Here is an alternative view. Say my dear husband died, i would rather be single than to get with a man who doesn’t want to love on my child. But i think single fathers should consider single mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 04:33 AM
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Are you saying you have not changed between age 18 and 30…? Sounds like you didn’t grow. Why the FUCK are you linking someone who is literally on an addiction support subreddit for your sexist stance?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/23 03:38 AM
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The question is “are there men in my life”. Not about all men. The answer is no. None of the men in my life fail at dating - which the exceptjons i listed (which is also wxcluded by op)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:18 PM
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If you are a traditional man, you better make at least 100m Edit k*
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:08 PM
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NYC, SF, Houston are the 3 places I lived in the past 10 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 11:04 PM
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Honestly. No. The only guys single in my life: - one is obese - handful are not neurotypicals So no. I don’t know anyone who is what you described who fail at dating. Like none.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 10:50 PM
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Women will ask men to help with manual things but it’s not entitlement until she reacts badly when refused. When i was lifting that 5 gallon water, a guy saw and ran over to help. I thanked him. If i couldn’t do it, i may have asked him to help, and probably would have expected him to agree and would have been taken back if he said no. But i would ask that of another women too. Women are physicaly weaker. It’s just fact. If i saw a kid trying to lift something heavy, and he asked me to help and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 08:06 PM
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That’s good. Can’t do it without support for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 07:38 PM
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Sperm is like a few hundred. Drop in the bucket but I guess any bit helps. Is she rich? Who’s gonna help take care of the baby after?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:49 PM
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The donor for sperm is not the issue. The IVF process is the issue. Insemination is definitely cheaper than IVF. Is the gay friend going to co parent?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 06:14 PM
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Not being an entitled man/bitter incel automatically removes you from the bottom 25%. In relative to reddit men on ppd, puts you at least in the top half
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:17 PM
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I wonder what it will be used for. Things that would be appropriate would be like: Women who: - make false rape claims - orders excessive food and obviously in it for the food - catfishes - women who have SA/raped men - women who are violent - the big cray crays. I hope it isn’t used as a little black book though, or who is easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:36 AM
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There are guys who prefer to have sex with someone they love and not just casual sex. A guy who waits is a guy who is serious. A guy who cannot wait, gets dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:12 AM
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Sounds like the main thing you want is sex. Probably not compatible with op
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:10 AM
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Hopefully they don’t marry someone they are literally repulsed by. But attraction can grow with love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:03 AM
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Well, i know 6 women pretty close, and 4 of us have stretch marks or any significant post partum changed. But maybe after like 5 kids. Obv i know more women but i don’t see them half naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 07:49 PM
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15? Idk. But 5 years is nice for a mature 20 year old
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:29 PM
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Happily married here. Here is how my husband enrich my life: he helps takes care of the kid. So I don’t need to wake up multiple times every single night. This means every other day, i get 6 hours of sleep. Which is nice. he cooks dinner most nights. This means i get to come home and not think about cooking and cleaning a few nights a week. Cooking for two is like extra 20% work, but i also don’t need to cook every day. So less work on my hand. definitely helps with double income with less cost …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 03:32 PM
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For some. Some women don’t have much if any notable changes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:43 PM
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Those single woman getting ivf in america must be pretty well off… i cannot imagine being a single (working) mom and doing well unless I made at least 300k. 150k in taxes 24k daycare 40-60k part time nanny
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 02:43 PM
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I don’t complain. Why would I? I’m married. I do however, point out toxic behavior and suggest why they are single. I said already, if a man on here wanted the rare unicorn and is fine being single until he gets one, that’s perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:16 PM
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She doesn’t have the chance to show her red flags
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 01:03 PM
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I’m married. But i have no problem hitting a “wall” bc i’m fine with being with someone who is worthy of my shared life AND I was also perfectly fine being single. I expect to die alone regardless - probably will outlive my husband and die a widow.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:56 AM
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No. Anesthesiologist
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:54 AM
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No one has to be realistic about their standards. If they rather be single than date a 9 foot billionaire, or a virgin victoria secret model who is ready to be their traditional wife but a freak in the sheets daily… by all means, go for it? Why does it bother you that someone has “unrealistic” expectations? The only time it’s like 🙄 is when people set high standards that they cannot meet ANDDDDD they whine about it. If they are happy to be single while waiting for howeber long, then go for it!!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:54 AM
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In topics that is discussing general trends…. NOT a discussion where it’s specifically about a single person’s life. Look at you, you still diverge. Just cannot stay on topic? You said i cannot meet my own standards. Say what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 04:51 AM
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Ah, so no answer. K.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:45 AM
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I listed specific standards, most of which can be measured objectively. You asked me about my standards and you accused me of not meeting my own standards. Why are you dragging in other people (generalized women)? You want me to drag in some sexist view of men if i was talking about your personal preference and life?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:20 AM
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Oh? What is the figurative meaning you were trying to go for then…?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:13 AM
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Says who? Hmmm? 😂 Try again. My field makes between 350-650k; I have multiple STEM degrees, obvious I enjoy outdoor activities otherwise I wouldn’t prefer men who also did so - yes, this means I’m quite active. I believe respect is the most important aspect in a marriage. I’m anti divorce (short of pure disrespect - which I believe everything horrible stems from - varying from abuse to cheating), i want kids. The only thing that is not even is - i don’t have a good relationship with my father bc…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:12 AM
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I’m married. But i’d rather stay single before i compromise my standards. It’s not something bad - to be singlez you knwo what’s worse than being single? Being in crap relationships with crap people. Notice how i left the gender out? Yes, this means for both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:08 AM
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Bc I’m aware most guys aren’t like him. Just look around. He has never called a woman a name. He is able to be a traditional man yet having feminist views (not the radical feminist views - aka man hating). He’s sweet and caring to me. Is a great dad. He both likes the outdoors sports and likes video games (he only plays with me). He’s hella patient with his family members. He has a good relationship with his mom. Etc Most men cannot claim that. If i didn’t meet someone like him, i’d rather be si…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:06 AM
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Someone who improves my life in multiple ways. So for me, he better make at least 300k, have an interest in STEM field, enjoys doing fun activities (rock climbing, hiking, surfing, ice skating/hockey, etc), want kids, anti divorce, respects each other, treats women he’s not into with respect, treats his mom with respect. Someone who pulls equal weight at home (I’m married, yes, he meets my standards)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:39 PM
11

I’m married I’ll probably still die alone because women (on average) out live men. Probably die a widow. Don’t project your fear on us
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 11:34 PM
30

Women are marrying less and less. Tbh, if there was not a guy who meets my standards, then i’d rather stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 06:42 PM
1

And you don’t think it’s 75% if men gaslighting women? Do you think ppd represents real life? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:59 AM
1

Boy. What clip? It’s chivalry. If homekeeping is easy, then do it. Can’t be complaining it’s too easy while also refusing to do it. What’s wrong wanting someone who makes more considering most women do more at home? I wanna make sure he can easily support the family. It’s not that i hate my job, but rather i want to spend more time to help our kids develop (unless he wants to go part time - which i’d be down with). We can set whatever standards and preferences we want. You guys can do the same. …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 03:56 AM
2

It’s not an extreme extra mile to want a guy who can provide for a family. Then you went on a rant that has nothing related to what i said. Then you argued with the statements you made. Like, sir, you ok? Edit: ps, traditional roles were harder for men. Imm a woman and i meet the traditional role of a man better than 90% of men. All y’all gotta do is go work and make money. Not hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:38 AM
1

Idk what that is. But if you insists on making up an excuse why no one wants you, go for it but most men do pair up
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 01:36 AM
6

When you get older, you realize “love” and some basic ass job and car isn’t enough to support a family so you have higher expectations for husband and father of your children. What’s the point of your post? Convince women to lower their standards? Yet women who have kids with poor guys are blamed for not being picky enough. Damned if we do, damned if we don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:00 PM
4

Some ppl fuck and are like “wow, this person is nothing but a dick.” Literally lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 07:37 PM
3

Your privacy vs our safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:26 PM
2

Definitely true. People should not be posting dick pics. FB doesn’t allow it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 05:19 PM
4

Women were gatherers - so they did stuff. And watched over their kids, and did all the house chores
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:44 PM
7

Are you stuck in 1920’s?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:24 PM
1

It’s a millennial app
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:21 PM
8

Defamation is wrong. But your tinder pics are not private. The moment you upload them, they are public. People literally post their entire text convos on there. Don’t be a dickhead then? You coukd argue taking about who they slept with is wrong and double standards since women would have a riot about this - but at the same time, i thought y’all are proud of a high count
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:19 PM
1

Y’all need to stop being so violent and control your emotions. Like, what are you doing? PMSing?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 01:49 PM
4

If you think most women are trashy, that’s a you problem birds of a feather…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:53 AM
1

I skimmed through dibla, it’s a mixed feeling. I think some men are trash, but not all men are trash. Like picking up a guy at the finish line? Sure worked well for my step mom. But guess what? In my eyes, both my dad and her are trash. I wouldn’t wanna marry someone like my dad. So yeah, i guess it works but you attract trash. Playing hot and cold games? Sure it works… for some men. The men that i personally wouldn’t want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 02:33 AM
1

You missed the point 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 12:15 AM
1

Maybe ask your partner how often do they want sex… and suggest alternatives?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:37 PM
0

…. Ok lol. Cdc says you are wrong. Maybe you should go look it up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:20 PM
3

Idk why so many people abuse yhe 80% filing rate by the woman to blame women for divorce. It literally doesn’t mean anything. Are you trying to say men don’t contribute to women’s life positively so women would rather be single than be w her husband? Or women are stuck doing the labor of divorcing even though both parties are already done and over Or are you trying to say women have their eyes set on someone else? Bc if you look at post divorce data. Men remarrry more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:17 PM
2

Considering most people marry their similar level, it means the same is true for women. Ofc most women want the super hot guy, who makes billions, who is also loyal and loving. But the avg woman isn’t chasing that either. Most men and women settle/marry someone similar to their own level
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:44 PM
1

No. You are wrong. “Antidepressant use increased with age, overall and in both sexes—use was highest among women aged 60 and over (24.3%).”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:42 PM
1

What stat?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:32 PM
8

Funny, because if you compare this to the site before (40’s) are the least likely to be single. So do you think relationship/marriage worsened their depression…? 🤔🤔🤔 “Women, by contrast, are by far most likely to be single later in life – roughly half of women ages 65 and older are unpartnered (49%), while those ages 30 to 49 are the least likely to be single (19%). Roughly three-in-ten women ages 18 to 29 (32%) and 50 to 64 (29%) are single.” Women take more antidepressants? Sure bc women take …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:30 PM
4

Do you think the avg man want the avg women then? Are you saying an avg man who has the chance to be w a top 10% woman, he would prefer the avg woman? Let’s be honest, everyone wants the top
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:21 PM
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What makes you think they are depressed? I’d rather be single than with a someone who makes me miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:31 PM
7

Marriage has a much lower rate than 50% when you look at first marriages. Even lower when you look at people who arr older than 25 when marrying. And further more lower for people with college education. I’m sure the avg man finds the supermodel more attractive than the avg woman but they aren’t exactly pinning for them. Same concept. The sooner you stop being so bitter, the sooner you will find someone
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 12:38 PM
1

“Oh no, she’s going to know what she wants, boundaries and be able to recognize abuse” Lol your ego is bruised up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:09 AM
1

Everyone who commits settles. There’s always going to be someone out there who is better than your spouse… possibly in every way. There are 8 billion people after all
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:06 AM
1

Not true. I expect men to pay but always prepared to pay myself. If I’m not interested in them, i will always pay my half.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:02 AM
1

If I’m not interested in him, I’ll pay half.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:01 AM
1

I judge a man for high count…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 06:00 AM
2

So not size 0
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:59 AM
1

I mean… lol yeah. My old roommate was size 0. She was also anorexic and trying to recover. She’s still super small and i think she’s like size 2? I can wrape my hand around her upper arms. Bones.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:53 AM
1

HVM for me would not have a count of 30. That’s a red flag. 5 or less would be ideal. The “chads” are not hvm. They may be hvd - high value dildo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:49 AM
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No. I want a combo of both. I expect my husband to cook and clean and take care of the kids (classic women roles) and also be able to earn enough to support a family of 4 (classic men role - which seems to be just one task of being an adult and making enough money).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:48 AM
2

Girls night is for us to watch kdrama and do our nails. You sure you wanna do it? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:46 AM
1

Meanwhile, i’m over 30, over 130 pounds, and over my husband. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:45 AM
1

That 000 girl will make you wait until marriage. So she can remain 000
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:44 AM
0

Anorexia…?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:43 AM
5

The ideal ratio of hip to waist is like 0.7something right? So your numbers are actually not ideal
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:41 AM
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The avg woman isn’t looking for the top 20%. Most women marry in the same ballpark as themselves. High value can mean different things. You don’t HAVE to make 6 figures and be 6 foot tall. But if you mean most men are shit/abusive/lazy/manchild… (which i do not agree with), then yes. They will stay single (hopefully). If a man doesn’t add value to your life, don’t date and marry them. Same advice goes for men. Date and marry a woman who adds value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 05:37 AM
2

Most men do partner up. So no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:04 PM
1

Strongly disagree. from a MD.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 09:03 PM
1

Your comments are standalone. “You still have MD’s” As if MD’s can manage 30 pts without nurses lol. Healthcare is much more advanced now compared to the 1950’s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 08:16 PM
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Medics are below nursing in the US. Do you guys call MD medics where you are at? CNA<EMT < paramedics <nursing <physicians In order if education and knowledge. That said, i didn’t include the other dozens of healthcare positions
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:32 PM
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You think MD’s can monitor 30 patients and care for 30 patients? Lolol are you insane????
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 07:30 PM
2

Most of them do not have a career after leaving the work force for over a decade
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:48 PM
0

The things you describe are quite common in young women (relative to older). Yes - younger women ate slightly more immature but that’s also said of younger men. (More so i’d say)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:47 PM
2

6’4 has no further advantage (to me) than a 6’ guy. I’m 5’5” - if he’s 5-6 inches taller than me, that’s greater. Anymore than 6 inches taller than me is dininishing returns. I can see why a tall woman 5’10 would prefer a 6’3 over a 6’ but most women are around 5’5
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:43 PM
1

They are the same as incels. Either they are unattractive physicially with ugh personality, or total trash personalities, or have unrealistic expectations for men. These are different than women who prefer to be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 06:40 PM
2

Because that’s the case for most SAHM’s… you want to have a comparison right?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:20 PM
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You think young women aren’t social….? I’m confused. What? What is the attitude of middle age women (middle age is 40-45)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:20 PM
0

He doesn’t care about being polite. He’s planning to hire a prostitute
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:19 PM
5

I say in 21st century, we’re pretty close in terms of “total privileges”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:18 PM
3

Ofc it matters. Just like a woman’s weight matters. But it’s not like “you MUST BE 6 feet” It’s more like: - Under 5’5” = really disadvantaged - 5’5-5’7” = meh disadvantaged - 5’7-5’10= average but threshold met - 5’10-6’ = advantaged
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:17 PM
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Only reason i see why you would say female
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:11 PM
1

A job that pays better than bare minimum wage? Will you still be in demand if you have been out of the workforce for a decade? What if you started to be a SAHD at age 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:09 PM
-1

13 hr isn’t that bad depending on what you do. My husband comes back after 24-36 hrs and still do some chores. Why are you w someone unemployed?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 04:00 PM
3

Birds of a feather
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:58 PM
2

Most men don’t make enough though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:57 PM
-4

My husband said no to that deal. Lol. You would say yes? Really? And then i can focus on my career and 20 years later, dump you and you have no career to fall back on?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:55 PM
9

Less crazy, and less drama as we age. Lol. He must be addicted to immaturity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:54 PM
3

Attracted to taller men? Yes. Those are soft preferences. Once you pass a certain looks threshold, being more attractive is diminishing returns.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:49 PM
6

I would not say women are the privileged gender. We definitely have more privileged in some aspects but men also are more privileged in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 03:39 PM
9

Lol no. Just no. Chinese women are not coming to spread their communism. Just no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 02:43 AM
1

Women aren’t entitled for sex either. The end. If you want to hate on ugly women getting laid, go hate on your fellow men who are desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:24 PM
2

You are not entitled to sex. The end. Sorry, some people are objectively very very ugly and perhaps other traits cannot overcome it. This is true for women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:09 AM
4

Why would we have sex with someone we’re not attracted to…?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:33 PM
7

Some of us don’t do casual sex. I thought guys would know this by now
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 03:32 PM
1

They are people who reply to me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:30 PM
1

Men i know in ny life say things like: Yeah, i wouldn’t know what to do without my wife, i’d be so lost my wife (SAHM) definitely works way harder than me my wife is amazing, she is so supportive of me so i can focus on my career of course men should do household chores, i live there after all. women should have high standards. There are more at risk for y’all. The worse tha really happen to men is losing some money, whatever. Even the guys paying child support and alimony with bad divorces stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 01:28 PM
0

What a horrible view. Physical attractiveness is not the end all be all. Wtf. I’m far more attractive than hubby, i would never cheat on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:23 AM
3

He’s a guy. Boob and vagina
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 02:20 AM
0

Why are you hiding it? It makes you either homophobic or closeted gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:18 PM
3

He wants to marry his mom…He’s not ready to be a husband
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:59 PM
1

You can watch trad gf on tiktok… bc guess what? They are on tiktok and making content on tiktok. Sounds like the type of girl you’d avoid So your mom taught you to throw personal insults when you can’t support your arguments? Since you said your mom taught you how to behave etc
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:24 PM
1

@And my mom is active in our community back home. She's very active in her day to day, as well. Blogs, reads, cooks, works out lol. She's living how those "trad gf's" on TikTok are living lol, which I find funny how people got offended by that.” Ppl on tiktok chase clout and the IG lifestyle and aesthetics
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 05:14 AM
1

Not men, but specifically men in this subreddit. There are just a lot of angry men, angry incels, and misogynistic men on here. Most men in my real life are great and supportive, caring, loves their wife, sings praises about the them doing unpaid labor, etc. most of us are also happily married
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:06 AM
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I’m from china. We have schools before america even existed as america today. Sure your parents helped you learn some stuff (even modern day american families do this), but kids still went to school for x hours a day. Home schooling is not traditional. SAHM’s traditionally did not have the education background to teach beyond elementary stuff. SAHMs are traditionally not college/higher level educated. Traditionally, your daughter(s) would not get a formal education, esp not beyond elementary if …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:30 PM
1

I think it’s enough if he has back up plans. As it is still more than most dual income families. However, the risk is much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:29 PM
3

Yeah. 10k is just an example. As long as it’s equal free time and play money, i find it fair
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:13 PM
6

She has no working experience for 1-2 decades, how will she be able to find a job that’s above minimum wage? Her entire life will be dependent on you. What if you left her out of her will? If she has a career, she will get less of your wealth when she leaves you compared to a woman with no money.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:13 PM
5

Oh so you want more than traditional wife. You want your wife to actually be a teacher, nanny, housekeeper, and cook. Your siblings and you have at least an 18 year spread. So i’m guessing you want your wife to be having kids from the age of 18 until 36? If that’s what she wants, cool. If that’s what you want and can find someone who wants the same, cool. But i don’t think you are able to get there given you believe split finances should be 50:50 with a huge disparity in income just bc she has a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 05:11 PM
1

Only on reddit. Lol. I dislike most men i interact with on reddit. Tbh, i don’t like most women on here either. Specifically PPD. Some other subreddits are ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:58 PM
3

You spend less when you have less things to do. I’d also spend less if i never went on dates. Instead of doing something fun and spending 200$, i could be staying home alone watching netflix.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:56 PM
2

You’ll have to look at his post history - we were talking about split finances in a different thread. I was saying it’s most fair if both sides have equal free/fun money. Gender is irrelevant. If he makes 200k and she makes 60k; then they should contribute 190k and 50k respectively and each have 10k to play with.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:55 PM
8

That sounds so awful. And if something bad happens to him (financially - disabled, death, etc) - they all go crash into poverty. I feel men who “really strong wants a traditional wife” just want to have the power and control. If we need men/dependent on them, we can’t leave even if they become abusive. They hold marriage over us because they CAN leave but we’re stuck. They fear if we have a career, we can leave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:52 PM
6

What if something happens and you get divorced… you gonna kick her out with no alimony and she’ll pick up some minimum wage job while you keep your 200k minus minimal child support? Once the kids go to school, what is the wife gonna do 8 hrs a day? What will the wife do after kids go to college?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:32 PM
1

Why do you want a SAHW?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:54 PM
24

But you are a man who is transactional. You want a giver but you want the split finances so you can keep 175k of your 200k and you want her to only get 35k of her 60k. Why would a loyal woman want you when you want to make your situation 5x better than hers? That’s not equal. You aren’t a giver. You said she is worthy of one, so i guess you won’t get the loyal woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 03:22 PM
1

I ride them while using a vibrator
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:56 PM
3

24 for incels. No limit if you willingly stay single
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:55 PM
2

I guess no one ever told you… people change.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 12:46 PM
5

Incompatibility Inflexibility (usually men who expects their woman to be “flexible” means they are not) Poor financial management Criminal activity And disrespect
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 04:26 AM
1

They also didn’t have access to this much food
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:51 PM
5

Evolutionarily, we are programmed to overeat to compensate for periods where our ancestors had to no food. The fatter ones survived famines.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:02 PM
4

So… Just one donut and a soda per day is extra 200-300 calories. Which is extra 1 pound every 2 weeks. This means 26 pounds per year. It quickly spirals out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 09:01 PM
3

Honestly, i could find out but i don’t feel like spending the energy calculating it (since there is a wikipedia that tallies up school shooting and victims). Quick search on google found cnn reporting 180 school shootings, 114 killed (yes, i know most were students) in 2009-2018. If you compare that with some other jobs (per google search “hard manual labor”) - janitor - house keeper - landscape technician - plumber Etc Yes, not as high as construction workers but surely higher than janitors (i’…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 08:51 PM
3

If you ignore me, i assume you don’t like me and i’ll drop you like a hot potatoe. Simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:37 PM
2

This is regarding relationships. I avoid dating people in hard labor. :) I don’t wanna have a husband who breaks a bone every few years, develop chronic back pain, die on the job, comes home and use their job as justification why they are sitting on their couch all night, the (usually) low income, and increase risk of being a widow.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:31 PM
2

Not all men have done hard labor. Your title addresses women. I have done hard labor. Guess what that made me do? Avoid hard labor and people who do hard labor. Not gonna work in your favor.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:26 PM
5

In the us…? Honestly it’s higher than you expected given the school shootings…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 07:09 PM
3

He deleted his comment. He initially said something along the lines of you initiating all 4 of your relationship shows you are deseperate or unwanted/undesirable or something… i already forgot the exact phrasing. I obviously do not remember the exact phrasing. It’s blind assumptions and just throwing unfounded insults - i don’t even consider it personal as they are obviously wrong…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:44 PM
2

He deleted his comment. He initially said something along the lines of you initiating all 4 of your relationship shows you are deseperate or unwanted/undesirable or something… i already forgot the exact phrasing. I obviously do not remember the exact phrasing. It’s not personal as much as blind assumptions and just throwing unfounded insults
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:43 PM
7

You are the prime example why women are “damned if you do, damned if you don’t”. You really calling us desperate while whinning on reddit about not having women initiate enough? Rofl. Read better. Been in 4, i initiated 3. This doesn’t mean I’ve only been asked out once. You realize this right? I was an attractive female college student in chemical engineering. I have PLENTYYYY of men ask me out but in school and out of school. I simply don’t date people i barely know. I have rejected dozens of …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 05:20 PM
1

Who’s gonna pay for daycare?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:52 PM
13

Out of the 4 relationships I’ve had, i initiated 3 of them. If i like them enough, i’ll initiate. Truth of the matter, if we don’t initiate with you, we don’t want you enough. 🙃 #truthhurts I saw husband potential in them, and i wanted them. I knew they were a catch, and i didn’t want to miss that chance. Regarding your response to rejection- no one cares about your rejection here either. Just go do whatever. Get rejected, so what? Move on. It means out of the 2 billion women in the world, one d…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:46 PM
1

Where are you getting that from?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:44 PM
1

Are you saying if a woman he’s not attracted to him (ugly/fat) keeps giving him attention, he will like her more? Being clingy as a leech? Begging him),crying? Showering him with compliments? Regarding men. No one wants a desperate man (ot woman). But it doesn’t mean be mysterious. Volunerability is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:28 PM
1

You said alimony + child support = minimum wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:33 PM
5

I would love if men were just flat out honest. “I want to fuck” “I only like you for your looks” Etc. But it may not work out in their favor when we can screen them out. Ps i also feel this way vice versa. Women should be honest too. “I want a man who is 6” and makes 500k” Like cool girl, good for you, go for you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:42 AM
1

I beat this one. His mom birthed him so he can do this. His mom’s success is my success and every woman’s success… even if they aren’t moms. 😂😂 bahaha
/r/AntiFeminists10/01/23 06:39 AM
1

That’s everyone. Every one wants a cushy job if they can get one
/r/AntiFeminists10/01/23 06:38 AM
1

Probably bc they want/need to spend time with kids. Possibly bc their future doctor husband doesn’t want to sacrifice his career so she needs to step back a bit
/r/MensRights10/01/23 06:27 AM
2

This makes no sense. You think a mom with 3 kids and has no work experience can live off of just minimum wage…?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:24 AM
2

Women like me? You think you know me? Is your wife a SAHM? Lol did she give uo her career for you? And if you divorce, you think it should be “screw up, gl, no alimony for you despite you spent the last 20 years supporting my career and our family so i can focus on my career”?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 06:22 AM
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Yes. They would each pay 50:50. Duh. That’s why if SHE is the nanny, she can pay herself half and he can pay her half. That’s how it’s half of the nanny cost We don’t need plumbers 365 days a year. If you think we’re so ugly, leave us alone and go hire women for the things you want in a wife. Go hire a surrogate for 150 k. Go hire a nanny for 70k, go hire a house keeper, go hire a cook. Why are you complaining so much? Oh, right, you cannot afford it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 04:39 AM
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It’s THEIR child. It’s her child and it’s also his child. She could go work some minimum wage job, but he will be paying for the nanny then. Same thing. That’s why i said half of nanny/housecleaner pay,… and not the full amount. Bc half of her work is for you. Don’t like it? Go hire nanny. Oh can’t afford it? Sucks for you If you clean after yourself yes. If you are cleaning after your spouse… no. If you are cooking for yourself yes, if you are cooking for ur spouse then no.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 03:12 AM
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Go for it. A full time nanny charges 50-70k. A house keeper is another 20k. Etc. All put together, a SAHM is worth well over 100-150k if she did it for someone else. So say she gets half of that, since they are her kids but also his. Thag’s 70k per year. Most men don’t make enough to hire a nanny anf housekeeper, that’s why they make their wife work for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:25 AM
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What? A man who supported a woman to grow her career deserves alimony. This isn’t a gender issue. If you give up your career for 20 years, you deserve alimony. That said, for both genders, alimony isn’t granted very often and even if it is, it’s o ly for a short time period
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 01:22 AM
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But does a 35 year old man actually WANT someone who is 20-21?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:37 AM
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Career wise, you definitely do not peak at 35
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:37 AM
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I do feel men peak in their 30’s. Why? We prefer a more mature man, a man who knows to not play games, ready to be a husband and a dad, one who is ready to commit, one who has their life sorted out (career/life goals), etc. I feel women probably “peak” in their mid to late 20’s for fertility reasons. A man who wants to have multiple kids probably wouldn’t choose to initiate a relationship with someone who is 35. That’s just fact (yaah yeah, i know male fertility decreases with age as well but no…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:36 AM
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Yes? It’s not a secret… everyone knows we’re opposite endd of the spectrum in terms of looks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:28 PM
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But i’d be lying that i wouldn’t want a man who made more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:09 AM
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Honestly… i have no idea what you are saying lol. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/23 05:06 AM
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How does relate to your claim that women are bottom feeders? Wouldn’t it mean they go for the shit men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 11:48 PM
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But rich and small with a good personality > rich and tall with shit personality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:33 PM
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To some degree, yes. I care more abour his career than his money. If he makes 40k as a high school teacher? Great. 40k as a janitor? Pass(sorry). If he makes 400k as a doctor? Great. 400k sell drugs or sex trafficking? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:32 PM
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Bc all the guys are on the bottom…? Or do y’all have way more women than men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 10:30 PM
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Are 20% of men have false accusation placed on them? Yes or no. You don’t need to tell me your sob story (nor do i bother to read it) to try to justify X% of men who has had false accusation placed on them. Just tell me, how many men have had false accusation FILED against them. Tell me a percentage.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 03:56 PM
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Yeah, you can be attracted to someone who isn’g attractive. I know that blows y’all’s minds on PPD. There is literally no other Man I want to have sex with other than him. Literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 02:02 PM
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I’m sure it is but very few of you guys go through it. Imaginw if 20% of men went through it. That’s my point. If 20% of men were falsely accused at some point in their life, and almost all were threatened to be falsely accused. Y’all would avoid women like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 01:13 PM
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So work on social retardedness - it can be fixed. I dated and married someone who is (objectively by most women) considered ugly. But of course he probably has s way better personality than you
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:46 PM
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You claim to be the leader of misogyny…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:44 PM
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“Terri of the three girlfriends are 13 years younger.” it’s one thing to happen to like someone who happened to be 13 years younger, it’s another to target women 13 years younger. Predatory because you don’t get women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:41 PM
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You rather they lie? I know he’s not attractive but I’m attracted to him. Most my friends were shocked that i chose to date someone they thought was ugly. It doesn’t mean attraction didn’t grow over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:36 PM
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Yet you blame women for the being selfish and not Scott to think for the family despite you acknowledge how men are just not committing to families they created
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/23 12:32 PM
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Why is your buddy scared of a woman he hasn’t seen in 5 years? And if they show up, they need to prove he did or did not molest her. Her nodding won’t prove anything. 20 years later, they understand a 2 year old isn’t gonna remember it and be able to report it. Sucks for your one buddy but for every single one of your buddy, there is like 5 women out there being raped. Statistically, you have better chances of not being fucked if you were a man. If men were accuses and charged with false accusat…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 10:29 PM
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There is a diff between saying he’s not attractive and not being attracted to him. He’s not attractive and i knew that when i first met him. But after i got to know him more, i became more and more attracted to him. I would literally choose him over any “hot” guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:58 PM
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Is it possible? Yes. Is it likely I happened to be talking to someone in the top 0.5-1% (on reddit no less), unlikely. My field easily makes between 400-500k. Independent also doesn’t mean balling. Just like people think “omg she wants a guy who makes 6 figures! She’s a gold digger” yet 100k isn’t much in reality yet he’s viewed as an independent boss bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 08:57 PM
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What’s the age of married women? What’s the age of divorced women? What’s the age of a widowed woman? Women live longer than men. Women also tend to be younger than their husbands. As a result, most women die before their husbands. Death rate is not the same as living longer
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:10 PM
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How do you age adjust when married women are much much younger on avg than widowed women? And even if it was true, (which i doubt), why is it better for married women? I’m a physician. Almost always a wife knows her husband’s meds/history better than himself. A wife knows her kids ‘s medical history better than the dad as well. I can count on one hand the number of times the husband knew his wife’s condition better than herself. And in those cases, she had severe dementia.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:09 PM
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Honestly depends on what you are crying about. Your mom died? I expect you to cry. You got a papercut… 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:40 PM
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I’m sure but most male rapes are by other men. Which i’m not sure if it’s relevant in the PPD over hetero dating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:58 PM
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I don’t want the guys who gravitate to me. I prefer the guys who are very respectful but as a result, they may worry about making a move.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:57 PM
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I got my husband, he’s not attractive physically, but man, i have a better marriage than any of my friends and he truly loves me. I’ll take a good guy with a good career over a nice face
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:54 PM
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I have asked out 3 of my 4 partners. Why? I had a feeling they liked me, i liked them, they were shy. But i knew i wanted them. If girls aren’t asking you, they don’t really want you. Sorry dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:50 PM
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Please tell me how would i prove rape. Even if a sample was collected, he can just say “it was consensual”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:43 PM
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Male victims by women or by other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:42 PM
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Women are known to be able to think for families more than themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:42 PM
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What is the rate if a woman being raped (attempted or successful)? What is the rate of a man being falsely accused (attempted or successful)? Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:40 PM
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Idk where you get this from. Most people end uo with others similar to their own levels. Ie. I’ve only dated engineers and doctors… Most men aren’t falsely accused of rape. More women are actually raped than men who are falsely accused. If you get raped, most likely he will have no consequences. Traditional feminity is NOT stay slim. Be nice? That’s not a problem. Do you mean be su servant and silent? It’s misogynistic. Men in large have stopped protecting and providing. I have no issues with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 05:38 PM
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Death rate does not mean live longer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:02 PM
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It’s also equally difficult for women to find a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:06 PM
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Actually married men live longer. Most likely when the woman is old, her husband has already died…. So tell me, who will call when my husband is already dead? Also where is your source that married women live longer,…?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 03:04 PM
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Men are more likely to be killed by other men,… meanwhile women are more likely to be killed by their spouse. Has nothing to do with who’s life is worth more.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:36 AM
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I’d say this is true for women as well. If i were 26, out of school, where do you think I can find a good man? If you say OLD - i’ve been stalked on that. How many times do i risk my life before i find someone good? Finding someone to have sex with is easy, yes. But finding that husband and father to my future baby child would be really hard after schooling
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:31 AM
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Dating and marriage is more risk to a good woman. You risk your future, body, and life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:29 AM
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You can be outgoing and introverted and abrasive. None of those are contradictory. Source: i am one. Huge introvert, depending on topic, can be very opinionated, depending on situation, can be very abrasive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:22 AM
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What if a married couple is childfree? What if the married couple is done having kids? What if the married couple is not financially ready for kids yet? Never have sex despite being married?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 05:24 AM
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Guys think there are girls that he can get who are both. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:28 PM
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You think this person is sane? Lol - i wouldn’t come close to him with a 10 foot pole
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:17 PM
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I keep hearing that. What is purge week?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:16 PM
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Not w social interactions
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:15 PM
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Lolol ok go tell me. Here and deadbedroom this. You successfully solved all the issues. Like cool, you has sex with your wife for 2 years and got kind and are done, hues sex is also over until you get erectile dysfunction o
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 01:13 PM
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So you don’t think women want a man who “will not give in sexually to anyone before a LTR and confrol his urges?” Bc i assure you, we sure do not want cheaters either
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:43 PM
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It actually NOT ok to call people fat/ugly, poor. Out of your league makes you seem like a jackass but at least that is contributed by various factors
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:41 PM
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If i preceive you as a (insert slur here), doesn’t mean i should call you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:39 PM
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Oh so you just want double standards. You don’t know if you are a virgin…?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:39 PM
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That’s fine to choose whoever you want, it’s not fine to go around calling people used and objectifying
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:41 AM
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Do you are a virgin and you are also saving until marriage. Ok. Fair enough. If not, then wtf? You think used penis is good?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:40 AM
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I’m not a shoe. That said, a pair of shoes that’s worn by thousands over 50 years is probably going to be sitting in the museum. 😂 priceless
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:39 AM
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Accidents happen. You think married couples should just never have penis vagina sex…?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 05:28 AM
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If you don’t think it’s a punishment, you try it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 02:20 AM
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So maybe you should vote that men have the same fate as the woman they have impregnanted. (Not by choice, mandatory)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 12:00 AM
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If those are your only choices,… perhaps you are fat guy who happens to be over 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 11:10 PM
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Abortion and child support is not even comparable. But even if you tried to compare them… let this sink in, the avg child support is around 4-5k … PER YEAR. Fuck, i spend 5 k on daycare every 2 months
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:47 PM
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So punish women for having consensual sex… that’s what you are saying. Maybe if the woman is forced to birth, men should endure the exact same suffering. Hopefully all you have to simulate is 13 weeks of nausea, some stretch matched, then being ripped open from your anus to your balls. At best. At worse, you die. Why punish ONLY women for consensual sex. Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:43 PM
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I’m confused. Are you saying tats are trashy?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 10:03 PM
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Despite you are MGTOW - you are surprisingly accurate here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:24 PM
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It does not. Nice is good. The end. What y’all confused about is not understanding that being spineless, lack of respect for self, being entitled just bc you did something nice, lack of boundaries, lack of confidence, and boring are interchangeable with niceness. It is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 05:22 PM
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Yes. Money is more attractive but it’s not gonna superceed other red flags. I don’t care if you are elon musk, if our personality and goals are not compatible, i would not date you. I care more about your career than money. I’ll date a doctor without borders (they don’t make much) over a neurosurgeon (who easily makes 800k+) or some multi millionaire drug cartel
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 04:20 PM
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Not making a move? No. But i have move on from someone who was so nervous that it felt like he wasn’t interested in me and the entire date was awkward. I honestly thought he just didn’t like me (he told me why he was so quiet and awkward later).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 11:25 PM
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What does act masculine mean? Take testosterone and grow a beard and go bald?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 10:53 PM
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This dude also believes you should not leave an abusive spouse - even at the risk of your own life bc you made the vow to be w them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:39 PM
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This dude also believes you should not leave an abusive spouse - even at the risk of your own life bc you made the vow to be w them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:37 PM
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This dude also believes you should not leave an abusive spouse - even at the risk of your own life bc you made the vow to be w them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:35 PM
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30
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:33 PM
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But this dude thinks people should not be divorcing their abusive spouses even if your life is at stake bc you vowed to be with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:15 PM
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I was in colorado, denver. My first townhome at 21
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:11 PM
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🚩
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 12:05 PM
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This is why traiditionally financial abuse was from men to woman and not in reverse, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:18 AM
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Unfounded comment. As before.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/22 02:11 AM
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A debate is surely not “i’m going to make stuff up so believe me” You made a claim, it’s unfounded
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:50 PM
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Managing household is different than managing the finances. Women were not treated as humans/equal, There is nothing that would suggest they had equal rights to her own earning. She’s gonna keep all her money in cash? Does that even make sense? Who would need banks then?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:48 PM
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So you don’t have any source. Figures. Cool. “Trust me bro” This is a debate sub, you want to use your evidence, you have to prove it. Otherwise, you are just making shit up. I have seen papers too, they don’t agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:46 PM
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Link one then. Still waiting. I’m sure you have many, so linking one isn’t hard right? Or provide the pubmed id. I can look it up too. Title. Author. Year.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:41 PM
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If women are seen as property, you think husbands will let them keep their own money?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:37 PM
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You think women managed the cash in the household back then? Lol… Maybe if she hid it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 10:14 PM
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Objects are used. Stop objectifying women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:55 PM
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The 25 year old will likely result in a divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:51 PM
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So provide a source since it’s easily found and heavily documented.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:50 PM
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Where are you getting these numbers from…? Tell my husband that men want several kids. He’s so afraid to have a second child that he’s literally avoiding sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:48 PM
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“Why is not like your broke ass can afford it” Dude wtf? Also we get it, a girl who does only fans rejected you. That’s why you went on her post to try to humiliate her. If she were a gold digger, i doubt she would have entertained your time and attention. So exactly how did she treat you badly? Is being rejected now considered treating you badly?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 09:38 PM
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It means men should be more than just a life partner. They should do more for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:18 PM
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I don’t settle for bare minimum. I’m choosing a life partner and someone to be the father of my future children right? Why would i settle for bare minimum? But here is my definition of bare minimum: - does half of the house chores - be able to financially provide for a family of 4 - be respectful of me and our kids and towards the in laws - takes care of me when I’m ill - takes time off work for sick kids, aka, don’t expect me to be the only one picking sick kids up and staying home with them Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 08:17 PM
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My husband is not the looker and has very low social networking status. Am i with him bc i feel safe? Yes. But it’s not bc i don’t think he’s UNABLE to cheat on me. I know he is able to cheat on me but i know he won’t. Most women want a man who can make her feel safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 12:54 AM
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I like them fit but not too bulky (i like 6 pack and seeing the v line, the muscles on the chest and back,… but not a body builder.) tall is a bonus. A nice neck with a prominent adam’s apple, strong jaw like, full hair. That said, this doesn’t mean I only date those people at all. But it’s whag i like to see in my kdrama lolol. Eye candy
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:40 PM
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Is he creepy? I mean, we don’t know who this is
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:18 PM
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If i did it, i would get total attempts: 10k (mostly OLD, some co worker, cold approaches, mutual friends), numbers? Probably 5k Who would i choose to go on dates with? At thw end of the day (year), i’ll have 5 dates because i have been so fatigued by number of choices I have, creeped out by the 5 guys i dated, and just gave up and said, fuck it. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:17 PM
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Correct. Men are more likely to be hurt by other men. Your point? At least you are both men. Testosterone makes you stronger. So on avg, most men are stronger than me. Hopefully that’s not true for you. You know what small men feel when they are around bunch of men in jail? There you go
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 07:24 PM
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Women who want 50:50 likely have a job. So they will contribute financially as well. Also, extremely hard to get alimony when we have a career. You are worried about cheating and money. We are worried about cheating, abuse, freedom, money ss well, and our very life (most women who are murdered,… are murdered by a man in her life, most commonly spouse) Yeah, our concerns are indeed not on the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:41 PM
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Honestly, only on reddit. I kinda assume all men are trash online. But i have nothing against the men in my life (both personal and professional)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 06:29 PM
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What’s wrong with being an independent boss bitch? Why does it matter how much she makes? Most of y’all men aren’t balling.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:16 PM
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This dude (barely-moral) believes women should stay with their abusive and cheating husband instead of divorcing so he blames women for the divorce rate. I asked if we should be staying w an abuser and risk them killing us, he said yes. Lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:15 PM
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This dude (barely-moral) believes women should stay with their abusive and cheating husband instead of divorcing so he blames women for the divorce rate. I asked if we should be staying w an abuser and risk them killing us, he said yes. Lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:14 PM
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This dude (barely-moral) believes women should stay with their abusive and cheating husband instead of divorcing so he blames women for the divorce rate. I asked if we should be staying w an abuser and risk them killing us, he said yes. Lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:14 PM
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This dude (barely-moral) believes women should stay with their abusive and cheating husband instead of divorcing so he blames women for the divorce rate. I asked if we should be staying w an abuser and risk them killing us, he said yes. Lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:14 PM
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This dude (barely-moral) believes women should stay with their abusive and cheating husband instead of divorcing so he blames women for the divorce rate. I asked if we should be staying w an abuser and risk them killing us, he said yes. Lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:14 PM
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This dude (barely-moral) believes women should stay with their abusive and cheating husband instead of divorcing so he blames women for the divorce rate. I asked if we should be staying w an abuser and risk them killing us, he said yes. Lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:13 PM
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This dude believes women should stay with their abusive and cheating husband instead of divorcing so he blames women for the divorce rate. I asked if we should be staying w an abuser and risk them killing us, he said yes. Lolol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:12 PM
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In the US. Divorce papers has to be signed by both parties. Let’s not ignore the first half. You think spouses should stay without abusers due to their vows.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:19 PM
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I think your comment needs to be pinned to say that you think people in abusive relationship should continue to stay in such relationship and continue to grant them permission to your body and wallet simply because you vowed… until they killed you. That said, the person who file the divorce is not putting the nail in it. I can file, but he would need to sign and agree to divorce. So therefore, wouldn’t he be the last nail?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:11 PM
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Lol what kind of double standard is this? So you are saying if the woman is cheating, sleeping around, disrespecting you, abusing you, not loving you, etc… you are still obligated to stay with her and keep sharing all your assets with her…?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:47 PM
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If you step out of your vows, you ended the marriage. The rest is just paperwork
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:04 PM
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44% of bankruptcies are due to medical reasons here 100 mil have medical debt. Just google us medical care crisis
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:57 PM
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And what man wants a homeless woman with kids? Ah, look, now if we are choosey, it’s our fault. According to you, it’s always the woman’s fault. Maybe the law should be more strict and require the man to pay alimony for life, no loophole - since that’s what you promised in your wedding vowsp
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:49 PM
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Who initiate divorce means nothing. My father cheated on my mom, then asked my mom to file divorce. If she refused, he threatened to kill himself and possibly us kids. No matter what your plan is, you are likely inadequately prepared. Medical bills easily run up hundreds of thousands or millions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:48 PM
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I prefer to have control over both. 😉 I manage the entire household finance, and make my on money.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:47 PM
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I have seen the wAy men love. That’s why there are so many cheaters, abusers. Etc. my father cheated and left my mother. No way in hell would i take that risk. We all think our spouse is dependable and trustable - that’s why we married them. Who’s arrogant enough to believe it cannot possibly happen to them? Do i think my husband will cheat? No, but the chances of him cheating >>> the chances of me finding a good job. Until he no longer loves her Sounds like: 1. I better be good, 2. They can off…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:46 PM
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It’s way easier to find a iob than to find a good person to marry. No reasonable person is gonna marry within 1 mo of meeting someone. What would the woman do with 2 kids? Live on the streets in yhe meantime? I’m sure a homeless woman will be very appealing…. To sex traffickers
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:40 PM
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Have you not seen the divorce rate? Abuse rates? Even if i did trust my husband, what happens if he becomes disabled and cannot support the family? We all go bankrupt? What if he died? Shall my children and i go live under the bridge?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:38 PM
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What do you mean if i am a woman? Do you think if i suck his balls dry and feed him, he won’t cheat or want a divorce? Lolol. I have way more control over my employement. Even right now, i’m working and i’m looking for a new job. Within one day, i had 2 offers. And that’s just looking at one city.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:38 PM
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I would never be a SAHM. Too much risks. Even from uncontrollable factors. Ie. What if my husband gets disabled? Do i come back after 10-20-30 years of not working to go pick up some minimum wage job, lose the house, go bankrupt, etc? What if he ditches me? What if he dies? Every woman being a SAHM should at least get X number of years of alimony that they were married.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:36 PM
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I think everyone was happier back then - no social media, the gap between the wealthy and middle class wasn’t so far.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:32 PM
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They may have worked but it wasn’t that long ago where women couldn’t own property or a bank account. So where did the money go?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:06 PM
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But the man doesn’t need his wife, he can just get another. This power differential makes this relationship unfair. Before you try to compare this to corporate, my boss needs me or someone like me. There is no incentive to fire me just to hire someone my equal or inferior to me. They cannot function without people like me. Men can literally live their entire life without a woman. A marriage to a man is a want, whereas for women not allowing to own their own property/bank/work - marriage is a nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 01:04 PM
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I can find a job literally within a day. You cannot get remarried that quickly…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:53 PM
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Until they don’t love you and cheats on you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:52 PM
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Have you not been around this sub…? Men have made it clear they don’t want older, divorced, non hot women. Extra red flag if they have kids. So no, go talk to your own group about not being picky about “used goods”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:42 PM
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If my boss fires me illegally, i can sue them. There are more laws protecting someone abusing their power than laws protectinng SAHM
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:38 PM
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I have control of my work performance, and can easily find another job. I cannot control someone else’s feelings and actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:38 PM
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Those are present factors. Not past factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 12:33 PM
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It’s objectifying here when you cal her used. Totally fine to not date a high count women as i said earlier. Calling her used is objectifying - it’s very misogynistic. Judging someone from their past also unforgiving. I judge them on their present. Ie. How do THEY feel like sex and the values they find revolving sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:36 AM
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You think objectifying women isn’t a red flag…? I don’t know who has a higher risk of divorce… you or a promiscuous person. I assume you also have a low count then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:24 AM
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Most people are not STEM. Most people in the government were also not STEM. Humanities have a lot of rich and poor people. That has more to do with values than body count. Certainly you could say that over “being used”. Because we’re not objects to be used. Saying such shows how you objectify women and is a red flag. 21 is young. Most people marrying before 25 divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 02:00 AM
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Highly preferred, but not a hard core requirement. That said, i think all my friends are college educated. People who didn’t go to college tend to be different people (not necessarily better or worse, just different). Not sure if we would vibe…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:31 PM
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Almost all my family and friends are asians. Lol. Try again? I didn’t say all, but a lot of us do. If you have not met a SINGLE asian who liked kpop/kdrama men… then despite your city having 40% asian, you haven’t met many.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:27 PM
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You don’t many asians… I love kpop… well i like kdrama - which often shares the same people
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:15 PM
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Why does body count matter if she’s clean? Why is humanities degree bad? How can you guarentee she doesn’t have infertility? Hell, how do you know YOU don’t have infertility? And before you claim i’m projecting- my body count before my husvand was 2. I do care about body count but less due to sex partners and more to do with value alignment. I had a STEM degree. Though many of my collegues have humanities. We all make 6 figured. Most of us have student debt (doctors). We had an semi accidental b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 02:06 PM
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My baby gives me pure joy… and exhaustion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:42 AM
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No. You were referring to her body count. Not time Also the term best years is so wrong. Are you saying after she’s 30 or 40, the best years of her life is over…?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:28 AM
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So men/you are users?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 04:28 AM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:38 PM
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I was talking about the ugly and fat women or a gay man…. But ok lol. The point is, you can like sex without wanting to fuck every human
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 11:36 PM
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Have you not seen the endemic situation with single moms?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:55 PM
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(Straight) Men like sex Ugly/fat/gay man comes up: want sex? Ew no. Get it? We don’t want to have sex with someone we don’t want to have sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 10:54 PM
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Most straight guys would not appreciate beinng hit on by a gay man at a bar. I have literally witnessed people calling them “go away, i’m not a homo”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/22 02:44 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 04:35 PM
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He ugly though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:49 PM
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Don’t care. He has true confidence. Not the fake arrogance that men with inferiority complex displays. I dated a 5’5” - what was more offputting was his own insecurity about his height.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:49 PM
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I thought zelenskyy was hot before any comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:47 PM
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You would be more likely to be “divorce raped” if you cheat. - and i assume you are calling it rape as in taking to the cleaner. Which probably isn’t your best choice of words
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:44 PM
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Losing tangibles is worse. You can always make more money. Big whoopiedi do
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:43 PM
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I’d end the relationship bc i respect myself, the other woman, and my spouse. Bc if i were the spouse and i found out, i’f take him to the cleaners.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:42 PM
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And when she finds out and drags you to court, the judge will have less compassion about your asset and custody. She’s also going to milk you much more because of the bad blood between y’all. If i were her, i’d hide that I know and start swiping and maxing out all his accounts. Start to document everything bad he does with evidence so he doesn’t get any custody (full child support). Publicize his affair when i’m over him (guys who make a lot of money care more about their profile).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:41 PM
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Haha here i was thinking about how once i posted about my husband’s quirks and bunch of women go “are we married to this same person”? (Ie. After he gets home, he first heads to the bathroom to take a long ass dump.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/22 12:36 PM
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I agree - i feel so bad for the babies. Honestly, they should do it in fromt of the patient so they can see whaf is actually going on. I can’t imagine most parents would say “yeah go for it” electively, that or they need to be educated that it’s not a necessity
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 08:07 PM
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Two are gay, my father was a cheater. No thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:19 AM
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It was one scan buti am not sure if they did it right- mri usually takes some time and requires patients to hold still. For kids and babies, that works usually require general anesthesia. That said, i don’t completely doubt it. Adults or older children get general anesthesia and a nerve block… babies? They are strapped down ans but with just some sugar water while the foreskin is removed. That must be traumatizing-i have witnessed several during medical school
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/22 10:10 AM
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I’m married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 03:05 PM
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What’s wrong with construction? I prefer my daughter to not do that… same with my son… but for his safety. There are better jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:24 PM
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There is a difference between tearing someone fown and having a preferrence against someone
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:23 PM
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Someone who doesn’t have their life together, who is abusive, who has anger management issues, anyone who has cheated in the past, someone who is demeaning to other people (esp women) - and i look carefully at how he treats people who he’s not attracted to, if he treats his family poorly, if he always trash talks his ex, if he lacks confidence or have some other inferiority complex, especially if he tries to hide that by being controllng and anger, lacks patience, contributed net negative to soc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 01:01 PM
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Wayside school or something. You said except toxicity feminist or whatever, so i’m guessing you are referring to the 3rd wave in the past decade. My point is this has been an on going issue since before you were alive and continued to be so today.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:29 PM
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Who’s they? Because i sure care about red flags. Everyone elsei know does too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:27 PM
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I think a stable income > title Edit: hwoever, it would similar interest and relatability is more important
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:45 PM
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IT can make a lot of miney too. Career matters but it won’t superceed other red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:44 PM
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You are the one who said “in my last 30 years of life”… If you want to talk about last 5 years, why did you say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:41 PM
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Lol i thought you are trying to stay on topic. When there are CHILDREN books describing boys harassing girls bc they have a crush on them - that kinda tells you how it’s been accepted in society for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:40 PM
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I’m not changing the topic…. The topic is literally how common society and people make excuses for boys and men for their inappropriate behaviors. It’s so common, it’s in children books.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/22 08:38 PM
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It’s so common that it appears in children books… written over 2-3 decades ago. Let that sink in. Look at all the “women comedians aren’t funny” then look at the funny male comedians and see what they joke about. I’d be impressed if one made it through without making sexually inappropriate jokes. You denying this culture contributes to it. Ignoring an issue is an issue and prevents it from being addressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 07:55 PM
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I’m a 32F, bisexual. N = 4 (3 men, 1 woman) What do i consider high? Idk, around 5-8 at age 30. I don’t wish mine was different by number, though i think I could have done without my first bf. Or maybe even 2nd. However, they taught me what I want in a spouse… so i cannot say i truly regret it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 06:43 PM
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This is very similar to the “Interesting how most guys don’t know a rapist yet almost every woman knows or have experienced SA/rape” They literally have children books about boys to harass girls. That’s how common it is
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 02:27 PM
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I’m in the reversed. But it’s bc i’m bi. I was ready to be monogamous and give up women (just like straight women give up other men). But he has no problems with me having a gf on the side. It’s actually both of our fantasy to have a FMF 3 some one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 01:01 PM
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I have literally heard moons and teacher say that 20 years ago… about boys who sexually harassed me. But back then, it was just harassment. Hell, it’s written into children books too. Was it Harry and that series for first-third graders. The young boy would always be tempted and often did pull in her braids. So i had thought that’s just something boys did when they liked you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:07 PM
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Just bc you haven’t heard it doesn’t mean it hasn’t happened. When i was a kid, moms and teacher would say that ask the time about boys who pulled in girls braids or the middle school boys would would run by and slap girls butts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 12:05 PM
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C I works literally never see a guy again if he tries to escalate to sex on the first night
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:36 AM
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Boys pulling on girls hair because that’s their way of flirting? Then that translates to men’s behaviors when it’s not corrected.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 04:35 AM
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Men will be men. Boys will be boys. That’s just how men are… idk man, when men behave poorly, we blame society… or heck even women. Deadbeat baby daddy? You should have picked better.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/22 03:22 AM
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Why am i questioning myself? Most people would rather not be matched than being raped…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 06:02 PM
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Yeah i know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:21 PM
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Until you get SA by the 50th guy. Then i rather have no matches
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 03:19 PM
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Considering I’m 30, i prefer the40. It may be different if i were under 22. After college, anyone under 22 was a no go. Too immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:34 AM
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30 shouldn’t be a benchmark. Most men cannot tell if a woman is 25 vs 30 vs 35. Hell, my mom is 63 and she gets asked out - men think she’s in her mid/late 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:16 AM
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Those men don’t wanna commit. They just want to fuck ans if they need to make false promises, they will do so
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/22 04:14 AM
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What proportion of young men (18-20) is dating to marry? Especially young men who do have options
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:55 PM
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30 isn’t old. People keep looking at the tanning addict 30 year old as a gage. I’m 33. People say i could easily be mistakened for an undergrad student. Seems more like people don’t know what a 30 year old looks like
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 11:05 PM
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I have literally never dated a bully/wife beater/violent man. Nor do i want to. I also avoid fuck boys. That said, you confused nice and boring. When we reject a nice guy, it’s bc he’s boring. It’s the nice way of saying no. Women prefer a man who is kind (not just nice - doubt you know the difference), but also is interesting and has respect for everyone - this includes self respect. Don’t be a spineless door mat. That’s BORING. You also don’t need to be abusive to be interesting. I see one of …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:09 PM
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As the head if the house, it is YOUR responsibility that the decision you make will maximizes everyone’s happiness and meeting everyone’s needs. Even if it means at the expense of your own. Too many “heads of the households” don’t understand this. FYI. And “i want a rich man” IS looked down upon. Wanting a man who can provide is not. Wanting a woman with high libido is acceptable, talking to a woman for only sex is not unless it’s meant for casual sex or she’s a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 04:01 PM
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Having a preference isn’t the same as a hard requirement. You say you are a doctor. Look around you. Most of y’all aren’t 6’ or taller yet most of y’all are married by the time you finish residency. You honestly think you would have been ready to be married at 20? I mean, looking at your post history, i think you are way more into games than life/relationships/medicine/etc. are you even ready now at 28+?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:50 PM
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Maybe it has something to do with the lack of maternity leave, or how it’s assumed the woman will take care of the kids. Can’t do a good job as a surgeon if you are expected to call out every time they kid is sick. Your repairs and out for work isn’t daily. I did them plenty when i lived by myself. Nothings in comparison to the daily dishes, sweeping the floor, weekly toilet cleaning, laundry, etc. Put themselves in danger? How often is that actually happening? Once a year? Not even. Most donmt …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:47 PM
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30 years ago, women got screwed. They were expected to work, and do all the household chores. And do all the child care, and if Something Happens, they were expected to sacrifice their career for the family. So I’m not sure if that’s a good example. I know this, because my mother got screwed really badly. Where is your data that women don’t have the drive to work 9 to 5, but men do have the drive? 925? That’s funny. That’s nice. Try 4 AM till 8 PM.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 02:58 PM
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You mentioned in the old days, they dated and married young. In the old days, men did support the family. Women’s careers suffer from kids. Men’s careers are usually unaffected. So I believe income/career should be a large factor in who they choose. You say men are willing to stay with women. Just look on this sub and see how so many men want higher counts than 1. There you go. THey ain’t ready to commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:55 PM
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Nope, you can read about how men resist change until something bad happens. This is also the reason for walk away wife syndrome. How many years is it going to take before a man learns to be more self sacrificing? There is a reason women initiate most divorces. Again, refer to walkaway wife syndrome. I dated to marry even when I was young (20). And I’d say I dated good men who just weren’t very mature. He would make the same poor judgement multiple times until I have just had it and I no longer s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:53 PM
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Do women develop these selection bias or is it the trend of men who show they are not reliable as husband and fathers at 20 year old? There is a reason why people who marry before 25 will be way more likely to divorce. I’d say MOST men are not mature enough for marriage at age 20 (I’d say that’s probably also true for women). I’m sure most men want to date around at 20, as do most women. So why are you punishing women for doing the same? Sounds like you are just better that women had the CHOICE …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:48 PM
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If men 24+ are into you bc you look 15-17… they are pedos…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:43 AM
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Nope. I strongly disagree. I think through many relationships, you learn from your mistakes, and there’s a reason why a lot of guys, and girls, who don’t take things seriously, until they lose someone. Then they learn from their mistakes. They learn to take someone seriously. They learn to not Take someone for granted. My husband is very, very responsible, and mature. He’s a very good guy, and he’s not a “Chad“ nor is he a beta. However, if I met him when he was 20 years old, I probably wouldn’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:04 AM
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I don’t think it’s a feminist lie. I think neither gender are really ready for marriage at age 18 through 22. These young adults are just discovering who they are. They don’t really know what they want yet. And that’s for both sides. And I think it takes both sides to learn what they need and want in a marriage. I think a lot of times, the men are not able to provide for a family of four at the age of 20 years old. I don’t know you, but my husbands, extremely mature, and even he wasn’t ready for…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 01:01 AM
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What percentage of men are ready to marry and be a father at 20? (Most are not). What age do you think men are able to support a family of 4 by himself? At what age do you think men are reasy to stay with just one woman? On average?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 12:55 AM
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Grocery, gym, coffee shop, book store, mall, stores, ice rinks, skii resorts, etc. but you have to do it in a way that’s not predatory.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:16 PM
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True but what are the normal men called? Maybe y’all should strive to be normal men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 10:08 PM
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So is there on chad and betas? Where do normal people fall? My husband isn’t a chad or a beta.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 05:15 PM
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Another guy on here said the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 04:22 PM
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Young women are young. Just like young men. Most young men don’t know and can’t handle how to be a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 02:09 PM
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As they should be. If we don’t have high standards, get married and knocked up by an abuser, somehow we’re gonna be blamed. And we have more to lose
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 01:02 PM
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More women are into commitment than men are. Especially at the younger ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:24 PM
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That’s false - i work with a lot of people making around 200k. Many less attractive guys have a hot wife
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:23 PM
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That’s false,
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:18 PM
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I think a study in either Denmark, or Norway, stated that the healthiest, longest living group of women are the ones who have a BMI of around 25 to 28. Which is overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:18 PM
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Mean is by definition average. Are you confusing it with median?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:15 PM
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You can blame men’s obsession with thin women
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:03 PM
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Why do you guys want to be chats, or do you just want to date around, and have sex without commitment. Plenty of women are ready to commit, but usually men are not ready in their early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:01 PM
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Ther average man and woman are overweight lol Also an over weight somen looks better than an overweight man. Where does fat go on a man? At least when a woman gets fatter, her boobs and butt gets bigger. I’m fat. BMI 24 (by definition: Overweight), had a DEXA scan when i was BMI 22. I was like 28% fat. I’d bet I’m now 30+% fat. But my waist is 29, bust is 34D, and hips are 38. Also, assuming you are at least 5’5-7” and not super ugly or overweight, personality, intelligence, and career/money can…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 11:54 AM
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No sex. No genital play. Kissing, hugging, cuddling, all ok Of note, i think the soonest i kissed someone was like 4 months too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/22 12:18 AM
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Not your target audience, but i made him wait a year. The soonest i have had sex was around 7 mo exclusive dating
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 11:39 PM
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Ps. Why do you think so many women don’t want traditional role? Bc it sucks. Why do you think so many men don’t want/can’t do their traditional roles? Bc they are unable to make sufficient money.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:58 PM
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Job description if a wife is to be a cleaner… What’s the job description of a cleaner then? Is she not tired af after work? Even if she was a SAHM, why wouldn’t she be tired af after he’s done with work. Being a nanny is exhausting. Being a mom is exhausting. There’s not much of a difference. Men are so mad that women are expecting them to become an adult, it’s kinda hilarious. You throwing a fit because society expects you to do adulting chores. Why are you against traditional role reversal? Yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 04:56 PM
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No. Different value system. He views sex as transactional and purely for his pleasure. I view sex as something extremely intimate that I only share with someone I completely trust and love
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 10:12 PM
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I feel like this would mean the government has everyone’s DNA. Which may implicate other complications. Just FYI. Do you really want insurance (which is already an incredibly fucked system) to easily have access to your genetic conditions/predespositions?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 12:58 PM
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Nope … i think she’s right
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:28 PM
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I think that would be real dumb bc the better one is probably not better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 05:26 PM
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Lol no. You are delusional. PLENTY of women do not want fuck boys. It’s almost like you didn’t bother to read my post. Classic
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 12:59 PM
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You guys are delusional. I do not consider fuckbois as quality men. I had a smart and hot fuckboi after me in grad school. I flirted with him at work/school for fun but i never touched him. I knew he went through easily 3-4 girls per month, hard pass for causal or long term My question for you… what kind of woman do you want in your life…? The kind to find fickboys?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/22 04:24 AM
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My point is most are not convicted
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 05:07 AM
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Do you think antivaxxers care about science?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:20 AM
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Too bad it’s nearly impossible to prove rape/molestation
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:18 AM
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I don’t care about vaccination status as much as their belief system. Most unvaccinated people and I would be incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 01:17 AM
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I sure have. I specifically addressed americans and their obesity issue. My first sentence is for everyone. Do you think the men and women dying if starvation in africa would be attractive? I’ve been in more improverished places than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/22 12:33 PM
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Assuming you have no other red flags, 33 M virgin is hella hot. I wouldn’t have minded at all
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 05:45 AM
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I care. I would never date someone who slept around
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:43 PM
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Why did she sleep around then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 02:43 PM
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I don’t think you know what you are talking about. Ps. Modern china? Women expect men to own a home, own a car, before they wiuld even consider marrying you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 04:15 AM
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Just like politicians.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:27 PM
1

So being a cop means you are a rapist, politicians, judges, doctors, teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 12:54 PM
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The alternative is to not have sex. So no, it’s not rape
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:58 AM
1

Clearly the country doesn’t believe in my body my choice. Should be guilt tripping… men are responsible for almost every single pregnancy…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 02:57 AM
1

So if i work, it’s a luxury? But it’s not a luxury for a man to work? I’m confused. (Please explain why unless you want to admit to beinf sexist) Why wouldn’t a man clean his house? I mean sure he can hire a cleaner but why would a rich man want to demote his wife to be a cleaner? I’m not entitled to anyone - not even a bum trash. Why? Bc no one is entitled to any person. But i sure didn’t settle for someone who just had the luxury to work and do nothing else. 😊 i ain’t gonna do everything: work…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:39 PM
1

There is a difference between barbarians and civilized citicizens. Some people don’t seem to know the difference. Men may want a hot woman and sex, but at least people in real life treat you like a human who also is hot and has a pussy. There is a difference between “i want a wife who is hot and sexy” and “i need holes”.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/22 04:34 PM
1

Statistically, they are more dysfunctional. Exceptions exist, but for the majority, people I had interacted with online were WAY more dysfunctional than people I know in my actual life. And this was almost a decade ago, when there weren’t ask many men being openly creeps online.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 05:23 PM
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Could. But most are ones who do have trouble finding dates in real life. The good catches tends to be snatched up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:04 PM
1

Failed proposal or failed engagement? Like you get on one knee, proposes, and she says “no, i don’t wanna marry you, oooo cool ring, can i keep it?” Or she agreed and somethings changed and now she wants to cancel the engagement? First case - unheard of. Second one - yeah, i have heard it. Every state is different. Some states say once she says yes, the condition of the gift is met. Other states say the condition of the gift is the marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 01:57 AM
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Amazon would not have existed without mckenzie scott. Just fyi. I can only speak for asian cultures, but dating in one’s socioeconomy group is highly preferred. Dating down (for woman) is heavily looked down upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 08:38 PM
2

So hypergamy isn’t happening… according to your numbers
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:21 PM
4

Most people think with their hormones. Men too. Why do you think their other smaller head gets them in so much trouble? However, not everyone does that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:14 PM
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Look at how he treats the women in his life. does he love and respect his mother? Sister? Are they good models? how does he treat the women he is not attracted to? what was his prior relationships like? Did he call them all crazy bitches or did he logically identify reasons for the relationship to fail? Has he made wfforts to improve himself. how does he treat children and animals? hiw does he treat elderly? basically how does he treat people who don’t offer him anything back - shows you the dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 06:09 PM
1

Selection bias. Hot catches don’t need to resort to dating apps. Those who do TENDS to be lower quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:03 PM
-1

You can replace it with a 5’7” vs 6’5”- that’s fine too. I dated a guy who was 5’4.5” (slightly shorter than myself), he was very self conscious of this and would request i not wear heels. Didn’t have a bias against short guys until that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 01:02 PM
2

People laugh at demi sexuals but it’s a real thing. There is a difference between finding someone attractive and being attracted to them. I have NEVER look at a stranger/model/actor and wanted to jump them before. But i do want to jump my husband. He has a lot of physical flaws but after you are with someone for a while you start to over look a lot of the physical aspects. So i don’t even notice/they don’t bother me or even distract me. Some flaws became more attractive (he has giant lips… like …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:16 AM
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Basically most women want a man taller than themselves… The average height for women is 5’5”; so if you are shorter than that, kinda low on luck. That said, the number of women who say 6 or higher as an absolutely must are quite rare. 6 feet is cool but not necessary. I would take an educated, respectful, good personally and good career 5’10” over a 6’ bum any day.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 04:02 AM
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First, I don’t find people repulsive based on looks… hygiene? Pathology? Maybe. But not like plain looks. Second, we were the only two people around the same age at this dinner party. Everyone else was old enough to be Ie parents or young enough to be our kids. We were mid 20’s. So i joined him at the couch and ate dinner together. Turns out he has a great personality, good communication, and interesting fun stories. Also helps that he’s so incredibly smart but also humble. I definitely got the …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:53 AM
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Appearance isn’t everything. My friends thought my husband was ugly and couldn’t believe we were dating. Per my and his friends, they gave me a 7-8, and him a 2-3… lol. Tbh, i also thought he was kinda ugly when I first saw him. Obviously, that changed, now i am super attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/22 03:06 AM
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Or does less than the trouble he gets plus as on mental stress. Why doubt? You will see plenty of women who left trash men like i described. And don’t even say it’s for child support. So many i have talked to didn’t even get cs, plus the average cs is laughable
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 09:06 AM
1

You don’t think those are also dead beats?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:33 AM
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Yes. At least one is out of your life. The other makes your life harder… worse than a single mother
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/22 06:32 AM
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Doesn’t have to be a murderer. Ie. So many men don’t take care of themselves. So often the wife has to take care of the kids and the man child. Sometimes, it’s easier to do it yourself than to have another dead weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 04:50 PM
1

Not in a world with only women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:46 AM
2

There is worse than an absent father…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:46 AM
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I don’t think she has thousands of options… most people don’t know thousands of single men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 12:38 AM
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Wouldn’t need a man then
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:05 PM
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I mean it does change the scenario. It would mean the only way for a woman in life is to avoid 90% of men right? But then men cry about how women are to picky
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:04 PM
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If men didn’t view high counts were bad, maybe there wouldn’t be two categories. Women also spend money and time in dating. They also risk their life more. It doesn’t mean they don’t like it. It could but not always. Maybe she really likes you and are afraid it would judge her for being too sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:02 PM
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Yes. I hate when women cry for the smallest things Exceptions are time of the month and pregnancy. I remember when i came off of birth control… i was shopping and i read on the back of a honey container “it takes 7 bees their entire life to make 1 tsp of honey”. I started bawling because i felt guilty that everytime i drank tea, i was bankrupting like 14 bee’s life savings. Edit: i do not support abuse towards someone else due to hormones tho. Just to make that clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 06:00 PM
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You seem to imply she choose a loser …. Which means you claim to not be a loser. How do we know she’s not choosing between two losers? Lose lose situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 05:52 PM
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What are they crying about? A papercut? Or their mom dying? If you do not cry at the latter, i would be scared of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:01 PM
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Maybe if all men were more feminine, there would be less fights
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 04:00 PM
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I’m a doctor. Let’s say wives on avg save their husband in so many ways. From basic reminding them to take meds to insisting they see a doctor when they have cheat pain. Very rarely is the roles reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 03:51 PM
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Why is credit score and money related to this? And why would this apply just for women? Obviously you date them for a while - maybe YOU should also not fuck her for a few months to see if she’s worth the commitment. Here is a shocker… men expect these low count women/virgins to suddenly have enormous sex drive when it comes to him. Plus op is asking about timing- not sex count.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:33 PM
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Just bc men view her as low value doesn’t mean she is low value. Men don’t respect women who “put out” easily. So if she wanted to just have a fuck buddy, she probably doesn’t care about your respect. That said, i think to view someone less just bc they like to fuck is wrong. Often, women who don’t fuck easily or are a virgin… good chance she might not have that much of a libido. from someone who did NOT sleep around but also surprise (/s) don’t have the highest libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/22 02:30 PM
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I put everyone in category 2. But i understand women who separate them. Here is why, and it’s based in patriarchy/misogny. Men/society/even other women view a woman who sleeps around as lower value. “Loose woman”. So why would she want to present herself as a low value woman to the man she wants to marry…?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:06 PM
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No need to? Wtf? Honestly, what society deems alpha is just assholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:36 PM
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https://dqydj.com/income-percentile-calculator/#How_many_people_made_100000_or_more_in_2022 Correct, it’s NOT hard to look it up. The artifical lifestyle is to be an adult? Lol what? My brothers are single, they make 300k. Their house is cleaner than mine, clothes put away nicely, house vacuumed, dishes washed, food made, etc. It is relevant bc you seem to think working entitles you to being exempt from house work. Now if you rather hire a maid/housekeeper, that’s totally fine too. Most women wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 01:32 PM
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It’s top 20%. It’s not unreasonable to expect them to do their adulting work at home. If that man was single, does he live like a slob?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 05:00 AM
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You seem to suggest that it’s unreasonable to expect a guy to make 100k and contribute around the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 03:28 AM
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It’s not nature or natural for women either. You think most women ENJOY doing housework? 😂 If you have been adulting for 20+ years, why do you think you get to stop because you married someone?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 04:35 PM
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I am a woman. I make almost 200k. So… should he clean up after me, cook for me, etc? Making money isn’t the only thing expected of an adult. Sounds like you need to learn to be an adult. Job is only one aspect. Feeding yourself, taking care of your body, and cleaning up after yourself are also part of adulting. Surprised?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 03:18 AM
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Her post is saying some people will form personal attacks and not be open to debate or discussion. Then she said there are people who use personalized attacks and are offended to be called out and downvoting it. Is that you? Do you identify with that group? It’s an attack on their actions. You already put words in her mouth that she never said. Do you feel attacked? Did she describe you? Maybe that should be reflected.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 06:00 PM
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If you speak to a group, that’s generalizing. If you speak to one person, that’s personal attack.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 02:44 PM
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You turned to personal attacks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 01:31 PM
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Gj proving her point
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:39 PM
1

No. But i get enough that i don’t need to settle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 04:48 PM
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We’re all used. Restaurant uses your body to work, nannying requires you to use your body. Blah blah blah. As long as both side wants it, what is the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 06:10 PM
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It’s a win win situation. Almost everything is exploitative then. 50-75k is pretty reasonable. What is exploitative is going to thailand and getting it done for 5k
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 01:21 PM
1

Anything you don’t want to do more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 05:11 AM
0

Cool, until that happens, why are we banning surrogacy? If that happens, naturally, paid surrogacy will stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 10:31 PM
1

Why would he be with me if he’s not sexually attracted to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:20 PM
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So we should do what? Refuse to let her be a surrogate and stay poor? I’m confused. That’s a loose loose situation. How do you suppose she go and earn 50-80k?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 09:17 PM
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Keep in mind surrogacy is a win win situation (usually). The couple gets a kid, the woman gets money. Banning it would be a loose loose situation. The woman would not get the money and who knows, may resort to other routes for money that’a way worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:34 PM
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“I want it to come from her body”… wtf? I don’t get this unless it is some weird ass fetish. And we know far tooooo many men will be complain how their wife is no longer as hot as others. Like no shit. My view, it’s hella expensive but if you can afford it and don’t want to do the pregnanch thing yourself, then by all means, hire a surrogate. It costs like 50-100k per kid though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:32 PM
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You don’t expect women to think for herself… lol so you looking for a sex bot? Yikes. Ps. So you are going by just looks. If that’s the case, a woman who’s been rejected by everyone probably doesn’t look so great
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:16 PM
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Your type is the reject by everyone type of girl? I’m asking why would she even be your type
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:42 AM
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Different people have different values. The end. One is not worse than the other. Someone likes oranges. Another person likes apples. Who’s a better person? Like wtf? Who care. If you like oranges, marry the woman who likes oranges and wants orange treesp
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:41 AM
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What actions? Did you fail to consider the confounding factor? Women aren’t afraid of virgins. We’re afraid of an abusive narcissitic man child with nothing to offer so much that even if he tried to get laid, he cannot. Which is a different story than a man who CAN get laid but CHOOSES not to fuck around casually. This type is the hottest. Just imagine you have this drop dead bf/husband, treats you well, plenty of other women wanted him, but he choose you. Like damnnn that’s hot
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:39 AM
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What do you think you will find in a woman who has been trying to get laid but unable because she’s rejected by every guy? What redeeming qualities does she have? If she has some, someone would have fucked her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:37 AM
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What do you think you will find in a woman who has been trying to get laid but unable because she’s rejected by every guy? What redeeming qualities does she have? If she has some, someone would have fucked her
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:37 AM
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Why would you want her? No man wants her so this means she has personality red flags, appearance red flags, and who knows what red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:36 AM
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They can learn. Having a high count doesn’t ensure you care about pleasing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:02 AM
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Or they don’t wanna fuck around.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:02 AM
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I’m 32, i hold the same view. No. I do not like what stacy likes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:01 AM
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That’s true for women. Do men want a woman that NO OTHER MAN wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:59 AM
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I prefer a virgin male than a “used condom”. I prefer we learn each other’s body together than for him to assume I will like what stacy likesz I also think men should stop telling women what we prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:58 AM
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No. You are claiming I AM saying everyrhing i explicitly did not say….
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 05:35 AM
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I think you need to reread what i said - you are claiming the opposite of everything i said
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 03:10 AM
1

Sounds like you are miserable. No one said to put someone on a pedestal. It just means to spoil them. Do you think it’s toxic when men call their daughter “my little princess”?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 09:16 PM
1

Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 07:13 PM
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Lol at least you know this is a shitty take. Ps. You aren’t correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:01 PM
4

I pity your lady
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:00 PM
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If he lost all ambitions, then he’s a boring person. You are mixing up what i would do and what he would do. He would give up his hobby and careers for me. He has. He had to choose between a few jobs. I let go of a better opprtunity for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:59 PM
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Wanting something doesn’t mean you don’t have it. I want a child. I have a child. 🤷🏻‍♀️do i still want my child? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:55 PM
2

Sometimes they overlap and compete for time
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:54 PM
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Lol what…? No. I’d dump someone who prioritized their hobby over me. I literally do not know a single woman who would think this way. Are you a man…?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 04:52 PM
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I didn’t say “be a slave to your queen”. So nope. You are supposed to spoil your spouse. Period
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 02:48 PM
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No i didn’t say we are different. I actually think we represent the general population more Men who are desired but don’t fuck around >> men who are desired but fuck around ~ men who are avg > red flag men that no one wants
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:21 AM
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My parents words were law. If you didn’t listen to them, they would whip us. So yes. They were treated like kings and queens. Lololol I have nothing against being equals
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 05:19 AM
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What’s wrong with treating your girl like a queen? That’s how you treat the human you love. She should be your queen (i’d say princess but I save that for his daughter).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/22 03:50 AM
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Where do you have evidence of this? And specifically, evidence that it is about a man having experience, but not about a man not having a choice. So please tell me where women prefer a man who is a virgin or has low counts, but is very desired, and is able to get high calves, but chooses not to. And show me that women prefer men who sleep around more than a guy like I just described.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:44 PM
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Hey, it means that we did our job of setting expectations, and if that guy doesn’t want to listen to it, then they’re a red flag. And if they continue to pursue it, then they crossing the boundary of assault.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:43 PM
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If a guy suggested to have sex on the first night, that’s an immediate red flag, and I would immediately and the date and leave. We’re just not the same type of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:41 PM
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No I think it means more about what men have expected from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:40 PM
1

I don’t use tinder but if i had multiple dates where men expected ONS. I would put “no ons” as well. I think it speaks more to the quality of men on tinder…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 10:39 PM
1

Most women don’t just jump on every dick. Even the women who have slept with a lot of men
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:23 PM
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There is a huge difference between a man no one wants and a man everyone wants but he still doesn’t fuck around. Idk where you got “i want an experience man” from. It is indeed the other. Most low count women (as all my friends are probably n=5 or lower) prefer non male sluts. No. A man who slept around with “low value women” - or so you call the high counts women, definitely do not have the same taste as us.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 07:22 PM
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What defines hvm? What defined a hvw? Body count? That’s it? Lol. Why? A man can have 100 bodies via prositution as well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 04:00 PM
1

Really? What part of bioogy is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 03:59 PM
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Who said she didn’t put in work to screen out 1000 guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:15 PM
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But why would chicks with low body counts want someone who’s slept around? (Since ppl say chad is alpha)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 02:14 PM
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Do you don’t think it’s crazy for men … just women. Gotcha. This is a display for sexism double standards. Tyty
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:41 AM
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Doesn’t matter if you are interested in men or not. You don’t think it’s crazy for men to sleep around?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:37 AM
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Lol wtf. No. I have never even considered cheating. Please… speak for your self
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:36 AM
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But you don’t think 100 girls are crazy….?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:30 AM
1

And who are alpha going to marry? Virgin marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/22 05:29 AM
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Alpha male personality. But i have now associated that with men who don’t know how to deal with their emotions, thinking dictatorship is alpha, treating your girl like a queen is simping etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 08:12 PM
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It is easier. Someone can watch the kid as someone else is doing the chores. And switch off. Vs single parent: one person does laundry and watches the kids. Yes. A nanny living with me is unpaid unless i give her a wage. So… yeah. A live in nanny is supposed to be paid the same rate for hours worked as a live out nanny. Please refer to r/nannies It means outside of your 8 hr job, you divide everything else in half. So 24 hrs in a day. You spent 8 hrs working, she spent 8 hrs watching over kids. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 10:03 PM
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The avg child support is 4 k per year. Perhaps you should promote more pro choice society then. “A pregnancy that you chose to go through willingly is much less impactful than 18 years of a like halved salary or a burden you were upfront about now being up to.” And that is VERY VERY debateable. Pregnancy can WRECK your life. I had a MILD pregnancy and i have carpal tunnel now. That could take more than half my salary away. Could be taking all of it. (The dude blocked me but he apparently feels l…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:53 PM
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Most people don’t get alimony, the avg child support is 4k per year. Why would 8hr of work spare you from laundry and cooking? If he was a single parent, would he be spared that? No. He would do all that WHILE watching the kids. We talk money bc often time, the childcare and housework do have value but it’s unpaid and now less valued. When my husband gets home, he has to do cooking and laundry, while watching over a demanding 9 month old. So at the very least, traditional men should be able to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 04:51 PM
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You googling is wrong. Go to r/nannies. My au pair is cheaper than a nanny and I pay her easily 25-28k. And i support her full room and board. The website you looked up was wrong because they didn’t go into payroll, etc. care.com and other like websites hugely underestimate cost. I was perfectly find supporting a man to be a SAHD. How many men will take on that risk? If she decided to leave, you are stuck with no career and no money? Single parents don’t act like a traditional man - who lets his…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 03:27 PM
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How much is she getting? Compensation and all. Nannies make 60-80k. And that’s just 40 hrs a week. If she’s doing all of the housework and childcare, it should be 24/7 care. If she were to die, now he needs to hire a nigh nanny and 2 day nannies to replace her. A cook and a house cleaner. Who is actually winning then?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 02:12 PM
1

It is successful but society has taken it for granted and not given moms the credit they deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/22 01:21 PM
1

If the 100 matches, 99 wants casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:24 PM
1

I’m not interested in casual sex. I’m only interested in men who can be a loyal and good husband/father
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:20 PM
13

We realize it. This is why we don’t reply to most
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 12:15 PM
1

The notebook? Main guy is this poor guy with no education.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 09:26 PM
1

She cannot do that if the father does not consent to surrendering such child to adoption.she wohld be paying the father child support
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:34 PM
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No need to consent to be a father. He didn’t give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 08:09 PM
2

Ie. 10 free swipes a day, afterwards, 1$ per swipe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 04:35 PM
2

Is it not your child? Wanted or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:30 PM
0

Does the kid not exist after 5 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:28 PM
1

It’s your child. No?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/22 02:28 PM
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View it this way. If i have 1000 likes… why wouldn’t I pick the top 10? I don’t have time to talk to even 10% of the men. Men should swip only on women they are interested in. Men just swipe on everyone hoping 1 or 2 women will swipe them back. But as a result, we get so overwhelmed by offers, we only will look at the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 04:34 PM
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I lean towards child support for 18 years, and not letting the father to walk in and out of a child’s life. Like no, you cannot just be a father for 5 years then ghost them. Remember, once the child is in existent, it should be both party’s responsibility. Her choice to abort or keep the child is irrelevant. You don’t know why she chose to abort. The default mindset should be to assume she will continue the pregnancy and both parties will be responsible for such child. This means, women are equa…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:56 AM
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Men should compensate for the harm done by pregnancy then OR suffer the exact same damages. And both genders should contribute the same in labor and finances. Let’s make it real fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:20 AM
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Who? Where?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:19 AM
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So men can’t choose to keep it in his pants…? I’m confused
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:18 AM
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Actually both genders should have equal financial responsibility. The reason the woman has the only choice in abortion is because she’s the ONLY one gestating the embryo and takes on 100% of the risk. Once they are born, both parties take equal risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:18 AM
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I’m pretty sure men judge men’s infedelity less harsh as well. You see it in this sub as well. Oh she stopped having sex so what’s the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:15 AM
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If she was dating a 20 year dude, i’d be like wtf. I feel like after 25-30, it doesn’t matter as much. 18-22 is such a vulnerable period. It still feels predatory for some old dude to step in there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:14 AM
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In the last 10 years, i lived in NYC, Denver, houston, and SF.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/22 02:00 AM
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Most male physicians i know are not married to other physicians. Many are married to nurses, teachers, and SAHM
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:37 PM
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You are answering for your ancedotal life… but most men don’t feel that way. Most men who want kids will have kids before 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:36 PM
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It’s harder for various reasons. Some worry about fertility. But also, a lot of the good men are taken by 30-35. My class has 25 people, all the men (which i think are all good people) are taken. Their age is 28-33.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 11:34 PM
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Uh no. I’m saying that’s a dumb idea. Chasing kids at 55 year old is not that great. Kids take a lot of energy, and when you get older, your body just cannot keep up. The waking up 10 times a night at 50? Good luck. You gonna stroke out. I’m in my early 30’s and my husband is mid 30, we have a kid. And damn, we’re tired. And we even have a full time nanny. This would be much easier if i had the energy and body of a 20 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:30 PM
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That’s false. Some may be limited by time and career but it isn’t because they want to wait until 40 to have kids. You told her to DATE 38-40 year olds. Give it a few years of dating then marriage before kids. They ainmt having kids until 40-45 then. Even most physicians who want to have kids will try to do so before 40… by definition one of the most successful and educated groups of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 10:26 PM
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The avg woman is married to a man older than themselves. So is this due to the mother or the father? So unless they have eliminated the father’s factor, that’s useless. Ie. 40 year old women with 30 year old men compared to 20 year old women with 30 year old men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:51 PM
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One standard deviation is 68% range, aka 34% down or up. This also assumes a nominal distribution, where the woman would be a 5. Makes no sense what you said here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:49 PM
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You can take the guesswork out by visiting a fertility clinic. Consider egg freezing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:47 PM
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Dude a 40 year old man should have a time pressure to have kids. Esp multiple kids. He’s gonna be 50+++ when the kid is 10. How are you gonna play tag with them at like 55 year old? When they are graduating HS, you gonna be like 65-70. When they are done with HS, you will be like 69-74. You win’t even be alive to see the grandkids.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:44 PM
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So you are saying men don’t want to settle down until they are 38-40 years old? Lol. This is why men get no attention in their 20’s. I also don’t believe 22 year olds are ready to settle. Which is why i didn’t sleep with anyone until after that
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:41 PM
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Age does matter but not enough to prevent you from getting a good guy. It’ll just be harder but that’s ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 09:35 PM
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By not being a creep and viewing us as sex workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/22 04:57 AM
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I do care but that’s because a man who has slept around probably do not share similar values as me
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 05:59 PM
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Great, you can save your time so you don’t go on a date with someome you are incompatible with
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:54 AM
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Nothing moral dilemma. It’s called learning to respect your spouse and not lying to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:52 AM
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Then don’t get married. If you don’t think you are compatible, don’t get married. If you become incompatible, then unmarry. Aka divorcr
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:52 AM
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Why does that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:51 AM
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Look up definition of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:51 AM
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You do not think men and women have different natural physical strength? (Ps i am against mandatory service for either gender)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/22 01:50 AM
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You talk about it, see if she’s willing to have sex more often. Decide if that’s enough for you. If not, see if she’s ok with open relationship. If not, you divorce and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:07 PM
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Bc she’s trusting you to not sleep around. Holy shit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:06 PM
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Yes yes it should. Everyone has been telling you this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:05 PM
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Why are you afraid of them leaving? The lack of disrespect you have for your spouse is astounding
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:04 PM
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Is it cheating? Yes. Are you trying to justify something you did?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 09:02 PM
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True true. I did switch up the two subs. But resume your convo why you think women have more value. Do you want a country full of women in the army? Really? Your entire country would be destroyed. Now everyone dies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:59 PM
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What bodily autonomy? Your entire prompt is to assume ZEF is a parasite. Do parasites have bodily autonomy now?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 08:40 PM
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So you are talking about war? Not in everyday? Here is why: men are physically stronger. Do you want an entire army of women or an entire army of men? If it was a society where only women and children were there, they would evacuate children and have women fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 07:06 PM
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Why do you think we value women more? What evidence do you have?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 05:09 PM
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Historically, women were treated like property. So idk. Do you want to be treated like a person or a property? Why do you think women are born with innate value? Does it have something to do with reproduction? Then we’re not really valued. Our uteri are valued
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:02 PM
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Whoever meets our criteria for being a husband and we happened to know them well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:55 AM
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Um no. Most of us are not religious. No, i didn’t care what your list was a day ago either. Please feel free to quote where i asked about your list (whatever that even means). Cool thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 03:21 AM
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Lol what? I don’t know nor care what your list is. A few? Did i say how many is a few? I said different people will view “too many”, and that’s ok. 10 would be way too much for me. Clearly not too much for my brothers. The avg number for my friends is around 4-5, we’re all in early 30’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 01:36 AM
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I don’t advance incel logic- as they WANT more women to sleep around. I don’t want women to do anything. One brother had gotten heartbroken and he’s gay, went on grinder and went to town. So what group do you fall into? What group wants women to sleep around and mock the ones who do not?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/22 12:29 AM
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It’s not uncommon. I’d say most of my friends and co workers didn’t sleep around. Some had one or two casual sex partners but their overall count is probably around 3-6 if i had to guess from the things we talked about
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:22 PM
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Look up definition of murder. Either it is legal and it’s not murder or illegal, then it wouldn’t be legal murder.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:06 PM
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You can also THINK 2+2=5. You are welcome to THINK whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 07:04 PM
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I’m a doctor. You confuse murder with killing. You are a med student who doesn’t respect bodily autonomy? Lol. No such thing as legal murder. Please stop embarassing yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:59 PM
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It should be based on time, not money. And i think contribution is better by proportion then if y’all do split financing. Ie. Both contibute 50% of your salary.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 06:57 PM
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You assumptiond and accusation shows you are closed minded. i’m not asexual. I’m bisexual. Lol no child sex abuse i’m liberal my parents asked me to make sure i’m not pregnant before I can support such child. They did not repress me. got 2 brothers. One has slept with over 300 people, one slept with around 20. They are mid 20’s. So no,… same parents, we aren’t sexually repressed. no, not religious reasons. I don’t find sex immoral. I just don’t want to have sex with people i barely know. You sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 04:42 PM
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So i’m a bit too lazy to log in via my institution on my phone… so i’m going to just use what you posted. So it’s 14% always compared to what? 95% for men? Also this is far from your claim of 50+% of women can orgasm from PIV alone. Also, since this was surveyed, there is a sampling bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/22 12:53 AM
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51% of women achievinf orgasm throug PIV does not mean 51% of the time, women will orgasm through PIV. If 10 women are in the survey, and they each have sex 100 times. If 51 of them had just ONE PIV orgasm even once out of 100 times, it would 51% of women can have piv orgasm. But the rate of having orgasm from PIV sex is 0.5% For example. I would fall in that 51% who can have orgasm from PIV sex. How often does that happen? Maybe one out of 20 times…? But does it mean i can have it? Yes. Success…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 11:28 PM
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I’m 30, married with a kid. Not affliated with any religious organizations. You realize, not everyone wants to sleep around. Religious or not. No one pressured me. Sex is something i value and only want to share such intimacy with someone i love. I am not saying everyone needs to be like me. You are welcome to sleep around. I don’t think people who has high counts lesser. Just different values. I can be friends with people who have lots of partners, but i can’t be with them. Too many is differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 10:22 PM
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You want a maid, not a wife. When i make 500k, i sure ain’t making my spouse clean like a maid. I’d hire a maid. It can still be easy. Do you actually want a wife or do you want a servant? Do you not want to spend time with your wife? Why do you want your wife to be working all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:41 PM
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I wasn’t visually attracted to my husband, but he became more attractive as i got to know him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 06:40 PM
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My afforded lifestyle is afforded by me alone. What are you talking about. I make more than him. But i sure ain’t gonna be like “ok, i make more - so now be my slave”. Traditional roles kinda sucked for women. You only think it’s double standards when things have become fair because you were so used to having it easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:41 PM
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No. It depends on the situation. Most marriages have just a joint account. If you do split finances… How you divide uo the bills is up to the couple but it should leave some disposable moneh on both sides that is comparable. Would not be cool if one person use 100% of the salary for bills and the other person just contributes 10% of their salary and then have 490k to play with while the other person has none. Currently, i make 200k ish (between 150-220 depending how many shifts I choose to take)…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:37 PM
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I have horrible grammar actually…. But You said it multiple times. I figured you didn’t know the difference or the right word
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 05:08 AM
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There are silver in the middle: Sex skills be with someone special. Haven’t met one that i want to share such experience with. Notice how it’s all by choice? Incel: i want to have sex but can’t in the last 20-30 years, everyone has rejected me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:11 AM
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If you don’t remember your partners… then either 1. You have crap memory/dementia/brain injury 2. You had too many partners I have 3 partners in my life. Yes, they were all different in bed. I remember what they look like down there to the way it felt. I remember what they like and don’t like. Also, two of them have very similar bday, so i keep fucking that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 04:09 AM
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They probably also want sex….
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:56 AM
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You don’t have to be religious to save yourself. Just simply say what i wrote earlier. Everyone would stfu with respect
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:55 AM
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No. They arr making fun of incels. I cannot imagine people making fun of people going “yeah, well casual sex isn’t for me. I prefer to only have sex with my spouse and the right person hasn’t come along yet”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:47 AM
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No one makes fun of virgins. Big diff between virgins and angry incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:38 AM
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Most men take the dick pill for themselves. Many older women take vaginal creams for vaginal dryness/atrophy or use lube. So idk what you are talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:38 AM
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Blue pills are for erectile dysfunction. Not bc you are sick of the same person. That would be someone who had vaginal dryness or atrophy —- the condition. Even if you arewith the right person, still dry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:37 AM
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Define fair. Attraction can develop over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 01:35 AM
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When did person A say they ONLY need a educated man? She said it’s one of the preferences. She said you only live once, so you should not be with a rich man you don’t like. Aka. You only live once, so make it count. Find someone you want to live with to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:56 AM
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You make no sense, so i’m leaning towards no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:46 AM
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So how much compensation is appropriate or one to lose their original career?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/22 12:46 AM
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Ok… go make 100k then. :D Whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:49 PM
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Why work part time at all? Bc not all jobs can be part time…. So I should force him to quit his career so he can be my maid? Then make him sign a prenup so when we break up, he has no career and no alimony? Then he will be out of the work force for so many years doing house work and taking care of the children that he’d be screwed and forced into some minimum wage job?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:48 PM
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“Usual day she cooks then I do most of the dishes. I take out the garbage and clean the cat litter on Fridays and break down the recycling that day too. When she wants to clean deeper I'll offer to do whatever she needs at the time. I can't know what other stuff she wants if she doesn't tell me” She cooks. He should do the dishes. He takes out trash and does the cat litter on Fridays. Ok… That’s it? Like lololol if we all did just that, the house would be a fucking mess.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:46 PM
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Men who marry younger (under 28) have higher divorce rate. Men also typically have kids at older ages. Wouldn’t make sense for a 22 year old to marry another 22yr old if she desires marriage and kids soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:27 PM
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Oh so more things women have to do. File the divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:25 PM
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Lol wtf you even talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:23 PM
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Option 3. Make 300-500k yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:20 PM
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So if i make 500k and my partner makes 50k. And we work the same hours. I should get home and wash one plate and then put my feet up and watch him clean the entire house like a maid…? Do y’all hate your spouses? Don’t you wanna get the chores out so you both can enjoy some time together….?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:17 PM
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He does chores like cat litter once a week. Out of 7 days?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:16 PM
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There. Ffs not their. There
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 11:14 PM
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Birds of a feather. They can’t see why they are incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 09:55 PM
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Are you serious. He is obviously the AH. “Usual day she cooks then I do most of the dishes. I take out the garbage and clean the cat litter on Fridays and break down the recycling that day too. When she wants to clean deeper I'll offer to do whatever she needs at the time. I can't know what other stuff she wants if she doesn't tell me” he takes out the trash and cat litter once a week. i don’t know what she wants me to do but if she tells me, i get pissed. She’s treating him like a child because…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 08:08 PM
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Nice is important but it is not the only criteria. Would i date a nice guy who is boring, ugly, fat, short, dirt poor, and lack humor, who also shares zero interest with me? No. You make it sound like we only like bad boys. Do you think we will like the loser john on the streets being a beggar and getting high all day long with meth teeth? Lol. And has no interest except drugs? It’s not the bad boys that attracts. It’s people who have attributes beyond just being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:54 PM
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Some people want to keep sex between them and someone they love and not casual sex. Plus, i feel like sex messes with my emotions and obviously my memory. I will never (till i have brain damage or dementia) forget I had sex with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:47 PM
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If i’m less attracted to him, then he needs to attract me enough for sex. Simple. You can attract someone other than just looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 06:43 PM
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The difference… one did it to capitalize on men’s desperation and to get money, the other is demonstration how desperate you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 05:01 AM
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I would question it. Most likely, not. I may make some exceptions but nothing really justified cheating. Edit: after reading your post - i would not be friends with them. If they were in some abusive relationship and started cheating or accidentaly got into an emotional affair but trying to pull away, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 09:46 PM
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We are attracted to honest good men. honest bad men and fake good men are both unattractive. Just you may not realize the true nature of the latter
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 07:24 PM
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Independent but correlating
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:57 PM
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No. Money is a factor but not the only factor. IME, people with only HS degree and people with doctorate degrees are usually very different people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:21 PM
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Define date down Education wise? They can. No one should do anything if they don’t want to. I’m most women with phd are ok w dating someone with a BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/22 05:03 PM
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Why do you need a open relationshio? Just call it friends with benefit
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:02 PM
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This is the overarching issue. Men notice attractive women and cry about how they only go for the top men. Women cry about men only dating the attractive women. If everyone was more honest w themselves, and started to notice the quiet, introverted, less attractive, maybe not quite successful people, they would all do much better
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 04:28 PM
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Please explain how. Like exact behaviors.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 01:15 AM
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You wanna start again? K deny it then. “If i didn’t say women are perfect, then i didn’t make such claim. Women aren’t perfect. Happy? Oh you think men are perfect?!? You never said men weren’t perfect!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 08:44 PM
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You wanna start again? K deny it then. “If i didn’t say women are perfect, then i didn’t make such claim. Women aren’t perfect. Happy? Oh you think men are perfect?!? You never said men weren’t perfect!”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:49 PM
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You wanna start again? K deny it then. “If i didn’t say women are perfect, then i didn’t make such claim. Women aren’t perfect. Happy? Oh you think men are perfect?!? You never said men weren’t perfect!”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:02 AM
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You wanna start again? K deny it then. “If i didn’t say women are perfect, then i didn’t make such claim. Women aren’t perfect. Happy? Oh you think men are perfect?!? You never said men weren’t perfect!”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 10:01 AM
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Well… Why is he broke? Depending on the reason, most likely I wouldn’t consider dating a broke guy. Plan cheaper or free dates then. To plan a date you cannot afford is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:21 PM
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This is old fashion but men should pay. The woman should offer. If the woman isn’t interested in him, then she should pay her half. If she initiates the date, men should still offer, but the womam should be prepared to pay or at least split. This is just my opinion. If a man took me on a date and expected me to pay, i would only pay my half and would never meet him again.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 10:07 PM
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Right, a man with any job is fulfilling traditional role when he and his whole family gets crammed into a one bedroom apartment with barely enough to eat. Way to provide and protect. Lolol. Women’s job. I didn’t realize jobs had specifications to gender. I guess being a PHYSICIAN is now a WOMAN’s job. 😘 Yes. Economy has changed. But how can you demand a woman to do te traditional role if the man can no longer fulfill the traditional male role? Men wants to overpower and outdo? That sounds like a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:17 PM
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You think being pumped and dumped when you are searching for a life partner would make one happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:13 PM
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If you have sex with him from the start and he was just looking to fuck, that’s how you get to a high count. Then ppl will say you are undesirable bc you have a high count. No. The best is to make men wait and prove they are worth it. Also better for risk management between kids and health
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:19 PM
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You wanna start again? K deny it then. “If i didn’t say women are perfect, then i didn’t make such claim. Women aren’t perfect. Happy? Oh you think men are perfect?!? You never said men weren’t perfect!”
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 02:16 PM
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The solution, don’t sleep with men before 6 months in. You guys caused this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/22 07:04 AM
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Prime pick? Why would a prime pick want the avg joe? Let me tell you why we can set whatever standards we want… (i’m an early 30 y/o mom, married but let’s say i became single or whatever reason)… I would rather be a single mom then be a mom to an adult child. I’d rather be a single mom, then marry a man who isn’t up to par. I would rather be a single mom, than marry a man who doesn’t care for my child as his own. And if that means I stay single, cool. I don’t care. But if YOU are trying to find…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:19 PM
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Define avg man who acts like a dude. Why should the avg man find a virgin? Is he also a virgin? Is the avg man a virgin? If she is submitting to him, is he a worthy leader? Why submit to someone who is equal to you? That’s so bizzare. Is he able to support a family of 4 or more on his income alone? Comfortably? Bc the avg man makes 20-24 yr old makes 34.5 k… that’s definitely NOT enough for a family of 4. Guess the avg man cannot fulfill the traditional male role.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 10:14 PM
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Which women are you even talking about? Bc clearly we don’t share the same experience. And isn’t there daily complaints of women having too high of a standards here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:33 PM
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Nah it would still exist because none of those young women would want young men… and red pill is made fromyoung men who are bitter because they need to wait until theyare older
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 07:42 PM
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Women do filter based on behaviors. What are you talking about? You can literally filter by more than one criteria. Idk about looks. Don’t notice this. Excitement? Wtf that even mean? Do you mean common interest? money? Yeah we don’t like doing the heavy duty for emotional burden, housework, and paycheck. No need for a deadbeat. I make good money, but i would probably not have dated someone who made less than 100k. Like what if i got disabled due to pregnancy? We all gonna be homeless now? I don…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 06:52 PM
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Not greedy, we learn from experience what are red flags and cut them out faster. Not manipulation. It’s learning to filter out crap men. Idk where you are getting the rest of your nonsense from. Virgins are naive. Imagine a kid with no life experience. How would you even know what to filter out? How do you know what are red flags? I’m watching some of my friends date idiots. Hell, women used to like the notebook and that’s toxic af.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:24 PM
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Hun, lol why are you even talking? You think men are perfect. Why should i care if men are opting out of dating? (I don’t)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 04:20 PM
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You should evaluate what she brings to the table and question how she will improve your life but that question has never been asked in good faith. Plus it means you are lazy af. Like do you not have eyes, ears, mouth, and a brain?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:33 PM
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Money or happiness? Which is more important?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:32 PM
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Don’t worry about my spending. Even if i were a bit poorer bc I keep buying things or enjoying good food, I’ll still be happier than most guys on PPD. Worry less about us, and more about yourself. There is a reason women are more willing to stay single… we are happier single, yet you guys are scared to die alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 01:31 PM
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Bc women do date avg men. If you are below avg, maybe improve yourself or approach below avg women. Most people end up with women around the same level.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 10:30 PM
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A cheater is not a HVM. The end
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 12:24 PM
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Why would i want to be w a man who thinks my value goes down with time?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:39 PM
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That’s all the woman wanted them, is it playing her if that’s also her goal?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:36 PM
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The same things the average man has to offer…?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:34 PM
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Average is a 5. That’s the definition of avg assuming a nominal distribution between 1-10… Somehow people thing avg means 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 10:22 PM
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This isn’t new news… lol. I see this all the time. I had a classmate who is the CLASSIC CHAD. Charismatic, chill personality, not poor, knows the right things to say, etc. he fucked around so much. Like 3 different girls a week. A year after i graduated, i hear he’s marrying some old schooled christian girl. (Which is fine) He asked me to not talk about his past near his wife. I’m guessing he is lying to his wife about his past. Which isn’t so cool. Men do change. Both of you guys do. But marryi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 05:06 PM
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Do we call war veterans used cars? You don’t think ppl will be like wtf? “Oh you went to war? Sorry, you are damaged goods” Poor guys, short guys, incels, and ugly guys have all sorts of emotional damaged. I guess women have been justified in avoiding such damaged goods.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 11:53 AM
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Yes. Comparing women to cars. Very logical. Then saying it’s not objectifying. Cool. I’m gonna go back to reading about finances. Enjoy your tea.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:24 AM
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So are you a virgin? Do you make 300k or more? Are you 6 feet…? The hot virgins are extremely rare and set whatever standards you want. I agree with you. But men are already crying about the standards being too high
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:23 AM
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But that’s not what is being used. It’s not positive. Maybe try to be actually logical then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:21 AM
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I agree. What will 90% of men do? Since they can’t meet such standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 01:20 AM
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Honey is used for men and women and usually in a positive manner. “Hi honey”. Vs how often do men get compared to locks, cars, etc where “used/damaged” is the descriptor for them. If you say women are like cars, guess what? Most companies don’t let you test drive luxury cars unless you can afford to buy them. That rules out everyone except the top 1%. I’m sure y’all wouldn’t like that type of hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:21 PM
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What is your point though. Are most people not damaged or something? Most men on PPD are damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 10:30 PM
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Can we stop propagating that virgin men are hated? Virgin men aren’t. Incels? Maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 08:14 PM
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It is a power imbalance. That’s why i think no man or woman should do unpaid labor. Ie… SAHP totally have loss of financial independence untill it is agreed upon that money belongs to both of them and alimony is expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:42 PM
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Perhaps make an analogy with non objects. Pretty sure if we compared y’all to wallets, you wouldn’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:36 PM
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That dude thinks men are perfect. And refuse to deny it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:29 PM
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“You are most likely to be assulted or sex trafficked by a man. So uh no, i’m not going to jepordize my safety so you feel better. Maybe y’all need to do better. My whole argument is that equality doesn’t currently exist. You claim we can’t get go of men’s gender roles. The problem is women have been progressively become providers and men (overall) have not been stepping into traditional women’s role. If i didn’t say women are perfect, then i didn’t make such claim. Women aren’t perfect. Happy? …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 01:27 PM
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I’ve already said it, scroll up. You even admitted that i said it. hereSo men are perfect? scroll up, it want even that long ago Yours “No you didn't say women are actually not perfect. You "said" it becuase I called you out on your well bullshit argument. You know your whole argument of men are bad women are not. After all its men who are to blame for being viewed as pedophiles. And men are at fault for not doing half of the housework all while having to still be providers and protectors. I alr…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:34 AM
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^ you even said i had said it lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:31 AM
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I’ve already said it, scroll up. You even admitted that i said it. So men are perfect?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:31 AM
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Scroll up in my comments. I already said it I’ve already said it, scroll up. You even admitted that i said it. hereSo men are perfect? scroll up, it want even that long ago Yours “No you didn't say women are actually not perfect. You "said" it becuase I called you out on your well bullshit argument. You know your whole argument of men are bad women are not. After all its men who are to blame for being viewed as pedophiles. And men are at fault for not doing half of the housework all while having…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:30 AM
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Tell me why it’s a bad analogy then
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:06 AM
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^ This dude does not have the ability to say “men aren’t perfect” apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:05 AM
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I did. Do you … have dementia…? Why can’t you say men aren’t perfect?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:05 AM
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Read below. Someone just compared a raped woman with a damaged car. Is that not damaged goods?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:04 AM
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One in 5 are SA/raped. I guess you eliminated 20% of tbe women and you called them damaged goods. Yes. You did. You called them damaged. Then you compared them to an object (car. Aka good).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 11:04 AM
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Do you have a hard time understanding unwanted attention?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 02:17 AM
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Ofc. Why wouldn’t I?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:34 PM
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Imagine this… assuming you are a straight man… do you want the amount of attention we get from a gay man or amount of attention a man gets? Not all attention is good
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:30 PM
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Why can’t you say you don’t think men are perfect?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 02:26 PM
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So you would only be with a virgin. Are you a virgin? Why isn’t your dick gross then? To me, you would have touched a bunch of vaginal secretions, spit, shit, blood, and urine. If anything, you’re grosser, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:28 AM
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I’ve denied that but you haven’t denied that you think men are perfect
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 11:26 AM
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You clearly think you are clean but everyone else is dirty. That’s odd. You can get tested to make sure she is clean. So unless you are strictly going for virgins, it doesn’t make a difference if her count was 1 or 100. Equally dirty it clean if STDs free
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:05 AM
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Make good money/have a stable or good career Have a good personality Have respect for oneself and respect to others I hope i meet them, but #2 is my weaker one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 07:58 PM
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You think men are perfect. Pft no wonder you have such issues on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 01:28 PM
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Oh? Still can’t say it? Or do you realllly think men are perfect?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:59 PM
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I already did. Did you have memory loss? Come on. Say it. “Men aren’t perfect”. Gosh, you really resisting eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:08 PM
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Oh men are perfect? Why can’t you say men aren’t perfect? Lololol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:16 AM
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But she may be more attractive and for most men, that’s worth the trade off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:13 AM
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Ok mr “you didn’t say it but you said it” 😂 I called you out on it and you still refuse to say it. Does that mean you think men are perfect? You did not do math - you made up random numbers and stories. Protectors? How much time you spend protecting your wife? Providers? Men women work now. SAHM saves more money than the avg male worker. Be honest, if you had a little girl who got lost, who will you tell her to get help from? Go up to a random single middle aged man? Or from the woman who has tw…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:10 AM
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I don’t shit and piss on my own plates. But if i did, it wouldn’t bother me if it was cleanes. I use the public toilet afterall You shitting and pissing in people’s mouth? If cumming in her mouth is so gross, why do you wanna do it? What makes your cum cleaner? If sex is so gross, why do men want to have sex with multiple women?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:08 AM
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Virgin women also have standards. They won’t be taking in random men and they probably will make you wait a hella lot longer. Maybe till marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 11:04 AM
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Guess they must be good at lying then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:47 AM
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Imagine you as had to go through 200 job interviews and resumes per day. It’s tiring. Then half or more start telling and spamming at you for rejecting them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:37 AM
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Don’t need a man. Best relationships are when you don’t need each other… you just want each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:20 AM
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Unfair? What are you smoking? If your values are different , sure. But if you wish you could be promiscuous but don’t have the chance and you find that unfair, you don’t exactly have differing values… you are just envious. I also am not sure if men have the power in marriage. Women are fine being alone. I’d rather die single than marry a guy like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:18 AM
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Honestly, if you hang out with her that much, i would be more concerned why I haven’t met her or hung out with her. My husband introduced me to his buddied after 2-3 dates. So if I were sarah, warning flags would be up. Also, house date on 3rd date? Hun, that’s so fast. I ain’t going somewhere private until like the 10th date. I know you are trying to get to the “make women wait”. But you are doing a bad job at making such analogy. Who says free dates can’t be fun? Plus, if april is your friend,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 05:01 AM
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Thise aren’t friends
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:18 AM
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It’s called a personality and being a good person.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:00 AM
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That has to do more with the men she knows and less with age. 5-10 year gap is perfect for someone who is 20-25. Most 20 year old men are not ready for family. Most probably aren’t ready until like 30
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:51 PM
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Women can lie about virginity too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 08:39 PM
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Scroll up a few replies. I did say women aren’t perfect. You however have NOT said men aren’t perfect, and you refuse to say it. Oh i guess you think men are perfect. Show me the math then. How did the leisure time end up more? You assume it is due to difference in sleep? Where is the evidence of that? How do you know it wasn’t undocumented other chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 03:22 PM
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You think men are perfect? You have never said men aren’t perfect. I dropped the math part bc you never answered the prior question. I’m guessing you didn’t know the answer. Idk where you got the 1:6 number. Source
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:14 AM
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Maybe bc you say weird ass shit like “once a person or object touches semen, they are like an old used rag and gross”. Lol - ig women can tell what a weirdo you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:12 AM
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I hope you have never masturbated. I’m sure that has gotten on yourself or your bed. Also, i hope you remain an incel/virgin. Imagine being married to you…. After having sex, now i’m gross? Lol Do you,… not think vaginal secretion is gross then? If you had sex, you are a old used rag. Wow - so gross. Maybe you ought to cut off your hand and dick bc it’s touched your semen and someone’s vaginal fluids or blood
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:04 AM
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I don’t think you hear me… my last reply is literally what men say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 12:30 AM
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You don’t want one clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 10:09 PM
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Not sure what feminism has to do with sperm donation. Sounds like you don’t want a family or kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:34 PM
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Then why step 1-3 i. The first place. Just jump straight to surrogate then. Honestly, it would be cheaper to just pay child support. Not like you wanna raise your own kids anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 09:30 PM
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Nope. That’s not why he got married. He didn’g know i was gonna make more than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 08:30 PM
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Well, i make more than him, so if anything, i’d be paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:50 PM
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Women are hypergamous and how the top 80% of women go for the top 20% of men or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 06:24 PM
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My man isn’t paying anything. Lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:48 PM
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I wouldn’t marry a man who NEEDS me. Lol. Ps. I’m married and that’s bc he wants me. Not bc he needs me. And vice versa 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:27 PM
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Go for it. Lol. You think it affects me?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:06 PM
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Child support is 4k. Your mom ain’t raising 10 more kids like you. You gotta fly to the other countries too. Gl with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:06 PM
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So make your mom do free labor. When will you cut your own umbilical cord from your mom? Are you gonna have your mom be your surrogate too? She may be too old
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 05:04 PM
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Best skill is learn how to socialize with women without viewing them as objects like a sex toy and work on your self because you want to improve yourself, not so you can impress others Z confidence and ambition is hot. But those are internal and for oneself, not fora woman
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 04:02 PM
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Problem is men have not been proven to be trustworthy… that’s why such laws were made
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:56 PM
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You don’t realize how expensive raising a child or hiring a surrogate is….
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:55 PM
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Where in your 3 step plan will you find a woman who will want to be with you in these terms….?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:54 PM
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Op must so be a kid. Can’t do adult work
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:53 PM
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Do you even have gold…? Lol if you want to hire someone to do the job of aSAHM, you better have at least 100k disposable income
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:52 PM
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If she’s “putting out”, you suck in bed. Learn to make love and not just be a selfish jackhammer
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:51 PM
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The average child support is 4k per year. Surrogacy is 150k You do the math
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:49 PM
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Are they happily married though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:47 PM
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You Never said men aren’t perfect. Oh so are men perfect?!? why do you think men are perfect? Lolol I think in a relationship, both people should work equally hard. You make 80k. A SAHM is basically a nanny for your kids. Babies cost 80k. You couldn’t even afford to pay your wife a wage. Maybe you should hate on how the distribution of pedos by sex and not get mad at me. Maybe hate the men so give you a bad name. If you had a child and they got lost, you wouldn’t tell your child to seek out a si…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 03:45 PM
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You aren’t finding love. Lol. You are finding a prostitute but ok
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/22 01:28 PM
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