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double ouchie
/r/askTRP01/04/20 09:33 PM
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ouch
/r/askTRP01/04/20 05:31 PM
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ok boomer
/r/askTRP01/04/20 01:39 PM
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thanks for the advice, bro. That's something I already have an understanding of through first hand experience as stated above. Thanks again though. Except the whole "life isn't gonna be worth a damn thing" part, since I also don't value my life based on other people. Sort of a non sequitur here and comes off as very Dwight from The Office trying to sound hardcore lmao.
/r/askTRP29/03/20 05:12 AM
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this was so long ago, lol. Before I started going out every night and approaching every woman in the club. I was so silly haha.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 10:30 PM
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There shouldn't be an end goal. You should be improving toward infinity. Enjoy that you are doing such. For example i enjoy taking action and talking to women, even if i get rejected. I can talk to every woman in the club and get rejected by every one and still have had a great night. Why? Because i know that with each experience i am growing, becoming more confident and grounded in reality. And of course this doesn't happen for long because the more I do it the better i get and the more "result…
/r/askTRP14/02/20 06:45 AM
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You dont need to drink or do drugs to go to bars or nightclubs. Night clubs are the best places to meet women because thats where most of them are and they are generally hotter. You need to be going out to the most bougie upscale night clubs you can find every night. It's the best way to build experience and confidence imo. Or just go to a heavily populated area in the day. I wouldn't recommend learning an instrument or volunteering just to meet women lol. Do that for yourself.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 06:43 AM
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I like this framing
/r/askTRP02/02/20 07:48 PM
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When i say " i didnt know" im saying it isn't. Apologies for the passive tone, I choose to not live life in a walking daze.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 05:46 AM
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Career is not purpose. For me career = path to some vehicle for financial independence. A lot of guys "put their head down and grind" and lose the other aspects of development that aren't money. For me it's not about girls, I want to be an better man all around. "Success brings women" ehh that reeks of outcome dependence. I don't want to live like that. If im going to trade my time for money I'm going to do it for myself not for girls. Putting your head down and making money in hopes the women c…
/r/askTRP02/02/20 01:30 AM
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I'm average height. I'm also not white. I'm not even that jacked. Ive had about 30-40 lays before learning game and my ex was a 9 with makeup (i think they all are) who told me i was very attractive and guys tell me im attractive so i guess i have an attractive face despite acne but that would be my only advantage. Don't take it from me then look at guys like bradicus, justin merc, or Byran black. Hell even JMULV even though i really dont like him he gets results and isn't incredibly handsome. L…
/r/seduction01/02/20 11:58 PM
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Its ok if u dont believe me bro but that isn't true. Anyways almost at the club finally have a good night man
/r/seduction28/01/20 06:54 AM
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Bro your science is wayyyy off. The more you practice is highly correlated with progress. Ive been doing an hour a day for the last 3 months. Thats great progress bro Check out The mind illuminated for a real secular scientific take on meditation from beginner to enlightened Genuinely curious about your progression curve. When you say a few thousand do you mean like around 2000? And that has netted you 14 8s and 9s. Thats pretty awesome
/r/seduction28/01/20 05:42 AM
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It isnt really congruent with my frame but i feel that
/r/askTRP28/01/20 12:30 AM
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I have been trying to feel good all of the time so i can be instead of do. How long have you been doing pickup? Have you observed who is most successful at pickup? Is it the guys you listed or the natural game guys? I think some of the most successful guys are justin merc and bradicus and they seem to be more on the natural side. Thinking aboht starting 5 hours of meditation a day plus going out nightly and seeing where tbat goes. How long have u been at it
/r/seduction28/01/20 12:27 AM
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Lol girls can have/want multiple orgasms. When i nut i want a cigarette. Your comparison doesn't make sense lol. Ok so if the girl likes being led then she must also like leading too right? No. There are differences between men and women.
/r/seduction27/01/20 10:39 PM
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If we measure value as it correlates with unreactivity then im not sure how you could be right. If you are truly unattractive during sex though then she is very likely to cum anyways because a) it is likely how you attracted her in the first place (although there can be exceptions) b) if you focus on the pleasure you feel you are likely to be more dominant and by definition a better fuck unless she is dominant too. Your tips are good for beginners but on an advanced level i think it falls apart.…
/r/seduction27/01/20 10:36 PM
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Hmm i kinda think the technical stuff is a waste of time because it comes out naturally just by being more attractive (core value/more investment in yourself). I don't study technical game at all but im generally familliar. I noticed the other night the cocky frame push pull just came naturally as i was mainly concerned with subcom...but maybe you do need to study it a bit just so you can have a general idea of what it looks like. In the same way that capital "I" insights in meditation must be e…
/r/seduction27/01/20 10:30 PM
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Hey also i think attraction simply comes down to value. At the human core what is value? Pleasure. Pain being the opposite. If you have pleasure to offer then you are attractive. Being attractive mens conveying that pleasure in your interaction. In short that is how i believe all of this to work...is value everything? No. Not every girl wants a high value guy some can't handle it but they surely will still be interested in exploring it.
/r/seduction27/01/20 10:21 PM
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Ooou stateless? Can you expound on that a bit?
/r/seduction27/01/20 10:15 PM
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Sorry for the triple response but i missed something. Your last sentence...where does that idea come from? Imo and according to the buddha and a lot of what i have learned through my investigation is that the sense of a separate self is the cause of suffering (it is what desire and aversion are rooted in). With that said, does it not become apparent that marketing would have every incentive to reify the idea or sense of separate self. That is what creates desire and aversion which they then use …
/r/seduction27/01/20 10:12 PM
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I totally feel that bro. Read my other response i think it sheds more light and goes about as deep as i can. No worries man i just try to remain aware of that fact and then it doesnt bother me as much because i know the nature of reddit so i can remain focused on the argument itself. I think it was really helpful for me writing out ideas like that paints a clearer picture of direction for myself. Or maybe im just procrastinating on my much needed nap and am feeding into desire to stimulate mysel…
/r/seduction27/01/20 09:54 PM
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You missed the point again in your first two sentences. You contradicted yourself. "Im not talking about discontentment" "Im talking about desire" These are the same. Here's a fact: desire = discontentment. Desire implies you are wanting things to be different than they are. Desire and aversion are two causes of suffering this is what the buddha discovered (Dukkha/suffering "happens"). Also that desire and aversion are rooted in the sense of separate self. Its not that monks "like" being on top …
/r/seduction27/01/20 09:43 PM
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Yo honestly reticular activation system or whatever its called is crazy...it even works online. Anyways, yeah that is possible or i can just use poor verbal game (interview questions) which is way easier.
/r/seduction27/01/20 09:29 PM
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Maybe this will work. Ok you dont like talking to random girls. It causes some sort of discontentment for you. I would also guess that you wouldn't like traveling 2 hours on a subway without a cell phone. Most people would suffer from a number of negative emotions in that situation. At the very least, boredom. Why? It is reliance on external value (pleasure stimuli) in order to be happy. Now what if i told you it was possible to feel like you just won a million dollars on that subway ride and al…
/r/seduction27/01/20 09:22 PM
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Nah read deeper. Everything i said that pushed the interaction was rather inconsequential. I could have just reached my arm out or finger waved to lead her out of the club. I didnt have to make the condom joke because the interaction was already sexualized (grinding). Interview questions could have carried the entire interaction but my subcommunication was on point. You can pull without speaking ive seen it done
/r/seduction27/01/20 09:07 PM
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Perhaps fear is a personality trait - if this is the case, do you think it is healthy and conducive to happiness to harbor it and maintain it? Don't you think that if you could alter your personality on a fundamental level to not have that fear and neediness (low value) component that it would be beneficial? Forget about game for a moment, go talk to anyone on on r/themindilluminated subreddit and im sure they will agree. Some personality traits (aka conditioned responses and behavior) are simpl…
/r/seduction27/01/20 09:00 PM
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Garbage verbals = interview questions I'll abstract my most recent field report here: I approach, use garbage verbals, use physical escalation or basic masculine subcommunication (vocal tonality, eye contact,groundedness, strong frame that im enough, and leading) to push the interaction. Interaction gets even more sexualized via grinding, then i finally use "good" verbal by teasing her about her jacket being a dancing condom...make out with her, tell her lets get out of here 0 hesitation start p…
/r/seduction27/01/20 08:48 PM
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I didn't say doesn't like to - its fine if you don't like to...its more about being able to. Using another analogy, i don't like to max out in the gym. But i do test it occasionally so i can verify my progress. Benching 225 assures me that i am intermediate in strength. If not im more towards novice. In the same way a fear response to talking to girls is another marker for where your attractiveness is. If you are super fearful because you havent taken enough action to get those reference experie…
/r/seduction27/01/20 08:33 PM
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Youre the one making assumptions. Many people dont like the gym but want to be fit. For me the club is the gym for my social skills. My "prefered" place to pick up women could be considered the bodybuilding/powerlifting contest itself. Screening is a big part of my game and actually makes you more attractive so maybe have a bit more integrity anf authenticity and screen out girls that are drunk? And look for ones that are to your standard? Or just go for the pull then walk away...since reference…
/r/seduction27/01/20 08:13 PM
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Not really you can have garbage verbals and still close i also like using verbals congruent with my masculine frame tho.
/r/seduction27/01/20 07:45 PM
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In terms of getting good at game having top tier social skills, most men ate screwed because they won't take action
/r/seduction27/01/20 07:31 PM
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Im messing w u bro but thats honestly funny imagining a ting 5'4 asian girl spinning me around lmao
/r/askTRP27/01/20 03:29 PM
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i like this ur cool but verbals don't even matter lol
/r/seduction27/01/20 10:19 AM
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Ok my bad. Dude just fucking go out and approach literally all it takes. Forget everything you think determines attractiveness. Being attractive just means providing the ability to provide pleasure. You are a guy and you have a penis and that is enough. You will also be overflowing with happiness joy and positivity because every approach you make is a win. Whatever happens after is just icing on the cake. I love blowing out sets (getting "rejected") - it's always fucking hilarious and I frame ev…
/r/seduction27/01/20 09:45 AM
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ok a set = girl(s) that you approach social conditioning = caring about what other people think + limiting beliefs such as looks, social status, money, height are what determine what makes me attractive. If I don't live up to these standards then I can't approach girls x/10. I'm telling you these standards don't exist and if you simply act with the positive traits that you have openly and freely you will be more attractive than billionaires. cope = rejecting a harsh truth and adopting a less dis…
/r/seduction27/01/20 09:37 AM
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The only reason I mentioned it is because it's exactly what I did last night. Open girl. Lead girl 3 feet from where we were standing. Dance w girl. Kiss girl. Say "lets gtfoh" to girl and start walking no hesitation. She follows. She grabs yellow taxi and I ask "you're going to pay for that?" She says "yeah is that a problem?" I throw my hands in the air and proceed to pipe at her place. Only reason she would be uninterested is if you didn't screen properly. Impossible with the scenario given a…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:30 AM
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I have some superficial physical flaws, and I know it. You have social conditioning. Here's a tip. Go out and don't fix your hair and dress bad on purpose. I love doing this whenever I have doubt that core value isn't the only thing that matters - and I did provide a sort of description of core value in my response. Tbh I'm "good looking" - I get asked if i'm an actor all the time etc but who determines what is good looking? Has good looking stayed the same throughout history? Is it determined b…
/r/seduction27/01/20 09:17 AM
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Nah. Just a really good cope. At the end of the day if you're shy in the sense that you're fearful of talking to a girl then that means you lack core value and are coming from a place of weakness. We have to look at what makes a man attractive. Core confidence and core value comes to mind. Being unreactive (not concerned with outcomes) and being grounded present and in the moment. If you are the opposite you are coming from a place of neediness and outcome dependence. Like a beggar on the street…
/r/seduction27/01/20 08:37 AM
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Who cares what they say? It has no impact on your ability to fuck them. Height only matters as much as it affects your confidence
/r/seduction27/01/20 08:26 AM
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Lol waltz to rap and EDM? Also, what clubs don't play the above mentioned music? (Ive been ripping a lot of house venues tbh
/r/askTRP27/01/20 08:23 AM
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Lol please don't let them twirl you around im gonna bust out laughing at you
/r/askTRP27/01/20 08:20 AM
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I like this and im gonna start doing the doggy style push thing you seem to be describing. I normally just keep hands on the waist/inner thigh I dont agree however on backing off to dance by yourself to try to look cool and check out other girls or whatever. That's weird reactionary behavior. Either move on entirely or push the interaction further. You should be leading her elsewhere and if you haven't escalated beyond the dancing yet that should be top priority. Get the makeout then lead her ou…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 08:17 AM
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I agree with this but ive literally never witnessed a dancing fail what is that
/r/askTRP27/01/20 08:09 AM
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My argument is that doing ANYTHING from a reactive frame is low value. You mentioned sex god method, isn't the main thing in that book to let your sexual self be fully unleashed? That is very different from "oh no i better make sure she cums or else she is gonna fuck a 9 tomorrow If I'm really into it doing what i want from a sex god dominant frame she is going to cum without question...not that that would be a concern of mine.just like i wasnt concerened with her reaction when i went in and sai…
/r/seduction27/01/20 07:14 AM
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Most guys end up w a wife and kids tho No one said making her cum was unattractive. Who said that lol. It is great if while digging her guts out she also happens to cum. If not oh well. Outcome dependence subcommunicates low value unattractive behavior.
/r/seduction27/01/20 07:10 AM
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By attractive guy i mean a guy with the ability to build a lot of attraction with the woman. She will go with the guy she is more attracted to 10/10. And I'm not even talking about looks. Focusing on making the girl orgasm is flat out reactionary and unattractive. You're better off doing what you want. If she cums from that ditto
/r/seduction27/01/20 05:55 AM
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When did i say that
/r/seduction27/01/20 04:54 AM
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Watch what they do not what they say. None of your exes aka men you maintained interest in made you cum therefore we need to focus on making you cum to keep you interested? Sounds like exactly the opposite to me. Maybe them just focusing on their own enjoyment of sex and not your reaction is more of an "in"-- or that it basically doesn't matter at all. Kind of reminds me of a girl who says all her exes were assholes that cheated on her...guess what kind of guy she is most attracted to.
/r/seduction27/01/20 04:13 AM
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Being more attractive trumps all of this.
/r/seduction27/01/20 04:08 AM
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jk i lied shy people cant get laid. Also, I say hi back to extremely tiny exceptions
/r/seduction27/01/20 03:51 AM
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Exactly this. So is he trying to say women like that you hide the best parts of you out of fear? Yeah i don't think so.
/r/seduction27/01/20 01:38 AM
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Unironically
/r/seduction27/01/20 01:29 AM
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Shy people exist because shy people have had sex before and reproduced. If shy people couldn't reproduce, no one would be shy. The problem lies in that there are people who are "shy" from a place of fear of stimulation. Doing anything from a place of fear or weakness is not good for women or your own well being/happiness. You have got to get stronger for your own good. Your personality can still be calm and chill and doesn't have to be from some hollywood movie (in fact thats a good way to not g…
/r/seduction27/01/20 01:18 AM
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Didnt watch but the obvious answer is to become not shy. Go out every night talk to many people behave confidently
/r/seduction26/01/20 10:48 PM
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Blew out every fucking set like a boss hell yeah
/r/askTRP25/01/20 08:07 AM
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No such thing as a "bad interaction" as long as I'm having fun as you said. I would love to come back and be like, "yo i sacked up and talked to 3 girls having dinner their reaction was fucking hilarious they even said nice to meet me at the end I'm a fucking god". You know, positive framing and all. Going out again tn we'll see should be fucking blast
/r/askTRP25/01/20 12:11 AM
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I'll admit I'm using a lot of generalizations in my responses to try to paint a picture between what I see as reality and what I see as social conditioning. MOST guys would rather get in a fight than do something really embarrassing. Doing embarrasing shit helps you grow as a person and crushes social anxiety, getting into a fight only reinforces your ego and makes you like everyone else. You're doing what "you're supposed to do" - be prideful and stand up for yourself. Oh please...according to …
/r/askTRP24/01/20 11:43 PM
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It sounds like you don't know what a true alpha is. Perhaps you have a lot of pre-conceived notions on that term which is to be expected. To me a "true alpha" is someone who can truly be themselves and have happiness independent of any external stimuli. The closest thing to a "true alpha" in human history imo is the Buddha - so you tell me how that describes a " a wannabemacho ". Anyways have fun on blue pill reddit. Live in the matrix where everyone is walking through life in a walking daze as …
/r/askTRP24/01/20 10:29 PM
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I can't relate. Everything I like is expressed through either verbal or nonverbal communication. I'm a skilled meditator (2hrs per day) have done plenty of self reflection, thinking about who i am what I like what I want and who I want in my life. I can assure you that I am not into any weird shit. I've seen all the weird shit and it doesn't get me going. You don't have to give away all your value and communicate everything about yourself. If you are choosing people to be in your life you're goi…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 09:28 PM
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You're missing the entire point. This post was about you losing confidence due to "being into being humuliated". This is inherently unattractive behavior because you are not comfortable expressing who you are and what you're into. This is a reactive frame. Alphas are not dependent on others opinions or reactions in order to determine their self esteem/happiness/fun. They have it internally. To express who you are in your opinion would be humiliating and that's limiting your confidence. I think y…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 09:00 PM
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Thanks! That's super helpful. I wanted to do it just to prove something to myself. I had no intention of actually pulling those girls. At best I was just hoping for a massive wave of unstifiling before I went back to the club. In terms of building myself up -- I went out solo last night. Went to a bar, made friends and brought them to the club with me so I was no longer solo, then opened about 5 sets before pulling. That's why I was kinda shocked that I wasn't "state" enough to do the diner appr…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:42 PM
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That would be an excellent way to start your night, actually. It would be great for unstifiling yourself. It's all about your mindset though. If you are viewing it as an exercise to not give a fuck about what others think then yelling "I'm stupid and ugly" would be great. Being more certain in your reality, unreactive to others, being happy from within without reliance on external stimuli is a key marker of value = attraction = confidence. It must be built, you can't just beat your dick to femfa…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 08:24 PM
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so what. Do it anyways as a joke. If that shit makes you feel uncomfortable you will come out more confident for having done it and you'll feel less bad about. There must be some underlying reason why it is affecting your confidence if its all just fantasy. Exposure will root it out. Otherwise your only other option is just to stop watching it (I recommend both).
/r/askTRP24/01/20 07:57 PM
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I'm not. There's no easy way out. The only way out is through it. Assert your dominant reality. That is the answer to your problem. I'm willing to bet my own money that if you were to approach 20 girls a night and express this fetish to them with unwavering confidence this would be a non-issue and you would come back to this post and have a massive fucking smile on your face looking back at the beginning of greatness. Life gave you lemons make lemonade.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 07:44 PM
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Gay = socially conditioned faggotry = you being scared to express who you really are due to the opinion of others. My advice is to literally go out and humiliate the fuck out of yourself around this issue until it no longer bothers you. This is the only solution. Sounds like this will literally be sexually enjoyable for you also. Win win. You like what you like. Own it. Also, porn is bad.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 07:19 PM
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Let me clarify, you literally liking penis would be less gay IMO than the circumstance described in this post. And on a very serious note, showing your true sissy self would be the most alpha confident move you could make. That's what he's saying.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 07:09 PM
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Real alphas do get all that shit you desire. You're just not one. Sounds like you're putting up a bunch of fronts looking for a reaction. If you want to fuck a girl now, then why are you waiting 4-6 days? You're putting more value on the girl than yourself and this is probably being subcommunicated. Your frame just comes off as very reactive. Instead of communicating in a way that shows how passionate you are about your life, how much you value your life, you're focused on being cold because you…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 07:03 PM
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Yeah OP do this and problem solved. Or just stop liking gay shit. I'm guessing the latter is impossible for you though.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 06:47 PM
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Why do you care? Get more plates.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 05:57 PM
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Im trying to do the real estate thing and get some cash flows going. Having enough to just survive and not work would be a great start. I honestly plan to put all of my savings into the SPY as that would long term give me 7-9% but now im thinking a savings account would be smarter if i intend to buy a house soon as a RE investment. This post was moreso looking for small quick (but effective and lucrative if plenty of hours are put in) gigs for cash right now as im waiting to hear back from a few…
/r/askTRP24/01/20 09:05 AM
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Get after it bro
/r/askTRP15/01/20 07:22 AM
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reread the last sentence of my post I know you'll get it
/r/askTRP15/01/20 07:14 AM
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Seconding other users in the comment section here. This may be the best post on the sidebar. Make your goals about taking action in the moment. Not about the outcome, it's about taking action. Instead of bang 10 girls, make your goal to approach 20 daily. Dude! I read like 2/3rds of your post and got super excited and started writing another post about my specific goals, I started writing about how this post resonated with me and the things that I learned about flow and karma...and then I kept r…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 11:01 PM
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I thought it was about screening. Her dreams weren't congruent to his and she was filtered out.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/20 05:50 AM
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Reading your initial post all I could think was outcome independence and flow state, and here you are mentioning flow state. Sending you a PM soon would love to chat and bounce ideas. Do you meditate? I'm seeing so many parallels between this and my contemplative path. Can you say more about achieving flow state in social scenarios? I imagine continually rewarding yourself with positive feedback from a "i'm learning/experimenting and therefore getting better with each move" could feedback loop y…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 01:20 AM
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Yes. Sex is a pleasurable experience, pleasurable experiences like everything else are impermanent and therefore you should not cling to it. Being able to derive joy from any process, the process of learning, lifting, sitting, existing...that is where true happiness is. Spot on man. I can see why you're endorsed.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 01:10 AM
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You sound very outcome dependent on getting laid (rewards). How does that work for you in your game? How has that worked out for you in your relationships? Perhaps there is something to learn from what u/JamesSkepp is saying here. He's saying improve yourself so that you can thrive in these cities. And perhaps, once you do improve yourself you will begin to enjoy the process in itself and no longer be so worried about the outcomes. Ie. savoring gratification you get from doing a cold approach ra…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/20 01:01 AM
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Sure. PM me I can tell you all about it and what resources I've found helpful. I might as well throw out that The Mind Illuminated By Ph.D. John Yates is a standout revolutionary piece with respect to the meditation community. Meditation, in general, has more than "helped me" I think it has fundamentally changed my life. In the beginning, I was looking to improve focus and find more peace of mind. Then I started having much deeper experiences on and off the cushion and now I would say it's becom…
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:00 AM
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Being blue pilled is normal too. Being outcome independent is rather abnormal, but I suspect it brings more joy and happiness in life than the alternative, and probably even more pussycat.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 02:01 AM
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What you describe is ideal. You simply enjoy the pleasure associated with the hunt and don't get attached to it. I will say though, a lot of things make sense evolutionarily that don't make us happy, such as desire. I think desire/craving is the underlying component in outcome dependence (and what we know to be the cause of suffering). There is absolutely nothing wrong with simply "enjoying the hunt" in the same way that there is nothing wrong with enjoying a good steak. The problem arises once …
/r/askTRP30/12/19 01:52 AM
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This is a tough pill to swallow for many I can imagine. Emotions associated with this reality must be sublimated if anyone is truly to utilize this information to their advantage. Everything seems to converge around outcome independence - concern for what she does will only hinder you and cause further suffering. Let go of the outcome. Unrelated question, when you say the social pressure will weaken, the pressure to do what exactly will weaken?
/r/askTRP30/12/19 12:21 AM
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Then doesn’t this mean that he SHOULD absolutely go for the move to find out if she’s a hoe? Others wouldn’t you be recommending he stay in ignorance?
/r/askTRP30/12/19 12:03 AM
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How best to sublimate this “emotion” if we can call it that? Notice the sensation of disproval, accept it, let go of the attachment of approval “I no longer want x to feel y towards me” (the thing you want to change), then finally express it through a constructive activity. That last part, I’m not entirely sure WHAT activity but every emotion does run out eventually so simply observing and letting it run it’s course should do the trick. Once that emotion runs out it will be replaced with a highe…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 11:48 PM
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This would make a lot of sense. Evolution isn’t driven by happiness, it does what it must to spread our genes
/r/askTRP29/12/19 11:24 PM
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Imagine being in a relationship for 2 years. My ex was a smoke but I got so fucking bored. I think it’s an internal issue and has nothing to do with the girl. Boring people get bored. Only once I started meditating can I now see myself in a relationship again since I can conceive of love without attachment as I do loving kindness meditation to all beings. My daily conscious experience has also become filled with joy since this seems to be the default state of the mind when you build up a certain…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 11:23 PM
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Hell, you sound like a person worth having a chat with about it. My whole perspective on the reincarnation thing is that the Buddha himself called the question the imponderable in that there is no right answer to what happens after ‘you’ die because there is no ‘I’. His largest finding was that suffering happens, due to desire and aversion, that is ultimately rooted in ignorance. That ignorance being the concept of the separate self, which desire and aversion are rooted in. Ultimately I think th…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 06:49 PM
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Thanks for the advice but I’ve been doing 2 hours of daily breath meditation practice from the book TMI according to which I’m somewhere between adept and skilled meditator. Messing around with Jhanas right now. I have a very serious and established and consistent practice. In fact, I may recommend to you the book The Mind Illuminated (and the associated subreddit) - it’s very “science based” with respect to the systematic structuring and explanation and community that you can compare results wi…
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:03 PM
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Yeah...I put in my bio that I’m looking for a girl that could talk dharma since it’s the only thing that interests me in conversation for the most part...not even really into Any specific religion I just want to know how to best train my mind for insight and awakening. I’m getting a bunch of girls messaging me about reincarnation and other irrelevant bullshit that I don’t care about. Maybe I should take it out my bio lol
/r/askTRP28/12/19 10:35 PM
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Hey do you think you could help me out with one more? This girl just said heyy, I responded with Hi and then she says “I’m gonna be honest I’ve only done yoga once in my life lmao” What would you go with here?
/r/askTRP28/12/19 10:32 PM
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I read life half of it back in the day. I’ll put that top of the list for today
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:54 PM
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You think she was just looking for validation and we didn’t give it to her by just cutting to the point? Why message a guy at all if you aren’t interested?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:13 PM
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Lmao that’s crazy. I’m in NYC
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:11 PM
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She gave me a “ I’m out of town this weekend rain check for another day” I’m thinking “sure, what’s your number I’ll try to squeeze you in next week”
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:03 PM
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I want with Cool sounds good let’s get coffee Sunday and maybe you can teach me something I don’t already know” a little less funny but more cocky...she just responded with “I’m going to be out of the city this weekend rain check for another day” Here’s my attempt at cocky/funny: sure gimme your number, I’ll see if I can squeeze you in next week
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:02 PM
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Seriously, why can’t I come up with things like this. I need to take a fucking course this is gold
/r/askTRP27/12/19 07:53 PM
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How do I develop a wit like this? I find that I’m actually a great conversationalist and pretty funny a lot of the time in person but when I’m sitting at home trying to text girls on bumble I just draw blanks. What was your thought process here? Is this a lesson in frame? I am an actual skilled meditator whereas she just thinks monks are cool and I should take on authority and tease? I honestly did not see the opportunity to tease here with “teach me something I don’t already know” Perhaps if I …
/r/askTRP27/12/19 07:43 PM
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She's 10 miles away
/r/askTRP27/12/19 07:18 PM
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How do u recommend getting the number ? “That’s dope, I wanna know more, what’s your number?” Or should I just respond cool, what’s your # Then I can just go with, “not many our age into this stuff, let’s get coffee this weekend” over text?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 07:14 PM
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I like this. I want to hear more from you. Will keep coming back just to internalize. Does it really just come down to adopting this mindset and improving yourself? I'm not through with the sidebar yet but that is what it seems like so far. Rather simple approach. Nice.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 02:53 AM
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Loved this conversation. Thank you and good luck to you in your journey as well.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 12:05 AM
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It's funny she kind of is the only "object of my desire" right now despite the fact that I have plans to hang with a "hotter" chick on Wednesday. Definitely would help with I was spinning 3 or 4 plates earlier this semester but wasn't really interested in any of them. Nor any the random chicks that I was hooking up with. Maybe it had to do with their level of attractiveness, that is to say, I need to keep working on my SMV. Getting these calories in as we speak. That's the one problem I have alw…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 02:23 AM
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This would have been sooo much better. She acted really weird to me in class today. Maybe I should apologize? All I responded was "I promise it'll be educational." She responded with "loll probably not tonight I still haven't started this essay rip" (due saturday, this was sunday) and I responded, "up to u, I can focus if you can. Which essay?" She told me it was the same one we had due yesterday. I just made the comment "living life on the edge lol" (it was due in like 3.5 hours and is 7 pages,…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 01:25 AM
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this could work, what about "don't worry finance gives me all the excitement I need"
/r/askTRP18/11/19 01:40 AM
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I see, great point. Thanks for your help.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 02:23 AM
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Did you read what I wrote? I’ve been doing that. My old plates are still hitting me up I’m ignoring them. If I piped on the first date they’re devalued to me. Meaningless sex with random thots isn’t doing it for me anymore. It hallows my soul.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 02:12 AM
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If I succeed then I won’t want to see them again
/r/askTRP16/11/19 02:09 AM
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How are you on this sub and so fucking sensitive. The black fragility is real. black too btw.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 12:54 AM
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That’s not what face the suffering means. It means have no will to change the suffering. Escape INTO the suffering. This is an insight called emptiness. It takes a good amount of work to acquire but is incredibly rewarding. In fact I had an strong experience with it today (see: The Mind Illuminated for instruction) and kept it going into one of my classes. Saw a really cute girl and “used it” to get her number.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:22 PM
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