Only Enjoy First Time Sex

MisterBlox · 2019-12-29T19:37:13+00:00

I've experienced similar. Only stayed with the same for easy accessibility. I even get it with girls I quite like. It sucks

Fuktiga_mejmejs · 2019-12-29T20:58:18+00:00

I think deep down it has to do with approval.

Ankuno_ · 2019-12-29T20:06:12+00:00

I've been sleeping with the same woman for 15 years, so I'm the exact opposite. Not the best person to answer to this.

I'm thinking that you're more excited about the actual "hunt", the whole dance that leads to a girl getting into your bed. While a girl is yours and "tamed", there's no more fun in it for you. So you jump onto the next hunt.

Another reason would be the pair-bonding thingie, which I think applies to both men and women, but to women in a greater extent. Once you've slept with a good number of women, sex is not so much about intimacy and closeness to another human being anymore, it gets more similar to just being an activity you enjoy doing.

woodie_wood · 2019-12-29T21:01:07+00:00

It’s called the Coolidge effect. Part of how we are hard wired

throwabcdaway4 · 2019-12-29T21:04:53+00:00

just go on. Youll get bored at some point. Or not

oldslut · 2019-12-29T21:28:54+00:00

i can understand the conquest feeling you are experiencing, however, i've found, especially in the first few months, sex gets better and better (with the same partner). you start to understand and work together better.

maybe you should look inside a bit as to why you are feeling this way. i'm not going to make a remote diagnoses, and i don't have the credentials to even begin to do so if you were in front of me, but i think you are searching for something that only you can answer.

in the mean time, enjoy the conquests.

cheers and good luck

JohnQData · 2019-12-30T02:46:49+00:00

Coollidge effect, look it up on Google.

Zombiespire · 2019-12-30T03:50:12+00:00

You are experiencing commitment issues and a form of sex addiction. My friend I mean it truly, you should consider seeing a sex therapist.

creating_my_life · 2019-12-29T22:04:35+00:00

loose

for the love of all things holy, please learn the difference between "loose" and "lose". in written communication, this shows as a huge weakness. it will matter professionally.

Haytch1234 · 2019-12-29T22:50:31+00:00

Same with me.

Since most girls are average at sex and I have fucked loads of women, its the pursuit and conquest of a new girl that gives me a rush ( Minor at best).

EvelynnSpoiler · 2019-12-29T21:58:45+00:00

I get bored if the same girl after the first time. Either that or I start to feel something if I start liking them, which is a big nope for now

MDMCrab · 2019-12-29T22:20:00+00:00

Are you experiencing this with virgins?

HumbleTrees · 2019-12-29T23:46:38+00:00

You lack the emotional capacity to form relationships? How many close friends do you honestly have? If you're a lone wolf type, if suspect this.

RedSkeller · 2019-12-30T00:12:53+00:00

It only gets worse. I’ve been doing it for years now and I’m almost insatiable without a constant stream of younger new women. It’s obviously rooted in evolution and the more detached I am from the fantasy of love and relationships the more I crave fucking new women. Don’t question your instincts unless it’s inherently self destructive.

rockyp32 · 2019-12-30T05:39:04+00:00

Sex can become just like porn you use a novelty too much and u need something better and better

RPNorvell · 2019-12-30T08:54:56+00:00

The hunt, not the cunt, is what you're chasing.

sebastianconcept · 2019-12-30T10:19:08+00:00

I can relate to the satisfaction of “hunting price”

Yet, I’m in the other side at the moment. Upgraded plate to LTR-ish due to her good behavior.

The sex keeps being exciting because her desire stays sky high and she follows the games I lead us to play. Simple things like make her wear hot lingerie, do porn poses, wild sex, let her on top play with you every now and then. Always dirty talk provoking her in ways that end up being quite fun for both. Some soft kinkyness (basic use of rope, taps, other toys)

Last week I feel I’m a bit less interested but after repeated great sex last weekend it’s fine again.

femaledoglover6 · 2019-12-29T21:55:32+00:00

Maybe ur gay

JedYorks · 2019-12-30T00:20:30+00:00

I need sex, 30 and never had it

ExoticPanther · 2019-12-29T23:24:44+00:00

Dude I get this exact thing. I don’t even mean to, it happened some girls who showed promise but I guess it’s just Post Nut Syndrome?

mickenrorty · 2019-12-29T23:28:34+00:00

I think it’s partly in our nature to want new women, for me it’s actually after the 3rd or 4th time that I lose interest

TheeSakred · 2019-12-30T01:22:34+00:00

Yes. I get bored and almost cycle women. I’ll go hard for a few months, stop for a few months, repeat. I hate it. In the last two years there’s only been three women I’ve slept with more than twice.

craneonacrane · 2019-12-30T02:42:32+00:00

You got deep-seated issues dawg

majorketone · 2019-12-30T02:53:04+00:00

Yes. I get bored really quickly with women after TRP. AWALT is real and it can cause them to kinda blur together unless they are particularly attractive or cool. I keep plates going usually out of convenience and as a fall back if the girl Im talking to that night doesn't work out.

So basically, what Im saying is you can keep plates going even if you are pursuing other women. I doubt you have a 100% close rate on the weekends and if you do then more power to you. But just text your plates at the end of the night if things didn't work out with the girl you were talking to for some easy sex. I personally like to keep like 2-3 consistent plates and then have 1-2 slots for new girls or girls I'm pursuing and will see each one once every week or two.

Unlucky_Leader · 2019-12-30T03:42:50+00:00

one of the better books on sex, is daniel rose's the sex god method, in it, he talks about the emotional aspect of sex.

now, that doesn't really help, but what i would suggest is start learning mediation, and start becoming more emotional. sensing where, and when your emotions are happening it will lead you towards the women, after the intial hunt is over.

Wrightsborough · 2019-12-30T08:04:13+00:00

This is natural

Jesusfeminist · 2019-12-30T10:20:12+00:00

You like the hunt more than the actual sex

geo_gan · 2019-12-30T18:19:56+00:00

The porn sick affect 101. Can’t watch the same video/girl more than once (or a few times at most) before finding something new and better or different.

Title	Only Enjoy First Time Sex
Author	blysol
Upvotes	105
Comments	68
Date	December 29, 2019 7:30 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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