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Desire does not equal God’s will. There are lots of things that are good that we can desire but we will never have. There are two man choices within “God’s will:” marriage or celibacy. You can choose either one and still fully be in his will.
/r/RPChristians14/02/26 04:41 PM
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You are listening to too much in YouTube Red Pill and your flesh, but not Christ. Fornication is fornication, whether by a man or a woman. Jesus calls you to repent.
/r/RPChristians29/01/26 06:07 PM
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Fair enough. I think it’s the scope of the choice that grated at me. Denominations are separated by particular convictions. It’s almost like saying, “which religion has the best looking women?” I’ll go with that one. The state of the church today is a mixed bag at best. If you choose a church based on women’s looks alone, you might end up in a Christian like cult (see the LDS). If you’re choosing between two churches that faithfully teach the Bible and proclaim the true gospel, and one has more …
/r/RPChristians13/11/25 09:47 PM
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Why do you want to be a member here? Cute girls Do you have any convictions theologically? Nah… just looking for a date…
/r/RPChristians13/11/25 09:22 PM
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The people who find their way to red pill, came because they weren’t succeeding. It’s generally an unattractive space. Most people who are swimming in female attention don’t ever ask the things that lead here. Most often, they’re the ones that tell everyone, “just talk to her bro…” Congratulations on being an outlier.
/r/RPChristians13/11/25 09:13 PM
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LDS believe God was once a man, and that Jesus and Satan are brothers… not Christian, they just use similar vocabulary with different meanings. And this is a weird question…
/r/RPChristians13/11/25 09:03 PM
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Have you read any of the side bar? Or are you just watching popular YouTube content and assuming that the train wreck that draws the eyes is red pill? That’s kind of like watching a liberal Christian talk about how Jesus was trans and assuming they know what they’re talking about because a million people watched the video. To get to the truth, you have to go back to the source. For followers of Christ, we go to the Word. For RP, you go to the side bar. Unfortunately today, many, with very little…
/r/RPChristians13/11/25 08:53 AM
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Right you are
/r/RPChristians12/11/25 01:20 PM
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Self pity is a form of pride. It’s just the other side of the coin. It is an entire focus on self while ignoring what God says about you. “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you.” ‭‭James‬ ‭4‬:‭10‬ ‭ESV “But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭6‬:‭33‬ ESV “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,” ‭‭Galatians‬ ‭5‬:‭22‬ ‭ESV “Abide in me, and I in you. As …
/r/RPChristians26/08/25 03:44 AM
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Talk to a lawyer before doing anything here. My friend’s lawyer basically told him to do everything opposite of this. Leaving the house sets up a case for abandonment. Hiding resources can be spun as you trying to abscond with the money. Talk to a lawyer in your state. There is a guide for your situation in the MPR sidebar. Look it over.
/r/RPChristians13/08/25 04:31 PM
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Check rule 2 in the community info. You won’t get much from anyone until you post stats. It helps those who know what they’re talking about know where to start. I know this feels really urgent right now, but there’s nothing that will instantly repair 11 years, so you might as well start reading the sidebar. Any advice you get here will not be a quick fix.
/r/RPChristians10/08/25 01:02 AM
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We are to follow Jesus example of loving enemies and praying for those who persecute us. Easy to type on my end with no connection to your situation, hard to live it out when you’re the one in the middle of it all.
/r/RPChristians17/06/25 05:31 AM
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Anyone can do what ever they want, generally, however, I’m going to advise my son that marriage is not the end goal. At minimum, it should cause a serious pause and consideration. It may be better to remain single than to marry an internet sex worker, especially if you’re sensitive. You can however go the Hosea route and choose to model God’s faithful love in all circumstances… I think I’d prefer celibacy to that…
/r/RPChristians26/03/25 10:46 AM
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It also strikes me that your comment about women being sub communicators needs to be applied to everything she said, including the statement that she’d never do it again. Following your logic, she may have just said that as a form of anti slut defense. Since we can’t get to the intentions of another person, especially with limited second hand information from a boyfriend, or advice needs reflect a response to the words she said. Either way, his best choice is to run…
/r/RPChristians25/03/25 05:29 PM
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I understand what you’re saying, but every one of your reasons that you listed are rooted in the flesh and fear of the world rather than fearing God. Men likewise may have similar reactions rooted in pride. How ever you slice it, the response is not humbling yourselves under a mighty God that you might receive mercy. They who are forgiven much, love much. Minimizing the evil will only serve to minimize love for the Grace-giver. But as you said in your edit, it seems like a moot point.
/r/RPChristians25/03/25 04:26 PM
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You’re stuck in nice guy rose colored glasses.
/r/RPChristians25/03/25 12:27 PM
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True repentance is a change in attitude and action. I don’t see Paul saying that he didn’t regret persecuting the church because it made him who he was. Nor did Peter not regret denying Christ before the rooster crowed. In Jesus’ parable, the man beating his chest went away justified. That’s not to say that our proper feeling justify us, but true repentance is the result of godly sorrow.
/r/RPChristians25/03/25 12:24 PM
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What if you are? What bearing does that have? Does you potentially being a hypocrite require that you marry her? It sounds like you’re trying to argue yourself into staying and justifying you not doing the hard thing. This is not something that will get easier to deal with in time. You’ll always have in the back of you mind that you are marrying an unrepentant porn star. How will you feel one day when your wife is speaking into your daughter’s life and she says that she doesn’t regret doing onli…
/r/RPChristians25/03/25 12:02 PM
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it's not the church...
/r/RPChristians07/03/25 12:58 PM
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Take it seriously, but don’t take your gut as fact. Your gut can be influenced by what you’re reading. After reading Rollo, I drove head long into my anger phase inflamed by inadequacy and fear. My wife hadn’t displayed any signs of disrespect or anything to worry about, but because all our kids were out of the little kid stage, I was terrified that my wife was going to fall into the resurgence of the party years and leave me because I was out of shape and acting like a jealous baby. There weren…
/r/RPChristians08/11/24 08:24 AM
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It’s like you knew he was going to do that…
/r/RPChristians08/11/24 08:15 AM
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Majority of people have negative connotations toward the gospel and or truth, so the ere is that… Absolutely agree with you on Cliff he is one of the best I’ve seen. He’s been doing it years. Be ready to have you butt handed to you a few times and being embarrassed on occasion when you don’t have a good response. I would also point toward Greg Koukle. Not a street preacher, but great resources for handling objections… his org is called stand to reason.
/r/RPChristians22/08/24 05:31 AM
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Thanks for the book recommendation. I’m 9 chapters in and really enjoying both the style and the ideas. Just paused it to come over and say thanks.
/r/RPChristians09/05/24 02:18 PM
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If she decides to divorce you because you saw a girls butt, she was already looking for a way out and in searching for justification. You need to realize right now… You cannot see the future. Whom ever you marry will change over time. Marriage is different with kids and then different when the kids are gone. There can be tragedies that break one or both of you. The only person you have any direct control over is yourself. Stop think yourself into a hole and choose faithfulness.
/r/askRPC07/02/24 09:56 AM
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It’s funny, because growing up, preachers always try to have you put yourself in David’s shoes when he fights Goliath. Be brave, be a hero. When usually David is a symbol of a greater king to come from his line. Though he is just a shadow, he is an image of Christ to come. We shouldn’t put ourselves in his place. Rather, we are the inadequate army that stands paralyzed before the enemy Goliath, and David is the promised king who slays the giant and saves Israel. David is deliberately inadequate,…
/r/RPChristians31/01/24 08:27 AM
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The Red Pill has always been a pretty unattractive space. Most people who find themselves here, myself included, were not experiencing a great deal of success in their marriages. Maybe try had a low conflict marriage and things were generally pleasant at home, but there was something missing. Usually something in the bedroom. As it started showing up in more popular culture, people who have no idea what it really is started talking out their rear end about it and contorting it to attract an audi…
/r/RPChristians28/01/24 11:25 AM
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Coffe cup Christianity often results in platitudes. Greg Koukl has a saying. “Never read a Bible verse.” Single verses are almost always ripped out of context or have no context to clarify what is meant by them.
/r/RPChristians13/01/24 11:39 AM
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It is a common conversation between me and men I trust. I’ve always had a variety of accountability groups from the time I was college until now one thing you need to know is that at 43 with a wife the desire does not go away. Have you ever heard the term, “dirty old man?” Men in their 70s 80s and even 90s can struggle with this. When I do, I have friends that I can call who will support me and speak the gospel into my life. You cannot trust everyone with this type of conversation. You need to f…
/r/RPChristians03/01/24 08:10 PM
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1 Peter 5:6-11 1 Corinthians 10:13 Romans 12:9 I was almost 28 when I married. Waiting sucks. But the reality is that your option is to endure. Steadfastness can only be developed by being steadfast. You can only develop disciple by being disciplined. Patience is grown by being patient. James 1:2-4 “Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness. And let steadfastness have its full effect, that you may be p…
/r/RPChristians03/01/24 11:02 AM
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Have you read the side bar? A huge part of the red pill is seeing the world as it is. Attraction is a very important part of a sexual relationship. My problem was that I swelled up like a balloon and thought that my wife should be passionate simply because we had said our vows years before. It doesn’t work that way. You asked three questions as though one of them is THE right answer. When really, all three can play a part. If you only use your wife like a sex doll to get off, she’ll end up frust…
/r/RPChristians27/11/23 04:57 AM
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You know those RP and MGTOW videos where they always tell about women and accountability. This is the other side of the coin. You made a choice to bind yourself to this woman in the sight of God and the world. You now have children by her. You rushed in because you wanted to get your d wet. You are now married. There are no time machines. The Bible is clear. You are to love her as Christ loved the church. Saturate yourself in scripture and pray for His Spirit to empower you to love her with the …
/r/RPChristians25/11/23 02:21 PM
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Tactics by Greg koukle is a great book for talking to people, it focuses on asking questions to get to the root of the believe. One of the good tactics is to ask why do you believe this is true? Aside from some guys speaking with confidence…
/r/RPChristians11/11/23 12:46 PM
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The question is literally asking for a red pill book.
/r/RPChristians30/08/23 08:01 PM
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You realize that Joseph Smith, the founder of the Mormon Church said that all the churches as they are were from Satan and he was correcting it. It wasn’t until the 80’s that the Mormons started branding themselves as “another denomination.” They use similar vocabulary with different meanings.
/r/RPChristians14/08/23 06:34 PM
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This “divining” of God’s will through signs is a pagan notion. Unless an angel showed up to you and said, “thus says the Lord, pursue Jennifer romantically.” Definitely don’t tell her about some “signs” you have seen. I had a good friend in college who had a dream that he was supposed to marry a particular girl. He told her, she freaked out and didn’t want anything to do with him because she was weirded out. He learned his lesson and is now married to someone else. You need to STFU and get over …
/r/RPChristians31/07/23 06:56 PM
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Tell that to my friend whose wife just served him divorce papers and is sleeping around… how exactly would you make her comply?
/r/RPChristians20/06/23 07:23 PM
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A. First, the issue wasn’t denial, but rather lackluster performance. Second, should doesn’t mean anything in this space. People shouldn’t get divorced most of the time. A wife should obey the commands of scripture. And yet, this space exists because you can’t make people do what they should do. You can’t make people desire what they don’t desire. You can preach at people all you want, but ultimately you can only control yourself… B. Yeah…
/r/RPChristians20/06/23 05:30 PM
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I realize this is common sense, but as Dave Ramsey has said often, common sense is t so common these days. Especially when every voice speaking into your life is saying, “just accept the loss of attraction as normal and do more.” I’d rather put in some work and not be normal.
/r/RPChristians27/05/23 09:40 PM
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I am mocking the idea that chore-play will help your sex life. I was as blue pill as you could be. The problem is when you have a covert contract that if you do more chores, then your wife will reciprocate with sex. This never works, but it’s common advice in Christian circles. “Your wife is tired! Be a real man and do more around the house. She’s a crockpot, your a microwave. If she feels loved by your chore work, she’ll be more likely to want more sex.” Before I came to this space, no one ever…
/r/RPChristians27/05/23 09:35 PM
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I understand your view.
/r/RPChristians18/05/23 06:32 AM
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It may be very consistent, but ultimately, you are making a law where there is silence. I hold that it is an area of freedom. I understand and even respect your position, as I once held it myself. But I refuse to draw a hard line where I simply don’t see one.
/r/RPChristians17/05/23 12:03 PM
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What we can imagine and what we feel have little bearing on the matter at hand. And not being Catholic, I don’t submit to their magisterium. What they teach must match the teaching of scripture, or I treat it like any other human author. Maybe good, maybe not. Maybe useful, maybe not. I see not clear injunction against oral sex, nor do I find the rational/biblical arguments winsome. It appears to me to be an area of freedom for married couples.
/r/RPChristians16/05/23 03:12 PM
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This is a more challenging view to take than you might think. If sex must be toward procreation, then we have to accept that any kind of sex with out that goal is somehow wrong. This means no birth control of any kind and no form of family planning. It could potentially mean that after menopause and man and wife should be celibate, because sex can’t produce a child. What about women who are unable to have children for medical reasons? The biggest problem with these sorts of stances, is that like…
/r/RPChristians16/05/23 06:03 AM
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Augustine was definitely carrying his own baggage having been saved out of a life of debauchery. It’s understandable why he might over correct.
/r/RPChristians15/05/23 04:46 PM
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I’m not the best guy to learn from since I’m still figuring out the best way to go. I’ve lost 50 lbs. probably 10 times since I was 18. The one thing I have done right this time, is I have kept my weight relatively stable for the first time instead of rebounding. My peak was 318lbs. I’m currently . The best thing I’ve learned recently, is to not focus on the goal mainly, but rather to focus on the next steps to reach the goal. My goal will only be reached with consistently doing the healthy eati…
/r/RPChristians13/05/23 01:28 PM
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Your choices aren’t adequate. Everything is permissible but not everything is beneficial. It depends on the music and it depends on the person. I know one lady who was saved later in life, when she listens to secular music that she once loved, it affects her negatively and brings up old ways of thinking. She chooses to abstain. For her, it’s not a wise choice. There are some songs that have inspired me that are not unbiblical, but are non biblical. It’s not contrary to scripture, but isn’t reall…
/r/RPChristians23/04/23 09:15 PM
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Until you post your stats, there won’t be a lot of specific helps that people can offer you. As to you last doubt, yes you should be here asking for help. The guys here will point you to practical things you can do to improve your situation. That is if you really want help. If your looking for someone to tell you that it’s ok to break the vow you made before God and men and abandon your wife because of how you feel right now, you’ll be disappointed. The fact is, as soon as you consummated your m…
/r/RPChristians14/12/22 08:58 AM
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Cool story of God’s faithfulness in the midst of struggle. I also appreciate your diligent effort to be faithful and to apply the scriptures to your life. I do however adamantly reject the idea that God blessed you based on the particular English version of the Bible you were reading at the time. While I trust you don’t intend it, you are setting up a dangerous precedent by suggesting that God began answering your prayer, BECAUSE you are reading the KJV. There are similar stories by brothers and…
/r/RPChristians27/11/22 12:05 PM
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It might not be malicious. It could also be incompetent reading comprehension. I love my kids. There are a lot of areas where they are still incompetent. I love them in-spite of their failings. My love for them does not negate my desire for them to grow up and change their behaviors. It also does not stop me from disciplining them. My love for them will not stop them from ruining their lives with their own free choices. My love is not based on their progress or lack there of, but I do expect cer…
/r/RPChristians27/07/22 09:19 AM
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She was
/r/RPChristians26/06/22 10:24 PM
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I hear this all the time from people who are shocked that a young man could possibly choose to keep it in his pants. We are not animals. We have the agency to over come out urges. I married at 28 as a virgin.
/r/RPChristians26/06/22 11:27 AM
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It’s not over Chuck’s head, he’s saying it’s unnecessarily verbose. Why delve into theoretical concepts when there is a clear cut line in scripture? Theoretically, could I potentially conquer my unbelieving neighbor, and take his property? God commanded the Israelite to do this in the OT… Many of the directives in the law of the OT are specifically to the Israelites of the day. Just like I can’t get a speeding ticket issued by the State of Texas when I’m driving in New Mexico. You are not under …
/r/RPChristians24/06/22 08:22 AM
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I married my wife just a month and a half before I turned 28 and my wife was 26. We were both virgins and our first time was together on our wedding night. So I waited at least as long as you have. It was often hard. All the same, whether or not you are faithful is not dependent on what anyone does. “Trust in the Lord and do good. Dwell in the land and befriend faithfulness.” Stop fretting over the wicked who prosper in their way. It tends only to evil.” Sit in Psalm 37 for a while. Heck read th…
/r/RPChristians21/06/22 10:18 PM
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The picture itself is not against God’s will, but posting it for the world to see is without a doubt active rebellion against God, his standards for modesty. We aren’t called to pray about sinful behavior, or to think about it. We are to turn away from it and pursue godliness. Anything other than stopping should bring you into the process of church discipline.
/r/RPChristians03/06/22 12:07 PM
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This is not acceptable behavior for a Christian man to be doing.
/r/RPChristians02/06/22 08:29 PM
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Ok I’m confused… am I to understand that you post nude pictures of yourself on the internet? If so how could that even in theory fall under any form of modesty? I might also add that praying about something and thinking about it are not the tests for morality. Many people are completely peaceful about any number of wicked things. Life destroying sin is very seldom the result of a blowout. More often, is that slow leak that you don’t notice until that morning you walk outside and see a flat tire.…
/r/RPChristians02/06/22 08:26 PM
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Ok I’m confused… am I to understand that you post nude pictures of yourself on the internet?
/r/RPChristians02/06/22 08:11 PM
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I’ve lived overseas in various places in Asia and the Middle East for over 8 years of my life. Going overseas will not guarantee you a strong successful marriage. In fact, unless you have your stuff together, you’re likely to start at a disadvantage, even if you find a virgin. Marriage relationship dynamics are some of the deepest cultural expectations we have. That can quickly be compounded by heart language differences. As good as you get in another language, there will always be some lost mea…
/r/RPChristians28/05/22 01:22 PM
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I’m wondering if you read what I wrote…the first half of my post, was how I benefited from the videos. But there came a time when paradigms shifted and I didn’t see women the same way. At that point, they weren’t helping me anymore, only making me angry. As in another reply, I’d distinguish between something labeled MGTOW, and something designed to inspired outrage in AFC’s. It was also pointed out to me that this may be better labeled black pill or Incell…but there is a lot of overlap.
/r/RPChristians27/05/22 07:43 AM
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Fair… I’m not an expert, I just had a ton of “MGTOW” videos that have remarkably similar content.
/r/RPChristians27/05/22 06:03 AM
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First, you’re right, I’m speaking in generalizations. I’m not opposed to content labeled MGTOW that generally encourages men to be strong and courageous, and helps them break out of the narrative of our culture. I’m mostly talking about the, “all women are trash and should be thrown away” videos. Like I said, they have their place. Personally I find them entertaining. But when it fuels anger, it’s time to leave it behind. I will acknowledge that I have not watched the full breadth of MGTOW, and …
/r/RPChristians27/05/22 05:54 AM
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This sounds a lot like the woman who yell about the wage gap. Yes the stats are bad. Yes a lot of people give up and through away their marriage for a moment of pleasure. But if we’re a simple matter of numbers, half of my close friends should be divorced by now. But none of them are. Why? My home church at the time holds up marriage as important. They even took church discipline to the point of cutting a woman off from fellowship because she left her husband because she was “unhaaaaaapy.” As it…
/r/RPChristians25/05/22 05:43 AM
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Along with what Chuck said, a lot of this confusion can come down to definitions. You have to be careful with words like love. People abuse the concept of love all the time. “You don’t approve of my lifestyle and moral choices, you don’t love me…”, “if you really loved me, you’d have sex with me…” “if you really loved me, you’d do everything like I say when I say.” None of these are love. Jesus is our perfect model of self sacrificial love, but no where do you see him budge an inch of his purpos…
/r/RPChristians21/05/22 08:50 AM
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Same advice, do something, and see what God blesses.
/r/RPChristians20/05/22 04:24 PM
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“Why should I a sinner reap the benefit of a perfect sinless atonement, that I myself did not live?” This is the gospel exactly. I shouldn’t be able to reap the benefit. That’s the good news. No one is saying that a person can’t have what ever standards they want to have. Kevin Samuels used to talk to them on the regular.
/r/RPChristians15/05/22 03:17 PM
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He can have what ever standard he wants, but it is hypocrisy to assume that a woman should not be allowed the same standard if she so chooses. Whether it be a wise choice or not, having a hard rule for others that you failed yourself does smack of hypocrisy. As does extending grace to cover your own actions while not doing the same for others. No one is saying that it’s wrong for you to have the standards you want, but if you couldn’t keep it in your pants, don’t get butt hurt if the standard di…
/r/RPChristians15/05/22 07:08 AM
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I didn’t ask my wife’s parents if I could date their daughter, but I was 27 and she was 26. We’d both lived on our own for almost ten years. I did go down to meet with them before I asked my wife to marry me. For me it was more of a courtesy. My plan was always to leave the US and live in different lands. That means taking their daughter and raising our children (their grandchildren) a long ways away. The life I choose is doable without family support, but a better with it. I basically expressed…
/r/RPChristians12/05/22 05:12 AM
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Massive assumption behind your question: The reason for restricting sex in marriage, is because you found your soulmate. Why do you assume this? If this were true remarriage would not be permissible. “Sorry, bad luck your soul mate died.
/r/RPChristians10/05/22 05:23 AM
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If you don’t have a clear purpose and direction, you are in danger of making your woman the purpose of your life. And red pill exists because that road leads to misery. Also, don’t expect that marriage will magically take care of loneliness. Some of the times I felt most lonely, was 6-7 years into my marriage. It can be a wonderful thing, but read the proverbs. No wife and loneliness is better than a contentious wife.
/r/RPChristians06/05/22 08:00 AM
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You’re right, I missed the title. Just the same, he clarifies what he means. He’s not claiming to be the authority, he’s coming to the Bible and saying it is the authority. You’re right that there are a lot of people trying to tell people what to do, or not do. You included. I’m not faulting you here for what you are doing, I just disagree with your conclusion. You’re offering up your understanding of the Bible as the authority for how OP should be behaving. And how everyone should be behaving. …
/r/RPChristians16/04/22 05:02 PM
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You are the one who said rebuke. Though admonish means to 1) to caution, advise, or counsel against something 2) to reprove or scold, especially in a mild and good-willed manner 3) to urge to a duty; remind. Also it’s synonyms include words such as enjoin, exhort, rebuke and reprimand. To bring it back to OP’s question, definitions 2 and 3 seem to fit petty nicely with what he is asking about.
/r/RPChristians15/04/22 11:57 AM
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You’re having arguments with yourself from what you are saying people said. Not what we actually say. It’s not worth the effort to try to communicate with you. Grace and peace.
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 08:58 PM
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Is that your take away? That’s what you think I said? Ok… carry on.
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 08:12 PM
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And we urge you brothers, admonish the idle, encourage the faint hearted, help the weak, be patient with them all. 1 Thes 5:14 What happened to the man who buried the talent given him by his master?
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 08:09 PM
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There’s more to the Christian life than not sinning.
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 12:03 PM
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You seem prone to exaggeration. There’s no way that’s the dumbest comment you’ve ever seen. Also, it’s a fairly immature way to express that you disagree with him. It feels a bit like elementary… ”well, you’re dumb” What you said really is a platitude. And it’s a platitude that doesn’t really address his question or help. Walk the talk means to back up your talk with action. This is the problem he’s trying to address. There are a lot of people around him who are not “walking the talk.” The bibli…
/r/RPChristians14/04/22 09:48 AM
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From a secular perspective, you’re always moving towards a close with any woman. You’re always meeting new women and letting others go. Unless you’re having sex 30 minutes after you meet every woman, you would in theory have several plates you had not closed with (yet), that you are spinning none the less. The closest thing I ever came to this as a Christian was in college. I was at a secular university with a massive Christian subculture. The largest organization on the campus was a Christian s…
/r/RPChristians22/03/22 09:30 PM
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🙄
/r/RPChristians14/03/22 12:56 PM
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This is great. Thanks for taking the time to write this. I was think about this the other day as I was working through Ephesians 5. Often times when people talk about the husbands and wives section, the first words out someone’s mouth is “but they should…” Wives should submit, “but husbands…” Husbands should love, “but wives should…” I’m more guilty than most on this point. The reality is, it is always your responsibility to do what God has told you to do, regardless of what others do.
/r/RPChristians28/02/22 08:09 AM
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This is one of the only places I’ve every seen tough love… it’s rare in the church.
/r/RPChristians27/02/22 07:08 PM
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As chuck said, the first place to begin is with an honest spiritual assessment. If you are born again, having thrown yourself off God’s mercy found in Christ’s finished work on the cross, then you have been sealed with His Holy Spirit. That is the foundation of any step forward. From there, and only from that foundation can you begin to deal with with this as one standing on the Rock. Addressing it before that is building on a pile of sand. If you’re confident of your standing in Christ, you can…
/r/askRPC09/02/22 08:48 AM
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This shouldn’t be too confusing. Sex feels good and the heart above all things is deceitful. No one will lie to you as much as you. We have an amazing ability to explain away any amount of discomfort. Like so many things, when it comes to following Christ, this is not complicated. It may not always be easy, but it’s not complicated. There are always competing desires. As you learn to abide in Christ, his Spirit confirms you to the character of His Son. But like Chick said, without His Spirit, th…
/r/askRPC26/01/22 09:06 AM
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Hard to say with out knowing you or her. 4 years doesn’t make much difference the older you get, but I definitely know a few guys who ended up marrying older and ended up with a second mother. Not to mention that a lot of teachers I know tend to be a little more head strong due to their work requiring them to be in charge at all times.
/r/RPChristians25/01/22 12:30 PM
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ESV “Now the Spirit expressly says that in later times some will depart from the faith by devoting themselves to deceitful spirits and teachings of demons, through the insincerity of liars whose consciences are seared, who forbid marriage and require abstinence from foods that God created to be received with thanksgiving by those who believe and know the truth.” ‭‭1 Timothy‬ ‭4:1-3‬ ‭ESV‬‬ Whether meat or food, the point remains the same. Correcting this to food instead of meat changes nothing f…
/r/RPChristians02/01/22 08:06 AM
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I thought the point I made was that obligation sex wasn’t making either of us happy… my wife has always been willing. For me, I’ve reached the point that I’d rather go without for a time rather than continue with what’s broken. And in the mean time, while I’m getting my stuff in order, losing weight, building muscle, I’ve found that a calm, non-thirsty attitude toward sex goes a long way to bringing her my way. I tried just not initiating years ago, but that was weak manipulation, since it was m…
/r/RPChristians08/10/21 04:28 PM
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🤔 good to know
/r/RPChristians06/10/21 06:47 PM
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👍🏻that’s the trajectory, down 5 lbs this week
/r/RPChristians06/10/21 06:45 PM
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As for number 3, Skill in something like BJJ can definitely be an equalizer, but physical size and strength is not totally negated by skill. For example, 2nd day of my training, I rolled with the owner of the place. As I had 100lbs on him, he had to work harder than he would have with a white belt his own size. He still choked me, but he played it a lot more defensively. On the other hand, after I got my first stripe, I rolled with a new guy that had only been coming a week. I had more skill, bu…
/r/RPChristians02/10/21 01:43 PM
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🌹if I give you flowers will you love me?
/r/RPChristians21/09/21 01:16 PM
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Thanks.
/r/RPChristians21/09/21 01:12 PM
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Thanks for the article and the thorough response. The distinction between biblical headship and complementarianism taught in most churches was most helpful.
/r/RPChristians21/09/21 01:12 PM
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Thanks all, I appreciate the input.
/r/RPChristians21/09/21 01:11 PM
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Physical: Lifting is still going well.I've had to make a few adjustments for pain in my elbow. Doing more isolation lifts on push day, and my compound movements switched to about 40% with higher reps. The scale does not want to budge, but my clothes are fitting better, and the trainer at the gym told me that he can tell a difference from when I started a few months ago. I find that lifting helps my mind focus on work later. No porn, alcohol, cigarettes or drugs, other than caffeine. However, I w…
/r/RPChristians21/09/21 11:21 AM
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Really, I was first introduced to some of these ideas 3-4 years ago… when I read MMSLP Athol Kay. But I was probably glowing blue at the time. I didn’t feel comfortable with some of the concepts and threw out the baby with the bath water…
/r/RPChristians15/09/21 11:52 AM
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You nailed it.
/r/RPChristians13/09/21 09:26 PM
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I'm new here, so this is my first OYS Physical: I've had to back off the heavy weights a bit and get creative as I began to feel some pain in my right elbow, but I'm still getting in 3-5 times a week for the past 2 months. My weight is holding stable, but I have moved from 38% body fat to 36% and my clothes fit a little better. Im using a macros app designed by Mike Isreatel, and I've enjoyed it. Mostly eating whole foods, drink my coffee black and cut out most all sugars. I don't use porn, or s…
/r/RPChristians13/09/21 08:44 PM
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I think we're way off topic at this point. Maybe can be said about anything. And given that there is no good reason to assume that there is a ONE perfect soulmate other than cultural romantic notions. I'm going to stick to the Biblical counsel.
/r/RPChristians13/09/21 08:04 PM
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That's the essence of my point. If we have to find the mythical ONE, but someone doesn't, it all falls apart. It makes more sense to believe that there isn't a ONE. It's a worldview issue. Some of the same people who claim to believe in God's sovereignty and finding that one soul mate later divorce and feel like they made some mistake in assessing the ONE. "Maybe this wasn't the one God intended..." The myth of the one is absorbed culturally rather than taught biblically.
/r/RPChristians13/09/21 04:17 PM
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That’s where it led not where it started 🤣
/r/RPChristians13/09/21 03:40 PM
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Like how one person eating a forbidden fruit caused the fall of all mankind? Someone sins, and they face consequences. One of those consequences might be the failure to meet or recognize their one best love and forfeiture of all that entails. Sometimes the heartache of realizing what you've lost out on isn't a punishment, it's a reminder. You're absolutely right that sin has consequences outside of yourself. And they can pass down. Especially if all humanity comes from you. God has set up that l…
/r/RPChristians13/09/21 02:12 PM
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Or, if the conclusion is ridiculous, then the premise is unsound. That is, if the logic of an idea leads to absurdities, then maybe there’s something wrong with the idea. With the ONE souls mate idea, if one person misses it (and many people feel like they have), then most end up missing it because some one accidentally took their soul mate, so they take someone else’s. This conclusion is silly, so the idea behind it is as well. I don’t actually think that you can marry the “wrong person,” if by…
/r/RPChristians13/09/21 09:42 AM
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Man, I wrote “my point is…” way too many times…
/r/RPChristians12/09/21 08:22 PM
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My overall point is that if there is only one person that you’re supposed to marry, and you get that wrong, you don’t just mess it up for yourself, you create a domino effect that could destroy the future 😂
/r/RPChristians12/09/21 08:08 PM
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Perhaps I wasn’t clear. Equally yoked in the context of that passage has nothing to do with being intended for each other. “Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?” 2 Corinthians‬ ‭6:14‬ My point is that the only real qualification is that you are equally yoked, meaning that you are both Christians, following the same path, pulling toward the same purpose. If one of you is following Christ an…
/r/RPChristians12/09/21 08:03 PM
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Working through it now, I’m almost done with 100’s, I’ve also been listening to the podcast of the guys talking about the side bar… But only so many hours in the day.
/r/RPChristians12/09/21 06:55 PM
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