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Interracial marriage here, European/Asian, I'm INFJ. I think two factors that limited the amount of culture clash we faced was that I grew up in a house that cooked every kind of food, and we got to know each other from our tweens, and kind of... grew into each other? So at least food is never a problem, and we've had lots of time to teach each other about our cultures, media, classics, etc. I fall into blue-collar category, and he's lived every class at some point in his life, so he readily get…
/r/RedPillWives08/01/17 12:32 AM
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I was conflicted for a while on whether to take my husband's foreign last name, but it eventually grew on me because: it's infinitely easier to pronounce than mine is; there is a healthy population of my last name floating around, whereas his is one of the rarer ones in his country; and despite his assurances that he was happy either way, he's been visibly proud every time a new piece of my replacement ID has come in, though I don't think he realizes how obvious he is. He still pokes me to use K…
/r/RedPillWives13/09/16 10:19 PM
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Letting him pick what clothes I bought and wore until I learned some fashion sense. Prior to that I liked baggy pullovers and ratty jeans. Friends were concerned after they complimented my new look and I told them SO had picked it out for me. Other than that, there seems to have always been this unspoken "don't do shady stuff" rule, as he carried himself in a way that said he had enough self-respect to walk if necessary. He never had to say "don't do X" because I felt compelled to avoid such thi…
/r/RedPillWives30/06/16 03:01 PM
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I started dating my husband mid-highschool, and prior to that I didn't have a list, just a "boys are stupid, I don't want one" sentiment. <redacted> Need: -Not a self-centered asshole who just wants to satisfy himself and give nothing in return. -The awesome conversations continue, and he's still himself, and it's like we're still the same friends but with boyfriend stuff attached Want: -An appearance overhaul <redacted>. -Dates and stuff like we're "supposed to do" now that we're dating. Deal B…
/r/RedPillWives16/06/16 04:19 PM
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I'm pretty introverted, but I do like socialization, and SO is the same. <redacted>. This works out to about 2 things a week, and that's about the threshold of our socialization tolerance. We spend the rest of our downtime hiding from the world :P
/r/RedPillWives13/06/16 08:42 PM
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My husband and I have technically been living together since high school.<redacted> I think the reason this worked out is, among other things, because he never gave off a mooch vibe. If anything, he actively avoided the perception that he was leeching off my parents. He cleaned, fixed things, kept the computers running, and frequently numbered to me the ways that he had to improve before he considered himself an adult (house, car, career rather than job, etc). Not that he didn't have the odd bad…
/r/RedPillWives09/06/16 03:12 AM
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Things will go wrong. Let them, and take it in stride. As my husband said the week before the wedding, "Say you were to... trip and fall in mud on your way to the ceremony. I think you'd look ten times more beautiful if you made it to the ceremony on time and owned the mud-look down the aisle, than if you run back home and cry in a bathroom and show up clean two hours late in one of your nice dresses." Remember that the most important part of the day is your marriage to your husband, and it won'…
/r/RedPillWives03/06/16 09:38 PM
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Hmm... I don't think I've watched much in the way of girly anime since diving straight into the wonderful world of mecha, action, and generally violent anime, but I'll see what I can remember pre-Black Lagoon/Iron Blooded Orphans/Jojo. I remember enjoying Chobits, Angelic Layer, Ouran High School Host Club, Sailor Moon, Gosick, and recently Madoka, Re-Kan... eh, that's all I can think of. I usually avoid slice-of-life stuff like the plague, so Re-Kan is probably the closest I've gotten to that.
/r/RedPillWives27/05/16 09:25 PM
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Less time making the perfect plan on how to get good, just get good ~my husband Stabby MacArthur...... "I have returned?" Deadpool.
/r/RedPillWives18/05/16 03:15 AM
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SO buys whole sirloins and cuts them apart into steak/stirfry, stew, and broth categories, that being the nice cuts, the nice meat that couldn't become steak-shaped, and the gory connective bits, respectively. SO and I both enjoy cooking, so we take turns being cook and prep-cook, depending on the recipe, which saves a lot of time. Most of what we make is either thrown into a big pot (stew/goulash/curry/lazy gumbo), stir fried (chow mein/garlic pork/yu choy), or baked (lazy imam bayildi with che…
/r/RedPillWives15/05/16 04:29 PM
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I always look polished when I leave the house. Basic makeup, hair, and nice clothing if I'm out alone. If my husband is with me, then I'll drop the neckline and shorten the skirt a bit, put more effort into the hair and makeup, and wear more jewelry, all to his tastes and within my comfort level. I figure if I walk around frumpy on my own, and run into someone we both know, that doesn't represent him very well, so I'd rather turn away a few men politely than make SO look bad. The exception is do…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/16 03:56 PM
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SO has been studying super hard for an entrance exam to his dream job for the past two weeks, and so I've been staying out of his office except to bring him tea or snacks. There's a lot more details to the situation, and I've probably got enough for a field report after the exam, so for now I'll just say that I learned I talk so much that I was highly uncomfortable with shutting up for a few days, and ended up spilling onto the IRC so as not to bug SO. On the one hand, we're both heavy conversat…
/r/RedPillWives10/05/16 02:38 AM
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Mom mentioned this week that she was sad she never found her little gold cross necklace after we moved houses, so when she left, I looked up prices online, balked, and got out my jewelry supplies instead. Mom hates it when people spend a lot of money on her. No idea what I was doing, but the end result was similar to this (http://www.jewelrylessons.com/files/content/tut/rosequartzbig.jpg) but with gold, green, and glass pearls, because she likes those colors best. Finished it in half an hour, an…
/r/RedPillWives06/05/16 09:02 PM
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Favorite: On my second ever date with my future husband we went to our local amusement park. He had never been on any rides before, and hated heights, so I was fine with him going on the spinning, ground-level rides, but when he saw that I wanted to hop onto a roller coaster or two and come back, he decided to try every ride once. Suffice to say I couldn't NOT buy one of those roller coaster photos, although I don't let anyone but me see his priceless facial expression :P Several hours later we …
/r/RedPillWives06/05/16 08:41 PM
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SO suggests we should try a higher egg white-to-almond flour ratio, as we were experimenting with a recipe that had less eggs than some others.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/16 04:09 AM
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Attempted macarons, got almond cookies instead. Found out that well-browned ground beef makes really tasty curry compared to chunked meat (surface area?) when making lazy-Monday-curry today (Vermont or S&B brand Japanese curry mix are awesome).
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/16 02:15 AM
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SO stumbled across it one day and once he understood the gist of it, mentioned "Oh, there's a community of people like this", and a few days later "There's one for women too". Then we both lost interest and forgot about it until I looked it up myself a while later to see what it was about. Most of it resonated from the start, although it took a while for me to accept that I needed to drop my orbiters into the hang-out-with-SO-present category, curb whatever may be perceived as mixed signals rega…
/r/RedPillWives29/04/16 11:28 PM
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Raising offspring into functional adults, teaching where possible, listening and offering advice, letting them make mistakes and figuring out what we learned from them, giving them a stable home environment without fear of a lack of basic needs. In the spirit of raising functioning adults, though, I'll be teaching both sexes to cook, clean, launder, and take care of themselves, among many other things. It was kinda pathetic to see so many of our male university friends, newly fledged from Mom's …
/r/RedPillWives29/04/16 10:44 PM
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Sent what I could your way. I hope things get better for you.
/r/RedPillWives20/04/16 09:47 PM
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Yoga pants and a soft low-cut long-sleeve top when it's cold, and my comfy dress (similar to https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/c5/50/5d/c5505dadf07ed514ceb435b204b4a084.jpg) when it's warmer. Dangly earrings all the time, and usually this hair, since he likes it (http://i0.wp.com/therighthairstyles.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/19-polished-pulled-back-half-ponytail.jpg?w=500) Think cute outfits, but with comfy fabrics, and you can look put-together around the house. For bedtime: if it's…
/r/RedPillWives10/04/16 05:36 PM
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I guess the best way to describe it is that my appearance is in the overlap between his tastes and my comfort zone. Unhindered, my style would tend towards modest and sort of hippy-steampunk (sorta like this: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/ed/3f/61/ed3f61984dda767c9c1f9d80aab43090.jpg). His taste is more polished-club-trophy-side-piece (like so: https://www.instagram.com/p/BDzFZPVC3i7/), although he seems to like every style "if it's done right". It took some getting used to, but it w…
/r/RedPillWives10/04/16 03:57 AM
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Serious and passionate about his work and hobbies. I love seeing him all fired up explaining his latest research. He's humble and hates being told he's good at something, because he's always trying to improve. Despite his serious side, he completely melts in the presence of animals. Kittens, big dogs, llamas, sloths, goats, whatever it is he gets a big goofy grin on his face if he gets to pet them, and ends up smiling all day.
/r/RedPillWives09/04/16 09:16 PM
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Proceed with caution if you go that route. http://www.therulesrevisited.com/2013/06/no-you-arent-good-wing-woman.html
/r/RedPillWomen07/04/16 08:35 PM
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A good number of times I've linked this to female friends when they started doing that. Many stopped coming to me with these complaints, but a portion acknowledged what they were doing, and turned out to be great friends who can call each other out on stuff and still get along. These are the ones I hang out with. Disclaimer: Your mileage may vary on how your own friends will react.
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 04:06 PM
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Eyo, I'm KlaiFrai, mid 20s, recently married but together 10 years with my first and only. I enjoy cooking, baking, and gaming (video and tabletop) with my SO, and crafting or hanging out at cutesy tea shops with friends. I also like mech and fighting anime, and metal music. An overview of my main areas to work on: I've improved significantly over the years at not focusing on how I'm affected and feel about times when SO finds himself under buckets of stress, and instead focusing on supporting h…
/r/RedPillWives07/04/16 03:54 PM
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If I recall, mine is quality time, touch, and words, in that order. His is touch, words, and quality time, in that order. The result is weekends spent cuddling and watching movies/anime, with a healthy dose of expressing appreciation. We both hate buying gifts and will usually buy ourselves our own stuff if we want it. We don't mind doing stuff for ourselves, though I like to make sure he's fed and watered, and he likes to make sure I'm warm and comfy. Despite what it sounds like, neither of us …
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 01:51 AM
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I go away for a week, and when I come back this place exists :P Is it cool if I still hang on both subs?
/r/RedPillWives06/04/16 01:04 AM
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So, Pink flair, ~25, Married.... If we've been together 10 years but recently married, what should I put?
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/16 11:45 PM
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Do you have any hobbies? Social groups? Interests? Things on your to-do list that still need doing?
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/16 09:20 PM
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I think this is a good list :P https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HxUuDPNbkJk
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/16 04:09 AM
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OP don't do this. It's a great way to reveal your identity to less than well-meaning individuals.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/15 08:55 AM
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Depends on the girl, I guess. My fiance has a Warhammer 40k wallet and One Punch Man ringtone, and I'm still marrying him. Granted, I've got a Zelda wallet :P
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/15 12:31 AM
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Yeah, he oscillates between fun life of the party and super serious problem-solver, depending on the situation. It makes for an impressive effect on the occasions that an emergency crops up during a party, and he's got everyone carrying out orders.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/15 05:21 AM
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It was awesome. We knew we were going to get married whenever we saved up enough, because our first priority was avoiding student loans and debt. He once asked what kind of proposal I was thinking of and I said "something safe that doesn't involve losing the ring in the ocean or a helium balloon or someone's stomach. I like safe." In our first year of college, he took me to the mall and told me to pick a ring. I ended up picking out a decent-sized oval garnet in a detailed white gold setting (so…
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/15 12:21 AM
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Gifts: We're on the home stretch towards the wedding, so I've only managed to budget a decent, well-fitted sweater for him, but I did help one of his friends pick out a model tank for him to build, since I know his favorites. Food: Cookies! I always make 5-6 different kinds of cookies and he loves them. Also, getting out of the way so he can try a bunch of recipes he's had no time for with school. I think he might spend more time in the kitchen than I will, he loves cooking. Other: Redirecting s…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 10:06 PM
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/r/RedPillWomen30/11/15 03:11 AM
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As a former wearer of oversized unisex sweaters, shapeless jeans, no makeup, and $8 haircuts, I found that starting slow was my best bet. First easy things you can do that aren't too out-there are to get some lipgloss (clear is fine), dangly earrings instead of studs/little rings, and spring for the $20+ haircut (tell the stylist you want something easy to maintain, but keep the length). Wear the lipgloss and earrings all the time when you're out, keep your hair down, and you'll slowly get used …
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/15 01:08 AM
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Started dating at 16 in high school, decided together we were marriage material after the first year but didn't want to go into debt for the wedding, so we started saving up. He got me a ring several years later with money he saved, and several years after that we're getting married in a few months. It took 10 years, but we've avoided student debt, and the wedding will be entirely in cash. 26 in June, he's 26 in January Had backlash from Mom and ridicule from my brother in the first 5 years (tl;…
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 12:43 AM
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He actually talked me up from one kid to two :P. He wanted kids in his future even when we started dating as teenagers. Every step he takes has been driven by a want to provide for his future family, complete with the house and the dog (cat in this case) and lawn. He worries about whether he'll be good enough, but I see how he gets around babies or cute animals, and the protective instinct is strong in him. It's been quite nice to have made a decision early on, because there's no anxiety of the …
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/15 12:31 AM
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It was a lot of practice owning up to my part in creating a situation, learning to say "I'm sorry" without the "but", and changing my "I can't"s into "I find it hard to"s. When I first met my SO, I would frequently blame my behavior on my Mom, and thankfully he wouldn't stand for it, and would say "You aren't your Mom, she's not controlling you. You're controlling you. Take responsibility and get better". It took many years, but I'm now in a place where I hold myself accountable for my actions, …
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/15 04:40 AM
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Cuddles! My SO is physical touch and words, whereas I'm quality time and words, so while we have no trouble verbally communicating our appreciation, he relaxes the most when I just lie in his arms and bury my face in his chest, or run my fingers through his hair. I'm happy with doing that because it's quality time, but I'd be equally happy going hiking with him, cooking together, or playing video games together, because those are also special quality time to me. Once I recognized that he preferr…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/15 09:54 PM
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What about making the middle name the Mother's name? That's how my family has done it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/15 09:31 PM
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Grade 8 science class. Started dating a couple of years later. Together ever since.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/15 06:15 AM
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Without further details, yes.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/15 02:38 AM
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I collect plant specimens and press them into pretty configurations for wall mounting, but with their genus (and often species), location, and other important information tagged in the frame. I also enjoy beading, cooking, running tabletop games, and do art commissions from time to time.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/15 03:54 AM
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I've always used symbiotic terms when referring to different interactions between people (because once you learn stuff it's hard to talk like a normal person again -_-). Mutualism - Both organisms benefit from each others behavior. See OP's boss example. Commensalism* - One organism benefits, while the other is completely unaffected. My yard happened to have an apple tree but I hate apples, so if my neighbor asks, I let him take the apples. Parasitism - The actions of one organism negatively aff…
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/15 03:48 AM
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Mine loves sexy clothes, and signs of effort. Taking that extra 10 minutes in the morning to make my hair a little nicer and put on some makeup makes him happy. He friggin' loves it when I go for this level of makeup though (http://www.prettydesigns.com/party-makeup-look/ excluding the hyper-glitter-gem ones), and loves tasteful shoes. By now I just let him pick which clothes I buy, because he takes into account my comfort level, then gets me the hottest clothes within it. I used to have a lot o…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/15 04:06 AM
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I've been doing something similar with SO's cousin for the past year, as she finds herself struggling with... well, being a teenager and life being hard at that age, especially when you only speak half the language. Every Friday, I'm like "<Katie>, what are 10 good things that happened this week? I'll go first." It helps her English improve, and it seems to be making her steadily more positive the rest of the time I see her. She's learning to focus less on the bad.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/15 03:43 AM
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When my SO is under libido-killing levels of stress, I find he responds best to letting him pick his de-stressing activity (be it video games, a nap, etc), then be in the general area, while not trying to be the focus of his attention. Leaning against him in a reassuring way, giving him a kiss on the cheek when I pass by, making sure he's got a glass of whatever he wants; overall being there, and providing a sense of comfort and a (what took a few years to work on) non-judgemental non-pressured …
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/15 01:54 AM
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I got an A+ in gender studies because I put my beliefs in a box for a while and learned how to regurgitate the teacher's views onto the paper. The final paper was hilarious. Normally, papers require you to cite every last source like your life depends on it. Nope. She wanted us to quote some stuff from the readings to support our point, but also use our own personal experiences and feeelings as evidence too. I made up 3 imaginary friends with issues to make the point, took my blood-money A+, and…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/15 08:42 PM
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Beaded necklaces, hook earrings, wrap bracelets. I got tired of looking for jewelry that matched my preferred color combos and style in one piece, so I learned to make my own. Way cheaper than buying a finished product.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/15 06:32 AM
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Reading, video games, D&D, jewelry-making, drawing, cooking (SO and I do that one together), growing creepy-looking plants, collecting rocks, pressing plant specimens, singing a lot whenever no one's around... More video games...
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/15 05:02 AM
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Considering how many cuisines pair lamb with cumin, I'm surprised it wasn't mentioned in the spice section.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/15 12:36 AM
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Of course. I'm not saying praise them for every little thing all the time. I'm just saying that when you do feel like giving him a compliment, word it in a way that works for him. If he makes a particularly awesome dish one night, it wouldn't feel right to not say how much I like it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/15 01:57 AM
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Self respect and uncompromising on his values. Within the first 2 months of the relationship, I was having a whiny-bitchy-tantrum, and he told me to get out of his house until I was more reasonable and let him study. I smartened up pretty quickly, and 10 years later the spells of crazy have become a rarity, and significantly less intense, because he never put up with them. Mom has tried to get him to budge on values many times (she's always had a tendency to bully the family into doing things un…
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/15 09:12 PM
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Being raised by a gaggle of bitter, single-mother feminist aunties, a former CC "If you don't like it, leave" Mom, and the best Dad ever (put up with her shit to spend time with us, care for us, play sports with us, and put us over his knee if we acted up), I grew up with the dual message of "men are pigs and you can make them do what you want without giving anything back", mixed with an admiration for male teachers and authority figures. For the most part I was a manipulative bitch until my mid…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 08:09 PM
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You two sound like my SO and I in a lot of ways. When I found this place after 8+ years together with him, it was nice to find other women who enjoyed taking care of their man and bettering themselves, instead of bashing men. Also, when I'm sick, SO makes the best soup.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 05:37 PM
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Seconded. I make the recipe off the Chipits package every time, and SO's friends always praise them, even though they know what I'm doing. For potlucks, they always request those cookies That, and my spinach dip.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 02:46 AM
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Her student visa won't let her work until university, but I might encourage her to join a school club.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 02:51 AM
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She does volunteer an an old folks home twice a month. Perhaps increase it to every week until the end of summer?
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 02:49 AM
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I don't have any strong religious background. Mom was sorta New-Agey-spiritual with a Catholic background, ambivalent Dad, and a lot of Bill Nye the Science Guy and Magic School Bus growing up.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/15 02:40 AM
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So... why is your SO's ex a friend on Facebook? Hell, I even delete my brother's exes once they're out of the picture, so I can't see the benefit of friending a boyfriend's ex in most situations. Sounds like temptation towards drama and misery.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/15 06:41 AM
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Physical touch is big for me, followed by words of affirmation and quality time. He's big on quality time, followed by words of affirmation, and physical touch. So we're sorta the same-ish. Basically we go everywhere together, tell each other how much they mean to us, and hug a lot. Neither of us bothers with gifts on birthdays, anniversaries, or Christmas, and while we do appreciate when the other pitches in with extra work, that's just what we do as part of the day. And we'd rather leave some …
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 08:04 AM
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Yay, that's a great surprise to come home to! Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/15 06:36 AM
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For all my family's flaws, narcissicm wasn't one of them. Mom and Dad were quite supportive of anything I wanted to get into, and there was a lot of love in our big family. Screaming and shouting too, but mostly love. They never pushed me to succeed though, so today I'm more of a medium-achiever who sometimes lacks motivation, but I'm working on that myself. Mom doesn't qualify for anything on the above list, though she did have problems letting herself be emotionally vulnerable due to her own c…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 08:50 PM
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Awesome, I've read and passed on Surrendered Wife to a lot of people. Now I have to think of some questions.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 05:38 PM
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Mine works in a similar position. I send him out the door with a hug and kiss, pack him something different every day (chicken strips, "big mac" sandwich, beef dijon on pumpernickel, whatever he likes), have a foot-bath and hot drink ready when he gets home, and let him relax and unwind for a good half hour, before one of us gets dinner together. In essence, make the home something enjoyable to come back to, so that they don't mind working hard. Same goes for when you go back to work. Take that …
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/15 01:06 AM
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Awesome. I read the book, then showed it to my mom, who read it, bought 10 more copies, and started handing them out to her friends.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 05:23 PM
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I won't mind taking his last name straight-up, but he's a little wary of how it might affect my and our children's job prospects, since his name is foreign. We don't want to hyphenate because of the complications that could bring, and his dad wouldn't be happy if our kids had my last name. Right now we're contemplating something along the lines of <Kid's Firstname><Middlename><My Lastname as Second Middlename><His Lastname>. For example "Robert Frederich Frai Foreignyname". Not sure if that woul…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/15 04:49 PM
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Found this place not long ago in my early twenties, and I've been with my SO for about a decade since mid highschool. Plenty of ticks left on the clock, it was just nice to find a place that jived with what I was already doing, and encouraged accountability and self improvement.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 07:28 AM
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I don't get upset, because them excusing themselves from the conversation was kinda the point. I can see him being upset if I waste his time though, so I don't. If their intentions aren't explicitly stated and it seems like normal conversation, I'll work the SO into the conversation as soon and as gracefully as possible. Since we spend a lot of time together, there's plenty of room for an "My SO was just talking about that the other day. He said...." or "I've been to <country> too, back when I w…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/15 07:17 AM
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He told me my lipstick was too red, but more from an aesthetic point of view. Says red only looks good when I'm wearing red. He was right. So the red comes out for the red clothes, and the rest of the time he likes bubblegum pink. When we first met, I was made of baggy sweaters and shapeless pants (good thing I had a pretty face). I'd never have imagined I'd be wearing the necklines and hemlines he introduced me to, but I love it, especially the way he looks at me.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 09:16 PM
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My main concern was the guys out there who need to control too much in the micromanagement department. There's a certain lack of confidence and trust that bleeds through when he needs to make sure everything you're doing is up to code, and that extends beyond just clothing. You should be a good SO and wear what he likes, and he should be confident enough to know that you're either going to do that to the best of your abilities, or he can move on. As an example, 90% of what I wear is perfectly to…
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 09:07 PM
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SO loves me dressing my hottest, not "off-the-market", while I'm with him. He said he never understood "why a guy would want to find the prettiest girl, then stick a potato sack on her so that all could see his taste in potato sacks". Mind you, when I'm out without him I dress more modestly, because I don't want to deal with other mens advances. That's not on his orders though, that's out of respect for him. So I guess my outfit tends to be "a great catch" when I'm with him, and "off-the-market"…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 03:29 AM
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I've got two strategies. At the beginning I'd just been replacing the words, and inventing lots of alliterative phrases that started with "holy" "flying" "shrieking" and really any "ing". Yeah I sounded a bit like Adam West Batman, but it was a start, and since then I've been slowly reducing those too. Hahaha, I should try using nicer verbs in the mean time. Singing, dancing, clapping, hopping. Nowadays as I've gotten better at not shouting 4kids-friendly expletives, I've been responding with ob…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/15 09:38 PM
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They have their good points. They also have a lot on their plates and aren't very good at thinking of others yet, but they range between 21-25 years old, so there's time for improvement. The important thing is that they get something out of each other's company, and my assessment of their maturity level doesn't factor into SO's decision to hang with them and let them vent to him. And they really don't mean to break things :P. They're all huge and our space is small. And they usually replace what…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 10:41 PM
1

Haha, well I already bake a whole buncha stuff on Sundays to supply us for the week. So there's usually cookies or chocolate banana bread out when they get here. Stuff that goes nicely with tea and coffee. We're all mostly tea drinkers, and I've got 20 different kinds stocked, so as long as they don't touch my nice teacups, they've got a good tea n cake selection. Maybe as I get better at being pleasant around people, I'll go into more sustaining food preparation. Can't prepare in advance since …
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/15 06:43 PM
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It's genuine now. I can't fake anything (hence the prior locking myself in my room), so tonight was a result of making peace with a lot of things, looking at stuff from other angles, and coming to a place where I can be genuinely friendly when they show up.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 07:21 PM
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Realizations like that are part of what helped me start changing.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 07:19 PM
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Not fake with SO, and not fake with them last night at all. The times in the past I locked myself in my room were the times I knew I'd either slip up or look fake because I was resentful. Last night was a result of several months of trying to see things from their perspective, understand their importance in SO's life and his in theirs, and replace the resentment with compassion. I don't do fake in front of people.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 07:14 PM
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Alright. Sorry for the hyperbolic language. I was just trying to express how natural it feels to fall in beside him and how easily we make each other happy and content, compared to my reaction when his friends do what they do. It hasn't been fake for the decade we've been together, and I'm happy that my efforts to chill out and not be other people's mom is starting to pay off. Realizing that a broken cup from carelessness can be replaced, and sometimes guys really need to just get together at we…
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 07:06 PM
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I love video games. Usually I play single player games (Skyrim, Halflife, Fallout, etc), or watch him play. When we play together, we work better playing cooperatively than against each other. Neverwinter Nights is ooold, but fun for playing together and watching each others' backs. Otherwise just ask him what cooperative games you can play together.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/15 07:41 AM
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Mascara, undereye concealer, lipgloss. Sometimes I'll do a bit of eyeshadow along the lashline and swap the gloss for lipstick. Now for the fun. Color wise for eyeshadow and lipstick: Figure out what chroma group looks best on you (http://www.color-wheel-artist.com/hue.html) for clothing, and the same will apply to your make up. Many a girl will say they can't do blue eyeshadow, when it's likely they're using the wrong blue. I look like a hooker in a blue tint, but not in a blue hue. If hues are…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 02:08 AM
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Didn't want to sit through an hour long video that seems to rehash most of the complaints made on TRP in a bitter annoying voice (although the way he enunciates "cock carousel" around 00:35 is pretty funny), so I read the tl;dr at the bottom. Yeah there's problems to avoid with relationships and many women today. Yeah there's pitfalls to watch out for. The best way to answer "what does RPW think?" would probably be to read the sidebar. Notice the problem, identify your part and what you need to …
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/15 12:51 AM
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I would call it optimism and hope, not naivete. These are all things she's told me without my prompting. I haven't introduced her to anything redpill, she just trusts me as a sounding board. I do understand that anything can happen in the coming years, hence phrasing such as "stands a chance", not "is totally 100% not gonna do a 180 and hop on that carousel". If I'm cynical about it, she'll probably pick up on any skepticism and be discouraged. What she needs right now is encouragement and a kin…
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 10:23 PM
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Asian family, but she's not really the slut type to begin with. She's disgusted by her peers bouncing from boy to boy, and wants to wait till she finds husband material. Between me mentoring her, and her meek disposition, I think she stands a chance.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 05:40 PM
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Good start. Here's the list SO's cousin is currently working off of for the other food categories (man can not live by cookies alone :P) http://www.buzzfeed.com/emofly/foods-everyone-should-learn-to-cook#.bavekwGw4
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 06:48 AM
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Sounds potentially promising. I'll advise you do what my SO's 16 year old cousin is doing for the coming years. She won't be allowed to date until university, but in the mean time she's going out of her way to learn cooking, crafting, make up and hair techniques, get in shape, and improve her bad habits, in order to make herself as wifeable as possible. You have 2 years to work on yourself, improve, gain skills, and prepare. Best case scenario, you two are right for each other, you marry after g…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 01:03 AM
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As others have said, fun is a mindset, not an activity. My SO and I are both serious people, so our idea of fun is not going kayaking, hitting a loud party, or most unstructured activities (tried a new-age festival shindig thing with a mutual friend, and felt so out of place). We enjoy a night in, cooking a new meal together, playing a video game, watching shows we like, playing tabletop games (you don't always need a party of 5), or letting him read to me from a novel series we're following. Wh…
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/15 04:31 AM
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Here or there I provide what could be identifying information that, when combined with other posts, could be used to identify me. So I'll leave my post as is for 2 or 3 weeks until the thread falls out of people's interest, then snip away the personal bits. Most of the time anyway. In this case the post is 5 months old.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 08:15 PM
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24F here. Nothing in life is 100%. That said, I was pretty damn close to 100% when I was 17 (within a year of starting dating). He verbally agreed that he would like to get married and start a family with me, and the only thing that's kept us from getting married is the cost, which we've both been saving for. We've been together for 10 years now, marrying next year, and have been clear on what we are to each other and what our plan is the whole time. We don't need to reach our career/school mile…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 05:00 AM
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Mine wants it 1-3 times a day. For the more frequent episodes, you've got a mouth and a hand. Without getting explicit, no matter how you do it, make sure he doesn't have to reach for the tissues.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 09:13 PM
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North American, though I always get asked where I'm from even though I was born here, because I apparently have a European outlook on things.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/15 09:05 PM
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Heheheh, I had to take a gender studies class, and knew that kind of attitude was what I'd be up against. Got myself an A by learning and using all the right buzzwords. The most cringe-worthy part of the course was the final paper worth 40%, about sex and gender identity being a continuum rather than a binary. The topic wasn't the cringe-worthy part. For the most part it had the same requirements of a normal essay: structure, correct format, citations from several of the readings we'd done that …
/r/TheRedPill07/03/15 12:14 AM
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"I'm more of a skirt person" is my favorite response. Its like saying no, but in a way that makes it hard for them to get mad.
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/15 04:52 AM
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So rather than trust him for a year and a half so you come out with an extra $7200+what he's not spending to feed you while I assume you get free room and board at your parents, you want to jump out into the world and start paying your way sooner. Less money available, and dragging him away from his ambitions so you can be comfy. He's likely earning the extra money as the best option for your futures. Guys make sacrifices like that. Delayed gratification, or his resentment that you're holding hi…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/15 04:41 AM
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The only thing I'm any good at is making jewelry, and herbal remedies. I've got a big garden of herbs, and so will often brew teas or mash up poultices to help treat illness, bites/stings, etc. There are too many different combos to list, so I recommend just googling herbal remedies in general, but a few of my regulars are yarrow tea for menstrual cramps, plantago+honey poultice for stings. For colds I just throw the contents of my garden into a teapot. Bear in mind that any herbal remedies are …
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 05:47 AM
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Mid 20's, Western, white, lower middle class Western European family. Grew up in a crazy house with 1 sibling, common law parents, and some extended family. Don't worry, the house is no longer crazy, it was a phase. Agnostic theist. STEM career. Been with SO for 10 years and am marrying him soon. I'm not anti-feminist. I'm all for women's and men's rights. I'm anti-excuse. As women and as people, we aren't entitled to anything just for being ourselves. We have to put the effort in to get what we…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 11:40 PM
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Slightly off tangent, but your wording of this and your OP suggests you're keeping a tally in your mind of "times he's done x vs. times I've done x", which is not a good start if you don't wanna foster resentment to him. Perhaps some of that leaks into how you talk to and treat him, and so he tries to get acknowledgement elsewhere. Don't keep score and be happy for what he does.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 12:22 AM
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My FMIL has lived with us at for the last few years since separating from my FFIL. This is advice for dealing with the parts of her that will annoy you. Mostly I let her talk my ear off with her ex-radio-host voice, thank her for advice and the overwhelming amounts of stuff she buys on sale, make sure she has her own bookshelf to decorate with all the thrift store kitten figurines she wants, and graciously accept her offer to be on dish duty even though she does a terrible job and I have to rewa…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/15 06:36 PM
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My suspicions as well.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 03:42 AM
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Wait a while, or get a guy a few years older.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/15 02:37 PM
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She's 16, but she responds in a similar way to "boys like girls who..." because she really likes boys. She only admits that to me though, with a lot of blushing. She's shy enough that she probably won't act on it, and I gently let her know that she's better off waiting til at least university before she tries to do things with boys, because not a lot of high school boys will be thinking about marriage, while she wants to get married as soon as she finds a good one (which right now seems to be ov…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/15 09:44 PM
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This is what I try to teach my SO's little cousin. I'm slowly introducing her to beauty stuff at a pace that won't upset her traditional guardians, but while I'm doing it, I reinforce the importance of personality whenever possible. I'll give her anecdotes of ways that some women treat their boyfriends badly and she'll wrinkle her face and say that's awful. She'll tell me I'm always so nice and kind to her, and I'll tell her that she makes it easy for me to be kind, because she's kind. I'm hopin…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/15 07:55 PM
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Boiled down nicely.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/15 05:34 AM
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At this point, if you resort to strawmanning, insults and mud flinging just because you dislike an opinion, it doesn't matter who's right, because you've lost the audience. Your response to Archwinger may be indicative of the methods you use to speak with your parents on the issue. If it is, then they're being treated to the kind of low blows that a tantruming teenager would dish out, and as such, the message would get lost in the poor delivery. No matter how angry you get, when you lose your co…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 02:59 PM
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Swallowing the red pill was easy for me because I already started with a wonderful SO. I trust his judgement, skills, and attention to my thoughts and feelings, and so I had few problems letting him take the lead completely and step into the support role. He takes my opinions into consideration, then makes a decision. Regardless of whether it's the one I would have made, I know he wouldn't make a decision he thought would be detrimental, so I can go along with it. The look on his face when he co…
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/15 05:37 AM
1

Haven't touched MMOs in years, but multiplayer-wise we recently started up Neverwinter Nights after letting it sit on our desktops for two years while we played other games. I'm the Barbarian and he's the Sorcerer. I smash and keep things away from him, and he works the magic. He's underpowered now, but in a few levels he'll be able to do some real damage, while I act as his armor. Our setup in this and previous games is less carry and support, and more he's the brains and I'm the "Yeah Boss!" b…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/15 06:57 PM
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Started with never leaving the house without earrings (the larger studs or dangly ones, not the my-first-studs size) and one other accessory (necklace, scarf, bracelet, hair thingie, etc). Then I moved on to reducing pants wearing (fleece leggings are awesome for skirts) and not wearing runners to EVERYTHING, as well as at least throwing on the minimum amount of makeup every day (mascara, under-eye concealer, lip gloss). Now that I'm pretty good at that, my next step is doing more with my hair t…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/15 06:30 PM
1

Slippery Slope Fallacy. I used to do that a lot. It helped that SO started calling it Doom-Spiraling, as in "Klai, you're doom-spiraling again." and that really helped me pause and become aware of it. After a while I was catching myself before SO even had to hear about it, and would tell myself "Klai, stop doom-spiraling!" I think calling it that helps drive the point home that 95% of it is ridiculous and the other 5% often isn't bad enough to get upset about.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/15 09:52 PM
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Need to work on my language. Not with swearing, but with colorful phrases like "going balls to the wall" to mean "with maximum effort". Although the phrase has to do with aviation and in no way involves testicles, not everyone knows that, and so the response I sometimes get, although amusing, isn't good for a ladylike image. SO has influenced my language more than I thought :P Other than that, I seem to be on the right track. Although, living in a transit-based city, I wouldn't mind meeting a da…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/15 03:23 AM
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I was just going to say, cute is the last word I'd use to describe that category. The genetically gifted yet emotionally distant ubermench could be hot, attractive, etc. But if I think of a "cute" guy the image that pops up is some sensitive skinny-jeans dude with a guitar, who happens to have a decent enough facial structure and social skills to still get noticed. But cute isn't my type, and seems to run the risk of becoming an orbiter. I'm glad that my SO is handsome, broad-shouldered, dominan…
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/15 12:55 AM
3

Back on topic, there are plenty of good atheist girls with great values. I've met them in my field. You're probably better off going after them, because when kids are on the horizon, or she has to think of you burning in Hell forever, religious girls could find your atheism to be an issue. But you might want to drop the Holier Than Thou (so to speak) attitude, because it might turn off some atheist women, specifically the ones with good values like "not trash-talking others".
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/15 08:54 AM
1

Is it okay if I'm not so much the calorie-counting/weight-conscious type, and more of the get-less-pathetic/shrink-the-belly/lift-more type? Because I'd likely just be using the account for body measurements. My weight is ideal, it's just made of pathetic and squish, since this will be the first time doc's letting me exercise after an injury a while back.
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/15 12:28 AM
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Was actually talking about this to SO when we saw a similar thread the other day. I think his view boiled down to "If it's a big thing and he doesn't seem to understand why it's so important, then just once explain why it's important and the consequences of leaving it unchecked (the house will burn down, the dog will get run over, people will loot the garage, etc). If he doesn't know why you keep telling him to do something, he's gonna think you keep making a big deal out of nothing." "And if he…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/14 10:30 PM
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Do not slouch. Do not crouch. Do not do anything other than have amazing posture, because the alternative is ten times less attractive than a little bit of height. Most men don't care if you're a bit tall, but they do care if you're looking anxious and self-conscious and trying to contort yourself unnaturally. 5'9" sounds like a great height to me. You don't have to get all your new pants hemmed.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/14 12:54 AM
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Purely anecdote as I'm in no place to offer opinions. One of my older cousins had infertility problems, but had wanted to give her husband a baby so badly that they eventually settled on someone else's egg and a surrogate so that he would have a child that was genetically his and the two of them could raise her together. This got mixed reactions in my family (I've mentioned previously that I had a lot of Strong Independent Aunts growing up), and they moved to the other side of the country when I…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/14 09:46 PM
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http://cdn.img42.com/db7cdc6b1a760b9830efcbc838283554.png
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/14 06:59 AM
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Regardless, in this case, where the subject is helping a teen navigate high school and become a better person, it is irrelevant and thus not helpful. It's like someone saying "I want a recipe to make apple pie for my grandma" and you saying "apples are dumb". A comment best saved for a relevant discussion :P
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/14 12:16 AM
2

Thanks, I've got a battle-plan for Christmas break now, as well as some fun ideas for Summer vacation.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 10:44 PM
2

I'd have to find a book with simpler language to start until she's better at english. I'll ask SO what he read when he was still learning. I think I'll get her a cute plant for her windowsill. What doesn't die easily? Maybe do an occasional movie night with her. No chick flicks though, most of those are poison. Recommendations welcome. Maybe get her a diary too? Future FIL is borderline illiterate for english, so she'd probably have privacy. Books on how to draw? How-to books in general? Should …
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 09:36 PM
2

I told her I'd teach her some Western baking and cooking over the holidays so she can practice. I could also teach her to make jewelry. Her country's school never emphasized crafts, hobbies, or home ec skills, so she doesn't have much to do besides study and text a few new friends. Any other ideas for things I could introduce her to?
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 08:51 PM
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I've mostly been prompting her with "so did anything interesting happen this week?" and letting her lead the conversations, and trying to advise by offering a similar experience I had in highschool, encouraging dialogue on the subject. She usually leads herself to the right conclusion. You're right though, there are times when I offer unsolicited advice. She takes it well enough, but I'll try to keep my mouth shut unless she asks so it doesn't get overwhelming. Since this is all so new to her sh…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 08:45 PM
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It seems that all signs in all 3 subs you posted in point to "walk away", but you're still asking. Don't waste your pretty.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 01:21 AM
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I figure any gender identity can self improve in the looks, personality, and skills department, so lots of the info here probably applies. I won't pretend to know exactly what you're going through, but since you identify as a woman, we can try to help where it applies when you've got specific questions. There is also /r/AltTRP, but not having looked at it myself, I'm not sure if it just deals with homosexual dating strategy or embraces the full spectrum of gender and sexual identities. Might be …
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/14 07:57 PM
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/r/nosleep Edit: Hmm... one of these things is not like the other.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 05:20 PM
4

Please don't ever change.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 09:46 PM
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/r/RedPillWomen02/12/14 09:45 PM
1

Ah, this old gem. I have the charts printed onto my bathroom mirror.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/14 02:24 AM
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That's essentially what I was trying to say, so yes. What this one said.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/14 02:08 AM
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Firstly, AWALT. Yeah, job/car/house is a good sign of a potentially stable relationship with a guy who has his act together, but confidence gets the girl's attention in the first place, and is indeed attractive. How am I supposed to know who you are, what you've done, or anything if I don't notice you as more than a shy background decoration? Also, confidence is more than talking a lot. My man got my attention by being confident with very few words, back when he was a nobody high school student …
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/14 01:43 AM
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/r/RedPillWomen22/11/14 04:34 PM
1

More simply I'd focus on the attitude when socializing, presenting themselves, and going through life, rather than what they should actually do with their lives. The latter would be difficult to fit to everyone, and it might just complicate things trying to tell a 7 year old "you can do this, or this, or both but then you need to try twice as hard".
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 05:25 AM
1

Eh, so it goes. I was hoping I'd get some tips that people would want their daughters to learn. I wonder what I said wrong ;P
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/14 07:44 PM
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Years ago, my SO rolled with it when I read about a woman who lost all her arms and legs due to an infection from the hospital she gave birth in. I asked if he'd still want me if I couldn't do stuff for him, and he smiled and said he's put those cute little Chun Li hairbun covers on my stumps and carry me around in a backpack and feed me and toss me onto the bed whenever he wanted to use me. It was the playful but sincere way he said it that made it work. I'd say to go with the playful attitude …
/r/askTRP16/11/14 10:54 PM
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I changed my mind long before I came here, and finding this place just helped to improve myself further. Finding TRP and RPW just put words to how I was doing things. It's nice to talk with ladies who don't blame the world for their flaws and instead try to be better.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/14 09:23 PM
1

Happens to us all the time. <redacted> At the end of the night, we know we're going home with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/14 04:22 AM
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Not really. <redacted>
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/14 03:30 AM
1

Que?
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 09:11 PM
2

An ankle injury does not prevent you from working your core and upper body. Hell, throw some pilates in for the buns and thighs while you're at it. No excuses there. I've got a spinal injury that prevents exercise from the core up, so all I can do is run. But I still run.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/14 03:01 AM
2

Alternatively, having the roommate there killed the mood, so he wasn't about to escalate in front of him. Next date get out of the house and have some fun. Hit up a convention or something. Nothing that prevents you from talking. Make a date plan soon so he knows you're still interested, if you are.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 08:24 PM
1

Was it The Disappearing Male? Because that one was scary.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 03:17 PM
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Also, reminded of a Cracked article: There is apparently a scientific reason why the ideal man these days is closer to the sensitive, gel-haired emo than the gruff, grizzled cowboy your grandma lusted after. Some experts think it has to do with the availability of the birth control pill. Historically women were attracted to strapping, virile men who would pass on their bulging, hairy chested, muscular genes to their children. Obviously the point was to ensure that the resulting offspring would b…
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 01:57 AM
2

Well, <redacted> I think I heard that the hormone balance that the pill gives you isn't ideal to still be in the bloodstream when you get pregnant. Could be a bunch of bologna though.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/14 01:48 AM
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I heard about that. That the pill makes us more likely to seek out men based on their potential to be caring and whatnot, so the baby our body thinks it's having can be well cared-for. Good thing I found my SO before I started the pill. He was awesome then and he's awesome now. Attributing that to his healthy mix of alpha and beta traits. Strong, sexy, self-respecting, caring, kind, would probably kill for me. My sex drive did drop after starting the pill, from wanting to do everythingallthetime…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 11:53 PM
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Understood. But expecting humans to reliably respond a certain way will tend to make you resentful if they don't, which can fuel conflict if you don't handle it properly. Give the book a read anyway. Hell, even I got some good insight out of it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 09:01 PM
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Agreed. As well, OP, your actions are all manipulative. You do X so he'll be compelled do Y. You work hard, expecting him to praise you. You say things expecting him to react in a way you want. You don't care for him to care for him. You care for him to get something out of it. I know you're a girl, but I recommend reading No More Mr. Nice Guy, because you sound like the people the book is trying to help, and the basic non-man-specific ideas apply. Don't read it half-assedly, read it. And good l…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 08:34 PM
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Hahaha, that was my second date with my SO too, though we were 16 and it was my house and my parents weren't home. It wasn't a big deal at the time, because we were both young virgins and were wary about escalating too fast (that came after a lot more anime nights), but in your case yeah, he might attempt escalation. If he tries for physical contact and you don't mind, you can keep it cuddly. Say he tries to reach for more than a second date would call for. It's fine to take his hands gently in …
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 05:36 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 10:25 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 10:04 PM
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<redacted> tl;dr People dress how they want the world to perceive them. Whether they're perceived correctly is a different matter, and they may find they have to tweak their style to be perceived correctly. Keep in mind the man in the fedora may not embody all the qualities you attach to the fedora, he may just be trying to convey his ideal self and it's being received through a skewed lens. It does offer insight into what he values, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/14 05:37 AM
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That's the whole question? It's a thing. Try to keep it under control so you aren't making everyone miserable, don't eatpraycheat on a good man, etc. Got anything else to the question?
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 11:57 PM
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Yes, but slutty is also half attitude. An example before I get back to the bra topic: A woman in a super-skanky dress (http://www.clubweardress.net/wp-content/uploads/liquid-club-dress-610x1024.jpg) but who only has eyes for her SO and devotes all attention to him is just as slutty as a woman in a more modest dress (http://www.zulily.com/p/red-black-plaid-scoop-neck-dress-5675-12878346.html?pos=63&fromEvent=108817&ns=ns_908034809|1414972433501) who keeps undressing other men in the crowd with he…
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/14 11:53 PM
2

You might get more suggestions here: http://www.reddit.com/r/Femininearts/
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/14 09:59 PM
1

Really it's just more important that hobbies aren't squeezed out one way or another. No need to itemize, just make sure you're not reallocating his fun money.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/14 12:52 AM
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I try to be as direct as possible and do point out that I'm not looking for anyone and my life is very busy That's not direct, in that you've given a timeline. It's possible that to their ears this translates as "Right now she's busy and not looking for anyone, but that's RIGHT NOW. Later that will probably change, and she could see that I'm not just ANYONE", giving them hope and the option to wait for you, if they're the type to take that option, which they seem to be. A more permanent approach…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 11:50 PM
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possible Girlfriend territory: cooking, cleaning, home economics in general, comfort, etc. Mom territory: nagging or dictating his diet, bedtime, hobbies, gaming, or use of his spare time in general. Does the budget allow for things that make him happy, or is it "you have so many video games already, so we can allocate that money towards "? My SO created both a "hobbies" section in the budget, as well as a "things I think KlaiFrai should wear" section. We get the budget balanced, and he has free…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 11:25 PM
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Depends on whether the intimate details make us look good. I'll vaguely tell <redacted> Could just be me. I've been lucky in that I've never experienced a break up, but from the girl's I've seen who have broken up with their SOs, they seem to do a 180 and vomit his shortcomings all over the place. I always thought this was odd, since it retroactively makes them look bad for having stayed with the "abusive, lazy, sloppy, pencil-dicked guy who never listened or cared about what I have to say etc".…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/14 05:07 PM
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I used to be of the opinion that girls were too much drama and required circlejerks of compliments and self-deprication to get along with them. Guys felt like less politics. They felt straightforward in their conversation and easy to get along with. Part of me knew they were all interested in me. Duh, they were guys. But as long as I pretended not to notice, they never tried to take it beyond friendship. What I realize now is that guy friends aren't "less drama", they're less vocalization of dis…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/14 07:19 PM
3

I had a situation recently where <redacted>.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/14 04:58 PM
3

Double ditto. I guess what I was getting at is "define social skills".
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/14 04:47 AM
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Depends how low the social skills are, since you have not hate the world, and be able to have a conversation with someone to ask them out. Assuming you can talk to people but just seem to have a stupid mouth and don't really like people that much, the man is not low value outright, IMO. It hurts his chances, but social skills are something that can be improved upon (my former spaghetti-everywhere self looks nothing like my current self), so if he's got enough good points in other areas, and the …
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/14 04:08 AM
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Yup. That's why I put enthusiasm instead of sex-drive. I guess it's still a bit ambiguous anyway. Oops.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/14 12:53 AM
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Self-Improvement: Find ways to exercise in every situation. <redacted> Relationship Goal: Prioritize SO's sleep schedule over SO's want to enjoy all the quality time even if it goes late. Will lead to a happier, healthier, more energetic SO in the long run. He keeps telling me he'll appreciate it later, but I keep wanting to avoid cutting his enjoyment short. Bad cycle.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/14 03:29 AM
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I've never had to deal with a LDR except for a day or two at a time, so I'm no expert on that area. But the same advice of not making it all about yourself, and instead focusing on him would still stand. Why did I try to cheer him up prematurely, or tell him what the answers to his problems were? Because I didn't want to feel upset, and so tried to cut his behavior off ASAP. This basically sent the message "Your feelings are making me upset, and my comfort is more important than your problems, s…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 08:09 PM
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But the question was what made a person high value, not what are the opposite sex's dating expectations in society. I gave the ideal, regardless of how many women won't settle for less and how many men settle too much. That is an issue for RP and RPW to work on themselves (women to attempt to reign in their hypergamy, recognize their actual SMV, and try to improve on some of the ideals listed above so they bring more to the table when looking for a decent guy; men to recognize a woman's tendenci…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 02:40 PM
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A minimally acceptable woman, perhaps. Hmm... I suppose the parallel for a high quality woman would be, correct me if necessary: -Indicators of good self care (hair/makeup/clothes/grooming, fitness, health) -Ability to manage herself (cooking/cleaning skills, reasonably cared for environment, emotionally stable/able to control hamster from letting her make poor life choices, and not bother SO with unnecessary information) -Social Network (quality relationships with family and quality friends, wi…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 04:40 AM
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I wonder if he would have even put up with it for years or decades :( . It's wonderful to see how happy and confident he's become since.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 11:51 PM
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The nice thing is, when you're not making him suffer, that in turn preserves your well-being, because now he's in a place where he can care for you fully. It's just about not making things about you when they're not :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 10:35 PM
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I can't speak for everyone on some of my criteria, but the main ones for me include: -Indicators of good self-care (fitness, grooming, health) -Ability to sustain himself (career, cooking/cleaning skills, reasonably cared-for dwelling) -Social standing (number, quality, and status of friends, as well as frequency and type of event invitations, and of course reputation) -Charisma (confidence, decisiveness, sociability, graciousness, and cojones) -Being an interesting human being (hobbies, skills,…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 10:08 PM
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My anecdote technically contradicts the common RP advice of the man ALWAYS being the rock and NEVER showing weakness, but it does showcase a RPW's need to provide comfort and nurturing, and it helped us so much that here it goes:
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 09:44 PM
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Y'all feel free to correct me, but I'm feeling like if the relationship's been going on for a while and you still feel like he's likely to go away any second, or will never show as much affection as you do, there's a problem, either with your perceptions or his actual devotion to you. If you're doing the best you can do, you lessen the likelihood that he'll want to bail, and you should feel that in his disposition towards you. I've been with my SO for over 8 years, and within the 1st year I felt…
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 08:40 PM
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<redacted>. None of that affects my ability to dress femininely, keep the house together, and try to carry myself gracefully and respond with kindness and civility. :)
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 12:57 AM
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I think wiseclockcounter put it well in a previous post: I've noticed a few occasions where acquaintances will try to steer the conversation to provide an opportunity for me to badmouth my SO or rant about any unhappiness. These have failed, because one thing I've always been good at is saying only good about him in public. But you can see one possible reason why they'd try to do that.
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/14 09:55 PM
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Wear more sunscreen, smile more and engage in conversation so people know you're open to friendship, <redacted>. Got the man I want, and things are on track to a future of university degrees, marriage, children, and whatever is in store along with it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 01:38 AM
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I took the opposite approach you did in similar situations. There was a time a while back, when I went to go on Facebook on our shared laptop, but SO was still logged in on it, and the comment window was open to one of his old puppy-crushes. Apparently he was logged in on the home computer and I could see the convo in real time. Nothing cheat-y, he was just catching up with how her life was going, and it seemed platonic enough. What bothered me was that this was out of the blue, and I could see …
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/14 08:15 PM
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He replied back with "ok" and messaged SO. SO can deal with it from there.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/14 06:23 AM
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Already acknowledged in post, and being fixed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 06:46 PM
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Yup, glad I clued into my behavior now rather than later. Will cut it out.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 07:10 AM
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Right, thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 07:09 AM
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Noted, thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 07:09 AM
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I'm glad you said this, because I've never properly acknowledged that behavior. He does the support-comfort thing way to often, it's saddening. No, stop telling me I'm fine the way I am, I'm trying to get in shape damnit! I think I'll start distancing myself from him and just let him be SO's friend.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 07:08 AM
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Vomit-worthy is a good word for it. I felt queasy as soon as he messaged.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 07:05 AM
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Thanks everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/14 07:03 AM
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Noted.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/14 06:36 PM
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I was in a similar situation and realized all I was doing was enabling my friend by protecting her from consequences. At the next chance she gave me (she acknowledged she needed to change after I told her I couldn't protect her forever), I went with her to an Alcoholics Anonymous meeting. And another one. I took her as many times as she needed me there until she was going on her own. She's now 3 years sober, and can have fun at birthday parties without touching the bottle.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 08:09 PM
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Among other things mentioned here, escalators and elevators don't exist to me.
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 11:10 PM
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Ooh, I like how organized that is.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 09:04 PM
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Mostly I ran down the categories real quick (food, decor, guest list, attire, cake, etc) and asked if he had any initial comments and preferences (without asking for specific details), as well as which categories he didn't care about, and which ones he wanted to give ongoing input on. Took all of 10 minutes, and got comments like "Food should be the biggest part of the budget, don't put me in a stupid tuxedo or girly colors, cake should taste good over looking good, etc". Categories he wanted to…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 08:55 PM
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Would you prefer women to stay out of this sub, or can I jump in too?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/08/14 08:24 PM
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There's not much he doesn't like, and he still enjoyed my rendition of some of the songs he had disliked. So really it's for expanding my own song list and providing some fun listening for the household. I've been finding that the somber stuff kills my cleaning drive.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 11:05 PM
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I just added to the top that I was told I was an alto. A bit of training but nothing serious. I can sing this one without changing octave. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jz8c17upEwM
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 06:01 AM
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Having useful skills is different from acting like one of the guys. Nothing wrong with being able to do feminine and masculine things. Just act feminine while you do them. Feminine, not incompetent (I broke a nail!)
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/14 02:33 AM
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Wait, prenups don't work as intended? We're planning on getting married in the next year-ish (kids soon after) and I was planning on doing the prenup thing to ease any worries SO might have. I don't intend to divorce him ever, but I want him to feel completely safe going into the marriage. Is there no other way?
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 04:29 AM
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Mid 20's here. I usually get surplice and skater dresses under $40 at a standard shopping mall. Cheaper at a thrift store.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 03:08 PM
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Had a family friend marry a woman from Asia. She always seemed sweet and docile and happy. As soon as she got her citizenship, she beat the crap out of her husband so he had to push her off of him. She then cried abuse, filed for divorce, and got half his stuff. Yours may not, but keep in mind it's a possibility. Protect yourself before proceeding.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 11:50 PM
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Side note: whether you go for heels or not, DON'T SLOUCH. I have a friend who's 5'11", gorgeous in every way, except that she slouches out of self consciousness of her height when we're around men. Immediately diminishes her beauty. Stand up with confidence either way and you'll look way better.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 11:27 PM
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<redacted>.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 10:45 PM
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Seconded for Modcloth.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 10:30 PM
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I dress nice even around the house, let him make the decisions, never refuse sex unless horribly ill, cling to his arm, and listen to him even when I'm not interested in the subject. When I bring him things, it's fun to hand them to him with two hands and a little bow-curtsie, which always makes him smile. He catches me ogling him a lot, and I point out what features on him I find attractive (hair, eyes, shoulders, biceps, and the obvious most important part), and how good he smells. Eeee, now I…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 09:54 PM
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You'd be surprised how quickly you can clean up the yoga pants n' tee look with nice shoes, jewelry, makeup, and hair. Even a ponytail can be made sleeker, with a hairtie to match the outfit (seriously, just buy hairties in every color to always match). Makeup can be as simple as some mascara and lipgloss, because it still cleans up the look. In general, I call myself well-dressed when I've paid attention to clothes, accessories, makeup, and hair for a complete coordinated look.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 09:42 PM
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I was about to say that I've got mostly guy friends and few girl friends and haven't had problems, then realized something. These are SO's-friends-turned-mine-too or friends SO and I met together, so he knows and trusts them. I hardly hang out with them without him. I avoid one-one-one time with them like the plague because I DO feel their interest in me despite a lack of direct advances, and don't want to make things awkward for any of us. I keep Facebook chats to the minimum required to convey…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 06:49 AM
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This. If your cooking includes a protein, a staple, and a veggie component, you should just be able to cover half your plate or more in veggies, while he gets more protein etc. That's how I usually roll. Unless it's lamb in red wine sauce. I will not put veggies where I could be putting lamb in red wine sauce. Probably why I only make it once a month. But yes, portion control, and proportions control.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 06:13 AM
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No makeup to bed. Curling should be ok. Compensate with good-looking sleepwear if you want.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 04:13 AM
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Definitely. I'll have it out by Monday.
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/14 05:25 AM
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I often go for devilled eggs. A little time consuming, but not hard if you don't care about them looking all swirly (I just use a spoon). http://www.eggs.ca/recipes/basic-devilled-eggs That's a simple recipe, but if you want you can add shallots, a shot of tabasco, whatever you want.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/14 01:53 AM
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Yup, this. I've just used it to get fashion/makeup/hair tips about what he likes, along with exercise motivation. Now I seldom have a day where he isn't happy with the results. He'll still notice hot women. I notice them too. Then I try to break down the "hot" into its component parts and work on those.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 04:17 PM
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I remember when a similar topic came up, SO said he'd be happy living in a hole in the wall and eating mayonnaise out of a jar if it meant I'd have the energy for sex. So we're quite happy with a relatively tidy house. I don't skimp on the food though. But saving the detailed cleaning for one day a month (and on my period) ensures I'm full of energy. I can only hope to maintain that dedication after I've had children. Any tips?
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 01:35 AM
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It was several months before Mom started settling down when she quit smoking. But after that she went back to her normal self. I guess it varies from person to person. Mom had been a smoker for 30 years before quitting, if that factors into it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 04:30 PM
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If I waited until my drive was optimal on my own, he'd be waiting all week :P. Without being triggered (see: sex and all that precedes it), I can do without it for a while. I figured out a while ago that "just doing it" is way more fun for both of us. I still let him know how I feel, but that doesn't stop me from having sex that same day.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 04:25 PM
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Exactly!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 04:19 PM
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I just do it anyway, unless I'm sick or injured or otherwise not in any shape to do so. I just remember that I enjoy it once we're doing it, and let myself get carried over to the bed. My SO's sex drive is high enough that he needs to get off about every 36 hours in order to keep from getting frustrated, which would be bad since he has to deal with people and problems all day. He could technically take care of that himself, but I say yes as much as I can, because I love seeing him so happy after…
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 04:18 PM
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Plenty of web sources to look into, but the basic nutrients for male sexual function are: Vitamin A Vitamin E Zinc Magnesium Selenium Complete proteins Pretty much all the other nutrients on your standard vitamin/mineral table. Basically, make sure he's eating a balanced diet, supplement with specific foods where necessary (in our case oysters), drink plenty of water, and get plenty of sleep. The simple things do a body good and replenish energy faster. Feel free to look up all the info you need…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 12:58 AM
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I just do it when he wants to, so once or twice a day. I keep tons of smoked oysters stocked to replenish zinc and protein levels, and try to pack him balanced lunches and keep him hydrated.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 04:23 AM
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Correlation. My SO flails and sweats, so we're quite happy sleeping a little apart, and on our backs.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 04:18 AM
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I trust SO's fashion sense, so whatever he likes, I buy, whether short shorts or miniskirts. I'm not bad if I'm only doing it for him. When we're not out together, I err on the conservative side though.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 04:11 AM
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Glad to see that I'm relatively accurate when explaining RP philosophy to friends. I was introduced to TRP within the last 2 months, and from there I settled into RPW comfortably. Long story short, what was already a naturally RP relationship in many aspects has become even better, hotter, and happier thanks to you guys and the ladies at RPW. It's great to see SO step up when I step aside and give him the respect he deserves, and I'm slowly introducing my friends to the theories too. They seem r…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/14 08:32 PM
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I remember this one, and I still disagree with lesson 2 at the end ("leave your phone on"). If he'd left his phone on, not only would she have racked up huge long distance charges (like hell she'd stop texting after he explained where he was), but he wouldn't have been able to see her for what she was.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 05:59 PM
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<redacted>
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 02:54 AM
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I call him Handsome among the public, Sexy within our social circle, and Master when no one's around. He usually just calls me Klai-Butt.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 12:27 AM
1

I've only been here a month. While I'm great at being a doting RPW for my SO, I'm not quite the lady I'd like to be with friends, family, and acquaintances. Maybe when I can be gracious and less controlling to everyone, I'll consider a flair.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 10:43 PM
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I like that. I'll do that.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 08:47 PM
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My SO did that to me. . Finally he told me I was starting to get chubby, and I should deal with it (he works out regularly). I dropped the junk food and started getting up and about more. . I'm glad SO is honest, or I'd probably be continuing to gain, thinking he was ok with it.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 04:14 PM
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Same with mine. He loves the thong/yoga pants combo, so I've made it my around-the-house wear. Sometimes he gets me to wear it out too.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:59 PM
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I'm going with what my SO wants. He has told me that as long as there's effort, he doesn't care about my aging. More specifically, that I still dress hot, care for my hair and skin, and maintain my usually cheerful disposition. White hair or dyed, I'll make sure it's well cut and conditioned. He's asked for stark white instead of grey hair, and I agree. Since the majority of my wrinkle-causing facial expressions happen in the bedroom, he says that seeing my wrinkles form will give him a sense of…
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 09:51 PM
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<redacted>
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 03:54 PM
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Scarves, jewelry, hair things (I've got a thing for little clip-on flowers), purses, sunglasses, whatever you want. Dangly earrings already look more feminine than studs, and you don't need heavy ones. If you don't want to get an accessory in every color, find out what metal color [silver, gold, copper, or pewter(darker grey silver)] looks best on your skin, and buy different necklaces/earrings/bracelets in that metal. I find it looks weird if I mix metals on an outfit, but that's just my prefer…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 10:24 PM
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I use a tie-hanger similar to this one ( http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lsuxqrYfKi1qa2j8co4_1280.jpg ) hung on a nail on the wall next to my clothes. Works best if the necklaces are on the bottom rung and earrings/bracelets are higher up, so there's no overlap. Just take a minute to hang your accessories back up at the end of the day so they don't get scattered everywhere.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 04:07 PM
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Already you're on the right track by dumping stuff he doesn't like. I do that in stages. Less awesome clothes become hairdying/housecleaning/painting shirts until I have enough things to replace them with, then I let them go. It's hard for me to dress badly now, because I've removed the bad (with SO's help, of course). Also, start hitting the stores with accessory deals like 4 for $10, and buy a bunch of everything to start with. There are many non-tacky options there. For shoes, the only times …
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 04:01 PM
1

No need to apologize, it's all good :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 03:08 AM
1

Never said I only played the main storyline in a game. I said higher up that I like a properly filled up map. For games like Fallout 3/NV or various Elder Scrolls, I'm the girl checking every container and corner and talking to every NPC and doing every quest I can, because the game lets me. SO won't watch me play because I take forever to comb over content.:P
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/14 03:17 PM
1

I feel the initial pang too, but it doesn't seem strong enough for me to try a harder level until the second play through, with a few exceptions (because tradition). So I'll either play on easy/medium, or watch my SO play on hard/insanity so I can still watch the story, and be impressed by his eventual victory. It's why I never brag myself a gamer to others, because I'm not hardcore enough to carry the title. Gaming enthusiast, maybe. To bring it back around to the topic, I think it's that diffe…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 06:33 PM
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I wonder if gamer girls enjoy games for the same reasons as men. War, exploration, and pursuit of power in a game is fun. Having every corner of your map explored eliminates the unknown. And nothing beats having an entire world at the mercy of your whims and fireblasts, because it removes the risk and grants you near-impunity. But, strategy, insanity mode, and grinding that lasts longer than a half hour at a time is less fun. I play all the action/adventure/war/fantasy games for fun, but more im…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 04:01 PM
2

Not necessarily bad, but it may make them think they have an opening if you keep looking their way. As soon as I notice that I've been noticed, I do all I can not to look at them again, otherwise I've had one wink at me while I was holding on to my SO. Minimize openings. It will make your SO look better too.
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 03:54 PM
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My SO and I like it when other men notice me, because it speaks well of him for obtaining something that other people want. I love to drape off his arm and make him look good, and when guys notice, I lean in closer and only pay attention to his face and his words. Not allowing my eyes to wander from him kills the idea that I'm the type of girl who can be lured away with a show of machismo from onlookers. On this note, there's an effort to make sure I don't look the part in my outfit. I guess tha…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 04:18 PM
1

We hit the stores together. I toss things his way that I want him to try on, while also picking up more of his staple clothing. He discards 90% of the "try this" clothes, keeps 10% for some variety in his wardrobe, and we go for lunch. At the end of they day, he walks out with exactly what HE wants, and regardless of how good I think something looks, I don't press him into clothes he doesn't care for. THAT would be motherly. <redacted>
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 08:37 PM
2

What kind of bracelet is it? Is it possible to shorten it so that it sits above your wrist bone instead of where it will get in the way? That's where I wear mine. Is it a style that can be deconstructed into a necklace or earrings? Also, the receipt coming with it could indicate that he's cool with you exchanging it.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 08:27 PM
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Oh God I nearly choked on my cereal >_<
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 08:20 PM
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Thirded on Sockdreams.com My SO loves fishnets, thigh highs, and sparing amounts of lace. I let him pick them out for me because he's quite discerning when it comes to my wardrobe.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/14 07:18 AM
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I'll invite them over for tea, gossip, and fresh cookies, or go out to a cafe. Usually pretty chill things. Sooometimes we go shopping, but I prefer to do that alone.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 09:17 PM
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Oh look, it's me! When I was 12... I calmed down a bit after mom actually did try to throw me out of the car, and my SO got rid of any vestiges of that behavior right away. I still have improving to do, but it's nice to look at this video and know that I haven't been her in a loooong time. It just takes someone not feeding that behavior. In this case, dropping her off at the curb.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 05:29 PM
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That sounds amazing. Don't feel guilty. Kids learn the importance of taking care of themselves from their parents. At least, that's what grandma always said.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 05:19 PM
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Agreed. Moral support and pictures. Basically get as involved as you can without getting involved.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 05:02 PM
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<redacted>
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 08:52 PM
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Perhaps you can take care of him in other ways that don't always involve housework? <redacted>.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 05:03 PM
1

These look so much easier than I've thought. So far my SO has tolerated plain straight, ponytail, or pigtails. I'm going to try these styles for him starting tomorrow. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 05:22 AM
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