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| 3 | End Of The Year LetterHappy New Year Phantom :) Like you, I've made new friends here in the past year who have helped me through some very trying times. What I especially like about the ladies here is that they are not just going to tell you what you want to hear but what you NEED to hear; that in my mind is true friendship. I'm so very grateful for this sub and for all the effort you and the other mods put into making this a 'virtual' home for us like-minded women. RPW has indeed instilled hope, joy, love and relief… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/15 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Choking on the red pill: The beginning of my journey (Long FR)Excellent FR! It's not always easy to own up to and actually put forth effort into changing our bad behaviors and habits. Good on you and your now much happier man :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/14 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Advice for SO's cousin?Sorry, I didn't catch that she wasn't fluent in English but the books and movies would certainly help her improve. Maybe get her hooked on the older movies/books like Margaret Mitchell's Gone with the Wind, Jane Austen, Charlotte Brontë, Mark Twain, Lewis Carroll, Charles Dickens and Shakespeare. You should be able to find plenty of movies based on any of these authors' works. 24 of the easiest houseplants you can grow. Growing herbs is fun too, she could then use them in her new cooking skills.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/14 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Advice for SO's cousin?I would get her some good books to read, preferably classics. Drop one off every week or so. Ask her what she thought of them, discuss them with her, this should keep her reading if she thinks it will invite more conversations with you. Any craft but sewing seems to be a big hit with that age group. Take her to thrift shops for material or show her she can transform old clothes into new designs. Teach her to be frugal. Gardening, first one plant from seed in her home and then maybe outdoors if s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/14 09:23 PM |
| 7 | Advice for SO's cousin?Keep her away from Tumblr!!! Make sure she keeps busy with 'real life' projects and away from the internet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/14 08:46 PM |
| 10 | How to communicate a situation of unwanted male attention to my SO, and gracefully avoid it in the future. advice?You should always assume that all men want to have sex with you. That may sound strange but if you keep this in mind whenever you're dealing with men other than your SO, you will less likely make any mistakes that might lead them to think they may have a chance with you. Tell your SO as soon as physically possible when something like that happens; the longer you wait the weirder it will be for the both of you when discussing it. He will wonder why it took so long for you to mention it and that f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/14 07:43 PM |
| 2 | UPDATE: How to "get official"?Ok, that's good. It sounded to me as though you were saying that you wanted to meet up with him in person to give him your relationship terms instead of just telling him it was off. Also this: If you don't feel the same, that's fine, but I'm just putting this out there. was also confusing because it really sounds like you are saying that you'd date him again if ever he were to change his mind. Anyway, glad to see you've gotten yourself out of that potential mess unscathed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/14 07:34 PM |
| 2 | UPDATE: How to "get official"?I'm a bit confused, even after you knew he was driving around drunk you told him you were still interested in him??? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/14 07:12 PM |
| 1 | A big thank you!You had a lot going on there! I bet he really appreciated all the help and effort you put into helping him recover. I appreciate you telling your story, I know it can be hard to admit some of these things but so inspirational to hear that you were able to turn it around. It warms my heart and I believe it spreads hope to others that may not have 'seen the light' yet. you know you're lacking when that's all it takes for him to be impressed Been there LOL Keep up the good work and I hope to see mo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/14 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Holiday season is coming. Here's a recipe for toffee, and other festive sweets.It has a sweetness combined with the sour which just makes it such an interesting, mellow sour. It's difficult to describe I guess. It's not a hard candy and it's not all the way chewy either, a combination of the two. I imagine it would be relatively easy to add food coloring to them as they usually turn out white. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/12/14 02:07 PM |
| 2 | I don't like to be dressed like a girl/i hate wearing sometimes woman clothesSorry if i don't post it in the good subreddit You will hear what you want to hear over at /r/AskFeminists and /r/AskWomen but you'll hear what you need to hear in this sub. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/14 02:00 PM |
| 4 | A big thank you!It's always so wonderful to see that RPW is helping so many relationships get back on track or even save them altogether. I would be very much interested in hearing more about how it helped. I did not help him the way he needed In what ways? RPW has helped me know my place as his supporter and not the leader What changes did you make? Were they difficult? Did it take a long time to see results? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/14 01:29 PM |
| 1 | I don't like to be dressed like a girl/i hate wearing sometimes woman clothesi just want maybe a guy who will accept me for what i am inside and not what i look like outside. That would be nice in theory but you won't get a quality man with this type of thinking. You really didn't read the material in the side bar did you? Do you know anything about RP? The focus here is on attaining and maintaining LTR by making ourselves the best we can be. If you haven't any interest in putting in any effort on your appearance I am willing to bet you're too lazy to work on your person… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/14 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Holiday season is coming. Here's a recipe for toffee, and other festive sweets.This is the recipe I remember using, I haven't made them in awhile, we don't eat sugar anymore but I remember how yummy they are ;) Kids enjoy the mess of buttering their hands and pulling it...and well so do I, lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/12/14 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Holiday season is coming. Here's a recipe for toffee, and other festive sweets.what are your favorite homemade candies Vinegar candy...yum | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/14 05:08 PM |
| 6 | It's Time To Push Back Against Feminist BulliesBut we live in a culture where third-wave feminists engage in “slut walks” to send the message that nobody should be judged by what they wear. And yet if you make cartoons of the very same things these women wear on slut walks and put them on a shirt, that’s “ruining the comet landing”? That doesn’t even make sense. Such a great point. They just don't think before reacting or speaking...foot in mouth much?! ...feminist bullies are damaging civil society. We must stand up to them if we don’t want… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/14 12:11 AM |
| 2 | Do I belong here?You're most welcome :) in the side bar in mentions that this is a place for discussion from an antifeminist/nonfeminist point of view, which is what I am looking for. And you will get it but first you'll have to lurk a little and join in some conversations so that you may get used to not being in a feminist place. The environment here is quite different than any other on reddit, especially those formed by women. I think you'll like it once you get used to it and if you can handle the cold hard t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/14 11:51 PM |
| 4 | Do I belong here?which would be the woman is a servant to the man We use the Captain/First Mate analogy, not servants to our men. I know you're new here and don't know the terminology used here etc so that's why some of us are trying to get you to read the material before you continue posting. You're raising red flags one after another which will only make things worse for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/14 11:36 PM |
| 5 | Do I belong here?Ahh well that's different. You will have to be careful how you approach us here. We are bombarded by trolls daily and you raised all kinds of red flags. I would still advise you to read the material in the sidebar so that you can have a better understanding of what goes on here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/14 11:28 PM |
| 4 | Do I belong here?Perhaps not with this kind of attitude. You give up rather easily. Self improvement isn't something others do for you and this place is exactly that, a self improvement place without people serving you BS to make you feel better about yourself...you have to make you feel better by becoming the best version of yourself that you can. We can help with that but you need to put your big girl panties on and do some work. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/14 11:25 PM |
| 4 | Do I belong here?This Sub Is Not A Sales Pitch There's a ton of material in the sidebar and within the posts that should enlighten you. It really seems as though you're trolling us using words such as misogyny. Heck if you had bothered reading any of the latest posts, you would have to see that all of us here are exceptionally supportive of each other and the farthest thing from misogynists as they come. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/14 11:03 PM |
| 7 | New here, some of my thoughts since taking the Red Pill last year!It's always great to see posts like these IMO, they never get old they just reinforce and inspire me. Well done and keep it up 😊 | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/14 10:53 PM |
| 11 | Do I belong here?i'm starting to identify as a misogynist Nope, just nope, nope, nope. Have you read the sidebar or anything here? We do not identify as misogynists here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/14 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else here hate Sex and the City?I couldn't make it past the intro and to be honest the name of the show alone told me everything I needed to know about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/14 09:08 PM |
| 9 | Women on twitter believe this is not a good list of reasons for a man to dump a woman. Consider a man with standards a joke.I'm all for men having standards but a man that would text/message his gf anything to do with breaking up or any relationship problems isn't very HV in my book, it's quite beta. If it is indeed a real list by a real male it is distasteful for these people to be making fun of it/shaming him for having his own standards but on the other hand there's really nothing RP about any of it that I can see...just more feminist BS. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/14 05:13 PM |
| 5 | Honest Question: Why did you choose this lifestyle?Have you put any effort at all into reading the material in the sidebar or read any of the posts here? Just that little bit of effort on your part should answer most of your questions and after that you could then ask more specific questions if you have them. It's not for us to convince you or explain ourselves to you. And no, we don't think this is the one and only lifestyle for everyone on the planet, that would be unrealistic. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/14 08:38 PM |
| 3 | Reading TRP makes me feel like I will fail at being a RPWI leave TRP feeling as if I will never be a good enough woman for my man, as if I am a ticking time bomb who will be lured away by a richer man with more hair and a giant dick in 10 seconds flat. I think it's good that you feel this way and that you're fully aware of this being a possibility, this way you can put into action a plan for it not to happen. "Is RPW a race you are bound to fail?" You can only fail if you stop trying. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/14 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Hi RPW, long time lurker, first time poster(long), field report about the effects of my behavior changes since finding the RPW.So inspirational! I wish you both the very best. Don't be a stranger here, keep us informed on your progress and come help others get it right ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/14 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Comments from a "Supposed" RPW Member.What is this? Edit: I wonder where else she's been posting as a RPW mod and using that lovely picture too? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/14 09:05 PM |
| 1 | My biggest issue with dating this GuyI didn't have a clue how to read it, I thought it was some new thing I had missed, lol...these kids today, I'm finding it hard to keep up sometimes ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/14 06:15 PM |
| 6 | My biggest issue with dating this GuyNot sure how long you've been reading rpw so assuming you know the basics, do you see him as being a good captain? Be honest and try seeing past all the hormones and tingles you might be having atm...can you see him being a good man to you? have you really spent enough time to even evaluate this properly? these are all things you need to identify sooner than later. I too was thinking how inappropriate he was for bringing up the size of his penis but then again you reciprocated by talking about y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/14 06:12 PM |
| 1 | My biggest issue with dating this GuyGood catch! That really would change things if this is the first time they actually meet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/14 05:15 PM |
| 1 | My biggest issue with dating this GuyHave a wonderful time and try not to get too stressed out over this. Play it cool and be a lady. If you act like a lady the more likely you will be treated as such. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/14 04:52 PM |
| 7 | My biggest issue with dating this GuyIt could be that you're sending him mixed messages by talking about sex, his penis and your period etc You need to enforce your boundaries with your words and body language, what you will and will not do and no cock teasing in between. Don't go anywhere alone with him if you don't want him to think it's a go for sex.(parking, his place, yours etc) Also I'm wondering what his being French has anything to do with him being sexual? Are you maybe being heavily seduced/influenced by this guys' accent… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/14 04:27 PM |
| 5 | My biggest issue with dating this GuyApparently you're being open about the wrong things. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/14 03:59 PM |
| 8 | My biggest issue with dating this GuyFrom what you said he wants at the very least for you to give him oral, to pleasure him while you're on your period. I know that I'm old fashioned and all but my goodness I find you guys have given out quite a bit of personal info in a very short time...his big penis and your period. If you didn't want to be intimate you may have sort of skewed that a little with him by giving him intimate details of yourself. Just sounds like you are letting him know you would have done more with him if it were… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/14 03:45 PM |
| 1 | My biggest issue with dating this GuyOK lol, I see. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/14 03:33 PM |
| 2 | My biggest issue with dating this GuyJokingly he said it’s ___’s week when I’m in my period. Is the blank space here to insert some other woman's name, as in he's spinning plates? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/14 03:28 PM |
| 1 | I think I might have hit the Wall. What can I do?My doc says I shouldn't exercise at all other than basic stretches get a new doctor | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/14 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Woman drops boyfriend because he lives frugally. Later finds out that he's a heir to a fortune based on oil. (X-post from TRP)There's no hamstering around it when a woman has made the decision that she wants a man that will be able to provide for her and their children while she stays at home with the kids and makes sure her husband is well taken care of in return. There has to be some sort of security for that to happen, it doesn't have to be a large fortune but it does have to be something. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/10/14 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Some thoughts on keeping male friends and the role of maternal instinctsI know far too well that if my SO saw me loving (not in love, but the friendship love) another man, supporting him, or providing for another male in any way he would lose all respect for me because to us these are sacred and intimate actions saved for one another Exactly. I see what OP is theorizing and it does make sense but I believe it should be viewed the same way as we would any type of male friendship = none (regardless of the reasons or intents behind it) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/14 05:57 PM |
| 4 | Recommitting to The Path - Staying CLose to my Partnerevery time he was upset, I also became upset I've done this and felt like absolute trash as well. Acute case of solipsism I believe, sometimes hard to break and can resurge it's evil head anytime, especially if not made aware of it. It's so good to see that you have fought it and won :) I'm honestly embarrassed that I had to consciously take the focus off myself and onto him, and that it didn't come naturally at first. Felt like this too but we learn from these experiences and look how happy you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/14 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Recommitting to The Path - Staying CLose to my Partnerbonus points if you don't describe a new makeup technique Lol, love this :) You really hit home with this one. I have 22 years of messing up, hanging my head down mouth shut to regain our partnership. I know, I know after 22+ years you'd think I would have learned but I still mess up and I still get back on that wagon; it's the only way, nothing else is even remotely acceptable. I've been focusing the most on STFU. Shutting the fuck up for me has made a world of difference in my home. I had some… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/14 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Please welcome RPW's new moderator LifterofThings!Sorry to see HappyWifeLife go but LifterofThings sure sounds like a welcomed addition. Congrats LiftereofThings 😊 | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/14 08:33 PM |
| 3 | It finally clicked!You have to go from focusing on "what's in my best interest" to "what's in our best interest." Well said, so happy that things are clicking for you. Isn't it so exciting to have your life make more sense? :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/09/14 11:14 AM |
| 2 | What are your views on conditioning your man?I'm going to assume you did not read my post all the way and reacted to the title. I do not condition my SO, I'm not looking to condition anyone. I was looking for someone to clarify that what I was trying to explain to a woman on another thread wasn't actually conditioning and to get more clarification on the terms and perhaps get a term for what I was explaining to her so that it wouldn't come through as manipulation or conditioning. I would like it if you could explain this further if you may… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/09/14 11:54 AM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?ok, thanks for bearing with me on this, it's appreciated. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 09:21 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?But her moaning louder and enthusiastically would be? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 09:16 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?Ok I understand and agree with what you're saying. The first part of your comment is clear. As for behavioral conditioning, regardless of whether it is positive or negative, good or bad intent, I'm starting to see that it is more or less the same as training someone to do something without their consent. The problem I have (and it might be my hamster or just that I'm too dense for this concept) comes when to me anyway the non-verbal cues are complimentary to the verbal. wife: I like it when you … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 08:34 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?I never said you were wrong, I'm genuinely trying to understand this. I don't get why this is met with such contempt, I'm not a troll, I'm not engaging in or condoning this behavior and when I was telling someone else about it I made sure to tell her I was quite hesitant and my reasons why. I'm simply seeking help/guidance on the matter. What boggles my mind now on top of all this is that I'm told that all the answers here are wrong with probably yours being the exception which means that I'm cl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 07:57 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?I guess I'm having a difficult time wrapping my brain around the differences. I get that we shouldn't be trying to change our partners but what I can't seem to get is how sending positive signals to your partner when you like something he does is bad. How could being more demonstrative of your love towards your partner be a bad thing? When you moan in delight during sex should you also vocalize/communicate everything that you liked as to avoid the possibility of conditioning your SO? Hell RP alw… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 06:23 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?Are you saying then that women engaging in mindful RP changes in their own behavior in the hopes that it will affect their SO positively and thus their relationship are all engaging in conditioning or training of their Sos? She would be changing her own reactions to him (being emphatically more enthused when he dominates the bedroom) in order to send a clear message to him that this is what she likes. This in your opinion is conditioning and her changing him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 05:24 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?Yes I get that. Did you read what I told her to do with her husband? Is that the same? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 04:39 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?I completely agree with you. Would you say that the scenario I gave was an example of this though? This is what I was trying to figure out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 04:04 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?I don't know about all of them being non-rp but this one in particular doesn't seem right, that's why I'm asking for clarification. A lot of the responses seem to go right along with what you answered though. If there are non-rp responses here why wouldn't you point them out specifically (not being snotty in case tone is detected) I was hoping you'd respond to this as it really does cause a bit of confusion. You must be aware that at least for myself and I'm guessing quite a few others in the pa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Mildly depressed about being disgusting after 40I am so much more comfortable in my own skin, it's like the perfect age where if I could, I'd stay that age forever. Ditto, I have so much more self confidence, self control, mastery of my own mind and desires. Things make so much more sense now and I feel and look better than I did in my thirties or at least during the phase when my kids were all young and our lives revolved a lot more around them. Since the kids have grown more self sufficient, we've been able to relax a bit more, have more ti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 12:10 PM |
| 2 | What are your views on conditioning your man?In principle it should be irrelevant but when trying to explain it to someone, wording is important, this is where I had difficulties. I didn't want to give the wrong impression which I nearly did using the word conditioning as it really is a no-no for us RPW. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Mildly depressed about being disgusting after 40Just keep in mind, it didn't just work out on it's own, I've had to make all kinds of sacrifices and do a hell of a lot of soul searching. Life for me is a continuous journey of self discovery, constantly trying to improve myself. Sharing your life with someone means that you must get rid of some of your selfish desires and be more open to selflessness. The latter will bring you more joy than always getting everything you think you want. I know I'm much wiser at 44 than I was ten years ago and w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Mildly depressed about being disgusting after 40I was getting too serious about life for awhile in my late 30s and for awhile I found that I looked and felt old so I adopted a much less serious outlook on life. I laughed more, joked around, played around more and no longer looked or felt old anymore. I swear it was like getting a face lift. I'm not huge on vanity, style etc. I do not wear makeup or anything chemical on my skin or in my body. I don't buy expensive clothes, high heels or accessories, mostly nice fitted jeans and pretty t-shirts… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 11:37 AM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?Just making sure I understand your view, you would still take positive reinforcement as manipulation if the person didn't clearly communicate their needs first, is that right? Communication first, positive reinforcement next; no communication + positive reinforcement = manipulation | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 11:02 AM |
| 2 | What are your views on conditioning your man?We women get so caught up in mind games that responding enthusiastically to something we actually like feels suspicious. I laughed at this but it's scary true!! I feel even more suspicious since having found RPW because I feel I must question myself, my motives, my actions to make certain I'm not slipping up on any front. Being so self aware is both illuminating and scary at the same time! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 02:05 AM |
| 3 | What are your views on conditioning your man?I like this, thank you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 02:01 AM |
| 2 | Mildly depressed about being disgusting after 40I'm 44 and I still turn heads (yes I'm tootin' my own horn, lol) I love life way more now than I ever did and my husband swears I look better now than I did when we first married(wife goggles). I was very skinny, not terribly curvy and TBH an air head compared to now. Now I'm curvy in all the right places and thin(not as firm as I would like to be but I'm always working on that)besides my husband likes it and apparently others do too(hence the head turns). I'm not kidding myself though, I was mo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 01:46 AM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?Thank you for your input :) Would you know of a word or words to describe this other than positive reinforcement or would you simply call it that if you had to give it a name? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 01:10 AM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?I get that my wording was not exactly proper for this sub and I do feel that I owe you ladies an apology of sorts because I can tell that it seemed 'ass backwards' to everything we talk about here but I needed clarification on the matter and didn't have a clue how else to come by it. I was hoping that my explanation would be enough. I sometimes have difficulties saying exactly what I mean, I'm bilingual and mix words around sometimes and don't always get the true meanings right. I feel so much b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 12:30 AM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?Yes, I wouldn't see that as manipulating either. I guess it all depends on intent. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 12:20 AM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?Thank you for your insight :) I think the issue with positive reinforcement in the context that I was using it made me think too that if one were to be told they can do things to elicit a positive reaction from their SO that they might also think it would be ok to give negative reactions to the things they may not completely be on board with or take it too far...does that make any sense? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 12:10 AM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?So perhaps just using the term positive reinforcement then? That's why I felt so reluctant last evening trying to explain it, I couldn't find other words other than conditioning and it really left me feeling uncomfortable because that immediately brings up the images of manipulation and dishonesty as well as changing your man etc etc which I want to make absolutely clear I'm not down with that!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 12:06 AM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?Now, giving him a blowie every time he flosses is a different story lol! HA HA HA!!! what a good example of actual conditioning. I can see the difference clearly but do you know of any actual definition or term we can use other than conditioning to explain this? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/09/14 12:00 AM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?Yes I believe this too, that's why I wanted clarification and I believe the trouble is in using correct terminology for what I was trying to explain. I apologize for using the words conditioning and training, I just really didn't know what other term to use when it is a positive reinforcement kind of thing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/14 11:58 PM |
| 2 | What are your views on conditioning your man?Thank you, this really makes more sense to me. I think I'm somewhat confusing the terms. is there a proper term for what we do as RPW that encompasses what you describe here, "I'd say there's obviously nothing wrong with engaging in mindful RP changes in YOUR OWN behavior in the hopes that it will affect you SO positively and thus your relationship." | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/14 11:55 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?Maybe conditioning isn't the right word? This is what I was wondering the most actually. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/14 11:21 PM |
| 1 | What are your views on conditioning your man?So would it be manipulative for /u/silkenlock to be more self aware of her enthusiasm levels, helping her project them better so that her husband will then feel more at ease in the bedroom? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/14 11:16 PM |
| 2 | As newly RP, I found this article pretty powerful.I agree with everything you say here but in our case things messed up when all during the same time frame my husband became ill, could no longer visit as much with his closest friends which live on a different continent and his 'not so close' friends lost touch as his illness progressed...so I was the only one left. I feel ashamed and deep guilt for feeling less attracted to him at times when he was weak and vulnerable. At first I didn't even recognize what was happening, it was a gradual thing … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/14 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Losing AttractionYou're breaking my heart sweetie. I really do feel for you on this one. You must react quite favorably when he does in fact dominate you, right? ... a marked difference in your behavior as opposed to when he doesn't? ...something he absolutely can't miss? You say that you make love about 3 times a week, how many of those days does he dominate in general? From some of the material I have read on these types of subjects the more you react to him positively when he responds more alpha the more like… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/14 11:49 PM |
| 3 | As newly RP, I found this article pretty powerful.Just a suggestion but maybe you could put this link in your post so that it doesn't get buried or missed amongst the comments :) Great read! "I apologize for having not been able or willing to meet and hold your vulnerability well, for shaming you or kicking the emotional shit out of you when you showed me your heart and told me your own stories of shame and pain." This one's a doozy. Remembering that your alpha has vulnerabilities too and will on occasion need to share these. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/14 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Losing AttractionIt makes me wish he could just take what he wants instead of worrying about offending me or something. You both seem to be caught in a catch-22 scenario. You want him to take control in the bedroom but he knows he can and has caused you pain so he most likely feels he needs cues from you but you get turned off if you feel that you have to give him cues. Have you told him that you would like for him to control/dominate the bedroom or would that just negate the whole thing for you? If he always to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/14 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Losing AttractionWhen he takes command and control, I get turned on and it's no issue from there. Everytime? Are you perhaps feeling that as far as sex is concerned if he shows any weakness/doubt it instantly turns you off? This is not necessarily a bad thing, you might have some unfulfilled desires lurking within yourself. Have you explored any facets of BDSM at all? I'm not saying you should go full on chains and whips etc, but what if you explored the mild aspects of it. Some women are somewhat afraid to disc… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/14 06:10 PM |
| 9 | Losing AttractionNever denying him with the wrong attitude can be just as devastating to him than actually denying him outright. If you just lay there and don't show any enthusiasm he will respond very similarly to you as though you had denied him. This alone could be pushing him into more BB tendencies. Can you perhaps do more sexual things with him that don't always include PIV? Are blow jobs a problem for you as well where he is so well endowed? Hand jobs? Do you actually have a low libido? Will you still mas… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/14 04:05 PM |
| 8 | Is he a creep, or is it you who are lacking boundaries?Thank you, this was a great read. I like reading material that makes you look inwards, making you reflect on things you normally wouldn't think about or that have become such second nature you start believing it's ok to be that way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/14 03:02 PM |
| 8 | The Stigma of Being a Housewife: When it is no longer socially acceptable to be a homemaker has feminism overshot its objective?“That’s the way social norms work: They put pressure on people to conform.” And what they want us to conform to is pure rubbish. I'm so glad that things in my neck of the woods isn't this bad...yet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/14 02:14 PM |
| 4 | If you could go back in time and talk to your younger self, what would you say?Cut and pasted my answer to a similar question from Ladies of RPW, what would you go back and tell your 20-something self if you could? Let's see, the first thing I would tell her is that alcohol is not part of the food pyramid and that no you are not in control of your smoking habit, it controls you. I would much rather go back to my 14 year old self and tell her not to drink and smoke at all, since we're going back in time. I would tell myself to eat correctly, take supplements and exercise re… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/09/14 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Help me RPWI would require a lot of distraction and reminding myself to trust him if it's been almost two days since he was supposed to be back Yup. but I knew what I was getting myself into when I married him ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/14 06:43 PM |
| 1 | When feeling embarrassed by his behavior...God I love this answer, so honest and straightforward! I feel the same way. I think that our embarrassment is to do with our own fears and insecurities which really have nothing to do with what our SOs are doing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/14 05:39 PM |
| 1 | When feeling embarrassed by his behavior...I would say then that you need to rethink your post. The first thing that happened here is that you showed that you are not a good first officer by 'bashing' your captain. Of course a lot of us have been embarrassed by our SOs but we don't air it out for all to see. There's a fine line to all of this and you crossed it. Embarrassment is your problem not his. I have a feeling you haven't read the information in the sidebar because you would have seen When Asking for Advice: Answer These Questions… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/14 05:34 PM |
| 2 | When feeling embarrassed by his behavior...I don't think the trust issues are just going to vanish Are you looking for us to tell you to leave him? Nothing just vanishes, you have to work for the things you want in this life. Do you want this guy in your life forever, the good along with the bad? Only you can decide this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/14 03:37 PM |
| 7 | Young RP woman and needing advice: How to get a first job when dealing with being a RP womanYou really sound like a troll, not sure what you're looking for underneath all this validation seeking information?? I suppose if I were to give this a shot assuming you're not a troll, you should be trying harder to be firm in your resolve to be taken seriously while maintaining a good feminine balance but you placed yourself in this situation, didn't you know before hand what type of situation this was? You must have seen this coming at some point during your education. Didn't you have any men… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/14 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Living with family - how to have a good sex life?That's too bad, maybe you could spend some time learning a bit of Chinese since you plan on living there a few years but that's just an aside, you sort of do have to get over it to some degree but not in the sense that you will still feel unaroused. I know you can't just turn it on when it just isn't there but you'd be amazed at how effective a little mind over matter can be with a little practice. What's the worse that can happen if granny hears you? Try it out and see what happens, I bet it wo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/14 02:43 PM |
| 1 | When feeling embarrassed by his behavior...what if it really is something that could change? like what exactly? You're hamster is on overdrive atm, You can't change him...period. No other thinking allowed after this, there's nothing else to discuss. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/14 02:16 PM |
| 3 | When feeling embarrassed by his behavior...Your whole post is inappropriate for this sub, you're being very disrespectful of your SO and not taking responsibility for your role in this. You are choosing to be with this man so the only thing you can do is to find a man that doesn't embarrass you or get over it. Right now you are an embarrassment to him, whining about his particular ways of doing things. He's well in his right to act in whatever manner he sees fit, you cannot mommy him or get your panties in a bunch when he expresses himse… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/14 01:49 PM |
| 6 | [ALERT] Do not respond to PMs "researching" RPW or asking questions until you fully vet them./u/SoftHarem isn't just "someone" from TRP, I believe he is one of the main people in charge of RPW, see in the moderator box to the right. You shouldn't be dismissing his opinion so fast, he knows his RP material. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/14 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Help me RPWOf course it is reason to be worried but those are his wishes and I will respect them. That incident took place 20 years ago and I have not had to wait 2 days or worry like that ever since but I would still wait the 2 days simply because those were his instructions if something like that would ever happen again. you can't know everything about external factors This is true but if you run your life worrying about all the 'what ifs' all the time and react to them, you will make yourself and your S… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/09/14 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Help me RPWThe first thing you should do is let him know how sorry you are for not trusting in him. Make sure he understands that you are telling him you were wrong for acting that way. Don't let your pride get in the way of apologizing when you know you did something stupid or downright wrong. I did something similar in our first year of marriage. My husband and his buddy went out on a hike in a somewhat dangerous area and when they did not return by the time they said they would I started to panic a litt… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/14 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Living with family - how to have a good sex life?I'm sure she understood the circumstances when she agreed for you to move in. Even grandmothers know that young couples need and want to have sex, she was once young. Are you close with her? Can you talk to her about such things? If she's a 'cool' granny, she might have some of her own suggestions to help you both out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/14 04:57 PM |
| 4 | [RPW 101] Cultivating A Feminine Frame of MindThis should be placed in the sidebar. Looking forward to reading the next installment :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/09/14 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Finding it difficult to meet all my SO's sexual needs?You sound as though you are still both very young, teens perhaps? Your SO sounds quite immature in the description you provided of his reactions. You're not married so make absolutely sure this is the type of captain you actually want. He might straighten out with more time and maturity but if you do not both agree on each others boundaries and what you find acceptable in and out of bed then chances are this will always be a problem in your relationship. If you're not sexually compatible now it … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/14 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Happiness is not a destination, it is a way of life!What you think about you bring about. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/08/14 07:54 PM |
| 7 | Holding your tongueGreat first post, welcome :) What can I say, it 'spoke' for itself ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/14 12:05 AM |
| 2 | The burden of leadershipNow in the spirit of what you were actually looking for, RP women, how do you ease the burden of leadership with your man? Burden implies weakness, my husband can manage everything without me. He is grateful for many things that I do that frees him up to be more effective in the more serious facets of his work. For example I have taken on a similar role as secretary, answering his calls, scheduling his appointments, filing etc he now has much more time to deal with other things during the day th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/14 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Update on my journeyThat's wonderful news Ceoil! It's so great to hear how RP helps bring happiness and success into people's lives. It really does sound like you're on the right track. Welcome back, looking forward to future posts and comments from you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/14 12:17 AM |
| 1 | The burden of leadershipHowever, I posted on RPW stating that you all offer more than this already. I don't mean to sound pedantic but where in your post do you state this? I only see you asking questions followed by the statements that don't say anything to that effect. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/08/14 12:00 AM |
| 2 | The burden of leadershipI didn't really think you intended it to sound that way :) I wanted only to point it out in case others saw it the same way I did and it seems that at least a handful of people did. I've said a bunch of things on this sub that were taken the wrong way because of the way I had misrepresented what I was trying to say, it happens. Obviously some people don't think it sounded derogatory so I suppose it's all quite subjective. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/14 11:39 PM |
| 0 | The burden of leadershipHow many women can honestly give that without a fuss? And if I might add without feeling entitled? We all know that it's more than just opening your legs, cooking and making yourself pretty; each one of these things involves all kinds of complexities and if I might dare say 'skill'. Your average gal might come here and see it as oh hey, all I need to do is keep my legs apart, put something in the microwave and throw out the package when I'm done to be a good RPW. I know that might be an exaggera… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/14 11:12 PM |
| 3 | The burden of leadershipI've actually used your example myself but in this instance it just struck me as something feminists would come here and say. I think it's the use of "just" that strikes me as making it seem so derogatory, making it seam to mean(IMO) that all a woman has to do is lay there when we all know that it's way more than that(and the same goes for cooking & looking good). I'm willing to explore the possibility that I'm perhaps being too sensitive and not taking everything such as the generalizations of … | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/14 10:25 PM |
| 10 | The burden of leadershipWouldn't it only become a burden if the man was being fought all the way and not given any support? Even then it would be his choice to let a woman bring him down to the point where something natural would become a burden. I’m sure most of you have SOs who expect much more from you than just keeping your legs open. You’re expected to bring more value to the table than just cooking, sex and looking good. This is posed in a very derogatory manner IMHO, what a feminist would ask, not a RPW. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/14 01:37 PM |
| 1 | The burden of leadershipDo you find it to be a burden as OP suggests? Do you sometimes wish you didn't have to be the one making all the hard choices etc or is it so natural you don't even think about it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/14 12:37 PM |
| 3 | RPW-in-training, need advice about a friend's unusual situationYou really shouldn't be here go to /r/feminism. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/14 12:08 PM |
| 2 | If a man and woman work the same hours, should the woman still do all the household chores after work?But yet I'm seeing so many comments here on equality and what's fair...~sigh. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/14 11:15 AM |
| 5 | What about our daughters?I have two daughters one just barely an adult and the other nearing adult and yes this is what we want for them. We have prepared them the best we can but I don't necessarily expect them to follow RPW to a 'T' right off. I know they have absorbed and learned most of it through our teachings and from example so it will most likely happen regardless. We most certainly do want them to find their own paths and if not being RPW is what they choose, we will love and cherish them just the same. edit:gr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/08/14 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Interesting DilemmaJust walk away dear, there's nothing to see here...walk away... | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Interesting DilemmaMy god woman! I said I didn't care what illness he has... I'm done here... | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Interesting DilemmaWhat intentions? What needed to be cleared? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Interesting DilemmaNo, I don't care to know what the actual illness is, I just wanted to know what dx was an acronym for. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Interesting DilemmaShe doesn't owe him anything and if she has a new SO she should cut him out of her life entirely regardless out of respectful to her new SO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Interesting DilemmaWhen you say he has recently received a dx, do you mean a diagnosis for a mental illness? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Interesting DilemmaOk, we're not in high school here, he said he loved her when they were engaged to be married and it spooked her? I don't think either one of them is mentally mature enough to be in a LTR. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Interesting DilemmaIs this even a serious post? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Interesting DilemmaTried? if she doesn't do more than try her only other option will be to babysit this guy forever. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Interesting DilemmaBut she willingly was engaged to him at one point, did he change his behavior suddenly? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Interesting DilemmaAre they 12 yrs old? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why No One Is Getting Married Anymore?It is also wrong to criticize others regarding their relationship choice - if I have done so to you, I apologize. You have not caused me any personal grief whatsoever, no worries there :) I'm completely unaffected by what you think of marriage or relationships in general, you blatantly bashed marriages and I called you out on it, that is all. This was a good discussion, I thank you for it and wish you all the best in your relationship as well :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Why No One Is Getting Married Anymore?I personally don't see how not committing to marriage in a time that speaks against it so much would make it speak any less louder than what you've chosen to do. You're totally right, I completely messed up that sentence. I meant it to read, "I personally don't see how not committing to marriage in a time that speaks against it so much would make it speak any less louder than what you've chosen to do. " My apologies for that. I still don't understand how you can't see that by saying "While some … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Why No One Is Getting Married Anymore?While some commit to marriage, we choose to commit to each other. Are you seriously implying that married people are not committing to each other and that we only commit to a piece of paper? "It means more to us?" ?? Like I said, to each their own but how about a little respect and less higher than thou attitude next time. if I can't trust myself, how can I truly trust another person? It must be such a burden living on 'what ifs' and not being able to trust yourself let alone your SO. If I had t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Why No One Is Getting Married Anymore?I personally don't see how not committing to marriage in a time that speaks against it so much would make it speak any less louder than what you've chosen to do. Couples who work hard at their marriage to make it the best environment for their kids or just for themselves for that matter in spite of statistics and whatnot earn a high degree of respect in my eyes but to each their own I guess. I'm just curious to what you will be telling your kids. "mommy and daddy didn't want to get married becau… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Why No One Is Getting Married Anymore?Doesn't that say "commitment" louder? Louder than what? A stable marriage? I don't disagree with your life choice but I wonder how it could speak louder than marriage if that's what you meant here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 12:42 PM |
| 4 | If a man and woman work the same hours, should the woman still do all the household chores after work?Every couple has to decide what will best suit their needs at home but there are things that some of you here don't seem to want to figure into your equation and that is that you place yourselves in danger of losing attraction by not sticking to your basic gender roles. You can get yourselves all riled up about it all you want but the facts won't change. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/08/14 12:32 PM |
| 1 | I'm a RPW but not in the right way? Help?It would seem that you are choosing control over intimacy which in the long run will only make you unhappy. Have you just skimmed through the material over at RPW or have you really put effort into reading all the material offered in their sidebar along with posts that might reflect more your situation? | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 11:35 PM |
| 2 | I'm a RPW but not in the right way? Help?Perhaps instead of 'submission' you can think of it as 'concession'. You allow him to take the lead and you let him know when there is a better course of action. This is an excellent way of viewing this in a different light. The only thing is that you can't just do it when it suits you to have it work. Many women seem to only partially get RPW because of that. They think they can pick and choose when to submit. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/14 11:01 PM |
| 14 | If a man and woman work the same hours, should the woman still do all the household chores after work?Yes, this. This is what I find completely ridiculous when women divvy up the chores. She doesn't include all the men related chores in her list and expects her part to be divided in half, what about his? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/14 10:21 PM |
| 3 | If a man and woman work the same hours, should the woman still do all the household chores after work?dark triad dish maneuvers and some dread laundry lololol :) That's too awesome TempestTcup...I need to write that one down! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/14 09:06 PM |
| 1 | I messed up, y'all.I don't think you have to disclose everything. The woman on here are being a bit alarmist. So you advocate lying to your SO and think we're being alarmist by telling young women that their number can indeed be a deal breaker for a lot of men, at least the high value ones that we're trying to encourage these same women to find? I suppose you would rather these women find themselves married when their number does somehow crop up and completely destroys their lives. Anyone who can't tell their SO a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/14 09:01 PM |
| 3 | If a man and woman work the same hours, should the woman still do all the household chores after work?I was of the opinion that having your man do 'woman' chores such as doing dishes, sweeping, mopping, dusting, vacuuming etc the traditionally feminine chores emasculated him as well as betasized him in the woman's eyes making her tingles tingle no more. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/14 08:17 PM |
| 1 | 7 Things I Got Completely Wrong About Being A 'Good Wife'I'm just curious to why OP posted this article. http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1vto1n/mod_rpw_posting_rules/ Posting Link Threads If you create a new link thread, please be sure to also include a brief description of what you are linking to, how it’s relevant to the RPW sub, your thoughts (whether you agree or disagree), or any specific questions you have. Sometimes link threads are created without any additional context or input, often times the linked material is very interestin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/14 02:07 PM |
| 4 | My S.O. and I have a largely inactive sex life and I don't know what to do to try and fix it.He may be feeling emasculated. It wouldn't be your fault, it would be because the illness is stripping him from his own perception of what being a man is. It could be that each time you initiate or try to make it easier on him that it just drives it home for him that he isn't being 'the man' in the relationship. He could be getting depressed not being able to 'sex you up' so has essentially given up on the whole thing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/08/14 12:54 PM |
| 1 | RPWomen truth: You can hold a full time job & still find time to clean & be productive at home. Hard Work doesn't stop when you leave the office!! [Rant about lazy women]It's hard to say where we don't have much info to go by. She could very well be completely overwhelmed and just shit testing him to high heaven. I've been wondering if she's not trying to have him tell her to quit her job so that she isn't the one to have to bring it up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/14 11:43 PM |
| 12 | RPWomen truth: You can hold a full time job & still find time to clean & be productive at home. Hard Work doesn't stop when you leave the office!! [Rant about lazy women]I get what you're trying to say with your post but the manner in which you have presented it also makes it seem as though you're looking for validation. There's always two sides to a story and we're only hearing his side through you and although it fits the classic lazy wife betasizing her husband you can't really judge that based on one, one-sided conversation you had with someone you rarely see. Your brother's advice seemed to be spot on though so let's hope things work out for your friend and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/08/14 10:38 PM |
| 5 | A difficult announcement to make.I feel as though I know you from all the wonderful things FleetingWish has told us about you. She's in good hands being with you and I know her love and devotion to you will keep her fighting no matter what. FleetingWish, you and I have not seen eye to eye on some things but I really do respect and appreciate your insights. You have said things that have made me rethink my ways and say them in such a manner that are so very powerful. Please know that you are respected and well liked. I will be s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/14 10:19 PM |
| 2 | How to learn to bite my tongue and not be so emotional?whatever esteem he had I most likely squashed with my blunt, tell-you-how-it-is attitude. You may want to begin here, stop doing this and replace it with positive grateful comments. Ask yourself whether it's more important for you to be right, having some trivial thing done, generally having things done on your terms all the time or having a relaxed happy husband. It sounds like you've betaized him pretty bad and saying things like, "I am not the type to sugar coat, or to turn the other cheek" r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/14 09:05 PM |
| 0 | I messed up, y'all.A man doesn't have to ask, women in general (at least in the dinosaur age that I come from), would feel it necessary to share this information just in case it got leaked out by others or as part of being totally open and honest with your SO. It may not have to be the actual number but the basics of whether you were a virgin before him, just a handful of partners or full on promiscuous(sorry I meant to be politically correct and say liberated /s). | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/14 07:13 PM |
| 2 | I messed up, y'all.Well it's good that you've changed your views and quite honestly you should probably distance yourself from those 'friends' who haven't seen the light or you will be seen as being just like them just by association. Don't give up or think it's hopeless, this will just set you up for hamstering your way back to promiscuity, 'because why not it's hopeless I might as well have some fun, right?' - WRONG! You will however have to be brutally honest with your SO right from the start to ensure that it … | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/14 07:02 PM |
| 1 | I messed up, y'all.what can I do to maximize the chance of finding and keeping a good man? Read all the material in the sidebar and apply all the girl game material to your situation. In short, make yourself an outstanding RPW in spite of that number. Participate in discussions here, apply the information and ask specific questions when in doubt. Do you have an SO? How old are you? What has been the initial reaction to your number in the past? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/14 06:32 PM |
| 2 | A Few QuestionsThanks for sharing, that will really make things so much easier. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/14 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Intelligent Women Likely Single - ArticleWell said! and you know, sometimes make his dreams a priority in OUR life This is something that women seem to not get or they want to be center stage and end up not supporting their man. No. Men are not "intimidated" by a woman's smarts. They're turned off by her attitude My thoughts exactly. Those who keep having to prove how smart they are all the time are not that smart IMHO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/14 04:00 PM |
| 3 | A Few QuestionsYou read the material in the sidebar and ignored this altogether? So you truly believe there's nothing you do in your relationship that could be contributing to his behavior towards you? So you cook and clean, how's your sex life...or let me rephrase this, do you honestly believe he's 100% satisfied with the sex you provide him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/14 03:40 PM |
| 8 | A Few QuestionsDid you read all the material in the sidebar? Rule number one, take responsibility for yourself. Edit: It's one thing explaining something to someone who has read the material and doesn't get parts of it but explaining everything to someone too lazy to read the available information is a waste of our time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/14 03:13 PM |
| 1 | New here! My journey to the red pill.Thank you for clarifying that for me. That type of behavior is so alien to my own that I don't ever think of it really. I usually take people at face value until they prove otherwise but I have found time and again that there are more and more people like you describe. I know that I have been a little more wary of people's posts but I treat them as though they mean what they say regardless and ask questions where there might be doubt. Eventually they reveal themselves one way or another. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/14 03:01 PM |
| 1 | New here! My journey to the red pill.Sometimes I read these posts and I feel like it's someone just trying to play the role of the person who came to clarity after a while in a ploy to socially engineer others to actually do it (too). Could you elaborate on this comment, I was actually trying to understand what you meant by it and was not sure exactly what you meant. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/14 02:16 PM |
| 12 | How to learn to bite my tongue and not be so emotional?You need to understand, really internalize that throwing a tantrum is NEVER acceptable as an adult. You will have to replace this behavior with a more positive one, and for you I would highly suggest you start with keeping quiet and calming yourself. Acceptance and giving up control to your SO is needed so that he can lead but you must follow. This doesn't only apply when it's convenient to you, it's something you must do all of the time. Edit: I just wanted to add something that you might want … | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/14 12:34 PM |
| 1 | New here! My journey to the red pill.My guess is that she might have had privacy issues, especially having joined any RP affiliate. It's amazing how badly you can get treated on other subs for just being RP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/07/14 12:22 PM |
| 2 | New here! My journey to the red pill.The same grace and forgiveness I give others, I have to be able to give to myself. Exactly, you already have a pretty darn good understanding of this but like I always remark, it's so much easier said than done. But yeah, don't take things too seriously and take it one day at a time...baby steps. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/14 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Funny, but accurate video about women (X Post TRP)Thanks for sharing, that was quite educational. Enjoyed the tranny bit, lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/14 10:17 PM |
| 7 | New here! My journey to the red pill.It's great that you finally took that step to become a voice in this community, welcome :) Once you get a glimpse of reality, it's difficult to think of anything else as such. You are now going to see RP and BP examples everywhere! It never stops at least it hasn't for me yet. Everything you watch, listen to and experience is now colored Red. Enjoy the learning process, it's quite the ride so buckle up it can get bumpy at times ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/14 10:03 PM |
| 4 | "Settling" - is it really such a bad thing?Really? Who said anything about a perfect man? Why can't you take the time to find someone who meets most of your criteria, not a ridiculous list of criteria but the basics? I'm not talking about dozens of years here, just a few years starting at around 17-18. If you're already 25-26 and you haven't found someone then I would assume your list needs to be refined. I really don't feel at all as though I settled and quite frankly my husband isn't perfect but he certainly met and exceeded my basic c… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/14 09:44 PM |
| 5 | How to be more approachable?That darn bitchy resting face, that one's a hard one to conquer for me anyway. It's my face for goodness sake, lol. We have to learn to smile and not just with our mouth but eyes too. It feels weird at first to smile when there's nothing to smile about and I found it tiring as well but it does get easier after awhile and it elevated my mood; just the act of smiling will release endorphins and serotoninmaking you feel happier. Being frank, pointing idiotic behavior out, critiquing etc are mostly … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/14 11:41 AM |
| 9 | TRP suggested I post this here, "Poem About My Grandmother From My Grandfather"I really love that she inspired her husband to write this out about her, I can just feel the love and respect he feels for her in every line. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/14 11:03 AM |
| 7 | Cautionary Tale to Young Women: Be Logical and 100% SureA man who is firmly against having kids probably won't change his mind overnight. I would add that you shouldn't even think of trying to change the man you're with. If you are thinking about all the things you want to change about him you shouldn't be with him at all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/14 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Homemakers/laundry connoisseurs of RPW: What's your laundry routine like?I actually like doing laundry. I wash everything in cold and pre-wash/soak/hand wash some items that may not be getting washed properly in the washer such as socks, sheets and pillow cases in a solution of dish soap, laundry soap, borax and vinegar. I soak these in very hot water and it restores sheets/pillow cases that were saturated with skin oil/sweat. I find that the washer usually doesn't do the trick even on hot. I have found that you can easily remove blood stains by soaking in very cold … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/07/14 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Bread!I've been cutting my bread horizontally instead of vertically to have larger slices. Even when the bread is really dense I can usually slice it in three having two slices with crust and the middle slice without. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/14 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Bread!We did Keto for several years and the almond substitute had a bit too many carbs for our liking plus it was always too dense or would be too cake-like; same with rice flour. I've only started using coconut flour these past few months and I like how you don't need much flour but the eggs, so many eggs! Have you ever tried making your own almond flour, it's much cheaper and fresh. We used to mill it ourselves so we could control how fine we wanted it. You have to be careful though there's a point … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/14 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Bread!What substitutes do you use? I have to cook gluten free for nearly my entire family. I used to substitute with rice, almond and now I have been experimenting with coconut flour. EDIT: http://www.elanaspantry.com/almond-flour-recipes/ http://www.freecoconutrecipes.com/gluten_free_recipes.htm I tried these and they turned out pretty good. I find that I need to tweak the recipes quite a lot sometimes to get the right texture. They don't always rise and have a bulky texture sometimes. I have found t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/14 01:48 PM |
| 13 | Being a good first mate with regards to encouragement?Give him lots of sex and blow jobs. Feed him home cooked meals and let him relax without any interruptions. Appreciate your man, by the sounds of it he's a fine catch, hard working, innovative to boot. He'll go far if you support, trust and believe in him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/14 01:46 PM |
| 2 | Hi! I'm new!That's great, I bet you had fun watching him build that fence too ;) There's just something about your man building stuff that just seems so right. (not just your man, lol our men in general) It's nice to have you join us and I hope to hear more from you soon :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/14 12:36 PM |
| 7 | "Settling" - is it really such a bad thing?There's really no point to settling in this day and age. It used to be that a woman had to settle to survive because she relied on men to provide for her and couldn't remain a burden to her family, it's not like that anymore. I personally wouldn't encourage RPW to settle simply because she's working hard to improve herself in order to find and keep that man that will give her tingles and keep her on her toes. When I think of women settling I think of those women who rode the carousel and suddenl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/14 12:31 PM |
| 5 | My husband loves the new meYay you :) Loving all these positive field reports lately. It just warms my heart and nourishes the hope inside me that more relationships will be enriched and even saved by RP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/14 12:15 PM |
| 2 | "I don't regret cheating on my boyfriend, it was something I needed to do for me"LMAO!! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/14 08:55 PM |
| 13 | "I don't regret cheating on my boyfriend, it was something I needed to do for me"The hamster is strong in this one ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/14 08:52 PM |
| 2 | How Pinterest Is Killing FeminismYes, I got that :) I was just remarking that the author seemed very fixated on Jezebel so it sounded very much like a commercial, that's all. It was quite interesting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/14 08:41 PM |
| 7 | How Pinterest Is Killing FeminismIt sounded like a commercial for Jezebel. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/14 07:59 PM |
| 1 | I have dad issues, help me before I ruin my husband.Did you marry a guy that would belittle you and scold you all the time? Did you marry your dad?(figuratively of course) We can't tell by what you've said here today so you have to be the judge. I'm guessing your guy isn't actually belittling you or scolding you as much as you may imagine so like everything else you need to put things in proper perspective. Before reacting to a perceived scolding stop yourself and assess the situation first. Listen to your guy, pay attention to what he's trying t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/14 07:30 PM |
| 3 | I have bipolar 2 disorder -- what can I do to not come off as "the crazy girl"?I think you're already way better off than your average woman out there having acknowledged that you want to do everything possible to make the life of your SO better knowing you have a mental illness. I also would strongly suggest that you do tell the person you're dating before too much time and effort has been invested, maybe not the first date but soon after. Don't make it a bigger deal than it needs to be, just be honest. Make it a daily routine to keep yourself in check, perhaps making a l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/14 07:26 PM |
| 3 | The Difference an Office Chair and a Good Meal MakesThat's so great! I enjoy hearing these types of anecdotes. Your innovations are inspiring :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/14 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Raising homemakersThank you for answering, that type of lifestyle is quite alien to mine so it made me wonder how that worked out. So am I safe to assume you don't want to continue that family tradition and will be cooking for now on? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/14 08:06 PM |
| 5 | What do you do when you and your SO get into a fight?An argument is what happens when being right is more important than listening. Perfect! Thank you for wording it so well. ♀ | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/14 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Raising homemakersI found your comment and thought you must be trying to be funny or sarcastic but no it would seem that you're incapable of reasoning out that it is possible to learn basic homemaking skills and still learn other skills as well. We prepare our girls for everything and anything that might come their way, how is that limiting them? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/14 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Raising homemakersWho said anything about teaching only homemaking skills? I mostly taught them by doing it myself(by example) and then having them help and eventually take some of the chores over until they were off on their own. Do you honestly think that teaching these skills take all of our time? There were a ton of other things that we did with them and taught them, the questions were about homemaking skills not all the other skills they might have learned apart from those. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/14 02:49 PM |
| 3 | Raising homemakersThe question was, "How are you ladies 'raising homemakers'?". They learn math in school or like my daughters, were taught at home. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/07/14 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Raising homemakersI'm just really curious, if your mom never learned to cook who cooked or were all your meals take out or restaurant food? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/14 11:07 PM |
| 6 | Raising homemakersI'm a proud SAHM and a somewhat self taught one. My mom worked and didn't have time to show me much and she died before my second child was born. My mother-in-law shared some of her recipes and a few tips and tricks on cooking but mostly I learned by reading and experimenting(a lot of what I learned was pre-internet - thank god for the internet now!) I've taught my daughters how to draw, paint, sew, knit, cook, clean, pickle, preserve, bake, make their own products such as soap, shampoo and dete… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/14 10:36 PM |
| 1 | I have a couple of close guy friends...is this okay?Why is it so difficult for you to believe that he would want to have sex with every single one of his female acquaintances? Why is it so important to you that he not want to have sex with all of them? You're missing the point though, we weren't talking about dating, we were talking about sex, also we were talking about taken women hanging out with men, and women who are in the market for a LTR hanging out with men. As RPW we do not advocate that these women keep male friends or a male entourage.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/14 09:56 PM |
| 4 | I have a problem with keeping my reactive emotions in check, is this something I can learn?I must have missed the post about crying. I'm curious now to what everyone said about it because I was under the impression that we should cry when we feel like crying not as a weapon of course but that crying shows our vulnerability and men appreciate that. I was always so hard-ass about crying too, I would do just about anything not to cry but I then started being perimenopausal and had absolutely zero control over my crying fits, it actually brought my husband and I closer. Suppressing your d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/14 09:14 PM |
| 1 | I have a couple of close guy friends...is this okay?You've never lied to your brother about anything that might be embarrassing? He has most likely fantasized about having sex with all his female friends; that he hasn't acted on it yet doesn't make it so he doesn't want to, it just means he is too afraid or hasn't had the ideal opportunity come up yet. This doesn't mean your brother is a worse guy for wanting to have sex with his gal pals, it makes him a virile normal male; that's a good thing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/14 08:38 PM |
| 6 | Why do women talk about exes, FWB's?I can't tell you what your girlfriend's motives are or any other woman's for that matter but I can tell you that once I realized that he(my husband) was the one, I felt compelled to tell him all my secrets to make sure he was ok with the entire package not just what he could see but what was hidden inside as well. I never talked about any of it after I had 'confessed my sins' unless he brought it up, that's just plain disrespectful IMO. It kind of sounds like your girlfriend is following the mas… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/14 04:24 PM |
| 1 | "Following the rules" and maintaining good relationshipsPeople always look at me funny when I tell them I would have to discuss such and such matter with my husband first. It's annoying but I don't much care what people think in general. I have learned not to give out too much information when speaking with people in regards to our lifestyle; for example I would have just given the time that the person needed to show up at our house for the hair cut and not offer any further explanation. This took me quite a bit of practice because I'm one of those t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/14 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on Cleaning ServiceIf it's cost effective and he agrees to it I would say go for it but I would make sure they come when he's not around so that he only sees you doing domestic things in the home, that way you can still give the illusion that it's all coming from you.(just clarifying here, this is not me saying you should trick him, he knows you have people coming over to clean) A lot of men seem turned on by their woman doing domestic things so get that cute apron and do what you can do in his presence too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/14 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How much effort into appearance is going too far?I definitely think it does wonders and shows that you care enough to put some effort in. I research everything I eat, everything I put on my skin, all the potential dangers from cleaning agents, shampoos, deodorants, soaps etc I always try to find products or make my own products to minimize any ill effects they might have on us. I do this not only for myself but for the whole family, I've been doing this for many years...I'm quite sure he sees the effort and reaps the benefits too ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/14 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Asking for help without becoming naggy or bossy?I was just hoping that a married man with kids can take care of basic household and child maintenance if needed to, but judging from some of the comments I guess you're right, I really shouldn't assume they all can. From what I understand some of this new generation of young adults can't even boil water so yeah... I also totally agree with how we should frame our questions or our requests. That is indeed a very important thing to be aware of. I was going to add to my comment that men are wired t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/07/14 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Women & The Death of FemininityThank you for your insight, it's very interesting. The article was quite interesting as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/14 09:01 PM |
| 1 | How much effort into appearance is going too far?Just pointing out the possibility that these products are not safe, the rest is up to you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/14 08:15 PM |
| 2 | How much effort into appearance is going too far?No need to apologize, I understand that some people just refuse to even entertain the notion that something may be harmful to their health, it's no skin off my nose. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/14 07:41 PM |
| 1 | How much effort into appearance is going too far?Danger that hides in make-up Danger of Toxic Chemical in Cosmetics? Are Your Cosmetics Making You Sick? Is Your Make-up Killing You? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/14 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Women & The Death of FemininitySo was there any point in your life where you thought you might be gay because of this? You mention others thought it but did you? Do you think this could be a reason connected to this gender identity crisis we're currently seeing an increase of in these past couple decades? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/14 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Women & The Death of FemininityThat was a very good read, I enjoy his style of writing and hadn't checked there in awhile, thanks for sharing. ...more battle-scarred and experienced man becomes more masculine... I agree with this except for the battle scars made by them being betaised. These seem to only feminize them not make them more masculine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/14 02:55 PM |
| 1 | How much effort into appearance is going too far?I share your opinion on this matter. Less is better and healthier. I haven't worn makeup since I was a teenager and my skin is still beautiful at 44. The most important part is that my husband loves my natural looks and would be upset if I caked on makeup. That works for us, I realize that this isn't the most popular opinion here though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/14 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Deadbedroom is fixed when wife totally submits herself to her husbandbecause if just one woman can be introspective and truly consider their role in their relationship, and would work on her relationship, just one more marriage saved would be a triumph. This is exactly how I feel. This is why I stay on reddit and post on /r/RedPillWomen and /r/RedPill_Couples. When I had my awakening it really shook my entire foundation so once I recovered and lived the RP life for awhile all I wanted was to help wake others up. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 01:43 PM |
| 5 | Deadbedroom is fixed when wife totally submits herself to her husbandYou didn't give it enough time. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/07/14 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Deadbedroom fixed by wife totally submitting to husbandI have to say you are my new hero...I could not stop thinking about your story as it struck so close to home for me. Our situation was similar to yours, not as drastic but on it's way there. That you came to this conclusion on your own both inspires and embarrasses me at the same time; I needed my husband to send me a link to RPW to open my eyes, but the important thing is that I did get to see it not how I got there. I saw this post just before going to bed last night and had so many questions … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/14 12:35 PM |
| 6 | Deadbedroom fixed by wife totally submitting to husbandWow what a great RP find, thanks for sharing. I really must watch Gone with the Wind again. I do wonder if she had been exposed to any RP material prior to her realization that night? What an awesome breakthrough to have after so much heartache! I think I will be re-reading this one over a few more times. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/14 12:50 AM |
| 15 | I have a couple of close guy friends...is this okay?You've just proven our point, thank you. Do you think my friend Meg should drop us as friends in order to please her BF? Yes. Especially where she has slept with most of them. You do not keep exes around for any reason!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what do men actually want in a woman worth giving commitment to?This strikes me as such a strange question...how the heck would I know what men want in a woman worth giving commitment to? All I know is what I have heard and what my husband tells me if that's what you're looking for but shouldn't you be asking other men this question? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Dealing With Hubby's Lack of LibidoThere is no right or wrong answer here, I just wanted you to place yourself in his shoes to see if you would gain a new perspective on things at all. I do hope you figure this out for both your benefit. I haven't read through the newer comments in the past hour so I don't know if anyone already suggested this but how about spicing things up with something you've never tried before? I don't know what you haven't done before obviously but things like lap dancing, belly dancing, stripping, costumes… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Dealing With Hubby's Lack of LibidoThat's good. What do you think if you were to place yourself in his shoes right now would he say if he read your post and the comments here today? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 04:59 PM |
| 8 | I have a couple of close guy friends...is this okay?It's biology 101, men and women cannot just be friends. The men claiming they are only your friend are lying; they have fucked you six ways from Sunday in their fantasies and are waiting for the opportunity to present itself IRL. It's not the men's fault, it's just how it is and telling women otherwise, especially young naive women is irresponsible at best. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 04:55 PM |
| 16 | Husband makes a spreadsheet of his sex life (or lack thereof) with his wife.It was somewhat genius of him to wait until she had no way of seeing or communicating with him for 10 days, dread game well played. Desperate times equals desperate measures. She demonstrated quite clearly that he was no longer a priority in her life not just for these 7 weeks but for much longer; something had to have triggered him to start this spreadsheet. I just hope he will keep it up and not stand down when she returns. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 04:43 PM |
| 12 | Asking for help without becoming naggy or bossy?If he has been made aware of the situation and all of what it entails then he should naturally do what needs to be done from then on you pretty much have to sit back and accept the circumstances. Nagging is a no-no and you have to be absolutely prepared to have the things you used to do done completely different and at times you would not have done them yourself. The goal is for you to rest, get better and things get done...not done the way you want them done, just done. Say thank you and be as … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 03:31 PM |
| 5 | I have a couple of close guy friends...is this okay?As long as they don't want to sleep with you They do = problem | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 02:55 PM |
| 4 | Would you all be interested in making a card for this little boy's 6th birthday?This is nice and all but I don't see it's relevance to anything RP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 02:50 PM |
| 2 | How to Create a Cleaning Schedule That Works for YouThis was quite good, thank you for sharing :) I've found that life has a way of messing up my lists and plans on occasion making some things pile up and sometimes making me feel overwhelmed so I've learned over the years not to take my lists too seriously as to not cause myself too much anguish if I couldn't follow it perfectly everyday. As women we sometimes tend to set unrealistic goals for ourselves and get easily overwhelmed and depressed when things don't work out as we imagined so I just w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 12:25 PM |
| 10 | I have a couple of close guy friends...is this okay?They have never made any sexual advance towards me yet... I'm old school in the belief that you cannot keep male friends once you have obtained a mate. A man does not just hang around a woman unless he thinks there might be a chance to hook up with her. It is not advised to go out with male friends without your SO. You could probably safely keep your male friends if they had their own SOs and you made sure to socialize as a group, anything else would be considered disrespectful to your SO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Dealing With Hubby's Lack of Libidook, that clears that up ;) I don't know about anyone else but I get mental images of people on the internet and from your description I didn't know what to imagine! lol So does he tell you still that you turn him on? Has he any complaints? | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Dealing With Hubby's Lack of LibidoDryer: Strange that he would ask you to do something that you physically can't or shouldn't do. Have you mentioned this part to him? He might not realize the complexity of what he asked of you and only sees that you are not doing it. Diet: This obviously strikes a chord for you, no doubt in my mind. I can almost hear the hissing as you describe it. This incident seems to have left you somewhat resentful but I'm just going by the little bit you've said about it so I know full well there's more to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Dealing With Hubby's Lack of LibidoI was just wondering after reading /u/Bakerofpie and /u/lady-lilith's comments if your SMV is higher than his, making him perhaps embarrassed? Is he overweight? more so than you are? Was that something that changed recently? You did say you lost weight and just because he's hitting the gym doesn't mean he is already fit like we sometimes imagine when guys say they go to the gym we might imagine an already buff man. Andropause is real and could be affecting him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/14 12:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Apologizing - I left him behind...I'm a bit late to the party but I just had to say congrats! I love reading RP success stories and yours is so heart warming. You write very well too, I could visualize everything as I read your story. Awesome application of RPW strategy and I really like (WWRPWD), that's a good little mantra to have. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/14 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Dealing With Hubby's Lack of LibidoIf he's not in the habit of asking you to do things such as fixing the dryer lint pipe or asking to help you with your exercise regimen then I would say that you most likely hurt his feelings and pissed him off. Dryer lint pipe: You see it as not a big deal because you're using the clothesline but he might see it as you openly not doing something he asked just to have him do it later. Everytime he sees clothes on the line he might be thinking that he has to make time to fix that dryer pipe when … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/14 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Dealing With Hubby's Lack of LibidoI think you already know what to expect from this sub if you've done your homework. If there isn't something medically wrong with your husband we will now have to find out what you are doing to lower his libido. You're working on your weight- check Are you working as hard as you can on your personality and attitude? Are you making sure he knows how grateful you are about all the things he does for you? Do you make him feel like a man at all times or are you doing manly things in his stead? Is th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/14 08:24 PM |
| 0 | Male asking gift advice.Its hard to recover from years of beta bitchdom with the same girl. Yes I know that all too well from over 20 years of our marriage hanging in the balance. Keep redpilling on ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/14 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Dealing With Hubby's Lack of LibidoThis article springs to mind. 8 Ways Society is Feminizing the Human Male Has he had his testosterone levels checked? This wouldn't be in a routine check up, you usually have to ask for it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/14 08:01 PM |
| -2 | Male asking gift advice.That's sort of what I was thinking when I told him to keep it to a minimum. Depending on how he goes about it she might think he has gone beta. Is that why you're warning him? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/14 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Male asking gift advice.That's so sweet! Not knowing more about her makes it kind of difficult figuring out what she would like. One woman might gush over a diamond ring while another would gush over a tiny flower picked off the side of the lawn and placed gently in her hair (my husband did that the other day, that's what I prefer) I would have to say that it should be something that you wouldn't normally do, a complete surprise to take her off guard; those moments always stick. It also occured to me that you probably … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/14 07:37 PM |
| 10 | Male asking gift advice.You could buy her the dress and have a card in the box saying she's to put it on because you're taking her out to a surprise dinner/theater/whatever might require her to wear a dress. I too am like your wife. If my husband bought me a dress it probably would just collect dust but if he bought a dress and had a plan for me to wear it somewhere that would definitely do the trick. Dresses aside though, any gift that would reflect her interests/hobbies would be good. If you're handy, something you b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/14 06:44 PM |
| 9 | Would you encourage lying to a potential SO about sexual history?Don't start a relationship based on lies. Lies will eat away at you and will come bite you in the ass later. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/14 02:22 PM |
| 5 | How to be lovely'Lovely' article ;) The art of elegance and loveliness seem to have been lost on the last few generations, the attitude and instruction in this article would most definitely help any woman acquire and/or keep a mate done properly. Thank you for pointing out this website. I personally am trying to keep good posture, there's quite a bit on that, yay :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Rpw way of dealing with your partner openly oggling other women?I have a question for you OP, is he looking at these women in a very inappropriate way in your opinion, and if so how? Using "ogling" implies he is being blatantly obvious so I just wonder if others around you would also notice him or is it just you because you know him so well? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Rpw way of dealing with your partner openly oggling other women?This is exactly what I do with my husband, we've been playing that game for 20+ years. Whenever we go out I will squeeze his hand and point in the direction of the beautiful woman with the same hand that's holding his hand as to not be too obvious. If we can actually talk without being overheard we will discuss what it is that we found sexy/hot/beautiful etc. It really has helped me learn my husband's likes and dislikes. As it has been said already, he chose me and sleeps with me every night so … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 11:28 PM |
| 8 | I just wanted to tell you how happy I am to have found you all :)If their reaction to your lifestyle/life choices becomes a poison to you or your relationships the best thing to do is to limit your exposure or get rid of them. Anything that threatens the happiness I have with my family is eliminated; my family is my #1 priority and if extended family and friends can't or won't accept it they were not going to be there for me anyway. You don't get to choose the type of life your friends or family lead right? You don't get a say in their decisions and neither s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Keeping hypergamy in check - Men's or women's job?Both, once you become aware of it you should work on not letting it ruin your relationship. On the other hand where it seems to be more of a woman-thing(men do it too but on a lesser scale) it does fall to the man to not let it happen, especially where most women are simply not aware(or refuse to believe) of it being a thing. There are always ups and downs in a LTR so being aware of your own hypergamy can be useful if your SO falls short or somehow reduces his value in your eyes, knowing that yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 05:22 PM |
| 3 | "Self-fulfilling negative prophecies" or "Dumb bitch or mean bitch: Pick one"Well said. I've thought this very thing myself so many times overhearing women in stores or events publicly bashing their SO. My first thought is always, "you dumb bitch, and you poor bastard for marrying her". I have not seen or heard men act like that, have you? Surely there must be some men who will talk to their wives like that in public but in my experience it's always been a woman doing it. Could it be that men would be more concerned of other men kicking their ass if they did that in publ… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 04:44 PM |
| 1 | I need to frequent this sub more often and to take a more active role in applying values. Is there any proactive way to challenge myself daily?Ah yes, that is a hard thing to forget ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 04:33 PM |
| 2 | I need to frequent this sub more often and to take a more active role in applying values. Is there any proactive way to challenge myself daily?I would suggest you write down that this is a behavior you indulge in even though you recognize it now, you may not recognize it next week. Write down the events that led you to recognize it and it will make it easier for you to see it if it resurfaces again. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 04:27 PM |
| 2 | I need to frequent this sub more often and to take a more active role in applying values. Is there any proactive way to challenge myself daily?I have found that keeping notes on things that I need to improve personality wise really helps. I keep these in point form in the front of my journal and read through them first thing in the morning and just before bed. This way I have all the things I want to improve fresh in my mind during the day and I can have my mind work on ways to improve these things when I sleep - it works for me :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 04:22 PM |
| 2 | I need to frequent this sub more often and to take a more active role in applying values. Is there any proactive way to challenge myself daily?I love making lists for myself and I make them pretty too; it's just nice to have the things you work on look good. As everything in your life, putting that little bit of extra into it always makes it a little more appreciated even if it's just you doing the appreciating ☯ | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 04:16 PM |
| 7 | Strange request for my fellow RPW -- How to distance myself from feminism and its offshoots?I thought that I could ignore or shut out feminism from my life but quickly found out that it can't be done. It will find it's way into your life one way or another so I have found that the only way to live with it is to educate myself the best way I can with all the new laws they are changing or enforcing, where they are infiltrating themselves etc. Where I have seen it cause the most damage isn't to me directly but to my husband and sons. I see it more and more where feminism is making it so d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 04:10 PM |
| 7 | I need to frequent this sub more often and to take a more active role in applying values. Is there any proactive way to challenge myself daily?don't get too wrapped up in trying to be a Perfect Super-Woman! This right here causes women to become depressed and overwhelmed. I went through this a few times actually, it was worse when our children were little. You get a mental image of what the perfect wife/mother/gf should be and when you don't fulfill all of these requirements that you've set up all on your own, you can become completely dissatisfied with yourself and even your relationship, when it has nothing to do with what your partn… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 04:01 PM |
| 3 | I need to frequent this sub more often and to take a more active role in applying values. Is there any proactive way to challenge myself daily?It would seem that you are heading in the right direction by 'coming out' like you just did. This makes your mission more real to you and will most likely give you a better sense of belonging in this community which in turn should give you even more incentive to keep hacking at your self improvement. Just sit down and reflect on all the things you would like to improve both on yourself and your relationship skills. Mark them down, identify the ones you think need attention right now, pick one of… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/14 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Habits of Happy CouplesThat was my thought exactly! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/14 01:56 AM |
| 1 | RPW getting ready for the weekend... 6/27Another fellow Canadian here, we don't do much for Canada Day personally but people do tend to go a bit shop crazy but it's mostly BBQ supplies and liquor. We've been having great weather this summer so far so no complaints here. (knocks on wood) | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/14 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Which way do you cook?After 20+ years of cooking for a family of 7 I'm a throw it together kinda cook. I measure by eye and only skim through recipes using what I want in the amounts I think they should be. When I first started out though I followed recipes to the letter and made all kinds of disasters as well as happy accidents. Practice does make perfect, or at least edible anyway ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/14 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Red pill women books?I've recently read "Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood" by Nancy Campbell. It had some pretty good RP material and was an easy, quick read. Athol Kay's "The Married Man Sex Life Primer 2011" is very good even if you're not having any difficulties, it's well written and a great window into men's thoughts etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/14 11:27 PM |
| 3 | For Women that don't feel that they are naturally attractive or feel uglyCreate attractiveness. You've got it bang on with those 2 words. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/14 11:14 PM |
| 3 | I guess I belong hereI read your post and would like to add that you should never say things like what you said here, "Wow, bitter much? "; it be on TRP or here, shaming and the likes are very much frowned upon. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/14 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?~hugs~ <3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/14 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?I know what you mean. For me it's not so much defending RPW but I can't seem to keep my mouth shut when someone's being obviously ridiculous or completely wrong. I've been pretty harsh at times, some of them thanked me others freaked out, hell a few times I went overboard and had to apologize. Being a RPW is a learning experience that never ends, some get it a lot don't. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?Whoa, how did we get to compromising values to chase after money? Just so we're clear, I don't do that nor do I subscribe to the profit before people notion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Want to be a RPW but need help with my attitude. Originally posted in Ask TRP but told to post here :)Just out of curiosity, is your job paying for daycare? or is your son at home with his dad mostly. I ask because it would just make so much more sense to stay home with your son if your job income isn't necessary. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 04:53 PM |
| 2 | What should a wife do if your husband expresses the desire to seduce other women?Birth control and STDs. You'll be in a constant state of worry which will lower your value in his eyes quickly. Please don't bring children into such a mess, it won't make him settle down and it will screw up the children. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?Not everyone has that luxury though. It's a highly competitive field especially where most of it is web based, I'm competing with the world... there's always someone somewhere better than you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 04:09 PM |
| 6 | An Open Letter to Young WomenI wouldn't marry those women. I believe you've hit the nail on the head. All the young ladies here really need to internalize this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?As in start a new account and delete this one? I've thought about it and it would really suck to have to do it that way. If I disappear though, you'll know why :( | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?My business is mostly web based so I'm not concerned about losing real life clients although it could still happen, it's the ones that will take the time to reverse search my work to make sure I'm legit that concern me. It blew me away that someone did it to me in an innocent little craft thread! wtf? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?hiding it feels like being ashamed of it, and I really can't grasp that concept. I'm in no way ashamed of being a RPW, I don't know how anyone would deduce this from my comment, my apologies if that's how it sounds; it doesn't change the fact that a large portion of my clientele would most likely find someone else purely based on my beliefs, just like they would if I were a Nazi sympathizer or a member of the KKK. I'm seeing a lot of ignorant assholes who can't and won't make informed decisions … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?And this is why I panicked. Thank you Phantom :) I don't think I've been the target of anyone's interest since having joined reddit, stalker-wise but I have pissed off a few people here on RPW. I've had a few disturbing PMs from BPers when one of the subs I mod was discovered by them so it really doesn't make me too comfortable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?I thought so too, but the panic I felt was a bit over the top, I'm a bit of a drama queen at times - still working on that ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 02:14 AM |
| 3 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?My family and friends already know I'm weird lol, same here. I think in general my family would most likely shrug and say, yup that's her alright. I'm not terribly close to anyone other than my immediate family anyway. But like you I would hate to have it take away my income. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?Yeah, I was a bit freaked especially when I reread the Surf Safely thread, just how easy it is for some hackers to get enough information from what you say online to find you. With me, it wouldn't have been my personal email, instead the one created especially for my art but still, having to dump it because of BP haters or just reddit weirdos in general would have been a real pain in the patootie! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?i think youre worrying too much That's what I do! I'm working on it though :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?I know, I had to delete the other painting I posted too. I wanted to be able to participate in that thread but with TinEye and those types of programs, I can't post any work that has already been posted on my other sites. As long as there was a copy of my work on another website some of those programs will detect it. I just never thought someone here would care let alone do something like that. It wasn't as though I was posting in a contest or anything!lol There might be another way for me to co… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 01:01 AM |
| 6 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?We need to organize yearly RPW parades /s Maybe we could all march dressed up in those gorgeous 50's dresses and wave gracefully to all the ugly biatches lining the roads to hate us. That's the thing with rpw, we don't need the acknowledgment and we just do what we do in silence. It's truly amazing to be so ostracized for something so normal. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 12:27 AM |
| 6 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?fuck everyone else in the ass. anyone that doesnt like my relationship can eat a bowl of dicks and die I thought this way too until it became a possibility that my job could be affected by it. Mind you my job isn't necessary and neither is my passion for art when it comes right down to it but it would certainly be easier if I didn't have to have any worries about it, you know? How do you think your position as a realtor would be affected if your clients saw the things you post? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/14 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?I also do commercial art so it might impact my clients there too if I went too crazy with my fine art. My girls do a lot of LGBT writing too. It must be a thing for your generation?? They incorporate the feminine/masculine pretty heavy in theirs, I don't think I could read it otherwise, lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/14 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?I've honestly considered turning the focus of my art towards RP based themes just so I don't have to hide. The controversy of it might make me famous, lol!! Just kidding, I'm not that good. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/14 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?I have dealt with getting rid of friends who refused to let it go a long time ago but this incident brought to my attention that my potential customers could be affected if they somehow decided to "investigate" my work and have it linked back to everything I have said here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/14 11:18 PM |
| 2 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?not just a bunch of he-man-woman-haters from the Little Rascals! too funny! That's what it feels like, we're in hiding, and for what? I've felt this way far too long TBH. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/14 11:10 PM |
| 5 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?I know that most if not all of my extended family and friends would not understand this at all. I'm not sure how they would treat me but I'm guessing they would probably try to shame my husband and make me some kind of victim. at least I can respect myself and the decisions I make If nothing else we always have that on our side and we get to have great relationships with our SO :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/14 11:06 PM |
| 3 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?When it first happened I figured I had to make a choice between my art and RPW. Art has been a passion of mine since I was a wee lass but RPW has saved my marriage so it was a no brainer to shut down the art sites. I had to rethink and redo my art site anyway and the thought of leaving RPW was disconcerting to say the least! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/14 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Are you ever concerned that someone in real life will discover you're a RPW? for example at work or your peers?I am far more candid here than I would be with anyone besides close friends, and the relative anonymity makes me more comfortable in doing so. This is exactly what I feel. If that gets compromised I feel that I wouldn't be able to participate and just go back to lurking. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/14 10:41 PM |
| 11 | Want to be a RPW but need help with my attitude. Originally posted in Ask TRP but told to post here :)Why not discuss you giving up your job to be 100% homemaker? It sort of sounds like that's what you'd like the most and then you would have all the time you need to clean and be with your SO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/14 05:39 PM |
| 1 | 9 Vintage Beauty Video Tutorials; I thought you ladies would enjoy this!I'm so glad you added this link again, I lost mine from the last time you posted it. I really enjoy these, and she's really pleasant to learn from. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/14 04:14 PM |
| 2 | What should be your highest priority in life?From just reading the title my very first reaction was to say my husband. I can always work on myself while placing my husband first, children second and house etc third. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/14 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Very similar to the way I prepare it but without the chilli, that sounds like a nice addition. Now I'm really hungry ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/14 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Men love varietyMay I ask how long it took for your hair to grow from pixie to shoulder length? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/14 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Is that haddock? What method did you use to prepare it? It looks really good :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/14 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Beautiful!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/14 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!The eyelashes on those big beautiful eyes, so adorable! Nice work on the bib :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/14 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Beautiful loaves. I bet they were tasty! Your knitting is coming along quite nicely too :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/14 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Oh my, that looks delicious. Your description was just the icing on the cake ;) I love French Onion Soup! Did you have the bread and cheese on top? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/04/14 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Need tips on how to stay motivated!Ah, yes, words of affirmation are nice to hear but for the most part unless you have a friend IRL who is doing the same thing you are it will be difficult to accomplish other than the virtual affirmations you will get here. Like Dana mentioned, when you feel you've done something that you're very proud about write us a field report, most all of us ladies here love field reports; they're inspirational and helpful. And as I mentioned already, if you're not comfortable writing a field report go on … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/14 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Need tips on how to stay motivated!Do you have a SO? My biggest source of motivation is coming here and reading RP books such as Athol Kay's books, Laura Doyl's The Surrendered Wife and a few others that are not all the way RP but do have some RP content such as Nancy Campbell's Secret of Fascinating Womanhood. I frequent the RP websites/blogs that are mentioned in the sidebar and have chatted with the ladies over at the RPW IRC Channel also linked on the sidebar. What type of motivation were you looking for exactly? Without know… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/14 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Need adviceThere's no "n", it's Athol :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/14 04:02 PM |
| 4 | Bold brows are in styleThat sounds so much like something my husband would say. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/14 02:57 PM |
| 0 | Need adviceBy the looks of it this has been going on for at least two months, what's your sex life like if any? Are you perhaps being too nice, too accommodating? Sounds like she's bored with you and needs some alpha excitement. Have you ever read Athol Kay's The Married Man Sex Life Primer 2011? There's some really good advice in there for bringing back her tingles. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/14 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!I've never re-stretched a canvas so no input on that. It's such a great feeling when you can fill your home with your own creations and make paintings as unique gifts. Keep it up, as I said you have a really nice, unique style already. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/14 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!How long have you been painting? How big is this piece? I bet it would look stunning hanging in a dining area or foyer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/14 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Faithful girlfriend with a free pass to fuck whomever I please.She's damaged goods now. She shit tested and you failed but she really didn't think you would fail it so now she's fucked. She put herself in this position, it's not your responsibility if she whines about it after the fact. Warning: if you do plan on being monogamous with her now, be aware that this situation will have messed her up mentally which will most likely bleed out into your relationship. If she was able to dish out that big a shit test from the very beginning just imagine what she'll … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/14 01:44 AM |
| 1 | What to do after breaking frame with wife?I'm curious to how you handled her birthday and if things are better now. I noticed that your wife has quite the fighting tactics; confronting you while nude in the shower was most likely what triggered you the most. She attacked you while you were vulnerable. She plays dirty. I hope that you can in the future let her know that there's a time and a place for bringing up matters for discussion and that she isn't a spoiled vindictive little school girl so if she intends on acting like one again yo… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/14 01:15 AM |
| 0 | Do women hate arrogance, or is this simply a shit test?"And you love it." This one. This one will make her tingle even when she really doesn't want to. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/14 12:52 AM |
| 2 | New to this, and would like a new perspective to try.This is quite possibly a reason too. I'm just basing my answer on the fact that he plays 12 hours at a time and refuses blow jobs. You don't need a hell of a lot of privacy for those unless they don't have a bedroom with a door...and that would just be creepy. I still find it hard to imagine a guy refusing a blow job while he's playing a video game unless he's addicted or has fallen out of love/lust with her. As usual we only have her side of the story to go by and it's a hard call really. I'm j… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/14 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Very well done! I like your style. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/14 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Awesome pointers!! Thanks so much :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/14 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Thanks I'll try that :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/14 06:54 PM |
| 2 | New to this, and would like a new perspective to try.With all that said though be very mindful of your attitude too, especially while trying to "drag" him away from video games. Test it out in baby steps and don't try forcing the issue. If it is an addiction you have to treat it as such, do a bit of research on it. At the same time keep working on the things you've identified about yourself needing improvement. I too would like to tell you it was so very much refreshing to see someone use the posting format, what a breath of fresh air, lol :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/14 06:51 PM |
| 0 | Weekly motivation thread 4/14-4/20What's a "monkey butt"?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/14 06:42 PM |
| 7 | Weekly motivation thread 4/14-4/20I found a man who made me want to be a RPW. ~/u/blondie_brownie This is what it's all about; you don't find a RPW you encourage the RP traits to come out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/14 06:39 PM |
| 1 | New to this, and would like a new perspective to try.I wonder if this recurrence of men being addicted to video games isn't directly caused by the fact that they are not allowed to show aggression IRL but can through video games? You definitely have a dilemma here if he doesn't perceive it as a problem and you do. We usually tell people in your situation to just leave him alone to relax but since there seems to be more and more women coming here with the same problem I'm beginning to wonder if it isn't more than just relaxing, especially when sex … | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/14 06:23 PM |
| 5 | USA Today: Best for moms to be home?To answer Krista Clark's question, yes it does. Schools, daycare, whoever has your children all day are indeed raising them. We can hamster all to be damned that they don't but it won't change the facts. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/14 04:58 PM |
| 1 | I need red pill to analyze this for me if you have the time.Quite honestly I don't know how you could safely present the book, not knowing more about your SO. I would imagine some men could get quite offended by it where others would see it as what it is, a tool to help fix a relationship. Does he generally like to read? Maybe this would make a good post...I know some ladies here have talked about buying the book for their husbands, maybe ask how they went about it?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/14 04:24 PM |
| 2 | I need red pill to analyze this for me if you have the time.Listen, I wasn't telling her to go on a diet or become anorexic, I was telling her that she might want to make sure she wasn't fat and out of shape. She and her SO are the only ones who can judge these things. You can't know if she's in the middle of a healthy BMI just like I can't know exactly how many lbs she might be overweight. Do you know her frame type, how large her breast are etc? If we go by only the information she gave assuming she is of normal frame she is actually teetering at the e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/14 03:02 PM |
| 3 | I need red pill to analyze this for me if you have the time.I made an estimate based on her height and weight and then she agreed that she was in need of losing weight and toning up. She didn't get her panties in a bunch over it so I don't see why you are. Chillax, get laid, meditate or something. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/14 02:45 PM |
| 1 | I need some relationship advice.Please don't be sorry, everyone here wanted to help. It sucks that you were roped in like that but now you know. You're now wiser for it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!I wish you could take the photos of my art, I always mess it up and have to jig with them on my PC for ages trying to make them look right! Cameras and me don't mix. I have had happy accidents though, lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Those are great! You're very talented. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 05:44 PM |
| 1 | I need some relationship advice.In case you're interested: http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/22xicq/a_mans_words_for_rpw/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 05:43 PM |
| 2 | A Man's Words for RPWCan you not circle around whatever you're trying to say and be more direct? How much more direct would you like for me to be? "This post has at least in my eyes made you look quite beta(needy and insecure)." this wasn't direct enough for you? Everything you write just strengthens this. If it wasn't about you personally, why didn't you just tell the people on her post directly what you thought? You would have kept your anonymity and made your point, yes? Instead you make a point to tell us your s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!I really like the photo you took of it too, do you do photography as well? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 05:22 PM |
| 3 | A Man's Words for RPWWe encourage women to dissect their relationships and themselves, to break through their conditioning and self destructive attitudes. We point things out to them that they couldn't or wouldn't see, maybe you should take a deeper look at the motivations behind your post. Sometimes other people can see straight through what other people say and do, is it inconceivable to you to think that maybe we see something in your post that you may not want to admit to yourself? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I need red pill to analyze this for me if you have the time.Be careful how you present it to him. Do you have a plan already? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 04:59 PM |
| 5 | A Man's Words for RPWI just read through that post and there really were only a small handful of comments that were negative at all and they were down voted. Are you really that concerned about what a few strangers on the internet might think of you that you had to reveal yourself and explain? After reading your post I almost feel as though I should go back to her post and tell her she definitely shouldn't wait for you. This post has at least in my eyes made you look quite beta(needy and insecure). You might have ju… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 04:56 PM |
| 1 | I need red pill to analyze this for me if you have the time.Ok so your plan now is to read your book, work on the things you can improve for yourself, 'girl game' and hope he reads his book, right? You need to create an environment where he can feel and act manly again. The more feminine you become the more masculine he should become. You need to be aware though that eventhough you do everything "right" there is still a chance that it won't actually fix the problem you're having with sex. It may not be his or your "fault" but self-improving is never a wa… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Nice fabric. Will you be posting pics of the dress when it's done too? I think the red dress would also be adorable for summer. Those sleeves are so cute and feminine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Oh Lordy, I gained 5 lbs just looking at it! Looks totally delicious. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 02:14 PM |
| 1 | I need red pill to analyze this for me if you have the time.Attagirl :) Do you think he'll read the primer? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Thank you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/04/14 01:19 PM |
| 6 | More RPW-stance views in mediaI saw this over at TRP earlier. I was completely amazed at all the hamstering from the feminists in some of the articles I came across. I always liked Kirsten Dunst as well, she's a good actress and now I like her even more ;) I do hope this won't harm her career though. Isn't that the craziest notion? Her career might suffer because she believes in taking care of her man and children 0.o | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 11:07 PM |
| 2 | How soon after a text message should you reply? And other questions.It's too easy for a well-meaning (but naive) woman to fall I to a FWB dynamic if she isn't also very strict (and cautious) about her sexuality. Wouldn't this make an even stronger case for her not to make the first move? Wouldn't this give the man the impression she's not at all naive and is sexually aggressive? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 11:02 PM |
| 1 | How soon after a text message should you reply? And other questions.i have NEVER called a man in my life. then again no girls did in the time before cell phones when apparently women just badger men with chatterbox texts and nude pix now, so i could be old fashioned Same here, and I can't really see that having these electronics really made that much of a difference. Men and women are still driven by the same urges and the chase is the same. It only changed for the hook-up culture, not for the people seeking normal LTRs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 10:56 PM |
| 2 | I need red pill to analyze this for me if you have the time.That's just it, he's not the leader and you wouldn't say any of the things you've said in this thread about him if you truly respected him. Your first step should be to stop lying to yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 10:46 PM |
| 3 | I need red pill to analyze this for me if you have the time.Im talking this way because in the past his complaint was im not being direct. There's a difference between being direct and talking like a trucker. Direct doesn't equal masculine. Im vert feminine I think. You're not automatically feminine because you wear dresses, yoga pants and heels. You're at least 20-30lbs overweight so if you're wearing said yoga pants and sporting a muffin top you are not feminine. Also feminine is not all about how you look, it's equal parts demeanor. So far from this p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 10:44 PM |
| 1 | How soon after a text message should you reply? And other questions.That's what I thought but I wasn't sure how much had changed since I dated last. I would be interested in your reasoning because I'd like to know in case this subject comes up with my girls. So far they pretty much think the same way I do about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 09:30 PM |
| 1 | How soon after a text message should you reply? And other questions.Very helpful indeed :) Things are certainly different! In my day a girl waited for the man to ask her out or she was perceived as being pushy and loose if she was the one asking. It was also taught to us that it was emasculating to the man done any other way. I see it as the woman losing some of her femininity by asking a man out because it really isn't a submissive move. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 09:06 PM |
| 1 | How soon after a text message should you reply? And other questions.I was curious since I haven't dated since the caveman era, it doesn't throw off a guy to be asked out or pursued? I always thought it was ok to show you're interested by flirting and even going as far as hinting that you would go out with him but leave it to him to do the actual asking and most of the pursuing. Has that changed? I thought it was in a way emasculating for the guy to be asked out and that an alpha would be less interested if a woman did that? just trying to keep up with the times … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 08:44 PM |
| 0 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!So colorful and yummy looking too :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Cooking tip! How to cook legumes so you won't fart. :)Before we stopped eating them altogether, I found that adding about a tsp of ginger to a crock pot full of chilli made with kidney beans or beans with molasses would drastically help in that department. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 07:57 PM |
| 2 | I need red pill to analyze this for me if you have the time.I feel it was just another hoop for me to jump through. You really don't respect this man at all if you feel as though he has you jumping through hoops. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 07:52 PM |
| 2 | I need red pill to analyze this for me if you have the time.To be brutally honest, you sound like you are trying to control him and you sound like a nag and quite masculine in your approach with him. Is he the captain or are you? Are you maintaining your femininity or have you let yourself go? There's always two sides to a story and we're only getting yours. Why are you together? Why do you keep him and why do you think he stays with you? Are your children his as well? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Cooking tip! How to cook legumes so you won't fart. :)Adding ginger to your legume and bean recipes help as well, but they are not healthy for you anyway, too much lectins. The harmful effects of lectins and phytic acid can be reduced some by using traditional methods of preparation like sprouting, fermenting, and soaking, though even these don't remove the lectins completely. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 07:05 PM |
| 5 | I need red pill to analyze this for me if you have the time.Him: So let's see here. You complain we don't have sex but yet you don't initiate it. And now your complaining about me not sending you naked pics but yet you won't send me any. See a pattern here? Sounds pretty straight forward to me, he wants you to initiate. Not by asking or talking about it but with actions. How have you been initiating prior to this conversation? His tone towards you sounds resentful, "Him: No. This is what you do. Rather than you makinh a little bit of effort, you try to t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Being a Female MisogynistOk so it doesn't make any more sense than it did last night. I wish there were tags or warnings on the articles that are written by feminist. If I wanted to see inside their alien brains I'd just go hang out at Jezebel's or TBP, just turn on the tv or radio, walk outside my house...oh, there they are, feminists and white knights all over the place. I hope the point to this wasn't to try to invoke sympathy towards feminists because you won't get any from me. I say they should reap what they've so… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 01:25 PM |
| 0 | Being a Female MisogynistDid you read this article? edit: nevermind, I'm too tired to make sense of it, going to bed, maybe it'll make sense tomorrow. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Not 100% sure, it happened on a major highway and the Land & Forest guys took them away. I'm in Canada so I'm not sure what the rules and regulations are and if they differ from the US etc. I know that we need a hunting license and tags here so maybe it was because of those reasons. It wasn't hunting season for one. What a waste though, it was a 150-200lb mother with her yearling, another 100-120lb. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Ahh! yummy venison. Was it big? A few years ago I hit two deer at once, they both jumped at the same time and landed directly in front of me...scared the living daylights out of me but I kept calm through it all. It killed them both but we weren't allowed to keep them :( I would like to see the pictures but won't make you put them up just for me, I remember all the goats we skinned and chopped up it's nearly the same. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/04/14 12:40 AM |
| 1 | On looking "younger" while still in 20sI can't answer that any better than Swift-heart just did :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/14 11:18 PM |
| 2 | On looking "younger" while still in 20sI usually just assume the women are the ones telling the truth. Oh Goodness, don't ever do that! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/14 10:48 PM |
| 4 | On looking "younger" while still in 20slol, no worries, we've all got our days like that ;) You apparently need to work on your insecurities regarding your age and looks as this will definitely come haunt you when you do reach the wall. Worrying will create wrinkles and toxins in your blood that will age you faster. You will produce cortisol from being anxious all the time and this in turn will age you as well. Cortisol levels are supposed to drop at nighttime, allowing your body to relax and recharge. But if your cortisol levels are… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/14 10:16 PM |
| 9 | On looking "younger" while still in 20sI had a hard time reading past the first line, jeez maybe it's the attitude making you seem older! I do know that obsessing and worrying over this will make you look older. Like Phantom said, smile more, eat healthy, exercise regularly and accentuate what assets you know are attractive about yourself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/14 08:09 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!That looks delicious! | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/14 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!I just want to bake and cook and art and omigosh ha ha same here (◦'⌣'◦)/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/14 07:59 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Thank you :) Oils is definitely my favorite but watercolors has become a close second. I find oils difficult if I don't have a spot to keep everything out for long periods of time; I usually default to acrylics when I don't have any room. I have a lot of acrylic paintings because of that and just a handful of oils. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/14 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!When you say quilted professionally, isn't that the part where you attach the finished "blocks"(not sure of the correct quilting terms) to the bottom with cotton(basting) in between? If so that is indeed missing the point. I always marvel at the stitching required just in doing that! Do you do that part by machine too? I have fond memories of watching my "Mi-mi"(lovely caregiver when I was little) with a bunch of old women at their "quilt-in". They would have everything stretched out on a rack a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/14 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Thanks Dana :) I've been at it since I was able to hold a brush, if I tried to block out quilt patterns I'm sure I would feel the same way. About quilts, do you think one could get away with making them with only a small area to work in or do you pretty much have to dedicate a whole room to it? Everyone I have seen who quilts uses up a lot of room. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/14 04:40 PM |
| 0 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!That looks yummy!!! Love your presentation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/14 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Thank you :) I'm not that great at taking photos of my work though, I couldn't seem to get a shot of it where there wasn't strong glare on it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/14 03:43 PM |
| 12 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!Your work is so good Dana. I've been working on this [Imgur]. Oil on 16" x 20" canvas board. I still have a long ways to go with it. edit: took down image | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/14 03:06 PM |
| 2 | How do I go about swallowing this red pill when it seems so far away?Sounds like you're on the right track. Baby steps is better in my opinion especially if you feel you have quite a bit of "reforming" to do, it can get quite overwhelming at times. Be aware that you will slip and it is not the end of the world unless you make it so. Get back on that horse(your man preferably ;) lol) and keep going forward. Really listen to your husband and observe his reactions to you. Learn what he likes and dislikes and do or eliminate these things, watch & enjoy as your life i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/14 03:28 PM |
| 6 | Attraction or OneitisWhat stood out for me is that he turned to another woman when Farrah became menopausal. I know most of you ladies here are still too young to worry about menopause but this is the time to take steps in making sure that menopause will not have your SO do what Ryan did. Keep in shape, eat healthy and really work at making your life a happy one. A happy healthy person will have a much easier transition than a bitter unhealthy one. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/14 01:36 PM |
| 7 | How do I go about swallowing this red pill when it seems so far away?Can you internalize the possibility that you can be wrong and at fault for things in your life, your marriage? If yes, you're on the right track, if no, then until you do there's nothing much that any of us can do. Which ideals are getting in your way? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/14 10:19 PM |
| 3 | Crazy Article: 123 Things I Will Teach My Daughter (Feminist Edition)That's what freaks me out the most, this satire is not far at all from reality...not far enough. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/14 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Opinions please? Husband posting flaunting pics online.http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/213oz6/mod_this_sub_is_not_a_sales_pitch/ http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/21jpez/all_about_advice/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/14 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Opinions please? Husband posting flaunting pics online.I guess then you have it all figured out as per your second edit, good luck to you and your marriage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/14 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Opinions please? Husband posting flaunting pics online.I just now read that in her comment history! The horror!! What on earth happened to today's parents? How are those kids ever going to learn how to cope with real life? Oh Lordy!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/14 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Crazy Article: 123 Things I Will Teach My Daughter (Feminist Edition)I now need to go shower with a Brillo pad, I feel like I might have gotten some of that crap on me! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/14 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Opinions please? Husband posting flaunting pics online.Why can't you just place the crib in the bedroom with you instead of the child in the bed? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/14 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Opinions please? Husband posting flaunting pics online.What gets me is not wanting to cause a child anxiety! They need to have boundaries and have them enforced; of course it makes them anxious, this is how they learn how to deal with life and learn that they can't have everything they want all the time. Rant over, I didn't say it before because I thought it would be off topic but seeing that it has been picked up again I thought I would chime in. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/14 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Opinions please? Husband posting flaunting pics online.http://marriedmansexlife.com/take-the-red-pill/nice-guys-and-betaization/ I would highly suggest you take more time reading the information in the sidebar and familiarizing yourself with more of the RP terminology and basic ideas behind RP/RPW. It would also have been nice to know that your husband is a fighter in your post, that makes a big difference. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/14 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Opinions please? Husband posting flaunting pics online.No, you should not talk to him about it. You should be finding out why you think he needs to find validation outside of your marriage and fix it. We will have to agree to disagree about your children bed sharing and if you know for a fact that it's ok with your husband then there's no problem there as long as he isn't just trying to please you by allowing it. Please be aware that this stage in your life is where it is the easiest to betaize your husband, you're at the peak of being able to manip… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/14 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Opinions please? Husband posting flaunting pics online.I suppose it is possible he is just that proud of himself but it really raises all kinds of red flags IMO. Who do you think he is most likely wanting to show off to that isn't going to see him IRL? Pregnancy can do quite a number on men especially if you have distanced yourself from him and are more focused on your 8 month old and the newcomer. Letting your children bed share is a really bad habit and one that most definitely will place distance between you and your husband. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/14 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Opinions please? Husband posting flaunting pics online.I wouldn't be wondering if it's appropriate at this stage but wondering why? Is everything ok in the bedroom department? Are you fit? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/14 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Stacy’s SculptureAnother great article. Food for thought for all you young ladies out there. edit:grammar | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/14 03:22 PM |
| 2 | What beauty routine keeps your skin youthful?Always wear gloves when doing dishes or cleaning, this has really made a huge difference for my hands. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/14 02:30 PM |
| 0 | What beauty routine keeps your skin youthful?Also a fan of oil pulling with coconut oil, amazing stuff. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/04/14 02:25 PM |
| 3 | Women really don't know WTF they want. This guy was out of shape she was unhappy, hes now in the best shape of his life and she is still unhappy.They both started out having somewhat equal SMVs and same likes/dislikes. He loses a few SMV points after losing his job, wife stays regardless, probably because they still shared enough of her likes(eating & drinking). He works on raising his SMV, raises it above his wife's SMV, she panics because she is too lazy and set in her comfortable ways to raise her own SMV to match his.(doesn't want to give up eating & drinking) The article seems to show that he has played enough dread for her to write… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/14 10:44 PM |
| 2 | I'm unbanning all the trolls on our ban list.You got me good :) I'm known to spoil pranks and jokes in my family like I've done here, so sorry! I'm somewhat oblivious at times...yes at times, that's my story and I'm sticking to it ;) All joking aside, I still think the threads where you call out the feminists taught me a thing or two. I'm way better equipped at seeing their sneaky behavior now. But after thinking about it for a few minutes, I was like wait a minute here, wouldn't that be somewhat counterproductive at the same time? this is… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/14 02:47 PM |
| 4 | I'm unbanning all the trolls on our ban list.Will you ladies still be banning them if they get out of hand? Hey! This wouldn't be an April Fool's joke by any chance?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/14 01:16 PM |
| 1 | How do you introduce your woman to TRP?You've been linked from TBP. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/14 01:05 PM |
| 6 | I'm unbanning all the trolls on our ban list.This sounds like an interesting idea. It'll be intriguing to see what comes of it. I also agree with you that the best way to learn is to teach and a lot of the best threads were the ones where you and the other mods would take on these feminists/trolls. I say...bring it! (/ '̀-'́)/ edit: facepalm...I should really drink my tea and wake up first before commenting | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/14 12:53 PM |
| 2 | What would everyone think of a weekly craft show-off thread?I love this idea! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/14 03:09 AM |
| 2 | On "hamstering"I was just reading Athol Kay's "The Married Man Sex Life Primer 2011" and he explains it very well. "...it is called The Female Rationalization Hamster because female sexuality can have great swings in her sexual interest during her menstrual cycle, so women tend to require greater use of rationalizing sexual behavior (or lack thereof) than men do." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/14 10:55 PM |
| 3 | Can we have a real ltr?It's really good that you're aware of all these truths and know your limitations. Just keep in mind that the more RP the girl the less harder you need to play the game. Your masculinity will compliment her femininity and vice versa. I wish you all the best in your future endeavors. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Pysanky!Impressive! | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/14 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Pysanky!These are quite nice. Well done. Did you follow any type of tutorial or are these your own designs? | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/14 05:00 PM |
| 2 | On "hamstering"That was a great example of what happens when a man hamsters, thx for sharing :) I wouldn't talk to her about it, I'd send him a link to TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/14 04:00 PM |
| 5 | Can we have a real ltr?You pretty much answered the question I was going to ask. If you don't feel you would have the mental fortitude or motivation to keep your frame up long term with the same women then it will not work and to beta town you'll go(or divorce court). If you were to find a traditional girl with enough RP blood in her you could see how she reacts to /r/RedPillWomen and if it's positive you might just have a keeper, if not then you keep on spinning those plates, no love lost since you would have let her… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 03:32 PM |
| 13 | How do you introduce your woman to TRP?Ok, I will begin with what he was doing wrong before. When we first got together he was by your definition here at TRP an alpha and had never really given a shit about his women before he met me. We fell in love and he let his frame down with me most likely because he thought it would be safe to do this with the woman he loved and he placed me on a pedestal. This was 20+ years ago while we were in our very early 20s. My attraction for him dropped quite a few notches very early on but because he … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Adding value to yourself and those around you...To my own life: I've always been a self improvement enthusiast. Keeping an open mind and studying the mind, society and nutrition have always been my thing. Back in the day I read a lot of self improvement books, some good some quite bad. The best ones were the early writings of Wayne W. Dyer and "The Magic of Thinking Big" by David Schwartz. RPW has been the best self improvement tool yet ;) I'm always trying to make things better for myself and my family, it's my reason for being. I want them … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/03/14 02:16 AM |
| 16 | How do you introduce your woman to TRP?My marriage was saved by my husband introducing me to TRP. It was a last ditch effort after having discussed the possibility of divorce. There simply was no time left for him to apply RP strategies to turn things around. In a way I wish I didn't know everything I know about RP but all in all I'm a better, more self aware person for it. We were already living our lives mostly RP so the introduction to TRP/RPW wasn't a huge shock but it was a wake up call which in turn gave our marriage hope where… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/14 11:29 PM |
| 1 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallGoats are amazing. We miss them terribly! We had goats(dozen max. at once), pigs(3), turkeys(24), rabbits(12 cages), chickens(dozen free-range), quail(2 cages), ducks(4) and a cow but the cow was just for two hours. The darn thing got loose upon delivery and went to a neighboring pasture. The farmer there told us she could stay because there were other cows and a bull there so we just left her there. She became pregnant, we got the meat from her and we let him keep her offspring. win-win | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/14 02:19 PM |
| 1 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallI get what you're saying, I still do stuff like pickling, drying herbs and tons of crafts etc but it just isn't quite the same. Still good for the soul though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/14 02:00 PM |
| 1 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallIt seems that it isn't a very popular lifestyle anymore, not here anyway. I wonder if my comment sounds like I think everyone should be a farm girl because I just meant it as my personal preference. We ran a hobby farm for years but had to move due to my husband's job. We're looking again for that perfect little farm on at least 20-30 acres but more is always better ;) Our last one was 150 acres and so very beautiful. Working the land and raising livestock was the happiest time in our lives. Our… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/14 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Im sorry if this is redundant.I was seriously flabbergasted at your request and honestly wanted to know if you actually have read the content in the sidebar because you really do not seem to understand what RPW is all about. It wasn't intended to be rude. We do not give advice to plate spinners on how to make lasting impressions. Perhaps I misunderstood your story but I did ask for clarification and still received the same overall message. It's unfortunate that our wires got crossed and I appreciate you asking my opinion. Wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/14 01:15 PM |
| 2 | Im sorry if this is redundant.You can't be serious, you're asking RPW to help you "make a lasting impression"? Do you even know what this sub is about? Did you read the sidebar? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/14 02:25 AM |
| 0 | Can someone explain to me what this argument was supposed to be about?thx, that was entertaining, lol. I was pleased that most comments were of complete disgust; some were pretty funny too! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/14 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Im sorry if this is redundant.I'm really not sure what you want us to discuss exactly? She sounds like a modern feminist, you seem to be her man toy for now and you don't really make it clear what you want out of this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/14 01:22 AM |
| 5 | On "hamstering"No you cannot. RPW do not seek men who indulge in hamstering. For a bit more see the comment I made earlier on this thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/14 01:16 AM |
| 1 | On "hamstering"I think you're definitely on the right track. Women seek men who do not hamster. Less hamstering = alpha, too much hamstering = beta It simply isn't attractive and is perceived as juvenile and feminine. One who hamsters cannot become successful or remain a good leader admired by all. Hamstering is a form of lying, good men don't lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/14 01:09 AM |
| 6 | R/Askwomen thread is chock full of women talking about how they "put up" with their beta husbands while forever thinking about their alpha ex's. Read this thread. Read all of it.I'm wondering if she isn't subconsciously wanting Craig to find out so she can run back to Paul by maybe leaving her story open on her PC/laptop "accidentally" or something to that effect. Who writes things like this for the entire world to see without thinking, "hey there's a chance I might get caught"? I think, even if he knew how I felt, he would work with me in couseling to continue our marriage. He knows that I'm commited to him. Sadly, from her description of him he sounds like he would be… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 11:39 PM |
| 9 | Help ....me discover other subs!it's just a joke I made up for Not All Subs Are Like That because of the acronyms NAWALT & NAMALT commonly used here Not All Women/Men Are Like That. I couldn't resist. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/14 08:08 PM |
| 11 | Help ....me discover other subs!Just be aware that you may get judged harshly and even banned from other subs just for being RP/RPW. Ridiculous but true. Just to clarify, not all subs are like that (NASALT) I just had to say it ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/14 08:00 PM |
| 43 | R/Askwomen thread is chock full of women talking about how they "put up" with their beta husbands while forever thinking about their alpha ex's. Read this thread. Read all of it.She thinks about Paul every day while forcing smiles and sex with her husband The thing that really disgusts me is that she most likely fantasizes about Paul while being with Craig and he is none the wiser. She even mentions in a comment that she is going to go see a psychiatrist about this because of the guilt, so again she's going to have to deceive Craig because why would she need to go see a psychiatrist when they have such a wonderful marriage; or she has to tell him, which I would assume a… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 07:24 PM |
| 27 | R/Askwomen thread is chock full of women talking about how they "put up" with their beta husbands while forever thinking about their alpha ex's. Read this thread. Read all of it.Red Pill Women are not born. They're not even self-made. They're made by YOU. I would not have made that leap without my husband's help. It's humiliating but true, I was waiting for something to fix it and that something was my husband. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/14 07:03 PM |
| 0 | All About AdviceJust substitute wheat flour with almond flour, rice flour, coconut or a mixture of all three. Adding an extra egg or two to your recipe when using the almond and rice flour helps because they are quite dry. Experimenting with these substitutes is well worth the effort if you like having a dessert or treat once in awhile. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/14 05:48 PM |
| 2 | I am having conflicted feelings about my partners preferences towards my appearance.I don't want to doubt him, but I'm worried he is just saying it to make me feel better. Then don't doubt him. This type of thinking will only get you in trouble. First it's your haircut, then it's the way he does this or that, etc etc Stay feminine and sweet at all times and do the things he says he likes. You can't keep second guessing your Captain. Ask direct questions and go with the answers you receive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/14 04:34 PM |
| 7 | I am having conflicted feelings about my partners preferences towards my appearance.I would say that the only problem here is that she doesn't trust her man's words and is trying to make a mountain out of a molehill. Why she had to go with a pixie cut for a botched collar bone length hair cut eludes me anyway 0.o edit:color/collar | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/14 02:39 PM |
| 1 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallThere's nothing better than homesteading and being a farm girl IMO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/14 12:55 PM |
| 1 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallI agree with Dana here too. I feel as though my late thirties and forties has set me free in some way. I actually look and feel better now at 44 than I did all through my later 20s and 30s. Of course I looked better in my teens and pretty much up until my first child but after having the kids I went through such an awkward phase where I was freaked out by everything: my weight, my hair, my age, my clothes and to be honest they all sucked comparatively! I bucked up, lost the extra weight and refu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/14 12:52 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to SO venting about his job?For us, he is the boss and I'm his employee when it comes to work. I find that having an office setting in the home very helpful and to make sure it is only used as such. It really helps to get in and out of business mode. In that room we try to be professional and in the rest of the house husband and wife. I admit it can become tense at times if the business hits snags and such because it gets much harder not to take that into the other parts of the house. It is also difficult not to take thing… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/14 11:34 PM |
| -1 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallAll the women I know who turned to herbalism and woo-woo stuff, lol, all look and feel amazing and those who don't end up having to spend a ton of money on products to keep looking young, have to diet all the time to keep their weight down and all in all don't feel well most likely due to all the toxin build up in their system. I personally will keep going along with the woo-woo stuff since it's done wonders for me and my entire family. The proof is in the pudding. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/14 11:11 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to SO venting about his job?I too work alongside my husband and I've had to learn to balance things too...not an easy task some days! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/14 10:41 PM |
| 3 | What's your opinion on Dr. Phil's advice for this couple?...Lol @ edit 2. You thought it important some how to call me out why? You didn't call out the "redditor" in question in your first edit. Anyway glad to see that you at least tried to do something about it even though it really comes off as you being somehow offended by my opinion. I have some pretty archaic views sometimes being an old woman(44) and one of them is that watching soaps, reality shows and talk shows add absolutely no value to your life. TV in itself will not add value to anyone's lif… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/14 08:04 PM |
| 2 | All About AdviceI wonder how it would taste using almond bread instead? I'll have to experiment. thx (◦'⌣'◦) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/14 05:45 PM |
| 2 | All About AdviceOMG that sounds freakin amazing!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/14 05:02 PM |
| 3 | RPW dating strategies; new guy, need help.You seriously fucked up. I hope you haven't been lying to your doctors because you really are in need of help. Sounds too like you might be a good candidate for having PTSD, talk to your doctors and really concentrate on getting your head on straight. Other than that, my personal take on all of this is that I no longer wish to involve myself in your posts/comments until you've at least taken time to recover and reflect on everything that has happened these past few months. I can't see investing … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/14 02:34 PM |
| 3 | All About Advice♥ (◠‿◠) ♥ | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/14 12:42 AM |
| 8 | All About AdviceThis is really good :) I think the hardest thing to do nowadays in trying to look up if the advice you receive is any good is sifting through all the misinformation on the internet, it's everywhere! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/14 12:29 AM |
| 3 | RPW dating strategies; new guy, need help.He has broken a table, blinds, a lamp, the wall and the cooker. He is wild! But, he always fixes them and I know he would never touch me. Sound familiar? Only 1 month ago. March 27 - 30days = February 25-26 edit: how about this http://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/1xdkqt/help_me_support_him_please/cfag6j9 | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/14 09:12 PM |
| 3 | RPW dating strategies; new guy, need help.So you've been posting here since that happened trying to paint a dishonest picture of your SO why? Your credibility is on extremely shaky ground IMO. Your post history now reads like a bunch of lies. Did you really think we would enable you to stay with someone like that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/14 09:06 PM |
| 2 | RPW dating strategies; new guy, need help.I'm confused now. Doesn't that place you meeting this guy in the same time slot that you were still with your ex before he strangled you??? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/14 08:32 PM |
| 2 | RPW dating strategies; new guy, need help.I'm so glad I wasn't drinking anything at the time I read this I would have made such a mess! It's not so much the content it's the tone I read it, lol ps: not laughing at you Ceoil | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/14 08:25 PM |
| 1 | TRP changed my life, and I didn't realise it until recently.I think that a "Family Frame" is the key to raising happy, contented, inquisitive and talented children who themselves display the leadership skills they model on mine, while at the same time maintaining a healthy, happy relationship with my partner and "First officer" Well said sir! I wish you'd write more on this subject and elaborate on how one would go about doing this but I'll take this much and reflect some more on it, very insightful stuff. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/14 06:25 PM |
| 2 | RPW dating strategies; new guy, need help.I know, it all seems so soap opera-ish to me, as in this simply cannot really be happening. I just hope that she can gain some wisdom here as she is in dire need of it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/14 05:45 PM |
| 1 | TRP changed my life, and I didn't realise it until recently.she does react a bit different now to things than she did before the kids different good or different bad? Raising your "pedestal" above hers should do the trick, keep increasing your masculinity and her natural submissive tendencies should follow. I doubt you'll have too much trouble with her if you maintain your frame throughout this journey. Easier said than done, I know. I really don't envy your positions as men in LTR/marriages, you really did get the short straw; working so hard on yoursel… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/03/14 04:45 PM |
| 1 | How do I help my SO take charge?Otherwise, adjust your attitude - submit to your man because you respect and desire him, get rid of your pretenses of comparative worth - and you'll find him taking more of the lead. I just had to say how much I like this, it is so well said. That whole paragraph was awesome. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/14 04:19 PM |
| 5 | How do I help my SO take charge?not sure if I can swallow it wholesale so I guess I'm sort of shit testing you now My guy seems sort of Beta, which I am ok with. You really know how to butter up your audience with statements such as these. Have you read the information in the side bar? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/14 01:18 PM |
| 2 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallI like that, the Mona Lisa smile, not dumb at all :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/14 12:38 AM |
| 3 | RPW dating strategies; new guy, need help.I think you have spunk Ceoil. You took all this very well and you have humility. Work on getting yourself better and all the virtues spoken about here on RPW and you will do just fine. You saw how quickly you attracted a man after your ex, just imagine what will happen once you start radiating confidence and have all the proper RP tools at your disposal. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 10:56 PM |
| 3 | RPW dating strategies; new guy, need help.You're taking this all the wrong way, your attitude should be that you have people here who care enough to give you the hard truth which in turn gives you the opportunity to really change your life for the best. Think back to what you've learned so far and really try to see if there are any red flags with this new guy. Does he possess similar traits to your ex? Be honest with yourself. Then with this same honesty, ask yourself, would it really be fair to a good man for him to have to deal with y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 10:29 PM |
| 1 | On reading comprehension and literal interpretationsPersonally I think it'd be nice if RPW/TRP had some sort of thing where people endorsed on one TRP-related sub end up having it propagated to all TRP-related subs. Thus we could see RPW Endorsed Contributors show their endorsed status when posting on here for example. That really would be nice. I get the most benefit when helping out others. Same here. I'm glad that RPW is viewed that way. I have come across some controversial opinions concerning RPW but for the most part I think it's mostly vie… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 10:19 PM |
| 4 | RPW dating strategies; new guy, need help.I'm concerned of the type of men she's attracting and her unwillingness or inability to see the really bad traits in men, her last one was definitely chock-full of red flags and she still stayed with him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 10:06 PM |
| 3 | RPW dating strategies; new guy, need help.It is how to handle that. What, getting yourself admitted to a mental ward is how you handle emotional trauma and you don't think this validates you being a mess? Who is it that's filling your head with these ideas, friends, family? Whoever's telling you that this doesn't make you a mess is not doing you any favors. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 09:57 PM |
| 2 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallThis sounds like an excellent idea. I'm going to definitely give this a try :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 09:36 PM |
| 2 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallHave you been doing these long? I think I will continue doing these too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 09:35 PM |
| 2 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallI also did the exercises in that video and seemed to be getting good results. Thanks for the info and will do more research on it. I think I'll definitely continue the exercises to keep my neck and chin area tight as this seems to be starting to loosen a bit. How long after starting these exercises did you begin to notice the folds and were you doing them everyday? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 09:33 PM |
| 0 | On reading comprehension and literal interpretationsThanks for this, your example was very helpful. I personally can't stand that type of behavior and hope to hell I don't ever come across as attention seeking. I would hope that if I did someone would call me out on it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 09:10 PM |
| 18 | RPW dating strategies; new guy, need help.He tells me he is crazy about me You just met this guy and he's already telling you he's crazy about you? Redflag IMO, not alpha, very beta. Ladies, correct me if I'm wrong here since I haven't been in the dating game in a very long time. Didn't you just get over an abusive relationship, like last week? Aren't you concerned at all about the possibility of this new guy just being a distraction to the horrible things that just happened to you? It's good that you're happy and want this to work, who… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 08:49 PM |
| 2 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallWere any of the exercises that didn't work for you the same as any of the exercises in the article? It's nice to know it wasn't permanent, did just stopping the exercises do the trick? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 08:30 PM |
| 5 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallThank you for the links, no need for more because they'll only be lost on me. All these places have ulterior motives for saying the things they do but I really don't have the energy to go into it here. My apologies for making you dig these up, it was a knee-jerk reaction of mine when I see someone say things like "actually recommended" without citations. I'm doing it here too so here are a few links just to make up for it. The Surprising Cause of Melanoma Is the Sun Really So Dangerous? The suns… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 07:23 PM |
| 2 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallCould you provide sources for this? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 05:48 PM |
| 2 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallHow do you practice yourself away from it, serious question. I posted an article awhile back about face exercises and at least one reader had a negative experience with doing them. I saw improvements right away but fear negative results down the line. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 03:59 PM |
| 10 | How Women Can Avoid Hitting The WallThe body is the physical representation of the mind. Great read and full of truths. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 03:07 PM |
| 0 | On reading comprehension and literal interpretationsI think my hamster just blew up 0.o | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 01:57 PM |
| 1 | It really is subconsciousYour dad certainly seemed to be very alpha indeed. Did he keep your mom in check too? I think most young adults think that way about their parents and after going through some of life's obstacles they have to admit that their parents were right. My oldest son did this; one day he came to visit and let his dad know that he was sorry he hadn't listened to all his advice and that his dad had been right all that time. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 01:45 PM |
| 0 | On reading comprehension and literal interpretationsI'm a women and you're wrong because I personally don't display those characteristics my motto since RP is more "I'm a woman so take what I say with a grain of salt because I don't seem to know jack shit and want to learn". I thought when posting on TRP it would be appropriate to announce myself as a RPW before speaking, that's a bad idea too isn't it? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 01:27 PM |
| 1 | TRP changed my life, and I didn't realise it until recently.We wouldn't want her/he/it over there either. The bullshit shaming isn't tolerated in either sub. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 01:10 PM |
| 9 | He claims to be a RP man, but his actions speak otherwise.tell him to either actually man up This is a direct shaming tactic used by feminist shrews not RPW. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/14 12:46 PM |
| 3 | TRP changed my life, and I didn't realise it until recently.Have you placed her on a pedestal? I would highly suggest you take her down if you did. Men tend to do this especially after their woman gives birth to their children. It also seems to happen during the engagement period. Women think they deserve to be up on that pedestal but in reality hate every second of it. Put yourself ahead of the rest of your family, they'll thank you for it. I'm rooting for you and wish you well on your quest to be King of your Castle. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 03:08 AM |
| 2 | On reading comprehension and literal interpretationsI didn't know you had an endorsed woman on the sub. I haven't seen her on RPW in the 5 months I've been there so it makes me wonder why. I might just find a way to ask her myself but I'm interested in hearing what you think first. Some women can't stand talking to other women and I wondered if that might be the case here. I understand that it can be completely draining at times trying to communicate with a woman let alone an entire sub full of them. I often wonder what you endorsed men here at T… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 02:36 AM |
| 1 | It really is subconsciousWhat diverted you from your dad's influence? Was it any or all of /u/JP_Whoregan's list or something else? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/03/14 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me what this argument was supposed to be about?I don't really see you as hostile per say just somewhat naive and stubborn. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/14 11:10 PM |
| 3 | Can someone explain to me what this argument was supposed to be about?I second this :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/14 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me what this argument was supposed to be about?Saying "my life is my life" seems very condescending IMO. As for calling you a whore, I did not do so directly but at first you did sound a lot like those women who think they are entitled to men's money without giving anything back, not making you a proper whore but sorry to say a little worse; at least whores will give men what they're really after. I did see somewhere in your comments that you eventually do give back but I thought we were talking about a first date? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/14 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me what this argument was supposed to be about?Sounds a lot like this - Sex, Lies and Rinsing Guys | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/14 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Can someone explain to me what this argument was supposed to be about?My life is my life. yes indeed it is but you're on RPW and you're expected to follow a certain level of decorum. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/14 10:36 PM |
| 5 | Can someone explain to me what this argument was supposed to be about?I don't know much about dating since it's been over 20 years since I've dated but I was under the impression that as a RPW you should not be expecting the man to pay for anything as it is viewed as self entitlement. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/14 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.Thank you for clarifying this part, I'm still trying to get the hang of forum etiquette, and I had to look up exactly what a shill is. I see now what you mean. And Dana, you're doing a great job protecting RPW, I sometimes need clarification on some things and sometimes I have a slight difference in opinion and feel safe expressing it among like-minded people, it's in no way an attack on anyone and apologize if it came through that way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/14 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.I'm not sure what made you think I was mad at you? Every word I wrote was sincere and I thought polite as well. I'm always forthright in my comments, I seriously thought you were saying we shouldn't discuss these things. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/14 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.Thank you for taking the time to elaborate on the reasons for removing the post, I realize you didn't have to justify it to anyone and I appreciate the response. So no more mental illness/depression talk as well as zero tolerance for "snake oil"... got it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/14 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.there is absolutely NOTHING "RedPill" going on on this thread Woman wants advice on how to better her situation so that she can be a better woman for her man and this is not RPW? There are over 150 comments and a lot of them very helpful. I see your POV in a way but this woman didn't really qualify as having a mental illness, just depressed and if she at least tried some of the advice given here it just might improve her situation and help her keep her man. I realize we are not psychiatrists or … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/14 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.Yikes, you're absolutely right. I wonder how long she's been eating this way? Wouldn't it take quite some time for a vegan to become deficient to the point of needing shots? I won't ever understand people who won't eat animals, we're designed to eat them and without them we become ill and they're so freakin tasty! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.I don't know if it's the exact same for her but my body no longer is able to absorb B12 on it's own due to childhood stomach problems. It was found out too late so now I have to inject it sometimes as often as once every 4-5 days if I get overly stressed out or am more active than usual but mostly can go 2 weeks when things are calm. Something else too when you are unable to absorb B12 chances are you need to up your Omega 3s and all your B vitamins. For awhile I also had to inject B1 but somewh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.I know it's lame to say this but I'm saying it anyway, I wish I could upvote this more. It's so awesome to see others actually speak out about this. Internet high five | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Motivation Thread!Do you have a preference in crock pots for your bone broth? Mine sucks! Also, what is your preferred way to start your bone broth, the very first batch? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 08:24 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.So well said, I so very second this comment, wholeheartedly!!! If she isn't eating this way it could very well be the main reason behind her depression. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 08:00 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.As a pharmacy student do you learn about vitamins and minerals too? Would you be able to tell which supplements might interfere with prescription drugs or even with each other? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.That's good to hear :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.Thank you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.It certainly was the weirdest most messed up experience in my life and don't wish it even on a pluepiller ;) I think I recall having very vivid disturbing dreams but only after the episode while they were weaning me off of it. It was so difficult to swallow those first few pills afterwards, I was so terrified it would happen again. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.Regardless most drugs have some type of side effect and for some it can cause allergic reactions and sometimes even be fatal. I always thought of it as playing Russian Roulette. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.no worries, I get it and it was just out of pure curiosity. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.Just curious, what work do you do in health care? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.PTSD? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.There are so many of the "sleeps-18-hours-a-day doesn't-shower-doesn't-eat variety" that when someone has an actual mental disorder it is treated the same way which really isn't beneficial at all. My take on mental disorders is one of two things, chemical imbalance or deficiencies(mineral, vitamins). The only problem is once it evolves into self harming, harming others or suicidal it's too late to start trying to figure out which one it is, you have to act fast and then start proper treatment fr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.Apparently in the area I'm in now the psychiatrists are incompetent because they immediately gave a minor Prozac. It really doesn't surprise me because doctors now have become nothing other than pill pushers and don't seem to want to get to the root of a problem instead only treat symptoms with pills. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.In 2009 I had a severe reaction to Bupropion which is the same as Welbutrin. I had been taking it for about three months when my doctor decided to change it to slow release where instead of taking it twice a day I could take it just the once. I had an extreme reaction to it and ended up delusional and harming myself quite badly. Needless to say I was weaned off the drug and haven't touched anything like that again. This episode has changed me deep inside. I remember most of it and it was extreme… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.Even Prozac increases suicides and from personal family experience, a minor has to be watched 24/7 for at least the first week, a real suicide watch system. As for a minor being 18 and under when it comes to these drugs the young adult brain does not finish growing until mid 20s so the same should be done for people in their early twenties. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.I completely agree with you on this but if someone is in danger of self harming or suicidal and cannot get these wouldn't it be the only alternative at least short term along with cognitive behavioral therapy with the intent of weaning them off the meds? I was always really against pharmaceuticals and still am but once you're placed in a situation where you have to make the choice of drugs or no drugs vs the person committing suicide, I would choose the drugs until an alternative can be found. L… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.The low end of the laboratory reference range is too low in the US and Canada(not sure about other countries except Japan where they seem to have it just right). Did they ever check for elevated urinary methylmalonic acid (MMA), homocysteine and/or holotranscobalamin (other markers of B12 deficiency)? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.I have the same problem with B12, I now have to inject every 2 weeks for it to be beneficial. I started out like you every 2 months but it became clear that it was not often enough. The more exercise and stress the more likely it is that you are using up your B12. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.Awesome. I'll be checking this out. Just curious, since you've been through it. Do you think it would be wise at all to take an anti-depressant just for a couple of months to keep you from self harming or even suicide but at the same time start supplementing with either the product you mention or a similar mineral/vitamin regimen? Do you know about or follow Dr.Tent's material | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.I'm at a loss here; other than being deceitful towards your parents which I do not promote I really can't think of anything you could do that wouldn't be devastating to you all. You cannot throw away your education over this and I assume you want to keep the peace with your parents and you can't just move in with your SO. What a conundrum. In the meanwhile you want to remain a good girlfriend which is difficult to do if you can't get out of bed. Do you exercise everyday? Even a brisk walk would … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.Is your SO living with you at your parent's house? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.I couldn't take St.John's wort but I have known it to help others somewhat. You do have to be careful going out in the sun though, it will make your skin burn faster. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.Are you absolutely certain they would do this? You've discussed this with them? What help if any did they offer as a solution to your depression? Is your SO aware of all this? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with depression but maintaining motivation to be a good SO and human being in society.Aren't you old enough to make your own medical decisions? This has to be taken seriously, depression isn't something you mess around with. I sympathize, I've dealt with depression all my life, get help, eat right, exercise regularly and find activities you can at least tolerate to keep yourself busy and out of bed...I know, easier said than done but if you are serious about self improvement you must make this one a priority because it will leech out onto your SO and you don't want that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/14 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Does TRP encourage cheating?If she wasn't a bitch before menopause she won't magically become one. There has to be a predisposition for a menopausal woman to lose her shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/14 02:15 AM |
| 2 | [Mod] This Sub Is Not A Sales PitchLol funny and sad all in one | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/14 12:57 AM |
| 2 | [Mod] This Sub Is Not A Sales Pitchtrue, having questions come up on normal everyday posts are much more enlightening than pre-written stuff. Just to clarify though I didn't mean we would write a question and answer thread, newcomers would be the ones asking the questions. You already have a FAQ, I just thought having a specific place to ask simple questions or clarifications would be helpful but as Phantom pointed out it would quickly become cluttered. Tags would be a good addition. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/14 10:22 PM |
| 6 | [Mod] This Sub Is Not A Sales PitchToo bad there isn't a questionnaire newcomers could fill out and score themselves. If they don't score a certain amount they are not yet RPW or still have a ways to go. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/14 10:13 PM |
| 2 | [Mod] This Sub Is Not A Sales Pitchwhat I don't get is why they tag themselves as RP but don't actually believe in it or think they're rpw because they have long hair and wear dresses. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/14 10:06 PM |
| 1 | [Mod] This Sub Is Not A Sales PitchI didn't mean another sub, just a new post in the sidebar maybe called 'All Your General RPW Questions Answered here' or something like that, like you have for the recipes "Official RedPillWoman Recipe Thread". | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/14 09:56 PM |
| 2 | [Mod] This Sub Is Not A Sales Pitchw00t! Just thinking out loud here but what if we had a thread in the side bar specific to asking questions, sort of like askrp but it would be askrpw? I suppose too that the people who don't bother reading the material in the sidebar most likely wouldn't use that either. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/14 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Question on behaviorI'm glad you've taken care of it, I was starting to wonder if her type of thinking was now acceptable here, I'm glad it isn't :) She seems to have a wily way of getting her strong, independent attitude into conversations. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/14 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Question on behaviorMaybe they can't differentiate those things because we're not giving them examples of how to do it right? No, they're not able to differentiate because of the feminist harpies and media pushing the same bs down their throats as you are trying to do. RPW is doing their job very well and reaching/teaching women to open their eyes to the realities before them in spite of people trying to push the "you go girl" mentality, "be independent" bs that you seem to be very interested in peddling around her… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/14 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Question on behaviorI will admit that people drinking does come with a higher risk of them doing stupid things yet you feel the need to keep pushing it as something normal and acceptable. You go girl! Keep doing what you do, nobody cares what you do in your personal life but here on this sub it is not an acceptable behavior and nothing you say will ever change that fact. because telling this one he can't handle her going out with friends is not going to make him stronger in her eyes, it's going to make him seem wea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/14 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Question on behaviorYou shouldn't be dispensing advice here that directly opposes the material in the side bar. You seem to be making it your mission to speak against these ideals or try to skew them in some way. I do wonder why that is? If you are frequently rebutting the ideals presented here why do you keep coming here? It just seems as though you're trying to change the views here or at least question them at every opportunity. In most of your comments you advocate strong woman independent behavior and you're n… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/14 03:30 PM |
| 8 | Question on behaviorHe's not saying he is uncomfortable with her having friends, he just feels uncomfortable that she's out getting drunk at bars. "she still likes to have Girls Night Out and go out dancing/drinking at the clubs and bars with her (mostly single) friends." This is what we as RPW are against. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/14 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Question on behaviorYour advice in general (IMO) has not been RP thus would not keep men interested or attracted to their women. That your SO is an outlier does not make your advice pertinent in this sub; it's the same as though you thought giving advice here was a good idea while you are married to a total beta and you are both happy about it, this would not be conducive to others trying to learn about RP relationships. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/14 02:37 PM |
| 4 | Question on behaviorThe label of rpw actually doesn't matter at all to me. Then maybe you should take your relationship advice that is clearly not RP to a place such as /r/relationships. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/14 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Question on behaviorThis isn't RPW advice at all and to be honest I find a lot of your comments come off as sounding anti-RP. It's as though you want to have a RP label but not actually behave RP. He should let her know how this is inappropriate behavior for a woman in a LTR. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/14 01:54 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Thread: What's your guilty pleasure?I only allow myself new yarn for new projects but I will splurge a little if I come across bags of yarn at thrift stores or yard sales etc. What types of things do you crochet? I think I will give it another try someday just to be able to make Amigurumi animals for when I have grandchildren. I have patterns for knitting these but I prefer the crochet look of them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/14 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Thread: What's your guilty pleasure?It's so bad, but so good! ha ha I feel the same way about it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/14 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Thread: What's your guilty pleasure?I don't really like crochet but love knitting. I bought knitting for dummies many years ago and learned how to knit with it. There are studies that say that knitting increases I.Q, lowers blood pressure and improves motor skills. I make sure to knit when watching movies so that it isn't a total waste of my time ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/14 02:42 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Thread: What's your guilty pleasure?Art stores; paint brushes, paint, yarn and knitting needles. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/14 01:51 AM |
| 4 | Weekly Thread: What's your guilty pleasure?potato chips, plain Lays potato chips. It's the only thing left in my diet that isn't whole foods, prepared at home. I'm also a recovering movie addict, well sorta recovering, ok not recovering but cutting down. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/14 01:50 AM |
| 9 | Man deploys, wife weighs 260 lbs. Wife says "fuck this" and loses 110 lbs. Husband returns to a big surprise!I really enjoy success stories such as these. It's so inspirational not only for weight loss but as a reminder that we can do a lot if we set our minds to it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/03/14 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Want an example of what not to be? I present to you Hannah from HBO series Girls, the most irritating, self-absorbed young female character on TV right now.My daughters introduced me to this show awhile back so I watched a few episodes with them. As we watched I pointed out all the ridiculous things these people were doing and how completely pathetic and empty they were making their lives. I stopped watching and so did they. I was so glad they chose to stop watching it and had the good sense to not fill their heads with such crap. Instead of watching crap on tv/internet how about we fill that time with doing something that will improve our lives in… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/14 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Wanna share a bit of my story with you ladies...long and embarrassing.And to add to /u/eatplaycrush 's comment, she's with another guy now, why would she need to pine over her ex to you when she jumped right back into another relationship? Don't accommodate this girl, she needs to smarten up not be coddled. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/14 06:51 PM |
| 2 | It’s The Boner, Stupidboner owner I'm going to have to use this one someday, lol. These are generalizations that work for the most part but I agree that we have to be on the look out for what may not conform to these generalizations in our SO. Just as an example RPW endorses wearing makeup and heels but if I were to do this it would certainly be a boner-killer for my man and on the same side of this coin so would cutting my hair short. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/14 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Wanna share a bit of my story with you ladies...long and embarrassing.But there is something wrong with her. She cannot see the value in herself or others for that matter. She really needs to work on that. Faulting the guy is ridiculous, he did what he does and she went along with it. Now she doubts herself and is on the verge of mutilating her body over it...damn straight there's something wrong with her! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/14 05:01 PM |
| 8 | Wanna share a bit of my story with you ladies...long and embarrassing.I've moved on, but this thing still haunts me. You haven't moved on, you're wallowing in it and most likely dragging this baggage into your present relationship. Do you honestly believe that having green hair and piercings will give anyone higher value? You know this to be untrue but somehow want us to tell you otherwise. You are acting immature and have low self esteem, work on building more self confidence and stop dating losers. How was he being a good provider if all he provided was sex and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/14 03:18 PM |
| 1 | New to red pill. I think husband is a beta.I just came across this today and wondered how you made out since it's been 4 months now. Were you able to turn things around and if so how? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/14 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Non-religious traditional femininity blogs?most of it directed towards fat people That's strange, I've not noticed this and have been to a lot of traditional/religious based blogs. Here are a few links, my posting history contains a lot more articles from some pretty good sites but mostly directed towards married couples & LTR Sunshine Mary The Life of Liz Adventures in Red Pill Wifery | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/14 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Non-religious traditional femininity blogs?Just ignore the religious parts, the rest is golden and well worth the tiny annoyance of a few bible quotes. You wade through much worse reading reddit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/14 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Stop chasing happinessRPW, read a bit from this sub everyday :) | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/14 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Being a RPW epiphany - it's not about him. It's about you.If the red pill is about sexual strategy, selflessness would be a terrible strategy! Could you elaborate on this please? How exactly would selflessness be a terrible thing for a woman when used in sexual strategy? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/14 12:13 PM |
| 1 | "So, Ladies, You Want a Career?"the idea of letting another person care for my baby struck terror in to my heart . I know there are women that disagree with my decision but for me work isnt important enough when it comes to family It was the same for me, you're not alone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/14 05:55 PM |
| 13 | It’s The Boner, StupidAll we want is a woman who gives us boners, looks nice, and doesn’t annoy us. And yet the simplicity of it is lost on most. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/14 05:33 PM |
| 4 | Finishing college--is it worth it?Being driven to study your own interests independently with minimal regard to how well those skills will support you financially in the future is a luxury many women have that men do not. Beautifully stated. You can be intelligent and educated without a degree. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/14 04:34 PM |
| 3 | A warning: Be extremely selective of which kindergarten you choose for your child. It's influence is much greater than you might believe. (x-post from /r/theredpill)We never let strangers take care of our kids, problem solved. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/14 04:30 PM |
| 4 | "So, Ladies, You Want a Career?"How is it projection, she didn't say all women, she said many of us and we see this on a daily basis right here on RPW. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/14 04:25 PM |
| 7 | "So, Ladies, You Want a Career?"Admit it, ladies, we don’t like each other that much; in fact, many of us are finally admitting that we don’t actually like being in the workforce at all. I wish more women would dare to admit this to themselves, it sure would help prevent a lot of heartache for both women and men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/14 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Camille Paglia: Put the Sex Back in Sex Edperhaps a bit more self-preserving fear and shame might be helpful in today’s hedonistic, media-saturated environment. This right here, if only this were to be pushed more perhaps young women wouldn't be so eager to 'give it up' so easily. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/14 03:06 PM |
| 2 | TRP seems to be working in my life although it's a work in progress. Thanks TRP!I would be interested in hearing what in your opinion he should be doing instead. You've let him know that you think he is the one being childlike and tone implies you think he is pathetic but you don't offer any guidance. What should a man in his position do if he loves his wife and wants to fix his relationship with her? What he did made things better in their marriage, are you saying that it won't last or that they are not really experiencing happiness from his actions? I hope my tone isn't c… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/14 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Tips and Tricks for Sexy HairI too have been noPoo for about 4-5 years. I highly recommend it. Apple cider vinegar is your best friend while doing noPoo. I was able to grow my hair out after having tried and failed everything under the sun. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/14 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Help!! Moving from full blown feminist to swallowing red pillYou can never assume you've just "got it." Quoted directly from /u/AzraelEsdras's comment to you in this thread. Reread her comment it's very insightful. I'm fortunate that I still had a chance at changing my daughter's perceptions of marriage and the gender differences etc, they were still young enough and living with us still. I do not envy your challenge. Best of luck to you. It will take time for your husband to trust you again, keep working on your demeanor and if God is indeed your savior … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/14 06:07 PM |
| – | Help!! Moving from full blown feminist to swallowing red pillApparently I misunderstood this person's intentions; this was only to show you that your husband is a million times better than the poor schmucks in the example. The message...be grateful :) like /u/danabanana9 said: they are just showing her what manginas look like in an attempt to make her realize that she has a good masculine man and should stop the bad stuff she doing and keep him happy :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/14 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Help!! Moving from full blown feminist to swallowing red pillI thought it was extremely over the top and coupled with the other comment I figured it was pretty unproductive overall, but I thought this person was also a long term contributor so confusion ensued. Thanks for clarifying. Never claimed to be the sharpest tool in the shed :p | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/14 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Help!! Moving from full blown feminist to swallowing red pillThe sickening thing is that if something is not on my list and I do it, I add to list so I can cross off. LOL... me too!! Isn't it nice to know there are other crazies around like you?! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/14 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Help!! Moving from full blown feminist to swallowing red pillEDIT: My bad, I misinterpreted your intentions here. Continue on, there's nothing else to see here 0.o So now you're advocating she leave her husband of 21 years for a bluepiller? Why are you even here? This is ridiculous and absolutely terrible!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/14 02:03 PM |
| 0 | Help!! Moving from full blown feminist to swallowing red pillYou need to put yourself into self improvement mode. My opinion would be to start slow, baby steps; you've got a long road ahead of you and you do not want to overwhelm yourself to the point of anxiety and perhaps quitting. Start eating correctly and introduce a bit of exercise into your day. There are plenty of threads here that will give you great ideas on healthy eating and exercise routines. What worked for me personally to drop the extra weight was going on Keto and then once the weight was… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/14 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Help!! Moving from full blown feminist to swallowing red pillI'm wondering why you are trying to shift this to being about her husband? She's here to make improvements for herself. She cannot and should not be trying to change her husband. Are you an active contributor here at RPW? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/14 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Help!! Moving from full blown feminist to swallowing red pillI think some of us had to go the hard route where others were more naturally brought into it. I was a bit of both but where I went wrong I went really wrong so it's taking a longer time to mend and heal the pain and trouble I caused. I'm just lucky I guess that I wasn't a complete shrew and bitch and didn't completely alienate my husband. Ahh the todo list, I have had to do away with that. I still make lists but only for myself now. I hear ya though ;) Edit: changed root to route so it would act… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/14 01:20 PM |
| 3 | "Self-fulfilling negative prophesies" or "Dumb bitch or mean bitch: Pick one"Great post! Very insightful. Be the kind of wife that makes him want to move mountains. He'll pretend to be that better man and eventually become him. Love this :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/14 01:24 AM |
| 3 | "Self-fulfilling negative prophesies" or "Dumb bitch or mean bitch: Pick one"Thanks for sharing this quote, it's great! I feel like anything I say will only fall on deaf ears Story of my life! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/14 01:21 AM |
| – | Help!! Moving from full blown feminist to swallowing red pillSounds like you're both ready for a huge change. Sometimes that's what it takes to snap us out of our self entitlement. Have you read the material in the side bar? Do you do any of the things we advise women to do here at RPW? Here's what we know so far: you won't STFU and let him lead; you are not providing him with his basic needs, good, quality, frequent sex and you lie to him to save face. You have zero respect for him or yourself. Do you take care of your appearance? are you physically fit?… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/14 01:07 AM |
| 0 | Help!! Moving from full blown feminist to swallowing red pillI'm trying to keep an open mind about it but it did kind of make me wonder a bit. She hasn't been back after trying to post this a few other times. My first reaction was wow she's really distraught and wants help now, but now I'm kinda wondering what's up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/02/14 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Shame: how women try to shame you into doing what they wantIndifference is a powerful tool wielded just right. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/14 11:21 PM |
| 6 | Shame: how women try to shame you into doing what they wantVery true, we don't at all. I thought I was pretty smart until shortly after swallowing the RP it really smacked me in the face that I am just as stupid as the rest of those dumb feminists I hate so much because at 44 I still saw the world through my eyes only and it took nearly losing my husband before realizing I should stop that shit. The world looks much different now. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/14 11:15 PM |
| 6 | Help!! Moving from full blown feminist to swallowing red pillI was in a very similar boat as you are in and my husband also introduced me to the RP. After it all sunk in I broke down crying for a good hour or so and finally through snot bubbles and gulping air told him how truly sorry I was. From there I have tried every single day to respect and care for him the right way. I still have trouble but the trick is to apologize/acknowledge right away when you slip up and to never give up; giving up is not an option. When we both realized that I finally "got i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/02/14 08:18 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?I still stand by the sentiment of my comment but I was way too harsh in my delivery. I certainly do not need or expect protection from the elements but in my relationship it has always been provided so if it suddenly stopped I would immediately know there was a problem and I would most likely have been the cause. I would apply this to any such similar situation, not just a rainy day; if you expect a certain behavior from someone and you're not eliciting it then the first thing you should do is l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Preparing for a bumpy roadIt's always when you're at your weakest that the hamster in you is at it's strongest! It knows! It's always lurking and watching for these moments. I was terrified of acupuncture but it is mostly a painless procedure. Once in a while and this is what you want to happen, they will place the needle in just the right spot and you will feel a sort of localized explosion of tingles, sort of like the feeling you get when you try walking on your foot after it fell asleep. You want this because this is … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Really Need Some HelpMaybe if you tried harder to not take what he says so personally. He's a hard working man with a lot on his plate, he's obviously troubled by a million things so if you could be his "pillow"(/u/Phantomdream09's<sup>TM</sup> ) he might start being more your rock. None of these decisions you simply don't like or think you know more about are life threatening so just do as he says and if you do it and he still has a problem, let it go anyway. To quote /u/danabanana9, ask yourself, is this the hill … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 03:14 PM |
| – | Preparing for a bumpy roadI have a very similar problem and it is extremely debilitating. It's not even the pain that gets me the worse although it is unbearable, it's the guilt over not pulling my weight around the house and seeing my husband do it all and serve me. It freaks me the hell out! The guilt often makes me pull away emotionally; I've had to really keep an eye on that as it really isn't fair to my husband who is doing all the work, taking care of me and having to deal with me being a bitch, yikes! It can be re… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 01:45 PM |
| 3 | "Sometimes the First Officer actually overrules the Captain in a crisis and gives the crew an order" -MMSL Primer- Have you ever needed to overrule your captain? Why?Yes I was thinking the same thing. My husband was in the hospital for two months but even then I never thought of myself as being the captain. I was making decisions based on what I knew he would want or do himself. When he was really bad I did have to make a serious call but again we had already discussed the possibility and I knew what his wishes were. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Preparing for a bumpy roadSo would you say that this is what is giving you anxieties the most? You already seem to have a really good game going as far as cooking, cleaning and keeping yourself in shape and pretty. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 12:17 AM |
| – | Preparing for a bumpy roadIs your back problem fixed or still part of your worries? edit: I read back problems but it's health problems, sorry, are they still a concern? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/14 12:06 AM |
| 4 | "Sometimes the First Officer actually overrules the Captain in a crisis and gives the crew an order" -MMSL Primer- Have you ever needed to overrule your captain? Why?Ha ha, your husband wants to go live in a shack in the woods too?! My answer to this pretty much mirrors yours. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 11:50 PM |
| 2 | A Husband's Awesome Response to "She's a Stay at Home Mom? What does she DO all day?"It's very refreshing hearing this from someone as young as yourself. It gives me hope :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 09:10 PM |
| 1 | To what extent do you use your looks/femininityIt really is the complete opposite of RPW, a kind of "what you should never do" documentary. I would read it ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?lol ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 08:36 PM |
| 1 | To what extent do you use your looks/femininityIt's pretty bad! I was left feeling disgusted for quite some time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 08:35 PM |
| 4 | To what extent do you use your looks/femininityIt's important for us to be aware of these benefits, and to actively try and minimize how much we "tap into" those advantages deliberately. I'm so glad someone brought this up. Manipulating others just because you can doesn't make it right. While looking through /r/redpillmedia I came across Sex, Lies and Rinsing Guys and it made me feel ill the way these women openly manipulate men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 08:17 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?I see today what you were trying to communicate to me last night and if I wouldn't have been so far up on my high horse I would have understood. Thanks for trying, I appreciate and get it today. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 07:52 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?Hey, thank you for trying to make me come down my high horse last night. I really appreciate your efforts. Just so you know it did reach me :) I feel bad for making my fellow RPW uncomfortable with my harsh assessment here. It was a low blow and unwarranted. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Really Need Some HelpI know that you are overwhelmed and by the sounds of it at the end of your rope but the more you concentrate on the negative the more of it you invite into your life. Only you can judge whether you can turn things around or not. The mantra here is that you cannot change your SO only yourself. Work on always improving yourself and maybe just maybe he will regain some self confidence. I still feel that you can't or won't let go of the anger and resentment you feel towards your husband and this I f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 06:25 PM |
| 0 | I want to plan a surprise weekend away for my SO, and would like your input ladies of RPW.This is so great and sweet of you. I think you're definitely on the right path and it doesn't seem controlling. Rookie mistakes are usually when ladies plan what they think as the best gift for their SO when indeed it's nothing he enjoys at all and just for her. I don't see that here at all. Have an awesome time :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 05:21 PM |
| 1 | OK Ladies, No More SO BitchfestsApparently I do too ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 02:53 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?After a night's sleep I realized that my attitude had been somewhat clouded by some personal feelings stemming from all kinds of somewhat complicated family matters, flu and my damn perimenopausal mood swings acting up again. I really shouldn't have been commenting so late while feeling so blah and on edge. I too have moments of anger seemingly caused by my husband and 99% of the time it's completely my fault. It comes from my placing an unrealistic expectation on him that he of course fails and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 02:24 PM |
| 3 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?You know what Cat_fox, you're absolutely right. I was actually advocating leaving posts up that sounded trollish or SO-bashing for most of the day and here I am jumping to conclusions and being overly harsh based on very little information. In all honesty this isn't my usual style and I'm thinking I should have most likely stopped giving my opinion a few hours ago as I am feeling crotchety and tired. So if you'll bear with me just a little while longer I will try to sort this out between you and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 01:33 AM |
| 1 | How can I stop being insecure about my relationship?Yes I do this too and the trick too is like you said not to do this "all" the time and the results are far more likely to be positive. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 12:47 AM |
| 2 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?The entire tone of her post oozes with self entitlement especially her description of "glared daggers", what is she 12? After being married that long (looong??) she hasn't put together that glaring at someone is just plain childish? I will certainly entertain that my first comment might have been too harsh a judgment on their relationship but since she won't address me herself about it and instead passively aggressively comments about it " Some people seem to be jumping to really extreme conclus… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/14 12:24 AM |
| -1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?Same here. This is just fodder for him to snap one of these days and she'll be all like, "I don't know why he would do that to me?". | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 11:21 PM |
| 0 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?Is this comment meant to be helpful in anyway? I can't seem to follow what you are trying to say here. maybe OP could've taken some of that time to teach him how she likes to be treated It's not OP's place to teach her husband how to treat her, it's her job to earn the way she gets treated. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 11:14 PM |
| 0 | OK Ladies, No More SO Bitchfestsno, you're right, it's creepy and disrespectful no matter the situation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 11:09 PM |
| 1 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?Yup, I just wonder if OP can see this for herself. It's a hard thing to accept about yourself and not too many people have the strength of character to admit to having or, let alone try to fix their character flaws. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 10:58 PM |
| 9 | How to stop this negative rumination, or whatever you'd call it...?EDIT: I would like to point out that my comment below was too harsh for the amount of information I had to go by. I explain it further into the comments below if you're interested. So it would seem you do not have your husband's full respect. I would take this opportunity to do some serious soul searching to see what it is that you are doing that would make your husband not care that you are being left out in the rain. My husband would have done one of two tings in this situation, drive me as cl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Hi RPW, new face here! I know my post might seem out of place, but I hope you can provide some help.he takes vitamins as well to supplement the nutrition he lacks. That's really good, at least if he does choose to keep eating poorly he will have a bit of compensation on his side. There are some things you will just have to learn to let go of and replace with the awesome things he brings into your lives. Be strong and love your man with all of your might. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 10:28 PM |
| 1 | OK Ladies, No More SO BitchfestsI think PMing them and asking them to rewrite it is a good idea. Perhaps you mods could fabricate a response explaining why RPW do not bash SOs and offer suggestions on how to fix it; you could use this one response for all similar posts so you don't have to rewrite it everytime. Maybe you could use Sugarcrush's idea (MMSL FAQ)in the fabrication of the response and place the information from this response in the sidebar as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 10:22 PM |
| 2 | OK Ladies, No More SO BitchfestsI like this one too. I was just looking through them over at MMSL and it seems like a really good system. I had missed this part of their site somehow. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 10:03 PM |
| 1 | OK Ladies, No More SO BitchfestsYes that's a good idea. The problem with that though is lack of information in order for us to help out. We then will have to ask a lot more questions to find out what the core of the problem really is. When we get those long SO bashing ones it immediately alerts us that this woman is to blame no questions asked, we then just have to pin down exactly which behavior she has to change or ban the bitch, whichever is deemed more appropriate ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 08:59 PM |
| 1 | How can I stop being insecure about my relationship?Ah yes, my husband has given me this speech as well, very eye opening indeed! Awesome point and I'm glad you brought it up as I have come close to voicing something that would most likely have brought this point right back at me. thx ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 08:35 PM |
| 2 | OK Ladies, No More SO BitchfestsIt really is irritating, especially for those who have heard the same story a hundred times but should we be discouraging women who really do need help and who will take our advice seriously too? We should probably ask ourselves, is it worth helping one woman to actually "get it" out of perhaps a dozen who won't? RPW is growing quite fast, it's getting a lot of attention and a lot of it will turn out to be fruitless but some will stay and go on to be great wives. Hell some of them might even ret… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Meet the Parentsaww, you take the time to call her, that's so great to hear. :) Do you have any sisters in their early to mid 20's lol ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Meet the ParentsI already gave my point of view but upon thinking about it further it occurred to me that it does depend a lot on the parents too. If the mom used to be a stripper or in the entertainment business etc then I really don't think your choice of makeup and clothing will matter all that much. I replied from my own perspective as a somewhat old fashioned type of lady. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 06:39 PM |
| 6 | OK Ladies, No More SO Bitchfestsif they realize the problem isn't their SO but how THEY are dealing with their SO This was my point, they don't realize that they are the problem until we point it out. They live in situations where their friends and family take their sides and keep feeding them bullshit so they come here because they know something is just not quite right and that's when we drop the bomb and make it all click for them. I agree that they should learn how to state a problem without bad talking their SO, I just th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Meet the ParentsThis is how I got my MIL to warm up to me too but the only thing that really did it was popping out grandchildren but I wouldn't recommend that on the first meeting, lol ;) It's the mom you want to impress the most, showing interest in her hobbies and listening to her attentively should earn her bonus points. Getting her to talk about her son too. We loooove talking about our kids :) Breaking out the photo albums etc, always a treat! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 05:04 PM |
| 11 | OK Ladies, No More SO BitchfestsI agree that there shouldn't be any SO bashing but how does one approach a situation that is causing disharmony in the relationship when you believe it's something to do with your SO? I've noticed for the most part these newcomers don't realize that it's them causing the problem until we point it out. Would there be a certain formula or protocol to asking these types of questions or should they just keep it out of this sub? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a disabled person?You really should cut out all night shade plants, it really does help. Just try it for two weeks then reintroduce it to your diet, you'll see. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 04:48 PM |
| 7 | Meet the ParentsMother of 24, 22 & 20 yr old sons, do not wear a ton of makeup(natural look) or jewelery. Keep your clothes modest looking, nothing revealing your breast and thighs. You want to present a nice girl next door look with an air of intelligence. You do not want to come off as purely eye candy. I like /u/blondie_brownie's link to the hair. Keep it out of your face and keep it simple. Nobody is ever good enough for our sons so your job is to prove us wrong. Be sweet, polite (for god's sake never chew … | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 04:36 PM |
| 4 | Hi RPW, new face here! I know my post might seem out of place, but I hope you can provide some help.Your concern for his health is quite warranted but you're dancing on a fine line of mothering and nagging. The only thing I can think of at this juncture would be to gather reading material backing up your concerns about the potentially dangerous food choices he's making, present them to him along with your own personal concerns and let him do as he pleases from there. You then know you have done everything in your own power, now it is up to him. That's what a first officer does, takes informati… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/14 04:20 PM |
| 1 | "I don't give head" - a message from my friend's gfsince I have I have NEVER regretted saying anything that would make my BP self uncomfortable. That's good, keep it up. RP has really opened my eyes to how cruel girls are to guys, I have zero respect for girls who treat guys like the Op's example. They fully deserve to be put in their place (and some). | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/14 03:23 PM |
| 2 | What happens when you drop a bunch of women on an island to fend for themselves?ahh yes, overlooked that part, my bad. Well at least my daughters know how to do this stuff and they fit that age group ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/14 01:58 AM |
| 7 | What happens when you drop a bunch of women on an island to fend for themselves?RPW here. I'm from a small fishing/hunting community in one of the maritime provinces in Canada and I'm certain that if myself and a dozen of my classmates from when we were in our 20's had been dumped on an island we would not have just sat around sun bathing. Most of us know how to hunt, fish, build etc. I'm also certain we would never have matched the men but we could have held our own. Having the men introduced to our island would not have made us stop working either but we most likely would… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/14 11:41 PM |
| 4 | "I don't give head" - a message from my friend's gfToo bad he couldn't have responded with something like, "then I'll have to find me a co-pilot that will". | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/14 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Help me support him PLEASE!Just don't be that girl that pushes his buttons to the point of violence and then run away screaming what an abusive asshole he is. Make sure you are not encouraging this behavior. I have heard other women, Dana I believe, mention on a recent thread that her husband doesn't like her to assume a submissive stance either so play it the way you believe is best. There are nuances to this as well. Avoiding looking like a male counterpart is always beneficial but kneeling or making yourself smaller an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Help me support him PLEASE!I'm glad you've found support in RPW as so many of us here have as well. Just keep in mind that your energy and youth might need toning down from time to time especially when you see those mood swings coming. Do not argue, condescend, or try to make everything about you. If he's in the habit of throwing things around while angry, you need to make sure you are not provoking or exasperating the outbursts. Adopt a submissive attitude and do not raise your voice to him. Do not stare him down. Do not… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 09:53 PM |
| 0 | Help me support him PLEASE!I just wondered if your youth wasn't what was getting to him, tiring him out like a child does a parent at times. I don't mean this to be disrespectful of you in any way but as something to take into consideration. You could be overwhelming him with your young energy when he is too tired and worn out from work and his own problems. Making sure you are not over taxing him with trivial talk or problems and providing a quiet soothing environment for him to come home to would be quite helpful for st… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 09:26 PM |
| -1 | Help me support him PLEASE!That is a significant age difference. Do you consider yourself mature for your age or still very youthful in your demeanor? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Help me support him PLEASE!Just curious but why wouldn't you tell him how horny he makes you? Guys love hearing that. Could he be doing drugs? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 08:53 PM |
| 3 | Help me support him PLEASE!That's never funny IMO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 08:50 PM |
| -1 | Help me support him PLEASE!Are you sure you are providing him with enough sex? Sounds like you're not making yourself available when he comes home late. Sexual frustration can play quite a number on his emotions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 08:47 PM |
| -1 | Help me support him PLEASE!body, mood, doesn't matter, taking what is seen as a woman's irrational behavior and comparing it to his behavior is emasculating. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Help me support him PLEASE!And??? She said she told him this, I'm telling her that's a mistake. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 08:37 PM |
| 2 | Help me support him PLEASE!If meditating and exercising were helping this why isn't he still doing it? Can you somehow help him get back into it? Point it out to him? When he comes home all wound up, do you try helping him relax? Something sexual, massage, favorite meal waiting? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Help me support him PLEASE!Please refrain from comparing a woman's biology to his, this is very emasculating even when only meant as a joke. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 08:32 PM |
| 3 | How do you handle compliments from men other than your SO?Best of luck with this :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Dating as a disabled person?I just don't think she should be setting herself up for a limited sex life before she has even tried. There are all kinds of hormones released when aroused that could in fact relieve pain and make sex quite enjoyable for her. All I'm saying is that she won't know until she's tried and there's no point her borrowing sorrow for tomorrow. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 05:32 PM |
| 6 | How do you handle compliments from men other than your SO?ok, I see. That does sound very uncomfortable, stressful and inappropriate especially if he knows you're taken. It's almost as though he's testing you day to day to see if you have "changed your mind" or have suddenly become single. I guess if you're hot you can't really blame him for trying but it is obviously making you uncomfortable. Maybe next time you could show through your body language that you do not approve. Don't smile back, show a bit of exasperation and annoyance, not too much but e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 05:08 PM |
| 6 | Dating as a disabled person?You really should do a search on grains and arthritis on google. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 04:18 PM |
| 7 | Dating as a disabled person?But you haven't had sex yet, how on earth would you know? Look, you need to get out there and live a little before thinking you might be doomed. Let nature take it's course. You do not have any dating experience therefore you cannot know how you will react to any of it. When you fall in love your body releases all kinds of chemicals making you do things and think things you never thought possible. There are zillions of sexual positions and acts that could be accommodated to your situation. You a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a disabled person?I don't mind letting a hypothetical SO have another partner for sex Are you saying you wouldn't mind if your SO had sex with other girls instead of you? Are you implying that because you would have a hard time with some positions in order to compensate you would tell him you don't mind him getting sex elsewhere? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 03:59 PM |
| 7 | Dating as a disabled person?From your comments so far it appears as though you are still pretty immature and naive even for your age. Do you not have any girl friends that do date and who could help you with wardrobe, hair and general girl maintenance? If you peruse this sub you will find some really good girl game advise and links to other sites that could help. Your weight and acne should really be addressed, make sure you are eating mostly whole foods, meat and veggies/fruit. Avoid sugar and keep hydrated. Do you have s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 03:54 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle compliments from men other than your SO?What I don't get is why would anyone stay after a polite thank you? Say thank you and move on, anything else is an invitation for more talk. Staying locked into his frame would make him believe that you are inviting him to pursue it further while turning away from him and walking away if possible sends a clear message that you have no further interest in engaging him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 03:27 PM |
| 7 | Dating as a disabled person?Are you pretty, feminine and attractive? Can you offer your date anything like a more sedentary type date lets say at home. A home cooked meal, movie, music type thing? Do you play video games? I think a guy could overlook the illness if you're attractive, kind and generous. If you can cook and take care of general needs for the most part, not be whiny or self absorbed from this illness. One of my sons dated a semi-disabled girl a few years back and we all adored her because she had such a great… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Really Need Some HelpI thought we had lost you yesterday, I'm glad we didn't :) Now we have a bit more to work with. All of the major improvements in him in this marriage have come about by me changing myself. This is a good thing. I did see your posts on this and you have done a very good job with that. I can see where it would become very lonely and exhausting to be doing this all on your own. How do you feel about showing him RP material? Can you discuss your feelings with him at all? As first mates we are certai… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/14 02:51 AM |
| 2 | The Ultimate Blue Pill Fantasy: How I Met Your MotherNow I just need another 4,999,999 people to agree and it will hold some weight. Ha ha! If you're brave you could go over to /r/women and ask ;) I probably won't ever watch anything like those shows ever again. Since RP I don't have the stomach or patience for it. Of course my transformation isn't 100% complete yet (is it ever?) Never ending journey I'm afraid ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/14 01:08 AM |
| 8 | The Ultimate Blue Pill Fantasy: How I Met Your MotherRPW here. I watch the Walking Dead because it pretty much forces the men to act like men. There are moments of hesitation but they mostly always follow through. Survival is really masculine IMO. I think I hated Robin the most in HIMYM, she was such a cock tease whore. Ted is a close second well because he's Ted. Marshal was just Lillie's bitch and Barney was comic relief. It really dragged on the last few years, I haven't even tried watching this year. Have you ever tried watching Rules of Engag… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/14 09:59 PM |
| 6 | Felicia Day and the short hair debacleShe deserves whatever flak she gets. It was a dumb move. She looks old and uninteresting now. It will no doubt affect her career too. She was popular. Your 15 minutes are up Felicia. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/14 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Disturbing New Feminist Trend: Free-Bleeding. Even 'normal' women are horrified.My hamster's going with hoax ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/14 06:00 PM |
| 1 | 3 lessons from ballroom dancingI can only imagine! Without clear directions I too often stumble. It's quite the dance being in a relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/14 04:22 PM |
| 10 | Really Need Some HelpI've been checking out your post history out of concern for you and have discovered that you are not actually submitting to your SO and that you do not trust him. I guess I'm saying... I liked many aspects of being a surrendered wife (I like this term better than submissive) - but I'm not willing to be a doormat or be treated badly again. I'm really hoping the "take care of yourself" + "say no when you need to" + "show your underbelly" will make the difference. Also you admit to contributing ear… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/14 04:06 PM |
| 13 | Really Need Some HelpIt sounds like his issue is with his mother not you but is projecting it all onto you. His mother most likely made him feel that sex was dirty in some way or at the very least has given him a very twisted view on sex if she believes you should be denying him sex to control him. This really looks like a deep psychological scar inflicted by his mom. Without therapy or at least his willingness to talk about it, I really don't know what you could do other than what you have been doing. On the one ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/14 03:06 PM |
| 2 | 3 lessons from ballroom dancingMy thoughts exactly. I do wonder what would be considered "basic steps" as it would pertain to relationships? It would seem that many women don't possess even the slightest clue. My first shot at it would be to submit to your man, be feminine, respectful and trusting. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/14 12:55 PM |
| 7 | 3 lessons from ballroom dancingRPW here. This is awesome. Thanks for sharing. Frame is the most important thing after actually getting up and trying the steps. Would it be safe to assume that the ladies have to learn the basic steps as well? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/14 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Disturbing New Feminist Trend: Free-Bleeding. Even 'normal' women are horrified.RPW here. If this indeed is a real trend and I come across one of these idiots I will personally give them a piece of my mind and maybe even cheerfully kick them in their free bleeding box. You would have to be completely retarded to do this? Lock them up, throw away the key! | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/14 12:37 PM |
| 3 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)So you are saying that the new RPM would essentially be what TRP is now and TRP would become the safer place for both genders to have discussions together? | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/14 11:51 AM |
| 3 | I'm new to this and I would like to understand TRP a bit more. It seems there's a variation in peoples life styles with this. What does it mean to you to be in a red pill relationship?Perhaps you have become too depressed and overwhelmed. We sometimes go into marriage with fairytale expectations and when it doesn't turn out the way we thought we get disappointed and resentful. You may not have even noticed at first and as you see you have pretty much neglected everything that makes a marriage work. It snowballs. Look, you're not alone. Everyone here is continuously trying to improve their life to attain or maintain a quality marriage/LTR. It takes work and a shit pile of pati… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/02/14 12:26 AM |
| 2 | lazy, unmotivated boyfriendit seems like a consistent pattern of behavior over a long period of time. This would have been nice to know from the very beginning. He sounds like a spoiled brat living off mom & dad's allowance. A year and a half seems like enough time to vet him and if she's pretty much had it with his behavior for the last 8 months, she should let him know that she cannot continue wasting her life along with him, that she has a whole life ahead of her and it doesn't include laying in bed all day everyday. S… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 11:50 PM |
| 2 | What improvement are you going to work on this week?I love doing that! I go on kicks like that 2-3 times a year. If it isn't moving one room into another it's completely rearranging an entire room. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 11:38 PM |
| 3 | I'm new to this and I would like to understand TRP a bit more. It seems there's a variation in peoples life styles with this. What does it mean to you to be in a red pill relationship?Ok so I read your comments and the underlying tone is that you are resentful of the way your life has turned out and you want it to change. If you go by the way of RP you would have to embrace your femininity and his masculinity. So far as things seem to stand you do not respect or trust your husband, instead you resent him for how your life has turned out up to now. In short you seem to blame him for your unhappiness. This of course is not a good foundation to begin your journey. The first thin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 11:27 PM |
| 1 | I'm new to this and I would like to understand TRP a bit more. It seems there's a variation in peoples life styles with this. What does it mean to you to be in a red pill relationship?Do you have children? Do you bake, do crafts/hobbies? Cook? What do you do that you think as being feminine? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 10:08 PM |
| 1 | lazy, unmotivated boyfriendThis all gets weirder and weirder. Is she with you now telling you stuff? How is it that you have new information now from the time you wrote the original post? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 09:42 PM |
| 11 | Fiance wants a prenup...what do I do?! I'm so sad and insulted.Your doubts here alone says red flag to me. I don't think he should be allowed He's the captain and allowed he most certainly is. As his first mate you may bring up your concerns in a polite and rational way but in the long run his decisions are final. That you ran to strangers instead of him first suggests that you do not respect or feel confident in the choices he makes. I would really suggest you re-read your own post because it sounds very selfish and disrespectful of your SO, IMO. Other tha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 08:44 PM |
| 5 | lazy, unmotivated boyfriendSo for the first half of their relationship he was a very outgoing guy and then suddenly he isn't? I'm sensing a large piece of this puzzle is missing. Other than mental illness, depression, a loss, drugs or relationship problems I can't really see that he would just suddenly become lazy. What does she do to help him? Domestic chores don't count as help. Has she given up on him? Do you know whether she thinks he's getting enough quality sex? See this is all very one sided, not really fair to him… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 08:05 PM |
| 2 | (GBG Book Club) The Surrendered Wife: Foster Friendships with Womenyes, I annoy myself me too lol!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 07:35 PM |
| 6 | lazy, unmotivated boyfriendThis all sounds really strange. How are they surviving if neither one of them are out working? Surely her little cake business wasn't enough income for the both of them; and he wants her to just stop and lay there all day? It doesn't make sense. Has she not voiced her own concerns to him? If he doesn't care about how this is affecting her then he is not a good man for her (if he really isn't depressed or mentally ill in some way, which it kind of looks like he does). | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 07:33 PM |
| 1 | (GBG Book Club) The Surrendered Wife: Foster Friendships with WomenI know that I might have contributed to that feeling, it's not that I don't value female friendship it's that I cannot find anyone who is like-minded. If I just settle I find myself either trying to push my ideas on them or their ideas intrude into my life. I can't seem to win. I thank my lucky stars to have found this community and very much value the "cyber-friendships" I have found here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 05:46 PM |
| 5 | What skills are important for a RPW?Generally you should always try to think before you speak or react. Ask yourself if what you feel like saying is actually helpful or just criticism, is it just for the sake of being heard, attention seeking? Do you correct your SO? Do you interrupt your SO? Are you polite and sweet while speaking to your SO or loud and abrasive? I came across this awhile back you could use as an example: respect | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 04:40 PM |
| 2 | What skills are important for a RPW?Then I am confused, what was your concern? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 04:13 PM |
| 2 | What skills are important for a RPW?Oh goodness no, this is in general! My apologies if my tone gave you the impression I was attacking you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 04:02 PM |
| 6 | What skills are important for a RPW?I would say that you we as women should really practice the art of knowing when to be quiet(stfu), respectful, mindful and forgiving. Edit: I am speaking in general terms. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 03:06 PM |
| 2 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)Maybe you could make a post there asking their opinion on this. I too believe that it would be very beneficial for both groups to share thoughts and opinions but where we have separated the two with gender specific titles(making ours RPW seems to make that implication IMO), it really does sound like they are not to be crossed. We have the occasional male come here and they always seem a bit sheepish or apologetic at first which makes sense since the sub name specifies it's for women; the same ri… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 02:53 PM |
| 2 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)I finally get it, I feel silly that until now I was looking at it as though these virtues were perceived equally through both genders. It feels nice to have that opened up for me finally. Sometimes I feel like I've been living under a rock for 40 years. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 02:37 PM |
| 3 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)I absolutely love your style of writing and explaining. Like Dana said, de-lurk more and do it here or it's time to start a co-edRP sub. It makes perfect sense that loyalty along with much of any if not all emotions, virtues etc would be perceived differently from each gender. We're not the same and we operate on different "fuel", testosterone and estrogen. As RP we are trying to understand and embrace these differences, and like you said once we do we'll be much happier for it. I really like th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 02:22 PM |
| 3 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)Thank you. I finally completely understand this now. It actually sunk in with yours and Karmasutur3's help. I finally have clarity on this subject and how it pertains to my relationship...it feels great!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 03:38 AM |
| 2 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)Thank you! That made perfect sense. thank you thank you thank you!!! I understand now. I love these epiphanies :) You're awesome! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 03:31 AM |
| 3 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)Would she still be considered hypergamous? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 03:22 AM |
| 2 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)I do wish some of them could be made to see that the way they relate to others makes them seem so very childish, like a 5 yr old having a temper tantrum and how it really reflects badly on them and the community. It just makes me feel sad for them which I know is not the response they are looking for but the mother in me just wants to pat them on the head and say "there there" when I'm sure they are going for the fear/intimidation factor. But I do get it and like I said I try to respect it knowi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 03:14 AM |
| 5 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)Are you saying that the guys over there would be ok with us posting there in general or are you just saying we shouldn't be afraid to? Like an invitation? I guess I'm confused because I thought it was highly regarded as a Men only club by the majority. Wouldn't they freak if we all went over there and started commenting all of a sudden? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 02:56 AM |
| 6 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)So would you say that a woman that stays with her man through years of all kinds of troubles such as beta-ing down, illness, job loss etc is loyal or is it something else? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 02:45 AM |
| 2 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)No I don't blame them one iota, they deserve a place where they are free to vent. I admire you all for standing up to your rights to be men again just like I admire the women here reclaiming their right to be feminine. It's a shame though that it needs to be so darn difficult at times. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 01:49 AM |
| 7 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)lol most likely. I'm used to my husband and how he vents etc but these guys can be sooo spiteful, is the only word that I can find at the moment. It's like they try to reach down your throat and into your soul and try to stomp on it. It's a bit jarring! I'm really not used to it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 12:16 AM |
| 11 | If any of you hens find TRP to be a little too raw...(crosspost from TRP)This does clear things a bit, thank you. I find it very intimidating to post/comment there and it just feels like I'm intruding if I say anything. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/14 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Single Ladies Roll CallSounds a lot like this stuff Sex Lies And Rinsing Guys | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/14 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Single Ladies Roll CallThat was my thought exactly! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/14 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Working out more has made my hips too narrow! What do I do?Oh sure, wasn't implying you were whining, just making sure you knew not to do it in front of your guy. You'd be surprised how many don't realize that! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/14 01:45 AM |
| 3 | Working out more has made my hips too narrow! What do I do?For goodness sakes don't whine about this around men, that alone would be a turn off. Be confident with what you have, you're doing everything to keep fit and trim, now just make sure your personality is awesome too and you're golden. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/14 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Betaising The Alpha Male - an article I thought you guys might appreciate discussingok, thanks for your patience then :) I will certainly keep this in mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/14 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Betaising The Alpha Male - an article I thought you guys might appreciate discussingYes the writing was shitty but all in all the motives for the most part are realistic. That's what got me the most, as a woman dealing with this shit, how he explains it rang true for the most part. I say for the most part because I'm not or ever was a gold digger so I don't know anything about that nor am I clinically psychotic or depressed even though you seem to have that opinion ;) Anyway, I thought that maybe some men here would appreciate it as far as seeing things from the point of view t… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/14 06:41 PM |
| 2 | What are the Blue Pill beliefs you cannot seem to let go of?Let me get this straight, you want us as RPW to discuss our blue pill "ideas"? 0.o | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/14 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Betaising The Alpha Male - an article I thought you guys might appreciate discussingyup, he did along with the reasons why women do it and the reasons why you can never let your guard down; a bit of psychology and biology to add to the hows and whys of shit testing. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/14 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Super Bowl or boringnow I really want to see that fight. Dana White's been known to be a bit "bitchy" when things don't go his way but who knows ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/14 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Super Bowl or boringWe didn't get to see that, he basically retired?? That makes him sound like a sore loser! Damn. Don't tell me anymore about the actual fight, I won't tell my husband in case he hasn't heard yet. How long ago was this? We haven't had the chance to watch anything like that in quite some time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/14 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone know, or have ever known what TheRedPill calls a unicorn?There's a bunch of unicorns in the making at /r/RedPillWomen. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/14 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Betaising The Alpha Male - an article I thought you guys might appreciate discussingYou're welcome. I thought so too. My only wish would be for the author to have it proof read, I don't think his first language is English. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/14 01:49 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, what do you think is the best thing about being in a red pill relationship?That makes me sound like a giant hippie but it's true. ha ha love this. So glad you have found peace and love ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/14 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Super Bowl or boringlol, me too! I can't watch when there's too much blood either but that just makes my husband enjoy it more! I want to watch but it's just so gross, so I peek from around my own arm or ask him to let me know if the close ups are done. Sometimes we compete by each choosing a different guy so if let's say my guy is losing I start absolutely freaking out and yelling at the tv etc. it's a blast. My favorite is GSP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/14 08:47 PM |
| 3 | How many of you actually celebrate V Day?That's hilarious!! Sperm shaped food, haha! There are tons of free patterns and I'm sure you'll see other interesting things while you search, lol. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/14 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what do you think is the best thing about being in a red pill relationship?The best thing about RP to me is finally being aware of the reality of things surrounding me. I no longer live in the feminist shadow and I now know that men have been given the short end of the stick and why. It really has opened my mind to men's needs and what I as a woman can do to help instead of making things worse for them. RPW has been my guiding light, a source of focus keeping me on the right track. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/14 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Super Bowl or boringI watch UFC with my husband too. I actually enjoy it. He seems to really like that I like it too :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/14 06:10 PM |
| 8 | How many of you actually celebrate V Day?We did a few times when we were young but now that we're older we celebrate our love when we want to celebrate it not when big brother wants us to, lol. We get more Valentine-like days that way ;) Oh and eww on blow jobs as gifts!!! That's a complete no-no. Give your man a blow job because he deserves them every/any day of the year. Edit: you could knit him a willy warmer ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/14 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Watching porn in a relationshipMy way of looking at it is that we don't have to like that they do this but we better be respectful of it. I also felt similar to what you describe when I was younger. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/14 05:37 PM |
| 5 | Watching porn in a relationshipI totally agree with what Dana said, RPW or not. She's shit testing and not being respectful of your needs. On top of this she doesn't seem to have a problem with watching it herself? pfft, put her in her in her place or you will be regretting not doing it until the divorce or death do you part. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/14 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Married Ladies Roll CallI met my husband while in university. He was a friend of a new friend I had just made there; he wasn't a student. The first thing I noticed was his huge muscles, tan, how tall he was and his v-shaped torso. He screamed testosterone and made everyone stare. Just yum! We knew each other as friends for about a year and then from the time we professed our mutual love for each other until we married was about 8 months. We were only engaged a little over a month when we decided to elope. I was 23 and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/14 04:10 PM |
| 3 | [BP Example] Is he easy going?You could have asked her what her definition of easy going is and just be honest from there. I don't see why anyone would need to pussy foot around someone who is obviously not worth a second thought. You don't even need to be rude either, you love and respect your SO, let it be known with pure unadulterated confidence. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/02/14 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, is there a way to gracefully approach 'the wall'?I might get out myself before that happens so that I do it on my own terms. So very sad and so anti-RPW. Why would anybody want to be with someone who requires "wife goggles" to love them and be faithful to them? That to me is incredibly degrading. Lol, wife goggles is just a saying, it just represents what happens to a man once he becomes attached to you; it's the same thing as just saying don't become a fat angry shrew and he'll still be around. There's no degradation in that unless you do let… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/14 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, is there a way to gracefully approach 'the wall'?I don't use shampoo either, once a week I use our own homemade soap(bar) and an apple cider vinegar rinse, my hair has never been healthier. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/14 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, is there a way to gracefully approach 'the wall'?TRP men are not there to discuss how wonderful their LTR are, they go there to seek advice on sexual strategy and to vent their frustrations from all the lies they've been fed all their lives. However there are a few married RP men who are in it for the long haul and use RP strategies on their wives in order to maintain a long healthy relationship without any thoughts of trading their wives in for hotter/newer models. There are plenty of guys who seek healthy LTR. I've been married to the same m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/14 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, is there a way to gracefully approach 'the wall'?I just wanted to let you know that this was very beautifully written and one of the best descriptions of the wall I've read. Bravo :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/14 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, is there a way to gracefully approach 'the wall'?Why are you here then? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/14 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, is there a way to gracefully approach 'the wall'?You sound a bit bitter in your response. Of course every woman ages and it will show, we can't hide that but we can take steps to prolong the effects of aging and maintain a feminine disposition for our SOs all the while keeping those wife goggles firmly in place. You cannot approach the wall gracefully. You can indeed approach the wall gracefully, many have done so quite successfully. Accept the fact that you will become useless to men and stack up on resources for when it happens. In other wor… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/14 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, is there a way to gracefully approach 'the wall'?This really doesn't sound like RPW advice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/14 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, is there a way to gracefully approach 'the wall'?with the added bonus of adding no more chemicals into your body. I think this has prolonged my wall hitting days quite considerably, I really stress this with my daughters. It's bad enough that we are subjected to all kinds of pollutants outside of our control, adding them to our bodies on purpose just seems counterintuitive IMHO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/14 05:19 PM |
| 1 | (GBG Book Club) The Surrendered Wife: Relinquish the Chore of Managing the FinancesThat's what my thought was but your comment on keeping it open ended because things change made it sound to me as though this is what you were implying. I think we're on the same page now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/14 05:13 PM |
| 1 | (GBG Book Club) The Surrendered Wife: Relinquish the Chore of Managing the FinancesThank you for clarifying :) Personally, I think it should be open ended always. Things change. So in my situation, are you saying I should keep asking him if he would like to take over the finances? Wouldn't this be second guessing his decision? If he wanted to take over the finances he just would. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/14 05:07 PM |
| 1 | (GBG Book Club) The Surrendered Wife: Relinquish the Chore of Managing the FinancesSo if you've tried to hand it over and was met with his final decision being that he wants you to do it, is it fair to say the discussion is over? Do you really think your husband wouldn't care for his family? I need some clarification, are you insinuating that any man who doesn't do the finances in his home is not caring for his family? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/14 04:45 PM |
| 9 | Has anyone else noticed the trend in this community?It seems like most members of this sub are in a happy solid relationship. Or at the very least are striving for a more solid relationship and maintaining/improving it. It's an everyday, all day 24/7 journey. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/14 03:40 PM |
| 1 | (GBG Book Club) The Surrendered Wife: Relinquish the Chore of Managing the FinancesAs soon as we got married we combined our accounts and my husband immediately put me in control of our finances minus taking care of the taxes. I would much rather he do it but he asked that I take over so that he could concentrate on making the money. I do a good job, he has no complaints. We consult each other on large purchases and he gets to relax and not worry about bills getting paid etc. I think it would piss him off if I asked him to take it over because to him it falls into the domestic… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/14 03:05 PM |
| 1 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!Thanks Dana :) | /r/TheRedPill | 31/01/14 01:08 AM |
| 2 | V-Day and EntitlementWe're the same way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/01/14 01:02 AM |
| 2 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!lol, best of luck ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 09:16 PM |
| 1 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!I knew you didn't want me to feel bad and I don't sit around feeling bad all day but when the subject comes up it riles me and I really don't want to just forget about it either so it's on a back burner kind of simmering away. I am responsible for hurting my husband and children for not being more proactive on this subject so I'm doing something about it. The shame I felt was deep and I navigated through it completely, I'm on the other side of it now so there's no abuser/victim mentality going o… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 09:15 PM |
| 1 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!If there is I'm not aware of it but it still has some really great information. I'd be interested in reading an updated version too. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 08:12 PM |
| 1 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!Quite possibly but we'll have armed her with all the information she needs to make informed decisions but ultimately it will be hers to make. So far my girls are not rebellious and quite level headed/down to earth. We're not oblivious to how young lust works, we were that age once too, lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 07:50 PM |
| 2 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!aww thanks. Really though it's not ok at all. I wish women would wake the hell up and see that they're causing so much harm. I mean come on, do parents really want all this pain and suffering to befall upon their sons? and their daughters because they're being lied to as well. It's appalling! It's as though nobody is thinking about this. We are hurting our sons and daughters, they grow up for gods sake and have to deal with all the crap they're being fed. oops, a bit ranty there ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 06:48 PM |
| 1 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!No need for sarcasm, lol. I was not the most careful gal in my youth but I certainly wasn't a complete moron either so I dated a few beta guys that really didn't do anything for me; as in they never encouraged any better behavior on my part. When I met my husband I immediately felt a need to better myself and to take full responsibility for myself and my actions; he set me straight and pretty much saved me from myself. He made me want to be a good wife, mother and person in general and I believe… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 06:25 PM |
| 3 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!No, I mean a completely new contract; one that men could get together and agree on that would solve all the problems they face now with prenups and marriage contracts. If their woman doesn't sign it, then walk away. People make up contracts all the time for business etc I just wonder how this would differ. edit:changed etv to etc | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 03:12 PM |
| 3 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!I have to hit the RP reset button often to override 24 years of negative conditioning. THIS exactly...this is what has to be done on a regular basis. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 04:23 AM |
| 5 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!I've been married 20+ years and was on the brink of a divorce at one point(pre-RP) and I never thought once that I should hurt him in any way if we actually went through with it. I realize and agree that this is not the case for the majority of divorces and it really bothers me that something is not being done about enforcing the marriage contracts. As a lawyer and a man, why is it that men don't get together and put together a contract that would be legally binding in court that would protect y… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 04:18 AM |
| 1 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!I didn't mean for you to give her your sob story, just to make her aware of the wrongs men in general are facing more and more. These things are being kept out of all the mainstream media and hard to find for the most part. The one that got me was "the Misandry Bubble". | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 03:39 AM |
| 2 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!flyover | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 03:05 AM |
| 1 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!but she'll remain oblivious I was somewhat oblivious but I'm forever grateful to my husband for opening my eyes. Not saying you should, just sayin'. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 02:48 AM |
| 4 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!Boys are infinitely easier to raise but they can be harder to access emotionally after puberty which makes it more likely for them to do their own thing at a younger age than girls. Girls tend to stick around closer to their family than boys. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 01:42 AM |
| 2 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!That was awesome. This is what my husband always enforced with our 2 girls, and for our 3 boys it was the same protocol, if they're not ready for the emergency room leave 'em alone(although we had a few ER visits with them). It was hard for me at times because I just wanted to run over and hug them and fuss but it really paid off. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 01:29 AM |
| 4 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!"The Naked Ape" is a must read. We had all our kids read it and they've read it multiple times. Great book. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 01:20 AM |
| 3 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!We teach our daughters by example as well as pointing out certain behaviors IRL as well as in media. They know they should be careful when meeting a new person and not to be alone with them at first. Their date has to come pick them up at the house and meet us first; and this is where the fear is instilled (hurt my daughter and I will hurt you). Our daughters know about PUA, basic human psychology and know about RPW values so really there's a point where we have to trust them to make the correct… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 01:14 AM |
| 6 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!I was actually thinking this sort of thing after I replied. If a guy could stand up to my husband I think I would be even more wary of his intentions. My husband too most likely, he'd probably see right through it. Besides my daughters also have three older brothers that will kick the hell out of any guy if anything were to happen, and this is made clear to them. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 12:13 AM |
| 4 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!Are these men married or single? I think you'll find that most married men are not any happier unless the wife also swallows the redpill. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 12:05 AM |
| 2 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!Agree 100% Edit: what you're not going to try again? pfft you give up too easily. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 12:03 AM |
| 6 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!Do you think you can maintain your own interests, your own identity, and your own self value while in a somewhat submissive role to a man in your life? I have for over 20 years. I do not flirt with other men. I have tested the leadership of my man but work everyday not to. I educate myself everyday on ways to reverse the effects that feminist ideology has had on my life. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/01/14 12:00 AM |
| 3 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!Exactly, that's a cool way of looking at it. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 11:37 PM |
| 4 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!It's a long process for some of us, undoing years of programming can be quite difficult especially if you've been spilling it onto your SO and family for years. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 11:34 PM |
| 2 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!You 2 are too cute!! ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 11:18 PM |
| 4 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!Unfortunately it will happen, you can teach them all the same things and some of them go a completely different direction. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 11:08 PM |
| 14 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!I'm just wondering what breaks that in a good woman. A good man. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 11:04 PM |
| 3 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!I point it out and discuss it with my girls at every opportunity possible; oh and with my boys too! | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 10:47 PM |
| 26 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!RPW here. At first I was a bit freaked out by how aggressive everyone was but then after reading The Misandry Bubble and a host of other related material I honestly had a cry. My husband was the one who asked me to read about it and I just felt so very sad for all men; then I felt extremely angry that women and manginas out there were doing this and then the complete devastating reality hit me that I too was to blame...I can't in all my life recount another time where I felt a deeper shame. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 10:35 PM |
| 4 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!RPW here. We have two teen aged daughters and if this situation ever came up I'm positive my husband would step in and put the unholy fear of jesus in the guy and then I would have to sit my daughter down for a long talk. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 10:29 PM |
| 8 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA! ASK THEM ALMOST ANYTHING!yes. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/14 09:36 PM |
| 1 | What are some hobbies you've picked up in your 20s or older?cool, I'll have to look that up :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/14 08:59 PM |
| 1 | What are some hobbies you've picked up in your 20s or older?omg the virtualyarns is amazing!!! Love these links! Are these the types of designs you do the most? I'm going batshit crazy not having access to any of my crafts, I'm going to start unraveling old sweaters and knitting something with chop sticks or pencils soon! | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/14 08:51 PM |
| 0 | Frequently Asked Questionsyes, I think you're right. Job or career does make a huge difference in the way this would be perceived. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/14 07:52 PM |
| 0 | Frequently Asked QuestionsI was just curious because every time this subject comes up most of the longtime RPW bring this up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/14 07:02 PM |
| 0 | Frequently Asked QuestionsDoesn't being a RPW mean you have to have kids and stay in the kitchen? Am I still a RPW if I want to pursue a career/education? You don’t have to be a home-maker. Some women choose that lifestyle, other women pursue careers and getting an education. Some women here have successful careers and a family. Be a good woman, support your SO (if you have one) and don’t overthink it too much. I thought that we stood firm on the belief that a woman could not juggle all 3, husband/children/career, and th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/14 06:33 PM |
| 1 | What are some hobbies you've picked up in your 20s or older?I just get so excited and want to start a new project right away I'm the same way and have been knitting for at least a dozen years and haven't made more than a couple swatches either. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/14 05:54 PM |
| 1 | What are some hobbies you've picked up in your 20s or older?I had a fish tank with similar occupants :) I had a pleco that grew to about 8-9 inches. We plan on getting more hopefully soon, they're so relaxing to watch and take care of. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/14 05:53 PM |
| 1 | What are some hobbies you've picked up in your 20s or older?Knitting, crochet, drawing, oil/acrylic/watercolor/digital painting, photography, macramé, paper maché sculpting, needlepoint, cross stitch, sewing, doll making, cooking/baking/preserving, gardening veggies/flowers/herbs, tarot reading, home decorating/interior design, yoga, meditating, tai-chi & weight lifting. A lot of what I list here I do with things I find around the house or at yard sales etc. I try to recycle things and make things instead of buying them new. I continued piano, figure ska… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/14 05:45 PM |
| 1 | (GBG Book Club) The Surrendered Wife: Keep Surendering A SecretThank you so much for taking the time to answer, it's very much appreciated. I have been noticing a little of what you're saying the more I see of it in these snippets. I always let my husband in on everything I do so that part wouldn't matter ;) What I'm really looking for is something I could read off and on to just keep me focused on all the little nuances of being RPW, you know? Maybe I should just write my own, lol! Thanks again :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/14 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: Ask All Your Urgent Questions Here!ahhh quite right, funny how that happens ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/14 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: Ask All Your Urgent Questions Here!That's great news! I'm happy for you. This sort of thing can be such a burden to carry around but such a humongous relief once you let it go. Yay you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/14 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: Ask All Your Urgent Questions Here!We're looking into this too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/14 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: Ask All Your Urgent Questions Here!Sadly this will be how it is until enough people get violently ill and/or die. We're not taking any chances. Our children's lives and ours are way more important than eating fish. Did you know that it's not only the fish now, any product/packaging etc coming from there can have trace amounts, so since a lot of our dollar stores carry mostly products from there, we avoid those stores and anything coming from there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/14 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Ladies of RPW, what would you go back and tell your 20-something self if you could?Why thank you, all the best to you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: Ask All Your Urgent Questions Here!for me it's tuna and shellfish I will miss the most! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Post: Ask All Your Urgent Questions Here!We stopped eating fish and shellfish for this reason. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...Wonderful, congratulations :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Advice on a dominant male child.I can't relate to being an 18 yr old boy but I can relate to the feelings of abandonment and reuniting with the mother who did the abandoning. By the sounds of it you completely lost touch with your son and was unable to find him so at least you have that on your side. You never gave up looking for him and he knows this now. The problem is that he feels it's your fault and that you need to make it better somehow; this may sound impossible and completely unrealistic but to him it's what he might … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Attraction to dark triad men?Thank you I read the link from this post and was still a bit confused as it just seemed to say that dark triad = alpha. I will read some more :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: Ask All Your Urgent Questions Here!Thank you I will give this a read, so far the stuff I've read just makes it sound like dark triad = Alpha so I figured I was missing something. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Post: Ask All Your Urgent Questions Here!I would like to know more about dark triads, anyone have some suggestions to reading material that would be helpful? or if you wouldn't mind just telling me what you know :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 05:11 PM |
| 8 | “Strong Independent Women” Are So Darn WeakWhat most women think of as "support" is simply a place where misery loves company. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Attraction to dark triad men?Hey, what would be the best thing for me to read to learn about dark triad? I don't really know what this is referencing to, I have an idea but really haven't come across it enough to really know. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...Amazing! See now she'll never learn either because people keep enabling her bad behavior! People actually left the church from her foul language, lol that's so wrong but funny at the same time. Movie comedy style! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 03:52 PM |
| 2 | I live with my boyfriend, he is also my boss - Help/ advice pleasePerhaps the reason it worked out so well for us is that I did have to attend to a lot of other things especially when the kids were young, making it so we weren't in each other's laps ALL the time. His month long business trips made me appreciate him so much more too. Sometimes you take each other for granted being together 24/7 and absence did make the heart grow fonder in my case. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 03:46 PM |
| 2 | Ladies of RPW, what would you go back and tell your 20-something self if you could?Mine's thin too mostly towards the ends, like the last 2inches. I have to be extremely careful not to fall asleep without braiding it or it will take me an hour to take the knots out; it looks like a crow's nest or bride of Frankenstein if I don't braid before bed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 03:37 PM |
| 1 | I live with my boyfriend, he is also my boss - Help/ advice pleaseMy husband and I have spent 20+ years side by side 24/7 with the exception of a couple of month long business trips/year apart. We work in the same room for most of the day and hang out together in the evenings. If anything my husband complains that we don't do enough quality things together and misses me if I go off to homeschool the kids, paint or do housework. I sometimes feel the need to do things on my own and I do, but I always make sure he knows I have missed him and will be extra cuddly … | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Ladies of RPW, what would you go back and tell your 20-something self if you could?lol, same here. My hair is super curly and when I stretch it out it's down to my butt, but when it's left to dry it is only to my back bras strap. So annoying! I love straightening it out but that's so damaging. I'm guessing another year and it might be the length I want it. Go curls!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...Wow! just wow. I read your story about her drama. It's just so hard for me to believe there are real people out there acting like this. I'm from a small country setting where everyone is quite low key, weddings are relatively small and somewhat sane. I see these dramas on tv and movies often but it just doesn't seem possible. I weep for humanity yet again ;) Curious, was her job open to her again after her wedding? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...hope I didnt cause offence. God no, lol. No offense taken whatsoever. :) My husband is truly the voice of reason for us. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...I agree that giving and receiving presents are wonderful but she seemed to be implying it was her right(entitlement) to receive them especially where he has money and that if he didn't give her presents she would be doubting his love(because her ex gave her cheap stuff while giving expensive stuff to his mistress) This to me just sounded both bizarre and wrong. I think by the amount of reaction to this subject so far that starting a new thread for it would most likely be quite a good idea. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 03:50 AM |
| 2 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...Thank you, I was getting enervated! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...I think I might have read it in another comment where someone actually quit their job, I'll have to look again. It just boggles the mind. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 01:48 AM |
| 3 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...That wasn't the message I was getting from your comments. If you are accustomed to receiving gifts from your SO at every holiday and special occasions then I would assume you would be concerned if he suddenly stopped. But I for one do not ever expect or think I deserve gifts at any point in our relationship, I'm just very grateful if I receive one. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/14 12:15 AM |
| 4 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...no you're correct, RP isn't written in stone but none of us here will leave our SOs if we don't get a present this coming Valentine's day; it will not make us wonder if we have the right man if we don't get a present; it will not prevent us from moving on with normal life. I don't give a flying duck if I get presents ever, for the rest of our lives together, as long as I get to be with him. Presents are just a perk not a prerequisite. Are you saying that you would think twice about your man if h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about weight/weight loss, dieting, etc?I did not know that, lol. Thanks :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...I'm quite out of touch with the whole wedding fiasco, you're telling me that some women quit their jobs to solely focus on planning their wedding?! WTF? And the second doozey for me is that they will do so for an entire year? 2xWTF? I just don't understand how a man could or even would put up with that. That completely crazy. She essentially wasted an entire year of both their lives on planning one stupid day. My brain is not processing this well at all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...My life is already my honeymoon because I try and make it that way Golden! Luv this. Words to live by :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...We will all get snippy if you keep posting things such as Btw Dana....you are suppose to be a RPW and help us advocate our position. :) The smiley face doesn't automatically make your snide remark acceptable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...Bucking these events signals you don't want to be in the relationship to a woman. Not to a RPW! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Women starting families late is hailed as a feminist triumph. Why?Good question. My husband and I wanted children right from the very start but I assume though that there are others that might have differing opinions. I'm quite sure I would have gone with anything my husband suggested we do no matter what but as I said we knew what each other wanted before committing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about weight/weight loss, dieting, etc?I love chocolate but I limit my consumption of it. This however sounds yummy. I sometimes sweeten little treats made with almond flour using Krisda | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...We have talked about renewing our vows but only because we didn't have a wedding and we thought perhaps at our 25th anniversary we could have our kids be part of it especially now that we have a renewed faith in our marriage since implementing RP. You don't need to take it all back though because I think it is more for my sake than it is for his. We were going to have a traditional wedding and were in the middle of all the planning, dress was being hand made by my friends and both my husband and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...you need to trust but verify If you are trusting someone there shouldn't be any reason to verify. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Davids Bridal and The Invisible Man...So, ladies need to expect something bc all men are not created equal. What?? Are you saying women should expect presents because all men are not created equally? Because you had one man cheat on you, you are entitled to presents from your current man? Please tell me this isn't what you're promoting. I'm finding it difficult to follow your logic in the manner you are presenting it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about weight/weight loss, dieting, etc?It does sound good, I will have to try it some day. I have a very low tolerance for tomatoes so I have to space out the time I eat something that has tomato in it. I like the taste of cilantro with avocado, have you tried it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk about weight/weight loss, dieting, etc?I lost 30lbs approx.three years ago. I didn't feel right in my skin and everything was starting to hurt; I felt like an old lady, that was enough prompting for me. Stress and depression had placed me in a very negative frame of mind which led to some considerable weight gain, plus I had never fully shed the last of my postpartum weight. I shed the first 15lbs within 2 weeks on Keto and the rest melted off in the following 2 weeks.What really did it for me was eliminating all sugars and wheat and… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice from RPW's :)I'm glad to hear that you had a nice evening :) Being detail oriented can be wonderful and a burden. I have found that when these minor things start to irritate me I purposefully push those thoughts out and replace them with something positive and uplifting. I try not to think about the messes themselves and to just make it part of my routine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Ladies of RPW, what would you go back and tell your 20-something self if you could?I'm surprised this thread got so many downvotes...not really sure why :/ The Bluepillers don't like us talking about self improvement and giving sound advice to the younger generation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Need some advice from RPW's :)So would your father be easier to approach than your mother would be on this subject? Could you explain your situation to him and let him know that the stress and anguish is becoming too much for you and that drastic measures might have to be taken if they don't start treating you better. I have 3 sons and 2 daughters(17 & 18). No matter what they would do or say I will always love them and try to protect them no matter the circumstances but if they decided to take off and do their own thing I w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice from RPW's :)He's definitely letting you know he's uncomfortable with it. I really don't know what else to tell you other than having him physically go there and see it for himself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice from RPW's :)I love and respect he's had a hard day, but he is the mess maker. It is hard sometimes to clean the same thing I just cleaned less then 24 hours ago. Any advice or technique tips I would really appreciate! My husband is also a mess maker. Try to make it easier for him to do things such as providing a hamper or basket where he usually undresses. Does he have a drawer/shelf for his stuff in the bathroom? Placing things in the same place everytime so the habit will form in his mind to where certain… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Ladies of RPW, what would you go back and tell your 20-something self if you could?right | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Need some advice from RPW's :)Ah, now things make sense. Sure your family would be upset for you just packing up and shacking up all of a sudden at 18. I would be completely devastated if my daughter did that too. I would equally be upset if said relationship changed what I perceived as perfectly good behavior on her part to something else due to this new relationship. I'm not siding with your family but you need to see it from their point of view as well. You mention that your family doesn't seem to have ever really grown u… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 03:14 AM |
| 4 | Women starting families late is hailed as a feminist triumph. Why?That's very sad. I can't even imagine the pain and frustration they must feel. I had a miscarriage after my first so if something similar would have happened our lives would have been so very much different(just the mere thought of it hurts deeply). It really goes to show that so much can happen that just doesn't fit in your imagined plans. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Need some advice from RPW's :)Have you ever invited your SO to one of your work outs or is he imagining the worse from not knowing what actually goes on there? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice from RPW's :)They don't understand why I changed my ways and views of thinking all of a sudden when I met him. Can you elaborate on what changes you made that might have elicited this reaction from your family? I didn't choose to neglect those relationships, but constantly defending my relationship with him to my own family was getting very repetitive. Who chose to neglect those relationships then, if you didn't, your SO? they blame him for me not continuing my path in the beauty industry What happened to ma… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/14 02:39 AM |
| 4 | Women starting families late is hailed as a feminist triumph. Why?I can't wait to be a grandmother. It gives me all kinds of warm fuzzies just thinking about it. I want my kids to feel that they can go away for the weekend with their SO without worrying about their kids. We did not have that benefit when our children were young. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/14 10:43 PM |
| 6 | Women starting families late is hailed as a feminist triumph. Why?At 44 we have only a few more years left(2-3) until the nest becomes completely empty and we're so looking forward to our time together as a couple again. Love the kids and can't wait for grandchildren but we are also very much happy that we will have hopefully many more years together to do all kinds of fun stuff. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/14 08:56 PM |
| 6 | Women starting families late is hailed as a feminist triumph. Why?These are all very valid reasons to take into consideration when thinking about postponing starting a family. In my personal experience, my parents could not conceive and opted for adoption. They were in their late 30s when they adopted me and illness started soon after with my dad which impacted our lives quite strongly and then when I was pregnant with my second child my mom passed away from ALS. She never got a chance to see most of her grandchildren and my dad was ill throughout our entire l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/14 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Ladies of RPW, what would you go back and tell your 20-something self if you could?God yes, the photos! I so wish we could have had digital photography in our day. Take full advantage of that! CBT is a good one to add. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/14 07:04 PM |
| 0 | “29/31″: A Time-Travel Video About The Wall - a both funny and reflective look at women realizing they hit the wallThat's my fear, having the feminists mess it all up for us. It would be very difficult to get the word out without them freaking out and potentially ruining it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/14 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Need some advice from RPW's :)I would like to try and help out but I'm unsure of what the main concern is. I see that you are making him uncomfortable by placing yourself in the hands of strange men all the time. This is frowned upon in RPW. You say there are other women there, is there a reason why you can't just have other women spot you and help you out? My family doesn't get it, or agree. At all. Not sure what they don't get. Your relationship or your passion? Why do you go to the gym only when your SO is home? Why would… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/14 05:25 PM |
| 2 | “29/31″: A Time-Travel Video About The Wall - a both funny and reflective look at women realizing they hit the wallYou don't know how much I envy you young ladies having the internet and places like this to help you out. Could you ever see a time where you think we could make RPW-type groups where like minded women could meet up IRL? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/14 05:16 PM |
| 2 | is this what marriage with kids is supposed to be like?I will bet you anything the lack of sex started before the first kid arrived. Sounds like her husband beta-ed out on her most likely from her extremely poor attitude and from there things got worse. In my own experience I was responsible for tearing down my husband prior to having kids too and things just got worse as time progressed. We weren't as bad off as the woman you describe but we had our problems and rest assured it wasn't caused by having children; exacerbated perhaps yes, used as an e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/14 05:06 PM |
| 10 | Ladies of RPW, what would you go back and tell your 20-something self if you could?Let's see, the first thing I would tell her is that alcohol is not part of the food pyramid and that no you are not in control of your smoking habit, it controls you. I would much rather go back to my 14 year old self and tell her not to drink and smoke at all, since we're going back in time. I would tell myself to eat correctly, take supplements and exercise regularly. Cut out all sugar, anything containing artificial colors/flavors, names that you cannot pronounce and those you can and know to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/14 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk insecurities and how to not let them get in the way of happiness?I stopped being able to absorb B12 and have been taking shots for about 5yrs now. It has made a huge difference in my life. Not only did it raise my energy levels but it helped with reducing my anxiety and depression. Lack of B12 makes you more easily depressed, anxious and tired leading to other malfunctions of the body. I would go as far as saying it saved my life in a way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/14 03:27 PM |
| 5 | Blue Pill 40 Something Having Problems Swallowing the Red Pill: Need some Objective Female InputYou are understandably frustrated and angry - no sex, no respect and you are not even the main provider. You are extremely resentful and you're projecting this onto your wife instead of taking responsibility for the part you played in letting all this happen. It looks like you've read a few things and just started implementing them without truly understanding them, mostly probably from desperation to get things fixed. You can't just go at this willy nilly, this isn't just affecting you as you ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 11:42 PM |
| 1 | My own 12 step, buddy system ~ thank you :)ha ha, me too. For the longest time I thought I would only ever get a decent conversation with my daughters for the rest of my life. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 11:22 PM |
| 3 | How to be RP in a BP world?I wonder what would be the best response to that? My husband answered someone with a "like f*%k I will" once and the guy turned white and was silent for the rest of the time. He was installing cable and was asking about the settings and that's when he said about "checking with his woman". I laughed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 10:19 PM |
| 1 | (GBG Book Club) The Surrendered Wife: Keep Surendering A SecretIt's too bad you can't relate what it is that you're not comfortable with, I would be really interested as I am thinking about buying it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 10:09 PM |
| 5 | “29/31″: A Time-Travel Video About The Wall - a both funny and reflective look at women realizing they hit the wallDarlock provided an insightful comment below the article The part which this video captures which is so often overlooked in our sphere is that the hubris of the 29 year old doesn’t mean that marriage isn’t important to her. It is a bit like assuming people don’t take airline saftey seriously since no one inquires into the safety record of major first world carriers when booking flights. The lack of visible/conscious concern isn’t due to not caring if their flight crashes or not, it is due to the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Woman Dresses to Please Her Man and Her Friends are LividVery cool, mine did too for awhile. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Woman Dresses to Please Her Man and Her Friends are LividCan we just put all of the man-hating feminists on an island somewhere where they can hate men amongst themselves and get off our backs about wanting to be good wives and girlfriends? I feel like that would be easier. I vote for this ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Woman Dresses to Please Her Man and Her Friends are LividYup, I chose the man in my life :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 07:48 PM |
| 1 | What does TRP want from women?I see, np I'll leave you to it then :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 07:02 PM |
| 1 | What does TRP want from women?I was agreeing with you and adding my 2 cents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 06:40 PM |
| 6 | What does TRP want from women?Women who don't want commitment don't really fit in their theory. Until down the line she realizes she actually does. Too many women don't seem to think ahead and are only living for the now and are doing it with utter selfishness. Then, later on these same women don't seem to understand that their actions have consequences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/14 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Woman Dresses to Please Her Man and Her Friends are LividShe's upping the ante, thereby forcing them to admit to themselves that they are slovenly, short-haired shoggoths by choice, that they aren't forcibly sentenced to a life devoid of male attention. I really enjoyed the article and the link related to it. The above quote summed it all up for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 05:29 PM |
| 1 | I got into a debate with a single woman I know over this. She thinks that women should have more control of everythimg because women are smarter.... She wonders why she is single.I think you're right and I think there has been more of the "when mommy is happy everyone is happy" dynamics cropping from this than there are RP; hopefully we can change that with time :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 04:34 PM |
| 2 | (GBG Book Club) The Surrendered Wife: Keep Surendering A Secrethe may be waiting for the other shoe to drop This has been a recurring sentiment in my home. It always evokes deep feelings for me upon seeing/hearing this line. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 04:29 PM |
| 1 | I got into a debate with a single woman I know over this. She thinks that women should have more control of everythimg because women are smarter.... She wonders why she is single.In your opinion what is usually the dynamic in these "equal" relationships; is it captain/captain, first mate/first mate or something else all together? in a group of women, if one woman was LITERALLY "subordinate" to another, she would be an object of ridicule and derision. Reading this really helped me understand these types of women who just can't get it. It seems so logical to me and couldn't see how someone like them couldn't see that Captain/First Mate dynamics do not have any ridicule or … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Need some (sane) womanly advice: My wife asked me to make our marriage more traditional. What steps can I take to transition from a modern marriage into a traditional one, and how gradual a transition should it be?I agree with Dana and MrsStrom as well. Also you both should keep in mind that things most likely won't get fixed anytime soon. It's a journey with ups and downs, an ebb and flow as of tides; and the time it takes for things to get better will be depending on both your eagerness for success. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Need some (sane) womanly advice: My wife asked me to make our marriage more traditional. What steps can I take to transition from a modern marriage into a traditional one, and how gradual a transition should it be?now is a good time to start ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 03:19 PM |
| 1 | How to be RP in a BP world?Well said. The more we learn about people in general the better we can understand where their concerns and feelings come from. RPW has really opened my eyes to this and has in a way empowered me in my own beliefs(not in a you go grrlll kind of way) but in that I'm much more confident and able to stand up for myself. Being around like minded people has done wonders for my confidence as well as having come across trolls/feminists. I was able to much better understand where they're coming from and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk insecurities and how to not let them get in the way of happiness?FINALLY! An excuse to shed my jeans, doc martin boots, boy hair, and aggressive attitude for skirts and heels and a wink and a giggle. This is great! lol. I'm just so scared I'm going to lose that. You're not the only one here afraid to lose their man. Just keep trying to improve yourself as we all are here and like Dana said Remember, he's not blind or stupid. He knows exactly what you look like and loves you. We all lose our looks, concentrate on staying the girl he loves. I hope you do get th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Married and happy, but husband wants to swing with me?He again thinks it would be good for me to experience other men, but I can't see how he could respect me afterwards. It really sounds like he wishes you were more experienced in bed but I just don't understand why he would want other men to teach you instead of teaching you himself, other than having a fetish or something similar I suppose. That you already feel uneasy about it screams red flag to me as you would most likely bring those doubts and fears into the arrangement and doom it from the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/14 12:26 AM |
| 3 | field report/ big up to my SOI don't really get spanked for "being bad" because that would be useless as a "punishment" and would be more likely to reinforce whatever behavior triggered it This made me giggle, lol :) Anyway, when I saw the talk about spanking on this thread I immediately thought it would reflect negatively on this sub not because it is bad behavior but simply because it is not part of RPW and it might give the wrong impression. We are so often attacked by concern trolls about how we're being abused or that … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 11:38 PM |
| 1 | RPW, what are your thoughts? "I Look Down On Young Women With Husbands "ha ha! Well said! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 11:02 PM |
| 2 | RPW, what are your thoughts? "I Look Down On Young Women With Husbands "I say let women like her have a career and not procreate, the world will be a better place for it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 10:50 PM |
| 8 | What's your opinion of submissive or feminine men?As a RPW I don't find feminine men or submissive men attractive at all. They are who they are but I would never have dated or given them a second look. I'm sure they're fine human beings and have a place in society just like anyone else does but they're not my cup of tea. I find it difficult to associate with very dominant or masculine women because the ones I have encountered have nothing in common with me and they give off a near hostile vibe. I don't personally know any woman who is with a fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/14 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Path to FreedomI think she sounds selfish and doesn't understand relationships. She doesn't seem to want to put in any effort to try to please anyone but herself. Just my take on a quick read of it. It just seemed to have a feminist feel to it really. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 10:20 PM |
| 3 | field report/ big up to my SOI'm all for spankings in the bedroom or whatever/whenever as a sexual thing but I'm just curious, are you seriously saying that your men spank you as a form of discipline or just like an inside joke type of thing, like when a husband smacks your ass while passing by? I'm not judging anyone who practices this in the privacy of their home, I say go for it if it works for you but correct me if I'm wrong, I didn't think this was part of RPW? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Team Woman vs Team Her Man, Why RPW generates so much hostilityHow do you mean? edit: I don't quite get what you're saying. Just making all men in general it's own team but equal to how we now think of Team Men? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Team Woman vs Team Her Man, Why RPW generates so much hostilityExcellent post. I knew this on some level but seeing it written out was just so enlightening. This also explains how we jump on anyone that remotely seems more Team Woman than Team Man. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 06:45 PM |
| 1 | TED Talk: Meg Jay - Why 30 Is Not The New 20I find it sad that many people turn their noses at 'traditionalist', could you imagine what the world would look like without it? hmmm I think we're getting a sampling of it now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk insecurities and how to not let them get in the way of happiness?We get a lot of trolls attacking and mocking us here. I see that you are interested in keto, are you actively doing it? I was on keto for about two years and lost all my extra weight within a few months. It really helped me a lot. Are you interested in pursuing more girl game for yourself to further your chances of keeping this guy or were you just passing by? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Can we talk insecurities and how to not let them get in the way of happiness?I also keep a sexy time journal. I keep track of the quantity and quality, variation etc so that I too don't let too much time elapse or fall into boring routine. It has helped a lot. I do have trouble though when PMS and period time rolls around as my energy levels drop and my anxiety levels rise. Still working on all this. I found that cutting out all sugar in my diet helped bring up my energy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Just a women looking to understand and discuss with others.So just in case you make a new account and come back here, I thought I would let you know that if indeed you were serious about learning more about redpill women ways you need to understand that you set off all kinds of red flags in the way you presented yourself and quite honestly in the way you left here too. I would highly recommend in the future that you read the information on the side bar and familiarize yourself with the sub before trying to interact with us. I would also highly suggest y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 04:45 PM |
| 1 | How do you ladies deal with stress without relying on your SO's?You know that does make a lot of sense! When things sometimes get a bit cold between my husband and I, I often find myself glomming onto one of my daughters and just soaking up the love. They do it with me too. Men don't seem to do this as much, at least the men in my family, but us girls will do it quite a bit. My husband has remarked on how my daughters and I will just stop in the middle of doing something and just hug for a few minutes or we'll all huddle together on the couch. So maybe it's … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 04:24 PM |
| 2 | TED Talk: Meg Jay - Why 30 Is Not The New 20Just wow to both comments! I forgot to check the comments after viewing the video. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 03:53 AM |
| 7 | The Sex Risk For Women That No One Likes To Talk About - an example of why keeping your # low is importantYes, it all boils down to whether he can live with that number or not. He's the one who has to put his prized "part" in the place all 35 other ones have already gone before him. So she "settled" for him as #36, he should be flattered? please give him more credit than that! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 03:07 AM |
| 2 | TED Talk: Meg Jay - Why 30 Is Not The New 20That was interesting. Three of my sons are twenty somethings and they will be receiving links to this in their inbox soon. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 02:57 AM |
| 1 | The Sex Risk For Women That No One Likes To Talk About - an example of why keeping your # low is importantewwww lolol :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 02:25 AM |
| 1 | The Sex Risk For Women That No One Likes To Talk About - an example of why keeping your # low is importantha ha :) I wonder who would play this game the most? | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 02:17 AM |
| 2 | The Sex Risk For Women That No One Likes To Talk About - an example of why keeping your # low is importantlol, like a video game - I never thought of it that way before - gross! And double gross on the mattress too. I couldn't believe this woman's so called advice. By all means come rant some more ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 02:07 AM |
| 1 | The Sex Risk For Women That No One Likes To Talk About - an example of why keeping your # low is importantI thought it relevant to a lot of prior discussions concerning keeping your number of partners low. While men seek women with promiscuity, sexual experience and high sex drive when selecting for short-term mating, they still retain the preference for a sexually inexperienced wife, or at least one who is less experienced than they are. And a fine example of a woman hamstering My point is, if she doesn’t feel damaged, she’s not. Please don’t label her that way. Nothing has changed about her. She’s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 01:46 AM |
| 2 | How do you ladies deal with stress without relying on your SO's?I find it so hard to get into that mindset This right here is what we should really concentrate on. Stress and anxiety are self inflicted when you really think about it, at least for the most part. It's all in the way we perceive things, so training ourselves to not see as much negative in things would be extremely beneficial. Easier said than done but maybe with baby steps eventually one could master it. It's getting late here and I'm think-typing more than anything at this point,lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Help Create a Frequently Asked Questions Form-we don't care about anyone's fetishes/kinks/open relationships or anything they are actually doing in the bedroom as long as it is fulfilling to their SO. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 12:45 AM |
| 2 | The Female Condition - written for men but quite insightful for the ladies as wellI think tone of voice should be checked too. My husband has a deep voice so sometimes when he speaks it sounds like he's annoyed or angry when he isn't. I sometimes have to ask and sometimes I have assumed wrong. Also on the other hand when I am stressed or anxious my voice becomes more shrill from my vocal chords tightening which makes me sound like I'm more annoyed or angry. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/14 12:28 AM |
| 4 | How do you ladies deal with stress without relying on your SO's?Were you able to find some Communists to argue with yet? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Hostility to Submissive women. Is it acceptable?I just have a problem with users who believe that their relationship is the type that everyone would be the most happy in. That's your opinion and you have a right to it. I also wonder why you would choose to associate yourselves with the Red Pill rather than setting up your own independent sub, given the a lot of the Red Pill's negative content on women. I do not associate myself directly with /r/TheRedPill I do however associate myself with /r/RedPillWomen which do not share the same goals. "R… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/14 10:24 PM |
| 1 | How do you ladies deal with stress without relying on your SO's?I second Yoga. I think I'll try out that worksheet too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Just a women looking to understand and discuss with others.You just made me spit out my water just a bit there lol Trolls be trollin' You're right though, some of these trolls make for some pretty good discussions but there comes a point when...well you see it ;) And oh lordy the grammar/spelling on this one!!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 09:04 PM |
| 6 | How do you ladies deal with stress without relying on your SO's?I'll be keeping a sharp eye on this thread ;) I tend to go on cleaning frenzies but after 20 years he knows what this means. I also write my worries down on paper not PC. For me the act of physically writing things down makes them more concrete and when I'm done I can read it until I can better put everything in perspective and once I'm calm and relaxed about the issue I burn the letter which then further symbolizes that I'm all done with it. To add to the writing, make pros and cons lists (i lo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Just a women looking to understand and discuss with others.So it's not just me then ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Hostility to Submissive women. Is it acceptable?and thank you as well, both for your patience and your perspective. The best to you too :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/14 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Hostility to Submissive women. Is it acceptable?I guess your example was what made me think you didn't quite get it because just because one person wants the other to submit does not at all make it a submissive relationship; it's just an example of a dysfunctional relationship, nothing else ;) And yes, I am quite happy now that we have a submissive relationship, everything else we tried failed. And yes, I completely agree that it is not for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/14 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Just a women looking to understand and discuss with others.I have been in relationships and I have not been satisfied with them in the past. It's why I'm just choosing to focus on me and bettering myself until a guy I think fits into my life comes along. This raises a red flag IMO. A lot of girls will parrot this back to us and what they are really saying is that they can't or won't do what is necessary to improve themselves to attract a good mate so they just want to focus on a career and they want us to validate this type of self entitlement. Be caref… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 07:33 PM |
| 2 | [Mod] RPW Posting RulesYes it does help and thank you for clarifying :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Just a women looking to understand and discuss with others.Am I just learning how to be a traditional housewife in a modern world ? It would seem that you have a pretty solid plan but as you must know life doesn't always follow your intended plan. Are you learning to be a traditional housewife? Will you be perfecting your culinary arts, your domestic arts, your personal fitness and keeping up your feminine demeanor? How old will you be when you decide to finally acquire/look for a mate? Does your plan include a time frame where you may not find the 'rig… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 06:09 PM |
| 3 | (GBG) The Surrendered Wife: Give Up Control to Have More PowerI have got to get this book!!! It seems awesome. I'm also a control freak and a bit obsessive–compulsive not clinically but hyper organized, perfectionistic to a fault so it can be difficult at times letting hubby do his thing especially in the kitchen without wincing and butting in to 'help out' which is code for 'do it my way' ;) I really like the Ask Yourself What was I afraid would happen? Was my fear realistic? What was the worse-case scenario? Did needing to control the situation justify l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 05:41 PM |
| 1 | My own 12 step, buddy system ~ thank you :)It's been somewhat therapeutic to come to RPW and help out. I know some days some of the posts really strike a chord with me on a deep personal level but I need it to fuel myself to not give up when things get hard. I so envy these young girls who are still in the early stages of their relationships. I wish I could have had a place like this to set me straight in my youth, things would have been so much different and happier for my entire family. My biggest comfort is being able to impart this k… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 05:06 PM |
| 2 | My own 12 step, buddy system ~ thank you :)That gut feeling should be listened to, those "old fashioned" ways worked. It's obvious when you take a real good look around how "girl power" is harming women and society overall. I'm glad you made it here and I hope you stick around :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 04:27 PM |
| 2 | [Mod] RPW Posting RulesJust clarifying as I am still relatively new to reddit (about 4 months) when I post a link thread you don't just want the suggested title, you would like my thoughts on why I am posting it, it's relevance to RPW in the title itself or as an accompanying comment, or both? btw these rules are quite helpful, thanks :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 03:50 PM |
| 3 | My own 12 step, buddy system ~ thank you :)Thank you for your kind comment :) I do try not to dwell but I need to keep in mind that I was capable of inflicting pain and sorrow in ways I wasn't even aware of at the time; I've made it my mission to reevaluate my motives and to keep researching as much as possible to make sure I do not revert and that my behavior as it stands is still not causing harm. If I was capable of it for 20 years I am still capable. I only hope that sharing my experience with all this will help others, prevent them … | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 03:41 PM |
| 3 | My own 12 step, buddy system ~ thank you :)You are such a breath of fresh air, lol. You really seem to know how to push that button, the one that makes girls go awwww and start welling up with tears of happiness mixed with irrational hope of some sort( I can't even express it) Bless your heart! I wake up every morning and go to bed every night telling myself I will not let this happen again. I will fight this hamster or whatever the heck it is until one of us dies because I could never live with myself if I woke up one morning and realiz… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 03:30 AM |
| 2 | My own 12 step, buddy system ~ thank you :)The real issue is applying it. Yup. Very much so at times. And you're right, it is quite nice to apply some of the things we learn here without bothering our men about it and just seeing the positive results. That feels awesome!! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 03:22 AM |
| 3 | My own 12 step, buddy system ~ thank you :)I keep you and your story in mind whenever I feel myself slipping. There is hope for us, you've gone through it then so can I. The biggest thing for us was how RP brought us hope where we had pretty much given up on there being any solutions. We were on that cliff's edge and wondering which one of us was going to fall in first...it was really scary and super depressing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 02:58 AM |
| 3 | My own 12 step, buddy system ~ thank you :)I'm not a horrible shrew or nag but I have been and still have my moments where I feel like things are just not fair and they're not the way I want them. I have done the whole keeping score type of thing and felt that I was not getting my fair share of the deal in our relationship. I wouldn't really vocalize it but I would become distant and depressed over it, causing all round misery for everyone. I've been a relatively good wife and mother but I failed to understand my husband's basic needs ea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 02:52 AM |
| 1 | The Female Condition - written for men but quite insightful for the ladies as wellI too can articulate what I want much clearer through text (to my husband). I do get flustered face to face and I know he is much better equipped than I am to come up with proper/rational arguments for things on the fly than I am. I need time to put my thoughts together and have a very difficult time with confrontations, conflicts or disagreements where he does not. If I could keep in mind that we are on the same team when we disagree I believe this would not be as problematic. I don't handle ad… | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 02:28 AM |
| 3 | My own 12 step, buddy system ~ thank you :)lol :) edit: in hindsight, my "lol-ing" at your group hug seemed a bit cold, not my intention, I found it very sweet of you, virtually hugging you back :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 12:34 AM |
| 2 | My own 12 step, buddy system ~ thank you :)Getting up and trying again may not be easy, but it's definitely worthwhile. So very true. There's nothing worth more to me than re-bonding with the man I love so deeply and righting all the wrongs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 12:33 AM |
| 5 | My own 12 step, buddy system ~ thank you :)i guess i didnt realize i was a little lonely Same here. I didn't have a single person to talk to about this stuff until now(except my husband of course but he's not a woman lol). | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/14 12:24 AM |
| 2 | Someone threaten to ban me/r/PurplePillDebate | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 11:01 PM |
| 2 | The Female Condition - written for men but quite insightful for the ladies as wellMost absolutely true. I do want/crave/need for his opinion of me to be good at all times, hmmm definitely something to ponder. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Someone threaten to ban meDon't sweat it, I don't see the comment anymore anyway. It's all cool :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Someone threaten to ban meOh!oh! Dana, someone has had a bit of a fall off of that PPD wagon ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 09:59 PM |
| 1 | This guy is most likely going to have a hard time.In a perfect world, the wife would have begged this guy would to go with her his wife, be awesome, show his value and be the guy that all the others want to be and all the wives wish they had. Unfortunately she's being underhanded and he's going to suffer for it. My first reaction to this was that he should let her go and then show up late into the evening, but that most likely wouldn't be prudent either. Going with her doesn't help that she's trying to get some behind his back. Letting her go i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 07:38 PM |
| 2 | The Female Condition - written for men but quite insightful for the ladies as wellWomen resist and fear judgment and honest evaluations of their speech and conduct by men, other women, and society. As a result, women are less likely to speak directly or bluntly about their feelings, wants, needs and desires. Rather than attempt to explain themselves to their men, they simply act, behave, and proceed. Some women simply have not developed the articulation or maturity to give honest expression to their feelings and desires. This resonates with me but I just don't understand how … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 07:01 PM |
| 5 | Someone threaten to ban meROFL OMG too funny!!! This seems to describe the sub we do not speak of to a "T". | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Autonomic Half Life or Why men think women are crazy.We could have a blow up and five minutes later be laughing at a youtube video together. This sounds great in theory but are you effectively dealing with the problem that led you to blow up or are you just tired of fighting and just both say oh wtf and go on like nothing ever happened; sweeping it under the rug type of thing? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 06:03 PM |
| 2 | The Female Condition - written for men but quite insightful for the ladies as wellWe've worked from home for many years together and when it's work related I don't have any trouble relating what I need or want and when we transfered to an office the same thing but as soon as it isn't work related I become this other person who just can't seem to communicate properly. I have made some progress now that I'm cognizant of this fact but I slip up A LOT. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 04:51 PM |
| 6 | The Female Condition - written for men but quite insightful for the ladies as wellI do wonder often why I am not more direct with my words; instead I dance all around a subject or unconsciously use weird body language and hope for our ESP to finally kick in. It would be so much easier if I just used my words and said, "hunny, I would like__" or "dear, I don't like __". Plain and simple one would think but ohhh nooo there's sighing and slamming and shit testing and saying the complete opposite of what you want??? It's really beyond my understanding. edit: changed quick - kick | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Someone threaten to ban meLOL we'll be watching you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 03:31 PM |
| 6 | Someone threaten to ban meLook Dana, we know that you're trying to do good and teach these people some common sense but you can only lead the horse to water and from what I've seen a lot of those horses you've been leading are pretty beat up and most of them seem to think you're offering poisoned water so yeah, can't make them drink, beating a dead horse, etc... Consider this your intervention, you're needed here on RPW, they don't appreciate you like we do here, you're addicted to PPD and it's changing you, they'll even… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 03:08 PM |
| 2 | The Female Condition - written for men but quite insightful for the ladies as wellha ha too funny!! :) I know that I'm guilty of some pretty weird mis-communications and mind reading expectations at times(ok, maybe a bit more than at ti... ok, a lot). | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Autonomic Half Life or Why men think women are crazy.I think you'll also find that it's a fear/control response. When you feel that you've not succeeded in "winning" a fight and that you've lost control in some way, bringing up a past fight in which you may have had control or felt that you had the upper hand might put you back in control of this one. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Autonomic Half Life or Why men think women are crazy.Did these studies offer a reason to why this happens to women and not men? Did this ever serve a purpose way back in the way back? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 01:33 AM |
| 2 | On the female herdI too avoid women for the most part for the same reasons but when faced having to socialize with them they seem to like my company and follow me around. I don't know if it's because I refuse to play their "normal" games and find that intriguing or what? I'm seldom asked to attend any of these same women's gatherings though so I assume I do not exude friendship to them, it's most likely just "hey look at the red hen, all the other ones are blue" phenomenon ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/01/14 01:18 AM |
| 3 | Future doctor here with some questions for you all!Yup. Tiring job educating the young who already know it all ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/14 09:38 PM |
| 2 | RedPillWomen Mods AMA on /r/TheRedPillSounds like fun :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/14 07:48 PM |
| 4 | He's Like an Extra ChildThe basic premise is that she's providing for him as though he was he child. She's essentially equating proving for a man with providing with a child. The basic disdain for this demonstrates to me that she not only resents providing for him, she also resents providing for her children. I really don't see how one would come to the conclusion that she would have disdain for providing for her actual child. She's only having a problem providing for a grown man who isn't pulling his own weight around… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/14 06:13 PM |
| 3 | (GBG Book Club) The Surrendered Wife: Respect the Man You Married by Listening to HimI think too it's all in the way we phrase things that really matter. It doesn't have to sound like a shit test or as though we think he's wrong; like Margerym said, saying it in a way that is honest to our doubts and fears should make our men understand that it's not them it's us. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/14 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Self-improvement thrifty style!Thank you so much for the zerowastehome blog, very informative and led me to other great places too, yay :) Let me know how the beet juice works in the lip balm. The girls and I want to try that out as soon as we move again, all our stuff is in storage atm, I'm getting antsy to get back to doing normal everyday stuff! edit:grammar | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/14 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Self-improvement thrifty style!Nightshades can do that. :( It's nice to see like-minded people who know about these things :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/14 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Self-improvement thrifty style!I haven't pickled asparagus because it's super expensive to buy and we haven't had any luck growing it so when we do buy it we tend to eat it steamed right away, so yummy! Unfortunately we don't eat peppers anymore due to health issues and miss them greatly. I really enjoy pickled eggs the most. I used to make kick ass green tomato chowchow but again had to stop due to health issues in the family. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/14 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Self-improvement thrifty style!Just make sure that all your tools and containers are thoroughly clean and disinfected as best you can. Homemade products usually don't last as long shelf-wise and unless you add some kind of preservative you really don't want to have any bacteria on or in your product. How do you make yours(whipped shea butter lotion)? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/14 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Advice a father of a six year old girlWe eloped as well :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/14 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Advice a father of a six year old girlI also agree with the "let her be girly" aspect but not too sure about the whole princess thing. A lot of parents will call their daughter princess and get her princess costumes etc which would be fine for an afternoon of playtime but you see some parents go way overboard with it. I think this then leads to self entitlement and the whole Disney fantasy wedding/life later in their lives. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/14 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Sharing a great female health resourcesCan you give a quick overview of what "the Hormone Cure" is about? I also have a cycle tracker on my phone and it has helped me understand my own ups and downs and be able to let my husband know "it's that time again" the week before. Just knowing eases the anxiety. Edit: NM I downloaded the Hormone survival guide from her website :) I was being lazy ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/14 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Self-improvement thrifty style!My mom taught me to try to find mix and match clothing so I tend to try to keep that in mind while shopping. I tend to buy a lot of autumn colors so a lot of things match up nicely. You can also grow cherry tomatoes indoors from a hanging basket in a corner near a window. Coconut oil is awesome!! Vinegar is also a good hair conditioner and baking soda whitens your teeth really well. They are indispensable around the house and for health too. If you have heart burn put 1/2 a tsp of baking soda in… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/14 10:17 PM |
| 3 | Self-improvement thrifty style!We make our own soaps, shampoos, cleaners, lip balm etc., cook everything from scratch, go to garage sales/flea markets/farm markets for bargains on tools, dishes, linen etc. When I have the time I sew or knit clothing, curtains etc. I decorate our home with paintings and crafts that we make ourselves. When possible we grow our own food and raise/hunt our own animals for food, keep our compost for our garden, grow herbs for eating and medicinal purposes. We gather seeds from some of our produce … | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/14 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Advice a father of a six year old girlTHIS. So well said. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/14 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Advice a father of a six year old girlwe need to correct behavior as it comes It really can be all summed up to this little phrase. Everytime a situation comes up either on tv, movie, book, song or in real life etc point it out and have a short talk about it. The younger the child the shorter the attention span. Using real life analogies that they can understand helps solidify points you want to make. Just as an example we always monitored what our kids watched on tv and recorded everything we could so that we could eliminate exposu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/14 05:53 PM |
| 5 | Advice a father of a six year old girlI wish my dad had involved himself more when I first started dating. I wish he would have told me more about men in general and imposed stricter rules such as getting me home at a reasonable time and putting the fear of Jesus in them prior to taking me out. Making your child know that what happens to them is important to you is very important to the child. Just letting them do whatever they want whenever they want sends them the message that you just don't care. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/14 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Bend and Snap: The Red Pill Woman Trap - apparently we're seen as the latest, coolest thing since feminism!In case anyone is interested, the author of the article has seen this post and has written a response to it. http://unmaskingfeminism.wordpress.com/2014/01/17/rpw-lets-discuss/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/14 03:08 PM |
| 16 | 22 Things Only Single Women UnderstandI don't get it, is she whining about being single or is she trying to make us think she's happy being single? Either way she sounds perfectly pathetic. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/14 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Bend and Snap: The Red Pill Woman Trap - apparently we're seen as the latest, coolest thing since feminism!I can only imagine how peeved you must be atm. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/14 03:45 AM |
| 5 | Bend and Snap: The Red Pill Woman Trap - apparently we're seen as the latest, coolest thing since feminism!I don't even know what to make of her. She says she's anti-feminist but she also seems hyper-paranoid of everything, couple this with her Christian worldview and she seems to contradict herself at every turn. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/14 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Bend and Snap: The Red Pill Woman Trap - apparently we're seen as the latest, coolest thing since feminism!I was hoping you'd comment on this. I was looking at some of the other supposedly RPW blogs out there and I would certainly not want to be associated with them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/14 03:21 AM |
| 5 | Bend and Snap: The Red Pill Woman Trap - apparently we're seen as the latest, coolest thing since feminism!There's more on this subject here too http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-32089.html | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/14 03:13 AM |
| 3 | Bend and Snap: The Red Pill Woman Trap - apparently we're seen as the latest, coolest thing since feminism!By all means if my posting this will only fuel their fire delete it, it certainly won't offend me if you do :) It was the first time I ran across something negative concerning us and thought it might be interesting to see what the community had to say about it but I don't want to poke the sleeping bear either. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/14 02:24 AM |
| 5 | Christianity and the Red PillI'm not overtly religious but in trying to find articles who reflect RPW ideology it seems that it closely follows the traditional Christian beliefs. There are not a whole lot of non-religious blogs written by RPW yet so when posting religiously laced articles we tend to try to let others know that it's the message not the religion that matters. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/14 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Introducing RedPillWomen's Newest Moderator: PhantomDream09!That's wonderful! Congrats! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/14 04:21 PM |
| 5 | Raising RedI wish I had some resources on this subject too. I have 2 daughters, 17 & 18 and I spend most of my time trying to undo the internet and tv/movies's subliminal and propaganda crap. Other than flat out introducing her to RPW I can only advise you to teach by example and to point out RPW theories whenever a situation crops up that you can. I probably don't have to remind you of this but do not trash her mom or her views. I will have to think about this some more and get back to you if I think of a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/14 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Check Yourself: separate your sense of entitlement from yourselvesExactly, and not to keep score or want/expect anything in return. Just love and adore him for being him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/14 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Check Yourself: separate your sense of entitlement from yourselvesWonderful article! Bookmarked so I can read over and over. Luv it! Even after all of our hard work we only have more hard work to do. It’s a process not a destination. We must, and please listen closely here, we must always check ourselves. So very, very true. So true it hurts a little! We are not worthy and we must always seek to be worthy. This is a fantastic way of thinking about it. I will adapt the mantra "I'm not worthy" but I will always be thinking of Wayne's World ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/14 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How can we postpone the inevitable wall?I'm all for the sun too. No sunscreens and my skin is just fine, no wrinkles yet and at 44 I've seen much younger ladies with much harder looking skin than mine who use makeup, creams and lotions etc. No chemicals on my skin and deep exfoliation. It works for me anyway ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/14 08:46 PM |
| 1 | The fine lineAs I mentioned before I completely understand your reaction to her post and I admit 100% I might be reacting from a naive stand point but I had to speak up because I'm just not seeing it the same way you are. There were two PM requests, and one was because she seemed to have found a like-minded person(/u/bakerofpie) in which she offered friendship through PM. The second was in response to questions which I believe would have defamed her husband in public if answered. We are all berated quite str… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/14 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How can we postpone the inevitable wall?Excellent advice! I would warn against dairy though see here | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/14 06:23 PM |
| 6 | How can we postpone the inevitable wall?I third this, especially for us older ladies. Also if you do it consistently when you're younger your body will more easily respond to any exercise later on. This really saved my bacon after sustaining a back injury. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/14 06:05 PM |
| 3 | It's Time to Turn Our Thinking Around: reconsidering what we've been taught about marriageThank you for sharing this, it's really well done. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/14 03:20 PM |
| 3 | thanks for the insight rpw!I was married 20 yrs before making that last crucial step all the way into RP. Breaking such a long time of bad habits is very difficult but with the support of this sub it has made it way easier. Welcome aboard :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/14 03:10 PM |
| 2 | How to encourage my husband to be more RP?I was furious with myself and horribly depressed about the way I had been treating my poor husband. This haunts me daily but serves as a reminder of not letting it happen again. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/14 08:16 PM |
| 1 | The fine lineI completely understand especially since in the last couple of weeks we were bombarded by trolls but there's something different about /u/rougecurious. Her wording doesn't seem to match that of a troll more of someone who is nervous and not knowing exactly how to approach us. We can be very fun loving, open hearted gals one minute and then cold truth in your face the next. Terminator Care Bears of sorts! | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/14 07:43 PM |
| 2 | The fine lineI feel bad for her at this point because I have the same problem she describes but I am far from beautiful (a 5-6 at most now), it's just that in our circle of friends I would most likely be seen as the prettiest of the bunch but really that isn't saying much either because my husband's friend's wives are all harpy shrews which make me look like a beautiful angel of mercy. Also, I don't live in a large city where I would have a ton of beautiful women to compete with so when I go to our local gro… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/14 07:20 PM |
| 1 | How to encourage my husband to be more RP?I have always been met with a very positive attitude when I ask my husband to help me be a better wife. He's been more than happy to help because in the long run this will highly benefit us all. Sure at first there might be a lot of questions but in just a short time you get through them and then it's up to you to get to work on the resulting answers. Win-win in my opinion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/14 05:15 PM |
| 3 | How to encourage my husband to be more RP?My husband discovered TRP before I had heard of it, and I must admit that I was actually offended at first. Lol, me too. Then I was angry for days not at him but at myself, feminist and all the people out there who crush and devour men's souls. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/14 02:39 PM |
| 3 | The fine lineI'm in ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/14 02:03 AM |
| 2 | How to encourage my husband to be more RP?Maybe he is still early in his learning curve? It sounds like you might have made things a bit too comfortable for him to continue growing in this area. In your meetings perhaps you could delegate (together) certain tasks that he has total control over and the same with you. Once it has been decided you then have to stay out of his tasks all together and not interfere in any way, even if you see that he may mess it up somehow. You're going to have to give him the wheel and trust his navigation s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/14 02:01 AM |
| 3 | The fine lineYou are most welcome :) My husband has to remind me of my own naiveté on occasion. I don't think of myself as very pretty and don't always think that my behavior would be attractive to anyone but over the years it has become obvious that I do attract men and do say and move in certain ways that make it worse. Being nice and pleasant can sometimes trump big perfect boobs and perfect ass, lol! Some men will fall all over themselves for a little female attention. It's just something you have to try… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/14 01:42 AM |
| 4 | The fine lineI have had the same problem as you are having and I have had to really work on how I use my body language and eye contact around my husband's friends. You don't want to be rude but you can't be overly friendly either. Stay out of their 'personal bubble' a good two feet away, absolutely no touching and do not look them in the eye while speaking, a quick glance up at first but look away and keep conversations to a minimum. Do not make them think you find them interesting and no compliments. Make s… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/14 01:24 AM |
| 2 | How to encourage my husband to be more RP?Have you discussed any of this with him? Just telling him what you just told us would in my opinion really show him your vulnerability and asking him to help you sort this out could push him to take control a bit more. He is quite busy right now so maybe arranging small increments of time where you guys come together and discuss it on a weekly schedule or something like that could take the pressure off from this having to be dealt with all at once. Do you like being everyone's rock? It seems lik… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/01/14 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else worried about the men?Frankly, I'm much happier after swallowing that pill than before. Sure, it taught me a lot of grimdark things about human nature, but those things were already there. The only change is that now I can understand why what happens happens. And I can do something about it. The red pill doesn't change the universe. It just equips you to better handle it. Awesome! This is exactly how I felt too. Depressing on the one hand but hopeful now that I understand how things really work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/14 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Is anyone else worried about the men?wow, thank you, this should keep me quite busy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/14 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone else worried about the men?“As a victim, I was re-victimized by having these services telling me that I wasn’t a victim, but I was a perpetrator.” This is so infuriating and sad. I wasn't aware of this, thanks for the link. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/14 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone else worried about the men?Do you guys have a compilation of these types of things on /r/TheRedPill anywhere? I read The Misandry Bubble, but I'm sure there's so much more kept hidden from the general public. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/14 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone else worried about the men?Holy shit!!! Unfreakin'believable! Just when I thought I had seen it all. ~weeping even harder for humanity~ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/14 11:19 PM |
| 1 | What does the ideal housewife's day consist of?My husband often tells me that he's glad I don't spread flowery, pink stuff all over the house, I try to keep things neutral and more man friendly. I've seen too many homemakers(btw I like this way more than housewife too) spend their time alienating their husband from all the rooms in the house by adding all floral prints, kittens, teddy bears etc all over everything! It's no wonder they retreat to the garage or basement. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/14 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Deti’s advice to young women on 23 things to do before you’re 23:I've had several breeds of dogs in my lifetime but none as smart as this one. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/14 04:53 PM |
| 2 | Deti’s advice to young women on 23 things to do before you’re 23:That's what we have. She's very smart and loving. We've had her 8 years now. This is very close to what she looks like | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/14 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Do Sexy and Modest mix?The way you phrase this, it seems as though you equate "showing off your assets" to "looking like a whore". So far you're the only one who seemed to think this. Everyone else offered some great ideas on dressing modest yet sexy without assuming I was trying to attack their personal way of dressing. I told you I was raised to be modest and asked honest questions, that you took it as a personal attack on the way you dress is really unfortunate as this was not my intention. Regardless of how anythi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/01/14 04:03 PM |
| 1 | RPW, How do you make new friends?Group hug, lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/14 09:41 PM |
| 1 | RPW, How do you make new friends?No doubt ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/14 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Obviously when it comes to selecting a wife or permanent LTR, a virgin bride/girlfriend is the ideal, but...I thought these might be relevant to this discussion. Chemical Bonding How Love Works Especially pages 7 & 8 The Bonding Power of Sex | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/14 08:52 PM |
| 0 | A Question for Red Pill people who have had sex before marriage.So then a woman who consents to having sex with a man is responsible for her own actions, just like you're taking responsibility for your own actions concerning pollution, right? Or are you implying that these women are not capable of making responsible decisions on their own and this then should be blamed on men for somehow taking advantage of all these ignorant, naive women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/14 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Equality in a RelationshipUnfortunately this is so true. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/14 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Respect In ActionOh of course, I wasn't saying you shouldn't have posted this, I'm merely saying that it's such a shame that as a culture we are not all taught these basic values and morals. There used to be a time when these were deeply ingrained in the majority of people but now one has to fight for the right to keep simple virtues alive. I find it useful to read up on such things to keep myself sharper and more aware of my own issues. I also like hearing other people's point of views and anecdotes, it can be … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/14 09:00 PM |
| 1 | A Question for Red Pill people who have had sex before marriage.ROFL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/14 08:21 PM |
| 0 | A Question for Red Pill people who have had sex before marriage.Should I blame you for the world's pollution then? You must drive or use some type of transportation and produce domestic waste. Harm is harm right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/14 08:12 PM |
| 1 | A Question for Red Pill people who have had sex before marriage.Is it not the woman's choice to open her legs to a man, or are you going to pin that on men too? Women can only blame themselves for sleeping around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/14 08:03 PM |
| 0 | A Question for Red Pill people who have had sex before marriage.Wow that was a long read ;) You have the patience of an angel. I agree 100% with you, sex and love belong together, without love you're just using someone else to masturbate with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/14 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Equality in a RelationshipMe too! He always has the last check of the house at night, walks on the traffic side and always thinks of our family's safety ALL the time. Health, safety, social situations etc. He's always 5-6 steps ahead of everyone. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/14 05:52 PM |
| 0 | Equality in a RelationshipWe always tell people not to keep score but if these woman who want equality the way you explain it here were to HONESTLY make such a list I bet you they would be shocked at just how little they do comparatively. Now to get "real" results you wouldn't be able to compare the amount of chores/work/decisions delegated but the quality and importance of these chores/work/decisions is what we would have to examine. These types of women want to choose this supposed fairness/equality to suit themselves … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/14 04:36 PM |
| 1 | RPW tips for millennials?For us it was a do or die situation where our relationship was at the brink of complete failure. We both wanted very badly to save it so we got together and devised a plan where we both actively and religiously followed until we both felt we were safe from doom. He rarely has to tell me anything anymore because I usually catch myself before he would have a chance to notice. Doing it this way also gave my husband "something to fix", not just me but our relationship which made him feel very useful… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/14 03:29 PM |
| 5 | RPW tips for millennials?I found that talking to my husband about it was a great help. We decided together the things that I do that are not acceptable and asked him to let me know when he thought I was slipping. He does this in a very friendly and sometimes humorous way so that I don't feel too badly about messing up; he knows how much work I'm putting into self-improvement for the sake of our relationship. It's awesome that you are aware of this at such a young age and willing to do something about it. I had a conside… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/14 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Feminists are ugly.they make it a priority not to serve their own families. Cooking, cleaning, and caring for their own husbands and children is a concept which is repulsive to them. Acts of service to others are in their twisted minds traps to be avoided, and many go so far as to order their entire lives around avoiding showing love to others, especially their families. These women are so gripped by miserliness they have made it a priority not to show love to their own children. I see this and just cannot process… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/14 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Respect In ActionGood post. The only sad thing about it is that this sort of thing has to be said at all. When did it become ok to not be respectful in relationships and the world in general!? ~sigh~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/14 07:23 PM |
| 3 | According to TRP, my qualities make me an awful partner for a LTR.Actually you don't know you can practice it. I know you've had a hard time here so far but you're immaturity and lack of sexual experience really goes against you here. You haven't a clue what you will and won't do until you have racked up some experience. You are a virgin which means you haven't yet experienced the full range of lust and what the chemical bath of hormones and chemicals can do to you. You think you know what's best at your age but you really don't, that's just the harsh truth. U… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/14 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Do Sexy and Modest mix?After not hitting the bullseye outfit wise with my husband I asked him to help me pick some out so now when we do go out I know he likes what I'm wearing because he picked it. He doesn't like shopping in general and quite frankly neither do I but he does like it when I ask him to help me pick my clothes. His patience is so admirable :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/14 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Do Sexy and Modest mix?I'd wonder why your man doesn't want you looking good. Where in my post did I say that my husband did not want me looking good? Does looking good only mean that I should expose my breast and my every curve for all to see? Is he afraid you might leave him if some guy looks at you the wrong way? That's insulting to both he and I, what's up with that? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/14 05:29 PM |
| 4 | RPW, How do you make new friends?I've given up on trying to be friends with women. I have no interest anymore in listening to women bad mouthing their husbands/SO and demanding they should be treated as goddesses just because they squeezed out a kid or two - too exhausting and not worth the time and effort, life is too short for such bs. I've had to get rid of more so called friends because they weren't actually wanting to be friends with me, they just wanted to get closer to my husband. I wish there were meet ups for RPW but I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/14 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Do Sexy and Modest mix?lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/14 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Do Sexy and Modest mix?Thank you this has been quite informative coming from a male's point of view. My captain doesn't want me to look unattractive, he just doesn't want me to look as though I'm advertising. It appears that my post made some people think I wear garbage bags or muumuus to hide my entire body lol. My pants are form fitting but do not reveal my religion, my shirts hug my body but if it seems to accentuate my bits too much I usually detract this with layers, cute vests or cardigans. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/14 01:49 PM |
| 2 | 14 Yoga Exercises For Slimming Your FaceThank you so much for the warning. I will certainly keep that in mind. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/01/14 01:26 PM |
| 1 | In Which a woman accidentally and unabashedly describes the experience of female hypergamy in action, excuses it and laughsTotally agree. I have been practicing more and more placing myself in my husband's shoes lately and my goodness it has really opened my eyes to just how much he does for our family. There's no room in a relationship for solipsism. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/14 01:51 PM |
| 1 | up my game?If you can rock climb and do parkour you haven't any worries, just keep doing stuff like that and doing it together is a bonus :) For the kids thing, yeah timeline is getting pretty short but the main reason I was asking is that you think now about being your healthiest and fittest before getting pregnant (and keep fit during of course) and it'll be so much easier to get back in shape afterwards. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/14 10:33 AM |
| 2 | Do Sexy and Modest mix?Thank you for replying outside of your comfort zone, it's very much appreciated. Both my husband and I think a lot like what you've described. My husband has made several references to me looking and behaving like the sexy librarian. He seemed happy when I had to start wearing glasses to read, enough so that he would pop around the corner and snap photos of me, lol. I think I let my insecurities get the best of me again especially hanging out with a lot of younger ladies here. I know deep down h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/14 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Do Sexy and Modest mix?I have a house full of kids so the only time I can wear anything revealing is in the bedroom. I will take some of your suggestions and see if I can modify it to our situation. Thank you :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/14 02:06 AM |
| 1 | 14 Yoga Exercises For Slimming Your FaceWhat happened? I haven't been doing it very long and didn't find any negative reports in my research of it prior to starting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/14 02:02 AM |
| 2 | Field report - thanks guys!Hope 2014 brings you joy and happiness ♥ | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/01/14 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Do Sexy and Modest mix?My H prefers dress length to be below the knee and tight fitting dresses/skirts are a no-no. It's not just coverage it's seeing the goods. I love the flare dresses if I could find or make one that would be the appropriate length. I just bought some for my daughters not long ago and think it might look good on me too where we are very similar in shape and size. Very feminine. I like sweater dresses but find them either too clingy or too damn hot. Thanks a lot, these were great :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 11:40 PM |
| 4 | What body type/size do you think most men actually prefer?omg lol, gross but true | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 11:00 PM |
| 3 | 23 Things to Do Instead of Getting Engaged Before You're 23It sounded like it was written by a 12 year old brat. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 10:46 PM |
| 1 | 14 Yoga Exercises For Slimming Your FaceThese face exercises are really good. I noticed the skin under my chin just barely starting to loosen and within just a few days it was high and tight again. I think doing these starting at a young age would most likely delay wrinkles even longer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Do Sexy and Modest mix?Thank you, these are really all lovely. Strapless is out but the alternatives are really nice...now if only I had someplace to wear these at ;) The last one is adorable. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Do Sexy and Modest mix?Hey, if your hubby thinks you're that hot, others most certainly will too. A burqa would certainly take the stress out of shopping for clothes ;) As I started showing my age more and more I found myself dressing a bit less...ahem modest at times. My teenage girls didn't help with that either. I did and still do have some insecurities of course and I goofed up on a few outfit choices. It's difficult drawing the line between looking and feeling sexy but maintaining that sense of modesty too. My hu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 10:29 PM |
| 11 | Question to red pill women. What do you think about TRP (the subreddit) and the average TRP'er?I stay away from their space mostly, it's too testosterony for my liking. I lurk from time to time when I see an interesting heading but find the hate too depressing and sad. I understand why they are so angry(as much as a woman could) and I wouldn't want to intrude in their process unless invited to. I only recently really understood just how bad men have it now. My husband has really helped me see it so now I feel angry and sad for my husband and 3 sons. I can do quite a bit to ensure that I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/14 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Do Sexy and Modest mix?Do you think an older lady can pull off that look? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Do Sexy and Modest mix?I love, love boots! Unfortunately I don't wear heels so finding really nice boots without a lot of heel is hard. I like the ones you link to, the heel isn't too much at all. What a great jacket too! I have to find more camisoles that will hide my cleavage, I find that difficult to find as well. I'm a bit lost since formal occasions for me are few and far between. Same here. Thanks a lot :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Do Sexy and Modest mix?That's really pretty, thank you. I've yet to find a dress that really compliments my shape. I should try finding one like this or mock one up at home. Often times when there's something defining the waist it doesn't match mine because I have a long torso. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Do Sexy and Modest mix?Thank you, the first link is pretty much how I dress now. I do love layers. I like the second one but I am over 40 and some things now seem a bit too young looking. I don't want to look like an old lady but I also don't want to come off as though I am trying to be 18 again either. I've been told regularly that I look to be in my early 30s and was asked for id up until I was in my early 30s. I know I'm slowly showing my age now and want to ease into it gracefully. Having grown up in the late 70s,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 08:11 PM |
| 1 | up my game?I'm more of a tomboy too but my husband seems to like that about me. He also likes it when I get all girly too but I'm at my most comfortable in t-shirt and jeans. I tend to wear my hair up in a very feminine way and wear cute aprons when I cook and clean. I always get a smack on the ass when I wear the apron, lol. I can't seem to find a dress that looks good on me but I do wear long skirts sometimes. Does he want you to dress modestly or does he not mind you showing off your assets? My man is a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 07:03 PM |
| 1 | up my game?Ahh! that makes more sense then. Are you very feminine or more of a tomboy-ish gal? More pretty dresses, form fitting girly clothes accentuating your assets could be helpful. What has he been doing to up his game? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 05:08 PM |
| 2 | In Which a woman accidentally and unabashedly describes the experience of female hypergamy in action, excuses it and laughsBut I'm still not sure – if you've signed up to forever, will anything less than everything do? This ruined it for me. It seemed like she was finally getting it and then BAM - Nope! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Table Manners and Dinner EtiquetteWell then you're no noob to raising boys then ;) I thought you had one bio-daughter and one step-son. The reason I brought it up at all was your comment about how your step-son didn't like girls yet so I figured he hadn't started those changes yet. I still remember the first time I realized this was going on with my eldest son and wished someone had given me a heads up about it, lol, Luckily it wasn't a big deal at all with my husband there to help out. If anything your story has definitely put … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 04:53 PM |
| 2 | 23 Things to Do Instead of Getting Engaged Before You're 23lolol | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 03:39 PM |
| 2 | RPW is not BDSMIf you can think it, it's most likely a 'thing' now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 03:29 PM |
| 0 | Table Manners and Dinner EtiquetteWow! You really have your hands full. Sounds like the poor boy has unresolved issues and is quite rebellious. It's a shame he doesn't get the discipline at his bio-mom's house too. Children need consistency and stability in their lives. Has he only caused trouble for you personally? If so it could be that his bio-mom is trash talking you to him or in ear shot of him which would be such a shame and so immature. Your heart must have melted from that hug. How old was he when you entered his life? D… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 03:27 PM |
| 1 | New Year's ResolutionDo you still eat rice? Chicken stir-fry on a bed of rice, roast chicken with roasted veggies. Curry Chicken with rice or french fries. Chicken Caesar salad. My husband and youngest son have to eat gluten free and be very careful of starches too so I do have a bit of experience in the gluten free recipes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 02:58 PM |
| 1 | up my game?The long hair made your face seem too long or something, not natural looking at all. Not ugly but not pretty either. Harness that worrying into concentrating on not letting yourself go and things should be fine. Worrying will give you worry lines anyway, so don't do that ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 03:16 AM |
| 1 | What body type/size do you think most men actually prefer?Like I told /u/semiredpill, I think our experiment is showing the opposite so far. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 03:09 AM |
| 1 | What body type/size do you think most men actually prefer?So far our little experiment isn't looking too good for having the men choose someone that looks like their mom ;) I don't look anything like my husband's mom did in his formative years but I do possess some of her more favorable personality characteristics. And my husband doesn't really look like my dad did but he does have all the really favorable alpha traits of my nanny/caregiver's husband which I adored and looked up to in my formative years. My mom worked and my dad was very ill. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 03:07 AM |
| 3 | up my game?You're so adorable. I hope you don't mind me saying but you remind me a little of Battlestar Gallactica's Katee Sackhoff. I love your curls, they suit you. I'm not partial to the short blond hair but all that really matters is what your husband prefers and if that feels comfortable for you as well. Experiment while growing your hair out. You have amazing eyes, pulling your hair up really accentuates them. Ask your hubby if he would prefer you "made-up" or more natural. He's your only audience no… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 02:57 AM |
| 1 | What body type/size do you think most men actually prefer?Just out of curiosity, was his mom his prime caregiver between the ages of 1-5? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 02:10 AM |
| 2 | What body type/size do you think most men actually prefer?I definitely got curvier in all the right places. I can't say that having children ruined anything other than leaving stretch marks. I was very thin before my first pregnancy. I'm 5'9" and my weight is distributed quite evenly. I sometimes gain in my midriff but I usually can get rid of it pretty easily now. Once I started eating correctly the weight melted off, it's all a game of self-discipline. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/14 02:06 AM |
| 1 | What body type/size do you think most men actually prefer?My current WHR is .7 and hubby likes. During our relationship my body changed quite drastically from being a near anorexic 95lbs no boobs no hips to 200lbs(eeek I know, I know) big boobs good child bearing hips at my last pregnancy. I'm at my optimum weight and looking pretty good now for my age, kept the boobs and hips thank god! He seemed to like all my stages so far but I know he prefers me slim as I am now. I have been getting way more compliments since losing the 60+lbs pregnancy fat and I … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/13 10:45 PM |
| 1 | I'm new here and would like some advice.I just recently(about 3 months ago) heard of hamstering, isn't this a perfect example of it? | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/13 07:44 PM |
| 2 | New Year's ResolutionI'm with /u/PhantomDream09 in that "if I want to make a change, why not start immediately?" and we tend to ignore the coming of a new year for the most part anyway so with that said, I just plan on keeping up with my self improvement one day at a time. This includes participating at RPW to keep myself focused, cater to my husband's every need, keep slim and trim, learn new things, master the things I already know and keep my mind and soul open to new possibilities. What you think about, you brin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/13 07:36 PM |
| 2 | I'm new here and would like some advice.Excellently put! I'm so exasperated after trying to explain things to /u/GuildedCasket yesterday I just couldn't go through it again today. So much resistance for people who seem so interested in our ways. ~sigh~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/13 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Table Manners and Dinner EtiquetteSounds like he needs his dad to give him a stern talking to. At his age he should not have to be treated like a 4 year old unless he has a medical reason. I do not envy you one bit in the years ahead if you guys don't nip this in the bud soon. Well rounded teens can still be quite the handful, I can't imagine having a teen that still acts like a toddler! Watch out when those hormones come rushing through. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/13 06:50 PM |
| 2 | I'm new here and would like some advice.That view is against RPW but as so many who are here on RPW, they take what they want from RPW views and discard what they feel isn't right for them. You seem quite definitive with your response to this subject so I won't waste my time explaining it further. I understand where you're coming from with having your trust abused 100%. Unfortunately I do not have any definite answers for you. It takes time to fully trust someone and even more so when you've been traumatized. Just remind yourself that… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/13 06:30 PM |
| 1 | A Quicker Way to Clean HouseI'm a zone cleaner too so I think I'll give this a try too. It would be great to have the entire house done in just a few hours, instead of just one room. edit:grammar | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/13 04:50 PM |
| 1 | I'm new here and would like some advice.And I don't believe that I was in the wrong. Mistake #1. He was well in his right to not want you hanging out with other men. You should never let yourself be alone with other men while in a relationship, NEVER. It doesn't matter if your male friend is also in a relationship. The only way you can keep a friendship with other males is if your SO is there with you while you hang out with them. Are you sure you were devoted to this guy? Maybe there's a lot more to this story than you're letting on … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/13 04:45 PM |
| 1 | A Quicker Way to Clean HouseHere's another good one. http://www.buzzfeed.com/twopoodles/deep-clean | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/12/13 03:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you judge a man's sexual market place value, and how can I increase mine as a man?lol you never know, maybe that's really hot to gamer chicks | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 10:39 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?fair enough, and to you a good life as well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 09:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you judge a man's sexual market place value, and how can I increase mine as a man?These were traits that attracted me to my SO, being Canadian and living in the boondocks sort of makes things a bit different than those who live in big cities and like their men to be head of large corporate companies wearing suits and ties. To be a good solid protector, you could become proficient in martial arts(if that's not banned too). And no, shooting stuff in video games does not count. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 08:27 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?Self improvement is a large part of RPW and I'm happy to hear that you are actively pursuing it. I wonder where you get the idea that I don't think about my SO more than myself? From the information you have offered so far I deduced that you think more about yourself than your SO from your idealization that you need to have things in your relationship be fair and that you are unwilling to even entertain the possibility that even though your SO says he's fine with everything the way they are and … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Table Manners and Dinner EtiquetteI would also make sure he is well rested before going to the restaurant. Tired children in public is generally not a good idea. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Table Manners and Dinner EtiquetteHow old is your step-son? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 05:03 PM |
| 0 | RPW is not BDSMLMAO | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Table Manners and Dinner EtiquetteHaving a large family, we were always big on table manners. I'm glad we taught them manners but it seems like a lost art now. My kids feel somewhat out of place when they go out because their good manners are seen as weird. God forbid they say excuse me and thank you, take their elbows off the table, not reach in front of people etc. I sometimes wonder if some families just have a food trough in front of the tv. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 04:33 PM |
| 2 | RPW is not BDSMpsychemological I think I'll use this word for now on. luv it!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 04:22 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?Yes thank you for answering. He seems somewhat alpha, how long have you been a couple? You may believe you're a RPW but in all honesty you simply are not. Without the Captain/First Mate scenario you do not fit the bill and that's ok. As you have mentioned in another post, you might fit more with PurplePill and really you don't need to label your dynamic as long as you recognize that you don't exactly fit in here at RPW. You do not need to have conflict resolution to have a Captain/First mate dyn… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 04:18 PM |
| 1 | RPW is not BDSMOh and I wish someone would teach us all about how promiscuity is all hunky dory now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 02:37 PM |
| 4 | RPW is not BDSMlolol | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 02:32 PM |
| 2 | RPW is not BDSMBut Dana, we here at RPW don't even know what BDSM is. Oh goodness me, how will we ever really know the difference? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 02:16 PM |
| 4 | How do you judge a man's sexual market place value, and how can I increase mine as a man?Honesty, charisma, intelligence, handy(no need to call anyone to fix stuff), protector(know how to use weapons, preferably someone who knows how to hunt), projecting confidence and not being affected by other people's opinions or beliefs; a take charge type of man. A finely chiseled body helps too ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 01:56 PM |
| 8 | I really messed up. How can I fix this?I don't get all the people here telling you you're a whore and should be ashamed. Maybe it's because you don't understand RPW. A girl's value depreciates with each man she sleeps with and to sleep with two guys in 24 hrs is not RPW at all regardless of whether she used protection or not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 01:40 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?That's just plain twisted, playing with other people's lives just to write a paper about it. And they say we're the fucked up ones! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 01:05 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?Maybe it's the in thing to do now, isn't this the second one like this in just a month? It's hard not to lose faith in humanity. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/13 12:01 AM |
| 5 | I really messed up. How can I fix this?Have you no morality? ~playing in the background; "Oops... I did it again" he thought it was gross I certainly hope so! I can't believe he slept with you again after that. Can I even fix it now? How about you fix yourself first. 1.quit drinking 2.find friends that act more like the way you want to be, hopefully virtuous and smart - no more sluts, bars, pool halls or where ever this type of behavior happens; if you live with a cripple you will learn to limp. 3.make sure you aren't projecting slut… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/13 10:10 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?What do you mean you have no idea, do you not know the difference? Of course it applies, he doesn't need to be in a relationship to know if he is beta or alpha. Are you deliberately avoiding giving an answer to this? It just occurred to me that you have no intentions on learning to be a RPW you are just asking questions out of curiosity, right? I don't see any real happiness coming from the path you've chosen, I hope you find the answers you are looking for and I send you both my best wishes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/13 08:38 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?told him about its merits when he expressed skepticism You never actually said whether he is more beta than alpha, which is he in your opinion? He really sounds beta the way you describe your dynamic. pursuing thirds Who's idea was it to open up the relationship? Do you invite male or female or both? we never run into conflict for more than 2 minutes Who usually ends up resolving your 2 min conflicts? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/13 07:02 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?It's nearly impossible to get any type of socio-psych education without coming out the way she has. It used to be damn near all men teaching it in my day but I'm sure it has become predominantly feminist now. It really sucks too because one of my daughters really wants to study psychology but knows that a lot of it now would just be a waste of time, through university anyway. I feel so sorry for the poor people she is going to ruin in the future. Me too and her unsuspecting SO too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/13 06:25 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?Here's a few questions for you, would you want your SO to go learn all about RP and how to become a better man? Would this make you uncomfortable? Does he already know about RP? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/13 06:15 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?I bet she tops from the bottom though. LOL!!! I feel bad(in a way) for these young girls but not so much when all they want to do is argue and hamster. They want a man but they also want to "be the man" and want their man to "be the woman" as well. ~sigh~ | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/13 06:08 PM |
| 2 | RPW single momNot if she is doomed to repeat it, it isn't, just sayin'. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/13 05:56 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?No I do not believe one relationship model works for everyone, what I do believe though is that if you want your man to stay a man and not a whipped beta boy then you haven't any other choice. By the sounds of it though that is exactly what he is and what you want him to stay like so my blessings go out to you both as this is the relationship model you have chosen not the RPW model. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/13 05:43 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?Is it emasculating if he does it of his own accord? YES because you are making him feel like he still should help poor little you with YOUR chores. The only way I could see it be ok for a man to do any chores is if he just wants to do something nice for you but it shouldn't be a regular thing at all. Cooking is totally different though, some men really enjoy cooking but I really doubt any men enjoy scrubbing the toilet and dusting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/13 05:39 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?You're still not getting it. It's not what will be even or fair at the end of the day it's what will keep your man a man. You do not emasculate your man by having him do housework, even if he insists. He's young, this is where it all starts. If he isn't already a beta you will most certainly turn him into one. Do Not Let Him Do Housework unless you are very ill or incapacitated for some reason and even then ask your mom or some other woman friend or family member to come help. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/13 05:29 PM |
| 3 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?We have a dual earner household and I still do all the household chores. I'll be damned if I let my husband cook and clean, that will always be my job as the woman of the house. He does his man jobs around the house, the ones I'm not suited for such as heavy lifting or mechanical etc and where our jobs are concerned, his will always be the most important. He needs to be focused and on the ball and it's my job to make sure he doesn't have to worry about all the little things. Do you keep score or… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/13 04:42 PM |
| 1 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?career women who's rose has lost it's bloom Jeez Dana, you really should write books. I so enjoy reading your comments 1. because of your intellect and 2. because of your strong grasp of language skills. I mean it, you should write a RPW book or at least your views on feminism etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/13 04:00 PM |
| 5 | More Excellent Camille Paglia For those InterestedMs. Paglia says, the women's movement should return to its roots. That means abandoning the "nanny state" mentality that led to politically correct speech codes and college disciplinary committees that have come to replace courts. Hear hear!! I do wonder if we'll ever see changes such as these? I'm hoping that at least my kids will see some positive changes in their future. What types of things can we do to help this move forward? Do any of you actively try to change things and if so how? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/13 09:13 PM |
| 1 | 36 Ways To Be Irresistibly AttractiveI agree that having the word 'irresistible' drove it over the top. The part that they see and can tell that you are full of life and will add value to theirs beyond sitting there and looking pretty my thoughts exactly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/13 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Smart women marry money OR True Love = Looks + Health + Wealth + Power + Status + ChemistryWell that was a waste of my time! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/13 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Hey RP Women! My friend asked: What value can women add to a man's life?I am not the perfect RP woman but I possessed enough RP traits to muddle through nearly two decades before realizing the missing pieces which I know caused my husband misery prior to recognizing my mistakes. I believe that the reason we stayed together was mostly due to both our loyalty to the relationship we are constantly building and working to improve on and our never ending quest to better ourselves for the sake of our relationship. In other words, we really love each other and can't see a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/13 07:37 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is a Red Pill Woman?You've pretty much summed it all up. Very nicely said. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/13 04:24 PM |
| 1 | 36 Ways To Be Irresistibly AttractiveThank you once again for your opinion on this. I confess that upon reading these I was thinking of it solely as a RPW and didn't think for a minute that it could be gender neutral, my bad. I also noticed that while reading these I put a RPW slant on them all in my head but of course you and others out there can't see this! lol I'll certainly keep this in mind next time I feel the urge to post an article, especially the kind that enumerate or have lists. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/13 04:17 PM |
| 1 | 36 Ways To Be Irresistibly AttractiveThis list by itself isn't a good guide to attracting men. Said this way, I agree. If this is what you meant as a secondary attractiveness then I understand your point of view. 6.Take care of unresolved matters in your life. Restore your integrity. Forgive and ask for forgiveness where necessary. Reclaim the energy you have given to these matters. It doesn't say that you need to have all your affairs in order before you can be attractive, it's just saying that by doing so you will become more att… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/12/13 04:05 PM |
| 1 | 36 Ways To Be Irresistibly AttractiveThat one I missed, it is gender neutral. I was reading it as though it pertained just for women as a form of girl game. Thank you for pointing this out. I do wonder though if we were to read it as though it is only meant for women, do you find any of it objectionable? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/13 09:58 PM |
| 3 | 36 Ways To Be Irresistibly AttractiveI disagree. If you are not eating properly you invite many unattractive qualities such as acne, bloating, dark circles under your eyes, unhealthy hair and nails, skin, weight problems which can then cause stretch marks and cellulite etc etc If you're not confident your posture suffers making you less attractive. If you're not happy with yourself it shows through many facets of your outer beauty so I don't see how working on improving your self worth, health and ameliorating your overall lifestyl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/13 07:32 PM |
| 2 | 36 Ways To Be Irresistibly AttractiveI was thinking that most if not all of these would be good girl game. A lot of the discussions on girl game only talk about appearance but when a girl is confident about most facets of her own life she will be 10 times more attractive; you know that type of attractiveness that you just can't put your finger on, the type you say, she really shouldn't be attractive but she somehow is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/12/13 03:27 PM |
| 2 | I have been a terrible first mate to my captainI will make sure to let my husband know right away; I'm sure this has never crossed his mind and he will gladly want to move on to some newer, greener pasture that hasn't a single flaw to it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/12/13 01:26 PM |
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