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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 23 | Things I learned from a year with a “red pilled dude”This is so spot on | /r/ExRedPill | 21/04/23 02:36 AM |
| 1 | (21m) I’m so depressed and scared to go talk to this girlI’m just gonna dm you | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 07:02 AM |
| 1 | (21m) I’m so depressed and scared to go talk to this girlBecause it’s usually girls that are shy guys are supposed to be more dominant and shit | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 05:25 AM |
| 1 | (21m) I’m so depressed and scared to go talk to this girlYea but how is that cute that’s feminine asf | /r/ExRedPill | 20/04/23 03:48 AM |
| 1 | (21m) I’m so depressed and scared to go talk to this girlI feel like whatever I say I get rejected it’s stupid | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/23 09:41 PM |
| 1 | (21m) I’m so depressed and scared to go talk to this girlNow they just see her irl | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/23 07:52 PM |
| 2 | (21m) I’m so depressed and scared to go talk to this girlWhat about when it comes to texting? Is it the same? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/23 07:52 PM |
| -1 | (21m) I’m so depressed and scared to go talk to this girlI’m talking about STARTING off idk if I’m supposed to be flirty and smooth and stuff at first but at the same time I’m too nervous for that I wanna get comfortable first | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/23 10:04 AM |
| 0 | (21m) I’m so depressed and scared to go talk to this girlUhhhh girls that aren’t so easy, I like girls with class, a girl that has her looks in order most importantly. But are you saying I shouldn’t just start out by doing basic talk or talking about regular shit? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/23 10:03 AM |
| -1 | (21m) I’m so depressed and scared to go talk to this girlAbout what tho y’all are complicated imo😂 | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/23 10:01 AM |
| 2 | (21m) I’m so depressed and scared to go talk to this girlOk let’s say I start off with small talk and talk about basic shit, that’s not bad if I’m trying to spark her interest right? I don’t have to be smooth off the bat do I? Because I constantly stress out about whether I flirt enough or too much etc | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/23 10:00 AM |
| 2 | (21m) I’m so depressed and scared to go talk to this girlGod this is so hard | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/23 07:12 AM |
| 1 | (21m) I’m so depressed and scared to go talk to this girlYea I guess | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/23 07:12 AM |
| 1 | (21m) I’ve been miserable for the past few weeks?I just don’t know how to do the self acceptance thing , like the fundamental totally makes sense don’t get me wrong, but my mind just feels blank and empty, I feel miserable, I feel like there’s no hope for bettering myself. I’m so tired and low of energy | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/23 01:25 AM |
| 1 | (21m) I’ve been miserable for the past few weeks?All of these options are great but I can’t find the metnal capacity to do so. I’m balancing on and off of nofap and stopped watching porn as well, I joined the movement to see if that would fix my depression and if I remember correctly it helped but only a little bit I still had rejection anxiety. I feel like I have it more worse than other people and I considered therapy and or ordering over the counter medications to help me with this but I haven’t got that far yet | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/23 01:22 AM |
| 1 | (21m) I’ve been miserable for the past few weeks?There’s been days where I try something different and it ends up going well. Lots of ppl give me good advice but I feel like whenever it’s the next day I fall back into my old routine and I’m just wallowing in my own sadness | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/23 06:56 AM |
| 1 | (21m) I’ve been miserable for the past few weeks?I get that that maybe they MIGHT be lying like you’re saying but where do they get the confidence from? I can’t even get the confidence to talk about any girls I like to anybody in general | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/23 05:30 AM |
| 1 | (21m) I’ve been miserable for the past few weeks?yea idk sometimes it’s hard for me to answer my head is just blank | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/23 03:28 AM |
| 1 | (21m) I’ve been miserable for the past few weeks?Idk how to explain my situation man. I know what you’re talking about but part of me thinks I’m depressed and sometimes idk what to say | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/23 10:20 PM |
| 2 | (21m) I’ve been miserable for the past few weeks?Idk how to I just cant | /r/ExRedPill | 14/04/23 09:17 AM |
| 1 | What to do when I’m put on the spot about my sex life?No | /r/ExRedPill | 01/04/23 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Can you hook up without being redpill?Seems legit asf | /r/ExRedPill | 31/03/23 10:56 AM |
| 0 | (21m) I’m depressed about my anxiety with girlsI just want to hook up | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/23 07:34 AM |
| 0 | (21m) I’m depressed about my anxiety with girlsBut I’ve been on dates before and had sex but it’s just been a while. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/23 01:24 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?And damn to the last part you think to admitting to nervousness would work? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/23 05:54 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?So like let’s say I have this girl on my social like Facebook or insta. I get social media dating isn’t ideal but in my case, there’s a few girls I really like but I’m nervous to hit them up. I don’t wanna ruin my chances with them if I say something wrong so what do I say? Another thing is, I always hold off on texting any girl in general because I keep telling myself I wanna wait until I feel mentally stable enough and I’m more confident… so… I feel so angry at myself for it | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/23 05:53 AM |
| 2 | How am I so bad with girls?Alright thanks man I’ll try | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/23 04:57 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?I just feel like with all this advice given to me it’s useless idk why. I just feel depressed | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/23 04:56 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?You don’t think I need therapy? | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/23 01:47 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?I thought girls like that agressiveness tho | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/23 01:07 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?Ok | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/23 01:06 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?That makes sense | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/23 12:57 PM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?I don’t mean aggressive as in mean I mean as I’m flirting | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/23 10:21 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?I don’t want anybody to know how down bad I am and fucked up I am. And I feel like if I told my one close friend he wouldn’t really listen. Nobody wants an emotional burden | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/23 07:14 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?Absolutely not | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/23 07:13 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?Yea what planet do you live on? Not every person that hooks up cheats lol | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/23 07:13 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?And another thing too is, whenever I get to texting a girl and I feel like she’s interested in me, it makes me feel good and confident. It makes me feel like good about myself kirk it’s sort of validating me. But whenever it’s that it’s mostly always girls that are average. And all the girls I want are getting taken by average looking guys. I feel like I can shoot way above where I’m shooting now I just don’t know what to do | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/23 07:12 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?Because I’m a horny mf. I just want to fuck but I can’t and I’m depressed about not being able to do what I want. I’ll be honest with you I think I’m also pretty slow witch grasping certain things. Like I’ve been asking advice too about similar shit for a whole year or more now and I feel like nothings helping me | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/23 07:11 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?Yea thats the thing I’ve been steady asking for advice for a whole year now. Some of the advice has been helpful but it only helps me out for so long until I fall back in my depressional phase. So idek what to say anymore | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/23 07:09 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?Yea but not all the time. Lots of guys my age DO get laid. It sucks because when I’m older I won’t be able to tell stories about all the fun I had when I was younger 😂 I’m missing out | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/23 07:08 AM |
| 2 | How am I so bad with girls?Yea I think redpill fucked me up. But like at the same time I’m confused because doesn’t redpill force us men to be more dominant in a sense which is a good thing? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/23 07:06 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?That’s so incredibly wrong. 😂 People who meet up for sex are cheating??💀 | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 06:59 PM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?Naw it ain’t that easy it’s just finding the right things to talk about with them | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 11:23 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?See you get what I mean it doesn’t make sense to me. But you said what you just gotta talk to them and actually connect with them? Idk how I can get better at communicating especially with how mentally unstable I feel | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 10:12 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?I don’t think it’s rare at all. Plenty of guys my age that I know of aren’t even in college and get laid all the time | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 10:10 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?No just one friend he’s a guy | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 10:09 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?But I don’t know how to not think they’re different. Like when I first text them I don’t know what to say to grab attention. Can’t just say hi…. And I lowkey am miserable. I don’t think anybody in my life knows how miserable I am I always hide it but deep down I feel like shit and unstable to a certain extent. Thing is, I’ve done things like self improvement, and I always try to distract myself with my hobbies and interests and these thoughts still find a way to stress me out to where it impacts… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 10:09 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?I’m glad you thjnk so. And to be honest everybody giving me advice, like I appreciate all the advice I can get but it just saddens me more. I feel unstable. I feel fucked | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 10:02 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?It’s just my thought my head is so messed up from this | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 10:01 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?I really don’t I have one friend | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 10:01 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?Man thanks for the very detailed response. In all honesty idk what I want. I am really horny and I get jealous when I see guys that can get some ass and I can’t even set something up for myself. I feel like I don’t have the charisma for it and at the same time I don’t wanna be something that I’m not. Idk man it just makes me depressed even talking about it | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 08:49 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?Idk how | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 08:33 AM |
| 2 | How am I so bad with girls?I guess I should but even let’s say I tried to be friends with a girl I feel like I’d feel slightly awkward | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 07:29 AM |
| 2 | How am I so bad with girls?So that’s all it is? You have to genuinely make friends that are girls etc? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 07:17 AM |
| 2 | How am I so bad with girls?I know I know now I’ve been through the whole self improvement thing. I try to distract myself from different things in life and find confidence in certain things. And when I feel like I have enough confidence built I’ll TRY and make an effort to text girls or talk to them and I feel like I fall flat in my face. So many girls I have the opportunity with and fuck things up by saying the wrong thing | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 07:14 AM |
| 0 | How am I so bad with girls?I agree I feel like a lot of dudes and especially women in this group get triggered at the fact people want to hookup. Like I remember I made a comment on a post a while back about me wanting to simply hookup because I felt like I wasn’t ready for a relationship and this girl called me out saying no wonder women didn’t like me and my comment got downvoted by like -15. Like okay didn’t know that wanting to hook up with people was a bad thing😭 | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 07:12 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?But if other guys can do it why can’t I? | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 07:05 AM |
| 2 | How am I so bad with girls?Fair enough. I’m 21m. I have one body but even after that I still have these issues | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 07:05 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?I’m 21 and 18-26 | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 07:03 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?Hurt hook up for now | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 07:02 AM |
| 2 | How am I so bad with girls?I know i do I just wanted to give some background and give a little info about myself. And I know Redpill is bad to a certain extent idk what to believe anymore I’m so fucked in the head right now | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 07:01 AM |
| 1 | How am I so bad with girls?What makes you think I should see one? Not arguing against you by the way | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/23 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Is not having an ambition caused by depression or am I just making excuses for myself?Yea my mom always thought I had adhd. When I was a kid the doctor checked me out to see if I had it and they said I didn’t, now something seems clearly wrong anyways. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/22 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Is not having an ambition caused by depression or am I just making excuses for myself?And doesn’t sound like a bad idea | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | Is not having an ambition caused by depression or am I just making excuses for myself?Lol I think I have bipolar anxiety and depression that runs in my family | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/22 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Coworker trying to steal girl that likes me, and how to deal with it?Lmao okay buddy 😭 | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Coworker trying to steal girl that likes me, and how to deal with it?Of course. If anything I think that’s a shit test? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Coworker trying to steal girl that likes me, and how to deal with it?Not always like that. Always flirt and tease eachother when it’s just both of us | /r/ExRedPill | 30/07/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Girl pretending to not like me, but does?So only playing games? I don’t understand what you’re saying. Seems like you’re saying she wants me to initiate something with her but she’s also playing games, meaning she’s not serious at all about anything | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Girl pretending to not like me, but does?I dmed you something | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 06:31 PM |
| 0 | Girl pretending to not like me, but does?You think she’s interested in me | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Girl pretending to not like me, but does?seriously? | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 04:08 PM |
| 0 | My flirting problems with women and how to fix it?Very true | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 08:42 PM |
| 0 | My flirting problems with women and how to fix it?Yea lmfao | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 08:41 PM |
| -1 | My flirting problems with women and how to fix it?Ohhhh so what I said wasn’t even bad? Yea I get that. I think it’s mostly because she’s stressed out today because we usually go back and forth and tease eachother a lot | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | My flirting problems with women and how to fix it?Sorry what’s that mean lol | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:14 PM |
| 1 | How can I improve my conversation skills with girls through text and in person?Honestly man I want to not be so nervous when I text. I can flirt with girls in person fine but having actual conversations with girls over text or in person is excruciating to me | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/22 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Feeling forced to go talk to girl?Everytime I’ve tried texting any girl at all, I’m lucky to get any reply back at all. And if I do, it’s nothing to work with | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard for me to put in effort and talk to a girl over text and make her interested in me?What do you mean what just comes naturally. How am I supposed to receive anything back when I have terrible social skills? Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How can I improve my conversation skills with girls through text and in person?Thats true | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Why is it so hard for me to put in effort and talk to a girl over text and make her interested in me?Didn’t think about it like that | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so hard for me to put in effort and talk to a girl over text and make her interested in me?That Makes sense | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | How can I improve my conversation skills with girls through text and in person?Ight bet | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How can I improve my conversation skills with girls through text and in person?I understand that. It’s so har drive me to shift my mind off of one thing but I’m trying hard | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so hard for me to put in effort and talk to a girl over text and make her interested in me?I think that’s why and yes I’m probably trying to rush into sexting. How can I change that then? I don’t think it’ll be so easy for me to simply let go of that old habit | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Why is it so hard for me to put in effort and talk to a girl over text and make her interested in me?Outside of texting I’m completely different. I’m more social and it easier for me to hold a conversation and flirt too. I don’t know why I can’t be the same over text, it gives me so much anxiety | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so hard for me to put in effort and talk to a girl over text and make her interested in me?Yes hella anxiety lol | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Feeling forced to go talk to girl?How can I show interest without coming off as needy | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Feeling forced to go talk to girl?Being too available a girl is never attractive. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 08:58 PM |
| -1 | Feeling forced to go talk to girl?Because I don’t want to always be up her ass and available. Distancing yourself will give her time to think about you | /r/ExRedPill | 20/07/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean if a girl laughs after you playfully sarcastically reject her after she flirts with you?To fuck lol | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean if a girl laughs after you playfully sarcastically reject her after she flirts with you?So what should I have done when she said that? I wouldn’t say I was oblivious because I definitely knew she was dtf, is it already too late now? Did I fuck up? What do I do now? | /r/ExRedPill | 19/07/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean if a girl laughs after you playfully sarcastically reject her after she flirts with you?I reject her as if I’m too good for her lol | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 12:23 AM |
| 1 | 20M, My texting problems with girls makes me want to end it allYes! That’s definitely one of the things that worries me and I don’t know when the right time is to get sexual. I do need help with that | /r/ExRedPill | 07/07/22 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls suddenly stop acting uninterested??That’s not what I’m saying🤦🏽♂️😂 Nevermind | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls suddenly stop acting uninterested??It’s weird because sometimes I’ll be flirting or just saying something to a girl and they flat out ignore me or act like they don’t hear me. Like they won’t be bitchy or have do it out of disgust, they just won’t acknowledge me at that instance even though they CAN hear me. Sometimes I’ll catch ‘em off guard and smile when I talk to them and I get them to smile back. Idk it’s just so confusing. | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls suddenly stop acting uninterested??It probably would’ve been better to explain but sometimes I’ll be saying something to them and they act like they don’t hear me. No smiles anymore. So I walk away and just do the same back. Then if I straight up ignore them or avoid them they try to get my attention and start touching me and flirting and trying to talk to me again | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | I'm an actual "Nice Guy".Are you speaking from experience? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/22 12:24 AM |
| 2 | I'm an actual "Nice Guy".Stop fapping | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/22 03:27 AM |
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