Tips for guy going to bar for first time? (21m)

lilycamilly · 2022-11-26T19:37:48+00:00

DON'T have sex with her if she's drunk, ONLY if you've discussed that she want's to get drunk and has sex when she's SOBER. Even if she's throwing herself at you, if she's too drunk to drive, she's too drunk to consent to sex. What may be a disappointing/anticlimactic evening for you if you don't have sex, will be a sign to her that she can trust you not to take advantage of her. Better safe than sorry. Be a gentleman.

If you don't have much experience drinking, just pace yourself, stick to only one or two drinks an hour. Drink a lot of water during the night, don't drink on an empty stomach, and make sure y'all have plans for how you get back home (friend as a DD, uber, etc)

Besides that, just have fun and be yourself!!

mikayrodr · 2022-11-26T19:41:49+00:00

Make sure she makes it home okay. Make sure she’s drinking water too. Try to get her to eat and take things slow. I probably wouldn’t have sex while she’s “hammered” because it’s not gonna be as great as you might think.

Relax and be yourself! She clearly already likes you. No need to put on an act. Have fun!

None0fYour8usiness · 2022-11-27T19:47:00+00:00

Personally, as much of an alcohol-monger I am, I'd stay away from girls that desperately want to get hammered.

That being said, u/mikayrodr probably has the best advice, though as a guy I have to put heavy emphasis on do not sleep with her if she's drunk.

curiousnaomi · 2022-11-29T03:14:27+00:00

Don't have sex with drunk people, bad idea. Okay to go to have fun but I wouldn't sleep with someone who's hammered.

Gmed66 · 2022-11-27T04:22:41+00:00

Dude don't sleep with drunk women.

bossgoblin23 · 2022-11-30T16:52:04+00:00

If it's ur first time drinking and all, just don't go overboard man. You should be asking yourself as well as your partner WHY you want to get "hammered". Might find some deeper truths.

But at the end of the day, I'm not here to stop you, just give you some food for thought. If you do go, have fun and just be careful in bed while drunk

Mr_Makak · 2022-12-02T14:41:15+00:00

Absolutely don't go expecting sex or even any kind of romance. Just go and try for you both to have fun while making her comfortable.

That's literally it. Do not expect or plan anything more.

Title	Tips for guy going to bar for first time? (21m)
Author	LegitimateWasabi6183
Upvotes	6
Comments	12
Date	November 26, 2022 7:16 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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