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| 1 | guys in their late 20's early 30's. How do you do with younger ladies?Unfortunately apps let women choose things they think they care about before they realise they don’t. A lot of younger women would be into guys 25-35 but they set their age range low. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 05:32 AM |
| 2 | How do I become a top notch fuckboy?Your mindset is already good I reckon. Fuckboys are a temptation to women. They’re like a piece of rich chocolate cake, not “good for you” but a treat that’s hard to resist. So try to imagine what it takes to be that kind of man. * Gotta be ripped. Girls may like men in all shapes, but if she’s treating herself she wants muscly arms and abs. And she wants to think you have stamina to fuck her all night so looking fit enough is a must. * Confident, bordering on arrogant. * Fuck good * Don’t lie. … | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 01:22 PM |
| 3 | The Age QuestionFirst, frame steal. Her: “wait how old are you?” You: “thirty x (just say your real age). Wait, how old are you??” Her: “oh my god. I’m 19…” Then get her to qualify You: “oh wow yeah you’re quite young. Wait, are you even allowed to be here? You’re not going to start puking after two drinks, are you?” Her: “oh my god no I’m not like that I can handle myself.” You: “oh ok good that’s okay then. Had me worried I’d be stuck on babysitting duty for a sec there” Girls ask your age when they’re into y… | /r/seduction | 27/05/26 12:34 AM |
| 2 | "Eww Dating 18-21 year olds when you're 30+ is so GROSS and CREEPY you PEDO!"Sometimes I feel like something is wrong with me because my “preferences” are judged by society. Then I meet a woman that’s 30-40 who’s actually taken care of herself and I’m like ah yep the issue is not me here. | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 01:12 PM |
| 6 | "Eww Dating 18-21 year olds when you're 30+ is so GROSS and CREEPY you PEDO!"I mean not everywhere is the US | /r/seduction | 19/05/26 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Are young women not attracted to men anymore?Lesson one: what women say is not what’s true, it’s what they feel will accomplish their goals. The standing goals are: A) convince other women to be less competitive with them B) convince the world they aren’t shallow and like nice men, in an effort to make the hot bad guys “nice” to them (aka date them exclusively) C) shit on men for the love of the game. In this case it’s A:They cheer on women that swear off men so they can capitalise. And C. | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 12:10 PM |
| 1 | How can I get more hookups and casual relationships as a short guy without coming off as bf material?Be a drug dealer lmao | /r/seduction | 24/04/26 11:59 PM |
| 1 | ‘I'd really like to see you again’: needy or not needy ?“So last night was fun” | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 10:52 AM |
| 9 | Why women don't chase men?She likes a man, she chases, he accepts, he fucks her, he leaves. How does she know a guy she goes up to actually likes her or just went “oh she wants it. Eh, why not?” Women don’t like being an “eh, why not” so they avoid making sex easy. They will chase very attractive men because they don’t mind that much get pumped and dumped if he’s hot enough. They will however regret it if he sucks in bed. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Kinda tired of same sex routine?You’re downvoted but I agree. I traveled and managed an average of 1 girl a week (with multiple weeks spent with 1 girl occasionally) over 6 months and that felt low compared to the very handsome dudes with natural game who could easily pull every night or second night. At home 1 quality girl a month isn’t bad but is a long way off the results of someone who is good with women and motivated. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Time to hit the gymFor your own sanity in the dating game, make it as easy as possible: get in shape. It makes a big difference I can assure you. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:43 AM |
| 1 | i just can't man i just can'tIf women make it too easy for us dudes we often go “eh, why not?”. Spoiler: women do not want to be an “eh, why not”. They want to be a “fuck yes”. So they do things to get themselves noticed and assume that if a guy is interested enough he’ll go for it. That strategy kind of went to shit when they also decided to demonise men that approach women. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Some golden rules from a learned naturalStatus is attractive always that’s correct. Achieving status may be possible for some of us but not all though But any of us can internalise the idea of promising women a positive, valuable experience when we interact with them or attempt to attract them. And hopefully aim to make good on that promise. | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 06:04 PM |
| 6 | Some golden rules from a learned naturalFrame is when you walk in to a bar and you go “this is bad, let’s find somewhere else”. Your frame is that the bar is bad. The people in your group will either accept or reject that frame. Whoever has the strongest frame (is more assured, assertive) wins. With women we talk about frame control. Because if you want to sleep with a woman your real frame is chasing her. So you reframe that she’s chasing you so that you with your vibe and don’t turn her off. An example of external frame control is w… | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 05:04 AM |
| 26 | Would you get into serious relationship if the girl has previous experience of ONS/FWBSlut shaming in a sub dedicated sleeping with as many women as possible is incredible hypocrisy I agree | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Fix my club game + how tf did he pull!Half of game is doing something attractive the other half is noticing when a girl is horny and making the move | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 11:02 PM |
| 20 | Some golden rules from a learned naturalProbably fits in with this guys vibe and who he’s going on dates with. Congruency is another point that could be a golden rule. For instance I don’t try to impress with money because I don’t have any. Generally I’m not taking girls on dates anywhere fancy enough to warrant buying a dress. But as for it being a bit of a “simp” move, I think it’s fine to be the “I’m going to spoil you” guy as long as it’s congruent (ie you have a good job, are older) you set a non-needy frame and get her to qualif… | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 09:50 PM |
| 6 | Some golden rules from a learned naturalNumber 3 really is key. Talk to enough women and you find out that a big motivator for most of the casual sex they’ve had was to have “an experience”. Because generally, having good casual sex is so hard for them to guarantee they need to know something worthwhile is going to happen. With younger or less experienced women the act of having casual sex itself is the exciting experience. Especially attractive men are an experience in themselves. Older women need the promise of something different t… | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 09:31 PM |
| 1 | Some golden rules from a learned naturalHelping people is a passion what can I say | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Some golden rules from a learned naturalThanks for the assist, Miss | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Some golden rules from a learned naturalGrumpy pants here needs to take the advice the most | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 09:07 PM |
| 1 | 18F How do I find casual sex with a guy without fear of being hurt or getting sti’s as a super shy girlWithout fear of being hurt? Manage your expectations. Getting hurt only really comes from your own emotions. If you mean physically, you’ve mostly just got vibes to go off. Try not to be drunk. STI’s are perfectly preventable with condoms + checking a guy’s dick for sores before sex. The third step, which you don’t know about yet but will soon, is how to find guys that don’t suck at sex. There isn’t a good method to screen without actually getting him to describe what he would do to you first, s… | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 01:58 AM |
| 2 | What’s The Best Way To Approach Women in The Gym?Drive by’s. Try throw in some random funny comments whenever you get a natural chance to then do not overstay your welcome. Eventually you may find yourself in a situation where the conversation naturally continues or you find yourself naturally leaving at the same time, where you can ask questions and eventually build up to asking for an insta or whatever. Or attend meets and events of your gym does those. | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 07:54 AM |
| 4 | What’s a high body count?This sub is basically dedicated to understanding how to sleep with women. The people in this sub by definition are the ones that are making women into sluts. Besides which, my personal moralisation of sleeping with many women is that I do not judge them for being sexual or promiscuous as I am both of those things, and I endeavour to make even a once-off sexual experience with any woman a positive one. I don’t think anyone who has one night stands with women but judges women for having one night … | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Previous high interest girls “forget” they ever had high interest for no reason?Could be auto-rejection Basically, once a woman feels like they’ve adequately conveyed interest in a man and that interest might’ve been noticed by that man or others, and that man hasn’t reciprocated, then women will decide that they no longer like that man. They will decide this resolutely and even without being fully conscious of the 180 degree change in affection. Be careful when attracting women when you don’t have the capacity to follow through, this does happen quite often. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Anyone notice patterns in the girls they attract?Yeah for a while there they were all into tall lanky guys. You’ll never guess why. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 06:29 PM |
| 4 | What’s a high body count?Stop right there. If there one thing the seduction community has got right after decades of peddling hypno bullshit and barefaced manipulation techniques, it’s the understanding that we can’t do what we love (fucking women) if we also judge women for being sexual. Judge her motivations for sex but don’t judge her for exploring sex. You might even end up losing a girl because you convey judgment accidentally. Do not slut shame. We like sluts here. | /r/seduction | 03/03/26 06:25 PM |
| 2 | appart from dating apps, day game and night game, what are the top 2 hobbies/side jobs one can do that can reliably generate long term relationships?Fitness. Just anything not entirely male dominated. People aren’t saying run clubs are basically speed dating for no reason, no pun intended. | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Best city to learn game?Stay in any tourist hotspots near beaches and sleep with backpacker girls. Volunteer in party hostels to make it cheaper and even easier. Depending on your standards/attractiveness/persistence you can get laid 50-100 times in the year if you want I managed ~30 in 6 months as a skinny fuck that wasn’t exactly being optimal and my standards were high. Pretty guys with abs were getting laid every night. A somewhat ugly extrovert I worked with had well over 100 girls in a year but his standards were… | /r/seduction | 05/02/26 03:52 AM |
| 4 | How Do Guys Actually End Up With “10/10” Influencer Level Women?10/10 girls enjoy attractive men without status on the dl plenty. These men still have value mind you, it’s just not the “billionaire/athlete/actor/rockstar” value it’s the hot pool boy, local artist, bartender value. In the end hot women are still women, they still get horny and sometimes all they want is to get fucked good. More than half of game is just “convincing” a girl that if she ends up in bed with you she’ll have a good time. | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 06:16 AM |
| 1 | How do I catch up after a lifetime of being pussy?Go traveling. As long as your standards aren’t too high you have a shot at any decent night at a party hostel. If you’re not particularly attractive that’s ok, your move is this: Go traveling to a warm climate with a good tourist scene Book a private room in a well-known party hostel in a that has drinking events next to water (pool party, boat party, etc. Basically you just want a bunch of travellers getting drunk in their swimwear. Try get a night with a good ratio. You need as many more girls… | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 02:06 PM |
| 3 | guys in their late 20's early 30's. How do you do with younger ladies?Good news my guy, your lack of sunshine and natural testosterone will have slowed your visible signs of aging down dramatically so you have plenty of good years left if you start now. Fix your diet, hit the gym, and maintain ONE hobby or job that requires in-person social interaction. There is no shortcut here. I was like you but managed to pull myself out of it at 21. And as to your question, at 29 I still get attention from 18-21yo’s because they simply do not care about your actual age, they … | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 04:06 PM |
| 2 | How do I attain casual sex with girls without trying to setup dates?Basically, the more into you and rarer you are, the more likely they’ll be keen to just come straight over. Be in incredible shape. Not just because being in shape is hot, but also because being in great shape is rare. She’ll want to fuck you just because you’re a shiny new toy. Get the foreplay done over text. If you can get her interested in sexting she’ll get horny and make decisions with her vagina. Lower standards. The uglier they are the better the odds. | /r/seduction | 13/11/25 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Does getting with these hoes make y’all never want a relationship again?Get a relationship that likes getting with hoes as much as you do | /r/seduction | 17/10/25 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Women simp on whole another levelI remember a conversation with a few women in their early 20s awhile back where they insisted that it was easy for a guy to get laid on tinder. They were just like “why not just go on tinder to get laid?”. And I realised, the reason they think this is not just because it’s easy for them. It’s because in the past they’ve made it easy for guys to get laid on tinder. Another time I went to a club with a very attractive man and I was shocked at how the women just gravitated towards him. He had a gir… | /r/seduction | 07/09/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Men who have sex with lots of (attractive) women, how did you do it?You’ve either got to see it out or be the kind of guy that gets sought out. And you can do both. To seek it out, go where the horny available women are: The holy combination is women who are traveling, warm weather, near a body of water (ie wearing a bikini all day), drinking, alone or with one friend. If you’re somewhat confident and somewhat attractive you can smash multiple backpacker girls a week traveling. Or multiple a night - see my post history. To be sought out: Be valuable and stand ou… | /r/seduction | 07/09/25 03:07 AM |
| 1 | What’s your go-to move for that first date greeting?Hug. Smile, but keep your movements relaxed. Go for the hug with your arms low, elbows touching your sides. You want to go for the hug where her arms are over yours, with your hands on her mid back. After the hug, pull back so you can see her without letting go, slide your hands down so they’re all on her waist as you do, keeping your bodies close. Then linger for a second while you say something, then pull away. She’ll be ready to get in your pants already. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Possible to date younger girls 22-30 when you re a 32 yo guyIn person, by the time they ask how old you are you’re already in. When you get good, beat her to it and ask her how old she is as soon as you can tell she’s interested. Women do it to qualify men. You can do it first to get her chasing. Dating apps are a little trickier because a) women are less open-minded when making conscious decisions about se than they are when in the moment (they choose an “ideal” age range vs what they’d actually go for) and b) younger women especially might not even edi… | /r/seduction | 17/08/25 11:20 PM |
| 4 | What is the best career for game ?Post it | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 02:36 AM |
| 4 | What is the best career for game ?Knew a promoter guy. About 45yo, had the funniest convo with him. “Dude I just can’t do anymore coke. Every single person I get in the door offers me a bump dude. It’s gonna kill me.” | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 02:29 AM |
| 2 | good places where to find women that are dtf?Don’t really know what the vibe of NY is. If you can go anywhere that’s a designated party spot for travelers that’s a good start. My only other advice as a solo guy is to not tunnel on the girls. Be everyone’s best friend. I think NYC your best bet might even be on the apps. You’ll get a travel boost and the city is huge. | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 02:26 AM |
| 2 | How does the 'bad boy' thing work in practice?The man you’ve described is also emotionally manipulative and abusive, which is a whole other thing. You can definitely be a “bad boy” without it. Put simply, a “bad boy” is a guy who is attractive (enough) and displays very masculine traits. That could be things like risk taking and aggression, but the big ones are. Self-confidence Selfishness Assertiveness Dominance Women sleep with bad boys, because they see them as a special treat - an attractive, assertive, dominant man that isn’t good for … | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Single men, what drastically improved your sex life?Go traveling somewhere warm, stay in a party hostel near a beach or with a pool. Sleep with a new girl every night until you get over the nerves. | /r/seduction | 22/05/25 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Best European city for partying and getting hot girls?Anywhere where people spend their time in bikinis all day. You want a party hostel near a beach or with a pool, preferably both. Everyone gets horny when they’re hot and wet. | /r/seduction | 12/05/25 11:16 AM |
| 4 | The Confidence Hack You’ve Never Heard OfIt’s why we’re often better at it slightly drink - less thinking. Or better at it slightly stupid. | /r/seduction | 28/03/25 11:38 PM |
| 9 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?Women casual treat sex as an indulgence, akin to eating deserts. You want to be the male version of a chocolate cake - you look at it and know you’re gonna enjoy it. That means fit - not just muscles (you need some muscle) but also lean and do cardio. She will think “he does cardio he has stamina”. The rest is vibe - confident sexuality, a reputation that precedes you is good. The more she thinks it’s guaranteed she’ll have a good time with you the better your chances. Tattoos and a bad boy type… | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 04:37 PM |
| 7 | good places where to find women that are dtf?The other half of men really do tbh. Go read some comments on instagram reels. | /r/seduction | 06/03/25 02:08 AM |
| 2 | good places where to find women that are dtf?You mean teammates right? | /r/seduction | 06/03/25 02:05 AM |
| 37 | good places where to find women that are dtf?You want women that are: Letting themselves indulge: to women casual sex is an indulgence, something that should only be enjoyed on occasion. Not around too many people they know: women feel shame when indulging in casual sex, so she can’t be around too many people that would judge her Feeling good about themselves physically: Women get horny when they feel sexy. Thats why they like lingerie so much more than we do. Women in hot weather: anecdotally they’re hornier. Surrounded by hot people all … | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do I feel like I need to be an A**hole to get girls?I mean it’s step one to not being a boring nice guy. Modulate your behaviour with two simple tenants and you’ll keep all the good parts of being an asshole but won’t be insufferable. Be happy. Be interested in her. Can’t be a true asshole if you don’t complain and don’t talk about yourself a lot. | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 10:20 AM |
| 12 | People who are really good at first dates, what advice do you have?I have a very good record for first dates, and it’s not too hard. First date is typically drinks. I usually pick a cocktail bar that isn’t too stuffy (my city has a great cocktail culture), and as an ex bartender I know my way around any drink menu. I offer her a recommendation which she’ll love, I get her taste my drink which she probably won’t. One or two rounds there then on to a dive bar or something more relaxed. Most first kisses occur on the walk there. Home field advantage is a good thin… | /r/seduction | 27/02/25 09:14 AM |
| 2 | I built a game that help you pass her sh*t testsSome more common shit tests to add (out of the blue) I’m not going to have sex with you by the way You’re too old for me buy me a drink? | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 06:33 AM |
| 1 | I built a game that help you pass her sh*t testsOh this is fun | /r/seduction | 15/02/25 05:58 AM |
| 6 | How do you get as many hookups as possible?The importance of referees for pipe fitting gigs can not be overstated | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 12:58 PM |
| 39 | How do you get as many hookups as possible?Travel. Women treat hookups like they treat desserts: it’s a special occasion treat. Women treat themselves on holiday. They’re also horniest in warm weather when they’ve been next to a body of water surrounded by people in swimsuits all day. 6 month trip to Southeast Asia I came back with 30 more bodies (western backpackers, not locals. I’m not a passport bro). And this was me trying to maintain a standard of actually finding the girls I slept with attractive (beer notwithstanding). Hotter guys… | /r/seduction | 04/02/25 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Seeing unattractive guys with beautiful girls.They commit. It’s pretty much that simple. Some hot girls go through life attaching to simps, getting off on how they worship them, get bored and then move to the next one. | /r/seduction | 18/01/25 12:30 AM |
| 2 | How much does a great body help in attracting females?For hookups? Most important factor. 80%. But, a great body doesn’t mean bodybuilder to many women. A perfect body is great, but no body will be perfect to most women. Aim for “athletic” to attract the most women rather than jacked. For a relationship, less so. It never hurts though. | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 12:53 PM |
| 1 | How to make women lust after you?There are a lot of technical things you can do, and obviously you can try to be as attractive as possible. And you can try to be in positions of status. You can display competence in their presence. You can choose to speak slower, move slower, take up more space. You can hold confident eye contact. But I’d say the best single trick to getting “that vibe” is to start imagining fucking her during every conversation and interaction. It will subtly change your demeanour. And don’t be guilty about th… | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 01:09 AM |
| 12 | If most women look away immediately as soon as you lock eyes with them, is this is good indicator that you're ugly? (NO COPE ALLOWED)They do that if they think you’re cute too. If they’re not interested at all or think you’re creepy they won’t look back. If they think you’re cute they will. Trick is to not be looking at them when they look back, but then catch her when she does. If you do, you should smile. If she smiles, she’s happy for you to start talking to her. Don’t ever immediately avert your gaze when she catches you looking. To her that signals “he didn’t want me to see him looking, that might mean he’s trying to be … | /r/seduction | 24/08/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | We talk about how to seduce a girl, but how about keeping her interested in the long run?Beyond having chemistry and not being abusive, I’d say these are the biggest things. Be mostly “self” interested. Take care of yourself first. Extend that sense of “self” to her, and a small tribe. Treat the people closest to you with priority. Always be progressing your life. There’s a reason success in life is often stated as “going places”. So basically, make her feel like she’s on your team and that your team is winning. | /r/seduction | 08/08/24 01:19 AM |
| 2 | Are women honest about their ideal body type?Yeah true | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 05:37 AM |
| 87 | Any average dudes here managed to score a threesome through straight gaming?Twice. One was technically a foursome with 2 girls and 2 guys, but he didn’t get it up so it was really just me, two girls, and a swell dude keeping one busy eating her pussy when I was fucking the other. This happened whilst traveling, none of us had met prior to that night. They were solid 7.5s with really great bodies. Every man should cum getting sucked off by two girls on their knees on a beach in their lifetime. The other time I hooked up with a wild bisexual girl also while traveling, the… | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 05:32 AM |
| 23 | Are women honest about their ideal body type?“Want” and “like” are two terms that just have a lot of nuance to them. I like to explain it with food, because the psychology behind it is remarkably similar: Girls like eating desserts, but they “know” (in our case, conditioned) that eating chocolate cake all the time is bad for them. So they often go for food they don’t enjoy as much in an attempt to feel healthy, and when they’re dieting they’ll almost have themselves and everyone else convinced they actually prefer the bland healthy food. O… | /r/seduction | 06/08/24 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?I mean the most charming players have access to both of course. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Men who are in long term relationships - did you ever feel that you will ‘miss out’?I felt guilty about this for ages, but after years of would searching I’ve just accepted that I’m someone that extremely motivated by both sex and novelty, seeking out new partners is always going to be a thing. And I’m now in a poly relationship, which feels like I’m an imposter because I’m very much cis het, but it works for us | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 05:02 AM |
| 1 | She Had A Good Time But Not Feeling Second Date AgainAssuming they actually had a pleasant enough time with you, I’d say your issue is on sexualising and creating a man-woman dynamic. You need to be flirting, teasing, leading, etc. you need to hold good eye contact and speak to her in the way a lover would, not a friend. Couple of quick tips: Don’t just ask questions, assume something about her and let her tell you if you got it right or wrong. If you ask questions make them deeper, more impactful ones later on in the night. Don’t share things abo… | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 11:27 AM |
| 1 | She Had A Good Time But Not Feeling Second Date AgainAssuming they actually had a pleasant enough time with you, I’d say your issue is on sexualising and creating a man-woman dynamic. You need to be flirting, teasing, leading, etc. you need to hold good eye contact and speak to her in the way a lover would, not a friend. Couple of quick tips: Don’t just ask questions, assume something about her and let her tell you if you got it right or wrong. If you ask questions make them deeper, more impactful ones later on in the night. Don’t share things abo… | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 11:27 AM |
| 2 | She Had A Good Time But Not Feeling Second Date AgainAssuming they actually had a pleasant enough time with you, I’d say your issue is on sexualising and creating a man-woman dynamic. You need to be flirting, teasing, leading, etc. you need to hold good eye contact and speak to her in the way a lover would, not a friend. Couple of quick tips: Don’t just ask questions, assume something about her and let her tell you if you got it right or wrong. If you ask questions make them deeper, more impactful ones later on in the night. Don’t share things abo… | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 11:26 AM |
| 7 | What little things can men do to have more sex appeal?They love to have them as their safe boyfriends that won’t be able to cheat on them with a hotter girl. If that’s what you want then go for it. | /r/seduction | 07/10/23 08:12 AM |
| 12 | What little things can men do to have more sex appeal?Yep. The only slightly positive spin for body fat for men is “dad-bod” which kind of implies something important: that’s the body you’re only allowed to have when a woman has locked you down. Dad bods are “safe”, but they don’t get women riled up. Plus, to have a dad bod you still need to be muscular under your layer of fat. Gotta hit the gym either way. | /r/seduction | 07/10/23 08:09 AM |
| 6 | The hugMy technique is to approach the hug with my elbows touching my sides. But you also have to consider that women are very attuned to this stuff and may be subconsciously going for the less romantic option. Plus a lot of girls really like the dad hug. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Good replies to "You're too young for me".You really replied to a 5yo post with something this bad? | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 06:45 AM |
| 1 | If the first text you sent to a girl was "nice meeting you, (her name)!" shortly after getting her number, and she didn't respond, would you send another text or just give up?Wouldn’t phrase it as giving up, just move on. Until you have a rapport and have met a few times with a girl don’t text twice. Until she responds, she stops existing to you. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 03:02 AM |
| 1 | An overlooked dark side of learning about pickup?That’s the thing, it’s not comfortable outside the comfort zone. But as someone that doesn’t cold approach much, it’s good to know it’s not essential for a healthy dating life. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 06:29 AM |
| 18 | Just got rejected for being 'incredible'She wanted you to choke her or something lmao | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 07:26 AM |
| 3 | How can I boost my confidence?Find a hobby that enquires performance. I recommend finding a local amateur theatre company that is noob friendly, because it’s social and you really have to get used to performing and being uncomfortable and letting go of potential embarrassment. Being able to forget about worst case scenarios is a necessary skill in theatre, which you can learn. Putting serious effort into making yourself look better. It makes being confident in yourself easier when you can be sure you look as good as you can. | /r/seduction | 03/05/20 05:46 AM |
| 4 | There‘s sonething I never understood about seductionYep this is why I find it so easy to create tension with girls with boyfriends; the “we could but we shouldn’t/you can’t” thing is built-in. | /r/seduction | 28/04/20 07:53 AM |
| 19 | Does expressing your frustration or feelings in general make you less of a man ?Look since we’re talking about the way people perceive you, this is a question about appearances not about your innate quality. So while being an emotionally mature and sensitive person should be seen as a positive, it’s not neccsarily going to be seen as attractive to everyone. Of course being an emotional teaspoon isn’t good either, but if you’re constantly complaining, constant asking for advice, constantly second-guessing yourself... these thing are going to count against you in terms of att… | /r/seduction | 19/04/20 05:45 AM |
| 0 | “Yeah, but after exams maybe”. Exams are 7 weeks away. This is just a cop out rejection, right?I agree on discrete, but I may have not built up enough rapport before going for the date. But overall it wasn’t an overtly negative reaction, so I’m not abandoning hope, but putting it on the back burner for awhile. On to the next one | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | “Yeah, but after exams maybe”. Exams are 7 weeks away. This is just a cop out rejection, right?Ok, I see that may have been misleading, because the real quote was “maybe sometime after exams would be good!” Don’t know if that makes a difference. Still a text though so inferring tone is pointless. | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 01:39 PM |
| 1 | “Yeah, but after exams maybe”. Exams are 7 weeks away. This is just a cop out rejection, right?Yep got it. For the mean time when in class I need to acknowledge her and try to spark interests, but above all not be needy. | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 01:35 PM |
| 1 | “Yeah, but after exams maybe”. Exams are 7 weeks away. This is just a cop out rejection, right?So you realise she didn’t actually reject me, and that’s the point of this post right? You’re saying it’s an obvious no then? And yes I’ll do and am doing what you suggest, and this post is part of that. | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 01:18 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.Look, if you can’t get any I understand the frustration. Trust me I’ve been there. I don’t feel that anymore, so getting sex definitely helped a lot. It just won’t fix you. I went in feeling like I needed it, which made it less satisfying. I was I guess I’m a way I did need it, to gain this experience. Now I’m not saying I’m not gonna go for hot girls anymore, but I’m sure as hell not gonna drop my standards now either. Sex in and of itself isn’t worth it for me, need to be proud of it. And mayb… | /r/seduction | 25/05/19 01:51 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.Sure, and I could’ve told myself that too. Now I actually know it. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.You’d think they’d expect it in a FR post. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 03:03 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.I wish it had got more comments it’s kinda interesting. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 02:56 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.I’m sorry but it really feels like you’re arguing with me now to defend your own insecurities about not being able to come without toys. I sincerely didn’t mean to offend anyone, I’m not an expert and I’m not suggesting it’s any girl’s fault if she can’t come without a toy. I’ll leave that bit in the post, but I do see now it was probably unnecessary. I don’t really have more to say, but thanks for discussing this with me. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 02:50 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.I feel an even more important message, in relation to this sub, is that the best way to achieve sex is is self-improvement, but sex will not help you achieve self-improvement. Maybe some in this sub see getting sex as meaning you’ve made it, but it’s just not. Can’t work backwards. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 02:43 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.This is so true. I lost my virginity about 17 months ago. I’m a different person. Having sex for the first time was therapeutic, but only because of the person I did it with; someone I really trusted. If it had been sex with someone else, I expect I would’ve had less or worse results (considering how I couldn’t get it up properly the first few times either). | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.Well if that’s not an issue you feel the need to work on, that’s your choice. But tell me, if a guy can only get off by jacking it, and doesn’t seem to think there’s any problem with it, do you not find that a bit disappointing, at the very least? I’m not even super sure what we are discussing anymore tbh. Girls can desensitise their bits with toys. Hell, there was a post recently on the front page about a woman who permanently destroyed the nerves in her fingertips by using a vibe too much. I’v… | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.I apologise for your misunderstanding. It was a bummer cause my dick wasn’t working so I went down, and she’s like “yeah you can do that if you want but it won’t do anything for me, I need a toy”. But she didn’t want to use her toy, so we just stopped. Cuddled after and she was like “yeah I’m not much of a cuddler”. If she was more into it I probably could’ve got there in the end, but her behaviour, while nice, didn’t click with me sexually at all. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 02:14 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.Well it was also a Tinder date arranged 4 hours before. Her bio was “pull my hair and call me princess”. What do you want me to say? She seemed slutty, and I see no problem with that. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.She said “I’m kinda slutty haha” That why it was obvious. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.Woah I’m not talking about PiV, I’m talking about anything besides toys. Nothing except toys would get her off, or so she says. I am well aware PiV doesn’t get most girls there by itself, don’t worry. Besides which the post specifically says that I didn’t fuck her. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 01:50 PM |
| -1 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.AFAIK it’s usually caused by overuse of toys. I shouldn’t judge, I just can’t help equate it to death grip. Girls get upset they can’t get a guy off, only his own hand can, and it’s his fault. But for women it’s just the way it is? Let’s just say I shouldn’t presume she caused it herself. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.I guess I’m leaving it up in the air? Not kidding dude, I thought I was gonna keep things going with this girl afterwards. Hell, maybe I’m actually just being lazy. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 01:28 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.No doubt. Slutty was her choice of word. I mean nothing by it other than that she likes and has casual sex a lot. And that streak part is literal, as in except my first time I’ve only got laid the same day I met a girl for the first time in person, until girl 2 from this post. Not a boast, just fact. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.We are both young and living at home, I had a voucher for a one night stay at a hotel in the city and decided to surprise her. I was pretty confident it would go well, and it did. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 11:29 AM |
| -1 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.Sorry dude, I thought it was relevant. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 10:42 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.Definitely true. I’ve come very close in the past to inceldom, which is shit scary. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 10:28 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.It’s basically female death-grip. But you’re right, maybe it has nothing to do with overuse of toys, I shouldn’t judge. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 07:06 AM |
| 7 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys.For not getting it up? The rest of the post should indicate that it was a one off. Though yes I agree porn should be used in moderation. | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 06:55 AM |
| 12 | [FR] Got sex. It didn’t fix me guys./s ? No? Jesus who hurt you bro? | /r/seduction | 24/05/19 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice on a girl who said yes to a date, but I can’t pin down to actually go out.Dw I’m not getting oneitis. She’s in the back of my mind now, nothing more. | /r/seduction | 22/03/19 12:58 PM |
| 1 | I feel like the things I once knew are now wrong.I’d prefer your advice but I’ll take what I can get | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 10:23 AM |
| 3 | I feel like the things I once knew are now wrong.I guess we can just boil it down to playing it cool. That’s pretty generally applicable advice. | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 02:13 PM |
| 2 | I feel like the things I once knew are now wrong.Someone else in this thread said it should be heavily implied, she should know without you ever having to say it. I guess if she has to ask she’s either clueless or you’ve done it wrong. This has been my experience in the past and it’s gone well, it’s what I’d do again. And no one has asked me if it’s a date since I was fourteen, lol. Probably just over thinking it | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 11:49 AM |
| 0 | I feel like the things I once knew are now wrong.Well I kind of am approaching from that way. Most of who I meet are friends of friends, or people I meet through hobbies and see semi regularly. One girl at the moment I see every week. I’d like to start something but it requires a bit of finesse, and I haven’t quite worked out how I need to approach it without shitting on my own plate. | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 11:44 AM |
| 5 | I feel like the things I once knew are now wrong.Never used Snapchat and I hate it. Maybe I should 🤢 | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 11:36 AM |
| 2 | I feel like the things I once knew are now wrong.And yet a fb profile tells you nearly everything about someone, haha | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 11:36 AM |
| 43 | I feel like the things I once knew are now wrong.I’ve seen that advice given in a front page post here in the past week. I’ve literally had a girl tell me I was trying to make plans too quickly and she wants to talk more first. | /r/seduction | 16/01/19 05:27 AM |
| 3 | Cam Girls says it all - Worst Dates We've Ever Had And Mistakes Guys Make on DatesI've escalated physically from directly across from someone before, usually just through footsy. This is very overt and direct, so perhaps once you do have a some kino and flirting going on you can do this towards the end of the night. Sitting across allows for much better eye contact and conversation, so there are pros and cons to both. | /r/seduction | 05/01/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | A thought experiment I just thought up, to help focus on what we should be improving about ourselves.It's interesting cause everyone in this thread is giving examples of things they are, not things they do. Perhaps I phrased the question wrong, but most of the things I come up with are not labels for myself, but things I do regularly that no one will ever know about, eg masturbating regularly to social media. But that's the thing, no one has to know about these things for them to affect my self-worth. | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 11:05 PM |
| 3 | “Fuck It” -- The Magic Words -- How I Learned to Approach Any Girl.Steve-O once said, "I've never backed down from a 3-2-1-Go, for better or for worse". You get something like that going, and you'll be pretty much unstoppable. | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Cute girl at Starbucks: "How may I take your order?"You: "wow, I guess I need my coffee strong today, haha." Her: "haha yeah" You: "we bang, ok." Her: "ok" Missed golden opportunity op. | /r/seduction | 16/01/18 11:59 PM |
| 1 | How Should I Proceed and How Did I do?Hey man, go for it. If a girl you've never really talked to is interested in a conversation out of the blue, it's very likely her way of trying to get you to ask her out. Once you get it into you head that a girl doing this is essentially asking you to ask her, it becomes much easier to ask them. | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 02:39 AM |
| 29 | Good replies to "You're too young for me".Yeah nah I wanna fuck her though ¯_(ツ)_/¯ | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 05:22 PM |
| 10 | Good replies to "You're too young for me"."Me?" If she has no sense of humour at all. | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Good replies to "You're too young for me".Whew... | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 04:52 PM |
| 86 | Good replies to "You're too young for me"."What, worried you won't be able to keep up?" Cheers. | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 04:50 PM |
| 4 | How to make sure a girl knows you are NOT hitting on her and want to be her friend?When you leave to take a shit, say "hold on I need to shit, be right back". Talk about other boys with her, or other girls. "I have a thing for x" Talk about past relationships. Don't spend 100% of your time spent with them 1 on 1, if possible. Say "you're a good friend" "glad I have you as a friend", etc. Imagine you're out with a girl you like and she says any of this shit, you'd have to notice she isn't in to you. | /r/seduction | 22/06/17 03:24 PM |
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