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GDL is the LGBT capital of Mexico, so it's got a lot of very progressive people, and let's face it, if you're gay there's no problem fucking as much as you want (being bi-sexual here is a bit trickier because a lot of the chicks don't like fucking guys who fuck other guys --- but you can always play it straight if you're chasing women).
/r/seduction19/07/20 09:52 PM
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There's nothing wrong with wanting to be liked and desired, it's normal. The turn-off is displaying behavior that shows you care or need to be liked or desired (especially by a specific person). Be interesting, knowledgeable, fun, etc., etc., and some people will find you desirable and likable without you trying or seeking --- as for the others, fuck them. If they can't see you're awesome (assuming you've become awesome) then that's their problem, not yours.
/r/seduction17/07/20 04:55 PM
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I'm from California. In California I'm just another middle-aged white guy among hundreds of thousands, but here, here I regularly date, fuck, etc., beautiful young hotties (and mostly they chase me --- which is a nice change) because here I'm in a tiny minority. The ex-pat community here is still very small (the metropolitan area approaches 5 million people) so there's tons of opportunities. I know a couple Brits and they always have either hottie girlfriends or they are dating hotties --- whate…
/r/seduction17/07/20 04:34 PM
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Yeah, I have some advice. Travel. I live in Guadalajara Mexico, you come here with even the slightest game and assuming your not grossly over-weight and/or totally annoying, you'll get laid on your accent alone. People like different, so be unique. If you can't do music, sports, art, or something to stand out, then just travel to a place where you're instantly unique and exotic. That said, get some fucking hobbies and/or skills, be good at something because that's attractive to people (boys and …
/r/seduction16/07/20 06:44 PM
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In general? Foreplay, but you can't really get into this until you've had a conversation (usually). In conversations? Depends on the girl of course, but generally speaking women are turned on by confidence and expertness in something (be interesting, be a leader, have friends, have a job or business or be good at school, art, sports, etc). If you're interesting to men, generally speaking, you'll be interesting to women. If you're interesting to women, the ones that find you attractive (for whate…
/r/seduction16/07/20 05:51 PM
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Not if you haven't fucked already ---- there's not a lot of things that are "automatically" true when it comes to sex with someone you haven't fucked before. That said, it's very likely if your relationship is based on non-platonic attraction that she's at least considering sex (or maybe expects it --- depends, as always, on the exact nature of the situation). One simple way to figure out her intention is ask her if it's okay if you book a room with a single bed in it. My platonic friend would t…
/r/seduction15/05/20 08:06 PM
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Yes, indeed...but that term "great personality" is actually a descriptor of a talent or set of talents. Why is their personality "great"? I'd posit it's great due to something tangible: humorous, fun, intelligent, emphatic, etc., which combined can make a somewhat unique personality that is attractive (usually to both sexes). One can be a good person in the sense of being ethical, kind, generous, etc., but still be boring as fuck.....just like there are people who are narcissistic and crass but …
/r/seduction12/05/20 05:07 PM
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Everyone wants to be content, this is true. Where the rub is lies in the fact you can't really truly know what will make you content until you find it...and even then you might be settling for something lessor... The unknown unknowns are a bitch. I waver myself on this from wanting to settle down, marry again, have more children even, to just keeping a stable of sugars and hookers and allowing my male and platonic female friends meet the other social-interaction needs I have... It's tough. The e…
/r/seduction12/05/20 02:36 PM
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Everything is a scale. When I was poor I was lucky got get laid in a blue moon....certainly nobody was interested in a serious relationship with me. When I got wealthy (and went to the gym) it was like I lived in a different world. I was the same person. Same basic personality and so forth... But my value had risen. Should I have said to interested women, "Get away you superficial hag?" Or should I have worn ill-fitting clothes and ignored personal hygiene and never driven the Porsche until some…
/r/seduction11/05/20 05:09 PM
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Why is it "superficial" --- in your opinion -- to have a successful business or job? Why is it superficial to have taken care of your body/mind? I'm not sure you're making sense in terms of being consistent here. Would you want to date a woman who had no redeeming qualities? And if you say, "no" then why can't I say, "okay, you like her for superficial reasons." You might say, "She's got a good personality." Ha...yeah, okay, so do a million other women, good personalities are as common as people…
/r/seduction11/05/20 04:53 PM
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More than one like starts getting weird...I've deleted a woman and several gay guys for constantly liking my pictures...it's annoying. I saw the first one. Trust me, if I was into the person, I'd like a picture back right and let things progress, so I figure the women on the other end are probably seeing it the same way. A slight alteration to this is when you like a picture and then ask a legit question in the public comments, like, "Hey, is that restaurant still open?" or something totally inn…
/r/seduction11/05/20 02:34 PM
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This is easy to answer. There's a good number of women who dig watching their guy fuck another women (and a good number of women who are bi-sexual or heteroflexible).
/r/seduction11/05/20 02:25 PM
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I fuck identical twin hookers on a regular basis (well, it's been over 2 months now since the quarantine) but they do nothing incestuous --- so, getting sisters in bed isn't necessarily impossible, but it's probably pretty rare. I'd say for most sisters a threesome is not going to happen (even if the rules were no incest) --- and I'd further venture to say that the risk of even asking here is probably not worth it. If you've got a girl willing to have a threesome with you it seems you ought to p…
/r/seduction11/05/20 02:21 PM
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Yeah, what's wrong with a woman who loves a man for being successful? Or in shape? Or talented? Or fill-in-the-blank? We're, by and large, not chasing women who are grossly overweight, have bad hygiene, and poor social skills. Everything is a give and take --- "ask what you can love about another individual?" Yeah, sure, but on the list will be some combination of personality, looks, status, talents, job, career, income, etc., nobody loves someone (romantically) who has no qualities they like "j…
/r/seduction11/05/20 02:12 PM
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Ways I've been picked up and seduced. "Do you have light?" "You're as old as my dad. Do you like Elvis?" Asked by wingman of woman, "Where do you live?" and then, "Join us for a beer." "Where are you from?" Pretty common since I'm often the only white guy in the club. "My friend said I should talk to you." Friend or follow requested and then after I accept, "Hello." Basically for a woman to game she's got to find a way (subtle or not-so-subtle) to get the guy's attention. If he's interested/attr…
/r/seduction11/05/20 01:56 PM
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Haha.....when I got her home she was undressing before I locked the front door. If anyone was aggressive...it was her. In fact, I went to the club to meet another chick who, as I was leaving, flipped me off and said, "fuck you," although, in this case, "fuck you" was meant in a nice way. She and I are still very good friends... Sometimes women want to fuck and nothing is going to stop them unless you're just not attracted to them or your gay or you've got a girlfriend/wife/partner. In this case …
/r/seduction06/01/20 05:29 PM
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Get as fit as you can. The difference in flirting and eye contact for me between 200 and 175 is HUGE. I mean it's like people think I'm a different person and that effects confidence a lot. Money. If you can concentrate enough on business or work so you're not always struggling it helps a ton. It's not that you have to be rich, or even wealthy per se, but having money really makes life easier (in all ways). Now, for just pulling women, here's the easiest thing you can do without doing anything e…
/r/seduction12/12/19 11:54 PM
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I'm considered very handsome by a certain set of women. I'm 54 and I generally date/fuck/chase women in the 18-28 range, so for me, it's often just waiting for the signal that she's interested and then the social skills come into play. I'm also a very high earner right now (I live in a neighborhood that's analogous to Beverly Hills, there's literally a Ferrari dealer a two minute walk from my apartment. I also drive a Porsche. None of this hurts, by any means). I'm actually ~20 pounds overweight…
/r/seduction12/12/19 06:14 PM
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‘Hi excuse me, what’s your name?’ ​ This, in my opinion, is a terrible approach. Reasons: A. Saying "excuse me" instantly sets you off as both weak and a beta. Alpha males don't apologize for talking to women, they assume the women are happy and honored to have his attention. B. "What's your name?" isn't a good conversation starter, it's too personal, too fast, and puts people on edge. It's like you're a Jehovah's Witness or a used car salesmen. I once picked up a woman in line at a restaurant f…
/r/seduction11/12/19 07:24 PM
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Getting a number to follow up in 6 months to a year? Seems like a complete waste of time. What's the text message a year later say? "Hi, remember me from the club last August?"
/r/seduction11/12/19 07:04 PM
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Find a good hostel (use trip adviser or other review engines to find the best ones). Get friendly with the staff and ask for recommendations. Personally I'd avoid small towns and cities, go to the biggest ones you can afford. I live in GDL a city of over 1.5 million with over 5 million in the surrounding area. There are certain areas with a large progressive university population and lots of clubs, bars, activities and some good hostels to use as a hub/starting point. A final tip... I was walkin…
/r/seduction11/12/19 06:41 PM
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but whenever I set up a date she would be busy. Women who are into you are either: A. not busy B. are actually busy and will suggest a new time. Examples: Woman not into you: "My aunt is in the hospital so I have to cancel." Woman who is into you: "My aunt is in the hospital, I'm really sorry, can we change to Wednesday night? I'll buy the first round!"
/r/seduction11/12/19 06:19 PM
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Main difference for me: If it's casual, I'm working to fuck asap, i.e. the first date/meeting. If it's someone who is a potential LTR I'm not going to angle for fucking her on date one, rather I'll want to get to know her a bit and not fuck until the 3rd or 4th date. Okay, maybe the 2nd date, but the point is with a quality chick who might become a girlfriend, I don't want her thinking I'm just interested in her pussy. For a one-night stand, yeah, I'm interested in your pussy....if something dev…
/r/seduction11/12/19 06:16 PM
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Oh, as a follow up.... The 6 and 7s....I could fuck these every night of the week. I regularly have to blow off dates with women who are sexy and fun to fuck, but not at the level and mutual attraction that I want (and found that I need to maintain interest). It is what it is and I've found I have to treat women the way women treat men in this respect. I try to be honest and upfront as possible, but if it's not clicking at the level I want and need, I move on. And I have to respect that if I'm w…
/r/seduction11/12/19 05:50 PM
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Hell, I met a woman the other day at an event (we have some mutual friends and had actually met briefly in the past). She was sitting with another woman, both 8+ in looks, and playing Jenga and drinking. Long story short at the end of this event (it was a Saturday night about midnight) I asked them what they were doing next and she invited me to go to a club that was playing live music. We got there and shortly after the second chick left us alone. Now, turns out, the woman used to perform at th…
/r/seduction11/12/19 05:47 PM
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but sleeping with women with no emotional attachment is the behavior of a psychopath. Nope... If you're also a serial killer or stealing their identity to rob them, okay....but just fucking? Your comment is stupid because it makes sex into a thing that can't be just fun, like going bowling or playing basketball with strangers. I'm not a psychopath and I've had sex a bunch of times with total strangers and it's almost always fun. I have a sugar baby who I fuck because I like fucking her and she l…
/r/seduction11/12/19 05:16 PM
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Unless you’re looking for commitment, dont waste too much time on one girl that isnt receptive. Why would anyone waste time on a girl who wasn't receptive if they wanted a commitment? That doesn't make any more sense than chasing a chick for a ONS who isn't receptive. Bottom line, if a female isn't receptive, move on.
/r/seduction11/12/19 04:49 PM
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Yeah, agreed. I asked a question that is very applicable to this reddit, i.e. how do you deal with the emotions/feelings of dating multiple women when you're historically a serial monogamous. I have examples from my current situation and it was deleted for the bullshit reason that I was asking for specific advice about a specific situation. Nope, anyone that's lived a serial monogamous life and then tried to transition to dating multiple women using PUA techniques/seduction/ and/or just an attit…
/r/seduction21/11/19 06:06 PM
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Hell....if I was 6'6".... ...but I digress.... ​ Is there a way I can make a move without it being potentially alarming? ​ The same way a short or medium height guy does, you look for clues, visual, physical, and spoken. A women who gets a creepy feeling from a short guy is going to be alarmed, it's not about the height/weight because in nearly all situations (even when a guy is shorter and smaller than a woman) he's still got a physical strength advantage (and even if not, he's still a potentia…
/r/seduction20/11/19 07:55 PM
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Yes, there's a social convention here where I live (Guadalajara) where women try to appear more conservative than they are in some cases (depends on the club/situation) but for the most part those women who go out regularly fuck regularly and have been fucking since their early teens. I'd say it's a good rule not to ask a girl home in front of anyone else because it puts her on the spot. That said, sometimes the woman has already told her friends she's going to fuck you, so it's just playing out…
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:26 PM
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I live in Mexico. I speak zero Spanish. I've fucked both non-English speakers and bilingual chicks. The words are meaningless if you're at her house or your place and you're staying the night together. An 18 year old Mexican chick (unless she's super religious or otherwise unusual) that spends the night with you is pretty much guaranteed to be ready to fuck you. Exceptions apply, of course, but they are obvious (I have a 21 year old friend who goes clubbing with me, does drugs with me, drinks wi…
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:17 PM
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Pretty much all my game is this. Sounds weak, maybe, but because of the age differences I let them open me. Once I get the right signals, of course, the balls in my court to do the rest. But I'm not deluded here, they are picking me. Last one was yesterday...a Facebook request from a teen who probably wants a sugar, but we'll see, I accepted her friend request, chatted with her (she messaged me first) and then flipped her to Whatsapp and then asked her out. To make this work the Insta and FB gam…
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:10 PM
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If she's eyeball fucking you it's a good sign she's attracted and you can approach and/or just start dancing with her. Since I'm in my 50s, I let the 18-20s hunt me down. When they like me, it's fucking obvious. When they don't maintain eye contact and smile, I simply move on, otherwise it's creepy. You can be more aggressive because of your age, but basically the woman needs to give you some sign that she's receptive to being approached and/or danced with. The best times for me are when they sm…
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:06 PM
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That's interesting. I've never brought a girl home from a bar/club that didn't fuck, nor from a Tinder/FB connection. I've always thought the question/proposal to go "back to my place" was essentially saying, "do you want to fuck?" 99% failure rate seems to me like you're doing something wrong or maybe you're not comfortable fucking on the first night?
/r/seduction18/11/19 11:00 PM
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I think the statement is basically true, if a chick wants to go with you, her friends aren't going to stop her. Maybe if it's a church dance and not a club...but people at clubs fuck and if friends believe the chick wants you, they're not going to stop her in most cases (sure some regional or culture things might fuck this up, but as rule, when a woman wants to fuck, she does). I once had a chick's friends stand with me outside the club and tell her to go home with me...she'd been driven her car…
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:57 PM
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Yup. Last one I pulled out of a club we got blocked at the door by an intervening friend. The friend said, "We're going to <another club>." So I joined them and on the way she said, "You're still taking me home, right?" "Yes," I said, "We'll just go have one drink with your friends." We got one drink, I lead her away from the group to kiss for a bit, and then said, "Let's go."
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:52 PM
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How is going out with 1 woman (1-3) "multiple" women? Not trying to be pedantic --- obviously to date multiple women it's got to be at least 2. So, what's the right number at any given time? I guess your schedule would dictate this.... I'm finding dating to be like a fucking part time job. I'm telling women I have to check my calendar before I confirm anything now because it's like being in sales, if I'm not careful I'll overbook.
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:45 PM
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This is super relevant to me right now. I broke up with my ex about four months ago. I'm 54 and I live in Mexico. My income is extremely high and I'm reasonably good looking (still carrying the post Mexican girlfriend fat....it's my current challenge to lose the weight I gained while in a relationship). finding that all of a sudden all these 20something girls that never would have looked at you are now clambering to have your babies? ​ I don't know how many want babies, but I get a decent amount…
/r/seduction18/11/19 10:40 PM
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Guys, just go for it. ​ agreed, and good job for approaching, but here's some observations for improvement, imho: ​ I thought you were really pretty is a terrible opener. Oh, apologizing is also a terrible opener, which is what you started with (I don't mean to catch you off-guard). Then asking if she'd "like to talk some time" is the third mistake. Never get a "yes-no" question in there (this is a basic sales thing, never give a potential client a yes or no option, give them a "Do you want your…
/r/seduction14/11/19 06:10 PM
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You just haven't found the right one. There's a few billion women on the planet. I have women friends I can talk about anything with, they exist.
/r/seduction14/11/19 05:49 PM
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Latina girls are my weakness, too. Mexicans have become my favorite, I love the culture. And Tapatias are like crack. You should for sure plan a trip down here. If you can, make it over two full weekends and it's wise to pre-game on Tinder and Insta and start pulling Whatsapp numbers. Nobody text messages here on a cell like they do in the states (or at least in Cali last time I lived there) they all use Whatsapp. Occasionally FB messenger as well, but Whatsapp is the go-to. On Tinder you want t…
/r/seduction09/11/19 03:58 PM
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Yeah, that's good because you're already going and if she says no or that she's busy, it's not changing your plans. and a good sign is that if she's really busy, but she's interested in you, she'll raincheck this invite in a way that's not bullshit, like, "I'm busy with X but I'd love to go next Thursday," or something similar.
/r/seduction09/11/19 03:53 PM
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What is "just be myself" mean? What do you talk about? I guess with women you have to be more entertaining? ​ Women tend to be more emotionally complex and so it's not so much "entertaining" it's about being more relational, which should be the same with some of your men friends too, if you want some deep and meaningful friendships. I have guy friends I go out and drink and club and hang with and I also have guy friends I can talk to about anything and I consider brothers. ​ what we're talking a…
/r/seduction09/11/19 03:51 PM
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No, both. That was the risk. The date last night went exceptionally well, so I reconfirmed the hike and asked if I could ride in her car (freeing up a seat in the car I'd originally planned on being in). So the thing about "Initial Plans" is that if it gets you talking and planning and that chatting escalates to a connection, it's super easy to say, "hey let's get dinner on Friday." What's also good about this, if she totally balks at the ask, you know the "Initial Plans" are completely a friend…
/r/seduction09/11/19 03:38 PM
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Had a similar thing happen, chick sees my post about a hiking trip (this weekend actually) and wants to know about it. It's a group hike so she says she's in right away. I get her Whatsapp and we chat a bunch, I like her, seems to like me. So after a day I wrote her and said basically I knew we were going to see each other on Sunday but I thought she was (insert some compliments --- all true btw) and decided to ask her to dinner. She said yes right away (she's on her way over now). Of course if …
/r/seduction09/11/19 04:32 AM
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Here's a funny thing about getting numbers here. I've only been turned down once that I can remember. We'd been fucking for about three hours back at my apartment after meeting at a club and she's got to go home because of work the next morning and I ask her for her number at the elevator. She shakes her head no..
/r/seduction09/11/19 04:25 AM
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No, which is why it's so damn easy. I know two black guys that live here, both are gay, of the visitors I've gone out with or talked to, it's crazy what they say and what I've seen. I met two guys from Texas once, one was a fitness instructor and the other was also fit and lean, so this is part of it, but they told me women would cat call them, ask to take pictures with them, etc...so I invited them out and half way through the night one guy disappeared from the club. A couple hours later he ret…
/r/seduction09/11/19 04:07 AM
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She does wing for me. That said, she just moved here to GDL and we've only been out a couple of times. That said, I'm typing this while waiting for a date to show up and my daughter says, "you have plans?" And turns out she lined up a chick for tonight with some friends for me. She's my room mate right now. Anyway, my average age is very low 20s. The older ones just ask for my number, they close me. The younger ones btw, I'd say it's 90% that I get a number but extremely low likelihood of it amo…
/r/seduction09/11/19 04:00 AM
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Be yourself and don't bullshit them. People like to help others, so make female friends by finding shit in common, joining a Meetup, finding stuff to do, and then as you get to meet women, ask one to help. My platonic love likes chess and wants to learn English (she can understand a lot but not speak). I like chess and practicing Spanish. We meet via a mutual friend. Making small talk seems to bore them ​ Of course it does. Small talk bores EVERYONE. Have real conversation. Example, with my frie…
/r/seduction09/11/19 03:54 AM
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No, it's both. Could be many reasons about the particular date, the person, maybe they got bad news an hour before the date....god knows... But there is also a "type of girl" just like there is a "type of boy" that likes to kiss and/or fuck on the first date. So, while you're correct, there might be multiple reasons someone doesn't fuck on the first date, there is also the "reason" that some people have a rule they don't and some people have a rule they do if they can.
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:03 PM
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Yeah, I'd never ask this. You can tell by body language and other clues. The thing is, there's just different types of people, for me, the post above is by a woman that isn't my type, nothing wrong with that, she doesn't feel like kissing on the first date, that's fine, I 100% respect that, but it's just not my thing. so I'd still be going for the kiss...if she's not into it or uncomfortable, fine, totally, but I'm done with her unless there's some really extenuating circumstances.
/r/seduction08/11/19 04:33 PM
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Depends on the type of girl you're chasing, of course. For me, I like the ones that fuck on the first date. But that's me. Doesn't mean it's the "right way" just that it's my preference.
/r/seduction08/11/19 04:30 PM
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I pretty much expect to fuck on the first date, so yeah, I'd say kissing on the first date is crucial to see if there's some chemistry. I won't push too hard for sex if the kissing is nice and she's made it clear she's got some "rule" or otherwise implied that she likes to wait for the second date to fuck. My last girlfriend and I didn't even kiss on the first date, but it was because I took a massive bong hit and fell asleep.....she messaged me at about 4:30 am and made it clear she wanted a se…
/r/seduction08/11/19 04:27 PM
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Not a joke, so hear me out. Are you perhaps gay? If men were more responsive and women ignored you (and you did join the drama society) then it's possible that even if you're not gay, you're being perceived as gay. If you're for sure straight, like there's no confusion, then the thing to do is practice, practice, practice. To do so you might need a female "friend-zone" friend to help. Socially popular and confident women can do wonders helping you, IF you're willing to listen and not get discour…
/r/seduction08/11/19 04:16 PM
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Yes, anything close to the street Chapultepec. There's a hostel called Hospedarte that is within a block of Chapu (the short name for the street), if you want to meet people to go out with, stay at the hostel instead of a hotel (they have private rooms there). For clubs, I like Galaxy 1985, Genesis, Traphouse, Lola Lolitas, but there's dozens more, Latinos is also good for finding chicks....it also depends on the type of chick. I like tatted up barrio chicks who drink, smoke, do drugs and like t…
/r/seduction08/11/19 03:39 PM
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I'm not child free, but my kids are adults. I go out with my 31 year old daughter and she wings for me no problem. I think you mean a guy who doesn't have young children where the chick is thinking the guy is hunting for a fuck buddy babysitter... I will say you're spot on with the fitness. I got fat with my last girlfriend and it's way fucking harder for me to pull chicks at 185-190 as it is at 170-175, those few pounds really make a difference, not a deal killer, but it does matter I drive a 9…
/r/seduction08/11/19 03:33 PM
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I think in Akron you'd have to be more careful with judgement and looking like a creep....LA it is probably more lax, but still not the same as here. A lot of it isn't what others care about (I give a fuck) but what the chick feels. If she's feeling totally judged by her peers, it's going to be harder to pull her, even if she's interested. Here it's normal --- or at least pretty normal...my last girlfriend was 19 when we met and she took me to meet her family (her dad, thank god was closer to 60…
/r/seduction08/11/19 03:28 PM
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It's heaven here if you like the bar/restaurant/club scene and fucking Mexicanas. I can't imagine ever leaving.
/r/seduction08/11/19 03:23 PM
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okay, fine, but you're just playing with semantics. If you say you're goal is the journey but you head to the beach instead of the mountains than your goal is the beach. You can enjoy the journey of course...
/r/seduction08/11/19 02:23 AM
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Doesn't have to go sideways. She's telling you what she wants. You just have to reign in the emotions. So you talked it out then with the platonic friend? Yes, absolutely. She made herself clear and asked me to decide. I told her I like her company and don't want to lose her friendship. She came over just the other night to a dinner party and spent the night (in the other room) and yeah, it's hard because I still want to take her to my bed, but there's plenty of women out there and I just decide…
/r/seduction08/11/19 02:21 AM
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Not sure what this has to do with gaming/seduction but my two cents is to control your emotions if you value her friendship and be a friend. I have one I "date" regularly now, she's 100% adamant that we're not fucking, and we had a bit of a fight over this and she said, "Decide." I told her I valued her friendship and I'd respect her feelings. I love hanging out with her, she wings for me if I ask, and I can post pictures of a smoking hot chick on my social media who is a platonic love. I think …
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:46 PM
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Currently I'm forcing myself to juggle a lot of potentials. This is new for me. I think taking the attitude of, "I don't give a fuck about this specific situation/date/girl/thing because I have so much going on," is the way to embrace the abundance mentality and not get down on when something goes wrong. I was thinking today that I'd be somewhat relived if my Tinder date cancels tonight as I have dates set up for tomorrow, Saturday, and Sunday. This is different from in the past when I'd get a d…
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:42 PM
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Done. FYI, I don't speak Spanish...which, yes, is a huge handicap.
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:35 PM
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Um, remembering to refill the Cialis prescription (and/or keep V-tabs on hand). I had to resort to a hand job the other day as I just couldn't fuck PIV with a condom as I'd missed Cialis for a few days and didn't have Viagra on hand. This might seem like not a big deal, but I don't particularly like Viagra so that means taking Cialis every day even when you're not likely to fuck because otherwise you do get that chance and you're stuck. I have to be mindful of who actually likes being with older…
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:29 PM
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One in which you make good money and work office hours. Jesus, if you're working nights at a club or bar or restaurant, yeah, you're probably fucking chicks who work at bars, clubs, and restaurants... Better to go to bars, clubs, and restaurants as a customer, imho.
/r/seduction07/11/19 08:58 PM
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If you're a white or black male in the 18-35 age range and have ANY personality and look at least average, and you can afford dinner and beers (and it's dirt cheap here) then you can get laid pretty much at will here where I live (Guadalajara, MX). There's not many Asians here, so I can't comment on that, although I'd suspect an Asian male in the same range would do okay simply by the mere virtual of the fact that any Mexican chick that has an Asian fetish has almost nobody to choose from. If yo…
/r/seduction07/11/19 08:51 PM
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I just started getting serious about Tinder about two weeks ago.It's a bit of a bitch, but I have a Tinder date tonight, a FB originated date Friday, and another Tinder date Saturday. Most of the women either don't respond or quit responding after I ask for a date or worse, say, "sure, I'll message you," but then don't. But in terms of the numbers game I'm now setting up things a week out and after that it's pretty hard to set dates anyway. It's apparent to me that the advice is good about havin…
/r/seduction07/11/19 08:44 PM
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with a woman you are dating to in person only? This is a pretty big qualifier here. If you're "dating" and you only use text for setting up a date, she might perceived you as being a selfish asshole who only wants to fuck her. Which might be the case and maybe she's fine with that. But if you're "dating" it seems some banter and communication on text or over Insta/FB messenger is sort of expected and seems polite and keeps some interest going. Doesn't mean you've got to write a freaking novel, b…
/r/seduction07/11/19 08:38 PM
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The 'if nothing else" might mean she's disappointed you didn't try to kiss or fuck. She's 25, unless you live in a small conservative town in the Bible Belt, a woman on Tinder is used to being asked to fuck, so you're lack of escalation (not saying you should have fucked on the first date, but certainly you shouldn't close this door yourself, imho). "I got the impression she might have even made out but there were lots of people around, and I personally prefer to escalate in private." Yeah, why …
/r/seduction07/11/19 02:29 AM
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Better to escalate fast, if they don't respond, then take the friendship thing if you like them as friends (and the can sometimes wing for you or introduce you to their friends). Women worth being friends with, imho, will not be bothered by a straight forward ask right away for a date, i.e. you show them your confident right off the bat and don't give a fuck if they reject you for a date, then you're in charge of the friend zone (you decide if you want them as a friend or not, not them in the se…
/r/seduction07/11/19 02:03 AM
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I've asked service people out a few times and it's pretty much been the same thing, "When you get off work can I _______________." Fill in the blank with whatever makes sense, go for drink, walk you home, take you to a club...I've had success with all of them. Well, the "walk you home" turned into a "can I drive you home" which turned into driving her and her room mate home, which wasn't my plan, but we ended up becoming friends and room mates ourselves and now we're besties, so you never know u…
/r/seduction07/11/19 01:57 AM
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If you don't know the answer for yourself, perhaps you need to evaluate your desires and question what motivates you. Everyone has different end goals of various kinds.
/r/seduction07/11/19 01:50 AM
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On Tinder, no. That's a bit cheesy. However, my insta is linked to Tinder and anyone going through that will see a snapshot of my life which includes some photos with the car as well as my apartment and thus one could make a few conclusions about my life.
/r/seduction30/10/19 03:29 PM
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Last date she had a cocktail with a cherry. She ate half and put the other half back in the glass. As she went for it again, I reached out and then, when it was in her mouth, and I was obviously disappointed she didn't share it (an exaggerated look of disappointment --- as if she owed me half the cherry) I leaned in and kissed her in a pretend attempt to get the cherry out of her mouth. For sure I agree with the advice to be physically escalating during the date and feeling out a good time to ge…
/r/seduction30/10/19 12:05 AM
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Thought the girls chasing guys thing was a myth... If you hang out with really good looking alpha males you quickly realize it's not a myth, you just have to be a good looking alpha. I have a friend who regularly turns down offers just for sex without any strings via Tinder/Insta/FB. I'm not bad looking myself, actually if I lose this girlfriend weight of about 15 more pounds I can go back to the modeling agent I had pre-girlfriend (Mexican women, as a stereotype, like to fatten up their men). I…
/r/seduction29/10/19 11:50 PM
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Yeah, "I'm not fucking" meant the exact opposite. Glad that's over as she's coming over tonight for a party and to spend the night. The next negotiation will be about exclusivity and condoms. Jesus, life's complex.
/r/seduction26/10/19 05:35 PM
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My German best friend (we were room mates when I moved here) said he thought all Colombian women were like prostitutes (they did what they did for money -- the whole "everyone is a sugar daddy" thing). Obviously he was exaggerating but I've heard very similar stories from others. Personally I hate the fake shit I see on so many Colombian women, the enhanced butts, boob, and the extreme desire to be made up. That happens a lot here too, but not to the say degree. Of course I'm stereotyping a bit …
/r/seduction26/10/19 05:33 PM
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My men friends are the ones with money and status. And in some cases smoking hot looks. For a chick, I want sexy to me. My last girlfriend was a 3 or 4 (and ugly) to some of my younger friends (superficial fucks) and they didn't see why I saw her as so attractive. She was a 10 in my mind, perfectly beautiful, amazingly sexy, and so fucking good in bed and so passionate. So, yeah, looks are fine if you're flirting at the club or fucking some Tinder chick or other one-offs, but for someone who's g…
/r/seduction26/10/19 05:27 PM
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Pretty much all my hookups are "she choose me" and I'm fine with that. A woman friend introduced me to my last girlfriend (her bestie) and my room mate tried to match me recently with one of her besties, but out in the wild I just show up and let them hunt me. If I spoke Spanish this would be different, but all in good time.
/r/seduction26/10/19 05:23 PM
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So one of my buddies here (a guy from the UK), he and a similar friend spent 6 months in Medellin and then came here (GDL). He said that the women in Colombia were indeed very beautiful but the gringos know about the place to such a degree that when you go to a bar/club there is a lot of competition (and a lot of gringos with cash). So when he came here he said the women were just as beautiful but the competition for them was very low (meaning there's hardly any tourists here). In the two years …
/r/seduction26/10/19 05:20 PM
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Social circle is much more effective if you've got a big and wide social circle and lots of perceived value in that circle. In tandem they work best, for example, Tinder links to Insta so if you've got lots of friends, esp hot female ones, and you've posted those, then a cold game can easy be moved into a warm game. I once cold approached a woman in a club and we danced for awhile. After a kiss I told her I was taking her home at the end of the night, she said, "maybe, but <excuse like I don't k…
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:29 PM
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Yeah, we're super close and share stories on just about any topic/experience. Three of my good male friends asked me before she showed up if I would be upset if they fucked her. I said no, of course not, she chooses who to fuck. Ironically I winged for her with one of them and she brought him home and he fell asleep. I found her on the couch in the morning and she said, "the guy snores like a bear and I couldn't wake him up." He told me later that he woke up with a condom still on his dick in th…
/r/seduction24/10/19 10:15 PM
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Okay, if you mean a guy can get a girl in the range he wants, but not necessarily a specific girl, okay, as long as he does the work required. Agreed with that for the most part, I suppose. As to my sister, well, I've known her for years and unless she's been in the closet with shorter than 6'-1" dudes, she hasn't fucked any. Maybe she could, maybe she would...but if you're a 5'-4" dude, you'd be wasting a lot of energy better spent on more likely to like you chicks. As to abundance mentality, s…
/r/seduction24/10/19 09:54 PM
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Or, perhaps, us alpha males will move back to the way we evolved and collect harems. men will get increasingly socially inept and creepy ​ Already happened in many ways. A lot of men are weak, afraid, and/or don't have the confidence to run whatever game they wish they could run...they often still get girls, sure, but they settle. Women are increasingly turning to bisexuality or lesbianism in response to what is in their eyes men overstepping their bounds, Yeah, but it's not just "overstepping" …
/r/seduction24/10/19 09:40 PM
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Well.....this sub is about seduction and usually, imho, you want to be super careful with friend's of friends....like you can't play a standard game you'd play at a club/bar with strangers, where it's fine if someone tells you, "fuck off" in the first five minutes. You don't want to be going on a day's adventure with a chick who thinks you're a creep or maybe thinks you're "nice" but has no attraction to you. Personally, I'd play this long and slow. I have a friend who is the friend of one of my…
/r/seduction24/10/19 09:28 PM
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I guess it also depends on whether it's a work day or a weekend. Which would explain why I've not had a morning coffee date in a long time. M-F I'm at work and S-S I'm recovering from the night before.
/r/seduction24/10/19 09:19 PM
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Any guy can get any girl is true, as long as he’s willing to put in the work to reach her perceived value. Yeah, so you're saying if a guy can change his race or height or political/religious beliefs he can "do the work" to get any girl? Or am I missing something here? Is it true the other way around? You think any woman could get me if she "put in the work"? I'd no sooner date a 10 supermodel if she was a practicing _____________ . Fill that in with a religion or political party or any other nu…
/r/seduction24/10/19 09:11 PM
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Anyone that thinks skill alone can get any woman hasn't met my daughters or my female friends. And doesn't understand women. It's like saying anyone here could be seduced by a gay man if the guy had good skills... Hell, I can't be seduced by an woman over about 40, nor do white or Asians have much hope. That's just my taste and to not think women have set tastes is silly. A lot of grief happens thinking this game is just about skill when in reality some women pick some men "just because"
/r/seduction24/10/19 08:45 PM
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You live here as well? Jesus, the women here are amazing.
/r/seduction24/10/19 08:40 PM
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Well a coffee date in the morning is automatically a "we're going to cut this short" kind of thing, no? I had one once that went well so I asked to go see a movie that same night, so it's certainly not a bad way to go, however I've since tried to schedule everything for the night so if it's going well I can invite her back to my apartment instead of going to work frustrated.
/r/seduction24/10/19 08:37 PM
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There's an amazing video on Youtube, animated, that goes over them all...you know, if reading is too much trouble..haha.
/r/seduction24/10/19 08:32 PM
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What's wrong with an either/or question here? Come over to my place? Or would you rather meet at <some bar> first?
/r/seduction23/10/19 04:26 PM
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You'd only get shunned for not drinking, drugs, smoking if you're trying to hang with drinkers, smokers, and drug users. So look for people you click with. Or try drugs, smoking, and drinking (perhaps you'd like these activities, I certainly do and I can't imagine a life without sometimes partaking....but to each is own...you know? I don't judge, but I'm also not friends with many people who don't drink at least socially, again, nothing at all is wrong with this, really, but it comes down to com…
/r/seduction23/10/19 04:21 PM
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Spanish helps here, no doubt. But it's a university town and a large percentage of the people in your age bracket are bilingual. That said, I've dated/fucked a few non-English speakers just using Google translate and very basic words, including my last girlfriend who didn't speak a word of English. We dated for several months using Google Translate (including her moving in with me) before she started English school. Google "Plaza Andres Guadalajara" and after you see the mall, the millionaires, …
/r/seduction23/10/19 04:06 PM
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I live in Guadalajara... Tapatías (the colloquial term for "born and raised" here) are insanely beautiful and wonderful. Many of them love foreigners and there's a large progressive population here (GDL is also the LGBT capital of Mexico as well as an IT center). A friend of mine lived in Colombia for half a year and he said that while the Colombians are very beautiful and desirable the competition is stiff. Every popular bar has a bunch of gringos chasing women. Here not so much. I'm 53 and so …
/r/seduction22/10/19 09:38 PM
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Considering how much money she has and how I have literally have zero confidence and have horrible social skills with women Sounds like you need to work on this some to answer this question: What can I do to rectify this guys?! Build your social skills and confidence by getting out there and mingling, gaming, talking, flirting...it's like any skill, you can't expect to have a skill if you don't practice and do it. You might have a chance with an old crush if she likes you back, but if you can't …
/r/seduction22/10/19 04:54 PM
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One of the logical non-emotional answers is that you can't get any pregnant when you masturbate. You also can't get a disease. So that's part of the reason. Also because many women (esp those who desire marriage) see the act of sex as totally emotional and as a connection that's not just a physical release. So they can't image you fucking someone else just for pleasure and getting off and not without attachment. Modern western culture has tended to compartmentalize sex and loyalty together so th…
/r/seduction18/10/19 04:50 PM
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Her going back to Mexico should not have been a reason. I just suspect it's true the Canadian guys are passive with women. The Mexican chicks I know in the university age bracket pretty much all like to fuck unless they are from a super religious family (well, in that case they still like sex but only after a dating period and with the right guy, like a boyfriend). I've winged for a couple of young 20 something women who wanted to fuck male friends of mine, there's a polite way to go about it, b…
/r/seduction18/10/19 04:45 PM
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No.
/r/seduction17/10/19 04:23 PM
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Here in Guadalajara it's pretty common (at least in the last generation) for men to have multiple partners outside the marriage (my room mate's father has children with like 5 women and my business partner's ex-wife's father has children with about 4 women). I think that ends up being totally irresponsible, but the idea that men aren't naturally monogamous is pretty well established..it's just finding a way to do so in a responsible and informed way. It's all about consent in the end, if you can…
/r/seduction17/10/19 04:14 PM
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I started a Meetup. Done correctly you're now a social leader, you meet tons of people (it took two years but my Meetup is the second biggest one in a city of millions), it's easy to get numbers or ask someone out during a regular event, and I also met some guys and women who will go out drinking/clubbing and wing for me (and I for them). This was a weekday thing but I parlayed the group numbers into a karaoke night once a month (and we often go clubbing afterward) and into a once-a-month trivia…
/r/seduction17/10/19 03:34 PM
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There's a ton of Mexican chicks who love love love Canada....I never could figure that out myself, it's so damn cold and expensive there... But to each her own, I suppose. I live in Guadalajara, it's nearly 100% opposite here, the woman are extremely approachable, they're used to getting hit on constantly (often rudely) so if a personable not-from-here guy approaches the worst case is usually a polite brush off. I've gotten numbers from women who then never return my WhatsApp messages, but they …
/r/seduction17/10/19 03:18 PM
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A friend just recommended that I read up on non-monogamy for this very reason. Let me give you a bit of advice from someone who has been divorced 3 times...if you know you're going to be unhappy, don't put the chick through this (and your future kids) it's a real pain... The French have it right on this: my (French) step-mom once said to me, "I know your dad fucks young women when he travels, it's just therapeutic sex." Actually my dad says he's fucked young woman with with her, so it is possibl…
/r/seduction17/10/19 03:05 PM
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Prior to smart phones/apps and so forth the game was much faster in that you didn't often have a chance to contact someone if you didn't develop something really quick. I was married for half the 80s and all the 90s, and prior to that I was in high school....so not much game there. What do know....well, I was watching Narcos last night, the start of season one, and the DEA guy is bowling and his friends push him to go hit on a chick who brushes him off but he goes back and says, "Can you give me…
/r/seduction17/10/19 02:44 PM
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No, they are indeed real. I fucked them both once (their rule is no incest, so it was a less-than-ideal threesome). That said, having two women in bed at once is kind of fun --- being they are hookers, however, i.e. no oral on them and no desire/reason to take them to climax is somewhat diminishing and a bit cold. I get off on giving pleasure so prostitution to me is barely different from masturbation.
/r/seduction17/10/19 02:39 PM
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Thank you, that's helpful. I'm seeing her tonight but I've invited two others into the mix who are potential lovers and several other friends, so more of a mini-party --- less chance for that one-on-one thing to fuck with my mind.
/r/seduction17/10/19 02:35 PM
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I live in Mexico. What I've found is that if I approach them first and cold, the best that's going to happen is that they'll dance with me (maybe) and possibly even give me their WhatsApp, but that's it. If I make myself available (in clubs this means be with a group, preferably mixed gender) and try to flirt with anyone I think is attractive. If a young one flirts back, I'm okay to approach, if not, it's a waste of time. I don't care how interesting a man is, if an 18 or 19 year old girl has ze…
/r/seduction16/10/19 08:34 PM
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I prefer to move closer when we're dancing face-to-face, if she doesn't back off or give any other negative sign, you can almost always kiss her on the neck. Unless she's just not into you, a neck kiss will generally result in her feeling up for escalation (at least in my experience). If she's not interested, a neck kiss will often make her jerk away instinctively because it'll tickle her instead. If she's interested, she'll return the kiss to your neck, and/or open her face in a way you can mov…
/r/seduction16/10/19 08:22 PM
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Prostitution is easy and legal here where I live so I occasionally fuck hookers, but it's usually for a reason besides I'm being lazy. For example, I broke up with my ex about 2 months ago. About two weeks after the breakup my buddy treated me to a strip club and a hooker (yeah you can fuck in room down a hallway from the main room --- it's awkward and cold, but we were out drinking and having fun). I have the number for one particular woman who does the girlfriend experience really well. I have…
/r/seduction16/10/19 08:12 PM
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Yeah, I mostly only date much younger than me. Most recent one not only hit on me (we were at a club) she made it obvious I could kiss her, so I did. This was maybe 10 minutes after we started dancing. I asked her to go home within another 15 minutes, she said yes, but we got blocked at the door by her girlfriend. So, we went along with the group to another club, on the way she said, "Can I still go home with you?" Of course I said yes, so we had one quick drink at the new club and I took her ho…
/r/seduction16/10/19 08:00 PM
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" I just said that let me know if there is a change of plans." This is beta signalling. You're basically saying, "I know you have plans, so I'll sit at home alone just on the very off chance you change your plans and decide you want to see me because I have no life." If you ask a woman (or even a guy friend) out and they are busy, make other plans. However, I have no reason to call her. Sure you do, you want to ask her out. Personally I don't call anyone unless I'm in a super intimate relationsh…
/r/seduction16/10/19 07:50 PM
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Thanks for the good advice. I was more annoyed with the way I felt, not that she was texting me late. I live in a party area of a big city and it's not uncommon for me to get WhatsApp messages in the middle of the night, if I don't want to be connected I just turn off the phone. She’s benefitting from having you around but is that mutual? ​ Yes, absolutely. I just got another round of text messages from her a few minutes ago. Everything she had to say was true (I'd made up a desire that wasn't r…
/r/seduction16/10/19 07:41 PM
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Way better to get yourself instafamous and let them come to you. Here's my start at gaming insta. I've only just begun, but it's obvious that being interesting and getting them to message you if far far better odds.
/r/seduction16/10/19 05:56 PM
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I've found the window principle is very similar when first chatting either online (apps like Tinder or out in the wild) for securing a first meet (apps) or a secondary meet if you're chatting live in a situation where you cannot ask to go for drinks at the moment. The thing I've noticed is that *generally speaking* the earlier the window is present and it's walked through the better...so for example, in a social situation with a lot of people where you're face-to-face with a woman you're interes…
/r/seduction16/10/19 05:47 PM
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I am facing this dilemma in a real world way at this exact moment. First off, I do have women friends...but I tend to gravitate towards my men friends for spending time that is not going to have the possibility of sex (and I probably don't have a female friend I haven't asked or suggested sex with --- always politely and respectfully, but I think it's fair to set good boundaries as soon as possible). Now, so I've been seeing this friend of a friend because the friend is my room mate and the woma…
/r/seduction16/10/19 05:23 PM
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I hate online dating apps for the most part and much prefer meeting people in "real" life but this requires effort and time, so I think a lot of people default to apps because it seems like you're going somewhere when you're often just spinning your wheels. Since I've been dating (or getting married) since about 1980ish....I've been through the transition from old school (like no cell phones) to now when I can connect with women/friends on a bunch of apps and sites. I like the connection (FB/Mee…
/r/seduction16/10/19 05:11 PM
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As for cliques...look, form your own group if you have to. Simple way: start something on Meetup.com or whatever works. Be a leader. If you can't be a leader, try to fake it. Second best thing is to be a leaders right hand man. If you can't aren't being an alpha or alpha-like, befriend an alpha and learn. And, befriending an alpha is similar to seducing a chick, just that you're not trying to fuck him (presumably) so it's good practice. If you can become indispensable to an alpha in a big club, …
/r/seduction29/08/17 07:58 PM
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Increase your social value. Forget pulling a chick for now, the only ones that would want you in this state of mind are going to make you crazy. To get rid of desperation you have to not care about getting a woman as much as you care about being the best at something. Don't care what. Be the best {some hobby} and make sure you have status in that. Hell, I have nephew who is good at World of Warcraft and he pulls chicks all day long....they play together, he gives them virtual pets, and then they…
/r/seduction29/08/17 07:46 PM
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Oh, sorry, not a complete description. It's a parlor trick, two people write their names on cocktail napkins and then shove the napkin into their mouths. Then they try to kiss and exchange napkins. It's impossible to really kiss like this, so it's mostly a joke, although I suppose if you get the napkin really fucking wet in your mouth, you could exchange it, but that would be pretty gross. The stunt is a set up, if you do it right. The second guy, with the mint or small candy goes in for the rea…
/r/seduction29/08/17 07:38 PM
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Hey, I realize I was the one being seduced. And, yeah, I realize I was a fucking idiot about the whole girlfriend thing... I will give her space for sure, I won't reach out or do anything stupid. As to the sex, because I was hard enough to fuck, but way not hard enough to come myself, I think she got a well taken care of. Between oral sex and my hands, I'm reasonable sure she climaxed a few times...it's not always easy to tell. But we fucked for several hours, and she told me that it had become …
/r/seduction29/08/17 07:35 PM
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I doubt that. She told me in our negotiations that she wasn't interested in having children or getting married. The majority of women around here do want a husband and children, as much of the population is pretty conservative. But those that aren't conservative tend to swing well past center. I tend to think she just wanted to fuck someone, and I was that someone. Which wouldn't have been a bad deal if I'd been more mentally prepared for it.
/r/seduction29/08/17 03:16 PM
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Is the attitude then simply: everyone has it so why worry? If the statistic above is correct, that 45% of women in the 25-30 range have HPV and 20% herpes, then it seems for anyone who is having casual sex, the chance of catching these is close to 100% I've played a lot of poker and if you play for more than a minute, you get beaten all the time with an 80% rate of winning. so if condoms only reduce transmission by 50% I'd be virtually guaranteed to get herpes with only a dozen or so encounters.…
/r/seduction29/08/17 03:10 PM
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This is an interesting question for me due to my current situation. I'd been without a sexual partner for nearly 2 years up until last Sunday (I just posted about this) and so I knew I was completely STD free (and I also have a vasectomy). I was so into this chick, that when I pulled off her panties and looked at her naked, the internal mental conversation I had in milliseconds went like this: "You sure you don't want to use a condom?" "Yeah, any disease she's got I'm willing to share." So, a co…
/r/seduction29/08/17 03:05 PM
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You say you never kissed anyone. Then you say you've fallen in love a bunch of times and it went badly. I think that's an indication of a larger problem. If you're in love with a chick before you've even kissed her, she'd going to take that as desperation. I fall in love super easy, so I get it, but I usually wait until I've fucked her at least once.
/r/seduction29/08/17 01:46 PM
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I think 3 days is too long, esp. if she's on the younger side, which I assume (Twitter). I always find (from relationships and sales) you need to close when things are going along good and everyone is in the ether of the moment. Hell, in three days, if she's on Tinder, she's going to be fucking the confident alpha who hit her up to meet after ten minutes. Minor side point: "Let's get some ice cream next week" is a bit too vague, better to make it somewhat more specific, as it shows confidence an…
/r/seduction01/10/16 11:17 PM
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I'm not looking for casual sex or hooking up here, hell I'd be happy if she just wants to hang out and be friends. Not sure if this is why Tinder exists. Certainly you're in the wrong sub Reddit if this is your aim. Not saying you shouldn't have friends and hang out with women... WHAT DO. Ask her to do something that is low key and non-threatening and easy to say yes to. Try to give her an either/or option, so there's a real crystal clear intention behind your ask and her response. Depending on …
/r/seduction01/10/16 11:10 PM
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I once sold cars, my sales manager told me to always believe this: There is an ass for every seat. In other words, you can sell any car. Just as to be to the right person. Same is true about women. I don't get depressed coming here, or /r/sex where I spent more time, I did get fucking depressed yesterday when I chatted up a beautiful woman and then failed to ask for her number. That was depressing, but only for a short time. I just used that experience to reinforce the fact I have to do all this…
/r/seduction17/01/13 07:09 AM
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Well, my advice, don't let her feel your fear, in fact, I'd tell her up front "I don't normally hang out with blondes" especially if she's good looking. Put her on the defensive a bit, make her prove her worth. If she's an American blonde, and good looking, she's used to being deferred to and she's used to guy's drooling over her. Don't fucking do it. Make her think that you're better than that, that you don't normally hang with high maintenance blondes because you've got better things to do wit…
/r/seduction16/01/13 04:33 AM
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Stop putting people in these boxes... There is an AmA today from a professional dating coach and he contradicts this totally. Racism is believing derogatory things and/or treating someone with malice because of race, NOT recognizing that races/cultures are different. Recognizing that women from separate races/cultures may have vastly different reactions to the same interaction is just smart, not racist.
/r/seduction16/01/13 04:11 AM
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Here's a wingman for you.
/r/seduction15/01/13 03:24 AM
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The text book answer is text her immediately. You can even do it while you are still standing next to her, but definitely do it while the next 10-20 minutes. You want to make sure you have reinforced that you are going to ask her out, and that you'll be texting again soon. Usually you want to follow up text the next day, and make plans asap. If you let it go, she'll forget the magic. Plus this helps you to remember her name. And who she is. And does the same for her. Plus it lets her know you ca…
/r/seduction15/01/13 03:20 AM
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I've been recovering from a very nasty divorce, it's been 2 years dry and bitter, so I'm just now starting to get back into the game and actually talking to women. I do stuff alone, mostly because I lost most of my friendships over the last couple years, but that's changing slowly but surely. It's weird going from a social circle that is made up of mostly other couples (and all church people) to being an anarchist atheist hedonist on the prowl. First night out, actually out of my shell, got 2 nu…
/r/seduction14/01/13 08:39 PM
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Hey if you have a fine woman, don't leave her unattended.
/r/seduction14/01/13 08:34 PM
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Be friendly to everyone. If a chick sees you talking up the bar tender, or the bar tender acting like he knows you, all the better. If you can start conversations with random people, when the time comes to isolate a chick, she won't have any idea you came to a place alone. I realize this isn't always easy, I do a lot of stuff alone, and it's often awkward, but you'll only appear creepy if you're standing in the corner alone, then all of a sudden start trying to chat up some HB9 that just walked …
/r/seduction14/01/13 01:55 AM
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Never be awkward when rejected, turn it around, the woman is losing out. Also, good protection against being "rejected hard" is using escalation, this way, rejection is always soft and nothing to be worried about. In fact, if you get soft rejection from a woman, she's seeing someone, not into you, or in my case, she's not into 47 year old men because she's only 25, you can use that in your favor, enlist her immediately as an acquaintance who can open doors to the next chick. If you get rejected …
/r/seduction14/01/13 01:41 AM
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Quit using drive through. Then you can have a conversation. And, for me, when a guy injects himself into my game, I use him for information, OR I say something I want repeated.
/r/seduction13/01/13 11:49 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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