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ROAST-A-SCROTEMyLifeIsWandsXIII/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:04 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEMyLifeIsWandsXIII/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 07:28 AM
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MyLifeIsWandsXIII/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:13 AM
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RANTMyLifeIsWandsXIII/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:15 PM
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RANTMyLifeIsWandsXIII/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 06:48 PM
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DISCUSSIONMyLifeIsWandsXIII/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 08:56 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨MyLifeIsWandsXIII/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 10:42 PM
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MyLifeIsWandsXIII/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 12:43 AM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYMyLifeIsWandsXIII/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 05:47 PM
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DISCUSSIONMyLifeIsWandsXIII/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:23 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYMyLifeIsWandsXIII/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:00 AM
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#JustLVMThingsMyLifeIsWandsXIII/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:52 AM
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PICKME CULTUREMyLifeIsWandsXIII/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 04:56 AM
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I don't know what's the insistence on calling grown ass women "girls, females, etc" it's like it's almost painful for a lot of people to use the "W" word aka woman and women 🙄 a lot of mysoginists seem to be allergic to that word or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 09:05 PM
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I wish pickmes knew that sleazy men would never defend them the same way they defend these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/22 05:18 PM
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For me, it takes me like 5 minutes to come, sometimes even less so idk what tf they are talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/22 05:00 PM
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Exactly!! So many LVM love to brag about how they can have kids for a longer time window than women but that doesn't mean their sperm is exempt from the aging process and decline lol but I guess having poor quality, geriatric sperm doesn't matter to them as long as they can still selfishly have babies and the high possibilities/consequences of putting the baby itself and mother at risk isn't even a thought they're willing to entertain. Makes me wonder if they are genuinely ignorant of the risks …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 11:11 PM
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Why do so many men have children at such old ages? They shouldn't be having any at all, it's an incredibly selfish act because the probabilities of them dying or declining in health when the child is young are way higher but they never stop and think about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 10:02 PM
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So according to some of these people's logic if I playfully punch someone with no force whatsoever I then deserve to get my shit absolutely rocked in a rainfall of punches because "fair play"? And the size difference between them is astronomical. Imagine if a kid playfully hit an adult and then that adult just sucker punched the kid to the ground because "he had it coming" c'mon. I wonder if those people would still stand by their skewed statements. 🙄 This dude knew exactly what he was doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/22 04:31 PM
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Is it just me or are a lot of men terrible at holding back their grumpiness, anger, and irritability?? I am irritated often but I never take it out on anyone nor do I make low blows like this. I contain it no matter how awful my mood is that day. Yet it seems like a lot of men like this are incapable of holding it in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/22 05:16 PM
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Be corteous if need be, but just keep her at arm's length. When someone clearly doesn't like me, I try not to feed into that behavior and just continue being polite but brief with them if I need to interact with said person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/22 05:59 AM
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These are the early warning signs. Right now she has the chance to get her daughter away from that creep before she's scarred and traumatized for life – I fear for that baby's future having such a father in her life and I pray that her mother gets her away asap. I already know the far gone kinkmeishas and kinksters in general are looking at this post and probably see nothing wrong with it. 🙄 the fact that he only started calling her "daughter" right after having a baby is very telling, and how h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 05:15 PM
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The two rapists were 16 and 17. The girl was 18. The whole situation is absolutely sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 07:43 AM
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I watched the video and she seemed so genuinely sweet. :( I really feel for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 07:09 PM
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You know there's something wrong when a man doesn't find women in their natural state beautiful and expects his wife to look like a doll every day otherwise she is sloppy or "ugly". It's not like she is unhygienic, she literally only wants to be comfortable in her own damn home. It sounds exhausting being all made up to the nines everyday in your house - when I'm at home I just don't even care what I wear or what I look like and that's part of the wonder and comfort of being at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 01:52 AM
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Not the anti-trabajo sub 😭😭 lmao definitely not happening! He can keep dreaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 05:32 AM
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Sleeping in your makeup!? No thanks, I don't want to get an eye infection. In the past when I would forget to wash off eye makeup I would wake up with red and itchy eyes... ewww and imagine all of that gross makeup getting all over your pillowcases. Breeding ground for bacteria which then translates to pimples all over your face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/22 01:19 AM
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Greek life feels like a cult tbh. I get the creeps from it, it all just seems so... strange?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:54 PM
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Yes omg, that's exactly what I thought! This guy is just trying to pull off another antiwork fiasco. He probably thinks that this will get his shitty podcast a bunch of publicity lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:40 PM
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I definitely got the vibe that he was feigning ignorance LMAO he didn't do a very good job at it. Most men (LVMs) spend only 2 minutes on this sub once they find it and immediately have us pinned as forever alone angry ugly obese feminist b1tch3s — which is probably the actual perception he has of us. He wants to get one of us in his shady podcast to back us into a corner and not have an actual discussion and exchange of ideas. He is trying to bait us in to humiliate us, troll us and most likely…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 04:01 PM
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It astounds me how people can be so blind to the dangers of letting someone you just met into your home. Maybe it's just my upbringing living in a dangerous country but I thought this was common sense? To not invite strange men into your house? Or strange anyone for that matter, but especially men. I would never in a million years invite a stranger I met 24 hours ago into my home, in order for me to invite someone I'd have to at least know them a minimum of a few months or more and be 100% sure …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/22 11:53 PM
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Agree so much on this. I have had toxic female friendships in the past but when I'm making friends with a new woman I don't dump on her about how horrible my ex friends were, that's just such a bad look and VERY weird to tell someone you are just getting to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/22 07:12 PM
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Proud 98'er here as well, lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 03:50 PM
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"I love him more than anything" translated = "I have developed some sort of Stockholm syndrome, unhealthy attachment and codependency from all these yrs being groomed by my "husband" aka sexual predator" In due time she'll realize this is not love. :// I hope she gets out safely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/22 12:36 AM
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I think the encouraging her to stop working to spend more time with him is a HUGE red flag. I think a HVM would enjoy spoiling you but at the same time would encourage you to work and have your own money and savings because as an adult he should see that something could happen to him at any moment where he wouldn't be able to take care of her anymore. As a young woman myself, I think this is a big mistake so many young women make. They get together with a man who takes care of them financially a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/22 11:18 PM
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✂️ Cut him outta your life sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/22 07:03 AM
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Exhibit A: the fragile male ego at play.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 08:50 PM
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Men love to have this notion that most men are protectors when in reality they are either indifferent or predators. LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/22 07:39 PM
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Scrolling through pages of porn to find the "right" video is such an incredible time waster. I weep for all the hours of my life I wasted doing that when I watched that garbage as a teen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 08:05 PM
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I've seen some erotica myself that was incredibly pornsick and obviously written by an avid coomer. Most of them belong in that one men who write women subreddit. They will write women like: "The natural beauty turned 18 a week ago, she had large NATURAL breasts the size of two watermelons and yet they were still magically perfectly perky( because apparently gravity doesn't exist) and a completely natural sculpted peach badonkadonk the size of two planet Jupiters despite never lifting a weight i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 08:03 PM
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Thank god I found FDS when I was 17 or else I may have been doing things like this but to a much lesser scale since I don't even have enough money yet to buy a house for myself lmao EDIT: to the person who replied that this is a toxic sub and that I shouldn't be thankful I found it - I don't see how a subreddit telling women to avoid dangerous/abusive/toxic/degenerate men and giving us strategies to avoid or expel these kind of men out of our life is "toxic." This subreddit has saved me from pot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/22 05:01 AM
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This is what my doctor told me once that a lot get into these fields just for the prestige, social climbing and money obviously. These are the kind that don't actually care about the people they're treating, they just care about having "Dr." Slapped in front of their names.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 07:57 PM
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Hahahah incompetent husband funny 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:08 PM
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What a long winded answer to just say he wants a FWB/sex and emotional support from a woman without the exclusivity and commitment .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 07:48 AM
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I haven't watched it but it seems like yet another show sexualizing high schoolers, and surprise surprise it's created by a man in like his late thirties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 07:44 AM
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Everytime I read something like this it makes me glad I've never had casual sex, never participated in hookup culture and never will. These are the kinds of men that get access to women's bodies, repulsive men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 05:03 AM
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The way she delivers the burn in a way that feels so poetic and whimsical is awesome lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 04:05 AM
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But he's funny and sweet!! God, I said it before in another thread but it's sad how a lot of these women putting up with these scrotes feel the need to state how wonderful their man is but then follow it up with describing their "amazing" man's absolutely repugnant behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 01:31 AM
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There were definitely red flags for sure. I refuse to believe that he managed to pretend so well, even the greatest actors/actresses still slip up and make mistakes. This is why bloopers are a thing. I doubt he didn't slip up not even once in 30 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 08:21 PM
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Unrelated but I 100% agree with your username 😌😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 04:09 AM
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I'm starting to think that having kids and marrying a man is just a scam. I never wanted to have kids personally but now I know I DEFINITELY don't want to do that. The amount of men who pull this shit is insane!! My mother's ex husband begged her for a child and she gave him two, she originally didn't want any kids herself. Guess what he did a couple of yrs afterwards? Yep, he cheated on her and left his family, didn't talk or visit his kids he practically begged for ever again. Piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:58 PM
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Normal, well adjusted non-pedophilic men will see 18-20 year olds as kids. I turned 20 like two weeks ago and one of my mom's male friends said that I was practically still a little girl and it makes sense a 40+ year old would see me like that. I don't understand how these men in their thirties can look at an 18 year old or so in a sexual and romantic light. If the legal age was lowered to 15, these pedophilic 30 year old men would be arguing on Reddit about how they aren't pedos for having a 15…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 03:47 AM
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Same tho. It sounds horrific. I don't want a stranger in my house, much less a topless one, I'm bi not a horny demon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:59 AM
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Objectifying women together. 💖🥺 So romantic you guys!! Ugh I'm so tired of these bisexual pickmes who use their bisexuality as a tool to be the CoOl GiRlFrIeNd who just loveeees to "check out" other women with her scrote. As a bi woman myself nothing annoys me more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 02:57 AM
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That part was pretty dumb. There's a hell lot more women in his position than men, he is an outlier. Lazy and deadbeat fathers are a lot more common than lazy and deadbeat mothers smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 05:55 AM
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Pls these babies are so cute 🥺🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:59 AM
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I hated that part. He was telling her she was being weird... like duh you moron! You nearly strangled her to death!! And instead of asking her how she was feeling or what she was feeling he calls her weird 🙄 prince charming right there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:51 AM
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Oh my god I was just about to say this. Why do these women always start off their posts with shit like this? "Oh my boyfriend is an amazing man first of all!!" And then follow it up with something like "...but he kicked a puppy, I promise that he's a good guy tho!! 🥰" No joke, one time I saw a post like this where she began with saying what an amazing man her husband is, how he helps with chores (yes, because doing the bare minimum practically makes a man the reincarnation of the messiah), etc a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 02:29 AM
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The problem is right in front of them and they still can't figure it out. This is what the normalization of porn does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 12:47 AM
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Going to work sounds 1000x better than that. At least you are getting paid!! LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:30 PM
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Same tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 04:29 PM
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Sad this is so common that people are out here making Valentine's cards out of it lol Boycott gamers out of your romantic life, or at least the ones who spend a huge portion of their day gaming and barely have any other hobbies besides that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 04:45 PM
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I will go with you in a heart beat. Let's get tf out of here 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 04:07 PM
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Ah, yes. Because my whole existence as a woman is sitting in a corner, with a mischievous look in my eyes as I slowly rub my hands together like an evil villain and I scheme my next evil plan on how I'm gonna manipulate and mess over my next poor victims — especially those poor, innocent angel men! This is how she makes all women sound!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:51 PM
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Where was this advice when I was 16 and nearly flunked a grade and was hella depressed all because of a stupid crush. 😫 Not but fr, this advice is very good and it'd be useful to a lot of young girls especially who don't know how manage these feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:27 PM
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He should change it to "raging pedophile"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 04:23 PM
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I got banned from the sub for posting and commenting here. That sub is basically just a congregation of redpillers/incels/pickmes giving one another "advice" that basically is either just scrotes giving other men scrotey advice or actively encourages women to "cOmMuNiCaTe" and put up with massive red flags that FDSers would call out in a second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 11:31 PM
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This looks like it was made by a teenager in their earlier teen yrs and it probably was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 02:03 PM
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Ooooh my spidey senses were genuinely tingling and I just KNEW it was the OnlyFans of a girl he knows irl 👀 intuition never fails me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 04:31 AM
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Aunties are always the ones with the most to say smh 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 08:16 PM
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Omg I know that you have a bond with him but do you really want to throw out years of your life with a pornsick man?? And a bond is not worth you wasting your life away for him. He is obviously a coomer, I am sorry. The fact that he lied to you about not watching porn that often is just a huge glaring red flag waving right at you. He obviously doesn't respect women either and views them as sex objects evident by those gross messages he sent. And obviously, he doesn't respect YOU if he feels comf…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 03:01 AM
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LOL I didn't even exist when it was leaked either. I wasn't "complicit" in none of that shit. 😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 05:11 PM
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Reminds me of my male cat who only ever hits the females but he never dares to come close to the other males. 😐 These men act exactly like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/22 05:36 PM
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I just can't imagine not seeing half of the population as humans?? Wtf is wrong with these men. Do they think we are just these kind of non-sentient beings going through the world as a sort of "filler" like NPCs in a game?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/22 05:14 AM
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I hate when people say that men aren't catty. Like YES they are omg. But I guess when men are the ones being like that all of a sudden it isn't cattiness anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 04:22 PM
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I used to be a teenage pick me. Basically I craved male validation and attention, basing my self worth and self confidence on men's opinions of me and how attractive they found me. A pickme for me is someone who will alter her behavior to appease men and who bases her self worth as a human on men's opinions of her. For example, there was this one time when I told a guy I liked that I watch porn (I know, cringe along with me) to seem like a "cool girl" and make him like me. I also used to dress i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 10:18 PM
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"Nice" in manspeak translates to: "let's me walk all over her and is my personal doormat, never calls out my shitty behavior and allows me to use her like a bangmaid"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:46 PM
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For some reason I get the feeling that he's failing to mention certain things and leaving a lot out. I'd love to hear the wife's side of the story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 09:34 PM
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God I hate when they can't handle things not going their way and just completely lose it. My life hasn't gone my way these past years and you don't see me throwing fits about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:48 PM
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Yeah this is definitely sketchy. If he has MULTIPLE it's obvious that they are for sure not fake at all or he's just making shit up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 02:40 PM
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Yess I saw someone calling him out for having dirty fingernails and calling a woman "some bitch" lmaoo 💀🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/22 01:00 AM
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It's weird and disturbing how men can just go from seeming relatively normal to flipping a switch in 0.0005 seconds and turning into these creepy hornball demons, dropping their mask. Makes me shudder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 06:23 AM
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Whoever considers 23 to be old is a MASSIVE red flag. Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 02:00 AM
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Holy shit, he sounds dangerous asf and terrifying!! :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 03:16 AM
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Why tf wouldn't I care about my own orgasm? I'd rather masturbate and easily get 5 orgasms on my own than be with an incompetent man that can't even give me 1.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 04:01 PM
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This is why I never understood why American men have this fantasy of Eastern European women as being the perfect submissive bangmaids. Like have they ever even met a Eastern European woman?? Those ladies are fierce and savage, no way in hell would they put up with those crusty ass men wanting them to be mommy bangmaids. What a bunch of clowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 08:15 PM
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The way people trash art is so infuriating to see. 🙄 They think that's it's easy to do and useless but I'd like to see them try to pick up an instrument for the first time and try to play it perfectly. That can take years to master, same with any other art form. And I don't think they stop and think about how boring the world would be if it was devoid of these art forms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 07:00 PM
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God I hate that word so much lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:11 PM
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Once saw a man refer to a woman in her mid 40s as a "girl". I found it extremely odd and unsettling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 05:10 PM
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Do you think a compliment such as "you are so beautiful TO ME" could be considered a neg? I am not sure, maybe I'm being too sensitive but this compliment has always been weird to me. I interpret it like.. "maybe other people wouldn't find you beautiful but I do!" Am I reading too much into it though? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 06:02 PM
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I agree with you 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/22 01:09 AM
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Pickmes truly make LVM's lives so easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 09:19 PM
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Why is it always the most crusty and lame ones with no money calling women gold diggers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 06:38 PM
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When he said broke I seriously envisioned them living as an average "poor" person and couldn't believe how that was possible for them but your comment makes it make a lot more sense. Broke for them probably isn't broke for the average person at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 06:40 AM
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OMG PLS i legit did not realize this was Megan Fox and I thought it was some angsty tryhard teenagers that were planning on getting married in the future. I can't-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 01:17 AM
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This is the kind of rap I'd like to be mainstream. Not the "I sucked and jumped on 10 dicks last night, I am so empowered!" Kind that's so prevalent nowadays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 07:43 PM
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It's because when women say it we are just "insecure", "prudes", "jealous", "controlling" etc etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/22 05:31 AM
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This is why I am not about that FWB shit. You are letting a man that could possibly be messing you over and lying to you into your body like it's nothing - and he has nothing to lose bc you already gave him what he's after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 08:04 PM
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That's so sick. At this point I shouldn't even be surprised but the depravity somehow just gets worse and worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 06:10 AM
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(the same guy who is an anesthesiologist and takes pictures of people while they are under and shows random people) Couldn't someone report him for that? I am not sure but that sounds illegal and obviously insanely creepy as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 05:55 PM
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I don't get this mentality. It just seems like an empty existence for your life to revolve around sex and drugs, and I find it ridiculous how anyone past a certain age can view these things as the ultimate life goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 04:32 AM
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LOL exactly. I have seen incels preach about how women are scared about inevitably being replaced by sex robots and I'm like... where? I'd be delighted for all of these pornsick and misogynistic men to finally leave us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 05:58 PM
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I refer to my whole anatomy by adding female at the beginning too! My female hands, my female eyeballs, my female hair... it totally sounds normal!! How are people supposed to know I'm 100% a FeMalE otherwise?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/21 06:07 AM
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Just one of the many reasons not to send nudes to anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:47 AM
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Yeah, cause older women must miss so much those glory days of being hit on by borderline pedophiles. 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 08:11 PM
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When he said 58 I nearly felt my soul leave my body. 😱 As a teen girl too I'd feel so uncomfortable if a nearly 60 year old man tried to hit on me too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 04:03 PM
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A lot of these men have amazing girlfriends and they take it for granted. 🥲
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 08:58 PM
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Hahahah omg that's actually an iconic move on your boss's part!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 05:44 PM
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I don't know why this is controversial to say. Like I find men who have a high body count super disgusting. I value my sexual health a lot and he clearly doesn't, you cannot be sure he actually used protection at all. I also view sex as something intimate between a person I love and he obviously sees it as something as casual as masturbating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:40 AM
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"I've never met a girl like you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/21 04:37 AM
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I roll my eyes when a guy says he doesn't like makeup or plastic surgery. What they mean to say without realizing it is that they don't like super painted on makeup or botched plastic surgery. Men love makeup. Men love plastic surgery. But they don't realize it or don't admit it for whatever reason. I can't tell you how many times a man has claimed to hate both these things, but when you go to his instagram following he's following a bunch of instagram models who've had multiple (well done) surg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 01:28 AM
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The OP is so cowardly it's insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 09:25 PM
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Men expect us to look beautiful and like a doll 24/7 but sometimes you just want to relax, be in loose clothes bare faced and then they resent you for daring to want to be comfortable in your own home. And since a lot of them have porn fried brains they can't appreciate the truly natural state and beauty of a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 07:48 PM
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They can't boil water without burning it LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/21 07:04 AM
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Exactly. And that's what they do, they start making off relatively normal posts to gain validity here but then they start pushing it and making more outlandish posts to see how far they can take it and so they have something to repost to other subreddits to make a point of how "evil" and "delusional" FDSers are. That's why we need to be careful with other users here that seem suspicious, they could be a man inserting himself under the guise of being a woman. And I have the gut feeling this is on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 04:39 PM
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For some reason I get the inkling that this is a man LARPing as a woman and posting this shit to make us look bad, lmao. I've seen men in other subs confessing that they LARP as women here in FDS. Mods should look into "her" and ban "her" if they see fit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/21 04:25 PM
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The first one is so true. Wtf is up with that. They start treating you like a princess until one day they do a complete 180° and can't be bothered to give you 1 oz of affection. So weird. It's like they hook you in and once they feel like they "got" you they change for the worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 04:57 PM
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WHAT THE FUCK LMAOOO I think he saw the perfect opportunity to indulge in his "secret" mommy/son fetish and ran with it. That's so weird omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:52 AM
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I wouldn't ever date a sports fanatic for this reason. I also have virtually 0 interest in anything sports related so it would physically pain me to pretend to be interested when he'd talk about it. 💀 I can find interest in many other subjects I otherwise don't partake in but God, sports simply isn't one of them since I think most fans are so off putting to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:48 AM
6

PINK SLIME??? 🤢🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:42 AM
30

He would be a participation trophy husband. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:38 AM
12

That's really sad and creepy to be honest. I understand having nostalgia for a certain time of your life but that just seems... far too excessive. It's clear it transcended nostalgia and they were stuck trying to re-live his glory days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/21 06:32 AM
134

It's very weird. He told me about his dad cheating on his mom and then cheating on his mistress and so on and so on, and how he found out about it two days ago. But as soon as he told me all about it, it's like my stomach just dropped and I got that weird gut feeling. 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/21 01:09 AM
20

And they say romance is dead 😍🥰🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/21 09:51 PM
9

"Dan don brazil" took me out 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:51 PM
7

I am 19 and I am glad I read your comment. 🙏 I honestly didn't realize this at all but it does make a lot of sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/21 07:35 PM
40

The men in the comment section are either really stupid or they are like 10. They are saying she's illogical for not wanting to repopulate the earth LMAO like wtf "she definitely thought with her emotions, not her logic" How does that logic even make sense? At that point if there are only 2 people left on earth you may as well just consider humanity gone and extinct. You can't repopulate with only two people, if you even tried you'd have to do lots of interbreeding (🤢) which obviously isn't gonn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 04:38 PM
56

Scrotes get so angry when a woman voices her experience or opinions. It's sooo strange because recently I have had scrotes ONLINE try to gaslight me because they disagreed with what I had stated and couldn't find any valid counterarguments so it's like they resorted to try and gaslight me.. very, very strange. I feel bad for the women who know these men irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/21 06:05 PM
6

I hate when they flex about that shit. Or using their "talents" to lure women to have sex with them. There was a guy who was an "artist" (quotations because his drawings were terrible) who drew the women he wanted to sleep with nude as a way to make himself seem talented and hence seducing them. 💀😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:32 PM
15

When I was more of a pickme in my earlier teen years I definitely used to find this type endearing until I grew up a bit more, found FDS and realized that these men are actually losers, and that if I got involved with this type I'd be basically signing up to be a mommy bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 10:29 PM
13

Honestly though, I'm glad that they are telling on themselves right off the bat so women know not to waste their precious time on them from the very beginning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 01:55 AM
28

Exactly!! Like if he is so busy then don't be in a relationship, wtf. But I guess they need a mommy bangmaid to cook and clean for them after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 11:43 PM
64

Yeah, I bet 100 bucks that the relationship isn't as healthy as she's making it out to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 08:39 PM
86

Eww he said it as if he were purchasing an item off of fucking Craigslist 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 08:36 PM
113

That's so true, honestly my comment is giving him too much credit. 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:22 PM
391

I can just imagine the proposal. Him begrudgingly getting down on one knee while she's all emotional and happy and he just rolls his eyes and is thinking that he is finally getting it over with so she can finally stop "nagging" him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 08:17 PM
41

Please this made me laugh so hard 🤣 now I'm just imagining a greasy redpill anime villain with mushroom styled purple hair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 05:02 PM
19

God I really hope it's satire omg, a person like this cannot actually exist. But it legit does look like if one of us was impersonating NVM scrotes. I hope it's just one of us having a laugh and not an actual man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 04:17 PM
19

Me too omg, but sadly they would probably get called sexist and bombarded with fake bad reviews by bitter men :c not to mention probably get infiltrated with a bunch of pervs pretending to be women but we can still dream
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 04:15 PM
30

I really hope none of the ladies here living in the United States come across him because that's where he is from. It makes me shudder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 04:13 PM
84

LOL I did!! This guy's profile is just too full of contradictions and hypocrisy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 04:09 PM
155

Omg I really hope it is!! and if it indeed is satire, then it's hilarious cause they truly managed to capture the whole redpill essence. But if it's an actual dude then I am just speechless because he is like if you took the very concept of redpill ideology itself and turned it into an actual human. (ngl - at first I thought he was talking about an actual purple mushroom and thought it was pretty cool too) 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 07:54 AM
459

How many red flags can you count? 👀🚩 AND EW I felt like gagging when he kept going on about his "purple mushroom" even just writing it makes me want to wash myself with bleach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/21 07:33 AM
45

She is giving helicopter parent vibes on top of it all tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 07:50 PM
14

Most guys who say they are feminist just advocate for the sex industry and think that paying for monthly subscriptions on OF is supporting and empowering women. I am not kidding when I have seen many of them say that. They are advocating for their precious porn, not women but to them they may as well be the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/21 05:04 PM
35

Yes omg!! They go rabid when a woman has preferences that doesn't fit them, meanwhile a man can say he prefers blondes or redheads and it won't affect my life anyway whatsoever. Same when a man says that he doesn't like stretchmarks. I don't cry myself to sleep because some randos find stretchmarks unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 07:17 PM
75

Also, the concept of a "twin flame" is a more outright toxic version of a soulmate. For those who aren't aware what this is, it's basically just a soulmate but people outright state that whoever is your twin flame will "amplify your doubts and insecurities and that the relationship will inevitably be tumultuous" and there will also be a "push and pull" period where one of you will leave and the other one will keep chasing for you or you for them. They also say that the chasing can go on for year…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 03:53 AM
20

Omg if I had their confidence I'd be unstoppable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 11:56 PM
11

I knew what video it was before I even clicked the link!! Spot on lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:39 AM
74

Ew ew ew ew ew!!!! 🤮🤮🤮 Literally I am 19 years old and actual mature and emotionally intelligent older men still view me as a child. You know who are the ones that don't? Porn sick ones with pedophilic tendencies and a teen fetish. They can pretend to be mature all they want but they actually aren't in reality. Mature people don't want to date others 20 years their junior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:38 AM
33

A monkey is still a monkey even if you dress it up in the finest and most beautiful gowns. "Feminist" porn sites are still porn regardless and they can mess with your brain big time. Someone will start off with these feminist porn sites and sooner than they realize they'll be seeking out more extreme stuff outside of those sites. And feminist pornsite is an inherent contradiction. A porn site cannot ever be feminist bc it exploits women and objectifies them for financial gain. I don't mean to in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/21 05:42 AM
8

I honestly wish I had an older woman with a FDS mindset in my life 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 08:21 PM
37

Or read some good erotica. But sadly a lot of their brains are deeply porn fried to the point where they don't want to do "work" ( read ) to get off and just want the instant gratification that comes with mindlessly watching a video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 06:12 PM
29

But no men have to sleep with anything that looks in their direction This is why male attention is worth batshit and "seducing" a man isn't an accomplishment as we are led to believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 11:50 PM
68

Lmao exactly. He tries hard to come off as careless and nonchalant towards her in the comment but it's clear he's still keeping tabs on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:56 PM
24

Yep, a clear case of a self fulfilling prophecy. They approach women with the mindset that they're going to be rejected right off the bat because of their height and what they don't realize is that it reflects on their behavior. So of course they're gonna get rejected because who wants to deal with an incredibly insecure, resentful man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 07:51 PM
24

A dude I once dated told me that I deserve the best and most loving partner when I said I was dissatisfied in our relationship and I was just like... then BE that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 09:56 PM
25

I laughed sooo hard at this omg especially when he pushed the clown that wasn't even in his way in the first place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 05:54 PM
36

That's so sweet. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 05:39 PM
23

It would have them spitting their Mountain Dew in shock. 💀😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 08:12 AM
68

It's like once they reach a certain level of wealth/power they think it's acceptable to make all of their pent up depravity come to the surface. Because they were always depraved, it didn't come out of nowhere but being powerful inflates their ego and they know the richer and more influential they are, the more chances to get away with doing fucked up stuff with little to no consequences they have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 08:08 AM
21

They really think their compliments are gems and that they mean so much to us. 😭 Personally the only compliments I take to heart are those given to me by women. Those are the real gems. Getting complimented by a man on something like your looks is like been given a pebble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:18 PM
11

How many idiots do you think are gonna be trying this irl now and just making a complete fool of themselves when they realize it doesn't work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 04:25 PM
19

In my experience the men who consistently like thirst traps on instagram are the LVM of the LVMs and not only because of that (even though that in itself is a low value thing to do) but trust me when I say this is just a sign of worse things that are lying underneath, such as a plausible porn addiction, because let's face it- apps like instagram and TikTok are pretty much softcore applications in a sense because it's so unbelievably easy to come across thirst traps and such. Anyhow, it also sign…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 08:35 AM
5

WTF she literally helped him basically get his life back together after the accident and on top of it it's not like he doesn't have the means to afford the ring she wants. I swear that men will spend thousands of dollars on stuff for themselves like gaming sets and such but will be unbelievably stingy when it comes to their gf/wife. It really just goes to show that you can move mountains for him and give him the moon, yet he still won't think you are worth crap. Just pure selfishness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:21 AM
48

"You'll never find someone else like me!" Thank God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 07:23 AM
45

If anything having this boundary is the opposite of insecure, because you know you have the self respect to not stay with a coomer who is possibly an addict or on the road to becoming one. I also don't get how it's controlling? Because if I catch the man I'm dating watching porn then I'll dump him with no hesitation. I won't "force" him to do shit and waste my time. He can stay jerking it to his pixels. It's also not toxic at all, because it's a standard I have - just like I have other standards…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:48 AM
112

Women get killed, raped, etc. by men and yet they (men) have it soooo hard. I wish that our "problems" and worries were this miniscule but instead we get possible rape, murder, and harrassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:11 AM
38

What the hell?? I never knew there was a surgery for FEET! That's so insane. So much for sex work being "empowering" if it just caused someone to have all these awful insecurities, literally from head to toe. (pun not intended)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 03:37 AM
15

Do people actually have couples Facebook accounts? I wish I could go back to the past 5 minutes ago when I didn't know this lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/21 02:41 AM
52

This year. 19. It's very liberating. I remember I used to dress in ways that men would like and that would get me some looks in the street - things like shorter skirts, crop tops, tight stuff etc. that weren't really my style and quite unflattering on my body type if I'm being honest. But the main takeaway is that these clothes weren't my style at all and I wore them to be "sexy" which is really disturbing because I was underage at the time. Like 15-17. However, the realization that male validat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 06:19 AM
3

Like bar hopping but instead of going to different bars in one day it's going to different coffee shops in one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 06:11 PM
39

That's so true. Men will go on about 50/50, how they don't like spending money on material things, etc. But then will be willing to throw their whole wallets at women they find hot. Probably because they assign women's worth based on how they look and they think it's a proper investment to spend on beautiful ones and a waste of money to spend on "unattractive" ones even if the one they find less attractive is their gf. It's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 04:37 PM
8

And a shampoo bottle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:46 PM
6

They are both clowns tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 04:44 PM
56

"Porn shame" 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:08 AM
22

I don't really trust charismatic or charming people. Usually deep down they are the worst kinds of people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 01:03 AM
7

I love this picture. 🧡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 06:20 AM
7

"Photoscrote" took me out 😭 I am gonna start using that when referring to these men lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 10:39 PM
71

I have said it before and I'll say it again: A lot of men are photographers not for the sake of the art, but for the sake of being able to be around beautiful and nude women and surround themselves with models easier so they can creep on them. Bonus points for them, they get jack off material. I don't trust male photographers whose portfolio is only filled to the brim with pictures of nude women, it tells me that their intentions are moreso set in a perverted place rather than in an artistic one…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 11:50 PM
3

This is a really good idea. I'm gonna check out the program myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 08:42 PM
2

Read this post I wrote a while ago on how to keep yourself safer on here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:51 PM
40

I am part of Gen Z and I have no idea what tf it means lmao, it sounds weird too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:45 PM
128

That's so fucking disgusting omg! I am glad your dad rocked that pedophile's shit, but what made that guy think that would be even remotely appropriate to say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:03 PM
101

Yeah, I would make sure to block him on all of her accounts and also set her accounts to private if they aren't already. (Everyone should have their accounts on private either way if you don't want weird ass people lurking/snooping on them)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 06:00 PM
42

When I was 13, I was bewildered by the slightest mention of sex in books that I would just stop reading them altogether if they even insinuated to anything sexual bc my 13 y/o brain couldn't handle it (I thought it was gross)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:56 PM
21

They are so unbearable lmao 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/21 05:47 AM
48

I find it crazy that there are men that genuinely think like this. Do they really think they are going to turn into "silver foxes" when they spend a huge portion of their youth constantly masturbating while staring dead eyed at their 500th porn video of the day, and then fill in the rest of their day playing video games without doing anything productive whatsoever?? These men often have shit diets as well on top of not working out consistently, and let's not get started on their lack of a skinca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 07:13 AM
5

Exactly omg!! He was complimenting her youthful looks like if she were 70 or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:28 AM
8

Very true. Avoiding eye contact is for the best. I have had men get aggressive with me just because I accidentally made eye contact with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:22 AM
6

This comment genuinely made me laugh which is rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/21 04:20 AM
7

This guy sounds unbearable just from this interaction alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 04:29 AM
94

All along he was the true joke. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:18 PM
9

Google is free and we live in an era where nearly all of the information you can fathom is in the palm of your hand, a click away and yet these clowns still choose ignorance. There's literally no hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:38 AM
13

Literally. I can give myself orgasm after orgasm and it's a lot more pleasant, easier and enjoyable than having sex with a man with this trash mentality will ever be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:36 AM
20

The problem with this type of men is that they only want to make you orgasm because it inflates their ego and they view it as a selfish achievement - they don't actually want to make you come for your own pleasure nor because they are considerate of you. This mentality towards making a woman orgasm seems to be scarily prevalent in men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 05:29 AM
27

Disable DMs and messages. There's truly no use to having them open, if you disable them you will be shutting the door to all of those trolls before they can even enter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 03:51 AM
26

It's incredible how much men of color fetishize white women and put them on a pedestal. They view them as a prize and as a status symbol instead of an actual person. Men of color are truly self haters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/21 02:23 AM
21

LOL this reminds me of an MGTOW dude here on Reddit and he is always saying how women are so emotional, or women are this and that... Dude gets super angry and ironically super emotional when a woman defies his points of view and starts raging, throwing around classic insults like "skank" and "whore." He basically has man baby tantrums constantly it seems. The lack of self awareness most of these guys have is truly something to behold, and not in a good way!! 🤣💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:10 PM
26

Same here. The thought of a 16 year old coming onto me is frankly repulsive because they are kids. I'm 19 so I'm nowhere near this dude's age either. Pedos really have no shame and are so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 10:57 PM
3

I was just thinking about how many scrotes are probably seething about this post right now. 💀Hopefully it has reached enough women to make an impact and we manage to keep ourselves safer!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:38 PM
3

That's soo disgusting. Ew! FDS really tends to attract the most NVM of NVM lurkers is what I've noticed. It's hilarious how mad we make them. 🤢🤮 I've mostly gotten DMs from men that are involved in manosphere communities trying to treat me condescendingly but I always ignored their chat requests before I just disabled chat requests all together. These kinds of people aren't worth your time at all and it's not worth it to give them attention either negative or good because that's what they're see…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:34 PM
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Exactly!! People in the comments tried to let her know that he was grooming her and she asked if it was truly grooming if she's the one that pursued him and it's like.... of course? It's his responsibility as an adult to shut down any advances from underaged people, not welcome them. The fact he chose to engage with a 16 y/o just proves he is a grooming pedophile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 02:09 AM
461

Why is a 20 y/o friends with a 15 y/o? I feel like that says enough about what the boyfriend's mental age is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:06 PM
53

Turning off DMs is a definite must in my opinion! There are tons of men out there who don't have lives and can easily pretend to be a woman and DM you, trying to build a sort of friendship and get identifiable information out of you. To some this may sound like I am being paranoid but I've been on the internet long enough to know that this type of stuff isn't unusual and it does happen often. I know it may be tempting to make friends that seemingly have the same views as you but ALWAYS be carefu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:14 PM
7

"Do I tell her?" C'mon sis 🤦‍♀️ I think the answer is crystal clear. If this same scenario happened with one of my sisters I would immediately run to tell her, no questions asked. And I know they would do the same. The fact that she has to ask this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 08:35 PM
2

And they say romance is dead. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:25 PM
1

They can easily cheat on them with an e-girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:20 PM
0

Both of these parents are fucking up their kid's childhoods and development.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:19 PM
7

Just wait until he inevitably cheats on her too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 06:35 AM
12

Wouldn't be surprised if they were backed by the porn industry/specific porn websites. It's not unheard of for industries/corporations (not only porn) to financially back BS "research" that further supports their agenda or in this case BS "help" articles that do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 07:02 PM
25

I used to lurk around those types of forums a lot when I was a younger teen so I know almost all of their BS tricks aka manipulation tactics 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 10:06 PM
141

That's terrible because getting a man doesn't say anything about your value. Men would get it on with a garbage can wearing a dress if they could. Most male attention is incredibly low value and really not hard to get at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 07:47 PM
229

At least he revealed his true colors and intentions right off the bat. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:48 AM
212

I am so glad I found FDS when I was 17. Jesus Christ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 07:12 PM
2

I am so, so, so glad you found out about his shenanigans and don't waste anymore time with this pathetic loser!! Finding out about this kind of stuff can take a toll on your emotions and even be heartbreaking but it's actually the biggest blessing ever. You aren't an idiot, just take this as a lesson and carry on living your best life without that deadweight of a "man"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 06:52 PM
88

Men definitely expect pretty much every woman they see on the internet to become OF sex workers at this point. I never fail to see a comment from some scrote under a picture of a woman who is an internet personality saying something like "when's the OnlyFans gonna happen?" or "it won't take long until she cracks and makes an OnlyFans, boys" 🙄 They prob say stuff like this in person too but I don't hang around douchebags to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 06:27 PM
13

I love that!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 03:52 AM
295

This reminds me of the time when we were at a family gathering and my sister and I were fixing up plates to give to people and when someone gave my aunt her plate she said "oooh it feels nice to be served" because she's always the one fixing up plates for her husband and it made me so sad to hear that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 06:36 PM
2

My boyfriend is the most gentle man I have ever met and I love him for it!! He's also a huge cat person and sends me videos of cats being cute constantly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 05:30 AM
30

I remember creepy older guys at the gym coming up to me trying to chat (while I was 17!!!) had headphones on AND was having a workout on the threadmill. I am not interested in entertaining a conversation with ANYONE much less slimy old men while I'm working out. There's a women's only gym available here but sadly it's too far away for me to be able to go to on a daily or frequent basis. 💔💔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 11:39 PM
28

I wouldn't really want my current bf to be put at risk of either getting a one way trip to the ER at the hands of my ex, possibly dying, or being sent to jail so this is gonna be a no from me. I am not attracted to violent men either. If anything, I would much rather have his emotional support if that happened to me instead of having him go fight my ex like a feral gorilla let out of his enclosure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/21 09:46 PM
114

I'm not sure about autistic but I can say with certainty that a lot of them seem to have mental health problems in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 01:55 AM
3

I have never heard of that before but that's so stupid lol. When I am dead I literally can't give two shits about what underwear I am wearing, and if I am severely injured the last thing on my mind would be what underwear I am wearing and if I look "good."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 06:47 PM
20

I always laugh when men who are dating way younger women complain about them being immature. Like what do those men expect? Of course they aren't going to be on the same wave length almost all of the time because of the clear age difference. And btw, your interests weren't even immature in the first place!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 08:45 PM
23

There's only one word for this: horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:13 AM
67

Love to see celebs who aren't afraid to speak the truth on this stuff, especially because they reach a very wide audience. I think she's actually one of the first woman celebs I've seen spread this message about porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:08 AM
12

Weed smells like literal burnt trash. In my country some people get rid of their garbage by setting it on fire and the smell is nearly exactly the same as weed. Imagine my despair when I had to stay in a small room with a bunch of weed smokers that smoked that crap like if it was their life source lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:02 AM
68

I am sure she meant this comment in a sarcastic/satirical way!! haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 06:45 AM
17

I feel like that would genuinely make me drier than the Sahara desert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:40 PM
9

So many of these types of men are disgusted by periods but are extremely willing and eager to stick it in the hole where we literally shit out of lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:32 AM
30

If you call it out and ask why they have such low standards, they go off on you. And then they also try to defend their partner and say that their husbands/boyfriends are actually great men and great partners.. but a great man wouldn't be disgusted at something as natural as a period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:02 AM
14

Exactly!! This also happened with the artist that painted the "big eyes" artworks, Margaret Keane. Her husband Walter Keane passed them off as his own and for years and years everyone believed that he was the great artist behind the paintings. Fortunately the truth came out and if I recall, there was even a movie made about the whole situation. So at the end Margaret got the recognition and credit she rightfully deserved for her very own work... at least there's a rare happy ending to that story…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:55 PM
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Misogynistic dudes always be loving to bring up how there have been so few great recognized notable women scientists/artists in the past when the reasons for that are so obvious that it almost makes me think that they're ignoring them in order to stick to their belief that women haven't contributed to society as much as men. Or maybe they really are just that dumb and stuck deep in their own delusions. And of course, there HAVE been many great and intelligent women for all of human history but t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:52 AM
89

Wow. This is so unbelievably disgusting. It kind of reminds me of the new Space Jam and how a bunch of creep LVM got angry because they didn't sexualize Lola Bunny in the new movie and put her in a more conservative outfit instead. Imagine being mad over a children's cartoon rabbit character. The world is filled to the brim with creepy perverts, and a lot of them sadly are in positions of power like these Beach Handball Championship idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 12:15 AM
82

Dafaq? It's disgusting that the article is trying to normalize that behavior by saying that it goes through the mind of many men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 10:39 PM
31

I am sorry you had to deal with this, it sounds quite frustrating to be honest. It's sad but this is why I don't try to help people online anymore, a lot of them are stuck in their ways and if you try to give some helpful advice they won't really listen. A lot of people just truly learn the hard way at the end of the day, and it sounds like life is going to kick this poor girl in the behind eventually. Side note, I am the same age as her and being stalked or being involved with someone my mom's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:02 PM
155

I am 19 too and I'd be interested as well. Man looks like he's got himself and his life together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 02:49 PM
3

Honestly I can't imagine living a life where I have the belief that a woman hits the wall at 24. That just sounds like a very limiting and miserable mindset to have, not to mention the creepy implications of it too. When a guy has this belief he's just outing himself as a miserable, creepy and weird person in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:06 AM
4

LMAO when people say dumb, obvious crap sometimes the only way to respond is with sarcasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:01 AM
64

I wish my only discomfort during pregnancy would be not being able to have sex. Edit: to the commenter that said I can just not get pregnant - you don't say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 12:01 AM
60

Pretty much. I have seen men on Reddit describe pick mes as sweet and FDsers as "old and bitter" because we talk about setting boundaries and not letting anyone walk all over us. That somehow makes us old and bitter... which is funny because there's more and more young women following FDS principles and being old isn't a negative thing either. It's a natural stage of life, but for many this is the ultimate insult they can use towards women. Alongside with "ugly". Either way, these men basically …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 11:56 PM
40

This makes me not want to get married. 💀😭 But I have noticed that married men do stare a lot. I had a gross ass man ogle at me while his wife was literally by his side. And he looked way older than me which just gave me the heebie jeebies. I felt so bad for his wife.. :( I bet that man stares at every young woman that passes by too. So disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:52 PM
28

Nah this shit ain't normal. It's normal to recognize other people's beauty when you are in a relationship, but that's all - you shouldn't ogle/stare at the person or make comments on how hot you find them. Ogling is incredibly inappropriate, weird, and disrespectful (even moreso when it's literally in front of your own wife!) and the fact he does it to every attractive woman (or girl, because it's super creepy that he's staring at underage girls) that passes by is super weird. He is not a teenag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:50 PM
60

Spelling/grammar in general doesn't seem to be Jared's forté. 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 02:23 PM
22

That's one of my biggest fears. :( to be involved with someone who claims to hate and be against any kind of abuse but they turn out to be abusers themselves. I think it would be really hard to vet someone like this in the beginning, some people really do know how to hide their true selves really, really well. It may sound silly but this is why I am wary of charismatic people who are good talkers and everything. It may seem paranoid but there are way too many people who use their charisma to hid…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 01:31 AM
27

Honestly I just can't feel bad for people that involve themselves in stuff like this and at the end face the consequences. Throuples, polyamory, and open relationships never end on a good note.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:52 PM
30

Exactly. It's truly pointless to call out the guy on the spot and have a mess ensue, possibly he would also start recording you and post the video online. Just pay and leave, then never contact him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:05 PM
19

As a depressed and insecure teenager, I used to have a Reddit account where I posted all my sad vent posts in. A few years later (literally like a few days ago) I logged into that profile again and guess what I had found..? There was this one user following my account and when I checked his profile, I saw that he often frequented degradation, misogyny, and rape kink subreddits. This was by far one of the most disturbing profiles on Reddit that I've ever found (and that's saying a lot) this man l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:01 AM
27

Omg me too. I used to be head over heels for this one guy in my pick me years, and he sent me a friend request on FB a couple years later and he posts a ton of anti-feminist type shit. He was also a major fuckboy, even though he didn't look like one. I am so so so glad that nothing ever happened to be honest, I used to be so disappointed that we never got closer but looking back it was a huge blessing in disguise. I have an amazing man instead now, and even if I didn't, I would still be happy th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:16 PM
51

They won't be missed. 🥳🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:57 AM
135

Same with Elon Musk. These men always have a "starter wife", women who will have their kids and support him on his endeavors to success, but once the men reach that success, their bank account isn't the only thing that grows - it's also their egos that do. So they think they can do way better than their "old "wife and go in search for the new young thing, until she ages out too and it becomes a cycle. They don't give a rat's ass that their first wife was there to support them along the way becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 02:45 AM
16

This is so important. I also want to say that wearing headphones is a horrible idea while you are outside taking a walk or something. Not being able to hear what's going on around you completely shuts you out from your surroundings. For as long as I have remembered, it always baffled me that people wore headphones while outside because it's so important to be aware of your surroudings in every sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 05:47 PM
173

Holy crap, they truly do love going 50/50 until it comes down to divorce and they got something to lose. Omg.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 06:33 PM
9

I hope that in the near future I have HVW friends!! I was actually thinking today about how I would love to have these kinds of friends so I can treat them to a meal at a nice restaurant, buy them gifts once in a while, and bake them some sweet treats. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 02:21 AM
167

I have found that men who also have like this weird hatred towards a specific woman are often attracted to her, but they hate the feelings that woman gives him and he is too emotionally stunted/immature to work through those feelings so he just projects that hatred onto her. So I would be wary of a man if he has this unjustified, seemingly out of nowhere hatred towards a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 01:50 AM
16

That's very true too. I just need to step away from low value people in general! I'll make sure to just focus on solely myself and building my career and life from now on, making people my projects won't really help anyone in the long run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:03 PM
98

Being pregnant by an LVM is one of my worst nightmares. I honestly think that if there's a hell, this is it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:08 PM
49

Sounds like she needs to be a former friend to be honest. If you have tried to help her in the past and she doesn't listen, then that's on her. I think that some people truly just learn the hard way, and even then, sometimes they won't learn. Which is sad to a degree but there's nothing anyone can do. Focus on yourself and drop her completely!! She honestly sounds like an energy vampire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 07:47 PM
39

Honestly you are very right!! It looks like I still need to undo some of my own brainwashing after all. 🤣 but I think I'll remove that part from my post because what you said is the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 07:39 PM
12

People think that you can change your features completely with makeup because they have been brainwashed by social media. Like for example on instagram, there's people that do these "crazy transformations" with supposedly only makeup, but what a lot of people fail to realize is that often these pictures/videos are heavily filtered and facetuned and the "crazy transformation" isn't makeup alone. And often times artists on instagram do makeup looks that look good on camera but would look horrible …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 07:36 PM
19

I used to watch a lot of anime in my earlier teens but weebs and the community just completely ruined it for me later on as well. I realized that it was just too riddled with sexualization and perversion, and I didn't want to be associated with that. I am not sure if I could even get back into it now. I feel like I wouldn't be able to stand watching all the pickme female characters who so often appear in anime and that are basically just a walking male fantasy without wanting to vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 03:24 PM
1

Lmao omg this is the truth!! Plus you can tell by his comment alone that he has barely had any interaction with real life women. Maybe that's why he has this notion that all girls and women live out their lives like that of a famous and gorgeous model too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:34 AM
2

Also there was another ridiculous comment on the thread which I unfortunately didn't screenshot but in it, someone was basically saying how beauty standards for men are a lot harsher than beauty standards for women. Give me a freaking break! Luckily there was a reply that pulled out the statistics of how out of all the people that get plastic surgery, 92% are women and only 8% are men. That alone says enough about how BS the claim that beauty expectations for men are harsher than women's is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 07:21 AM
8

Furthermore, does he seriously think that these things are "issues" " "boohoo women don't pay attention to me, I don't get compliments like the women do, no one pays attention to me and gives me validation in order to stroke my ego waaaaaaaah 😭😭" Meanwhile women's issues are us getting raped, murdered and being subjected to actual acts of misogyny. Apparently one of men's issues (believe me when I say this wasn't the only comment like this) is not getting enough compliments on a daily basis, acc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:57 AM
2

I am not usually one for romance scenes (and this may be TMI) but my period has got me feeling all emotional and craving for something like this lmao. I love when a man is kind, sensitive (in a healthy way) and caring🥺🥺 Those traits are seriously the most attractive to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:34 AM
176

I think it's definitely best to just avoid anime/cosplay dudes in general. 90% of the time they are practically just pornsick losers who spend most of their time jacking it to hentai, watching anime, and probably jacking it some more to cosplay instagram or Reddit girls. Although there's definitely a smaller portion of them that aren't like this, but those are quite rare from what I've noticed. The kind of anime he watches is definitely a dead giveaway, if he watches something with tons of fan s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 06:23 AM
9

Exactly!!! I see way too many people (ahem, kids and young teens) use the legality of their relationships with adult predators as a way to make it seem like it's perfectly morally okay as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:10 AM
13

I commented on her post before I saw this one. I got a notification for it and the age gap completely bewildered me. I'm honestly worried for this girl, she seems to have quite a concerning post history and I get the vibes that something may have happened to her in the past and she seeks out these gross older, loser guys for some type of validation/trauma and/or I algo get the feeling that she may be struggling with insecurities. She had replied to my comment saying that their relationship was o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:59 PM
13

This guy isn't interested at all and she's seeking out attention from scrotes. I am honestly worried for this girl. I get vibes that she may be quite insecure or something happened to her in the past so she seeks out attention from these gross, loser older men. If you look at her post history it's quite concerning and she also posts a lot of pictures of herself which is yet again concerning given how many creeps there are on Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 11:51 PM
25

That's sad. Hopefully your former friend realizes someday that male validation means jack shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:46 PM
15

I remember either reading about this exact tactic in a PUA forum or watching it in a PUA video. Either way, it's sad that there are men out there who actually employ these trash "strategies."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:44 PM
13

Your friend sounds very smart. 👏 I love to hear about women with high standards who aren't afraid to call out douchebags and don't let their lives and especially self esteem be controlled/dictated by male attention as I see so often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 09:40 PM
74

This is horrific. She is surrounded by LVMs 😔 I am really hoping that it's just fake. This is why I refuse to ever send nudes, men are way too depraved and you never know what they are going to do with those pictures. You may trust the guy right now but what happens if his true colors start showing and his mask starts slipping? No thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:46 AM
19

It's disgusting that their brains are so porn fried that they think it's appropriate to say or clearly allude to things like that. At least when they allude/say shit like that they reveal early on just how pornsick they are so you won't have to waste anymore of your time on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:39 PM
6

🔬🔬🔬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 07:30 PM
11

The thumbnail is so bad that it's borderline amusing lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 07:54 PM
62

I agree. There's a difference between hating cats and disliking them because of whatever reason, like allergies, trauma and everything you listed off. I myself am allergic to cats and I understand why someone that is as well wouldn't like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 07:32 PM
22

I think hating cats can definitely be a red flag, but I also want to point out that a man loving cats isn't necessarily a green flag either. After all, Colty from 90 Day Fiance loves cats and if you watch the show you already know just how much of a LVM he is. And of course he isn't the only NVM/LVM out there who is a potential cat lover. As a huge cat person, it would be amazing if a man loving cats was a green flag but it isn't. I know the post didn't talk about this but I just want to point o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 07:13 PM
56

Porn has all these obvious bad side effects that it baffles me how anyone can sit infront of a screen and watch that shit knowing all of this negative side effects. But men apparently really don't care that their brains are slowly rotting as long as they can get some of that instant gratification. It really is just so astounding to me how someone can waste their time (and brain cells) away watching this crap instead of actually working on self improvement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:40 AM
38

Lmao the day someone tells me that I look too expensive to date or high maintenance is the day I know that I've made it. I can just imagine some slimy LVM looking to neg or just insult me by saying that when all he would be doing is unknowingly complimenting me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 06:28 AM
33

How are these people not embarrassed.. I would be so ashamed to ask for money from friends and family to pay for my boyfriend's gift/party.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:58 AM
26

A lot of LVM should be ashamed that even a 7 year old has more cooking experience than half of them smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 02:45 AM
60

I am pretty sure that when I was 12 years old I could cook way more than 3 dishes. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 10:58 PM
20

The best thing is to just ignore them imo, or disable messaging. It's a waste of time to engage with people like that in any way, and at the end of the day it's them who are stuck with their backwards ideas and regressive mindsets so I view that as punishment enough for the poor LVM souls. And let's also not forget that a lot of us here also aim to be HVW and a HV person doesn't waste their time or energy on LV people either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 06:32 PM
3

Ewwwwww 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 05:49 PM
22

The ex must be elated that she's still his maid even after they split up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:14 AM
36

This just proves that people throw around the word toxic too much. Not wanting to do this shit for your ex isn't toxic.. it's more like clownery. That's a more appropriate word lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:13 AM
7

That's so very scary. It's insane how someone can just completely lose it in anger. I am glad you're okay and I'm sorry you had to go through this experience. 🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:44 PM
86

I am glad someone said it!! 👏👏 I am a virgin too who is repulsed by men who have slept around a lot, and I wouldn't want to engage with someone like that - not only because of the risk of STDs but also because it says a lot about who they are, and I know that our values wouldn't align. I view sex as something that should be loving and passionate between a person I love. I guarantee that men who have had many casual sexual partners don't view it that way and just want to use women's bodies as a f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 03:06 AM
89

I would never go near anyone's ass. Butt stuff is honestly one of the biggest turn offs for me, I personally don't see what's attractive about playing around in the hole someone shits out of... to put it bluntly.💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:45 AM
7

It definitely puts FDS in a worse light than it already is if people associate her with us. She really isn't a good person and isn't someone that anyone should look up to, I'm just happy that many others here seem to be aware of what a bad person she is and calling it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:28 PM
23

Just reported it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 05:02 PM
26

If my father did this, I would 100% change my last name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 09:54 PM
17

Nowadays BDSM is the new "vanilla" almost every man loves being a "daddy dom" (barf 🤮) and a lot of pick-mes always go on about how they supposedly love being choked and calling their boyfriends or sexual partners daddy. I definitely think that a big portion of people don't want to be seen as boring or a prude so they pretend or try to force themselves to be into this kind of stuff. I also want to say how I find it funny that these "kinksters" use vanilla as an insult but then most of them have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:33 AM
10

That's why I refuse to call any man HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:17 AM
12

I am 19 too but from the way the post is written and from the things she says the OP sounds quite naïve. :/ it's so sad but in the future when she matures a lot more she'll learn why everyone around her was acting like that, especially her parents, and she'll probably learn the hard way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:55 PM
1

I agree that the way she acted wasn't okay either. I'm worried about both of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 11:07 PM
1

Of course. I didn't say that he had to pay for her because he's under no obligation to at all - just that the way the mom handled things was terrible and teaching her son things that could lead into misogynistic behavior in the future.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 04:29 AM
2

It was still disrespectful to compare a young girl to the likes of a prostitute. (Even if she wasn't directly calling her one) Especially coming from a mom, if this post is even real. It's teaching her son that it's okay to say these things about women and it's a segway to LV, misogynistic behavior that men so often display. At the very least the mom could have told him to approach the situation in a more respectful and polite manner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 03:53 PM
5

Omg reading this broke my heart. I am sorry you had to go through that!! Your father sounds horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:28 PM
7

I don't understand how women can put up with men like this. God knows I wouldn't be able to. He seems so unbelievably annoying. It's awful, I feel irritated just reading this post- I can't imagine having to live with him or someone like him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:48 AM
36

Omg that rape comment is so terrifying and vile!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 04:18 AM
57

I think that men always assume that women who call out age gap relationships are like 30+ when that isn't the truth. I am 19 and I will happily call out age gap relationships and creepy dirty old men any time of the day, and it's not because I am jealous of anyone and their predatory relationship as some men and pickmes may say. Like you can keep your groomer, Pickmeisha. I can assure you that no one else wants him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:31 AM
4

I had always been hesitant and cautious of posting pics of me anywhere on the internet, but one time when I was 17 I unfortunately stumbled upon this one subreddit and I thought like a dumbass that I just needed to get out of my comfort zone.. so I posted a selfie, and let me tell you - never again. I got a really weird message from an account that was just newly made saying "you're really pretty. I am doing this experiment, can you send me more pictures of yourself?" Luckily I wasn't dumb or na…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:47 PM
26

I've always found the way f-boys look to be highly unattractive and their dumb fake ass personalities even more unattractive. I can smell their act from a mile away, and it's easy to do once you know what to look out for. But even in the height of my pickme days I still found them repulsive and knew they were not up to any good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:37 PM
4

Rape roleplay sounds vile. Even if it's just "roleplay" any sane minded man would hopefully be completely turned off by the idea of pretending to rape his girlfriend. And if he is completely turned on by the idea there's obviously something unbelievably wrong with him. I don't care how caring or nice he may seem on the outside, if he's turned on by rape "roleplay" then that man is fucked in the head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:20 PM
18

🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 09:12 PM
2

That was beautifully written.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 05:03 PM
3

I remember watching a video a long time exposing his fake ass lifestyle. It's honestly sad that many LVM look up to some douche who fabricated this whole materialistic and shallow fantasy of a life. Then again, what do I expect from LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:26 AM
3

That's really not good. 😥 Consider that a red flag and run for the hills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:24 AM
16

If I ever have daughters I am going to teach them every FDS principle in the book, and teach them about feminism as well so they hopefully don't go through a pickmeisha/"cool girl phase" and get taken advantage of by older, disgusting LVM/NVM or any disgusting man in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 02:19 AM
39

The life that Dan Bilzerian portrays on Instagram is every LVM's wet dream.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 06:25 AM
4

I didn't know about this sub but it's exactly what I need!! Thank you so much. 🤍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:39 PM
13

Omg exactly!! I am so tired of these youtubers coming to the most useless conclusions in their "analytical" videos. Either they are so brainwashed that they genuinely don't think there's anything seriously wrong with OnlyFans or they are too scared to speak the truth on it. I was watching this video the other day (it touched on OnlyFans but also sex work in general) and I thought the YouTuber was making some truly excellent points, I was really happy that someone was finally talking about this b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:24 PM
4

Thank you so much for the offer!! My country is really close to El Salvador and unfortunately the situation is pretty similar as to here. Femicides are not unheard of, and due to the conservative and regressive culture, sexual abuse is not really talked about here and it's a big problem in general. I am even afraid to go out alone and I never really do because of all the possible dangers. Even taking public transport is not really safe at all here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 08:44 PM
13

That's actually the most ridiculous "term" I have heard this whole year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 10:24 PM
49

Chances are he is also getting his rocks off by this whole thread and women calling him a scrote. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 07:09 PM
46

It's true that it's like this almost everywhere, but I feel like in the case of age gap relationships they are more demonized in some countries (as they should) than in others. I have lived in other countries where I know that an adult man would be put to shame if he were talking to a 14 year old, whereas here it's perfectly normal to everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:44 PM
44

Honestly that's a good point. It's ultimately like this nearly everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:42 PM
81

Not Mexico but it may as well be! I live in one of the Central American countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:07 PM
90

And then LVM also like wealthy women. I don't know why there's this notion that men can't be gold diggers because they absolutely CAN and there's tons of them. I remember that in my local gym almost all of the younger "gym rat" type men were gold diggers, flirting with the older women there hoping to catch their next sugar mommy victim who would pay their bills. The sad part is that plenty of women actually fell for their tactics. They actually tried to make my mom fall for this too, there was a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:24 PM
12

No words. Just: 🤮🤢. But seriously.. I could never get involved with a man who only stuffs himself with crap food constantly and whose only source of "hydration" are energy drinks or soda. That's genuinely disgusting and I feel like it says a lot about what kind of person they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 07:17 PM
152

Post: "I want a [based] redpilled girlfriend, antifeminist, with perky tits, without stretchmarks, goth with a big ass, that plays LoL, with nice feet, that does my chores, and cooks like if she were my mom. Ah, and that she sneezes like a kitten, don't forget, that's the most important part" Comment: They do exist, foreigners, especially Slavic and Nordic women. (🤮🤢) It's funny because the joke flew over 90% of commenters who were clearly NVM and they were unironically agreeing with the post wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:06 AM
25

Ewwww he's commenting on Darcey's daughter's instas?? If I was Darcey I would have kicked his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:29 PM
6

I feel like I should have elaborated more on my post or phrased it differently for sure, but I completely understand the disagreement. What I meant moreso, is women who post thirst traps specifically to get validation from men, and thus find these compliments and validation from the coomers to be what's "empowering" and "liberating". In my opinion, this isn't empowering at all because you are getting extremely low quality attention from extremely low value men who probably have said the same unc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 04:41 PM
25

Someone said that they started dating right after she turned legal, and a bunch of clowns in the comments still don't see anything wrong with it and are basically congratulating them. I can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 02:32 AM
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