Post title says this queen asked for a proper date, but his description then labels the request as a demand. Why is this man outing himself as low effort?

Phoenix__Rising2018 · 2021-05-26T20:09:39+00:00

Scrotese manslation: "As a feminist I believe that women should have to pay for me to try to put my dick in them" lol. She really dodged a bullet here. Just imagine how angry this guy will get when a woman has the nerve to ask him to wear a condom, not fuck other women or expects a birthday present.

Alternate scrotelation: "As a feminist I don't believe I should ever have to do anything for a woman ever"

lunarfulminate · 2021-05-26T20:10:36+00:00

"As a male who has correctly identified that I can use pop 'feminism' as a screen to hide the fact that I'm a cheap fuck who's such a coward I need to ask the internet for ass pats instead of moving on to a target with lower standards, I strongly believe in overcoming traditional gender roles, specifically the ones that require me to demonstrate any value whatsoever to a woman I intend to sexually disappoint and exploit for money, validation, and wife duties."

FTFH

aslirakhisawant · 2021-05-26T20:10:07+00:00

"physical chemistry"

Maingurl · 2021-05-26T20:30:35+00:00

Which FDS user decline his coffee date?

🤣🤣🤣🤣

Girl, If you're out there good job sis!

catlady4u · 2021-05-26T20:15:09+00:00

How to say you are a cheap POS low value scrote, without saying you are a cheap POS low value scrote.

WeirdRockbaby · 2021-05-26T20:28:27+00:00

"as a feminist" 🤡 who allow you in our movement sir? Nobody. You could be an ally only if other women give that title to you. 🙄

CuntWaffe · 2021-05-26T20:35:34+00:00

"As a feminist" Please, you are only looking out for what benefits you.

wonkyeyes8877 · 2021-05-26T20:47:19+00:00

"I asked this chick to go for a cheap, no effort meetup so I can see her body in person and try to stick my dick in it. She said she wanted me to take her on a "real date" which will cost me more money and more effort than I want to put into her. How can I manipulate this so I come across like a good guy in a world full of gold-diggers?!?"

West_Zone · 2021-05-26T20:37:40+00:00

Modern dating is just scrotes wasting women's time. 😐He's interested in a woman, but not interested enough to invite her to a proper dinner? At his big age?

Men on dating apps don't want a gf, they just want different women to pay attention to them so they can get an ego boost.

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-05-26T20:51:52+00:00

"and as a feminist..."

Hold right up! Stop there, sir. And gtfo.

This man is not a feminist. And honestly now, keep in mind that men that call themselves feminists and mention it every time they can, are the same as "nice guys". This is a nice guy 100%.

sassyheather · 2021-05-26T21:03:58+00:00

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tomatfrogbubbles · 2021-05-26T20:59:00+00:00

Id bet that by "physical chemistry"" he means seeing if shes willing to fuck him after their first cheap ass non romantic coffee date.

Lavender_flow · 2021-05-26T21:02:57+00:00

"As a feminist" i died. I am dead 💀💀🤣😭

Seriously. This scrotes "feminism" reaches as far as not paying for things and making women whom he significantly outearn pay 50/50 for everything which includes paying 50% of expenses in a house he owns. This all the while he strokes his greasy dong to some rape porn and leaked nudes of celebrities/only fans creators (which he would never pay for ofcourse) I mean he is a feminist after all.

sassyheather · 2021-05-26T21:42:07+00:00

Hey mr. Feminist, if you wanna overcome the traditional gender roles, why don’t you parade for her in something skimpy and sexy, then give her 30 minutes of oral sex and then she can roll over to sleep and you can stay orgasm-less?

FreshStarter0 · 2021-05-26T21:50:42+00:00

As a feminist, who also happens to:

have had to immigrate twice with my gender playing an important role necessitating my immigration,
have grown up in deep poverty
have lost a library job offer in university to a dude because they thought I wasn't strong enough to carry books to their proper shelves (like WTF) and that's only one example of low-stakes jobs that I was perfectly qualified for and I was rejected to men when I was very young,
be a PhD physicist who has faced both subtle and not so subtle discrimination in my field while in academia
have tried to transition to non academic jobs in the tech industry and really struggled to receive that first offer while seeing my less qualified male peers just winging it:

the very least I expect from any dude who asks me out is to understand how privileged his life has been compared to mine and try to make it a bit easier, therefore this scrote can go suck his own dick. So you're a feminist? If you mean it, then you want to pay reparations to me and other women for the patriarchal system that has benefited you all your life while paving my way with stumbling blocks, no?

Of course there are exceptions, like yeah I might be more privileged that an orphan from a war-torn country who found his own way, but how many of those will I really meet in my life?

By the way, the scrote also appears to be pro-life.

queen_beastmode · 2021-05-26T22:01:04+00:00

Any man who uses 'feminism' as a means to shame or otherwise control a womans behavior is exactly the type of man that is anti-feminist.

Muffcakelord · 2021-05-26T22:17:04+00:00

"I invited someone to a date without intent of paying because i'm a feminist"

The shame and guilt i as a WOMAN would feel for not paying for a date I myself initiated. That's not even a gender role - a gender role is paying for her even if she asks you out for a date, which is even fair because of the gender differences still.

I once asked an interesting woman from class at the university to join me for a coffee and if i had asked her to pay for herself, what the fuck would that even be? How do they dodge this shame?

RabidWench · 2021-05-26T22:35:40+00:00

A man told me once, that he liked inviting women for coffee dates for this same reason, and because if they didn't hit it off they'd be stuck together over a meal for 30-60 minutes.

I said "well, at least you admit you're a shitty conversationalist right off the bat, if you can't hold one for a half hour in between bites of food. All the women who decline are dodging a serious bullet."

If a man is so socially inept that he needs an escape plan before the half hour mark, I'm not sure how he plans to navigate the ups and downs of an actual relationship in the event he should find a woman so tolerant as to keep seeing him.

fleuretpomme · 2021-05-26T22:04:19+00:00

I'm confused why he's posting in a dating advice subreddit when these are meetings, not dates. He himself even called it a meeting.

curlywurlyprincess · 2021-05-26T22:06:24+00:00

Coffee dates are an insult to women everywhere. The height of the audacity 🤮

EclecticBarbarella · 2021-05-26T22:02:21+00:00

Whoo with feminists like this, we’ll have equality in no time 😂

Gourmay · 2021-05-26T22:42:09+00:00

Why are we suddenly equals when the check comes?

Also it's interesting that he mentions physical chemistry, proving exactly what he's after.

hopeful_flounder93 · 2021-05-26T22:47:10+00:00

Okay well why don't you traditionally shove a baby out of your peen and then we can talk about overcoming gender roles, GARY

AstridRavenGrae · 2021-05-26T22:23:21+00:00

This screenshot really needs the username and the subreddit of origin blacked out - as per the community rules.

9hazle · 2021-05-26T23:00:23+00:00

Women: - Suffer domestic violence with almost no support from authorities or from the community(some places are worse than others) - Are being sexualized, harassed and belittled all the way from school to the workplace and other public spaces - Are culturally pressured to accept being cheated and disrespected by their husbands and trained to do domestic chores for their male family members because people think that men are too good to pick up their own shit for some reason - Are constantly put down and shamed for any trivial reason(looks, lack of sex, too much sex, pretty but dumb, intelligent so obviously ugly etc) the scrote might see fit in order to be shut down when they are "bothering"(claiming their space like any other human being) - Constantly being accused of incompetence in domains considered "manly"(in my country people check to see if the driver is a woman when someone makes a mistake in traffic in order to yell at her about what a stupid c*nt she is that can't drive. If it's a male it happens) - People are using the word "pussy" to describe stuff they find lame and casually refer to women by their genitalia when talking about them - Men will pretend to be into them and let them form an emotional attachment just to get them to sleep with them - etc, etc, etc there are sooo many

Random "feminist": - Is really worried about the first date double standard, thinks it's a set back in the feminist movement. Writes a post on reddit about it on a short break at work, right after trying to find with his co-workers the new hire on instagram to see if she has any hot photos to jerk off to

Amy3e13 · 2021-05-26T20:58:23+00:00

He's a middle aged man and all he can do is offer her a coffee date (probably 50/50 too)? Let's hope he never gets the opportunity to pass on his loser genes to the next generation.

radsera99 · 2021-05-26T22:53:40+00:00

As a feminist male, I want women to do what benefits me, a feminist male.

Pssst ... men can’t be feminists

purasangria · 2021-05-26T22:55:22+00:00

Of course he believes in breaking down traditional gender roles -- when he's being asked to do something that men traditionally do that involves effort on his part.

If he's worried that she'll show up fat, then he can arrange a video chat using the app. She should insist upon this, just to know that he's not catfishing. If he likes her, he should ask her on a proper date, none of this low-effort bullshit.

PossiblyJennay · 2021-05-26T22:45:22+00:00

As she should

splendiddiamonds · 2021-05-26T22:58:44+00:00

Neither of his justifications make sense for the situation. “I don’t want to date a girl who needs an invitation” …then why are you inviting her out for coffee? “I don’t think men should pay” …so?? She never mentioned money or said you should pay, she wanted to change the venue for the date you invited her on

purasangria · 2021-05-26T22:59:36+00:00

When a man asks me to coffee, I say, "I'm available for lunch or dinner."

I'd also do brunch, come to think of it. Coffee is for business meetings. I bill for business meetings at my normal hourly rate.

PigeonCities · 2021-05-26T22:40:57+00:00

i honestly don't mind coffee dates because like he said, easier to bolt. HOWEVER. miss me with that "im a feminist" bullshit LMAO the sheer fucking audacity. dear sir please cite me the original feminist thinker who first said "women shouldn't go to dinner dates if they're feminists" in MLA format. like just say you're broke and leave

Far_from_deceived · 2021-05-27T10:03:07+00:00

See, if it wasn’t for the FUCKING DATING APPS we wouldn’t be having this discussion. It would be rare this kind of Situation because people would have met in real life and the pHysIcAl cHeMisTrY would have been already checked.

The girl acted totally right, but we shouldn’t waste time on guys from apps. It’s actually useless asking a guy from a dating app to treat you properly. They won’t.

It’s like asking a customer to respect a prostitute (dating apps are free prostitute apps for men).

I would tell her to Save that energy for people she meets in real life and delete the app.

Title	Post title says this queen asked for a proper date, but his description then labels the request as a demand. Why is this man outing himself as low effort?
Author	FreeUpgrayedd
Upvotes	190
Comments	75
Date	May 26, 2021 7:44 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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