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DISCUSSIONNoMoreWordsToConquer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:00 AM
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NoMoreWordsToConquer/r/askFDS08/12/21 01:39 AM
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#JustLVMThingsNoMoreWordsToConquer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:30 PM
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DISCUSSIONNoMoreWordsToConquer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:59 AM
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NoMoreWordsToConquer/r/askFDS19/10/21 01:00 AM
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NoMoreWordsToConquer/r/askFDS21/04/22 10:00 AM
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DISCUSSIONNoMoreWordsToConquer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:40 PM
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DISCUSSIONNoMoreWordsToConquer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:52 AM
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DISCUSSIONNoMoreWordsToConquer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:29 AM
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NoMoreWordsToConquer/r/askFDS19/08/21 12:59 AM
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NoMoreWordsToConquer/r/askFDS30/01/21 06:58 PM
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SEEKING ADVICENoMoreWordsToConquer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 01:02 PM
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#JustLVMThingsNoMoreWordsToConquer/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:48 AM
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HE set her up. She needs to lawyer up, document any text messages/ phone calls/ emails from him and sue the hell out of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 07:33 PM
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Steamy makeout on the second date seems like it made him think he would be able to get you into bed by date 3. This appears to be reinforced by his reaction to you saying you hadn't slept with anyone in 2 years: shocked/ displeasure (breaking eye contact), less enthusiasm via text content (when it's so early on!) and then long delays in replying. While I would recommend never being explicit with your sexual history early on, nothing you did was gonna change the fact that he was interested in a c…
/r/askFDS17/01/22 03:31 AM
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It sounds like you have an idealized version of him in your mind, hence why you return to thoughts of him only when you're in a rough spot. If you've known him for 2 years and it hasn't worked out, ask yourself why. There must be something about his personality or situation (i.e. not interested in commitment or an equal partnership) that has impeded this. But tbh it sounds like you don't know much about him, so I wouldn't given those fantasies of him any more weight than that
/r/askFDS16/01/22 10:12 PM
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Word of advice- the last guy I dated claimed to be 5'10 and was definitely closer to 5'5-5'6. I never addressed it with him, but the lie always stood out to me. Eventually, other less pleasant facets of his personality began to reveal themselves, like becoming passive-aggressive when things don't go his way and flaking repeatedly. My thought process is this: if someone is willing to lie so early on, what will they end up doing later? Lying is always a red flag.
/r/askFDS05/01/22 05:38 AM
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I did not consider these perspectives! But it sounds like in both these cases, the woman clearly knows what she wants, and she does not want kids. I just can't fathom (thankfully) having such low self-esteem that you're willing to go through the risks and sacrifices of childbirth with someone who isn't even 100% committed
/r/askFDS09/12/21 12:46 AM
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Wow, thank you so much for a thorough answer touching on the psychological and circumstantial reasons for this phenomenon! I really appreciate the time and effort you put into this
/r/askFDS09/12/21 12:45 AM
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Thank you for your honest and specific advice. Any advice for how to approach such a conversation? (we've been texting this stuff)
/r/askFDS19/10/21 01:54 AM
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Interesting! How would you define a HV family?
/r/askFDS19/08/21 02:31 PM
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This screams troll post... it's way too dramatic (I don't know how to keep on living!) when more women are too preoccupied with real problems, especially after COVID
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 02:18 AM
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This poor girl never had a chance; geez, physically and sexually abusive parents, abusive foster parents, druggie boyfriend, how the hell is she supposed to escape?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:46 PM
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I honestly feel bad for guys like this. The mom can be incredibly domineering and guilt trip her children. A friend of mine has basically been guilt-tripped into becoming his mom's slave/ housekeeper/bodyguard. No relationship has ever worked out because the girl is understandably creeped by this dynamic, and no matter how many times he speaks to his mom she just accuses him of abandoning his mother and he's reeled in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:52 PM
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Idk, even if he wasn't splitting half my rent, I don't think I could do that to any family member.
/r/askFDS30/01/21 09:57 PM
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I have indeed flagged my concerns with him, and he always dismisses it. ("He's worked "hard" for many years, so he doesn't have the energy to learn a language/ instrument/ new skill/ try new things right now). He is helping me split the rent, but this is pretty much his only financial contribution since my childhood, and it seems like that's being used to hold me hostage
/r/askFDS30/01/21 09:07 PM
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Oops sorry! Will do, and will delete it from here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:57 PM
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Getting married is easy; that's why any two drunk morons can get married in Las Vegas. Finding a HVM and creating the foundations for a successful marriage is hard. What I'm saying is, don't feel pressured to find a guy and a ring just because everyone else is, but understand that HVM are hard to find, so invest the appropriate time in finding one. Don't settle for anything less, just because society is threatened by a selective woman who knows her worth.
/r/askFDS30/01/21 06:56 PM
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Not to rain on anyone's parade, but I believe this was proven to be fake a while back, some viral marketing stunt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:21 AM
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Hahaha very bad!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:25 PM
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I can't stop laughing.. "your poor, poor choices... how you foolishly passed on me". Does this moron not realize he's trash-talking the supposed object of his affections? Like that's supposed to make you swoon lol?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:02 AM
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This honestly blows my mind. Like even if you have 0 romantic interest in a woman, how can someone call themselves a man and not worry about the safety of their female relative/ friend/ partner walking at home at night alone?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:33 PM
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Oh I completely agree with you; the quotes were sarcastic, because evidently shaming someone's kinks in today's day and age is the most egregious thing you can do to a person. Unlike, y'know, domestic violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:31 PM
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....Wtf this is heartbreaking... he's barely an adult. This is completely unacceptable. Some parents are desperate to have kids but can't, and she dumps her own son on the street, where he could get killed, hooked on drugs and/or raped? And he doesn't even have a second parent he could go to? If he's using gendered slurs, send him to freaking therapy, don't set him up for a life of crime and destitution Best wishes to this poor guy :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:17 AM
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....again, so daring to even question someone's "kinks" is unacceptable, but shutting down a valid perspective, BACKED BY SCIENTIFIC RESEARCH, is somehow A-ok, and not "shaming behavior"? And framing this argument as "harassment", while refusing to condemn the use of children in porn? This is such audacious double-speak it's mind-boggling. They're not feminists, lol, they're a joke. They're not worth your time. Unfortunate their sub carries that title, as it's misleading to young girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:12 AM
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Her boyfriend let her walk home at night alone??? He couldn't have bothered to drive her, or at the very least get her an uber??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:05 AM
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This is insane. Your post is courteous, informative and evidence-based; there is no reason it should be banned short of prejudice. The height of hypocrisy is claiming to be against "kink-shaming" but then turning around and discriminating against FDS because they're threatened by people willing to go against mainstream thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:03 AM
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Perhaps "pressure" its the wrong word; the reality of it is I only have her perspective, and she was sharing this with us other girls, boasting about how insistent he was they go to this. Something along the lines of "he's been hounding me about this forever" said smugly or something. No one else really knew what to say to it lol. She didn't at all seemed concerned; I honestly think she sees it as a compliment :S. How can I ask her if she's okay without sounding condescending?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:59 PM
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I have seriously considered it, but I don't have any evidence of it besides her word, which she said when he wasn't there so I couldn't see his reaction. Moreover, she was fawning all over him at this lunch (when this was going on behind the scenes and we didn't know) so I don't think anyone would back me up.... Any thoughts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:55 PM
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You bring a valid point; politicians are a different breed, and experts in curating facades
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:55 PM
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That may be one of the sweetest things I have ever heard-- to sell a prized possession for his wife's dream, what is essentially a gamble. They sound like an incredible couple!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 02:53 PM
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... can you give me those amazing recipes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:01 PM
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Honestly, I'm not sure; I have also struggled with differentiating this. I can at least speak to high-powered careers, and I have found a lot of men there who are self-absorbed (prioritizing their career over anything else, although it is this same attention that helps them succeed), arrogant and expect the woman to chase them (which they do in droves). My friends have married guys like these, and have to sculpt their entire lives around the men. Rarely, (and these are gems), I have seen incredi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:36 PM
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Very true! At the end of the day, this is all speculation, but I have noticed that HVW with (ostensibly) stable family lives seem to choose men who are either confident enough in their own achievements so as not be emasculated by their partners, OR men whose achievements are seemingly less impressive than their wives', but who have strong redeeming qualities (family oriented, loyal etc.). At the end of the day, we can only wonder, but out of my respect for these women, I am interested in what qu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:32 PM
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Interesting! I will need to read it. In light of that, what do you think of her decision to go with him and overlook behavior that was not HVM? Would you say there were enough red flags in the beginning to categorize him as a LVM? If so, at what point do we detach ourselves from LVM vs forgive them if they have potential?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:28 PM
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Thank you for providing quotes; again, I still see that previous evidence I provided above was not responded to. Is there any reason why you are not refuting that evidence? Secondly, you have copied and pasted these arguments from other websites, word for word. Regardless, I will gladly respond to these, because you are continuing to stereotype 1.9 billion people with absolutely no consideration of their humanity: (1) Adam/ Eve: You are using the English interpretation of Mohsin Khan, which rema…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:48 PM
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Again, with all due respect, you're not addressing any of the legal, historical or anthropological evidence that I have presented, including direct citations from the quran, fatwas condemning rape and other data. Furthermore, you're not using any evidence yourself to support these bigoted and racist claims; these posts are only further propagating hateful stereotypes, misconceptions and outright lies without actually using any logic. This is the same tactic Fox News uses; repeat a statement unti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:59 PM
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With all due respect, you are promulgating misconceptions and proven fabrications peddled by anti-semitic and islamophobic pundits, with political aspirations, all of which I will refute point by point. You are welcome to criticize religious structures, by all means. Failing to distinguish between the faith itself and people who deliberately distort it means you are smearing 1.9 billion people under the same ill-informed claims, which is logically inaccurate at worst and promotes dangerous bigot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:28 PM
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While I absolutely agree that the hierarchical structures surrounding religions often attempt to suppress women, I do take offense to you claiming that Islam "tells women to excuse every bad behaviour of their husbands and to be maid, sex slave and breeding cattle". This is patently untrue; if you go back to the core of Islam, right at it's start, it was a religon that encouraged female education and development as a means of improving the future of a society. In fact, Islamic hospitals during t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:12 PM
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Aw, glad it was helpful! Props to you, I think you really helped open her eyes. Pickmes are so primed to crave validation that it really blinds them to what would be obvious to any objective observer. I hope through your guidance she's able to become a stronger person and value herself enough to not bend over backwards for compliments. You're a great friend <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:40 AM
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Isn't it illegal to knowingly go through another person's mail? Can he be held accountable for this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 04:37 AM
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You sound just like me!! Lol. Believe me, some people are less observant than you'd think. I think the fact that she reached out to you the next day showed she was hurt, and I think that as a pick me, she isn't going to understand why you'd value personal time with a friend over male attention, as she likely defines herself by validation that she receives. But like I said, I was a pickme once and grew out of it, so maybe she can too! I like that you're defining your boundaries; that's a challeng…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:50 AM
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He doesn't value women? Then it's clear he also doesn't value the ability propagate the human race, rear the next generation, sexual intimacy or the emotional intelligence and domestic skillset women are conditioned from birth to master. I don't understand men foolish enough to undervalue women, because they wouldn't be ALIVE without a woman having birthed and nursed them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:49 AM
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I completely understand why you left, and I would have done the same; however, does your friend understand why you're frustrated with her behavior? The only reason I ask is because you remind me of myself and I've been told I'm pretty hard to read. I don't know the history between the two of you, but if she is a good friend that is worth keeping, it may be worth it to at least explain how frustrating it is that your night to celebrate was diluted with scrotes. I was a pickme once, in recovery, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 02:30 AM
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"That he's tired of having to "constantly bail us out" ?!" Are you for real? What about the nine months his mother carried him INSIDE her, the excruciating delivery, the sleepless nights of having to feed/soothe/heal/ figure out wtf is wrong with a wailing child, the support and love growing up that even ENABLED him to get a job? I apologize to speak so ill of your brother, but this sort of entitlement and selfishness infuriates me because it reminds me of my uncles. Your mother should chew out …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:48 PM
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Perhaps I'm being too rigid in my thinking. If you don't mind me asking, what about his personality led you choose him? Are there any parts of both of your personalities that don't necessarily mesh, but in an it-adds-perspective way, rather than clashing sort of way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:07 PM
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(1) Your mentality is too centered on finding a HVM; if there's a sense of desperation to you, other people will sense it, even if they can't put a name on it. Develop yourself, grow, love yourself and that security will instantly be attractive (2) The girls "getting a lot more guys because they’re dressing provocatively" are not getting genuine, deep, lasting relationships- they're displaying the goods and naturally getting consumers of those goods. Hop onto any AskMen subreddit or the like and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:48 PM
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Religious, ethnic and personality preferences notwithstanding, permit me to translate: " willing to live with in laws" - become a live-in maid and cook to my parents, but I will not return the courtesy for your parents. Also saves me money on buying a house lol. "If you can cook that's a bonus, you can teach me" - I'll watch you prepare food once to humor you and then expect you to do it thereafter. Or, I will deliberately be awful at it such that it becomes easier for you to do it yourself. Als…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 05:30 PM
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That's what I don't understand; I don't mind casual clean, casual flirting either, just for fun. But these guys will have an aneurysm the second even minimal interest is shown (inviting them along a group to hang out) and flee. It's so off-putting, because what sort of arrogance makes them believe that we even WANT to commit ourselves to them? It's just vetting and flirting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:25 PM
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EXACTLY. Like I have found plenty of men attractive, but if I don't see a future with them, I'm not going to bother suggesting otherwise, out of respect for both of us as human beings. Your absolutely right in that this behavior is self-absorbed and entitled, almost cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:26 AM
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Excellent point; I'm going to aim to adopt that approach from now on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:25 AM
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Male pickmes...? As in...DICKMES! What a sorry outlook on life, if they need cheap thrills just to get by. Thanks for the insights!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:24 AM
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Way to go, sis. I've started cutting off male "friends" like this, but I'm just so annoyed at the whole process. Like I wish they'd just minded their own business. What pitiful lives, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:54 PM
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This just blows my mind. Is there nothing else fulfilling in their lives? These guys are talented, athletic and professionally accomplished. Why are they so desperate?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:52 PM
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I considered that too, but in that case I'd wish they'd just keep being the cowards they are. Don't waste our time with this kind of rubbish. I can't tell if they fear commitment or are only selfishly doing it for attention. Maybe both.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:52 PM
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"Sis trying to interpret scrote logic will hurt your head" Hahaha I love this! The thing is, there are scrotes who can effectively appear HVM for a time; how do you tell? Some future-faking and love-bombing done well enough can be convincing of significant interest. I don't know how to tell it apart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:51 PM
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THIS RIGHT HERE. Wtf is up with this shit? It's so immature and annoying. We're caught between a rock and a hard place, because if we don't give anyone a chance to demonstrate they're HVM or if we don't show a teensy bit of interest/reciprocity, then you lose an opportunity. But these repeated interactions honestly make me never want to give them an ounce of attention until they show HVM behavior; but then how will you know UNLESS you try etc. Your username is amazing, btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:49 PM
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I completely relate to this. I don't get these mentalities at all; why waste both your time and the time of the person your pursuing? If not serious about the object of your desire, why even bother pursuing them if you're both in mutual circles, knowing it could make things awkward? It's so stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:45 PM
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Thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:47 AM
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The five million emojis after each text make me think it's a LVM trying hard to sound like his deranged idea of what women sound like.... otherwise this is so pitiful it hurts my eyes to read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 07:52 AM
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Yikes, I almost feel sorry for her! Hope she comes across FDS someday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:25 AM
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Wow, this makes a ton of sense; thanks for helping to clarify. Now that you mention it, some of them (admittedly only 2) would neg me a ton for not drinking as hard as them, and I would get frustrated and reply that I wasn't policing their life, why were they policing mine? Very eye-opening to realize; helpful too, as I no longer regret losing these "friendships" as much as I once did. Thank you :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:24 AM
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The vast majority, agreed. Seems pretty self-centered!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:20 AM
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Ah, excellent point! Forbidden fruit. Aw thank you, haha! Right back at you ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:19 AM
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I'm starting to see this is true, although honestly I know many women who are mature enough to set feelings of attraction aside for the sake of a friendship/ coworker relatioship (ie if a guy is already taken). There really needs to be a culture shift, valuing women for the qualities they bring outside of their attractiveness. What about charisma / wit / loyalty / compassion?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:19 AM
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That's pretty unfortunate and paints them in a selfish, self-centered light; especially when we get so much crap about not being so choosy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:15 AM
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Agreed! Perhaps I was naive, but this was the shock to me. If I respect and value someone enough, I am willing to invest the effort to maintain a friendship even if they are attractive/ taken etc. It was so surprising to me that the opposite was not true, and made me really question how these types of men view women to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:13 AM
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Wow, that's a pretty great point... You captured it exactly, why I was so hurt. I valued their wit and their friendship, and was happy to create a space for them in my life even though I did not want a relationship; it seemed like to these particular men, my friendship was not worth sticking around, like some cheap consolation prize. Either we slept together or they had no interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 06:11 AM
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