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5

she's still getting rough sex from someone
/r/MGTOW30/07/21 11:54 PM
2

Great book.
/r/MGTOW29/07/21 02:18 PM
1

IT is sort of tough to get into I am finding. But within IT, there are sooooo many opportunities. I did a cyber security bootcamp last year, still in it. I wasn't sure what I wanted to do but now am looking at my Network+ and working towards a network admin role ​ tough because they want experience, so I might end up at a help desk for a year or two when this is all said and done.
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 03:09 PM
1

I was like you and got married, had a couple of kids. I use to think there is no way in Hell she would ever cheat on me, she is soo different than that type of woman. ​ lol
/r/MGTOW26/07/21 02:19 PM
1

what are you looking to do? I am making a career change too, from Insurance to IT, and I want to eventually land as a Network Admin, then go for network engineer after a number of years. Studying for Network+ currently. ​ Im finding it's difficult to get in the industry without taking a massively low paying IT help desk job to get experience, as it seems everyone wants experience, which sucks for those with none.
/r/MGTOW16/07/21 08:14 PM
2

noooo joke.
/r/MGTOW16/07/21 06:55 PM
1

RIGHT!?
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/21 01:46 PM
6

All I have seen is women bitching they have to go back to the office.
/r/MGTOW16/07/21 01:40 PM
1

non secure site.
/r/MGTOW09/07/21 06:09 PM
13

Consider yourself lucky she showed you who she was early enough. Kids complicate the issues and emotions, and devastation.
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 07:45 PM
1

noticed the monitor screen on the second watch.... fucking cunt.
/r/MGTOW07/07/21 02:09 PM
8

dude, this happened to me. so fucked. And while I was hurting, missing my dad, she told us that he wanted nothing to do with us, never paid CS, etc. etc.
/r/MGTOW02/07/21 06:27 PM
2

tested the kids after learning their mother cheated, luckily they are indeed mine.
/r/MGTOW25/06/21 01:53 PM
20

infidelity is bad no matter who commits it, but this is the reason that it is worse when a woman cheats. ​ You can never fool a woman about the genetics of her offspring.
/r/MGTOW24/06/21 08:34 PM
3

Behold, you average blue pilled guy. Unfortunate enough to see female nature play out several times in his life, to the point where it becomes pattern, still thinks NAWALT ​ I feel for him, and guys like him. I have spent a lot of time on that sub, because it's also how I found this sub, discovering my wife's infinitely. Difference is you couldn't pay me enough money to get married again.
/r/MGTOW22/06/21 01:49 PM
34

Invented by a man, surely.
/r/MGTOW18/06/21 05:46 PM
78

take em swimming on the first date.
/r/MGTOW18/06/21 03:59 PM
1

tbh, if my billionaire wife cheated on me I would blow the fuck out of her money too. Lots and lots of hookers.
/r/MGTOW16/06/21 08:34 PM
4

it is true. You don't decide the behavior of others. The only thing you can decide is what you will do about it if it does happen. ​ Or, just stay single. ​ You can decide which one is less stressful.
/r/MGTOW16/06/21 06:55 PM
5

If your boyfriend slaps you, you need to understand that you lacked something that made him slap you, so instead of leaving him for another man, apologize to him and be a Better woman.
/r/MGTOW12/06/21 02:40 PM
1

I've lost 43 pounds as of this morning (from Feb 20th 2021), I quit drinking, quit soda, quit fastfood. ​ I started smoking bud and eat fruit when I get the munchies.
/r/MGTOW09/06/21 01:50 PM
3

The Rickest Rick of them all
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 08:27 AM
3

See? The honest to God truth is not hard. Why the fuck were we lied to?
/r/MGTOW23/05/21 06:23 AM
1

I will look it up, sounds interesting.
/r/MGTOW22/05/21 11:59 PM
1

It's why I play Tarkov and Tarkov only.
/r/MGTOW21/05/21 01:42 PM
9

haha, reminded of that gif of grandpa simpson walking into then out of the brothel.
/r/MGTOW14/05/21 06:30 PM
8

buy crypto and don't get married.
/r/MGTOW07/05/21 08:27 PM
3

Should be a wakeup call to all those blue pilled simps, that she doesn't want you. But it won't be.
/r/MGTOW07/05/21 05:04 PM
12

my mom pulled that same shit with me, my dad was a POS, deadbeat, didn't care about my brother or me, never paid his child support etc etc etc. She was abusive and I moved to my dad's freshman year of hs, of course found out that she was a fucking liar. I haven't spoken to her in years
/r/MGTOW29/04/21 12:01 PM
3

Pretty much gonna sit or lay around for a couple days. Got mine done right before the first weekend of march madness. Just take it easy. ​ half of my vasectomy was fine, the other half didn't numb at all. It fucking hurt but didn't last long.
/r/MGTOW21/04/21 03:54 PM
1

I was the best man at by friend's wedding 3 years ago. I have seen him once since. His wife is a bitch. He doesn't get to see his friends and is only permitted to hand with the boyfriends and husbands of her friends.
/r/MGTOW21/04/21 01:52 PM
1

100% to both questions.
/r/MGTOW19/04/21 02:05 PM
1

Yeah, thought about it. if financials weren't an issue I would have already moved out.
/r/MGTOW18/04/21 05:12 PM
1

no, I found messages on her facebook one day
/r/MGTOW18/04/21 01:31 PM
1

will know between tomorrow and wednesday
/r/MGTOW18/04/21 01:30 PM
1

thank you
/r/MGTOW17/04/21 03:13 AM
1

After finding out, I told my dad I would not be taking over the family business, because for 1 insurance isn't really my thing and 2 it would be included in any divorce. He will be retiring in the next couple months, I will be jobless at that point lol. but even if I get back into insurance for a year or two it will be a pay cut.
/r/MGTOW17/04/21 03:07 AM
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sweet, then I will have to face what's coming sooner than later. Which means I will be free sooner than later. I'm really fucked either way
/r/MGTOW17/04/21 01:08 AM
12

yes
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 08:42 PM
2

so do both then?
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 08:22 PM
5

no fault divorce here, cheating doesn't matter. I will refrain anyways.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 07:47 PM
2

in MI lifetime alimony is the exception, pretty much only in cases of age, health or disability. Good advice on taking money out, I did get snipped several years ago.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 07:32 PM
18

yep, I confronted her. She knows I just performed the paternity test on the kids too.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 04:35 PM
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friend. I caught their messenger just before the affair started, saw the direction it was starting to go. We had a fight over it, she told me she would block him and never talk to him again. I trusted her because, well, again was pretty BP at the time and never checked back. They stopped talking for a bit, just to pick right back up. Went on for like 6 months, he moved to another state and is engaged with his now gf. I smile, he will get his karma soon enough.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 04:29 PM
9

dead bedroom. Dead bedroom for like 2 years. she stopped sleeping in bed for the living room chair. So I went snooping through her phone. Facebook messenger.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 04:25 PM
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I will for sure. I am not worried really, they are mini-me's, but I want certainty.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 04:19 PM
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yeah.... Mostly I do my own thing, play pc games, smoke weed, spend time with my kids. Plus working full time and going back to school for cyber security. I am no longer mad at her, I feel nothing for her. just the mother of my kids. Again, the worst part is wanting to go my own way but am unable to at this moment, that is super frustrating.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 03:26 PM
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wanna add, the paternity tests are in the mail and on their way to the lab as we speak.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 02:56 PM
2

Sorry for your loss brother.
/r/MGTOW15/04/21 02:31 PM
5

lmao
/r/MGTOW01/04/21 02:03 PM
2

cut my account off after they banned Trump.
/r/MGTOW16/03/21 01:41 PM
3

Happened to my buddy too, was the best man in his wedding, talked to him once since and that was like 3 years ago. His wife is a bitch and forced him to purge all the friends of his she didn't like out of his life.
/r/MGTOW25/02/21 08:19 PM
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If you would give the same ride to a random man, then what is the big deal to give that ride to a woman? ​ It's not blue pilled to just be a decent person, and expect nothing in return IMO. Opinions vary.
/r/MGTOW22/02/21 08:30 PM
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It's biological. It's a woman's nature to want the best genes available to them. Even when they have a great man, they are always on the look out for the better set of genes. Her nature isn't a logical function, it is their vastly outdated operating system, and honestly, most probably don't even know that their nature is running the show. ​ IOW, nothing is going to fix them, this is who they are. It's their very nature.
/r/MGTOW22/02/21 08:00 PM
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he was fucked up for years after the war, but is getting his life back on track. ​ I have tried for years to get him to see what she did to him, all he says is "she needed the money more than me" Sad.
/r/MGTOW01/02/21 11:47 PM
1

Tarkov is committed to never having a female playable character.
/r/MGTOW10/01/21 03:55 AM
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I look at it as holding the left to the standards they set, i.e. Believe All Women ​ Obviously she's lying.
/r/MGTOW23/12/20 09:31 PM
1

and cyberpunk is the only one being voted on by the consumer with their wallets. ​ devs can keep making female centric rolls, capitalism will eventually put them on the unemployment line, with a few notable exceptions like Lara Croft, etc. The narrative is being pushed from SJW game devs and game journalists, it's not what the consumers of games by large consume.
/r/MGTOW16/12/20 06:40 PM
2

pour yourself a whiskey and celebrate?
/r/MGTOW08/12/20 06:54 PM
2

my guess is at least 90% of those bedrooms are dead because their spouse is getting fucked on the side.
/r/MGTOW08/12/20 06:19 PM
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I'll let you know in a year. Changing from insurance to cyber security. so far, loving the classes and material
/r/MGTOW19/11/20 09:25 PM
2

don't immediately trust anything from Politico
/r/MGTOW11/11/20 07:17 PM
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k, well this is the case in the rest of the modern, Western world. Australia is upside down, so perhaps it was capitalist men that have enslaved the men of your nation.
/r/MGTOW03/11/20 09:34 PM
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you should add loyal to that list.
/r/MGTOW13/10/20 08:52 PM
1

I am 100% for equal rights and equal responsibilities. So we should expect equal parenting time as a result.
/r/MGTOW28/09/20 03:54 PM
1

My idiot brother got married after knowing his wife for like 1 month. None of our family even knew he was getting married until he posted the wedding photos on his facebook. ​ This was less than a year ago, I suspect she is already cheating on him. Fucked up thing is that when he runs out of his dead wife's life insurance (she passed 2 months before him meeting his new wife) she will bail on him.
/r/MGTOW16/09/20 03:20 PM
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and she's not the asshole for being willing to keep that information from her boyfriend.
/r/MGTOW02/09/20 07:12 PM
2

I have a similar view for similar reasons. My mom was toxic and abusive. I was lucky enough to move to my dad's house when I was in 9th grade. By EVERY objective measure, my dad was the better fit for custody, but because my mom was a female, albeit a crazy one, she got primary custody. ​ She use to tell my brother and I our dad was a bastard, that he hated us, never paid child support, that we were going to grow up to be just like him, etc. When I moved in w my dad, I found a box of child suppo…
/r/MensRights01/09/20 01:57 PM
3

Sons are expected to get a job and provide for their mothers and sisters if the father becomes disabled or dies. In many cases, this means prostitution.
/r/MGTOW28/08/20 07:56 PM
3

get yourself into PC gaming.
/r/MGTOW20/08/20 06:34 PM
2

Perhaps not. Not all women are like that, but ALL women have the ability. and in terms of parental and marital rights during a divorce, they ALL have the ability to fuck your world up.
/r/MGTOW17/08/20 05:47 PM
2

Yet it was feminism and the woman's lobby that made it this way and will throw a shit fit at any attempt to change it. but misogyny.
/r/MGTOW17/08/20 01:59 PM
2

I heard she recently returned a 20,000 dollar engagement ring because she wasn't ready to settle down.
/r/MGTOW07/08/20 05:03 PM
2

we have 2 together, she has one from previous relationship
/r/askMRP22/07/20 08:11 PM
2

she won't change, my wife is the same way. My stepdaughter is currently in a rehab facility because last week I found her after she swallowed 4 bottles of pills. Not sure if she has a mental illness, but I think it was a scream for some attention from her mom, since her dad is a POS and pretty much out of her life all together. The only reason I am in this marriage still is to make sure my kids don't end up fucked up, but end of the day they will be damaged because there mother was.
/r/askMRP22/07/20 05:58 PM
3

I'm guessing her mother was a shitty mother. Probably not a lot you can do if that's the case.
/r/askMRP22/07/20 04:05 PM
3

people blow off sex like it's no big deal, then find out that fucking someone besides your spouse, and having your spouse fuck someone besides you, sort of destroys a relationship, in your case, a marriage.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/20 07:22 PM
2

You will never be able to unsee it either.
/r/MGTOW20/03/20 02:21 PM
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Unfortunately married before discovering MGTOW, and all of this is 100% correct. I want to divorce, it's the only thing I want in this world, to leave and never marry again. It is hell. A living nightmare. DON'T GET MARRIED.
/r/MGTOW04/02/20 02:58 PM
3

both. called double betrayal for a reason.
/r/MGTOW31/01/20 09:02 PM
1

enthusiastically.
/r/MGTOW31/01/20 08:53 PM
1

go with the 600. My first sport bike was a 600, you will grow into it fast, and never need more. ​ Edit: Just remembered I sold it just after getting married :(
/r/MGTOW29/01/20 02:26 PM
1

Take them swimming on the first date.
/r/MGTOW29/01/20 02:24 PM
9

the Way of the Superior Man. Great book
/r/MGTOW27/01/20 08:01 PM
1

the true despair I feel is learning of MGTOW after getting married.
/r/MGTOW22/01/20 09:23 PM
1

She has been cheated on before. Her gut threw up a red flag over the home equity situation, not because of the money, but the principle of it. You two are married, both are financially interconnected, like it or not. You both are a team, where big decisions should be discussed. Then she she sees a local budget motel, I can totally see where that would set her off. I always say trust your gut, it is rarely ever wrong. In this case, her gut feeling IS wrong, so you might just wanna show the proof …
/r/askMRP17/01/20 06:26 PM
2

Better question, do you REALLY wanna live with such a deranged lunatic?
/r/askMRP06/01/20 04:52 PM
1

I commented on that thread yesterday. Told him to check his wife's phone for an affair. ​ Bet you anything
/r/MGTOW18/12/19 09:44 PM
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She probably is waiting you out, to see that you are serious and the changes you have made are lasting.
/r/askMRP05/12/19 04:01 PM
1

Sidebar. It is your new Bible. Go through it, then go through it again. Then one more time for good measure.
/r/askMRP20/11/19 02:06 PM
1

look for an affair. It's not about being up her ass, it's about protecting yourself. ​ Even if you think "I know her schedule, there is no time for her to be having an affair" you would be wrong.
/r/askMRP18/11/19 04:17 PM
1

Jordan Peterson, get your house in order. Clean your fucking room. ​ Seriously, everyone is different in terms of motivation, but listening to him on youtube for a few hours talking about how life is full of suffering, that we need to pick up our burden and carry it, to find a purpose worth living for to justify life's suffering and that everything you do MATTERS really lights a fire under my ass. There were times over the last 10 years that I was a hair's breath away from getting my handgun out…
/r/askMRP29/10/19 03:25 PM
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They love their ATTRACTION to you. ​ ​ THIS. And the second you slip and the attraction starts to falter, they will monkey branch to the new shinny object. Doesn't matter if it's a gf, or a wife of 10 years.
/r/MGTOW23/10/19 05:53 PM
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it's aLAN, not an orgy fest. it's the one geeky thing I still do is the charity LAN in MI every spring, 70% of those guys wouldn't know where to put it. there is no time for fucking, it's game, eat, sleep (maybe) in that order. Just tell her forget the hotel room and take a sleeping bag and pillow.
/r/askMRP18/10/19 04:44 PM
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Have you firmly established your boundaries yet? If not, why would you expect her behavior to be any different than it's ever been? Sounds like you have a lot of sidebar reading to do. ​ ETA: me personally, I have a zero tolerance policy with cheating in a marriage and wouldn't fault your for hitting the eject button. However, You might want to give it 10 months to a year and do the work here, start reading, start taking control of the relationship, start lifting and witness how things change. T…
/r/askMRP13/10/19 09:43 PM
2

certainly your first part of that previous post is correct, but I already know that.
/r/askMRP12/10/19 06:57 PM
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yeah, that was me ya dumb faggot. ​ and you should read it rather than making assumptions about my post. Summed up, here "What I didn't know before that I understand now is AWALT, and I understand why she did what she did. It was because I had let myself go and became a beta loser and fat and worthless. I started this journey with the goal of bettering myself so that my wife would find me attractive again, but now it's to put me in a better position to walk out the door for good when the time is…
/r/askMRP12/10/19 05:26 PM
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no apology from me. You can keep denying it, but you kept your yapper shut about this topic apparently for 2 years, and post this rant THE DAY AFTER my post. Like I said, you got triggered, I'm not fucking apologizing to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 05:28 PM
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take the last word, fix those pussy cramps. bye.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 04:42 PM
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even though you could learn from it if you were capable of learning. again, go fuck yourself. If it was incapable of learning I wouldn't be here. And I wouldn't be here on you post if you weren't such a vagina and had to complain about people asking basic questions.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 04:32 PM
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nah, like YOU got triggered. take a deep breath, it's gonna be ok WTF do you expect from guys that are trying to own their shit for the first time? To come here and ask questions. If those questions bother you, then shove it up your ass, find some other way to deal with it than crying like a bitch.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 04:10 PM
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nah, I don't think everything is about me. But apparently it WAS my post you saw that set you on this rant of YEARS of apparent built up frustration, which is why I asked if you read what I wrote or just misinterpreted it, and it's a fair question. Bottom line, no I am not mad at my wife, but that doesn't mean I deserve to live the rest of my life with broken trust, even if I am getting from her what I want. I can get that anywhere.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 03:44 PM
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Ah, see aggressive fits you better than being a pussy passive aggressive. At least I can respect it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 03:24 PM
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Then you didn't read my post. I just found it odd as you basically described my post, title, some of the substance and there is no other "In a DB, found my wife cheated" post in the first few pages. difference is I know why she cheated, and I am mad at myself. Most likely will be divorcing but my only focus is on me right now. So if you were somehow bothered by seeing another one of those posts perhaps you should have read what I had to say before ranting about it.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 03:00 PM
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if this was re my post over in askmrp or with my post in mind, then you fundamentally misunderstood what I was saying in my post. which is unfortunate
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/19 01:44 PM
1

Will do, thanks for the advice.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 11:49 PM
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was an idiot. Of course I WAS an idiot, I thought she was the one, that she married for love lmao I'm not in a terrible position, I'm going to fight for joint custody. I paid off her car, she can have it. she prob can't afford to keep the house so will sell it and sure have to split the profit, prob 5k each. we still owe on it she is about to make more than me so no alimony. honestly the only think I want is my computer. I couldn't care any less about the rest of it.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 11:47 PM
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I'm sure she did. that's why I stated that I didn't believe her. Even if she didn't it doesn't change for me.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 03:55 PM
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There are more wrinkles than I put in my OP. The only reason I am not meeting with a lawyer right now is I can't afford to. divorce would bankrupt me, mostly because she is irresponsible with money, we have no savings. I need to start stashing money away and paying debt off first. I can't cut my nose off to spite my face. Especially being my career depends on maintaining an impeccable credit score, and the next year and a half is especially important for that.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 01:47 PM
1

I ran the numbers, I can't afford a divorce at this moment. fear of bankruptcy? maybe. fear of being alone? fuck no.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 01:41 PM
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she had her affair because my SMV went through the floor. I got lazy. I didn't create attraction. I didn't keep myself in shape. I let her control the relationship. all things that I will never do again to myself. that's my reading of it anyways, perhaps I'm wrong and that will never be the issue with her or any other relationship I have again. that's what I mean by not putting myself in the position ever again.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 10:11 PM
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nah, like my smoker comment in my original post, I refuse to live a single day of my life settling for less than what I deserve from myself. That much I am positive. I'll keep an open mind over the next 6 months and re-evaluate things then.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 05:44 PM
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We are on day 4 or 4 here, so yea. It is the same nagging feeling, I am never going to be able to trust this woman again. It's what I presumed I was going to do, enjoy it while it's here and continue the work on myself, then fuck off. Trade he in for a smaller, tighter, younger better looking model.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 05:32 PM
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That is on my list to dos.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 05:18 PM
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she says emotional, that it never got physical. She has been lying to me everyday for 5 years but needs me to believe her now, which I don't. Other dude fucked off to Tennessee several years ago, looks like she cut contact with him about 4 almost 5 years ago. Nothing else in her phone indicated to me that she had anything else with anyone else. She doesn't even have a lock on her phone, and didn't bother to delete that message chain so it was just sitting there.
/r/askMRP08/10/19 05:13 PM
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Not in overtly explicit terms. Like he would messenger her at work telling her he wants to pin her up against the wall. She hinted at wanted be sexual with him in her car ( that I paid for no less ) using emojies rather than words. I don't know what they talked about on the phone, only what was sent via messenger. Once she was out with her coworkers she claimed she had a hall pass, and other times tried to get him to meet up with her while out w/ her coworkers, but from what I could deduce, he n…
/r/askMRP08/10/19 05:04 PM
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that I need to STFU and hit the gym
/r/askMRP08/10/19 04:55 PM
1

son is 6, daughter is 9
/r/askMRP08/10/19 04:54 PM
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I’m sure others here will be much more succinct than me nah, it's right on the money
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 01:29 PM
1

agree. I give my children the choice as the one and final warning. When my son starts screaming, "You can sit quietly draw your picture or you can sit in timeout, which one?" I have been resorting to timeout less and less, as my son is opting for behaving rather than being a total uncontrollable monster he was just a month ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 01:25 AM
1

I was throughout. I checked her pics, texts, phone calls, checked all of her apps, all of her messages on facebook the only thing out of line was this shit from 5 years ago.
/r/MGTOW05/10/19 12:26 PM
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yeah, but like NOONE warned me. especially disappointed in my dad over this because he's been married 4 times. I could have used a good punch to the head to wake me the fuck up, but marriage is what I wanted at the time, so I don't know
/r/MGTOW05/10/19 12:23 PM
1

knowing her, oh yeah for sure
/r/MGTOW05/10/19 12:16 PM
3

what saved me was finding this place and learning female nature before finding out, sort of softened the blow but that red pill was a massive suppository
/r/MGTOW05/10/19 02:23 AM
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my dad did this for me, well sort of. Growing up my mom told me he had never paid child support. she brainwashed me not to have a relationship with him. then i hit the rebellious age and butted heads with her. she couldn't get rid of me quick enough. A few years after I moved into my dad's house I found a plastic waterproof bin in his basement, a recording of EVERY SINGLE child support payment. and two other boxed of his YEARS fighting for custody. needless to say I talk to my dad everyday, have…
/r/MGTOW05/10/19 02:17 AM
3

I didn't say they weren't biologically mime, but I'm ordering a test on them to find out I don't know much about child support, but 50/50 both making the same, wtf would either have to pay? costs are split 50/50
/r/MGTOW04/10/19 10:06 PM
3

right?!
/r/MGTOW04/10/19 08:07 PM
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We both make equal amt of money, I am going to fight for 50/50 custody. And let her fight me on it, I have texts from her last night talking about how suicidal she has been and how she is a shit mom and is lazy and cant care for her kids the way they need to be cared for.
/r/MGTOW04/10/19 08:07 PM
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it's a year and 4 months down the road, I have no time for bankruptcy. I didn't find this community in time.
/r/MGTOW17/09/19 11:48 PM
2

Thanks. Reading it now. I didn't want to hear it but I needed to.
/r/MGTOW17/09/19 08:59 PM
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I would if it wouldn't put the final nail in the coffin of my future, potentially my kid's future. I do that I can not take over the family business, my dad would 100% sell it out from under me. He is looking to retire around Jan 2021. It is why I am feeling the weight this pressure is crushing me. I can't not do something, I also don't think I can do anything.
/r/MGTOW17/09/19 08:20 PM
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thanks, that is sort of the tact I have started to take. I sat down and did the math of who would be best to keep the house payment, earlier today put in a call to schedule a therapy and doctors appointment, I have lost 17 pounds in the last two weeks, planning on hitting the gym. I think I will continue to get my finances in order then it's splitsville.
/r/MGTOW17/09/19 08:14 PM
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I don't see alimony being a thing as we both work, and we both make equal amount of money. That will change if I take over the family business as I plan on doing, but I might not be able to because she is driving me to bankruptcy. but say I do, I could see her going in and changing the order to include alimony when I make more than she does. My kids are like carbon fucking copies of me lol, but yeah, I plan on doing a DNA test. I already looked into it, just cant afford to right now.
/r/MGTOW17/09/19 08:06 PM
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it's not just child support, I have a car loan in my name, I have credit card bills she racked up in my name, rent, basic utilities, food, car payment, bills, gas etc I don't make enough, assuming there is not child support.
/r/MGTOW17/09/19 07:55 PM
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we both work 9-5
/r/MGTOW17/09/19 07:53 PM
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Being married for 10 years. Taking the redpill has been a curse, my wife and I are still married only because I don't have the money to divorce her. I'm trapped. Honestly stuck between putting up with this another 9 years as to not have to pay child support, but everyday that passes I feel like I'm drowning. ​ If my credit didn't matter with my career, I would be gone in a second. At the same time, she blows through money in our account before the weekend is done, leaving me with nothing to pay …
/r/MGTOW17/09/19 07:25 PM
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I am in the same position. I want to divorce her but I can't afford to AT THIS MOMENT ​ And the problem with that is she blows through our money the second we get it that I can not catch up on our bills to the point where I can stash money aside, and pay off debt. ​ I will never get married again.
/r/MGTOW17/09/19 03:50 PM
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Fun thing about ex's is since you have been constantly improving yourself, they recognize that you are better than you use to be.
/r/seduction09/09/19 05:17 PM
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I don't neg anymore, unless it's subtle.
/r/seduction09/09/19 04:51 PM
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