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NOTHING BUT FACTSPicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 02:13 AM
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QUEEN SH*TPicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:16 PM
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NOTHING BUT FACTSPicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:22 PM
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STAY WOKEPicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:44 PM
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PicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 01:37 AM
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PicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 10:54 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEPicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:24 PM
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NAH, SISPicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:34 PM
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NAH, SISPicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:43 PM
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PicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:23 AM
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NAH, SISPicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 03:25 PM
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QUEEN SH*TPicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:58 PM
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#JustLVMThingsPicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:25 PM
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QUEEN SH*TPicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 07:42 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEPicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:27 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEPicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 12:38 AM
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PicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 04:01 PM
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PicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:31 PM
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DATING THEORYPicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 03:05 PM
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PicklesNBacon/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 10:21 PM
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2

Umm I think she may need a new therapist because clearly her husband is the one with issues...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:11 PM
6

It’s spelled Reese’s so not the legit company
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:01 AM
7

Nope, nope, nope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:03 PM
32

Oh hellllll no. I would never invest my money in someone else’s house if I wasn’t on the mortgage. Nope nope nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 12:16 AM
7

What a weird fetish. I’ve never heard of a fetish like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:15 PM
11

God, I’m NOT looking forward to going back to the dating scene
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:40 AM
13

He lost track of how much he drank, not of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:15 AM
4

It also doesn’t end at 30. I see people posting as if as soon as they turn 30, their lives are over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:48 PM
78

Second this. A cycler in my area was harassing some kids for posting BLM posters last summer. The kids filed a police report and the news got wind of the situation. With the help of social media, the guy was identified and charged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:53 AM
18

Her Netflix special was really good if you haven’t seen it yet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 09:23 PM
34

Love Brene Brown!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 08:50 PM
45

They take literally zero time. I’ve been on so many dates where it looked like the dude had just rolled out of bed. One even had holes and stains on his shirt. They don’t GAF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 04:57 PM
127

I would have charged him for the hours it took me to get ready and for the wasted time...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 12:46 PM
5

WhAT sHoUlD i Do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 01:25 AM
1

If he’s not on the lease, she has zero obligation to even let him stay that long...but she sounds like she’s a good person. He’s clearly oblivious to how his actions/non-actions are why his girlfriend broke up with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:30 PM
18

Omg I read that and read through the comments. I’m glad she ditched his ass...but 3 months rent free is TOO long to let him stay there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:09 PM
9

I wasn’t crossposting...that’s not even how you crosspost I was insinuating that’s where the pic belongs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:44 AM
13

r/cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:27 AM
3

Yup!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:36 PM
26

Sounds like he needs the title of “ex-husband”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 09:01 PM
3

Omg gross! ETA finding someone better than him will not be hard to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:41 PM
2

Yuuuummm!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:08 PM
14

Steak with blue cheese sauce? 🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:31 AM
3

Yep...that’s the mentality!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:14 PM
20

He “gave her time to recover”...oh but it was more time than the first kid... Fuuuuuuccckkk hiiiiiiiiimm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:04 PM
1

How long did you put up with the bad sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:08 AM
6

Why are dudes so shady about answering whether or not they have kids? It’s a simple Yes or No question
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:31 AM
188

I went on so many dates where the dudes didn’t put any effort into how they looked. One had paint splattered on his shirt, another had stains all over, another had holes in his shirts...they just don’t give AF. It was so frustrating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 12:57 AM
30

“Now I have to [insert some bullshit activity here] is usually code for “Something better came along, but I will keep you on the back burner in case it doesn’t work with this other person”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:54 AM
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Or “He cheated on me but I know he still loves me. He’s not normally like this. WhAt ShOuLd I dO?!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 09:09 PM
2

I agree - when I saw that I was like “pre-teens/teens shouldn’t even be focused on dating!” Also, what teenage boy is even a HVM yet?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:43 AM
9

Amen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:22 AM
46

Very sweet. However, where are their coats?! And why is she wearing heels in the snow?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:44 AM
2

They resemble each other, yes, but as soon as I saw the pic on the right I knew it was Helen Mirren instantly without even ever knowing what Keanu’s girlfriend looks like. Regardless, they both look great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:47 PM
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Ok...girlfriend. Still doesn’t make the pic on the right his girlfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:47 AM
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That’s Helen Mirren on the right, not his wife. Two completely different people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 06:47 PM
3

You can usually find out a full name just by having a first name and phone number
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 12:18 PM
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So really he wanted her to pick a day to go to her place. Ugh so annoying Edit: WTF! I didn’t see the other pics! That’s why you ALWAYS google dudes you’re talking to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:58 AM
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Girl, you know there aren’t any other girls he’s dating. He just wanted to see if you would step up and take the bait. Boy Bye 👋🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 04:39 PM
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It’s no way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:59 PM
9

Yeah it’s like the perfect relationship for a dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:35 PM
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I agree - I’d get rid of both of them (that probably sounded worse)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:13 PM
23

He’s probably been in an open-relationship for their entire marriage...he just never got around to tell her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:13 PM
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Right? I mean let’s be real - open relationships are for dudes who want to bang other women and not have to feel like they are cheating on you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:11 PM
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NEVER. I would never decide to be in an open-relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:10 PM
13

It became an ‘entanglement’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:07 PM
25

They started as an open-relationship and now he wants one again and she’s pregnant. What a mess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:17 PM
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Yeah totally. Women should NEVER accept a FWB/Open-Relationship situation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:07 PM
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Yeah I was gonna say I think that story is fake. A lot of the stories on r/relationshipadvice are fake as hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:49 PM
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WTF is wrong with these women?! Why do they stay with these broke ass dudes?! I read another post about how some girls boyfriend wanted money that she got from an accident..and he told his family and they were hitting up his girlfriend for money, too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:28 AM
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And she wants to marry this dude?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:45 PM
1

Yeah but sounds like she wants to level down her own success...which is INSANE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:57 AM
2

One of my biggest pet peeves is when people have this “woe is me” attitude but don’t do shit to try to better themselves/their situations
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:38 PM
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Yeah but even if it shrinks your dating pool, at least you aren’t settling!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:48 PM
3

Yeah she definitely needs to seek counseling...especially based on her other posts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 07:22 PM
3

Right?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 05:10 PM
4

Uhhh yeah that’s sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:38 PM
6

FOR REAL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:42 PM
8

Doesn’t it make you want to reach through your phone/laptop/iPad and slap some sense into her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:11 PM
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Yep exactly! I think if you are even toying with the idea of lowering your success for a dude, you have to have severe self esteem issues and should seek out counseling; not a boyfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:10 PM
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Living a simple life to the dudes she’s dating means mooching off of her. There is nothing wrong with living a simple life. There is something wrong with a woman debating on lowering her success to feel like she is more on the level of a 36 year old dude who has zero interest in getting a job
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:07 PM
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The hypocrisy is real with these people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:58 PM
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Right?! A) Why is she dating unemployed 36 year olds and B) Why the F would she want to shrink her success because of it?!?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:58 PM
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Oooh I like that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:22 PM
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The dudes she’s dating don’t even have a job and show no interest in getting one 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:21 PM
21

He truly is narcissistic as fuck. I think he was diagnosed as a narcissist way before he was diagnosed as Bipolar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:23 PM
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She let a LVM record them having sex. If someone posted in a sub that their boyfriend recorded them having sex and leaked it, they’d be all over that woman for having such a LVM. So clearly, she has a pattern of dating/marrying LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:39 PM
3

She should now choose her life over her husband and MIL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:28 PM
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It’s crazy that people are defending KK. Let’s not forget what she got famous from...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 08:12 PM
21

I cannot even count how many posts I see in relationship subs with women that are sad/depressed/utterly confused because their FWB ghosted them or told them they didn’t want a relationship. It’s infuriating to read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:47 PM
4

Well the sad thing is a lot of women have babies with men because they think having a baby will make their [already shitty] relationship better, when, in fact, they can ruin the relationship completely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:26 PM
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Yes OMG! So many SAHMs that end up divorced are left blindsided because they don’t know how to take care of finances, haven’t had jobs so they aren’t skilled up, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 02:58 PM
7

Yeeaaaah I’ve had to explain this to so many Pickmeisha’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 08:29 PM
3

Omg it’s so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:04 PM
7

Please don’t reply to him. Replying to him gives him the power. Delete, block, and move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 01:19 AM
19

“I don’t get why you’re so stuck up and bitchy” “Bitches like you” “I cheated on my girlfriend” ....Yet calls himself a nice guy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:06 PM
12

Ugh I had that happen a while back. Dumb me gave the guy a second chance after and guess what happened again?! Ladies, when they show you who they are the first time, BELIVE THEM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:34 PM
47

Why does she have to ASK him to do basic chores?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 11:52 AM
29

He was so disgusting. In the doc, he kept saying “I am going to use my 5th amendment right” every time a prosecutor asked if he paid for underage prostitutes (in numerous locations) and if he had sex with underage prostitutes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:06 AM
3

For real 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 01:32 PM
6

His grammar and lack of punctuation/capitalized letters alone would make me left swipe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 12:54 AM
12

I’ve seen so many memes about short men being low value...tall men will also treat you like shit. It’s no different than saying women with small boobs are low value. It’s a double standard and I normally agree with almost everything on FDS. ETA women would tear a dude apart if he said he wouldn’t date women with less than a [insert cup-size here]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:16 PM
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Right - having a guy that is at least a little bit taller than you makes sense, but a lot of women who want to date guys 5’11 or above are like 5’1...i’m 5’1 and will date 5’5 or above...more for me I guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 02:51 PM
3

Oh totally
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 01:09 PM
5

Giraffe looking dickheads 🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 03:42 AM
8

I’m 5’1. Anything over 5’5 is fine for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:26 PM
19

Did you watch Married at First Sight two seasons ago? Amber did because Matt was 6’9
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:54 PM
18

Sadly, sometimes it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 03:53 PM
3

They are delusional because they are LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 12:42 AM
4

WTF?! Why are there even allowed to be child porn/child incest subs?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:49 AM
5

Yaaaaasss 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 09:55 PM
25

Yes! 1000%!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:38 PM
6

That’s deep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:53 PM
9

I’d love to see his response!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:16 AM
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Guys that don’t want to use condoms because they “hate condoms” are fucking gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:12 AM
6

And the fact that he’s hitting you up at 2am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:37 PM
9

Block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 03:11 PM
11

Well, now she cant even pay her rent...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:16 PM
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But they aren’t even dating and she said he “was” interested in her. It’s sweet but also a little weird when he probably hasn’t even met her kids yet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:25 PM
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Yeah I agree. They aren’t even dating and he supposedly took a course on how to parent one of her children. If it is real, it’s a little creepy. It’d be a different story if they were actually dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 11:59 AM
20

Your anus never sleeps, apparently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:07 PM
13

Omg same! And I wake myself up from it and hope they didn’t hear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:06 PM
29

Hahahahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:06 PM
5

He shouldn’t have to go [to his wife giving birth] if he doesn’t want to?! WTF?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 04:42 PM
4

11.5 years until you get married?! NOPE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:30 PM
7

Crrriiiiinnngggeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:22 AM
36

I see “I’ve asked him to stop” or “he said he would change but didnt” soooo many times. It should be one and done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:44 AM
42

Someone did a terrible job of trying to cover up the other girls name... With that said...Da Fuq?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:27 PM
8

He’s totally cheating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 08:14 PM
49

His hairstyle is older than the women he’s trying to date...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:57 PM
9

Good for her!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:16 AM
2

TRUTH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:15 AM
14

Yup! Also, are they asking you questions or just saying “What about you?” I hated that when I was dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:23 PM
33

I feel like I hear this narration in about 90% of the posts I read on r/dating and r/relationshipadvice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 02:31 PM
16

I hope the conversation ended there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:38 PM
10

WhAt ShOuLd I dO?! This type of shit infuriates me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:26 AM
42

This entire video is so cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 03:14 AM
6

Good for you! I’m in a very similar situation and it’s SO refreshing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:08 AM
5

WTF?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:52 PM
23

The f’ed up thing is that so many people DO think orientation (being gay specifically) is a choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:08 PM
1

That’s just the simple stuff he does for me. He does WAY more. And thanks, he is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 02:13 PM
5

The guy I’m dating put a toothbrush out for me the first night I spent the night, which was probably a month ago. Its been two months and it’s still there. And every time he knows I’m going to stay the night, he puts out a towel and puff for me before I even get to his place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:36 AM
5

Yaaaaaaas girl! Treat yo’self!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:32 AM
187

Well at least he used the correct emoji at the bottom to describe himself...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 01:53 AM
18

I love that! I’m going to adopt doing something nice for someone else everyday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 01:06 AM
2

Right - but I’m saying he probably never even talked to his wife about it and just tells people they are in an open marriage when she prob has no idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:55 PM
7

Yup, agreed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:21 AM
30

I read that...OMG. You know damn well that camera was turned on and recording. I would have dumped his ass so fast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:12 AM
35

What a fucking asshole. You know he’s lying about asking for an open marriage (he’s just choosing to have an open marriage without her knowing) and that they got married for the pregnancy. His wife probably thinks he’s the perfect husband 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:02 AM
5

How do you know he’s married/cheating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 11:57 PM
91

I googled a guy I had just started talking to a few years ago. Turns out he was a registered sex offender 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 03:46 AM
6

Da Fuq?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:03 AM
5

Ugh she should have ditched him the first time he went off hooking up with other girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 12:51 AM
7

I agree with you. It seems fake...if it’s not fake, she recorded all of this way after it happened. Wouldn’t you wonder where your live-in boyfriend is? Wouldn’t you have to take off work? Wouldn’t you need to know how much to pack, etc?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 01:39 AM
14

Oh...it’ll happen (unfortunately) haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:52 PM
41

That has happened to me soooooo many times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:49 PM
5

That’s fucking disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 02:04 AM
6

Grrrooooosss. With such a big age gap, what could they POSSIBLY have in common?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 01:58 AM
14

Fuuuuuck that. I’d shut down the husband
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 07:25 PM
2

The fact that he spelled “Safety” incorrectly, and that’s his job, would have been an auto left swipe for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:49 PM
4

Fuck that. I hope she doesn’t let him see the baby when its born. He doesn’t deserve to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 09:49 PM
11

I read that. He and his friends are disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:19 PM
4

I don’t know - call me old fashioned, but I want a real diamond. It doesn’t have to be huge, but I’d want the real thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 08:29 PM
33

Guys who think it’s OK to have casual sex and not wear a condom are fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 07:38 PM
17

I can’t tell you how many girls have fallen in the “I thought he would change” trap. It’s sad...especially when the women think the men will change because they are having a baby together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:14 PM
25

Yep! I’ve seen so many women get broken up with because they men said “I don’t want a relationship/to get married/kids” then lo and behold they are married with kids within a couple of years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:55 PM
18

I tHoUgHt He WoUlD cHaNgE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 04:54 PM
27

He can’t even draw a heart...that’s a red flag 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 02:37 PM
15

I bet he was dressed super inappropriately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 03:50 PM
11

Girl, same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:53 PM
7

WhAt ShOuLd I dO?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 03:04 PM
4

Yay!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:41 PM
14

What?? It’s back already??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 04:14 PM
7

Well considering we can’t exactly go to a restaurant right now...I’ll take it 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 06:55 PM
3

Eww why did they even bother staying if they broke up with you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:52 PM
5

Oh god that was a dysfunctional AF relationship...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 04:41 PM
11

Yep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:15 PM
14

No it’ll cancel it out 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:14 PM
51

I started seeing a guy before quarantine...I’ve never once cooked for him. He’s made me dinner (and did the shopping) 4 times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 12:12 AM
10

One time I got 2 exact copy/pasted messages from a guy within a few minutes of each other. The first one said “Hey [insert my name here] with some bullshit text and the second message said “Hey Jessica” with the same exact bullshit texts Guys are lazy AF and don’t even pay attention to who they are messaging
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:30 PM
6

No wonder he’s single...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:04 PM
44

Imagine if he pulled that shit right before an actual date. Actually, he probably has and that’s probably why he still single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 03:09 PM
7

Yes, yes it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:39 AM
3

Eww Psycho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:39 AM
3

For real! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:06 PM
7

“Planning on getting married” does not a fiancé make... Until you have a ring and a commitment, you are not “planning to get married”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 09:23 PM
16

Eww why would anyone attack someone who shared their stories of being raped/strangled??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:25 PM
4

Gross...she needs to tell his mom what a creeper he is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:18 PM
28

And folks, that’s what you call karma
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:19 PM
17

She’s beautiful...but her vagina isn’t...what an asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 04:10 AM
33

ShOuLd I bReAk Up WiTh HiM?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 03:43 AM
16

It goes ESPECIALLY during quarantine too. So many people are probably tempted to reach out to their LV exes right now because they are lonely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:36 PM
4

Not to mention that separated dudes (and women) are probably not in the right mind frame to date. If I see ‘separated’ on OLD, ⬅️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 11:50 AM
11

Helllll no I don’t either. I was talking to this guy for a day only to find out HIS EX STILL LIVES WITH HIM. Fffuuuuuuccccckkkk that. I asked him why she didn’t move out and he was like “I feel Bad. I make more money than she does, blah blah blah” Guarantee they weren’t even broken up. What sane woman would date a guy who wasn’t fully divorced?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 01:38 AM
18

I look that shit up so fast. I could show you the house he grew up in within about 10 mins 🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 01:35 AM
8

I, for one wouldn’t do a LDR to begin with because it complicates an already complicated situation. There have probably been more red flags along the way than what is happening now and I’m SURE there were signs that he’s married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 12:57 AM
36

The fact that he didn’t move closer once she got pregnant like he said he was going to do is a red flag in itself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 12:06 AM
2

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:25 PM
7

He’s clearly still banging the ex. Or maybe she’s not really an ex. Years ago I was dating this guy for 6 months and he would still talk to his ex. Come to find out, he and his “ex” had never broken up. I should have known they were still together when he would always go outside to talk to her on the phone... but I was young and turned a blind eye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:17 AM
20

Doesn’t want to hurt his ex but is OK hurting his current girlfriend...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:11 AM
6

If they lie about their age, they will lie about anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 01:42 PM
24

Gotta love Judge Judy tellin it like it is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:19 PM
48

He’s just using her as a body with ‘holes’ to shove his peen in. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:57 PM
17

Omg 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:56 PM
5

Either way...fuck that guy (...not literally...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 10:31 PM
4

WTF is a redneck smile? Missing teeth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 10:22 PM
40

What kind of manipulation tactic is that?! I wonder how many girls actually fall for that bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 02:42 PM
4

There was just a girl in a relationship advice group that said she physically walked in on her boyfriend cheating on her and now she DoEsNt KnOw WhAt To Do. WTF do you think you should do?! LEAVE HIS ASS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 01:27 PM
7

I left the dating advice sub. It was full of 16-20 year olds saying they are never going to find someone and they are giving up on dating and will probably die alone. Also has all these idiots asking for advice when they are clearly being used for sex or the other person is blatantly not interested
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 02:14 AM
50

The only reason I could think of is that he wanted to appear single...or he didn’t want you seeing stuff on his wall/profile. That’s shady AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 07:09 PM
37

Classic Pickmeisha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 09:07 PM
2

Scroll down - someone posted the actual post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 11:48 AM
35

Where do you see his username Nevermind, found it. What a douche canoe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:31 AM
77

When you’re probably only doing it to keep a dude/so that he can say it’s not technically cheating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:34 PM
8

The dude and his friend that’s on standby need to get together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 05:41 PM
7

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 05:33 PM
45

She already has found excuse after excuse. It’s sad. She knows he’s probably cheating on her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 03:31 PM
19

And they expect their parents to step up and help them. I read one last week that said “It’s not like we absolutely cannot take care of a child right now” and I responded “Well CAN you absolutely take care of a child right now? In 1 year? 5? 18??” Stop being dumb, people!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:53 PM
24

They weren’t even engaged if it was her boyfriend. Why are so women so dense? HAVING A BABY DOES NOT SECURE A RELATIONSHIP!! It can do the complete opposite! Off and on for 10 years...what a gigantic waste of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:34 PM
4

Omg I couldn’t believe what I read yesterday. She needs to cut BOTH cancers out of her life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 04:22 PM
5

Da fuq?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:07 AM
15

I read the original post. So crazy and scary!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:55 PM
6

You also have both for protection and probably will never need either 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:07 PM
50

These strangers don’t give a fuck about you, period. That’s why women should stop sleeping with guys/strangers so soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:31 PM
2

Ha! True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:01 PM
8

That’s all we ask!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:41 PM
3

Lies Has kids Doesn’t have a [college] degree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:56 AM
8

Why TF would someone get permanent tattoos to appease someone else?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:12 PM
2

I wish more people would understand this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:51 AM
6

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:04 PM
2

So true! This pertains to so many things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:27 PM
7

That is fucking disgusting...And a major health risk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:14 PM
17

The entire thing, I hope
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:08 PM
1

I doubt she will. It seems like he’s been shitty to her multiple times before (and he’s admitted it)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:49 PM
5

But you learned!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:54 AM
112

*CRACKLIN....get it? 🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:09 AM
11

Yep, 1000%. It’s cyclical unless YOU break the cycle. I’ve seen it soooo many times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:04 AM
34

I also know another couple that the wife put her husband through law school then he dipped. It’s really fucked up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:00 AM
76

I had a friend that inherited some money. She ended up paying her (then) husbands student loan debt off (about $30K) He left her for his mistress (that he had apparently had for about a year) shortly after she paid it off...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:25 AM
1

Cockholm Syndrome 😂🤣😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:45 AM
2

Amen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 10:39 PM
1

It’s the thought that counts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 08:59 PM
2

At least you learned your lesson!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 08:42 PM
6

No one is alienating them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:32 PM
13

He even acknowledges that he’s a shitty boyfriend. Apparently he has acknowledged that multiple times in the past (after doing shitty things to her) if you read the original post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:03 PM
5

He’s not too broke to eat - he’s going out to eat with his friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:01 PM
31

Yeah as if he doesn’t know how he is making her feel..of course he does! And he doesn’t give a shit because she LETS him treat her that way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:55 PM
16

She 1000% needs it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:54 PM
53

For mf’ing real!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 03:54 PM
15

Here’s the post https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/f2es8f/boyfriend_tells_me_he_has_no_money_to_do_anything/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:35 PM
11

So is the Zuppa Tuscana 🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 03:47 AM
57

I google the F out of every guy I go on a date with. However, I will say, some of the sites are not accurate. I googled myself and a few of those sites said that I am most likely married to my dad 🤦🏻‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:26 PM
3

Fuck that...and fuck him for pressuring her into doing something she didn’t want to do!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:21 PM
3

I’ve met guys in their mid-30s who still live at home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 10:49 PM
15

A guy that has a good head on his shoulders? Is going places (college, trade school, etc.) I think at that age, teenagers don’t even have enough shit to have their shit together...if that makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 03:07 AM
12

Umm...good grades?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 03:04 AM
22

Shit gets everrrrrywhere 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:50 AM
32

In other words: They have probably never even met in person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 03:17 AM
1

That’s amazing!! You should be so proud of yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 11:06 PM
11

Or goes to sleep next to most (every) night
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 06:16 PM
10

Exactly - they don’t realize that. If he’s doing that shit to his wife, he will do that to you. They also don’t put themselves in the wives shoes. I was just reading through the otherwoman group and some woman was bragging that her married boyfriend was going to spend time with her on his birthday instead of his wife. Yeah...that’s something to be proud of 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 06:16 PM
6

A ring is the first thing I look for if I see an attractive guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 06:13 PM
24

There are so many people in the dating subreddits asking advice about how to seduce married men. Some people have no self respect and it’s sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:23 PM
3

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 09:10 PM
6

Oh definitely not responding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 12:05 PM
10

Well I’m glad it was sooner and I didn’t waste my time! What a creeper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 08:19 AM
16

My thing is it would have been a first date...so he’s insinuating that we would end up back at one of our places afterwards before we even meet. That’s creepy to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 08:17 AM
10

He didn’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 08:16 AM
49

Doesn’t matter what he’s planning...I sure as hell aint going 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 08:15 AM
20

He never did
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 08:14 AM
28

He wasn’t...I think there’s something mentally wrong with him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:52 AM
46

Right? I’m appalled...and offended that he thinks I would sleep with him on a first date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:08 AM
38

Right... especially since we haven’t even met yet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:06 AM
42

When I got the text, so did I!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:53 AM
28

Crazy, right?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:30 AM
45

We haven’t even been on a date yet! And won’t be now!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:30 AM
121

We hadnt even met yet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 02:26 AM
12

And your husband was like this before you married him... WHY THE F WOULD SOMEONE MARRY SOMEONE LIKE THAT?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 10:30 PM
17

I would have left swiped a dude with a gym selfie to begin with...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 09:52 PM
12

Eww fuck him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 05:44 AM
2

How can you not like Chik-Fil-A?! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 02:37 AM
19

But if women are filtering and Hinge is lying, there’s no way to get around it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:08 PM
139

I kid you not, I’ve gone on Hinge dates with guys who’s profiles say they are anywhere between 5’6-5’9 and they are no more than 5’4. I called a guy out on it during a date once and he showed me his profile right then and there - his said 5’4 on his app while mine said 5’7 on my app. I really think Hinge ups guys heights without them knowing so that they have a wider range of girls to match with...which is totally wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:11 PM
9

Why is he going through her laptop in the first place?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:20 PM
6

Well where TF are they?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 05:34 PM
6

It’s probably already there 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 02:03 PM
24

But even when he was busy being murdery, he always made time for Beck 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 09:00 AM
14

Or murder you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:59 AM
8

Oh no his character is creepy AF. I think Beck was the only decent character but we saw how that turned out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:58 AM
3

Wwwhhhhyyyyy do guys do that? I guess so they match with younger girls. Lying about your age is a HUGE red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 08:48 PM
5

So what said he was 40? The age at the top?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:52 PM
9

How did you figure out he was really 43? I’ve come in contact with sooooo many dudes that lie about their age...or their education, location, marital status, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 04:30 PM
6

Yeah hasn’t happened because I live in an area where, luckily, there are SO many great places to choose from. It’d be a total turn off if he picked a chain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:15 AM
55

Oh 1000%... i’ve learned to just say “Let me know where you decide” and leave it at that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 11:49 PM
168

I CANNOT stand when a guy asks you out and they say “Where do you want to go?” NO...YOU tell ME where we are going! YOU asked ME out! So annoying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:42 PM
9

I’m single and child free and a guy with a kid(s) is a dealbreaker for me. I don’t think I want my own kids, let alone someone else’s. Call me shallow/selfish, but I’m not open to coming in second to a child/raising someone else’s kid when I don’t even think I want them myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:00 PM
13

That’s just being lazy on his part. Make him put effort into the activities/dates you go on. I just broke things off with a guy who made me initiate/plan everything because I deserve someone who will put in effort - everyone does and don’t settle for less!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 02:53 PM
2

Eww sounds like he wanted his ego stroked (amongst other things) I just don’t understand how dudes don’t realize that girls think gym selfies are a turn off. We aren’t as visual/sexual as they are...And it’s like they’re compensating for something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 02:45 PM
39

boybye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:38 PM
33

The following types of pictures: - Shirtless/Gym/Flexing - Old ass blurry/pixelated where you KNOW they no longer look like that - Of scenery or pets only - Just one picture - Only pictures with sunglasses/ski mask covering their face or them not looking at the camera - Only group photos - Flicking off the camera - Laying in bed/sleeping...when they are clearly the one who took the picture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 02:03 AM
-5

If you were in a poly relationship and you had a boyfriend on the side, he would be used as a fucktoy too, no? Why does it have to be the women? A lot of times I see poly/open looking for another female for both. I don’t know, I don’t understand it either. Also, poly relationships aren’t just limited to straight couples
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 03:02 PM
-9

Women fuck other dudes (and other women) in poly/open relationships too 🤷🏻‍♀️ That life isn’t for me though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 02:48 PM
7

Well he got exposed anyway 🤣😂😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:30 PM
20

Thanks! And that’s the thing...I AM better than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 02:41 AM
6

Yes...I’ve been in approximately 10 weddings and a guest to about 20. The amount of stress and anxiety that the bride/groom feel leading up to and the day of makes ME stressed out...and the amount of money...for what? A terrible DJ and mediocre food? No thanks. I’d rather have a low-stress, cheap(ish) party for my friends. They wouldn’t accept anything less 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 02:25 AM
23

I’ve never been married but I’ve been to/in enough weddings to know that they are a gigantic waste of money. I can’t imagine spending tens of thousands of dollars for like 5 hours and be stressed the fuck out for months of planning. I’d rather just have a huge backyard BBQ party with games/fun activities and use the money we save/money we get to go on an awesome honeymoon/down payment on a house. Fun for everyone and stress free for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 02:17 AM
178

This! I’ve been waiting for a dude to text me back to tell me when HE is available to see ME. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 02:06 AM
40

What’s wrong with 5’7 guys 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 12:41 AM
3

That’s exactly what the book is about. OP clearly hasn’t read it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 05:15 PM
2

OP I think you need to re-read (or read for the first time) HJNTIY...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 05:15 PM
2

They were not framed the way OP is describing. The book tells you “He’s Just Not That Into You If...” not “He’s Just Not That Into You Because You’re Not...” The book doesn’t blame the women AT ALL unless they are doing stupid shit..then it calls them out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 04:08 PM
10

Not at all. NOWHERE in the book does it tell you that you are not good enough! It tells you you are BETTER than to be treated like that and to get rid of dudes that don’t reciprocate. Don’t waste the pretty as it says!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 03:46 PM
27

I’m gonna have to disagree as well - HJNTIY 1000% does NOT put any blame on the women if the guy is not into her... I think it is the opposite and it’s telling women to ditch the dudes that treat them like shit and build their self-confidence up and find a guy that puts her on a pedestal. It’s a tough love book. Also, everything you said could be flipped if it were the guy in the situation. You may want to re-read HJNTIY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 03:14 PM
5

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 03:07 PM
7

I do the same thing! I start thinking waaaay in advance and obsess over them and overanalyze everything (texts, words, etc.) I really need to take a step back to think things through and see if we are truly compatible before putting anyone but myself on a pedestal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 04:19 AM
16

I reeeeeaaaallly need to get into the mentality of is HE good enough for ME. I needed this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 01:59 AM
5

The sad thing is that it’s probably worked before so he figured he’d try it again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 02:53 AM
4

Watching someone you love who has been codependent in every single one of their relationships is the most frustrating thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 02:45 AM
9

Ahhh thanks! I’m CF too 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 01:29 AM
10

Same. My range is 34-42. I feel like guys younger than 34 are a little immature/still all about partying and older than 42 probably have a lot of baggage/kids and we wouldn’t have much in common. I’d probably go up to 44 though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 01:28 AM
14

What does CF mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 01:26 AM
1

Every time I go on great dates with guys I hear from friends/family/reddit about guys cheating and it makes me rethink even wanting to date. Just last week my niece found out her husband of 4 years has been having an affair. Maybe it’s worth it to stay single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 03:04 PM
41

I am not and will never be that dumb bitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 05:02 AM
14

I was messaging back and forth a couple of times with a guy and told me he just got out of a long term relationship a few days ago. NOPE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 12:51 AM
6

Block his ass! Or do you like the attention?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 11:50 PM
1

He ‘wanted to message guy all week’...well why the fuck didn’t he? Tell him to GTFOH
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 04:31 PM
6

Waiting or not waiting wouldn’t make you lose an opportunity. If he’s interested in you, he WILL text you/make plans. No guy is too busy to send a quick text hello text or a text to make plans. If he blames his non-responsiveness on his job, maybe he’s too busy to date in general. Don’t settle for less than what you want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 11:17 PM
5

It is sooooo true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 08:49 PM
2

UPDATE: He texted that Wednesday and said sorry for being MIA and that a girl from work wanted to be more than friends and he didn’t know what he wanted and didn’t want to leave me hanging. I said I hope he figures it out and good luck ✌🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/19 07:40 PM
21

American men jackhammer too...just sayin’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 03:56 PM
5

It happens all the time on POF. I get “Hey sexy” or “Hey cutie” or “Hey Beautiful” It’s such a turn off. I wonder if these dudes would just walk up to a woman at a bar and say that as their opening line. I even put that I won’t respond to those things but they don’t care and do it anyway. So frustrating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/19 11:16 AM
6

Just remember: You were fine before him and you will be fine after him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 11:01 AM
5

Thanks everyone for your insight/responses. I’m not texting him and will make other plans on Wednesday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 10:54 AM
3

I didn’t even mean to text him but the fact that I accidentally did and no mention of hanging out. ✌🏻NEXT ➡️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 02:27 AM
6

🔥The tribe has spoken
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 02:26 AM
2

I didn’t double text but I wonder had I not accidentally texted him, if he would have reached out...I’m thinking probably not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 02:08 AM
3

Nope! Not even on Friday while he was at work. Yep, I’m not going to text him. Why is dating so frustrating?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 01:44 AM
2

So one thing I didn’t mention is that I accidentally texted him today 🤦🏻‍♀️ I was screenshotting the last text to send to my friend and she asked me something and I accidentally typed “Yep” to him instead of her. He asked how my weekend was, I asked how his was (he said it was boring) but still no mention. That would have been a good opportunity for him to confirm I think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/19 01:14 AM
11

Finding said man is the hard part! Dating is so frustrating these days!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/19 01:19 AM
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