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Fundamentals Raisin-vert/r/seduction11/02/25 04:34 PM
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Fundamentals Raisin-vert/r/seduction11/03/25 09:45 AM
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Inner Game Raisin-vert/r/seduction19/04/25 12:14 PM
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Field ReportRaisin-vert/r/seduction28/04/25 03:52 PM
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Field ReportRaisin-vert/r/seduction22/05/25 12:27 PM
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LogisticsRaisin-vert/r/seduction09/05/25 10:40 AM
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Field ReportRaisin-vert/r/seduction28/03/25 04:28 PM
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Fundamentals Raisin-vert/r/seduction20/01/25 11:00 AM
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Fundamentals Raisin-vert/r/seduction02/03/25 04:44 PM
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Field ReportRaisin-vert/r/seduction06/05/25 08:33 PM
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Fundamentals Raisin-vert/r/seduction01/04/25 12:29 PM
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Inner Game Raisin-vert/r/seduction15/04/25 05:03 PM
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Fundamentals Raisin-vert/r/seduction18/03/25 07:16 PM
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If you are needy , there is no way you act you are not , girls feels it in all cases
/r/seduction25/05/25 07:39 PM
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Thank you very much for the advice. I just texted Y to cancel the trip. I said to her i m not anymore on the mood of dating , and that it’s nothing to do with her. I think i will not bring the subject, but if one day it comes , i will just say i had doubt it was her friend so i stopped discussion
/r/seduction22/05/25 01:23 PM
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That’s exactly my theory But when i retext i will never blame her, i will just come back with a joke about why she was absent
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:48 PM
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Mmm could be , but i don’t know why they would bring you from the bench to the one they crossed out, there were certainly others on the list
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:47 PM
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I ask the same way, and about the timing, i ask after at least 4-7 days of talking so i don’t think it’s about this. I suspect maybe they are shy and need more time, need to test that i take my time ?
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:08 PM
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Practice practice
/r/seduction04/05/25 09:08 PM
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Yes it is important , BUT, it depends on many psychological aspects( personality, how you make her feel about the sex…). I had some experience where i was good at bed, BUT , when i lost confidence, when i shown i was needy, the girl didn’t want to see me again, while in the beginning she would come back for sex. It’s very important to be good at bed but don’t think if you are, you will 100% take her back
/r/seduction29/04/25 04:52 PM
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I think it’s too risky , when she accepts to go to one of our place, for me it’s done , I try to not be too speedy
/r/seduction28/04/25 04:51 PM
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I think that because i was bit stressed when i was in her place, but nothing big .. Honestly in contrary of your situation, she was a 6.5/10 so i m not feeling that I missed something. It’s a good lesson ! I never thought this could happen
/r/seduction28/04/25 04:17 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction20/04/25 10:49 AM
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You didn’t learn me anything, thank you for your negativity
/r/seduction20/04/25 10:47 AM
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Having a good shape is written in human genes. In order to provide, males ( and also females ) had to hunt and it is necesseting a good shape, mainly because : you run, fight and carry the animal. Eventhough it’s not necessary today, but it’s in our instinct to respect the people who have an athletic shape because in our subconscious, they are the ones who provide the society with proteins. The thing is that nowadays, people think that shape is just about appearance but basically, it’s more abou…
/r/seduction13/04/25 12:18 PM
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That’s fair, thanks for the advices
/r/seduction02/04/25 05:27 AM
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I will thanks
/r/seduction02/04/25 05:27 AM
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Thank you very much for the advices, all you say seems logical
/r/seduction02/04/25 05:27 AM
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Your comment hits so much. I thought i was reading my self this morning, i thought about all the details you gave like parents … Yes therapy is not all beautiful like everything you need to do efforts to have results, so for therapy.. but maybe it’s the best way to remove all the moldy roots
/r/seduction28/03/25 09:45 PM
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For sure, each time i begin dating i have a lot of pressure. I think i should do therapy
/r/seduction28/03/25 07:43 PM
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She s still connect so i don’t think she lost her phone. Also i m not searching for something to say to her. If a girl is interested she will come by her own, it’s not words that will make her back or stay
/r/seduction28/03/25 07:33 PM
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I don’t think so, but could be yes. I think it’s more an ex coming back
/r/seduction28/03/25 07:31 PM
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Thanks brother for the wise words, i m over getting hurt or getting grudges. I ve already some other girls i talk to, but man, i don’t have the energy to begin everytime dating from the beginning and all the shit it brings. Anyway to complete what you said , ghosting people is a big sign of immaturity , it’s the concrete result of the shitty consumption society we live in
/r/seduction28/03/25 05:04 PM
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I think you could directly ask her if she wants to continue the night in your house , to see a movie , to eat or something is better than lying about the place.
/r/seduction25/03/25 06:18 PM
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Yes she has to also.. and i don’t think it’s being exclusive, it means only being able to focus on one human at the time. I mean when you are dating someone, you have to give him the respect he deserves, we are not having job interviews here
/r/seduction23/03/25 04:12 PM
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For sure it’s none of her business , but still it can make your value decrease in her eyes, that’s how the majority of girls i talked to see it. They always tell me, that they find you more mature when you stop other conversations with other girls when you are really interested. Personally i ve always found this logical, but still i know some people are ok with it and i can understand it
/r/seduction23/03/25 03:57 PM
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Hahahaha i mean girls that are available and with who you have already flirted , not friends or the cases you cited
/r/seduction23/03/25 02:44 PM
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Girls usually don’t like boys who talk to many girls at the same time, especially when they search for something serious. If you call a girl with the name of other ones or if you put to her the informations of other girls thinking it’s hers, she will lose interest for sure
/r/seduction23/03/25 02:40 PM
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I meant having the contact with many girls that you encountered in any way
/r/seduction23/03/25 02:39 PM
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Exactly that’s what i meant by dispersing energy. At least talking to 2 girls it could be ok but when you are on 3 or more you will probably do a mistake at a point and they will get you
/r/seduction23/03/25 01:59 PM
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It could be but it’s not the most optimal. The best way is having a circle but not having to talk to them, and then you talk just to 1 at a time and then if it doesn’t work you switch to the others that are in standby. Talking to many girls at one time could disperse your energy. Also it will make you compare between them and it’s not healthy for you neither for the girl you are talking to
/r/seduction23/03/25 01:01 PM
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Thanks for the hint.
/r/seduction19/03/25 09:13 AM
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I m exactly as you. So now i just know that the interaction is not always failing because of me, but because of the lack of alignment between me and the other person
/r/seduction19/03/25 08:30 AM
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😩😩
/r/seduction19/03/25 07:11 AM
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That is a pretty good duration to think and to know more each other
/r/seduction18/03/25 09:20 PM
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Thanks for your advices . After how long would you ask her out if it was you ? ( just a novice trying to see what others do , i know that each case is specific)
/r/seduction18/03/25 08:45 PM
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What i mean by normal , is that i feel very fragile because i think easily about a woman i dated only 2 times. I find this very weak from me
/r/seduction18/03/25 08:30 PM
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I don’t want to talk about this early so i will be again no gf neither fwb 💀. She makes very gf moves but when she goes from my house, she tries to keep distance by messages ( but when i will send a message to see her, she will be happy, but she tries to not speak many days by mzssages ). So i don’t know what she wants and in the same time i don’t want to talk about it and make her run away
/r/seduction18/03/25 08:12 PM
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I don’t know if i really want more of it’s just because i never had a girlfriend you know 😂😂
/r/seduction18/03/25 08:05 PM
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Hahahah enjoy then
/r/seduction17/03/25 06:19 PM
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Yes if she has no problem going to a stranger house i think it’s already won
/r/seduction17/03/25 04:54 PM
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Just go out with her, and then you will see how it goes , just put in your head that everything is possible as a final for the date so you take care of logistics : House should be clean Don’t drink too much Don’t make the date last forever so just after 2h maximum if the feeling is good, you can propose to her to go continue the night in your house If she doesn’t accept : she s not interested, or she prefers to take her time before going to a stranger house, so maybe you will need another date. …
/r/seduction17/03/25 03:17 PM
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For sure man
/r/seduction17/03/25 08:12 AM
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Oh no man, girls do propose. Back in 2022 , i matched with a girl by night like at 10 pm. She has 0 photo on her tinder profile and in the bio, she wrote that she searched for sex. In the beginning i had the same reaction as what you wrote, but it happened that it was really true and she gave me her true instagram. We saw each other the day after and we actually fucked. There is so much weird things in this world, never say « girls do » , « girls don’t do ». There is anything everywhere, it’ s j…
/r/seduction16/03/25 09:55 PM
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Thanks, i know , it’s just taking point of views, it’s not i m searching to apply these for me :)
/r/seduction12/03/25 09:02 AM
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This is very true :)
/r/seduction11/03/25 07:59 PM
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What do you mean by come ? ( sorry english is not my mother tongue)
/r/seduction11/03/25 07:55 PM
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What is it then ?
/r/seduction11/03/25 07:32 PM
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These are the exact same for me
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:52 PM
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That’s a rare mindset nowadays
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:51 PM
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And making positive insights from « failure »
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:51 PM
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This is very true, long process is what makes results
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:50 PM
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This book : The Power of Now: A Guide to Spiritual Enlightenment
/r/seduction11/03/25 02:49 PM
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Hahahah but if your problems were very important, i think your reaction towards the girl was normal
/r/seduction11/03/25 11:46 AM
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But is there one that you think played a bigger role, or is there a root one
/r/seduction11/03/25 11:11 AM
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Exactly. Go there and don’t make it feel like a date, and in the same time don’t play the role of the friend. For example if she begins to talk to you about the men she wants to go out to, skip the subject, don’t play the role of her friend. Make her have a good time with you and you also spend a good time and you will see
/r/seduction05/03/25 04:40 PM
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Definetly not the 1st one lol. The best approach is go out , and try to have the best moment, and to see if it’s possible to escalate sexualy on the conversation, if you can have physical contact and all the basic shit. If she stops you, then leave her alone, you are still in the friendzone. You can leave her until she comeback to you and you can clearly tell her that you want something else than being friend
/r/seduction05/03/25 04:18 PM
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Ok then you are more talking about the « fake it until you make it ». Yes i believe it’s true at a certain point yes but still it needs the willing of a self improvement. As an ancient shy guy, i applied this method to be more able to speak to girls and people in general, it works with time but still you never feel that you are yourself , but you can see that things could be different so you see the path to work on yourself
/r/seduction04/03/25 08:39 PM
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You can only fake it a some point and with some people. Some people are very good in social analysis and since they know you at a certain point, they get your game. so yes you can fake it , and no you can’t fake it are both correct
/r/seduction04/03/25 10:41 AM
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Thanks bro 👊🏿
/r/seduction03/03/25 08:21 PM
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The thing is there is no rule. It’s about your feeling of the conversation in overall. Concerning a girl you just matched with in tinder. If she was invested : replying to all your messages under 24 hours, engaging conversation, laughing. Then disappeared, i think it’s ok to go back to her after some days. But if she was distant , it’s better to let her come back to you.
/r/seduction03/03/25 02:55 PM
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I did just this weekend and i don’t regret it :) . The first time i proposes her she told me she is not available for this weekend. After the weekend she didn’t reply to my last message. I talked to her again and she excuses for not responding me , so i liked the fact that she apologized so i proposed her another date and she accepted. We went out and then fucked the same night :)
/r/seduction03/03/25 12:58 PM
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I can confirm it 100%
/r/seduction11/02/25 11:05 PM
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Thanks, that was a good cherry on top ! You can also make them discover new books :).
/r/seduction11/02/25 09:09 PM
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It’s primordial bro
/r/seduction11/02/25 09:07 PM
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I usually read in french , my best one was « nympheas noires », idk how it is in english. But i think the best is to search something where you find some language that you find in daily life.. not something technical. In english i only read technical ones , but the one i liked was « influence : the psychology of persuasion ». It’s really nice
/r/seduction11/02/25 09:06 PM
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I usually read in french , my best one was « nympheas noires », idk how it is in english. But i think the best is to search something where you find some language that you find in daily life.. not something technical
/r/seduction11/02/25 09:04 PM
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I usually read in french , my best one was « nympheas noires », idk how it is in english. But i think the best is to search something where you find some language that you find in daily life.. not something technical
/r/seduction11/02/25 09:04 PM
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Yes man, but those criteria you cited are very common and actually everyone knows them, and i knew them. But no one told me about the benefits of reading. I guess there are other hidden skills that we don’t hear about
/r/seduction11/02/25 05:56 PM
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I think it’ s more a problem of self comprehension. If you know what you want from a girl ( other than her body ), then you become picky, and then you are not searching for being picked from girls but you search for match, and this is the correct mindset. Then when it doesn’t match, you understand why and it’s ok then, rather than asking for the approbation of every girl and then being sad just because you werent picked by them
/r/seduction01/02/25 11:26 AM
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It’s about searching the reality in things and loving yourself. Ok going to gym maybe will give a better image from you but way before that, it will give you health which has no price Ok drinking in party will make you encounter more people, but first it will harm your health This logic you can apply to everything. And it shows one important thing : you need to understand WHY you do things and to understand this, you need to know yourself and to have the aim to give the best for yourself.
/r/seduction29/01/25 03:25 PM
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😂😂 relax man you are so paranoiac, i don’t remember your first comment, we are just chatting here, no need to accuse me. Have a good day, you need to chill more, stress causes cancer and a lot of harm
/r/seduction21/01/25 02:51 PM
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No 10k followers is not better than 300 followers , that’s what you don’t want to get. Yes with 10k followers you will statistically get more girls ok, but which kind of girls ?? Non brained and materialistic ? So if you are into this type of girls yes it’s perfect. If you search for quality girls, no 10k followers is not better. Without forgetting , as i said, you are revealing your life to thousands of persons, so it’s a BIG concession you make here. In final, it depends on what you search.
/r/seduction21/01/25 02:43 PM
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Man, you extrapolate way too much i think. Having 10k followers is something extraordinary and anyway personally i don’t want to share my life with so many people, just to date girls ? This is so cringe man. Personally just with my 300 followers i manage to have dates on social media, no need to post too much, it’s just a tool, it has not to replace your real life
/r/seduction21/01/25 02:01 PM
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What i say can also be applied in social media bro. It’s all about which and how many informations you give about yourself , about what content you like and so on.. I think in social media the right level of mystery to maintain is like showing some photos of you and eventually with your friends to show that you are socially ok and also to give some insights about what « kind » of men you are, especially when it comes to social class, and this you can show it just with a photo where you wear your…
/r/seduction21/01/25 01:12 PM
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I think we should talk about what mystery means ! For me being mysterious is very attractive but it’s not hiding your basic informations like name, age, profession, things you like etc. Being mysterious is more not giving very early pieces about your personality, and letting the women discover them naturally. For example : Bad strategy : saying i m very extrovert, i like to talk to people. Good strategy : during your date you show that you are extrovert concretely : you will talk to the staff of…
/r/seduction21/01/25 12:41 PM
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That’s the spirit bro, i m just beginning to get it, and it seems so logical
/r/seduction20/01/25 03:24 PM
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It’s true ! I think is the lack of interaction that doesnt let me realize this
/r/seduction20/01/25 01:55 PM
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You are right, sometimes i have difficulty to interpret irony and sarcasm and don’t take them as serious propositions
/r/seduction20/01/25 01:12 PM
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That’s exactly the analysis i did of the situation ! No problem here, another step in improving my game, as i m still struggling to abord female :) Thank you very much for your comment
/r/seduction20/01/25 01:11 PM
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Yes , in the beginning like we took hands while dancing ( sitting ) , but then after i was the only one touching , that gave me the impression that shes not no more motivated
/r/seduction20/01/25 01:09 PM
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Thanks for your comment , seems logical
/r/seduction20/01/25 12:05 PM
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What do you mean by escalate ?
/r/seduction20/01/25 11:51 AM
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Maybe should ve kissed ?
/r/seduction20/01/25 11:42 AM
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Yes i created other accounts with different mails and phone numbers. I get little more matchs on bumble but very very little number like 1 in a month..
/r/seduction14/01/25 05:38 PM
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You are right, i always thought it’s the same company, but in fact they are just founded by the same person
/r/seduction14/01/25 05:25 PM
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