Hello,

I (M28) met a girl(F25) through hinge, we saw each other 3 times in 1 month , the dates were so nice , we matched on a lot of personal traits , and hooked up in all of these dates.

We havent discussed about what we searched, but she was always making jokes about us going to north korea or me taking her to morocco ( my country..). So it was not clear for me if she was searching for something casual or serious at long term. I was planning to have the subject after.

Yesterday i ve sent her a message to see her this weekend and now it’s been 24h she didn’t open my message but she connects regularly ( less than always but still she connects). Normally she always responds to me after 1 to 4h maximum.

I didn’t see this coming but i recognise the ghosting 😔.

A detail that tilted me , is that she made her instagram profile private yesterday ( she doesn’t know i have it, i ve found it through stalking). So i assume some ex of her came back for example.

I don’t know why i posted this, maybe i just wanted to write this down and express my feelings. It’s been a long time i didn’t met a girl with who it was so cool, she was very respectful but now with this ghosting i m just disturbed and very disappointed, i don’t know what i did , at least , last time we saw each other and spoke she went from my house she kissed me and everything was cool.