Hello,

First sorry but my english is not the best so i ll do my best.

I (M28) m in a hostel in rome, yesterday at the bars hostel i aborded a solo female ( 30 years old ). In the beginning it was a bit cringy and she seemed a bit closed, but in final we discussed well and she proposed me to go continue discussing at the salon of the hostel.

Arrived there, we discussed a good 30 minutes where we laughed and she confied me about the fact that she s just out of a relationship of 9 years.

After that, she proposed me to go drink beers at the bar and to assist to a live jam. Everything was cool, even she made an explicit joke about us having sex, so for me the night was already achieved , and the chance , she had a private room.

At one point of the night, the dynamic was less intense and we wanted to go smoke outside but couldnt go with our drinks so i stayed to look after them and she went to smoke. But then it lasted more than 10-15 mins so i decided to join her and was surprises she was having fun with a man.

After that i tried to talk to her and she was very closed ans then she ignored me to join the man and his group.

For you, where do you think i did a mistake ? Should i have proposed to go to her room directly when the dynamic was good ?