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| 2 | Loud + combative does not equal masculine & quiet + submissive does not equal feminineBut if a woman can be stoic so why do people consider it a masculine trait especially if the percentage is not that far off. Like say 3% of men are truly stoic and 0.5% of women are truly stoic, how is it that it becomes considered a masculine trait, thats not really logical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Loud + combative does not equal masculine & quiet + submissive does not equal feminineBreasts, wide hips, different genitals, amount of facial hair, to an extent musculature, to an extent height, to an extent hand & feet size etc, the ability and inability to become pregnant or produce semen, being able to breast feed, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Loud + combative does not equal masculine & quiet + submissive does not equal feminineMy point is, we cannot go grab a set of men or a set of women and say all of the men will have these “masculine” traits and all of the women will have these “feminine” traits so how can we say the traits themselves are masculine or feminine? As a general statement, that would be illogical. So to tell a woman she is acting like a man or tell a man he is acting like a woman is also illogical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Loud + combative does not equal masculine & quiet + submissive does not equal feminineI am in the camp that believes they are outdated concepts when it comes to behavioral characteristics. I believe that masculine and feminine are defined by physical characteristics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Loud + combative does not equal masculine & quiet + submissive does not equal feminineFor me its as simple as all men are not combative and all women are not submissive so they cannot be coded to one gender. All men have a penis and all women have a vagina though (technically). There’s a difference there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/26 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Most of us are here because we're shallowWhen did I say I don’t have success with women at all? I said I don’t have the luxury of having sex with women I think are super attractive whenever I want right now, most men don’t... And because, I don’t have a lot of success financially yet and really no status. Probably no girl I would marry would want me at the state i’m at in my life right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 09:32 PM |
| 0 | Most of us are here because we're shallowYea I just wanna crack buns so I rather go to hookers at this point. I don’t have the luxury of just getting sex whenever I want with hot women yet so what other option is there…And like you said a lot of women have personalities that are like good enough to date, smash and be friends with but they aren’t necessarily like marriage material so all the girls who claim they’re looking for their final person and to settle down are a waste of time for me. I’m in no rush to find my final partner and g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/25 07:24 PM |
| 0 | Men on here don’t understand women’s approach to casual sex. A massive failure to cross sex mind read from the red pill.My friend smashed like 6 girls off tinder on the first date. Women like casual sex too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 07:22 AM |
| 1 | “It's often women, not men, who initiate. The natural order for mating is for women to solicit male approaches when they are ready.”If a guy says hey! To a girl and she doesnt reply its the same thing as if a girl waves and you don’t pick up that she’s trying to talk to you. Orrrr if she’s staring at you smiling and you don’t pickup that she wants you to come talk to her. The dynamic typically starts in the nonverbal realm not just who uses their voice first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 07:15 PM |
| 0 | “It's often women, not men, who initiate. The natural order for mating is for women to solicit male approaches when they are ready.”Waving at a girl and her making a disgusting face at you and walking away is a clear indication that she finds you repulsive or doesn’t want to talk to you. Sure you can go up and run game on her or say whatever to try to change her opinion of you, but attraction starts in the nonverbal realm. So most guys aren’t going to be able to save themselves by spitting whatever magical game they think they have to change these women’s opinions of them based off their looks. Point is, a lot of men aren’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalLol wtf is the difference between doing shit for a girl with no expectations and an act of service in the manner I said?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalExactly on the first part. On the second part I wouldn’t consider it transactional because the person isnt giving you anything in return | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalBut it’s still a transaction. The person you see as a friend is still typically your friend based on conditions you’ve met. Could be whatever conditions too it doesn’t matter what. For example, I had some people bullying me back in highschool but I quickly realized I was being bullied for not dressing well which was really just dressing like them. So I started buying what people think is cool and even stuff they could not afford and then they stopped bullying me and treated me as if I was cool a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalLol most guys do things for women because they expect something in return though. And if nothing is returned then those things stop being done either quickly, or once they realize they aren’t going to get anything in return. And so you think no women have been turned on by a guy doing a service for them lol? Women literally talk about love languages all the time and one of them is “acts of service” in which you would do something like cleaning the floor for them. I’ve heard women say multiple ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 03:03 PM |
| 0 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalLol people being against unconditional love explains a lot to be honest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalYou’re thinking of something extreme and towards you. But, even if he hit you isn’t it kind of wild to just jump to “I don’t love him anymore”? I’m more so thinking on the side of like, a guys a millionaire but he no longer wants to do that job anymore and goes off to live more secluded and his net worth drops orrr a guy suffers a burn incident and half his face gets burnt off like harvey dent or something. Plenty of women would drop guys with situations like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 02:49 PM |
| 5 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalAre your needs met and are you meeting the needs of your partner is literally transactional lol. No or not fully doesn’t matter, you met what is needed for an equivalent exchange in their mind. They didn’t put out for no reason. & sure yes you can help women with no expectations the keyword in what I said is MOST things done in relationships are transactional. Meaning most things in most peoples relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 02:43 PM |
| 0 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalI mean, I really don’t see any difference between conditional and transactional we’re getting into semantics with that… And I would love my children unconditionally. There’d be practically nothing they could do to make me not still love them. Even the most evil things possible. Would I be disappointed? Yea, but i’d still love them. That is not the same way a high majority of us treat our relationship partners. Now i’m not saying there’s not always naturally some conditions for a relationship par… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 02:38 PM |
| 1 | “It's often women, not men, who initiate. The natural order for mating is for women to solicit male approaches when they are ready.”Salty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menSoooooo you eat prostitute pussy and make out with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 10:17 AM |
| 2 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menTons of women don’t exactly enjoy sex, even with their boyfriends and husbands and a bunch don’t even orgasm, and you’re throwing in whether they enjoy sex while providing it as a sex worker… Men have to wear condoms, most of us can’t kiss them. We cant eat their pussy (which is what most women really get off too). Guys worry about all the wrong things when it comes to sex work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menThe other part of this is like why do people always throw that they need to care about you. When regular people have casual sex it’s not like they wanna get married or something, it’s just a general link and fuck. Idk why ppl act like it’s not possible to just have sex and just enjoy the physical aspect of it. “Oh but it’s not real, she doesn’t really like/love you”…Who gives a shit just enjoy the physical. Pornstars probably don’t like or love each other either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 03:17 AM |
| 2 | “It's often women, not men, who initiate. The natural order for mating is for women to solicit male approaches when they are ready.”Yeaaaa unlike the rest of the men here who aren’t taking it into consideration, i’m listening. I’ve actually heard multiple women say they give or either think they’ve given clear nonverbal cues. Things go a lot smoother when as a man we can read those cues and know for sure that a woman wants our attention. I’m not sure why there’s so many guys against the concept lol. Its like, maybe the issue is that a lot of men aren’t so good at reading non verbal cues. I can definitely imagine a lot of guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 02:03 AM |
| 4 | “It's often women, not men, who initiate. The natural order for mating is for women to solicit male approaches when they are ready.”Actually, her being sexually attractive has nothing to do with the topic. She could be the most sexually attractive woman in the world, that’s irrelevant to the study/topic. It’s as simple as, what nonverbal cues does the woman give off to you. These can range from really subtle cues to super clear raunchy cues like a woman walking up to you in the club and bending over for you and shaking her buns. Even if shes the most sexually attractive woman in the world that doesn’t mean she’s giving those… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 10:49 PM |
| 2 | “It's often women, not men, who initiate. The natural order for mating is for women to solicit male approaches when they are ready.”When they said natural order, I don’t think they meant what happens in nature amongst animals. That’s also kind of species dependent. Like amongst humans, we have a choice to recognize reciprocation or not. Grape would be involuntary. This is only really a convo on voluntary. For example, when a female animal is in heat. What does she do to show she wants a male animal to have sex with her? Now apply that to human relationship dynamics. And yes but the point here in these articles is that women … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 10:40 PM |
| 47 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menTheres “chads” paying for pussy brother. It has nothing to do with being autistic, adhd etc. There’s various reasons to just go pay for it. A lot of dudes just want casual sex and don’t want to jump through any extra hoops in having casual sex but we don’t all get that super easily. There is literally almost always extra hoops unless you luck up and get a quick hookup a few times. But that doesn’t usually last forever. The real issue is getting a girlfriend that you actually like and want to kee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeYea…Most men feel like they have to be “mr masculine man” all the time as if there’s no women in the world who are in relationships as you described doing just fine and even making more money together than them in their straight couple. Masculinity is only really the physical differences between a man and a woman but everybody adds all these other things to what being a male human and a female human is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeIdk it’s just hard. So many women like to eat out and do other recreational activities. It cuts off so much of the dating pool if I approach it that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeYou’re telling me children don’t say hey I wanna go to chuck e cheese, the amusement park, etc? Dad/mom can u buy me the new fortnite skin etc??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeIve heard it various times said by women in videos, but mainly on dating apps and I took a few girls out who have all indicated that they don’t like when I ask them their preference on anything. Maybe it’s just my bad luck, but that’s been my experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeBecause we probably aren’t really into those activities. How is it that a guy doesn’t care just because they’re not really into any of the recreational stuff she wants to do? And again, i’ll still do it if she tells me thats what she’d like to do or I know she likes those things. The activity itself isn’t even what matters to me though, spending time with her is what matters. Most women act like they’ll lose interest if there’s no activities along with the time we spend together. Wording it as “… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeInteresting. To an extent I don’t know why so many men and women want to desire the same experiences as their partner. Like we don’t have to do everything together or enjoy all of the activities. For example, as I said somewhere on this post, I don’t even really like eating out but I don’t mind taking a woman somewhere she wants to eat out and maybe eating the food from where we go sometimes because that pleases the person I am trying to appease. But she shouldn’t expect me to go out of my way t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeMy issue is women wanting a man to lead in every single activity. Especially if its a small recreational activity, not something thats important. Then if it’s something I genuinely don’t care about doing as a man, why is it the norm for women to expect us to take interest in it? Especially if we’ve just met. Eventually i’ll get an idea of things she likes to do. And sometimes i’ll just set that up for her or the both of us. But why is there such an issue for a woman to take the initiative and te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeI mean, if they don’t know what they want then I will choose for them. At the end of the day, i’m just trying to do something with them lol. The activity isn’t even really important at all. My issue is when women get the ick just by a man asking what they want to do in the name of “wanting a masculine man who leads”. It’s just extremely silly, petty and extra to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeThat’s silly. Everybody’s life doesn’t make time for just traveling and blowing money on recreational activities. You’d think women would want men to focus on working, providing, etc. That’s part of what really being a leader is lol. So why is it so hard for women to plan the activities she wants to do so badly and present them to us? That’s why I said to me it just comes off as being lazy. Even a child tells their parents the activities they want to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeLol yea I figured as much. So a boss is an unpleasant leader (to some)? That would mean a boss is still a leader. And none of that is indicated in the definitions of boss or leader either, they’re literally synonyms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeNah these women seem to get the ick as soon as a man asks their preference too many times even if it’s about extremely small stuff. Oh I asked her where she wants to eat one too many times or where she’d like to go for our next date… So now i’m not a “masculine” “leader” man because I’ve asked her preference and don’t really care where we go because I want to appease her wants sometimes. ^ This is the logic many women are operating off of. Particularly if it’s a brand new woman. They rely too mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeWhen did I say anything about women not wanting to be the leader? I said realistically women are leading by delegating all the work and initiative onto men. Secondly, I don’t really understand why you’re trying to differentiate a boss and a leader. The definition of boss is a person who is in charge of a worker, group, or organization The definition of a leader is the person who leads or commands a group, organization, or country. Lol what is the difference?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 03:10 PM |
| 4 | Women who want men to “lead” don’t really want a leader they’re just lazy, don’t want to take any initiative, want their minds read and are actually the ones in chargeNo it doesn’t. I simply don’t care about choosing what she will put in her stomach for example. I eat what I eat, and I expect that she has a preference for what she wants to eat. If we are just meeting, why am I being judged for if I’ll be able to take care of household issues based on something so minuscule? When I take a woman on a date the date isn’t necessarily for me it’s for her. It’s really a gesture or a gift. I don’t have to like the date location every time or even participate. It’s l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Would women prefer a man who has an ability(s) to obtain resources but currently has no resources to share with them or a man who already has a lot of resources but has no ability(s) to obtain resources?The idea is, he may never actually be successful. He has all the skills/talents except nothing has hit yet. A great example would be an aspiring artist that is very skilled, and you can see putting forth the effort but he just hasn’t had his big break. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Would women prefer a man who has an ability(s) to obtain resources but currently has no resources to share with them or a man who already has a lot of resources but has no ability(s) to obtain resources?Theres definitely some grown men living off mommy and daddy’s money…My question is analogous to would women prefer a slob king that was born into wealth and doesn’t care about his nation or a not so well off soldier, an architect, a cook etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Would women prefer a man who has an ability(s) to obtain resources but currently has no resources to share with them or a man who already has a lot of resources but has no ability(s) to obtain resources?Not a defect per se, just that he isn’t really skilled at anything. Basically, if he lost everything he owned he wouldn’t be able to regain it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Would women prefer a man who has an ability(s) to obtain resources but currently has no resources to share with them or a man who already has a lot of resources but has no ability(s) to obtain resources?He has no skills he’s just already wealthy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:49 PM |
| 4 | Would women prefer a man who has an ability(s) to obtain resources but currently has no resources to share with them or a man who already has a lot of resources but has no ability(s) to obtain resources?Born with it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Women are primarily the choosersBut that’s only because women don’t choose “losers”. Attractive men get different treatment. In any format, a guy who is considered unattractive can initiate all he wants, he’s still going to get chosen far less than an attractive guy. Initiating only slightly boosts someone’s chance of being chosen. Initiating is just another aspect of trying to attract a mate. For example, another is the idea of peacocking. If you’re in the room and you try to pull a woman’s attention with the way you dress bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 06:46 AM |
| -2 | Women are primarily the choosersInitiating to me is part of asking to be chose. One man could just work on other aspects of being attractive, and then more women would initiate / become pick me’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 01:49 AM |
| 1 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himThe main factors that people consider to be in a bad boy and not a nice guy is like being non agreeable, assertive, “dominant”. But you can be all of those things without being over the top or doing them all the time. I just think a girl doesn’t really like you if she wants you to behave like that 24/7 and especially when it comes to her, your woman. Why would she want me to treat her that way anyway? Why can’t I be good to my woman and non agreeable, assertive and dominant towards everyone else… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 01:26 PM |
| 2 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himExactly, it’s like all these guys who don’t get any women are coping because they’re also “nice guys”. When they see a lot of these attractive guys getting away with “bad boy” behavior, they start to make that the reason they don’t get any women. But as you said, it’s attractive “nice guys” who can do the same shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 08:44 AM |
| 1 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himOk but this doesn’t help a guy who women think isn’t attractive in all of the other categories. Like say a guy is ugly, has no money, no status. You think him acting like an asshole and hard to get is going to help him get women? Now the other side…You think if a guy is attractive, has money, has status that he has to act like an asshole and like he’s hard to get in order to get and keep women? If a woman is truly attracted to you, I don’t think she requires all of these odd toxic social behavio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 08:37 AM |
| 1 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himSee but being handsome, single and living a more interesting life doesn’t really equate to a man being a “bad boy” and being not so handsome, married and “boring” doesn’t equate to a man being a “nice guy” yet that’s typically the metric people use. Women like that just simply want to fuck someone more physically attractive and with a more interesting life cause they get bored and want some other dick. If their husband was more attractive, and kept her entertained then maybe it wouldn’t happen? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 08:28 AM |
| 2 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himI just don’t agree that it’s that relevant. If you’re physically attractive, and have a decent amount of other traits (status, money, fame) then wanting a specific personality out of us man, especially being a “bad boy” just sounds silly to me and childish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 08:19 AM |
| 1 | If a woman desires “bad boy” traits from a guy in order to be attracted to him she doesn’t truly like himMy point is, tons of guys can purposely exhibit “bad boy” traits even if that’s not truly their character and our society doesn’t really require that type of behavior. For example, a toxic relationship is not a requirement yet plenty of immature women that obviously have some kind of trauma seem to want one. So I was saying, we are not actors in a play. Us men are not here to role play for these women that want us to carry or muster up toxic traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 08:13 AM |
| 1 | Men want women to work for them for freeYou think their compensation should be 50% of the mans income no matter how much he made?? So lets say its a billionaire. You think the stay at home wife deserves to make 50% of the billionaires money for sitting at home, being pretty (subjective), and MAYBE cooking, cleaning, and doing housework? Because at that type of riches they probably have or can afford maids…Shes probably not raising the kids by herself either, not 100%. But anyway, 50% is too much considering she would not be the breadw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Men want women to work for them for freeWait... I see in their bios that they want a man with money and that they don’t want a broke man alllllllllllllll the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 11:15 AM |
| 2 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameSo let’s go to the extreme. Imagine a world where we literally couldn’t make the first move, only women could (example, the dating app bumble). It would force men to work on their attraction, then only women who were clearly interested in you would shoot their shot and you wouldn’t be wasting your time going through a bunch of no’s. Contrary to what most people believe one can change with their personality, game/talking finesse, confidence, i don’t really believe neither women nor men care that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/25 04:31 PM |
| 6 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameThis is some top grade yapping. No, i’m nothing like the simps. I’m not trying to pull women on reddit what are you talking about lol? I’m continuing to work on becoming more and more of/like a high value man, so why are you trying to pull me down while missing the entire point altogether? I’m not advocating for men to not shoot their shot at all, i’m just saying the playing field is very slanted and men need to focus more on attracting not just attacking & chasing. I never said sit back and wai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameI agree with this take tbh with you. Like if you’re just looking for sex with multiple women, then you just have to get your money up so you can afford to live like that. It’s far far far less of a headache and you have more control over your sex life and you don’t really have to work for it in anyway besides having money for it. It’s not much different than being rich & famous either because as you said, those guys have baddies coming after them because they want to be taken care of. Groupies, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 01:00 AM |
| 1 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameWe don’t have to care about power its inherent. Men are on average more powerful than women naturally (on a physical level). But, we’ve lost the ability to be dominant in that way (rightfully so), thats why I was telling the other guy primal instincts isn’t a part of the conversation lol. But anyways, as zastale said women 100% typically do it because it gives y’all a lot of power, even if y’all are unconsciously doing it. It makes everything way easier for women and everything very hard on us m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/25 12:48 AM |
| 4 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameYea, you know this phrase isn’t true lol. Some men don’t have to shoot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameI hear you but it’s still not the same as hunting women with the intent to take it from them lol. There’s just a big difference between women being attracted to you off the jump and trying to convince them to like you through other things. A lot of women swear they don’t care about looks the most, how you dress, status, your career but those are like the most important things it’s very clear. Talking and being “confident” when you approach them is the least of what they care about that only gets… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 06:38 PM |
| 4 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameIsn’t that shocking? How does someone feel like they chose when they, keyword, ASKED you out lol? The other option is you approached them and asked them out, now that makes you an option. You can only choose something that’s made itself an option unless you take it. Asking isn’t taking lol. Guys don’t understand the dynamic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 06:31 PM |
| 6 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameLOL! Are you a woman or a guy saying this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameI guess I get what you’re saying sort of. Like might as well try, since we don’t know if they like you or not. I just prefer them to do the chasing to an extent if not altogether. It shows clearer interest and puts me in a position of power. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 06:23 PM |
| 5 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameNo i’m just saying that I think men need to dial it back a little bit. In our world we’ll never see a twitch stream of a woman spending a week approaching women in a bunch of different locations. But now it’s guys cheering this on as if it’s a W for us and it just doesn’t make any sense at all. I’m not saying guys should never approach, i’m just saying the playing field is extremelyyyy unequal right now. So much so that plenty of men and women have convinced themselves thats the way it’s suppose… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 06:01 PM |
| 6 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameWhat was their solution in those posts? I said what I think would need to happen. Guys need to copy y’all’s blueprint and stop approaching first. Men would need to focus on attraction, and then the lessening of super easy motion for women will cause the playing field to level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 05:49 PM |
| 9 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameHow does it play into our primal hunter instincts if a lot of us get no reward. Plus i’m not sure how much weight this holds in general. Like yes, in some cases we probably hunted women but men perceived as powerful men were probably followed by women who gave themselves up to us. I’m sure hunting them was much more of a hassle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do you all think men say that women don’t know what they want?Yea i’m pretty lost on whatever she was tryna say here 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/25 02:35 AM |
| 3 | Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceableI mean yea, that makes sense. But i’m just saying if someone generally likes you for those things I named, then they aren’t necessarily easily replaceable. Ppl aren’t exactly carbon copies of one another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Why do you all think men say that women don’t know what they want?People have to stop believing that women and men are naturally one way personality wise. Nurture plays a huge part in the way someone becomes. The whole gender roles thing is pretty odd anyway, there’s so many aspects of it that just aren’t true. Saying a woman is “masculine” because she has leadership qualities and likes to be more dominant is just weird. Like guys have told me that women naturally want to be lead. As in, even if a woman is more of a leader type, she still deep down wants a man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/25 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Why do you all think men say that women don’t know what they want?Makes sense. Me and all my friends are in our late 20s, so all of their relationships have of course been with women in our and their early 20s for the most part. But thats why I think it makes no sense for all of them to be like “women don’t know what they want, they say this then have sex with so and so!” Its just so many more factors to it. Like for one, maybe everyone doesn’t think sex is so deep that the guy has to be perfect otherwise for them to do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Why do you all think men say that women don’t know what they want?Yea but, don’t women typically wait for men to initiate so they end up with a guy that probably somewhat fulfills their standards but not completely? Plus, of course they will sometimes end up with a guy with more traits they didn’t initially list or think about but that doesn’t mean they don’t generally know what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 08:23 PM |
| 8 | Men need to be aware that they are easily replaceableMen are replaceable for all women? No Men’s personality and mentality are easily replaceable? No Men’s money and assets are easily replaceable? No Men are not easily replaceable. Only dick and pussy are easily replaceable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/25 07:24 PM |
| – | People are trying to form relationships without sharing common values, career lifestyles, artistic interests and those rarely actually work. I don’t understand how people can say these things don’t matter.Because thats not really primarily what i’m looking for but how does a person do that anyway? Put in their bio that they’re looking for casual sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 05:18 PM |
| – | People are trying to form relationships without sharing common values, career lifestyles, artistic interests and those rarely actually work. I don’t understand how people can say these things don’t matter.In my last paragraph I was saying there’s no point to keep going out with a girl who I don’t relate with and who is looking for a relationship UNLESS I do what a decent amount of other guys do and just play along (lie) until I get sex. I do not do that, never have and most likely never will it’s a waste of my time. But you’re right in the other stuff you typed. No I usually don’t tell them I don’t think we’re compatible and ask would they be ok with a casual sex relationship, I just stop going o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 04:58 PM |
| – | People are trying to form relationships without sharing common values, career lifestyles, artistic interests and those rarely actually work. I don’t understand how people can say these things don’t matter.I think you misread what I said. I said I did not lie to them. I was saying that, with a woman I am not 100% mentally and socially compatible with I don’t mind having a sexual relationship with them but a lot of the dates i’ve been on, the women don’t want to have sex right away and want me to go on various dates and be “friends” first or “feel it out” more to see if they want to date me, have sex etc. For the most part though, I already know after 1 or 2 dates if she has somewhat of a template … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/25 12:48 PM |
| 2 | People are trying to form relationships without sharing common values, career lifestyles, artistic interests and those rarely actually work. I don’t understand how people can say these things don’t matter.Yea but, everybody doesn’t have just sexual attraction as an incentive. There’s a difference between someone finding you physically attractive and finding your artistic choices attractive. One thing takes less work and was given to you and the other you choose or create yourself. I don’t really think people are as open to genres of music, politics and other peoples clothing choices as you say you are either. But like I just typed to someone else, it’s not even really just about clothing niches, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 04:18 AM |
| 3 | People are trying to form relationships without sharing common values, career lifestyles, artistic interests and those rarely actually work. I don’t understand how people can say these things don’t matter.Yea but I guess I wasn’t clear/transparent enough about that part. I take music very seriously because it’s a part of my career goals. So caring about music is kind of important to me. Either music, fashion, video, or photography to be specific. So yea it’s more so about sharing a similar path in life and really understanding each other rather than it just being some side activity neither of us really care about that much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 03:34 AM |
| 4 | People are trying to form relationships without sharing common values, career lifestyles, artistic interests and those rarely actually work. I don’t understand how people can say these things don’t matter.What is mundane about art if thats my goal career? And black metal was just an example, it’s deeper than that for me because music is part of my main career goals. I don’t even make metal I was just trying to make an example of something completely opposite than what most “normal” people listen to. But anyways, a lot of women don’t take men who do art seriously especially if they aren’t making a bunch of money, again, from a “normal job”. So, that already extremely limits my dating pool. You can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 03:24 AM |
| 3 | People are trying to form relationships without sharing common values, career lifestyles, artistic interests and those rarely actually work. I don’t understand how people can say these things don’t matter.Wait what are you replying to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 02:25 AM |
| 8 | People are trying to form relationships without sharing common values, career lifestyles, artistic interests and those rarely actually work. I don’t understand how people can say these things don’t matter.No thats not it. I don’t mind listening to different music than I typically like sometimes. The issue is, most other people are actually not comfortable doing that. I don’t know though, you could be somewhat right. It’s not like i’ve been out with a bunch of women from actual different walks of life. But either way i’m 100% sure it’ll be better for me if I know a girls into the same type of activities as me, and I highly doubt we can truly mesh if she’s not. My main passions are creating music, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 12:44 AM |
| 9 | People are trying to form relationships without sharing common values, career lifestyles, artistic interests and those rarely actually work. I don’t understand how people can say these things don’t matter.Thank you I really appreciate the good words! And you got the age range right I am reaching my late 20s. I am going to start actively going out to the right places to search for a woman that I truly resonate with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 12:24 AM |
| 6 | People are trying to form relationships without sharing common values, career lifestyles, artistic interests and those rarely actually work. I don’t understand how people can say these things don’t matter.I’ve seen both men and women claim sharing every value isn’t necessary and that hobbies are definitely not necessary (really don’t agree). But you could be right, men probably say they don’t care if they’re in a loop hole of just trying to get sex. But at the end of the day, I think everyone cares deep down. Even if a guys just hooking up with a girl i’m sure he’d enjoy it if she was into doing and actually enjoying things he is interested in too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 12:04 AM |
| 5 | People are trying to form relationships without sharing common values, career lifestyles, artistic interests and those rarely actually work. I don’t understand how people can say these things don’t matter.I wouldn’t 100% complain if I had some one night stands or first date hookups but literally every time I meet a woman on a dating app and we go out she wants us to connect more before we get to the sex. But pretty much all of them, I had nothing truly in common with so it would’ve just ended up being me lying to them about really liking them. I’m not sure how people manage to just strike hookups and what not on dating apps, that hasn’t been my experience at all. Most of the girls I see on hinge … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?Yes women are not in control over of who approaches them but women only typically have to worry about working on being attractive and saying yes or no. A guy has to work on being attractive but also approaching. I can see that you've decided to take on the "guy role" with this but i'm sure a much smaller amount of women are in your category. As you said, more educated and liberal women. I'm not sure what percentage that would be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 07:10 PM |
| -9 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?Yup and it’s also that they are rarely transparent about whether they find us physically attractive. Oh and that for some reason a lot of women are super flaky after showing interest in you. It becomes a thing of like, ok if this girl isn’t super pressed about me then she’s probably not going to want to text me much, talk on the phone, go out together, be physical etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 05:58 PM |
| -4 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?Well thats where being direct and transparent would benefit everyone, but most people would rather tread lightly around what they really want to say because thats our culture now. You gotta think about it like this. Most of us guys don’t get any compliments about how we look, on our physical appearance. Most guys think that if a girl compliments us on anything, then that means the girl actually finds us physically attractive. One of my friends even told me that he thinks that girls know it’s dan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?True but I feel like those subtle ones take time to hash out depending on the settings. Like if its just me going to the grocery store or a fast food restaurant i’m not so sure i’ll be able to pick out these subtle hints girls consider obvious ones off that first encounter. Back when I was in school, those things were a lot easier as girls somewhat eventually would put themselves in your radius if they liked you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Are most women standoffish because that is their nature or is it a social construct?Yea but if it’s by percentage you have to think about how many women really really wanted to say something…but they didn’t. As a man a big reason i’m so standoffish myself is because i’m pretty sure a lot of girls I want will curve me (currently at least). There’s things I can do to attract the type of women I want but it’s material things to be honest, but thats ok. Eventually i’ll shoot my shot a little more but I still prefer attracting women instead of having to persuade them. A lot of red p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/25 04:10 PM |
| – | Men's love and attraction is conditional on a women being young and attractiveThats fair I wouldn’t deny that but I just think it does still apply to both sexes. Love isn’t easy, most women’s reasons for being with a man aren’t necessarily based in true love either. In my opinion love should be as close to unconditional as possible but most women’s also have tons and tons of conditions. So realistically both men and women struggle to obtain a relationship that is truly built on love for someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 10:28 AM |
| – | Men's love and attraction is conditional on a women being young and attractiveLol its a mixture some relationships go like you are describing and some do not. Its not black and white. Some women are gold diggers and some men are gold diggers. Some women only care about a guys physical traits and some men only care about a womans physical traits. In your post you are talking about what you care about not how it goes for every relationship. But yes, a lot of men who realize they do not want to be married do prefer fucking around and of course typically that entails going fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/25 10:18 AM |
| 5 | What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet?Isn’t there liking a guy as a friend and seeing him as a potential sex partner or liking sex with him two different things though? I mean, everybody wants to have both of these things. I’m sure both sexes would absolutely lose their mind if they could only have platonic relationships. And how do you compare the value of a sexual relationship and a platonic relationship? It would just depend on the individual people right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/25 01:53 AM |
| 1 | What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet?That makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 12:54 AM |
| -1 | What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet?I have but looking back at it now it was a mistake because the girl wasn’t even unattractive. This is when I was younger though I don’t know what I was thinking about… But hes just saying generally woman control access to sex. You have to understand, a lot of us are slightly or even extremely thirsty for sex because of how much it takes to get and maintain it, especially with women that we like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 12:50 AM |
| 0 | What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet?I meant the men breaking up with women because they want sex before we do part | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/25 12:46 AM |
| -1 | What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet?I mean I could see that but I would expect thats something a very small amount of people both men and women would do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 10:33 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet?Thats my point in asking and what I noted in the text. I’m impatient with dating right now because most girls I match on dating apps are never truly my type. I just kind of look for flings but it seems like every girl i’ve gone on a date with is trying to date date not one night stand or fwb. Its like i have to throw it in my bio or something to get exactly what I want. Essentially i’m asking, what makes a girl pick a guy for a fling lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 09:55 PM |
| 1 | What is the difference between a guy women make wait for sex and a guy guy that gets it shortly after you first meet?Wait huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/03/25 09:48 PM |
| – | Fellow men, does how a woman dresses affect your level of attraction to her?Idk. Dress like a muslim woman? If you have curves idk there may be nothing that you can do lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 08:33 PM |
| – | Fellow men, does how a woman dresses affect your level of attraction to her?I mostly agree especially with the heels damaging their feet! Another weird creation that our culture just continues to honor. I’m just not really against revealing clothes. I don’t necessarily think that makes her a hoe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 08:31 PM |
| – | Fellow men, does how a woman dresses affect your level of attraction to her?I mean, there is looking at it as its art and I respect that side of it to an extent. But it’s when women think that it makes them more attractive is one of the problems I have with it. Like throwing makeup on for a special occasion with the intent of “this is a special occasion and the makeup is necessary because it makes me look better” vs a makeup artist doing it 24/7 is slightly different. Thats kind of how the big eyelash thing is. It’s really just art, it’s not necessarily more attractive … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 08:27 PM |
| – | Fellow men, does how a woman dresses affect your level of attraction to her?That too good point. I can definitely determine the shape of a womans body with most types of clothing so it doesn’t really have to be revealing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 08:19 PM |
| – | Fellow men, does how a woman dresses affect your level of attraction to her?So she can wear a giant sweater outside and still be sexy to you before she undresses too yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 08:17 PM |
| – | Fellow men, does how a woman dresses affect your level of attraction to her?Personally I like big lips. And just being real, it could be racially motivated a bit because i’m sure less caucasian guys are into big lips than other races. Lips fillers can still look ridiculous regardless so it depends. But yea I mean, either way, all guys don’t like big lips so as I said in my post, body mods like clothes, and tattoos etc only attract specific groups of people so you cut yourself off from the other groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 08:15 PM |
| – | Fellow men, does how a woman dresses affect your level of attraction to her?But what about naked in your bed glistening with sweat lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 07:47 PM |
| 0 | Don’t women not really care about how a man dresses & isn’t wearing nice clothes just something guys y’all aren’t as physically attracted to can attempt to use to add points?Yea but it’s a common thing for both women and men to think buying better clothes will attract the opposite sex but I don’t really think so. Pop the balloons is like a session of real life tinder. A guy or girl says a little bit about herself and then a group of guys or a group of girls either pop or keep their balloon and then they ask more about each other if the person kept their balloon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/25 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Guys Don’t Like Dating Apps and Instagram For Only One ReasonI mean you just put your height in your bio, but I guess you can look tall in some pictures too. And on how much does height matter, I would say it depends. Face is always first, some say height is second but I think physique is second. Most guys are average height or around average height so if you have a nice face and physique you should be good with a good amount of women. I looked in another forum before and women were saying they just want a guy to be about within 4 inches taller than them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Guys Don’t Like Dating Apps and Instagram For Only One ReasonYou are only somewhat correct. I have friends that are average (5/10) that have had sex with multiple 7/10 women. They are by no means chad, like not at all. Average height, non square jaw line, skinny asf etc…I myself am probably only slightly above average but I was able to get about 400 matches. It’s not just about how you look. It’s about what you wear, where your pictures are located, your bio somewhat & not sending weird extra messages to them like some extra strange pick up lines. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Guys Don’t Like Dating Apps and Instagram For Only One ReasonWell isn’t this also how it would work in a real life dating pool also? Just as most of us men wouldn’t want the average or below average women, most women don’t want average or below average men. So it’s only synonymous with real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Guys Don’t Like Dating Apps and Instagram For Only One ReasonI have a couple of friends who have had multiple dates and have had sex on first dates without even bringing up sex prior. Like they literally just go on a coffee date and then the girl invites them back to her house or something and boom. I had like 200 matches on both hinge and twitter but somehow managed to not find a gf or fuck any of them. But I will give it another go when I take more pictures this year. But yea you’re right to be honest. You can definitely get girls on Instagram too if yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/25 04:22 PM |
| – | When it comes to how women experience “desire,” men have to accept that “carnal attraction” is MORE than “looks”Every time anyone posts in this subreddit about how guys care about looks too much, most of them choose to deny it. Regardless, the facts are i’ve seen plenty of guys that are definitely not what typical pill standards consider a 9/10 male face with height chad combo pull tons of model level women. You can be a 3-5/10 guy and pull 8-10/10 women. 9-10/10 is extremely subjective for both sexes. Most people don’t want 1s, 2s and 3s just being real but 4-8 is subjective too. There’s guys women consi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/24 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Sure, men are “thirsty” but women are possessive. It’s natural.My point of posting this is that I find it funny that most women cannot see the reason men are promiscuous and cannot see that they are often possessive and needy. And it’s usually not just about money or taking care of a child because i’m also referring to women who have plenty of money and a father who is present in their kids life. It’s simply that women want men for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 03:40 PM |
| -1 | Sure, men are “thirsty” but women are possessive. It’s natural.I’m not saying no men are jealous and possessive but women have the record for those traits by a long-shot. Rejection is a little different, a lot of men don’t like failing to get what they want. If they had availability to more than just their crush or in other words, if their success rate was high it’d be easier to get over some rejection. And for the most part there’s no point of caring about body count. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Sure, men are “thirsty” but women are possessive. It’s natural.My main point isn’t that women should be ok with it, just that it is natural for most men to do it. And as technical end says, it is natural for women to cheat as well. But, women are also more possessive than they are promiscuous and men are more promiscuous than they are possessive. My other point is that I don’t understand why so many women think it is weird or silly that men are promiscuous considering so many women become so possessive and needy for one partner. I’ve heard many women (even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 03:26 PM |
| -2 | Sure, men are “thirsty” but women are possessive. It’s natural.Even men who have the means to take care of multiple children are getting called deadbeat father’s, narcissistic, etc. It’s not really just about the money, it’s more so about the attention/time. Nick Cannon is a good example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 03:04 PM |
| 1 | I Don’t Consider A Spouse As A Member of My Family.I mean some of this just depends on who you marry. But of course she’s not your immediate family. Some people do get close and stay together forever though, with or without marriage. Thats why marriage is overrated and yes some people get married or become acquainted in general for all the wrong reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/24 01:56 AM |
| 1 | CMV: love is a weapon of the patriarchyMight as well just say most “love” based relationships are overrated (they 100% are). It’s more realistic to believe a person should like more than one person in their lifetime. Everything that comes with the definition of “love” is basically just over exaggerating that you like someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/24 04:55 AM |
| 0 | People are so weird when it comes to the porn industry and it just makes them sound weak or insecure about sex and their own sexualityI can agree with that on the 8th graders, but I don’t agree that it makes that type of porn inherently bad for existing. What exactly do you mean by desensitization issues though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:47 PM |
| 2 | People are so weird when it comes to the porn industry and it just makes them sound weak or insecure about sex and their own sexualityPeople can’t seem to understand that just because they don’t have that kind of sex doesn’t mean no one does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:21 PM |
| 1 | People are so weird when it comes to the porn industry and it just makes them sound weak or insecure about sex and their own sexualityLol huh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | People are so weird when it comes to the porn industry and it just makes them sound weak or insecure about sex and their own sexualityNobody needs it to survive but I don’t agree with most of the reasons people demonize it. Everything has positives and negatives and I don’t necessarily agree that porn or sex work is majority negative. A lot of industries we have are probably far more on the negative side than porn is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:17 PM |
| 4 | People are so weird when it comes to the porn industry and it just makes them sound weak or insecure about sex and their own sexualityYea they contradict themselves. They complain about women making a lot of money from sex work and say women aren’t good for anything but selling pussy and then the women they go for are sex workers. Because they’ll also say they don’t “want their girl(s) to work” because the man is supposed to provide and then treat them like a sex worker anyway lol. I think it’s just a power and control thing, they want to go for dumb/poor girls and manipulate them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 06:14 PM |
| 0 | People are so weird when it comes to the porn industry and it just makes them sound weak or insecure about sex and their own sexualityBecause, I don’t see how porn is inherently harmful. I used to use weed and drink alcohol but now I see how those are inherently harmful. Porn isn’t exactly like doing drugs. With drugs it doesn’t really matter how you use them, they damage your body. You smoke it damages your body, you drink it damages your body, you take pills it damages your body. Porn doesn’t necessarily do any of those unless the individual person allows it to. Some people have the inclination to do super violent things. Wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 05:56 PM |
| 4 | People are so weird when it comes to the porn industry and it just makes them sound weak or insecure about sex and their own sexualityTheres a significant amount of women that like doing the stuff that’s in porn that you consider “degrading”. While it is probably a smaller amount of women, most likely 20-30% of them they actually like doing “kinkier” stuff. And a much larger, probably surprising percent of women to you, like to be the idea of being “dominated” when having sex. The way women are dressed? Really? Women love wearing sexy shit. Finishing on a girls face is demeaning really lol? Again, a lot of girls like doing shi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 05:42 PM |
| 4 | People are so weird when it comes to the porn industry and it just makes them sound weak or insecure about sex and their own sexualityThat’s like saying drugs are bad because they have killed people. Drugs both kill and keep people alive. I’ve heard people say they would’ve killed themselves without weed or other drugs that help them with whatever mental issues they have even if they are temporary ones while they get actual psychological help. I’m saying all that to say, again, almost anything can be viewed as helping many people and hurting many people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 10:35 AM |
| 2 | People are so weird when it comes to the porn industry and it just makes them sound weak or insecure about sex and their own sexualityI haven’t looked into all of the ethical concerns so I can’t really create an opinion about what I think about them but on the surface it seems like it’s things most people just simply think are “bad”. For example, an 18 yr old girl making an onlyfans and making 100k in a year. On the “harm it does to actual relationships”. I mean, whose fault is that. The porn existing, or the person in the relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksAnyways whats your idea about all the other jeremy meeks look alike guys that arent marrying a rich fashion brand owner? He just simply got lucky looks still arent everything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksThat’s literally all they said in the video was that he got 100k likes on the mugshot and some celebrities tweeted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksBut this is equivalent to saying would more women look at the shorter hot guy if he was famous, rich, or a combination of both. Which is obviously a yes. My bet is if women are in a room with Zac Efron and a random hot 6ft 4 super model they’re gonna pay more attention to Zac Efron. And if Zac Efron is in a room with Henry Cavil then it depends randomly what women are more into because just as many women are crazy about Zac as they are Henry if not more... If a 6-8 can beat a 9.5 looks simply ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksYeah, but i’ve seen ugly people get 100k likes too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksNo. You began with “the number of celibate single men who are financially secure is on the rise”. My rebuttal to that was most of them do not touch grass. As in, most of them are probably very much capable of not being celibate but they only go to work, go home and wonder how they are supposed to fuck a girl without applying themselves in different ways in the real world. So no of course it’s not as simple as just go out and socialize but that’s a major component of it that a lot of guys ARE NOT… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksYou seem to not have understood my thesis anyway. Social stratification (Wealth/Income, Social class, Occupation, Popularity) are far more important than being a 6-9.5 in looks but you’ll try to muster up every reason as to why looks are all that matter when time and time again there are clear examples of women dating guys that are not jason momoa or henry cavill. Time and time again these 9.5 guys that everyone puts on a pedestal still are not keeping a woman. They end up divorced too. So again… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 01:12 PM |
| 0 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksThe idea that we can’t satisfy women’s physical desires as an “average” looking man, which could truly be anything from a 4-7 depending on the woman is a huge fallacy. All women are not dating average men and then 24/7 crying in bed like “woe is me I wish I had a super model 9.5 guy I HAVE TO CHEAT ON MY BF/HUSBAND with a 9.5 ;(“. <image> Plus women date 9.5s and even those end up in a break up/divorce often. So clearly looks aren’t everything. The alpha fux beta bux shit is to a large extent wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksGreat link ty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksLol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksThis is also her: “Most women can agree on what a conventionally handsome man is, but our lived experience influences many of us to have “types.” I can tell what men MOST women will find attractive. Once we get into the realm of men who (and I hate to use the rating system) are like a 6 or 7 suddenly opinions differ a lot. Men who I realize a lot of women would call a 6 and think nothing of, I think are gorgeous. Why? Because frankly, they’re my physical type. Men who remind me of my first coupl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 12:09 PM |
| 3 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksSure bud | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 10:02 AM |
| 0 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksNo it’s not. Touch grass is an idiom for spend less time behind a screen and actually go out and socialize with plenty of women in different settings. A lot of jobs are working behind a screen or male dominated and have a small variety of women to choose from. I’m not understanding how you are correlating that idiom with not being attractive whatsoever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 10:01 AM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksIt is exactly the same thing as being attracted to a guy because as you said, majority of the time they aren’t even self aware that it isn’t how hot a guy is that is making their pussies wet, but rather, the man’s social skills/status In other words, women’s perspective of who is hot physically is changed by a man’s social skills/status and somewhat by their displays of economic security. It’s easy to see this in everyday life. It’s not just “she knows he has money and she’s using him for his mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his lookssocial skills/status & ambition > wealth > strength and height | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 07:11 AM |
| -3 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looks<image> Looks are subjective or every woman deep down wants a 9.5? I highly don’t believe it’s the latter. So even if looks are “just as relevant as the other factors” what’s physically attractive is too complex to define. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 07:04 AM |
| -5 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksThat’s because a lot of guys are choosing not to touch grass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksSo I need a degree to properly interpret these studies but other guys can jump on here freely and say all women want the tallest, biggest, strongest jawed, long face man they can get based on evolution and if you aren’t that, then you’re cooked? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 06:45 AM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksI mean thats a fair assessment but what if you are just a popular guy and big earner in life then what, you can’t hide that you’re popular and a big earner. Personally I don’t really care if most women “truly” like me and i’ve thought about all of this a lot. I hear you, it’s less likely for you to lose your looks but it’s still not a real marker that someone really likes you. Morals are going to be the most important thing and if a woman’s intent is be with someone, and that someone is you then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksArt school students are probably way more social than most engineering students and art is sensual in and of itself so this is not such a great example. Again, money helps yes but social abilities/status are also very important and arguably the main factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksActually a little bit of asymmetry is what makes the faces we find beautiful what they are. Nothing in nature is perfectly symmetrical and literally every persons right side and left side of their face look different. So no I disagree, all 3 of these women’s faces are ruined by making both sides the same… It’s actually a little strange to look at and process. <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksThey don’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looks<image> If you’re a 5-7 here what’s keeping you from beating ole strong ass jaw 9.5s? Like all the guys here can’t seriously be telling me that women only think crimson jaw chad super models are 9.5s? All hot girls boyfriends and husbands fit that build? No they don’t so yes money, dressing well and social skills/status outweigh a dude being Jeremy Meeks and whoever these other same exact face dudes on this chart are. Literally unless you’re COOKED which is a 0.5-2 maybe 3 you can probably still… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 01:29 AM |
| 2 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksEh that’s pretty debatable there’s plenty of guys gooning off to “milfs” every single day some cases multiple times a day. Guys are just yapping when they say they don’t find any older women attractive. And 25 is a very crazy cut off age. If anything i’d say a woman’s looks prime is basically the same as a mans 18-45. And i’m not talking about prime as far as getting a woman pregnant, that a different age set (puberty to early 30s). Guys that are into those ideas like to shoot for girls that are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 01:17 AM |
| 0 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksI would not take a chubby ugly wife over hookers/sugar babies if I was cooked. I’d earn as much money as I could until one was down bad enough to let me knock her up and then just raise my kids and if she leaves me oh well, women leave hot dudes too. But i’m not cooked so…i’m just talking hypothetical lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/24 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksI’m curious what you meant by song, I am a music fanatic myself it’s also what I want to do with my life sadly, be a music artist… But anyways, even if I was a 10/10 man i’m personally not against the idea of paying women directly for sex because i’m not dogmatic about a guy needing to not be promiscuous or trying to get married without living life a little bit. Plus, marriage isn’t for everyone and trying to force it with every single girl is unreal and begging for divorce…fairytale love… It’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksBut I agree with some of this, i’m looking for open minded, shares some of my very important interests, logical, and empathetic with me (not with everyone) but it’s just an undeniable fact that women look at social status and economic security. That’s why so many of them publicly display their obsessions with celebrities and celebrity lifestyle. I mean, how often do you hear guys claiming they love their favorite actor, musician, politician etc? Women are just built different. And these celebrit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksIn the real world I see average guys fucking hot women almost just as much as I see hot guys fucking hot women. On the internet I see below average guys claiming only hot guys fuck hot women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksSheeeesh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looks😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksThey don’t always reveal your kindness, empathy or values but they often do. Personally i’m not of the belief than anyone is supposed to be overly kind, empathetic or have overly dogmatic values anyway. Those can make for a weak person, it’s about balance to me. Everybody has a face and there’s tons of men and women that look good, it doesn’t really make any of us special or different in anyway in comparison to how someone socializes, what their career choice is and how they obtain resources. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksThe thing is you type of guys all drop that “women seek beta make providers once they’ve got the house phase out of their system” like it’s the gospel or something when it’s not facts. A lot of these guys they fuck during their hoe phase are not Don Juan either bud lol. Y’all think pretty women are all fucking 10/10 super model guys all day everyday or something it doesn’t make the slightest bit of sense. The point of the post is, most women are not fucking around to the extent a man would in hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksYet, it’s still foolish for a man to seek and impregnate poor & weak women, hence a decent amount of guys don’t seek and impregnate poor & weak women unless they themselves are poor & weak, generous, or foolish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 07:06 PM |
| 3 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksThats terrible but I mean some people have mental things going on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looks😂 lol you sound convinced so i’ll spare you of any further attempt of convincing you that it’s not the way things work but one last thing. And sure, women can want perfection all they want on paper and objectively like you’re choosing to believe, but life doesn’t work like that, nobody is perfect. Just as you are saying that I don’t know what the relationships of my examples are like, you can find plenty of scenarios of women with guys that on the surface seem to have everything they need but th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 06:56 PM |
| 3 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksThat sucks, never quit. Unless you’re 100% cooked. And if you’re 100% cooked but you really want hot women then you gotta pay for service, is what it is lol. And if you want a wifey then idk gotta settle for less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksIt’s not a matter of using money to date, it’s that social abilities and your level of economic security can make women’s perspective of your physical attractiveness different. It’s like “oh he’s good enough for me now” or even altogether they just don’t view certain guys as lesser than say a super model. Plus the looks game is a lot more subjective, rather than how so many guys think it is objective. If guys would just look around more it’s easy to spot plenty of guys that are not super models … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 06:35 PM |
| 4 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksLol what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 06:24 PM |
| 2 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksIt goes both ways. For an average guy good grooming, proper hygiene, and dressing great can very well turn what a woman claim was a 5 to anything higher for sure. I’ve seen it plenty of times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksNone of them would admit it on my other post and about 15 guys were very adamant about money and resources being irrelevant and nothing but looks matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksI definitely get that, I think it’s a numbers game to be honest. Some girls actually liked me and I over read social aspects and gave up too quickly because of being a horny fuck. And other times I waited too long to push things forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksThe premise is that your social status/abilities and level of economic security change women’s perceived rating of your physical attractiveness. That is not to say that a 2/10 guy now looks like a 8/10, but rather a guy that’s is average (5/10) could appear to be anything higher than a 5 if he comes with good socials and economic security depending on what woman it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksYea same, it’s 100% the way they communicate and make women feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 05:33 PM |
| 0 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksI mean, at least social level and economic level are things we can actually change about ourselves. I would rather a woman care about those than the things i’m 100% born with because realistically social and economic level are things that I should want to do to better my own life anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksYea exactly that too, personally i’m fine with 5s-7s. I’m big on sex appeal though. That sexual compatibility is important, amongst many other things not just if she’s a 10/10. Of course I understand guys preferring a 10/10, but like you said we can’t all land that, especially not consistently so yeah dudes definitely need to lower their standards. Plenty of women need to lower their standards too lol. And nah you’re 100% right, I’ve had quite a few homies that are 5/10s or even lower that const… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksI don’t think most guys are. Only if a guy is completely bare bottom in looks and even then I still think there’s things that can change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 05:11 PM |
| 10 | Studies consistently show that women do not all perceive the same type of men as physically attractive, that a high majority of women prefer long term relationships and that a man’s social status/abilities and economic security are far more important than his looksMost women prefer long term partners. It naturally makes more sense for women to not be promiscuous than a man. With the advent of birth control, condoms, and abortion it is to an extent less of a risk for women but it still comes with more risks for women to fuck around than men. Women are even more in danger of getting STD’s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possess?????? The argument by most of the males on here are pushing that women like a specific set of guys. I know women aren’t attracted to one look in a guy, but that also proves that looks are not the primary factor that women search for. These guys claim without a strong jawline, symmetrical face, a super muscular body, and an as tall and wide body as possible we are cooked. It doesn’t work like that. And your personal response was that no woman becomes physically attracted to a man because he has … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessI didn’t say bald IT analyst. Some dudes are cooked I already said that. Again, you’re choosing who to read to push a narrative. I just see it for what it is when you and many others clearly can’t see the effect certain skills and money can have for an “average” looking guy. I have plenty of friends too that are average asf smashing models off of doing photography, styling and just being around celebrities. No money involved they didn’t pay them shit. Regardless you don’t need to be a chad statu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessThey don’t want to admit it. They also can’t understand that it ain’t tricking if you got it. And, that there will forever be millions of women that prefer being direct in their nature and choosing the prostitute or good digging lifestyles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 08:14 AM |
| 0 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessYou think the guys from The Beatles fit the chad archetype? David Bowie? I could go on and on there’s endless that aren’t “chad” and they aren’t super models. They are average looking guys women have convinced themselves are hot. There’s even plenty of tall ugly basketball players that get tons of women wet. Women were/are fantasizing, fingering themselves and obsessing over these type of guys 24/7 meanwhile everyone wants to claim “they aren’t actually attracted to them”. It makes 0 sense. They… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessYes because what you’re saying must be true, because all women choose chad… News flash, all women don’t choose chad, so where are you getting that looks are the most important thing? Women come on here all the time and say looks aren’t the most important thing. Only guys keep spreading those ideas. It’s similar to how mostly guys spread the big dick thing, when a lot of women straight up tell you they don’t really give a shit about it. Guys are way more obsessed with guys looks not women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessWomen are attracted to men because of their skills and money all the time you’re just being blind to it because you want looks to be the only factor… But ok whatever, keep telling yourself and other men looks is the only way to attract women when that’s clearly not the way it works. And people can’t always make more money keep convincing yourself of that one too lol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessThat just doesn’t explain why women have the physical desire of guys that aren’t super models but have money and showcase skills, like rockstars and stuff though. There are quite a few average to ugly rockstars who fucked tons of women. Sure a decent amount of em were probably gold diggers, but i’m sure there was a large amount who were also still truly getting wet, geeking out about these guys and talking about they love them and that they saved their lives and shit. I hear it all the time tbh … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessIt matters because its the same as the guys who are 2/10’s with nothing else going for them thinking they can land a 8+ woman with some cool words and taking her out on a $100 date. A 1/10 woman can’t land a high value or good looking guy but they are some of the main ones that are talking about all this 6ft+ 6 figures stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 09:59 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessThis is true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessUnless you’re a woman saying this lol which I doubt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessMen need to play the game the right way. Women cheat on, have toxic relationships with and leave attractive men and take all their money too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessExactly, you get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessYou have an agenda probably. You either look good or you think you’re ugly and don’t want to admit that money could help you cause you don’t have a lot of that either. Or you do have it but don’t apply yourself the right way with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 09:45 PM |
| -1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessOk have you ever seen a guy thats average or even ugly with money pull a lot of women? If you haven’t you’re choosing to miss it cause it’s very common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 09:41 PM |
| 0 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessBut we didn’t evolve out of having traits that are only carried by men and traits that are only carried by women, so that’s why I said designed. It’s like design: “the look and functioning of (a building, garment, or other object)”. So the functioning of a human. “How does a woman typically function?”. And so, I guess i’m not just not understanding how critical you’re being of the terminology so i’m confused lol. But alright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessYea but it’s not even that they are lying about its like they just really can’t understand how it’s a factor in their own choices, which is crazy to me lol. There’s so many women that straight up say it or go after guys with skills and resources, that prove these things are facts, but they can’t understand that it weighs into their choices as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessI wasn’t ignoring your post by the way it was just a lot of people commenting. Takes a second to respond to everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessSo what do you think factors into it? You’re super attractive or something, super model guy? Either way, I was saying skills and money not just money. And also, as another poster said and guys say all the time, with a lot of women it’s just your turn. Sometimes you end up with one that really stays down for whatever reason and a lot of the time you just don’t, attention is fleeting. For both us guys and for women, it’s fleeting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessThank you well said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessPrecisely, and thats probably the main part of why a lot of women are mad about all this abortion law shit because they wanna fuck around with Chadugga Russian Roulette with the abortion safety net so they don’t get stuck raising Chadlets without Chad around to help raise em. And exactly, Bobungas not tryna raise them kids so she’d get kicked to the curb. Hello single mothery. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessI think they could swallow the red pill instead of the black one and just fuck hookers and gold diggers and be happy with that. I mean, unless you mean that they want like friendship with hot women or something? I could never deny that the guys that are really cooked are actually really cooked. They just have to accept the villain lifestyle and pay it forward to be honest, it kind of just is what it is smh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessThey are in response to your large game was a small percentage of calorie intake. I don’t believe that is true, I don’t think small game and plants could always feed entire tribes or would be preferred over the consistent capture of larger animals. Where does it say they were easy to hunt, I didn’t see that part? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessI’m not talking out of my ass lol. Which ones are humans closest related to? I’m sure you know the answer to that one too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessIt sure seems like women go for money and skills when they go after some of these ugly celebrities and seem 100% convinced that they’re sexually attracted too considering they fantasize about them, have posters on their walls, and can’t stop talking about them lol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessSo humans (man and women) are not designed a certain way with specific traits that the other does not typically have? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessNo I understand that hunting small animals is still hunting. And no I just know mostly men hunted larger dangerous prey. And in no way am I saying women are incapable that wasn’t my intent whatsoever. But I do wholeheartedly believe that women are attracted to men that are able to acquire a large amount of resources and definitely a larger amount if they are obtaining a lot for themselves. I’m also personally of the belief that animal foods are supposed makeup the bulks of or diet and especially… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possesshttps://www.researchgate.net/publication/353681144_SUPERSIZE_DOES_MATTER_THE_IMPORTANCE_OF_LARGE_PREY_IN_PALAEOLITHIC_SUBSISTENCE_AND_A_METHOD_FOR_MEASURING_ITS_SIGNIFICANCE_IN_ZOOARCHAEOLOGICAL_ASSEMBLAGES https://www.doctorkiltz.com/carnivore-diet/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessWell first why is designed a bad choice of word, i’m a little confused by your question now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 06:35 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessJust as there is this study, there’s other studies that claim large amount of meat consumption from large game and fish are what contributed to the development of the human brain, not scavenging for nuts, fruit, some squirrels and rabbits. That men did a large majority of the big game hunting and women did this scavenging that you linked. Also, from my understanding most of the time when we scavenged for food it was due to times of struggle or when we’re incapable of catching tons of large game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessFair enough, I guess i’ll have to do some more research on that one then. I have read online, I can’t remember where right now that only men really hunted larger game as a group with the occasional help of some women, and that men acquired most of the resources when scavenging or hunting small game but I can’t remember where right now. There are however, some other sources that claim women acquired just as much small game and plant foods which would make sense to an extent for those. It’s more s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessWell for one by lots of observation. One big example is i’ve heard women say it themselves multiple times that they want a man that can protect and provide for them. And they don’t even have to say it to be honest, so many women’s actions prove this to be a common theme. And even if a woman provides a lot for herself does she not still choose to partner with a man that has more resources than her? (Hypergamy). There’s just a very good amount of traits that are inherently of women that prove they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessIf women participated in these things same proportion as men. Let’s say 50% men 50% women. The men most likely brought back 70% of the food during scavenges if not more. And as for hunts, most women only hunted small game with the occasion of hunting large game still accompanied by many men. Big game required tons of men, just like a war requires tons of men. And yes i’ve done a bit of research so i’m 100% sure but it should also to an extent be pretty clear that thats the way it went down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 06:03 PM |
| 0 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessOh, it was of my understanding that the Maasai are considered a semi nomadic tribe. But either way, I still stand by the rest of what I said as far as men acquiring a bulk of the resources, especially the hunting of large game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:46 PM |
| 0 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessIt seems very much like reality when I see such a large amount of women throwing themselves towards men with money and highly valuable skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:43 PM |
| -1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessNo, my point is the title. Most women are attracted to a man’s skills and ability to acquire resources, very little about the way he looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessNo they’re not. A lot of them are usually average at best compared to models. They usually don’t have height, aren’t muscular or don’t have these super symmetrical faces with a strong jawline that everyone swears women want the most in their men lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessIf we let them get away with that yea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessEven from what I know about tribes, like the Maasai for example men do the hunting and scavenging and women are responsible for mainly household duties such as raising children, cooking, and milking cows. A lot of Maasai men also have multiple wives. And yes I understand they are not the only tribe. But my point was not that women do not hunt or gather at all but that most of the resources are acquired by men especially if it was large game. And what I meant above is that it is realistically mos… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessNo, do you think every rockstar, pop artist, star athlete is a super model? Plenty of girls get wet about them though. Must be the skills and money right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possess😂 uh ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessIf you say so, that doesn’t show overall from the actions and behaviors of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessI’m actually not sure how to respond to this. I just meant attracted. But there’s guys that are very ugly in my opinion with money and women are just fine chasing and fucking them so money must make men sexually attractive to a lot of y’all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessRight 😂 i’m not understanding the logic at all man. It’s also multiple studies done that say shorter people have longer lifespans. There’s actually quite a few benefits to being average height, yet people always want to praise the outliers even though they are the small percentage of the population. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessBiologically as in, the way most women’s bodies are designed in comparison to a man’s, it’s imperative for them to want to be under the wing of a man with a high level of resource acquisition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 05:00 PM |
| -1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessThey participated in it but i’m 100% sure more men were better at the activities than women is what I was saying. And that isn’t a diss to women, just the facts. It’s like, who’s better at sports by large, men or women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessEven most of the women who are 6ft+ i’m very much willing to bet they’re still softer and physically weaker than me. And what I was getting at was a lot of guys basically fetishize women that are shorter than them so they can feel dominant so how is that not weird? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:50 PM |
| 0 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessFactssssss people don’t like to accept these things for what they are. Especially if they tie it into other primate behavior, even though it’s super obvious that all of the similarities are there. And I agree, I just think that women who did not have their own riches would be wary of going and cheating with a poor chad guy, getting pregnant and then left by both the chad guy and their safety net beta man or a sigma man that was actually taking care of her and then now she’s a single mommy… And a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessSure emotional intelligence helps in the way that a leader will need to be able to manipulate people but usually when women speak of emotional intelligence they are only speaking about that emotional aspect of it as far as being nice to them and caring about their feelings. Emotions can get in the way of being a leader. And ok but people throw tall into the equation when that part of it is a highly irrelevant factor. You can be stronger and healthier without being 6ft+. In the wild with weapons … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessI don’t have a fetish for tall women but I don’t care if shes 4 ft 11 or 6ft. Why isn’t it also weird if I only wanted women that are smaller than me? What is it like i’m supposed to be scared and intimidated by taller women or something and so they’re off limits? Only tall guys are good enough for tall women? I just don’t understand the logic. And let me slightly rephrase that. I do care about sexual attraction but aspects like height or big breast and ass I don’t really care about it can be ei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:19 PM |
| 4 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessAs a man why should height be a significant factor in whether or not I want a woman. Even if she was 6ft 2 why should that deter me from wanting her? How does that make a guy weird, desperate and aberrant because he’s not taller than her or of equal height? What if I don’t personally decide whether I like a woman based off of physical attributes she was born with that have virtually zero effect on anything between us? And sure some men are gonna cry about it cause it is pretty lame, but i’m not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possess😂 sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:54 PM |
| -1 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessBut so you’re telling me by large women are better hunters and foragers than men? And you’re telling me they do it even while they’re pregnant? I don’t believe that in the slightest… And how many women fought in wars? Yes women took part in some resource acquisition but men obtained the bulk of it. And I don’t really believe all that low voice high voice nonsense. Some women have deeper voices than some men and some men have higher voices than women. Women nowadays go crazy about guys that can s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:52 PM |
| -6 | Women are biologically attracted to men with resources but especially men with the skills and status to obtain more resources and these are the primary important features for a man to possessSure thats typically the way it goes but you know good and well there are also women that are naturally bigger than a decent amount of men. And ok so, you need a super jaw and 100% symmetrical face in order to indicate “good health and genes”? And, are you sure just emotional intelligence makes a man a good partner and father? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?K | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?I didn’t vote but I wouldn’t have voted Kamala either way sooo… Yes sex is a reward, unless you think people just have sex with anybody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?Not even. Sticking with the dating app idea. If I see a girls profile and she’s a 8+/10 to me but she’s saying some stupid shit in her bio, i’ll probably swipe right but I already know i’m not gonna like her and that it’s unlikely we’ll even go on a date. And if we do go on one I still already know i’m not really going to like her. Now if a girl was a 6/10 or maybe even lower but I liked her bio i’d still swipe right and if we went on a date and I really vibed with her she has a better chance of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 12:35 PM |
| -2 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?Sex is not just something people. Not even animals just have sex even they have to earn it… Your tennis example I don’t understand at all but technically it is also a reward. The rackets, balls and court had to be sourced and then crafted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 12:22 PM |
| 2 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?I really don’t see any logic behind that. If a woman wanted to have sex with say, a rockstar for example. How would her finding a way to attract that, and succeeding not clearly make it a reward? Regardless, at any level, sex is not a given for women. Women can struggle to get sex too especially if it’s specifically from a guy who is of higher value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?I definitely agree with this, I had made another post about men needing to focus on finding women through their hobbies or career because most likely those are their passions and it’s easier to connect with a woman, especially socially if you’re a little socially awkward. Not only that, but i’m 100% sure relationships built through ones passions typically have more of a lit flame than ones built just through physical attraction, or other fleeting assets. And true I have a friend from Canada that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 07:55 AM |
| 2 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?You have to think about it like this though. At what point is is it “simping” for it because some guys are born with things some women want and others are not. Some guys don’t want to go on dates or deal with the emotional aspects of relationships so they pay for sex. Some guys think they’re super ugly (maybe they are) and don’t want to deal with going through constant rejection. It’s as if the only way it’s not simping is if you don’t have to do anything at all to get it but that’s not even rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?So do most women have sex with any guy with a dick, or do they have sex with guys who have specific traits that they like? I’m pretty sure it’s the latter, which would mean men are rewarded with sex and companionship in general for having traits that women like. And yes, women have to earn sex as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?I don’t think it’s free for women I said in a way women don’t have to work as hard to get it. But a further example, if they want a higher value man, they will have to work harder in some way to get and keep him. There’s push and pull for both genders and that’s only just one part of why I think sex is inherently a reward. I’m not sure why the first thing a lot of women jumped to was “we don’t even always orgasm” either. That wasn’t even really all I I was talking about. But even with that, tech… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?Because women don’t have to have as much as a man in order to be seen as valuable. Inherent value is somewhat more of a struggle for men, so they continuously complain about things that they aren’t born with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?Not necessarily, depends on what a guy decides he’s willing to give you for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?Not what I mean by good character. I’m talking about a guy continuing to try or giving up. Being a quitter is not a good character trait in a man, nor a woman either tbh. And lol i’m not complaining I could honestly careless if other guys cry all day about it but I think it’s damaging a lot of mens perspectives, it’s unhealthy. Guys sound pitiful always talking about what women want in such a formulaic way when it’s not even 100% facts. The closest we get to something formulaic that’s generally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 05:10 AM |
| -1 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?Because, not every single woman has a 6ft requirement yet a lot of guys are preaching about that 24/7 like its the gospel and it’s becoming very very annoying. And secondly, because a lot of those same girls that claim they have 6ft requirement would mess with a guy that’s shorter if he had other qualities met on a large scale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 05:00 AM |
| 0 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?Because that’s not good character. A lot of these guys aren’t even irredeemable. It’s stuff they can work on but they rather pinpoint the exact things they can’t change. You can’t simultaneously say you want a 8/10+ girl and not have qualities that add up to make yourself an 8/10+. If you’re a 6/10 physical attractiveness to a girl thats a 9/10 you have to makeup for it with other stuff. So a guy focusing on what he doesn’t have is pointless, which is what most of these bpill guys are doing nowa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?I 100% agree, these are all similar to my intent behind this post. A lot of guys wallow over and over again about the features they don’t have but even guys with some of the features women want still have to work for it. So the constant talk about those features and not doing something else to get what they want screams entitled to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:50 AM |
| 4 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?Precisely, this is exactly it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:45 AM |
| 0 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?Well if you aren’t the most attractive guy in the world physically you have to become attractive in other ways right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:42 AM |
| 0 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?True. I can understand that, there’s some guys who are just really far down the rabbit hole i’ve read it a lot online. I’ve just also seen plenty of “ugly” dudes that get girls and i’m 100% sure it’s because they try their very best to attract women in smooth conversation and just overall working to be a cool guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 11:45 PM |
| 0 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?No not necessarily unless they do it on purpose. And I don’t think sex is entitled just because they are in a relationship with you either. I just think for example, if a a woman has always said she wants a guy that makes a million a year and she stands by that, then a guy who dates her earned her because she wouldn’t be with him otherwise. And that’s just one example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 11:35 PM |
| -1 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?If your husband was the complete opposite of who he is I doubt you would’ve fallen for him is what i’m getting at. He had to work to be whoever he is, so no matter what in a way what he does yo wow you is his work and you are his reward. & vice versa for what you do for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 11:30 PM |
| 0 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?Lol I wasn’t saying to put the pussy on a pedestal but i’m pretty sure a lot of men do want sex. Plus, i’m not really talking about myself behind this post. This is to all of the guy pill communities to an extent. It’s basically pop culture now for guys to be down on themselves if they aren’t Brad Pitt but they don’t realize there are guys that aren’t Brad Pitt that can attract women through other means. That’s all I was trying to communicate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?How isn’t it a reward, for both sexes not just men? A woman has to do whats required of her to get the attention of a man it’s not a given. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 11:23 PM |
| -3 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?No it seems like you and some blue pill women hopped on here making the assumption that it’s only a reward for men and not for women too somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 11:22 PM |
| -2 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?Its a reward for you too unless you’re saying you think a guy would just fuck any girl just because she has a vagina and vicd versa, that a woman would just fuck any guy because he has a penis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 11:21 PM |
| -1 | Sex is a reward not an entitlement. So why are so many guys choosing to lament over the things they cannot change about themselves instead of maximizing the things that they can in order to court women?It can be mutually beneficial but if a woman is ugly, doesn’t take care of her health, is a big meanie crazy girl & bites on her man’s dick on purpose when giving a bj he’s probably gonna break up with her. So i’m pretty sure it’s a reward. A girl has to put work in and trade, a guy has to put work in and trade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?This all makes sense but what if he’s just single? And what if, he’s not that high value. Interactions typically start with physical attraction first no matter what, it’s not really something any of us can ignore. Unless we go somewhere hobby related. For example, if I went to a show with artists performing their music. Then maybe I would be looking past just her physical. With a random it’s about taking a chance. I agree on the knowing that being compatible with a stranger is low. I try to tell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?Makes sense. I mean I somewhat get it, a lot of women are wary about linking up with strangers. I blame some of the media though. I highly doubt a super large amount of men have straight up ill intentions or are even confident enough to ask a girl out if they’re too awkward to go on a date. But either way, they’re always “taking a chance”. Could be a wolf in sheeps clothing throughout the first dates or months, it’s not time specific. So idk, the social proof is super important when it comes to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?No everything needs context. But what if he’s actually a stand up amazing guy and once you guys start talking more and getting to know each other, you realize you actually like him and that he wasn’t just talking to you because he only wanted sex. But I get it, a decent amount of women are afraid that every guy just wants pussy or is on some serial killer timing. But developing past “just a sexual relationship” isn’t easy for anybody, people have to get to know each other and that requires allow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?But why do you assume we just want sex from you? There are a lot of women here saying they find guys attractive that they wouldn’t push any further with unless they get to know him, why can’t that be the same case for a guy with a woman he finds attractive? Guys and girls can and should be friends first. People don’t seem to understand that anymore and it’s something I had to realize myself through dating. Sure plenty of guys will sleep with whatever they can get but that doesn’t mean all of us … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 08:55 PM |
| 0 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?I don’t understand what you’re getting at. So what is the proper way to cold approach a girl when time is short? (a grocery store, shes working, parking lot at a starbucks, etc). And, why do you assume he’s just trying to have sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 08:37 PM |
| 0 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?My b is this better? Hey bitch give me your number so I can show you a good time I got a big ass dick. -_- No i’m not kidding, what’s wrong with letting a girl know you would like to talk to her and get to know her? If a guy asks a girl out obviously he finds her physically attractive. Is he supposed to try and have a 10 minute conversation with her while she’s trying to shop at a store? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?Makes sense. It’s undeniable that there are guys out here that will stalk and do other crazy things to women, so I understand the need to be wary. That’s why social proof is extremely important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?Sheesh. This is really well thought out and structured. Damn near should be put into a book. I found a lot of accuracy in it too (matching some of my own experiences dating). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 07:43 PM |
| 1 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?I would argue that neither a lot of men or women make the first move. Sure, there’s more guys that have realized they have to make the first move BECAUSE a lesser percentage of women make the first move than men, but overall it seems pretty clear that both men and women are very stand offish with “strangers” that they find attractive. A lot of women just don’t see that they have to give a guy a chance first, to get to know them. A lot of girls in here are saying they won’t give a stranger their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 07:25 PM |
| 6 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?Well I guess in your case it wouldn’t even matter if the pretty part was left out of the sentence since a stranger would basically have zero chance with you. But my question now is, how do you know his intent would only be to fuck you. Most of us guys or even women don’t know if a girl or guy is worthy of being more than just physically attractive until we spend time with each other right? So you have to take that chance somewhere. Otherwise you can only meet a partner through shared activities … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?So cool! & true a lot of guys mis interpret the whole cold approach thing nowadays because of rejection but mainly because a decent amount of girls claim they don’t want to go out with strangers (for all the obvious reasons). How else do you get to know someone besides if you met at a shared hobby or something, but even then you’re still “strangers” so might as well shoot your shot like you said. Some girls won’t take the leap and some will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 02:27 PM |
| 4 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?Now this makes a lot of sense. This is the same perspective I have on it when it comes to women. Like obviously I have a “type”, as everyone does to an extent. But theres millions of women on earth and so looks wise there will be millions of women I find attractive and while at a lesser extent, i’m sure it is the same for women being physically attracted to men. But so, there’s no way for a guy to have a full blown conversation with you in certain scenarios. So what would you say you require for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?The way I see it, is kind of like how dating apps are to an extent, women definitely match first off of looks. But after that initial stage being passed, it’s like, how much of a conversation and what would he have to say to get your number / set a date with you? Or is that just not a way you personally would ever allow a man into your life? I do see that you are saying if you are around a guy on a regular basis you are more comfortable making a 1st move, which implies that you share some kind o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him?Interesting i’m seeing this as a pretty common response already. The way I see it, is kind of like how dating apps are to an extent except contrary to what you’re saying, women definitely match first off of looks. But after that initial stage being passed, how much of a conversation would you say you require for a stranger to get your number / set a date with you? Or is that just not a way you personally would ever allow a man into your life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/24 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itNah thats an odd take. I love myself. Now that you mention it, yourself is actually probably the only thing you can 100% love, family second to that maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 03:19 AM |
| 0 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itWell it depends what you consider as shallow and mundane. For me I like simplicity so things such as “my girl owns her own business” and “she’s super smart, she’s a nurse or scientist” are superficial to me, I don’t really care about those things. Undying loyalty, cheering me on and not a bunch of other guys or like celebrities and shit, giving me her attention, being pretty (to me, not necessarily to everyone…which is how most ppl choose what they find attractive), a large love for music (bonus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itIt’s like a scale to me. The issue I see is that a lot of women want so much from a guy and we typically don’t require anything close to as much from them. But idk as i’ve heard some red pillers say, guys typically have to choose to love unconditionally whereas most women just simply won’t or cannot. And again its a scale, i’m not saying a guy should be able to abuse his girl or something but rather, things like would she even want to be with you if you weren’t making the money you do, 6ft 2, “f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/24 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itI’m not necessarily super valuable right now and i’m willing to admit that as I already did. But my point is that i’ve consistently witnessed girls express how they feel about guys that do technically have more value while being stale towards me. And i’m sure many other guys experience that too. And these aren’t super high value women i’m talking about either tbh they just simply also only really respect more successful guys. See I didn’t say she’s only good for her looks I just don’t personally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 05:56 AM |
| -5 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itI’m an artist (music) so I don’t really care about anything except her being pretty to me, she likes to spend time with me without spending a bunch of money and I mean of course good sexual compatibility. It helps if she’s also artistic and likes to listen to the same stuff as me but also has an open ear, and enjoys concerts. Why are you asking though? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 05:45 AM |
| 0 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itWould our “heart get broken” if we were the best version of ourselves and women chased us the same way so many of guys chase you all? The ball is in women’s court nowadays tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 05:34 AM |
| -1 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itI’ve noticed that women have no problem expressing interest in and chasing guys that they find attractive but they’ll lead on guys that they currently only think are “ok”. So, me not being at my best in life yet and “being able to love” women hasn’t been going so great for me. I now prefer “being loved” above all else, my heart has gone cold. I don’t really like expressing my interest in women first anymore because i’ve consistently been treated in a stale way. I’d rather focus on myself and “be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 05:30 AM |
| 0 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itHow does it make it more valuable if I have to be super successful to attract and keep the type of women that I want. Imo that automatically makes it invaluable because it’s inauthentic to me. For that one girl that’s only with me for mundane things, there’s tons of others that would also fill the role. So to call that love is just odd to me. Like sure, we can both generally care about each other but is it really LOVE like some movie shit or if me or her died we’d just move on the next day just … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 04:59 AM |
| 2 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itI have experienced it. I don’t think it really exists too much outside of family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 04:47 AM |
| 7 | Love doesn’t really exist and it’s detrimental for most people to seek after itI use the family example because it is the most pure version of someone caring, it’s the closest to caring without reason. E.g, I choose to love my brother just because he’s my brother. There’s so much i’d let him get away with even morally and i’d still care for his wellbeing as he goes through life on this planet…But others i’d argue damn near 99.9% require multiple things from you to even want to be in your life, so its just not authentic to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/24 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Women shouldn’t complain about the current dating/relationship/sexual landscape when this is everything they wantedAll women don’t want those things but i’m confused, because that’s actually what’s sort of being taken away from them. They want to be able to have sex when they want with no repercussions. They don’t want to have kids that they have to take care of. That they have to spend money on. That they have to spend time with, being idle taking care of. They don’t want to have to spend several months not being able to get high, take pills and drink. They don’t want to teach a child any true skills. We st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 12:16 PM |
| – | Boycotting sex with men won't work..Any woman saying they are gonna boycott sex is just being dramatic. They were already “boycotting sex” basically, what are they gonna do “boycott” it more?Nobody is gonna stop having sex, women are always having sex with guys that they like. I don’t know why a lot of these women are acting like no abortion is the end of the world, I mean what did women do before abortion was an entitled service? They worked harder to make sure they didn’t get pregnant from the sex they were having in the first p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Most men basically worship women.Yea because society is made up in a way where men have to obtain literally everything before being given power over a woman. Things were not always like this, as men were naturally more valuable than most women due to having higher capability to be a scavenger, a hunter, or a warrior. Looks were not as much of a factor in whether a man was desirable and neither were social abilities to an extent. It was a lot more of a man vs man to obtain the women society, probably about 90% male dominated if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesVery well said. As are all of your other comments and discussions on this post. It’s a very interesting time we’re living in, where we can see the character and behavior of a lot of men through social media. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesEh. You can be “ugly” and get 8s9s maybe even your 10 if you’re interesting and live a full life by yourself. I’ve seen quite a few 5 guys with beautiful women. They aren’t the norm though because a lot of guys wallow about their looks and do nothing about it when they aren’t irredeemably ugly. As long as you aren’t a 1-3/10 which is probably not super common, if you do everything else right you can land 7-10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 12:27 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesI think there’s a balance as there is definitely select activities that women value and that a man should value as well. All of the attractive hobbies on that list can better a man as a person while the unattractive ones typically destroy a man especially if they are done excessively. That is not to say, don’t do them sometimes if they make you happy but they aren’t exactly healthy or beneficial to ourselves or society and aren’t attractive activities because of that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesWait can you retype that i’m a little lost lol. He was attempting to justify that cold approaching is good but 20% of the women said that they called the police? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesI think most humans actually have a natural instinct when it comes to whether an activity is good for us or attractive. Playing video games is fun, but even as an avid gamer myself I know it’s not healthy to be playing for tons of hours and it definitely isn’t attractive. If a girl played games for 8hrs a day, even if I played a lot myself at the time it would make me not attracted to her. I’ve experienced women fantasizing about celebrity musicians etc while being heavily into video games. Just… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesIt’s as some of the other guys say i’m not completely disregarding the idea that some sexual attraction is still necessary.. But if a man actually really takes a hobby seriously and he’s good at it I can surely see that helping him to attract women. I hear you on the cooking but it’s in the sense that, cooking is also an art and can be presented in a sensual way. Say he has like pictures or videos up of his cooking, painting, music performance, reading from his book collection and talking about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesWell said. Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 11:36 AM |
| 1 | How much of the differences between men and women behavior is because of brain chemistry and how much is due to our environmentInteresting. So you do not believe that there is any truth to the most women are attracted to tall guys with a strong jaw line that are more “masculine” idea? I have always been skeptical of it and thought that we it may not really be accurate. More so that it was probably just conditioning based on culture and what people promote, choose to believe in and spread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 10:21 AM |
| 1 | How much of the differences between men and women behavior is because of brain chemistry and how much is due to our environmentI think certain aspects of it are confusing. Because, science claims that more testosterone makes you more masculine and attracted to feminine features and estrogen makes you more feminine and attracted to masculine features. But then you have to ask yourself a few question. Like what features are considered masculine and what is considered feminine? And to what extent do those hormones make you attracted to which men or women, or attracted to men or women at all? Like if a guy is 5ft 1 does tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesI would argue, that even those types of girls will probably be more attracted to guys who do the attractive activities more than the unattractive ones. There’s just a certain capacity to how far you can go with all of those unless you literally write comic books or write anime. But at that point i’d consider it on the attractive list under “writing”. They’re more so talking about reading and collecting comic books and watching 100s of anime. Those things become a waste of time. And I actually li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 09:19 PM |
| 0 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesThen there is also the “looks are more important cope”. I don’t know. I guess I get it if you look really bad but that’s not usually the case lol. Like there are some things you can do about your appearance. The height and facial features thing I don’t think is 100% accurate either per se. They act like every dude who’s 6ft 5 and the Superman guy are just out smashing 100s of women. And also, even in my post I wasn’t trying to say that they can’t have their own hobbies I was saying there happens… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesWell. I think men are at fault as well for allowing the culture to get this way. One thing I really dislike is having to shoot my shot with women all the time and almost never know which girls actually like me and which don’t. I very much prefer women complimenting me first with very clear interest. But of course, I have my guy friends that are like “Dude you’re being a pussy that’s feminine! Women wait and men approach!” But to me, it’s just another way that women have more control. But anyway,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesSounds toxic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesWhy is it not useful to talk about for “general trends”? Considering most guys would rather just wallow in the fact that they are not chad archetype i’m simply trying to offer an alternative to getting women that are at least the same level of attractiveness as them and not the bottom of the dating pool off of a dating app. Surely guys could go out and try to participate in things that attract women, instead of just crying about not being born with a megachin and being 6ft 5 no? I’ve seen plenty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesAh really? What are a couple places you consider genuine spaces? But yea that makes a lot of sense. Not giving the number and not following back weren’t good signs lol. I just always wonder if it’s better to have conversation with them to try and heighten their interest or just keep it short and simple considering they already extended conversation with me. But as you say it is just her saying she likes my outfit not necessarily me myself. I’ve only had a few girls compliment me on looks and I j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesLol idk we’d have to ask them. But I know for a fact a lot of women don’t find gaming too exciting. They might play every now and then but if that’s all you do most of them not like “omg my man games”. Even if you were a pro gamer it’s not really a panty wetting hobby. Again idk we’d have to ask all the girls in book clubs or even the girls who like watching shows and talking about them. Or even podcasts. The main piece of these are that women like to talk and discuss different things. And trave… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesTruu. Lol random question for you. Cause I was mentioning this concept to my friends actually. Yesterday at a bar one of the waitresses was complimenting me on my different parts of my outfit when I entered. It seemed like she was flirting. I didn’t have like a super long conversation with her but when I was leaving out, I asked for her number. She insisted I follow her on instagram instead. And my instagram isn’t bad I have some good photos up and about the same amount of followers she has. But… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 08:09 PM |
| 3 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesYea scrolling on instagram and tiktok aren’t attractive hobbies. This girl I was trying to get with started doing that on one of our dates when I was at her house and I was just like man i’m boutta go home, you’re not giving me any attention right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesThis is exactly what I was getting at in my post. Sometimes I wonder if these guys that are so dogmatic about looks, status and resources have actually ever dated normal women who don’t have or care about that stuff to a high capacity. Tons of women require a lot of talking and actually proving to them that we have chemistry and can be something before they have sex with us. Even the short term dates/hookups/fwb require some chemistry (as well as good sex) or those girls just move on and fuck so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesNo I didn’t say the status they have I said the skill. Based on what you’re saying nobody gets women unless they’re gene simmons or messi lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 05:20 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesAs basic as they are I could definitely see them as great simple ways to attract women plus a lot of guys don’t actually do them, and definitely not with any level of prestige. And yea they definitely meant astrology but i’m not surprised. To me, as an atheist that would be the same as just putting religion or spirituality so I could see it still being pretty accurate. A lot of girls are into astrology especially a lot of younger ones. It’s dumb to me but so is religion so idk what to say lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesVideo games are a hobby but they definitely aren’t as interesting to women and I can 100% understand why. I honestly get bored of them myself but it is like playing a less intellectual board game. Reading, cooking and traveling are definitely hobbies. Finding new books to dive into, learn and converse with others is a good lifelong thing in my opinion. I would think, more people should do it for themselves anyway, at least on the topics they care about. Cooking everybody should know like and kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 04:27 PM |
| 0 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesSo how is that, for example, there were groups of rockstars that did not yet have a high level of status, or resources and were not super attractive looks wise that were able to have sex with tons of women? All it took for them was charisma/social skills and of course the correct hobbie/skill (music) to get these women. I agree with you a bit on the second part. I in no way meant that you just do the hobbies by yourself. What I did mean was that you use those hobbies to interact with women. Such… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesMy bad. I wasn’t disagreeing with the entire comment just the women will always choose the 6ft 5 henry cavill looking guy even if he’s boring asf part. You need game / some social abilities no matter what, money is very debatable, and looks is debatable as well. I was trying to say you could excel in areas other than looks, money and already obtained status and still smash as many women as somebody like him or at least tons of women. If hes “boring asf” as well that implies that he has no game, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesThis is my favorite comment so far lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesWhy is being attracted to you for your looks better than being attracted to you for your skills/hobbies? What makes any of us any different from one another besides how we interact with the world through or skills and hobbies? And sure, a woman having “unconditional love” for you would be an amazing thing, but it most likely doesn’t really exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesChange your looks how? You can’t make yourself taller or completely alter your face without it probably looking odd and causing you tremendous pain. And why not? Why is being attracted to you for your looks better than being attracted to you for your skills/hobbies? What makes any of us any different from one another besides them? And sure, a woman having “unconditional love” for you would be an amazing thing, but it most likely doesn’t really exist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesI think men need to tune in more to what women like and cater to those activities as well. What’s so bad about learning how to cook? Most of us men love to eat but we don’t care to learn about nutrition and cooking? Most guys excuse is, we used to hunt so women should be doing the cooking. It makes very little sense. If you were a hunter to be self reliant you should also know how to cook. But anyways, I think the link I posted at the end has a pretty accurate list of what activities would be ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesI posted the link at the end to show what a majority of women like. I think it makes sense, as women are very social. So reading or in other words book clubs where they can socialize easily with each other on different topics. Foreign languages is basically just more talking lol. Singing and playing instruments together is extremely social and sensual which is why I think so many women are into musicians. Then there’s cooking, writing, painting. Again, all very social. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 03:28 PM |
| -2 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesI disagree. He would have what he has going for him and then another guy without those characteristics may excel elsewhere and get just as much sex as him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 03:09 PM |
| 0 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesWhat is considered “raw lust”. You could be relatively ugly and be the frontman of a band with a crazy voice that you worked your ass off on and make tons of 10s leak over you. Same thing for a painter, athlete etc. My point is, everything isn’t all black pill. “Not 6ft+, crimson chin facial structure and light skin, damnnn you’re cooked dude”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesYes but my point was if they are not sexually attracted to you off of your looks what are you supposed to do about it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 03:01 PM |
| 1 | Men need to learn hobbies, and converse and attract women with them instead of focusing so much on their looks, status and resourcesI think it’s an in. Because even if I cold approach a girl my chances are better if I have an actual conversation with her and let her know a little bit about who I am and what I like to do. And perhaps, when I ask her out, it makes me look better if it’s something like “hey I got a show (music) coming up you should come see me and then you should come have dinner with me” or something. Guys have to have some kind of social proof to make most women comfortable with the fact that they’re a strang… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 02:51 PM |
| 1 | It is easier to get into and stay in a relationship with someone who shares common career goalsI could understand that as being a part of it as well yes. But I also think that it means, you have an activity (career or hobby) that you like to do the most. If someone else shares that deep interest with you and the time together with you, all of that can add up to something more than just being physically attracted to someone. But I guess you could also be talking in the sense of a government job or something. Those I could understand being based more on just being in the same place because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 01:24 PM |
| 2 | It is easier to get into and stay in a relationship with someone who shares common career goalsYep and they aren’t necessarily wrong but I’m sure those marriages don’t come with a great understanding of one another and the men typically do it to try and have a power dynamic in the relationship. A lot of the manosphere guys, as I’m sure you already know, like to say things such as men are supposed to work+provide and women are supposed to stay at home and tend to the house and not work etc. Most of the time the only thing those guys would be choosing those women for is looks, sex, and how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 01:13 PM |
| 1 | It is easier to get into and stay in a relationship with someone who shares common career goalsLol yes but what I meant was that maybe that part of study just indicates that people aren’t actually happy at home. And that the other studies in combination show that workplace marriages or career based relationships/marriages are more successful than people just meeting at the bar or online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 04:58 PM |
| 1 | It is easier to get into and stay in a relationship with someone who shares common career goalsAh true, I think I understand that now, that’s basically what some of my friends tell me. They’re like “why can’t you be interested in what a girl does if it’s not what you’re into”. And honestly I really don’t know why that’s so hard for me, I just would rather be spending that time enjoying the stuff I love not diving into another world. But I get both sides of it a little more from what you said. That’s been my issue though with most dating, it’s hard for me to fake attraction to most girls h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 04:46 PM |
| 1 | It is easier to get into and stay in a relationship with someone who shares common career goalsYes maybe bad in the sense that relationships get ruined, but wouldn’t that also imply that people weren’t actually happy with their partner at home that they don’t work with? It’s like if you’re a touring musician and one of your band mates is a girl you’ve had flings with and who you consider a best friend, but you told your wife back home who’s a model that you’re not gonna cheat on her on tour. Sounds very very unlikely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 04:38 PM |
| 1 | It is easier to get into and stay in a relationship with someone who shares common career goalsSee but some fields don’t mesh with others. People would not be willing to support some partners because of how much they make, or a lack of interest in someone who does a certain career, etc. Someone who’s going through the exact same path you are would be more willing to date you than someone who’s not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | It is easier to get into and stay in a relationship with someone who shares common career goalsI’m not sure how common it is for any of those careers to only be a solo job. Even in all of those, it would probably be beneficial to the person to be with someone they’re working with. I really do think deep down people would love to be with somebody they connect with career/hobbies wise because thats also something else that they put their all into. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 04:23 PM |
| 2 | It is easier to get into and stay in a relationship with someone who shares common career goalsYep exactly, and that sounds amazing! I don’t think people realize the benefit of connecting with someone in that way. Many of my friends have told me they don’t think a person should get with someone just because they have the same hobbies or career but if you think about it a persons hobbies and career indicate a lot of things that are the most important about them like morals and personality traits so it’s probably a lot easier to find somebody you mesh with through those. Otherwise people te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 04:00 PM |
| 1 | It is easier to get into and stay in a relationship with someone who shares common career goalsWell according to that Forbes study workplace romances are more common than many might initially believe, whether the companies frown upon them or not. Which would mean there’s some natural tendency to try and mate with someone that’s doing the same activities that you do day in and day out. And more career oriented than her or is it really just at a higher level than her? And honestly I think that part becomes more of a, does the woman want to be submissive or dominant. I don’t necessarily beli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 03:35 PM |
| 5 | It is easier to get into and stay in a relationship with someone who shares common career goalsI must be a woman then lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 03:24 PM |
| 9 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"The thing is, I think most people have confirmation bias, both men and women. To get a truly accurate study, women who have had many different dicks and who treat sex as an art/professionally would need to be asked the question… In this video pornstars are asked what they prefer. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4ynro7hGGrM Majority of the answers are 5-7 inches and they constantly repeat that it’s about how a man uses it not how big it is. Big dicks are only used in porn to create a fantasy and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 06:04 PM |
| 6 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"Lol I’m just tryna say. The amount of women body shaming probably isn’t the majority of women and the ones that are, are definitely not getting the best experiences in the bedroom they just run their mouths. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 02:40 PM |
| 14 | Normalize saying you have a big vagina instead of "size queen"Don’t let porn and a couple of tiktok’s confuse you majority of women don’t care about huge dicks, not even the pornstars. As long as you’re 5-6 you’re good. Below or above that and majority of women may have something negative to say. But honestly who cares, a lot of these girls are dumb as hell. It’s easier for them to orgasm from the clit. It’s somewhat arguable that intercourse is mostly for the man’s pleasure, but majority of women only think about themselves. Getting jammed with a super un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/24 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyLol if you know something more than me summarize it. But Kanye West is a billionaire off of a couple sneaker designs with adidas. And like Kanye said if you can communicate the product you can make money off the product. He said look at lady gaga shes the creative director of polaroid, she makes music, what the fuck does know about cameras? It’s the whole Steve Jobs idea. He wasn’t the star programmer but he knew enough about how it worked in order to know how far he could take that aspect of it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyGoing after a cute guy with status or money makes her not go after a guy thats probably actually cuter to her which would again mean she only really picked the guy because she felt like she needed more status and money from being with him. If a girl already had that for herself or didn’t feel as though were needed or needed in a large amount then they become irrelevant in her choices. In other words, I really do think they’re only done out of the power dynamic between men and women in society. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyWhat do you mean by from scratch I don’t think it’s ever “from scratch”. Also, I mean it’s pretty debatable to compare whether acting and creating music or creating a business requires more skill. Don’t forget, there’s a few musicians in the billionaire club and I don’t really think it takes a ridiculous amount of effort to invest in the right industries. It just takes money and a few good ideas i’m not sure how skill based an idea is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyBut girls wouldn’t fuck every celebrity artist, they still have to have sex appeal and some sort of perceived skill. And, i’m pretty sure if they had the chance to be in long term rotation for those guys they would love to. Every girl would love to obtain more resources or present more status by being with a powerful guy but I really don’t think that means they are truly attracted to him. It’s like back in the day if there was a fat mean ugly king. Sure it may be beneficial to a girl to submit t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/24 01:25 PM |
| 0 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyBut those women are delusional and are usually getting cheated on. For example, the guy Myron from fresh and fit podcast…he believes men have the right to have multiple women because he thinks women shouldn’t work or have money and men should be the ones in control. This is because he believes that overall, women are incapable of doing the “important” jobs that require a man’s physical prowess, that women are incapable of doing those jobs and that women are only making tons of money when they do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneySome peoples families are super “traditional”, or on a high horse to the point where it becomes detrimental to their own perspectives for themselves and of others so I didn’t even wanna scold at her lmao. People forget the term, work smarter not harder. There’s some rich mfs that own banks and shit somewhere just moving pieces on the board. Learning how to be a doctor, engineer, scientist etc is not a requirement for everybody. Not knowing that shit doesn’t make you an idiot. Maybe a little lazy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyLegacy leaving is probably overrated. I bet, the same way most people forget about scientists and older inventors, in the future they’ll have forgotten about the scientists and inventors of today. People use all of this technology but deep down, most people don’t really care about any of this stuff. They’re just useful tools. Honestly in a way, this technology is probably gonna destroy us after a while lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyWell, people have different standards for themselves clearly lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyExactly, nor does being one of those most powerful people just automatically make women want to date or fuck them which was another reason I was thinking status not very important. I didn’t care to mention that idea in the post, but it’s interesting that it came up in the comments lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyExcelSpreadCheekz is right. I wasn’t saying status and money don’t matter at all I was saying looks and a guys skills matter more and are actually precursors to even having status or money. There’s even a few studies done on this on the internet, women prefer a guy to have earned their money and status rather than being born with it or handed to them. In other words, women prefer a guy with actual skills. Its like if a guys a warrior and he acquired his rights to the throne vs a snobby king that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 04:35 AM |
| 0 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneySee but the thing is, even though there’s a lot of women that go the hoeing route that doesn’t mean they actually find the guys they’re selling pussy to attractive. Which is why I think actually having a woman come back to you long term is going to come down to that type of attraction. If she’s just coming to you for money, once she has a way out at some point then she’s gonna leave at the first chance she finds. And if she never finds that chance, sure you might have her long term, but then tec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyThe streamer Kai Cenat has supposedly made about 14m since 2020. A google search says he was at 50k in 2020. I think people put a too much respect on “educated” jobs. Yes people need doctors, engineers, etc but being an artist streamer, gamer, fighter etc doesn’t necessarily make you an idiot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 03:58 AM |
| 2 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyThats interesting. I understand a lot of people don’t respect those types of jobs. Entertainment has always made a lot of money though. Some YouTubers have made over 10m in less than 4 years recently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyBut i’ve seen girls say that they make more than their man and i’ve seen studies on the internet that say 30-40% of women make more money than their husbands | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyLol dang this guy is still dating girls a lot younger than him huh? And no of course an avg 70-80 yr old couldn’t but even with the baby groupies back in the day, there was no real reason for a 14yr old to be chasing a 30 yr old around. And I think, Lori Maddox and other groupies could probably have been chasing other 30 yr old men around but musical skill really does something to women. And it’s not a “they need high status/popularity or a lot of money” thing, it’s something about the art. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyI see what you’re getting at. I’m not trying to be dogmatic in my analysis. Of course there’s a percentage that would be considered outliers as far as how to keep a girl long term. They both have different skills so can’t really say who has “more skill”. They may have both cheated but looks wise, i’m sure Arnold had/has higher changes to attract women than Bezos does if money isn’t a part of the equation. I read a study before about the arts that attract women the most and the most common answer… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyNope | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyWomen definitely factor in looks. I mean no disrespect to these people but, a high majority of women without a physical deficiency aren’t choosing someone born with physical deficiencies. And the same goes for choosing a guy that they just flat out find ugly. Like if a dude looked like a monster. The thing is, it doesn’t matter how much status or money you have a girl isn’t going to enjoy fucking you if she doesn’t think you’re sexually attractive thats just the reality of it. Looks and your non… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyBut what if he is super handsome to you, actually brilliant and very skilled but just has no concrete success in his field on the level that you do? And if you made a million a yr and he made 100k a yr. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 01:07 AM |
| 2 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyIn his case, she probably is with him because of his resources unless she really does like football or something, idk anything about her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 01:03 AM |
| -1 | Most women don’t pick men based on their status or moneyYes but these studies don’t take into account the other aspects of personality. Which is why in the header I said nonverbal skills. Part of your looks is your nonverbal skill. How you dress, how you groom, your breath. Your body language, your tone of voice. I think these things are all reasons a guy who is a singer or dancer can pull so many women even if he is of average looks. There are many male artists that are honestly below average. This is the reason I think, yes your natural looks are i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/24 12:48 AM |
| 6 | Most Women Use Dating Apps Like Men Wish They CouldOk but which dating app are you saying you get easy hookups off of? Tinder or Hinge? And what do you consider a lot of matches or the top 5% of men? I have almost 200 matches on hinge and 200+ on tinder though a lot of average to below average women swipe on me and I don’t want to fuck them. The girls on hinge that I do want to fuck typically want a boyfriend or at least, thats what they put in their bio. Also, on hinge most of the attractive girls have monogamy or figuring out their relationshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 07:30 PM |
| 1 | What do you all think about the accuracy of these SMV attribute percentages and how would you personally order them yourself?I mean link me to the study idk why you’re calling me an idiot. I didn’t conduct a study on the shit I just gave estimates from my own analysis of it lol I didn’t say I was right either. But yea, mind linking me to the studies or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 04:01 PM |
| 2 | What do you all think about the accuracy of these SMV attribute percentages and how would you personally order them yourself?Game is the idea of changing your personality to attract a woman that wouldn’t be attracted to your own typical disposition. But then, that raises the question of do we even actually have inherent personalities? Because, behaviors are all to an extent conditioned. A person can attempt to act anyway they want at any given time. But no, there are arguably some traits that will get you more women such as confidence for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | What do you all think about the accuracy of these SMV attribute percentages and how would you personally order them yourself?Gotcha we’re on the same page | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 03:25 PM |
| 1 | What do you all think about the accuracy of these SMV attribute percentages and how would you personally order them yourself?I don’t personally know what an R value is and so what do you mean psychologists have determined the R value for every trait. And what does it have to do with this analysis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 03:23 PM |
| 1 | What do you all think about the accuracy of these SMV attribute percentages and how would you personally order them yourself?True I heavily agree on the looks part. Plus people are conditioned to having preferences / a type which creates hard set boundaries on who they will or will not give a chance to. I think looks and age are sort of synonymous because age highly effects your looks and if your genetics diet etc effect your looks which in turn could make you look younger or older. As far as the status and money goes, the reason you gave is why I actually kind of think personality &or game are more important than you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 01:19 PM |
| 1 | What do you all think about the accuracy of these SMV attribute percentages and how would you personally order them yourself?As with most things that a person doesn’t have within them mostly instinctively, a lot of people who don’t have these personality traits naturally have trouble learning them. That’s why there’s all of the pick up artist teachings and ideas or even just basic things a person (man or woman) can learn that applies to how to attract a decent amount of the opposite sex. So, for the most part those behaviors aren’t easy to learn for someone who isn’t naturally inclined to behave those ways. The ways t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 12:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you all think about the accuracy of these SMV attribute percentages and how would you personally order them yourself?I mean, if you max out in any category and present that to the right person the percentages could change I guess. But overall, I think what really matters most to people would be looks and age first because if somebodies ugly to you or too young or too old they’re basically automatically disqualified to be honest. If they turn you off verbally and the things that they’re into are lame to you. I think one of those two are the most important universally. In some cases loyalty could be more importa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 02:47 AM |
| 1 | What do you all think about the accuracy of these SMV attribute percentages and how would you personally order them yourself?Yea I could see how your breakdown for the male attributes could be accurate too. I just think both men and women actually care about loyalty more than if someone is famous and has good standing in society or if they have resources to provide them. Like if a woman really has all her shit together, I doubt she’ll care much if a guy is richer than her if that guy looks good, has the personality and career type that she likes, and is loyal to her. She probably won’t care much if the guy isn’t super… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 09:56 PM |
| 3 | What do you all think about the accuracy of these SMV attribute percentages and how would you personally order them yourself?Yea exactly. I would say game is basically the personality that you choose to give off, which is why I grouped them together in my order of the attributes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 09:52 PM |
| 1 | People shouldn’t expect potential lovers to always spend money on them or to want to do the same activitiesI don’t plan to get traditionally married any way nor do I think marriage is relevant in finding someone who can be loyal. Also, sharing hobbies isn’t really a strong factor in keeping a relationship, plenty of people can be into the same hobbies as you. You either want to be loyal or you don’t. Clearly most people care more about having a plus one so they aren’t alone when they’re doing some shit than they care about the person themself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 12:14 PM |
| 2 | People shouldn’t expect potential lovers to always spend money on them or to want to do the same activitiesI don’t really like to eat out i’d rather buy the food and eat at home (typically from farms, butchers, farmers markets). Not really into movies anymore, beach is ok sometimes, zoos nah, concerts maybe. Workout with me sure but she doesn’t necessarily have to. I do want someone who wants to spend time with me, but that doesn’t prioritize me having to go out unless it’s something I also want to do. And who doesn’t make it a requirement or likes me less because I don’t want to do those things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 12:37 PM |
| 1 | People shouldn’t expect potential lovers to always spend money on them or to want to do the same activitiesI just want my girl (or girls) to be ok with literally just being in my presence. In the past it wasn’t always tons of activities to do. If you go really far back it was go hunt or scavenge, exercise, have sex, or do some art like singing or dancing which is still basically exercising. I’m sure it wasn’t expected of women to always be hunters, scavengers, or exercise. For me, those are bonuses if a girl is into them but all the other “new stuff”, if a girl expects me to constantly want to do the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 11:10 AM |
| 1 | People shouldn’t expect potential lovers to always spend money on them or to want to do the same activitiesWell, what you named is more on the morality side which I mentioned in my post. Serial killing, torture, & having similar humor (towards those etc) are all morality based rather than just “I want a man who takes me to restaurants that we both like, buys me gifts, likes to play the same games and watch all the same tv shows as me”. Those things are unnecessary validations to me. E.g, I think makeup is pretty stupid, but if I had a girl who wore makeup all the time, say for a job, it wouldn’t dest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/24 10:41 AM |
| -1 | People shouldn’t expect potential lovers to always spend money on them or to want to do the same activitiesSharing morals is my only requirement for a long tern partner. Well, that and sex. But hobbies we do not need to share. If i’m into music and she’s into science we don’t need to mix into each other’s worlds in order to have the same morals/goals, and be sexually attracted to each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:54 PM |
| 0 | People shouldn’t expect potential lovers to always spend money on them or to want to do the same activitiesThe irony…I don’t really care to do the activities most girls want to do, and it’s annoying trying to read their mind to satisfy them, so i’d rather them just tell me what they want to do. I mean, the activity is for them so why am I planning it? It’s like somebody telling you to guess what gifts they want for their birthday and then they’re mad if you guessed wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/24 05:36 PM |
| 7 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedYea I understand that. I was just saying the dudes they do pick aren’t exactly the best candidates to have kids with “for the survival of our species”. | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 03:55 PM |
| 15 | Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicatedNot sure how much merit this holds for humans as a lot women definitely choose absolute sped men to have sex with lol | /r/seduction | 04/09/24 11:12 AM |
| 4 | How to get laid with minimal conversationTLDR: Nah definitely just get a hooker. You could even take a trip to where it’s legal and cheaper…Otherwise, it takes a ridiculous amount of effort the hotter the girl is, even if you’re a 10 yourself. Honestly bro. If you want actual hot girls, like legit baddies your best bet is to just get hookers. I posted something similar to this a couple months ago cause i’m of the same disposition as you, I hateeeeee talking to women. The shit is so repetitive and overall lame to me. Shit doesn’t feel d… | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Gym and looks isn’t everythingThis is facts. I was overthinking my own approach because I started believing you gotta have game and make girls laugh and shit but all you have to do is keep it simple. The more you talk the further away you can get from their fantasy, and you never really know exactly what it is cause it’s different for every girl. | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Gym and looks isn’t everything100% | /r/seduction | 26/08/24 11:41 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexOk well social and emotional intelligence. Also ppl should consider masturbating cheating if you’re getting off to someone else. So, thats another delusion if thats ok but fucking someone else isn’t. And I’ve heard of many couples hiding the fact that they masturbate or someone in the couple finding out and being upset that they are, which is again, all pretty idiotic to me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 08:35 AM |
| 0 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexMy closing remark is…Enjoy your narrow minded perspective and your relationships with women that you’ll only continue to like if they never fuck anyone else, not for anything deeper than sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexLol data or science? None of this takes any data or science its honestly really common sense. Thats the crazy thing about all of this. Ppl can’t understand something as simple as not making sex super important in their relationship with the person they have children with. People grow older and then cheat on each other cause they get bored of having sex with the same person, all sorts of different shit..Then, they hate each other or feel betrayed for literally no reason instead of just being like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 05:25 PM |
| 0 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexIts cool if you only want to be with one girl for your entire life, but you don’t have to be a dick to people who like polyamory talking about all this cuck bullshit lol. And thats literally what I said if you read. It was why can’t you be a couple and raise kids with someone who has a lot of bodies or is still currently in sex work if you both are actually really good together. But you have a dogmatic view about women being promiscuous so you aren’t really reading. You’re viewing it as like she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 05:14 PM |
| 0 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexLol you don’t know me I can spend my time how I want. Cuck isn’t really a good way to describe this but again you have a negative disposition about it just like many others so you fail to understand the concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 06:21 AM |
| 0 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexYou missed the entire point…Imagine for a second you actually love a woman’s personality BUT she has also had a lot of sex. Secondly, you and a lot of other dudes are so weird about if other guys fucked her and didn’t support her. If you actually love somebody you wouldn’t mind supporting them no matter what. In you and these other dudes heads you’re “taking a chance” cause you’re insecure and think she might cheat on you cause of her past or some shit. And lastly, once again, if i’m fucking oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 06:17 AM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexSorry, the last two paragraphs before the “note”. Anyways, to elaborate if you aren’t getting it from the post. What i’m trying to say is, your sex life shouldn’t be a relative piece in whether you and someone choose to have and raise children together because it is irrelevant to all the things that really matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 05:43 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexLol you can be in denial if you want, women definitely cheat even on “chads”…But I couldn’t care less if most of them cheat on me either way cause I cheat on them to their faces, you’re entirely missing my points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 05:29 PM |
| 2 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexA low T beta? So because I want to fuck multiple women and not necessarily care about what my girls are doing i’m low T and a beta? Thats hilarious. Lol a cuck fetish? What am I gonna do, beat my girls up so they don’t like some other guys too when i’m telling them straight up that i’m not trying to date them exclusively? Should I tell them they can’t talk to any guys at all and wear abayas when they go out lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 05:25 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexTrue I can understand not messing with the second girl, thats not a real friend or a lover. What i’m essentially trying to say is, I don’t see the issue of focusing on being really good friends and partners that help each other in life and possibly even have kids and not care about what you two do sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexHow is that different from my op. The last two paragraphs are exactly that part. And to answer your question, as many partners as you both want. Read the last two paragraphs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 05:08 PM |
| -1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexThere are rich celebrities whose wives cheat on them and theirs probably nothing low value about them. I’m simply trying to say, you should be with someone not because of their sexual choices but because you actually really fuck with them. I genuinely think if I had a homie we could live together, of course we’d never have sex though, cause i’m not gay. Damn sure i’m not gonna be like hey bro you can’t be fucking all these women! Same thing with a girl I really fuck with. If she’s not an idiot a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 04:46 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexI think this describes the parts of the red pill that I dislike in a nutshell. Its a lot of parts of red pill that I think are sort of true but then certain beliefs go over the top and begin to disrespect women altogether and i’m just like, well those parts aren’t true… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexI mean, I don’t have an issue with peoples sexual preferences. The thing I don’t like is people making sexual exclusiveness such a big deal for a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 04:31 PM |
| 2 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexBut if they could they would so thats still delusion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 04:27 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexIt’s interesting how theres such a divide amongst the opinions of red pillers. A lot of them actually seem to be outright delusional also, because they are usually promiscuous men claiming women shouldn’t have high body counts. Not sure what being “normal” has to do with anything I addressed either but if following what most people do (the norms) is how you form your thinking then alright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 04:25 PM |
| 0 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexLast two paragraphs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 04:14 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexI don’t believe what she’s saying applies to all women. Nor do I believe all of the typical factors (good face, good physique, high charisma, tall, etc) apply either. Both men and women just name off things they generally think they want at the time but most haven’t been with a ton of guys either, let alone one that can change their perspectives. I saw a few videos of guys asking girls if they care about height and most of them would say as long as he’s taller than me or taller than me in heels.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 04:13 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexOn the surface, what exactly do you get more of by getting with a girl that makes six figures vs a girl who is a millionaire who does onlyfans and porn. Because she does onlyfans and porn she can’t love you, be there for you and help you live your life? You can’t have children with her and raise them because she posts sexual videos of herself online? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 04:00 PM |
| 0 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexLol dude. If I think a woman has the perfect personality to raise my children. I get her pregnant a few times, she has my kids. Then 10 years down the line she wants to go have sex with other dudes sometimes, I would still wanna live in the same house as her often and spend time with her. People have sex as the dealbreaker, thats the part i’m saying requires higher intelligence to ignore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 03:11 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexLol thats not the same as not being ok with her ever doing it, I just said she could but I wouldn’t wanna kiss her right after no. The scenario above is asking me to be gay which i’m not. That’s not the same as being okay with her having bodies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 02:42 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexI mean, what psychological aspect? I’ve never been like oh I like this girls personality so I really wanna fuck her. If she was super hideous to me that just couldn’t be true. And just because me and a super hot girl have crazy perfect sex, that wouldn’t mean I actually like her personality and would want to get her pregnant. Yes I am saying I don’t understand why people associate psychological stuff with whether they enjoyed the physical. Like I don’t need a girl to buy me flowers or get a huge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 02:36 PM |
| 0 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexThe other guy asked me if i’d kiss her 30 minutes after she got a train ran on her thats way too soon lol. Yes that would mean i’m probably kissing dicks. I guess if she brushed her teeth it wouldn’t make a difference idk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 02:21 PM |
| -1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexXD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 02:14 PM |
| -1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexYep everything i’m saying is just that simple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 02:13 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexIf it were 3 women yes I would right away. If it were 3 men I probably wouldn’t kiss her right away no maybe like a couple days or a week after or something. And sure, you don’t devalue them but a lot of other people speak very publicly and outward about it and do devalue women and men for it but especially women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 02:12 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sex“I mean 30 minutes after and with a bunch of random people no, that wasn’t really what l was getting at. I’m also not gay so that kind of limits what i’d want her doing with men. If I wasn’t though then i’d be more lenient with what she would want to do with guys... Would you kiss your gf or wife if she was bi and just ate one of her girl friends pussy? And idk, pretty intelligent. If you know all the girls are clean and don’t have any STD’s what would be the issue?” If it were 15 girls and I kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 02:06 PM |
| -2 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexThe last two paragraphs is the advantages I think exist in not deciding whether you love someone or stay with them based on if they are promiscuous. And also, thats a strange assessment because i’m pretty sure there’s a lot of people creating amazing things or making a lot of money together and they aren’t having sex with each other. So if they lived together sometimes, had sex with each other, had children together, and sex with a bunch of other people if they want, what difference does it make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 02:05 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexI don’t really understand why people combine those things and the sex together. Sex is the physical stuff, love is all the other stuff and more… How you treat someone after sex is based on if you actually care about them or not. If we had great sex and I left and didn’t comfort her we coulda still had great sex, it would just mean I didn’t care about her, have a great friendship with her or love her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 01:46 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexBecause if it’s random people I don’t know if they have STD’s or not. I don’t struggle to understand that other people have their limits but the limits are absolutely bare minimum. It’s also that, people who have monogamous standards often times have so much to say about what is wrong with polyamory and the people who do it. But there’s actually various advantages to polyamory when done carefully. And I also just can’t understand why men are so against having a child with a woman who’s had tons … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 01:30 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexWhat do you mean by how you feel afterwards though? As in whether you sexually pleased them or something else? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 01:20 PM |
| -7 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexLol i’m literally a man myself. I’m not saying you can’t have your standards if you want. I’m just saying that men have double standards a lot of the time when it comes to this. Guys just judge women too much when they want to have sex with more than one person especially if it’s another dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 01:16 PM |
| 2 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexThats a good point too. And they have to please a bunch of different clients. A lot of men really need to get over the “they’re only doing it for the money” thing though. The “attractive men” that they have sex with “for free” are only getting it because they look good. So what difference does it make, she doesn’t necessarily like anything else about you either way. Matter of fact, attractive or not you still have to talk a lot of these girls first before they let you hit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 01:09 PM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexYou aren’t reducing your value to only being good for sex that would just be one avenue you use to make money. Obviously a lot of prostitutes don’t expand into other businesses but i’m sure there’s quite a few who do. I also don’t see a reason to knock their hustle. It’s not like a lot of “actual jobs” are actually fruitful in anyway for a society. A lot of jobs are just as unimportant and not necessary for a society to function well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 12:55 PM |
| -1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexIdk, I guess like the pornstars do. If you are clean and don’t have any STD’s and get checked normally the only barrier is how you mentally think about it. E.g, if you’re a straight guy you provably wouldn’t want a girl sucking dick and then sucking your dick but you’d probably be fine with her eating pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 12:48 PM |
| 0 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexI mean 30 minutes after and with a bunch of random people no, that wasn’t really what I was getting at. I’m also not gay so that kind of limits what i’d want her doing with men. If I wasn’t though then i’d be more lenient with what she would want to do with guys… Would you kiss your gf or wife if she was bi and just ate one of her girl friends pussy? And idk, pretty intelligent. If you know all the girls are clean and don’t have any STD’s what would be the issue? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 12:45 PM |
| -4 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexThat doesn’t really make any sense. Being law abiding and supposedly protecting professional reputations isn’t necessarily intelligent, thats just following the “rules”. Honestly, following the rules and not forming your own thoughts, finding and admitting truth is unintelligent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 11:42 AM |
| -1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexI’m not sure how that scenario is relevant to what i’m saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 11:36 AM |
| 1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexI hear you, it’s different strokes for different folks. For me the issue is that I highly doubt I will find a woman I think has the perfect personality without going through dating. Meeting plenty of women, seeing if our interests and goals match up and then strengthen that friendship, loyalty etc. So it’s difficult not to see most girls as just a sexual partner because I already know she’s not someone i’d want to hangout with 24/7. Yet, I also still want to have sex currently. I don’t want to w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 11:32 AM |
| -2 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexWhat exactly makes a pornstar unintelligent though? If i’m a man having a ton of casual sex but not on video i’m still a “whore” right? I just don’t understand the double standards. If some of the smartest women in the world started blowing dicks on screen and getting gang banged dudes would act like they’re not still intelligent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 11:07 AM |
| -3 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexChad can’t keep a girl to himself either so what difference does it really make | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 11:04 AM |
| 2 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexCould you describe to me what you think emotions are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 10:59 AM |
| -7 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexLol the usage of cuck (as a derogatory) simplifies what i’m trying to say far too much. The fact that people even look at it as cucking is an issue. When a guy goes and has sex with other women, is his girl a cuck? Cause people don’t usually use cuck when talking about women “getting cheated on”. Sex is just sex. It is probably one of the weakest avenues to show that you love someone. You don’t have sex with your family members, and you don’t have sex with your best friends of the same sex. Yet,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 10:58 AM |
| -1 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexBut how and why would it be negatively correlated with body count. Actually what I think i’m trying to say is that if someone is highly intelligent, sex should just be sex. You don’t necessarily lose anything by having many sexual encounters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 10:37 AM |
| -11 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexHow does love make the sex better. They’re two separate things. You may love somebody so you try harder to please them sexually, but that doesn’t mean that you do. And love shouldn’t make you jealous. I love my homies, but i’m not jealous when they hang out with somebody else or go on dates with their girls. And if it were one of my best girlfriends why shouldn’t it be treated the same? And sure but there’s tons of people that are monogamous that also have mental issues, relationship troubles an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 10:21 AM |
| 0 | It takes a high level of intelligence to not be against dating or having children with someone who’s had a lot of sexThe title XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 10:08 AM |
| 2 | "No" man fails to get into a relationship because of his personalityA lot of men make it as though personality is more important too. Dudes want to think girls like them “for them” and that they are more socially advanced and can run game and shit. Like “yea bro I’m the man I just know how to talk to women and seduce them”. Or make them laugh…Idk how many women I see on social media and dating apps talking about they want a guy that “makes them laugh”. No they don’t, that’s such a small factor in what they really want. You know what it is, you hit the nail on th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 08:29 AM |
| 1 | Men and women are just sex objects to one anotherNo i’m just smart and tired of dealing with most women’s bullshit when you not a rich guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Men and women are just sex objects to one anotherI’m confused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Men and women are just sex objects to one anotherI’m not saying these things can’t lead to having love for someone because of how much they’ve done for you but I do still think it’s using one another. I think i’ve used my parents quite a bit I don’t have to accept what they give me. I’m forever indebted to them. I see what you’re saying but ppl don’t typically just give to other ppl unless they’re family or they just have things to give away or they chose to work for a company that helps homeless or something. But I don’t think they would do i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 01:56 PM |
| -1 | Men and women are just sex objects to one another100% believe what I wrote. I can elaborate a little bit for you… Personally, i’m very comfortable in my own shoes and being “alone” and I haven’t had any women that i’ve had a thought like “fuck I gotta marry this girl!”. Or “man shes perfect! She can raise my children!” And i’m pretty sure a lot of women think like this when they’re deciding whether or not to do these things too so idk what you mean by nobody thinks like this lol! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Men and women are just sex objects to one anotherI highly agree with this except for the not seeing people as objects part cause I still think that’s just the dynamic of existing, that we “use” each other. But on the dating for compatibility thing I agree. Like say, for the lifestyle I want to live, it requires tons of traveling (music). I personally would want a girl that comes along with me everywhere if I wanted to monogamous, I wouldn’t really see any other way for it to work lol. Another example…I’ve explained to my mother, who is divorce… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 01:39 PM |
| -5 | Men and women are just sex objects to one anotherLMAO this gave me a super good laugh I appreciate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 01:32 PM |
| 0 | Men and women are just sex objects to one anotherI have a whole list of reasons why I personally won’t do it, it’s not even about the percentage for me lol. I was just throwing it out there that most people don’t work out 🤷♂️. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Men and women are just sex objects to one anotherI guess I couldn’t accept reality. Whole time i’m very mundane carnal myself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 01:25 PM |
| -2 | Men and women are just sex objects to one anotherIs a pancake a gay man? I had to urban dictionary search that… Fair enough but it’s hard not to narrow it down to people just want the benefits from having that person with my “autistic” mind, as others continue to suggest I am. And idk every source I see says like 40% or 50% still sounds like a coin flip to me. Especially considering a lot of people are probably married and miserable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 01:19 PM |
| – | Virgin women are not as desirable as social media makes it seemPeople act like just because you’re a virgin, you won’t be good at sex. It’s about having good communication with whoever you do it with though and what pleasures the both of you. However, i’ve never heard about men not wanting to have sex with a virgin, that’s interesting. I’ve only heard that men prioritize virgins and i’m pretty sure it’s still the case. As others are saying though, on a dating app most of us men are looking for hookups (literally on first dates) or at least a sexual relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 10:15 AM |
| 1 | I'm 29, and pulled a 9/10 18yo while in Aspen, feeling guilty and a bit depressedIt seems to typically be the mindset of women that think being married if better for you than being single, free and having casual sex. But as you said it is subjective and depends on what kind of lifestyle you wish to live. I think people are just super dogmatic about marriage and especially religion which he mentioned so, religious people are gonna religion honestly, it’s mad annoying though lol. But yea idk why you got downvoted, theres nothing wrong with living solo as long as you practice s… | /r/seduction | 07/08/24 04:28 PM |
| 1 | "Men would fuck anything" is just female fantasy for them to feel more attractive than they really areFacts. Cause we wouldn’t fuck everything we just fuck what we can. Women don’t wanna admit they can be replaceable just like us men can be replaceable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/24 01:13 PM |
| – | Statements are the same thing as asking and neither are a display of dominanceIt doesn’t matter which way you say it if a girl finds you attractive and she’s not allowing her conditioned mind and perspective of language to get in the way. It’s like, if you didn’t speak the same language and you just opened up to the contacts in your phone and pointed at it then handed her the phone. Its almost better to just do that instead of gambling and playing the guessing game of which way a new woman wants you to talk to her smh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 06:04 AM |
| – | Statements are the same thing as asking and neither are a display of dominanceWhether they want to lead or follow seems to be a divided opinion amongst the female population. Some are “feminists” and want to be more “dominant” some are saying they want a man to lead and don’t want a “pussy” for a husband. So they’re dogmatic about their side and can’t see the whole situation from the outside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/24 05:54 AM |
| – | Statements are the same thing as asking and neither are a display of dominanceStop thinking so literally it’ll help you understand what i’m trying to say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 05:07 PM |
| – | Statements are the same thing as asking and neither are a display of dominanceTelling your girl “suck my dick” and asking her “please bae will you please suck my dick tonight, with a cherry on top” both have the same intent :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 04:58 PM |
| – | Statements are the same thing as asking and neither are a display of dominanceYes but I think you’re misunderstanding what I mean. I was trying to the make the point that no matter how demanding the way you say it is, you’re still just asking unless you have physical actions to back up that statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:42 PM |
| – | Statements are the same thing as asking and neither are a display of dominanceThank you for directly understanding the intent of my post. Thats why I was also trying to point out that it’s annoying when women are receptive to that kind of behavior and mindset. I.e, obsessing over whether a guy tells them what to do or keeps asking her (out of respect etc) her opinion and also, because we aren’t robots. Why do we have to always tell you instead of asking you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:37 PM |
| – | Statements are the same thing as asking and neither are a display of dominanceFirst I typed it as give me your phone number but I wanted to type it as you’re going to give me your phone number to make it more of a demand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:26 PM |
| – | Statements are the same thing as asking and neither are a display of dominanceWell most human social interaction is weird to say the least. I’m pretty sure most people are actually more “clueless” than they think. It wouldn’t be all of these pill communities trying to analyze male to female relationships and social interactions and coming up with a bunch of different frameworks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:23 PM |
| – | Statements are the same thing as asking and neither are a display of dominanceY’all love to use autistic on this forum All i’m saying is, on one side you have some women saying they like to be asked and on the other side you have women saying they don’t like a man asking a lot lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Cold Approaching will always be one of the most ineffective ways to meet women and most men shouldn't bother.Ideally you meet your perfect person through your doing your highest passion and the both of you being into it. It takes a lot to be in an actual good relationship with someone. With that said, what do you want ppl to do to find the perfect person? It doesn’t really happen unless you find somebody you seriously relate to. You might as well hookup and get who you can so you can experience the sex etc. Everyone isn’t meant to be the perfect couple and perfect relationship, thats another big issue … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 08:40 PM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?That makes sense thank you for the insight! And yea well I mean of course i’d be cool with them not going crazy with hookups but I don’t really care what they do right now. I guess I don’t mind having just one girlfriend at a time, but I just know they wouldn’t be my last and a lot of girls seem to believe in that fantasy. That they are quickly going to find their perfect man and it’s gonna be the first one you date. I don’t really believe life is about settling with one person forever anyway, w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 08:03 PM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?What if i’m Stevie Wonder?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 07:58 PM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Very well put. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 07:48 PM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?As i’ve said to others I guess it wasn’t clear in my OP that asking was more so about simple stuff like going out to eat or if the silly girl wants her window down or the ac on. Such trivial problems. I don’t want a girl thats so mentally ill and focused on the rhetoric that shes lost common sense. Im supposed to guess if shes hot or cold? A girl on here told me I could just be like “hey let me know if you get hot”. Why the fuck do I have to say it that way instead of asking if she wants the ac … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 02:55 PM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Nah I wanna hear her say she wants to suck and fuck me or that she wants me to do hot sexy shit to her. I don’t want any scared nonverbal girls that can’t communicate. I’m not trying to be doing sign language our whole relationship lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 02:40 PM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Ok and nonverbal communication isn’t why we’re greater lmao. But ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 02:22 PM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Humans just like every other species should primarily attempt to use verbal for mating calls. Otherwise the males usually just grab the women and attempt to go to work or vice versa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 02:17 PM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?I mean they can react how they want to but i’m just saying they don’t always have to be turned off or scared just because a guy approaches that way. Approaching that way doesn’t inherently mean a dude means harm or is a threat. And women have to understand just because they don’t like that type of approach doesn’t mean that’s not what some women want. So the ones saying men are pigs and gross, that’s not exactly a fair perspective. But I mean i’m sure at some point we’ll start outlawing freedom … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:10 PM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Yup exactly verbal is far better especially for us. The women seem to think their non verbal cues are clear as day though for some reason. And men who have been quite successful also seem to think they’re some kind of mastermind genius and that they can read every girl just because they’ve been able to smash lmao. I just find it silly to be so against being verbal. All the rebuttals are childish. “Women want a guy who just gets it.” Who cares stop being lazy just say yes or no to the shit i’m su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 12:42 PM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?I don’t think you’re reading it correctly lol. I was saying it is immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by him choosing to verbally communicating sexual desires. One of the main purposes of that being, clear consent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 12:17 PM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?It would be absolutely hilarious. I’d love to have a girl I could say that to and her know i’m just fucking around lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 11:21 AM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Well I haven’t been very straightforward with the women i’ve been going out with. I just started dating again this year but the 7 women i’ve went out with so far have all told me they’re basically looking for a relationship. And i’m not a liar, so usually i’m just like damn well I guess I gotta move on. I’m in the “fuckboy” phase right now just being real. I’m just trying to hookup and have a good time. And it’s not that they don’t show me any physical attention. It’s always some cuddling kissin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 11:14 AM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Correct. Plus we are not cave men and women. Communication is arguably what made us so intelligent and capable of creating all of the things that we have. It is much more powerful than trying to puppy dog eyes or blush understanding into someone. Simply just say exactly what you mean. That’s the purpose of language. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 10:19 AM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Lmao exactly. And yea untamed was really spot on. Honestly, I appreciate his long winded response and the amount of context he provided. Especially the details about how his relationships are. And on the women responding seriously, I think a lot of the guys responses are even worse. Mostly coming from red pillers. I always find it strange with them though cause some are super dogmatic and others are more understanding. Lastly, the main comment being thrown at me is that it’s autistic to use your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 10:09 AM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Whether we can read them or not there’s literally no reason not to prefer verbal communication. Even other animals do mating calls (more specifically the female animals). Only humans seem to be so stuck on not using their powerful language to communicate. It doesn’t show a lack of confidence, really it’s the other way around. Hence, that may be the reason women cannot choose verbal communication majority of the time. Because they are damaged and fearful of the confidence portrayed by such direct… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:56 AM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Exactly. And being verbal about it will give you more certainty. Sure either way she can still just lie and be like he abused me. But you can’t even really record physical cues or physical consent. You can record verbal consent. Both on paper, and as an electronic recording. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 09:41 AM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?I’m willing to bet depending on where you are and how you look a decent amount of women are more sex positive than the ones in this reddit. If you go to a place where women clearly probably want some attention. And i’ve been hit on by gay dudes before and I was just like thanks but i’m good man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 04:15 AM |
| – | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?AlReAdy geTs iT. Already gets what dude???? Yall love saying that shit. Just cause I fuck with women who use their words and you like women that want you to do every thing for them and baby the absolute fuck out of them like they can’t make a single decision doesn’t mean i’m in the wrong. Nobodies raging, I typed some words on a phone. Bout 20% of the ppl here agree with me, cause the fact is most people choose to subscribe to our cultures relationship dynamics such as yourself. Some of us on th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Trying to read nonverbal cues instead of just using your words like a fucking intelligent adult is acting like a fucking robot lmao. What are we some damn cavemen? Are we deaf, we all need sign language or some shit? Autistic my ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 03:13 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?I mean. I could see how a girl could correlate those but it doesn’t really make much sense. Even if I was rich, I would prefer not constantly being in charge of her and setting every single thing up that she wants to do for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Lmfao. Yea if I had money already it might actually be that serious. One of my old friends almost got locked up for dating a crazy girl that claimed he sexually abused her. Then like a month later after she did that, she killed herself. She literally told him she was doing it cause she wanted to ruin his life too. He met her crazy ass on tinder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Wait you said if those are high then the sex will be bad, or it will be good? I’m confused | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?I don’t think i’m mentally unwell I think i’m actually the exact opposite which is very secure mentally. I’m not gay but if a guy said some super gay vulgar shit to me i’d just be like nah i’m good man lmao. Then obviously if he kept going it’d be a different situation, but thats only really if he physically threatened me. If he’s just talking i’d just be like the fuck lol. I understand that most girls are gonna be different though, they have to worry more about straight guys being abusive and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Lol true, I wasn’t saying to do it. But a lot of ppl have workplace fantasies and go through with it so I mean who am I to tell them not to. My cousin got fired from being a principal cause he was smashing the vice principal in the office and somebody found out. Fucked his marriage up a bit and everything. But I’m damn sure they flirted a lot verbally first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Those are all still very “well duh” questions. For sex I didn’t necessarily mean to ask questions like that, it was more so about kinky stuff, but maybe other simple stuff. Like, are you in the mood, do you wanna have sex tomorrow? Spontaneity is cool but some of us want to get straight to the point. Like if i’m driving an hour and a half to come see you or something lol. The questions thing was more so about outings or like screening what a girls looking for out of a relationship on a first dat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?I didn’t know this existed thats very mind opening, considering this basically explains the premise of my entire post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?EXACTLY. On the male led relationship being exhausting. I rather it at least be 50-50. Most guys are practically servants. I don’t agree that most women prefer my framing though, I think its a way smaller percentage that prefer my framing than male-led and non verbal communication cause it keeps us having to guess and them in control. If thats what you mean by my framing. Cause I see you do agree that most women want us to read their minds and intuitively decide everything and be dead on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:41 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?True, plus realistically I don’t agree with it being shit for us to develop. Women get to make all these rules and standards and a lot of guys don’t realize the whole current “game” is just men trying to come up with strategies to match their rules and standards. Currently women are really in charge of these guys. Men chase and try to impress women, even a lot of the attractive dudes. Men have to bend over backwards and “lead” etc when leading is really just doing all the work lol. It’s like wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:33 AM |
| 0 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?I wouldn’t pick just any random girls to say things to, just ones that I find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:27 AM |
| -1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?I left too much room for them to imagine what I meant by vulgar. But to be honest, it should be pretty clear that I don’t mean ask the random girl in the grocery store thats hot if she wants to be your cum dumpster lol. It’s all about context. Plus cum dumpster is vulgar sure but it’s actually only for really really freaky situations, so it’s definitely not what I mean by vulgar in a public setting. I just meant like idk “damn your ass looks so good in those leggings, whats your name?”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Seriously. I wish I could have women and men make a list of what things they think are physical cues and then compare them and see how many of them match up. I’m 100% sure it’d be chaotic results. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Lol if a girl says yes and then the non verbal stuff doesn’t match up then she’s still being a weirdo. If she says yes to me saying let’s kiss and I go in for it and she pulls away then it’s something wrong with her. They have to match up. But I can’t convince you everybody wants what they want I guess. I just prefer voicing things, for the many reasons I brought up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/24 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Lmaoo wtf no I wouldn’t say either of those two. Maybe the first one, once I get her back to a house. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Lol nah nah nah thats too vulgar to just throw out there. I mean simple things like talking about a girls ass or titties or something. Or like saying simple stuff you wanna do to her. Not the more kinkier things. But either way, sure for regular people and scenarios you couldn’t say something wild like the throatfucking one but I guarantee you in the right context some girls will fuck with that. Nothing delusional about it. And true I agree with there being stuff you can do physically to test th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?If i’m really on my shit, as I usually am, I should be able to get away with telling them to do what I want or what i’m gonna do to them. And realistically if they want it I can’t see them saying no unless they are like I said in my OP pressed about the rhetoric and don’t wanna be talked to like that and don’t like being verbal. But I don’t really like girls like that, or super quiet girls. If they can’t keep up or they acting weird i’m good. And as I said to some other people on here, asking is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Oh ok I didn’t know you were so if I came across in any of my other responses as thinking you were taking on the non masculine role, I do apologize. But so I understand that a lot of women think every single time it’s supposed to go down like that and be “romantic” and “fantasy” like or whatever novels people keep putting out or films but that’s just not my character. I get what you’re saying but out of telling, stating or asking, asking is my least preferred out of the 3. Telling -> give me a k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Why is it weird if someone you like says they’re about to kiss you or lets kiss. Like lets escalate this, lets say its a married couple. The husband comes home and he says girl you look so good im boutta kiss all over you. No problem right? So why cant a guy just throw that out there w a new girl and if she doesnt agree she can just say no im good. Hows that any different than going in for a kiss and her pushing away? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 09:06 PM |
| -1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Nobody is taught a verbal sex class where they learn how to seductively speak to a woman and the right moments to do it in. Or what to say and what not to say lol. I don’t think autistic is the word. Maybe misinformed, uneducated, or in some situations maybe somebody just doesn’t give a shit how everyone else wants to be talked to because they wanna talk the way they want to talk (me). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?I’m 25. I haven’t been initiating vulgarly or expressing myself verbally when it comes to sex but I am about to start. I am about to also start going clubbing tho, in those cases im more so just going to dance with women first and try to escalate physically if they were receptive when dancing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 08:53 PM |
| 0 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?It is mentally ill to do all of that, then later complain that I did not basically just force myself onto her because she wants to be told what to do for some reason, instead of using her words and saying yes I want to kiss you too. Something isn’t right there mentally. And, she gave me plenty of physical cues she was literally kissing on me and I was grabbing her ass and tits etc. Then when I made it verbal shes saying shit she doesn’t mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Why in the hell does everybody on this reddit associate everything with being on the spectrum or autistic or whatever lmao. Again, nowhere did I say I can’t read body language at all. I said I prefer verbal confirmation primarily whether they are showing me physical cues or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Whatever you say boss. I have these debates with some of my other homies all the time and the ones with the red pill chad dude mindset like you are all the same lmao. I get it bro, you get women by putting your hands on them you don’t prefer using your words good for you. I’m pretty sure women get turned on by words too but it’s all about context but you do you. I don’t think it’s “boring” or “autistic” or whatever jock to “nerd” terminology you’re trying to carry. It’s hilarious tbh, cause you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Very many good points! A lot of women really are something else. I always say most because I don’t think all women are this way but I hear so many stories time and time again. Although, a lot of men are just as bad so that’s why I narrow it down to an immaturity, weird, mentally ill, and to an extent intelligence thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 08:00 PM |
| 0 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?I never do this because of how many girls find it as turn off. Note i’m talking about with brand new girls, not ones I’ve known for a bit or something. But i’m about to start, because i’m annoyed with the confusion with some of these girls. Better to get straight to the point than to go on a date or multiple dates and we aren’t looking for the same things in life at all anyways. The thing most don’t understand is why i’d just be looking for hookups. Well it’s because I really doubt i’m going to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Buddy. Nobody said I can’t read any body language I just said I do not prefer it over verbal because it is typically nowhere close to as clear in most situations. Hell, I don’t even like going in for the first move to an extent I like telling women what to do or them making the first move physically, which has happened for me multiple times. Sure it’s not the norm, sure most guys wanna chase women. For the life of me I can’t understand why, or why dudes keep feeding into that shit… You might be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Lmaoo if a dude got a deep voice like me and they say it right I’m pretty sure a lot of girls will fuck with that, it’s also funny tho yes. I want to kiss you sounds lamer to me. I’m not against that one but i’m more of a convince the girl to take action kinda guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?So the first date we had went great. We went out to eat, went to the movies. In the theater we were cuddling, she was kissing on me, was rubbing on her butt boobs etc. So we leave the theater like 12 it was a late movie. I take her home to drop her off, before she gets out the car I looked into her eyes and was like gimme a kiss and she smiles and was like "cheek" and she pointed at her cheek. And I was just like bro what, aite so I gave her the kiss on the cheek. Then I got out the car walked h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Yea i'm definitely not saying body language and physical cues can't be clear as day. But a lot of girls tend to think they're being clear with their non verbal cues when they're not, and the only reason I can think they prefer that over being verbal is that they are shy/fearful, have social anxiety, or are actually mentally ill. Especially if they say one thing but actually want the opposite which i've heard being something many men experience from women soooo. I mean I don't expect women to cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?True, I wasn't trying to say it's anything wrong with saying the I really want to kiss you one. I was just saying a lot of guys have came up with this idea that you are gonna come off as simping if you express that you desire something from a woman too much. Which I guess could be true in some situations, but definitely not if she finds you attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?That's what i'm saying. I'm young but i'm pretty sure people use to actually flirt. My generation seems so non verbal with the opposite sex it's so weird to me. Maybe it's all the texting and shit. But then again, i'm not sure how old the people are that are responding here and a lot of women still are saying non verbal communication is what they prefer so idk. And i'm really not talking about just flirting, but communication in general. My generation is like mentally ill when it comes to it, pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 04:32 PM |
| -1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?It's just silly though. If we're out had a great ass date and I say lemme get some of them lips real quick before you go baby all seductive and shit and she gets turned off because she thinks i'm supposed to just go in for it and take it from her, thats idiotic. Suggesting, a statement or asking is the most dominant way to try to get something in my opinion besides just going for it physically. "You gonna gimme a kiss before you get out this car right?" Is that a statement or asking? Men think w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?My entire post summarized lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Its definitely silly but sure I guess it won't change. Like if you got a girlfriend and tonight you decide to say "hey you wanna fuck tonight?" vs "imma fuck the shit out of you when I get home". You would think most girls are turned off by either one or the other, but, again thats based on their mental conditioning. It's basically mentally ill to make a big deal about whether I asked you or told you because they're both suggestions. I'm pretty sure a lot of gf's and wives also don't want their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 04:15 PM |
| 2 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Lol i'm saying verbally her words do not match up with her actions there so that shit is still weird to me. But I definitely don't agree that non verbal cues are better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them????? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?It's a little of both. "Verbally is the quickest way to understand exactly what you want sexually from someone. Especially if you’re literally having sex, the best way to know exactly what the other person wants WHEN they want it is to use your words. Using your words makes sex way better. The clarity and straightforwardness achieved through being verbal is a gift. Humans have high social capabilities, that is another reason why we’re so intelligent." With this part I am specifically talking abo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?True. I just don't understand what the big deal is about whether I tell or ask they're both suggestions. "Babe I reserved a table at xyz restaurant at 7:30pm, wear on of your nice dresses" or "Babe I can reserve a table at xyz restaurant at 7:30pm you wanna go?". It's like mentally extra for no reason to me but I get what you mean, it is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Lol thats not clear though thats my point. If a girl says no stop when you start fucking her after she took her clothes off and bent over you not gonna be like um wtf? Verbal communication is the most affirming way of knowing what you're doing or want to do is reciprocated. It's almost just as sexy as the sex itself to hear a girl tell you what she wants you to do to her, or what she wants to do to you. I don't wanna hear some damn I never do this lol. Maybe, I never do this but i'm about to put… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?This is very true, especially depending where you did it at. Like if it was at a workplace or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?It's not that I don't want to lead and I learned that from dealing with her. Its just that I would rather have a girl thats highly communicative about what she wants and does not want. Plus I dislike wasting time, and communication is the best way to figure out what the other person is looking for, she made it very unclear by behaving like that. And idk, for me it's like imma tell the girl what I want her doing for me sexually so I expect the same from her. Relationships are hard because it's so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Yea I understand that there is physical queues but those aren't always present or easy to read. I'm sure women think they make them clear all the time, but it's really not always clear. Also, the deeper in you get sexually, the less queues it is and the more being verbal helps with sex. Confidently stating you really want to kiss her, a lot of dudes will say that's not a good one because then you sound pressed or simping lol. Lets kiss seems pretty neutral to me its like a suggestion, its like w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 03:07 PM |
| 0 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?But the purpose is we want a sexual response in return. Why does it have to be objectifying. Sometimes you wanna cut straight to the point. More so men, but i'm sure there is also women who get straight to the point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?Lmaoo I mean there’s levels to what you say. Thats just absolutely terrible sex talk. A lot of dudes don’t think about what they’re saying, or even how they say it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 02:50 PM |
| -2 | Isn’t it immature and weird for a woman to be turned off by a man voicing his sexual desires first instead of physically trying them?I’m not against sex worker culture but yea as traditional pen said I don’t necessarily want to pay for sex. So with girls i’ve been talking to, or especially if i’m just trying to hookup I would rather get straight to the point. But a decent amount of girls don’t seem to be very receptive to being straightforward verbally. I’ve only come across about 3 that were cool talking freaky right away. And this is on dating apps, not in person. Would probably be even less suitable in person unless I went… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/24 02:47 PM |
| – | Genuine attraction does not existThey would do better in Asia because in America the conditioning is that nerds aren’t cool. That doesn’t mean they do better than asian men, in their own country I highly disagree with that. And you seem to have the belief that height = strength just like most people assume so this convo isn’t going to go anywhere. I don’t see hispanic women just going crazy over tall caucasian or black men in comparison to hispanic men and on average a lot of them are short. Probably the shortest men from what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 10:35 PM |
| 2 | Genuine attraction does not existI see plenty of hispanic men that are like 5 ft 6 or lower. You’re telling me that hispanic women don’t want hispanic men on average because most of them aren’t tall? And this applies to quite a few other races as well. Typically caucasian, and to an extent africans are taller (by averages). Definitely is conditional and cultural. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 03:33 AM |
| 2 | If women wanted marriage and commitment onlyWomen don’t physically control access to sex. They will fuck whoever has what they want and you can initiate sex. Hope that doesn’t sound weird but that’s how it works. If a girl wants to get fucked and you’re the right guy you’re in control. Again, there is only two requirements for you to be the one in control in our society… 1. She wants to be fucked 2. You’re the type she wants And on the relationships thing, most relationships don’t last for so many reasons who cares. Most men and women are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existWell being burnt out isn’t gonna get you any girls but I’m pretty sure even the ugly fellows can get with the ugly gals. Even attractive guys cant get every girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existLol what are you talking about man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/24 01:37 AM |
| 1 | You need to spend money to get laid!So look at it as you paid for the expensive dinner date cause you wanted to. Long as you smash if thats what you wanted to do then you got what you wanted. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Men who have had a lot of casual sex have worse pair-bonding abilitiesI find it hilarious that everyone thinks pair bonding means you don’t have sex with anyone else but that one person. I mean, I know thats the definition of pair bonding but its just sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existAhh I see where you’re coming from now. Yea I agree, being attracted to someone for their intellect, success or even the way they train (workout) physically would be better than attraction by genetics. I do however believe in unconditional love which is why I am saying genuine attraction doesn’t exist. In comparison to regular conditional love/attraction, where ppl love you for a reason (transaction), unconditional love they love you for no reason and just want your happiness, presence, etc. Sim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existIf you read some of the other comments you’ll see people think a person being attracted to someone for their money isn’t genuine but if its physical attraction or some type of personality trait then it is genuine. Doesn’t make any sense lol. Just pointing out that it’s come up multiple times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existCorrect. It’s also probably a very cultural and conditioned mindset as depending where you are, i’m sure women don’t care as much. Even in america, it’s a lot more mixed as to who cares about height and who doesn’t. Height makes you more masculine is also a bonkers idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existLol everybody says these “subconscious” and it’s natural to think bigger means stronger but i’m not buying it. Again, anyone who actually understands combat (most women don’t), would know your height can only give you an advantage IF you know how to use it. As there are advantages to being short in a fight as well. The truth is, every one is just hearing what everyone else is saying about height and regurgitating the idea. It’s like “Oh tall guys are in!?” “Oh you know what I like tall guys too!… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existI see certain women complaining all the time about how guys aren’t shit but those ones are the same ones picking their men based on mundane attractions lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existThey sure seem to think big and strong will. Pretty sure fighting publicly can only get you locked up though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 06:18 PM |
| 3 | Genuine attraction does not existThank you! Bingo! Yup most parents believe they are supposed to love you on the condition that you are their child, quite a bit do not though! And correct some type of condition always has to be met. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existYou wouldn’t take a random persons 10 years of cancer though. You married her and were attracted to her for tons of reasons and those are why you’d be willing to do that for her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existThat was exactly my issue. It was that people were saying if you like somebody for their looks it is genuine attraction but liking you for money, status, etc is not genuine attraction which doesn’t make any sense. I don’t agree that it’s just straight up, fake attraction if you are with somebody for their money. How is it better if you are with somebody because of physical features, that’s just as bad? Which is my point of the post. It is really just based on us ranking different types of attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existLol so it’s not “real” attraction if you only like her butt? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existI mean, in a way most men are paying women whether they like it or not. You may not pay that first date but you will pay right? If not, then you are still paying with your lifestyle, hoping your riches don’t fade away at any point in time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existBeing short isn’t a bad feature and it’s not something we can directly change about ourselves. Being ugly, same thing for the most part but there’s a lot of ugly face guys that are tall that girls still geek out about, so yea… Being fat is something you can change, asocial I don’t really see as an issue but women be yapping so idk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existImma be completely honest with you. I don’t care anymore to be swimming in a bunch of women, let alone, a bunch of women that only want me for mundane things. Thats a recipe for failure and a bunch of headache. Nor do I live my life thinking about what I have to offer women, i’m not a servant. Secondly, i’m not upset nor was that my reason for posting this at all. I guess I should be upset about all the other features I can’t get certain women for due to their preferences? And lastly, I don’t th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existHuh lol. I didn’t say anything about lowering standards, i’m surely not lowering mine. I just think physical features are very low tier standards (not counting exercising taking care of your body). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Genuine attraction does not existThat hurts my brain to think of it that way lol. For example let’s use the money thing. Theres levels to the type of attraction. So it’s kind of like you have to screen them for each individual thing they say they like you for, and if you are ok with that so be it. Money is one that a lot of hotter women want men to have. When people say it’s not genuine they are just trying to say money is a lower level of attraction. That is why I would rather just remove the entire genuine/real or fake aspect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 01:27 PM |
| 2 | Genuine attraction does not existThe premise is the title “genuine attraction doesn’t exist”. Height was my preferred feature to elaborate on the fact that there are levels to the type of attraction… I also listed multiple other features, such as (note, by attraction I never just meant sexual attraction): Relationship - familial, father or mother to child, siblings, cousins, friends etc Skill - can sing, dance, play a sport, cook, hunt, farm, intelligence, etc Resources - money, social network, house, cars, etc Personality trai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 12:59 PM |
| 2 | Genuine attraction does not existYou’d have to try harder to understand, because you’re stuck on the height thing when that’s not even the main premise of my post… Nobodies whining. I could have used any other physical feature, but height is the one a lot of men are saying is the most important in physical attraction so I used that one. Again, I couldn’t care less about low quality women. I’m not sure if you’re a tall guy or a woman but you’re being weird yourself by saying i’m whining and don’t even know me lol, your ego is sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 12:33 PM |
| -2 | Genuine attraction does not existThe word genuine is typically used to describe something real. The opposite of real, is being fake. Attraction has nothing to do with being real or fake with someone. If you say you “truly” like someone because they have an attractive face, truth is irrelevant. On the flip side, no one can tell you, “oh you’re fake because you only like him because he has an attractive face”. We are either attracted for whatever reason we say we are or we’re not. In other words, I think people try to use the wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 12:25 PM |
| 0 | Genuine attraction does not existI’m not butt hurt a lot of guys are though. I could careless, I don’t want a girl thats only with me because I have long legs lol Also, imagine height continues to go up. Will women want 8 ft 5 men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 12:18 PM |
| -3 | Genuine attraction does not existLol exactly. I was just verbally like “oh god” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Sex is really only a physical need...So we can continue to exist? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 12:06 PM |
| 2 | The dating world is alot easier for women because most men dont have real standards.What do you mean men don’t have real standards. Our standards are just generally not the same as women’s. As in, we don’t care about as much of the other shit as women do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Sexually unsuccessful men are like scientistsI’m not sure why everyone in the sub keeps pointing out “incels” lol. Anyone who considers themself a relationship guru or some type of pill treats it like a science. People who are getting tons of pussy do it too. Some general ideas are true but that doesn’t make them 100% true, thats why you see couples of all different types. That is because it is not always just about looks, or just about money, or just about personality, or just about “game” etc. But yea, its not just “incels”. Its dudes an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Sex is really only a physical need...Everyone responding like that is old or a woman with a chip on their shoulder that hates men for some reason. No where in my post did I say men deserve sex. Me & the few other guys that agree with my sentiment have said this multiple times now. No where in my post did I say anything about “incels”. Does it make you and these women feel good or something to bring up men who have trouble getting sex? Like are you stroking your ego? For like the 100th time I wouldn’t like to see what would happen i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 09:52 AM |
| 2 | Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap.Thats actually a great analogy lol. Yea i’m too the multi orgasmic thing… And, Ahh touché. Yea I’ve read all of those before but I kinda ignored some cause they disgusted me. But they’re probably true, they do sound most natural. Just one question for you though, so men are designed to cheat too right? I made a post about human promiscuity a day or two ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Male sexlessness should be taken about as seriously as the orgasm gap.Thats a hot take bro. We also have the stupid refractory period (whether it’s short or long), when their refractory period practically doesn’t exist so they can just keep getting off. Then on top of that they typically orgasm harder and longer. They don’t have to worry about getting pregnant with no dick and cum. Women are basically pleasure machines. Oral is to an extent superior to penetration for pleasure. So it may actually be them that are built better when it comes to sex. That is, if you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.Yes, everyone, male and female should be gay, especially incel & red pill men who “can’t” get any pussy. And eventually, everyone should just stop having sex altogether. That’ll make the world a much better place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.Lol you don’t see how salty you sound in this post at all? All of us aren’t even “incels” or red pill. Let’s for a second assume we’re not saying it is a need but a want… It is still a very powerful naturally occurring PHYSICAL want for both men and women. That was the main premise of my post, that it is primarily physical not psychological. Throwing the word need on it has thrown so many of you into a frenzy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 02:12 AM |
| 0 | Sex is really only a physical need...Lol wait say what you mean without all the terms I don’t understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 01:56 AM |
| 0 | Sex is really only a physical need...It’s on the first in his original chart. Sexual intimacy is on the third which is his way of saying sex with psychological aspects needed. <image> | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Ethically sex shouldn’t be considered a fundamental need like food, water and shelter.Oh wow I wonder what sparked this post 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/24 01:36 AM |
| -2 | Sex is really only a physical need...Lol make out for an hour? Making out feels good but a lot of older people don’t do that as much because it doesn’t feel as good as intercourse or oral sex. Kissing is like a bonus part of sex or a quick show of affection. But anyone can say they know and others wont necessarily agree, thats why I use the terminology “I think”. Of course I think i’m right as well. Masturbating with my hand doesn’t feel like a vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Sex is really only a physical need...I disagree. People put far too much weight on mundane things before allowing someone to have sex with them for me to agree with that. And there’s nothing wrong with having sex with somebody just because you guys enjoy each other sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 09:35 PM |
| 0 | Sex is really only a physical need...Children need parents with wads of money and intelligence who can raise them to navigate through this cold dark world and obtain the same amount of resources, if not more, than they were able to obtain* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Sex is really only a physical need...Makes sense, science is the aim of building true and accurate knowledge about how the world works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 08:13 PM |
| -1 | Sex is really only a physical need...Great explanation! Thats exactly what i’m trying to explain in many of the responses to others comments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Sex is really only a physical need...VERY GOOD SOURCES | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 07:27 PM |
| -2 | Sex is really only a physical need...Oooo another great example and reason that it’s a physical need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Sex is really only a physical need...Exactly, I agree great explanation using shelter/homeostasis as an example. And sex is physical making it a physical need, that’s what the others don’t understand lol. Also, what mainly brought me to post this was thinking about maslows hierarchy of needs and my first initial reaction was “what! how is sex a physical need?!”, but as I thought about it more I understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 07:05 PM |
| 0 | Sex is really only a physical need...True. Maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Sex is really only a physical need...I meannnn idk, to experience existence? Thats a philosophical question, nobody can really answer that 100%. I like living sort of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Sex is really only a physical need...Lol I clearly said that I have psychological reasons of my own for not being gay. I never said women cannot have psychological reasons I just said that they are separate sensations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 06:35 PM |
| 0 | Sex is really only a physical need...The social component is all mental and emotional needs not physical. I don’t need any of that to have sex with a girl, they are simply bonuses for me, separate altogether. I could really like a girl for all the other things and she could be terrible at pleasing me sexually. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Sex is really only a physical need...Lol well by that logic, nothing is a need we don’t have to be alive either. Sex fits in the same category as being physically driven because it is driven the same way. We get thirsty or hungry (physically) we want to drink or eat, we get horny (hard dick, wet pussy hard clit lol) we want to orgasm (physically driven). So, those are physical needs, as far as the longevity you’re talking about I mean, sure some of them are more immediate to our survival but they’re all physical needs, rather than … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Sex is really only a physical need...You won’t die immediately from not exercising same way you won’t die immediately from no orgasms but -> https://www.yourlifechoices.com.au/life/can-orgasms-extend-your-life/ https://www.healthline.com/health/ways-sex-helps-you-live-longer In other words it is a physical need for attempting to live a longer life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 05:33 PM |
| -3 | Sex is really only a physical need...How are those different, that means for the entire species sex is a need. Thats more important than what we think about it or if we need it or don’t need it for our own survival. Not only that, but it’s one of the top physical feelings for a human. When I say physical need I don’t just mean our survival within just the next five minutes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 05:09 PM |
| 0 | Sex is really only a physical need...Its not that I need to, the species needs to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Sex is really only a physical need...Is exercise a physical need? Nothing bad happens too fast if you if you don’t exercise yet it is still physical and arguably a need for longevity of life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:58 PM |
| -2 | Sex is really only a physical need...Lol you’re speaking for yourself. You ever heard of glory holes? And thats just the most ridiculous example I can think of. Plenty of men and women lower their standards to have sex with somebody. Plenty of people especially lower their morals to have sex with somebody who really fits their needs physically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Sex is really only a physical need...Physically feeling well (no physical stress) is a psychological and emotional need? I don’t understand how that could be. There are however, things psychologically/emotionally that people allow to cause stress to them. And somebody needs to pro create or the species would die out so that is a need above our own individual wants or needs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Sex is really only a physical need...Sex toys aren’t quite there yet feel wise. They also aren’t sentient so they can’t work as well as a human. They can’t kiss you, massage you, bite you amongst many other things lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:40 PM |
| 0 | Sex is really only a physical need...Personally my psychological reasons for not being gay would not allow me to hookup with a man. But yes part of what brought me to posting this was people saying paying for a prostitute or hookups are the same thing as masturbating. But for me I’ve never thought of sex and your friendship with somebody being relevant to one another. Meaning, if i’m best friends with a dude that doesn’t mean me and him will have better sex than a professional sex worker with a vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Sex is really only a physical need...That makes sense actually. Maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:29 PM |
| -7 | Sex is really only a physical need...Because a hand isn’t the same physical sensation as a vagina or a mouth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:15 PM |
| -1 | Sex is really only a physical need...Ok it won’t kill us but we still have to do it to procreate, and procreation is a need even more important than our own individual survival. Plus it highly reduces stress amongst many other benefits, it’s just like exercise but probably even more powerful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:13 PM |
| -9 | Sex is really only a physical need...Lol no if you read the post I said why I think jerking off isn’t the same physical sensation as a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 04:05 PM |
| – | Ladies, be honest, on a scale of 1-10 how much do looks matter and what physical factors about men most contribute to their attractiveness?Lol oh ok. He’s coming off as a little negative in you guys conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 08:35 PM |
| – | Ladies, be honest, on a scale of 1-10 how much do looks matter and what physical factors about men most contribute to their attractiveness?I agree with everything you said, you have a great head on your shoulders. I guess it’s men that are hurt as well as men that actually fit that “chad” mold spreading those beliefs and it causes men to believe and repeat the same ideas, it’s very sad. Especially the dick size thing thats a really sad one. Dudes have been randomly spurting out their dick is big since I was in high-school maybe even middle school. Sex Education is also at an all time low so a lot of men don’t even know women don’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 08:20 PM |
| – | Ladies, be honest, on a scale of 1-10 how much do looks matter and what physical factors about men most contribute to their attractiveness?If a woman doesn’t find a man attractive or want something else out of us, enthusiastic as in like really excited to see us, touch us, pleasure us etc lol. I’ve had a few girls like legit geek out when they’ve seen me but it’s not super common. I figure if I was like, a couple more points on the rating scale maybe it would happen more often. But overall, thats the main factor i’ve seen in women initiating a convo or complimenting a man. Looks, or what I have on. I understand those are the simple… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 08:05 PM |
| – | Ladies, be honest, on a scale of 1-10 how much do looks matter and what physical factors about men most contribute to their attractiveness?It was just an example. I like both thick girls and skinny girls. But those wouldn’t be factors in whether or not I really really like a girl. My personal important factors are just if me and the girl are into the same activities/goals in life, similar diet, similar morals, if she’s freaky, and if she has a pretty enough face by my standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 08:00 PM |
| – | Ladies, be honest, on a scale of 1-10 how much do looks matter and what physical factors about men most contribute to their attractiveness?LMAO. I see what you’re saying but it’s like, women don’t really act enthusiastic about any dudes unless they look a certain way. Otherwise, it’s like they’re just settling for what they can get or settling for other traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 07:27 PM |
| – | Ladies, be honest, on a scale of 1-10 how much do looks matter and what physical factors about men most contribute to their attractiveness?Are you saying that just because they would date someone that does not fit what they say they are attracted to, then they aren’t actually mostly attracted to what they say? I.e, if I say I like big boobs and a huge ass but I date a skinny girl that doesn’t mean I don’t still prefer big boobs and a huge ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 07:00 PM |
| – | Ladies, be honest, on a scale of 1-10 how much do looks matter and what physical factors about men most contribute to their attractiveness?I mean, they are honest if you ask I think. Politicians though nah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 06:53 PM |
| – | Ladies, be honest, on a scale of 1-10 how much do looks matter and what physical factors about men most contribute to their attractiveness?I mean I see women with men that aren’t “chad” all the time but that doesn’t mean they aren’t with him for other reasons. I’m asking specifically about looks. It’s like a poll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | If a relationship is transactional, it is not based on love.TLDR: Love is overrated. Life is about loving yourself not loving others. The only way for a relationship to not be transactional is if you would want to be with a person regardless of their looks, and as you said, not expecting anything of them, and lastly, being loyal to them no matter what. That is true love, but is that really what we want? Yes, majority of relationships begin based on physical attraction, someone’s net worth, social skills etc. All of which are transactions. As you said, in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 10:51 PM |
| – | Is it natural for men to be promiscuous or to be married?You can google and see sources that say there are more bisexual women than there are men. And i’m willing to bet the percentage is higher than the sources say. Women are also clearly more touchy in an intimate way than men are with one another. Actually, it seems to be the exact opposite, as in men are typically more violent with each other than intimate and lacking in affection, emotional support, and communication. Men are definitely more likely to be straight, or at the least, force themselve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 06:39 PM |
| – | Are women really wary of men?Women typically don’t even have to be scared of men it’s not like every dude is violent or a rapist and it’s somewhat up to them where they place themselves to find a man. If she goes to a place where shitty guys probably are thats on her… The height thing is irrelevant, a short guy can beat the shit out of a tall guy and vice versa. Both can be abusive to women. The women wanting tall guys because they can protect them thing is idiotic, anybody can get snuck and beat up, shot etc. I don’t even … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 04:38 PM |
| – | Is it natural for men to be promiscuous or to be married?Honestly bro I agree. That’s why it’s so taboo to people when a guy tries to have multiple women and a bunch of kids. I don’t necessarily agree with the being uninvolved with your family part, but I assume you were just saying historically that was the case, which i’m sure is true. The main part I agree with as not caring about them much as people. I’ve had multiple girls on reddit tell me I should just go wack it or buy a sex doll if I don’t care about women’s interests and feelings but its lik… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it natural for men to be promiscuous or to be married?If you’re being serious thats honestly valid. Its not even that I don’t like them, I don’t just don’t care about doing the things that they wanna do. I’m on my own time and it’s like if they aren’t tryna be on my time when we link then it’s inconvenient. For me its work, and then when they are around physical touch, sex, maybe hit the grocery store with me grab our food, workout etc. It’s about sharing similar interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/24 01:37 AM |
| 1 | For the tradcons/red pillers who think that the current Western ideologies is responsible for high divorce rates- why is that socially conservative Middle Eastern countries have high divorce rates too?Sorry that is what I meant, polygamous. It is actually the term I wanted to use lol. But yes everything you said makes sense and is pretty much exactly my interpretation of the male female relationship dynamics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Is it natural for men to be promiscuous or to be married?No I don’t think so, I think it’s just forced behavior. If it wasn’t conditioned and the norm for women to think they’re only supposed to have one guy, it wouldn’t be the majority to shoot for monogamy. There are quite a decent amount of women choosing to have multiple partners now transparently or even cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it natural for men to be promiscuous or to be married?Not every single human gets jealous. I’d say most do though you’re right, but I think thats conditioned to a large extent, and it’s mostly something women do when they want a man to only be theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Is it natural for men to be promiscuous or to be married?Top tier comment ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/24 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Is it natural for men to be promiscuous or to be married?Lol yea i’m not saying go crazy but at least we have some form of protection now. I just find it strange that a lot of people don’t seem to understand wanting more than one partner in a lifetime, more specifically for a man. I also have seen studies that it is more natural for a woman to be bisexual and it makes sense. They would then probably have multiple partners (mostly women), and one man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Is it natural for men to be promiscuous or to be married?Well yes, rape would go under promiscuous and is not necessarily limited to men. Have you seen the Futurama episode with the snu snu women? Also yes I understand prior to the law, humans (especially men) attempting to rape would happen more often. But honestly, i’m not sure what percent of our species would care about consent if there were no laws. It would probably just be chaos. But either way, that still falls under what I meant by naturally promiscuous. I just really don’t care to add that p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 11:37 PM |
| 1 | For the tradcons/red pillers who think that the current Western ideologies is responsible for high divorce rates- why is that socially conservative Middle Eastern countries have high divorce rates too?Human nature is polyamorous. For various reasons, people try to force themselves to be monogamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?But those are all your standards. People that try to be funny typically annoy me. There are some comedians I like but humor isn’t on my list for what I want in a partner at all really. Kindness, I want her to be kind to me but not to everyone lol so thats not really a requirement either. Attractive sure, beauty is somewhat in the eye of the beholder and based on culture and conditioning though…You didn’t really name any traits that aren’t still superficial, and practically unimportant in a relat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 02:46 PM |
| 0 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?It is not copium. Wanting someone because of only their looks is not genuine. Try charging a pretty girl that finds you attractive instead of letting her have sex with you for “free” and see if she pays you. She won’t, because she thinks the transaction is equal based on the value of her looks and your looks. Thats what paying with your looks means. Everything is transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 10:55 AM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Big facts man, I think true love could only really be expressed through a woman giving her all to spend time with you even if she gets nothing in return. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/24 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Constantly getting ghosted after sex.Because I went to an all boys school in high school like a retard…Then in college I dropped out of college after the first year. I only have a couple of friends I could count on my two hands, and they’re all males. 2 moved to the west coast, 3 moved to new york, 2 are here where I live but we don’t hang out much. So, I just haven’t gone out by myself to try to get women or to make more friends but I really need to because my life is going to shit lol. I’ve just been working coming home and wasti… | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Constantly getting ghosted after sex.bro I never been to a bar or a club or any of that shit, so i’m just wondering what it’s really like. But nvm lmao. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Constantly getting ghosted after sex.Interesting, no dancing or other physical touch before leaving? | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Which part was cringe. Because I already made it clear that the first part was sarcasm? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?I couldn’t care less about a girls income if I really like her mind and what her interests are. She could be dirt broke as long as she contributes to helping me reach and maintain my goals and being loyal. And if we had children with each other, raising our kids a proper way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?LOL yep I think you covered most of the reasons a lot of the women are against it. It seems to be a mixed bag though, theres quite a few who have no issue. And opposing to the non-sw women, if I posted this in r/sexworkers i’m pretty sure they’d have responses even deeper than our understanding, about why overall it isn’t a bad thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Good points. I’m not emotional about the meme thing, it conditions many women here in America to chase tall “chad” men. I don’t think it’s biological either. If it were biological I wouldn’t see any couples of races that typically have shorter men and women together (asian, hispanic). They’d all be chasing after taller Caucasian and certain African men or the rare tall men of each race. Which is honestly just American culture conditioning, and basically prejudice to an extent. Whatever is put in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Lol idk why humans always think they’re so much better than animals, especially chimps and bonobos. We’re all primates. What makes us different is only our bigger brains and how far we’ve come with creating and using tools. I sent the article to show that chimps compete to be given the title of alpha. With humans and this meme culture, it’s become normal to portray an alpha as just a tall bigger person with a strong jawline a full beard and maybe muscles. Leadership skills must contain intellige… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Some good points! I still think winning makes you the alpha in our species though. Among wolves sure they may be different. Among primates though: https://gainweightjournal.com/insights-on-leadership-from-chimp-alpha-male-behavior/ And yes supposedly it’s safer to see some sex workers than it is to just be casually hooking up with randos, as long as you are wearing a condom of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 01:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Many great points here. The Jordon Hudson example is a really good one. A lot of people just don’t realize that every relationship is transactional, just that there are different types of transactions, most being mundane transactions. And this is a great example of a transparent transaction as you say. Another thing is sometimes a man is further along than a woman so he is basically taking her under his wing and she can learn some things. Yet, majority of people look at age gaps as completely ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Constantly getting ghosted after sex.What is your typical order of events to you getting a one night stand at a bar or club? And also on tinder and fetlife, do you just get straight to the point and say hookup? You don’t even go on a date? | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 09:11 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?If you believe that I can screw them over by managing to have sex with them and not actually stay with them longterm then you have to also agree that all relationships are transactional. In that scenario it would be a woman wanting to hold me down longterm and exchange giving me sex, which is a common scenario. But no, I don’t lie to women. If they tell me they want a longterm relationship and i’m not really into who they are and what they’re into I tell them i’m just trying to be friends and ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Alpha is whoever the winner is. In nature, and to be more specific, amongst primates, the alpha of the pack is simply the winner. It’s not a characteristic trait. An alpha wins mainly through politics, intelligence, and for short periods of time through brute strength and intimidation. Heres something for you to read: https://gainweightjournal.com/insights-on-leadership-from-chimp-alpha-male-behavior/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Was the girl you fucked ugly as hell? And masturbation is when you fuck yourself, if you fuck somebody else it’s sex lol… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?All facts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/24 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Yea I did hear there’s some women that only like to orgasm from penetration | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?VERY WELL SPOKEN AND EXACTLY ON THAT LAST PART. I had some sex workers tell me last week I probably won’t be good at sex because I haven’t had intercourse and i’m just like how do you know. It’s about what you know and somewhat hands on experience yea, but more so what you know. I’ve done cunnil but not penetration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Wait, so you’d never date a man that came to the club and got danced on private from you? Or is it just guys that pay for sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?If my sister or even my daughter eventually chose to walk the path of being a sex worker that would be her decision. It’s her life, and I would not judge her for it. If it became unhealthy or she was failing in doing it in a healthy way, I would try to help her and be there for her. But again, it would be her life and her choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Dang thats crazy I didn’t know that. Yea i’ve thought about that before. It’s sad that people with certain disabilities go without sex if it may be something they actually want to experience. Plus they have to tackle all of that on their own it’s no telling how some of them feel and think about it. But yes exactly I think sex work can be done in a healthy way, amsterdam is a good example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Makes sense | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?The abortion one i’ve heard of course, very popular topic. Its delusional. I always say how could abortion be a right if you have to pay a doctor to do it. What would you do if you didn’t have a doctor to pay? Stick a hanger in there and hope you do it right? I think people just don’t understand when they have lived with some privilege like you said and that society itself is a privilege. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?I was just saying that it doesn’t logically make any sense that it’s allowed to be done non explicitly but it cant be done explicitly. Obviously minus of course trafficking and all the other negative types of sex work going on. But honestly, some things are illegal only so that specific rich people can continue making a lot of money in the dark and this is probably one of those things. Because drugs for example, weed was illegal forever until it made sense to make it legal. It’s always about mon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Lol yea they’d probably say sex is a right for them but not for men, exactly. Thats really a great point, I never thought about that. But realistically, it’s not a right for anyone. We all have to earn it through some type of transaction otherwise the only other side of things is taking it which is when we hit the morally wrong conversation. I did wonder one time, what it was like when humans couldn’t speak we had to start everything off physically. I assume a guy would just grab a woman or a wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?I don’t think the issue with diseases being contracted is that simple. There are plenty of sex workers, pornstars etc, that have never developed any diseases. It’s very simple, safe sex should be practiced and people should be getting tested. Getting tested should be done even if you’re in a monogamous couple. The real issue is probably that people don’t want to practice safe sex and think they can succeed against nature and not get any diseases while still fucking around. I’ve heard it so many … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Physical attraction is conditioned though and looks are not a major factor contributing to the value of a person. Genuine means whether or not something is authentic, in this case it would be is the relationship authentic. Being with someone just because they look good isn’t really authentic because looks are superficial. As we get older looks fade, they shouldn’t be a primary reason we are with someone yet majority of the time that is one of the main reasons people get together. Thats why I cou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Lmaoo exactly, 4 dates and MAYBE get a kiss. For some really unlucky dudes maybe a hug and shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?I didn’t have to ask I wanted to debate about it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Well in my case, since I don’t like having to persuade women to do what I want I lose time and happiness because i’m not doing things I want to do or being myself. It also tended to make me anxious trying to game because it made me try to avoid making “mistakes” and also try to calculate every little thing. I’m sure a lot of guys getting into working on their socializing and stumble across PUA and redpill deal with the same gaming issues. It takes specific personality types to actually mesh with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?The definition of coercion is “the practice of persuading someone to do something by using force or threats”. How is offering money using force or a threat? Mind you, it isn’t just men offering the money but women making the choice to offer the services for money. It doesn’t matter how broke you are, nobody is forcing you to do sex work unless it is those cases where a woman has no other possible way of obtaining income, but that is not always the case. Using force and rape are the same thing. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Physical attraction isn’t genuine at all, mental attraction has the capability if being genuine… And both being attracted mentally(socially) and physically are forms of transaction though. Especially on the mental(social) part which is the trouble I have in my dating. I’ve seen some other guys with just the same issue post on reddit and have said they are attractive but can’t socialize with women due to anxiety or just not even knowing what to say lol. In my case, I’m not a smooth talker I don’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?You paid with your time and whatever you said to get her to continue to like you. Unless you just pulled up, smashed and left, then you paid her with your looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Very well said, lot of good points touched on. Especially the fact that even if you are attractive you still have to pay with your time and attention unless the woman understands that you got shit to do, or she’s in the same field as you, your assistant or just comes along with you everywhere you go. The time thing is the problem I have right now and why I try to get straight to the point with my dates, but it has turned most of them off from “rushing it”. Ideally my girl would be into the same … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?True | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:26 PM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?I think subscribing to onlyfans is kind of wack cause you aren’t getting any pussy, you’re still just beating off. So overall yes the amount of money men are spending on subscriptions just to wack it is no good. But i’ve paid for a few girls onlyfans that I have known personally (irl), and I just wanted to see their nudes, just being real. It’s just $10. I wouldn’t just spend it on random girls and go crazy, and give them donations and shit indefinitely if i’m not gonna actually get some. Theres… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Well said! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Thats crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?The thing is, it’s like…so you can sign a contract with the government and get married or even just take her out to dinner and MAYBE finally have sex with her. (The marriage example is for christians) But you can’t just give her $1000 to have sex with her, thats illegal. In other words, prostitution happens all the time in actual relationships it’s just masked by not being direct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Lmaoo yea exactly you got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:04 PM |
| 0 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Most people in school are childish so i’m sure they would have an ignorant perspective of someone choosing to do sex work. So yea they probably would try to roast them, bullying though that happens more in tv and movies. Also i’m sure most girls would keep their sex work private anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:43 PM |
| 0 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Seriously i’m still working on looks maxing. I have a very good physique, have had girls say i’m hot etc and it’s still not enough, even for girls that are 3s-6s Girls will smash the skinny frail dude who says all the bullshit she wants to hear, does all the activities she wants you to do with her, and present to her whatever random weird personality type shes been conditioned to thinking is right before she fucks a guy thats actually attractive but comes of as “an asshole” for not feeding into … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:37 PM |
| 6 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?I can see how this would reign true with a lot of cheap prostitutes. Very high price point ones though, or on the verge of sugar dating i’d assume either have one partner or just a few. Which isn’t as bad I guess. Either way my preferred would obviously be either sugar dating monogamously or actually being with a girl that wants to make money with me with the same career goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:27 PM |
| 0 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Lots of good info here. And I mean, women don’t orgasm from penetration most of the time. Personally I think the bulk of a sex session should be oral anyway. On the rape thing, not really thats illogical. By accepting the transaction you are consenting. It doesn’t matter if you would or wouldn’t actually have sex with the person. If a gay record industry manager tells a straight male artist hey i’ll give you 50 million if you sign this contract but you have to suck my dick and let me fuck you ri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Genuine desire is played out. Being with someone because you think they look good, spend money on mundane things, and have the same political views as you at the time isn’t genuine. Also, every relationship doesn’t need to be genuine, which is why i’m not against sugar dating or sex work… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Good points, i’m not into any gay shit maybe I should just try to sugar date or something and let the girls know i’m only gonna give them money unless they are on the same time (career goals) as me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Therapists are weird 99% of the time. My mom made me go to one recently and all the therapist did was basically bully me and tell me I need to make more money and tell me I need to get a better job, when I already know that. That made it clear to me why people who aren’t as emotionally stable as me get addicted to really hard drugs for depression and have bpd and shit like that. And it’s the therapists prescribing that bullshit too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Wild | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Oh thats probably true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Yup! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?I was giving her a ridiculous example to match her saying thats all women want is an orgasm lol. It was sarcasm. I want real pussy not fleshlights or ai robots whenever we get to that point… Majority of women like doing too many things i’m not interested in entertaining whatsoever so I come off as an asshole when I seem dry or tell them I don’t have anything to say about like politics etc. I probably need to just find girls I can actually relate to but it hasn’t been the easiest adventure. But I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Most humans yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?This is always the response I get lol. I didn’t say I don’t like spending time with women or other humans. I don’t like wasting my time doing activities that I don’t like to do just to be with them and keep them entertained though. I have specific things I like to do and my ideal woman would do just those activities and not expect more from me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Lol yes you’d have to pay with money or the aforementioned ways in my original post. But you’re mostly on point. Wanting hot women is why i’d have to pay. Not that I don’t think I can get a woman thats hot without paying, but it’s too much other work in most cases since I’m not consistently a 8-10 in looks to a hot girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Women nowadays have been conditioned into having various ridiculous hoops that men have to jump through in order to be attractive and some of them are genetic. Even if I’m a 7, if thats undesirable to a lot of women that are 9s but I want to have sex with 9s then i’d rather not have to go thru the hassle of trying to seduce them. Even girls that 6s or lower are hard to seduce sometimes. I rather just go pay a 9 that knows how to give a good blowjob than waste my time courting girls im not attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Well said! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Interesting. But tryst.link | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Thats true, that actually makes a lot of sense. Although, if men stopped paying for subscriptions to wank it when they can literally watch it for free, and wanted some real pussy that would change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Eh I don’t agree. $1000+ just to have sex is pretty good money. Protection + checkups you’re probably good. And pornstars probably get paid way more. Especially with the evolution of the internet with onlyfans etc. Women are making millions off solo videos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:58 AM |
| -1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Those things also cost energy, time and money to perfect and doing things for women instead of for yourself isn’t very dominant. Thats the main issue I have with a lot of this game and pill stuff. They have all these copium methods for being dominant, but realistically it’s jumping through hoops to seduce a woman. Thats submissive not dominant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:52 AM |
| 3 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Well said! A lot of people are guinea pigs and rush the marriage and kids lifestyle just to get divorced from somebody they got married to within 3-5 yrs of knowing each other or less. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:49 AM |
| 0 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?It’s ok, they have read certain things that make them think it is 100% bad when it’s not the prostitution itself causing all the issues. Anything involving money is going to have some morality issues that come up. Theres girls that enjoy what they do, pornstars etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Theres so many girls just getting out of high-school starting an only fans up. Just being real. Women somewhat set the price for pussy, and money is dispensable for a lot of guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:41 AM |
| 8 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?I guarantee you even a lot of the wealthiest ones that are married are probably paying for pussy. I bet Elon Musk has paid for pussy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:37 AM |
| 3 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?It doesn’t really matter if she’s attracted to us. No one will ever have everyone attracted to them for way too many reasons. Sometimes we just wanna get our rocks off with some beautiful girls that know how to have amazing sex. Even from a woman’s perspective, i’m pretty sure whatever celebrities they go crazy for they’d love to get a night with them. The celebrity isn’t in love with them though, and i’m pretty sure the girls know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:34 AM |
| 3 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?!!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Pretending that I want to go on dates, eat the same junk food from restaurants that they wish to eat, listen to the same music they like, watch the same tv series they want to watch for hours, etc. Dating is hard if you’re not willing to be somebody you’re not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?It seems like most girls want a lot more than just an orgasm to be honest with you. If an orgasm was the only transaction required then I should just be able to be like, can I come over and give you the best tongue you’ll ever experience and get easy yes’, and not be consistently going on dates or talking about favorite tv shows and politics etc… I understand that most ppl aren’t rich and have money to throw away but paying a professional to give you a professional sex experience doesn’t sound t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 03:11 AM |
| -1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?I don’t wanna give on several dates though and sure people hook up sometimes but its hit or miss unless I luck up and score at a club or bar (haven’t tried it yet) or I manage to talk a girl into hooking up on a dating app before we link (hasn’t happened yet). Also, I probably want her on the clock to be honest, I have other things to do. If the girl isn’t trying to have sex with me or has similar goals in life it’s kind of a waste of time to just be sitting around or going on the same aimless d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:55 AM |
| -1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Its not even that I can’t get them its that I don’t truly like majority of the ones i’ve courted and it gets annoying trying to keep them attracted to me and faking relating to them. AND trying to spend time with them by doing activities they want to do. I’m kind of “boring”, I just wanna work on my career and have sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:51 AM |
| 2 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Well that, and/or all of the other things women want in a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/24 02:45 AM |
| 0 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?The thing is I understand wanting someone to be there with you just because, if i’m reading that right. But I really don’t think thats how most people are though, to me it seems like most people show love conditionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 11:08 PM |
| 4 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?You never do if you cant get it through looks you have to try another way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Yes, but you used the word beta so I assumed that you meant those guys that don’t have to spend money are alpha. Just clarifying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?People making better choices are calling themselves autistic nowadays like its a bad thing, as if people operating within societal norms are doing shit that makes sense lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 10:49 PM |
| 0 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?You really think women don’t know when they’re leading a dude on while he’a doing shit for them? You say I don’t understand your comment, maybe you don’t understand my post. No need to call me autistic ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 10:42 PM |
| 0 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?THANK YOU I LOVE BEING CALLED AUTISTIC !!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 10:39 PM |
| 9 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?I rather them do the pretending than me my guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 10:16 PM |
| 0 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Looks don’t make you alpha. In nature if you’re handsome/pretty and somebody clocks you with a stick and knocks you out, they are the alpha to be honest with you. Really, even a lot of attractive guys are still paying. There’s celebrity men that are supposedly super attractive, in gold digger relationships still paying lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 09:50 PM |
| -1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?But it is a transaction. Do you think it’s ok for women to screen men for 100s of different things? Want us to take you out to dinner, buy flowers, buy a bunch of other stuff, have the exact personality all of you want? In some cases, be tall, be muscular, strong jawline? Guys who view women have who a lot of sex as whores are idiots you should ignore them. Even worse is the guys you are mentioning that hurt women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 09:35 PM |
| 5 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Well said sir, I agree. Thats why i’m pretty sure money is the purest way of paying besides a girl being attracted to you physically, but sadly, we don’t all have that privilege. Men can lie and fake their personality but that can be very hard work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Outside of those predicaments you mentioned though, what would be wrong with sex work? And what about sex work in other countries that some other users are mentioning? Also, i’m not insecure, but i’d pay for it because I dislike being judged by women I wan’t for things I find irrelevant. Like if we are into the same movies or other mundane things like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?Shieeeeeeeet. I didn’t know that but it makes sense. But i’ve seen quite a few for like $500 and i’ve had friends who have done it, no scams. I do however somewhat like the idea that they treat it like dating, if that is a fact. Little context, I don’t believe you can always find women that are truly genuine and that you truly relate to, it takes time to obtain that unless you just settle. The dating lifestyle has been trash for me. I dislike doing all the traditional courting, when I’m not real… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 09:05 PM |
| 10 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?My argument is that you’re always paying for sex and relationships in some shape or form so there shouldn’t be any reason why sex work is viewed as morally wrong or that people who pay for it are lesser than. Most people if not everyone are in transactional relationships whether they realize it or not. The only way it would not be transactional is if the other person had pretty much nothing to offer. Like taking care of a baby. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?What you get, for what you can give. Correct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Why do people think it’s so wrong to pay a sex worker for sex?How would you define genuine desire? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/24 08:51 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand how the "don't chase a woman" idea could ever make senseYea exactly you’re always paying one way or another. If a woman “likes” you shes attracted to you physically and sexually like you said or the personality (game) you trained yourself to be and follow, but really you’re just matching whatever fits her morals. But what if I don’t give a shit about what she wants? What if I want to be myself 24/7 or “make mistakes”. I don’t really see the problem with gold diggers as long as you don’t spend a ridiculous amount of money on her or let her get away wi… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/24 12:06 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand how the "don't chase a woman" idea could ever make senseYup thats exactly where I thought I fkd up. Although, I have seen some guys say they just tell girls exactly what they want verbally and if they’re not about it then they move on. Fair strategy, but I think it can also be a bad one. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/24 08:57 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand how the "don't chase a woman" idea could ever make senseShe did put me in a position to but then I think I fumbled because I told her I was trying to makeout and she said “I only makeout with people I’m dating”, and I stopped pressing forward. This is after like cuddling grabbing titties, ass etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/24 08:28 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand how the "don't chase a woman" idea could ever make senseLol funnily enough I actually have a job in sales. I don’t like losing, ever. I don’t think a lot of girls are truly motivated. They think they want celebrities and shit but what if you’re not that “high value” yet, go after what you can get? | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/24 08:22 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand how the "don't chase a woman" idea could ever make senseTrue, but what if I wanted to have sex with her and it was as simple as being a little bit more aggressive rather than passive. If two things are passive they can’t attract to each other. What if it’s not about reading her mind and listening to what she has to say but continuing to press forward. Cause a lot of the girls i’ve talked to seem like they’re trying to talk themselves out of what they really want, and if dudes listen it becomes mind games. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/24 08:19 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand how the "don't chase a woman" idea could ever make senseThat makes sense. I don’t literally mean blow her phone up. Thats why I also said double text not go crazy lol. If I was to translate this to real life, essentially what I mean is, why not keep chasing say your college sweetheart and keep trying to upgrade yourself and try to eventually get what you want. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/24 08:11 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand how the "don't chase a woman" idea could ever make senseI’m not rich yet though. Her and like every other girl I talk too are crazy about celebrity dudes that i’m sure they’d act different around, of course I don’t have that privilege yet. Thing is, none of them could ever pull any of those celebrity dudes, thats just their fantasies and a lot of these women are like that. If I send her a text right now she’s gonna respond within the next hour. It’s just that she’s not trying to initiate anything. Same as if I want to do anything sexual with her, she… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/06/24 08:02 PM |
| 1 | I’m not really having the best luck on dating apps. Would it be better to go to some *freakier* locations in real life instead?I thought being fake were neither alpha nor sigma traits. But I get what you’re saying i’m just tired of not being straightforward, i’m not succeeding by trying to act either so might as well just start being real right? I don’t like playing the game it gives me a headache. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 05:44 PM |
| -2 | I’m not really having the best luck on dating apps. Would it be better to go to some *freakier* locations in real life instead?Thats what I see the women saying, and the type of behavior they make a big deal over, in real life, over the internet, and in film. Not saying those things make a woman like you, but if she has two guys she finds at the same level of attractiveness and one does all those things and the other does not, if she’s a typical woman she’s gonna pick the guy that goes the extra mile probably, all other things being equal. It’s not that i’m not treating them like a human being, some people keep saying t… | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 05:14 PM |
| -2 | I’m not really having the best luck on dating apps. Would it be better to go to some *freakier* locations in real life instead?Lol but it’s so bad that some girls act like they want you to be a professional comedian and try to tell them jokes every 5 seconds to “make them laugh”. What if i’m an edgy smart gangster and I don’t converse like that? I think i’m just going for the wrong crowd of women sort of, i’m mostly a very serious person. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 04:43 PM |
| -8 | I’m not really having the best luck on dating apps. Would it be better to go to some *freakier* locations in real life instead?If getting them in the mood includes “emotionally” seducing them through buying them flowers etc, taking them to every restaurant, and acting like I care about who their favorite singer is can be a little difficult for me is the thing. That’s the dilemma, but I do appreciate you pointing that out, I am going against the grain. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 04:39 PM |
| -5 | I’m not really having the best luck on dating apps. Would it be better to go to some *freakier* locations in real life instead?But the last 3 I took out said they needed time before we got physical and i’m just like dang, maybe I should establish what I want before going out? I rather not go out waste a day and the girl tells me she’s trying to take it slow and get to know each other. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 03:24 PM |
| -1 | I’m not really having the best luck on dating apps. Would it be better to go to some *freakier* locations in real life instead?I’m assuming you’re talking about looks, money, but what else? Looks i’m probably like a 7/10 if 5 is average. I’m like 5ft9, if I was taller i’d say 9/10 since girls seem to think that means you’re dominant (it’s not correlated a lot of tall dudes would get rocked in a fight). Money, I’m not rich yet or have my own house or expensive car, but I dress extremely well, smell good. But so yea what else? | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 02:04 PM |
| -1 | I’m not really having the best luck on dating apps. Would it be better to go to some *freakier* locations in real life instead?It’s not that I can’t initiate and be high energy and talkative when i’m first trying to get a girl. It’s all the stuff after that i’m saying I don’t like to talk about. It’s like talking about life goals, our favorite tv shows, her favorite singer and stuff like that, just to get no play cause I gave her a bad vibe by seeming “dry”. | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 12:54 PM |
| -1 | I’m not really having the best luck on dating apps. Would it be better to go to some *freakier* locations in real life instead?Hell naw! Its be a h0 time | /r/seduction | 20/06/24 12:50 PM |
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